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In this tender and eye-opening session, Christine coaches Lucia through the heartbreak and confusion of a breakup she now regrets. While the relationship was loving and emotionally safe, differences in values, lifestyle, and follow-through led to a mutual decision to part ways. Now, Lucia is wrestling with second-guessing herself and holding on to hope—while also remembering what wasn't working. This conversation goes far beyond one relationship story. It's about learning to trust your choices, release regret, and grieve while keeping the love. Christine helps Lucia explore self-forgiveness, avoid over-responsibility, and understand the deeper imprints from her first love and early life experiences. If you've ever questioned a decision, longed for a “redo,” or struggled to move forward after letting go, this episode will help you find clarity, peace, and compassion for yourself. Consider / Ask Yourself: Do you tend to replay past choices, wishing you could go back and change them? Are you holding on to the good memories while forgetting what wasn't aligned? Have you confused the love you felt with the actual fit of the relationship? Is regret keeping you stuck in the past instead of allowing you to move forward? Key Insights and A-HAs: Regret often uses present-day knowledge to beat yourself up for past decisions. Love is not always enough—shared values and aligned lifestyles matter. You can keep the love while grieving the relationship itself. Over-responsibility can fuel self-blame and block healing. Forgiveness and grief work create the space for true clarity. How to Deepen the Work: Write down what was working and what wasn't in your past relationship or situation. Practice self-forgiveness by acknowledging you made the best choice with the information you had at the time. Allow yourself to fully grieve without rushing to replace or “fix” the loss. Identify any limiting beliefs you're holding about your worthiness for future healthy love. Upcoming Events: Join Christine for her Free Masterclass for Overachievers and Perfectionists on August 18th—especially for women who struggle with regret, self-criticism, and letting go. Register at: christinehassler.com/masterclass Also, Christine's Women's Retreat is happening October 17–19, 2025. This is a deep, transformational space to release old patterns, reclaim self-compassion, and step into your next chapter. Social Media + Resources: Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler @ChristineHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram @SacredUnionCouples on Instagram Email: jill@christinehassler.com — For information on any of my services! Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show! Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches.
In this episode, I sit down with my life coach, Megan Hellerer, and author of "Directional Living," to explore the meaning of the "Underfulfilled Overachiever" and discuss strategies for finding true career and life fulfillment. Megan shares her personal journey from working at Google to becoming a transformative coach, and introduces us to concepts like directional living and productivity hoarding. We talk about why so many high achievers feel unfulfilled despite outward success, and how to break free from the cycle of compulsive achievement.Key Takeaway / Points:What is an "Underfulfilled Overachiever"?Megan's transition from working at Google to becoming a life coachThe difference between directional and destinational livingHow to listen to your inner navigation systemFinding fulfillment when you don't have a clear passionWhy curiosity is more important than passion in career explorationPractical steps for aligning your calendar with your valuesHow to balance choosing a career you enjoy with financial needsWays to start living more directionally right nowFinding hobbies that fuel your passionsHow to get unstuck and take action to find happiness and joyThis episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:Arya: Go to Arya.Fyi/Cameron to get 15% off your first orderGraza: Add Graza Olive Oil to your summer time patio party arsenal. Visit https://graza.co/CAMERON and use promo code CAMERON today for 10% off of the TRIOGreen Chef: Head to Greenchef.com/50CAMERON and use code 50CAMERON to get fifty percent off your first month, then twenty percent off for two months with free shipping.Caraway: Visit Carawayhome.com/CAMERON and take an additional 10% off your next purchaseLola Blankets: Head to LolaBlankets.com and use code CAMERONCotton: Learn more at TheFabricOfOurLives.comGet Megan's book "Directional Living" HEREFollow Megan:Instagram: @meganhellererWebsite: meganhellerer.comFollow me:Instagram: @cameronoaksrogers and @conversationswithcamSubstack: Fill Your CupWebsite: cameronoaksrogers.comTikTok: @cameronoaksrogers and @conversations_with_camYoutube: Cameron RogersSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Are you unknowingly stuck in a work mindset that's keeping you stressed, overworked, and trapped in the grind? What if identifying one core mindset could solve 90% of your workplace challenges?In this episode, you'll discover:The five most common high-achiever mindsets that fuel overwork and burnout.How your thoughts, feelings, and daily actions are keeping you in the grind.A free quiz to reveal your primary mindset and strategies to break free.Enroll in BFG: Want to eliminate stress, self-doubt, and overworking to be more effective, feel better, and create sustainable success in your demanding corporate career? Schedule a free consult here to find out how you can get started in my Breaking Free from the Grind 1:1 coaching program.Take the BFG Quiz: Want to know the biggest reason you're feeling overworked and overwhelmed at work right now, and how you can start feeling better today?Take the 3-minute BFG quiz here to find out which mindset - Overachiever, Overthinker, People Pleaser, Impostor, or Perfectionist - is preventing you from creating sustainable success at work. Your results will reveal your biggest trap and how to break free for good.About AmeliaAmelia Noel is a Master Certified Coach, podcast host, corporate workshop facilitator, and creator of the Breaking Free from the Grind coaching program. After spending over a decade of her career working on Wall Street at a top investment bank and as a global strategy consultant to Fortune 100 companies, Amelia now helps professionals working demanding corporate careers eliminate stress, self-doubt, and overworking so they can break free from the grind and create sustainable success in their careers.Connect with Ameliawww.amelianoelcoaching.comIG: @breakingfreefromthegrindLinkedIn: Amelia Noel
Dave and Chris record after a long break between episodes together and discuss new electronics designs they're working on, solar and battery installations, dealing with tariffs, and building at JLC.
