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Welcome to the Mind-Blowing Happiness® Podcast with inspiring and empowering guests to help you slay self-doubt and limiting beliefs so you can juice up your life's journey and find Mind-Blowing Happiness®!In this episode, Trish talks to Life and Business Coach, Rosetta Thurman. Rosetta is the Founder of Happy Black Woman®, a personal and professional development company that empowers Black women to create their ideal lives. She is the author of Launch Your Business: The 5-Step Solution to Do What You Love, Quit Your Job and Have the Freedom to Travel and Live Life on Your Own Terms and the co-author of How to Become a Nonprofit Rockstar: 50 Ways to Accelerate Your Career. She has been featured in many media outlets, including Essence, Black Enterprise, Forbes, Entrepreneur, and SUCCESS Magazine.2:00 – Rosetta shares how she got started with the Happy Black Woman brand through blogging 5:07 – Trish talks about her LOVE-MONEY-PURPOSE 3-day challenge which begins on Valentine's Day. Sign up here: https://mindblowinghappinessprograms.com/challenge 6:12 – Trish talks about the journey of love through life stages. 6:52 – Rosetta talks about her self-love journey and what it means to be “self-approved.”9:40 – Rosetta discusses how children naturally know they are “good enough.”10:50 – Trish talks about getting rid of negative self-talk to enhance self-love.11:39 – Trish recommends her secret tip for self-talk.12:30 – Rosetta tells us her morning routine for self-love.13:12 – Rosetta shares a powerful truth about Black women's LOVE.14:54 – Trish talks about her wealth awakening.16:40 – Rosetta talks about her money awakening on her entrepreneurial journey.18:50 – Trish talks about love and money and how it ties into worthiness.19:26 – Rosetta talks about the value of addressing and shifting her money thoughts.21:55 – Trish shares a powerful affirmation.22:53 – Trish shares her money tips.24:07 – Rosetta talks about the importance of digging into the numbers as an entrepreneur.24:45 – Trish tells a story of negative money talk in her business.25:28 – Rosetta shares how historically in the Black community we are taught to just survive. 28:27 – Trish shares a powerful quote about money.29:00 – Rosetta talks about normalizing having "more than enough."30:17 – Trish talks about her journey to finding her purpose.31:18 – Rosetta talks about the inner knowing of purpose we have as children.32:54 – Trish recalls a story of being discouraged by a family member.34:48 – Trish talks about following your purpose on the weekend and not giving up your calling. 36:15 – Trish gives her tips for finding your purpose.37:30 – Rosetta gives her tips to make your purpose matter.39:43 – Trish talks about the power of creativity. Sign up for the Love-Money-Purpose 3-Day Challenge at https://mindblowinghappinessprograms.com/challengeLearn more about Trish Ahjel Roberts' work at https://TrishAhjelRoberts.com Schedule a call with Trish at http://BlackGirlJoyTalk.com Learn more about Rosetta at https://RosettaThurman.com ep48/s3/ep4
The Happy Black Woman podcast is back on air after a year and a half of hiatus. And we're coming back strong with new and better ways to help YOU manifest the life and business that you've always desired. In today's comeback episode, I'm sharing some quick personal updates as well as major business happenings at Happy Black Woman. But above all, it's an exciting day for me as I share with you a special piece that I've been working on - my Happy Black Woman Manifesto. As we dive into the next chapter of our journey, I want us to have something that we can do together. And that is making this Happy Black Woman Manifesto our pact. So stay tuned as I reopen the doors of Happy Black Woman 2.0, and present to you my Happy Black Woman Manifesto! Key Takeaways: Happy Black Woman is back on a mission (00:20) Quick personal life updates (00:50) How we're rocking virtual events since the pandemic started (02:47) On relaunching this podcast, a brand new website, and an empowering email tribe (03:10) The Manifesto and The Happy Black Woman 2.0 (03:55) So what is a manifesto? (04:54) Presenting: The Happy Black Woman Manifesto (05:42) Additional Resources: Visit our new website here https://happyblackwoman.com/ Free download of the Happy Black Woman Manifesto here https://happyblackwomanpodcast.com/ The Happy Black Woman podcast aims to help black women on the path to personal and professional growth. Please share this episode, and remember to follow us on your favorite platform!
The Therapy for Black Girls Podcast is a weekly conversation with Dr. Joy Harden Bradford, a licensed Psychologist in Atlanta, Georgia, about all things mental health, personal development, and all the small decisions we can make to become the best possible versions of ourselves. What is your version of happy? Sure, we don't all have the same things in mind, but we do have something in mind when we think of personal happiness. Joining us this week to discuss how we work toward obtaining our vision of happiness is Rosetta Thurman, the Founder of Happy Black Woman. Rosetta and I chatted about how happiness is not about having stuff but instead about doing the stuff that you care the most about, how minimalism amplifies what we deem the most important, and how a minimalist approach to life can lead to us accomplishing dreams we'd never thought we'd see in this lifetime. Resources Visit our Amazon Store for all the books mentioned on the podcast. Where to Find Rosetta Website Instagram Stay Connected Is there a topic you'd like covered on the podcast? Submit it at therapyforblackgirls.com/mailbox. If you're looking for a therapist in your area, check out the directory at https://www.therapyforblackgirls.com/directory. Take the info from the podcast to the next level by joining us in the Therapy for Black Girls Sister Circle community.therapyforblackgirls.com Grab your copy of our guided affirmation and other TBG Merch at therapyforblackgirls.com/shop. The hashtag for the podcast is #TBGinSession. Make sure to follow us on social media: Twitter: @therapy4bgirls Instagram: @therapyforblackgirls Facebook: @therapyforblackgirls Our Production Team Executive Producers: Dennison Bradford & Maya Cole Howard Producers: Fredia Lucas & Cindy Okereke Assistant Producer: Ellice Ellis See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Some of what you’ll come away with from this episode:>What Queirra learned about ambition as a kid from Playdo.>How to know when it’s time to move past planning and even working on something to completing it.>The difference between delegating and ignoring.>A serious problem that affects successful entrepreneurs that sometimes come along with hitting goals and generating 6+ figures. And what to do about it.>What helped Queirra increase her profit margin by 124% in six monthsMentioned during this episodeBooks: You Are a Badass at Making Money by Jen SinceroProfit First by Mike MichalowiczConnect with Queirra and The Ambition Studio:www.theambitionstudio.co On Instagram and Facebook @theambitionstudio Don't miss the Digital Domination 2020 Masterclass: Go Beyond Just Posting on Social Media coming up on Jan. 26! Find out more and reserve your spot at >>> CLICK HERE.
About Tara Tara Pringle Jefferson is a writer, speaker, self-care coach and founder of The Self-Care Suite, a multicultural wellness community for women. In her private support group, now nearly 1,000 women strong, she challenges women to not only take inventory of their lives, but to make long-lasting, sustainable changes, with the support of the larger community behind them. She has been featured in Essence and Kiplinger magazines, Babble, Buzzfeed, The Happy Black Woman podcast, and Sirius XM radio. In 2016, she was recognized by Kent State University as a distinguished alumna for her work in the community with young mothers and women. A lifelong Midwesterner, she lives in Ohio with her husband and two children. Show notes: http://tamihackbarth.com/episode36/
In this episode, you will learn how podcasting is very similar to the other mediums. I will share the best tips and tricks for starting off with editing and publishing your own podcast even ith a co-host before outsourcing so you become familiar with your own podcast's brand. I will also share how to go from writing to speaking as a podcaster. I will also share the importance of sharing your story on your podcast because your story needs to be heard. How Podcasting Was My Therapy How I went from Blogging to Youtubing, to Podcasting My popular blog post became the first podcast episode - sharing my story as a cancer survivor Read Your Own Blog Posts in a Casual Voice How to Repurpose Your Content How to Confidently Share Your Story (Toot Your Own Horn) Most people do not care about your voice the way you do How to use the skills that you already have to make high-quality audio content - Foamboard, Blanket, Tent, Partition Continue to Use Youtube Become familiar with your own brand before outsourcing or co-hosting Just Do It Export Audio from your already Uploaded Videos Record and Edit But Don’t be afraid to share your story - it needs to be heard Use the Microphone from your phone and the voice recorder apps on your phone Record and edit three episodes of your own before outsourcing Quotes: “Even though there are a million podcasts out there Your voice, knowledge, and story are unique.” “I watched Youtube videos by Pat Flynn in regards to the technical aspect of getting started.” “Podcasting is basically your own NPR.” Mentioned: Use Libsyn as your host You may also use Anchor or Soundcloud as a way to get started for free Technology Engagement Center Acuity Scheduling Zoom Online Meetings Zoom H1n Recorder If you have a Macbook or access to a Mac at a library, use Garageband Podcasts Mentioned that I Listen to I listened to the Nicole Walters Podcast - I finally get over imposter syndrome I also listened to the episode by Happy Black Woman Side Hustle Pro GoalDigger Podcast To watch the video version of my previously recorded excerpt and the presentations of 17 other speakers, visit https://podthon.com/allaccess/ Join the Living Legacy Podcast Listeners and Supporters Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/livinglegacypodcast/
The following podcast episode was taken from an Instagram Live recording. Follow me at @marvettelacy to see future Live videos! Transcript of Episode: Hello, this is Marvette your dissertation strategist. I help you write your dissertation successfully defend it so you can graduate and become a doctor. I'm a little bit rusty cause I feel like I haven't done a live in a while. So I'm just gonna pin this comment here. Today I wanted to talk about the 10 lessons I've learned since being in business for two years and I wanted to share just a little bit about my story because I don't really talk much about it. I am also procrastinating a little bit right now as I'm supposed to be doing other things, but I thought I would do two things at once since I have missed a lot from the past week or so and I need to record a podcast episode. So I want to do both. But I, let's see, my story really starts three years ago, so my business anniversary will be on September seven. Because September 7th, 2017 is when I had my first paying client. And that is a day I'm choosing to say as my anniversary because although I do like all the backend stuff and put in the paperwork to have a legal business, I didn't have a client until September seven, which I'll tell you more about my story. In a lot of people will say like, they started a business, but until you are actually making money and you have a client or a customer, then you do not have a business. You have a very expensive hobby probably. So anyway, my story actually happens or it takes place three years ago, 2016 in the fall of 2016 when I first decided that I was going to get serious about starting my own business, I was supposed to be, you know, progressing through. I was in my phd program and I think at that point, yeah, I was actually working on my dissertation. And if you are in the dissertation phase and you know, you get all of the ideas, you think about all the other things that you can't do or you should be doing instead of writing your dissertation because you don't want to write it. And so that happened with me and I was like, you know, I wanna start my own business because if I start now and then I give myself a whole year, then by the time I'm ready to graduate I'll have a job. Cause in my mind it was only going to take less than a year and I was going to have this very booming business that I didn't need to go find a job and everything will take care of itself. So this is like September ish of 2016. There was someone named Happy Black Woman is her business, her handle all of that. She was promoting that she was doing her annual course, which helps women to launch their business pretty much walking you through all the steps you would need to have a business. And so I decided to take some money and sign up for it. And it was not cheap. Okay. It was not cheap. I don't, I can't quite remember, but I just know it was not, it was four figures anyway, so I signed up for it cause I was like, yes, I want you to tell me exactly what to do and I'm going to do that. So I signed up for the course. I did all of that. So it had to think about like exactly what your business was going to be. And at the time my business was focused on helping women who were currently in toxic relationships as a result of past sexual abuse. Now I'm sure as you hear that, you can understand why that didn't quite work out so well. Also, it didn't work out well because it's like, how can I help someone when I was in a situation myself, I do my own work and as similar to students who come into qualitative research, they're usually choosing topics that are very personal to them. And it's like, research is me search. You're trying to figure out your own stuff until you decide you're going to do a research project, but then that just opens up a big can of worms. And that, that wasn't working. So that business idea didn't work. But I decided that I was going to keep going with helping women get out of toxic relationships. So that was my first business. I'm looking at my notes by the way. And I did that. I did that all for fall 16, but I didn't get any clients. Right. And so then spring of 2017 came when I was really supposed to be writing my dissertation and I decided that I was going to work with a different coach because I did technically launch my business. Like I had the business license and all of that. I just didn't have any clients. Right. and so I was like, well, I'm going to go find another business coach who will help get the clients. And so I signed up with her and she, you know, she had some good ideas. It was just like a lot of information being thrown at me and I was very nervous to do the things that she was suggesting. So, which is pretty much not putting myself out there. So like actually tell people on Facebook that I have a business, actually ask people for sales, actually do sales calls. And it was just a lot. But working with her, I would say the, the, the best thing that came out of that was helping me to see that my first business topic was not going to work out. And she was actually the one that suggested that I help people with qualitative research, which then later became helping people write their dissertation. But at first it was just going to be explaining qualitative research to people like a, like a class that you could take. And so I did that. And so this was early spring 2017. And that was one of the other things, I became more consistent with writing blog posts. And I was, I was telling people like on Facebook and stuff and doing some calls. But it just wasn't working out and, but I kept going. I graduated and that took precedent because if you know anything about my story, I needed to do my dissertation in four months. And so I did that. I graduated, felt like I went through like a hurricane or something. I was just all over the place in that summer of 17. And then I moved from Georgia to Wisconsin, started a new job and then I was like, alright, I'm getting serious about this whole business thing. And if you listen to my podcast of like two weeks ago, I talked to you about how I would go to my nine to five. Like I would work before my nine to five for like two hours. I would go to my nine to five. And then after my nine to five, I would work another five or six hours at Starbucks. And then Saturdays and Sundays I spent all day, like from 9:00 AM to like they close 9:00 PM at Starbucks, Saturday and Sunday to work on my business. And again, while I was putting out all this content, I wasn't making any money and September, Labor Day was coming, rolling around and I decided, you know what, I'm just gonna write this random email and see what happens. So my dad's birthday is September 4th. The holiday is usually around that time. And fall is my favorite season. And usually people think about Labor Day as the end of summer and beginning of fall. So I wrote this random email that was like in celebration of my favorite season, I'll give you 40% off. Whew. You know, the journey is, I know the journey to the pricing thing has been one. But yeah, that's what I said. I'll give you 40% off of my price, which was only a hundred dollars at that time, but I'll give you 40% off and you can sign up with me for, I think it was like 12 weeks of coaching and one person did sign up with me and to help her finish her chapters four and five, she had did data collection, but she, she was really highly motivated. Like she had a plan and knew what she wanted to do. But because her program didn't have many or any qualitative researchers, she was looking for someone to help her really craft the end of the dissertation and wrap it all up. And so we met all through that fall and working with her to finish. And she did graduate. That was great. But I share that story to say like one that is my story. It as the beginning of how I started and got my first paying client. But I also remember like that whole year, the, the one main thought that kept going through my mind is I, I just wish I could get one client. Like, if I could get one client and I know that this is real good, I know I can do this. That was my mindset. Looks like if I could just get this one person, then I know that like, I can be successful at this. And I got that one person and that did give me courage and I started to, you know, build up and get more clients. But I just think that's interesting now two years later looking back, it's like, Oh, if only I knew. So I do want to talk about like lessons I learned. So based off of that, the number one is being like, I'm just beginning. Like the journey is just starting and that can relate to the like the doctoral process is because you like get into the program, right? And everybody wants to rush through courses cause they're like, okay, I've done this before. I just need to take these classes and get took dissertation. Cause once I do that and I graduate and they call me doctor, that's it. But then you quickly learn that once you defend your dissertation and you're graduating, you realize that's just the beginning. Especially if you're going to be in academia where you like go out and if you're going to continue writing and researching, you realize that dissertation, while they seem huge at the time, really wasn't even the tip of the iceberg. And there was a whole journey and it could be a wonderful journey if you allow it to be, you just realize that it's just the beginning. So that was the first thing and that I can see my future so clearly now, like I can see how like I can see how successful I'm going to be. The second thing is that based off of that is fear will always be there as you are growing. Like fear never goes away. You're gonna always be nervous. It's it can help you as cliche as that sounds, but fear, fear will be something that you come to expect. Especially if we continue to push yourself into grow, it will always be there. So that's number two. Number three, the more aware you become of who you are, your mindset or the things that you have to do, the more you will want to hide, the more you want to run away and hide from what you know you should be doing. So, even though it's been two years from me and I was, you know, before like I don't want to put myself out there, I still like sometimes have to navigate that cause even now like doing this live, I had to like talk myself up because I still get nervous going live and talking and all of that. But I would say it's not as it once was because I've done this before. I'm getting more comfortable with it. It's just, it's just a part of the process. So that's number three. And number four, you do not need a lot of money to start a business. You don't need a logo. Stop it with the logo, stop it with, I need to make my website pretty. You don't need to do that. Stop it. You don't need it. And you just need to start really, really like simple things. You need to know who you're helping, what you're helping them with. And then you need to tell them and talk with them. People underestimate the power of building connections with people, like talking to them, getting to know more about them. We can only think about like what it is that you want. And this happens in the dissertation process too is like when you get into data collection, a lot of students, we spend a lot of time and I tell them like, this isn't about you. People are sharing with you their good time, their good experiences. They're taking time out of their lives to like sit down with you for hours to do interviews. And you are not even thinking about them. All you're thinking about is when you're going to finish your dissertation and how you're going to publish, but you don't take time to think about like how do you compensate people for their labor, for their time, for them sharing with you. So that was also another siren. But yes, for your business, you don't need all this money and these fancy websites and logos and colors. You're wasting your time and it's easy for you to think about those things because you feel like you know how to do that. But it's more difficult to actually go and help someone and get a client. And that's what you know I was struggling with too, is that I was scared to put myself out there and I let that fear stop me from actually making money on my business. So that was Four number Five is consistency and discipline is key. You can have the most talent in the room. There can be people who seem like they got it all together, whatever. But people like out the people can't outwork you or I would say people can't outwork me as my attitude that I have. So I'm going to continue to show up and be consistent and be disciplined in learning my craft. Because I know that hard work outperforms talent at the end of the day. I said that really clunky, but I think you get what I'm saying. The next is that people are always watching even when you don't know that they are. So sometimes people get caught up in like the number of followers they have or the number of likes they get on something or even like the number of clients that you have. And sometimes it can seem like no one is paying attention. You can feel like, why am I doing this? This doesn't make any sense. But I always get a message or DM or someone will say something in passing to be like, please keep going. Thank you so much for what you've been doing has been really encouraging and motivating. And so people may not say that when the actual posts or whatever you're putting out there, but someone is always watching. And to remember that because you don't know what role you are planning on someone's life, you don't know how much you may be helping someone. And not everyone is going to feed your ego all the time cause that's really was happening when you were looking at likes numbers and clients and the money and all of that. It's your ego. But if you are committed to helping people, then stay focused on that. Instead of thinking about vanity metrics of likes and numbers and when that, the next is keep the simple interest start. I may have said this before, but just what is the easiest thing or the easiest next step you can take and then take it? Whenever I get too caught up in my head or overwhelmed, I just asked myself, what is the next thing that you can do and just do that. And that's what I do. And I tell clients all the time that the motivation in a way that we've been taught about it as a society, as a lie, as not, it's not not that it's not a thing, but like it's not gonna sustain you. Momentum will sustain you. So if you can continue to take little small steps and keep going, that will continue to build up and keep you pushing longer and further than you know, you getting, you go and get an all hyped up from somebody and think that's motivation. You can only go as far as your mindset. So if you are not continuing to work on your mind and your thoughts, then you will not be able to continue to progress further. Which is where like all the, the fears and the doubts and all of that, that's a result of how you're thinking about yourself, Your Business, your dissertation or whatever it is that you're doing. And if you don't have a mechanism in place to really examine your thoughts or be able to start to shift them over time that goes back to like understanding what it is that you want who you want to be and having a a way to like manage that. And that's really why I believe that I had such a hard time with like anxiety and depression. Not to say that it's completely gone, but that's, I think it compounded it I guess. Because I didn't have something in place to help me navigate with that, which then leads to my next one, which I don't know what number I'm on, so we're just gonna go with it. The next thing I would say is that you have to have faith in something bigger than yourself, even if you don't believe in God per se or no, not Christian or whatever. Having some sort of faith or belief system or this universe, whatever, Buddhism, whatever, that is, having something bigger than you to believe in because there's going to come to a point where you're just going to have to let go and just believe that it's gonna happen. But if you don't have something to anchor yourself, it causes a whole other host of challenges and problems. And then the last thing is to get help because nobody can do it alone. Even people you think are doing it, they, they appear to doing it alone. They're not, they have a team behind them. There's always usually like a person that's like a silent partner that you may not be able to see or they have a community of folks that just helps them. But you cannot do this by yourself as humans. We are not meant to be by ourselves. And so whatever you have to do, whatever community you have to join, that's going to help you and you will see so much growth and I'm getting distracted cause I'm guessing my job has been announced. So I'm going to go see if it has. But yeah, I wanted to share. Those are the lessons that I've learned. I've been in business for two years. It'll be two years on September 7th. And I'm so excited about what the journey has been and what it will be, and I'm happy to share it with you all. So I be curious to know if any of these lessons resonated with you, anything that you taken from this live, please let me know. DM me, whenever you're watching on the replay and I'm going to do and go, go and do actual work now because I'm supposed to be working. But thank you for watching and I will talk to you later. Do something to show yourself some love. Until next time. Bye for now.
