From Ring to Veil a Wedding Planning podcast

The Final Episode - Episode #210 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists ANNOUNCEMENT: As you all know ...life! Shannon and Kim have really enjoyed this podcast, but we have decided that since we are no longer in the wedding business that it would be best to wrap up From Ring to Veil. The show will still be available and you can listen to all 210 episodes but we will no longer be releasing new episodes. The Facebook group will continue as well as our page. We will still respond to questions asked in the group, so please feel free to reach out there. Life, as it is, is changing a bit for both of us. Not having time to dedicate to this show we would like to leave on a high note and not let the content suffer. We are both moving into different areas that aren’t in the wedding industry and feel that there are other podcasts that will stay relevant. FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: {Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On -

Wedding Traditions Around the World - Episode #209 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists Traditions can be fun, some useless, some even downright appalling. We thought we’d share a few from around the world with you. Who knows you might want to include one or two in your wedding. From Brides.com and other sources Mexico: As a Mexican bride and groom are exchanging their vows, the minister drapes a "lazo," or lasso, made of rosary beads and flowers around their shoulders in the shape of a figure eight. Not only does "el lazo" represent the union of the couple, but its shape also resembles the infinity symbol, signifying how long they're hoping the marriage will last. Italy: The night before the wedding, an Italian groom throws a surprise party outside his bride-to-be's window. "La serenata" begins with the groom, backed by musicians, serenading his fiancée, then turns into a full-blown bash, complete with a lavish buffet and all the couple's friends and family. South Korea: As part of the "Falaka" ceremony in South Korea, the groom's friends and family hold him down as they beat the bottoms of his feet with a stick or dried fish. In between beatings, he's asked trivia questions, so the custom is said to help strengthen his memory and his feet. Wales: Back in the day, when a Welshman fell in love and was ready to commit, he carved spoons from wood, called "lovespoons," and gave them to his beloved. Decorations included keys, signifying the key to his heart, and beads, symbolizing the number of children he was hoping for. Peru: In Peruvian weddings, the cake is typically assembled with ribbons attached to charms, one of which is a fake wedding ring. During the reception, all the single women in attendance participate in the "cake pull," each grabbing a ribbon. The single lady who pulls out the fake wedding ring, per tradition, will be the next to get married. Germany: After getting married, couples in Germany are presented with a large log and a saw. By sawing the log in half as a team, it is believed they are proving their ability to work together in overcoming obstacles. Ireland: In Ireland, when the bride and groom are dancing, the bride must keep at least one foot on the floor at all times. Irish folklore states that if she doesn't, evil fairies will come and sweep her away. This might make dancing slightly difficult... Russia: In a gesture of respect, couples in Moscow often take wedding photos at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier near the Kremlin, then lay down flowers afterward. Norway: Norwegian tradition states that the bride will wear an ornate silver and gold crown that has small charms dangling all around it. When she moves, the tinkling sound is supposed to deflect evil spirits. Guatemala: the parents of Guatemalan grooms can do whatever they want, including smashing things. When the newlyweds arrive, it's a tradition that the groom's mom breaks a white ceramic bell filled with grains like rice and flour to bring prosperity to the couple. French: French brides and grooms traditionally eat chocolate and champagne after the reception. They must consume these treats from a toilet bowl. The point is to give the twosome strength before their wedding night. Egypt: For good luck, Egyptian women pinch the bride on her wedding day. Sweden: A Swedish bride puts a silver coin from her father and a gold coin from her mother in each shoe to ensure that she'll never do without. Morocco: Moroccan women take a milk bath to purify themselves before their wedding ceremony. Holland: a pine tree is planted outside the newlyweds' home as a symbol of fertility and luck. South Africa: The parents of both bride and groom traditionally carried fire from their hearths to light a new fire in the newlyweds' hearth. Iceland: So significant was the drinking and loss of money that in the late 1700s the Icelandic government put a stop to the alcohol-fueled weddings. Celebrations were patrolled and soon weddings were referred to as “bread parties.” Coffee and pastries were enjoyed and the Kransekaka cake became a favorite wedding tradition. Quite different from Anglo wedding desserts, the cake is made of layered pastry wreaths concealing a bottle of wine or a tower of chocolates and candies inside. Austria: The auction of the bridal shoe is very popular in Austria. It helps to fill the newlyweds’ purse. Like at a real auction all wedding guests bid on the shoe. The custom stipulates, however, that the final bid is made by the father, best man or groom. Only with a purchased shoe can he uphold the honor of his daughter or wife. Tune in for big announcement on our next episode #210. FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: {Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On –  

Where to Propose and Other Fun Stuff - Episode #208 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists Today we are sharing a few articles we found on where to propose. Plus we have a few fun extras, including a listener question! Popular places to get engaged around the world Central Park, NY The Eiffel Tower, Paris Brooklyn Bridge, NY The Grand Canyon, AZ Oia, Santorini The Colosseum, Rome Tower Bridge, London Sydney Opera House, Australia The Louvre, Paris Lake Louise, Hamlet Alberta Canada Popular places to get engaged in the US *Check out the link for more info like where to propose in each city! Chicago Nantucket NYC Austin Boston San Fran LA Honolulu Philly Charleston Places to get engaged in each US state Weird wedding stuff Uninvited guests http://fromringtoveil.com/hair SOLOMOON Listener Question: Hey, Ladies, I love the podcast! I have been binge listening since I got engaged! I love your interviews but also enjoy when just you two chat. I am sorry if this has already been a question, I tried to search it within the group. My mom and I are not close, my fiancé and I have planned and are paying for our wedding. My mom wants to be involved and has even bought shirts for two of the guys in the wedding party without telling us, in a different color than the rest of the wedding party will be wearing. After I found out I called the two guys and told them not to worry the shirts they had already were what we wanted so everyone matches. We planned it so we could have the wedding we want. She is intent on being involved somehow any ideas how to solve this? I have heard suggestions like flowers or something but that is already taken care of and I am anticipating a blowout with us or my sister who lives with her and her refusal to come to the wedding. (this is not uncommon she left my sisters graduation party because my sister invited her half-brother) If she does not come besides the initial awkwardness with my family and my stepdad (who I am close to) there I don't think it would bother me. In fact, I hope it happens before the wedding rather than at the wedding. Any advice or possible solutions much appreciated! FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: {Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On –

Wedding Money Saving Tips – Episode #207 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists It’s time for some more money-saving tips. We’ve had shows on individual areas such as floral but today we are giving you a great list to choose from. Offseason venues or get married on a weekday In – season floral Make a budget and stick to it Wedding website Wedding party Gifts: Pay for hair and makeup/ outfit accessories Guest list cull cull cull Small and intimate, limit plus ones Alternate bridesmaids' bouquets, single stem “bouquets” Go paperless Seating chart rather than cards Menu sign, rather than personal menus Rent House for a venue, housing, and honeymoon Consider college campus Courthouse wedding Borrow jewelry Dress: Consignment Samples Order early Borrow from newlyweds or go in together for floral and or décor Let your family help if they offer Reuse floral, bouquets as centerpieces, relocate large pieces, make large pieces from smaller ones Candles Borrow fancy car for exit Cut the floral boutonnieres and corsages, Limit alcohol options-signature cocktail, 1 red, and 1 white wine option, limit beer selection Consider college students for live music Price multiple options Cake, small cake for cutting, cupcake or other sweets for guests. Catering-buffet, passed appetizers, single menu options Drinks Charitable favor/no favors/favors as centerpieces Chairs moved from ceremony to reception Disposable plates for cake Suburb restaurants can be less pricey than inner city Ask about kids pricing for catering or have a separate menu Buy secondhand decor Late night snacks but not for everyone, since not everyone will close out the night Listener Question: Hello! So my mom and others really want to help me make decisions and do the research involved with hiring our vendors and such. How do I politely tell them when I expect them to do their part? I'd think that within a couple of days to a week it would be acceptable to check back in for a progress report, but I've been finding that they haven't gotten to that task yet. FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On – 

How to Pamper Mom with Anne Timss – Episode #206 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists One of our favorite guest hosts is back! Anne Timss is here to share some ideas on how to pamper Mom on your wedding day. If you missed any of Anne's past episodes we have linked them here: Wedding Makeup and Hair Roundtable Current Trends in Wedding Hair and Makeup Here are some of the topics we discuss: Dress shopping Fresh makeup Newer hairstyles Papering Face mask Eye mask Facial Oils Scalp massages Water and drinks Find mom’s style if she hasn’t had a trial Timing on the day of, mom needs things done before the helping of the dress photos so that she’s fully dressed and photo ready Feeling left out Helping to feel confident Aging moisturizers Kiehl's Ultra facial cream UV sunscreen Hyaluronic acid – Neutrogena review La Mare – Kelp fermented infused Who pays typically James Maloy – tape demo on Instagram LINKS: Podcast: http://fromringtoveil.com/BTBS Agency: http://fromringtoveil.com/pdnw [responsive-slider id=3222] FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On –  

Destination Wedding - A Bride's Experience - Episode #205 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists When Sam (a bride and listener) reached out to us she told us that she has a story to tell we said absolutely. If you are thinking about a destination wedding, check out this episode! These are a few of the things we discussed about her destination wedding: Planning a wedding on the Virgin Islands How did she find her vendors, venue, and dress How she decided on a location Local resources Most difficult vendor to find What happened vs. what she expected What she had to give up to get what she wanted Reading reviews Helping others in planning Let Sam(and us) know if you have any questions or concerns about your destination wedding planning. Contact Sam - samcindrich@gmail.com [responsive-slider id=3202] Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{Stitcher}{Youtube} {iHeartradio}{Alexa}{ CastBox}{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On – THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR:  

Wedding Officiants – Episode #204 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists Hi ladies! I’m getting married this summer and have been listening to your podcast for about a year now! Thank you for all your advice it’s been really helpful. I was wondering, do you have an episode that talks about having a friend/family member officiate the ceremony?? We want a close friend of ours to officiate our wedding but he has never done one before and I have only been in one other wedding so I’m not an expert either. We are doing a very casual, non - religious ceremony but I still want to make sure we are legally married by the end of it Any advice or sources you have would be greatly appreciated! ! Episode 23 - Hiring a Wedding Officiant Who can officiate Friend JOP Preacher or Religious leader Sea Captain Recognized officiants by state: https://www.thespruce.com/recognized-marriage-officiants-2300735 https://theamm.org/marriage-laws/ Tips for having a friend officiate: https://www.brides.com/story/tips-for-using-friend-as-officiant-sandy-malone https://www.theknot.com/content/friend-officiate-ceremony-how-to https://seattlebridemag.com/expert-wedding-advice/how-legally-officiate-wedding Let them add to the ceremony, or give input Practice Give them instruction on what to wear In order for the marriage to be legal, your officiant has to include the declaration of intent, or the "Do you take..." and "I do" vows portion of the ceremony. Your officiant must complete the marriage license Members of the clergy, judges, justices of the peace, and some notary publics are all qualified to perform weddings. Oddly enough, in some states, an officiant isn’t required at all. In Pennsylvania, Colorado, Wisconsin, and the District of Columbia, a couple can simply marry in front of witnesses and submit the required paperwork to the state, no officiant needed. ________________ Here's how much the average wedding costs in every state: https://www.thisisinsider.com/average-cost-of-wedding-every-state-2019-2#wyoming-26017-51 Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On –  

The In’s and Out’s of Wedding Registries-Episode # 203 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists The wedding registry business has changed in the last few years. Most couples are getting married later in life or have lived together for a while and have the household items they need. There are now registries for other things besides housewares and linens. We are going to go over that plus where and how to register. Tips for a good registry Take stock of items you have and items you need to replace Register at more than one store- we recommend one online, one box store and one specialty store. Try not to overlap registries Keep track of everything, you will need to send Thank you notes out. Always check the return policy Don’t add the registry to your wedding invitation- add it to your website and shower invites What to register for in a typical registry: Tableware Formal dinnerware (China) Informal dinnerware Silverware/flatware glasses Linens Sheets, pillowcases Towels Tablecloths Placemats napkins Cook and kitchenware Pot and pans Cooking utensils Small electric appliances A Bridal Registry is Not Only About the Kitchen - Episode #22 Where to find a typical registry Department stores Macy’s Nordstroms JCPenney Tiffany & Co Big Box Stores Wal-Mart Target Bed Bath and Beyond Online Amazon Zola Wayfair Specialty Stores Crate and Barrel Pottery Barn Williams and Sonoma Honeymoon funds and gift fund sites Gift cards for airlines and hotels Honeymoon excursions Dinner and drink gift cards Add funds for trips and house Large item gift collection Recap on thank you notes- How to Express your Gratitude, Episode #73 Set aside a part of every day to write thank you notes. Send thank you notes within 3 months of gift receipt but can be done up to a year. Here is The Emily Post's 10 do's and don'ts for Thank You Notes- Do personalize your notes and make reference to the person as well as the gift. Do remember that a gift should be acknowledged with the same courtesy and generous spirit in which it was given. Do be enthusiastic, but don’t gush. Avoid saying a gift is the most beautiful thing you have ever seen unless you really mean it. Don’t send form letters or cards with printed messages and just your signature; don’t use email or post a generic thank you on your wedding web site in lieu of a personal note. Do promptly acknowledge the receipt of shipped gifts by sending a note right away or calling and following up with a written note in a day or two. Don’t mention that you plan to return a gift or that you are dissatisfied in any way. Don’t tailor your note to the perceived value of the gift; no one should receive a perfunctory note. Do refer to the way you will use a gift of money. Mentioning the amount is optional. Don’t include wedding photos or use photo cards if it will delay sending the note. Don’t use being late as an excuse not to write. Even if you are still sending notes after your first anniversary, keep writing! THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On –  

