Podcasts about marie no

Vous pouvez laisser un message vocal à l'équipe du LHC en lien avec ce podcast ici : https://www.vodio.fr/repondeur/311/Dans ce nouvel épisode captivant, nous plongeons au cœur d'un sujet à la fois mystique, puissant et profondément transformateur : la Kundalini.Pour se faire, nous avons choisi de réinviter Marie-Noëlle SAMAIN, thérapeute familiale, psycho-corporelle, transpersonnelle et experte en Kundalini.Le podcast est animé par Olivier Mageren, sexologue et expert, reconnu pour sa douceur, sa sensibilité et son côté précurseur dans le domaine de la sexualité.Cet épisode 63 fait suite à l'épisode 56. L'intention est d'offrir davantage de temps de parole sur ce sujet si particulier. Souvent représentée comme un serpent lové à la base de la colonne vertébrale, la Kundalini est une énergie primordiale, une force de vie endormie en chacun de nous. Lorsqu'elle s'éveille, elle entame un voyage ascensionnel à travers les chakras, ces centres énergétiques qui structurent notre être subtil, apportant avec elle clarté, expansion de conscience, mais aussi parfois des bouleversements intenses. Régine Degrémont utilise une belle expression pour parler de kundalini, elle dit que c'est l'octave supérieur de l'énergie de vie. Car de fait, ce n'est pas l'énergie de vie en soi, mais une dimension supérieure de celle-ci. La kundalini a une finalité spirituelle. Le propos du podcast n'est pas l'éveil de la kundalini, mais l'accompagnement en douceur de cette énergie magnifique lorsqu'elle a commencé son ascension avec plus d'intensité. La kundalini est une énergie présente mais latente chez une majorité de personnes. Elle s'ouvre parfois à des moments particuliers et différemment pour chacun. A un certain degré d'ouverture, la Kundalini devient perceptible et transforme l'expérience de la vie. Si elle s'ouvre en douceur et qu'on est conscient de ce qui se passe, l'expérience peut être vécue de façon paisible. Par contre, si elle s'ouvre de manière plus abrupte, qu'elle rencontre des obstacles à sa progression et qu'on ne comprend pas ce qui se passe, alors l'expérience peut-être beaucoup plus bouleversante, voire difficile. C'est dans ce cas de figure qu'un accompagnement est recommandé.Mais que se passe-t-il vraiment quand cette énergie s'éveille ? Quel rôle jouent les chakras dans ce processus ? Et surtout, quel est le lien profond entre Kundalini et sexualité ? Car oui, cette énergie vitale, souvent mal comprise ou entourée de tabous, est aussi intimement liée à notre puissance sexuelle et créative lorsqu'elle traverse le deuxième chakra.À travers cet épisode, Marie-Noëlle t'invite à explorer :• Ce qu'est réellement la Kundalini et comment elle se manifeste• Quels en sont les facteurs déclencheurs• Comment elle interagit avec nos chakras• Que se passe t'il quand elle vient investir le deuxième chakraQue tu sois simplement curieux·se ou déjà engagé·e sur un chemin d'éveil, cet épisode t'invite à une compréhension plus profonde de l'union entre corps, l'énergie kundalini et la sexualité.Ne manquez pas ce moment précieux de partage et de découverte. L'épisode est disponible dès maintenant sur toutes les bonnes plateformes de podcast et sur notre site web, soutenu par « Love Health Center » et « The Podcast Factory Org ».Séquençage du podcast :• [00:00:16] Introduction au podcast et contexte• [00:01:01] Rappel : qui est Marie-Noëlle Samain• [00:01:59] L'intention de Marie-Noëlle Samain pour ce podcast• [00:02:46] Feedback auditeur.ice.s et un regard occidentalisé• [00:04:16] L'expérience de Marie-Noëlle Samain• [00:05:27] Un point terminologie pour clarifier• [00:10:33] Premier exemple d'accompagnement• [00:15:29] Une gestion sereine• [00:17:16] Mettre des mots, être accompagné et sécurisé• [00:18:01] Habiter son corps• [00:20:11] La peur de l'inconnu• [00:20:39] Second exemple d'accompagnement• [00:32:07] Respiration, corps, conscience : clé du bien-être• [00:34:53] Accompagner la guérison : réinvestir son corps• [00:36:39] Éveil conscience : autonomie et souveraineté• [00:37:55] Décodage intuitif : guidance et autonomisation• [00:39:18] Son puissant : éveil du corps subtil• [00:40:22] Énergie sexuelle et éveil : un parallèle• [00:43:54] Épanouissement : toucher les niveaux énergétiques• [00:46:35] Énergie révélatrice : lumière sur l'être• [00:47:24] Bouleversement dépassé : la Kundalini, un cadeau• [00:47:43] Site Internet et clôture du podcastContacter Marie-Noëlle Samain :• Transpersonnel – Yatra Kundalini Activation (@amourencorps)• Site Internet : https://www.kundalinlove.be/ • Page FaceBook : https://www.facebook.com/kundalinlove

Le Service public de Wallonie (SPW) a été piraté Les négociations sur un cessez-le-feu en Ukraine piétinent Décès de Marie-Noëlle Bouzet, la maman d'Elisabeth Brichet La Flèche Brabançonne La fête de Pâques : comment fabrique-t-on les oeufs en chocolat ? Merci pour votre écoute Entrez sans Frapper c'est également en direct tous les jours de la semaine de 16h à 17h30 sur www.rtbf.be/lapremiere Retrouvez l'ensemble des épisodes et les émission en version intégrale (avec la musique donc) de Entrez sans Frapper sur notre plateforme Auvio.be : https://auvio.rtbf.be/emission/8521 Abonnez-vous également à la partie "Bagarre dans la discothèque" en suivant ce lien: https://audmns.com/HSfAmLDEt si vous avez apprécié ce podcast, n'hésitez pas à nous donner des étoiles ou des commentaires, cela nous aide à le faire connaître plus largement. Vous pourriez également apprécier ces autres podcasts issus de notre large catalogue: Le voyage du Stradivarius Feuermann : https://audmns.com/rxPHqEENoir Jaune Rouge - Belgian Crime Story : https://feeds.audiomeans.fr/feed/6e3f3e0e-6d9e-4da7-99d5-f8c0833912c5.xmlLes Petits Papiers : https://audmns.com/tHQpfAm Des rencontres inspirantes avec des artistes de tous horizons. Galaxie BD: https://audmns.com/nyJXESu Notre podcast hebdomadaire autour du 9ème art.Nom: Van Hamme, Profession: Scénariste : https://audmns.com/ZAoAJZF Notre série à propos du créateur de XII et Thorgal. Franquin par Franquin : https://audmns.com/NjMxxMg Ecoutez la voix du créateur de Gaston (et de tant d'autres...) Distribué par Audiomeans. Visitez audiomeans.fr/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

Dimanche 16 mars 2015 | Marie-Noëlle Yoder

durée : 00:58:05 - Cultures Monde - par : Julie Gacon, Mélanie Chalandon - Les déclarations répétées de Donald Trump sur sa volonté de faire main basse sur le Groenland s'expliquent en partie par la richesse des sous-sols du territoire. Cela révèle les liens étroits entre les aspirations indépendantistes de l'île, propriété du Danemark, et sa souveraineté minière. - réalisation : Vivian Lecuivre - invités : Pia Bailleul Chercheuse postdoctorale au CERI et chargée de recherche au fonds Latour; Marine Duc Enseignante chercheuse en géographie sociale et politique à l'université de Reims, membre du laboratoire d'analyse comparée des pouvoirs; Marie-Noëlle Rimaud Enseignante-chercheuse à Excelia et membre du CFR-AAN (Centre Français pour la Recherche en Arctique et Antarctique)

Marie-Noëlle Lajoie, artiste de la voix, dénonce l'impact croissant de l'IA sur sa profession. Elle s'inquiète de voir des artistes céder leur voix pour entraîner des modèles d'IA, mettant en péril leur propre avenir. Si elle n'est pas opposée à la technologie, elle plaide pour une utilisation éthique et encadrée, notamment via des redevances. Face à un marché peu régulé et des associations professionnelles limitées, elle appelle à une prise de conscience collective pour préserver les métiers de la voix. Lien vers sa publication : https://www.linkedin.com/feed/update/urn:li:activity:7301333589005074432/

Mon Carnet, le podcast de Bruno Guglielminetti Vendredi 7 mars 2025 Débrief avec Jérôme Colombain : (1:57) Bilan du MWC Barcelone Entrevues : Diffuseurs publics et IA avec Colette Brin (17:32) Artiste de la voix et IA avec Marie Noëlle Lajoie (34:05) Building 21 en péril avec Ollivier Dyens (46:41) Commerce local façon Bee avec Mireille Roy (53:33) Jeu vidéo avec Carl-Edwin Michel (59:48) Invité : Christopher Chancey Billets : Berthomet : Rendez-vous Radio-Canada Audio (1:11:37) Ricoul : Trump et les pays taxant le numérique (1:17:16) Entrevue : Poulin : Méthodologie UX avec Rémi Guyot (1:26:54) Collaborateurs : Jérôme Colombain, Carl-Edwin Michel, Stéphane Berthomet, Stéphane Ricoul et Jean-François Poulin www.MonCarnet.com Une production de Guglielminetti.com Mars 2025

Les Fourmis vertes : Basée à Montreuil, l'association Les Fourmis vertes sensibilise à l'importance des pratiques durables et écoresponsables. Marie-Noëlle présente l'association au micro de Floriane Kwawu, lors du village zéro déchet organisé à la bibliothèque Elsa Triolet de Pantin.Hébergé par Ausha. Visitez ausha.co/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

Au cœur de la nuit, les auditeurs se livrent en toute liberté aux oreilles attentives et bienveillantes de Valérie Darmon. Pas de jugements ni de tabous, une conversation franche, mais aussi des réponses aux questions que les auditeurs se posent. Un moment d'échange et de partage propice à la confidence pour repartir le cœur plus léger.

La maestra, de Yves Lavandier y Carole Maurel, en la segunda guerra mundial hubo muchas historias de valientes, y esta es una de ellas, dónde la maestra, la señorita Marie-Noëlle no sólo enseña a sus alumnos sus materias, va más allá y les enseña valores, tolerancia, empatía y sobre todo a cuestionar siempre aquellas ideas que afectan la integridad. una joyita que reseñan en este episodio Nuria González y Miguel Ángel Hernández.

Adrien Joveneau vous emmène découvrir les Zones Bleues, temples de la vieillesse éternelle en compagnie du démographe belge Michel Poulain, astrophysicien devenu démographe, il parcourt le monde à la recherche des secrets du grand âge. Ce « chasseur de centenaires » a identifié cinq régions du monde où l'on enregistre le plus de personnes très âgées, en pleine santé. Nous entrerons en contact avec ces cinq « Blue Zones » - au Costa Rica où Adrien Bayens est à la tête de l'écolodge « Tierra Madre » avec ses projets de reforestation, d'agriculture régénérative et de tourisme responsable -sur l'île d'Ikaria en Grèce avec Evi Siougari, autrice du livre « Iles Grecques, 81 recettes saveurs et santé ». Elle nous parlera du fameux régime méditerranéen -à Nuoro, en Sardaigne avec la naturopathe Marie-Noëlle Dumont de Chassart, fondatrice de l'Accademia di Naturopatia A.N.E.A. -en Martinique où le docteur Laurent Barbiot nous parlera des Grands Mounes Peyis, les ainés créoles -à Okinawa au Japon, où l'explorateur et auteur américain Dan Buettner a tourné pour Netflix, «100 ans de plénitude, le secret des zones bleues ». Dans toutes ces Blue Zones, les centenaires ont mené et conservent une activité physique importante, ils ont une alimentation naturelle, locale et saisonnière. Ils bénéficient d'un soutien familial et communautaire important. Pas de maison de retraite et très peu de démence sénile. D'autres secrets de leur longévité exceptionnelle avec Les Belges du bout du monde ce 12 janvier à 9 heures sur La Première et quand vous voulez sur Auvio.be Zones Bleues - 12/01/25 Merci pour votre écoute Les Belges du bout du Monde, c'est également en direct tous les samedis de 9h à 10h sur www.rtbf.be/lapremiere Retrouvez l'ensemble des épisodes des Belges du bout du Monde sur notre plateforme Auvio.be : https://auvio.rtbf.be/emission/432 Et si vous avez apprécié ce podcast, n'hésitez pas à nous donner des étoiles ou des commentaires, cela nous aide à le faire connaître plus largement.

Walid et sa bande (composée de Catherine Ronvaux, Michaël Albas et Raoul Reyers) sont toujours à Jodoigne, cette ville pleine de charme du Brabant wallon, où la pierre blanche illumine le patrimoine, mais où la culture générale va briller aujourd'hui. On voit s'affronter une famille (Marie-Noëlle et Pierre sont frère et sœur et tentent de remporter le gros lot ou à défaut les goodies La 1ère), on parle de l'église Saint-Médard, du festival Tomorrowland, de code postal et de Rodin, des jolis coins de la région, et on part à la rencontre d'une personnalité joidoignoise qui connaît la ville comme sa poche et n'a pas sa langue dedans (sa poche) : Emmanuel Demeester, steward urbain et passionné de sports de combat qui a d'ailleurs sa propre salle et organise divers événements. Merci pour votre écoute Salut les copions, c'est également en direct tous les jours de la semaine de 16h à 17h sur www.rtbf.be/lapremiere Retrouvez tous les épisodes de Salut les copions sur notre plateforme Auvio.be : https://auvio.rtbf.be/emission/19688 Et si vous avez apprécié ce podcast, n'hésitez pas à nous donner des étoiles ou des commentaires, cela nous aide à le faire connaître plus largement.

