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Esther Perel returns for part two of our chat on all things modern dating and sexual communication in relationships. In this episode, Matt and Esther discuss: The realities of the biological clock (and how to date accordingly) How to find a romantic partner for your age The concept of "soulmates" and what matters in relationships Having the right expectations The challenge of modern masculinity, jealousy, and sexual judgment Conversations that improve your sex life How to stoke desire in a relationship --- Esther is a New York Times Bestselling author who books "Mating In Captivity" and "The State Of Affairs" have had a profound impact on our understanding of modern relationships. Get a copy of Esther's brand new course "The Desire Bundle" ▼ Connect with Esther ▼ Blog → https://www.estherperel.com YouTube → @estherperel Instagram → @estherperelofficial Facebook → @esther.perel ▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼ Blog → https://www.matthewhussey.com/blog/ Facebook → @coachmatthewhussey Instagram → @thematthewhussey Twitter → @matthewhussey
In this episode, we're joined by world renowned psychotherapist and relationship expert Esther Perel! Esther is a New York Times Bestselling author who books "Mating In Captivity" and "The State Of Affairs" have had a profound impact on our understanding of modern relationships. In this conversation, Matt and Esther talk about how to create desire in relationships, getting connected to your sexuality (even if you haven't in a long time), improving your communication around intimacy and sex with a partner, and practical advice for finding real attraction and love in modern dating. Get a copy of Esther's brand new course "The Desire Bundle" ▼ Connect with Esther ▼ Blog → https://www.estherperel.com YouTube → @estherperel Instagram → @estherperelofficial Facebook → @esther.perel ▼ Get My Latest Dating Tips and Connect With Me… ▼ Blog → https://www.matthewhussey.com/blog/ Facebook → @coachmatthewhussey Instagram → @thematthewhussey Twitter → @matthewhussey
Renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel, author of "Mating In Captivity," asks Handsome a provocative question about younger selves on this week's episode! Plus Mae unveils a new roleplay, Handsome on Oprah, and a classic installment of "brown or blonde"!LIVE STREAMING SHOW Aug 24! Tickets: dynastytypewriter.com/handsomeHandsome is hosted by Tig Notaro, Mae Martin, and Fortune FeimsterFollow us on social media: @handsomepodMerch: handsomepod.comWatch on youtube: youtube.com/@handsomepodEmail the show: handsomepod@gmail.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
**NOTE: This episode originally ran in 2023** **NEW EP DROP NEXT WEEK MONDAY MAY 6TH** Imagine having to ask a group of eco-farmers for permission to have sex. And when granted permission, your options of consummation include… the back of a van or the loft of a goat barn. Well that's what happened when Helen Zuman, a spelling bee whiz looking to explore her interest in eco-farming, visited Zendik Farm in North Carolina shortly after graduating from Harvard. A two-week experience turned into years of her life. And that, ladies and gentlemen, is how you spell C-U-L-T. Support Was I In A Cult? on Patreon for goodies & extra content: https://www.patreon.com/wasiinacult (https://www.patreon.com/wasiinacult) Follow us on Instagram: @wasiinacult Contact us: Have a cult story of your own and want to share it on our show? Send us an email: info@wasiinacult.com. MORE ABOUT HELEN: https://helenzuman.com/
Where should we begin examining our problems with relationships, cheating, conflict, and more? Legendary therapist Esther Perel talks us through it here! What We Discuss with Esther Perel: People who cheat don't necessarily want to leave their partner — they want to leave what they have become, or to get in touch with another part of themselves that they miss. Is monogamy a state that mating humans evolved toward naturally, or is it more of a social construct imposed for the sake of control? Most of us don't argue because we love conflict, but because we're trying to galvanize some kind of change that requires another person's participation. So how can we argue better for the sake of both parties? What we can learn from conflict — especially with respect to creating connection. As an expert in intimacy and human connection, where does Esther see us heading as a species when we can all have bespoke AI in our pocket that just exists to make us happy? And much more... Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/911 This Episode Is Brought To You By Our Fine Sponsors: jordanharbinger.com/deals Sign up for Six-Minute Networking — our free networking and relationship development mini course — at jordanharbinger.com/course! Like this show? Please leave us a review here — even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally!
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Let's talk about sober sex. Today, Karolina gets candid about intimacy, communication, and exploring new ways of doing things when you're not relying on alcohol as a crutch. In this conversation, she's joined by Sarah Olsen, a brilliant coach and Reiki practitioner who met Karolina during a sober weekend in Palm Springs. Together, they talk about the importance of discovering your love language with your partner, the power of “getting in the room”, erogenous zones, and Sarah's favorite questions to ask her husband before bed that rekindles their attraction for each other. Get ready to investigate and experiment with intimacy, love, and connection through an alcohol-free lifestyle! IN THIS EPISODE: Alcohol can be so intertwined when it comes to dating, falling for someone, and even navigating our own sex life. How Sarah went from binge drinking wine to recognizing that alcohol was affecting her energy and lifestyle. It wasn't a “rock bottom” moment but a revelation that lead to 3 years alcohol-free Having a partner who fully supports you is so important to your success. Sarah was often the one who instigated their drinking patterns, so when it came to taking a break, she was elated that her partner was her #1 supporter What it was like for Sarah to navigate sober sex after previously being intoxicated 90% of the time when they were intimate - including how they solved their insecurities around initiation Societal expectations around “what's hot” and why we need to focus more on ourselves. What turns you on? What do you love? What draws you to people? LINKS/RESOURCES MENTIONED Join Karolina and Teri Patterson August 4-6, 2023 in Nevada City, California for an intimate mastermind weekend retreat, just for alcohol-free life coaches! Recharge your business and get the roadmap to scale your business to 6-figures and beyond. Sign up here and use code LOVELOVE to get $500 off! Connect with Sarah on her website, Put It Down Lifestyle. You can also follow her on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok. Check out Sarah's book recommendations, Mating In Captivity by Esther Perel and The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. Karolina's book is available in hardcover, Kindle, and as an audiobook. Be sure to get your copy of Euphoric: Ditch Alcohol and Gain a Happier, More Confident You today and leave your review. Follow @euphoric.af on Instagram And as always, rate, review, and subscribe so we can continue spreading our message far and wide.