Feeling Comfortable in Front of the Camera with Jill Steenson – Episode #202 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists Let’s face it there will be more pictures taken of you on your wedding day than you’ve probably ever have had before. It takes some getting used to and some of us still aren’t that comfortable. Today we have Jill Steenson with Lillian Lane Photography here with us. Jill is here to help us share with you some tips and tricks on how to feel comfortable in front of the camera. With her experience both behind and in front of the camera, she’s the perfect guest host for today’s topic. People around you feeling comfortable with your photographer feeling comfortable with your partner, or who you’re being photographed with choose a more secluded location if you’re introverted don’t have people watching your photo shoot if you’re not 100% comfortable with that Atmosphere Play music that brings up your mood/helps with movement Have a LITTLE wine Make sure the temp is okay for you/dress for the temp Take a break if you need one Bring a snack/water Prep Eat something! You’ll want energy meditate/visualize yourself having fun do a light workout or yoga if you can avoid the news/anything that stresses you. Instead, listen to music that makes you happy take a moment with your partner before the shoot and just look into his/her eyes for a full three to four minutes (dopamine) Ask your photographer for help for prompts to bring out fun emotions Both you and your partner can come up with fun challenges to help each other to have fun and get great photos *slow run competition *yell the artist/name of each song as it comes on (one point for each) *dance with each other *bear hug, or have him pick you up Avoid planning a shoot that you’ll have to wake up very early for unless you’re used to that. Choose a time of day that you know you’re productive. Appearance Put on a little more than daily wear makeup (false lashes look nice in photos) Wear clothing you feel comfortable in/clothing that moves/avoid stiff fabrics Avoid heels/stilettos unless you’re very used to wearing them LINKS: Lillian Lane Photography Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On –  

Wedding Facts and Findings - Episode #201 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists This weeks episode is full of facts about weddings. How much the average costs are and even the best places to get married ranked by WalletHub. 2019’s Best Places to Get Married - WalletHub 2018 Costs of Weddings 2017 Avg - $25,764 2018 Avg - $24,723 I would just like to give From Ring to Veil a HUGE shoutout from my rooftop all the way in Louisiana...... THANK YOU SO MUCH for your FABULOUS podcasts, which by the way, have inspired and taught me more than any magazine or book on the shelf EVER could! I may not be a bride...well, I was almost 27 years ago, and my oh my how things have changed; however, I am a Mother of the Bride and not just one bride, but TWO brides. Yes... both of my daughters are getting married one month (technically 5 weeks) apart. The first daughter got married on February 2nd and is currently on her honeymoon, and the second wedding will take place on March 9th. Both daughters have completely different styles, so the second wedding is certainly not going to be a “copy and paste” kind of wedding. Your podcasts have educated me and allowed me to envision a perfect wedding day for both my girls in two totally different spaces! There is absolutely NO WAY I could have planned these weddings without the help of Kim and Shannon! (I actually refer to these two rockstars to my family and friends as my “virtual besties” although I’ve never met them personally!) If you are the bride or the Mother of a Bride, I strongly recommend their podcasts to you! It was a game changer for me, and for that, I will forever be grateful to my two virtual besties!

Wedding Free for ALL! - Episode #200 Pause and subscribe! Take a screenshot and share! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists It’s our 200th show!!! Today we are giving you lots of fun and interesting info. From questions to trends and newsworthy weddings. Questions and Topics: *What is the proper etiquette for inviting guest to the shower that live more than an hour or so away? They will be invited to the wedding but do you do the shower too? *Dresses w/pockets *Balloons on veils *Cotton Candy bouquets; Puppies as bouquets *How to tell your bridesmaids that they are pissing you off but in a nice way *Simple, intimate, yet meaningful wedding ideas *Shoe do’s and don’ts for brides and bridesmaids. IN THE NEWS: Las Vegas wedding chapel offering Dunkin Donuts themed weddings Cemetery Was the Right Vibe for a Glamour Goth Wedding Facebook Wedding Shaming groups are the nasty new trend taking over social media TREND REPORT: “The new way to brand your wedding can’t be seen—it must be smelled. Custom blends of perfumes and essential oils are crafted especially for the occasion.” “Couples are using the invitations to make a bold statement about their upcoming celebration, sending everything from uniquely crafted boxed correspondence to custom video messages.” “Sculptural is the name of the game, with couples hiring pro cake bakers to create unexpected shapes and varying sized tiers – so much so, it’s hard to tell if they’re wedding cakes or art installations.” Suits and jumpsuits on Bridesmaids Secret/Destination Elopements – like celebrities Neon Signage Gold dresses, floral, colors(ful) Weed weddings Grazing stations, sharing platters Edible displays...canapé towers, doughnut walls, FACT CHECK: Marriages are on the decline with millennials. Getting hitched? Atlanta named America’s 4th best place for weddings Of the 182 cities on the list, WalletHub ranked Orlando at the very top, followed by Las Vegas and Los Angeles. Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On -  

Planning a Honeymoon - Episode #199 Pause and subscribe! Take a screenshot and share! Join our Facebook Group Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) Today our guest host is Irina Vishnevskaya. Irina has a formal education in International Business and was once at the helm of one of Hungary's first craft breweries and worked for a company that installed craft breweries all around the world. She started allé travel, a travel planning company. She is also a travel contributor at Huffington Post, Peaceful Dumpling, Spirited Table, Pink Pangea, as well as, of course, on the allé travel blog. The first big question: when to honeymoon (right after the wedding vs. with a delay) -- pros and cons of each approach Delay 6-12 months Destinations that generally work really well for honeymoons Google place including month you are wanting to travel Spring – Italy Summer – Croatia, Sylvania, Bali Fall – Europe, Portugal, Coryzal Island, Greece Winter - Thailand, Mexico Once you're on your honeymoon: tips for success: Start talking about it early not 2 weeks before Balance on a honeymoon Get clear about your priorities, top 3 things you want from the honeymoon Budget Work with someone/professional Go! What it's like to work with a honeymoon planner { Facebook }{ Instagram } THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-  

Engagement Party Essentials - Episode #198 Pause and subscribe! Take a screenshot and share!  Join our Facebook Group  Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists      Do you have to have an Engagement Party?  No, but it’s an opportunity for family and friends to interact and get to know each other in an intimate setting.  It’s totally up to you if you want to have one.  Outline/timeline:  Pick a date 6-12 weeks from Engagement  Decide who’s hosting, Traditionally bride’s parents.    The guest list, the rule is that anyone invited to the engagement party is invited to the wedding.    The venue can be as big or small, informal or formal as you as a couple would like. Once that is decided upon then finding a venue will be much easier.  Backyard, private dining room, or favorite bar!    Register, you don’t have to have a full gift registry set up but it’s a good idea to have something to share with anyone that asks.  Gifts aren’t required.  Send invites, yes, they are needed as you would for any other official gathering.  Menu, appetizers, BBQ, or plated dinner.  It’s up to you and your desired celebration.  Details/Decor, focus on celebrating.  Keep it simple.  Doesn’t have to be the same as the wedding reception.  Games, maybe you are game people maybe you aren’t, but having something fun even a photo show could create love and laughter. Lawn games for a backyard party or a scavenger hunt are a few ideas.  Attire, you can wear white if you so choose.  You can go as formal or informal as you’d like.  Hawaiian shirts or bow ties.  Totally up to you!  Favors, not need but if you want, a save the date magnet or reminder of the wedding date would be acceptable.   Photos, of course!!  Take a big family photo and take advantage of this gathering of family and friends.  Just remember that this is a celebratory party with your closest friends and family who may not know each other well.  Keep it simple and allow your guests to get to know each other.  Make sure you introduce your families.  FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee   Join our Facebook Group  Subscribe to the podcast: {Apple Podcasts}{Spotify}{Stitcher}{Youtube} {iHeartradio}{Alexa}{CastBox}{GooglePodcasts}  -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On- 

  Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts }  Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) Picking out a wedding date can be hard. We are hoping to help with that by giving you a few dates NOT to have a wedding on. Plus, we are here to give you some guidance on how life is going to change now that you are engaged. Dates not to have your wedding on A few dates to avoid: Super Bowl Sunday Final Four/March Madness World Series Large Festival Weekends that take place (in Austin- SXSW, ACL Festival) Holiday weekends con- families have standing plans or traditions Mother’s Day Father’s Day Independence Day Thanksgiving Christmas/New year's (Irish tradition states that New Year's Eve is a lucky day to get married-You will be able to start fresh and happy in the New Year) Tax Day Bad luck: Friday 13th Patriot Day-Sept 11th Ides of March (March 15th) Remembrance Day- Dec 7th Religious Observances Rosh Hashana Yom Kippur Chanukah Palm Sunday Easter Sunday Passover Kwanzaa Close to a birthday Leap Day- don't do it, it just confuses everything and everyone! Thanks to TheKnot for helping us out with this, here is a link to check out all dates for 2019, 2020, and 2021. https://www.theknot.com/content/wedding-dates-to-avoid Etiquette for Newly Engaged Couples It is not bragging to post a pic of your engagement ring on social media but it makes a happy statement to include you and your fiancé in the photo(s) as well. People are going to ask questions. Be ready. Think about how you will kindly and tactfully answer these questions. And some people will be nosy! You may, and it is encouraged, register before the engagement party if you choose to have one. But do not include the registry info on the party invitation. Only offer the info if asked. If you have yet to meet parents do so as soon as possible. If you do not like the engagement ring that was picked out for you: There are a few options: learn to love it or work together to design something new. Just remember that the giver has feelings too so be kind. Give great thought into who you will ask to be in your bridal party. Its hard to take back once you’ve asked, or blurted out on a whim. Episode 168 Traditionally the engagement party is thrown by the bride's parents but anyone can host, even you! But don’t ask your MOH or Best Man to host as they have other obligations. If you opt to have the party, make sure it’s closer to the engagement rather than the wedding. Refrain as long as possible from oversharing wedding planning details on social media. First, you want to keep your details a surprise for your guest. Secondly, you will receive much advice, much of it unsolicited! You may be asked quite a few questions about the ring, how big is it, how much was it, or even is it real. Answering with an “it’s not the size that matters to me, I love it” is advised. Even using humor to lighten the conversation can be another way to go. Usually, Engagement parties are kept fairly small since you will most likely want to invite them to the wedding also. When it comes to changing your status on social media, that’s totally up to you. But we advise waiting until you’ve told your VIPs. Don’t want ma finding out through FB. Share your love not your brags. Calling you in-laws Mom and Dad...it’s up to you. Some never feel comfortable doing that. Don’t panic and get overwhelmed at the idea of planning a wedding. There are lots of resources and people to help you. Don’t let planning take precedence over your relationship! Keep dating!!! Episode 179 THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-  

