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In this episode of Awake with Oliver and Ashley, Oliver takes a deep dive into the evolving landscape of social media, AI, and human connection. The discussion begins with gratitude for the listeners before exploring how social media shapes modern interactions and the growing involvement of AI in daily life.Ashley reflects on the changing dynamics of human relationships, contrasting old philosophies of repetition with new perspectives on individuality. She also examines the impact of instant access to information, the role of AI agents, and how technology is reshaping our ability to connect on a deeper level.Additionally, the episode tackles trauma responses in conversations and how they influence the way people engage, process, and react in social settings. Wrapping up with a thought‑provoking discussion on the new philosophy of human uniqueness, Oliver challenges listeners to rethink their approach to technology, connection, and personal growth.Join the conversation and explore how AI, social media, and evolving philosophies are shaping the future of human interaction.Topics DiscussedHow social media is changing the way we interact and present ourselvesThe growing role of AI in daily life – from algorithms to AI agentsOld philosophy: doing the same thing repeatedly vs. embracing individualityInstant access to information and its impact on deep thinkingTrauma responses in conversations and how they affect engagementAI agents: what they are and how they're reshaping human connectionA new philosophy: everyone is completely different and uniquely valuableEpisode Highlights[00:00] – Intro[02:10] – Thanks to subscribers[02:47] – Social media nowadays[06:00] – AI involvement[09:40] – Connection with people[15:46] – Old philosophy: doing the same thing[21:34] – Access to information[26:55] – Questions – trauma response in conversations[28:46] – AI agents[36:52] – New philosophy: everyone is completely differentGuest BioAshley is a spiritual life coach, quantum healing hypnosis practitioner, and host of the Starseed Journey podcast. She is passionate about helping spiritual seekers, wellness enthusiasts, and starseeds connect with their higher selves, discover their life purpose, and heal on deep, transformative levels. With a focus on making spirituality approachable and fun, she shares insights into quantum healing hypnosis, angelic‑light infused crystals, and creative meditation techniques for those seeking clarity, healing, and a deeper connection to their inner wisdom. Connect with Ashley on Instagram at @inner_sight_llc and visit her website at www.inner-sight-llc.com.Send us Fan MailLead to GoldThe podcast devoted to discussing realistic growth and wellness.

Send us Fan MailIn this week's episode 356 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I'm exploring a core insight that sits underneath so much of my work: you cannot create internal safety by focusing externally.Many people spend enormous amounts of energy trying to feel safe by managing other people's perceptions, reactions, emotions, and approval. But no matter how hard we try, external circumstances can never reliably provide the sense of security we're actually seeking. This episode looks at what happens when we stop trying to create safety through people-pleasing, image management, and controlling outcomes, and start building it from within.Some of the talking points I go over in this episode include:Why people-pleasing is often an unconscious safety strategy rather than simply “being nice”How seeking approval, avoiding disappointment, and managing other people's reactions disconnects us from ourselvesThe connection between boundaries and internal safetyWhy healthy social boundaries require allowing other people to have their own emotional experiencesHow to stay connected to yourself while remaining connected to othersI also share how many people come to me wanting better relationships, only to discover that the deeper work is learning how to stop abandoning themselves and creating a sense of safety that is no longer dependent on external validation.This episode is a reminder that the goal of boundaries is not distance from other people. The goal is closeness without self-abandonment. Because when you stop trying to create safety by managing everybody else, you finally have the energy to create safety where it actually matters—inside yourself.Be sure to tune in to all the episodes to receive tons of practical tips on living a more whole life and to hear even more about the points outlined above.Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, take a screenshot of the episode to post in your stories and tag me! And don't forget to follow, rate and review the podcast and tell me your key takeaways!Learn more about Fragmented to Whole at Fragmented to Whole PodcastNew to my work: START HEREFeeling drained? Take my free Boundaries Drain Quiz to find out where your energy is leaking and how to reclaim it. Start your quiz here: Boundaries Drain QuizCONNECT WITH BARB NANGLE:Subscribe to “Friday Fragments” weekly newsletterLinkedinWork with Barb! Book a “Say No Without Guilt” Session

Send us Fan MailIn this week's episode 356 of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I'm exploring a core insight that sits underneath so much of my work: you cannot create internal safety by focusing externally.Many people spend enormous amounts of energy trying to feel safe by managing other people's perceptions, reactions, emotions, and approval. But no matter how hard we try, external circumstances can never reliably provide the sense of security we're actually seeking. This episode looks at what happens when we stop trying to create safety through people-pleasing, image management, and controlling outcomes, and start building it from within.Some of the talking points I go over in this episode include:Why people-pleasing is often an unconscious safety strategy rather than simply “being nice”How seeking approval, avoiding disappointment, and managing other people's reactions disconnects us from ourselvesThe connection between boundaries and internal safetyWhy healthy social boundaries require allowing other people to have their own emotional experiencesHow to stay connected to yourself while remaining connected to othersI also share how many people come to me wanting better relationships, only to discover that the deeper work is learning how to stop abandoning themselves and creating a sense of safety that is no longer dependent on external validation.This episode is a reminder that the goal of boundaries is not distance from other people. The goal is closeness without self-abandonment. Because when you stop trying to create safety by managing everybody else, you finally have the energy to create safety where it actually matters—inside yourself.Be sure to tune in to all the episodes to receive tons of practical tips on living a more whole life and to hear even more about the points outlined above.Thank you for listening! If you enjoyed this episode, take a screenshot of the episode to post in your stories and tag me! And don't forget to follow, rate and review the podcast and tell me your key takeaways!Learn more about Fragmented to Whole at Fragmented to Whole PodcastNew to my work: START HEREFeeling drained? Take my free Boundaries Drain Quiz to find out where your energy is leaking and how to reclaim it. Start your quiz here: Boundaries Drain QuizCONNECT WITH BARB NANGLE:Subscribe to “Friday Fragments” weekly newsletterLinkedinWork with Barb! Book a “Say No Without Guilt” Session

You're probably pretty good at the logistics. Who's getting the kids, who's making dinner, who remembered to call the plumber. But when's the last time you and your spouse slowed down long enough to ask: where are we actually going?In this episode, we're talking about the one conversation that tends to get skipped in even the healthiest marriages — casting a vision for your family. Not a financial roadmap or a five-year career plan, but the deeper stuff: What do we want our family to be known for? What culture are we building? Are we actually living out what we say we value?We get into why this conversation stays missing for most couples (spoiler: it's not laziness), what it actually looks like to sit down and do it, and we model it live with our own answers so you can hear how messy and real it can be.In this episode:Why even great marriages skip the vision conversation — and the three reasons it stays off the tableHow to start this conversation if your spouse isn't exactly jumping at the ideaThe one question that cuts to the heart of it: "If our marriage was in the same place in three years, how would you feel?"What a family mission statement actually is, and why we're changing ours after years of saying you should never change itFour vision-casting questions you can bring to a coffee shop, a playground, or your kitchen table this weekA live, unscripted demo of us answering every question ourselvesThe one degree shift: put something on the calendar. Even 20 minutes with a few intentional questions can start shifting the trajectory.Resources mentioned:Free Weekly Marriage Meeting Template: https://onedegreemarriage.com/meetingWeekly Marriage Meeting Journal: https://shop.onedegreemarriage.com/Daily Marriage Challenges: https://onedegreemarriage.com/challengeIf this episode resonated, share it with one couple who you think needs this conversation. And subscribe so you never miss a one-degree shift.https://onedegreemarriage.com/podcast

In this episode we explore the reality that healing our relationship with food is rarely just about food. Together, we discuss how eating struggles are often intertwined with stress, perfectionism, anxiety, identity, trauma, burnout, and our relationships with ourselves and others.Throughout the conversation, we unpack:Why food behaviours often serve a protective purposeHow dieting and wellness culture can disconnect us from ourselvesThe emotional and relational layers underneath eating strugglesThe overlap between nutrition counselling and psychotherapyHow body image, shame, and self-worth often become deeply intertwinedWhat compassionate, collaborative care can look likeWhy healing is less about “fixing yourself” and more about building self-understanding and self-trustWe also discuss the importance of trauma-informed and weight-inclusive care, and the growing need for accessible eating disorder and body image support within our community.Whether you're navigating your own relationship with food and body, supporting someone you love, or simply curious about therapy and healing work, we hope this conversation offers reassurance, reflection, and a gentler perspective.If you've been wondering whether therapy could be supportive for you, Rae offers a warm, non-judgmental space to begin exploring that curiosity at your own pace.We're so grateful to have Rae joining the Peacefully Nourished team and cannot wait for you to get to know her.Resources:NEDIC Body BraveVirgina Sole Smith Book Fat Talk Nalgona Positivity Pride PosterLearn More About Rae:About her workConnecting with Rae ✨Do you need personalized and inclusive nutrition or therapy support? Book a⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠free 20 minute discovery call ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠with our team at Peacefully Nourished. We help support you in your definition of health and wellbeing without diet culture. ➡️ You can also join the quarterly newsletter to keep yourself updated on the latest podcast episodes, freebies, workshops and food freedom tips. You can ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠join the community here!⁠⁠