Dans ce nouvel épisode du Glu'mmy Club, je vous invite à découvrir le parcours émouvant et courageux de Marie-Noëlle, une femme aux multiples casquettes : maman de 4 enfants, ancienne aide médico-psychologique, et aujourd'hui fondatrice de Pâte Ô Légim, une marque innovante de pâtes sans gluten à base de légumes exotiques.Marie-Noëlle a longtemps vécu dans l'ombre d'un diagnostic méconnu. Pendant des années, elle a cru que ses maux de ventre, nausées et malaises faisaient simplement partie de sa vie. Mais lorsque ses symptômes se sont aggravés, jusqu'à la laisser alitée et désemparée, elle a entamé un combat acharné pour comprendre ce qui lui arrivait.C'est en poussant les médecins, inspirée par une vidéo de Zoenogluten, qu'elle a enfin mis un nom sur son mal : la maladie cœliaque. Son voyage vers la Martinique a marqué un tournant décisif : l'alimentation naturellement sans gluten des Antilles a changé sa vie et réveillé sa passion pour les légumes exotiques.Dans cet épisode, Marie-Noëlle nous parle :✨ De son combat contre les idées reçues et son diagnostic tardif,✨ De la création de Pâte Ô Légim, née de son envie d'aider les autres à allier plaisir et santé,✨ De ses recherches pour développer des pâtes à base de patate douce, d'igname ou encore de banane plantain, riches en bienfaits et en saveurs.Son histoire est un témoignage de résilience, mais aussi une source d'inspiration pour toutes celles et ceux qui font face à des défis liés à une alimentation sans gluten. Que vous soyez curieux de découvrir des alternatives sans gluten ou simplement en quête d'une dose de motivation, cet épisode est pour vous !

Le 9 décembre 2024, nous commémorerons les 35 ans de cet abject crime commis par un masculiniste. Dans cet épisode, je vous parle d'un attentat survenu à Montréal il y a plus de 30 ans, de son traitement médiatique et du long chemin pour parvenir à le qualifier comme attentat antiféministe. Sources et références : BERTRAND, M.-A. (1990). Analyse criminologique d'un meurtre commis dans l'enceinte de l'université et des interprétations que certains groupes choisissent d'en donner. Sociologie et sociétés, 22(1), 193–197. JUTEAU, D. & LAURIN-FRENETTE, N. (1990). Une sociologie de l'horreur. Sociologie et sociétés, 22(1), 206–211. Fontenaille, Élise. L'homme qui haïssait les femmes : roman. Grasset, 2011. Blais, Mélissa et Dupuis-Déri, Francis. Le mouvement masculiniste au Québec : l'antiféminisme démasqué. Les Ed. du Remue-ménage, 2015. Et plus particulièrement le chapitre intitulé Marc Lépine : héros ou martyr ? Le masculinisme et la tuerie de l'Ecole polytechnique (p. 109-128) Bracke, Sarah, Ennemis. In Feu ! Abécédaire des féminismes présents, Libertalia, 2021, p. 179-190 Remiorz Ryan, Trente-trois ans après l'attentat antiféministe de Montréal, le tueur reste célébré par ses adorateurs. 19 décembre 2022, 20 Minutes (site web). Bélair, Cirino, Marco, PolySeSouvient se dit fatigué, mais non moins déterminé. 11 décembre 2021, Le Devoir. Blais, Mélissa, and Marie-Noël Arseneau. Retour sur un attentat antiféministe : École polytechnique de Montréal, 6 décembre 1989. Éditions du Remue-ménage, 2010 https://www.slate.fr/story/180612/tueurs-de-masse-haine-femmes https://www.rtbf.be/article/quand-europol-sinquiete-des-incels-du-terrorisme-dextreme-droite-et-des-anti-feministes-10530713 https://www.haut-conseil-egalite.gouv.fr/stereotypes-et-roles-sociaux/travaux-du-hce/article/rapport-2023-sur-l-etat-du-sexisme-en-france-le-sexisme-perdure-et-ses https://www.motherjones.com/politics/2012/12/mass-shootings-mother-jones-full-data/ https://www.journaldemontreal.com/2014/12/06/je-pense-au-pere-de-marc-lepine-1 https://www.lapresse.ca/debats/chroniques/nathalie-petrowski/200810/29/01-33945-le-mea-culpa-dune-mere.php https://www.lapresse.ca/cinema/nouvelles/201207/17/01-4550226-des-disciples-de-marc-lepine-font-fuir-un-realisateur.php Podcast PROJET POLYTECHNIQUE : FAIRE FACE de Porte Parole, Picbois Productions et Radio-Canada  https://ici.radio-canada.ca/ohdio/balados/10160/projet-polytechnique-faire-face?utm_source=Facebook&utm_campaign=RS-AO&utm_medium=social&utm_term=RCOHDIO&fbclid=IwAR1kIGeQZJuDSF_-7pjsgV4cgNWaNapFmmgv4_5tfbsQaF4rtCPuwUsCtOs Instagram : @pour_de_vrai.podcast  Twitter : pourdevrai_pod

Robert Scholtus est prêtre, attaché au diocèse de Metz. Enseignant la théologie, il a été notamment pendant dix ans le supérieur du séminaire des Carmes à Paris. Il est l'auteur d'ouvrages de spiritualité reconnus pour leur profondeur, leur originalité, et leur liberté. Cette rencontre avec Robert Scholtus, initiée par le poète Jean Lavoué quelques semaines seulement avant sa mort, est une invitation à entrer dans l'Avent. Ce temps que nous ne revivons pas seulement à la fin de chaque année, mais plutôt chaque jour, presque à chaque heure de notre vie. Nous vivons dans un monde créé par un Dieu que nous appelons notre Père mais qui, comme le disait la poétesse Marie Noëlle, est « un Père absent ». Il est cet homme parti en voyage dont parle Jésus, ce maître de maison dont on ne sait quand il reviendra. Telle est la manière d'être père de ce Dieu qui a créé le monde : en se retirant, comme lorsque les océans ont créé la terre en se retirant eux-aussi. C'est ainsi que Dieu nous abandonne à notre liberté, tout en ne nous oubliant jamais. C'est ce Dieu qui nous a envoyé son fils. Celui qui, avant de nous quitter à son tour, nous a laissé une seule consigne : veiller. Telle est la vision de Robert Scholtus, profondément habité par le mystère de l'attente et de la nuit, là seulement où nous pouvons percevoir les premières clartés, là où nous pouvons dépasser nos ténèbres, là où nous sommes invités à l'espérance de la lumière du matin. Nous séjournons au pays du clair obscur, où rodent l'ombre et la mort. Nous sommes des guetteurs d'aurore, qui vivent déjà des promesses de l'amour divin, depuis que Jésus est venu parmi nous. Car même s'il est parti à son tour, en fait, il ne nous a jamais quittés. Il est cette lueur divine cachée au plus intime de chacun de nous, cette lumière douce et chaude qui ne demande qu'une chose, c'est de nous envahir tout entiers. Pour lire Car rien n'est jamais achevé, l'ouvrage le plus récent de Robert Scholtus, cliquer ici. TOUTES LES ATTENTES DE L'AVENT  Si les années ne se ressemblent jamais, il semble que l'entrée dans l'Avent, en cette fin de l'an 2024, est plus différente encore que les autres. La lumière continue de fuir nos jours, et la nuit recouvre le monde avec une épaisseur que peu d'entre nous ont connu dans leur vie. Nous vivons des temps où les menaces et les incertitudes s'accumulent. Elles sont de toutes sortes, et elles sont si nombreuses qu'il est parfois préférable de ne plus recueillir les informations que déversent des médias prolifiques et insatiables, pour échapper à l'étreinte angoissante des mauvaises nouvelles. Nous espérons que l'épisode que nous diffusons dès aujourd'hui, en cette entrée dans l'Avent 2024, sera un remède à l'inquiétude aussi paralysante qu'inutile. Avec Robert Scholtus, nous éprouvons cette joie discrète de traverser nos nuits dans la certitude des lueurs du matin. Avec lui, nous accueillons cette douce certitude : celle de l'imprévisibilité de Dieu. Le pire ne se produit jamais. Ce qui est sûr, c'est qu'en accueillant en nous cette douce présence de Dieu au plus intime et au plus inattendu parfois, en nous et autour de nous, nous recevons une lumière qui dissipera toutes les ombres et toutes les inquiétudes. C'est dans la confiance et même l'abandon en l'imprévisibilité de Dieu que vos attentes et les nôtres seront comblées. Zeteo bouclera, à la fin de ce mois de décembre, sa cinquième année d'activité. Pendant ces cinq années, nous avons reçu d'innombrables et merveilleuses lumières. Nous sommes habités par la confiance et même l'abandon en cette imprévisibilité divine. Parmi toutes nos attentes qui peupleront cet Avent, il y a celle de la manne qui nous permettra de poursuivre notre marche tous ensemble vers cette lumière. Le mois de décembre est la période de l'année est la plus importante pour nos récoltes de dons. Nous espérons que vous serez nombreux à vous joindre, par vos gestes, à notre effort. Nous attendons, confiants, la générosité de ceux qui parmi vous, chers amis et auditeurs de Zeteo, permettront la continuité de notre aventure, Dans la joie de la lumière qui vient, Guillaume Devoud  Pour faire un don, il suffit de cliquer ici pour aller sur notre compte de paiement de dons en ligne sécurisé par HelloAsso. Ou de cliquer ici pour aller sur notre compte Paypal. Vos dons sont défiscalisables à hauteur de 66% : par exemple, un don de 50€ ne coûte en réalité que 17€. Le reçu fiscal est généré automatiquement et immédiatement à tous ceux qui passent par la plateforme de paiement sécurisé en ligne de HelloAsso Nous délivrons directement un reçu fiscal à tous ceux qui effectuent un paiement autrement (Paypal, chèque à l'association Telio, 116 boulevard Suchet, 75016 Paris – virement : nous écrire à info@zeteo.fr ).   Pour lire d'autres messages de nos auditeurs : cliquer ici. Pour en savoir plus au sujet de Zeteo, cliquer ici. Pour en savoir plus au sujet de Bethesda, cliquer ici. Pour en savoir plus au sujet de Telio, cliquer ici. Pour lire les messages de nos auditeurs, cliquer ici. Nous contacter : contact@zeteo.fr Proposer votre témoignage ou celui d'un proche : temoignage@zeteo.fr

Le festival Ecoute(s), porté par l’association le Rhume du Son, nous a donné rendez-vous juste avant sa 4ème édition pour nous parler de son fonctionnement mais aussi des nouveautés de cette année. Marie-Noëlle et Clara nous ont parlé de la... Continue Reading →

durée : 02:24:59 - Les Nuits de France Culture - par : Philippe Garbit, Albane Penaranda, Mathilde Wagman - Par Monique Veaute - Avec Laurence Beauregard (flûte), Joël Hubaut, Irène Jarsky (la voix de Méduse), Jean-Pierre Vernant, Philippe Lacoue-Labarthe, Joss, Luce Irigaray, Orlan, Catherine Mevel, Meredith Monk, Marie-Noëlle Rio, Sapho, Marie-Berthe Servier, Tamia, Marguerite Fischbach-Veaute, Martine Veaute, l'équipe du SAMU 94 et Louis Amiel - Lectures Claude Degliame, René Farabet, Esther Flatt, Catherine Sellers et Anne Zweiband- Réalisation Yvette Tuchband, Catherine Léritier, Monique Burguière et Danielle Toursière - réalisation : Virginie Mourthé

durée : 00:11:06 - L'Avant-scène - par : Aurélie Charon - Marie-Noëlle joue dans le "Quichotte" du metteur en scène Gwénaël Morin, créé au Festival d'Avignon en juillet dernier et qui part en tournée en France. - réalisation : Alexandre Fougeron - invités : Marie-Noëlle Comédienne, metteuse en scène

durée : 00:11:06 - L'Avant-scène - par : Aurélie Charon - Marie-Noëlle joue dans le "Quichotte" du metteur en scène Gwénaël Morin, créé au Festival d'Avignon en juillet dernier et qui part en tournée en France. - réalisation : Alexandre Fougeron - invités : Marie-Noëlle Comédienne, metteuse en scène

durée : 00:04:02 - Chroniques littorales - par : Jose Manuel Lamarque - Marie-Noëlle Tiné-Dyèvre est la présidente de WISTA France