How to Navigate Wedding Shows when you are Newly Engaged - Episode #196 Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }GooglePodcasts } Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide                  ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) Pantone color of the year: Living Coral Wedding shows: How to navigate: Start Early Start searching for wedding shows and expos that you are interested in right after you are engaged or at least a year in advance. I would suggest going to different types of shows, the large expo ones, a venue tour or open house and a boutique show that is a more intimate setting that usually has a mock wedding set up with ceremony and reception decor. Pre-Register Pre-registering usually allows you to receive discount tickets so you can avoid the lines at the ticket box office on the day of the show. It also gets you free stuff! We all like free things. Research and Strategize Know what vendors you definitely want to see and find them on the layout map, which you can find on the show's website. Set-up a new email address, you will be inundated with emails after the show. Create address labels with your name, wedding date and new email address, every vendor you will meet will want this information either for them to send you newsletters or enter you into drawings for gifts or discounts. Bring a notebook and use your phone camera. Write down the vendors information, what you liked about them, what you didn't like about them and if they have their booth set up with something that catches your eye, take a photo. You are not the Only Star in this Show Please realize that you and your tribe are not the only focus for the vendors, they are looking for as many potential clients as possible. That is not to say that you are not important. If it is a vendor that you are interested in booking their services make sure that you talk to them, introduce yourself and tell them your needs. Gather their information, give them your information, on your address label that you created, and if possible, make an appointment for a one on one consultation. Go to the Seminars and Fashion Shows You paid good money for your ticket to this show so get your money's worth out of it. The producers usually have great keynote speakers and the bridal fashion shows are usually top of the line gowns with touches, like bouquets, from vendors in the show. The guest speakers will have great planning information and the fashion show will give you an idea of your likes and dislikes and how the dresses move while walking and such. You may like that mermaid cut gown, but if you can't walk well in it then it may not be for you. Last but not any way the least important… Wear Comfortable Shoes I know you want to look your best but you are going to be walking lots. Don't wear the 5-inch stilettos, your feet will be barking by the end of the day. If you want a good list of wedding shows and other great information please check out Here comes the Guide. They have a list of tons of wedding shows in all 50 states. You’re engaged, now what: * Sharing the engagement news * Engagement parties Yes or No * How to start planning your wedding Sharing the news ideas and when to tell * Important peeps/VIPs * Parents/Grandparents * Best Friends * Kids Ideas on how to share the news * Then Facebook, coworkers, social media AFTER your VIPs have been told. * T-shirts * Christmas ornaments * Cute Video * Photo/Graphic * Online engagement e-cards * Phone calls still work * Is texting allowed? If you choose to have an engagement party * Bride's parents normally host * Can have more than one depending on the location of the bride's and groom's parents * Traditionally it was to announce the engagement now it is more of a celebration of the couple * Gifts or no gifts * are not expected * The party is for family and close friends of the couple, not the parent's friends… they all expect to be invited to the wedding. * Could it also be for family and close friends who might be unable to attend the actual wedding * cocktail and dinner are popular THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-

Trends 2019 - Episode #195 Pause and subscribe! Take a screenshot and share! Join our Facebook Group Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) *This was recorded before Pantone revealed their color of the year for 2019!* Last episode of 2018! Pantone spring/summer 2019 color palette. Trends and what to look for in 2019. PANTONE SPRING/SUMMER 2019 COLOR PALETTE: Fiesta, Jester Red, Turmeric, Living Coral, Pink Peacock, Pepper Stem, Aspen Gold, Princess Blue, Toffee, Mango Mojito, Terrarium Moss, Sweet Lilac Spring/Summer 2019 Neutrals: Soybean, Eclipse, Sweet Corn, Brown Granite 2019 Trends Bridal Dresses- Megan Markle’s Dress influence, both the wedding dress with boatneck and sleeves and the reception dress. A resurgence of the bridal tiara Oversized- bows, sleeves, sparkle and floral elements Bridal Jumpsuit Florals Bright colors- purple replacing pink Abundant greenery Dahlias Hanging florals, garlands, floral walls Décor More Rust, silver, and gold, phasing out of rose gold and coppers Industrial décor less rustic Lots of texture in linens Lace trims Frayed edges Beading Invitation Suites and event branding Unique features on papers Geometric cutouts Watercolors Wax Seals Color blocking Custom illustrations Custom Monogramming Food Themed food stations instead of one buffet Raw seafood bar Pizza Tacos Custom cocktails or interactive bars where guest can choose their own cocktails Hair and makeup A natural look for makeup with bold accents such as a wine-colored lip or full lashes Half up sweeps that frame face with locks softly gathered in the back of the head The wedding isn’t just for Saturdays anymore- choose a Friday or Sunday. LINKS FOR TRENDS: http://theeverygirl.com/5-wedding-trends-every-2019-bride-should-know-about/ https://www.weddingforward.com/2019-wedding-trends/3/ https://www.theknot.com/content/bridal-fashion-week-spring-2019-wedding-dress-trends https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-ideas/wedding-trends-from-the-experts https://www.vogue.com/article/spring-2019-bridal-fashion-week-trends THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-  

Alternative Engagement Rings and Incorporating Family Heirloom Jewelry - Episode #194 Pause and subscribe! Take a screenshot and share! Join our Facebook Group Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) Today we chat with Anna Sheffield, Fine Jewelry artist!  Alternative and distinctive jewelry is her thing and she's here to help us help you make the best of your heirloom jewelry. Anna Sheffield takes a distinctive approach to jewelry design, informed by her fine art sculpture training and years spent at the helm of her two New York-based brands. Anna Sheffield Fine Jewelry creates a unique style through an alchemical merging of the beautiful with the perfectly imperfect, irreverence with femininity, and a modern sensibility with timeless chic. Committed to a philosophy of sustainable and ethical practices, Anna Sheffield Fine Jewelry aligns production with single origin gem sourcing and reclaimed diamonds and metals with the highest caliber of the craft. How did you get started as a jewelry designer? What made you want to design ceremonial jewelry? You are known for creating alternative engagement rings for the non-traditional bride. Can you tell us more about why you decided to focus on rings using champagne, black and grey diamonds? Tell us how a bride can incorporate family heirloom jewelry into their bridal look. What are your tips for selecting what jewelry to wear on your actual wedding day? What are some tips you can share when choosing your perfect engagement ring? You create a variety of different stacking bands; tell us more on how to match your wedding band to your specific diamond shape. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-  

Top 7 Wedding Venues Across the US - Episode #193 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists Today we share with you, just a few of our favorite picks from the Brides.com much longer list of America’s Best Wedding Venues. Found on Brides.com The Barn at Flanagan Farm in Buxton, Maine. Take a 20-minute drive outside Portland to this meticulously restored 19th-century barn, which is open year-round. There’s also a cozy farmhouse perfect for unwinding with your wedding party pre- and post-nuptials; The Biltmore Ballrooms in Atlanta, Georgia In the heart of Midtown, you’ll find this historic landmark, which features an ivy-lined garden and two gilded ballrooms that are over-the-top in the best way possible; The White Sparrow Barn in Quinlan, Texas A beautiful white barn with built-in speakers and vintage rentals? Nadine Ramos Huerta, a wedding photographer, created this spot in 2014 (with space for endless photo ops, obvi!); Grand Hotel in Mackinac Island, Michigan This resort is known for its front porch, which spans the length of nearly two football fields and overlooks Lake Huron; Four Seasons Hotel St. Louis in St. Louis, Missouri The Mission Inn Hotel & Spa in Riverside, California The property’s gilded chapels and ornate ballrooms attract couples after old-world charm in SoCal. Not to mention, this place has been hosting weddings for more than a century. Sanctuary on Camelback Mountain in Scottsdale, Arizona The resort's lush gardens will make you forget you're in the Arizona desert. Gawk at the mountain views while you sample fare from celebrity chef Beau MacMillan; Listener Question My fiancé and I are planning our wedding in central Iowa near Des Moines. We live in northern IA, and all our guests are coming from Omaha, Kansas City, and the Quad Cities. So essentially we are planning a destination wedding since everybody is an out of town guest. We want to have our ceremony more intimate and smaller than our reception. We’re thinking about 100 ceremony and 300 reception. So anyways we have set up a wedding website with Zola and you can create the timeline of events for your guests and it shows all the details like time and place etc. So we really want to utilize this feature so that our guests have the time and place of our big events, time of breakfast the day after, and rehearsal the night before without having to keep track of the paper invitation they stuck on the fridge. BUT is it tacky or inconsiderate to have the ceremony or rehearsal on the website for everybody to view if not everybody is invited? And what would be a good way to have a complete schedule of events without having people showing up to things they aren’t invited to? I would prefer to have a basic invitation to cut costs with that and I know most of the time these two invites (ceremony v reception) are on different pieces of paper within the invitation suite and you just include the ceremony invitation in the suites that people are invited to both. I guess I’m having trouble with my OCD/etiquette on our website, I would like to have anything and everything available on the site to view but I don’t want to shove it in anybody’s face that they haven’t been invited to the ceremony. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/c Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On -  

Wedding Planning Questions - Episode #192 Pause and subscribe! Take a screenshot and share! Join our Facebook Group Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) Today we share all the wedding planning questions that you are asking! And we give you answers. Can we fire a member of our bridal/groom party? Yes, of course, you can, do it tastefully. If they are not doing their job as part of the wedding party or are causing strife within you can either replace them or ask them to bow out. How soon can I reach out to people who haven’t RSVPed? Do we have to pay for bridesmaids’ and grooms’ flights and rooms? No, you do not. If you have the resources you are welcome to do it or at least pay for accommodations. Can we have a no-phone, no-social media wedding? Yes, make it known to your guest either through invites, website or announcement at the ceremony. www.fromringtoveil.com/16 Linens rent or buy? Do I really need to give multiple gifts? Etiquette says, yes! But if you are going to multiple events you can limit. Showers and the wedding, yes you need to bring a gift and please use the registry Online Registries! Hi future wives, I am from Costa Rica and I am getting married in February. We aren’t going to do any dancing or Carnaval or even mariachi. We only want an acoustic rock band and maybe a trio of instruments for the lunch. What other activities can we do.. any ideas? The reception will be held on a terrace in front of a garden. We are thinking about doing what would be called a cake and champagne reception but neither of us like champagne so we’re looking for suggestions on another type of alcohol or alcohol that would go well with the dessert table THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-  

3 Secrets to a Happy Marriage - Episode 191 Today Kim is missing her co-host, Shannon, so she invites her husband of 21 years to record this show with her. Listen in as they discuss how they have such a happy marriage. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-

How to Design your Wedding with Pinterest - Episode #190 Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists Today we have a guest host who is here to help us with how to design a wedding with Pinterest. Michelle Edgemont with Michelle Edgemont Design. A few things about Michelle: BFA in Textile surface design 7yrs in the fashion industry Passion for whimsical florals and Joyful events Michelle Edgemont Designs launched in 2011 Named 35 under 35 brightest stars in the floral biz Here are a few things that we talk about in this episode: How do you effectively search Pinterest to find the most relevant images. How do you narrow them down to what fits your theme and style? Cohesiveness? How do you set up just wedding boards? Secret? Photos that no longer have a website/page associated with it. How many pins are sufficient for one board? Links: Facebook THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-  

Wedding Weather Catastrophes - Episode #189 Pause and subscribe! Take a screenshot and share! Join our Facebook Group Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) Wedding Weather catastrophes-what do you do when Mother Nature’s wrath is barreling down on your wedding day. www.fromringtoveil.com/83 Communication is key- keep your family, friends, and guests informed of all information regarding storms and changes. Keep informed of airline cancellations and airport closures Communicate with your vendors and venue Read your contracts regarding weather and Acts of God clauses Obey all government warnings and evacuation orders Find an alternative date or location for ceremony and reception Or since you already have your marriage license you can get married by JP and keep your honeymoon dates if they are already scheduled. Change honeymoon dates if needed Be a good Samaritan and donate to causes to help victims of storms ***LISTENER QUESTIONS*** Is it appropriate to send wedding announcements to distant family but not an invite? http://fromringtoveil.com/announcements It is fine to send a wedding announcement to anyone who didn’t receive an invitation. You need to send these announcements as soon as possible after the wedding. My advice would be to have them already addressed and delegate to someone, family, wedding party member, to send them out for you By sending an announcement there is no obligation for them to send a wedding gift If you are having an intimate wedding with only close family and friends it is ok to send an announcement to distant family and friends. Where is a good idea to cut corners in the wedding (what to splurge and what to save $$ on) Figure out what is important to you, make a priority list between you and your fiancé. Eliminate the unimportant items that are on each list. Is guest favors important to you, if not, don’t buy them? You are giving them food, drink, and dancing? If décor or flowers aren’t that important find ways to cut cost buy DIYing or minimally purchasing flowers and décor. Splurge on what you think is important; if you want awesome photos to hire a great photographer and videographer; if food is important to go all out on your food with a great caterer. I’m interested in the possibility of not having a wedding party/ or to do so only in name, but not standing at the altar. My fiancé doesn’t like the bridesmaids/groomsmen idea but I have some amazing women in my life I wanted to include Its ok not to have a bridal party, they can be in name only. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise, you do you. If you want them to be involved in planning, parties, etc. Let them plan and participate in showers, bachelorette party, luncheons. You can also have them make toasts at the reception. Make sure you explain to your friends the reason you are not having a wedding party. If they are good friends they will understand and you can acknowledge and thank them during the reception. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-  

Surprising your Fiance; by Bringing their Best Furry Friend to the Wedding -Episode #188 Pause and subscribe! Take a screenshot and share! Join our Facebook Group Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) Today we have Veronica Silva, President and founder of Pawfect for You, here to teach us about how to surprise your fiancé by bringing their furry friend to the wedding. She saw and need and decided to do something about it. A few things that we talk about: -Veronica's Story -How to surprise the Groom -How do venues react to pets -Guests with allergies -A general outline of how to surprise your fiance -How to surprise the Bride     [responsive-slider id=2584] THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On  