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In this episode, I read an excerpt from the book “Mating In Captivity” by Esther Perel, and talk about boredom in dating and in relationships. Here's the thing—a lot of men struggle with being ‘boring' to women. It's tough to hold a woman's attention and to keep her engaged when you don't know how to do it. Well, in this video, I'm going to explain why women tend to get bored while dating—and I'm also going to give you my 4-step prescription for how to fix the problem, thus creating an amazing dating life as a man in the process. Book a free discovery call: https://joshuasigafus.com/discovery-call Download my free ebook - The Quick Start Guide To Improving Your Dating Life - For Men: https://joshuasigafus.com/free-ebook/ Check out my dating and masculinity system (and my books) for men: https://joshuasigafus.com/dating-in-the-wild Visit my alpha-mentality book list: https://joshuasigafus.com/alpha-mentality-books/ My Website: https://joshuasigafus.com/ YouTube: https://joshuasigafus.com/YouTube/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JoshSigafusauthor Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joshua_sigafus/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/JoshSigafus LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshua-sigafus/ Podcast: https://anchor.fm/joshua-sigafus Disclaimer: The opinions expressed in my videos, podcasts, blogs, and other content are simply that - opinions. I have achieved positive results from using this information, but individual cases may vary. My opinions should never be considered legal advice or medical advice. I am not a licensed counselor. Though I make every effort to ensure that my content is helpful and relevant, under no circumstances should my content be considered anything other than entertainment. Use at your own risk. By watching my videos, listening to my podcasts, reading all of my written published materials, and consuming any of my other content, you agree that any losses or damages incurred as a result of utilizing the information obtained is your sole responsibility, and you agree to release Joshua K. Sigafus from any liability, legal or otherwise. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/joshua-sigafus/message
Imagine having to ask a group of eco-farmers for permission to have sex. And when granted permission, your options of consummation include… the back of a van or the loft of a goat barn. Well that's what happened when Helen Zuman, a spelling bee whiz looking to explore her interest in eco-farming, visited Zendik Farm in North Carolina shortly after graduating from Harvard. A two-week experience turned into years of her life. And that, ladies and gentlemen, is how you spell C-U-L-T. - Support Was I In A Cult? on Patreon for goodies, extra content, and a chance to win a signed copy of Helen's book: Mating in Captivity! Follow us on Instagram: @wasiinacult Contact us: Have a cult story of your own and want to share it on our show? Send us an email at info@wasiinacult.com. MORE ABOUT HELEN: https://helenzuman.com/ Find her book, Mating In Captivity, HERE.Follow Helen: Twitter - @HelenZuman // Instagram - @helenzuman
Imagine having to ask a group of eco-farmers for permission to have sex. And when granted permission, your options of consummation include… the back of a van or the loft of a goat barn. Well that’s what happened when Helen Zuman, a spelling bee whiz looking to explore her interest in eco-farming, visited Zendik Farm in North Carolina shortly after graduating from Harvard. A two-week experience turned into years of her life. And that, ladies and gentlemen, is how you spell… C-U-L-T. - Follow Helen on Twitter: @HelenZuman Support Was I In A Cult? on Patreon! Become a patron today to be entered to win a signed copy of Helen's book, Mating in Captivity. Follow us on Instagram: @wasiinacult Have a story to share? Send us an email at info@wasiinacult.com or contact us at wasiinacult.com. - This episode is sponsored by the Wondery podcast This Is Actually Happening. Follow wherever you listen to podcasts. You can listen ad-free on the Amazon Music or Wondery App. This episode is also sponsored by ZocDoc. Go to Zocdoc.com/INACULT and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today.
Today's episode is all about feeling your feelings. One sub asks whether it's possible to introduce kink to her partner in a non-sexual context, while another wants to know how to react in a subby way to conflict with their Dom. Support the pod at http://www.patreon.com/askasub Free & Public Friday Q&As on Discord: https://discord.gg/askasub Mating In Captivity by Esther Perel Submit questions for this podcast as voice memos to podcast@askasub.com How To Record A Voice Memo: http://www.askasub.com/podcast More on my breakup with Instagram: https://askasub.substack.com/p/my-last-abusive-relationship Subscribe to the subby substack: https://askasub.substack.com
In this episode we give you the second half of our chat with Hannah Smith (1:40) exploring the implications of Josh Harris's book I KISSED DATING GOODBYE. We hear how Justin and and Hannah have continued to reshape their relationships to sexuality after growing up in repressive Christian communities. In the second half (28:25), Justin and Dan dig into chapter 2 of Esther Perel's MATING IN CAPTIVITY. We look at Esther's belief that too much intimacy, closeness, and comfort can be the death of passion and sexual vitality. Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
We're sharing a very special episode from a frequent guest of the show, Esther Perel. In this episode, “Love in War with Esther Perel: Ukraine,” you'll hear a couples session led by Esther, between a husband and wife whose family has been torn apart by the war in Ukraine. Through the lens of relationship, you experience both the horrors of war and the relatability of intimate relationships.Esther Perel is a psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author of many books, including Mating In Captivity. She's also the host of the podcasts Where Should We Begin? and How's Work?. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
As relationships become more familiar over time, can we continue to cultivate passion, vitality, and sexual desire? With Justin's move-in date just around the corner, we give you first installment of our dive into Esther Perel's incredible book Mating In Captivity. For those of you reading along, we are covering the introduction and first chapter here. Justin and Dan take excerpts from the book and use them to examine their own dynamic and look back on times when things have not flowed as easily between them. Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Plus, listener Nick–a white gentleman–writes in with a question about an alternative way to phrase the description: “Hotep nonsense conspiracy thinking”. Tre'vell and jarrett had differing views on Nick's email so they grappled with the complexity of how to answer him in A Tough Question.DIS/Honorable Mentions jarrettHM: The GwuarhlsRyan MitchellMychael ChinnArchie Jay:hm: Esther Perel's Mating in Captivityhm: Arjun Moorthy, The Factual purchaseTre'vellHM: A League of Their Own on Amazon PrimeHM: Sonic's iceHM: Black History Is Happening EverydayBessie Coleman, the first Black woman and first Native American to hold a pilot license in the world in 1921. Born in 1892 in Atlanta, Texas, the tenth of thirteen children. Recently, an all-Black female flight crew made history in her honor. On Aug. 8, an American Airlines flight from Dallas-Fort Worth — near where Coleman grew up — to Phoenix was operated by the airline's first-ever all-Black female crew.Our Sponsors This WeekBetter HelpIt can be tough to train your brain to stay in “problem-solving mode” when faced with a challenge in life. A therapist can help you become a better problem solver, making it easier to accomplish your goals—no matter how big or small.For 10% off your first month, visit Better Help.com/FANTI.Microdose.comOur show today is sponsored by Microdose Gummies. Microdose Gummies deliver perfect, entry-level doses of THC that help you feel just the right amount of good. To get free shipping & 30% off your first order go to Microdose.com and use code: FANTIGo ahead and @ usEmail: FANTI@maximumfun.orgIG@FANTIpodcast@Jarrett Hill@rayzon (Tre'vell)Twitter@FANTIpodcast@TreVellAnderson@JarrettHill@Swish (Senior Producer Laura Swisher)FANTI is produced and distributed by MaximumFun.orgLaura Swisher is senior producer Music: Cor.eceGraphics: Ashley Nguyen
In today's question, a listener asks about how to reconnect with her husband who is struggling with compassion fatigue. This episode is for you if you've ever wondered how to keep a long term relationship alive, how to bounce back from inevitable periods of distance and stagnation, or want to learn small things that can make a big difference in a relationship.ANNOUNCEMENT: This week will be our last week of episodes for the month August. Carina will be taking a short break to focus on hosting a retreat, and will be back with new episodes on September 1st.To connect more with Carina, you can find her at:https://higherself.earthwww.carinadevi.comhttps://www.instagram.com/carina.devi/https://www.tiktok.com/@carina.devi
On this week's episode, I do a deep-dive review of Esther Perel's incredible book, Mating in Captivity. Topics include: being a hot mess in my early 20s, the pitfalls of modern talk-supremacy, and why "unplug it and plug it back in" is excellent dating advice. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/datingbidesign/support
For May - Alison is sharing a series of books she loves to recommend to fellow queerious women. Today is: Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by Ester Perel Ester's Podcasts can be found here: https://www.estherperel.com/podcast To Buy: https://bookshop.org/books/mating-in-captivity-unlocking-erotic-intelligence/9780060753641 To book your consultation with Alison: alisonjamison.com/coffeedate
On this second episode of a two-part look at the Zendik Farm Arts Cooperative we speak with former member Helen Zuman. With roots in the Beat and hippie movements of late 1960s southern California, Zendik's message evolved to prophesy "Ecocide," a sure result of our "Death Culture." Helen Zuman's memoir Mating in Captivity can be found here.
