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Send us a text- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreWhen there is conflict in the couples relationship, sex and intimacy becomes the first casualty which fly out the window. It is very difficult (sometimes feels impossible) to physically touch the person with whom you are in conflict.Yet, touch is exactly what you need to do to begin to break down the walls set in place by conflict. Touch is then so very, very impossible to do.The antidote is to learn to do physical (non-sexual) touch with the person with whom you are in conflict, in order to begin to break down the walls of hostility. But it is hard. "Boy is it hard". But a prize awaits you.Try it. Throw caution to the wind and dive in - with physical (non-sexual) touch. Overcome yourself. Overcome pride. Get you and your ego out of the way. Just do it.Don't talk. Just touch. Just embrace - if you dare. The other person may not welcome your endeavours - initially. (Be warned).Expect the bucking horse. "Get off me. What are you doing. Leave me alone". Its going to happen! Hold on in there for dear life and eventually the bucking horse will reduce. Will calm. Don't talk. Expect the intimidation - which goes with our current culture - "You need to respect my space". There is a prize if you can stay in there. It's worth it.Even as I write these words, I am intimidated because the naysayers in our current culture will be getting ready to chastise me with their disagreement. (The insistence that we must respect another's space and not intrude). That is powerful intimidation.Psychosexual Therapy (I just call it Sex Therapy) with The Kairos Centre, is not about sex. The first thing that we do is to ban sexual intercourse. Then teach how to rebuild intimacy, sensuality and romance at a higher level.Done well, it paves the way for the couple to naturally want to consummate the rebuilt relationship, by progressing to a sexual expression. At that point, I am getting ready to come out of their lives and leave them with the next 80 years to practice this thing called sex!Get some help from The Kairos Centre. See what you cannot see. Begin to change that which you begin to better understand.Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction | Love Addiction | Porn Causes | Recover from Addiction | Self-Soothing Behaviors | Childhood Trauma | Inner Child work | Childhood Development and Addiction bullying | Porn Addiction Recovery | Abuse | Sexual Abuse | Sex Addiction Recovery | Domestic Violence | Family Conflict | Overcoming Porn addiction | Porn Addiction Side effects | Porn Addiction Symptoms | Emotional Neglect | Quit Porn Addiction | Peer Pressure | Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety | Stress | Mental Health and Addiction | Dissociation | Anger | Husband has porn | Recovery Program | 12 Steps Program | EMDR | Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing | Compulsive Behavior | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online Therapy | The Kairos Centre | Neuroscience of Addiction | Porn Addiction Help | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Authentic Self Discovery | Compulsive Behaviors | Intimacy Issues | Sexual Dysfunction | Obsessive Thoughts | Fantasy Escape | Codependency | Shame in Addiction | Guilt in Addiction | Addiction in Relationship | Infidelity | Therapy for Addiction | Objectification | Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry | Attachment Styles | Sexual Compulsivity | Behavioral Therapy | Relapse Prevention | Emotional Regulation | Self-Discovery | Healing Journeys | Personal Growth | Intimacy Building | Healthy Relationships | Empowerment | obsessive T
Send us a text- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreUnresolved issues; unprocessed childhood issues, loose canons, unpotted snooker balls - are some of the terms that I use, for the process of work that I do multiple times every day with clients - using EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation Reprocessing).Another analogy that I use (but please don't tell my EMDR colleagues that I described it to you like this)! It is as if you own an 8 bedroom mansion house; but for some reason, over lots of years, you never go into 3 of the bedrooms. Over time, the things in those 3 bedrooms (just like many attics), gather cobwebs and dust and are hidden.When Eye Movement begins - known as BLS (Bilateral Stimulation) - it is as if the brain goes into those 3 bedrooms and begins to remove the drapes, blow away the cobbwebbs and finds thing that you did not remember about. You may let out a shriek or exclamation (inside of you and unconsciously). It might sound like this:"....oh my goodness. Oh look. I had forgotten about that. But if that was present at the time of [the negative event] that which I have been carrying all these years, about the event, can't be entirely accurate! I now need to integrate the stuff found in those 3 bedrooms - into my view of the past event. That means I can't continue to see it quite the same way any more, because the stuff I can now see and better understand, is giving me a different/ more accurate knowledge about the events; which was not a full picture that I carried all these years. That makes sense, since the Limbic/Emotional part of the brain must have been making all the decisions during the negative impactful event; the logical reasoning/Pre-Cortex part of the brain would have gone off-line and major decisions being taken based on feelings. I feel, so I do...." Get some help from The Kairos Centre. See what you cannot see. Begin to change that which you begin to better understand.Here is my fund raising page. Help someone access the Recovery Programme: https://igg.me/at/ThekairosCentreNow launched: A Video-on-Demand Online Course (for Singles, Couples/Marrieds/Partners) Access here - https://www.kairos-centre.com/changement-on-demand/Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction | Love Addiction | Porn Causes | Recover from Addiction | Self-Soothing Behaviors | Childhood Trauma | Inner Child work | Childhood Development and Addiction bullying | Porn Addiction Recovery | Abuse | Sexual Abuse | Sex Addiction Recovery | Domestic Violence | Family Conflict | Overcoming Porn addiction | Porn Addiction Side effects | Porn Addiction Symptoms | Emotional Neglect | Quit Porn Addiction | Peer Pressure | Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety | Stress | Mental Health and Addiction | Dissociation | Anger | Husband has porn | Recovery Program | 12 Steps Program | EMDR | Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing | Compulsive Behavior | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online Therapy | The Kairos Centre | Neuroscience of Addiction | Porn Addiction Help | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Authentic Self Discovery | Compulsive Behaviors | Intimacy Issues | Sexual Dysfunction | Obsessive Thoughts | Fantasy Escape | Codependency | Shame in Addiction | Guilt in Addiction | Addiction in Relationship | Infidelity | Therapy for Addiction | Objectification | Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry | Attachment Styles | Sexual Compulsivity | Behavioral Therapy | Relapse Prevention | Emotional Regulation | Self-Discovery | Healing
Send us a textIn this episode, we explore how modern culture has stripped childhood of the freedom it needs to thrive—and what can be done to bring it back. Our guest is Lenore Skenazy, author of Free-Range Kids and co-founder of the nonprofit Let Grow, launched with Jonathan Haidt, Peter Gray, and Daniel Shuchman to champion independence, resilience, and real-world learning.Together, we unpack how fear, measurement, and control have come to dominate parenting and education. From the rise of isolated family units to the spread of enrichment culture, today's children are surrounded by adults who often confuse supervision with support. The result is a generation of kids with less room to explore, solve problems, and grow on their own.We talk about how Let Grow is working to change this—by making it normal again for kids to walk to the store, play unsupervised, and take age-appropriate risks. Lenore shares the story of a high school that gave students one week of unstructured play, and the surprising transformation that followed. The spark of self-direction wasn't lost—it was just waiting for space to reappear.Visit letgrow.org to explore free programs, school initiatives, and policy work that supports childhood independence.