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Have you ever heard a story so moving and inspirational that it inspires you to be the best possible version of yourself? If not, you’re about to. Although I originally planned to do a deep dive into community building with my guest, it quickly became so much more than that. Rosetta Thurman shares her incredible story from humble beginnings to building a successful business that helps thousands of women. Rosetta was raised by a single teen mom and a very involved grandmother. Back then, books opened up a world of possibilities for her that she has manifested in her real life through vision casting, goal setting and a lot of hard work. Rosetta is an author, speaker, consultant and the Founder and CEO of Happy Black Woman, a global company and community that empowers black women who desire to make a big impact and create their dream lives and businesses. She’s also the host of the Happy Black Woman Podcast and has spoken at over 100 business events around the country. Tune in to hear Rosetta candidly share her story from living in poverty to building the life she dreamed of when she was a child. I don’t know everything but what I do know for sure is that by the time you finish listening to this podcast episode, you will be inspired. Guaranteed. We discuss: Rosetta’s inspirational story from living in poverty to building a successful business Building your tribe: How to grow and connect a community within your business How to retain your audience and the importance of investing in yourself Join the BizChix Community Connect With Rosetta Thurman Happy Black Woman Happy Black Woman University Happy Black Woman Podcast Twitter Facebook Instagram YouTube Email: support@happyblackwoman.com Books, Tools or Events Mentioned: Launch Your Business by Rosetta Thurman How to Become a Nonprofit Rockstar by Rosetta Thurman & Trista Harris Other Links Mentioned: BizChix Coop Watch the video: Meet Rosetta Thurman, Founder of Happy Black Woman BizChix Episodes Mentioned: 368: Breaking Through Limiting Beliefsbi Listen to Stacking Your Team Work with Us: One Day Mastermind GrowthChix Accelerator Program ProfitChix Mastermind CEOCHIX Mastermind Strategy Session Join the BizChix Community This episode was first published at BizChix.com/372. Subscribe to our sister podcast, Stacking Your Team, on your podcast app or listen at bizchix.com/category/team/.
Since 2011, I’ve hosted dozens of live events including happy hours, personal development workshops and business trainings. To date, hundreds of women have attended a live Happy Black Woman event, workshop or seminar in support of their personal and professional growth. Today, I'm pulling back the curtain and sharing the "behind the scenes" of how I create transformational events for my tribe to the point where many women keep coming back year after year! In this episode, we discuss: How I got started with live events 7 years ago Why you should host an event and the benefits for your business and brand How to pick a great name for your event The importance of getting help with your event and who should be on your support team Pitfalls to avoid when putting together your first event Tips for giving your attendees an amazing experience! Resources From This Episode: Grab Your Ticket to My Annual Live Event: Manifest Your Vision 2019 Enroll in My Host Your First Live Event Course (Now 50% Off For a Limited Time!) Listen to HBW Podcast #48: How to Plan a Successful Live Event with Event Manager Jillian Smith My Event Management Team: One Touch Events LLC Join My Free Facebook Group: The Happy Black Woman Tribe Follow Me on Instagram @happyblackwoman Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast to get automatic notifications when I publish a new episode! If you enjoy the show, please leave a rating and review to spread the word and help more Black women transform their lives. Thank you so much for your support!
Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… How to self-care yourself without getting got! Doing something racist vs being "a racist" (is there a difference and does it really fvcking matter) and we’re Black and we’re cute and we want your loot. Also: Black Femme healing, safe-space, anti-Blackness, interracial relationships, that McClure twins drama, Black diasporadical tensions, and mad other sh!t. It's fun, we promise. Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj Add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj EVENTS HARLEM July 14th Games Dev of Color Expo: http://gamedevsofcolorexpo.com/ WASHINGTON, DC July 14th Black Femme Brunch: Apes**t Art Party and dance party. For Black femme folks of all genders. Tix & info: https://www.facebook.com/events/264972787385978/ BROOKLYN July 13-15 Blerd City Con: https://www.blerdcityconference.com/ PHILLY July 24th Join us at #PodsInColor Podcast Meetup 5-7pm at Sampan, 124 S 13th St, Philadelphia, PA 19107. Follow @PodcastsInColor for updates. We’ll be in Philly for Podcast Movement from 7/23-7/26 BROOKLYN Saturday, July 28th our friends Inner Hoe Uprising are throwing a day party AND a night party. Do not sleep on this one. Tix & info: Inner hoe uprising all day & night party https://www.eventbrite.com/e/inner-hoe-uprising-all-day-night-luv-story-bar-tickets-47537292321?aff=efbevent NOTES & EXTRA TEA J.’s guest spot on Podcasts In Color Podcast: http://podcastsincolor.com/podcasts-in-color-the-podcast/2018/7/9/podcast-fanatics-with-janicia-of-teawithqj J.’s guest spot on Inner Hoe Uprising’s “Blerds” episode: https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising/blerds Read “In Good Conscience: Why I Left the Women of Color Healing Retreats in Costa Rica” https://shoppeblack.us/2018/07/in-good-conscience-why-i-left-the-women-of-color-healing-retreats-in-costa-rica/ McClure twins dad’s racist tweets: https://bossip.com/1652835/black-women-love-pinatas-and-fubu-white-father-of-youtubes-mcclure-twins-exposed-for-being-racist-buffoon/ Justin McClure “apology” vids https://twitter.com/McClureTwins/status/1016384231537340417 Vid #2 https://twitter.com/McClureTwins/status/1016384984158998530 Learn more about Erika Alexander’s call for storytellers, creators and filmmakers: https://learn.seedandspark.com/keep-it-colorful/ BLACK FEMME HEALING MOVEMENTS, SPACES, PODCASTS & EVENTS Bag Ladiez https://soundcloud.com/bgladies/tracks Black Girl In Om http://www.blackgirlinom.com/ Happy Black Woman https://happyblackwoman.com/podcast/ Harriet’s Apothecary http://www.harrietsapothecary.com/ Inner Hoe Uprising https://innerhoeuprising.com/ Marsha’s Plate: Black Trans Talk https://soundcloud.com/danella-xuc Ms.Vixen Mag http://www.msvixenmag.com/ Nomadness Travel Tribe https://www.nomadnesstv.com/ Odiosas FB https://www.facebook.com/odiosasbx/ Odiosas IG https://www.instagram.com/odiosasbx/ Party Noire http://www.thepartynoire.com/ Queer WOC http://queerwoc.com/ The Black Joy Mixtape http://www.theblackjoymixtape.com/ The Free Black Woman’s Library https://www.facebook.com/FreeBlackWomansLibrary/ Therapy For Black Girls https://www.therapyforblackgirls.com/ The Sexually Liberated Woman http://sexloveliberation.com/podcast/ This week’s closing clip features Michelle Threatt (@mye_belle on instagram): https://www.instagram.com/p/BlCQcVkBXv0/?utm_source=ig_share_sheet&igshid=1vmkx4pkz09cn
I'm back with a very special show, pulled right out of our annual Manifest Your Vision Mindset Retreat that was held a few weeks ago. This year's event was so transformational that I wanted to give you a little peek inside the magic! So this episode is an actual teaching segment from the event and it's all about understanding the mental barriers that hold us back from achieving our big goals. I explain a powerful concept called the "lizard brain" and why it's a source of fear, procrastination and perfectionism for so many women. Plus - insight and coaching for how you can finally overcome self-sabotage and manifest your dream life in 2018. Mentioned in This Episode: Register for our upcoming Happy Black Woman events and retreats: happyblackwoman.com/events Sign up for Rosetta's FREE Location-Independent Lifestyle Masterclass: quityourjobwebinar.com Join the Happy Black Woman Private Facebook Group Connect with Rosetta on Instagram @happyblackwoman
On this episode of Happy Black Woman, Rosetta interviews award-winning actress April Parker-Jones. Currently starring on Tyler Perry’s television drama If Loving You is Wrong on OWN, April discusses her rise to success and the importance of having big dreams in order to personally evolve into a better version of yourself. Be sure to catch the full audio to hear this great conversation! April’s fascinating journey into theatre From a young age, April has always been drawn to the stage. After participating in theatre throughout elementary and secondary school, she eventually changed her major to theatre in college after the prompting of a caring professor. A move to New York was quickly followed with a cross-country journey to Los Angeles and she never lost sight of the ultimate end goal. Her willingness to evolve and grow resulted in many positions of her dreams. You don’t want to miss the rest of her compelling story on this episode of Happy Black Woman. The importance of taking a leap of faith into the unknown Without a willingness to adapt, April never would have attained the level of success that she now has. Her fears weren’t enough to stop her from pursuing her dreams and she exclaims that “I’m so glad I was that crazy 19-year-old.” Rosetta and April talk about the critical need to evolve out of your past self and more engaging topics on this fantastic episode of Happy Black Woman. If you need encouragement on how to pursue your own aspirations, be sure to listen to the full episode. April’s thoughts on her life now as an actor, wife, and mother When Rosetta asks April about her thoughts on her life today, April is adamant about the importance of taking even bigger steps towards personal evolution. She explains that acting can be a fickle career and how she is learning about financing, real estate, and more to ensure she is cultivating other ways to bring in revenue for her family. To hear more about opening up your field of exploration and to discover the importance of enjoying the present moments, be sure to give this episode your full attention. Advice on staying true to yourself in the midst of distraction There are countless ways industries and careers will try to hijack your path to personal growth. April simply made a decision to embrace the person that she truly is and never deviate from that path. She is dedicated to surrounding herself with people who actually matter and using those positive influences to combat any negative feedback she may receive. You can hear more about April’s key words of wisdom, what continually inspires her, and her latest projects by listening to this stellar episode of Happy Black Woman with Rosetta Thurman. Outline of this great episode [0:29] Introduction of this episode’s guest, April Parker-Jones [3:15] April’s journey into theatre [7:55] Importance of taking a leap of faith into the unknown [9:45] Rosetta asks about April’s life now as an actor, wife, and mother [15:00] April offers her insights, tips, and advice for staying true to yourself [20:27] Growing and evolving into new life paths [24:06] April’s exciting new projects Resources & Links mentioned in this episode Connect with April on Twitter Connect with April on Facebook If Loving You is Wrong - OWN network Tuesdays at 9/8c. The Last Ship on TNT - April’s new role coming soon in 2018 About APRIL PARKER-JONES April Parker-Jones currently stars as ‘Natalie,’ a single mother and fast-food restaurant manager on Tyler Perry’s television drama If Loving You is Wrong on OWN. A native of Durham, North Carolina, April Parker-Jones began acting at the young age of five. She knew instantly with her first performance of The Tortoise and The Hare that the stage is where she belonged. The thrill she received from being able to lose herself in a character was a freedom that she longed to live as often as she could. Parker-Jones studied theatre at N.C. Central University before moving to New York City in pursuit of a professional acting career. While in New York, she was cast in many productions at The Billie Holiday Theatre such as Spirit North, Fool’s Gold starring award-winning actress Yaa Asantewa and Mercedes starring Karen Pittman. Additionally, April Parker-Jones originated the role of Christina in the Off-Broadway World Premiere of Plenty of Time at Primary Stages in New York. For her portrayal, she earned two Audelco Award Theatre nominations for Best Actress starring alongside Jay Jones, her now husband of nine years. Plenty of Time was directed by Jackie Alexander and told the story of a teenage love affair that spanned for 35 years. Upon her arrival to Los Angeles, she was cast in stage productions of A New Beginning at Chosen Ministries written and directed by A.J. Golden and A Yankee Trader written by Kato McNickle, directed by Ian Vogt and produced by the Virtual Theatre Project and tells of a family divided during the Great Hurricane of 1938. In 2016, April was nominated for a NAACP Theatre Award for her portrayal of Genie Ann Parker in the stage production of Love Soul Deep written and directed by Patricia Cuffie-Jones. Her theatre work has paved her way to numerous and exciting recurring roles on ABC’s How to Get Away with Murder, Lifetime’s Devious Maids, Freeform’s The Fosters and the CBS series Jericho. Other television credits include guest star roles on CSI: Miami, ER, LOST, NCIS, Lie to Me, NCIS: Los Angeles, Prime Suspect, The Chicago Code, Scandal, and several others. Film credits include Spider-Man 3, Have a Little Faith, and Heaven.
On this episode of Happy Black Woman, Rosetta addresses the topic of creating your ideal life by stopping self-sabotage. It’s often hard to achieve one’s goals because it’s easier to default to destructive thought patterns. By following Rosetta’s three methods of stopping self-sabotage, you can move towards the life of your dreams and overcome the barriers that have been in your way. Be sure to listen to discover her insights! Self-sabotage manifests in many ways One of the biggest barriers to your ideal life arrives in the form of procrastination. Rosetta explains that after a while, procrastination can begin to feel normal and acceptable. It can even take on the form of perfectionism - focusing on “perfect timing” in lieu of taking action is a form of procrastination. It can also arise because of a fear of the unknown. Be sure to listen to the full episode to discover how Rosetta overcomes procrastination in pursuit of her ideal life goals. Method #1 - Make a decision! Even people who are passionate about pursuing their ideal life can fall victim to not making decisions - which leads to never taking action. Rosetta explains that “maybe” turns into “never” but that making decisions allows you to move forward in your life. If you make a decision in your life there’s no reason why it will not happen unless you prevent it from happening. This form of self-sabotage prevents you from committing and stands in the way of living ideally. Catch the full episode for more information about making proactive decisions in your life. Method #2 - Stop asking the wrong people for advice Your friends, family members, and coworkers are all known constants. Sadly, many of them have never taken a major risk in their lives. Rosetta explains why you should not turn to these people for advice on your personal or professional life because they “validate the fear you have, which is a form of self-sabotage.” They will give you the permission to quit, doubt, and procrastinate, all of which are going against your plans for an optimal life. Rosetta explains the concept of protecting your goals from the people who care about you most in this stellar episode of Happy Black Woman. Method #3 - Don’t settle for less than what you deserve and desire Perhaps the greatest concept to take away from this episode is to never settle for what you don’t desire, want, and deserve. Life decisions are not always easy but you cannot allow subpar “opportunities” to get in the way of something that you actually want. Rosetta encourages her listeners to never allow things they don’t want to take up space in their life. She wants her listeners to understand that settling allows for complacency, which never leads to ultimate goal achievement. Be sure to listen to the complete audio to fully understand the three methods to stop self-sabotage, as well as hear from some great listener questions. And don’t forget to listen for your opportunity for $200 off your registration to the Manifest Your Vision 2018 retreat in January 2018! Outline of this great episode [1:00] Rosetta introduces the episode, regarding reasons on why it’s so hard to achieve life goals [3:00] Three ways to stop sabotaging your own success [5:17] Method #1 - Make a decision - stop being indecisive about what you want [8:40] Method #2 - Stop asking the wrong people for advice [13:25] Method #3 - Stop settling for less than what you deserve and desire [17:44] Rosetta explains how jobs can be a means to an end, not THE end [26:00] Work with Rosetta in person in January at the Manifest Your Vision retreat Resources & Links mentioned in this episode Manifest Your Vision 2018 Retreat
On this episode of Happy Black Woman, Rosetta interviews Loria Smith, life coach and founder of ReDefining H.E.R. Loria explains her rocky background caused by unhealthy relationships, and how she ultimately overcame the challenges of living with constant self-doubt and fear in order to help other women move forward with their lives and make peace with their pasts. Be sure to check out this great episode and share its valuable insights with the women in your life! Loria shares how she helps women move through difficult life situation The founding of ReDefining H.E.R. arose from Loria’s greatest passion - encouraging and helping women move through the difficult scenarios different stages of life brings. Through the various elements of her coaching, Loria assists women in going back to their core being and helping unravel months or even years of unhealthy thought patterns and destructive relationships. She offers 30, 60, and 90-minute intensive sessions as well as 90-day mentoring programs for women who are committed to bettering themselves and their lives. Check out how to receive these resources by listening! Starting the process of healing and moving forward in life The first steps in moving past an unhealthy relationship are always the most challenging. After the initial catalyst that initiates the change, Loria encourages women to start by redefining who they are - their likes, dislikes, passions, etc. This self-inventory assists women in understanding their place and path in life, as well as raises self-awareness. These steps and much more are found in this wonderful interview. Loria’s 5 Steps to Healing from Past Hurts Not only does increased self-awareness improve one’s ability to gain confidence and security, it also opens the door for continued healing and empowerment. On this episode, Loria talks with Rosetta about her “5 Steps to Healing from Past Hurts,” which can be found as a free download on Loria’s website (see Resources below). Loria also discusses the importance of being passionate about a cause or project. Devoting time and mental energy to an outside entity can further the healing process. Engaging with one’s spirituality, talking with trusted loved ones, getting reacquainted with oneself, and many more hints and tips are found in the audio. How to continue down the path of successful and empowered living Very few women are able to achieve this process of healing on their own. Having a support system of trusted friends and family members is crucial. They are able to offer guidance and encouragement when faced with new obstacles. Simple things like having a positive morning routine, practicing self-care habits, and setting boundaries all contribute to mental and emotional healing after difficult situations. Loria discusses her top three tips to invest in oneself as well as many more helpful hints all on this episode of Happy Black Woman with Rosetta Thurman. Outline of this great episode [0:40] Introduction of guest, Loria Smith [2:05] Loria explains her story, and why she founded ReDefining H.E.R. [6:20] Loria’s passion for helping women in unhealthy relationships [8:20] Methods of helping women through abusive situations [9:50] How to start the process of healing and moving forward [11:15] Loria asks how women can start being more self-aware [14:30] How focusing on helping others helped Loria break free from her past [19:00] Top 3 Tips and determining what’s holding you back from success [23:11] Insights on challenging situations in the business realm Resources & Links mentioned in this episode Loria Smith’s website National Coalition Against Domestic Violence How to Succeed at Being Yourself by Joyce Meyer Quieting the Lizard Brain by Seth Godin About LORIA SMITH Loria is a native Floridian and currently resides near Orlando, Florida. She is a Speaker, Coach, and Mentor as well as a trusted confidant to many personally and professionally. Loria is best known for her supportive nature, compassionate listening, and providing candid advice to those seeking clarity in relationships and other life issues. Her passion lies in helping professional women redefine themselves after life-altering experiences, ending unhealthy relationships, or those who just want to do, have, and be more. Through her adversities as a pregnant and runaway teen, the loss of a newborn son and murdered brother, surviving domestic violence and sexual assault, and battling an Autoimmune Thyroid Disorder and other health-related issues, Loria has discovered “there is light at the end of the tunnel.” After years of living privately with guilt and shame, Loria sought professional counseling and did some reflective soul searching which raised her self-awareness and ultimately led to an improved self-image. With a renewed perspective Loria began to see the value in herself in how she could help others and decided to start living life on her terms, openly and unapologetically. Loria has embraced a healthier lifestyle by making better food choices and modifying other habits to improve her quality of life on the journey to healing, enrichment, and resiliency. Loria earned a degree in Business Administration from Barry University with an emphasis in Human Resource Management. After several years of employment with the local government, she was left unfulfilled of her purpose, and decided to venture out on her own as an entrepreneur. She is now a Licensed Florida Realtor, the owner and operator of a Tax Preparation and Bookkeeping Business, and an associate with a major insurance company. Loria is also a trained victim advocate and the founder of a nonprofit organization that advocates against domestic violence. She is using her expertise and life lessons to pursue a passion for helping women reinvent themselves. Loria founded ReDefining H.E.R., where clients are guided through a self-discovery process to promote awareness and to address fear, anger and limiting beliefs. She also speaks on the topics of Self-Love, Building Healthy Relationships, and Health & Well-Being. Loria and her husband Ronnie have a beautifully-blended family of five adult children and one grandson. Additionally, Loria has developed a love for traveling, and enjoys spending quality time creating memories with family, singing, and humoring those around her.
In over 100 episodes of Happy Black Woman Rosetta has never spoken with a guest about the topic she's covering today: The power of a beautiful and peaceful home. Her guest today is Glenda Vance, a woman who has walked a very difficult journey of her own to come out on the other side with a dream and vision of helping women create their own beautiful peaceful place where they and their families can thrive. Join Rosetta for this great conversation to learn how you can create your own peaceful haven in your own home. Your home can be a place of beauty and peace and solace for your family Even if you don't feel you are woman who is good at decorating or matching colors, Glenda Vance says you can learn how to make your home a peaceful place that invigorates and refreshes you and your family. In this conversation, Rosetta takes a deep dive into Glenda's personal experience and asks her for very relevant and practical ways that black women today can transform their homes into the place of peace that they want and need them to be. Decluttering is powerful. You can’t get organized without removing the things you don’t need One of the very first steps Glenda Vance recommends for creating a beautiful and peaceful home is to declutter. She says that you can't get organized and beautify your home until you remove the things that you don't need, the things that no longer serve you. It's a difficult process but one that is essential for the beautification of your living space. Find out how Glenda recommends you get started decluttering your own home, on this episode of Happy Black Woman. Order is heaven’s first law. An orderly home allows us to live a more heavenly life Somewhere in her past, Glenda Vance was told that order is Heaven's first law. To her, that means living an orderly life is a reflection of how things are in heaven. The resulting beauty and harmony that comes from that kind of living it directly reflected in the decor and organization of the home. That idea was very curious for Rosetta so she asked many questions about how it is true and what it means for the way we decorate our homes. You'll enjoy hearing Glenda's answers on this episode. Nothing will happen in your life if you don’t pursue something Each episode, Rosetta asks her guests what they would recommend to a black woman who is just starting out on her entrepreneurial journey. When she asked her guest this week, Glenda Vance, Glenda said nothing will happen in your life if you don't pursue something. For Glenda, it was the dream of having a business that is oriented around something she loves. And she wanted that business to truly be a help to other women. She has it now and is demonstrating that anyone can come back from even the hardest setbacks to handle if they're willing to move forward. You'll enjoy Glenda's story, so be sure you listen. Outline of this great episode [0:29] Rosetta’s introduction of Glenda Vance, interior design consultant. [2:01] Glenda’s path from childhood to fashion and decorating, to entrepreneur. [6:45] The decisions Glenda had to make to beautify and develop her own home. [10:44] Steps you can take to get clear and transform your home. [18:29] Understanding what you need in the place you call “home.” [25:07] Glenda’s advice to women just starting out on the entrepreneurial path. Resources & Links mentioned in this episode Glenda’s site - Cheery Ideas BOOK: The Spiritual Man BOOK: God’s Leading Lady About GLENDA PRATT Glenda is enthusiastic about decorating lives and has worked as a decorating consultant for 24 years. She has been a Sales Leader, Team Leader and Coach, Director- in- Training within the #1home accessories company in the world. She is also an organizer expert. Over this timespan she has served thousands of customers and clients in beautifying their homes and organizing their living spaces through products and services that has created true transformation. She is CEO and Founder of Cheery Ideas, a full service site for various answers to decorating and caring for the home. Her own home in Missouri has been admired, talked about, and complimented by hundreds of visitors and decorating experts. In 2008, a regional commercial aired that showcased her love for home, family, church and God.