Welcome to The Food Professor Podcast, presented by Caddle! In this episode, recorded live at SIAL in Montreal, we're thrilled to have Marie-Noëlle Cano, Founder of Canoe Intelligence Collective, as our special guest. Marie-Noel shares valuable insights for food entrepreneurs and executives, offering lessons to inspire and inform your business strategies.We also discuss the latest news impacting the food sector. Coffee prices are on the rise again—what's driving the increase, and is this the moment for robusta to take center stage over arabica? Stay tuned for more as we gear up for the Coffee Association of Canada's conference on November 14 in Toronto!In other news, we explore the concerns around parasites in oysters on the East Coast; we break down Bill C-282 on supply management—why it's crucial and why it's poised to pass; and finally, we look at the massive U.S. port strike and its implications for Canada, and congratulate Darrell Jones of Pattison Food Group on his retirement, with Jamie Nelson stepping in as his successor. About Marie-NoëlleMarie-Noëlle Cano is the President of CANO Intelligence Collective Inc., a consulting firm founded after more than 20 years of experience advising executives of Quebec, Canadian, and international companies in 360-communications and Sustainable Development, thanks to her strategic and innovative business thinking.With her multi-sector experience, both local, national, and international, and her ability to leverage team talents, Marie-Noëlle is a trusted resource for the leaders she collaborates with. She also serves on various boards and committees.Throughout her career, she has held management positions that have led her to spearhead major, differentiating projects in communications, business strategies, and sustainable development with her teams.Between 2021 and 2024, the CTAQ (Quebec Food Processing Council) and MAPAQ (Ministry of Agriculture, Fisheries and Food of Quebec) sought her expertise as a consultant to initiate and develop a crucial initiative for Quebec: the launch of Amélioration Alimentaire Québec (AAQ), whose mission is to encourage decision-makers in Quebec's food industry to increase the supply of products with enhanced nutritional value.She is also a graduate of HEC Montreal (Business School) and the University of Montreal in management and public relations, as well as in Catalan language and literature. Marie-Noëlle is currently pursuing studies at the University of Sherbrooke to obtain accreditation from the Ministry of Justice of the Government of Quebec as a civil, commercial, and workplace mediator.___Quick and acute analysis. Clear and grounded vision. Inspiring leadership. A magnetic approach that captivates collaborators, with an ability to see talent & increase engagement, ensuring results & success for you as an executive, your teams and your business. Perfectly bilingual with world-wide and multi-sector experience. Canadian and European (France) Citizenships. https://collectivecano.com/en.html# The Food Professor #podcast is presented by Caddle. About UsDr. Sylvain Charlebois is a Professor in food distribution and policy in the Faculties of Management and Agriculture at Dalhousie University in Halifax. He is also the Senior Director of the Agri-food Analytics Lab, also located at Dalhousie University. Before joining Dalhousie, he was affiliated with the University of Guelph's Arrell Food Institute, which he co-founded. Known as “The Food Professor”, his current research interest lies in the broad area of food distribution, security and safety. Google Scholar ranks him as one of the world's most cited scholars in food supply chain management, food value chains and traceability.He has authored five books on global food systems, his most recent one published in 2017 by Wiley-Blackwell entitled “Food Safety, Risk Intelligence and Benchmarking”. He has also published over 500 peer-reviewed journal articles in several academic publications. Furthermore, his research has been featured in several newspapers and media groups, including The Lancet, The Economist, the New York Times, the Boston Globe, the Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, BBC, NBC, ABC, Fox News, Foreign Affairs, the Globe & Mail, the National Post and the Toronto Star.Dr. Charlebois sits on a few company boards, and supports many organizations as a special advisor, including some publicly traded companies. Charlebois is also a member of the Scientific Council of the Business Scientific Institute, based in Luxemburg. Dr. Charlebois is a member of the Global Food Traceability Centre's Advisory Board based in Washington DC, and a member of the National Scientific Committee of the Canadian Food Inspection Agency (CFIA) in Ottawa. Michael LeBlanc is the president and founder of M.E. LeBlanc & Company Inc, a senior retail advisor, keynote speaker and now, media entrepreneur. He has been on the front lines of retail industry change for his entire career. Michael has delivered keynotes, hosted fire-side discussions and participated worldwide in thought leadership panels, most recently on the main stage in Toronto at Retail Council of Canada's Retail Marketing conference with leaders from Walmart & Google. He brings 25+ years of brand/retail/marketing & eCommerce leadership experience with Levi's, Black & Decker, Hudson's Bay, CanWest Media, Pandora Jewellery, The Shopping Channel and Retail Council of Canada to his advisory, speaking and media practice.Michael produces and hosts a network of leading retail trade podcasts, including the award-winning No.1 independent retail industry podcast in America, Remarkable Retail with his partner, Dallas-based best-selling author Steve Dennis; Canada's top retail industry podcast The Voice of Retail and Canada's top food industry and one of the top Canadian-produced management independent podcasts in the country, The Food Professor with Dr. Sylvain Charlebois from Dalhousie University in Halifax.Rethink Retail has recognized Michael as one of the top global retail experts for the fourth year in a row, Thinkers 360 has named him on of the Top 50 global thought leaders in retail, RTIH has named him a top 100 global though leader in retail technology and Coresight Research has named Michael a Retail AI Influencer. If you are a BBQ fan, you can tune into Michael's cooking show, Last Request BBQ, on YouTube, Instagram, X and yes, TikTok.Michael is available for keynote presentations helping retailers, brands and retail industry insiders explaining the current state and future of the retail industry in North America and around the world.

Saviez-vous qu'il existe près de 2100 monastères dans le monde ? Connaissez-vous cet univers que l'on peut découvrir dans le film LIBRES (SAJE Distribution) actuellement sur nos écrans ? Qu'allez-vous chercher dans un monastère et qu'y avez-vous trouvé ? Participez à l'émission en appelant au 01 56 56 44 00. Avec Louis Ponsignon, responsable communication et marketing pour SAJE Distribution, frère MOG (Marie-Ollivier Guillou), dominicain et Marie-Noëlle Tranchant, critique cinéma. Ecoute Dans la Nuit, 90 minutes de libre antenne pour échanger et témoigner en direct du lundi au vendredi de 21h à 22h30.Hébergé par Ausha. Visitez ausha.co/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

Guten Abend. Schön, dass Du da bist! Mach es Dir bequem und schließ die Augen.Heute erzählt Marie-Noëlle Dir zum Einschlafen etwas über ImrahilDen Ardapedia Artikel dazu findest Du hier: https://www.ardapedia.org/wiki/ImrahilÜber die ArdapediaIn der Ardapedia könnt Ihr in tausenden Artikeln alle wichtigen Informationen zur Person J. R. R. Tolkien und seinen Werken nachschlagen. Ihr findet Artikel zu allen Begriffen, die im weitesten Rahmen mit Tolkien zu tun haben, egal ob zu den Romanen, der Film-Trilogie oder Tolkiens Leben. Und das Beste ist, dass bei diesem Online-Nachschlagewerk jeder mitmachen kann.Dieser Podcast wird ehrenamtlich von für die Deutschen Tolkien Gesellschaft produziert. Wenn Dir gefällt, was wir tun, werde doch Mitglied oder unterstütze uns mit einer kleinen Spende. Alle Informationen gibts unter tolkiengesellschaft.de

Bienvenue dans ce nouvel épisode du podcast "Entr'Nous" ! Animé par Olivier Mageren, sexologue diplômé de l'ULB et expert reconnu pour sa capacité à aborder des sujets complexes avec ouverture et sensibilité, ce podcast est une invitation à explorer les mystères et les nuances de notre monde intérieur.Pour cet épisode, nous avons l'honneur de recevoir Marie-Noëlle Samain, thérapeute psycho-corporelle, énergéticienne passionnée et experte en Kundalini, une force mystérieuse et puissante qui, lorsqu'elle s'éveille, nous invite à un voyage fascinant au cœur de nous-mêmes. Marie-Noëlle nous emmène dans une exploration profonde de cette énergie de vie, révélant ses multiples facettes et ses implications dans notre vie quotidienne.À travers une conversation riche et bienveillante, Marie-Noëlle et Olivier explorent ensemble les divers aspects de la Kundalini, des expériences transcendantes aux défis qu'elle peut présenter. Ils abordent les aspects moins connus de cette pratique, y compris les phénomènes de montée de Kundalini et les syndromes parfois associés, tout en mettant en lumière les aspects lumineux et révélateurs de cette énergie.Dans ce dialogue envoûtant, nous découvrons comment la Kundalini peut être une source de guérison, de transformation et d'éveil personnel. Marie-Noëlle partage avec nous ses expériences vécues et son expertise sur les méthodes pour activer et harmoniser cette énergie puissante. Ensemble, ils discutent aussi de la connexion entre la Kundalini et d'autres pratiques, comme le Tantra, et explorent l'impact du son et des vibrations dans ce processus.Ce podcast est bien plus qu'une simple discussion sur la Kundalini ; c'est une célébration de la diversité des expériences humaines et un hommage à la beauté des transformations spirituelles. Nous espérons que cet épisode éveillera en vous une curiosité profonde et une ouverture à l'inexploré."Entr'Nous" vous invite à écouter cet épisode avec une âme ouverte et un cœur prêt à recevoir les révélations que la Kundalini peut offrir. Ne manquez pas ce moment précieux de partage et de découverte.L'épisode est disponible dès maintenant sur toutes les bonnes plateformes de podcast et sur notre site web, soutenu par « Love Health Center » et « The Podcast Factory Org ».Bonne écoute !Documentaires :- "Au coeur de la kundalini "sur la montée de kundalini de Yoann Chaulet : https://youtu.be/WiOHja3q-Mg?si=otwl9sYNZBjgQXB6- Un autre documentaire sur l'accompagnement des montées de kundalini : https://youtu.be/c5HP0xYoCQ8?si=jPYQ8YryWqJxP40g- Vidéos de Céline Bergamini : https://youtu.be/9pl_16jxov8?si=4LlqGE60QgRkrjkThttps://youtu.be/5Mg_MlCV340?si=iRZU428mHaPf3nPo- Les dangers de la kundalini : https://youtu.be/cJbmfBrYWF0?si=z3fe6PkSE3Xc7AO_Contacter Marie-Noëlle Samain :- Transpersonnel - Yatra Kundalini Activation (@amourencorps) : https://www.instagram.com/amourencorps/- Site Internet actuel : https://www.amourencorps.be- Site Internet bientôt: https://www.kundalinlove.be- FaceBook : https://www.facebook.com/amourencorps/Livres :- La technique Love Energetics - Le chant du coeur et le Grand Eveil de la Kundalini Broché – 7 octobre 2015de Yvon Dubé (Auteur) EDITION Ariane : https://www.amazon.fr/stores/Yvon-Dub%C3%A9/author/B01DBW1UU2?ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true- Merveilleuse Kundalini : Un pont entre les réalités dans un monde en mutation Broché – 20 mars 2013 de Régine Degrémont (Auteur) : https://www.amazon.fr/Merveilleuse-Kundalini-entre-r%C3%A9alit%C3%A9s-mutation/dp/2360470345?ref_=ast_author_dpLaissez un message vocal à Marie-Noëlle Samain ou Olivier Mageren en réaction à ce podcast : https://www.vodio.fr/repondeur/311/Séquençage du podcast :[00:00:20] Introduction[00:00:52] Présentation de Marie-Noëlle Samain[00:02:16] Intentions de Marie-Noëlle Samain[00:05:19] Intentions d'Olivier Mageren[00:06:07] Marie-Noëlle Samain commence par son expérience[00:07:52] Comment Marie-Noëlle Samain définit la Kundalini[00:17:38] Différentes approches & syndromes[00:22:26] Un chemin personnel parsemé d'expériences diverses[00:23:11] La notion de folie[00:24:58] Les bienfaits de la Kundalini[00:29:08] Quel est le lien entre Kundalini et sexualité, énergie sexuelle ?[00:33:44] Dire oui à tout – Kundalini & Tantra[00:40:06] Mouvements involontaires du corps[00:43:03] Expériences psychiques, clairaudience et autres effets[00:45:51] Yatra Kundalini Activation & le son[00:47:35] Recommandation de la vidéo « Au cœur de la Kundalini »[00:49:08] Une gratitude[00:49:45] Comment trouver, contacter Marie-Noëlle Samain & Clôture

Impossible de parler de Tantra sans aborder la Kundalini, un sujet central et mystérieux, souvent incompris, voire tabou. Quel est le lien entre Tantra, sexualité et Kundalini ? Comment comprendre ce concept tant évoqué ? De quoi parle la Kundalini ? Si on s'y intéresse, comment s'y retrouver ? L'énergie sexuelle comme tremplin pour découvrir quelque chose de bien plus puissant et précieux ! Sublimation, méditation, exercices, simplification, sensations, patience...Ce podcast fait la transition entre les épisodes précédents sur le Tantra et l'introduction du sujet de la Kundalini dans les prochains podcasts, notamment grâce à l'épisode #56, avec Marie-Noëlle Samain, qui viendra nous parler de son expérience avec la Kundalini et le Yatra Kundalini Activation.Liens cités dans le podcast :- https://ayush.gov.in/- https://ayush.gov.in/index.html#!/%23aboutus_contentLivres :- La Kundalini, l'énergie des profondeurs - Lilian Silburn, Éditions Les Deux Océans: https://www.editions-tredaniel.com/la-kundalini-p-8809.html- Manuel de sexualité tantrique - Sunyata Saraswati et Bodhi Avinasha, Éditions Jouvence : https://www.aumoulindeslettres.fr/livre/122617-manuel-de-sexualite-tantrique-le-couple-sublime-sunyata-saraswati-bodhi-avinasha-jouvence- 112 Méditations Tantriques - Éditions Accarias, L'originel : https://www.abebooks.com/9782863160305/Cent-douze-m%C3%A9ditations-tantriques-Feuga-2863160303/plp- Merveilleuse Kundalini, un pont entre les réalités dans un monde en mutation - Régine Degrémont, Éditions Chariot d'Or : https://www.editions-chariot-dor.fr/produit/50/9782360470341/merveilleuse-kundaliniLaissez un message vocal à Olivier en réaction à ce podcast et à l'invitation qu'il vous lance : https://www.vodio.fr/repondeur/311/Séqençage du podcast:[00:00:20] Introduction à la Sexualité et au Tantra[00:02:08] La vision du Kundalini en Inde[00:10:25] Kundalini et Énergie Sexuelle[00:11:48] Exploration des Niveaux de Conscience[00:18:21] Le Sacrifice et l'Énergie Sexuelle[00:21:33] Expériences Personnelles et État de Conscience[00:23:16] Accompagnement Spirituel et Découverte Profonde[00:25:11] Vibration, Chakras et Kundalini[00:27:50] Tabous, Secrets et Souveraineté Personnelle[00:30:57] Réflexions Finales et Invitation au Voyage