In April, Springtime has arrived, and with warmer weather comes our desire for creativity and a re-focus on physical and mental health. Join Caroline and B&N's Sara LaFaro for this fun and informative discussion our book picks for April. Each month, the HERsay Podcast partners with Barnes & Noble to select books that speak to what's on the minds of women. This month's picks: Remarkably Bright Breatures by Shelby Van Pelt; Mating In Captivity by Esther Perel; The Female Brain by Louann Brizendine; Emily Dickinson's Gardening Life by Marta McDowell; Born A Crime by Trevor Noah (for it's amazing female characters); and The Pepper Thai Cookbook by Pepper Tiegen.
Greetings Glocal Citizens! This week we have part two of my conversation with an emerging global health leader with a unique range of international experiences. Erica M. Daniel began her professional exploration by pursuing her Masters in Public Health (MPH) and wanting to expand her capacity to work with individual clients, she pursued a certification in sex and relationship coaching through the Somatica Institute. As an intimacy coach she is serving as a catalyst to change the narrative on how sex, relationships, and love are viewed, particularly by those of African descent and Christian backgrounds. Erica dismisses the stigma that sex positivity equates to promiscuity. Instead, embracing the joy of natural sexual energy and expression. She channels her passion for this into the organization she founded in Accra, “For the Love of Fufu,” an Accra-based project operating on the premise that most people want to be an active part of their social experience. It brings a new style to how people connect and make lasting memories by curating highly interactive and engaging events around traditionally taboo topics. In true Global Citizens style, Erica is also lead curator of GlobaLuminary Consulting where her objective is to help everyday, normal individuals travel this world, the way best for them. I hope you enjoy taking a trip with us into Erica's world of love, intimacy and healthy self-care. Where to find Erica? Intimacy Coaching with Erica (https://intimacycoachingwitherica.squarespace.com/) GlobaLuminary Consulting (https://globaluminary.com/) For the Love of Fufu (https://www.fortheloveoffufu.com/founder) On LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/erica-m-daniel-mph-6020582a/) On Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/msluminary/) On Twitter (https://twitter.com/ericamdaniel) On Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/erica.daniel23) What's Erica reading? Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence (https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B000UODXP0&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_MWSW8XZWR0YBDVPCF3KC&tag=glocalcitiz09-20) by Esther Perel Come As Your Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life (https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B08BZWXK9J&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_H1D8XQS5YN3WJQ51CXPM&tag=glocalcitiz09-20) by Emily Nagoski The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom, A Toltec Wisdom Book (https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B005BRS8Z6&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_2TTZNS4ABVKF0Q71V60C&tag=glocalcitiz09-20) by Don Miguel Ruiz What's Erica watching? Don't Look Up (https://www.netflix.com/title/81252357) Money Heist (https://www.netflix.com/title/80192098) Queens Gambit (https://www.netflix.com/title/80234304) Other topics of interest: 69 (http://trail.pugetsound.edu/?p=16686) The Somatica Institute (https://www.somaticainstitute.com/sex-coach/africa/erica/) Sex, Love & goop (https://www.netflix.com/title/81459349) *When you click and purchase books using the link(s) above, as an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. Thank you for your support!
Greetings Glocal Citizens! This week we have part one of a juicy two-part conversation with an emerging global health leader with a unique range of international experiences. Erica M. Daniel began her professional exploration by pursuing her Masters in Public Health (MPH) and wanting to expand her capacity to work with individual clients, she pursued a certification in sex and relationship coaching through the Somatica Institute. As an intimacy coach she is serving as a catalyst to change the narrative on how sex, relationships, and love are viewed, particularly by those of African descent and Christian backgrounds. Erica dismisses the stigma that sex positivity equates to promiscuity. Instead, embracing the joy of natural sexual energy and expression. She channels her passion for this into the organization she founded in Accra, “For the Love of Fufu,” an Accra-based project operating on the premise that most people want to be an active part of their social experience. It brings a new style to how people connect and make lasting memories by curating highly interactive and engaging events around traditionally taboo topics. In true Global Citizens style, Erica is also lead curator of GlobaLuminary Consulting where her objective is to help everyday, normal individuals travel this world, the way best for them. I hope you enjoy taking a trip with us into Erica's world of love, intimacy and healthy self-care. Where to find Erica? Intimacy Coaching with Erica (https://intimacycoachingwitherica.squarespace.com/) GlobaLuminary Consulting (https://globaluminary.com/) For the Love of Fufu (https://www.fortheloveoffufu.com/founder) On LinkedIn (https://www.linkedin.com/in/erica-m-daniel-mph-6020582a/) On Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/msluminary/) On Twitter (https://twitter.com/ericamdaniel) On Facebook (https://www.facebook.com/erica.daniel23) What's Erica reading? Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence (https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B000UODXP0&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_MWSW8XZWR0YBDVPCF3KC&tag=glocalcitiz09-20) by Esther Perel Come As Your Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life (https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B08BZWXK9J&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_H1D8XQS5YN3WJQ51CXPM&tag=glocalcitiz09-20) by Emily Nagoski The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom, A Toltec Wisdom Book (https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B005BRS8Z6&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_2TTZNS4ABVKF0Q71V60C&tag=glocalcitiz09-20) by Don Miguel Ruiz What's Erica watching? Don't Look Up (https://www.netflix.com/title/81252357) Money Heist (https://www.netflix.com/title/80192098) Queens Gambit (https://www.netflix.com/title/80234304) Other topics of interest: 69 (http://trail.pugetsound.edu/?p=16686) The Somatica Institute (https://www.somaticainstitute.com/sex-coach/africa/erica/) Sex, Love & goop (https://www.netflix.com/title/81459349) *When you click and purchase books using the link(s) above, as an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. Thank you for your support! Special Guest: Erica Daniel.
Get the free audiobook on Amazon: https://geni.us/mating-free-audiobook (https://geni.us/mating-free-audiobook) Life gets busy. Has Mating in Captivity been gathering dust on your bookshelf? Instead, learn the key insights now. Get the text, PDF and infographic versions on our free app: https://www.getstoryshots.com It's been featured by Apple, Google, The Guardian and more as a top education app. DISCLAIMER: The content is not affiliated or endorsed by the publisher or the author. It is only a complement to the book and is meant for entertainment purposes. It may contain errors and is not a replacement for professional help. Esther Perel's PerspectiveEsther Perel is a Belgian-born psychotherapist who specializes in couple therapy in New York City. Perel is fluent in nine languages and serves as an organizational consultant for major companies. Perel's TED talks have more than 20 million views. She's a New York Times bestselling author and is also an executive producer and host of the popular podcast “Where Should We Begin?”. StoryShot #1: The Quest for Security Undermines Erotic VitalityHumans naturally seek security. As a result, most humans commit to long-term monogamous relationships. We often make this decision based on the security associated with this relationship, rather than our sexual drive. As well as having a propensity for security, we also have an equally strong drive for adventure and excitement. However, security and excitement are challenging to combine. Hence, humans struggle to lust with the same person that they seek comfort and stability. Importantly, Esther Perel explains that it is impossible. It is easy to see that desire often fades as security increases in a relationship. Hence, desire typically fades as relationships lengthen. Perel describes two viewpoints where people can stand in a relationship. Either people are romantics who desire intensity and adventure over stability or realists who value security over passions. However, people are often left disappointed on both ends of the spectrum. Healthy relationships often require both desire and security. Perel believes that love and desire are not mutually exclusive. Still, they generally do not take place simultaneously. The reasoning is that security and passions are different human needs that are underpinned by different motives. Perel says intimate friction is unsurprising, given the recent evolution of modern social support systems. For many of us, the idea of an extended family and a close-knit community has been all but dismantled. In its place is a more anxious, transplanted independence. Intimacy has become overburdened with unrealistic expectations. We expect our partners to be passionate and sexual, but we also expect them to adopt several other roles. We expect them to provide creativity, intellectual discussions, psychological advice, stress-busting, caregiving, and work management. These things are fantastic to have in a partner, and everyone is entitled to their own needs and desires. However, nobody will be perfect at everything. If you believe your partner should be perfect, you will struggle when your partner decides to behave in a way that is true to their authentic self. The sense of safety that you've manufactured becomes threatened, and you will react with negative emotions. If you drop your ideas of perfection, you can create a sense of independence within the relationship. You can provide your relationship with the space to breathe and grow organically. StoryShot #2: Love Seeks Closeness, but Desire Needs Distance Intimacy and sex are often associated with being physically close to somebody. However, Perel explains that separateness is what encourages connection. This includes emotional separation. For example, we generally choose partners whose strengths match our vulnerabilities. Later, we may associate intimacy with a concern for the other person's well-being. This leads to safe...