Send us a text- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreHave you heard the Joke about the bride who learned her script for what she had to remember on the wedding day - as: 1) Aisle 2) Altar 3) HymnWhat has shaped you to be doing life how you are doing life? So often, it is about those childhood development years and what got set up as templates, to create those hamster wheel patters of repeat behaviour; those habits - otherwise called Neural Pathway.They where carved out by the brain (which does not like upset and so, to get us back into homeostasis); but they are not always the best choices of activities; yet seem to 'work' back there in childhood and in the families that we are a part of - to mange our interaction. So, since they 'worked ' and are on repeat, we take the repeat practiced behaviours - now well entrenched - with us into adulthood and are a grown up version of childhood practices. In adulthood and the new couple relationship (different to the growing up family environment), the brain experiences something that looks or feels similar to a past negatively experienced childhood pattern and so is triggered to respond in the same way. "...but brain, this is a different person. This isn't those people back in childhood who destabilised me. The situation is different" - makes no difference to the brain. It goes into autonomic response.You may not see or realise the similar repeat behaviours being done in adulthood - as being similar to how you did them in childhood - because they are unconscious.Couples counselling with The Kairos Centre is not about saving marriages or relationships. It is about helping you to better understand you. To move issues from the unseen, the invisible, the unconscious, into the seen, the visible, the conscious.When you can better see and understand stuff (because you have moved them into focus and put a highlighter pen through them) now you are in a position to effect change. You have stepped onto the change continuum.Know, however, that you cannot effect immediate (end-point) change. After-all, they were hamster wheel repetitive habit behaviours for decades. It is a journey. No quick fixes.Change has, however, began, because you had no hope of changing what you could not see or understand, until you can see and understand them! They were just you, being you, doing life how you do life - 'what's the problem. The other person is the problem'.If you change, then the other person has to change. They cannot keep doing what they have repeatedly done, because you have changed and are no longer in the same place to be the recipient of their behaviours and at some point they have to change in response to your change; but their change may not be the required positive change, without some help. Get it!Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction | Love Addiction | Porn Causes | Recover from Addiction | Self-Soothing Behaviors | Childhood Trauma | Inner Child work | Childhood Development and Addiction bullying | Porn Addiction Recovery | Abuse | Sexual Abuse | Sex Addiction Recovery | Domestic Violence | Family Conflict | Overcoming Porn addiction | Porn Addiction Side effects | Porn Addiction Symptoms | Emotional Neglect | Quit Porn Addiction | Peer Pressure | Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety | Stress | Mental Health and Addiction | Dissociation | Anger | Husband has porn | Recovery Program | 12 Steps Program | EMDR | Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing | Compulsive Behavior | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online Therapy | The Kairos Centre | Neuroscience of Addiction | Porn Addiction Help | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Authent
Send us a text- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreOver 90% of couples that The Kairos Centre counsel, are in conflict because Core Emotional Needs are not being met. Some of those Core Emotional Needs are such things as lack of Security, Respect, Comfort, Affection, Respect.They are not negotiable human needs. They want to be met and we will fight/flight/freeze to get them met. We do an interesting exercise with Couples and Singles to identify their Core Emotional Needs.Commit to a Couples Recovery Programme like The Kairos Centre Video-On-Demand Relationship Program which you can cover at your leisure from the comfort of your own home, at your pace. You receive a workbook and can book Homework Review sessions as and when you desire, so that you have a sense of someone being alongside you on your journey.Let's move as much of the stuff from the unconscious; from the unseen; from the invisible; from the unknown; into the conscious; the seen; the visible; the known.Now that you can better see and understand the issues, you now get a chance to begin working through the issues - with some help. Get off the hamster wheel of habits, template behaviours, entrenched neutral pathways.Change your trajectory. Change begins because you can now see the problem. It can never be the same again. You are now on the change continuum, even if only at step one = Insight; step two = understanding.Get some help from The Kairos Centre. See what you cannot see. Begin to change that which you begin to better understand.Here is my fund raising page. Help someone access the Recovery Programme: https://igg.me/at/ThekairosCentreHelp is here: bit.ly/pornaddictionhelpThe world's first Online Webinar Sex, Porn, Love Addiction video-on-demand Recovery Programme. email info@kairos-centre.comNow launched: A Video-on-Demand Online Course (for Singles, Couples/Marrieds/Partners) Access here - https://www.kairos-centre.com/changement-on-demand/Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction | Love Addiction | Porn Causes | Recover from Addiction | Self-Soothing Behaviors | Childhood Trauma | Inner Child work | Childhood Development and Addiction bullying | Porn Addiction Recovery | Abuse | Sexual Abuse | Sex Addiction Recovery | Domestic Violence | Family Conflict | Overcoming Porn addiction | Porn Addiction Side effects | Porn Addiction Symptoms | Emotional Neglect | Quit Porn Addiction | Peer Pressure | Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety | Stress | Mental Health and Addiction | Dissociation | Anger | Husband has porn | Recovery Program | 12 Steps Program | EMDR | Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing | Compulsive Behavior | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online Therapy | The Kairos Centre | Neuroscience of Addiction | Porn Addiction Help | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Authentic Self Discovery | Compulsive Behaviors | Intimacy Issues | Sexual Dysfunction | Obsessive Thoughts | Fantasy Escape | Codependency | Shame in Addiction | Guilt in Addiction | Addiction in Relationship | Infidelity | Therapy for Addiction | Objectification | Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry | Attachment Styles | Sexual Compulsivity | Behavioral Therapy | Relapse Prevention | Emotional Regulation | Self-Discovery | Healing Journeys | Personal Growth | Intimacy Building | Healthy Relationships | Empowerment | obsessive Thoug
Send us a text- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreTestosterone in males is at its height in their late teens to early 20's. Women's sex drive does not reach its peak until their late 20's to early 30's. Therefore, a mismatch is going on between the sexes.Aged 15 to 25 years old males have a 4 times higher likelihood of death from various events. Their brains are not yet fully mature and therefore they make bad choices and poor decisions.They are 4 times more likely (than females of the same age) to die from such events as suicide, being killed, drug overdose and car accidents. Much of that is due to the high Testosterone in their body, which enhances their decision to 'Act out' in various risk taking ways.In the 1960s, young men were marrying younger - in their 20s. They were in a committed relationship and such events as having children and even holding the child and getting skin contact, lowered the male Testosterone levels. (More stats in the audio).Men are twice as likely to experience substance abuse, than women. Women are twice as likely to experience STI. Men are 6 times more likely to be addicted to porn.Consistent porn use changes the brain at a cellular level. The brain is actually changed. Get some help from The Kairos Centre. See what you cannot see. Begin to change that which you begin to better understand.Here is my fund raising page. Help someone access the Recovery Programme: https://igg.me/at/ThekairosCentreGet the help you need: bit.ly/pornaddictionhelpThe world's first Online Webinar Sex, Porn, Love Addiction video-on-demand Recovery Programme. Discover the real, authentic you. email info@kairos-centre.comNow launched: A Video-on-Demand Online Course (for Singles, Couples/Marrieds/Partners) Access here - https://www.kairos-centre.com/changement-on-demand/Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction | Love Addiction | Porn Causes | Recover from Addiction | Self-Soothing Behaviors | Childhood Trauma | Inner Child work | Childhood Development and Addiction bullying | Porn Addiction Recovery | Abuse | Sexual Abuse | Sex Addiction Recovery | Domestic Violence | Family Conflict | Overcoming Porn addiction | Porn Addiction Side effects | Porn Addiction Symptoms | Emotional Neglect | Quit Porn Addiction | Peer Pressure | Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety | Stress | Mental Health and Addiction | Dissociation | Anger | Husband has porn | Recovery Program | 12 Steps Program | EMDR | Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing | Compulsive Behavior | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online Therapy | The Kairos Centre | Neuroscience of Addiction | Porn Addiction Help | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Authentic Self Discovery | Compulsive Behaviors | Intimacy Issues | Sexual Dysfunction | Obsessive Thoughts | Fantasy Escape | Codependency | Shame in Addiction | Guilt in Addiction | Addiction in Relationship | Infidelity | Therapy for Addiction | Objectification | Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry | Attachment Styles | Sexual Compulsivity | Behavioral Therapy | Relapse Prevention | Emotional Regulation | Self-Discovery | Healing Journeys | Personal Growth | Intimacy Building | Healthy Relationships | Empowerment | obsessive Thoughts | Minfulness | Self compassion | Psychoeducation | Intimacy building
n this episode of the Spirit and Soul podcast, host Tiffany Cohen speaks with Christy Parisi about her journey from a toxic upbringing to creating Grounded Center, a space for children to learn emotional awareness and mindfulness. They discuss the importance of community, teaching kids to regulate their emotions, and the lessons learned from life's challenges. Kristy shares her vision for helping the next generation develop the tools they need to navigate their feelings and experiences, emphasizing the need for a supportive environment. In this conversation, Tiffany discusses the complexities of parenting, emphasizing the importance of recognizing our own wounds and how they influence our parenting styles. She advocates for the power of apologizing to children and breaking generational chains of behavior. Tiffany also highlights the significance of embracing differences in children, fostering a compassionate environment, and creating a mindful community through her work at Ground & Center. Additionally, she shares her journey of creating a comfortable home and the joy of learning through home projects, all while promoting authenticity in social media sharing. Check out Christy on IG: @our.comfy.abode Check out our Instagram and Tiktok: @spiritandsoulstudio Tiffany's instagram: @heyimtiffanymarie Shop and sign up for classes here: www.spiritandsoulstudio.com Download our Intention Meditation App here https://www.spiritandsoulstudio.com/intention
Thank you so much for listening to the Bob Harden Show, celebrating nearly 14 years broadcasting on the internet. On Tuesday's show, we visit with our Florida State Senator Kathleen Passidomo about this week's Florida Legislative session. We visit with author Jim McTague about DOGE and the dearth of information provided on their web site. Boo Mortenson and I discuss “AI,” and the negative influence it's having through social media on children and their development. We also visit Linda Harden about polling and the false narrative they create about Trump; we also discuss Tucker Carlson's latest shocking interview with Catherine Austin Fitts about the Bank of International Settlements and secret underground bases across the U.S. Please join us tomorrow when we visit with Chairman Emeritus of Cato Institute Bob Levy and Professor Andrew Joppa. Access this or past shows at your convenience on my web site, social media platforms or podcast platforms.
Thank you so much for listening to the Bob Harden Show, celebrating nearly 14 years broadcasting on the internet. On Tuesday's show, we visit with our Florida State Senator Kathleen Passidomo about this week's Florida Legislative session. We visit with author Jim McTague about DOGE and the dearth of information provided on their web site. … The post Artificial Intelligence, Social Media, and Childhood Development appeared first on Bob Harden Show.