Name Changes and the Benefits of Marriage - Episode #187 Pause and subscribe! Take a screenshot and share! Join our Facebook Group Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) OMSI Wedding Mt hood adventure park We found a few great articles online and just had to share with you. From changing your last name to legal benefits to marriage! Before we get to the heavy, let’s talk about how it’s ok to have more than one dress on your wedding day! Ashley Greene wedding two dresses Should you change your last name Emotional decisions for changing your last name How will your future spouse feel Keep your last name Hyphenate If you keep your last name what names would your children have If established in your career how will a name change affect it Legal Benefits of Marriage ( found on the knot ) Taxes Marital Tax Deduction "You can transfer an unlimited amount of assets to your spouse at any time, free from tax. That also includes leaving assets in your estate to your spouse without estate or gift tax subjection." Filing Taxes Jointly "If one spouse stays at home and the other has a high-paying job—or just a job—it benefits to file jointly." Financial Benefits of Marriage Social Security Benefits If either you or your spouse doesn't qualify for your own Social Security benefits, you can receive the other spouse's benefits You can also potentially receive Medicare, disability, veterans, military and pension plan benefits through your spouse. Prenuptial Agreement Benefits If one person spends a substantial amount of time on career and [the] other spends it on raising children, we will compensate the non-monied spouse in a prenuptial agreement by dividing assets fairly between the spouses should the marriage end. IRA Benefits An Individual Retirement Account can be used a few ways in the course of a marriage, including rolling over a deceased spouse's IRA to your own, or you can contribute to a spousal IRA, which is an account that lets an employed spouse contribute to an unemployed spouse's retirement account. Legal Decision-Making Benefits You can have the status as next-of-kin for hospital visits, which grants you the ability to make medical decisions in the event your spouse becomes sick or disabled. Inheritance Benefits A spouse can inherit an entire estate without tax consequences. Health and Employment Benefits of Marriage Health Insurance Benefits You can usually get on your spouse's health insurance and get a family rate. Paternity Child Benefits If any issues ever arise over the paternity of a child with a married couple, the married couple may have less of an issue. Leave Benefits Through your employer, you can usually take a family leave if your spouse is sick, or bereavement leave if your spouse or someone in your spouse's immediate family passes away. The Emotional Benefits of Marriage Longer Life Research consistently shows that couples in a committed marriage even live longer than those who are single, cohabiting or divorced Less Chance of Developing Depression Of course, no relationship is perfect, but a healthy, functioning marriage can provide stress and anxiety relief in many different forms: encouraging each other to strive for healthier goals, complimenting each other's positive qualities and celebrating each other's successes Increased Serotonin Levels (a Natural Antidepressant) Coming home from a long day of work and having that partner there for physical affection increases positive mood, and, ultimately, intimacy. *NOTE* Allergic reaction to bouquets Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-  

How to Choose the Right Accessories - Episode #186 Pause and subscribe! Share us! Join our Facebook Group Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists Brittany Finkle, the founder of Happily Ever Borrowed, graduated from Cornell University with a degree in Fiber Science & Apparel Design. She launched Happily Ever Borrowed in 2012. She's here today to help us help you know how to choose the right wedding day accessories. Brittany Finkle with Happily Ever Borrowed: Your story on how you got started and why you do what you do. What exactly is considered an accessory How does one go about figuring out what matches or goes with an outfit Most popular types of veils and jewelry Jewelry, how much is too much Do you need jewelry with every outfit How important is personality when choosing jewelry for your wedding party? Does it need to match? 5 tips for choosing your wedding accessories. Think about your "theme" Don't worry about matching your veil perfectly Bring a few to your hair trial When deciding, always remove one accessory! Coco Chanel once said, "before leaving the house, a lady should look in the mirror and remove one accessory." Change it up during the day to bring it from day to night! Now That Brittany has shared her tips with us, tell us, what accessories are you wearing? Send us an email to info@fromringtoveil.com and pictures are always welcomed! [responsive-slider id=2549] THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-  

The Big Listener Question Show - Episode #185 Pause and subscribe share! Join our Facebook Group Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) Today we are diving into the wedding questions you are asking. We are happy to help! From brunch to plus 1's we have answers for you! My father will not be at my wedding and I don’t have any uncles or grandpas or a father in law. Should I walk down the aisle alone? Has anyone thought of doing a brunch reception? Why or why not? Kate - Had a few brides do them: Makes a super early start so great for early birds Starting at 11:30, cocktail hour with light snacks, then omelets, breakfast sides, pasta, and salads. Beer and wine bar Six hours away from the wedding site, and you are looking for a wedding planner Wedding boards Reviews Websites Contracts Escort cards if doing a buffet Only if you really want them to sit a specific table How to hand out little favors Placed on each place setting Delegate either handout or place at the table setting Fiancé's drumming (musical instruments) Episode 176 Drumsticks on table Drum solo for reception entrance Wedding day scent! Plus 1’s Do you have a number you need to stay under? If you do then start with your VIP list-family, close friends. Plus one's going to married, engaged or long-term relationships. Once you meet your number cut it off. You can make a secondary list if you know someone on your 1st list will not be attending you can add from your 2nd list. When to send out save the dates 8-12 months Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-  

Dance Floor Props and Photo Booths - Episode #184 Pause and subscribe! Take a screenshot and share! Join our Facebook Group Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) Getting your guests on the dance floor doesn't have to be a chore. We have a few suggestions on dance floor props to help you. Dance Floor Props: Foam light sticks Glow stuff all kinds: Necklace, bracelets, glasses, headbands... Dancing Shoes/flip flops Board of some sort with "dance floor rules" Blow up things: Guitars, instruments, animals... Song Request cards Lit floors and large letters Professional dancers! Disco lights Mirror balls Fog machines Monogram projections Light shows Confetti Maracas Light up things: Hula hoops Wands Tambourines Maracas Dance signs: First Dance Mother/Son Father/Daughter Chicken dance Masks Microphones, blow up or light up Photo Booths: You can absolutely hire a photo booth, they are fun, fully equipped, and some even come with an attendant. But if you decide you want to go with a DIY booth, we have some ideas for you! Backdrops: Chalkboard Either write your own message or have something already done Pallets Decorated or plain Pipe and drape Including lace or pretty or fun fabrics Flower wall Picture frames Hanging plants Hanging floral Ribbons Streamers Balloons Party supplies, like paper fans Doilies Layered fringe Peek a boo wall ( cut-outs with frames around them) Props Most of the props that were mentioned above for the dance floor would also go great with your photo booth Things on sticks Thought bubbles Lips Hats Staches Eye Glasses Glasses (flutes, wine...) Tons of signage Wedding Crasher Team... (name of the couple) Congrats I want to be next I’m single I came for cake SO many options Wigs Clothes Jewelry Stick on tattoos Masks You can even make it thematic to fit with your theme Now that we’ve given you some ideas for props and photo booths, tell us what you’ve seen or are planning on doing. Email us at info@fromringtoveil.com or join our Facebook Group. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Timelines and Checklists www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-  

Candlelight Ideas and Where to Shop for your Wedding Décor- Episode #183 Pause and subscribe! Take a screenshot and share! Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) Please Join our Facebook Group We talk about candlelight quite often around here. It is a cost-effective way to bring in elegance to any wedding. PINTEREST BOARD White Taper candles Metal holders either short or long make an elegant table setting In chandeliers above tables with flower overflowing the chandelier Candelabras for ceremony Pillar candles Glass hurricanes in various sizes can be used for the ceremony and reception On tall pillar stands either along the aisle or at the alter In lanterns Votives On reception tables to give ambient light Placed along with other candles to give dimension Can be used in backdrops Hanging terrariums and votives On arbor Hanging from chandeliers Rafters or beams From trees Floating candles In cylinder vases with or without flowers In bowls In fountains Remember some venues have a no live flame policy so please check with them if you are using live flame candles. Flameless candles can be just as pretty, many of them flicker to look like real candles and with no wax cleanup! www.fromringtoveil.com/candles4less www.fromringtoveil.com/quick Finding wedding décor has never been easier. Online retailers are where it's at. Just be cautious with some site as they are international and could take longer to receive and make sure you read reviews of the products you are buying and the sellers you are buying from. Amazon Wish Ikea Dollar store Thrift stores Wedding swap boards on FB Etsy eBay Flea Markets Vintage markets Craft stores-Michael's, Hobby Lobby, Ben Franklin, JoAnne's www.modcoth.com www.weddingtonway.com www.renttherunway.com Montana Venue Update: www.fromringtoveil.com/139 The Lodge at Whitefish Lake McDonald Lake Lodge Conrad Mansion Timelines and Checklists- www.fromringtoveil.com/checklists FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify } { Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox } { GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-  

Money Planning for Weddings and Newlyweds with Dan Hinz – Episode #182 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Wedding Timelines and Checklists ( http://fromringtoveil.com/checklists ) Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) Our guest today is Dan Hinz, a financial coach, who helps engaged couples and newlyweds stop money fights before they start. He's written an in-depth, guide to teach couples how to get on the same page with money. He's here today to give us some guidance on how to do the money planning thing for your wedding and as newlyweds. Your story/journey to where you are now (personal experience) How does a couple even start talking about money planning for the wedding and beyond? Who pays for what and how do you decide on that? How important is it to stick to the budget during wedding planning? As a new couple do you advise joint or separate accounts or some type of combination of both? Money is the number one reason for arguments in marriage, what advice would you give our listeners to keep from fighting? Your business is called Adulting with Money, what are your top 5 tips for newlyweds to adult with money? Have reg convos- personal first, finances later It's ok if the work is 90/10 but the decisions need to be 50/50 Have separate fun money Give it 3 months at least Be kind and flexible LINKS: Facebook   Dan's Guide: www.adultingwithmoney.com/frtv (pdf download with free worksheet) www.fromringtoveil.com/10greatdates www.fromringtoveil.com/179 FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox }{ GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-  

Wedding Venue Trends 2018 and Choosing your Venue - Episode #181 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) We thought it would be fun to share with you a few trends that are happening in the wedding venue world. As an added bonus we added some ways to choose your venue. Top Wedding Venue Trends of 2018 Historic Hotels Receptions held in restaurants Covered spaces, including rooftops See through Ceremony sites with a view Churches Vaulted ceilings Destination wedding locations Going back indoor Lofts Museums Historical feel, with a modern touch Secret Gardens Industrial looking Ways to choose your venue Know your inspiration and the ambiance you want Figure out your must-haves Is the date or the venue more important Consider Your Budget Keep Your Guests in Mind, logistics How are they getting there, airport, long drive Is it very difficult to find Parking Busing in the guests Bathrooms Visit the venue if at all possible Do they allow outside vendors or is it all included or somewhere in-between Trust Your Gut THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify } { Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox } { GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-

10 Dallas/Fort Worth Area Venues - Episode #180 Subscribe and share! Join our Facebook Group Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) It's time to share some Dallas/Ft Worth Area Venues. From Wineries to Museums, Ranches to Boat Clubs we have quite a collection. Cross Timbers Winery-Grapevine, TX Style: Winery/Vineyard, Barn/Farm/Ranch, Vintage/Rustic, Outdoor Max Capacity:175 guests Ceremony:Indoor/Outdoor Reception:Indoor only Catering Options:Provided Alcohol Options:BYO, Provided Time Restrictions: 02:00PM to 11:30PM TPC Craig Ranch –McKinney, TX Style: Banquet Hall/Restaurant, Barn/Farm/Ranch, Golf Course, Ballrooms Max Capacity:400 guests Ceremony:Indoor/Outdoor Reception:Indoor/Outdoor Catering Options: Provided Alcohol Options: Provided Time Restrictions: 08:00AM to 12:00AM Sundown at the Granada -Dallas, TX Style: Historic/Landmark Building, Outdoor Max Capacity:100 guests Ceremony:Outdoor only Reception:Outdoor only Catering Options:Provided Alcohol Options:Provided Time Restrictions: 04:00PM to 02:00AM Perot Museum of Nature and Science -Dallas, TX Style:Historic/Landmark Building, Max Capacity:100 guests Ceremony:indoor/Outdoor Reception: indoor/Outdoor Catering Options:Provided Alcohol Options:Provided Time Restrictions: 04:00PM to 02:00AM Fort Worth Boat Club -Ft. Worth, TX Eagle Mountian Lake Style: Private Club, Waterfront View, Outdoor Max Capacity:180 guests Ceremony:Indoor/Outdoor Reception:Indoor/Outdoor Catering Options:Provided Alcohol Options:Provided Time Restrictions:08:00AM to 12:00AM The American Airlines-CR Smith Museum, DFW, TX Style: Museum/Gallery, Outdoor Max Capacity:350 guests Ceremony:Indoor only Reception:Indoor/Outdoor Catering Options:Choose from List Alcohol Options:BYO Time Restrictions:12:00PM to 12:00AM Globe Life Park -Arlington, TX Style: Event Center, Park/Garden, Ballrooms, Outdoor Max Capacity:500 guests Ceremony:Indoor only Reception:Indoor only Catering Options:Provided Alcohol Options:Provided Time Restrictions:12:00PM to 02:00AM Westin Stonebriar Hotel and Golf Club -Frisco, TX Style: Hotel/Resort, Ballrooms, Modern Max Capacity:350 guests Ceremony:Indoor/Outdoor Reception:Indoor only Catering Options:Provided Alcohol Options:Provided Time Restrictions:03:00PM to 01:00AM Nasher Sculpture Garden -Dallas, TX Style: Event Center, Park/Garden, Outdoor Max Capacity:220 guests Ceremony:Indoor only Reception:Outdoor only Catering Options:Provided Alcohol Options:Provided Time Restrictions:02:00PM to 12:00AM Hickory Street Annex -Dallas, TX Style: Historic/Landmark Building, Event Center, Loft, City/Skyline View Max Capacity:200 guests Ceremony:Indoor only Reception:Indoor only Catering Options:Choose from List Alcohol Options:BYO Time Restrictions:12:00PM to 12:00AM Wedding Timelines and Checklists ( http://fromringtoveil.com/checklists ) Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{Alexa}{CastBox}{GooglePodcast} -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-