As black women, we need to understand that our lives and the outcomes of them are within our control more than we know. The decisions and intention we carry into each day, leading into the rest of our lives, make an impact we can’t fathom. Jill Flowers is Rosetta’s guest on this episode and she serves black women as a spiritual mentor and life coach, one who helps you get in touch with the deeper reasons for your existence and the ways you can enrich your own life independent of the circumstances you face. Listen and be inspired by Jill’s frank but down to earth advice - and be sure to share the episode with others you know could benefit. When black women are living a happy and fulfilled life, everyone benefits. It’s tempting for black women of all ages to believe that taking care of themselves is selfish. People depend on you. People need you to be there for them. But if you are not healthy, strong, and vibrant, how can you expect to be there for them when needed? It’s not possible, which is why it’s the most unselfish thing you can do to take care of yourself. In this episode, Jill Flowers explains why you need to place a higher priority on providing for your own health and happiness and the positive impact it will have on the people you love if you do. Don’t miss it. You have to be active in your own healing and happiness. Life is not only something that happens all around you, it’s something you have an influence on yourself. You get to contribute, you get to impact the world in significant ways. That principle holds true for the healing and happiness you need and want as well. In this episode, Jill Flowers describes what happens when black women determine to take part in their own healing and pursue their purpose with all that they are - and she gives some tips for how you can get started on your own healing journey right away. You won’t want to miss what she has to teach. If you set your intention for the day, nothing outside of you can change that unless you let it. One of the most impacting things Jill Flowers spoke about in this conversation with Rosetta was the power of setting your personal intention for a given day. She says that when you take the time each morning to pray, meditate, and center yourself for the day - and then proactively decide how you will show up in that 24 hour period, nothing can stop you. It’s a choice, a determination that only you have the power to initiate, and Jill explains how it can happen. If you can adopt this practice it can set you free from circumstances and put you in the place of control over your own life. Black women naturally put others first - but sometimes it is what kills them. We are women, black women - and we naturally have a place of concern and compassion for those in our lives. But our tendency to put others first can be overdone, to the exclusion of our own health, well-being, and emotional strength. Jill Flowers says that we’ve got to stop, we’ve got to develop a plan for keeping ourselves healthy and on track before it’s too late. You can hear Jill’s advice and discover some steps you can take right now to reorient your path so you don’t crash and burn like so many women do. It’s all on this episode of Happy Black Woman. Outline of this great episode [0:29] Rosetta’s intro to this episode and her guest Jill Flowers. [2:55] How Jill decided she was going to dedicate herself to being a soul activist. [8:35] The role anger played in pushing Jill to take her calling more seriously. [12:17] The path Jill follows to coach and help black women. [14:30] Jill’s advice for black women who want to begin their own healing journey. [20:00] How Jill stays focused and productive to serve her clients and family. [26:24] What Jill says to women who say they don’t have time to connect with their spirituality. Resources & Links mentioned in this episode www.JillFlowers.com Dr. Wayne Dyer Joel Goldsmith Catherine Ponder BOOK: The Dynamic Laws of Healing BOOK: The Dynamic Laws of Wealth BOOK: Healing Secrets of the Ages BOOK: The Shack About JILL FLOWERS A “Soul Activist” one who advocates for your healing, your awakening and the unfoldment of your purpose. The Soul Activist takes one from “Pain to Power to Purpose”. This is what Jill does in her work with Black Women. She helps Black Women heal from the false narratives and beliefs that keep them from realizing their high potential. The ideas that you are not enough or The “I”m a strong black women” syndrome, I can do it on my own is a belief that needs to be healed. Jill believes that Black Women are the link to healing the Black Community. She believes that when Black Women have a full understanding of their Alkhemy she then becomes the medicine for her family. She is capable of harmonizing her family and thus the community because she herself is harmonized. “Consider, you are powerful beyond measure and you have limitless potential.” Jill Flowers defines a modern day Renaissance Woman as Transformational Speaker, Wedding Officiant, Activist, Author and not the least of these Mother and Wife. Co-Founder of The Abolish the N Word Project, Inc. Jill and her husband received over 100,000 hits on their web site’s powerful message the first month in existence. This was before the term “Viral was apart of the english lexicon. The Brooklyn raised couple received media attention around NY and across the United States including CNN, NY Daily News, Miami Herald and The Washington Post. They were awarded numerous accolades including a Proclamation from the New York City Council, and a Trail Blazer award from The then Manhattan Borough President, Scott Stringer. Jill’s activism inspired her to continue to be of service and she went on to become an Ordained Interfaith Minister. She has now evolved to Spiritual Life Coach and Soul Activist. She uses metaphysics and spiritual principals to provide healing and strength for the women who attend her monthly healing circles and group coaching. Jill's Ministry includes, Officiating Weddings, Couples & Marriage Ministry, Spiritual Counseling, Soul Activation programs, Soul Shops and Healing Retreats. Jill is passionate about being of service and taking a stand for the transformation of consciousness. Her Vow into ministry says it all “I Jill Flowers, vow to use my speech, my listening and my light to awaken to empower and to heal”. Jill lives in Brooklyn, NY with her Husband and two children.
One of the reasons Rosetta started the Happy Black Woman movement and community is because she did for herself what she advises you to do in this episode. She took 4 specific steps that enabled her to become the kind of woman she wanted to be… and that resulted in a very clear vision to help other black women step into their own areas of gifting and genius. Happy Black Woman was the result. If you are tired of the struggle and ready to become the kind of woman who gets everything she wants, you’ve got to hear this episode. It could change your life. Your freedom as a black woman starts by killing fear and committing to getting what you want. There are so many reasons we don’t start moving in the direction of our dreams, but all of them are tied to some kind of fear. That’s why the first thing you need to do is kill fear. It’s never going to serve you and only tells you lies. Killing fear means you silence the voices of doubt and insecurity that have held you back for so long. It means you get yourself away from the naysayers and doubters who are prone to discourage you and amplify your fears. Listen to this episode to find out more about how you can kill fear and commit to what you want. When you have a purpose you don’t have time for foolishness. It’s vital to get clear on your purpose, the reason you were put on the planet. The reason it’s so vital is that your life purpose will help you get clarity for your life, it will help you eliminate the things that are nothing more than distractions and unworthy goals. Rosetta says when your purpose is clear you begin to realize that you don’t have time for foolishness. Find out how you can begin to get clarity on your purpose and move in the direction you need to move, on this episode. Most black women do not want to face the things that may hold them back. You may not like to hear it but it’s true: most black women don’t want to face the things that hold them back. Why? Because the things that hold us back are deep-seated issues that we’ve been avoiding all our lives. Things like poor self-worth, powerful self-doubt, abuses or condemning voices from the past, and much more. It’s easier to stay where you are, to avoid dealing with those issues - but you’ll never move toward your dreams if you don’t do the work needed to overcome them. That's because they are your limitations. Rosetta’s got great advice for how to deal with these issues on this episode. Being successful takes work: YOU have to make your dream a reality. There is no magic bullet or formula that bring success to you. Not affirmations. Not prayers. Not meditations. Those things alone don’t get you anywhere because they are not accompanied by action on your part. You have to put your faith into action. If you have a dream, it’s up to you to fuel it and make it happen. On this episode of Happy Black Woman, Rosetta shares 4 steps every black woman needs to take in order to become the kind of woman who gets everything she wants. You don’t want to miss this one. Outline of this great episode [0:29] Rosetta’s welcome to episode 100! [2:00] What does it really take to manifest your vision? [4:08] Rosetta’s year of liberation and the realization she came to. [6:19] Kill the fear and commit to getting what you want. [11:01] Step #1: Discover your purpose. [14:19] Step #2: Develop your vision about your purpose and protect it. [18:09] Step #3: Break through your barriers. [22:45] Step #4: Take inspired action on what you want. [25:07] LIVE Questions and Answers. Resources & Links mentioned in this episode Kill Newsfeed Uber Conference Instant Teleseminar www.ManifestYourVision.com - Get your 30% off ticket to the 5th annual retreat in January 2018
Brigitte Barrow is committed to helping youth prepare for their future because she has walked a very difficult road herself. Her journey has taken her from runaway to speaker and coach to youth-focused organizations - Brigitte’s story is itself inspirational, a demonstration of what is possible when a young person is properly taught and equipped. On this episode of Happy Black Woman, Rosetta and Brigitte talk about her story, unpack the most important areas of focus Brigitte emphasizes to organizations that are helping youth prepare for real life, and then turn a corner to dive into Brigitte’s business and the strategies she uses to be productive and on-track with her mission. You’ll enjoy this episode so be sure you listen. 4 steps to help youth prepare for the future. It’s important for youth to become self-reliant - that’s the only way they can become truly beneficial, productive members of society and live a life of meaning. Brigitte Barrow is dedicated to helping youth learn the things necessary to be who they need to be in the world and she emphasizes 4 main things: mindset, education, income, and housing. You can hear how she defines those and why she believes them to be so important as she explains her approach to Rosetta - it’s all on this episode. The things young people need to understand about their income. One of the most liberating or debilitating things in life is the issue of income. You can have too little and become demoralized and depressed, not to mention poor - or you can have what you need and be set up for great opportunities and a more positive outlook on life. Brigitte Barrows is in the business of helping youth-focused organizations unpack the mysteries and intricacies of finances and income for youth, so they can not only understand it but also learn how to take control of it for their own benefit. This is a fascinating part of the conversation so be sure you don’t miss it. Stay productive by creating a list of most important tasks and keeping it near you. When Rosetta asked her guest, Brigitte Barrow, how she stays productive, Brigitte said she starts her workday by making a quick list of the most important tasks she must accomplish for the day. But that’s not all. She keeps the list next to her all the time, just in case she gets distracted or finds herself off track. Having the list nearby enables her to refocus and get back on track right away, which increases her productivity. We’re all going to get distracted from time to time - Brigitte’s tip helps us manage that reality to our advantage. You can hear more great tips like this from Brigitte on this episode. Pray like it all depends on God, take action like it all depends on you. There’s a strange combination of things that go into any success. Hard work, on the one hand, enables us to make the most of our opportunities. But the opportunities themselves are often far outside our personal control. We can’t make them happen. Brigitte Barrow says that’s why she has adopted the practice of doing something a minister once told her, “Pray like it all depends on God and take action like it all depends on you.” Faith in action - it’s vital that we not go too far in either direction at the expense of the other. Hear Brigitte’s tips by listening to this conversation. You’ll be so glad you did. Outline of this great episode [0:29] Rosetta’s introduction of Brigitte Barrow. [2:28] Brigitte’s journey: from runaway to helping youth meet the real world. [6:05] The focus on Brigitte’s youth training and how she works with organizations. [8:44] 4 steps to help youth become self-reliant: Mindset, Education, Income, Housing. [16:20] How Brigitte’s work is applicable to adults who have had setbacks in life. [18:15] Strategies that keep Brigitte productive. [21:56] The #1 piece of advice Brigitte gives to women who want to move forward but are afraid. [25:11] Pray like it all depends on God, take action like it all depends on you. Resources & Links mentioned in this episode www.BrigitteBarrow.com (get her free gift) 1-800-258-5268 (call Brigitte) www.Calendly.com/BrigitteBarrow - set a time to chat with Brigitte BOOK: Action Has No Season About BRIGITTE BARROW Brigitte Barrow is the “young-at-heart” workshop leader and creator of BJB Youth Training Services, providing life-skills training workshops in both personal and professional development and leadership, serving organizations who need help reaching their goals of educating, empowering and enhancing the lives of girls, young women and foster youth so that the organization’s youth members have the necessary information, tools and strategies to succeed in key areas of their lives. Brigitte has over 15 years of experience as a career Executive Administrative Assistant supporting C-Suite and other senior-level executives for high-profile corporations and businesses in the film and television entertainment, sports, rights-licensing-branded integration-advertising, broadcasting, music, banking, and real estate industries. During tenures with her employers she attended company-paid personal and professional development courses including “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People” (Stephen Covey), “Focus: Achieving Your Highest Priorities” (Frank Covey), “Situational Self-Leadership” (Ken Blanchard), “Owning Your Development”, “Priority & Time Management” and “DISC” (short and team versions). In addition, she received annual acknowledgments in certificates and financial awards for her Professionalism, Leadership, Teamwork, Initiative and overall performance for consistently exceeding expectations. She earned her Associate’s Degree with Honors in Liberal Arts and Sciences with a focus in Journalism from West Los Angeles College. Brigitte started this business after fully discovering that her passion, life’s purpose and first love is youth guidance and mentoring through teaching and training workshops helping girls, young women and foster youth to become self-reliant, establish a safe and secure lifestyle for themselves, follow a focused pathway to a successful life and realize their dreams. Brigitte was born and partially raised in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. She resides in Inglewood, California (within the greater Los Angeles area).
Jessica Journey is another stellar member of the Happy Black Woman Mastermind who deserves to be in the spotlight, and Rosetta puts her in the spotlight on this episode. Jessica specializes in helping high-achieving women accelerate their success in career and business, with a particular focus on developing public speakers. Her structured focus enables her clients to get energized by adopting her “do something now” attitude. By pushing women to take action she empowers them to take the next step in the right direction. You’re going to love this conversation with Jessica. Most of the time success comes down to a decision to do what you are good at. We all know the pressure that comes from trying to fulfill other people's expectations of our lives. It could be a spouse, a boss, or Society in general that we feel has certain plans for us, but we all know how hard it is to break out of the mold and believe that we have something unique to offer the world. Jessica Journey says that most of the time success comes down to a decision we have to make to do what we are truly good at. It is the one thing that brings us joy and provides great benefit to other people. When we can be bold enough to take that step, all kinds of opportunities open up. You can hear more sage advice like this from Jessica on this episode of Happy Black Woman. You can still make money and have an impact even while you’re making mistakes. Too many of us are scared to put our products or services out there for others to see because we don't feel they are good enough. But when Jessica Journey started her own on entrepreneurial endeavors she realized very early on that she couldn't wait for everything to be perfected. She had to begin with what she had and modify it as she went along. The thing she discovered was that you can still make money and have an impact even while you're making mistakes. Jessica's story is inspirational, so don't miss it. To launch a speaking career, start out by focusing on a few clear, key topics. Most people who try to begin a speaking career believe that they can speak on many different topics. While that is probably true it's not the best way to go about getting your start. You need to develop some signature topics that you speak on with power - and work hard at developing talks that demonstrate why you are the person to address that topic. You will become known for those topics and can branch out from there. That's just one piece of advice Jessica Journey has for any of you who want to begin a speaking career. Find out more from her on this episode. The only thing stopping you from being the answer to someone’s prayer is you. It is hard for some of us to believe but there is somebody who is praying to receive exactly what you have to offer. In other words, you can be the answer to someone's prayer. The only thing that is stopping you, is you. You have to get out of your own way and believe that you have valuable things to offer people in need. You have to take that step of faith to believe that you can have an impact that matters. Jessica Journey helps women find their core strengths and move ahead with confidence. In short, she helps them get out of their own way. Find out more about Jessica and the programs she offers on this episode. Outline of this great episode [0:29] Rosetta’s introduction to this episode’s guest: Jessica Journey. [1:53] Jessica’s journey to becoming a coach and consultants to speakers. [9:09] Tips for women who want to do public speaking. [17:13] An exercise to help you determine who to ask for speaking gigs. [19:00] How Jessica stays focused and productive. [25:45] The #1 piece of advice Jessica gives to women starting out. Resources & Links mentioned in this episode Website - www.jessicajourney.com Get your free gift from Jessica: www.jessicajourney.com/topic BOOK: The Alchemist About JESSICA JOURNEY Jessica Journey is living each day authentically and abundantly...and invites you to join her! As a business coach, Jessica provides direct solutions to high-achieving women entrepreneurs, especially speakers, coaches, and consultants. Her clients love her structured support, advanced strategies, and sincere encouragement. In addition, Jessica serves as a keynote speaker and workshop facilitator for business conferences and women's retreats. Connect with Jessica by visiting her website.
Saying “yes” is something that is unnatural for many of us, especially when it comes to saying it to ourselves. There are all kinds of reasons this is true and it is helpful to a certain degree to dig into those reasons. But more important is the recognition that you actually CAN say yes to yourself. There are many times in life when it is entirely appropriate. This episode is aimed at helping you break out of that limiting mindset that causes you to say “no” to yourself so often. Rosetta has some great ideas and practical tips to share, so be sure you listen. You achieve much once you stop telling yourself you can’t do things. ~ Elizabeth Kadetsky We all battle to overcome our limitations. It’s part of being human. One of the most common is the tendency to tell yourselves that certain things are off-limits for us. But where did that idea come from? Most likely it is a belief developed during childhood. Did you hear that? Childhood. Are you a child now? No. You are an adult. So what does that mean for your present and future in regards to that belief? Rosetta unpacks some powerful, not-so-obvious truths about why we need to learn to say yes to ourselves more often, on this episode of Happy Black Woman. When you start a sentence with, “I wish I could…” you’re stuck in child mode. Have you ever said, “I wish I could go to that event,” or “I wish I was able to afford that nice thing”? If you have, you’re not alone. We all have those kinds of wishes from time to time. But what we need to realize is that there is no reason they have to remain wishes. We are able to bring about the things we want in life by working toward them, by taking steps to make them happen. And the first step is to get out of the child thinking that operates on the level of limitations rather than possibilities. Listen as Rosetta unpacks the dynamics behind those limited wishes and provides 3 things you need to remember that enable you to break free. Life for you now is different than it was when you were a child. Choose to act like it. One of the most important things every black woman needs to learn is that the things that were said to you as a child, the limitations you learned when you were small no longer have to control you. You were a child then and it was entirely appropriate for you to stay within the limits your parents set for you. But now you are a grown black woman. The only limitations on you now are those you allow to be on you or choose for yourself. That means there’s a lot you can do to liberate yourself from the little girl limitations you’ve lived in for so long. Join Rosetta for this episode of Happy Black Woman as she unpacks the causes behind why you say “no” to yourself so often. Outline of this great episode [0:29] Rosetta’s introduction to this episode about no and yes. [2:31] There comes a time in life when you have to give yourself permission. [3:52] When you find yourself limiting yourself, question where the idea came from. [6:26] Understand your place in the world. It’s different now than when you were a child. [8:13] 3 things to remember as you transform your mindset in this area. Resources & Links mentioned in this episode Early bird pricing - www.HappyBlackWoman.com/summercamp
Rosetta Thurman is the founder of Happy Black Woman, a 500,000-woman strong tribe where she teaches women – particularly black women – how to step into their power, feel empowered, and live their best lives through personal development and entrepreneurship. In as little as 7 years, she quit her job as the executive director of a non-profit organization, start a successful blog, build her massive tribe, and create a 7-figure business. Keep Reading >> Today, Rosetta takes us behind the scenes on how she built her massive tribe. She explains how she learned how to protect her time and exert her boundaries while consistently staying in pursuit of her goals, dreams, and aspirations. She shares why she feels staying true to herself and her authenticity as a black woman has helped her connect and inspire so many women around the world, leading them on their successful journey to creating and building the life they deserve. “Nobody has a right to disrupt your energy. It’s a choice you make.” – Rosetta Thurman Today on the Fierce Feminine Leadership Podcast: How she built her tribe by staying authentic and true to herself The commitment she made to allow herself quiet time to reflect The balancing act between serving the world without neglecting yourself Her journey of releasing her limiting beliefs How being motivated by her own desires instead of other people’s fears have helped her open new doors of opportunity How she uses her Manifestation Journal as an affirmation technique to achieving her goals The most common limiting belief shared among women How releasing limiting beliefs and stepping into your power can impact your mindset and help you achieve your goals Connect with Rosetta Thurman: Happy Black Woman Love the show? Let us know! Are you a fan of the Fierce Feminine Leadership Podcast? If the tips and interviews we share in each episode have helped you gain the confidence and inspiration to become a better, more powerful leader, head on over to iTunes, subscribe to the show and leave your honest review to let us know! Each month, one lucky podcast reviewer will be selected to receive a free coaching session with me – Eleanor Beaton! What are you waiting for? Head on over to iTunes, subscribe and leave a review to enter your name into this month’s drawing! And, if you really want to ramp up your fierceness… Reach out to us for a free 30-minute Bold Women in Business Makeover Session with me or one of the fabulous coaches on my team! Explore your path and discover how you can be the fiercest lady-boss possible. Visit EleanorBeaton.com/Discover. A Special Thank You to Our Sponsors This episode was made possible by our wonderful sponsors, BMO – Bank of Montreal – The Bank for Women. Join the conversation at BMO for Women to gain the insight, knowledge, and support you need to succeed and to truly understand how to manage your money!