Send us a text- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreMen's brains are configured very differently when it comes to a response to sex. There are 3 areas to know about - which are over twice the capacity of the female:The Medial Pre-optic Area (MPOA): Is an area of the Hypothalamus that regulates various physiological and behavioural processes. The MPOA is packed with twice as many neurones and density. Since it has a larger capacity in males, this is why males tend to be more visually stimulated and do more 'objectification'.The Third Interstitial nucleus of the Anterior Hypothalamus (INAH 3) - the seat of human sexuality - also contains twice as many neurones in males and occupies a greater volume than females, regardless of age.The Amygdala is also twice as big in males. It is the brain's command and control area. (I call it the 'Smoke alarm in the kitchen which goes off when you burn toast'); the Amygdala detects loss of homeostasis and triggers a 'Fight/Fight/Freeze' protective response in the Limbic brain.All of these processes are reactive to testosterone. Remember that Testosterone is (on average) 20 times more in males than in females. Sex Hormone Binding Globulin (SHBG) binds and carries/transports sex hormones like Oestrogen, Testosterone and Androgens to the organs where they are needed. Therefore regulating the proportion of sex hormones that are available to the body. Different events (like a disease process) can cause SHBG levels to rise and become too high or too low. Women have 13 times more SHBG than men.Essentially, a mismatch between males and females (in the working of the brain) during sex. Listen to the rest of the audio to piece together how this all impacts the personality of the sexes during hook ups and arousal.Get some help from The Kairos Centre. See what you cannot see. Begin to change that which you begin to better understand.Here is my fund raising page. Help someone access the Recovery Programme: https://igg.me/at/ThekairosCentreGet the help you need: bit.ly/pornaddictionhelpWorld's first Online Sex, Porn, Love Addiction video-on-demand Recovery Programme. Gary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction | Love Addiction | Porn Causes | Recover from Addiction | Self-Soothing Behaviors | Childhood Trauma | Inner Child work | Childhood Development and Addiction bullying | Porn Addiction Recovery | Abuse | Sexual Abuse | Sex Addiction Recovery | Domestic Violence | Family Conflict | Overcoming Porn addiction | Porn Addiction Side effects | Porn Addiction Symptoms | Emotional Neglect | Quit Porn Addiction | Peer Pressure | Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety | Stress | Mental Health and Addiction | Dissociation | Anger | Husband has porn | Recovery Program | 12 Steps Program | EMDR | Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing | Compulsive Behavior | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online Therapy | The Kairos Centre | Neuroscience of Addiction | Porn Addiction Help | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Authentic Self Discovery | Compulsive Behaviors | Intimacy Issues | Sexual Dysfunction | Obsessive Thoughts | Fantasy Escape | Codependency | Shame in Addiction | Guilt in Addiction | Addiction in Relationship | Infidelity | Therapy for Addiction | Objectification | Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry | Attachment Styles | Sexual Compulsivity | Behavioral Therapy | Relapse Prevention | Emotional Regulation | Self-Discovery | Healing Journeys | Personal Growth | Intimacy Building | Healthy Relationsh
Send us a text- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreAlcohol consumption raises women's testosterone levels. Same for men, but with excess, men's levels start to decrease. Not so for women.Women are not use to the effects of such higher levels of testosterone and so a young woman can become a very different sexual being, because of the effects on her sex drive. That is enhanced if she is near her ovulatory window.During their ovulatory window, women are more likely to dress more provocatively and flirtatious. They may not be self aware, as it is an unconscious process.Female anatomy makes them more vulnerable to STIs. The vagina lends itself to bacterial growth and on average, women have a risk increase of 8 times more likelihood of contracting HIV. The risk is 17 times higher during anal sex.Younger and early years sexual behaviours affect women's future health. The risk of uterine, vaginal and cervical cancer is increased. Minimal or no breast feeding raises the likelihood of longer term ovarian cancer.(Interestly data. Don't shoot the messenger will you)?Get some help from The Kairos Centre. See what you cannot see. Begin to change that which you begin to better understand.Give a little to my fund raising page. Help someone access the Recovery Programme: https://igg.me/at/ThekairosCentreGet help: bit.ly/pornaddictionhelpThe world's first Online Sex, Porn, Love Addiction video-on-demand Recovery Programme. Email info@kairos-centre.comGary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction | Love Addiction | Porn Causes | Recover from Addiction | Self-Soothing Behaviors | Childhood Trauma | Inner Child work | Childhood Development and Addiction bullying | Porn Addiction Recovery | Abuse | Sexual Abuse | Sex Addiction Recovery | Domestic Violence | Family Conflict | Overcoming Porn addiction | Porn Addiction Side effects | Porn Addiction Symptoms | Emotional Neglect | Quit Porn Addiction | Peer Pressure | Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety | Stress | Mental Health and Addiction | Dissociation | Anger | Husband has porn | Recovery Program | 12 Steps Program | EMDR | Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing | Compulsive Behavior | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online Therapy | The Kairos Centre | Neuroscience of Addiction | Porn Addiction Help | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Authentic Self Discovery | Compulsive Behaviors | Intimacy Issues | Sexual Dysfunction | Obsessive Thoughts | Fantasy Escape | Codependency | Shame in Addiction | Guilt in Addiction | Addiction in Relationship | Infidelity | Therapy for Addiction | Objectification | Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry | Attachment Styles | Sexual Compulsivity | Behavioral Therapy | Relapse Prevention | Emotional Regulation | Self-Discovery | Healing Journeys | Personal Growth | Intimacy Building | Healthy Relationships | Empowerment | obsessive Thoughts | Minfulness | Self compassion | Psychoeducation | Intimacy building
Send us a text- On-Demand Programme Link - https://mailchi.mp/bb2a7b851246/kairos-centreIn all your getting, get understanding: Men see female promiscuity as a deal breaker. If a man finds that a woman is not sexually active, he will intuitively feel that she is more likely to be faithful. Sexual integrity and sexual loyalty, is the most valued traits in a women, when a man is considering asking her to marry him."Female Choice" and " Paternity Certainty" are significant issues. "Female Choice" is something about the qualities a female is looking for in a long term male partner. Such things like - is he likely to be around, when she is pregnant; carrying the baby and able to hunt and look after them and ensure survival."Paternity Certainty" is about men needing to know that the female is trustworthy. She is the only one that will truly know whether the baby she is carrying, is actually his baby. Therefore, he needs to choose someone who is trustworthy and not promiscuous.So, men categorise females: Are they 'easy' sexually? or are they 'for a good time' only. If they are not 'easy', then they may be categorised in the 'potential marriage partner' category. Most females don't know this dynamic is happening.After sexual intercourse, a woman's evaluation of a man may go up. That is because of the effects of Dopamine and Oxytocin in her metabolism. She gets lots of those bonding hormones during sex.So females are more likely bonding, but males are less likely to be bonding in situations where the Sex is 'easy' and/or 'promiscuous'.Males evaluation of her is likely to be going down within 10 seconds of his ejaculation. The converse may be happening for the female. Her evaluation of him may be going up, due to the effects of the hormones in her body.Folks, the 'Madonna-Whore Complex' is alive and well.Give a little to my fund raising page. Help someone access the Recovery Programme: https://igg.me/at/ThekairosCentreGet help: bit.ly/pornaddictionhelpThe world's first Online Sex, Porn, Love Addiction video-on-demand Recovery Programme. Email info@kairos-centre.comGary McFarlane (BA, LLM, Dip, Certs), Accredited EMDR Practitioner.Episode Keywords: Sex Addiction | Porn Addiction | Love Addiction | Porn Causes | Recover from Addiction | Self-Soothing Behaviors | Childhood Trauma | Inner Child work | Childhood Development and Addiction bullying | Porn Addiction Recovery | Abuse | Sexual Abuse | Sex Addiction Recovery | Domestic Violence | Family Conflict | Overcoming Porn addiction | Porn Addiction Side effects | Porn Addiction Symptoms | Emotional Neglect | Quit Porn Addiction | Peer Pressure | Performance Pressure | Separation | Divorce | Fear | Anxiety | Stress | Mental Health and Addiction | Dissociation | Anger | Husband has porn | Recovery Program | 12 Steps Program | EMDR | Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing | Compulsive Behavior | Trauma Healing | Neuroplasticity | Online Therapy | The Kairos Centre | Neuroscience of Addiction | Porn Addiction Help | Sex Addiction Recovery Program | Authentic Self Discovery | Compulsive Behaviors | Intimacy Issues | Sexual Dysfunction | Obsessive Thoughts | Fantasy Escape | Codependency | Shame in Addiction | Guilt in Addiction | Addiction in Relationship | Infidelity | Therapy for Addiction | Objectification | Hypersexualization | Pornography Industry | Attachment Styles | Sexual Compulsivity | Behavioral Therapy | Relapse Prevention | Emotional Regulation | Self-Discovery | Healing Journeys | Personal Growth | Intimacy Building | Healthy Re
Clement Manyathela speaks to Ilana Gerschlowitz, an Autism expert and MD of The Star Academy and author of the book Saving my Sons: A Journey with Autism to discuss what autism is, symptoms thereof, the misconception and how people with autism can navigate the world.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
You think you're helping your kid. You clear the path. You smooth the bumps. You make sure they never feel too sad, too bored, too uncomfortable. It feels like love. But what if it's making them weak? In this episode, Dave Asprey sits down with bestselling author, TED speaker, and resilience expert Jennifer Cohen to reveal how today's parenting norms are quietly producing the most anxious, dependent, and emotionally fragile generation in history—Gen Z. Whether you're raising kids, managing young employees, or trying to understand the next generation—you'll walk away from this episode with a new lens on resilience, responsibility, and real-world readiness. What You'll Learn in This Episode: • Why Gen Z struggles with anxiety, confidence, and failure • How smartphones, safe spaces, and overparenting weaken resilience • The science behind boredom, chores, and grit-building discomfort • Why participation trophies are doing real psychological harm • The bold parenting shifts that build strong, adaptable adults • How to model strength—even when it's unpopular • The simple framework to raise kids who can thrive, not just survive If you want to raise strong kids—or work with a generation that's struggling—this episode is a must-listen. It's not just about parenting. It's about the future. And it starts with getting uncomfortable. SPONSORS -Quantum Upgrade | Go to https://quantumupgrade.io/Dave for a free trial. -Qualia | Go to https://www.qualialife.com/dave15 to get an additional 15% off subscriptions. Resources: • A Day of Biohacking and Consciousness Even (4/12): https://daveasprey.com/biohacking-and-consciousness/ • Dave Asprey's New Book - Heavily Meditated: https://daveasprey.com/heavily-meditated/ • Jennifer's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealjencohen/ • Jennifer's Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBuPgI8lXTmy5T0D_EDMnVg • Jennifer's Website: https://www.jennifercohen.com/ • Danger Coffee: https://dangercoffee.com • Dave Asprey's Website: https://daveasprey.com • Dave Asprey's Linktree: https://linktr.ee/daveasprey • Upgrade Collective – Join The Human Upgrade Podcast Live: https://www.ourupgradecollective.com • Own an Upgrade Labs: https://ownanupgradelabs.com • Upgrade Labs: https://upgradelabs.com • 40 Years of Zen – Neurofeedback Training for Advanced Cognitive Enhancement: https://40yearsofzen.com Timestamps: • 00:00 – Trailer • 01:59 – Intro • 03:38 – The Shift in Parenting Styles • 07:04 – The Role of Technology and Social Media • 10:59 – The Importance of Failure and Resilience • 13:38 – Practical Parenting Tips and Challenges • 24:06 – The Value of Chores and Responsibility • 26:24 – Balancing Luxury and Adversity in Parenting • 27:01 – Teaching Kids to Embrace Failure • 28:00 – The 10% Target: Encouraging Persistence • 29:35 – The Importance of Boredom and Creativity • 30:58 – Role Modeling Healthy Habits • 31:43 – Kids' Reactions to Fast Food • 32:49 – Extreme Parenting: Biohacking and Kids • 36:30 – Rejection Therapy and Boldness • 42:42 – Praising Effort Over Intelligence • 45:32 – Challenges of Being Attractive and Intelligent • 49:31 – Instilling Self-Esteem in Children • 50:13 – Conclusion and Final Thoughts See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Kid's Failing Are Your Failures!In Ep250 of The 'NEW' Marriage, we explore the tough truth about parenting—when your kids struggle, it's often a reflection of your own shortcomings. Are you leading by example? Are you providing the guidance, discipline, and emotional support they need? Let's discuss the responsibility parents carry in shaping their children's future.