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3693: Renata Leo shares her journey from chronic overachiever to balanced achiever, revealing the hidden costs of always striving to do and be the most. With sharp humor and raw honesty, she unpacks how hustle culture leads to burnout, guilt, and the loss of simple joy, offering permission to pursue goals without losing yourself along the way. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://buffalosauceeverywhere.com/2022/08/24/dont-be-an-overachiever/ Quotes to ponder: "I have a valedictorian speech and anxiety to show for it." "Overachieving forces you to work with so much concentration and blind perseverance that self-awareness goes out the window." "Week after week, I've gone back to axe league because I enjoyed it, even though I was terrible at it." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3693: Renata Leo shares her journey from chronic overachiever to balanced achiever, revealing the hidden costs of always striving to do and be the most. With sharp humor and raw honesty, she unpacks how hustle culture leads to burnout, guilt, and the loss of simple joy, offering permission to pursue goals without losing yourself along the way. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://buffalosauceeverywhere.com/2022/08/24/dont-be-an-overachiever/ Quotes to ponder: "I have a valedictorian speech and anxiety to show for it." "Overachieving forces you to work with so much concentration and blind perseverance that self-awareness goes out the window." "Week after week, I've gone back to axe league because I enjoyed it, even though I was terrible at it." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3693: Renata Leo shares her journey from chronic overachiever to balanced achiever, revealing the hidden costs of always striving to do and be the most. With sharp humor and raw honesty, she unpacks how hustle culture leads to burnout, guilt, and the loss of simple joy, offering permission to pursue goals without losing yourself along the way. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://buffalosauceeverywhere.com/2022/08/24/dont-be-an-overachiever/ Quotes to ponder: "I have a valedictorian speech and anxiety to show for it." "Overachieving forces you to work with so much concentration and blind perseverance that self-awareness goes out the window." "Week after week, I've gone back to axe league because I enjoyed it, even though I was terrible at it." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
On this episode, Pat Dooley is joined by The HBC Steve Spurrier, courtesy of Meldon Law We'll have Big Mill's Cheesesteaks' "Yes, No Way, or Maybe," Hesser & Kipke “Three Things" Leonardo's Pizza of Millhopper "Quick Picks," Adam's Rib Co. "Gator of the Week," BMI TeleMed "Overachiever of the Week All that, and much more!
What does true confidence really mean in a demanding corporate career? And how do we create and sustain it when self-doubt, overworking, or perfectionism start to take over? In this episode, Amelia Noel sits down with expert coach Katie Pulsifer to break down the real tools for building lasting confidence at work.Key Highlights: ✅ Understanding confidence as both an emotion and a willingness to try. ✅ How internal validation is more powerful than external feedback. ✅ Practical strategies to overcome self-doubt, over-preparing, and fear of failure.
In this week's episode, hosts Jill and Anthony commemorate their 300th episode and ask their audience whether they have a problem with people they perceive to be overachievers and whether anyone can actually overachieve. The hosts also request that the audience sign up and vote, by July 31, for their podcast in the "People's Choice" and "Society-Culture" categories at podcastawards.com.
What if your brilliant problem-solving brain is actually what's burning you out at work?In this episode, Jamie breaks down:Why systemic issues persist (hint: leadership isn't always on board with fixing the root cause)The cycle that leads brilliant problem-solvers into burnout (and repeat job changes)Why your next job isn't the real fix (it's rarely the job, it's the lack of boundaries and leadership alignment)What to do insteadLinks Mentioned:Before You Rage‑Quit Your Job, Try This! Free webinar: outsmartadhd.co/ragequitBook your free 30-minute coaching consult: calendly.com/outsmartadhd/adhd-coaching-consult
What happens when you mix statistics with orgasms? You get this deliciously naughty episode! I'm reacting to a new survey about how often we're all getting off—and let's just say I have thoughts.