10 Great Dates - Episode #179 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) We found a book that we thought would be awesome to share with you. It's called 10 Great Dates Before You Say "I DO" by David and Claudia Arp and Curt and Natelle Brown. http://fromringtoveil.com/10greatdates Going on dates is an important part of a relationship, even into marriage. The authors of this book have guidelines and setup for each date: Commit to 10 dates. Set up a calendar for dates Make sure your calendar is clear for the dates Plan to change plans if the unexpected happens Look toward the date and build up anticipation Read the corresponding chapter and take notes and do prep work Use the guide in the book and stick to the discussion Be upbeat and hold hands Do the work We want to share a few things without sharing everything about 5 of the dates! Date 1: Sharing Hopes, Dream, and Expectations Remember the good things that happened in the past Celebrate the present Create new memories together Look to the future Date 3: Communicating and Connecting Patterns of communications Chat Confront Connect Connect by listening Date 4: Solving Problems as a Couple Handling conflict Discuss Problems Problem Solve Realize we all have problems Date 6: Leaving and Cleaving Leaving Your families Blending friendships and marriage Cleaving (Sticking) to one another Date 8: Realizing Roles and Planning for Family Learning your roles Family planning Date 10: Choosing an Intentional Marriage How involved are you Choose time together Set marriage goals THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Wedding Timelines and Checklists ( http://fromringtoveil.com/checklists ) Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts } { Spotify } { Stitcher } { Youtube } { iHeartradio } { Alexa }{ CastBox } { GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-  

Rings: Top Trends, Styles, and How Much – Episode #178 Pause and subscribe! Join our Facebook Group Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) MySparkly.com CEO co-founder Steve Simon is here today to share with us some diamond nuggets!! Styles, tips for selecting and budgets for rings. Tell us a little about your story, how did you become an expert on wedding rings What are the top 3 styles Solitaire Halo 3 stone rings 70% of women are involved in choosing the engagement ring What are your top 5 tips for selecting the perfect ring Most important and why (size, quality, style) Consider choosing Style first Save money, go lower in carat size 1.4/1.5 Save money, go down in clarity but still eye clean Quality of the cut has the best sparkle How much can one budget for wedding rings $1000-1500 avg for women What about an engagement ring $6500 avg Research!!! Decide what you really want!  Instagram   Facebook  Question From our Facebook Group: If the mother of the groom wishes to give a toast, where would she go? I know it should be 1) best man, 2) maid of honor, 3) father of the bride, 4) father of the groom, 5) bride and groom, based on your episode #130...where would she fit in that order, please? Response: So, I find a good flow is to have the couple come in for their Grand Entrance and thank everybody right then. It's a great transition from guests applauding to then going to dinner. www.fromringtoveil.com/175 And for actual toasts, I usually recommend starting with the oldest generation first. I usually start with the parents of the bride and then the parents of the groom. (Even if only one parent is going to speak, I like encouraging both to go up at the same time as it makes for a nice moment and a nice photo.) Then, I usually would put any other older generation folks: uncles, aunts, grandparents etc. Then I would put peer and members of the wedding party. Then I would have the maid of honor and best man in some order to close it out. Part of the reason that I like it this way is that the flow starts broad. Parents are very welcoming and can talk about their kids' whole life. But then, as you move through peers and maid of honor/best man, you start to hear more about them and their relationship. Wedding Timelines and Checklists ( http://fromringtoveil.com/checklists ) Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify } { Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox } { GooglePodcasts } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-

What to Wear: Reception, Bridal Shower, Engagement Photos, and Rehearsal Dinner Episode - #177 Pause and subscribe! Take a screenshot and share! Join our Facebook Group Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) What to Wear, Reception, Bridal Shower, Engagement Photos, and Rehearsal Dinner. You asked and we are here to give you some guidelines and ideas. We aren't fashionistas but can help guide you in what to wear. Reception: First of all, you do not have to change your dress! But if you want to, here are few suggestions! There are no rules, so you could have two stunning gowns From a formal gown to a less formal dress Fun pantsuit or jumpsuit Options for jewelry: wear the same as the ceremony or change it up If you are wearing a two-piece wedding gown you could just change the bottom Dancing shoes!!! Bridal Shower: Where is the shower taking place? Once that is decided then you can get into what to wear. It's less formal than your rehearsal dinner but probably a little more conservative than your bachelorette Something similar to your wedding dress, maybe a shorter style Jumpsuit Cream or white is totally acceptable You are the star of the party, look it Formal/ Traditional Classic and elegant wear Gown to pantsuit Casual Strappy fun sandals for the summer/spring Fun flouncy dress or skirt Engagement Photos: Be yourself, you don't have to be in formal wear Wear something that you don't have to worry over the whole time, meaning something you know you look good in not just something out of a magazine. Dress in the same level, don't wear a ball gown if he's wearing cargo shorts Coordinate, but you don't have to be twining Dress to blend or fit your shooting location(s) Tight fitting might not be your best friend esp for photos Either hire a makeup/hair artist or plan your photo shoot on the day of your practice run From GSquared: Avoid the black & khaki, white & jeans. Get more creative. Jewelry is good. Color is good, so are patterns – just make sure they don’t clash. Wear shoes that are clean, and that you like. They will show in a lot of the photos. If you really want to wear a hat, bring it with you, but don’t put it on right away Don’t tan within 3 days of your session, and if you spray tan, go light Pinterest Board Rehearsal Dinner: First, consider where the rehearsal will be taking place Remember you are allowed to look better than everyone else

Music and Movie-Themed Wedding Ideas – Episode #176 Stop and Subscribe!! Join our Facebook Group Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) Themed Weddings can be really fun. So we decided to give you some ideas to get your imaginations going for music and movie-themed weddings. PINTEREST PAGES : http://fromringtoveil.com/music http://fromringtoveil.com/movie Music Themed Wedding Pre-Wedding Invitations Concert tickets Sheet Music Concert festival poster Save the dates Concert posters Picks Record albums Ceremony Guestbooks LPs Cymbal Guitars Sheet music Dress Ties Belts Suspenders Boutonnieres Décor and flowers Piano Chalkboard Harp Papers Program Sheet Music Concert poster Vows 80's song lyrics Reception Seating Charts Billboard top 100 list LPs CD covers Escort cards: concert tickets, Cassette tapes Concert Festival poster Backdrops Sheet Music LPs Décor and floral Sheet Music Floral pieces with paper flowers and LPs Instruments Picks Drumsticks Cymbals Cassette tape vases Table numbers Sheet Music LPs Hearts Flowers Table Runners Music notes fabric Food Festival foods: Trucks Corndogs, funnel cakes Drink Cleverly named cocktails, mocktails Cakes Instruments Music notes Exit Fireworks Sparklers Encore Movie Themed Wedding Pre-Wedding Invitations Theater Tickets Save the dates Movie Poster Engagement pics Dress up in fav movie garb Re-create a movie poster Ceremony Entrance- photo backdrop for paparazzi photos Guestbooks Movie poster Playbill Décor and flowers Papers Movie tickets Vows Movie lines Reception Seating Charts Each table is a different "theater" number (your seat is in theater #2) Set up as a NOW SHOWING poster/sign Pile of VHS tapes Walk of Stars Escort cards: tiny clappers, movie tickets, Backdrops Red Carpet Runway Stage at the Oscars Table numbers Different movies Characters Locations in fav movie Hollywood Stars Décor and floral Floral pieces with Movie décor in them, ie. Film roll Character cutouts or figures Popcorn buckets Clappers Filmstrip table runner Food Movie snacks, popcorn, hot dogs, candies Drink Cleverly named cocktails, mocktails Cakes Small cake, decorated cupcakes Entertainment Movie or documentary made of/by the couple Exit Paparazzi w/flashing cameras Wedding Timelines and Checklists ( http://fromringtoveil.com/checklists ) Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Google Play }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-

Reception Timelines and More with Alan Chitlik– Episode #175 Pause and subscribe and share! Join our Facebook Group Seattle Metro Area Wedding Planning Resource Guide: http://fromringtoveil.com/rgpaperback ) ( http://fromringtoveil.com/rgkindle ) Wedding Timelines and Checklists ( http://fromringtoveil.com/checklists ) If you are looking for some help with planning your reception timelines, you are in for a treat. Kim was able to catch up with Puget Sound DJ Alan Chitlik and chat all about receptions. He also shares a few extra DJ tricks! BTW This is a long episode, over an hour. You are welcome! :) Sample Timeline: *This is just a sample of what the timeline will look like. You need to customize it to your liking with your DJ or planner. 4:00 pm Guests start to arrive 4:30 pm Ceremony 5:00 pm Ceremony over. Cocktails for guests. Couple signs certificate finishes photos. 5:45 pm Grand Entrance, the couple says thank you. 6:00 pm Meal 7:00 pm Post-meal activities (slideshow, shoe game, cake cutting, toasts) 7:30 pm Ceremonial Dances (First Dance, Father/Daughter, Mother/Son, Longevity/Anniversary Dance) 7:45 pm Open Dancing 8:30 pm Bouquet and Garter (may or may not want to even do this) 9:50 pm Last Dance 9:55 pm Exit L istener question for Alan - How long should I allow for a buffet dinner for 200 guests on my timeline? Make sure you listen to the episode to hear Alan's answer. If you want to get to know Alan a bit more, please visit our friend and favorite wedding videographer's new podcast: Get to Know your Wedding Pro, episode 2! [ Facebook ] [ Spotify ] THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: Wedding Timelines and Checklists ( http://fromringtoveil.com/checklists ) Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Google Play }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-

The Royal Wedding Review - Episode #174 Pause and subscribe and share! Join our Facebook Group GIVEAWAY!!! Go sign up! Wedding Timelines and Checklists ( http://fromringtoveil.com/checklists ) The Royal Wedding is over and we have some things to say about it. The Dress, the floral, and more! Rules for dress, flowers, etc. http://fromringtoveil.com/royalrules Tiara Borrowed from the queen, belonged to Queen Mary Diamond Bandeau Tiara. Made in 1932, tiara has, in the past, been spotted with a sapphire in the center. Meghan’s tiara, which topped her veil that paid tribute to all 53 countries in the Commonwealth through its flowers, featured a center brooch of 10 diamonds dating back to 1893 Dress http://fromringtoveil.com/royaldress Hats While hats are traditional, they're not technically required http://fromringtoveil.com/hats Floral Bouquet-myrtle-tradition, lily of valley-for sweetness and happiness, forget me nots-Diana's favorite flower, Astilbe - for patience and dedication, Astrantia - strengh, courage and protection http://fromringtoveil.com/royalflowers Queen Colors Lime Punch Reception Dress http://fromringtoveil.com/royalreceptiondress Getaway Car http://fromringtoveil.com/royalgetaway How did they honor Princess Diana http://fromringtoveil.com/Diana Wedding Photos http://fromringtoveil.com/royalphotos Cost http://fromringtoveil.com/royalcost Cake and Reception -Each table was named for a food that is said differently in America and the U.K. "Potato, potato, tomato, tomato, oregano, oregano," she said. "It was so sweet. There were so many nods to the beautiful mashup of two cultures." -According to one partygoer, florist Willow Crossley was personally asked by the couple to create bespoke flower arrangements for the evening reception. “The flowers were divine,” said the source. “They were Meghan’s favorites and artfully arranged in glass jam jars and vintage jugs. They made the marquee look stunning.” -Prince Harry's father, who walked the bride down the aisle, hosted the evening party at the estate at Frogmore House. That's the same residence where Meghan and Harry took their engagement photos . -Idris Elba reportedly served as DJ -Photographs showed Markle wearing to the evening reception a large, emerald-cut aquamarine ring that Diana wore often before she died in a Paris car crash in 1997. -1960s R&B to the dance hits of the 1980s. -Family friend Sir Elton John performed three songs at the request of Prince Harry. "It was a very, very touching reception," -Foods served at the receptions Scottish langoustines wrapped in smoked salmon with citrus crème Fraiche Grilled English asparagus wrapped in Cumbrian ham Garden pea pannacotta with quail eggs and lemon verbena Heritage tomato and basil tartare with balsamic pearls Poached free-range chicken bound in a lightly spiced yogurt with roasted apricot Croquette of confit Windsor lamb, roasted vegetables and shallot jam Warm asparagus spears with mozzarella and sun-blush tomatoes Champagne and pistachio macarons Orange crème brûlée tartlets Miniature rhubarb crumble tartlets Fricassee of free-range chicken with morel mushrooms and young leeks Pea and mint risotto with pea shoots, truffle oil and Parmesan Crisps Ten-hour slow-roasted Windsor pork belly with apple compote and crackling -Wedding cake, designed by Claire Ptak. The cake features elderflower syrup made at the Queen’s residence in Sandringham, as well as a light sponge cake, Amalfi lemon curd filling and elderflower buttercream ***LISTENER QUESTION*** I have a pitbull mix and a Quarter horse that have been a huge part of our relationship. We would love to find ways to incorporate both of them into the event. Do you have any suggestions for how to include them in our big day? Wedding Timelines and Checklists ( http://fromringtoveil.com/checklists ) Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Google Play }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-