Brandon Alvarez breaks down the $250,000 post office scam he ran as a Latin King, how the operation worked, and what led to his downfall. #FinancialFraud #ScamExposed #PostalScam #MoneyLaundering #TrueCrime #WhiteCollarCrime #LawEnforcement #CrimeAndConsequences Hosted, Executive Produced & Edited By Ian Bick: https://www.instagram.com/ian_bick/?hl=en https://ianbick.com/ Presented by Tyson 2.0 & Wooooo Energy: https://tyson20.com/ https://woooooenergy.com/ Buy Merch: https://convictclothing.net/collections/convict-clothing-x-ian-bick Timestamps: 00:00:00 Growing Up in Brooklyn: A Different Era 00:05:04 The Role of Fathers in Childhood Development 00:10:19 Struggles and Survival as a Teenager 00:15:16 Credit Card Fraud: The Unforeseen Consequences 00:20:00 Navigating Cash App Scams and Frauds 00:24:52 Inside the Foot Locker Scam 00:29:44 Exposing a Government Fraud Scheme 00:35:22 Sentencing and Legal Challenges 00:40:23 Life Inside a Mississippi Prison: Chaos and Survival 00:45:01 Life Inside Prison: Adapting to Cash App Economy 00:50:28 Navigating Tax Responsibilities in Marriage 00:55:11 Gang Dynamics in Federal Prisons 00:59:46 Preparing Mungo: A Unique Prison Dish 01:04:24 Prison Fights and Reputation 01:09:10 Life Inside an Open Bay Dormitory 01:14:07 Overcoming Temptation and Staying on Track Powered by: Just Media House : https://www.justmediahouse.com/ Creative direction, design, assets, support by FWRD: https://www.fwrd.co Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
It's time to build your family's future on a foundation of true health and freedom. Join us at Future Foundations—because your future generations deserve the best start to the mission that will outlive us… Check it out here. Use code FREEDOM25 for 25% off! Whether you're looking for tinctures, topicals or teas or a deeper connection to your INNATE healing capacity, Noble Task Homestead is here to serve you. Join the movement. Visit NobleTaskHomestead.com/noblestan today and enjoy a 10% discount on your order. San Diego area residents, take advantage of our special New Patient offer exclusively for podcast listeners here. We can't wait to experience miracles with you! In today's episode, Dr. Stanton Hom welcomes Talia Likeitis, a prominent California medical freedom activist turned homesteader. In this powerful episode, Talia shares her remarkable journey from fighting vaccine mandates in California to establishing a 160-acre homestead off grid in Middle America. She discusses her family's transition to self-sufficiency, the importance of natural healing, and how they've created Noble Task Homestead - a testament to resilience, faith, and reconnecting with nature's abundant resources. About Talia Likeitis: Talia Likeitis has been a medical freedom advocate since 2011. She left CA in 2016 after the "burn out" of advocating, and since 2020 has been homesteading with her family in pursuit of a more self-sufficient life in middle America. Talia & her husband Jeff spend most of their days sharing the many failures and trials of gaining back the multi-generational skillsets that were not taught to them, with the hopes that many of these skillsets are passed on to their children. The goal is to have less dependence on the system and more dependence on God as He provides in abundance if we just take the time to stop with the busyness of life and notice. Connect with Talia: Instagram: instagram.com/talia_likeitis instagram.com/nobletaskhomestead website: nobletaskhomestead.com Highlights: "The only decisions I've ever regretted in my life were the decisions based on fear." "Wherever I'm placed or planted, I don't think there's any coincidences." "The real luxury in life is being left alone and having that privacy." "If you just work at getting a little bit better every day, focusing on a new skill, you don't even have the time to worry about that kind of stuff." "God is listening to these prayers, and he will open these doors for people." Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 06:48 The Seed of Vaccine Awareness 13:29 The Silent Epidemic of Childhood Development 22:18 Building Noble Task Homestead 30:42 Land as a Source of Abundance 45:08 Overcoming Bitterness and Finding Gratitude 56:34 Envisioning a Self-Sufficient Future 1:08:02 Personal Transformation and Growth 1:13:00 Challenges of Living in California 1:17:30 Reflections on Freedom and Faith Resources: Remember to Rate, Review, and Subscribe on iTunes and Follow us on Spotify! 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Send us a textIn this conversation, Linda H Flanagan and Jessica Hochman explore the complexities of youth sports today, discussing the pressures faced by young athletes, advocating for a more balanced approach to youth athletics. We discuss the importance of exercise, the risks of early specialization, and the mental health implications of competitive sports. The discussion emphasizes the need for free play, the debunking of myths surrounding sports and character building, and the design of an ideal sports curriculum that prioritizes enjoyment and well-being over competition. A really important conversation, especially for parents who have children involved in sports! About Linda:Linda is a freelance journalist, researcher, and former cross-country and track coach. A graduate of Lehigh University, Flanagan holds master's degrees from Oxford University and the Fletcher School of Law & Diplomacy and was an analyst for the National Security Program at Harvard University. She is a founding board member of the New York City chapter of the Positive Coaching Alliance and a 2020–21 advisory group member for the Aspen Institute's Reimagining School Sports initiative, and her writing on sports has appeared in The Atlantic, Runner's World, and on NPR's education site MindShift, where she is a regular contributor. A mother of three and a lifelong athlete, Flanagan lives in New Jersey.Linda's website: click here www.lindaflandiganauthor.comTo read her book, Take Back the Game: How Money and Mania are Ruining Kids' Sports--and Why it Matters: click hereDr Jessica Hochman is a board certified pediatrician, mom to three children, and she is very passionate about the health and well being of children. Most of her educational videos are targeted towards general pediatric topics and presented in an easy to understand manner. For more content from Dr Jessica Hochman:Instagram: @AskDrJessicaYouTube channel: Ask Dr JessicaWebsite: www.askdrjessicamd.com-For a plant-based, USDA Organic certified vitamin supplement, check out : Llama Naturals Vitamin and use discount code: DRJESSICA20-To test your child's microbiome and get recommendations, check out: Tiny Health using code: DRJESSICA Do you have a future topic you'd like Dr Jessica Hochman to discuss? Email Dr Jessica Hochman askdrjessicamd@gmail.com.The information presented in Ask Dr Jessica is for general educational purposes only. She does not diagnose medical conditions or formulate treatment plans for specific individuals. If you have a concern about your child's health, be sure to call your child's health care provider.