Who: Rosetta Thurman - Host of the Happy Black Woman Podcast What We Talked About: Her journey from working in the non-profit sector to living the life of her dreams. Rosetta reveals the epiphany she had while sitting on a beach in Hawaii and how that moment changed the trajectory of her life forever. Why I Like Rosetta: She's inspiring. Rosetta just speaks in a way that is inspiring. She lives and breathes what she teaches and it's obvious she's having a great time while she's at it. She makes you feel like you can do anything and maybe that's because you can. Great Line: I have control over the legacy that I leave. Where to Learn More: Get your free Life Mapping Workbook here: http://www.lifemappingworkbook.com http://www.themindawareshow.com
Today's guest is Kim Davis. Kim's mission is helping women walk in their God given purpose. She works with women first to find their purpose and then to live it out. She believes confidence, joy, and fulfillment all increase when women walk in their purpose. For a long time, Kim did not know her purpose. She wandered aimlessly through life, running after anything that might fulfill her. What Kim found was the only way to walk in purpose is through God and developing a relationship with Him. She now supports women in developing and strengthening that relationship. On Kim's journey, she recognized that often women think they have to be a pastor or an important religious leader to have a powerful relationship with God. She says you might be called to be a business owner, or perhaps a waitress, but you have a unique calling from God-He made you for a purpose. Kim's own transformation led to her calling to help women transform their lives. Listen in to this episode as Kim shares how she embraced her purpose and owned her own calling. Taking yourself seriously leads to clients taking you seriously. Kim Davis says the biggest hindrance in her life was herself. She discovered her God-given purpose was to be a teacher, but for a long time she did not want the responsibility or the title. Even though Kim resisted the title, she was always the go-to person for teaching things. People would say, “Oh, you're such a great teacher.” Kim would brush it off as just loving to share things. It was not until she started to own the title that she saw a transformation start. Kim began to embrace that she was the only Kim Davis and stopped comparing herself to others. She ultimately decided to make a business out of her purpose of teaching other women how find their own purposes. She was already doing that for free, without the label. Most of the people she was pouring into were “takers.” They did not value her time and effort. She decided she wanted to help the people that actually wanted to use the resources she could offer. As soon as Kim put a price to her product, women that were actually ready for help remained. It was a lesson in valuing her own gift. Be sure to listen in for guidance if you are ready for transformation. Focus on what you were put on Earth to do. Kim Davis spent many years trying to fill a void in her life. She nursed if with temporary fixes, but without a purpose, she lacked. Her health suffered, her marriage suffered. She was unhappy and unfulfilled. Kim looked good to the outside world: she had the husband, the house, the job, etc. Inside, she was missing something. Kim was lost without answers to her lack. She is a solution-oriented person, so not having the answer was her biggest fear. Kim got to the point of choosing suicide or giving her life to God. Kim Davis for the One was shaped and structured from that personal journey of finding and walking in her own purpose. She got quiet and got with God. It was a process of Him growing her from flaws and insecurities to a beautiful masterpiece. Things that were broken were restored, and she felt alive again. Kim had to share these experiences. She thought if she could help people understand this invest in it for themselves, it would be a win-win. Kim is here today to help you focus on what you were put on this earth to do. Make time for the things that matter. Some specific action steps to take, if you find yourself on this path, include clarifying your purpose and getting quiet to listen. Kim teaches that it comes down to making time for the things that matter. Kim believes that having a relationship with God matters. She has many helpful hints to simply get started. One is to pray God's word, seek His word, and obey His word. Kim has spent time finding something that speaks to her, and then learning how to apply it to her life. This is not an episode that teaches you how to go from zero to 100. For lasting change, Kim offers a layer by layer process. Her own story of prioritizing time for God is inspiring. She did not have everything perfect before she started. She simply reached out. You can reach out to Kim through her, Walk with Me, Talk with Me program. Kim will help you find your purpose, but she cannot do it for you. Listen to this episode of Happy Black Woman to hear just how Kim does it and how you can take a similar approach. In business and in life, get virtuous and get capable. In her journey of becoming an entrepreneur, Kim Davis relied on some inspiration and mentors. She did not transform overnight, or go it alone. Her mantra these days is, “You can only eat an elephant one bite at a time and I am hungry.” One tip to get you started is to become virtuous and capable in life and in business. God transformed Kim and gave her a spiritual vision for her life. That make it easy to quit her day job and begin doing what she loves. Her point is, get some help and direction. A spiritual mentor can help you work your spiritual vision and gain practical knowledge to integrate your purpose into this world. Kim believes God's people are destroyed by a lack of vision and a lack of knowledge. If you have both, it will help you walk in your God given purpose, on purpose. You'll find great encouragement from Kim's story to find your vision, on this episode of Happy Black Woman. Outline of this great episode [0:29] Rosetta's introduction of guest, Kim Davis. [1:19] Kim Davis' mission and work. [2:16] How Kim helps women recognize their unique calling. [5:04] Turning passion and calling into a business. [8:17] Kim's personal experience of finding and walking in purpose. [14:04] Specific action steps to get clarity of purpose. [17:08] How Kim made spirituality a non-negotiable in her schedule. [19:06] Help from Kim to get started on your journey today. [20:27] Kim's go-to for inspiration. [21:56] Wisdom to support the journey. [24:39] Steps to turn your God-given purpose into a business. [28:09] Don't miss the take-away!! [29:07] Staying connected with Kim. Resources & Links mentioned in this episode BOOK: “Joyce Meyers' Everyday Life Bible Hardcover Amplified Version” Kim Davis' website: www.kimdavisfortheone.com - Download your free BabySteps workbook. Tweets you can use to share this episode Learning to own your purpose, on this episode of Happy Black Woman. “God's people are destroyed by a lack of vision and a lack of knowledge” ~ Kim Davis “You can only eat an elephant one bite at a time, and I am hungry.”~ Kim Davis “You don't have to be a pastor or powerful religious leader to have a powerful relationship with God.” ~ Kim Davis Recognizing your unique calling, on this episode of Happy Black Woman.
Today's guest is Donna Newman-Robinson, who has been a part of the Happy Black Woman tribe for about a year. Donna is a veteran who found her purpose through her own experience after leaving the military. Her mission is to help women veterans discover their passion and purpose through her website. Donna's motto is simple: The next mission is you. After retiring from the military, Donna felt lost and confused about what to do next. She found her way and discovered her purpose through her own challenges. Today, she coaches fellow veterans through the transition process and helps them find their way in post-military life. In this chat with Rosetta, Donna shares some useful tips to help female veterans transition and understand the psychology of transition. The importance of Donna's mission and serving an underserved market. Once Donna found her footing after retiring from the military, she was inspired to build a business around helping other women just like her. She serves her market with passion and purpose, knowing that female veterans are certainly an under-served market. Donna takes Rosetta through some action steps that can help women understand the process of transitioning. The most important thing, says Donna, is understanding the psychology of transitioning. Having a support system is also essential to finding your way after the military. Donna discusses the value of remembering what your dreams were before you went into the military. She also shares some challenges most women will face and how to overcome them. How embracing your niche can help you succeed. As Donna delves deeper into her mission, it's clear that she has a well-defined niche. Staying true your niche helps you serve YOUR market, which is exactly what Donna does. From feeling alone to feeling overwhelmed, Donna is there to help female veterans through the entire transition process to ensure they are able to pave the way to a successful and happy future. A shift in mindset, shares Donna, is an integral component of transitioning into post-military life. She shares the challenges that come with taking off the uniform and adjusting to life. Her hope is that she can help women veterans avoid feeling lost and confused, like Donna did after she retired. The importance of community. Donna shares the difficulty of adjusting to no longer having the strong sense of community that comes with being in the military. That's why it's so important to find a community to join after retiring. For Donna, this is a part of her daily routine after finding the Happy Black Woman community. She shares a bit more about her daily routine, making it clear that staying focused and organized helps her get through the day. Donna also discusses how she recharges and focuses on herself as part of her routine, as well as the importance of this for all of us. Following your purpose and finding happiness. As Rosetta closes her chat with Donna, they discuss a book that inspired Donna along her journey, “Power Thoughts” by Joyce Meyer. She also shares some personal mantras that help to keep her grounded and focused in her daily life. As an introvert, Donna finds it essential to find ways to fit in the things that are just for “her”, including reading and dancing. Throughout this conversation with Donna, you'll find inspiration, passion, and a clear sense of purpose. The work Donna does is important and her passion for it is clear. Her final tip for the HBW community: don't be afraid to be different. Outline of this great episode [0:38] Rosetta's introduction of her guest, [1:24] Donna's mission and the work that she does. [2:33] How she helps female veterans transition. [4:45] The process of coaching female veterans who have just retired. [6:47] Donna's tips to help women mentally adjust to life after the military. [8:35] Some steps women need to take as they figure out what's next for them. [10:20] Obstacles women may face as they transition out of the military. [13:15] Donna explains her daily routine and how she stays focused. [16:19] How Donna recharges. [17:42] A book that has inspired Donna along her journey. [19:46] Donna shares her personal mantra. [22:55] Donna's #1 tip for women who are ready to pursue their dreams. [24:06] How you can connect with Donna. Resources & Links mentioned in this episode BOOK: “Power Thoughts” Donna Newman-Robinson's website: www.DonnaNewmanRobinson.com Tweets you can use to share this episode My mission is to help female #veterans discover their passion and purpose ~ Donna Newman-Robinson My motto is “The next #mission is you.” ~ Donna Newman-Robinson Why it's important to find your #niche and serve your market with passion, on this episode The obstacles female veterans face when transitioning out of the military, on this episode The value of community in your journey, on this episode of #HappyBlackWoman
Today's guest is Quanisha Smith, founder and chief activator of the Black Women Rise Movement. Her mission is to help black women thrive and live authentically. Her vision is that women would step up to honor the calling on their lives, and fulfil their purpose to be the best leader and CEO they can be. She works with women to strengthen their leadership skills, grow their professional development, and encourage their economic development. Quanisha provides coaching, teaches strategies, and trains women to take charge of their lives and their careers. Her work was birthed out of the lowest point of her life. After traumas, death of loved ones, divorce, and miscarriages, Quanisha found herself writing a suicide note when she was just 28 years old. She wound up in a psych ward wondering what happened and how she got there. Listen in as Quanisha shares her story of rising up as a Happy Black Woman. Turn your mess into a movement, your pain into profit. As Quanisha worked to rise out of her circumstances, she turned to writing. She wrote a declaration that she was “stronger than this.” She used this mantra and mindset shift to get back on her feet and into leadership roles. In graduate school, Quanisha became more and more aware of cultural struggles, specifically in leadership roles. She changed her thesis to examine the challenges black women were facing in leadership and organizations. She found disturbing statistics about qualified black women being overlooked for promotions. Quanisha's findings and frustrations followed her into the workplace. She found herself bored, with the entrepreneur bug. She knew she wanted to help women and that it was time to work for herself. She combined her education and personal experience to develop and found the Black Women Rise Movement, rewriting her career and stepping out into a business opportunity. Listen in to this inspiring and familiar struggle to the Happy Black Women community. Success starts with a vision aligned with your values. Quanisha is a pioneer for using personal story as a basis for business. She started, as many women do, with the notion that there had to be more and she was smart enough to figure it out. Quanisha developed a vision of how to work for herself with no idea how she was going to get there. Maybe it was divine intervention, or maybe it was the act of writing out her vision. Quanisha made a list of what she wanted in a career, as well as what she wanted for all aspects of her life. She let her heart speak and simply wrote it down. The values that built her vision came out of that list. She finally felt that she was living and operating a business authentically. As opportunities arose, she went back to her list to see how they aligned with her vision and values. Quanisha took responsibility for her reactions and decisions, and the transformation took off! If this resonates with you, listen in to be encouraged in your journey to become the best leader you can be. The key to getting unstuck and staying on track. So, what if you have your vision? And you are already taking responsibility for your decisions and life? But you are still not seeing success? Quanisha's advice is persistence, persistence, persistence. Her story shows that it does not matter where you are in the stages of growth, you might get stuck. Quanisha offers specific steps to get you moving into action again. Start with the support of a coach like Quanisha. Get someone to help you craft a plan and help you aim at a target. Quanisha loves thinking about bullseyes: you aim, take action, and then evaluate if you hit the target or not. This releases you from being tied to the outcome, and instead, allow you to be a woman of action. Learn how to fix your aim, and work with the various roles you have in your life. Wife? Mother? Sister? Listen in to accept your reality and ready yourself for the next step of your journey. Be a proactive contributor to your success. Your success is waiting for you. Quanisha asks you to invest in yourself through investing in other people. Her journey has been made easier because she has invested in coaching programs. She has listened to and learned from people she aspires to be like. Her strategies are all about proactively contributing to your journey. This starts with taking responsibility. Quanisha structures her day so she can be a good mom, fiance, friend, business owner, and supporter. She takes care of herself, schedules her tasks, and realizes she is still trying to figure it out. New seasons bring new adjustments. That's the real deal. But if you are not putting your mind to your movement, you won't move. Quanisha knows that she is valuable, and values herself, her time, and her vision. From that foundation she has propelled a movement. Get ready to build a new reality for yourself on this episode of Happy Black Woman. Outline of this great episode [0:29] Introduction of Quanisha Smith, founder of the Black Women Rise Movement. [1:24] Mission and work of Quanisha. [2:37] The inspiration and motivation behind Quanisha helping black women rise. [6:27] How Quanisha turned her mess into a movement and pain into profit. [8:40] Specific steps to take towards becoming a better leader. [11:30] The key to getting unstuck when you are not seeing results. [13:32] Staying on track with your goals-how Quanisha gets it all done. [17:20] Addressing the “mommy guilt.” [18:08] Quanisha's favorite book and inspiration from it. [19:46] A quote Quanisha has carried with her. [21:57] Advice for those early on in their entrepreneurial endeavors. [24:03] What makes Quanisha a Happy Black Woman. [25:16] How to get more information and in touch with Quanisha. Resources & Links mentioned in this episode Quanisha Smith's website www.blackwomenrise.com - get your free leadership guide and sign up for motivation emails.
Today's guest is Karla Hampton. She's a part of the Happy Black Woman tribe and is an inspiring woman on a mission to empower other women. Karla supports women through sex education and sexual wellness mentoring. Her goal is to help women embrace their sensuality and connect with what she believes is our birthright: pleasure. Karla was an attorney who discovered something was missing in her life. And so, she started a personal development journey that led her to the startling realization that she had been ignoring her own body's needs for many years. It was time to change that. Through her personal journey she realized her mission was to help others to the same, which she does through her website Sensual Black Woman. Her conversation with Rosetta today is one that will inspire women everywhere to connect with their bodies and embrace their sensuality. How Karla connected with her mission and started her own journey. Like most women, Karla was in the habit of going through the motions. She was focused on her career. She was successful. And to outsiders it would seem as though she had it all. In reality, Karla knew something was missing. She started experiencing health issues, sleeplessness, and even weight gain. Karla would eventually be diagnosed with an autoimmune disease called Sjogren's disease. That's when she knew it was time to make some changes in her life. Her wake-up call came in the form of a coaching call with famed life coach Iyanla Vanzant. Karla realized it was time to connect with her body, her energy, her sensuality, and her sexuality. The importance of reclaiming your power as a woman. As Karla progressed through her journey, she began to heal some old wounds that had a deep impact on her sexuality. She started what she calls a “Yoni Safari”, or a journey to get to know her body and specifically her vagina. This connection, Karla says, is essential to our ability to understand our bodies. For Karla, the journey was ultimately about really knowing and loving her own body. She gained an understanding of the value of self-pleasure and sensual movement practices, which she shares with other women through her Pleasure Practice Mentoring program. Through this, Karla is able to fulfill her mission. Sensual movement practice and other daily rituals. Starting a journey like this can be uncomfortable at first. As women, we're often taught to feel shame about our bodies, especially when it comes to sensuality. Karla explains how sensual movement has helped her embrace and love her own body. Making this a part of her daily routine is something that keeps Karla centered and connected to herself. She shares some other parts of her daily routine, including meditation, prayer, and setting an intention for the day. Building this connection takes time, but according to Karla it's incredibly rewarding and our birthright as women. She shares some tips that can help you get started on your own pleasure practice. Anything is possible, but nothing is promised. In her own personal pleasure practice, Karla discovered her calling in life. Today, she offers women everywhere her services as a Pleasure Practice Mentor with a mission of helping women reconnect with themselves. Karla shares a book that helped to inspire her at the start of her journey along with her personal mantra: “Anything is possible, but nothing is promised.” Karla goes on to discuss the importance of reclaiming your power as a woman and why we all need to truly connect with ourselves. If you're ready to start your journey, Karla has a tip to help you get started. This chat with Rosetta is enlightening, inspiring, and motivating. If you're ready to connect with yourself in a whole new way, you don't want to miss this episode of Happy Black Woman. Outline of this great episode [0:35] Rosetta's introduction of her guest, Karla Hampton. [1:40] Karla's mission and the work that she does. [3:15] What made Karla decide to follow this path? [6:24] Karla's wake-up call in her own journey and how she started. [8:27] The results of her first 30-Day Pleasure Practice. [11:51] Some action steps women can take today to get started. [15:32] Understanding the taboos that may come from getting to know your body. [20:32] Growing into self-love. [21:58] Reclaiming your power as a woman. [25:02] Karla explains her daily routine. [29:56] A book that inspired Karla along her journey. [31:23] Karla shares her personal mantra. [32:19] One tip Karla shares to help other women get started on their journey. [33:59] How you can connect with Karla. Resources & Links mentioned in this episode BOOK: “WomanCode” Karla Hampton's website: www.SensualBlackWoman.com
Leadership expert Carol Sankar joins us today for this episode of Happy Black Woman. Carol developed The Confidence Factor for Women in Leadership. Today she is a business consultant specializing in working with executives and high growth business models. But her story starts at the beginning of her career. Carol was working in the Real Estate world, lonely and wondering where the other women were. She found herself as the only woman in meetings with men, feeling outnumbered, ignored and underestimated. When she attempted to rally women to take action on opportunities, she was met with excuses, insecurity and a lack of confidence. It wasn't a lack of opportunities available for women, they simply lacked the confidence to try. How did Carol come to this conclusion and turn an epidemic into a business? Find out on this episode of Happy Black Woman. The study of 100 women unveiled the underlying problem Carol went to work collecting data and studying 100 women for four years. These were women in various positions and seasons of life. Some were operating successful businesses and developing high level concepts. Carol provided them with endless resources, opportunities and personal support, but out of 100 women, only one “made it.” Only one used the resources, followed the steps and seized the opportunity to get out of her job and move into her ideal business pursuit. What Carol found was 99 women with low expectations, willing to remain average. They did not expect to be successful. They were fearful of money, lived in fear of being judged, did not think they were equipped to compete in business realms, never thought they were ready, were continually getting ready to get ready, never sure enough and delayed making decisions until opportunities disappeared. Carol concluded that women were not positioning themselves for success. They were in the wrong room. Do you recognize your own voice in these excuses? Listen in to hear how you can be the one, and not part of the 99. Recognize time as currency Carol capitalized on the huge hole in confidence she found in her study. She recognized that the issue of confidence had to be addressed before women would move into positions of leadership. In this episode, Carol outlines action steps to recognize your excuses and begin competing in a world filled with opportunities. The first step is to recognize time as a form of currency. On the exchange rate, everyday you say “Tomorrow,” you are missing out. Confident women make confident decisions, and they make them fast. Carol began communicating to women that opportunities do not wait for you. People listened as she challenged the fear of failure as an excuse holding women back. She began empowering women to say yes to the moment, take a chance now, and stop waiting to be ready. Listen in as Carol addresses procrastination in all of its forms and exposes what holds you back from saying yes to your moment. Organizing profitable time before personal time During this conversation, Carol explains how she lives in her own confidence factor and steps up to opportunities. Her daily structure stems from all profitable things first, all personal things last. Carol's morning “Wheaties” are purposeful things and profitable circles. She starts her day early and intentionally. It is not that Carol's life is distraction-free, she just uses her time wisely and practices discipline. Listen to Carol's analysis of a typical day to see where your time, and therefore your currency, are going. She says that at the end of the day, “An unstructured entrepreneur is a broke one.” When the dream is to quit your job and run your business full time, people are tempted to cast out all structure. But structuring and scheduling your freedom keeps your business profitable. Carol offers tips on blocking out time for clients, and for yourself, to stay in control of your schedule. Be sure to listen! Embracing growth and going big The thing that makes Carol a Happy Black Woman is growth. She has seen it in herself and in her clients, and celebrates that the Confidence Factor is changing the business world for women. She knows you have to think big, but then you have to go big. As you take each step, stretch yourself, your mind, and abilities, you'll start to get a glimpse of what you are capable of. Carol offers advice to quit your job and embrace the process of transitioning into your dream business. She runs her business and her life at a high level, and surrounds herself with people who have already been there. If you want to quit your job, it's time you learn how to start that transition and create the mental space to focus on your business. If you don't have a leader or a plan to follow, you will never build your business. Listen to this episode to jumpstart your journey of becoming a confident woman, making confident decisions. Outline of this great episode [0:29] Rosetta's introduction of guest, Carol Sankar. [1:33] Carol's company and mission of The Confidence Factor for Women. [2:43] How Carol moved from Real Estate into starting this company. [5:16] The research Carol did to uncover the needs her business is now meeting. [8:16] Advice to move yourself into the percentage of successful entrepreneurs. [11:31] Learning to see time as currency. [14:17] How Carol organizes her day to live out her own confidence. [20:00] Structuring and scheduling your freedom as an entrepreneur. [24:10] What makes Carol a Happy Black Woman. [26:01] Carol's favorite book, mantra and inspiration. [31:36] Number one piece of advice for the woman at the beginning stages of entrepreneurship. [34:50] How to contact and learn more from Carol. Resources & Links mentioned in this episode BOOK: “The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success” Carol's website: www.theconfidencefactorforwomen.com