Is trauma stored in the body? Can fascia release heal it? Is there one modality, one practitioner, one magic pill that's finally going to fix you?Short answer: no.I'm Jen Wilson, The Healing Rebel, and this episode is me wading into the conversation (and in some places, the argument) that's playing out across the wellness industry right now. There's a particular kind of marketing happening where practitioners are promising trauma release through fascia work, and there's a particular kind of seeking happening where people are looking for the one thing that'll resolve everything.I want to talk honestly about what's actually going on in your body when you experience trauma, what fascia is and isn't, what touch and movement and breath actually do, and why the "pill for every ill" mentality keeps us stuck.What I cover:Why The Body Keeps the Score has been overtaken by newer thinking (the brain keeps the score, the body is the scorecard)Why two people can go through the same experience and only one comes out traumatisedHow trauma creates patterns of movement, holding, and bracing in your bodyA real client example of how a car collision shaped how she held herself in the driver's seatMy own example of holding patterns after my last Crohn's flare and the 2-year process of unwinding themWhether fascia actually "holds" trauma in any meaningful wayWhy emotional release during bodywork is real but isn't quite what people think it isThe role of touch, movement, and diaphragmatic breath in your body's natural processingWhy your lymphatic system needs breath and movement to do its jobHow tears, sweat, and exhaling breath are part of your body's detoxification processWhy we've been culturally trained out of expressing emotion, and how to retrain ourselvesThe "pill for every ill" mentality and why it keeps us stuckYou are not broken. You don't need to be fixed.A few questions I answer:Is trauma actually stored in the body?Can fascia release heal trauma?Is fascia an organ?Why do I cry during massage or fascia work? the difference between trauma and holding patterns?Why is touch so important for healing?Why does diaphragmatic breath matter for the lymphatic system?This is for anyone who's been on the wellness path long enough to feel exhausted by the constant search for the next thing. There's no one path through. There's only what's right for you.Free download: my Lymphatic Drainage Routine. A simple way to start touching your own body with awareness, getting to know your own physiology, and supporting your natural detoxification process. https://iamjenwilson.thrivecart.com/lymph/If you're in or around Glasgow and want to come in for a treatment, https://iamjenwilson.com/relaxAccess my FREE Posture for Health mini workshop here https://iamjenwilson.thrivecart.com/posture-for-health/Get my book 9 Rules to Sort Your Shit here - https://amzn.to/4eYtVnqRebel and Divine Anarchist hoodies and t-shirts here https://iamjenwilson-2.teemill.com/collection/new/Gut Friendly, Easy Recipe book here https://amzn.to/4gJsGICFor all information on working with me:www.iamjenwilson.comFollow my social channelsSubscribe to my YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/iamjenwilsonLike my Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/IamJenWilsonFollow me on Instagram https://instagram.com/iam.jenwilson

#284: Josie is talking about body image, confidence, and why women are more exhausted than ever by the pressure to look perfect. From SkinnyTok and “Pilates body” culture to the return of ultra-thin beauty standards, Josie breaks down the cultural shift happening right now, and why obsessing over shrinking ourselves is stealing so much more than just our confidence. She shares the mindset shifts and psychological tools that genuinely helped heal her relationship with her body, including somatic psychology, embodied cognition, the Reticular Activating System, and how to stop letting insecurity dictate your life.You'll learn:The psychology behind body insecurity and comparisonHow social media rewires the way we see ourselvesThe connection between confidence and nervous system safetyWhy “body positivity” can feel unrealistic (and what to practice instead)How to stop letting insecurity control your summerThe most healing mindset shift for body image and self-worthFor Detailed Show Notes visit theeverygirlpodcast.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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In this episode of Two Pastors and a Mic, we kick off our new series asking a powerful question: Is this a godly thought… or a trauma response?And we start with one of the most common (and sneaky) ones in church culture: false humility.For many of us, what we've called “humility” is actually self-rejection. We've been trained to downplay our gifts, deflect compliments, and avoid affirmation—all in the name of being “spiritual.” But what if that's not humility at all? What if it's insecurity… fear… or even internalized shame?In this episode, we unpack where false humility comes from, why it feels safe, and how it may actually be robbing you of confidence, identity, and freedom...Why deflecting compliments isn't humilityHow church culture often trains us to think less of ourselvesThe difference between humility and self-rejectionWhy false humility can disconnect you from your identityWhat Jesus actually modeled (confidence, security, and truth)A simple practice to begin breaking this pattern: just say “thank you”If you've ever struggled to receive affirmation, celebrate yourself, or believe good things about who you are… this conversation will hit close to home.00:00 - Welcome + Podcast Intro01:31 - Hill City Invite + New Galatians Series01:52 - Deflecting Compliments (Real-Time Example)02:07 - New Series: Godly Thought or Trauma Response?03:27 - Why These Patterns Look Spiritual04:08 - Topic: False Humility vs Worthiness05:00 - Why We Deflect Compliments06:09 - What We Were Taught About Humility07:12 - You Are Worthy (Reframing Identity)08:34 - Pendulum Swing: Pride vs Self-Rejection09:16 - False Humility Robs Confidence09:50 - Church Teachings That Shape Low Self-Worth11:03 - Internalized Shame Disguised as Humility12:14 - Jesus Restores Identity, Not Self-Hate14:28 - What's Underneath? (Counseling Lens)15:10 - Fear of Disappointment + Staying Small16:19 - What True Humility Actually Is18:33 - Affirmation Builds Security, Not Pride19:18 - Learning to Celebrate Yourself20:04 - Why False Humility Feels Safe20:55 - Simple Practice: Just Say “Thank You”22:00 - Letting Goodness Land Internally22:50 - Final Encouragement + Closing

“When you are multi-passionate, you are invited to exercise your muscle of presence and priorities and capacity.” –Tess MastersWhat if being multipassionate was your greatest gift — not a flaw?Tess Masters embraces her multipassionate life. She runs an amazing nutrition platform, which helps women over 40, be healthy again and lose weight and have energy and sleep and not have hot flashes. But she doesn't stop there. She's an actress, speaker, podcaster, chef, and author too. As an Enneagram 7, she doesn't want limits, and she is so expansive. We talk about how she thrives in her multipassionate life and about her food/wellness program (because food affects everything we do!) We talk about: Knowing your boundaries and making choices — and how boundaries can be fluid and change at different seasons times in your life.Modeling self-care and compassion as a coach — and how people often respond better than you expectWhat we can learn about our relationship with food and how we choose to nourish ourselvesThe power of coaches and communities to help us see what's hard to see from the insideLearning to lean into the pause and a slower pace, to luxuriate and evolveMaking food joyful, not drudgery or a list of restrictionsABOUT TESSTess Masters is a wellness coach, speaker, podcaster, chef, and author of The Blender Girl, The Blender Girl Smoothies, and The Perfect Blend published by Penguin Random House. You can find hundreds of easy recipes at theblendergirl.com.Tess and her team of dietitians have helped over 30,000 people get healthy using science-based food and lifestyle strategies. The “Good, Better, or Best, Not Perfect” philosophy of the programs encourages participants to empower themselves in all parts of their lives to find a balance of self-care and fun!Tess and her health tips and recipes have been featured in the L.A Times, Washington Post, InStyle, Real Simple, Prevention, Shape, Glamour, Clean Eating, Yoga Journal, Vegetarian Times, Yahoo Living, the Today show, Fox, Home & Family, and many other media outlets.As a spokesperson, presenter, and recipe developer, Tess has collaborated with many brands, including KitchenAid, Vitamix, Williams-Sonoma, Four Seasons, Whole Foods Market, Sprouts Farmers Market, Silk, So Delicious, and many others.Tess has a passion for sharing stories that inspire people to go after what they want. On her podcast, It Has To Be Me, she interviews trailblazers about how they conquer fear to take action on the things they're dreaming about.LINKSskinny60.comhttps://www.facebook.com/theblendergirl/https://www.pinterest.com.au/theblendergirl/https://twitter.com/theblendergirlhttps://www.youtube.com/user/theblendergirlTESS ON PLANSIMPLEIt Has To Be You with Tess MastersEmpowered Food Choices with Tess MastersEat to Thrive with Tess MastersThe Skinny with Tess MastersBlend It with Tess MastersDOABLE CHANGESAt the end of every episode, we share three doable changes, so you can take what you've heard and put it into action. Action is where change happens. But here's the thing: when we have a goal, a wish, a desire bubbling up in us, it can feel really huge. Sometimes we stop ourselves in our tracks based on how huge our desire feels. Change needs action, but it doesn't need huge action. When we focus on the next step, the next Doable Change that we can integrate into our lives, we don't get stuck and we create momentum. Choose one Doable Change that resonates with you today and really play with it. Fit it into your life, your days, make it work for you — then move on to your next Doable Change. Here are Three Doable Changes from this conversation: CHOOSE SELF-CARE. Self-care and compassion make such a difference, but sometimes we back off from them because we don't want to disappoint others. Think about the last time somebody modeled self-care and how you reacted. Try an act of self-care yourself.WHO ARE YOU NOW? Where are you getting stuck in old stories? Who are you now? I was once really dogmatic about food. It served me well at the time, but now, not so much. Are the decisions you would have made a decade ago that feel different now? Slow down and look at the boundaries and decisions in your life now. Are you working from an old story?CHECK OUT SKINNY60. I've done this program several times and I keep learning more and adjusting to my now body. Take a few minutes to explore this program to see if it might help you reclaim your health and navigate this stage of life in your body (which, of course affects everything else).