Helen Zuman is a Harvard graduate who spent a period in her twenties at Zendik Farm, a community that she found out later on was a cult. Her book, Mating in Captivity, chronicles her time spent at Zendik Farm, associating with other like-minded individuals who didn't want to be a part of mainstream society and the control that was put on them by the hierarchy on the farm. Helen has written a fascinating and vivid account of alternate living, youth idealism, sexual awakening and maturing from experience. Check out Helen's official website: http://helenzuman.com/ Purchase Mating in Captivity: http://helenzuman.com/books/mating-in-captivity-a-memoir/ Read Helen's article, Fifty Shades of Community, on the Foundation for Intentional Community's website: https://www.ic.org/fifty-shades-of-community/ --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/erraticdispatches/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/erraticdispatches/support
Author of MATING IN CAPTIVITY, a memoir about her five years, post-Harvard, in a neo-hippie cult with a radical take on sex and relationships. We dive into her experience and what made her join and how she got out of the cult. *****Helen Zuman is a tree-hugging dirt worshipper devoted to turning waste into food and the stinky guck of experience into fertile, fragrant prose; she is also the author of Mating in Captivity (She Writes Press 2018), a memoir of her five years, post-Harvard, in a cult with a radical take on sex and relationships. Mating in Captivity won the Communal Studies Association's 2020 Timothy Miller Outstanding Book Award, received a starred review from Kirkus, was named a Kirkus Best Indie Memoir of 2018, was a finalist in Creative Nonfiction for the Community of Literary Magazines and Presses' 2019 Firecracker Award, and was both first runner-up in memoir and a finalist for First Horizon and Grand Prize honors in the 2020 Eric Hoffer Awards. Other work has appeared in The New Farmers Almanac, in Communities and Livelihood magazines, and on the Foundation for Intentional Community's website (ic.org). Born in London and raised in Brooklyn, she currently homesteads with her husband in Beacon, New York.*********If you would like to contact the show about being a guest please email us at Dauna@betertopodcast.comSocial MediaYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCX0ETs2wpOHbCuhUNr0XFTw?view_as=subscriberInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/author_d.m.needom/Twitter: https://twitter.com/DaunaD1Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/bettertopodcastwithdmneedomVideo of the interview is available on YouTube: https://youtu.be/J5nN8nwOIvgTo see upcoming guests click here: https://www.dmneedom.com/better-topodcastSupport the podcast here: https://www.patreon.com/bettertopodcastwithdmneedom©2021 Better To...Podcast with D. M.NeedomSupport the show
Esther Perel: “The quality of all our relationships is what determines the quality of our lives.” Perel—a psychotherapist, New York Times bestselling author & world-renowned relationship expert—joins mbg co-CEO, Jason Wachob, to discuss how to know if your relationship will last, plus: - How to know if your relationship is on thin ice - How to become a better friend - What we're getting wrong about non-monogamous relationships - Why dancing is crucial for successful relationships - How to keep the spark alive & effectively deal with conflict Referenced in the episode: - Perel's book, Mating In Captivity. - Perel's podcast, Where Should We Begin? - Perel's game, Where Should We Begin - A Game Of Stories. - Perel's Sessions Live Conference. - Priya Parker's The Art of Gathering. - Visit mindbodygreen.com/esther to check out her online class on communication in relationships. Enjoy this episode of the mindbodygreen podcast, sponsored by Emergen-C, the dietary supplement and wellness brand for year-round immune support.* Give it a listen and claim your coupon today! *This statement has not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration. This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.
Esther Perel is one of the most fascinating thinkers today on issues of desire, sex, and relationships. As an author and psychotherapist, she helps therapy patients (and the general public) understand the complexities of love and desire with provocative questions. How do you turn yourself on? How do you balance your need for safety and security, and on the other hand, your need for adventure and novelty? Can you want what you already have? As the author of the iconic “Mating In Captivity” and another bestseller, “The State of Affairs,” Esther is reshaping society's views of sexuality and eroticism -- and arguably, healing them. In today's episode, we talk about the difference between sexual and emotional needs, how you can calibrate your expectations of marriage, and why people in happy relationships still cheat. We also discuss her new game “Where Should We Begin,” answer a listener's question about how to handle anxiety in relationships, and her number one piece of advice for having better sex. For more Esther Perel, visit estherperel.com Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep this show FREE: Magic Wand, Pjur Lube Show Notes: The Pleasure Planner For even more sex advice, tips, and tricks visit sexwithemily.com
What happens when you have figure out your relationship issues and are able to create a healthy, loving and safe relationship with someone only to find out your desire for sex with them waines over time. It is usually quite surprising and disappointing especially when you couldn't keep your hands off each other in the beginning. Do we have to trade comfort and stability for life-long passion? Thankfully, no! Tune in as Dr. Lauren and Alana explore this topic using Esther Perel's best-selling book, Mating in Captivity and Dr. Lauren's years of work with love addiction, relationship issues, womxn, lesbians and queer women. https://www.amazon.com/Mating-Captivity-Unlocking-Erotic-Intelligence/dp/0060753641 http://lesbianloveaddiction.com/ https://bit.ly/amazonesbianloveaddictionbook --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/the-consciousness-salon/support
The psychotherapist Esther Perel has changed our discourse about sexuality and coupledom with her TED talks, her books, and her podcast, Where Should We Begin? Episode after episode lays bare the theater of relationship, which is also the drama of being human. Her insights speak to the flip side of social isolation — the intense experience many have now had of togetherness. And her deep understanding of “erotic intelligence” feels so interesting as we grapple with emergent dynamics of the human condition writ large — coupled or not, and both intimate and societal.Esther Perel has a private couples and family therapy practice in New York. She hosts two podcasts, Where Should We Begin? and How's Work? and is the creator of a new game called, Where Should We Begin? - A Game of Stories. She is also the author of two TED talks and two books, Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence and The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity.This interview is edited and produced with music and other features in the On Being episode "Esther Perel — The Erotic Is an Antidote to Death" Find the transcript for that show at onbeing.org.