Is your job your whole identity? Are you measuring your worth based on feedback, titles, or how hard you work?This episode breaks down the hidden mindsets that keep high-achievers stuck in overwork, stress, and burnout—and what it really takes to feel better and show up stronger at work.Key takeaways: ✅ Why “I am more than my job” is the most powerful mindset shift you can make ✅ How focusing on your progress (not your gaps) builds real confidence ✅ Why self-validation is your secret weapon for sustainable success
Was Torri a little skeptical? Maybe! But when we dove in, turns out that after all, Torri IS in fact working on her mindset… Mindset work isn't always journaling, vision boards, or structured routines. Sometimes, it's choosing to stay positive in hard moments. It's having deep conversations, seeking connection, or just getting through the day with intention. In this episode, we talk about what mindset work really looks like, how to stay in a good headspace even when life gets messy, and why you might already be doing more mental work than you give yourself credit for. Whether you're deep in personal growth or just trying to feel more grounded, this one's for you. Recommended LINKS: Better with Daffnee podcast homepage: https://www.daffneecohen.com/podcast/ Connect on Instagram: @Daffnee Learn more at and get tons of freebies at daffneecohen.com
When we were younger, we thought adulting would mean total freedom—no rules, no curfews, and eating cake for dinner. But in this episode, we unpack what actually comes with adulthood: the responsibilities, the pressure, the mental load, and the surprise realization that not everyone around us “adults” the same way. We talk about how trauma (or lack of it) shapes our ability to manage life, why having a partner who can carry their share of the adulting load matters more than you'd expect, and what it really means to feel “prepared” for adulthood. This episode is part reflection, part therapy session, and part laugh-at-our-past-selves. Tune in and feel a little more seen in your own messy, real-life version of adulting. Recommended LINKS: Better with Daffnee podcast homepage: https://www.daffneecohen.com/podcast/ Connect on Instagram: @Daffnee Learn more and get tons of freebies at daffneecohen.com
Dave and Lefko look back on which position groups have overachieved and underachieved in the first half of the Mariners season, they look at which second round draft picks have started to sign around the NFL, they break down what those signings means for Seahawks rookies Nick Emmanwori and Elijah Arroyo, and they react to where Devon Witherspoon landed on ESPN’s list of the Top Ten Cornerbacks in the NFL.
Have you ever felt like a fraud or doubted your accomplishments? In this episode, Kevin welcomes Aoife O'Brien to discuss the often-misunderstood phenomenon of imposter syndrome. Aoife shares research that led her to identify five distinct imposter identities: The Overachiever, The Comparer, The People Pleaser, The Procrastinator, and The Success Fearer, and explains how these behaviors show up and affect individuals and teams. They also talk about how common imposter syndrome is in the workplace, how it can hurt performance and confidence, and how leaders can recognize and support team members who might be struggling. Aoife also introduces her simple ABCDE framework as a practical tool for overcoming imposter thoughts. Listen For 00:00 Intro to Imposter Syndrome 00:30 Welcome to the Remarkable Leadership Podcast 01:25 Kevin introduces his book “Flexible Leadership” 02:10 Introducing Aoife O'Brien 03:00 Aoife's professional journey and inspiration 05:00 Organizational culture and work fulfillment 06:00 Connecting imposter syndrome to workplace happiness 07:00 Aoife's personal imposter syndrome story 08:30 Being featured in a national newspaper 10:00 Defining imposter syndrome 12:00 The impact on individuals and teams 13:00 Imposter syndrome vs. confidence 14:00 How widespread is imposter syndrome? 15:30 Common triggers and barriers 17:00 What leaders can look for in team behavior 18:40 Examples of behavior linked to imposter syndrome 20:00 Real-world feedback from the audience 21:20 Aoife's 5 Imposter Identities 23:15 The Overachiever 23:45 The Comparer 25:20 The People Pleaser 26:15 The Procrastinator 28:00 The Success Feeler 30:00 Aoife's ABCDE Framework 31:00 Acknowledge 31:40 Build Belief 32:30 Courageous Action 33:30 Do It Anyway 34:00 Everyday Practice 35:00 What Aoife does for fun 35:50 What Aoife is reading 36:30 Where to find Aoife online 38:00 Kevin's “Now What?” challenge to listeners Aiofe's Story: Aoife O'Brien founded Happier at Work in 2019 because she witnessed firsthand the impact of poor workplace culture on both organizations and employees. Using her research-based Happier at Work framework, she partners with Global Talent & HR Leaders to cultivate human-centered workplace cultures that prioritize wellbeing, career growth, and meaningful impact. She supports employees to build their confidence, gain career clarity and reach their full potential, while driving increased engagement and retention in organizations. Her clients hire her to speak, train and deliver corporate programs. She has worked with global organizations like Meta, MSD, Ciena, AbbVie, Logitech, and HubSpot. Her award-winning podcast, Happier at Work®, has a global audience of over 125k. This Episode is brought to you by... Flexible Leadership is every leader's guide to greater success in a world of increasing complexity and chaos. Book Recommendations The Happiness Trap (Second Edition): How to Stop Struggling and Start Living by Russ Harris Flexible Leadership: Navigate Uncertainty and Lead with Confidence by Kevin Eikenberry Like this? Love Your Imposter with Rita Clifton Join Our Community If you want to view our live podcast episodes, hear about new releases, or chat with others who enjoy this podcast join one of our communities below. Join the Facebook Group Join the LinkedIn Group Leave a Review If you liked this conversation, we'd be thrilled if you'd let others know by leaving a review on Apple Podcasts. Here's a quick guide for posting a review. Review on Apple: https://remarkablepodcast.com/itunes Podcast Better! Sign up with Libsyn and get up to 2 months free! Use promo code: RLP