Today's guest is Jennifer LaFrance, a Happy Black Woman based out of New Orleans. Jennifer is a life coach and entrepreneur with the mission to encourage, inspire and educate women. Jennifer developed her mission while she journeyed into her best life, and now coaches others on their journeys. The “encourage” aspect of the mission is about offering support to women as they realize their value. Jennifer “inspires” by being an example herself, and connecting women to others who have traveled similar paths. The “education” piece teaches women how to tap into their inner strength and increase clarity and focus so they can live their best life. Sound like a mission you could get onboard with? This conversation paints a picture of how a life coach works with clients to understand the blocks preventing them from seeing their potential. Jennifer uncovers the mental tapes women play over and over in their heads of things they cannot do. She tackles these thoughts one chunk at a time in line with your goals. Listen in on lessons to change your way of thinking and start creating your ideal life. Moving from the sidelines of life, into the game. Jennifer knows that she is the reason she started her business. She found herself sitting on the sidelines of life, disillusioned and uninvolved in her own life. She had a job, but no fulfillment. In 2005, Hurricane Katrina caused her even more disillusionment. Jennifer lost all of her material possessions. She lived through the devastation of her whole world. Jennifer turned inward to thoughts of “Now what?” and “What is the purpose for my life?” She could not fully embrace herself, because she was so distant from who she truly was. Jennifer wrestled with these questions until 2011, when her company reorganized and eliminated her position. It was a force she could not control, but turned out to be the perfect time to embrace discovering what she wanted to do with her life. Jennifer's business was born out of wanting to help others embrace their life and get off the sidelines-before life forced them to. Have you ever found yourself watching from the sidelines when you should be in the game, doing the things you love? Be sure to tune into this episode of Happy Black Woman Drop the excuses and start daydreaming. Do you need to rediscover yourself and get back in the game? Jennifer says the key is simple: allow yourself to daydream. Remove the excuses, the details, the logistics and think about what you would if you could achieve whatever it is you are passionate about regardless of things like time and money. As risky and silly as it felt, Jennifer made a list of her dreams. She was only working part-time, feeling like financial security was more relevant that daydreaming. Today, Jennifer is able to offer examples of dreams realized that started out on that scribbled list. She worked day by day and sought help from outside her own brain. As someone who has tasted success, she recommends finding a life coach, or at least a friend who understands and supports you. An outside source can help you think through the barriers in your brain and help your dreams manifest. Having accountability helps Jennifer get unstuck and off the sidelines. Are you ready to make a list and put action to your dreams? Embracing your failures is the foundation to moving forward. Jennifer's business was born out of her own journey, but how does she stay the course? She keeps her day fluid, because she took the time to get to know herself, her best self. She found out that she's critical and hard on herself when operating on a tight schedule. She needs to be able to enjoy the process of becoming an entrepreneur. She used to work straight through the day, but now makes sure to inject creative thoughts into her day. Jennifer is full of inspirational messages, both to keep herself going and to encourage her clients. She reads, blogs, and writes to stay in line with her mission of encouraging, inspiring, and educating. Her mission dictates her day and her life. But it isn't all pretty. If you want to achieve, you must take a risk. You have to step outside your comfort zone, face your fears and embrace your failures. This episode will have you scribbling notes on how to use your failures as your best teachers. Jennifer looks back on years of asking why she was doing what she was doing instead of actually taking a risk and doing it. Check your gut and start SOMETHING today. In her journey of becoming an entrepreneur, Jennifer saw in herself and in her clients that we all look back. She advises to start today, because ”A year from now, you will wish you had started today.” So many of her clients and people in general say, “Oh, I'll get to it.” A year later they have not done a thing. Jennifer's “start” was the list of dreams she made. Sure, she was starting from the comfort of her own home, with relatively low risk, but putting pen to paper was the baby step that led to the realization of her dreams. Daydream. Figure out what makes your eyes light up. Rediscover what it is that makes you come alive and build from there. Jennifer found out that she thrives through connections. Her passion for connections led her to life coaching, connecting people with themselves again. She invites you to get back in touch with yourself and trust your gut, not just your logic. Are you ready to find out where your passions will lead you? Like Jennifer, they could lead you to being a Happy Black Woman. Outline of this great episode [0:31] Rosetta's introduction of Jennifer LaFrance. [1:44] Jennifer's mission and work as a life coach. [3:24] Why Jennifer started her business and how she helps others. [5:14] Motivating, empowering, and coaching clients. [6:59] Why having a life coach is key for successful entrepreneurs. [8:09] Simple steps to start your own journey. [9:09] How a successful business woman organizes her day and life [12:20] Books, and mantras that inspire Jennifer on her journey. [17:44] Action steps for when you get stuck. [18:35] How Jennifer takes time to enjoy the process and success of her lifestyle. [20:06] Advice for women who are just beginning to build a business. [23:01] How to stay in touch with Jennifer. Resources & Links mentioned in this episode BOOK: “If You Want to Walk on Water, You've Got to Get out of the Boat” by John Ortberg Jennifer's website: http://www.jaelynnconsulting.com -get your free gift to live with clarity and make room for creativity: “Three Day Declutter Challenge”
Today's guest is entrepreneur and fitness coach, Adriene Webster. Adriene's transparency from her own fitness journey has birthed a business helping women realize their best body and best life. Adriene focuses on helping any woman who may have let her own health take a backseat. Are you a woman who has developed some bad habits and do not feel as healthy as you know you could? Adriene's mission is to coach you back into the driver's seat of your own health. The first piece of her program is based on nutrition. The second piece is all about exercise. But the key is the accountability and check-ins available through her coaching. If you are stuck thinking there is no time for your own health when you've got everyone else to take care of, listen in to Adriene's journey of transforming her body and her life. Adriene's dedication to the process is worth hearing, on this episode of Happy Black Woman. The best business is born out of your own journey and transformation. What did Adriene's life look life prior to this transformation? She was 30 pounds heavier, out of shape, and ridden with the feeling that she was not her best self. Adriene was already familiar with the fitness industry. Even as a personal trainer and fitness group instructor, life got in the way. Adriene's health was pushed to the back burner. She gained weight, which led to depression, and sent her spiraling on a weight loss program roller coaster. Even though she knew how to eat and exercise, she wasn't. So, Adriene got a coach, which turned into her passion and purpose. Finding a coach and structured program worked for Adriene so well, that she turned it into a business. She's here today to help you realize that where you are now is not where you have to stay. This episode might be the inspiration you need to finally make those changes for yourself. Setting a goal sets you up for success. Adriene's journey to success was not based on magic or luck. She set goals and took action steps that can work for any woman who is just willing to start. Adriene's transformation came from figuring out where she was and where she wanted to be. She got specific, personal, and set up goals instead of haphazardly jumping on bandwagons. Adriene knows all too well that obstacles arise, but having those goals can keep you on track. Experience has taught her that if you keep the end in mind, you have done half the work already. Adriene doesn't leave listeners alone to dream up goals. Instead, she offers a goal setting workbook with mindset exercises and tracking tools to help you stay the course. This podcast includes a free gift from Adriene to start your goal setting! Join Adriene as she shares how she visualized her own summit and marked out a path to reach the top. Having accountability changes everything. You might be one of the women thinking, “I know, but I can do this on my own.” Adriene was a personal trainer when she realized she was not where she could be. She addresses the deeper, emotional aspects of eating and weight loss. As a coach, she objectively helps women sift through those aspects and offers support along the way. Her perspective changed when she knew someone was checking in on her. The accountability left her with no excuses. Name a weight loss program and she's tried it. Have you tried different approaches and methods? And failed? If you've tried a whole gamut, why not try another way? Adriene's transformation was not just losing the extra 30 pounds she was lugging around, it was adopting a lifestyle. These days, Adriene maintains habits to keep her fit and on track. Her days include planned time for cardio and weight training, food prep and planning. Listen in as Rosetta gets nosy about Adriene's schedule. If she can do it, you can, too. Be sure to listen to this conversation to implement your own transformation. Walk the talk to keep your business authentic. If you're looking for a coach that walks the talk, look no further. Adriene has learned to keep her fitness, nutrition, sleep and stress in balance, all while working full time, being a wife, having a family, and running a business. Do you need to schedule your exercise time? Or start packing healthy lunches? Or simply invest in a desktop calendar? If you want to start a business based on what you love, you've got to be willing to go on your own journey first. Adriene's credibility developed from her honest struggle, her imperfect attempts at weight loss, and reaching out for help. Listen to Adriene's best advice to organize your life and empower you to walk away from excuses and toward purpose and passion. The way Adriene attracts clients is to walk her talk. It does not mean you will journey perfectly or sail smoothly to your goals. Listen in for the motivation you might need to go for it, and inspire others along the way. This is just one gem in the goldmine of Happy Black Woman podcasts available this month! Outline of this great episode [0:29] Rosetta's introduction of today's guest, Adriene Webster.. [2:00] Adriene's mission and work for women's health and fitness. [2:49] How Adriene helps clients transform their fitness and life. [3:50] Why Adriene turned her own transformation into a business. [5:38] Adriene's personal transformation. [6:59] The first thing Adriene recommends to start the your journey. [8:33] Steps you can take to start the process of transformation. [9:17] A free gift offer from www.adrienewebsterfitness.com/freegift [10:15] The key to lasting change and seeing results in your fitness journey. [11:45] What difference does having a coach make? [13:01] Adriene addresses the woman who thinks she can do it all on her own. [15:09] Rosetta gets nosy about Adriene's habits to keep herself on track. [16:40] Typical cardio in Adriene's routine and recommendations to clients. [18:06] Eating habits to stay on track. [19:09] Walking the talk and staying balanced as a coach in all aspects of life. [20:36] Staying productive, meeting business goals and getting things done. [22:53] Addressing the excuse, “I don't have time.” [25:19] Inspiration and words to live by from Adriene's journey. [30:27] The number one piece of advice Adriene has for the Happy Black Woman community. [32:50] Adriene Webster's contact information and free gift offer. [33:44] Rosetta's recap of this month's gold mine of podcasts. Resources & Links mentioned in this episode BOOK: “Bible (New World Translation)” Adriene's website: www.adrienewebsterfitness.com Get your free gift from Adriene: www.adrienewebsterfitness.com/freegift
Today's guest is Zenovia Andrews. She's the founder of The Max Out Group, a company that focuses on connecting with like-minded super heroic female entrepreneurs to encourage them to live a life that's “maxed out”. Living her life's passion didn't come easy for Zenovia and today she dedicates her life to fulfilling her purpose of encouraging women not to settle for mediocrity. After overcoming many obstacles, Zenovia found success with the odds stacked against her. As she shares her inspiring story, it's clear that success requires sacrifice, determination, and hard work. Zenovia's conversation with Rosetta is filled with actionable tips that can help you max out your life. The road to success started out bumpy, but Zenovia persevered. Zenovia Andrews came from humble beginnings. She experienced abandonment and loss, giving her the motivation to pursue the best life. Though she was deeply loved as a child, she had to go without many things others take for granted. Through this, she found the determination to strive for more, work hard, and achieve her dreams. After spending 12 years working for major pharmaceutical company Pfizer, Zenovia realized she was settling for mediocrity and that there were bigger things in store for her. And so, The Max Out Group was born. Zenovia has built hugely successful businesses through many years of hard work and sacrifice. She shares with us why it's so important to understand sacrifice as you work towards creating your best life. Action steps to help you pave the way for success. It may seem overwhelming at times to think of the steps it takes to truly build success. According to Zenovia, it's all about vision. As she shares her action steps to help you get started, it's clear she has tremendous passion and purpose. Goals, she says, are the key to maintaining momentum - especially when it seems impossible. Zenovia allows provides insight into the evolution of her dreams and her purpose, evoking a feeling of hope and determination that it truly is possible for anyone willing to work hard. Why Zenovia believes hard work pays off. Zenovia delves into the steps to success in her journey; finding herself at the head of 2 multi-million dollar companies, with financial security and purpose. Success doesn't come easy. She gives us an idea of her typical day, which is filled with long hours, hard work, and passion for helping others. According to Zenovia, it's essential that you have clarity about your purpose, your niche, and the relevancy of what you do in order to find success. As she saw her purpose evolve, she maintained a strong focus on her goals in order to maintain the momentum she needed to max out her life. Winning on your level is the secret to Zenovia's success. As Zenovia's chat with Rosetta comes to a close, she shares her go-to books, personal mantra, and a little more inspiration to propel fellow-entrepreneurs into action. Her motivation and determination are sure to inspire. From humble beginnings to tremendous success, Zenovia maintains a focus on what truly matters to her and keeps her momentum strong in order to continue to crush every goal she sets. Listen in to find out about her very special gift offer to Happy Black Woman listeners. Rosetta's discussion with Zenovia Andrews is one you don't want to miss. Outline of this great episode [0:41] Rosetta's introduction of her guest, Zenovia Andrews. [1:51] How Rosetta met Zenovia. [2:22] Zenovia's mission and the work that she does. [3:54] What inspired Zenovia to create The Max Out Group and do this work as a calling. [8:00] How Zenovia persevered in spite of having the odds stacked against her. [8:36] Some action steps that support Zenovia's maxed out lifestyle. [12:33] Tips on how to get started and gain momentum? [15:04] What does a typical day look like for you? [20:24] Zenovia explains the sacrifices that must be made on your path to success. [22:13] How Zenovia fits in quality time with her husband and family in her busy week. [25:14] A favorite book that inspired Zenovia along her journey. [26:47] Do you have a personal mantra or quote you live by? [28:10] A tip for women who want to create their own business. [30:11] How you can connect with Zenovia Andrews. Resources & Links mentioned in this episode BOOK: “Scaling Up” BOOK: “Click Millionaires” Zenovia Andrews's website: http://www.zenoviaandrews.com/ SPECIAL OFFER FOR HAPPY BLACK WOMAN LISTENERS: Free copy of “All Systems Go”
Today's conversation with Rosetta brings insight and revelation from Reverend Jenenne Macklin. She is a licensed clinical therapist with a master's degree in social work, now working as the Spirit and Riches coach. During her time in the field, Reverend Jenenne helped countless people change their lives, but found a serious lack of self value in women. The Reverend had every reason to not value herself, either. She journeyed through debt, being fired, and desperately attempting to regain control of her life. Jenenne speaks with authority because she worked her way up from the bottom. She began her life's work of instilling in women that who you are brings the value to every role you are in. Listen in as Jenenne propels you into making peace with your money by changing your mindset. [Tweet "How to Transform Your Relationship with Money with @JenenneM"] How you think about yourself impacts how you handle your money. Reverend Jenenne's mission is, “To empower women to know their value, to impact and transform their relationship with money.” She started out with a mixed up relationship with money. Jenenne, not understanding the implications, started accruing credit card debt early on in college. Much to her surprise, the debt and irresponsible choices stayed with her and her credit score. She spent time evading creditors and wondering how to regain control over her finances and her life. Jenenne began to see patterns of thinking and believing but could not seem to change herself or her clients. Untangling self worth from what you do to who you are connected Jenenne's spirituality to her business of coaching. Can you relate? Listen in and let Jenenne's journey motivate you! Moving from fear to faith. Do you think you're the only entrepreneur with debt? Or the only one with habits of spending money on shoes? Do you think no one else is struggling with historical residue or an ingrained idea of how things are “supposed” to be? Jenenne recommends similar action steps that she took to reboot her thinking. Hear how she involved her spirituality in pursuing business ownership. She moved herself away from a victim mentality to confidently controlling her money. Jenenne offers proven prosperity principles to help you make peace with money. She picked up the phone and called her creditors instead of running from them. Even though it was scary, she made a budget. She asked herself, and will ask you, “Do I want a different kind of life? Or these shoes?” Learn how Reverend Jenenne put this plan into action on this episode. [Tweet "Reframing the stories in your head about money and self-worth, on this episode"] Strategies to stay in alignment with your values and move forward. Whether you are a first generation entrepreneur or not, you will be met with resistance as you move forward. Reverend Jenenne rediscovered her value, but not without obstacles to overcome. She examined what voices she was surrounded by and if she needed to leave some circles of people behind. Are you in a conversation of support? Do you only hear discouragement? Jenenne knows first-hand that you cannot survive this journey alone. She advises simple but powerful strategies to keep you in line with the changes you'll need to make. On this episode, Reverend Jenenne walks us through the strategies she implements daily, from waking in the morning until she falls asleep at night. She offers a fancy way of saying, “No” when discouraging voices leak in. Listen in for ways you can implement lasting habits to daily set yourself up for success. Bringing the missing pieces to your business. How did Jenenne find that missing piece and connect her spirituality to her business? Rosetta ends this conversation with Jenenne's best advice and an anthem to know yourself and your value. The shift to understanding her own value changed Jenenne's path. She is ready for you to change your path, too. She shares resources, authors, books, websites and endless help for your journey. Jenenne divulges what inspires her and how she stands her ground in continued prosperity. You'll find wisdom and inspiration from Reverend Jenenne's journey on this episode of Happy Black Woman. [Tweet "Release yourself from historical residue that impacts your money choices, with @JenenneM"] Outline of this great episode: [0:30] Rosetta's welcome and introduction to this episode with Reverend Jenenne Macklin. [1:50] The mission and work of Spirit and Riches coach, Reverend Jenenne. [3:10] Jenenne's journey from licensed clinical therapist to making the empowering women her business and life's work. [7:30] Disassembling the way we're “supposed” to approach debt, money, and starting a business. [8:13] Practical action steps for entrepreneurs, who are caught up in debt, to regain control. [12:46] How Jenenne advises her clients to overcome obstacles that arise in entrepreneurship. [16:06] Breaking free from the historical residue that influences your choices and decisions. [17:34] Quieting the voices of disagreement and finding support for your path. [20:05] Standing your ground in prosperity. [21:01] Strategies Jenenne uses to stay in alignment with her values. [25:08] The books and resources that inspire Reverend Jenenne. [27:01] Connecting your spirituality to your business. [29:26] Jenenne's best advice for women incorporating who they are into their business. [32:50] Jenenne's website and resources. Resources mentioned in this episode: BOOKS: “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill Lisa Nichols http://motivatingthemasses.com Joseph Campbell http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/20105.Joseph_Campbell Edgar Cayce http://www.edgarcayce.org Abraham Hicks',http://www.abraham-hicks.com/lawofattractionsource/index.php Reverend Jenenne's website: http://spiritandriches.com Tweets you can use to share this episode: [Tweet "“My mission is to empower women to know their value, to impact and transform their relationship with money” - @JenenneM"] [Tweet "“Know. Your. Value.” - @JenenneM"] Thanks for listening! Please subscribe, rate and review… Thanks so much for joining us on the podcast this week! Be sure to leave me a note in the comments below with your #1 takeaway from the show. Don't forget to subscribe to the show to get FREE automatic notifications when each new episode goes live! 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On today's show Rosetta chats with Patrice Grell Yursik, founder of Afrobella. She's a passionate entrepreneur and part of the Happy Black Woman tribe. With a flourishing business celebrating its 10th year, Patrice is the perfect person to share tips and inspiration to help you follow your passion and purpose. With a background in creative writing, Patrice spent many years working for large newspapers. While she enjoyed her work, she came face to face with a noticeable void in the media - one shaped like her. Patrice sought positivity in the media and so she decided to pursue her passion and create Afrobella. She's been featured in Essence, Ebony, Glamour, and many other major media outlets. In her chat with Rosetta, Patrice offers great insight into how she turned her passion into a full time job. [Tweet "How Patrice Grell Yursik Took @Afrobella From a Part-Time Passion to a Full-Time Business"] The evolution of Afrobella from part-time passion pursuit to full-time career. Patrice was working full-time in a career she enjoyed. But when she noticed what was truly lacking in the media, Patrice was inspired to take action. With the urging of a close friend, she came up with her brand and (thanks in part to her husband) the name “Afrobella” was born. Patrice's mission: to empower women to love themselves, live their best lives, and embrace their beauty on their own terms. From its whimsical beginnings, Afrobella has truly evolved into a flourishing business and to go-to source for beauty tips. Called by many as the “Godmother of Brown Beauty Blogging” Patrice has become a public figure and has received accolades for her work including being included in the list of Ebony Magazine's Power 100. Since its launch 10 years ago, Afrobella.com has seen over 11 million page views. Finding your niche and letting it shine. Although Patrice didn't start out as a beauty expert, her platform and brand have certainly established her as one. She shares how you too can find your niche and let your skills shine. It's all about believing in yourself and going after your passion with everything you've got. Patrice explains how the quote, “Be the change you wish to see in the world.” has played a key role in her journey. After starting Afrobella in 2006, Patrice was able to quit her job just 3 years later. As she shares her inspiring journey, she points out that if she can do it, you can too. A perpetual act of rising to the occasion. As Patrice takes us through the process of launching her website and eventually becoming a public figure, she shares insight into the steps you can take to turn your passion into a career. Patrice delves into the process of establishing yourself as an expert in your field and how that can translate into much success - in any niche. As she strives to balance a busy business and family life, Patrice uses productivity tools to keep herself focused and makes sure to start her day centered and grounded. Embrace a spirit of community instead of a spirit of competition. In her journey as Afrobella, Patrice Grell Yursik certainly faced obstacles, fear, and uncertainty. In spite of - and sometimes because of - those things, she found success in a career that fulfills her and brings her happiness. As Rosetta closes her conversation with Patrice, they discuss the importance of maintaining balance, finding inspiration around you, and following your passion - even when it scares you. Patrice's story is the stuff happy black women are made of. She's found her way to happiness - and you can too. You'll find inspiration and empowerment on this episode of Happy Black Woman. [Tweet "It's important to embrace a spirit of community instead of a spirit of competition." ~ @Afrobella"] Outline of this great episode: [0:37] Rosetta's introduction of her guest, Patrice Grell Yursik. [2:02] Rosetta's mission of empowering women to love themselves, live their best lives, and embrace their beauty on their own terms through her website Afrobella. [4:01] How Rosetta and Patrice met. [6:16] The inspiration behind her brand and how she left her job to pursue her passion. [11:00] Afrobella's evolution from a personal blog to a full time business. [16:15] Patrice's advice to aspiring bloggers and entrepreneurs. [22:07] How to establish yourself as an expert in your niche. [23:02] What are some strategies you incorporate that keep you focused and productive? [28:59] How Patrice maintains balance in her life and makes time for her personal priorities. [31:21] What makes Patrice a Happy Black Woman? [35:03] Do you have a favorite book that has inspired you in your journey? [37:44] What's your number one piece of advice for other women starting their journey? [40:49] How to connect with Patrice. Resources mentioned in this episode: Wunderlist Evernote BOOK: “Stephen King: On Writing” BOOK: “The Four Agreements” BOOK: “Bullshit or Fertilizer” Patrice's website: www.Afrobella.com Tweets you can use to share this episode: [Tweet "How Patrice Grell Yursik Took @Afrobella From a Part-Time Passion to a Full-Time Business"] [Tweet ""A lot of opportunity comes from being first and being best." - @Afrobella"] Tweet ""It's important to embrace a spirit of community instead of a spirit of competition." ~ @Afrobella"] Thanks for listening! Please subscribe, rate and review… Thanks so much for joining us on the podcast this week! Be sure to leave me a note in the comments below with your #1 takeaway from the show. Don't forget to subscribe to the show to get FREE automatic notifications when each new episode goes live! Subscribe via iTunes (for iPhone) Subscribe via Stitcher (for Android) Finally, please consider leaving an honest rating and review for The Happy Black Woman Podcast on iTunes or Stitcher to help spread the word about the show and help more black women find our tribe! Join the Happy Black Woman Facebook Tribe: Join our Happy Black Woman Facebook Tribe to connect and network with like-minded women from around the world! Click here to request access to our private Facebook group.