Have you ever noticed how, in love, we sometimes vanish before anyone asks us to? How we shrink, soften, and quiet ourselves—not because someone else forced us to, but because we learned avoidance as survival?In this episode, I sit down with Colette Fehr, licensed marriage and family therapist and author of The Cost of Quiet: How to Have the Hard Conversations That Create Secure, Lasting Love. We dive into the patterns of self-silencing that many of us develop in relationships—patterns that quietly erode connection and teach us to disappear.Colette's book illuminates a truth that's both shocking and liberating: it's not only avoidant partners who create distance. Our own avoidance—our quiet quitting, our reluctance to speak up, our people-pleasing—shapes how we show up, how we love, and how we protect ourselves from rejection.Together, we explore:How we become avoidant ourselves through self-silencing and people-pleasingThe slow erosion of connection caused by avoiding the “hard conversations”Identifying our emotional triggers and taking full responsibility for our feelingsCommunication strategies that honor both our needs and our partner's, without losing ourselvesThe radical Breakupward insight: noticing where we shrink is not shame—it's a roadmap to reclaim our presence, voice, and boundariesThis conversation isn't just about heartbreak. It's about transformation: seeing the ways we've disappeared in love, understanding why, and learning how to step fully into ourselves again.If you've ever felt the tension between wanting closeness and fearing conflict—or found yourself quietly giving up pieces of yourself to keep love intact—this episode is for you. Colette and I break down the psychology, the patterns, and the radical path to self-loyalty that emerges when we Breakupward.Listen, lean in, and discover how your own avoidance has been both a signal and a teacher—and how reclaiming your voice can change everything.Get in touch with Colette Fehr:WebsiteBookTEDx TalkPodcastInstagramChelsea Leigh Trescott: Email: chelsea@breakupward.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/thankyouheartbreak Advice Column: https://www.huffpost.com Writing: https://thoughtcatalog.com/chelsea-leigh-trescott

The Language We Use With OurselvesJust before heading out to meet friends, I caught myself in a small moment of self-judgement: 'I'm meant to be ready already.' It's such familiar territory, isn't it? That subtle criticism we layer onto ourselves throughout the day. Recognising that moment sparked some thoughts... that led to this episode, exploring:How our self-talk is a vital part of our self-care practice, shaping not only how we see ourselves but how we expect others to see usThe origins of our inner critic — recognising whose voice we're really hearing when we speak harshly to ourselvesThe difference between self-compassion and self-indulgence, and why compassion doesn't mean condoning all our behavioursA simple journaling prompt that can reveal what shifts when we speak to ourselves with kindnessHow the way we relate to ourselves ripples outward into how we show up in the worldThis is lived work, and I share my own recent experience with the 'vulnerability boomerang' after launching my new website — a reminder that even when we teach this work, we're always practicing it too.If you'd like to explore that journaling prompt, try writing these words at the top of your page, and see where they take you: When I Speak Kindly to Myself, I See...Currently… my work is centred around:Thoughtful connection, including live gatherings and courses, gently shared through my mailing list - join to hear more https://hennyflynn.kit.com/profileYou can find everything I offer here: https://www.hennyflynn.co.uk/ ★ Support this podcast ★

This episode is the first installment of Season 3 in our monthly PM Talks series, where Patrick Rhone and I slow things down to explore the ideas that quietly shape how we live and work. This time, we start with an act of honesty right out of the gate—being transparent about when the episode was recorded—and let that openness set the tone for everything that follows.From there, the conversation unfolds into something deeper. We talk about honesty not as a moral stance, but as a practical one—especially when it comes to time, commitments, and the stories we tell ourselves about why things don't happen. January has a way of inviting big intentions, and this discussion is a timely reminder that clarity begins with truth.Six Discussion PointsWhy the hardest lies to spot are the ones we tell ourselvesThe difference between urgency and immediacy—and why it matters“I don't have time” as a story, not a factHow calendars can act as commitments, not constraintsHonesty about capacity, energy, and personal rhythmsWhy knowing who you are (and aren't) changes everythingThree Connection PointsPatrick's websiteThe Year Compass (mentioned as a reflection tool)Mike's upcoming book, Productiveness.Honesty isn't about being harsher with ourselves—it's about being clearer. This conversation is an invitation to pause, notice, and tell better stories about what we can actually do with the time and energy we have.

Guiding us toward balance, connection, and freedom from suffering, Krishna Das explores letting go of our numerous self-created stories.This week on Pilgrim Heart, Krishna Das responds to questions on:Devotional literature and poetryWhat to do when feelings of boredom arise during practiceUsing pain as an object of awarenessHow mantra practice helps us remain balanced in daily lifeDetaching from our thoughts and feelings rather than identifying with themFreeing ourselves from the stories we tell ourselves, about ourselvesThe difference between letting go and pushing awayThe illusion of separation and how recognizing our connection to all beings releases us from suffering Check out this Tibetan devotional poem mentioned by Krishna Das, Life Beyond Time“When there is a lot of physical pain, it is really hard to be present, which is why they always say practice when you can. It is inevitable that people get sick and suffer and die. People we know will get sick, suffer, and die, and we're going to have to deal with those situations. We must find a way to live everyday in the best way we can.” –Krishna DasSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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In this heartfelt and healing episode, Dr. Dee and her guests dive deep into the emotional and spiritual significance of time and touch—two essential elements often overlooked in relationships, families, and personal healing. “I felt womanly when I got time and touch.” “To be touched and time-deprived is a dead man walking.”Together, they explore:How the absence of time and touch affects a woman's sense of identity and worthThe emotional damage caused by neglect, rejection, and unmet needsWhy friendship is the foundation of intimacy—and how it brings freedomHow healing begins when we learn to be friends with ourselvesThe power of physical affection in restoring relationships, parenting, and communityWhy time and touch are not just romantic needs—they're human needsThis episode is a powerful reminder that healing is holistic, and that reclaiming time and touch is not just about connection—it's about restoration, self-love, and setting the tone for how we are seen and valued.

In today's episode of Message in the Middle, I'm joined by the one and only Steve Gamlin, speaker, author, storyteller, vision-board expert, and “The Motivational Firewood® Guy.” If you've ever felt stuck in the middle of your life, unsure of your next step, or wondering if you're too late to dream something new, this conversation will remind you just how much is still possible.Steve shares how his own twists and turns, rock bottom moments included, led him to a life built on service, intention, and the simple-but-powerful daily practice of showing up. We talk about why vision boards actually work, how to move from wishing to action, and how to rebuild confidence when life has knocked you down more than once.Inside this episode, we explore:Why midlife can be the moment for redefining your goals and identityHow visualization really worksWhat to do when you feel paralyzed by overwhelm or “starting over syndrome”How small, imperfect actions build long-term transformationWhy self-worth is tied to how we talk to ourselvesThe power of service, gratitude, and paying attention to what's going rightPractical steps you can take today to move forwardIf you're craving hope, direction, or a gentle nudge, this episode will speak right to the middle of your life and your heart.Connect with Steve:Website FBLinkedIn  Connect with Marianne: Website: Message In The Middle with Marianne Message In the Middle Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/422430469323847/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MessageInTheMiddle/playlists LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marianne-demello-smith-678b9966 Email: Contact | Message In The Middle with Marianne Subscribe to Message In the Middle: Apple Podcasts Spotify YouTube Leave Us a Review: If you enjoyed today's episode, please leave a review and share your favorite takeaway. Your feedback helps us reach more listeners and bring you even more valuable content.Keep the conversation going - Join us for more insightful conversations in the Message in the Middle Private Facebook Community & subscribe to Message in th...