Helping leaders reconnect with intrinsic motivation, uncover their Purpose Factor®, and align their leadership with authenticity and impact. Overview: In Set 6, Pankaj Singh dives deep into the foundational role of purpose in leadership. Through five engaging episodes, this set equips listeners with actionable frameworks, relatable insights, and practical tools to identify their Purpose Factor® (Natural Advantage + Origin Strength) and use it as a compass for decision-making, alignment, and sustainable success. Key Highlights:Burnout and Misalignment: Burnout isn't caused by hard work but by working on things that don't align with your core values and strengths.The Purpose Factor® Framework: A personalized equation (Natural Advantage + Origin Strength) to identify intrinsic motivation and align roles with purpose.Origin Strength as a Superpower: Reframing past challenges as assets that strengthen leadership.The Inner Compass Journey™: A three-step process (Purpose → Clarity → Confidence) to help leaders align their priorities and roles.The 5 Burnout Archetypes: Fixer, Hero, Avoider, Chameleon, and Overachiever—each with unique patterns of misalignment and actionable solutions. This set is designed to empower leaders to move beyond surface-level productivity and lead with clarity, alignment, and impact—unlocking both personal fulfillment and professional success. DM ‘Purpose' on LinkedIn or visit www.singhleadership.com for workshops to help leaders align with their purpose. Watch : https://youtu.be/b2dHSgrSTPU
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About Guest: Elaine Yuen is with me today to talk about her pivotal moment that shifted everything led her down a path - a dark night of the soul really - that healed her inner child, reclaimed her confidence, took back her power and stepped into her authenticity. Elaine is an Intuitive Confidence Coach who helps OverAchievers to heal and rebuild confidence so they can shift from Survival to Thriving.Connect with Guest: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@intuitiveconfidencecoach?_t=ZM-8vaystjfj4o&_r=1Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elaineyuenconfidencehealer/FaceBook (Private - Just sent a request to add):https://www.facebook.com/elaine.yuen.7758/Website: https://elaineyuenconfidence.com/homeConnect with Host Brenda Staat-Tomlinson:
Welcome to the rebrand of Create The Flow. To kick off this transition, we're starting with the core wounds that keep us stuck.There are four specific archetypes I've uncovered through my journey, and one of them might be the exact pattern blocking you from your soul's purpose. You can find out which one you're currently embodying by taking the quiz here:
Ever catch yourself rehearsing every worst-case scenario before a big meeting—then wonder why you're exhausted before it even starts? In this episode we unpack “the worrier's curse,” reveal why high-achievers are biologically and mentally wired to over-anticipate danger, and map out a simple three-step system to shift from rumination to razor-sharp presence.Key takeaways ✅ 90% of your 60k daily thoughts are both negative and recycled—here's how that fuels chronic worry. ✅ The “worry jar” exercise: capture runaway fears, then time-box them for strategic problem-solving. ✅ Train your brain to trust calm confidence (not anxiety) as the real catalyst for top-tier performance.Enroll in BFG: Want to eliminate stress, self-doubt, and overworking to be more effective, feel better, and create sustainable success in your demanding corporate career? Schedule a free consult here to find out how you can get started in my Breaking Free from the Grind 1:1 coaching program.Take the BFG Quiz: Want to know the biggest reason you're feeling overworked and overwhelmed at work right now, and how you can start feeling better today?Take the 3-minute BFG quiz here to find out which mindset - Overachiever, Overthinker, People Pleaser, Impostor, or Perfectionist - is preventing you from creating sustainable success at work. About AmeliaAmelia Noel is a Master Certified Coach, podcast host, corporate workshop facilitator, and creator of the Breaking Free from the Grind coaching program. After spending over a decade of her career working on Wall Street at a top investment bank and as a global strategy consultant to Fortune 100 companies, Amelia now helps professionals working demanding corporate careers eliminate stress, self-doubt, and overworking so they can break free from the grind and create sustainable success in their careers.Connect with Ameliawww.amelianoelcoaching.comIG: @breakingfreefromthegrindLinkedIn: Amelia NoelAsk ChatGPT
Take A Breather, Overachiever: A Guide to Setting Boundaries without Losing Your Mind Scarlett and Meg McSherry discuss Meg's book, Take A Breather, Overachiever: A Guide to Setting Boundaries without Losing Your Mind, which explores boundaries and people-pleasing tendencies, sharing personal experiences and insights about setting healthy limits. They explored various challenges around work-life balance, productivity, and the importance of self-care, while discussing how boundaries can help reduce anxiety and create a more fulfilling life. The conversation concluded with strategies for managing difficult situations and maintaining boundaries, including Meg's offer of her book as a free resource to help others improve their personal boundaries and self-worth. Learn more About Scarlett here: https://chooselovemovement.org/
When Minjee Lee unravelled at the 2024 US Open, some wondered whether the mental wounds would heal. The Australian has bounced back with her third major victory. We're unpicking how she turned around her struggles and the role her brother and fellow golfer Min Woo Lee played in supporting his big sister. Featured: Karen Lunn, CEO WPGA.Subscribe to the ABC Sport Newsletter
What if your constant overworking isn't proof of your value—but a symptom of doubt? Are you hustling to prove yourself because you've forgotten your worth?3 Key Takeaways from the Episode: • Why overachievers confuse more work with more value • How proving energy leads to burnout and inefficiency • What changes when you trust your presence and ideas are enough