Dans ce nouvel épisode un peu spécial de Ces questions que tout le monde se pose, je vous propose d'approfondir le thème du travail. Pour répondre à la note vocale de Marie-Noëlle, qui, après 8 années au même poste, ressent vis-à-vis de sa carrière un goût d'inachevé et se demande si son travail lui convient toujours, j'ai invité à mon micro Marilyse Trécourt. Marilyse est autrice de nombreux ouvrages de développement personnel et de romans, et a publié récemment un livre sur l'Ikigai (50 exercices pour trouver son Ikigai). À travers cette rencontre, et toujours dans l'espoir d'aider aussi toutes celles et ceux qui écouteront cet épisode, j'essaie aujourd'hui de répondre aux questions que tout le monde se pose… sur le travail et comment trouver sa voie. N'hésitez pas à vous abonner à ce podcast, me suivre sur les réseaux sociaux sous le nom de Maud Ankaoua, ou consulter mon site internet https://www.maud-ankaoua.com. N'oubliez pas que si vous avez vous-même des questions, ou s'il y a des sujets que vous aimeriez que j'aborde dans un futur épisode, vous pouvez m'écrire ou m'envoyer une note vocale à l'adresse podcast.eyrolles@gmail.com. Vous retrouverez toutes ces informations dans le texte de description de l'épisode. Je serais également ravie de vous retrouver en librairie avec mes deux romans, Kilomètre Zéro et Respire ! Le Plan est toujours parfait. Autrice & Animatrice : Maud Ankaoua  Production : Éditions Eyrolles Réalisation : Margaux Rol & Céline Malvo de l'Atelier ENL Montage & Mixage : Noémie Sudre Musique : Martijn De BoerHébergé par Ausha. Visitez ausha.co/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

Vous en rêvez ou plutôt vous en faites des cauchemars : la candidose mammaire a pris ses quartiers dans Milkshaker, et quand ce petit champignon a trouvé un endroit confortable, pas facile de l'en déloger. Alors il mérite de se pencher sur le sujet.C'est avec Marie Noëlle Lata @marie.noelle_ibclc, consultante en lactation IBCLC, que je vais échanger aujourd'hui. On va reposer les bases: qu'est-ce que c'est que cette candidose, d'où ça sort, pourquoi ça se fixe sur les seins, comment on la détecte, et surtout qu'est-ce qu'on fait pour s'en débarrasser, elle va tout nous expliquer.Je vous souhaite une belle écoute.Charlotte Hébergé par Acast. Visitez acast.com/privacy pour plus d'informations.

LA TABLE À LANGÉ - Marie-Noëlle raconte les souvenirs d'enfance de sa fille, Mélina Robert-Michon devenue vice-championne olympique du lancer du disque et porte-drapeau aux Jeux olympiques de Paris 2024.

In France, the cement industry emits 10 million tonnes of CO2 per year. The greenhouse gas comes from the manufacture of cement's active ingredient, clinker. At the Irradiated Solids Laboratory (LSI*), Marie-Noëlle de Noirfontaine and Mireille Courtial are carrying out detailed characterizations of materials likely to replace clinker. An essential step in the decarbonization of the industry. The importance of Low-carbon cement With 10 billion tons produced worldwide every year, cement represents a major challenge in terms of energy transition. In France, industry professionals are aiming to reduce their CO2 emissions by 50% by 2030, then achieve carbon neutrality by 2050. The race is therefore on to decarbonize the entire industry, not only through manufacturing processes (energy efficiency, choice of fuels, capture of CO2 emissions), but also through the choice of other raw materials and new alternatives to clinker. Marie-Noëlle de Noirfontaine and Mireille Courtial have responded to calls for projects issued by cement manufacturers in this context. Their work is part of the Elysée's France 2030 investment plan. "We're interested in alternative materials to clinker," explains Marie-Noëlle de Noirfontaine. "This is one of the major levers we can use to reduce greenhouse gas emissions," adds Mireille Courtial. Two-thirds of the emissions from the clinker manufacturing process come from the decarbonation of limestone into lime and CO2. The remaining third comes from the energy used to heat the kiln required for this operation. For some time now, a proportion of clinker has been replaced in common cements by substitute materials. These are natural materials and finely ground vitreous or vitro-crystalline industrial by-products from blast furnaces or thermal power plants. However, the gradual closure of these sites means that new substitutes must be found. The wide availability of recycled glass makes it a very attractive alternative. More generally, materials containing, for example, a finely divided siliceous or silico-aluminous vitreous phase - such as the natural pozzolans already used by the Romans - are attracting the attention of scientists. A little lexical clarification: glass refers to any solid material whose atoms are disordered, as opposed to crystals, which have precise, repetitive arrangements of their atoms. It's also known as an amorphous solid. "And the more depolymerized the glass network, the more reactive it will be, and therefore the more likely it is to replace clinker," explains Marie-Noëlle de Noirfontaine. Upstream of the process From industrial waste to volcanic ash, the two scientists analyzed a representative panel of clinker replacement candidates supplied by cement manufacturers. By sifting through these samples using spectroscopy (Raman, X-ray fluorescence) and X-ray diffraction, they were able to characterize and classify them (nature, order of atoms). "We cross-referenced the results obtained using these three techniques and developed a reading grid that can easily be used by cement manufacturers. It informs them about the degree of polymerization of the glassy structures contained in our 13 specimens, and therefore about the reactivity of each and their potential to replace clinker", reveals Mireille Courtial. These results come at a very early stage in the production chain for new decarbonated cements. "The detailed characterization of these materials enables chemists to design activators capable of depolymerizing the most stable glasses, thus broadening the range of possible alternatives to clinker. This is the boom of the years to come in the sector", enthuses Marie-Noëlle de Noirfontaine. For, in addition to the 13 samples from cement manufacturers, other substitute materials have appeared on the bench of the two researchers. "We have been approached by Saint-Gobain to characterize biomass ash from the combustion of plant matter (wood, straw), animal matter (carcasses) and waste (paper). O...

Avec Sœur Marie-Noël

durée : 00:59:22 - Le 13/14 - par : Bruno Duvic - Nous recevons aujourd'hui le chanteur canado-américain Rufus Wainwright et Marie-Noëlle Maerten, cheffe de chœur à la Maîtrise de Radio France à l'occasion d'une création mondiale « Dream Requiem » qu'ils proposeront ce soir à l'auditorium de la Maison de la Radio et de la Musique.

Avec Sœur Marie-Noël

durée : 00:38:29 - Le Temps du débat - par : Emmanuel Laurentin - Une étude publiée par Santé publique France et l'Inserm révèle que le suicide est devenu la première cause de mortalité chez la jeune mère. Comment prévenir l'apparition de ces troubles psychiques ? Que change pour les femmes la libération de la parole autour de la dépression post-partum ? - invités : Chantal Birman Sage-femme, militante des droits des femmes; Marie-Noëlle Vacheron Psychiatre, cheffe de service à l'hôpital Saint-Anne; Emmanuelle Berthiaud Maîtresse de conférences en histoire moderne à l'université de Picardie Jules Verne, à Amiens.

durée : 00:38:29 - Le Temps du débat - par : Emmanuel Laurentin - Une étude publiée par Santé publique France et l'Inserm révèle que le suicide est devenu la première cause de mortalité chez la jeune mère. Comment prévenir l'apparition de ces troubles psychiques ? Que change pour les femmes la libération de la parole autour de la dépression post-partum ? - invités : Chantal Birman Sage-femme, militante des droits des femmes; Marie-Noëlle Vacheron Psychiatre, cheffe de service à l'hôpital Saint-Anne; Emmanuelle Berthiaud Maîtresse de conférences en histoire moderne à l'université de Picardie Jules Verne, à Amiens.

Avec Sœur Marie-Noël

Le gouvernement veut pousser les moins pauvres à quitter leurs logements HLM ! Le ministre du logement Guillaume Kasbarian sonne la charge ce matin dans les colonnes du journal les Echos. Il assure que 8 % des locataires n'ont en résumé plus rien à y faire. Pour en parler avec nous Marie-Noëlle Lienemann, Présidente de la Fédération nationale des sociétés coopératives d'HLM, et ancienne sénatrice de gauche. Ecoutez L'invité de RTL Midi avec Vincent Parizot et Céline Landreau du 12 avril 2024

La petite belette a bien envie d'aller faire sa toilette dans le grand fleuve... Oui mais attention, le puma gourmand la surveille ! La rusée belette parviendra-t-elle à lui échapper ?Avec Mille et une histoires, découvre l'histoire du Moulin Magique. Et si cette histoire t'a plu, découvre le magazine Mille et une histoire, pour s'émerveiller chaque mois avec des contes du monde entier : https://www.fleuruspresse.com/magazines/pour-les-plus-petits/mille-et-une-histoiresLes contes Mille et une histoires sont issus du magazine éponyme édité par Fleurus Presse, marque du groupe Unique Heritage MédiaCrédits :Autrice : Karine-Marie AmiotIllustré par Marie-Noëlle HorvathVoix : Nathalie BernasMusique, enregistrement & sound design : Léopold RoyUnique Heritage Media Hébergé par Acast. Visitez acast.com/privacy pour plus d'informations.

Avec Sœur Marie-Noël

Débat entre Emmanuel Amoos, conseiller national (PS/VS), Benedikt Würth, conseiller aux Etats (Le Centre/SG), Marie-Noëlle Falquet, enseignante en technologie alimentaire à la Haute école spécialisée bernoise, et Sandrine Lasserre, diététicienne spécialisée en nutrition sportive.