Check out the collection of fidgets Team Shiny loves! There's a particular kind of tired that seeps past your muscles—it settles in your body memory. The kind that comes from years spent reshaping yourself around other people's comfort. If you've ever been told your joy was too big, your voice too loud, your questions too many—this conversation might feel like exhaling.In this episode of Something Shiny: ADHD, therapist Grace Gautier joins Isabelle Richards and David Kessler for a deeply human conversation about what it means to hide your corners to stay connected. Grace, a trans woman who works closely with trans and neurodivergent communities, puts language to something so many of us have felt but couldn't name: carceral logic—that cultural instinct to isolate or correct those who struggle, instead of shifting the environment to support them.We talk about what happens when systems teach us to monitor ourselves before anyone else can. How masking gets confused for maturity. How survival strategies get mislabeled as flaws. And why returning to connection—not perfection—is the real work of healing.We explore:The overlap between neurodivergent and trans lived experiencesWhy we learn to tuck away the most beautiful, vital parts of ourselvesThe difference between being managed and being metHow community becomes the repairDavid brings in the metaphor of the uncarved block—this tender image of a version of you untouched by the sanding-down of social expectation. Grace recognizes herself immediately. She traces how her sensory overwhelm, emotional intensity, and clutter-as-memory weren't signs of dysfunction—they were adaptations. Signals. Ways of being.Grace also shares the ache of her father's deportation and the clarity that arrived when she was finally diagnosed with ADHD later in life. Suddenly, things made sense. She didn't need to try harder—she needed support that didn't punish her nervous system.By the end of this conversation, you'll realize the parts you were taught to hide were actually never flaws to fix, but rather truths you were carrying alone. What shifts when you stop mistaking survival for failure? What changes when you see your ADHD traits not as obstacles, but as signals? Maybe, for the first time, things make sense. And maybe that sense brings a kind of peace you didn't know you were allowed to feel.

The perfect recipe for burnout is to work in a caring profession, be a slave to perfectionism, and neglect your needs. As clinicians, we realize that we work in a flawed healthcare system in the US, but how do we exist in this environment to do good work and sustain ourselves from a holistic perspective that goes way beyond basic self-care? We are diving into this topic with today's guest. Join us!Our Featured GuestDr. Jessi GoldDr. Jessi Gold is the first Chief Wellness Officer for the University of Tennessee System, which comprises five campuses and more than 60,000 students. Also serving as an associate professor of psychiatry, Dr. Gold is a speaker, media advocate, author, and mental health consultant. She recently wrote How Do You Feel? One Doctor's Search for the Humanity in Medicine. In today's session, Jessi shares her experience in teetering on the edge of burnout and what she learned about herself. Dr. Jessi GoldYou'll Learn:The basics of Dr. Jessi's role with the University of Tennessee and what it means to be a Chief Wellness OfficerThe differences and barriers from campus to campus in a university system“Silo-breaking” as it relates to mental healthThe difficulty in caring for ourselves while caring for othersPerfectionism, burnout, and why “it's OK not to be OK”The pandemic's part in training us to wear a “badge of honor” for not caring for ourselves and our mental healthWe are human—and we forget that very often.The event that was the impetus for Dr. Jessi's book—and why it left her feeling horribleSigns of early burnout that Dr. Jessi only noticed in hindsightMaking the shift to navigate perfectionist tendencies to prevent burnoutThe importance of having self-compassion and reframing the mean things we say to ourselvesThe value of timeout for MEResources:Learn more at sellingthecouch.com/alma and get 2 months FREE–an exclusive offer for STC listeners. Want to launch your online course?Please check out our free 7-Day Course Creator Starter Kit for Therapists at https://sellingthecouch.com/coursekit.Check out our new membership site that's launching in January! Find out more and join the interest list for Haven. Mentioned in this episode:Try Alma!Building and managing the practice you truly want can feel overwhelming. That's why Alma is here—to help you create not just any practice, but your private practice. With Alma, you'll get the tools and resources you need to navigate insurance with ease, connect with referrals that are the right fit for your style, and streamline those time-consuming administrative tasks. That means less time buried in the details and more time focused on delivering exceptional care to your clients. You support your clients. Alma supports you. Learn more at sellingthecouch.com/alma and get 2 months FREE—an exclusive offer for STC listeners.

We can't do anything unless we have a grasp on our attention. But how do we reclaim it amidst the endless stream of distractions?Today Amelia Hruby returns to the podcast for a conversation about social media, creative practice, and sacred attention.We explore digital consciousness, material reality, energetic sovereignty, and what's really at stake when we live our lives online. People want all of the "safety" with no surrender. But that's not how change works. — grace allerdice Amelia Hruby is a feminist writer, podcaster and producer with a PhD in philosophy. She is the founder of Softer Sounds podcast studio, and the host of Off the Grid, a podcast about leaving social media. Her new book, *Your Attention is Sacred Except on Social Media* is out now.we discuss —The nonlinear paths of writing booksAmelia's experience leaving social mediaTaking full possession of ourselvesThe cultural transition from skepticism to desireWhat happens when you live a digital drone lifestyleWhy everyone's talking about attention right nowShifting from economical to ecological frameworksStepping back from social media to make space for changeWhy transformation without space can feel like traumaFrom “paying” attention to “giving” attention LINKSIf you enjoyed the episode, check out —Your Deep Alignment is a PortalRedefining Acts of Service through Connection w— Amelia HrubyBusiness as Initiation & the Power of Deep Alignment — grace on Amelia's podcast Off the Grid More about our guest —Visit Amelia's websiteBuy Amelia's bookListen to Off the Grid Free Resources —Receive the 3 keys that unlocked every major Initiation in my life. Get 3 Keys for the Soul here for FREE.

If you're parenting a child with a vulnerable nervous system, grief is an ever-present companion, whether we acknowledge grief or not.The holiday season often stirs that grief up a bit more. Our kids need more accomodations, they don't find the same things fun that other kids do, and sometimes it feels like special events aren't even worth it. As November begins, I'm replaying this previously episode all about grief in parenting a child with a vulnerable nervous system. In this episode, you'll learn:The relationship between trauma and griefWhy it's important to make space for grief in our kids and in ourselvesThe role of self-compassionHow a lack of media representation of your parenting journey causes griefResources mentioned in this podcast:Robyn's book: https://robyngobbel.com/bafflingbookRead a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/griefCheck Out All Robyn's Free Resources!You can download all sorts of free resources, including webinars, eBook, and infographics about topics such as lying, boundaries, and co-regulation!RobynGobbel.com/FreeResourcesCheck Out All Robyn's Free Resources!You can download all sorts of free resources, including webinars, eBook, and infographics about topics such as lying, boundaries, and co-regulation!RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources :::Grab a copy of my book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/bookJoin us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClubApply for the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With) robyngobbel.com/ImmersionFollow Me On:FacebookInstagram Over on my website you can find:Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)LOTS & LOTS of FREE ResourcesOngoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The ClubYear-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute's (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)

Episode DescriptionWhat do vampires, werewolves, and dragons tell us about ourselves? In this fascinating exploration of monsters in culture and society, we dive deep into why humanity has always been obsessed with creatures that go bump in the night.From the etymology of "monster" (Latin "monstrum" - to warn or demonstrate) to modern cryptids and creepypastas, discover how these frightening figures serve as mirrors reflecting our deepest fears, repressed desires, and cultural anxieties. Learn why monsters aren't just entertainment—they're essential tools for processing trauma, establishing moral boundaries, and creating social cohesion. We'll also examine the dangerous consequences of labeling real humans as monsters—and why this rhetoric prevents understanding, distances us from accountability, and can lead to dehumanization and violence.Key Topics CoveredThe Nature of MonstersWhat defines a monster and the true meaning behind the wordCategories: supernatural beings, humanoid creatures, the undead, cryptids, and human monstersWhy witches became one of history's most enduring monster figuresThe Psychology of FearHow monsters reflect our fear of ourselvesThe intersection of monsters with our anxieties, values, and hopesWhy we're drawn to "delicious fear" in safe contextsCultural Function of MonstersMonsters as warnings that prefigure societal problemsHow monster stories help us handle trauma and explore taboosThe role of monsters in teaching moral boundaries and creating in-groupsThe Danger of Labeling Humans as MonstersWhy dehumanization prevents understandingHow calling people "monsters" distances us from accountabilityThe real-world consequences of monster rhetoricWinning Against MonstersClassic tactics: hunting, outwitting, finding weaknessesThe power of team-ups, protective magic, and courageWhy we need triumph stories to overcome our fearsEpisode Highlights✨ Monsters are cultural constructs that serve as societal mirrors