What if burnout isn't the cost of a high-achieving career—but a red flag that something's off? Are you stuck in stress because of your role, or because you've lost alignment with what really matters?3 Key Takeaways from the Episode: • The five most common warning signs that your career is misaligned • How small, 1-degree shifts can reverse burnout and boost confidence • Practical steps to reclaim your time, voice, and identity—without quitting your job
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In Episode 306, The Link Between the 'Insecure Overachiever' and ADHD, You Will Discover: What the "insecure overachiever" is and why ADHD brains can fall into this pattern. The core causes driving this exhausting cycle Practical strategies to stop tying your worth to achievement—preventing burnout while staying true to what matters most. Links From The Podcast Learn more about private coaching here Learn more about We're Busy Being Awesome here Get the top 10 tips to work with your ADHD brain (free ebook!) Discover my favorite ADHD resources Get the I'm Busy Being Awesome Planning System Get the I'm Busy Being Awesome Podcast Roadmap Take my free course, ADHD Routine Revamp Read the Oliver Burkeman piece here Subscribe to his newsletter here Check out the episode on Front End Perfectionism here Listen the episode on Imposter Syndrome here This post contains affiliate links, meaning I may earn a small commission if you make a purchase through my links, at no extra cost to you. Disclosure info here. Leave IBBA A Rating & Review! If you enjoy the podcast, would you be a rockstar and leave a review? Doing so helps others find the show and spreads these tools to even more people. Go to Apple Podcasts Click on the I'm Busy Being Awesome podcast Scroll down to the bottom of the page, where you see the reviews. Simply tap five stars; that's it! Bonus points if you're willing to leave a few sentences sharing what you enjoy about the podcast or a key takeaway from the episode you just heard. Thanks, friend! Chapter Outline 00:00 Introduction: The Pressure to Do More 01:34 Exploring the Insecure Overachiever 04:19 ADHD and the Insecure Overachiever 07:46 Layers of Overachievement 14:29 Recognizing the Patterns 18:58 5 Steps to Overcome Insecure Overachievement
What if the real problem isn't the mistake you made—but what you made it mean? Are you spending more energy punishing yourself than actually moving forward?3 Key Takeaways from the Episode: • Why high achievers fear the meaning of mistakes more than the mistakes themselves • The mindset shift that helps you recover quickly and effectively: “I did a thing” • How becoming the best at recovering from mistakes makes you indispensable at work
Why is it so hard to just be? In this episode, we unpack the tension between knowing we need rest… and still choosing productivity instead. From cleaning baseboards to reorganizing closets, we explore the emotional discomfort of stillness, the pressure to "earn" downtime, and why so many of us—especially parents and overachievers—find it easier to stay busy than to slow down. We also talk about the cultural messaging that ties our worth to our output, the guilt that creeps in during moments of rest, and how we can start to unlearn it. If you've ever felt like you need to “accomplish something” before you can relax, this conversation will help you reframe rest as necessary—not a reward. Listen in and let's challenge the narrative that rest has to be justified. Recommended LINKS: Better with Daffnee podcast homepage: https://www.daffneecohen.com/podcast/ Connect on Instagram: @Daffnee Learn more at daffneecohen.com
Do you automatically say “I'm so busy” when someone asks how you're doing? What if that phrase is keeping you trapped in stress, burnout, and overwork?3 Key Takeaways from the Episode: • Why identifying as a "busy person" keeps you overwhelmed and disempowered • How eliminating the word busy from your vocabulary transforms how you feel • A simple daily question—What would 5% less look like?—that helps you reclaim time and energy
My guest this week is Evan Day. Evan is the VP of Digital Marketing at BriteCap Financial, where he's been mastering the art and science of making complex things simple for over 15 years. He's worked with giants like Comcast and global heavyweights in publishing, bringing data-driven strategy to the forefront at every stop. But that's not all. Evan is also pursuing a Ph.D. in psychology with a focus on neuroscience—because apparently having a master's in data science wasn't enough. Overachiever. He's diving deep into the fascinating intersection of brain science and marketing, figuring out what really makes people tick. When he's not being a marketing wizard, Evan is a Brazilian jiu-jitsu brown belt and a former college soccer player—who, I think, sometimes forgets that his knees have aged a bit faster than his ambition.
Is your inbox running your day—and your energy? What if the key to fewer emails and better results isn't better filters, but better feelings?3 Key Takeaways from the Episode: • Why your email energy matters more than your email words • Four common email traps that create more churn (and how to fix them) • The emotional shift that gets people to respond faster—with exactly what you asked for
First up, in our Overachievers segment, we meet Mitch Hutchcraft, an ex-royal marine who’s officially done too much. He swam the English Channel, biked 12,000km to India, ran to Kathmandu, and trekked to Everest Base Camp—dodging dogs, dodging bullets, and surviving car crashes. Meanwhile, we get puffed walking to the servo. Then it’s all about baby talk... for dogs! A new study reveals that pups actually prefer that high-pitched, cringey baby voice. Yep, their brains light up like fairy lights when we go full goo-goo gaga. In the Glossy’s, Pedro Pascal brings his rave energy to The Last of Us, Kim Kardashian drops a faux-nipple bra, Hulk Hogan bids to save Hooters (yes, really), and the Biebers prove that love means saying sorry for doubting your wife’s Vogue cover dreams. Also, 10 prisoners escape by removing a toilet, and over in Korea, people are winning competitions by doing absolutely nothing. Sounds like Joel’s kind of sport.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
What if your best career move isn't grinding harder—but trusting yourself more?