In this deeply moving episode, Uri Schneider reunites with former client Naomi Zauderer, now a clinical social worker in Tel Aviv. Naomi shares her journey from being a confident, outgoing child to experiencing the "rock bottom" of her stuttering in middle school, and ultimately transforming into a therapist who helps others process and heal. Naomi reveals how drawing cartoons externalized her overwhelming experiences, making them tangible and even humorous. She recalls the pivotal moment of her bat mitzvah speech and how finding her father's supportive gaze gave her the courage to continue despite her stutter. Their conversation highlights the powerful "Daddy Naomi Radio" ritual that created a special bonding space between father and daughter. The turning point came in ninth grade when Naomi discovered that by shifting focus away from stuttering and celebrating moments of fluency, she experienced dramatic improvement. This revelation about the power of perspective became the foundation for her professional path in therapy. This episode offers profound insights for anyone facing challenges: look beyond the problem to see solutions, recognize that you are more than your struggles, and understand that adversity can unlock special knowledge that becomes your greatest asset. For parents and educators, Naomi emphasizes the importance of focusing on what children say rather than how they say it, and protecting the innate self-confidence children are born with A must-listen for anyone interested in personal transformation, the psychology of communication, and the journey from getting help to giving help. TIMESTAMPS 00:00:00 - Introduction of Naomi Zauderer and her current role 00:01:54 - Naomi describes her "rock bottom" with stuttering in middle school 00:03:23 - Naomi's personality as a young child before stuttering became an issue 00:05:16 - Formative experiences in school and avoidance strategies 00:08:00 - The stuttering iceberg metaphor explained 00:10:00 - How drawing cartoons helped externalize overwhelming experiences 00:15:26 - Naomi's bat mitzvah speech experience and intense anxiety 00:20:00 - Finding Uri in the audience and gaining courage to continue 00:23:13 - The "Daddy Naomi Radio" show as a bonding experience 00:27:12 - The turning point in ninth grade with social and academic pressures 00:28:05 - Stuttering as a scapegoat for other challenges 00:30:08 - How focusing less on stuttering led to more fluency 00:40:11 - The pizza analogy: reducing the proportion of stuttering in identity 00:42:00 - Patch Adams story: looking beyond the problem to see solutions 00:47:48 - The "secret knowledge" gained through adversity 00:50:21 - Naomi's journey to becoming a therapist 00:51:53 - Addressing underlying shame and beliefs beyond fluency 00:54:34 - What Naomi would tell her younger self: "You're so much more than your stuttering" 00:55:57 - Advice for parents, teachers, and employers: focus on content, not delivery 00:57:10 - Closing reflections on protecting children's innate self-confidence ABOUT THE HOST Uri Schneider, M.A. CCC -SLP is co-founder and leader at Schneider Speech; creator and host of Transcending Stuttering; and faculty at the University of California, Riverside School of Medicine. SEE ALL SHOW NOTES http://www.transcendingx.com/podcast LEARN MORE Visit http://www.transcendingx.com or http://www.schneiderspeech.com
Tika Sumpter has done it all, and she joins the show to share about her journey as a mother, actress, and creator. She dishes on the deep conversations she had with Jim Carrey on the set of the “Sonic” films, and creating content focused on emotional intelligence for kids with her podcast “Adventures of Curiosity Cove” and her book “I Got It From My Mama.” Plus, she discusses the importance of emotional repair in relationships, and how her creative projects spark meaningful conversations with her daughter.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
This podcast will discuss the CPS state on Healthy Childhood Development Through Outdoor Risky Play. The podcast was created by Emily Cheung, a third-year medical student at McMaster University. This podcast was created with Dr. Emilie Beaulieu, a pediatrician in Quebec City. This PedsCases podcast focuses on the role of outdoor risky play in children's health and development, emphasizing its value in preventing and managing common issues like obesity, anxiety, and behavioral problems.
In this episode of the ChangeMakers Podcast, host Andrew Bartolotta sits down with Dr. Stewart Burgess, CEO of the Children's Museum of Memphis (CMOM). With over 25 years dedicated to childhood development, Dr. Burgess shares his fascinating journey—from early inspirations in childhood to groundbreaking research in emotional and cognitive processes—and how it all culminates in his leadership at CMOM.Dr. Burgess discusses the importance of play in childhood learning, how emotions influence memory and suggestibility, and the impact of enriching environments on brain development. He provides an in-depth look at CMOM's innovative exhibits, including the newly launched Mississippi River exhibit and upcoming STEAM-focused learning spaces. Dr. Burgess also highlights CMOM's efforts to ensure accessibility for all families, working collaboratively with organizations like Porter-Leath and St. Jude to provide enriching experiences for underserved communities.Listeners will be inspired by Dr. Burgess' passion for education, his vision for the future of early childhood learning, and his dedication to fostering creativity, innovation, and equity in the Greater Memphis area. Whether you're a parent, educator, or community member, this episode will leave you with actionable insights on how to inspire and empower the next generation. The ChangeMakers Podcast is produced by cityCURRENT and powered by Higginbotham Insurance and Financial Services. Be inspired by more positive media by following cityCURRENT here: www.cityCURRENT.com
On today's episode, Melina McConnell sheds light on why having a shared vision goes beyond just love and how it can help partners understand and work with each other better. We discuss practical strategies for maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Together, we explore the idea of creating an "operator's manual" to understand each other's triggers, protecting the couple's connection from external distractions, and the role of self-awareness in conflict resolution. Whether you're navigating relationship challenges or looking to deepen your partnership, this episode is packed with insights to help you thrive.Join us as we explore how to strengthen the bond between you and your partner by understanding each other's needs, fostering open communication, and addressing unresolved issues. We'll dive into techniques for managing conflicts, strategies for staying connected amid life's demands, and the power of self-energy in maintaining a grounded relationship. So if you're ready to take your relationship to the next level, join us for this amazing conversations.Key Themes Discussed:- Somatic Therapy & The Nervous System- The importance of a shared vision for relationship success- Understanding and managing personal and partner triggers- Techniques to protect the couple's connection from external distractions- The concept of self-energy and its role in maintaining a grounded relationshipTimestamps:05:30 Infant-Caretaker Dynamics23:30 The importance of checking in with our self37:30 The difficult of being attuned when we are triggered47:30 Creating an "operator's manual" for your partnerWant to transform your relationship and take it to the next level?Join my online course here.My Socials:Nick Solaczek on InstagramNick Solaczek on YouTubeNick Solaczek on Facebook
In this episode of The Experience Miracles podcast, Dr. Tony Ebel discusses the five key factors that can hold children back from getting optimal results in their therapies and interventions. He explains why the sequence and timing of different therapies matter and how nervous system regulation plays a fundamental role in therapy success. Dr. Ebel shares insights from his nearly 20 years of experience in helping children heal and provides practical advice for parents and practitioners.-- Follow us on Socials: Instagram: @pxdocs Facebook: Dr. Tony Ebel & The PX Docs Network Youtube: The PX Docs For more information, visit PXDocs.com to read informative articles about the power of Neurologically-Focused Chiropractic Care. To watch Dr. Tony's 30 min Perfect Storm Webinar: Click Here Find a PX Doc Office near me: PX DOCS Directory Subscribe, share, and stay tuned for more incredible episodes unpacking the power of Nervous System focused care for children!
When identifying triggers, labels, diagnoses and challenges, it is a great practice to write down the ways you might start the process of addressing and overcoming these. Try sharing the experience with your kids, too!Are labels, diagnoses and excuses preventing you from healing? This is the second episode in a three-part series where you'll learn the impact of avoiding responsibility on your health and children, how to strengthen resilience through accountability, six ways to start taking ownership of your well-being, and why modelling these changes can shape future generations.Timestamps:[03:00] Why responsibility matters for parents [04:28] Generational patterns of avoiding challenges [05:44] Addressing societal shifts in parenting [06:37] How unresolved issues affect kids [07:27] The long-term impact of unaddressed trauma [08:17] Why healing benefits future generations [09:01] The importance of progress over perfection [09:27] Teaching responsibility through actions [10:16] Modeling conflict resolution for kids [12:19] The consequences of poor communication skills [14:07] How unresolved trauma affects relationships [15:35] Choosing personal growth over staying stuck [17:03] Why shielding kids from discomfort is harmful [18:18] Parenting examples of overprotection [19:21] The problem with changing rules for convenience [20:28] Encouraging resilience through exposure [22:03] Developing grit in children through experiences [23:41] The shift in accountability for grades [24:58] Why entitlement undermines growth [26:41] Focusing on healing as a priority for moms [27:13] The message kids learn from parental avoidance [28:16] How to model accountability to children [29:24] Teaching character and grit to kids [30:03] Viewing triggers as opportunities for growth [31:04] How taking responsibility builds resilience [33:11] The role of oxytocin in mindset changes [34:12] Using personal stories as teaching tools [35:04] Teaching kids to honour commitments [36:12] How adversity teaches work ethic [37:19] The impact of modelling perseverance [38:24] Shifting mindset, beliefs, and identity [39:19] Using labels for context, not identity [40:29] The power of admitting when you are wrong [41:15] Communicating feelings and needs effectively [42:58] Viewing conflict as an opportunity [43:52] Why accountability changes outcomes [45:01] Ending the cycle of avoidance in parenting [47:03] Taking action for change and accountabilityFind More From Dr. Stephanie Davis:Thrive Mama Tribe | WebsiteThrive Mama Tribe | InstagramThrive Mama Tribe | Skool
Pulling kids away from screens when so much of their world revolves around them can feel like a constant struggle. Everywhere you look, technology is the default, and it's easy for nature to take a backseat. You want them to experience the simple joys of being outside, but it's hard to compete with the pull of games, videos, and apps. Sometimes it feels less like a battle and more like figuring out how to balance two very different worlds. Ginny Yurich is the founder of the 1000 Hours Outside movement and the author of the upcoming book "Homeschooling, You're Doing it Right, Just by Doing It." As a former public school teacher, Ginny witnessed firsthand the shift towards more academics and less play in the education system. Today, Ginny shares her thoughts on the cognitive, physical, and character-building advantages of letting kids explore and be "bored" outdoors. Join in as young leaders pose inquiries about life, personal development, and beyond! Quotes: “You need to understand that even if you know it's right, and it truly is what's best for kids, the purpose of the institution is not to serve your individual child or family. Its primary goal is to sustain itself.” – Ginny Yurich “We often think the purpose of childhood is to become an adult, but it's actually to experience being a child.” – Ginny Yurich “I firmly believe that by choosing to homeschool, you're making many right choices, simply by stepping out of a system that isn't conducive to child development.” – Ginny Yurich “A man who views the world the same at 50 as he did at 20 has wasted 30 years of his life.” – Matt Beaudreau Takeaways: Incorporate more unstructured outdoor play and exploration into your family's daily routine, even if it means letting go of some structured activities. Challenge the traditional education system's priorities and consider alternatives that nurture your child's development. Embrace the gift of boredom and allow your children to cultivate their own imagination and problem-solving skills. Build a supportive community of like-minded families to help with prioritizing outdoor time and alternative education. Regularly review your family's priorities and make adjustments to ensure you're in an environment that aligns with your values and your children's needs. Conclusion: Nurturing a child's imagination and allowing time for boredom are essential for developing creativity and independent thinking. We can help children develop a deeper connection with the world around them by prioritizing outdoor activities and exploring alternative education. Building a supportive community is key to navigating this unconventional path and encouraging these values. Ultimately, these practices promote a well-rounded, enriching experience that supports both personal growth and learning.