Happy February! Here on the Happy Black Woman Podcast we're celebrating Black History Month, a perfect opportunity to acknowledge the incredible achievements of Black women business owners in our community. Today's episode outlines exactly what you can expect on the podcast this month and YOU can get involved in spreading the good news about our special Black History Month Series: 29 Black Women Entrepreneurs! [Tweet "Join Rosetta Thurman and 29 black women entrepreneurs to celebrate Black History Month"] Thank you for your support and your interest in the Happy Black Woman tribe, and please do what you can to share this great month of interviews from 29 successful black women entrepreneurs Rosetta will be featuring on her show. Outline of this great episode: [0:24] Rosetta's welcome and introduction to this month's podcast theme. [0:45] Why a special series for Black History Month? [1:21] What you can expect from this special interview series. [1:58] How you can participate and benefit most. [2:33] Would you help Rosetta share these episodes or leave a rating or review? Resources mentioned in this episode: Leave a rating or review on iTunes Thanks for listening! Please subscribe, rate and review… Thanks so much for joining us on the podcast this week! Be sure to leave me a note in the comments below with your #1 takeaway from the show. Don't forget to subscribe to the show to get FREE automatic notifications when each new episode goes live! Subscribe via iTunes (for iPhone) Subscribe via Stitcher (for Android) Finally, please consider leaving an honest rating and review for The Happy Black Woman Podcast on iTunes or Stitcher to help spread the word about the show and help more black women find our tribe! Join the Happy Black Woman Facebook Tribe: Join our Happy Black Woman Facebook Tribe to connect and network with like-minded women from around the world! Click here to request access to our private Facebook group.
Today's guest on The Happy Black Woman podcast is Shana Campbell, a Certified Creative Love Coach. What is that? You're going to find out on this podcast as Rosetta chats with Shana about how they met, why Shana began a business coaching others on the topic of love, and how she has helped Rosetta with counsel about her own love life. It's a very intriguing episode that you won't want to miss, so be sure to set aside the time, grab a hot drink, and get ready to take some notes. Why loving relationships begin with self love. Imagine what a relationship would be like if both people in the relationship were insecure, each one always thinking that the other was criticizing them, or thinking badly about them. Some of you don't have to imagine, it's the relationship you're living in right now. Shana Campbell believes that every healthy relationship starts with a healthy dose of self love in both individuals. Nobody is really ready to love another person until they are confident and whole within themselves, accepting and loving who they are. Find out more on this episode. Did you know that your love life is something you can consciously work on? It's true! You don't have to sit around waiting for that right person to come along, you can be consciously working toward it. How? By becoming your very best, learning to accept yourself and be confident in who you are created to be. That way when “Mr. Right” does come along, you'll be ready to engage fully without the fear and insecurity that have held you back for so long. Learn to make the most of the time you're single rather than regretting it. The world needs you to be yourself. You were placed on the earth by God to be a blessing in very specific ways that are unique to you. There's nobody else like you and nobody else who can do what you're supposed to do. By becoming healthy and whole within yourself, you'll be able to fulfill that role. Love Coach Shana Campbell says that you'll also be ready to take on the challenge of a romantic relationship once you reach that point of wholeness, which is an added bonus! Find out more about Shana and her love coaching practice, on this episode of Happy Black Woman. You can't be successful in business when you don't accept yourself. Your business will be an outgrowth of who you are as a person. It's going to reflect you for everyone to see. What kind of business do you think you're going to build if you are always criticizing and berating yourself? It's vital that you get your inner self healed and whole so that the business you want and the life you desire are possible on the highest of levels. Today's guest, Shana Campbell talks about that a whole lot more, on this episode. Outline of this great episode [0:30] Rosetta's introduction of the theme of this episode and her guest today, Shana Campbell. [2:11] Shana's mission and the work that she does. [3:20] Why loving relationships begin with self love. [4:52] How Shana moved into running her own business. [11:46] Shana's understanding of visualization and “the game.” [21:52] What else can a person do beyond visualizing? [29:40] One of Shana's favorite books. [32:00] Shana's personal mantra. [35:00] Shana's #1 tip to women wanting to start a business. [36:39] How to get in touch with Shana. Resources & Links mentioned in this episode BOOK: In the Meantime www.ShanaLoveCoaching.com http://shanalovecoaching.com/free/ - Get your free love assessment for 2016
One of the most challenging areas of life, much less running a business, is the area of finances. There are so many options when it comes to income sources, investment accounts, and business opportunities. If you've had trouble getting your financial house in order, you're in for a treat because today's episode features Tiffany Aliche, the Budgetnista! Rosetta and Tiffany have a great conversation that shares Tiffany's journey but also reveals some very basic but powerful financial steps you can take to make more of your money right now. You won't want to miss this one. [Tweet "Automation is the new discipline when it comes to getting ahead financially"] Building a vision for what would become a dream. The steps from where you are to where you dream you could be are not fast and they are not without pain. Tiffany Aliche's dream to become a financial mentor wasn't even fully formed when she first started helping people with her finances. She was a teacher and would often have conversations with the parents of her students about financial issues. When the non-profit school where she worked laid her off because of budget cuts, Tiffany decided that she should make a business doing the financial training that she loved. On this episode you're going to hear her story of coming up through the ranks and working hard to become the Budgetnista. When you first get started, finances are slim. Tiffany Aliche started her business from her laptop, living in her parent's home at the age of 29. Her goal was to get out on her own and see the fruits of her labors in a thriving business. Soon she moved into a house where she paid $500 for a room each month. Over time, she's grown her business to fully support her, to provide for paid, full time staff, and to bring some virtual help onto her team as well. Her speaking fees, which started at $100 are now over $10,000. You'll hear a lot of hard work and patience expressed, but even more, the determination of a happy black woman who would not let her dream die. [Tweet "Inconvenient money is the money that gets saved. Make it hard to get your cash"] How you can begin to achieve your financial goals this year. One of the highlights of this episode is Tiffany's practical approach to saving and investing hard earned cash. In this episode she shares 2 very easy things you can do to maximize your savings now and make it harder for you to tap into that savings for unneeded things. She's also going to show you the power of multiple bank accounts, and the importance of having an online bank account. You'll get so much value out of her financial tips, so make sure you listen. The #1 tip for Happy Black Women who want to start their own business. If you've got a dream you want to pursue, a business idea that you want to put into action, there's only one piece of advice the Budgetnista has for you. Get started. You can't wait for everything to be in order before you act, because it never will be in order. You've got to fail fast. Get the mistakes made and learn from them. Then you'll be ready to move past them to greater areas of success in a much shorter time frame. Tiffany's passion comes out loud and clear as she talks about the importance of getting started, so take some time to invest in yourself by listening to this episode. [Tweet "The #1 tip for Happy Black Woman who want to start a business, on this episode"] Outline of this great episode: [0:24] Rosetta's introduction of her guest, Tiffany Aliche. [1:40] Tiffany's description of what she does and what her mission is. [3:20] How Tiffany built her dream and eventually an online empire. [7:35] How Tiffany kept going when finances were slim. [12:00] Raising rates and seeing greater success. [15:23] Specific action steps to help you live your dreams this year. [21:46] How does Tiffany keep her life organized and effective? [27:39] Tiffany's favorite book. [29:15] Personal mantras Tiffany is following this year. [32:27] The #1 tip for Happy Black Women who want to start a business. [34:41] How to connect with Tiffany. Resources mentioned in this episode: www.LiveRicherChallenge.net - The Free Online Financial challenge. http://thebudgetnista.com/ www.MagnifyMoney.com www.Internships.com BOOK: The Alchemist Tweets you can use to share this episode: [Tweet "Live in joy. Despite the difficulties in life or business, find the joy in the moments"] [Tweet "Fail fast. Succeed faster. You're going to mess up, so just accept it and get started with the journey"] Thanks for listening! Please subscribe, rate and review… Thanks so much for joining us on the podcast this week! Be sure to leave me a note in the comments below with your #1 takeaway from the show. Don't forget to subscribe to the show to get FREE automatic notifications when each new episode goes live! Subscribe via iTunes (for iPhone) Subscribe via Stitcher (for Android) Finally, please consider leaving an honest rating and review for The Happy Black Woman Podcast on iTunes or Stitcher to help spread the word about the show and help more black women find our tribe! Join the Happy Black Woman Facebook Tribe: Join our Happy Black Woman Facebook Tribe to connect and network with like-minded women from around the world! Click here to request access to our private Facebook group.
Learn from your mistakes. How many times have you heard that tired old phrase? But the truth is that it's a very true phrase that describes why those who succeed in business DO succeed. They make mistakes. Nothing wrong with that. But they learn from them, they grow from them, and they don't make them again. That's the message you'll hear loud and clear from Melinda Emerson, the Small Biz Lady who has made million dollar business hum along on the back of her own mistakes. She's turned those mistakes into lessons that she now uses to help other women entrepreneurs start the business that will give them happiness and freedom. Join Rosetta on this episode as she and Melinda chat about business, life, regrets, and the will to succeed. Trusting yourself when nobody else will. If you want to start a business that can create the lifestyle you want, you have to have thick skin at times. Not everyone is going to support you. Sometimes the ones who should be cheering you on the most will be the ones who are the most negative about your dreams. Are you ready for that? Are you able to trust yourself, your ability, and your desire to make yourself succeed to the point that you can keep going when everyone says you're crazy? That's what Melinda Emerson had to do and her persistence has paid off with a million dollar business. Hear her story of pain and triumph, on this episode of Happy Black Woman. Don't start a business by quitting your job! Your dream is not enough to justify you quitting your day job. That's one of the messages Melinda Emerson shouts from the rooftops. You've got to take care of yourself and your family while you build that business dream. It's typically going to be a side hustle you do in your spare time while you keep on working at the job you want to leave. It's how you do things wisely, securely, and in a way that enables you to learn your lessons and make your mistakes while you have something secure to fall back on. Hear more of Melinda's practical advice for starting your own business on this episode. You don't have to be everywhere on social media. You just have to be in the right places. What ARE the right places? The social media sites that are right for you are the social media sites where your ideal customers hang out. It doesn't matter if it's your favorite or the one you hate. If it's where your ideal customers are, you've got to be there. In this episode, the small biz lady, Melinda Emerson shares how she learned that principle and how it's leveraged her business into a million dollar brand that has become well known and very successful. You'll love her practical approach. You never lose in business. You either win, or you learn. That's Melinda Emerson's favorite mantra for her business and that attitude of learning from mistakes has carried her to the heights of success. She's made all kinds of mistakes, which she's outlined in her book, “Becoming Your Own Boss in 12 Months,” and it's those mistakes that have given her the expertise and education to turn the corner toward success and help others build their businesses without making the same mistakes. If you take the time to listen to this episode you'll see why Melinda is The Small Biz Lady, so be sure you do it. Outline of this great episode: [0:29] Rosetta's welcome to this episode and her introduction of her guest, Melinda Emerson. [1:22] The work Melinda does and the mission she's about. [3:39] The turning point that got Melinda into helping other business people. [11:00] Trusting yourself when nobody else will. [14:05] Why you have to be steadfast and determined. [16:44] Advice to those who are looking to launch a business this year. [20:44] How Melinda runs a productive business. [26:26] Why “team” is one of the most important words in Melinda's business. [31:00] A favorite book or two from Melinda. [34:40] A personal mantra or motto. [35:47] The #1 tip for the Happy Black Women community. Resources mentioned in this episode: www.SucceedAsYourOwnBoss.com - Melinda's blog Becoming Your Own Boss In 12 Months,- Melinda's book Quintessence Group Small Business Lady BOOK: The E-Myth Revisited BOOK: The Salt Eaters The Color Purple on Broadway Thanks for listening! Please subscribe, rate and review… Thanks so much for joining us on the podcast this week! Be sure to leave me a note in the comments below with your #1 takeaway from the show. Don't forget to subscribe to the show to get FREE automatic notifications when each new episode goes live! Subscribe via iTunes (for iPhone) Subscribe via Stitcher (for Android) Finally, please consider leaving an honest rating and review for The Happy Black Woman Podcast on iTunes or Stitcher to help spread the word about the show and help more black women find our tribe! Join the Happy Black Woman Facebook Tribe: Join our Happy Black Woman Facebook Tribe to connect and network with like-minded women from around the world! Click here to request access to our private Facebook group.
The typical meaning of the phrase “Happy Hour” is the time just after work when everyone goes to a bar or restaurant to blow off some stress after the workday. But Rosetta's guest today, Jullien Gordon, specializes in helping entrepreneurs and business professionals live every hour as a happy hour, especially in the work hours of the day. He believes that the way to be your best and make the most of your work life is to employ strategies that help you see your work and life through new eyes. On this episode you're going to hear Jullien explain what he means by “happy hours” and how he recommends you create them every day. You won't want to miss this! Jullien's lessons about workaholism and proper boundaries. Before Jullien Gordon was married, he worked long hours every day. It was part of his regular routine and he loved it. But after he married, his wife helped him see that what he'd really done was build habits of workaholism that no longer served him well in his new life. When a baby was added to the mix he realized quickly that things had to change. Jullien's added boundaries to his work day now, even though he's an entrepreneur. He makes room for his family and fosters those relational moments that are so necessary for a healthy relationship. On this episode of Happy Black Woman, Jullien shares two daily practices that keep his marriage tight and his priorities balanced, so be sure you listen. Why you need boundaries for your work. Very few occupations or niches require a true “emergency” response (Doctors, nurses, etc.). You can and you should set boundaries to limit your focus on work activities. Not only will it provide you time to decompress and get the rest your body and soul need, it will also enable you to spend much needed time on hobbies or relationships that could be lacking. On this episode you're going to hear how Jullien Gordon found that balance for himself and how he advises clients to do the same thing in their busy lives Get help for your business before you think you need it. Yes, adding more to the payroll is an additional expense. But if you do a proper search and find the right person, they will add money to your income rather than take money from your profits. In this episode Jullien Gordon shares how he reached out to his existing community to find just the right person to add to his team as a Virtual Assistant. It was a creative way that brought him very qualified applicants and enabled him to be freed up to create even more value and revenue for his company. You'll want to hear this one. How you can increase revenue without adding one customer. You might think it's done through raising your prices, but you'd be wrong. On this episode of the Happy Black Woman Podcast, Jullien Gordon shares how he increased his revenue significantly without adding one client to his portfolio. It was a simple service that he was able to add to what he was already doing that gave tremendous additional value to his existing clients and increased his bottom line. It's an ingenious idea that you'll only hear on this episode of the podcast. Outline of this great episode: [0:29] Rosetta's welcome to this episode and her introduction of her guest, Jullien Gordon. [1:35] Jullien's mission in life: Increasing happy hours. [4:22] How Jullien started his business in the first place. [8:15] Getting past workaholism and maximizing life. [10:02] Specific things Jullien did to grow his business. [12:05] The power of hiring help to run your business and maximize your time. [14:39] How Jullien went about creating products for existing clients. [18:19] Why you need to create boundaries for your work. [20:43] Jullien typical work day [25:20] Balancing work with marriage and family life. [29:08] What makes Jullien happy? [30:55] Jullien's book recommendation. [32:06] A personal mantra Jullien lives by. [33:50] Jullien's #1 tip to women wanting to start a business. [35:29] How to connect with Jullien. About Jullien Gordon: Jullien Gordon has a passion for creating tools and experiences for self-discovery. When he is not speaking, coaching, or writing, he's all about helping people experience MORE HAPPY HOURS in their lives. This is how he measures success. As Founder of The Focused Group, Jullien is bringing mastermind groups to the masses through his monthly group goal-setting and accountability meetings. After battling with workaholism during the early stages of his first company, he began exploring and experimenting with new ways to work. As a former soccer player and coach, he believes that life is a team sport, but most people are ambitious and alone. Jullien has come to recognize that community and accountability are the holy grail to success, not effort, and when you surround yourself with a strong team, you can have success without the stress, sacrifice, and solitude. On a more personal note, he loves taking walks with his wife, swimming with his daughter, and hosting potlucks with his family and friends. He has been keeping a daily gratitude journal for the past 5 years that documents more moments like these and he is proud of the life he has already created and continues to create. Resources mentioned in this episode: http://julliengordon.com/nyg - Get Jullien's free New Year's Guide for 2016 31 Days to Reset Your Life - www.31DayReset.com BOOK: The Perfect Power Within You by Jack Ensign Addington BOOK: The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
Happy New Year! All of us here at HappyBlackWoman.com are excited about what's in store for you in 2016. It's time. Time to grow your life, grow your business, and enrich your experiences in so many ways, and we're here to help you do that this year. In this mini-episode, Rosetta has two valuable free gifts for you - the 2015-2016 Annual Review/Preview Reflection Guide to help you assess 2015 and make the most of 2016 and the Life Mapping Workbook. Be sure to listen so you can hear how to get these two fabulous resources! You're also going to get a sneak peek into the 2016 goals for the podcast, so be sure to listen. Outline of this mini-episode: [0:24] Rosetta's focus for this show: Gratitude. [1:07] Milestones from season 1 of the podcast. [1:30] A couple of great gifts for you to start 2016. [2:54] What to expect in season 2 of the podcast. Resources mentioned in this episode: Request information about podcast sponsorship: support@happyblackwoman.zendesk.com Grab your free reflection guide: www.ReviewPreviewGuide.com The Life Mapping Workbook: www.LifeMappingWorkbook.com Thanks for listening! Please subscribe, rate and review… Thanks so much for joining us on the podcast this week! Be sure to leave me a note in the comments below with your #1 takeaway from the show. Don't forget to subscribe to the show to get FREE automatic notifications when each new episode goes live! Subscribe via iTunes (for iPhone) Subscribe via Stitcher (for Android) Finally, please consider leaving an honest rating and review for The Happy Black Woman Podcast on iTunes or Stitcher to help spread the word about the show and help more black women find our tribe! Join the Happy Black Woman Facebook Tribe: Join our Happy Black Woman Facebook Tribe to connect and network with like-minded women from around the world! Click here to request access to our private Facebook group.