Wedding Vows and How to Write Them with Alexis Dent - Episode #173 Join our Facebook Group (From Ring to Veil Wedding Planning Community) Wedding Timelines and Checklists ( http://fromringtoveil.com/checklists ) Personal Vows are sometimes very difficult to come up with, wouldn't it be great if you had some help with that. Well, this episode we have a guest host who shares some very valuable tips and tricks on how to create your wedding vows. Alexis Dent with XO Juliet, a luxury wedding service designed to help with all wedding-related speaking engagements, is here to give us some guidance on wedding vows and how to write them. Alexis is an award-winning writer and author of Everything I Left Behind . She offers her skills in writing personalized wedding vows and speeches of all kinds including the best man and maid of honor! Here are a few things we discuss: -Her story on how she became a writer and author -What is a wedding vow Promises not just about your relationship Add antidotes a few, balance -Why would someone want to write their own vows Secular non-religious -What are your top 5 (to 10) tips on writing vows Poignant, sappy, vulnerable Don't be afraid to share the bad too Make actual vows-promises Keep it to 500-700 words Try and memorize if you can Find Alexis and her Services Here: { Facebook }{ Instagram } THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: http://www.zola.com/frtv  Wedding Timelines and Checklists ( http://fromringtoveil.com/checklists ) Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Google Play }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-

Houston Area Venues - Episode #172 Join our Facebook Group Giveaway! http://fromringtoveil.com/maygiveaway We continue our Texas wedding venues series, this time it's Houston. Houston is a diverse area. The downtown area is modern and thriving with upscale hotels and rooftop bars. The outlying areas are picturesque with stunning water views from the gulf or lakes in the area. Bell Tower on 34th - Houston, TX Guest Capacity- 450 Ceremony – indoor and outdoor Reception-indoor only Catering and bar service is provided Chic downtown venue, a lot of character Water's Edge - El Lago, TX Guest Capacity-400 Ceremony-outdoor only Reception- indoor only Catering-choose from a preferred list Bar service is provided Expansive water views, tropical in feel 5226 Elm - Houston hip and stylish, yet comfortable and inviting Courtyard Room Guest Capacity- 150 Ceremony and Reception – indoor and outdoor Studio 20 ft ceilings MIA BELLA VITA - Tomball, TX All-Inclusive Package Guest Capacity- 200 Guests Ceremony – indoor and outdoor Reception - indoor Ten Hour Venue Rental Agave Estates – Katy, TX Guest Capacity- 200 Guests Ceremony – indoor only Reception - indoor only Magnolia – Houston, TX Magnolia Ballroom 180 people with a dance floor and up to 200 without a dance floor ceremony location, which can accommodate up to 330 guests set theater style. subtle finishes and a neutral color palette Magnolia Lounge 200 guests unique open concept space Sterling Ballroom 120, with a dance floor, guests for a seated event. An urban and eclectic vibe of downtown Houston with floor to ceiling windows Liendo Plantation - Hempstead, TX Guest Capacity- 300 Guests Ceremony – outdoor Reception - outdoor BYO catering and alcohol Marriot Marquis -Houston Downtown Max Capacity-2000 Ceremony-indoor and outdoor Reception-indoor and outdoor In-house catering and bar service Very modern upscale hotel with over 150000 sq ft of event space It has a Texas-shaped lazy river pool!!! The Moody Mansion -Galveston Guest Capacity-150 Ceremony-indoor and outdoor Reception indoor and outdoor Catering-bring your own Bar service=Bring you own Unique historical manor in the Galveston area The Rooftop Bar and Grill on Calhoun -Houston Guest Capacity-300 Indoor and outdoor ceremony and reception sites In-house catering and bar service Spectacular view of the Houston skyline, great place for UH Alum to get hitched as it is on campus. Industrial modern feel. Town Hall Texas -Conroe Max Capacity-150 Indoor and Outdoor ceremony and reception sites Catering-choose from a preferred list Bar service-bring your own Rustic Old town Texas feel 1877 Tall Ship Elissa -Galveston Max Capacity-500 on Elissa and museum site, 300 for seated dinner on the pier Ceremony-indoor and outdoor Reception indoor only Bring in your own caterers and bar service A historic Tall sailing ship can have the reception in the museum or on the pier Wedding Timelines and Checklists ( http://fromringtoveil.com/checklists ) Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts }{ Spotify }{ Google Play }{ Stitcher }{ Youtube } { iHeartradio }{ Alexa }{ CastBox } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-

Camping Wedding Inspiration and Baskets for your Guests - Episode #171 Join our Facebook Group Wedding Timelines and Checklists ( http://fromringtoveil.com/checklists ) ***LISTENER QUESTION*** We are getting married in 2019 and I originally wanted to do a late September or early October date because we both love the fall. But just recently I started thinking about August 31, 2019, which would be Labor Day weekend. The venue we want is kind of out in the middle of the woods along a river in Oregon and they let us have it from Friday-Sunday! We both have A LOT of family and friends and I thought it would be fun for everyone to camp and do more of a whole celebration weekend. There’s swimming, fishing, bonfires, horseback riding (through the venue), and hiking. Do you think this would be a fun idea, or would people be annoyed that a wedding is taking over their Labor Day weekend? I know some families have traditions for this weekend. Camping/Glamping Wedding When planning a weekend camping trip for your wedding you will have a lot of things to keep up with. Making sure your guests are comfortable and have the necessary items. Renting RVs might be the way to go. Each has its own kitchen and most their own bathroom. Or Find a campground that has cabins to house all guest Or luxury tents https://www.glamping.com/ Make sure it’s a weekend of fun with games and activities Have an itinerary for the whole weekend but build some free time in there as well. Food: Bring lots and delegate someone in charge of the food/meals. You will need to feed them all weekend Brunches and dinners also think about having a good-bye brunch on 171the last day to send them off. For the reception: Possibly food trucks or Look for a caterer that has experience catering outdoor events, BBQ Generator Take care of guests, lots of drinks(non-alcoholic), baskets filled, lots of seating Lawn games or disc golf Smore's, trail mix bar Firewood Camping Packing List: http://www.cozi.com/blog/family-camping-checklist-and-a-few-great-tips/ Welcoming your wedding guests and keeping them comfortable during all the activities is an important thing to consider. Here are a few types of baskets you may want to create for them. Welcome Baskets- Cute totes, boxes or baskets for your out of town guests A personalized welcome note An Itinerary card or paper with location address, a timeline of all events, dress codes. A list of activities and eateries close to their stay Snacks-fruit, trail mix, chocolate, etc. You can add something personal if you like Hangover kit (pain reliever, mini water bottle, mints or gum) Depending on where you are, something local, wine, beer, coffee, honey... Bathroom Baskets Band-Aids Mints/gum Tampons/pads Headache med? Lotion Antacids Hairspray Deodorant (Spray) Bobby pins Hair ties Sunscreen Bug repellent Wet wipes Safety pins Stain sticks Mouthwash Brush and comb Lint roller Qtips Outdoor Ceremony Basket Bug repellant Sunscreen Water or have a water station Sunglasses Blankets if cold Fans if warm umbrellas FRTV Swag www.fromringtoveil.com/tee THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Subscribe to the podcast: {Apple Podcasts} { Spotify} {Google Play} {Stitcher} {Youtube} { iHeartradio}{ Alexa } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-      

Alternatives to a Sit-Down Dinner and More - Episode #170 Join our Facebook Group Wedding Timelines and Checklists What options do you have when it comes to your reception food? What the heck is pipe and drape and what is it used for? Readings, what are they and why do you even need to consider them? We are here to answer all these questions. Alternatives to a Sit-Down Dinner Cocktail style Family style Food trucks Buffet Food stations/app stations Afternoon Tea Cheese and Wine THANKSGIVING! Bars of all kinds Omelet Taco Burrito Baked potato Popcorn Pancakes Fondue BBQ Picnic Brunch Dessert Pipe and Drapes What is a Pipe & Drape Pipe and Drape is a simple way to decorate, divide rooms, and hide things. They can be used as a backdrop for a head table, sweetheart table, or photo booth. The backdrops can also be used around an entire room to hide plain walls and add elegance. Pipe & Drape Backdrops are a great way to add beauty to your wedding or event. Can even be used as an arbor or chuppahs They are exactly what they say they are, piping and drapery. Can divide a large room into smaller sections, if you are having the ceremony and reception in a large ballroom. It can also camouflage an unsightly wall or make a plain room dramatic Using uplighting or string lights can make a room glow You can DIY small spaces with pipe and drape but if it is a large room we recommend to rent from a reputable company PINTEREST BOARD Readings – What and why Readings set a tone to the wedding. bring wisdom, humor, and a sense of togetherness Here are a few tips on how to choose readings that are meaningful Make it personal-find something that is meaningful to both of you, make the search romantic. Do you have a favorite poem or line from a book or movie that describes you and your SO to a tee, include it? What about meaningful song lyrics? Make sure the readings fit the style and length of your ceremony- if you are having a short ceremony don't make the reading longer than the ceremony itself. A single Reading shouldn't last longer than 5 minutes if you are having multiples hold them for around 2 minutes each. Ask someone special to read=You can ask your parents or grandparents to do readings or get your maids and GMen involved as well. Do you have a young (reading age) niece or nephew that can read a passage from your favorite children's book like The Velveteen Rabbit or Winnie the Pooh? My Favorite from Pooh is "If you live to be a hundred, I want to live a hundred minus one day, so I would never live a day without you." Couples wanting to show their devotion to each other and to their faith often turn to Bible verses. Wedding Bible verses can talk about love, the marriage relationship, or other topics. Bible verses are a way to show your commitment and beliefs on another level. They don't need to be long just meaningful. Pinterest page for wedding readings PINTEREST BOARD ***LISTENER QUESTION*** How do we supply enough alcohol that people aren't outrageous, but that we can still satisfy his family? I want everyone to be happy and have a good time, and I certainly don't want to neglect his side of the family and their traditions. I want his family to feel comfortable, but I also want my family to feel comfortable. A modified bar-use 3 to 5 basic or most popular choices-whiskey, vodka, gin tequila or rum, then mixers and garnishes. choose types of beer and wine (usually 1 red and 1 white) plus champagne or sparkling juice for toasts. ****know your alcohol laws in your county or state, you might need a license or liability insurance and if that is the case consider hiring it out**** Bar Service Episode THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Subscribe to the podcast: {Apple Podcasts} { Spotify} {Google Play} {Stitcher} {Youtube} { iHeartradio} -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-  

Wedding Websites, Designers, and Trends - Episode #169 Join our Facebook Group Wedding Timelines and Checklists ( http://fromringtoveil.com/checklists ) We've got a little of everything in this episode. We'll help you figure out your wedding website. Tell you about wedding designers and fill you in on some trends. Wedding websites -can be scary but if you remember one rule it will all be easy. Keep it simple. If you've included all the when, where's and how's, everything else is just gravy or icing (depending on how you look at it:) What to include on/in your wedding website: How to get to the ceremony, directions What time the ceremony starts An idea of what to wear Timeline If it’s a cash bar If there is a hotel block reservation Any other transportation information Registry options Honeymoon funds Who to contact with questions Ideas for out to town guests #(hashtag) info and/or if the ceremony is unplugged Your story RSVP options Photos Wedding Designers, what are they? a.k.a Wedding Stylist or Wedding Architect or event designer A wedding designer's role is purely aesthetic and doesn't include things like contract negotiations or attending appointments alongside the bride. We found some great info on wedding designers : https://www.brides.com/story/wedding-planner-designer-coordinator-difference What a Wedding Designer does: Puts in up to 40 hours. Creates the design concept. Oversees the decor budget and vendors Attends a site visit Creates detailed floor plans. Ensures all of the decor elements are in place on-site at the wedding. Hire a Wedding Designer If ... The decor is the most important element of the wedding for you. You're confident in your organizational skills, but your creative skills are lacking. You're trying to pull off a very specific theme or you have a million wedding style ideas that you can't narrow down. Trends Pinterest has released their 2018 wedding reports and we are here to share them with you! PINTEREST REPORT Style Hair Food Décor Destinations ***LISTENER QUESTION*** We want to have a very traditional, Southern wedding. Are there any Southern traditions that I'm forgetting? We want to show his family from up north southern charm and hospitality and demonstrate how great it really can be down here, and how kind and loving people can be here. What are some good ways to incorporate southern hospitality into the whole experience? Here are a few southern traditions that we found some of which we thought was the norm throughout. Groom's Cake-was usually a fruitcake but now it is usually chocolate for an alternative to the wedding cake that is usually vanilla or yellow cake or does a bleeding armadillo cake ala Steel Magnolias. Your Aunt Weezer would be proud. Bridesmaid Luncheon-every southern girl knows that we ladies like to lunch so host a bridesmaid luncheon for some great time with your MOH and Maids. House Party-In addition to bridesmaids, some brides designate a "house party" of friends and family who attend all bridal activities (shower, bachelorette party, etc.) and help out with ceremonial duties on the big day, like overseeing the guest book. Pounding Party-For this housewarming party of sorts, friends and family give the newlyweds pantry staples like flour, sugar, butter, and eggs by the pound. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: http://www.zola.com/frtv http://www.fromringtoveil.com/appy Subscribe to the podcast: {Apple Podcasts} { Spotify} {Google Play} {Stitcher} {Youtube} { iHeartradio} -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-