“Every challenge you face builds your leadership muscle for the next one.” - Winnie da SilvaWhat makes someone take a leap with no safety net - and end up building a life and career more meaningful than they ever imagined? Twenty years ago, I turned down two job offers, quit my job, and had no real plan - just an 18-month-old baby, a husband between startups, and a mortgage. Looking back now, it was one of the best (and scariest) decisions I've ever made.In this episode, I open up about that journey. How I went from social work to corporate consulting to entrepreneurship and what I've learned about leadership, growth, and trusting yourself when the path ahead is anything but clear.You'll hear me discuss:Why great leadership always starts on the inside and how real change begins with ourselvesThe pivotal moment that pushed me to walk away from “safe” and build something on my own termsWhat it really took to transition from social work to business consulting (and why theater skills helped!)How saying “no” to the wrong opportunities can open the door to the right onesThe lessons I've learned from launching my own podcast - imperfectly, impatiently, and all on my ownWhy learning to take the long view has shaped everything from my client relationships to my definition of successResourcesWinnie da Silva on LinkedIn | On the Web | Substack | YouTube | Email - winnie@winnifred.org

In this intimate solo episode of Divine Union™, Nicola shares her personal journey of always seeking to be seen by the masculine, and how that longing shaped her choices in love, intimacy, and self-expression. Through stories of romance, heartbreak, and the moments where she shrank or self-sacrificed, she reveals the deeper truth: every breakdown was guiding her back to herself.You'll hear:How seeking validation in love can pull us away from ourselvesThe cost of self-sacrifice and what it takes to reclaim ownershipWhy heartbreak, though painful, can be the portal to wholenessThis is a raw and resonant reflection for anyone longing for union, both within and without.Subscribe to Nicola's Newsletter for intimacy and communication content, along with exclusive special offers.Connect with Nicola on InstagramSubscribe to Nicola's YouTube Channel Browse Nicola's offerings on her WebsiteBecause we love to reward effort, email a screenshot of your review of Divine Union to info@nicolanavon.com to receive a free gift. Looking to start your own podcast?Nicola's Top Podcast Tools:Power Up Podcasting CourseBuzzsprout Podcast Hosting Platform*Nicola is an Affiliate for these productsBy accessing this Podcast, I acknowledge that the entire contents are the property of Nicole Navon, or used by Nicole Navon with permission, and are protected under U.S. and international copyright and trademark laws. Except as otherwise provided herein, users of this Podcast may save and use the Podcast only for personal or other non-commercial, educational purposes. No other use of this Podcast may be made, including, without limitation, reproduction, retransmission, or editing.This podcast is for education...

Tired of building your business or career for the "fantasy version" of yourself?You're not alone. Many of us leave corporate environments that don't fit our neurodivergent, introverted, or strategically-wired brains, only to recreate the same extractive patterns in our own businesses. But what if there was another way?In this episode, I sit down with Maggie Patterson, creator of BS-Free Business and author of "Staying Solo," to explore why so much business advice isn't designed for businesses like yours. We dive into Maggie's "real-life rule" — if it doesn't work for your real life (with all your caregiving responsibilities, mental health considerations, and actual capacity constraints), it doesn't work in your business.Discover why being strategically wired can be a detriment as an employee but an asset as a solo business owner, learn how to build around your actual capacity instead of your maximum capacity, and find out why the best work you'll do might just be the work that feels easy.Episode Highlights:Why so much small business advice recreates the same toxic patterns we tried to leave behind in corporate lifeHow manipulative marketing tactics—like income claims and pain-point selling—harm solo business ownersWhy neurodivergent and introverted people often thrive as entrepreneurs after struggling in traditional workplacesThe “real-life rule”: building your business around actual capacity, not fantasy capacityHow being strategically wired can feel like a liability in corporate life but becomes a superpower in solo businessWhy the most sustainable businesses are often the simplest—lean, drama-free, and built to lastKey Concepts Explored:The "real-life rule": building business around actual capacity and constraints rather than fantasy versions of ourselvesThe neurodivergent advantage in solo business: creating accommodations for yourself that corporate environments can't provideStrategic brain blindness: how strategically-wired people undervalue their most marketable assetsThe employee detriment of strategic thinking: why strategic minds struggle in corporate but thrive as entrepreneursThe paradox of easy work: why the highest-value, most enjoyable work should feel effortless when you're truly skilledIncome claim marketing and pain point manipulation vs. empathetic connection in business communicationLesser of evils decision-making: sustainable business choices for people with anxiety, ADHD, and mental health challengesSimplicity as competitive advantage: lean operations, minimal services, and building incrementally rather than perfectlyRight-sizing dreams and expectations to prevent business-induced breakdown during caregiving and life challengesNeurodivergent entrepreneurship as affirmation: self-employment as refuge for those who don't fit traditional work cultureCommon Questions Answered:How can I build a business that works with my ADHD/anxiety/neurodivergence?Why do I struggle with traditional business advice?Is self-employment viable for introverts and strategic thinkers?How do I build for my real capacity instead of my maximum capacity?Why does my strategic thinking feel undervalued in corporate environments?Notable Quotes: "So much of online business is built on this fantasy version of yourself—someone with endless time, endless energy, endless capacity. And it just doesn't exist." – Maggie Patterson [00:05:00]"We left corporate because it didn't fit—but then we build businesses that are just as extractive, just as harmful, just as unsustainable." – Maggie Patterson [00:07:00]"If it doesn't work in your real life—with your caregiving, your...

Send us a textIn this episode of Integrate Yourself, I sit down in person with Adam and Steven from No Easy Feet Gym. We dive into the confusing landscape of the fitness industry, the transformative impact of ATG (Athletic Truth Group) training, and what to look for in a great coach. We also talk about the value of mentorship, coaching, and keeping curiosity alive in your own training. This conversation is full of insights for anyone looking to feel stronger, prevent injuries and find the right personal trainer or coach  We discussed:Our fitness formative yearsBenefits of ATG from a coaches perspective - Less myopic training vs. a more intrinsic minimalist approachGetting results from your workout after 50How to best navigate gym options and coaching when you're shopping aroundWorking on the low hanging fruit first for better gains and lasting resultsThe most underrated exercise you're probably not doing enough ofThe right kind of shoe wear and why it matters in your fitness routineAs coaches we can only help our clients as much as we've helped ourselvesThe value of hiring a great coach even for other coachesThe significance of the American garage gym experienceWhat makes coaching rewarding for coaches who've been coaching for 10+ yearWhat's required to be a great coachWhat to factor in when you're shopping for personal trainingSet up your consultation with Allison here:https://www.pureenergypdx.com/Online Coaching With AllisonPurchase Finally Thriving Here!Connect with Adam & Steven here:https://noeasyfeet.com/Get my Finally Thriving book here!Purchase Finally Thriving Here!Support the showFollow me on Instagram:@allisonpelot_Subscribe to my YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/c/AllisonPelot

In This Episode: procrastination coach, clutter in midlife, anxiety, nervous system regulation, midlife women, productivity tips✨ Show Notes:What if your procrastination isn't about laziness at all—but about overwhelm, anxiety, and old habits?In this week's special guest episode of The School of Midlife, Laurie sits down with Dr. Christine Li, New York-based clinical psychologist, productivity expert, and host of the Make Time for Success podcast—also known online as The Procrastination Coach.Christine shares her personal journey from chronic stress and bronchitis to regulated calm and focused energy. She breaks down how procrastination and clutter are symptoms of deeper emotional patterns, especially for high-performing midlife women.Together, they dive into:Why women in midlife are especially prone to procrastinationHow anxiety and identity conditioning block productivityWhat clutter is really trying to tell youSimple steps for reclaiming your energy—and your physical spaceHow Christine's free 5-day Decluttering Challenge (starting Sept. 8!) can reset your habits and nervous systemWhether you're burned out, surrounded by piles of "later" clutter, or simply feeling like your brain is running on fumes, this episode will feel like an exhale.

Today - I'm resharing one of my older, popular episodes - all about radical self acceptance.Do you find yourself being pretty hard on you?Do you have a negative voice in your head, that's constantly ready to criticize you and tell you you're doing it wrong?And that compares you to other people? Telling you you're always falling short?In today's episode, I'm talking about how self-acceptance will change your life - including:What self-acceptance really isWhy we struggle to love and accept ourselvesThe excuses we make to not accept ourselvesHow to make shifts towards unconditional self-acceptanceMentioned in this episode:Self Esteem Building KitThe MYRMD Society

In this episode, we are sitting down for an honest, energizing conversation about what the past year of going through breakups and being single has looked like for both of us — and why it's been one of the most transformative seasons of our lives. We reflect on how being on our own has allowed us to reconnect with our intuition, raise our standards, and pour into our own energy like never before. This one's all about celebrating the growth that happens when you're not in a relationship — and how that wholeness becomes the foundation for anything that comes next.We chat about:Why being single can be the best thing ever for yourselfHow we've deepened our relationship with ourselvesThe routines, mindset shifts, and rituals that helped us healDating with higher standardsThe freedom, clarity, and confidence that came from being on our ownWhether you're newly single, long-term solo, or just craving a deeper connection with yourself — this episode will meet you where you're at.Episode Sponsor:LMNT: New Lemonade Salt now available!!!!