The psychotherapist Esther Perel has changed our discourse about sexuality and coupledom with her TED talks, her books, and her podcast, Where Should We Begin? Episode after episode lays bare the theater of relationship, which is also the drama of being human. Her insights speak to the flip side of social isolation — the intense experience many have now had of togetherness. And her deep understanding of “erotic intelligence” feels so interesting as we grapple with emergent dynamics of the human condition writ large — coupled or not, and both intimate and societal.Esther Perel has a private couples and family therapy practice in New York. She hosts two podcasts, Where Should We Begin? and How's Work? and is the creator of a new game called, Where Should We Begin? - A Game of Stories. She is also the author of two TED talks and two books, Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence and The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity.Find the transcript for this show at onbeing.org.This show originally aired on July 11, 2019.
What happens when you realise that the first time you had sex, wasn't actually the first time you had sex? The intelligent and curious Prue speaks about her experiences and complexities of the virginity narrative that we are fed when you are a part of the LGBTQI+ community. She breaks down not just one first time, but two of her first times having sex, the history of virginity, and she even gives a few tips to keep your own sex life alive. Book recommendation: Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel Orgasm Study: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-017-0939-zSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We're joined by a mysterious special guest who shares her experience being in a long-term, committed non-monogamous marriage with her husband. We discuss the taboos, the reality, the meaning of it all, the likely prerequisites to success and the potential pitfalls. If you've enjoyed this episode please do leave a rating and review in the Apple Podcasts platform. Every single one helps us reach more listeners. The two books mentioned in this episode are Opening Up and Mating In Captivity. Subscribe for more content like this! ---------- https://instagram.com/unleash.love https://www.facebook.com/unleashlovepodcast https://www.quora.com/profile/Unleash-Love https://www.linkedin.com/company/unleash-love Read our blog articles, contact us and more at https://unleash.love. You can also join our Clubhouse rooms by following @clementyeung. If you're interested in being a part of our #DiaryOfAWoman interview series and tell your story, please book a session with Clément here: http://bit.ly/diaryofawoman Lastly if you're looking for help with your mental health or relationship and you'd like to talk with Clément, you can book a consultation here: http://bit.ly/unleashtherapy --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/unleashlove/message
Super excited to have Queer Dating Coach extraordinaire Ariella Serur on the show! Ariella (@queerdatingcoach) is helping kind queer folks date better, and she shares her knowledge with us, including: how she became a dating coach, common pitfalls of dating, and what she does to create an inclusive space online and in her coaching practice. _________________________Show NotesSubscribe to Queer Dating Coach newsletterThe Body Is Not An ApologyAriella's sexuality-related book recommendations: The Body Is Not An Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor, The Ethical Slut by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton, The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo by Taylor Jenkins Reid, Mating In Captivity by Esther PerelFollow Ariella on Instagram @queerdatingcoach_________________________Between The Pages now has a Patreon (!!!) Sign up here at $3, $5, or $10 per month and get some sweet rewards!You can find all book recommendations mentioned on the podcast on Bookshop.org here (and if you shop through the affiliate link, Caitlin gets a little commission!)Remember to rate, review, and subscribe to help the pod grow!You can follow the podcast @betweenthepagespod on Instagram and Caitlin's bookish content @bookescait on Instagram.
Helen Zuman is the author of Mating in Captivity (She Writes Press 2018), a memoir of her five years, post-Harvard, at Zendik Farm, a cult with a radical take on sex and relationships. After leaving Zendik in 2004, she helped expose its twisted innards via her Zendik FAQ. More recently, she's shared her story at the conferences of the International Cultic Studies Association, the Communal Studies Association (which honored Mating in Captivity with its 2020 Timothy Miller Outstanding Book Award), and the International Communal Studies Association. She's also written about aspects of her cult and communal experiences for Communities and Livelihood magazines, and the Foundation for Intentional Community's website. In all, she's visited or lived at more than a dozen co-ops, cults, communes, and intentional communities throughout the United States; she now homesteads with her husband on a steeply sloped quarter acre in Beacon, New York. In this interview you will get a flavor of Helen's writing and most importantly her spirit and journey out of Zendik and into the life she now lives. Please check out Helen's website where you can find out more about her memoir, Mating in Captivity: http://helenzuman.com/ Jennifer is a mental health counselor located in the Los Angeles area, using Internal Family Systems (IFS) as the primary modality of psychotherapy that she uses with clients. Jennifer will graduate with her second Masters degree in 2021 in the Psychology of Coercive Control. She works both across the US and internationally with those seeking insight and healing. For more information, please visit her website, Jennifer-French.com. Follow Jennifer on social media at:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jennifermonica.holcomb Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jennifer.french.jfh/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCr6Ufd0I7My6dumbTpQwn8A/playlists If you would like to be on the PH Podcast or have any inquiries regarding the show, please email, projecthopepodcast@jennifer-french.com. To check out Pure Haven: https://purehaven.com/jenniferfrench
In this episode, Dani talks about her top 5 books that she read in 2020, with one honorable mention For recommendations, see full episode notes.
This is an episode that we have sat down to try to record for the past year. Our Marriage has been through it ALL. And what we have found is that if you are willing to do the dirty unsexy mindset & emotional intelligence work on yourself, your life will change. Whether or not your relationship stands the trials and tribulations is irrelevant. You must be brave enough to do the work on yourself, FOR yourself. Books mentioned in this episode: Mating In Captivity by Esther Perel State of Affairs by Esther Perel Psycho-Cybernertics by Maxwell Maltz I want to tell you that you can survive & thrive after infidelity. This pain doesn't have to define you. And there are so many resources out there and trained professionals to help you through this hard season. Looking to take back your Power? Join us in The Hive. Request to join here: bit.ly/TheHiveFBGroupForQueens Above all else, we all have a chapter or two that we don't read out loud. This is part of the Humanmess. All things with love & honey, C xo
Not gonna lie, Steve and I are nearly four years into our relationship and my sexual drive has shifted from when we first met. Now I know this is a normal thing but I wanted to know why for two reasons. One, my, "it's too late, I'm too tired, I'm about to get my period", and so on reasons were wearing Steve down. Second, I didn't want to be nearly 35 years old and dismissing my sexual energy. I got onto an incredible book by Esther Perel, Mating In Captivity. In my opinion this is a must read for everyone to appreciate the real reasons why it takes a lot of work, creativity and open communication in long term relationships for sex to be part of the relationship.In this episode I'm sharing my journey and what I've discovered so far.