Marie Griffith, PhD, John C. Danforth Distinguished Professor in the Humanities at Washington University in St. Louis. She served for 12 years (2011-2023) as the director of the John C. Danforth Center on Religion and Politics and the editor of the Center's journal, Religion & Politics. Her research focuses on American Christianity, including the changing profile of American evangelicals and ongoing conflicts over gender, sexuality, and marriage. Author of several books, including Moral Combat: How Sex Divided America and Fractured American Politics, the book discussed in this episode. Uncertain is a podcast of Tears of Eden, a community and resource for those in the aftermath of Spiritual Abuse. If you're enjoying this podcast, please take a moment to like, subscribe, or leave a review on your favorite podcasting listening apparatus. You can support the podcast by going to TearsofEden.org/supportTo get in touch with us please email tearsofeden.org@gmail.comFollow on Instagram @uncertainpodcastTranscript is unedited for typos or misspellings[00:00:00] I'm Katherine Spearing, and this is Uncertain. Hello. How are you? How are you hanging in there? I hope you're doing okay. I'm doing semi okay. It's been a lot inundation with this very real, very damaging type of abuse. One thing that you may or may not know is folks who have experienced spiritual abuse and folks who have experienced sexual abuse.They're very similar to each other. Spiritual abuse and sexual abuse are very, very similar. The impact is very, very similar because it is so, so vulnerable. You are so vulnerable when this happens and it violates our intimacy and it violates our very souls in a way that maybe other abuse doesn't. So if you are traumatized.By the abuse that you experienced in a church [00:01:00] or a high control environment or religious environments in your family. There's a reason for that. It makes a lot of sense. It's very, very serious trauma. So one of the things that we discussed in this episode is how the folks who. experience sexual abuse when they go to the religious institution where they experience that abuse and say, Hey, help me, this happened, this was awful, please help me.When they get dismissed or falsely accused or sidelined or silenced, that that is sometimes worse than the sexual abuse that they experienced in that institution. This episode is with Marie Griffith. She is the author of Moral Combat, How Sex Divided America and Fractured American Politics. It's an intense book.A lot of research went into this book. She's also a scholar [00:02:00] and a professor of religion at Washington University. And one of the things we will also discuss in this episode is how she literally taught a class on abuse in the church in a secular university. What? Crazy, crazy, crazy. Great conversation, lots of mind blowing moments about the connection between sex and sexual abuse and the rampant abuse that is happening in the evangelical church right now.Enjoy, or don't enjoy, but take it in for sure. And as always, take care of yourself, get some rest, give yourself some time after this episode to go for a walk, take a sip of water, breathe. You're okay, wherever you are, you are okay, take a deep breath, you are safe, you are here, you are now, you are present, you're going to be okay.[00:03:00] Here is my interview with Marie Griffith. Katherine: Hi, Catherine. Oh, how are you? How are you? And I have your big book here. This was a lot of work. She took this.Marie: And that was like I don't even want to tell you how many years. I mean, it was really sort of 15 years. I did other things as I was doing that, Katherine: but yeah. Yeah, just like the amount of research that went into just like one chapter I was like, this was a very large endeavor. But how are you this morning? How are you doing? How is your writing? Is it like a writing sabbatical? Is that kind of what this season is called?Marie: Yeah, I'm on, I'm on research leave. You know, it's just a standard leave that scholars get every few years. So but yeah, it's focused on working on this book about sexual clergy, sexual Katherine: abuse. Oh, my gosh. Did I know that? Did you tell me about that? I don't know if I knew from Marie: that [00:04:00] I had taught that course on the abuse crisis in modern Christianity.And so the reason I taught the course was because I started doing research on clergy sexual abuse in both the U. S. Catholic Church And evangelical groups, particularly the Southern Baptist Convention, although not only Katherine: the Southern. Okay. I don't know if I knew that the book itself was about clergy sexual abuse.So I definitely want to hear so much about that. Really excited to talk to you. I'm just like, as I'm like reading this book, I'm like, okay. We just need to be friends because I like everything that you research and everything that you're, I'm like, it's all like stuff that I'm like thinking about constantly.And then just like even reading your book. And then when Megan told me that she literally had a class on like abuse that is happening in the church, I was like. Wait, who, like, led this? Whose idea was it to have this class? Like, tell me, tell me so much more. And so that's why I was, like, very [00:05:00] interested to talk to you.And so I would just love to hear very just to start how you got into doing what you're doing and how this became important to you. Marie: Sure, sure. Yeah. And thank you so much. I really love your podcast and admire the work that you do too, Catherine. So thank you. Well, I am from Chattanooga, Tennessee originally.I was raised Southern Baptist. I grew up in the 1970s and 1980s. So as you may know, that was a time of just tremendous change in the culture, but also for Southern Baptists in particular, and within evangelical Protestantism more generally. The church I grew up in was a really, I thought of it as just a very kind of, you know, ordinary.Church, it was 1st Baptist Church Chattanooga, you know, the kind of flagship Southern Baptist Church of the city. But the, the kind of tensions in the Southern Baptist Convention. Between, [00:06:00] you know, for shorthand, let's say the fundamentalist and the moderates, because that's, you know, what they called each other, at least at the time was really strong.And my mother was the pastor's secretary over a number of years, and she cared deeply about these issues. My dad was the deacon chair for a number of years. So this was dinner table conversation. What was happening within the denomination and. My parents were both moderates. And so I kind of heard that side of it.And it was really painful. A lot of the pastors that I had that worked at our church felt very betrayed by things that happened, convention politics and all of that. And when I left for college, I thought I left it all behind. I mean, it was really painful enough that I just turned my back on a lot of that.But I found myself studying religion and really sort of wondering how all of that came to be. So in some ways, I mean, I think that has, explains a lot about my career, why I became a [00:07:00] scholar of American religion. I've focused on evangelicals. I focused on women. I focused on debates over women's roles, sexuality, and sex.And now clergy sexual abuse. So it really is. There's a personal story behind that, as I think it is for so many scholars. Katherine: Absolutely. And then have you been able to trace? So you're working on a book right now about clergy sexual abuse. And then your book that I was reading before we interviewed.Moral combat. The subtitle is how sex divided American Christians and fractured American politics. Have you been able to trace? The link from this divide to clergy sexual abuse, is that pretty, a pretty clear link for you? Marie: I think so. And, you know, I, critics may argue with me, and they have every right to argue with me, but what I see from the sources, the [00:08:00] long historical sources that I've looked at over many archives that really begin in the really the late 19th century, but certainly by the 1920s and the birth control movement has been a real power struggle within American Christianity, Catholicism as well as, as, as Protestantism, I should say over leadership, over theology, and maybe more than anything else over the appropriate role of women and, and how to think about gender, how God created men and women.and what their appropriate roles are supposed to be. I think we can see that debate starting with The birth control movement, really going back before that, but my book started with the birth control movement, moving through debates over literary censorship sex education in the public schools, homosexuality, same sex rights, abortion, reproductive rights, sort of all the way through.And so, you know, that's, that's an [00:09:00] oversimplification to some degree, but I do think that those wars over sex. over gender, over, over women and, and women's roles in the public sphere and in the family explain an awful lot of our conflicts culture wars conflicts as they are. And, and I do think that's what's led us to the current moment and the, the real fervor over clergy sexual abuse.Katherine: Yeah, and just all of it packaged together when you, and when you put sex sexual abuse itself, and you, and you realize that sexual abuse itself is really not about sex, it is about power, and you, and you see the power dynamic happening in these debates, and like, it's about who's going to get it. To be in charge, basically and, and then you add that in with this dynamic of sexual abuse happening and like less about just [00:10:00] urges that need to be fulfilled, but more about like who gets to be in charge and who gets to have a say and who gets to decide.It makes so much more sense through that lens than just like. Sex addiction which is what it sometimes gets boiled down to, but it's, but that's, it's way more than that one. It's something this rampant. And so I see the connection. And it's, it's, it's pretty, it's pretty clear to me. But I would love to hear So you taught a class and what was the class called?Can you confirm the name of Marie: that? Sure. Yeah. The class was called the abuse crisis in modern Christianity. Katherine: Okay. And what led you to teaching that class? And then what were, what were the, the, what was the process of getting that class to Marie: be taught? Yeah, yeah, no, and it's maybe my favorite class I've ever taught, so I just want to say that at the outset, which sounds strange [00:11:00] because it was also the most painful class I've ever taught, the most difficult class I've ever taught.You know, you all, this sort of Me Too, Church Too movement that's been so extraordinarily important over the last, seven or eight, 10 years, again, going longer than that, even, but really these this past decade. I have so many undergraduate students who have come to me with stories of sexual assault or sexual abuse, and I realize it's something that college students are grappling with.All the time. But there are, at least in the institutions where I've taught, there are almost no classes, you know, that address that it's it's sort of we're expecting our student life personnel and our R. A. S. And people who aren't even trained in some cases to kind of be the ones to manage. sex on campus or the sexual lives of our students.And so, and as I was doing the research on clergy sexual [00:12:00] abuse and just realizing how rampant some of this has long been and still is, it felt like something that I thought students would take a real interest in. So I taught the course, I put it on the books for fall of 2022. I limited it at first to 15 students and I immediately, when registration opened, it immediately filled up and I had.double that number of students on the wait list. And so I wound up with about30 students that, that were there off all undergrad, except for one graduate student. And that was, that was Megan. Katherine: And then and so you didn't have any trouble like hot, like saying, Hey, I want to offer this class. Was that something that you did you have any hurdles with the institution offering the class?Marie: Well, that's that's a very good question. You're the first person to ask me that. As it happened, I was at the time the director of the Danforth Center on Religion and Politics, which is our unit. And [00:13:00] so I was able to just offer the class and it really didn't go through any kind of Katherine: formal approach.I could do whatever I want. Marie: if I teach the course again, which I definitely plan on doing, it's possible that I would get some pushback. But the course really it was, it got very high course evaluations. I think the students were saying, these are conversations we all need to be having, and we're so thankful to be having it.So I think I would be able to make the argument that this is an important course Katherine: to keep on the books. Absolutely. And then you had, I know that Megan had mentioned I think like a former nun and like a former prosecutor that you had in. Was it more of a like a, a workshop style, lecture style, or was it more like you teaching and then you would occasionally have people come in?Marie: Yeah. Well, the course met twice a week for an hour and 20 minutes, and I did very little lecturing. I mean, I would set out the context, you know, for a short period [00:14:00] at the beginning. But as you say, I brought in a lot of experts. I brought in lawyer, a lawyer who has prosecuted these cases and worked a lot with sexual abuse survivors.I brought in Catholic survivors. I brought in a Catholic survivor who is now working for the Catholic church on prevention programs. You know, and has very much considers himself a devout Catholic still archivist, just a whole range of different types of people. We talked to journalists. I just wanted them to really see Things from a wide range of perspectives.I will say that when I started the course, most of my research until then had focused on the Catholic Church. So it was maybe overly focused on Catholicism. And I wish I had had time to do more. with evangelicals, with Mormons their orthodox Jewish cases and coverups of sexual abuse. Muslim communities in [00:15:00] the U.S. have grappled with this. So, you know, it's almost an overwhelming amount of material and WashU is a very multicultural, multi religious university. So, you know, I think covering these power dynamics, as you say, this is not just about sex, it's really about power and gender. Covering these across different religious traditions, I think is a really important, Katherine: you know, thing to do.Absolutely. And I still think that the Catholic church is the most well known. I was at a, I was at a class. Sunday night and I had your book with me to just like read while when there was like not stuff going on or while I was like waiting for people and and somebody was like, Oh, what's, what's that book about?And so I like, I talked a little bit about the book and then said, I was interviewing someone who taught a class and abuse in the church. And they were like, Oh, like the Catholic church. And I was like, well, I was like actually like I focus on like the evangelical church. And the person that I was talking to you was actually someone who like attends.Church [00:16:00] and and so it was almost like they just like had no idea that that, but that was like happening within the actual like regular everyday evangelical churches, I think a lot of evangelicals will still try to like, think, oh, that's a Catholic church problem and that happened over there in the Catholic Church, when it is.very rampant in the evangelical church across every denomination. Like I haven't, I have not met or encountered the denomination yet. That was like, Oh no, we're good. We don't have that. That doesn't, that doesn't happen. And so I'm really, really grateful that you were teaching that class and just like thinking of the students that got to be in there and be a part of it.And I got to have that conversation. I'm just like. Woo, would I, would I love, you know, I went to seminary and I'm like for grad school and I'm like, would I have loved to have a class like that in seminary? Yes, but they're not going to have that kind of class in seminary. Like critiquing the church that they're like creating ministers for.[00:17:00] And, and someone asked me that the other day of like, did you ever have a class on like abuse in the church? And did anyone ever talk about like clergy abuse or spiritual abuse or anything in seminary? I was like, no. It was like it did not exist. It was like that didn't happen at all. Marie: Well, I think, I think you're absolutely right.I am hopeful. I feel like in a lot of the conversations that I'm having now, and I, you know, I'm doing interviews with survivors, but also with. Pastors with people working for the church, developing curricula and training programs, you know, for pastors in seminary. I mean, I actually feel some hope that there's so much energy around bringing some of that knowledge into the seminary classroom requiring.No, in some way, either at the local church level or at seminary. Now it's difficult because as you know, church autonomy is a hugely important principle for groups like Baptists [00:18:00] and other, a lot of other evangelical groups. And so requiring a church. To have a training or requiring certain courses, even in seminary is it's it's hard.And I think a lot of these denominations right now are debating this issue. But still, I think people realize more and more. I mean, the Southern Davis Convention has had Terrible PR over the last several years around its own cover ups of sexual abuse. It's starting to look as bad as the Catholic Church's cover up, right?And so I think Southern Baptist leaders I've talked to, they know they've got to do something. And not just for optics, they've really got to do something, you know big to, to bring knowledge to this issue. So I am hopeful that some of that, what you didn't have in seminary You know, the next generation is going to have some version of Katherine: it, at least.Absolutely. Yeah. Cause I just, I mean, you can't ignore it at this point. It's, it's everywhere. It is everywhere. What was the response? [00:19:00] So you said that you got a really good response from your students in terms of just like evaluations at the end. What was some of like the personal response of students within the class?Marie: Yeah, and I want to say, you know, I gave a lot of trigger warnings at the outset. In the course description, I said, if this is a personal issue for you, Really think hard before you take this class, but come talk to me and I can help you find resources if you want to find resources, but I warned people we're going to read graphic, you know, accounts of sexual abuse.It's hard, even for those of us who are not survivors and I do not consider myself a survivor. It's still it's grueling. It's wrenching it. Keeps you up at night when you read the stuff. So I, I really warned students and I warned them on the first day of class and, and all of that nonetheless, you know, kind of midway through, I knew that I had three or four students who were struggling they [00:20:00] were not getting their work in, you know, I reached out to them and they admitted to me, like this was bringing stuff up for them.So I found myself just saying, don't worry about deadlines. Like take care of yourself, you know, and I told students in class if you need to take a break when we're in class, you know, I've never said this in any other class, but I'm going to tell you now you can walk out and walk around and get a drink of water and come back when you can.And I'm not going to penalize you for that. I, you know, your mental health. is most important here and come talk to me. So students expressed appreciation, you know, in their evaluations that I had been flexible about that as I think anyone should be. One suggestion they did have for me about changing in the future is that my very first minister probably should have been a counselor, probably should have been someone who could come in and talk about trauma and not just the trauma that abuse survivors that we're reading about have suffered, but trauma that you might feel.You know, absorbing [00:21:00] these stories. And so I take that to heart. And I think when I teach the class again, I teach the class again that I'm going to do that first and make sure that I've got better supports set up for students. If, if the, the sort of secondary trauma or tertiary trauma of reading and absorbing all of this gets Katherine: to be too much.Absolutely, absolutely. Yeah, I can imagine that that would be, that would be. A great idea. To start it out that way. What were some of the people that you brought in, was there someone that like really stood out to you that a story that they told really resonated with you? Marie: Yeah. Well, you know, they, they all stand out for me, but I'll just tell a couple of stories that I think the students found particularly meaningful. And I should say again, to go back to the personal and the student said, it wasn't just hard for them. You know, they loved the class.They loved getting to think about this and process this. And I think they all. felt that this would really shape them going forward. Help [00:22:00] them be better friends and, and helpers of other people who've gone through trauma. You know, I think for a lot of us who aren't survivors, we don't realize how deep the trauma goes until you read and learn.You've got to be educated about that. And I think these guests really helped do that. So I had guests two of the guests have been. Leaders in an organization called snap the survivors network of those abused by priests, which was founded primarily as a Catholic organization for Catholic survivors of clergy abuse, and they really went back into first kind of realizing that the abuse that they had experienced, trying to tell going to church authorities and having in their cases door slammed against them over and over again.And that the trauma of that was worse than the original sexual abuse itself. Right. I'm sure you hear this over and over again. Very Katherine: common. Very common. [00:23:00] Marie: And I think for students to hear their story, but also, you know, they helped create SNAP. They've been public spokespeople across the country. They have helped so many people, so many victims.And, you know, I think educated so many of us who are not victims. about this, that the students found them really inspiring. That was, that was really great. And David Clossie, who was the longtime leader of the SNAP, I'm just lucky because he lives here in St. Louis. And so he was able to visit our class in person along with Barb Doris who was also a SNAP leader, but he's a very emotional person still.And he cries a lot and he'll tell you that. So he'll tell stories and he is, his emotions are right there. But he has also processed it. He has sort of come out on top of it and he's just a really inspiring figure. So students really loved hearing from him. Another standout, I'll just mention just one more.We had a local lawyer and I won't mention her [00:24:00] name because she's really had a tough time. She has worked on a lot of different clergy, sexual abuse cases in the states of Illinois and Missouri primarily, and the laws here. are really, really tough. I would say they are stacked against victims in a lot of very concrete ways.And she talked to us about that and really educated us about the law. And it got so bad for her that after 25, 30 years or so of practicing and working in that area, she just was burned out. She realized that she She could even be a suicide risk after all that she had to leave. And so she went and is now in a completely different field of law.And the students were really, I think, moved by her. Some of my students want to go to law school. They want to work in that area, but they also recognized, you know, what she had to say about the toll that this can take on people. Who really try to find justice for survivors, because it's a lot [00:25:00] harder in some states than others, but it's hard everywhere.Yeah. Katherine: You know? Yeah. It's