Self-Compassion for Overachievers: How to Let Go of Perfection & Embrace Rest | Kim GrossAre you always pushing, striving, and holding yourself to impossibly high standards? You're not alone. In this heartfelt episode of Masks Off for People Pleasers and Perfectionists, host Kim Gross opens up about her own journey through burnout, perfectionism, and an autoimmune health crisis that became a wake-up call.If you're an overachiever or a recovering perfectionist, this guide to self-compassion is exactly what you need. Kim dives into: ✅ Why overachievers struggle to rest ✅ The difference between primal (fear-based) and powerful (flow-based) states ✅ How to give yourself permission to slow down ✅ Real, actionable steps to break the cycle of pushing too hardWhether you're stuck in a cycle of doing or simply need a reminder that you are enough as you are, this episode will help you breathe easier, soften the inner critic, and embrace your humanity.✨ Take off the mask. You don't have to be perfect to be worthy.
Natalie and Sam sit down and discuss all things football from the upcoming FA Cup final to Big Sam's Big Awards in this latest episode of No Tippy Tappy Football.Natalie and Sam talk about Nottingham Forest's owner entering the pitch to confront Nuno Espirito Santo and why they're having a fantastic season regardless of their recent dip in form.The two then discuss the race for the Champions League places with Arsenal & Newcastle all but confirmed for next season with the final two places up for grabs between Chelsea, Aston Villa & Nottingham Forest.They then both chat in depth about the upcoming FA Cup final between Manchester City & Crystal Palace, Big Sam reacts to the Liverpool fans booing Trent Alexander Arnold and why the Europa League final between Manchester United & Tottenham is so big.Finally they end the podcast with Big Sam's Big Awards where they discuss categories such as Player Of The Season, Underwhelming Player Of The Season, Over & Underachievers as well as their Stand Out Moment Of The Season!
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Spitzenleistung entsteht dort, wo Menschen sich sicher fühlen, klar geführt werden und ihren Beitrag wirklich wirksam erleben. Vanessa Laszlo zeigt, wie Führung eine Kultur schafft, die Leistung verstärkt statt erschöpft, Konflikte produktiv nutzt und gemeinsame Ziele erreichbar macht. Wer mehr Tiefe, Klarheit und Energie ins Team bringen will, erfährt hier, wie sich emotionale Intelligenz, klare Erwartungen und echte Zusammenarbeit zu einem kraftvollen Arbeitsumfeld verbinden. Du erfährst... …wie Vanessa Laszlo Psychopathenwissen für Führung nutzt …warum Overachiever zu Peak Performern werden sollten …wie echte psychologische Sicherheit im Team entsteht …welche Rolle Konfliktmut für ein erfüllendes Arbeitsumfeld spielt …wie du destruktive Menschen aus deinem Team entfernst __________________________ ||||| PERSONEN |||||
On this week's episode of And Colossally That's History! Matt Bishop and Richard Williams look back on the life and career of Eddie Jordan, who very sadly died of cancer, on March 20th this year, at the age of 76. For the generation who grew up on F1 in the 1990s and 2000s, Eddie was the most charismatic team boss in the game, and it was hard not to cheer for his underdog squad when they landed several big punches on the chins of their much better funded rivals, as well as the occasional knockout blow. But, having built an F1 team from scratch on a minimal budget and then not only kept it afloat, but turned it into a grand prix-winning (and at one point championship-challenging) outfit, should EJ be considered F1's biggest overachiever? As Matt and Richard attempt to answer that question, they look back over Eddie's time in F1, with Matt - who was good friends with Eddie - sharing amusing and poignant anecdotes and stories that perfectly illustrate a fun-loving, larger than life character with a steely inner core.Get 75% off your first month when you join The Race Members' Club on Patreon today - we even have an F1-only tier! Head to patreon.com/theraceMatt and Richard will be bringing members an exclusive Q&A episode at the end of Season 3, where they'll answer questions on each of the topics covered. So if you'd like to ask a question about Eddie Jordan, head to Patreon.com/theraceBuy some Colossally merch! Visit The Race ShopFollow The Race on Instagram, Twitter and FacebookCheck out our latest videos on YouTube A Race Media ProductionProducer: Jonny Reynolds Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
What does it really look like to break free from the grind? And how can shifting just a few beliefs at work lead to life-changing results everywhere else, too? In this inspiring client success episode, Amelia sits down with Catherine—an in-house counsel who turned chronic overwhelm into confidence, clarity, and sustainable success.In this episode: ✅ How Catherine redefined overwhelm and reclaimed control of her workday. ✅ The surprising ways coaching impacted her personal life during a difficult year. ✅ Why asking for help was the most powerful and pride-breaking decision of her career.Enroll in BFG: Want to eliminate stress, self-doubt, and overworking to be more effective, feel better, and create sustainable success in your demanding corporate career? Schedule a free consult here to find out how you can get started in my Breaking Free from the Grind 1:1 coaching program.Take the BFG Quiz: Want to know the biggest reason you're feeling overworked and overwhelmed at work right now, and how you can start feeling better