I'm joined by Dr. Donna Oriowo—award-winning therapist, educator, and author known for her bold, no-BS approach to identity, intimacy, and liberation. Together, we unpack the roots of self-esteem and explore how race, gender, and cultural conditioning shape how we see ourselves—and how we can begin to unlearn it all.We talk about:Why self-esteem isn't just a personal journey—it's politicalThe role of community and culture in how we view ourselvesThe connection between disembodiment, pleasure, and worthWhat true liberation and worthiness really feel likePractical ways to begin healing your sense of worth through joy, community, and intentionResources You Might Also Like:The Black Joy Playbook by Tracey Michae'l Lewis-GiggettsPast episode with Tracey Michae'l Lewis-Giggetts Be Well, Sis SubstackDrink Water and Mind Your Business by Dr. Donna OriowoThis episode is part of our Summer of Joy series—an invitation to do the deep work of coming back home to yourself with softness, honesty, and community.

In this special episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with Nikki Barua, Interim CEO of Latinas in Tech and serial entrepreneur. We talked about AI, leadership, legacy, and the upcoming Latinas in Tech Summit, happening May 28–30 in San Francisco, CA. If you're in the Bay Area (or need a reason to visit), this is one to show up for.

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"Send Ben a text"In this episode, Ben talks with Marci Owen about how our minds get programmed and how we can change that programming. Here are the key points they discuss:Main Topics:How past experiences shape how we think about ourselvesWhy it's important to notice patterns in how we act and thinkWays to change unhelpful beliefs about ourselvesThe power of being kind to ourselves when we make mistakesKey Stories and Examples:Marci shares her story about struggling with math and how it affected her confidenceBen talks about learning to solve a Rubik's Cube after believing he couldn't do itThey discuss how parents can help their kids by working on themselves firstImportant Tips:Take time to notice your thoughts and behaviorsRemember that you can change old patterns of thinkingBe patient with yourself as you make changesPractice new ways of thinking when things are going wellResources Mentioned:Free Questions GuideMarci's Self Love Lab Marci's podcast: The Courageous and Confident Christian MomConnect with Marci:Instagram: @marci.owencoachingWebsite: httsp://marciowen.comWant a Simple Step by Step Parenting Debrief Guide? Go download the FREE Parenting Debrief Guide. It's simple and quick. It will help you uplevel your parenting. And, it's completely FREE! Go to benpughcoaching.com/debrief Download the debrief Start with your own internal debrief.

Robyn explores the grief in parenting kids with vulnerable nervous systems In this episode, you'll learn:The relationship between trauma and griefWhy it's important to make space for grief in our kids and in ourselvesThe role of self-compassionHow a lack of media representation of your parenting journey causes griefResources mentioned in this podcast:Robyn's book: https://robyngobbel.com/bafflingbookRead a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/griefOver on my website you can find:Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The ClubYear Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being WithCheck Out All Robyn's Free Resources!You can download all sorts of free resources, including webinars, eBook, and infographics about topics such as lying, boundaries, and co-regulation!RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources :::::Want to pick Robyn's brain, hang out with her in Zoom meetings and a forum you can access in an app? Come join us in The Club!Are you a professional who wants to support families of kids with big, baffling behaviors? Then Being With is for you!Just need a little extra help? Head to RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources

Krishna Das teaches listeners all that is possible through total sincerity of the heart and self-awareness.This week on Pilgrim Heart, Krishna Das holds a talk on:How Krishna Das' bar mitzvah transformed his outlook on organized religionWhat initially struck Krishna Das about Zen Buddhism and Indian philosophySensing an ongoing connection to Ram DassSitting down and chanting without over-intellectualizing everythingHaving sincerity of heart and being kind to ourselvesThe inner and outer blanket of Maharaj-jiThe difficult process of forgiving those who have hurt usLetting others be who they are and learn their own lessonsRecognizing that the problems we have with others are often about ourselves“Try to be kind to yourself. That's all. You don't need a mantra to be kind to yourself. You just need to recognize what that means and try to figure out why you're not kind to yourself. You don't need magic for that, you just need to pay attention. You need sincerity of heart. That's what we need.” – Krishna DasSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Highlighting the danger of indecision, Joseph Goldstein examines the nature of doubt as taught by the Buddha.This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/insighthour and get on your way to being your best self.The Satipatthana Sutta is one of the most celebrated and widely studied discourses in the Pāli Canon of Theravada Buddhism. This episode is the fourth part of an in-depth 48-part weekly lecture series from Joseph Goldstein that delves into every aspect of the Satipatthana Sutta. If you are just now jumping into the Satipatthana Sutta series, listen to Insight Hour Ep. 203 to follow along and get the full experience!This week on Insight Hour, Joseph explains to listeners:How elements of mind and body functionWhat the Buddha said about working with and overcoming doubtRecognizing whether or not doubt is present within ourselvesThe nature and character of the doubting mindThe danger of being paralyzed by indecisionDoubt within our meditation practice / Doubting parts of the dhammaContemplating the unattractive elements of the bodyDoubting the value of practice in a world of sufferingThe deep pattern of self-doubtHow doubt masquerades as wisdomPaying attention to what triggers doubtUnderstanding what is wholesome and unwholesomeInvestigation and the wisdom mind as the cure to doubtGrab a copy of the book Joseph references throughout this series, Satipaṭṭhāna: The Direct Path to Realization, HEREThis talk was originally published on Dharmaseed“When doubt is strong, and we're paralyzed by indecision, this mental force doesn't even allow us the opportunity to take a wrong turn and to learn from our mistakes; rather, we're always checking ourselves, we're vacillating, we're trying to decide.” – Joseph GoldsteinSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Author of Fear Dynamics: Harnessing Fear and Anxiety to Create Lasting Happiness and Meaningful Achievement, Stephen's journey from a childhood abuse survivor to a law firm partner exemplifies remarkable transformation. In this book, he introduces "Fear Dynamics Techniques," practical strategies to help readers conquer fear and anxiety. Fear Dynamics is both a memoir and a guide for personal growth, offering a powerful narrative and actionable insights for those dealing with past traumas.Also in discussion include: The things we do for our kids that we wouldn't do for ourselvesThe impact of anxiety in businessNormalize talking about anxiety and fear in relationships Think: am I acting rational, or is the other person acting irrational?Support the showHave a question for the host or guest? Are you looking to become a show partner? Email Danica at PodcastsByLanci@gmail.com to get connected.CRISIS LINE: DIAL 988

The perfect recipe for burnout is to work in a caring profession, be a slave to perfectionism, and neglect your needs. As clinicians, we realize that we work in a flawed healthcare system in the US, but how do we exist in this environment to do good work and sustain ourselves from a holistic perspective that goes way beyond basic self-care? We are diving into this topic with today's guest. Join us!Our Featured GuestDr. Jessi GoldDr. Jessi Gold is the first Chief Wellness Officer for the University of Tennessee System, which comprises five campuses and more than 60,000 students. Also serving as an associate professor of psychiatry, Dr. Gold is a speaker, media advocate, author, and mental health consultant. She recently wrote How Do You Feel? One Doctor's Search for the Humanity in Medicine. In today's session, Jessi shares her experience in teetering on the edge of burnout and what she learned about herself. Dr. Jessi GoldYou'll Learn:The basics of Dr. Jessi's role with the University of Tennessee and what it means to be a Chief Wellness OfficerThe differences and barriers from campus to campus in a university system“Silo-breaking” as it relates to mental healthThe difficulty in caring for ourselves while caring for othersPerfectionism, burnout, and why “it's OK not to be OK”The pandemic's part in training us to wear a “badge of honor” for not caring for ourselves and our mental healthWe are human—and we forget that very often.The event that was the impetus for Dr. Jessi's book—and why it left her feeling horribleSigns of early burnout that Dr. Jessi only noticed in hindsightMaking the shift to navigate perfectionist tendencies to prevent burnoutThe importance of having self-compassion and reframing the mean things we say to ourselvesThe value of timeout for MEResources:Interested in becoming part of our affiliate program? Learn more!Want to launch your online course?Please check out our free 7-Day Course Creator Starter Kit for Therapists at https://sellingthecouch.com/coursekit.If you are a seasoned therapist who wants to move from clinical to online course income, we have a specific mastermind for you. We meet together to build, grow, and scale our online courses. You can learn more at https://sellingthecouch.com/mastermind.Mentioned in this episode:Need Community Support? Join the MastermindIf you are a seasoned therapist, and you are wanting to move from clinical to online course income, we actually have a specific mastermind for therapists who are doing this. We meet together to build and grow and scale our online courses. You can learn more about that mastermind over at https://sellingthecouch.com/mastermind.Try Alma!Building and managing the practice you want can be challenging. That's why Alma offers tools and resources to help you build not just any practice, but your private practice. They'll help you navigate insurance, access referrals that are the right fit for you, and efficiently manage administrative tasks — so you can spend less time on the details, and more time delivering great care. You support your...