just, yeah. It really, the justice system doesn't work in favor of of someone coming forward and saying, this happened. Especially if there's, if there's not like, Capturing physical evidence of something like that is just not easy. If it if it even is possible. Yeah, that is, that is really really incredible.Did you have anything else to say about the class and then I would love to just talk a little bit about book. Marie: . No, I would just say that I would encourage if anybody is interested in thinking about teaching a class like this for undergrads, for grad students, seminary students, feel free to contact me, rmg567 at gmail.com. And also I'll just say, I'm still, you know, interviewing survivors and people and would love to hear from folks, but I would just really encourage people to consider doing it. I think. Think it's a very, I, I'm so glad that I was able to do it, [00:26:00] and I will keep teaching that class until I can't teach anymore in retirement.Katherine: Oh, I'm so glad. I'm really, really glad that there are dozens and dozens of more students who are going to get that class so I'm really glad to hear that. So switching to talking about this book, Moral Combat that I mentioned.Earlier, the subtitle has sex divided American Christians and fractured American politics. And then I want to hear about a little more about the current book that you're working on as well. But my main question about this book is why sex? Why is sex such a big deal? What is it about sex that is making it this thing that divides people?Marie: Catherine, that is the question. That is absolutely the question. That's really the question that sent me on the journey to write this. And I don't know if even now I have an answer to it. And really, I came to it thinking like, you know, sex is not a big [00:27:00] topic in the New Testament. It's really not compared to caring for the poor.Caring for the poor, caring for people, helping the world, helping those in need, visiting the prisoner, feeding the hungry. Those are the themes, right? Those are the crucial, crucial themes. They're not the only themes, but that, to me, is so obviously the core that Jesus taught, that that should be the obsession.And it's not. It's, it's not, it's not to say churches don't care about those things, of course they do. Catholic, Protestant, they all care about those things, but the thing that has seemed to be the obsession is around disciplining people for their sexual behavior. And that just struck me and, and it was true in my Southern Baptist upbringing.I mean, that was just like, you know, a very strong theme in life generally. So I think I've always wondered. Why is something like [00:28:00] that so important? And you know, it's partly, I mean, our sexuality goes to the core of who we are, right? In every aspect of our lives. And if we wanna discipline people into being certain kinds of people, that's sort of a really key area.You know, that, that the rules need to be sort of upheld and abided by. But to me, I honestly feel and I know a lot of folks would disagree with me on this, but I think a lot of Christian leaders have really gone way beyond anything, you know, biblical to create systems and structures and rules. That, that weren't really of, of great interest or concern to Jesus or to to any of these early teachers.The early church fathers, you know, once Jesus is dead and Paul's dead and the kind of church is sort of coming into being in the early centuries, those leaders carried up, cared a lot about sex and disciplining the flesh and celibacy of [00:29:00] course, and, and thought the body was evil and thought sexuality was sort of this evil demonic force.That's kind of where a lot of this influence comes from. If, if you, if you're more interested in going back to a biblical view of Christianity, I just think a lot has been invented, has been weaponized, has been interpreted a specific way to make sex more important than it, than it really ought to be for, for Christian for Christians generally.Would Katherine: you say if... If it's about power, let's just theorize that it's about power. Is there a possibility that sex is just an easy thing to control? And it's more just like open and, you know, like, you can hide it but like something like, attracted to the same sex and you want to have that kind of relationship or, or like that physical act of Being with someone and having [00:30:00] intercourse and like, like those are just like physical things and it's just like an easier thing to control and because it's more like out there could that be a reason why this is the thing if it's about power?I don't know.Marie: No, I think that's definitely part of it. And of course, sex is tied to reproduction, too, right? So it's not just about sexual behavior. It's about, you know, women bearing children and whose children will they be bearing. So, you know, we know that in cultures all across time and place that we've been able to study, sex is also very important in societies.It's not just Christians who have made sex important. So I want to be clear about that. And part of that is because it is still, in many cases, about power. Men want to know that the children their wives are bearing are their children. Like, that's, that's one thing that anthropologists have, have a lot of times talked about.Kinship relations and, you know, these kinds of things. So, sex has been important in part because it is... [00:31:00] deeply tied up in in reproduction. And, and I think our reproductive politics today, a lot of the, you know, the, the refusal to see that the way to reduce the abortion rate is to make contraception more available to prevent problem pregnancies and unwanted pregnancies.But you don't see this huge push on the part of Christians, mostly. To provide free birth control and to make sure that there's sex education in the public schools of a certain kind, those issues often, you know, are still kind of, you know, forbidden and go with anti abortion politics. So I think the reproduction part is really a key part of this, but, but yes, I think it is also about power and.restricting women's movements, restricting you know, this huge portion of their lives and, and, and making a certain model of marriage, you know, seem like the norm, seem like the God ordained norm. There's one norm for marriage and, and that's [00:32:00] it. And you know, really, I think there's had to be a lot of.Inventiveness to make that seem like, you know, something that God so deeply cared about right, Katherine: right, right. So would you say that aside from it being a sex thing, that it really is a gendered thing? I know you had mentioned that earlier and like more about dare we say it's control of women and it's not just about.celibacy and like purity. It's really about the purity of women. Oh Marie: yeah. I, I, I think the sources bear that out very, very clearly that the, you know, the, the sort of purity obsession has always been the purity of women. It's not to say men's purity hasn't been talked about and emphasized to a degree, but men have been far less punished for sex outside of marriage and sometimes not punished at all compared to the, the sort of discipline.of women for, for, for that. So [00:33:00] I think it's very much about gender. The book, Moral Combat, you may remember, you know, I start the book with the suffrage movement, the women's suffrage movement, because that, to me, in some ways, is, is one of the, the kind of, of the core culture war issue we we almost think now so women got the right to vote in 1920, of course, and we kind of think of that as like, Okay, well, that happened and then everything you know, everybody accepted that.But in fact, there was so much energy against allowing women to vote, you know, it was very close that the, you know, the states had to ratify, you know, this amendment Tennessee my home state was the final one to ratify it. I'm proud to say. My grandmother was a suffragist who, who marched for that, but it wasn't easy.And the animus against women voting or women having something like equal rights, at least in that one sphere, you know, that animus didn't go away. And so I think a lot of what [00:34:00] you see in these later movements against birth control. Against homosexuality, against sex education, against reproductive rights.The roots are there in the anti suffrage movement. So it's very much about women, about a desire for women to stay in their place. And let me say clearly, it's not just men who have wanted that. I don't write this as a men against women yeah.just as many women are invested in that kind of patriarchal hierarchical system because they benefit from it in some way economically, socially. And so patriarchy, or I want to say misogyny, these are systems held up, I think equally by men and women in many, many cases. And and that's a crucial part of the story that we also sometimes I think tend to forget.Katherine: Yeah. And I think it's a, it's harder. , I would just say from just like [00:35:00] purely from a personal personal perspective to see women fighting so hard for these things. And when I see women upholding it and defending it just it feels very different and it lands very different than like a man.Upholding it and and defending it as well. But it's also true. It's also very, very true. And, and I, and I learned that very quickly working in and very patriarchal spaces that just because there was a woman in the room didn't make it safer and didn't necessarily mean that women were actually respected in that space., and yeah, absolutely. And then I don't remember the name of the person, but the person that was fighting for Susan's Someone maybe fighting for contraception and like the main argument was that it was gonna allow women to be loose and, and have sex with anyone they wanted. And, and she was just like, give us a, give us a break.Maybe we just like, just want to have freedom. Maybe that, [00:36:00] maybe that's what it, maybe it has nothing to do with promiscuity and just like, just like that being the argument, like, and that is. It's still the argument and that's why I like the church isn't, you know, pushing contraception and making contraception available as a, as a potential solution to mitigating abortion is because it's, it's that same thing, like present day, that same argument is just going to give them license.Yet we're not talking about that for men, like men who don't have to most of the time. deal with a fear of getting pregnant. Like that's not something that men have to carry. So we're not worried about them. We're not worried about it in that, in that context. And so, oh my gosh, there's so many, so many things.Is there anything else you want to say about that? And then I'd, I'd love to hear about your, your latest that you're working on now. Marie: Sure. I think you're right. I mean, just. stress. I think what [00:37:00] you're saying is we're still having the same debates that we were having in the 1920s.It's a maybe a modernized version of it. But I do think our contemporary debates over abortion and and even to some degree, sexual abuse, sexual harassment, you know, I write about Anita Hill and Clarence Thomas and also about Paula Jones and Bill Clinton, the kind of sexual harassment wars of the 1990s, some of which has been a little bit Thank forgotten.Those were really critical to because it was about how are women treated in the workplace and what is okay and what is not okay. And it's shocking to think what we used to tolerate. You know what? I mean, my mother, who's now in her eighties, she'll tell me what she tolerated as a secretary, you know, in the 19 sixties and seventies and in the church.Well, yes, in the church and outside the church, both the kind of soft sexism that we all accepted. Not so soft sometimes. So anyway, I would just say that I do think we learn a lot from history [00:38:00] and that reading up on these earlier debates, I think really sheds important light. On the kinds of arguments that we're still having now, both within the church and within our larger culture.Yeah, Katherine: and then just like the context of history about just like history just like repeats itself and then repeats itself and repeats itself and, and it's typically about one group of people or one set of people wanting to be in charge, and in America, it's about like the religious right. It seems wielding Christianity and this war for morality as the way to have power and be in charge and just even just thinking about like very recent election and political figures who, who didn't give a shit about, actual Christianity.They just got people. You know, whipped up into a frenzy and made them fearful of, , the trans, the trans [00:39:00] agenda, the figurative trans agenda. And before that it was the gay agenda, and then the feminists, and the feminists are after your children, and and then, and then now, like, making abortion the thing and it's about, like, saving children, but it's not about saving children, it's about this, like, control thing and so that to me is, I mean, just intersects with my work, and is, is pretty scary to me that this, And there was kind of just this out of body experience a little bit just like reading the book and thinking about that and then I'll have those moments at times of like, this was the sect, and I came from a very fundamentalist world that was, was very militant in fighting abortion and getting, you know, Christian people that they claimed were Christians into politics and fighting, against like sex, sex education in school because it would just give people license to promiscuity.They were very, very militant and it's just a very out of body experience to think like that was a sect that I used to be a part of. And I believed they were good people, and [00:40:00] some of them are very good people and, and that the outside world was bad, like those, those bad people that are pro abortion or pro, pro same sex marriage, and to think just like how militant it was.Now, like looking back on it and just like how just active it was and genuinely good people within it. Absolutely. 100 percent at the same time, people who are just wielding this for power and, and wanting to like claim all of this power in the name of Jesus. And it's, it's scary. It's, it's real.Marie: I would just say I, yeah, that is, that's it's so true. I, I see it as a true tragedy that Christianity has been so weaponized in this country and elsewhere, not just in the U. S. And all the time and energy and money that has gone into some issues at the [00:41:00] expense to, in my mind.Of the poor and the suffering and other, you know, really critical issues and how blase we are about economic inequality in this country and, and the state of the poor and suffering of many kinds. To me, it's a tragedy, you know that that we allowed ourselves to get so hung up on particular issues, and have just been almost blinded.To what I see is really the core message, Katherine: In the Bible. How does that. Message tie in with what you're working on right now. Marie: Yeah. Well, it's you know So now this is a hard it's a it's an even more grueling Project as you can imagine because a lot of my sources now are interviews And I really spent a few years now and i'm really in the thick of it now that i'm on leave Interviewing, you know, survivors mostly, but also family members, pastors, you know, people, as I said earlier, just like [00:42:00] my class, different visitors coming from different places, but the vast majority are survivors, survivors of childhood sexual abuse, of abuse when they were teenagers, and also adults, you know, adults, largely women I've interviewed so far, but of course there are men too, you know, who have been abused as men sexually abused.And abuse happens everywhere. You know, abuse happens absolutely everywhere. The church is not, you know, the only place it happens. But cover ups feel different in different spaces, I think. And the, the degree of the cover up in the church, Is so disillusioning for so many people, the spiritual abuse, the spiritual damage that that has caused people in many ways.That's sort of the big takeaway for me right now is just how profoundly damaging. Sexual abuse is for people when they are not believed, when they are not treated with love and care. [00:43:00] And, when they are prevented from seeking justice, it's crazy making. I mean, people can just go absolutely crazy.And the degree, you know, the levels of substance abuse and all kinds of. You know, self destructive behaviors that emerge from that is just stunning. And, we've learned a lot about this since 2002. And that 2002 is an important year because that was when the Boston Globe broke the big stories, the early stories about abuse in the Catholic Church in the, in the archdiocese of Boston.And, you know, that kind of began this trajectory of attention to the abuse crisis, at least within the Catholic Church, and then more recently in Protestant groups, too. But I think we still have no idea the scope, the scale, the damage that has been done and is still being done because of the cover ups, because of bullying by pastors who refuse to acknowledge this problem [00:44:00] and women who enabled them pastors wives or, or church staff or others who just don't want to believe this is true.And so really, enable abusive environments to thrive. It's a hard subject. And, you know, I want to write a book people want to read. So I've got to find a way to be, you know, I want to say Here's what we do, like here's where hope is because otherwise who wants to read a book that's such a downer? But I think we all need to be better educated about the realities out there so that we can be equipped to know what to do about them.Katherine: Mm hmm. Is there any Distinction made or is this part of the scope of the book where you're outlining just the difference between someone who experiences that sexual abuse and cover up within a spiritual context versus. Or, you know, Hollywood, is there a distinction made at all?Marie: Yeah. And, you know, a lot of the guests who came to my class, we asked them this and I asked [00:45:00] survivors this, I think so because so let me separate out Catholics and Protestants here because one, one big difference between, I think what Catholics are taught about priests and what Protestants are taught about ministers is the sort of stature of the priest.So traditionally Catholics were really taught that priests. It's were of a higher order, almost a human being, they, they had a sacramental status closer to God. They were the closest thing that anyone was going to get to God. And the kind of deference that that created is part of why children felt they couldn't tell if a priest abused them, because it was, this was God.And I think the damage for them, it was as if God Had done the abuse and that's very hard to get over and I've heard this from some Protestants, too I think evangelicals at least for me don't have quite the same, you know, the the pastor is still a human being He's perhaps been called, he's [00:46:00] got a calling.And so there's still, you know, a lot of deference given to him. But I thought when I started this project, okay, there's a difference in how pastors are viewed. But I am coming to realize that in a lot of these evangelical churches, It's pretty close to the same as the Catholics were taught that pastor.He's on a higher level And what he says, people believe there's been a lot of abuse of women working for churches. You probably know if I had a lesson for listeners right now, I would say if any pastor comes to you And asks you to come work for his church A red flag up in your mind because he, if, if the pastor needs a new church staff, they need to open the search.They need to go through HR. They need to have a whole process like companies have, like universities have not, you are being targeted. I think in many, many cases, if someone comes to you and says, Hey, you know, you're doing a great job in the church. Come work for me. I have heard so many [00:47:00] stories from women now.That's where it starts. Or, or maybe she was already being grouped, you know, she's come to the pastor for counseling, she's having difficulty in her marriage or some kind of difficulty with her children. And just, there's a certain kind of pastor who will target the vulnerable in that way.Now, let me say clearly the vast majority of pastors are not abusers, I definitely believe that. But. There, there are a lot more than I think most of us are aware of people or maybe that because once they reach that position of power, they become sort of convinced of their own authority in a way and they become abusive.I don't know the psychology of it. I don't know how all that works. But I think that's really critically important for people to, to recognize. Katherine: Absolutely. Yeah, and I would say like maybe the distinction between like the Catholicism, the elevation of a priest is it's elevated institutionally, whereas, at least what I have seen [00:48:00] when it's a pastor in that place they've sort of put themselves there, and it's not necessarily.Institutionally across the board, that's what the institution is pointing people towards, but they have managed to get into that position and created that for themselves. Marie: That's a very good point. I hadn't thought of that. And I think that's a very good point, but the ones who are best at it, they persuade everyone in the congregation that they deserve to be in that place.Right. But you're right. It's the kind of, the, the charismatic leader, you know, the Ravi Zacharias or, you know, at the local level, whatever, you know, person that is. But you're right. They managed to kind of accrue that charisma and that sense of leadership themselves. Katherine: Yeah, and maybe the institution comes after in terms of picking it up and not addressing it and not feeding into it.Chicken or egg. I don't know which comes first. Well, this has been really great and I'm just, I feel like there's so much more to talk about, [00:49:00] but I will wrap us up there. Is there anything else that you wanted to share as we Wrap up the interview part. Marie: No, I would only ask if anyone listening is interested in talking to me.I really am. I am trying to interview as many people as I can survivors, but also people who want to work for reform in the church and don't know how family members. friends of people that they worry are being abused. Counselors, anyone, if you are interested in speaking with me, my email is open. R. M. G.567 at gmail dot com. And I would welcome correspondence with people. I am willing for anyone who wants to be anonymous, to be anonymous. I'm keeping confidentiality from people. A lot of people have very good reason to be confidential. They have children. Sometimes an abuser is, is someone's spouse or ex spouse, and they really don't want their children to know, right?There's all kinds of reasons. And I'm sensitive to that and we want to protect anyone and not [00:50:00] re traumatize them. But yes, I welcome anyone to contact me who would be Katherine: interested and your timeline for. When they hear this episode versus when your book is coming out. So timing, when is, when are you hoping to finish?Marie: Well, I'm a scholar, not a journalist and scholarship is slow. So this book is going to be, you know, a few years in the making realistically. So it's not like I've got a deadline, you know, of the end of October or something, I I'm on leave all of this year, the 2023, 2024, I could. Here and Katherine: anytime. All right, great.And I will put that information in the show notes so people can easily access and thank you so much for your time and all of the work that you're doing. Marie: Thank you, Catherine, for all the work you do. Yeah, I love your work and you keep at it. Katherine: Thank you.Thank you so much. Uncertain is produced, recorded, edited, and hosted by me, Katherine Spearing. Intro music is [00:51:00] from the band Green Ashes. I hope you've enjoyed this podcast. And if you have, please take a moment to like subscribe and leave a review. Thank you so much for listening and I will see you next time.