Today's guest, Jesse Krieger is an amazing example of the kind of life you can live if you strategically take action to make it happen. His publishing company, Lifestyle Entrepreneur Press is based around his personal success as a best-selling author, with his book hitting #1 in the Personal Success category on Amazon. He's leveraged his success to help other entrepreneurs who desire to build a brand or business around a book get that book published and ranking high on the best-seller charts as well. In this conversation with Rosetta Thurman, Jesse shares some of his story and practical tips about heading into a life that allows you the freedom and income to pursue your dreams. You won't want to miss this! [Tweet "You can leverage a book to build your entire business. Find out how on this episode"] You can build a brand and a business around a book, and Jesse Krieger is the man to show you how! Even if you wrote a best-selling book that would likely not be the means by which you'd gain a ton of income. But the content of the book does a number of things for you. #1 - it enables you to have a “business card” that is a book, a way for you to demonstrate your expertise in a tangible publication that people naturally respect. #2 - it lays the groundwork for you to build additional content off the topics you cover in the book, anything from online courses and video sets, to live events and speaking engagements. There's no limit to the ways you can leverage a book, if you know how to do it the right way. Today's guest, Jesse Krieger, is the man to help you do it, so be sure you listen to this episode of the Happy Black Woman! Start rough and improve as you go. Jesse Krieger may be a best-selling author and a publisher, but his success didn't happen on the first take. In this conversation he tells how he created a small, partly finished book, then modified it by adding more content, then continued to tweak and update it as he went along. That enabled him to get something finished and continue to build. Alongside his improvements, his business was growing at the same time. It's a philosophy he subscribes to and suggests that you follow. Don't wait for your “thing” to be perfect before you release it. Get it out there and make improvements as you go. That's how you learn what your market wants and needs and it's how you get yourself rolling toward creating the great things you have in mind. Learn Jesse's thoughts on this important issue by listening to this episode. Have you heard of the “big rocks' philosophy of goal setting? Jesse Krieger refers to an illustration his mentor taught him that uses a jar, large rocks, small rocks, sand, and water. It's a great way to conceptualize how you should go about prioritizing things in your life and business. The original illustration was taught by Stephen Covey and it continues to be a guiding principle for many entrepreneurs and business people today. You can see the illustration in this video, or even better, listen to this episode of the Happy Black Woman Podcast to hear how today's guest, Jesse Krieger, uses the concept to move his publishing empire forward month by month. You want freedom? Then you'll have to develop structure in your life. That may sound a bit counterintuitive, but it's actually very logical. Freedom is like any other goal, you have to put things in place that will enable it to happen. You can't just live a free flowing life and expect your desired freedom to come about. Jesse Krieger, today's guest, suggests that you need to put the systems and tools in place that enable you to manage the demands of life in a way that affords you the freedom of lifestyle and time that you want. If you don't, you'll be at the beck and call of whatever comes your way. Find out how Jesse does it on this episode. [Tweet "If you want lifestyle freedom it's going to require structure. Get the details on this episode"] The top 3 resources you need to publish a book this year! Today's guest, Jesse Krieger, is a publisher and is eager to see more and more entrepreneurs get their books written and published. Toward that end he shares a powerful free resource with the Happy Black Woman community in this episode. It's “The Top 3 Resources You Need In Order to Publish A Book This Year!” Jesse's a take-action kind of guy and this list is designed with that same mentality and approach. You can get a copy of this great author resource by listening to this episode! [Tweet "The top 3 tools you need in order to publish a book this year ~ from Jesse Krieger"] Outline of this great episode: [0:24] Rosetta's introduction of her guest, Jesse Krieger [3:05] The “mission” Jesse is on: To create a new type of publishing company, helping entrepreneurs become bestselling authors. [3:56] How Jesse does his work to make authors successful. [6:54] How a book can become a cornerstone of your business and brand. [8:19] The inspiration behind what Jesse is doing in his business. [11:08] The power behind getting a rough version started and improving as you go. [12:54] How does Jesse get things done and stay productive? [18:10] Creating your own structure that provides the freedom you want. [18:49] What freedom looks like for Jesse. [21:08] Jesse's goals for the next 5 years. [24:14] The people who keep Jesse inspired. [28:17] Jesse's favorite books. [30:07] A mantra Jesse uses in his life. [32:23] The #1 tip Jesse gives entrepreneurs wanting to build a brand around a book. [36:39] How you can get in touch with Jesse or find out more about him. Resources mentioned in this episode: Jesse's website: http://www.jessekrieger.com/ BOOK: Atlas Shrugged Lifestyle Entrepreneur Press Jesse's gift: The Top 3 Resources To Publish http://bit.ly/top3resourcesforauthors Tweets you can use to share this episode: [Tweet "How to build your business or brand around a book, with Jesse Krieger"] [Tweet "Happy Black Woman is on the air, with expert guest, Jesse Krieger"] Thanks for listening! Please subscribe, rate and review… Thanks so much for joining us on the podcast this week! Be sure to leave me a note in the comments below with your #1 takeaway from the show. Don't forget to subscribe to the show to get FREE automatic notifications when each new episode goes live! 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Today's guest is Crystal Porter, Ph.D. She is the founder of Mane Insights, a company that gives tailored hair care advice, from a scientific perspective, to women with hair problems. Dr. Porter spent the majority of her 14-year career at L'Oreal, USA where she managed the Physics Laboratory and Consumer Insights teams to study the biophysical characteristics of hair and pigmented skin within different ethnic groups around the world and to understand behaviors that are related to consumers' experiences. During the past eleven years, she has shared knowledge about ethnic hair to fellow scientists and the public at national and international venues. She has also contributed to L'Oreal's global classification of curl in hair and has authored numerous papers, presentations and book chapters on hair straightening and ethnic hair. Her conversation with Rosetta today is full of insights! [Tweet "What I'm doing now, I feel good about having my daughters watching." - Dr. Crystal Porter"] The road to becoming an entrepreneur was motivated by asking the deeper questions. Dr. Crystal Porter was working full time in a very intense role for a large company. Even though she often told her superiors that she couldn't continue to put in the hours that she was being required to give, they didn't seem to understand or even care. Her life continued to be a stressful and her time with family was getting more and more scarce. She had to ask herself the deeper questions about what she wanted from life and what was important to her. That time of questioning is what led her to move into her own business as a way to continue the income she'd become accustomed to but also allow her the time to be with family and do the things that were important to her. Sound familiar? Dr. Porter's story could be a great encouragement to you, be sure to listen! A great example of niching-down to find a great opportunity. [Tweet "Finding a niche and serving it with great profit, on the Happy Black Woman Podcast"] It may not seem very probable that a company could be built purely on the need that Black Women have to have expert advice about how to deal with problems related to their hair. But Dr. Crystal Porter has discovered that not only does a relatively smaller niche such as that provide her ample opportunities for a great income, it also enables her to help many, many people with a very serious area of need. It's an example of how there are many areas of need that nobody is servicing and how you can focus more narrowly to make even more income and meet more needs. Learn how Dr. Porter came to discover this great area of need on this episode. Asking questions as a way of serving her audience. Dr. Crystal Porter explains on this episode how she goes about helping a wide variety of clients who have very different needs, and it's through the asking of good questions. She's able to hone in on the specific needs an individual may have by asking the right questions. Her example is a lesson for any entrepreneur. You may have an idea of what your audience needs or wants but until you actually hear from them, you won't really know. How can you ask better questions of your audience to discover the exact needs they have? Listen to this episode to hear how Dr. Porter does it and how you can take a similar approach in your business. Working consistently within your values is powerfully important for the longevity of your business. In her journey to becoming an entrepreneur, Dr. Crystal Porter was motivated by the disharmony she saw between the type of hours and drive she was required to put in at her place of employment and the inner beliefs she had about the priority her family should have in her life. She didn't like that the sacrifices she was having to make in order to maintain her employment were at conflict with the needs she saw in her family. That's why she made the switch to entrepreneurship. What are your values about life and work? What are you willing to do and what are you not willing to do? How can you leverage your beliefs about family and work to motivate you to build the business you want and need? You'll find great encouragement from Dr. Crystal's story on this episode of Happy Black Woman. [Tweet "Don't let other people's problems become your own." - Dr. Crystal Porter"] Outline of this great episode: [0:24] Rosetta's introduction of her guest, Dr. Crystal Porter. [2:54] Crystal's company and experience of expertise surrounding the issue of hair science. [7:04] Why Crystal started a business and what her business does. [11;59] What are the typical questions Dr. Porter gets from clients? [13:48] Tips and facts about hair loss and other issues Black Women face. [23:07] Hair products and the legitimacy of their use. [28:47] How stress, lifestyle, and nutrition relate to hair health. [33:53] What makes you happy now that you're an entrepreneur? [36:48] Do you have a personal mantra or quote you live by? [38:33] A tip for women who want to create their own business. [39:51] How you can connect with Dr. Porter. Resources mentioned in this episode: BOOK: See You At The Top by Zig Ziglar Dr. Porter's website: http://www.maneinsights.com/ - get your free report from Dr. Porter! Tweets you can use to share this episode: [Tweet "A great example of picking a smaller niche to grow a larger income, on this episode"] [Tweet "Collaboration is important and I try to surround myself with people like that." - Dr. Crystal Porter"] Thanks for listening! Please subscribe, rate and review… Thanks so much for joining us on the podcast this week! Be sure to leave me a note in the comments below with your #1 takeaway from the show. Don't forget to subscribe to the show to get FREE automatic notifications when each new episode goes live! Subscribe via iTunes (for iPhone) Subscribe via Stitcher (for Android) Finally, please consider leaving an honest rating and review for The Happy Black Woman Podcast on iTunes or Stitcher to help spread the word about the show and help more black women find our tribe! Join the Happy Black Woman Facebook Tribe: Join our Happy Black Woman Facebook Tribe to connect and network with like-minded women from around the world! Click here to request access to our private Facebook group.
Today's guest, Liana Chaouli, has been in the work of Image Therapy for over 30 years. She wants to help as many people as possible to see their own beauty – to become empowered through their clothing choices. She loves to teach women how to choose clothes that flatter their bodies and made them feel worthy, strong, and as uniquely beautiful as they truly are, so they can show up authentically in the world! With thirty years' experience as a custom clothing designer, color specialist, and a Master Couturier, Liana is a high-level clothing craftsman, patternmaker, and seamstress who understands all the facets of clothing that fits the way it should on your body. This is a very interesting conversation that reveals much of what Liana is about. You'll be intrigued by the things she has to share today, on the Happy Black Woman podcast. [Tweet "Image Therapy encompasses everything. Find out why on the Happy Black Woman Podcast"] The confusing contrast of confidence in one sphere and insecurity in another. Liana Chaouli was an interpreter at a foreign embassy when she saw this contrast for the first time, and it broke her heart. She was working with the wife of a foreign ambassador, a woman who was stately and confident in certain contexts. But at the same time, hidden deep within was a lack of confidence, possibly even a self-contempt that impacted the way she lived and most importantly, the way she felt about herself. It was that experience that motivated Liana to become an advocate for women (and eventually men as well) finding their true self and living out of the beauty of who they have been made to be. You can hear Liana's unbelievable story on this episode of the Happy Black Woman podcast, so be sure to listen. “When I see a client step into their greatness, that is the proudest moment for me.” That's what today's guest, Liana Chaouli says when asked what makes her the most proud. It's not about her or her accomplishments. It's about seeing other people realize the deep truths about who they are and begin to live those out in the real world. It's an honor she's been able to have over and over as she's worked with people from all walks of life, helping them understand their own personal style and come into their own. You can hear about her fascinating approach to helping people on this episode of The Happy Black Woman. [Tweet ""If we want to get bigger, there is a way." - Liana Chaouli"] Inspired by the presence of awe. When Rosetta asked Liana Chaouli who inspires her, the first answer she gave was “children.” But she quickly rephrased her response to explain that it's the awe and wonder that children experience and express that is what inspires her. She feels energized and alive, ready to tackle the next dream when she sees people enjoying and living in the wonder of life. It's her desire to do that through helping people maximize their wardrobe and appearance to reflect the real person who is inside. Learn more about Liana's approach and work on this episode of the Happy Black Woman Podcast. The #1 tip Liana Chaouli gives to the Happy Black Woman community. On the road to your destiny you'll have many people tell you that you can't do it, that you should do it, that it's dangerous or foolish to go after your dreams. Liana Chaouli has advice for anyone who finds themselves facing that kind of discouragement: Don't listen to people. Well meaning people will bring their past into your present to destroy your future, if you let them. You can't listen to their objections or discouragement. You have to stick to your guns and keep pressing toward your dreams. Rosetta Thurman draws this kind of advice out of her guest today so do what you can to block out some time to listen to this episode. [Tweet ""A big vision encourages me to get bigger as a person." - Liana Chaouli"] Outline of this great episode: [0:24] Rosetta's introduction of her guest, Liana Chaouli, image therapist. [2:04] Liana's mission: To provide transformation through the power of wardrobe. [3:42] How image therapy works. [7:06] Rosetta's experience working with Liana. [8:08] How Liana got interested in being an image therapist. [11:37] What is Liana most proud of in the work she's done? [14:23] What's behind the scenes of Liana's typical day? [18:50] How do you stay productive, Liana? [21:10] Where does Liana want to be in the next 5 years? [26:21] Who inspires you Liana? [28:26] What is your favorite book? [30:42] A personal mantra Liana lives by. [33:00] Liana's #1 tip to the Happy Black Woman community. [36:32] Rosetta's summary of the episode. Resources mentioned in this episode: www.VirtualStyleAcademy.com www.LianasGift.com Liana's website: http://www.imagetherapists.com/ BOOK: The Alchemist BOOK: You Are a Masterpiece BOOK: The War of Art BOOK: The Untethered Soul Tweets you can use to share this episode: [Tweet ""Most people use clothing as a way to hide from the world." - Liana Chaouli"] [Tweet ""Your closet is a toolbox you can use to uplevel your life!" - Liana Chaouli"] Thanks for listening! Please subscribe, rate and review… Thanks so much for joining us on the podcast this week! Be sure to leave me a note in the comments below with your #1 takeaway from the show. Don't forget to subscribe to the show to get FREE automatic notifications when each new episode goes live! Subscribe via iTunes (for iPhone) Subscribe via Stitcher (for Android) Finally, please consider leaving an honest rating and review for The Happy Black Woman Podcast on iTunes or Stitcher to help spread the word about the show and help more black women find our tribe! Join the Happy Black Woman Facebook Tribe: Join our Happy Black Woman Facebook Tribe to connect and network with like-minded women from around the world! Click here to request access to our private Facebook group.
This week's guest, Allyson Byrd, has come to be known throughout the business community as the “Profit Accelerator.” Her success has taken her into the league of big industry names like: Walmart, Kraft Foods, Ford, Mercedes, Bank of America, General Motors, UPS, P&G, Walt Disney Company, Walgreens, Target, Wells Fargo, Time Warner, Delta, Boeing, Toyota, Mercedes, Coca Cola, Chic-fil-A, Radio One, Black Enterprise, BET, CVS, Best Buy, Infusionsoft & more! In this week's episode of the Happy Black Woman Podcast Allyson, shares not only her inspirational story but also some practical mindset tips for how you can increase the profit in your business. Hit the play button and settle in to learn from this amazing woman. What if I just chose to unapologetically be me? That's the question Allyson Byrd asked herself after she'd spent far too long gauging herself and her success by the opinions of others. That question is what sparked her move to a better place, a place where she doesn't apologize for who she is – and she doesn't think you should either. Allyson didn't always have it easy but she wouldn't change a thing in her journey because that journey is what has made her who she is and brought her to where she is today. She's ready to help take your business to the next level through her unique method of accelerated profit strategies… and gives you a powerful peek into those approaches in this episode, so be sure to listen. What it means to be unapologetic. Too many of us tether ourselves to the expectations and demands of others about who we should be, what we should be like, and how we should interact and behave in the world. Today's guest, Allyson Byrd discovered that her tether didn't allow her to live in the reality of who she had been created to be. When she was able to accept that there was nothing wrong with who she was, even though it sometimes made others feel uncomfortable that she was so bold and strong in her words and opinions, her life and her business began to take on a new level of effectiveness and joy. Being unapologetic means first becoming comfortable with yourself, then learning to actually BE that person in everyday life, without making excuses for it or moderating it because of the opinions of others. Allyson has some great insights into how you can apply that truth to your own story, on this episode of the Happy Black Woman Podcast. 5 words Allyson Byrd has learned to live by… Her background and upbringing conditioned Allyson to filter herself by the opinions of others but when she discovered how it stifled her from being her true self she found true freedom. As she's grown in being herself she's adopted 5 words that describe the way she wants to live and those 5 words could be a starting place for you to consider the kind of life you should be living, too. What are those 5 words? Unapologetic, Unfiltered, Unleashed, Unstoppable, and Untameable. They are words that communicate freedom and purpose. How do those resonate with you? Allyson's got lots to say about what those words might mean for you, so be sure to listen. Allyson Byrd's #1 tip to the Happy Black Woman community. When Rosetta asked Allyson what tip she would give to the community, her answer was characteristically blunt. “Make money.” After laughing together a bit, she unpacked what she means. She doesn't focus on making money out of greed but as a way to communicate how making money comes from a place of confidence and how making money can buy freedom, give you access to the things you need in life, and how it can give you the opportunity not only to move your life forward but to make an impact on the lives of others. So making money is the way you can make a difference. Hear more on this episode. Outline of this great episode: [0:24] Rosetta's introduction of today's guest: Allyson Byrd. [2:00] Allyson's journey to becoming the “Profit Accelerator.” [9:20] The catalyst for Allyson's change of heart and mind about her business. [19:15] A typical week in Allyson's business and life. [21:56] How it can all get done, but not necessarily by you. [27:01] The things that inspire Allyson as she moves forward. [32:36] Allyson's favorite books. [34:10] Allyson's personal mantra. [36:38] The #1 tip Allyson gives to the Happy Black Woman community. [39:21] Getting in touch with Allyson. Resources mentioned in this episode: Allyson's website: www.BeUnapologetic.com BOOK: The Bible BOOK: A Course In Miracles BOOK: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey
Natasha Allrich is Rosetta's guest today on the Happy Black Woman Podcast and she's got a wealth of inspiring, soul-stirring encouragement for you. Natasha is known as the Soulful Sales Expert and she specializes in helping entrepreneurs who hate to sell but know it's necessary. Her goal is to show you how to STOP selling and START having conversations that convert into clients. It's an amazing mindset shift and practice that often results in immediate, multiplying sales growth. In today's conversation Natasha shares her own daily routines, how she stays on track in her business, and the mindset shifts that help you turn sales into a service rather than a pitch. You'll be enriched by listening to this episode. How Natasha Allrich discovered that the problem she had with sales was a problem of receiving. Natasha learned her elementary sales skills from envisioning and promoting a non-profit organization that was close to her heart. It was easy for her to step into that role, to ask people to join her in a vision aimed at helping children across the globe learn how to read. She saw it as being an advocate for the children and helping others come alongside her to be an advocate as well. When someone brought it to her attention that she was actually selling by asking for donations, she resisted the idea. It seemed too selfish to call it selling but in time, she saw that it was true. That began her personal mindset shift. She began to see that she had a hard time speaking of “selling” because she had a hard time receiving from others. Hear the entire story on this episode. Sales is about service: to others and to yourself. One of the biggest reasons women entrepreneurs mention as why selling is difficult for them is that it seems pushy or sleazy. Do you see how that impression is as much a mindset as it is a reality? Surely you've been served by a salesperson who didn't seem that way, right? What was different in that situation? It's likely that you felt the sales person was truly interested in you and eager to serve you to meet the need you had. Natasha Allrich says that one of the most important mindset shifts that needs to happen around selling is this: Selling is about service - to you and to the potential buyer. You are helping them and they are helping you. It's a win-win sales situation. Natasha's refreshing way of approaching sales will get you excited about the possibilities of taking on a new approach to this often troublesome area of business. Listen in to this episode to hear all the details of her approach. Black women are taught that it's not OK to ask for help. It's a lie. In her successful coaching and sales career, Natasha Allrich has learned that rethinking her role as a business owner and entrepreneur included reconsidering what she could actually do on her own and what she couldn't. Deep inside her was a belief that it wasn't OK for her to ask for help or to rely on others to complete certain aspects of her goals or dreams. When she came to the realization that she MUST rely on others, a new journey began. In this episode of Happy Black Woman Natasha shares her journey of overcoming that limiting belief and how asking for help is essential to business and the sales process. You won't want to miss this helpful conversation. Every morning, set yourself up for a win. One of the questions Rosetta asks Natasha Allrich in this engaging conversation has to do with her daily routine and Natasha generously shares the steps she takes every morning to prepare herself for the day. In her mind it's a mental, spiritual, and physical workout, a time to set herself up for a win during that day. Her practices include gratitude, meditation, movement, and other things that help her get her mind in the right place and her attitude ready to take on the challenges the day will bring. There's surely something helpful for you in her simple but powerful routine so make sure you set aside time to listen to Rosetta's conversation with this warm, genuine woman. Outline of this great episode: [0:24] Introduction of Natasha Allrich. [1:55] Natasha's work and mission: Empower, Excite, Equip. [5:58] How Natasha discovered that the problem with sales is often a problem of receiving. [10:22] How sales is an “asking” process. [11:15] How Natasha got into teaching about sales. [18:46] Natasha's typical workday and way of managing her business. [28:50] How Natasha stays on track with her business goals. [34:31] Natasha's favorite book. [36:31] A personal mantra Natasha lives by. [39:50] Natasha's #1 quick tip for Happy Black Woman entrepreneurs starting out. [42:19] How to connect with Natasha. Resources mentioned in this episode: www.EnrollFromTheSoul.com - Natasha's site (and FREE audio training!)