After some short technical difficulties, I finally connected with today's guest, Helen Zuman, a tree-hugging dirt worshipper devoted to turning waste into food and the stinky guck of experience into fertile, fragrant prose. She holds a BA in Visual and Environmental Studies from Harvard and a Half-FA in memoir from Hunter College. Raised in Brooklyn, she lives with her husband in Beacon, NY and Black Mountain, NC.She is the author of Mating in Captivity (She Writes Press 2018), a memoir of her five years, post-Harvard, in a cult with a radical take on sex and relationships. Mating in Captivity received a starred review from Kirkus, was named a Kirkus Best Indie Memoir of 2018, was a finalist in Creative Nonfiction for the Community of Literary Magazines and Presses' 2019 Firecracker Award, and was both first runner-up in memoir and a finalist for First Horizon and Grand Prize honors in the 2020 Eric Hoffer Awards. Other work has appeared in The New Farmers Almanac, in Communities and Livelihood magazines, and on the Foundation for Intentional Community's website (ic.org). Mating in Captivity: When recent Harvard grad Helen Zuman moved to Zendik Farm in 1999, she was thrilled to discover that the Zendiks used go-betweens to arrange sexual assignations, or “dates,” in cozy shacks just big enough for a double bed and a nightstand. Here, it seemed, she could learn an honest version of the mating dance – and form a union free of “Deathculture” lies. No one spoke the truth: Arol, the Farm's matriarch, crushed any love that threatened her hold on her followers' hearts. An intimate look at a transformative cult journey, Mating in Captivity shows how stories can trap us and free us, how miracles rise out of crisis, how coercion feeds on forsaken self-trust.In addition to cults, we also talk about the journey to trust oneself, the "infinite growth myth," gift circles, her connection to a well balanced eco-village that is doing intentional living well and how she takes care of herself (no social media!). I can personally highly recommend her book even for those not remotely curious about how one gets pulled into a cult. It's extremely well written and uniquely empowering to hear some of the more difficult details of her story.Looking for an intentional community or wondering about the health of one you're currently in? Helen's article may be of help to you. And if you do have friends, family or loved ones you fear are wrapped up in a cult, eh hm, political party, then Helen recommends some resources written by therapist and cult expert Steven Hassan. You can tune in to hear the best thing Helen's Mom did easing her exit from the cult mind-control.Today's show was engineered by Nick Panken of Freedom Highway.Our show music is from Shana Falana !!!Feel free to email me, say hello: she@iwantwhatshehas.orgLeave me a voicemail with your thoughts or a few words about who inspires you! (845) 481-3429** Please: SUBSCRIBE to the pod and leave a REVIEW wherever you are listening, it helps other users FIND IThttp://iwantwhatshehas.org/podcastITUNES | SPOTIFY | STITCHERITUNES: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/i-want-what-she-has/id1451648361?mt=2SPOTIFY:https://open.spotify.com/show/77pmJwS2q9vTywz7Uhiyff?si=G2eYCjLjT3KltgdfA6XXCASTITCHER: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/she-wants/i-want-what-she-has?refid=stpr'Follow:INSTAGRAM * https://www.instagram.com/iwantwhatshehaspodcast/FACEBOOK * https://www.facebook.com/iwantwhatshehaspodcastTWITTER * https://twitter.com/wantwhatshehas
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Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel provided by the marloyonocruz.com site. interesting book around relationships, love, sex and more stuff we should talk about a bit more often. —————————————————————
Mating in Captivity: A Memoir – Helen Zuman – 9781631523373 – She Writes Press – paperback – 248 pages – May 8, 2018 – $16.95 – ebook versions for sale at lower prices When I was in my younger hippie Whole Earth Catalog reading period of life, I became intensely interested in communes and alternative […] The post Helen Zuman: Mating in Captivity [A Memoir] first appeared on WritersCast.
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Ashley and Cam cover Zendik "Arts Farm", a now disbanded Neo-Hippie cult. Jeepers Creepers!Cam goes over the background of leaders Wulf and Arol, how the cult got started, and how it dismantled after 40 years. Ashley talks about the group's beliefs and practices, including their sex meetings, and the group speculum checks, AKA "speck checks", that the women did before having "dates" (AKA having sex).The gals also had the pleasure of sitting down with author Helen Zuman, who wrote "Mating in Captivity", about her time at Zendik. Some bits from that fascinating discussion are sprinkled throughout the episode. To hear the full interview, you can join our Patreon, the information is in the episode notes!Do you want ad free, early release episodes, and so much more?! Find us at patreon.com/tsfuTo download "Cult Bingo" for today's episode, and for our sources, head over to tsfuthepodcast.comFollow us @tsfuthepodcast on Instagram, Twitter, TikTok and Facebook, where you can also join our private Facebook group! And make sure to come hang out with us on Discord! https://discord.gg/j5aPUgt
MIKE CANNON (Irish Goodbye Podcast) joins Erica & Molly to talk about the book "Mating in Captivity" by Esther Perel. We discuss; the ups and downs of intimacy in long term relationships, how having kids changes your sex life, why planning sex isn't a bad idea, how to break out of your sexual routine, and if physical connection is sometimes more important than the emotional. We wrap up this episode with Mike sharing a story of shooting his shot in college. Join our Patreon Team here for extra episodes & to support the Podcast: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot **LEAVE US A RATING AND REVIEW** Email us your questions & DM stories at: shootersgottashootpod@gmail.com or DM us: instagram.com/shootersgottashootpod Follow us on Instagram Erica Spera: instagram.com/spericaa Molly DeMellier: instagram.com/theguaca_molly Mike Cannon: instagram.com/iammikecannon If you'd like to join Erica's NYC based Herpes Support group: https://www.meetup.com/NYC-Herpes-Support-Meetup/ or email: herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com www.shootersgottashoot.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/shootersgottashoot/support
Lizzie and Kaveh talk about dating during COVID-19, from a woman’s perspective. Send your questions and comments to hopquestions@gmail.com, or leave a voicemail at 408-444-6623
(Trigger Warning: A discussion about sexual abuse) In this episode, I had an intriguing conversation with pastor and couples counsellor, Dewaldt de Kock. We talked about the challenges people face in relationships and aspects of having a healthy sex life. Here are some of the main points we touched on: The Mating in Captivity series that Dewaldt and his wife hosted for couples struggling during the lockdown, and what it was all about What can stir sexual attraction to your spouse after you've been married several years What a sexual tasting menu is, and why you can benefit from making use of it in your relationship A story about how sexuality can be reclaimed How much time and attention to dedicate only to your children Why people have affairs and what can be done to repair damaged relationships How to treat the sacred space that is shared in a relationship Why it's important to understand your spouse's "back story" Tips on how to cherish your spouse What the ECCT approach is, and why it is a valuable way of interacting with your spouse You're in for some great stuff here! Enjoy it. Until next time. Much love, FrancoisRemember: Change your perspective and you can transform your life!
Kaveh and Lizzie discuss dating and being single in a time of COVID-19 with the help of three single listeners. Send your questions and comments to hopquestions@gmail.com, or leave a voicemail at 408-444-6623
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'Mating in Captivity ... articulates a poignant and unacknowledged modern crisis for the first time' Evening Standard When you love someone, how does it feel? And when you desire someone, how is it different? In Mating in Captivity, Esther Perel looks at the story of sex in committed couples. Modern romance promises it all - a lifetime of togetherness, intimacy and erotic desire. In reality, it's hard to want what you already have. Our quest for secure love conflicts with our pursuit of passion. And often, the very thing that got us to into our relationships - lust - is the one thing that goes missing from them. Determined to reconcile the erotic and the domestic, Perel explains why democracy is a passion killer in the bedroom. Argues for playfulness, distance, and uncertainty. And shows what it takes to bring lust home. Smart, sexy and explosively original, Mating in Captivity is the monogamist's essential bedside read.
Psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author Esther Perel is recognized as one of today
Infidelity is complicated for so many reasons. Many people can’t even agree on what cheating really is. If you got a lap dance at a club, is that cheating? If you flirted with a stranger at the grocery store, is that cheating? If you watched porn, is that cheating? There are a lot of statistics about cheating available online and, unfortunately, a lot of the numbers are self-reported so their accuracy isn’t exactly guaranteed. I found one piece in the New York Times that said, “…national surveys indicate that 15% of married women and 25% of married men have had extramarital affairs. The incidence is about 20% higher when emotional and sexual relationships without intercourse are included.” That’s a lot of cheating! When it comes to infidelity, you can bury your head in the sand if you choose but, with those odds, there’s a good chance you’re going to encounter it in a relationship. Then what? On this podcast I speak with Robert Weiss. The author of 10 books on sex, intimacy and relationships including Sex Addiction 101, Out of the Doghouse: A Step-By-Step Relationship Saving Guide For Men Caught Cheating and Prodependence, Dr. Rob and I cover many infidelity topics including: WHY MEN TYPICALLY CHEAT THE COMPLETELY DIFFERENT REASONS WHY WOMEN TYPICALLY CHEAT WHAT ARE THE SIGNS THAT YOUR PARTNER IS CHEATING ON YOU THE ONE THING YOU CAN DO AS A COUPLE TO DRASTICALLY LOWER THE RISK OF INFIDELITY IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP Dr. Rob’s Sex, Love, and Addiction Podcast is a Top 10 Addiction Podcast. He also hosts a no-cost weekly Sex and Intimacy Q&A on the Seeking Integrity sponsored website, SexandRelationshipHealing.com (@SexandHealing). The Sex and Relationship Healing website provides free information for addicts, partners of addicts, and therapists dealing with sex addiction, porn addiction, and substance abuse issues. Dr. Rob can be contacted via Seeking Integrity.com and SexandRelationshipHealing.com. You can follow him on Twitter (@RobWeissMSW), LinkedIn (Robert Weiss LCSW), and Facebook (Rob Weiss MSW). Dr. Rob mentions the work of Psychotherapist Esther Perel, the bestselling author of Mating In Captivity, a bold and provocative take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity will transform the way you look at the rules of marriage and the way you live and love. If you haven’t already, please SUBSCRIBE to the podcast and I’d really appreciate it if you left me a 5-star review in iTunes. Also, I am thisclose to a HUGE milestone on this podcast and I can really use your help. As of this writing, if I can average just 8 more downloads a week, I will be eligible to be carried by a really big channel. Just 8!!! I can really use your help. We now have 40 episodes to choose from and there’s a good chance you’ve missed one or two. Or maybe you wanna brush up on some skills or listen to one of your favorite episodes again. Every click helps! Please help me reach this milestone so we can reach an even bigger and super rad audience. I would really appreciate it. Thank you! Sex Ed The Musical is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to Amazon.com. If you make a purchase through one of the above affiliate links, you won’t spend a penny more but I’ll be eligible to receive a small commission. This helps support this podcast and allows me to continue to make free content for you. Thank you for your support.
Therapist Esther Perel has changed our discourse about sexuality and coupledom with her TED talks, books, and singular podcast, “Where Should We Begin?”, in which listeners are invited into emotionally raw therapy sessions she conducts with couples she’s never met before. For Perel, eroticism is a key ingredient to life — and it’s more than just a description of sexuality. “It is about how people connect to this quality of aliveness, of vibrancy, of vitality, of renewal,” she says. “It is actually a spiritual, mystical experience of life.” Esther Perel has a private couples and family therapy practice in New York. She is executive producer and host of the podcast “Where Should We Begin?” She has also given two TED talks and is the author of the books “Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence” and “The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity.” Find the transcript for this show at onbeing.org.
Therapist Esther Perel has changed our discourse about sexuality and coupledom with her TED talks, books, and singular podcast, “Where Should We Begin?”, in which listeners are invited into emotionally raw therapy sessions she conducts with couples she’s never met before. For Perel, eroticism is a key ingredient to life — and it’s more than just a description of sexuality. “It is about how people connect to this quality of aliveness, of vibrancy, of vitality, of renewal,” she says. “It is actually a spiritual, mystical experience of life.” Esther Perel has a private couples and family therapy practice in New York. She is executive producer and host of the podcast “Where Should We Begin?” She has also given two TED talks and is the author of the books “Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence” and “The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity.” This interview is edited and produced with music and other features in the “On Being” episode “Esther Perel — The Erotic Is an Antidote to Death.” Find more at onbeing.org.
Esther is a therapist who spent years studying intimacy, monogamy and sexuality. She became the world's most well-known expert on modern love
On today's episode we discuss Olympic cyclist Kelly Catlin; CTE (head trauma) and managing the symptoms; the importance of letting go; why people cheat; and daily routines to manage your emotions.Links to:Esther Perel's book, "Mating In Captivity."https://www.amazon.com/Mating-Captivity-Unlocking-Erotic-Intelligence/dp/0060753641/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1S35GM40GPE04&keywords=mating+in+captivity+esther+perel&qid=1552372586&s=gateway&sprefix=mating+in+cap%2Caps%2C185&sr=8-1As promised, a link to international suicide hotlines:http://ibpf.org/resource/list-international-suicide-hotlinesSuicide Prevention Center (Los Angeles)877-727-4747National Suicide Prevention Lifeline800-273-TALK [800-273-8255]1-800-SUICIDE [800-784-2433]Teen Line (Los Angeles)800-852-8336The Trevor Project (LGBTQ Youth Hotline)866-488-7386National Domestic Violence Hotline800-799-SAFE [800-799-7233]Crisis Text LineText "Connect" to 741741 in the USALifeline Chathttps://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/
Everyone knows when you first start dating the sex if great and once you get married, it dies out. Or does it? Should it? Once kids enter the picture, sex exits it. But does it have to? Can you claim to be champion of equal rights if you enjoy subjugating someone or being subjugated in the bedroom. This month we discuss Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel which attempts to answer some of those questions. Next book will be The Authorities by Scott Meyer.Host: Eugene StephensGuest: Kris Andrew, Ray AndrewLike the show? Do us a favor and rate / review the show on iTunes, Stitcher or wherever you get your podcasts from.You can always reach us at EpicallyGeeky.comYou can also find us on FaceBook, Twitter and Instagram.You can find us on iTunes here: http://apple.co/2fiw4eHYou can find us on Stitcher here: http://bit.ly/2f1IuYPYou can find us on Google Play here: http://bit.ly/2ff1jJfYou can find us on YouTube here: http://bit.ly/2fffyO0Music by: Peter Emerson Jazz
After a few months of silence, I am back with another episode... basically catching you guys up on what I've been up to since the last episode. I talk about my job, Adrian's visit to Japan, my new hobbies, work life balance, and more. Sorry for yet another big gap in podcasting, but I am COMMITTED and ready to make this a weekly thing again. Thanks so much for tuning in. I appreciate you all! BECOME A PATRON: patreon.com/nobullpodcast MY SOCIAL LINKS:Follow me on Instagram: @annawildmanTweet at me: @wildmannaEmail me: annanwildman@gmail.com YouTube: www.youtube.com/channel/annawildman Intro/outro music by Ellis Delta: soundcloud.com/ellisdelta Interstitial music by earthchain: soundcloud.com/earthchain SHOW NOTES: People/places/things mentioned in episode Airbnb Shimoda: https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/5166375 Mating In Captivity: https://www.amazon.com/Mating-Captivity-Unlocking-Erotic-Intelligence/dp/0060753641 Fitness Blender: https://www.fitnessblender.com/
How do we negotiate sex in relationships? What if I want to have sex more often than my partner (or vise versa)? How do we meet each other's needs? Also, more on Attachment Theory! Resources: Books: Attached Mating In Captivity Other: Esther Perel TED talks Juicebox sex coaching app (use code SHAMELESS for 60% off)
This week on Self-Helpless, the girls breakdown one of Kelsey's all-time favorite books, Mating in Captivity by legendary couples therapist and author Esther Perel. We try to answer the question posed by the book: can you have passion AND comfort in a relationship, especially a long-term one? Once the exciting beginning of a relationship becomes more routine and predictable, can you find ways to reignite a spark? Can you be lovers and friends? Also, be sure to join our Patreon account for 2 BONUS episodes every month!