Avec Sœur Marie-Noël

Dans cette deuxième partie, la Dr Marie-Noëlle Clément revient de façon plus détaillée sur les spécificités et les enjeux pour les parents d'enfants porteurs de handicap mental.Qu'est-ce que le handicap mental chez l'enfant ? De quoi parle-t-on ? Quel est le vécu des parents et de leurs enfants ? Quels sont les impacts pour l'enfant, le parent, le couple, la famille ? Quels sont les enjeux spécifiques des parents dans ces situations ? Et comment se faire accompagner ?Écoutez Parentalités sur Deezer, Apple Podcast et Spotify.Retrouvez et suivez Parentalités sur instagram Hébergé par Acast. Visitez acast.com/privacy pour plus d'informations.

Avec Sœur Marie-Noël

Poésie religieuse 2024-01-05 Poésies de Marie Noël by Radio Maria France

Avec Sœur Marie-Noël

Au cœur de la nuit, les auditeurs se livrent en toute liberté aux oreilles attentives et bienveillantes de Valérie Darmon. Pas de jugements ni de tabous, une conversation franche mais aussi des réponses aux questions que les auditeurs se posent. Un moment d'échange et de partage propice à la confidence pour repartir le cœur plus léger.

Avec Sœur Marie-Noël

[00:01] Sara: Ready to create rock solid relationships with the people that matter most to you. [00:05] Sara: You are in the right place. [00:07] Sara: My name is Sarah Payne, and I'm a master. Certified relationships coach. And each week I teach you how to create the connection and love that you desire, because you know that the quality of your life is directly related to the quality of your relationships. I'm so glad you're here. Safe episode for you, where I get to interview Marie Poulter, who is a life coach and who specializes in helping people overcome their habit of viewing ***********. And I think this episode will be really insightful for you if either you want to stop looking at *********** or you have someone in your life who wants to stop looking at ***********. Marie's take on *********** is possibly different than any other way that you've thought about it before, and I think that it's so enlightening and refreshing. So tune in to listen to how to overcome your own habit of viewing *********** or to help a loved one who also wants to overcome their *********** habit. And if you want to know more about Marie, you can find out information on her website. She has some resources there and information about how to work with her, and the website is pornographyfreedom.com. All right, I look forward to hearing about how you like this episode. [02:12] Sara: Hey, Marie, welcome to the podcast. [02:15] Marie: Thank you, Sarah. Glad to be here. [02:17] Sara: I'm so glad you're here. This has been a long time in the making. Yeah, we've been talking about this for a while. [02:23] Marie: Yes, it tell. [02:25] Sara: Will you introduce yourself to my audience? [02:28] Marie: Okay, so my name is Marie Poulter, and I am a certified life coach, but I now focus on helping people who want to stop looking at *********** stop looking at ***********. And I think that's really a big key just to start out with. It's people who want to stop. I get a lot of people who are like, will you tell my husband how bad this is? Will you tell my kids how bad this is? That's not really where we're going with our coaching business. We're not trying to do that. There are some really good organizations who are making that stuff happen, but our focus is on those who want to stop, who really have a moral compass for whatever reason. It's just morally, it's not what they want to be doing. Often they're like a high functioning, successful person who has goals and dreams and can really do good at a lot of areas in their life. And for whatever reason, they just can't quite become free from ***********. So that's who we really focus on. And I make it sound like it's men, but we do have women that we work with, and it is definitely both genders, and both genders struggle with this. Men typically are introduced to it at a younger age, and research shows that they are often introduced as early as, like, nine years old. And so my heart goes out to all the little nine year olds right now in 2023, who are devastated that there is a part of them that just hates this when they see it. And then it kind of makes me emotional. Sorry. They're devastated about it, and then they kind of like it, and they don't understand why. And so they start to develop this identity that maybe something is wrong with them. And then we're going to fast forward 20 years, and they've created a life they love. They still have this one little dirty secret, I guess, that they kind of call it, and that's the people we really, really want to help because there's so much misinformation. We were just raised in a totally crazy place about the facts around *********** view. And so I'm so excited to help people with that. [04:38] Sara: I have so many questions already. I'm writing them down because I don't want to interrupt you because you're giving so many nuggets away. But what inspired you to want to work with people who want to stop looking at ***********? [04:50] Marie: So I guess if I back up a little bit and explain where I even found life coaching from. I'm an educator. I have a teaching certification or teaching degree, and I always knew that I love teaching, but I always felt like there was going to be something more. And I would tell my husband, someday I'm going to go back and become a therapist, a counselor. I want to help people more than just teaching them. And so I continued on in my life, raised five kids, or was in the middle of raising five kids, but I noticed that a lot of things happening in my life were just kind of out of my control. I felt a lot of times like, this is just happening to me, and I don't know what to do about it. One such instance was my little son that was six, and he was really struggling with anxiety, and I was so frustrated with him. He was, of all things, anxious that I wasn't going to pick him up from school on time. I'm the mom that gets in line second or third every day. I kind of like getting there, and I'll read for a few minutes, just have some downtime, and so I would get in line and be there. There was one day of all the days of all of my kids that I can't remember, I was a few minutes late, and he had grabbed on to this little anxiety from this one day, and it was all he could see. So I came across something on Instagram that was like, you want to help your kids with anxiety, and it was free. And something happens when something's free, we tend to not do it right away. Right? [06:09] Sara: It's free. [06:10] Marie: Threw it in my inbox for a few months, and then when it kept continuing. I ended up opening it up, and I did what the suggestion was, and it was from a life coach. And Sarah, I'm not kidding. Within one day, the anxiety was just gone. And we haven't ever dealt with it again. This little guy, his name is Chase, and he's now 15, and he is so cute. With anxiety or negative feelings in general. As soon as he sees them coming, he's been trained to say, oh, there it is. And he goes through the process that we process and release emotion, and it's so cool to watch him. So when I saw that, when I saw that in him, it just turned something on in my brain, and I was like, wait a minute. Are you telling me that we have power to change our lives the way that we think, the way that the six year old thinks, that he can actually change something so drastically and affect his result? It just blew my mind. And so I started following coaching and then eventually got coached and then became a coach. And one of the biggest things that I was so excited about was this issue that I had seen in so many family members and loved ones around me. It was kind of quiet. If you look back 30 years ago, 20 years ago, even ten years ago, people with *********** issues, when we would hear about them, we would just be, like, shocked and devastated and so scared. I remember so vividly talking to a church leader about a loved one, and I was so scared for this loved one. And the church leader, in all of his, well, meaningful guidance and love, just said, you know, it's a tough one. They never overcome this. It's pretty hopeless. And I remember my stomach just sank. But there has to be something else. You can't just tell me that they're just sunk. And so when I learned about coaching, it started clicking. What if all these people aren't sunk? What if there actually is an answer for them? And maybe some of the information that we've got is wrong and maybe we can retrain our brains and we can think in a different way that creates success with this. So I had four little boys at the time and one little girl when I started coaching. And I started focusing so much on how do I help them at this tender age when I know they're going to see ***********. 91% of kids by the time they're 16 have used ***********. So we're silly as parents to think not our kids, right? [08:33] Sara: Gone are the days when we can protect them from it. [08:36] Marie: You can have every filter, you can have all the restrictions, you can have a Gab phone, which there's some great things with that, but they are going to see ***********. Research shows that it's factual. So when I started realizing that I could give my kids tools and that I could help them avoid this 2030 years down the road. Then it really started me getting excited. And then as things happen, I started coaching people individually. And I'd be coaching these men and women and they would so shamefully tell me what I've really been struggling with is ***********. I said I was coming to you for marriage coaching or just general coaching in general. And really it would come down to *********** a lot of times. And so as I coached them, it was so humbling to see that so many of the things that they thought were not even real and we could change their thinking and retrain their brain to do something completely different than they'd ever done before. So it's a multileveled process with *********** because there's a lot of emotions that they've been escaping emotion for years. But then one of the things that's really, really big is the lack of understanding of human sexuality. And this is where it got really exciting for me, because I was working with people for a couple of years with ***********, just one on one, and we were seeing great success. And then it hit me. They kept asking me questions that I really wasn't equipped with. I'm over sexualized. I just have a really high sex drive, and I have some pretty perverse ways of thinking about things. And I realized that I was a little bit out of my league. And so my husband is a physician and he's a pain management doctor and anesthesiologist. And I would ask him after I'd worked with a client, I would say, hey, tell me about this. Like with human sexuality, how does this work? How does the body work? Like that? And so he would start giving me information, and I'm like, Wait a minute. They're not hypersexualized. They're not perverted. They were created as humans. We're all created to be sexual beings. And so I brought my husband on board, and he is such a foundational part of the education for my clients because for the first time, they have so much relief. They're like, oh, I'm not disgusting. [10:55] Sara: There's nothing wrong with me. [10:56] Marie: Yeah, there's nothing wrong with me. And even teenage girls and young elementary age kids, they're not getting the information. Like, you were created to be a sexual being. And we're kind of getting that in 2023. We're getting to that place a little bit where we can recognize that that's who we are, that we're created sexually. But I feel like finally, for the first time in my life, I'm taking back sexuality from the yucky, dirty *********** industry and putting it where it belongs, that humans are created as sexual beings and there is healthy sexuality there. [11:37] Sara: Good. [11:38] Marie: So the difference, I think, is that *********** is degrading. Sexuality is not degrading. We have so many people who go into shame with *********** that's the number one thing is shame. [11:48] Sara: I was going to say is that the number one challenge that your clients face is the shame. [11:52] Marie: The number one challenge is just the shame. They are so embarrassed. And a lot of them like, if my wife knew, if my mom we hear this a lot. If my mom knew, bless their hearts. I want to say, though, too, Sarah, that most of the people who want to stop looking at *********** are incredible husbands, incredible workers, incredible students. Whatever phase of life they're in, they're incredible. They're honestly some of the strongest men that I've ever known. And so to be able to work with them and help them see this from a totally different standpoint has been so gratifying. [12:28] Sara: So how do you see this, particularly the shame around ***********? How do you see this affecting the relationships that matter most to your clients? [12:39] Marie: Wow. So research shows there was this big research study a few years ago that showed that men this was just for men. They would rather admit to having an affair if they were married, cheating on either their girlfriend or their wife right. Than they would admit to *********** viewing. [12:57] Sara: Why do you think that is? [12:59] Marie: That's mind blowing to me, right? There's so much pain we have created in our society an awful you are awful. You are disgusting. You are dirty. And don't get me wrong when I say this. I am not talking at all about abuse of any kind. We don't work with if they have a fascination with children or using someone in any way, we get them to the right sources. That's definitely not what we're doing. We are working with healthy brains who want to stop looking, but all of them will come to us and say, I'm addicted, and this is so shameful. [13:36] Sara: Okay, so that label addicted. Tell us more about that because that seems like it could be very detrimental. [13:43] Marie: It's so detrimental because addicted, that is like back to that church leader, right? Like, you have got a label on you. You may as well just put it on your forehead. It's never coming off. [13:54] Sara: And it takes away agency. Like it takes away their right to choose. [13:57] Marie: You have no power. I have multiple stories from clients saying, well, I went to a counselor, I went to a church leader, I went to a parent. And they said, studies have shown that this is harder to quit than heroin. I don't know where those studies were. They're not true. [14:14] Sara: Yeah. [14:15] Marie: Not even real. But how damaging when you hear people say, that is the plague, you have the plague. Right. That's so hard. So there is just so much