We are joined by Dr. Jessica Hawkes, a leading child and adolescent psychologist from Children's Hospital Colorado and Associate Professor at the University of Colorado. Together, we explore the critical role mental health plays in students' overall development, academic success and well-being from early childhood through adolescence. This is part one of a two part series on mental health in K-12 education. Dr. Hawkes shares her professional journey and provides practical advice for parents and educators to recognize the early signs of mental health challenges, foster resilience and support children in navigating life's emotional ups and downs. We discuss key strategies, from strengthening the parent-child relationship through presence and play in early years, to finding the balance between guiding and granting independence to teens. Whether you're a parent seeking to better support your child or an educator aiming to enhance classroom dynamics, this episode offers invaluable insights for promoting mental health and well-being at every stage of a student's journey. Tune in to learn how mental health is integral to education—and how we can all work together to create a healthier future for our students. Come back next week as we continue the conversation about emotional regulation and resilience.
11/7/24 - Dr. Jack Stockwell, www.forbiddendoctor.com & www.jackstockwell.com | Phone: 866-867-5070, shares the differences of commercial formula vs breastmilk, benefits of breastmilk, why fat-content is important for babies, the importance of immune boosting nutrients for newborns, what baby formula is lacking, and more. Then, Doug joins Dr. Jack to discuss nocturnal leg cramps and why you need to monitor your calcium intake. Website: GoodDayHealthShow.comSocial Media: @GoodDayNetworks
From philosophy student and activist to pioneer in early childhood intervention approaches for therapists, Karen Kangas takes us on a journey of developing clinical excellence. She is an occupational therapists with over 50 years of experience, specializing in pediatrics, seating, and augmentative and alternative communication (AAC). She has particular knowledge and expertise in working with children with significant disabilities, particularly those with dystonia and dystonic cerebral palsy. Karen beautifully bridges the gap between ‘old school' hands on approaches and a more contemporary hands-off focus on participation and real-life activities and engagement. We cover seating and positioning, standing, walking and appropriate equipment use, developing clinical skills, the magic of the barrier vest and understanding movement patterns. You'll find links to everything we discussed at https://www.wiredondevelopment.com Enjoy!
From philosophy student and activist to pioneer in early childhood intervention approaches for therapists, Karen Kangas takes us on a journey of developing clinical excellence. She is an occupational therapists with over 50 years of experience, specializing in pediatrics, seating, and augmentative and alternative communication (AAC). She has particular knowledge and expertise in working with children with significant disabilities, particularly those with dystonia and dystonic cerebral palsy. Karen beautifully bridges the gap between ‘old school' hands on approaches and a more contemporary hands-off focus on participation and real-life activities and engagement. We cover seating and positioning, standing, walking and appropriate equipment use, developing clinical skills, the magic of the barrier vest and understanding movement patterns. You'll find links to everything we discussed at https://www.wiredondevelopment.com Enjoy!
In this episode of the Experience Miracles podcast, Dr. Tony Ebel delves into the topic of nervous system dysregulation in children's health and development. He explains the concept of nervous system dysregulation, its widespread impact on various bodily functions, and its role in many childhood conditions. Dr. Ebel discusses the signs and symptoms of dysregulation from infancy through childhood and explores the "Perfect Storm" of factors contributing to this issue, including prenatal stress, birth trauma, and environmental toxins. He emphasizes the limitations of conventional treatments and highlights the transformative potential of Neurologically-Focused Chiropractic Care in addressing nervous system dysregulation. [00:00] Introduction to nervous system dysregulation and its importance[03:45] Definition of nervous system dysregulation and its impact on health[07:30] Signs and symptoms of dysregulation in infantsPlagiocephaly and torticollisBreastfeeding difficultiesSleep issues and colic[14:15] Signs of dysregulation in toddlers and young childrenChronic illness and weak immune systemDevelopmental delaysSensory processing issues[20:00] The "Perfect Storm" concept and causes of nervous system dysregulationPreconception and prenatal stressBirth traumaEnvironmental toxins[28:30] Link between nervous system dysregulation and conditions like autism, ADHD, and seizures[33:45] Common approaches to addressing dysregulation (PT, OT, speech therapy) and their limitations[38:00] The importance of neurologically focused chiropractic care in treating dysregulation[43:30] Holistic approaches to supporting nervous system regulation (sleep routines, diet, supplements)[48:15] The transformative power of addressing nervous system dysregulation through chiropractic care[53:00] Call to action: Finding a PX doc and sharing the message[56:30] Closing thoughts on the impact of nervous system focused care on families-- Follow us on Socials: Instagram: @pxdocs Facebook: Dr. Tony Ebel & The PX Docs Network Youtube: The PX Docs For more information, visit PXDocs.com to read informative articles about the power of Neurologically-Focused Chiropractic Care. To attend the next live Webinar: https://www.thepxdocs.com Find a PX Doc Office near me: PX DOCS Directory Subscribe, share, and stay tuned for more incredible episodes unpacking the power of Nervous System focused care for children!
The Love, Happiness and Success Podcast With Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Ever feel like the love, support, or security you needed growing up was just… missing? And now, you're feeling the effects in your relationships, your self-esteem, or even your ability to create the life you *really* want? If this hits home, don't worry—you're not stuck! This week I'm joined by THE legendary Dr. Dan Siegel, and we're diving deep into the powerful process of reparenting yourself. Together, we're going to show you how to rewire your brain for emotional healing, break free from past patterns, and build healthy, fulfilling relationships. ✨ In this episode, you'll learn: - How childhood experiences shape your adult life (but don't define it!) - The healing power of contingent communication in relationships - Practical strategies like the *Wheel of Awareness* for personal growth - The importance of presence over perfection in parenting—and in life! Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Emotional Healing 02:41 The Importance of Childhood Development 06:29 Understanding Contingent Communication 13:55 The Impact of Early Experiences on Adult Life 14:31 Healing from the Past 20:12 Developing Healthier Relationship Patterns 21:19 Understanding Temperament and Personality 23:35 The Enneagram and Attachment Insecurity (Really!) 27:09 Practical Techniques for Personal Growth 30:25 The Role of Agency, Bonding, and Certainty 35:33 Achieving Wholeness and Integration 38:26 Resources and Final Thoughts
Episode Highlights With Eli HarwoodHow she had a body part eaten by a bear!What attachment theory is when it comes to parenting How the quality of our caregiving relationships in childhood affect our developmentWhat attachment figures are and why this mattersAttachment is the study of close relationshipsWhat the indicators of healthy attachment are and how to understand these relational patternsHow to help your child be securely attached to youBabies are born with a relatively developed limbic system but not a fully developed prefrontal cortex and why this matters because babies co-regulate with caregiversHow early childhood relational patterns can show up in adult relationships The four attachment patterns that can develop and how they developHow to become aware of your own relational and attachment style The most powerful thing we can do to improve our attachment patternsResources We MentionRaising Securely Attached Kids: Using Connection-Focused Parenting to Create Confidence, Empathy, and Resilience (Attachment Nerd) by Eli HarwoodEli Harwood - Website
oday, we are honored to welcome back to the podcast one of the most respected and influential health experts in the world, Chervin Jafarieh, who has committed his life's work to seeking knowledge and truth.In 2018, Chervin founded Cymbiotika—an innovative wellness company that designs sophisticated, organic nutritional formulations scientifically proven to increase vitality and longevity by filling the nutritional gaps from a typical modern-day diet.In this episode, Krista + Chervin will open your eyes to the power that lies within you to regain sovereignty of your body and life. They talk about parasites from a health, societal and energetic perspective—how they can take over your consciousness and entire being. Jam packed with unconventional insights, this is one you won't want to miss.Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast.With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes.Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday.If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify here and on Apple here.