today?Take the 3-minute BFG quiz here to find out which mindset - Overachiever, Overthinker, People Pleaser, Impostor, or Perfectionist - is preventing you from creating sustainable success at work. About CatherineCatherine is in-house counsel to a global life sciences company.About AmeliaAmelia Noel is a Master Certified Coach, podcast host, corporate workshop facilitator, and creator of the Breaking Free from the Grind coaching program. After spending over a decade of her career working on Wall Street at a top investment bank and as a global strategy consultant to Fortune 100 companies, Amelia now helps professionals working demanding corporate careers eliminate stress, self-doubt, and overworking so they can break free from the grind and create sustainable success in their careers.Connect with Ameliawww.amelianoelcoaching.comIG: @breakingfreefromthegrindLinkedIn: Amelia Noel
What if feeling your feelings didn't mean falling apart — but actually gave you more control, not less? If white knuckling or pushing through is the best way you know how to feel your feelings. You're not alone.Discover the hidden mistake keeping perfectionists stuck feeling on edge, why you can never outthink your feelings and the right way to feel your feelings.Want to bring rewiring into your reality? Where being confident, certain and playful is just how you roll? Perfectionist Solutions 1-1 coaching is your next step.Mentioned In Episode 254:Perfectionism Optimized 1 to 1 coachingPerfectionismRewired.comOther helpful podcast episodes in this series on How Your Brain Actually Works:Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 248Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 249Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 250Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 251Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 252Perfectionism Rewired Ep. 253Timestamps:00:00-Your thoughts create your feelings LIE #101:53-Can't Feel Your Feelings Without This04:14-Knowing how your brain actually works05:24-"What is Wrong With Me?" Explained06:37-Feelings Are Psychological LIE #207:16-Feelings are Emotions LIE #308:56-Where Feelings Actually Come From10:08-How Depersonalizing Feelings = Freedom12:46-Turning Mom Meltdown Moments Around (Manon's Story)14:35-How To Control Your Feelings16:01-Rational Thinking + Decisions LIE #417:32-Striving For Excellence Without Pushing Through18:29-What Your Person Account Has To Do With Feelings19:41-How To Identify Your Feelings Fast21:12-How To Feel Your Feelings Visual Tool22:33-Why Meditation + Deep Breaths Don't Always Work23:58-Thoughts Drive Your Feelings LIES #525:57-Perspectacles How Feelings Shape Your Perceptions28:37-Turning Your Mood into Useful Fuel30:07-Where Sense Data Fits Into The EquationHow To Feel Your Feelings Q&AQ: Why does “changing my thoughts” never changes my feelings—especially as a perfectionist? A: This episode breaks down the myth that thoughts drive feelings (hint: it's the other way around!). Discover why “thought work” is a torture device for perfectionidtic people and how the “CTFAR Model” does not actually work for any human with a brainQ: What's really going on when I'm overwhelmed by emotions even if everything looks fine on the outside? A: You'll learn the neuroscientific difference between feelings and emotions, plus why this distinction puts an to the cycle of overthinking feelings and asking “what is wrong with me”Q: What's the biggest misconception high-achievers have about feelings? A: Most of us have a totally backward understanding of where feelings come from (and it's not just psychological!). Courtney reveals the real, science-backed answer.Q: How can I feel my feelings without getting “lost” in them or falling apart? A: Tune in for a client success story and discover a practical tool—the “mood meter”—to help you regain control and function, even on tough days.Q: Does thinking rationally mean I can escape feelings? A: Logic and rationality can't bypass feelings. Find out why every decision (yes, even the “rational” ones!) are shaped by your mood — and how to use this knowledge to your advantage.Q: What's one quick, practical tweak I can use to feel better fast? A: Courtney shares micro-strategies (think 30 seconds to 3 minutes) you can use right away to change your mood—and your experience.Highly Credible Resources Cited in this EpisodeBar, M. (2009). The proactive brain: memory for predictions. *Philosophical Transactions of the Royal Society B Biological Sciences*, *364*(1521), 1235–1243. https://doi.org/10.1098/rstb.2008.0310Barrett, L. F. (2017). How emotions are made: The secret life of the brain. Houghton Mifflin Harcourt.Barrett, L. F. (2006). Valence is a basic building block of emotional life. Journal of Research in Personality, 40(1), 35–55. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jrp.2005.08.006Barrett, L. F. (2016). 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After a long (and necessary) pause, I'm back (with Tory in Spirit) , and this isn't just a reintroduction. It's a reclamation. In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on where I've been, what I've been building behind the scenes, and why I'm stepping into this new season with a completely different energy. If you've ever felt like you outgrew your old life (even if it looked “successful” from the outside), this one will hit home. We're kicking off a new era of This Feels Important - one rooted in aligned ambition, embodied truth, and the kind of power that doesn't come from hustling harder… but from coming home to yourself.