For your reference- articles and books we drew from for our podcast:Every Day Feminism Sex PositivityWashington Post Morning MixKai Cole's Article on the WrapPsychological Distress from CheatingWikipedia Joss Whedon Feminism2017 March Vanity Fair Whedon Woke2015 April The Guardian Joss Whedon Criticizes Jurassic Park2017 06 The Atlantic How Buffy Came to Symbolize 3rd Wave FeminismJoss Whedon Equality Now Speech YOU TUBEDefinition of Feminism Merriam Webster2017 12 New Yorker In Defense of AdulteryEsther Perel Ted Talk Rethinking Infidelity2017 09 New York Times Male Feminists Joss WhedonAnd our BiCurean moments reference these topics:Insurance https://qz.com/1192731/amazons-push-into-healthcare-just-cost-the-industry-30-billion-in-market-cap/ Black Panther https://www.google.com/search?q=black+panther+premiere&client=ms-opera-mobile&channel=new ★ Support this podcast ★
We're baaaack. Today, we're discussing bestseller, "Mating in Captivity" - intimacy and relationship guru, Esther Perel's book on the central paradox of love in long term relationships. Why does desire often fade even with couples who love each other? Why does love not always equate to desire? And, is it possible to have your cake and eat it too? Join us for millennials on... INTIMACY.
September 11, 2017 Summary of book "Mating in Captivity," Grass Always Greener, Thoughts on 9/11 by Dr. Farid Holakouee
Why do happily married couples cheat? Why does the modern egalitarian approach to marriage quash desire? Are the heightened expectations we bring to modern love combined with our pursuit of happiness directly related to infidelity? In this episode, author and couples therapist Esther Perel tackles the topic of infidelity. Perel is recognized as one of the most insightful and provocative voices on personal and romantic relationships and the complex science behind human interaction. She wrote the bestseller Mating in Captivity and is a consultant for the Showtime television series The Affair. Perel is interviewed by Hanna Rosin, co-host of NPR’s Invisibilia.
Garance Doré sits down with Esther Perel, Therapist, Author & Speaker in her beautiful kitchen in her downtown home. They talk about achieving a dream career, building healthy relationships, womanhood, and of course, the ever complicated topics of love and sex! For photos visit garancedore.com. Pardon My French is released every Thursday on iTunes.
In Mating in Captivity, Esther Perel asks the question, “How can you want, what you already have?” Love is about having; desire is about wanting. When you have too much desire you’re insecure and anxious. On the other hand, when you have too much love you’re too comfortable, you have too much security, and you feel trapped. The thesis of Mating in Captivity is that if you’d like to create passionate, long-lasting relationship you’ll need find a balance between your love and your desire. Perel gives her advice and tactics on how to find this balance. More info about Mating in Captivity and Ester Perel is on my site at http://castig.org/mating-in-captivity/ Twitter: www.twitter.com/castig
Relationships are still complicated. "We are creatures of meaning and we want to feel we matter." -Esther Perel The Cheat Sheet: Why have we lost the value of relational intelligence? How to know if you're in a role or are being accountable? How to rekindle relationships. Why the first person to apologize holds the power. How can you break the cycle of hostile dependence? And so much more... If we've been in relationships since the dawn of humankind why are they still so complicated? Here to answer that question is psychologist Esther Perel. Esther is a two-time Ted Talks speaker who wrote the New York Times best-selling book Mating in Captivity. Today on The Art of Charm Esther shares why men need more roles than simply the breadwinner, how we can appreciate the relationships we have and why the quality of our lives really is dependent on the quality of our relationships. Click Here to Support The Show and Check Out HostGator! More About This Show Esther Perel has been likened to a current day Dr. Ruth; her work is groundbreaking and pivotal to today's perspective on relationships. She is a licensed and practicing psychotherapist who has been profiled by The New York Times and The New Yorker. Her book, Mating in Captivity, is an international bestseller that has been published in 24 different languages. Obviously she knows a few things about the world of relationships! And on today's show she discusses why relationships are still complicated after thousands of years, why men deserve more freedom in their accepted roles in life and how we can rekindle any neglected relationship. Although we've been in relationship as long as we've been in existence, we're still experiencing significant challenges and problems in our relationships. Why? Why haven't we figured it out yet? Esther says it's because we have so many more choices today, something we've never had that before. Couple that with our adopted attitude of novelty, replacement and you'll understand why fewer people stay together through the difficult times. What if you are one of those couples who is navigating a difficult time and you want to rekindle the spark you once had together? The first step is to acknowledge your role in the situation. Ask yourself if you're treating your partner the way you treat your clients? Are you as good to your significant other as you are to other people in your life? If the answer is no then say so to your partner. And once you've acknowledged your lack of appreciation, start appreciating that person more. Don't save the gratitude for anniversaries, birthdays and Valentine's Day. Do something for them, give them the day off from being a mom or a caretaker. Take care of them for a change, and show your appreciation for all they do. If you're away on a business trip write a letter thanking your significant other for the things they do to make your life better, from taking care of the house while you're gone to caring for your kids, etc. You'll feel elevated by elevating and showing your gratitude for them. Esther also spells out how we can diffuse any argument no matter the subject and what hostile dependence is and how to let go of it in any relationship. Have a listen on episode 410 of The Art of Charm. THANKS ESTHER PEREL! If you enjoyed this session with Esther, let her know by clicking on the link below and sending her a quick shout out on Twitter: Click here to thank Esther on Twitter! Resources from this episode: Esther Perel's websiteEsther's special AOC bonusMating in Captivity by Esther Perel Esther Perel on TwitterEsther's Ted Talks The Art of Charm bootcamps Also sponsored by: Support The Show at our sponsor Stamps.com, enter the promo code Charm! You'll also like: -The Art of Charm Toolbox-Best of The Art of Charm Podcast On your phone? Click here to write us a well-deserved iTunes review and help us outrank the riffraff! Wanna leave a comment? Too bad! Email me instead (we read everything)! HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dug this episode, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from all the fluff out there. FEEDBACK + PROMOTION Hit us up with your comments and guest suggestions. We read EVERYTHING. Download the FREE AoC app for iPhone Email jordan@theartofcharm.com Give us a call at 888.413.7177 Stay Charming!
Join Esther Perel—best-selling author and internationally acclaimed expert on couples and sexuality—as she discusses obstacles and anxieties couples face when their quest for secure love conflicts with their pursuit of passion. Contrary to popular belief, sexual problems are not always the result of relational problems, and improving the emotional relationship may do little to improve the sex. Using case examples and video vignettes, Perel probes the bonds and conflicts between love and desire and crack open the mystery of eroticism that lies in the tension between them. Attendees will gain numerous clinical learnings and applications, including: a multicultural perspective on differing notions of love, marriage and sexual behaviors, highlighting the relationship between culture and sexuality; an identification of common blocks to eroticism including the fear of abandonment or entrapment, and the shame, guilt and worry that preclude the pursuit of pleasure; an understanding of how changing the sexual relation can transform a couple's entire relationship; strategies for helping couples balance their need for security and closeness with their quest for separateness and passion; and techniques for helping couples cultivate eroticism, bringing a sense of aliveness to the relationship—all among many others.
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