Send us a textNatalie Dempsey had her daughter when she was 21 years old and has been navigating life as a single mom for the last 5 years. There are many stigmas/stereotypes attached to being a single mom, some good & some not so good. Some major topics discussed:- the challenges of having a child while in a struggling relationship- the sacrifices you have to make for a child, financially and emotionally- modern society's lack of family values & the high divorce/separation rate- how growing up in a divorced/separated household or witnessing a divorce/separation affects children- troubles with dating when you have a child
In this enlightening episode of "Coaching In Session," host Michael Rearden sits down with the remarkable Aliesha Embleton, a best-selling author, keynote speaker, trainer, mentor, and childhood development coach. Aliesha brings a wealth of experience and a passion for transforming lives through her innovative approaches to childhood training, education, and development.Since 2016, Aliesha has dedicated her career to the professional development of adults, reshaping the landscape of learning and growth. In a visionary expansion of her work, she now brings her expertise to childhood training, recognizing the profound impact early guidance and mentorship can have on a child's future. Combining her background in Behavioral Science, Psychology, and Human Resources, Aliesha offers a unique and holistic approach that addresses the developmental needs of children, setting them up for lifelong success.During this episode, Aliesha shares insights from her best-selling book, where she discusses current trends in children's lifestyles and offers strategies for building authentic, resilient, and spirited adults of tomorrow. Her commitment to personal and professional excellence shines through as she provides customized, individual approaches to childhood development, empowering both parents and children to unlock their full potential.Tune in to discover how Aliesha's pioneering methods in childhood development can transform your approach to parenting and education, ensuring a brighter future for the next generation.Aliesha EmbletonWebsite: Saplingminds.com.auFacebook: facebook.com/people/Sapling-Minds/61555457647507/YouTube: youtube.com/channel/UCLtk4B963seB0oSPylAqcmgLinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/aliesha-myors/___________________________________Michael ReardenWebsite: www.Revenconcepts.comReview, Follow, & Subscribe to the Podcast on your Favorite App: https://coachinginsession.buzzsprout.com/Support the Show: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1882580/supportInterested in working with me? Learn MoreEmail Me: Coachinginsession@gmail.com----------------------------------#ChildhoodDevelopment, #ChildhoodCoaching, #ParentingTips, #AlieshaEmbleton, #MichaelRearden, #CoachingInSession, #ChildhoodMentorship, #EducationInnovation, #ChildPsychology, #BehavioralScience, #ProfessionalDevelopment, #EarlyChildhoodEducation, #ChildhoodTraining, #TransformativeCoaching, #YouthEmpowerment, #FutureLeaders, #ResilientChildren, #HolisticDevelopment, #ChildhoodSuccess, #ParentingAdviceSend us a MessageSupport the showWebsite: www.Revenconcepts.com Email Us: Coachinginsession@gmail.com
Kennedy Dunn and Alicia Snowden, 3rd year medical students at Howard U discuss needs and what it means to be human in the 2nd episode of Stranger Fruit Vol II. Timestamps: 0:00 Transitioning in Medicine: From Surgery to Psychiatry 8:39 The Human Approach in Medicine: Mental Health and Resilience 14:45 Personal Reflections: Surgery, Psychiatry, and Growth 30:27 Childhood Development & Mental Health: Unmet Needs and Institutionalization 38:14 Personal Insights: Balancing Life, Career, and Overcoming Challenges References: Nelson, C. A., Fox, N. A., and Zeanah, C. H. (2014). Romania's abandoned children: Deprivation, brain development, and the struggle for recovery. Cambridge, MA, and London, England: Harvard University Press. Nelson III, C. A., Zeanah, C. H., Fox, N. A., Marshall, P. J., Smyke, A. T., and Guthrie, D. (2007). Cognitive recovery in socially deprived young children: the Bucharest Early Intervention Project. Science, 318(5858), 1937–2940. Intro Music: Bosch's Garden - by Kjartan Abel. This work is licensed under the following: CC BY-SA 4.0 Attribution-ShareAlike 4.0 International.
Naresh Vissa discusses his move from Baltimore to Tampa and his reasons for choosing Tampa as his new home. He also talks about his career in digital media and marketing, as well as his venture into real estate investing. Naresh shares his perspective on the Florida housing market and the opportunities it presents. He also discusses his experience as a parent and the challenges and joys of raising two young children. Naresh Vissa discusses the importance of early childhood development and the impact it has on raising confident and independent adults. He shares his own parenting philosophy and the activities he exposes his children to in order to instill passion, values, and principles. Naresh emphasizes the significance of sociability, self-sufficiency, and efficiency in raising adults. He also highlights the importance of confidence and likability in navigating through life. Naresh encourages fathers to be actively involved in their children's lives from a young age and to cherish every moment.About Guest, Naresh Vissa:Naresh Vissa is Founder and CEO of Krish Media & Marketing – a full service online and digital media and marketing agency. He has worked with leading publishers, media firms and institutions such as CNN Radio, JP Morgan Chase, EverBank, The Institute for Energy Research, Houston Rockets, Houston Astros, the American Junior Golf Association, Agora Publishing, and Stansberry Research.Naresh helped launch an online radio network generating six-figures in monthly revenue. He managed the production and marketing for the first online retail physical precious metals trading platform. He's a #1 bestselling author of PODCASTNOMICS: The Book Of Podcasting… To Make You Millions and has been featured on USA Today, Yahoo!, Bloomberg, MSNBC, Huffington Post, Business Week, MSN Money, Business Insider, India Today, and the Hindustan Times. He was also the Director of Media Strategy at the largest private and independent financial publisher in the world.In 2009, Naresh co-hosted the top-rated financial talk show in the Dallas/Fort Worth metropolis, The Wall Street Shuffle. He has booked more than 1,500 experts in the fields of finance, economics, business management & consulting, self-help, leadership, sales and marketing.Naresh aided the Houston Rockets' staff in selecting draft picks Aaron Brooks, Carl Landry and Donte Greene in the 2007 and 2008 NBA Drafts.Naresh took as many as 27 credit hours a semester while at Syracuse University, and he graduated Magna Cum Laude from the Renée Crown University Honors Program, triple majoring in broadcast and digital journalism, finance, and accounting at the S.I. Newhouse School of Public Communications and Martin J. Whitman School of Management. Morgan Stanley nominated him as an Emerging Student Leader. During his junior and senior years, he served as an analyst for the Orange Value Fund, where he managed an investment portfolio in excess of $1.2 million of private investor money. Upon graduation, he was awarded as a high-achieving student in his class.Naresh earned a Master's Degree from Duke University's Fuqua School of Business, concurrently working as an admissions recruitment coordinator, marketing and communications blogger, and strategy research assistant to Executive in Residence Professor Bill Sax. A former academic tutor, counselor to underrepresented students, and middle school assistant basketball coach at the nationally renowned Village School in Houston, Naresh frequently donates his time to community service and social advocacy. He holds a first-degree Black Belt in Taekwondo.
Dr. Joel Warsh, also known as Dr. Gator, is a Board-Certified Pediatrician in Los Angeles specializing in Parenting, Wellness, and Integrative Medicine. Originally from Toronto, he earned degrees in Kinesiology, Psychology, and Epidemiology before completing his medical degree at Thomas Jefferson Medical College and his pediatric training at CHLA. He founded Integrative Pediatrics and Medicine Studio City in 2018. Dr. Warsh is a published researcher, media contributor, and founder of the Parenting Masterclass Platform, Raising Amazing. ___How Prepared is Your Team for the Next Big Disruption? Future-proof your team with Malosiminds.com Get your copy of Personal Socrates: Better Questions, Better Life Connect with Marc >>> Website | LinkedIn | Instagram | Twitter Drop a review and let me know what resonates with you about the show!Thanks as always for listening and have the best day yet!*A special thanks to MONOS, our official travel partner for Behind the Human! Use MONOSBTH10 at check-out for savings on your next purchase. ✈️*Special props
Send us a Text Message.Dawn Bailey, who also happens to be my grandma, got married at a very young age, before she really knew herself or her partner (my grandpa). They were married for 49 years, up until my grandpa's passing three years ago, and they struggled through a tumultuous relationship for a good part of their lives. He was the only person she had ever been with.Some major topics covered:- signs of a controlling and possessive partner- how childhood development, abandonment issues, and attachment styles affect your relationships for the rest of your life (generational trauma)- the struggle to find your identity when you are too lost in a relationship
Have you ever wondered if it were possible to sell your toy idea instead of the finished product? Today's podcast episode follows one creator, who does just that.Today's guest Joanna Paul, shares her journey of developing Moodles (formerly known as "What's Its Face?"), a patentable plush invention designed to help children understand and express their emotions. From the initial concept inspired by her own experiences as a mom to the challenges of patenting and licensing, Joanna's toy story is a testament to the power of persistence and adaptability in the toy industry.Throughout the episode, Joanna discusses key aspects of her success, including:The importance of understanding your strengths and weaknesses as an inventor and entrepreneurNavigating the complexities of patenting and licensing to protect your intellectual propertyAdapting your product based on feedback from buyers and embracing changes for marketabilityThe emotional rollercoaster of pitching, rejection, and ultimately seeing your toy on store shelvesJoanna's background in branding and design, combined with her personal experiences as a parent, have shaped her approach to toy invention. Her creation, Moodles, not only serves as a fun and engaging toy but also has the potential to make a fundamental impact on childhood development by promoting emotional learning, imagination, and problem-solving skills.Hit play on this episode to listen in on Joanna's early days of prototyping and pitching to the exciting moment of finally seeing Moodles available at major retailers like Walmart, Kohl's, and on Amazon. Episode Cliff Notes:Learn how one mom's experience in the suburbs inspired her to create an emotional learning plush toy. [05:10]Discover how a toy with six different facial expressions can help kids learn about emotions and express themselves without electronics. [03:38]Find out how persistence and facing legal challenges led to the success of Moodles, a toy that became particularly relevant during the COVID-19 pandemic when childhood mental health problems were on the rise. [09:54]Send The Toy Coach Fan Mail!Support the Show.Popular Masterclass! 5 Foolish Mistakes
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Chelsea is joined by Jennie Ribadeneira, Center Director of Capital City Music Together. They discuss how music boosts early childhood development, offering tips for parents to engage kids in musical activities from a young age.For more information: Website - www.capitalcitymusictogether.comFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100064778779401Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ccmusictogether/ Project Parenthood is hosted by Chelsea Dorcich. A transcript is available at Simplecast.Have a parenting question? Email Chelsea at parenthood@quickanddirtytips.com or leave a voicemail at 646-926-3243.Find Project Parenthood on Facebook and Twitter, or subscribe to the Quick and Dirty Tips newsletter for more tips and advice.Project Parenthood is a part of Quick and Dirty Tips.Links: https://www.quickanddirtytips.com/https://www.quickanddirtytips.com/subscribehttps://www.facebook.com/QDTProjectParenthoodhttps://twitter.com/qdtparenthood
In this episode of the Smarter Not Harder Podcast, Dr. Elisa Song discusses integrative pediatrics, particularly focusing on gut health, the impact of antibiotics on children, and practical tips for parents to support their kids' microbiome and overall wellness. Join us as we delve into: + The growing field of integrative pediatrics. + The critical role of nutrition and gut health in child development. + Practical tips for parents on enhancing their kids' health with holistic approaches. + Strategies to support your child's immune system and emotional resilience. This episode is for you if: - You want to dive deep into integrative and functional pediatrics. - You're looking for ways to support your child's health with diet and lifestyle adjustments. - You're interested in the long-term impacts of early antibiotic use and how to counteract them. - You want to learn how to make your child's environment less toxic and more nurturing. - You're passionate about proactive and preventive health measures for children. You can also find this episode on…YouTube: https://youtu.be/onbmxT7-0NE Find out more about Dr. Elisa Song: Website: https://healthykidshappykids.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drelisasong/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/healthykids_happykids/ Learn more about Smarter Not Harder: Website: https://troscriptions.com/blogs/podcast | https://homehope.org Instagram: @troscriptions | @homehopeorg Get 10% Off your purchase of the Metabolomics Module by using PODCAST10 at https://www.homehope.org Get 10% Off your Troscriptions purchase by using POD10 at https://www.troscriptions.com Get daily content from the hosts of Smarter Not Harder by following @troscriptions on Instagram.