She pivoted her firing into a brand new business, on the spot. In this episode of The Happy Black Woman podcast you're in for a real treat…it's the story of how Dr. Monikah Ogando became a leading business coach and instructor as well as the CEO of her own business. It wasn't your typical journey. She had been teaching a course for her employer all over the country and felt she was very successful in corporate America. But when she was called in to a meeting that she believed was going to be a positive one, she was actually fired. The company intended to hold on to the intellectual property she had created, but she hadn't signed an intellectual property agreement. So she kept her training course as her own, struck a deal to be a consultant with the company to continue the trainings for them, and started her own business on the spot. Hear her tell the story herself, on this episode. [Tweet "From Fired to Focused: How @MonikahOgando turned being laid off into a successful business"] Facing cancer and starting a business at the same time. When Dr. Monikah Ogando was fired from her job at a high level financial planning company she pivoted the rejection into one of her greatest opportunities. But there was another big problem. She'd just been diagnosed with cancer and didn't know what impact that might have on the fledgling business she was starting. How would you handle that? Would you have the strength, confidence, and resilience to fight both of those battles at the same time? Listen to Dr. Oganado's explanation of how it happened and glean some principles of mindset and belief that you can apply to your own journey. “You have to decide if you're going to live or die.” When Monikah was diagnosed with cancer her head was spinning. Then she got fired from her corporate job and that same day began her new consulting and speaking business. It was a tough week. In the back of her mind her health situation loomed. She made her decisions in a non-committal way many times because she wasn't sure if she'd actually be around to enjoy the fruit of her labors. That's when a mentor said, “You have to decide if you're going to live or die. Because the things you do will be different if you intend to live than they will be if you intend to die.” That moment of clarity gave Monikah the ability to set aside her fears and fight the cancer, with every intention of living to care for daughter and build her business. Hear the whole story on this episode. [Tweet ""Instead of making fear your enemy, make it one of your trusted advisors" - @MonikahOgando"] How an introvert CEO keeps herself going. Very few people who meet Dr. Monikah Ogando would think she's an introvert, but that's how she describes herself. When she's in her role as CEO of her company or coaching and training, she's outgoing, friendly, and engaging. But that's her business role. She steps into those shoes because it's her calling, her passion. But as a true introvert she needs time alone to unwind, regroup, and rejuvenate for what lies ahead. How does she do it? It all comes down to the way she manages her weeks and protects her weekends. She sets boundaries and guidelines that serve her health, emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and physically. That way she's ready to go when Monday comes again… ready to fulfill her calling. You can glean some valuable tips from Dr. Monikah on this episode, so take the time to listen. There is nobody coming. God sent you! There's something about modern culture that pushes us toward depending on others or hoping for a circumstance to turn out fortuitously in our favor. But Dr. Monikah has learned that hoping doesn't get the work done. Hoping doesn't accomplish things. Hoping doesn't fulfill dreams. As a result she's developed a short saying to remind herself to go for the dreams she's got inside. “There is nobody coming. God sent you!” The idea is that she shouldn't be looking for someone or something to rescue her. Instead, she needs to understand that God placed her exactly where she is, at this time, in this place, for a reason. SHE is the one who's supposed to make the changes that she's hoping will come about. [Tweet ""There is nobody coming. God sent you!" - @MonikahOgando, on the @happyblackwoman podcast"] Outline of this great episode: [0:24] Welcome to this episode - introduction of today's guest: Dr. Monikah Ogando [1:26] Dr. Ogando's story of how she came to be an entrepreneur. [7:11] How Dr. Monikah has come to see being fired from a company as a blessing. [9:30] Dealing with a diagnosis of cancer and how it pivoted her into something new and better. [14:29] Dr. Monikah's rebirthing that is happening now. [16:40] A typical week in the life of Dr. Monikah. [18:00] How she turns her introvert tendencies toward serving people. [19:38] Where is Dr. Monikah's business headed right now? [21:38] What feminine leadership looks like. [23:42] The Hero's journey. [26:45] Dr. Monikah's favorite book right now. [29:12] What is your personal mantra, Dr. Monikah? [30:50] Dr. Monikah's #1 tip to women just starting on the entrepreneurial journey. [34:14] Dr. Monikah's contact info and a FREE GIFT! Resources mentioned in this episode: monikahogando.com - Dr. Monikah's website BOOK: The Hero with a Thousand Faces by Joseph Campbell BOOK: A Course in Miracles UnlockYourInnerCEO.com - Dr. Monikah's new book Tweets you can use to share this episode: [Tweet ""We are not doing time management, we are doing energy management" - @MonikahOgando"] [Tweet ""Your business is a vehicle for your purpose to live through." - @MonikahOgando"] Thanks for listening! Please rate, review and subscribe... Thanks so much for joining us on the podcast this week! Be sure to leave me a note in the comments below with your #1 takeaway from the show. 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In today's episode of The Happy Black Woman Podcast, we have the honor of speaking with Molesey Crawford, founder of “The Queen Code,” a personal development community that is changing the lives of women all over the globe. As you listen to this episode you're going to hear how Molesey learned about her own feminine desires and self, how she channeled that into a business that was true to who she really is, and how that business has grown to provide her with the true channel of expression and purpose she was meant to have while providing her and her family with the freedom they enjoy today. Be sure to take the time to listen to this one, it's a real gem. What IS the Queen Code? Molesey's journey toward becoming the founder of the Queen Code has not been overnight or easy. It's through that journey that she discovered the principles of the Queen Code in the first place (as it should be, right?). She believes that there's a feminine evolution happening in the hearts of women all around the globe. Women are beginning to awaken to the truth that they are here for a reason. She believes that women all over the globe are feeling the calling to return, rebirth, reconnect, recover, remember and reclaim their feminine birthright. She desires to support those women on a journey of deep healing and transformation. Hear more of her journey to those realizations and how she's helping women all over the world as you listen to this episode. [Tweet "You need the “know who” before you need the “know how” - @thequeencode"] Finding a mentor early on made all the difference. Molesey's business was still very small and she had almost no money when she first decided to find and pay for a mentor - and she's never regretted it. In fact, that decision was the catalyst to moving her life and business forward in a powerful way. She started with $10 a month as part of a coaching program and now has elevated her involvement with her coach to a much higher level, and it's continued to reap great rewards. If you're stuck, needing help, or even moving backwards in your entrepreneurial or personal development, you may need to take that bold step and find a coach or mentor that fits your lifestyle. These two ladies (Molesey or Rosetta) may be just what you need. Find out more on this episode. [Tweet ""The longer we stay in indecision, the longer we are kept from what we want" - @thequeencode"] Be. Do. Have. That's the sequence in which personal transformation and business success comes. Molesey Crawford has discovered that nobody can have a truly free lifestyle and invigorating business without first going through this necessary sequence. BE - has to do with discovering who you are and what you are passionate about. Only when you function out of the fullness of your identity are you able to bring your intended value to the world. DO - This is the action step, where you put your dreams and calling into action. Most people start here and find themselves spinning their wheels and becoming burned out and frustrated as a result. HAVE - This is the aspect where you begin to receive the fruits of your labors and see the fulfillment of the calling you're acting on. Hear Molesey explain this progression on this episode. Slow down so your blessings can catch you. Too often women are so busy doing that they fail to BE who they truly are. Too often they believe that what they do is what makes them who they are. But the reverse is true. It's time to stop all the hustle and busy-ness so that you can find your true self, learn to do your work out of that place, and see the blessings that flow more naturally as a result. Moseley Crawford has learned these principles and they are what guide her work at The Queen Code. Hear her explain the importance of embracing and applying these concepts on this great episode of The Happy Black Woman, with Rosetta Thurman. [Tweet ""Queens! Slow down so your blessings can catch you." - @thequeencode"] Outline of this great episode: [0:24] Welcome and introduction of Molesey Crawford, today's guest. [1:30] What is the “Queen Code” and Molesey's calling? [3:56] What caused Molesey to turn her passion into a business? [6:40] A typical day for Molesey in her business and life. [11:13] At what point in your journey did you realize you needed a mentor? [15:15] The value of making an investment in herself. [15:54] Why “Be, Do, Have” is so important. [22:51] What does freedom look like to Molesey? [26:50] Molesey's favorite book for inspiration. [30:52] Do you have any other personal mantras you live by? [32:59] The #1 tip Molesey gives to women wanting to start a business. [34:55] How to find out more about Molesey and the Queen Code. Resources mentioned in this episode: The Queen Code - go to Molesey's website to get your free audio! The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks Unlocking the Queen Code - Molesey's book Tweets you can use to share this episode: [Tweet "I always had this feminine edge - @thequeencode on this episode of the @happyblackwoman podcast"] [Tweet "It is safe to feel good - positive affirmation from @thequeencode on this episode of the @happyblackwoman podcast"] Thanks for listening! Please rate, review and subscribe... Thanks so much for joining us on the podcast this week! Be sure to leave me a note in the comments below with your #1 takeaway from the show. Don't forget to subscribe to the show to get FREE automatic notifications when each new episode goes live! Subscribe via iTunes (for iPhone) Subscribe via Stitcher (for Android) Finally, please consider leaving an honest rating and review for The Happy Black Woman Podcast on iTunes or Stitcher to help spread the word about the show and help more black women find our tribe! Join the Happy Black Woman Facebook Tribe: Join our Happy Black Woman Facebook Tribe to connect and network with like-minded women from around the world! Click here to request access to our private Facebook group.
Today's podcast is all about you and equipping you to build the life that you've been called to build. And today's guest is going to get down to the practical nuts and bolts of how to do it. Dee Marshall is considered to be on the short list of top Coaches for women. She has built a women's empowerment empire that inspires, encourages, motivates, challenges and supports women. In this conversation with Rosetta Thurman, Dee shares some of the most practical, get-your-life-in-order tips we've had on the podcast yet. You'll walk away with some great ideas and plenty of practical things you can do to take your everyday life to the next level. Business and ministry, all in one package. When Dee Marshall talks about “Girlfriends Pray” she lights up. That's because the mission of the organization is something God put in her path and that she delights to be a part of. It's a movement to get women all over the world united in prayer, seeking God and His best for their lives and the worlds they touch. But Dee is also a businesswoman and coach whose expertise and knowledge is sought out by many top level women of faith who are in the business world. How does one woman pull off so much in two distinctly different areas? She shares the key to her success in this episode of the Happy Black Woman podcast, and you'll be surprised how simple it is. How structure can set you up for massive success. There are lots of “free spirits” out there, women who love to be spontaneous, living on the edge day to day, enjoying whatever life brings their way. Dee Marshall is one of them. But she says that women who are leaders cannot allow themselves to be so free spirited that they lose all sense of intentionality. Leaders have to live according to structure because people and results depend on the actions they take. For that reason they need to organize their lives around basic structures that can provide the context through which their dreams can be realized. Hear how Dee Marshall does this in her own life as she breaks down her daily schedule for all of us to hear, on this edition of the podcast. What really makes you happy in life? That's the question Rosetta Thurman asked Dee Marshall near the end of this conversation, and Dee's answer was very powerful. What she says is this: When you live a life of purpose, you are happy. She wakes up happy every morning because she knows that the things she will be involved in during that day are lasting, important things that will make a difference in people's lives. That's meaning. That's purpose. And it's the source of ongoing happiness for Dee. Listen in to hear how you can find that purpose for your life as Dee shares her perspective on how to get it. Dee Marshall's #1 tip for women who want to build a business they love. Dee doesn't hold back on this episode. When Rosetta asks her to share her best tip for women wanting to move forward with a passion or a business, she says this: You do need to pursue something you are passionate about, but don't let the passion take over the business. It IS a business so make sure you run it like one. You have to be concerned with things like income, costs, conversions, bottom line, because if you aren't you might as well quit today and just follow your passion as a side project or hobby. Keep clear on the facts that if you want to have a business that follows your passion, you've got to organize and structure it so that it can support you to pursue that passion. And a bonus tip from Dee Marshall… If you want your level of success to grow, then you've got to be growing. Work on you. Keep yourself always in the stream of personal development. Without constant improvement you'll fall into the rut of seeing things the way you've always seen them. You can't afford that. Your success and business growth will be hampered by it. That's it. Keep growing. Hear more powerful but practical advice like that on this episode of Happy Black Woman. Outline of this great episode [0:24] Welcome to the podcast and introduction of Dee Marshall [1:57] The work Dee is called to: Inspire, motivate, encourage, challenge, and support women [3:54] What is “Girlfriends Pray” and how did it start and grow? [8:59] What happens when you make yourself available to God. [12:21] What is your typical day like, Dee? The power of structure. [20:17] Getting a handle on your life so you can do what is on your heart. [24:22] Why leaders can't be the “free spirit” all the time. [26:05] What do you see happening in the next 5 years, Dee? [30:19] What makes you happy, Dee? [32:46] Dee's #1 tip to women wanting to create a business and life they could love. [35:10] One additional tip: Develop yourself and develop your craft. [37:27] A free gift from Dee to you to help you create a structure for your life. Resources mentioned in this episode Dee's website: http://www.deecmarshall.com/ The Girlfriends Pray website - http://girlfriendspray.org/ BOOK: The Miracle Morning by Hal Elrod John Wooten, the winningest coach Tweets you can use to share this episode If you want your #LevelOfSuccess to grow, then you've got to be growing. #Happiness comes from living a #LifeOfPurpose ~ Dee Marshall Getting a handle on your life so you can do what is on your heart Why leaders can't be a #FreeSpirit all the time How #structure sets you up for daily success ~ Dee Marshall
LaShanda Henry has been developing websites for over 10 years. She owns over 15 web properties and is most passionate about two things: creating positive websites for people of color and helping women entrepreneurs learn how to build successful businesses online. In her own words, “My life's mission is to motivate, inform, inspire, and connect. With my mother in mind, I do what I do for parents looking to better their children's lives and for women striving to live their dreams. I love to share information and build communities online. It's what I do and who I am.” LaShanda is Rosetta's guest on this episode of Happy Black Woman, so grab a drink and a notepad and come meet this amazing woman! On a mission to use technology as a tool of positive change! LaShanda Henry is on a mission to use technology within the black community online and at home. She's a work at home mom with a passion for building websites and helping other women like me make sense of making money online. She's done it herself and knows how to help others do it too. One look at her website, www.SistaSense.com shows you that she's got a TON to offer. Listen in to this casual conversation between LaShanda and Rosetta as they discuss LaSanda's story, technology, productivity, and why every black woman can step beyond where she's at to open up new doors of opportunity, if she'll just do it. It's all in this episode. So are you ready to start making money online? LaShanda specializes in teaching women just like you how to do exactly that! She believes that by making the most of your skills and developing multiple ways to make money online, any woman can grow into a successful work at home career of her own, be her own boss, and set the terms of her life the way that SHE wants them to be. Is that the kind of help you're looking for? It's a tough journey, but you've got a sister like LaShanda to help you navigate your course. Set aside some time to listen to her journey on this episode and be ready for some inspiration to reach out and touch you! It only takes one step to get you rolling toward an entirely new life. LaShanda's story is not all that uncommon. LIke many online entrepreneurs, her present business didn't start out as a “business” at all. At first, it was a hobby, fueled by her interest in technology and a desire to see what she could do with it. From there it turned into a side hustle (a part time job on the side) until now, she works at home running her own business. And a big part of her heart is to help black women see that there really ARE people like them out there who are becoming successful building their own businesses and brands. LaShanda is an example to inspire you to take that first step. What are you waiting for? Come listen to LaShanda's story and let it spark a dream inside of you. The success of your business depends on the company you keep. That is one of LaShanda Henry's favorite statements. It's a lesson she's learned over the years as she turned an interest into a hobby, a hobby into a side hustle, and that side hustle into her own full time, work from home business. What it means practically is that she had to find women like herself who were eager to become successful doing their own thing, building a business that could support them and take care of their families. And she's done exactly that. Now she runs www.SistaSense.com and has created an online community for Black Business Women at http://network.mybbwo.com/ . What company are you keeping? Do you need to find those women who can inspire you? Start by taking a listen to this episode. LaSanda and Rosetta are happy to inspire and motivate you to take the next steps. Outline of this great episode [0:24] Welcome and introduction of today's guest: LaShanda Henry [1:51] LaShanda's story and her mission from her own lips. [3:09] How SistaSense got started: What was in LaShanda's mind? [5:42] Lessons learned about herself from all her experience. [8:36] The power of LaShanda's example: Providing a mentor that is in the same place and same race/gender as those who need help. [11:24] A glimpse into LaShanda's typical day: calendaring is key! [14:19] A deep dive into how LaShanda uses her calendar to make sure the right things are done according to the right schedule. [17:34] Tools that help LaShanda with productivity. [20:10] LaShanda's big scary goals for SistaSense over the next 5 years. [23:14] What is freedom to you LaShanda? [25:29] The things that make LaShanda happy. [27:22] Who inspires you, LaShanda? [30:24] LaShanda's personal mantra. [31:40] The #1 piece of advice LaShanda gives to the Happy Black Woman community. [33:32] The best ways to stay in touch with LaShanda. Resources mentioned in this episode LaShanda's website: www.SistaSense.com The Black Business Women Online Social Network BOOK: The Mocha Manual to a Fabulous Pregnancy by Kimberly Seals-Allers Google Calendar Calendar by Readdle BOOK: The 4 Hour Work Week by Tim Ferriss
Welcome to this first ever episode of the Happy Black Woman podcast! We're so glad you've taken a few moments of your valuable time to check out what we're doing. This podcast is the only show designed to help black women create lives of happiness, success, and freedom, and you'll be led on that journey by your host, Rosetta Thurman. Rosetta's story is an exciting example of what could happen in your life if you're willing to take the steps to make it happen. You can hear that story in this introductory episode of the podcast, so be sure to listen in! This podcast is not for everyone. There are people who are very happy and comfortable with their life the way it is at present. That's great. Really. Those people probably won't be interested in this show. There's too much shaking up of the status quo going on here, too much rocking the boat. So who IS this show for? It's for black women who want to be free, black women who want to set the terms for their own lives and build the happiness and lifestyle they've only dreamed of. But equally important, it's for women who are willing to step out and take action. If you won't do that, there's nobody who will. So listen in to hear Rosetta tell her story of stepping out. Maybe it will encourage you to take some steps of your own. Rosetta's move from working as a successful nonprofit organizer to becoming an entrepreneur, speaker, and coach. Rosetta had a pretty comfortable job. She was paid well. Everything was going her way. But something happened she didn't expect. People began inviting her to speak at their companies and events, asking her to share the wisdom she'd learned in her comfortable job. So Rosetta started traveling, speaking, experiencing the new things you can only experience when you're on the road traveling the globe. That's when she began to realize that the 9 to 5 corporate role she was in was actually very limiting. That was the first time she began to think that maybe she could step out of that comfortable job and begin a life of her own making. The story is incredible, and you can hear the rest of it on this episode of the podcast. Rosetta's year of liberation It was 2010 when all the pieces came together and Rosetta made her fateful decision. She quit her corporate job in the nonprofit sector and began her entrepreneurial career. The rest is history. Rosetta has traveled the world seeing sights she never thought she'd see and meeting people and having opportunities that she never dreamed. Her story is one of inspiration, hope, and courage. Rosetta has begun this podcast to help you learn how to do the very same thing in your life. So be sure to listen in during those spare moments of your day - when you exercise, drive, or do chores or busywork. Redeem those moments to further your own education, encourage your heart, and move yourself step by tiny step into the life of your dreams. You can do it, and Rosetta is here to help. What you can expect from the Happy Black Woman podcast. Rosetta's mission is to help women transform their lives through personal development and entrepreneurship. It's about more than Rosetta, it's through the community she's been able to establish at www.HappyBlackWoman.com. This podcast is a new resource she's going to be using toward that end. She'll be featuring inspirational stories, expert guests, sharing her own insights and coaching tips, and doing it all to help you move your life to the next level. Let Rosetta know what you think! Outline of this great episode [0:24] Welcome to the podcast - the only show designed to help black women create lives of happiness, success, and freedom. [1:15] This podcast is not for everyone - only for those who desire to transform their lives! [1:45] Rosetta's mission and how it can impact your life. [2:47] Who is Rosetta Thurman? Find out here. [3:30] Rosetta's favorite place in the whole world - can you guess where it is? [4:08] The story behind Rosetta's move from working in the nonprofit sector to entrepreneurial living. [5:29] The one thing Rosetta did not expect that actually happened. [6:21] The year of liberation - 2010 - when Rosetta chose to become an entrepreneur. [8:20] How Happy Black Woman came to be. [10:03] The principles behind why Rosetta lives as she does. [10:36] What you can expect from this podcast. [11:19] How you can find the resources mentioned in each podcast episode. Resources mentioned in this show… www.HappyBlackWoman.com