For episode 242, Emma Seppälä, Ph.D. returns to the Metta Hour to speak about her new book, “Sovereign: Reclaim Your Freedom, Energy, and Power in a Time of Distraction, Uncertainty, and Chaos.” Emma is a best-selling author, Yale lecturer, and international keynote speaker. She teaches executives at the Yale School of Management and is faculty director of the Yale School of Management's Women's Leadership Program. She is also the Science Director of Stanford University's Center for Compassion and Altruism Research and Education. A psychologist and research scientist by training, Emma's expertise is the science of happiness, emotional intelligence, and social connection. In this episode, Sharon and Emma discuss:Emma's definition of the word “Sovereign”Self-loathing hiding out as self-criticism The toxic relationship with ourselvesThe myths of high-achievers Sharon's story of facing self-imposed beliefsHow Emma has worked with self-loathingEmma's first meditation experienceYou have to name it to tame itInternalizing the stories told about usAwareness + courageEmma's definition of the term “self-compassion”The disempowerment of shameThe research around lovingkindnessHow intuition supports sovereigntyWhat research reveals about meditationThe science of happinessEmma's study of breath-work for veterans Emma closes the conversation with a guided meditation. You can learn more about Emma's work and get a copy of “Sovereign” on her website right here. Learn more about the Project Welcome Home Troops right here.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Focusing on Sila, Samadhi, and Prajna, Trudy Goodman explains how the Eightfold Path can carry us through all of our life experiences.In this episode of the BHNN Guest Podcast, Buddhist teacher Trudy Goodman offers a lesson on:The Eightfold Path as an expression and fulfillment of awakened lifeSila, Samadhi, and PrajnaEstablishing ourselves in goodness and the gift of fearlessnessThe bliss of blamelessness when we are free from guilt and regretHow committing to wise intention naturally improves our lifeNoticing what's here in the present moment and gathering the fragmented pieces of ourselvesThe limitless portability and applicability of mindfulnessMindfulness as the steady and accepting love of grandparentsFalling in love with the miracle of our own beingBeing drawn into the practice and allowing it to carry usHaving receptivity to the unfolding of thingsThis talk was originally published on DharmaseedAbout Trudy Goodman:Trudy is a Vipassana teacher in the Theravada lineage and the Founding Teacher of InsightLA. For 25 years, in Cambridge, MA, Trudy practiced mindfulness-based psychotherapy with children, teenagers, couples and individuals. Trudy conducts retreats and workshops worldwide.Learn more about Trudy's offerings at trudygoodman.com“Mindfulness helps us notice what's here so that we can start to gather and bring back all these scattered, fragmented bits of ourselves and our experience. As we bring them into our awareness and as we bring them back home to the heart, to more wholeness, these bits and pieces of our life experience and ourselves begin to coalesce and settle down and peacefully co-exist. We can have love, we can aversion, we can have likes and dislikes, and they can peacefully live in the same heart. There doesn't have to be any conflict.” – Trudy GoodmanSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Do you find yourself being pretty hard on you?Do you have a negative voice in your head, that's constantly ready to criticize you and tell you you're doing it wrong?And that compares you to other people? Telling you you're always falling short?In today's episode, I'm talking about how self-acceptance will change your life - including:What self-acceptance really isWhy we struggle to love and accept ourselvesThe excuses we make to not accept ourselvesHow to make shifts towards unconditional self-acceptanceMentioned in this episode:Self Esteem Building KitQuestioning your thoughts cheat sheet

Offering wisdom on the challenging yet necessary work of spiritual practice, Krishna Das explains working through difficulty and finding answers in ourselves.This time on Pilgrim Heart, Krishna Das offers wisdom on:Dealing with family issuesUntying emotional knots through practiceDoing spiritual work and cleaning our heartsReleasing the programming from our pastTreating others well and making positive karmaChanting, mantra repetition, and serving others for deeper consciousnessContinual growth in spiritual practiceBeing present, being with the sound of the nameExperiencing the space around our thoughtsFinding answers within ourselvesThe roots of depression and angerToday's episode originally aired on Krisha Das' “Hanging Out In the Heart Space” online satsang on May 5th, 2022. Be sure to subscribe to Krishna Das on Youtube to get new episodes of “Hanging Out In the Heart Space”, fresh music from KD and more: Krishna Das Music“Removing the energy out of the traumatic experiences and experiences that formed us is a big job. It's a really big thing. Don't think of it as a waste of time. It's our spiritual work. We're cleaning our hearts of anger, betrayal, hurt, damage, grief, and shame, all the stuff that we've learned and absorbed as children in our families and in life.” – Krishna DasSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Tessa is joined by Harmony Fulton, a Cincinnati transplant with an unwavering passion for health and happiness. Harmony is more than just your average yoga and spin instructor; she's a beacon of positivity and wellness in her community. From her early days teaching step aerobics in college to co-owning the beloved restaurant, Gooder Goods, Harmony's journey has been as vibrant as her name suggests. Embracing change and the pursuit of harmony, she found her calling among Arizona's majestic mountains, a transformative experience she credits to a chance encounter with a stranger. Changing her birth name to Harmony in 2003, she embodies the ideals of balance, kindness, and growth, inspiring those around her to strive for their best selves. Her commitment to health extends to her belief in nourishing both body and soul, fostering connections with her clients and community alike and creating meaningful experiences that uplift and transform lives.Tessa and Harmony discuss:The story behind the name Harmony and why she decided to change it in 2003Her personal journey through health and healing and the many places listening to her intuition has led herThe importance of lifestyle choices and striving to know more about ourselvesThe impact of personal relationshipsOvercoming personal challenges (such as business closures and breast cancer) and what they've taught herThe magnetic power in movement and music How she has become a mentor and beacon of hope to so manyResilience, gratitude, and self-discoveryConnect with Harmony:https://www.instagram.com/hugharmony/Want to share your story of personal growth, healing, and turning your pain into power? Send an email to dearsunnypodcast@gmail.com Connect with Tessa on Instagram @tessakahoun and join a community that helps lift one another up through honest storytelling and connection!

In today's episode, we had the pleasure of inviting Alok Vaid-Menon - poet, actor, comedian, public speaker and activist - to talk about the journey they have taken as a non-binary person and how knowing and connecting with their own story allowed them to overcome and heal parts of it. We talked about how to integrate fear into our lives and giving ourselves the opportunity to change, grow, and create a life on our own terms. Alok talked to us about how they have changed their perspective on friendship and gave us some tips on how to work on our self-love.In this episode you will find information about: The importance of being honest and have compassion for ourselvesThe challenge of redefining yourselfHow to deal with uncertainty?Confront your own painThe power of wordsIf you like this episode you can also listen (they're all in english): 401. La persona que quiero ser | The person I want to become | Elizabeth Gilbert187. Libro: Indomable | Glennon Doyle | Episodio Especial Tickets for Alok's comedy show in Los Angeles on May 2nd, 2024 can be found here​​You can find all the information about our guest and more resources in our newsletter subscribing for free here—----En el episodio de hoy invitamos a Alok Vaid-Menon, poeta, conferencista y activista para hablar sobre el camino que ha recorrido como persona no binaria y sobre cómo conocer y conectarse con su propia historia le permitió superar y sanar partes de ella. Hablamos de cómo integrar el miedo en nuestras vidas y de darnos la oportunidad de cambiar, crecer y crear una vida bajo nuestros propios términos. Alok nos habló sobre cómo ha cambiado su perspectiva sobre la amistad y nos compartió algunos tips para trabajar en nuestro amor propio. En este episodio encuentras información sobre:La importancia de practicar la honestidad y la compasión con nosotros mismosEl desafío de redefinirte¿Cómo afrontar la incertidumbre?Enfrentar nuestro propio dolorEl poder de las palabrasVe este episodio con subtítulos en español en YoutubeSi te gustó este episodio también puedes escuchar:304. ¿Cómo nos afectan las etiquetas?: Retos de la comunidad LGBTQIA+ | Enrique Torre Molina290. ¿Cómo aceptarme para amarme? | Victoria Volkova Encuéntranos en: linktr.ee/seregalandudas Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Robyn explores the grief in parenting kids with vulnerable nervous systems In this episode, you'll learn:The relationship between trauma and griefWhy it's important to make space for grief in our kids and in ourselvesThe role of self-compassionHow a lack of media representation of your parenting journey causes griefResources mentioned in this podcast:Robyn's book: https://robyngobbel.com/bafflingbookRead a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/griefOver on my website you can find:Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The ClubYear Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being WithThe Club is OPEN NOW for new members! Until March 5, 2024 (or we reach capacity).Come to RobynGobbel.com/TheClub for all the details and to join!*** :::::Want to pick Robyn's brain, hang out with her in Zoom meetings and a forum you can access in an app? Come join us in The Club!Are you a professional who wants to support families of kids with big, baffling behaviors? Then Being With is for you!Just need a little extra help? Head to RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources

For episode 228 of the Metta Hour, we are continuing our Mental Health Series. In this series, Sharon sits down with different teachers, experts, and health advocates to explore and destigmatize mental health by applying the tools of Buddhist wisdom and spiritual practice.For this sixth episode of the series, Sharon speaks with Dr. Richie J. Davidson, PhD. Richie is the William James and Vilas Professor of Psychology and Psychiatry at the University of Wisconsin–Madison and the Founder and Director of the Center for Healthy Minds. He is best known for his groundbreaking work studying emotion and the brain. A friend and confidante of the Dalai Lama, he is a highly sought after expert and speaker, leading conversations on well-being on international stages such as the World Economic Forum, where he serves on the Global Council on Mental Health.In this episode, Sharon and Richie discuss:How Richie came to this pathMeeting Daniel Goleman and Ram DassHow Danny Goleman brought Sharon to her first retreatThe term “Mental Health”Innate GoodnessBelieving in Growth MindsetA vision of possibility for ourselvesThe role of systemic oppression in mental well-beingIntergenerational ResilienceRichie's four pillars of well-beingPersonal mental hygiene“The road to Lhasa goes up and down” – Mingyur RinpocheThe value of community and teachers in mental health Richie driving Mingyur RinpocheContemplative NeuroscienceThe Science of Flourishing CourseRichie's new book projectThe conversation closes with a guided meditation led by Richie. To learn more about Riche's work or his different books, you can visit his website and check out the Center for Healthy Minds.Join Richie's upcoming course The Science of Flourishing: Well-Being Skills for Daily Life. Save 20% off the course using coupon code METTA20.Mental Health ResourcesNational Suicide Prevention Lifeline call 988 or (800) 273-8255Psychology Today Find a Mindfulness-Trained TherapistActive Peace Yoga with Reggie HubbardThe Psychology Podcast with Scott Barry KaufmanMark Epstein Psychiatrist & Author with a Buddhist LensNalanda Institute Contemplative Psychotherapy ProgramExpress Yourself Black Man Healing Community for Black MenBlack Boys Om Black Boys & Men Healing & Wellness EducationCloud Sangha Community For Meditation & WellnessThe Trevor Project Support for LGBTQ Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Mental Wellness for Black Women and GirlsThe Friendship Bench Creating Safe Spaces & CommunityHope for Bereaved Grief Support GroupsOption B Grief, Trauma and Loss SupportSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Mindfulness teacher Oren Jay Sofer sits with Raghu to discuss keeping our hearts open through difficult times.In this episode, Raghu Markus and Oren Jay Sofer talk about:Oren's path to mindfulnessThe influence of Vipassana MeditationHow mindfulness can be a resource to navigate the horrors of global conflictExpanding the capacity of our heartsThe potential that human beings have to move beyond ourselvesThe challenges we are currently faces as a speciesCompassion and the route to a better worldFamily and the importance of relationshipsHow the company we keep affects our spiritual practiceThe way that individual change can impact societyEcology and the abuse of earthYugas, cosmology, and building a future through our daily choicesSangha and witnessing another human being's healingStories from experiences with MunindrajiThe importance of joy and gratitudeHow self-centeredness is being encouraged and exploited by technologyCourage and the willingness to be vulnerableA brief guided meditation around ease“Our hearts were made to flourish. We are born with these immense capacities and this beautiful potential to contribute and grow and flower as human beings, if we receive the right nourishment and if we know how to water those seeds.” – Oren Jay SoferAbout Oren Jay Sofer:Oren teaches mindfulness, meditation and Nonviolent Communication in secular and Buddhist contexts. Oren is also the founder and Guiding Teacher of Next Step Dharma, an innovative online course focused on bringing the tools of meditation to daily life, and co-founder of Mindful Healthcare. He is a CNVC Certified Trainer of Nonviolent Communication, and visiting teacher at the Insight Meditation Society. You can order your copy of Oren Jay Sofer's new book, Your Heart Was Made For This, on his website. Check our Oren's recent blog post about allowing the heart to open and close during difficult times.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I often hear from clients that they are Type A and they have all kinds of questions about how they should handle situations based on their Type A personality. Are you someone who identifies strongly as Type A? If so, I have a bit of a challenge for you. What would happen if you let go of that label, just a little bit?In this episode of Weight Loss for Busy Physicians, I'm exploring where the Type A personality came from, why you might identify so strongly as Type A (or Type B), and why these labels can sometimes start causing problems. If you enjoy being a Type A, don't worry; I'm not here to tell you that you need to change your whole personality. If it's working for you, that's great! I just want to get you thinking about how that label might be forcing you into a box that you don't always fit into and how to tap into other parts of your personality that could be getting left behind. Topics covered in this episode include:The origins of the Type A personality Why we feel the need to label ourselvesThe pros and cons of identifying as Type ALet's talk about the identities that we give ourselves and whether they help us or not. All show notes are available at  https://katrinaubellmd.com/podcast!!Resources Mentioned:Learn More About Weight Loss for Doctors Only: katrinaubellmd.com/infoLeave a Review of My Book: https://a.co/d/4BwGZ6vTo check out the How to Lose Weight for the Last Time book and free workshop, head to katrinaubellmd.com/book!

The scientific case for self-compassion and why it doesn't have to lead to passivity, self absorption, or cheesiness.Today's guest is Kristin Neff, an Associate Professor of Educational Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin. She's the author of the book Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself and Fierce Self-Compassion: How Women Can Harness Kindness to Speak Up, Claim Their Power, and Thrive.For tickets to TPH's live event in Boston on September 7:https://thewilbur.com/armory/artist/dan-harris/For tickets to TPH's live and live streamed event in Colorado on November 3rd:https://www.milehichurch.org/calendar/10-percent-happier-with-dan-harris/Do you have a favorite episode of TPH? We want to hear about it!Here's how you can help us uncover these hidden gems.Call +1 508-656-0540Tell us your name and favorite episodeAnd, in a couple of sentences, tell us why this episode hit home for youDo this and your episode and story may be part of our Deep Cuts featureIn this episode we talk about:How Kristin first got into meditation and why she was drawn to the practice of compassion How, paradoxically, self-compassion actually makes us less focused on ourselvesThe three components of self-compassionOne of the big blockers for men in practicing self-compassionWhat self-compassion is and isn'tHow research shows that self-compassion is a trainable skillWhether we actually need the internal cattle prod to get aheadBeing kind to yourself even when you notice prejudice coming up in your mind And how men and women deal with shame differentlyFull Shownotes:https://www.tenpercent.com/tph/podcast-episode/kristin-neff-rerunSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Episode Highlights With KristinaHow she was born in a country that doesn't exist anymore and was selected for the Olympic reserves multiple timesWhy too much positivity can actually be detrimental to us and how to safeguard against thisLife is like a dance and there aren't necessarily simple answers or linear pathsHow she defines authenticity and what happens when we aren't authentic to ourselvesThe dark side of personal growth and how the extremes can feed our insecuritiesHow to reframe and instead of thinking of slaying the dragons think of taming them and learning to ride themVulnerability has two components: the courage of acting despite the fear and the uncertainty of not knowing what will resultHow people can misuse the practice of meditation or gratitude when they start to happen on autopilotWhat emotional analgesia is and why she believes it is a big problem for usYou can't numb emotions selectively… if you numb one, you numb the ability to feel all of themRemembering that we are allowed to feel all of our emotions and not judge them and still choose to act from our values and not our emotionsWe are not our emotions but why they are valuable feedbackSelf love is actually about the relationship with yourselfThe difference between self love and self care and why this difference is importantSelf care is skin deep and self love has more depthIs imposter syndrome actually a sign that you've done something good?An important question: Can you still love yourself if you fail?When we use love as currency and how to avoid thisTry an experiment of replacing judgement with curiosity in your relationship with yourselfResources We MentionBecoming Flawesome: The Key to Living an Imperfectly Authentic Life by Kristina Mand-LakhianiMindvalleyThe Best of Fyodor DostoevskyAlice in Wonderland: The Original 1865 Edition With Complete Illustrations (Lewis Carroll Classics) by Lewis Carroll