All Things Bridesmaids - Episode #168 Join our Facebook Group Wedding Shower: Bridesmaids are a very important part of your wedding. You pick them carefully so that they can help you in this wedding planning journey. This episode is all about them and for both you and your party. Brides this part of the episode is for your tribe! We will be sharing our suggestions on how to make your job as bridesmaid the best it can be for both you and your bride. Etiquette Show: Episode #94 How to be the best bridesmaid: The bride, your girl, needs you to be there. Take care of her needs. If you see something that needs taking care of, do it! Or find someone other than the bride that can do it. If someone comes to the bride, asking questions, complaining, step in and take care of it. Keep it positive. Don't bring the vibe down with negativity and complaining and fighting! If the bride is stressing out, take her to the side and listen to her worries, take charge and help her. Breathing and laughter are truly the best ways to relieve stress. Be ready for pictures. By that we mean, don't avoid the camera. Yes, it is part of your job to be in pictures with a happy smile. The wedding day is for fun and happiness. Make it the best you can. Show the bride how much you love her and make this day a great one. Your duties as a bridesmaid: We list the Maid/Matron of Honor's duties in Episode #26 Assists Maid/Matron of Honor Purchases your own clothing and shoes, here in the US at least. It seems in other countries the bride pays for the dresses Help Maid/Matron of Honor plan and pay for the bridal shower and bachelorette party Make sure to give the bride a bachelorette party that she wants, don't do anything she doesn't want to do. Attend the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner as well as showers Greet guests at the reception and encourage mingling Help get the party started, get on the dance floor Brides, this is for you! A few tips on handling your bridesmaids and situations that might come up. Be reasonable about your asks of them. Take in account the money you ask them to spend on your wedding details. If they are paying for their own dress and shoes buy them their jewelry to wear as their gift. If you have a maid-zilla, you can release her from her duties and bring peace back to your tribe. Maid trying to outshine or steal your spotlight? Ignore, it's not going to happen. You ARE the spotlight! Be honest with them. If your maids aren't taking care of their duties, talk with them about it. Your new sis in law is a maid for you but you don't know her well. Take some time to get to know her. Take her to lunch or spend some time where you can chat. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: {Apple Podcasts} { Spotify} {Google Play} {Stitcher} {Youtube} { iHeartradio} -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-  

Weddings in the News-Spring 2018 - Episode #167 Join our Facebook Group This episode is a fun one, man-gagement rings, the royal wedding, and wedding stats! Man- gagement http://fromringtoveil.com/mangagement https://jezebel.com/eight-reasons-why-the-mangagement-ring-should-totally-1524567911 https://www.theatlantic.com/national/archive/2014/02/the-rise-of-the-man-gagement-ring/283827/ Royal wedding info Prince Harry designed the custom engagement ring he gave to his fiancée -- and it includes some special sentiments. The center stone is from Botswana, where the two visited in August. But the two stones that flank the center jewel honor Prince Harry’s mother as they're from Princess Diana's collection. The ring was made by court jewelers Cleave and Company, according to Town & Country magazine . The wedding is on Saturday, May 19th, 2018 at midday at St George’s Chapel, Windsor Castle, where Prince Harry was christened. What about the best man and bridesmaids? The Duke of Cambridge is expected to be Harry's best man, or perhaps jointly take on the task with one of Harry's childhood friends. William has already joked that he is yet to be asked by his younger brother. Prince George and Princess Charlotte look almost certain to be page boy and flower girl. The siblings already know the score - they performed those roles at the wedding of Pippa Middleton, the Duchess of Cambridge's younger sister, to James Matthews in May last year. Ms. Markle may also choose some grown-up bridesmaids from her close set of friends - most likely Canadian stylist Jessica Mulroney and Indian actress and philanthropist Priyanka Chopra. She might even pick a best woman. New royal titles Ms. Markle will become an HRH and a senior royal after marrying Harry and joining the Windsors. She is also expected to become a duchess , as Kate Middleton, who is expecting her third child in April, did when she became the Duchess of Cambridge after saying her vows in 2011. By tradition, male members of the Royal family receive a title from the monarch on their wedding day, and the vacant title Duke of Sussex is regarded as the most likely choice for the Prince, meaning Ms. Markle would become HRH The Duchess of Sussex. Like Prince Harry, the previous Duke of Sussex lived at Kensington Palace, and he also married for love, rather than choosing brides who fitted the traditional royal mold. 2018 Stats (wedding wire) Embedded diamond for engagement rings http://q13fox.com/2018/03/16/millennials-replacing-engagement-rings-with-diamonds-embedded-in-their-fingers/ ***Listener Question*** Hi ladies! My fiancé and I had been planning a wedding for May 2019, then recently realized that we had to get married for health insurance purposes. We did it at court--no ceremony, just paperwork--and still plan to have a wedding next year. It's NOT a secret that we did this. But I'm scared that people will be angry if we have a ceremony next year since it won't be the "real deal." Do you have any thoughts? TeePublic FRTV SWAG! http://fromringtoveil.com/tee THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts } { Spotify } { Google Play } { Stitcher } { Youtube } { iHeartradio } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-  

San Antonio Venues Episode – Episode - #166 Join our Facebook Group San Antonio is a beautiful, culture-filled city surrounded by rolling hills. This leads to many varied choices in the type of venue you can find in the city and surrounding area. SA is also fun filled with the River Walk, Six Flags, and Sea World. The Allen Farmhaus - New Braunfels Rustic Barn with covered ceremony area Capacity- 250 for a seated reception with dance floor, 299 for a cocktail event Can bring in own alcohol and catering vendors Rental includes - 12-hour (11am-11pm) facility use; table and chairs for 250, engagement and bridal portrait use; lawn games Bridal Suite Fair Oaks Ranch - Fair Oaks Ranch, TX Country Club setting with several outdoors settings for ceremony and receptions, ballroom for an indoor reception Capacity 200-400 In-house bar and catering service only Rental includes: linens, tables, chairs, setup and break-down, glassware, serve ware and plates. Use of décor. Many catering packages available to choose from Gardens at Old Town Helotes - Helotes, TX Indoor and outdoor ceremony and reception sites Capacity-200 Allows outside bar and catering service Rental includes-8 hours of combined rehearsal, setup, ceremony and reception; venue coordinator; tables and chairs; setup and breakdown; complimentary parking with golf cart shuttle service Bridal Suite Hidden Falls - Spring Branch, TX 2 venues to choose from : Remi's Ridge Capacity-300 Outdoor ceremony site and ballroom Rental includes: setup; tables, chairs, linens, centerpiece glassware, and mirrors; Wedding party suites Guests lodging Hay's Hollow Capacity-250 Open air ceremony area, ballroom Rental includes: setup; tables, chairs, linens, centerpiece glassware, and mirrors; Private bridal suite Hilton San Antonio Hill Country Hotel and Spa - San Antonio, TX Capacity-300 Indoor and outdoor ceremony and reception sites In-house catering and bar service Setup and breakdown included Bridal and groom party suites Jack Guenther Pavillion at Briscoe Museum -San Antonio, TX Capacity-400 Indoor and outdoor ceremony and reception sites; 3 floors of customizable spaces Rental includes-25 tables and chairs for 250, dance floor is included for Friday and Saturdays Has access to the famous San Antonio River Walk Milltown Historic District -New Braunfels, TX Has 3 different venues The River Venue Capacity-200 Indoor and outdoor ceremony and reception sites available Can use approved caterer only Included in rental: Tables and chairs Has bridal and groom party suites Complimentary wedding night stay The Grande Ballroom Capacity-175 Indoor and outdoor ceremony and reception sites Can use approved caterer only Included in rental- tables and chairs, sound system Has bridal and groom party suites Complimentary wedding night stay The Gallery Capacity-75 Indoor and outdoor ceremony sites Can use approved caterer only Included in rental-tables and chairs, sound system Oak Valley Vineyards - San Antonio Capacity-250 Indoor and outdoor ceremony and reception sites In-house catering and bar service Bridal Suite Contact event coordinator for venue rental packages The Oaks at Heavenly - Helotes, TX Capacity-250 Outdoor ceremony/indoor reception Can bring in own caterer and bar service Included in rental-Tables and chairs, ivory or white linens, set up and breakdown, full china service, and golf cart shuttle for parking Bridal and groom suites Scenic Springs - Helotes, TX Capacity-250 Outdoor and indoor ceremony and reception sites Can bring in own caterer but they have in-house bar service Bridal and groom suite Scottish Rite Performing Arts Center - San Antonio Capacity-550 Indoor ceremony and reception site Can bring in own caterer and bar service Rental includes: tables, chairs, setup and breakdown Bridal and groom suites The Tower of the Americas - San Antonio Capacity-500 (several banquet facilities each have different capacity) Indoor and outdoor ceremony and reception In-house catering and bar service Great views of San Antonio UTSA University Center - San Antonio Capacity-500 Indoor and outdoor ceremony and reception sites Included in Rental –tables and chairs, audio/visual equipment, setup, and breakdown Can bring in own caterer and bar service Bridal and groom suite The Veranda - San Antonio Capacity-1000 Indoor and outdoor ceremony and reception sites In-house catering can bring in bar service Setup and breakdown included Bridal and groom suites **Listener Question** I love my fiancé, but his family...to say it politely, is a little much. we are both Filipino and have large families. We wanted a small wedding but I have had to make due with about 200 guests. That is fine, I was prepared for it. My issue is that my fiance's family is HUGE. and I mean huge. they wanted to add 185 guests at least over our original 120. (My fiance and I are paying for the 120 and the rest his family and my family were splitting) however... they are suddenly willing to accept just 40 guests on their side as opposed from the original 225 guests they wanted. Least to say my future mother in law is known for her schemes and has bragged how they sneak people into the wedding by bringing the invitation and stepping out of the venue and passing it off to other family members. My fiance and I CAN NOT PAY FOR THE EXTRA GUESTS NOR DO WE WANT A LARGE WEDDING. Now for my question... We have security and valet. Is it rude to put on the invitation... Attendance without ID and re-entry will not be permitted? My Answer-Ok, I need to ask more questions: is the dinner a plated sit-down dinner or is it a buffet? If it is plated, you can do a seating chart and have escort cards for each person that RSVP'ed. That way they really can't sneak anyone in for the dinner portion as there won't be anywhere for them to sit. If it a buffet have everyone sit and then announce each table separately to partake in the buffet and when that table is done then the next table goes. I would also have only enough tables and chairs for those that RSVP'ed. Can you shut the doors and not let anyone else in after everyone gets there? If I can come up with something else I will let you know. Other than giving out dinner tickets to guests and the caterer confiscate them when they go the buffet, that is not very classy but it may work for you. 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Gifts Ideas for Each Other on your Wedding Day & RSVPs - Episode #165 Join our Facebook Group TeePublic FRTV SWAG! http://fromringtoveil.com/tee It's a tradition to give each other gifts on your wedding day or wedding night. Sometimes it hard to find just the right thing. We are here to give you some ideas that might spark your imagination to find the perfect gift. Groom: The first tip is to know what he is into then go from there. Is He sporty, geeky, outdoorsy? Find something special that shows him you know him and that you want to give him something that he will love and treasure. Can be encouraging like BBQ items Manly bands groomsmen gifts work great as groom's gifts too! MANLY BANDS Band engraving Man Crates Apple watch/watch/pocket watch Nice shaving kits Boozy stuff, flask, glasses, mugs... Cufflinks/tie pins Groom's emergency kit (episode 163) Tickets to something he loves, sports, concert, driving at an indy500 race, comic cons Boudoir pics (professionally done) Man's jewelry/wallet station Lingerie for later First edition book Vintage t-shirt from fav band in HS or something similar Brides pay for his wedding day grooming-shave, neck trim, manicure, beard trim Golf clubs and lessons Day of golf at a favorite course or during the honeymoon Gaming system Engraved iPad Bride: Jewelry, engraved or vintage, watch Write her a song or poem Give her a spa day Tickets to something she loves- concerts, museums, sporting events, comic cons Groom-pay for her wedding day pampering, hair, and makeup Special treat or adventure during the honeymoon-couples massage, zip lining, parasailing, etc. Lessons in a sport she participates in Customized fragrance Cooking lessons A puppy