Broadcast from KSQD on 7-04-2024: Natural bodies of water illustrates the importance of bright neon colors for visibility. Plus: additional advice on keeping children safe around water. Research on gender differences in space travel effects reveals women are more resilient. A study finding greater gene activity disruption in male vs female astronauts has implications for future space missions. An interview with Dr. Gabor Mate covers a broad range of topics: Discussion of addiction reframing it as a brain state Factors contributing to addiction proneness include: Early life experiences and attachment relationships Brain development and environmental influences Neurotransmitters and addiction susceptibility Critical periods for healthy attachment and brain development Parallels between addiction and attention deficit disorder (ADD) Origins and misconceptions about ADD Impact of parental stress on child development Transgenerational patterns in addiction and ADD Dr. Mate's personal experiences with ADD Treatment approaches for ADD Parenting strategies and misconceptions Impact of modern technology on attention spans Dr. Mate's book "When the Body Says No" Mind-body connection in chronic illnesses Stress and disease development Personality traits associated with chronic illness Importance of addressing psychological factors in treatment The hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal (HPA) axis and its role in health Discussion of narcolepsy and emotional arousal The seven A's of healing approach Importance of introspection and self-awareness for health Dr. Mate's book "Hold On To Your Kids" Impact of peer influence on child development Importance of parental attachment and influence About Gabor Mate, MD: Worked as a family physician for two decades Served as Medical Coordinator of the Palliative Care Unit at Vancouver Hospital Spent eight years working in Vancouver's Downtown East side with patients challenged by addiction and mental illness Bestselling author of multiple books on addiction, stress, and child development Known for his expertise in trauma, addiction, stress, and childhood development Advocates for a compassionate approach to addiction and mental health Developed the Compassionate Inquiry psycho-therapeutic method
Introduction: In this episode of The Psychedelic Coach Podcast, Tah and Kole introduce the "3 P's" – Pause, Pull Back, and Physical Scan – a revolutionary method to break free from reactive patterns and create lasting breakthroughs. Discover how this simple yet powerful practice can transform your relationships, interactions, and overall well-being. Timestamps: 00:00: Introduction to the Condor Approach 00:18: The Importance of Integration 01:54: The Three P's: Pause, Pull Back, Physical Scan 03:22: Personal Stories and Applications 11:52: Understanding Brain and Mind Dynamics 18:18: Childhood Development and Reactivity 23:13: Conflict Resolution and Communication Strategies 27:24: The Power of the Three P's 28:37: Elevator Scenario: Applying the Three P's 32:55: Personal Practice and Family Dynamics 37:27: Empathetic Override and Nervous System Regulation 43:32: The Importance of Habit Formation 48:27: Practical Applications and Final Thoughts Show Notes: The 3 P's Explained: Pause: Interrupt the reactive cycle. Pull Back: Gain perspective and create space. Physical Scan: Tune into bodily sensations and emotions. Benefits of the 3 P's: Transform reactivity into conscious responsiveness. Improve communication and relationships. Increase self-awareness and emotional regulation. Enhance decision-making and problem-solving skills. Real-Life Examples: Subway Tension: How the 3 P's averted a conflict. Money Argument: Creating physical and emotional space for resolution. Elevator Analogy: Staying calm and centered in chaos. The 3 P's in Psychedelic Integration: Navigating heightened emotions and experiences. Cultivating a mindful and intentional approach. Links and Resources: The Condor Approach Website Quotes: "The power's in the pause, the possibilities in the pause, the potentials in the pause." - Tah "Every time I react, they have power over me." - Kole "The 3 P's is also pause, pull back in that moment where suddenly I'm getting a headache." - Kole Don't Forget!
Eaton Financial Group's motto is to live well, work hard and give generously. The firm specializes in helping women who handle household financial planning by acting in a fiduciary capacity – meaning your best interests are their first priority. For a relaxed and no-obligation cup of coffee and transparent information about creating a financial portfolio – live or virtually – visit eatonfinancialgroup.com to set an appointment. Tell them The Motherhood Village sent you. Learn more about joining The Motherhood Village community as a member! Brief summary of show: In this episode of the Motherhood Village podcast, I speak with special guest Dr. Elizabeth Vainder, a board-certified pediatrician with over 20 years of experience in South Florida. Dr. Vainder discusses her background, growing up in a Cuban family in Miami and working in public health before joining Pediatric Associates, where she provided care for a diverse range of children. She also talks about becoming a certified health coach. The conversation then shifts to the importance of selecting the right pediatric care for families, highlighting the need for continuity of care and the impact of technology on children's mental health. Dr. V stresses the importance of mental health awareness from a young age and the role of parents in supporting their children. She advocates for the personalization of pediatric care and encourages parents to trust their instincts when choosing a pediatrician. The episode also covers the challenges and changes in pediatric healthcare impacted by the pandemic, Dr. Vainder's transition to a concierge practice model, and her efforts to provide educational resources through her website and social media. We talk about: 0:00 Introduction and Guest Background 01:15 Book Recommendation 05:05 Pediatrics and Passion: Why Dr. Vainder Chose Her Path 07:35 Transitioning to Concierge Pediatrics: A New Approach to Care 12:18 The Importance of Continuity of Care in Pediatrics 18:15 Addressing Mental Health: Early Intervention and Awareness 21:17 The Role of Social Emotional Development in Child Health 22:50 Addressing Social and Emotional Development 22:58 Empowering Parents with Tools for Early Intervention 25:58 The Impact of Technology on Childhood Development 32:15 Choosing the Right Pediatric Care and School 38:17 The Value of Personalized Care and Advice Resources The Kissing Hand by Audrey Penn The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle Connect with Dr. Vainder Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drvcares_pediatrics https://linktr.ee/dr.elizabethvainder Connect with Nicole Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.motherhood.village1/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/The.Motherhood.Village1 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicolegcumberbatch/ https://www.themotherhoodvillage.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNzy4b2WHCxvP1k8lL0dvIA
Jonathan Haidt, author of The Anxious Generation, joins us to discuss how the internet, and especially social media, are adversely affecting childhood development in unprecedented fashion, and how parents can counter these negative effects in order to raise children into well-adjusted adults. - - - Today's Sponsor: Balance of Nature - Get 35% off Your Order of Fruits & Veggies + $10 Off Every Additional Set. Use promo code KLAVAN at checkout: https://www.balanceofnature.com/
W. Thomas Boyce discusses new research on sensitivity and resilience in childhood development and talks about how learning to see our children well helps them flourish and thrive. W. Thomas Boyce is a pediatrician, professor emeritus of pediatrics and psychiatry at UC San Francisco, and author of The Orchid and the Dandelion: Why Some Children Struggle and How All Can Thrive.
Let's celebrate my, Mama Sareena, birthday together! Join us as I get a little deeper than usual and learn what made me the woman and mother I am today. We show up every week for the passed two years... and maybe you have been joining us the whole time or you are new but we wanted to bring our relationship to the next step by getting to know each other a little more intimately. I think many of us have some sort of childhood trauma and when we can relate to ones experience, there grows a trust or understanding of each other. That's my hope with this episode and if you have any questions I'd love to hear from you!Love,SareenaSupport the showSIGN UP FOR COACHING NOW!Please share and tag us on our platforms below if you enjoyed this episode!Instagram: The Nurturing ParentFacebook Page: The Nurturing ParentEmail Us: TheNurturingparent.Pod@gmail.comOriginal music ©Lisa K Sigurgeirson 1986