What if trusting that everything will be okay is the real key to ending overwork and creating career success that feels good? In this final episode of the 3-part series, Amelia reveals how cultivating trust transforms how you show up—even in chaos.In this episode: 1️⃣ Learn why trust is a skill—not a feeling—and how to build it daily. 2️⃣ Shift from fear-based action to aligned, grounded decision-making. 3️⃣ Discover how trusting yourself and the process makes you truly invaluable.Enroll in BFG: Want to eliminate stress, self-doubt, and overworking to be more effective, feel better, and create sustainable success in your demanding corporate career? Schedule a free consult here to find out how you can get started in my Breaking Free from the Grind 1:1 coaching program.Take the BFG Quiz: Want to know the biggest reason you're feeling overworked and overwhelmed at work right now, and how you can start feeling better today?Take the 3-minute BFG quiz here to find out which mindset - Overachiever, Overthinker, People Pleaser, Impostor, or Perfectionist - is preventing you from creating sustainable success at work. About AmeliaAmelia Noel is a Master Certified Coach, podcast host, corporate workshop facilitator, and creator of the Breaking Free from the Grind coaching program. After spending over a decade of her career working on Wall Street at a top investment bank and as a global strategy consultant to Fortune 100 companies, Amelia now helps professionals working demanding corporate careers eliminate stress, self-doubt, and overworking so they can break free from the grind and create sustainable success in their careers.Connect with Ameliawww.amelianoelcoaching.comIG: @breakingfreefromthegrindLinkedIn: Amelia Noel4o
In this episode, Overachievers and Underachievers, we sit down with artist Justin Gradin and poet John Tottenham—two creators who dig into the absurd, the anxious, and the unpolished truths of life. From Gradin's grotesquely layered visual chaos and insomnia-fueled narratives, to Tottenham's hilariously bitter verses on failure, resentment, and reluctant ambition, this conversation explores the fine line between doing too much and doing just enough. Both Justin and John have new books out in 2025. Checkout Justins new book on Fantagraphics Pageant. John's book Service is out on Penguin Books.
Where are you tying your sense of stability right now—to the economy, your company, your boss? In this episode, Amelia reveals why true certainty comes from within, and how deepening belief in yourself transforms how you show up in your career and life.In this episode: 1️⃣ Why tying your emotional world to external factors keeps you stuck in instability. 2️⃣ How to deepen belief in yourself to create lasting inner peace and certainty. 3️⃣ Practical mindset shifts to stay grounded, resilient, and in control no matter what's happening around you.Enroll in BFG: Want to eliminate stress, self-doubt, and overworking to be more effective, feel better, and create sustainable success in your demanding corporate career? Schedule a free consult here to find out how you can get started in my Breaking Free from the Grind 1:1 coaching program.Take the BFG Quiz: Want to know the biggest reason you're feeling overworked and overwhelmed at work right now, and how you can start feeling better today?Take the 3-minute BFG quiz here to find out which mindset - Overachiever, Overthinker, People Pleaser, Impostor, or Perfectionist - is preventing you from creating sustainable success at work. About AmeliaAmelia Noel is a Master Certified Coach, podcast host, corporate workshop facilitator, and creator of the Breaking Free from the Grind coaching program. After spending over a decade of her career working on Wall Street at a top investment bank and as a global strategy consultant to Fortune 100 companies, Amelia now helps professionals working demanding corporate careers eliminate stress, self-doubt, and overworking so they can break free from the grind and create sustainable success in their careers.Connect with Ameliawww.amelianoelcoaching.comIG: @breakingfreefromthegrindLinkedIn: Amelia Noel
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In this week's episode, Sam sits down with Lauren Balukjian to dive into the power of transformation, embodiment, and living life as an experiment. Lauren shares her journey from a high-achieving corporate career to rediscovering herself through coaching, community, and self-acceptance. She opens up about the unexpected crisis that forced her to reevaluate her path and the lessons she learned about feminine energy, intuition, and embracing vulnerability. If you're navigating change and craving more alignment in your life, this conversation is for you. Topics Include: -Lauren's journey reflects the struggle between societal expectations and personal fulfillment. -The importance of taking time to reflect and rediscover oneself after a crisis. -Life can be viewed as an experiment, allowing for flexibility and growth. -Embracing vulnerability can lead to deeper connections with others. -The shift from a corporate career to coaching was a significant leap for Lauren. -Community support is crucial in the healing process. -Movement and embodiment practices help connect the mind and body. -Self-acceptance is a journey that requires patience and compassion. -The concept of a compass versus a map emphasizes internal guidance over external validation. -Creating a safe space for women to share their experiences fosters healing and connection. Let's connect on IG: @samanthajoharvey @fullout_podcast --------------------------------------------------------------------------- Grab Sam's free POWER PORTAL GUIDEBOOK with 7 days of actionable steps to come home to you and unlock your next level. Meet CLUB FULL OUT: The Membership your one stop shop for all things FULL OUT. Your membership includes:
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