shame around it. So much shame, so much fear. And then you will have different I don't know what who do I want to say that you hear different leaders of different whether they're thought groups or religious groups or whatever, saying that it's going to lead you to you're going to murder somebody or abuse somebody or you're going to ruin your whole life. That's really scary way to live. [14:53] Sara: And then we wonder why they're ashamed and don't want to tell anybody and they can't tell. [14:57] Marie: Yeah, there's a story of a why. [14:59] Sara: They'D rather admit that they're having an affair than even if they weren't, they'd. [15:02] Marie: Rather just be like, oh, it's an affair, rather than just an affair with my computer. And I get that it's a very sensitive issue. And it's really hard for a spouse or a girlfriend because there is that physical component where they feel like they're being cheated on. And so there's some education for the spouse or whoever's in the relationship with this person because they really have to if they want to be a part of this habit change, then they have some work to do on their own brains. [15:29] Sara: Can we talk about that for a second? Because I'm thinking of my listeners and of course I know that there's some that are like, I need Marie's help, and so we're going to talk about how they can get more help from you. But I'm also thinking of the spouse or the mother or the parent who's thinking like, so and so in my life that I care so much about, really needs this. They need to see that this is a problem. [15:55] Marie: Yeah. And to that, again, it has to be from the person. And we all know if you're eating chocolate cake every day and somebody else tells you you need to stop eating chocolate cake, you're not going to stop eating chocolate cake until you decide that you want to stop eating chocolate cake. But I think that sometimes we'll say the spouse right. We'll say that it's a female espouse. And your husband needs to see you're thinking. He needs to see how tough this is. If you can approach him with, I'm not going anywhere. I'm here for you. I'm going to learn as much about what's going on for you as you are. I'm willing to go all in and I'm not leaving. So often they're like, if I don't get this figured out, she said she's leaving. The shame, fear, and then my whole life is ruined. [16:43] Sara: Some tough, tough things like an ultimatum. [16:46] Marie: Too yes. [16:48] Sara: Which we want to give space for the partner who feels betrayed. [16:52] Marie: Too absolutely. There's big betrayal that happens there. But there are also things that we can do with our brain retraining us right. To look at what is a fact here. Am I really being betrayed? And then set your boundaries. Of course. Set your boundaries and figure things out together. But this is probably a little bit silly that I use this example, but I ask spouses sometimes. So let's say that you have this online shopping habit you got going on, and sometimes the husband will be like, hey, we have to stop doing this. We don't have the money for this isn't healthy. Very seldom do you hear a husband it's like, I'm leaving you if you don't quit shopping at night. [17:33] Sara: Right. [17:34] Marie: But this is tricky because they're like, no, but this is another woman. So we invite spouses, learn as much as you can. And there are coaches who coach with that. In fact, that will be part of our program, where we will have a coach that specifically works with betrayal and. [17:49] Sara: That there is a way. I just want to make sure that that spouse knows that there is a place and a space where you can be in where you actually don't make their *********** use mean anything about you. [18:02] Marie: Absolutely. It isn't about you. And that's one of the things to recognize, too. I would say that 99.9% of the clients that we work with discovered *********** and started struggling with it years and years before they met. You were going to be with yeah. And so then we put it back on the moms, and then the mom's feel terrible. Right. [18:23] Sara: I was going to say, what about the mom who's hearing this? What would you say to her? [18:27] Marie: Yeah, so the mom, if you're my age and you have four, three adult sons, right, and one that's 15, then the work is for you too. To figure out, how do I train my brain to have a relationship with this son that maybe is struggling with this? And rather than beat yourself up and be miserable about it, to train yourself to see things the way they really are, to see the facts, to see this. This didn't have anything to do with you either. [18:55] Sara: This is just one so good. I think that it is work so worth doing as a mother to separate yourself from your children's choices. For all the moms out there, that is work worth doing. And I think about the mom who maybe has little kids that are like five, six, seven years old, who's just like, how can I just get this to never be a problem in my kids lives? Yes, that might be the wrong question to ask. Tell me what you think about that. [19:27] Marie: And I guess I'd say yes, it's the wrong question, but also the right question in some ways. And actually, you should probably get there's. Another coach, actually, my sister, and she is actually coaching moms on what to do, moms and dads, parents, how to create resistant, *********** resistant children. And if I could have had that as a child, that would have been amazing in so many aspects, not just ***********. Right. We've been raised by parents who are like, don't feel your feelings, don't think about things too much. And now we're shifting to where we're learning more about that. And so there are ways that parents today can say, oh, if I can teach my kids how not to escape emotion, how to understand what's going on in their brain, and to process emotion and release emotion, that's a big step in the right direction towards becoming resistant to *********** in the future. Because I don't know that I explained this earlier, but it's really important to recognize that *********** viewing is not about sex. It's always about an escape. Escape from your feelings, escape from whatever. Yes. Whether that was boredom. Some people, even when they get really. [20:43] Sara: Excited, it can be a quote unquote positive emotion, right? [20:47] Marie: Yes, from emotion. [20:48] Sara: We do it with food too. [20:50] Marie: Totally. We do it with food. And I invite the people in relationships with my clients who are viewing **** to just have some mercy and some grace towards the person who is struggling and wants to stop. How would you feel if we saw everything that you did, every piece of cake you ate, everything that you shopped when you didn't need it, every way that you escaped from emotion, if you were in the spotlight for it and everybody's watching, like, you're going to be in big trouble if you don't stop this. So what that does usually is help the client get in a safe space. If they can get in a safe space in their own head and in their own future, knowing that I'm safe here, I can change. Then we can totally work together to create new habits and to let go of the old habits. So right now, I think it's an important thing to point out we have multiple, multiple people just in my little realm of influence that have not had the desire for ****. So it's not just, we're going to help you how to stay away from ****. They lose the desire to look at ***********. [21:56] Sara: So this isn't about you teaching them to resist it forever? [22:00] Marie: No. In fact, I love this well, I hate this story, but I love this little story. I met a man just randomly one afternoon and he was asking me we had some downtime, I was purchasing something from the place he worked. And so we had some downtime, just sitting there, small talk. And I ended up telling him that I work with people who struggle with quitting ***********. And he just slammed his hand down onto the desk and said, where were you three years ago? And I kind of laughed and he said, no, 200 pounds ago, where were you? And he said, I went to get help for years with ***********. My wife had said, I'm leaving if you don't get help. He had struggled with *********** for over 30 years and he said, I haven't looked at it in several years, but I have gained over 200 pounds. [22:43] Sara: Wow. [22:45] Marie: And so yay for him for stopping ***********. But there's a better way. There's a way that we aren't just replacing what those emotions, right? The emotions that we feel, the negative emotions, we're not just going to a different outlet. And so it's exciting. There's so much excitement, really, when you look at it, that you can retrain your brain, you can think a different way. And along the way, you can create a healthy sexual life, the one that you want to have. There's no shame in that. And so some marriages right now that I'm seeing, they're flourishing with some of my clients more than they ever had before. Because they've got right information. [23:24] Sara: Yes. They release the shame. They learned how to process their feelings instead of looking at **** or replacing it with something else. And then it just frees up so much space in your brain to connect with the people that you love. [23:36] Marie: Yes, it really does. Another thing that is really exciting that when you let go of **** and viewing that and that burden, you actually can start creating the life that you want. So we see a lot of people taking up weightlifting or biking or hiking, and it's not because they're replacing it. They're like, I have a new life. I have a new lease on life. There is so much brain space taken up with shame where these poor individuals have spent so much time in just this. I'm living a double life. I'm living a double life. [24:08] Sara: Yeah. [24:09] Marie: That is not addiction. Addiction is you are all day, every day. You cannot have a job, you cannot have relationships, you can't do anything. That's addiction. These are habits that we're dealing with. [24:21] Sara: No, I love that I once heard that distinction. If you can go without whatever it is you are telling yourself you're addicted to, if you can not view **** while you're at work, then you're not addicted. Or if you can think of people say that they're addicted to food. [24:36] Marie: Right. [24:36] Sara: Well, can you go like 4 hours without eating? Then you're not addicted. [24:40] Marie: Yeah. [24:42] Sara: So good. So do you have any more advice for someone who wants to stop looking at ****? Where would you have them start? Aside from, of course, hiring you, which you'll tell us how they can get in contact with you. But what's one first step that they can take? [25:01] Marie: 1St 20 steps. I'm kidding. Okay, so first I would say is to start just noticing when you view ****, what happened just before. [25:09] Sara: Okay. [25:10] Marie: And you will start to notice you're escaping some emotion. There is something negative that happened that is causing you to view ****. Just that one little step really opens up your brain to be like, oh, this is a possibility that I'm just escaping. [25:25] Sara: And it might be something like some kind of shame attack. But it also might just be like, I'm bored. Right? [25:30] Marie: Totally. Yeah. It can be I'm bored, I'm frustrated. Something happened at work, something happened at home. Or just also like, it's this month. There's nothing much going on this month. Or I just got done. We find a lot of times that somebody gets home from vacation, you think that they're just on top of the world. Right. It was just an amazing experience. But then just that what I had to look forward to. Yeah. So just notice what happened before. I call it backwards. Dot to dot. We all remember when we were little kids, right? And we just dot to dot. If you dot to dot backwards, you will find that there's some emotion tied to this, and that's exciting. If there's emotion tied to it, we can work with emotion. You can work to do something different. Right. But if you're an addict, you really can't. But when you have a habit, you can change that. [26:16] Sara: Oh, so good. So just with curiosity, pay attention to what was going on right before they started looking at ****. That's the first step. [26:26] Marie: Okay. [26:26] Sara: And how can they get a hold of you? They want to learn more. [26:29] Marie: So I have just been coaching. We've just been doing one on one coaching, and we decided that I've only have so much time in my life and I can say the same thing over and over again to create that foundation right. The facts that they need about healthy sexuality and what's going on in their brain. So we just created a course that will give access to more people, and I don't have to keep saying the same thing over and over again. So you can find information about that. It's pornographyfreedom.com. And the course is called Freedom from ***********. And I'm really confident that that is what the future holds for upcoming generations to come. We all have cell phones now, right? It's everywhere around us. And we can either wring our hands and be like, oh, we are just in trouble. It's just everywhere. I think the more education that we get, the more understanding that we get of our emotions and our brains and healthy sexuality. In a couple of generations from now, they're going to be like, oh, remember that *********** thing? We got this. [27:29] Sara: I love that. I love that. [27:31] Marie: It's really hopeful. [27:33] Sara: Yes. So hopeful and so just inspiring that this is not something that has to be a problem for you forever or for your loved ones forever. There really are solutions, and it's so much easier than what they're doing now, which is living in shame. What's the word? It's like helplessness, right? And hopelessness. [27:58] Marie: Just hopeless and helpless and dark and just scared. There's just a lot of fear out there. [28:02] Sara: Yeah. So pornographyfreedom.com is where they can yes. [28:06] Marie: And I have to say that I just overcame a lot of fear, and I'm starting an Instagram page. For some reason, this is just so something I never wanted to do. So Mariepolter coaching. [28:18] Sara: They can follow you there as well. Hey, go check Marie out. Thank you for being here, for educating my listeners so much on thank you. [28:28] Marie: So much for letting be. [28:31] Sara: Yes. I can tell it's like oozing from you. And it doesn't have to be something that is a burden for the rest of their life.

Avec Sœur Marie-Noël

durée : 00:04:20 - Chroniques littorales - par : Jose Manuel Lamarque - Ici le "plafond de verre" n'est pas en cause, mais c'est un autre phénomène présenté par Marie-Noëlle Tiné-Dyèvre, la présidente de Wista France ?