Where to Seat Everyone and How to Tip your Vendors - Episode #164 Pause and subscribe! Take a screenshot and share! Join our Facebook Group Seating charts are tricky, but we have a few tips on where to seat everyone. We also include a guide for tipping your vendors! Seating Charts are usually done toward the end of the planning process because of the need to wait for RSVP's to come in. Most tables are 60-inch round that will seat 8-10 comfortably, Shan prefers 8, more elbow room (Kim prefers 6, a place to put your feet up, lol) Farm tables are setup up end to end with each table 6-8 feet long and 2-3 feet wide and will fit 6-8 people depending on whether you want people sitting on the ends. There should be 60 inches in-between tables but no less than 48 or people will not be able to get in and out of seats comfortably. Head Table or Sweetheart (couples) table You will need to decide whether you are going to have a head table featuring you and your SO plus wedding party, or are you going to need a Sweetheart table. A sweetheart table is just for the couple getting married. Everyone else will sit at tables assigned or designated for them. The sweetheart table will be front and center with tables in front of the couple with your people of honor. Parents, close family Bridal Party A head table with the couple and wedding party would be front and center with the couple in middle then respectfully on each side Best man, maid of honor and then groomsmen, bridesmaids. Groomsman Bridesmaid Best man- Couple- Maid of Honor Groomsmen Bridesmaid The head table could be even longer if you are allowing your wedding party have a guest or you can sit their guests at a table of their own. If you are having a head table a parents table will be needed Seating at this table is couple's parents and grandparents and usually officiant and spouse if necessary. If you have step parents the officiant and guest can sit at the next table. Closest family and friends sit up closer to front Have a table for the inevitable guests that didn’t RSVP and a table for your vendors that are staying throughout the ceremony and reception, yes you need to feed these vendors, and they normally include, DJ, Photographer, videographer, planners. Vendor Tipping Guide Tipping your vendors for a job well done is just plain ole good manners. Even if they don't accept tips a small gift of appreciation will go far even if it's just a coffee gift card. Don't forget to check contracts on vendors as gratuities may be included in their service. Officiant and/or Clergy Reception Wait Staff Ceremony Site Staff Bartenders DJ/Band Parking Attendants Reception Site staff Transportation Hair and Makeup Artists Planners/Day of Coordinators Photographers Videographers Floral Designers/Event Designers Baker/Dessert Chef Listener Question Time!!! Hi Shannon and Kim - I'm a huge fan of the podcast, and have been listening since I was engaged over a year ago! Our wedding is this July, and I'm still finalizing bridesmaids' dresses. My own dress is fairly simple ('classic elegance') is the look I'm going for -- it's a strapless Mikado gown with no adornments or anything, but it's trumpet-shaped, with dramatic ruffles on the bottom. I'm planning to wear a striking necklace or shoulder jewelry to jazz it up. I was set on bright, sequined bridesmaids gowns, which look great on my ladies, but I'm now wondering if I should do something more demure? Some of the consultants at the shops we went to suggested that such striking bridesmaids dresses might "overpower" the "simple elegance" of my dress. Now I'm rethinking what I should do. I want my ladies to look great, and hate the idea that a bride might be being "overpowered" -- or even to have these thoughts/insecurities put in my head now! But maybe from a design perspective, these bold dresses may not be the right approach? Please help!! Thanks, Undecided and Confused THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Join our Facebook Group Subscribe to the podcast: { Apple Podcasts } { Google Play } { Stitcher } { Youtube } { iHeartradio } { Spotify } -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-  

Groom's Timeline and Day-of Emergency Kit - Episode #163 Pause and subscribe! Take a screenshot and share! Join our Facebook Group Thanks to Miriam-Rose for the episode suggests she wants to know if there are a timeline and emergency kit for the groom and we say absolutely! 6-12 months Select and purchase bride's rings Discuss who will be paying what- you, fiancé, parents Determine a budget, number of guests Along with SO choose and secure venue locations Officiant Choose best man and groomsmen Make your guest list (Episode on making your guest list) Start planning honeymoon (Most romantic honeymoon destinations) Check or get passports Inquire about room blocks at the desired hotel for oot guests Reserve transportation for the bridal party and possibly OOT guests 4-6 months Select and order formal wear for you and groom's party Book room for wedding night Start planning rehearsal dinner with your parents (The Rehearsal Dinner Show) 2-4 months Confirm rehearsal dinner reservations Start shopping for bride's gift Review items on the checklist to make sure you've checked them off 1-2 months Pick up wedding rings-make sure the engraving is correct Start helping with the thank you notes Pick a date to get the marriage license (check with county or state for requirements) Pick your best man and groomsmen gifts (Gifts for your Bridesmaids and Groomsmen) 2 weeks before Confirm honeymoon details and arrangements Attend bachelor party Get a haircut 1 week before Confirm rehearsal dinner details Pack for the wedding night and honeymoon (Packing for your Honeymoon) Gather items and make your emergency kit (see below) Day before Rehearsal and dinner Present gifts to best man and groomsmen Pick up formal wear Day of wedding Give best man the rings Make sure transportation is set up and running smoothly Make sure you have your marriage license Have tips divided out for needed vendors and placed in seal envelopes Groom's day-of emergency kit: Deodorant Toothpaste/toothbrush Floss Lip balm Antacids Ibuprofen or Tylenol Baby wipes Sunglasses Tissues Stain remover wipes Extra cufflinks Lint brush Hem tape Sewing kit Shoeshine kit Cash for emergencies Groom's guide to Tux/suit alterations Start shopping for your formal wear at least 6 months out, during the busy wedding season alterations may take up to 4 weeks. The alterations generally needed are sleeve length and fit of the jacket, shoulder width. For pants it is hemming, tapering the leg and adjusting the waist. At your alteration appointment, You should bring the shirt you are wearing under the jacket so the tailor will make sure both work together and are the correct length. Also, bring shoes you will be wearing as the tailor will need to know what length to hem the pants. You will probably have at least 2 fittings maybe 3 if there are more adjustments at the 2nd appointment. Make your tux or suit fit your personal style by adding accessories, pocket squares are great along with patterned socks, personal cuff links or shoes that are different choices rather than the oxfords that are expected. Facebook Group THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS: Subscribe to the podcast: {Apple Podcasts} {Google Play} {Stitcher} {Youtube} {iHeartradio} {Spotify} -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On- The online HTML, CSS and JavaScript organizers will take care of your dirty markup!  

Pause and subscribe! Take a screenshot and share! Facebook group We've given you venues to dream about all over Washington, some in Montana and even a few in Texas. But Texas is a big place and it's time to share some in the Austin metro area.   Angel Springs Event Center - Georgetown Indoor and outdoor ceremony sites available Bridal and groom party dressing area Max capacity 200 Onsite coordinator Open for tours on Wednesdays from 5-7pm Table and chairs included with setup and break down Antebellum Oaks - Austin Indoor and outdoor ceremony sites available Bridal and groom party dressing area Max capacity 200 Onsite coordinator AT&T Hotel and Conference Center - University of Texas Austin Indoor and outdoor ceremony sites available Bridal Suite Max capacity 600 Chairs, tables, linens, china, flatware, glassware, rental setup and cleanup included Onsite catering and bar service Onsite coordinator Hyatt Regency Lost Pines - Bastrop Indoor and outdoor ceremony sites available Bridal and groom party dressing area Max capacity 800 In-house catering and bar service only Onsite coordinator Complimentary wedding night accommodation Kindred Oaks - Georgetown Indoor and outdoor ceremony sites available Bridal suite Max capacity 250 Complimentary wedding night accommodations Tables and chairs included Lady Bird Johnson Wildflower Center - Austin Indoor and outdoor sites available Bridal and groom party dressing area Max Capacity 250 depending on site chosen Lakeway Resort and Spa - Lakeway Indoor and outdoor site available Bridal and groom party dressing area Max capacity 300 depending on site chosen Complimentary wedding night accommodations On-site catering and bar service River Place Country Club - Austin Indoor and outdoor sites available Bridal and groom party dressing area Max capacity 300 On-site catering and bar service Texas Federation of Women’s Clubs Mansion - Austin Indoor and outdoor facilities Bridal and groom party dressing area Max capacity 300 Texas Old Town - Kyle Indoor and outdoor facilities Bridal and groom party dressing area Max capacity 300 Table and chairs included Villa Antonia - Jonestown Indoor and outdoor facilities Bridal and groom party dressing area Max capacity 200 On-site coordinator Vintage Villas Hotel and Events - Austin Indoor and outdoor facilities Bridal and groom party dressing areas Max capacity 300 On-site catering and bar service On-site coordinator Linens, chairs, and tables included The Vista on Seward Hill - Austin Indoor and outdoor facilities Bridal suite Max capacity 200 On-site catering   Facebook Group THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:       Subscribe to the podcast: {Apple Podcasts} {Google Play} {Stitcher} {Youtube} {iHeartradio} {Spotify} -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-  

Planning a Second Wedding – Episode #161 Pause and subscribe! Take a screenshot and share! We never get married expecting the marriage not to work. But sometimes you find yourself getting remarried. So, when you do we have some "planning a second wedding" tips for you! If you have children, tell them first–no matter what their ages. Budgeting is very important since you now most likely have mortgages and kids. It's ok to wear white or red or blue...it's up to you! The veil, on the other hand, is a first marriage thing as what it stands for is purity and being "untouched". Traditions and interests that suit you. Traditional, nontraditional, or throw a surprise wedding! Don't talk about the past or what's gone wrong, focus on the now and the future together. Involve your kids, if you have them, in your wedding: Let them stand up for you. Greeting guests, handing out programs, attend the guest book, and/or usher. Include them in your vows, make it a group exchange. Give them rings or bracelets as a symbol. Let them help you plan i.e. cake tasting! If small they can be ring bearers and flower girls. Create the kids "signature drink". Create first look moments Celebrate as if it were your first. You'll need a divorce decree or a death certificate to file for a new marriage license. You deserve and should take a honeymoon! Premarital counseling is highly recommended. The MOH still has the same responsibilities as well as the wedding party. They may be a little different depending on what the couple decides to do. A bridal shower is perfectly fine. It may be more of a non-traditional style though. You can register, for things you want and need but don't expect your guests to give gifts. Figure out the "legals", prenups, name changes, previous marriages are settled. Second marriage for the bride, she should use her legal name on the invitation instead of using a maiden name. Having your dad walk you down the aisle for the second time is completely fine as long as you are both comfortable doing so. Make this wedding different from the first. When it comes to the reception, really do it up however you want. You are probably aware but your parents aren't required to pay for anything but they may want to. THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:  Subscribe to the podcast: {Apple Podcasts} {Google Play} {Stitcher} {Youtube} {iHeartradio} {Spotify} -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-   

THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS ZOLA MANLY BANDS Pause and subscribe! Take a screenshot and share!  Ultra Violet may be Pantone's color of the year but we wanted to share with you the top 12 colors for spring 2018. You may want to visit the website if your podcast app doesn't support photos.  We have an example palette for each color so go to www.fromringtoveil.com/160 to see them. The first color in the palette is the main color.  We used mycolor.space to find these palettes.  You can use the hex codes to find more.    Pantone Spring 2018 Top 12 Color Palette  4 seasonal shades  With Hex codes for searching!  Meadowlark EAD94E  Cherry Tomato EB3C27  Little Boy Blue 6EA2D5  Chili Oil 8E3C36  Pink Lavender D9AFCA    Blooming Dahlia EB9687  Arcadia 00A28A  Emperador 684832  Almost Mauve E7DCD9  Spring Crocus BA69A1  Lime Punch C0D725  Classics:  Sailor Blue 0E3A53  Harbor Mist AFB1B4  Warm Sand C5AE91  Coconut Milk F0EDE5  PINTEREST BOARD    ***Listener Question*** Logan writes:  I just found your podcast and I'm really happy! I have heard a few episodes and most recently, the geeky wedding episode. I am in the very early planning stages of a geeky wedding in Salem, Oregon. My fiancée and I own a pop culture events company so we will be combining our favorite fandoms. I am a little nervous about it clashing with class. I look forward to learning more from you guys on this journey!!   Subscribe to the podcast: {Apple Podcasts} {Google Play} {Stitcher} {Youtube} {iHeartradio} {Spotify} -Until next time, No Stress No Worries Keep Calm and Listen On-