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Want to join The 100-Man Project? In this episode, I'm giving you my raw thoughts on the first 25 conversations I've had with men for the 100 Man Project. I haven't organized my notes yet, so this is really me, for the first time, putting thoughts together onThe patterns that have come upThe situations these men are in What they really want for their sex lifeWhere I believe their challenges are really stemming fromHow to work toward getting what they want Want to learn more about your body sexually, so you can rely on yourself instead of porn?Join Ronan

Season 2, Episode 10 "Thanks for the Advice"Everybody on social media is an expert. But who should you actually be listening to?

Top Episodes Replay Mini-Series no. 2 - Since couples seldom speak the same “sex language,” their primary needs may not be met. Sexologist and global sexual health advocate Dr Elna Rudolph explains why communicating about intimacy may feel awkward. She outlines the 5 sex languages, offering a useful framework to understand lovers' “types,” and suggests impactful phrases to use when making love. Sensitive content, meant for adult listeners. This episode's podcast notes and photograph · www.mariettesnyman.co.za · www.facebook.com · www.instagram.com · www.linkedin.com

Shame around queer desire does not disappear just because you want it to. If you were raised in the church and are now trying to explore dating women for the first time, this episode gives you a practical way to untangle what was taught to you from what you actually want. Emily, a sex and relationship therapist, answers a listener question from a woman in her early 30s who feels stuck between curiosity and shame. Emily breaks the problem into two parts: how to unpack religious shame, and how to take real, manageable steps toward dating women. Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Steve reports back from the inaugural Halberg Golf Day at Royal Auckland - a celebrity auction, a plus-handicap playing partner, a 21-under round and a great cause. Meanwhile the office golf simulator is quietly destroying everyone's productivity.Dave Wood's back on the show, and the boys are stuck in the gap between knowing the right thing to do and actually doing it - see: the kettlebells that have sat in the garage, still boxed, for two weeks. Plus the monthly "life dinner" relationship hack, a big birthday in Fiji, awards season for the team, a debate that'll split your household (sock-sock-shoe-shoe or sock-shoe-sock-shoe?), and a reflection on the response to the Gloria Masters episode.Heads up - there's a sexologist in the studio next week, so get your questions in. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Be part of the 100-Man Project here! Most men have never actually talked about their sex life out loud. Not to their woman, not to their friends, not to a doctor/therapist. They've been carrying it alone for years, convinced they're the only one dealing with what they're dealing with. I want to help change that!Between now and December 31, I'm having 100 free, private, 15-minute conversations with men about their sex lives. No sales pitch and no judgment, just an honest conversation about what's really going on with you and a step to take. In this episode you will learn: • Why I'm doing this, and what I expect to hear • What men tell me keeps them up at night around sex • Why 15 minutes is enough for you to shift something  • Why sharing 'explicit' info on a call responsibly with me is very different than "being a perv". • How to apply, and what happens after you doIf you're a woman listening and you know your man would benefit from this, send them this episode! It might be the thing that gets him talking and ready to take the next step.I'm Stephanie Ganowski, a clinical sexologist and sex coach who works with men. 

When you hear the term sex education, you might think of classes for kids in public schools. But what Charla Hathaway means by that is far broader. She’s an author with a PhD in human sexuality, and she also became a sex worker for a short time at age 55. She’s now 78, and over the last two decades, Hathaway has given a wide variety of classes and workshops about intimacy, touch, sensuality and sexuality. She says she wants to remove shame around bodies and sexuality in the culture and make those topics normal—not taboo—to talk about. Hathaway joins us to share more about her life and work and the one-woman show based on her work, titled “Naked at My Age.” She’s now performing a follow-up called “More Naked Than Ever.”

Season 2, Episode 9 "No Blueprint to Parenting" Every generation thinks they're doing it better than the last.And every generation has something they completely got wrong. Rah Ali, Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, and Taz are back at the table.This episode, they're getting into the conversation every parent has at 2 AM but nobody wants to say at the school pickup line: are we actually doing this right? Luis gets honest first—he started too young, and the opportunities he couldn't give his kids early on still sit with him today. Kash talks about the hypervigilance that comes with motherhood that nobody warned her about, the part of your brain that turns on the moment you give birth and never fully turns off. Rico cuts straight to it: inflation.Raising two kids in 2026 is the financial equivalent of raising four in 2006, and daycare alone is rent. Taz brings the perspective of doing something for the first time while knowing that getting it wrong affects somebody else's entire life.Then the conversation goes deeper—co-parenting, discipline, who you choose to have children with, and the legacy you're building whether you're thinking about it or not.The first relationship your child learns is the one they have with you, and that becomes their classroom for every relationship that follows. Nobody handed any of them a manual.And they are all still figuring it out in real time. Be very mindful of who you procreate with. You are making a lifelong decision.We're not letting anybody off the hook. On the contrary. We're not letting anybody off the hook. On the contrary.

Allie sits down for a fascinating conversation with Dr. Debra Soh, neuroscientist, sex researcher, and author of the book “Sextinction: The Decline of Sex and the Future of Intimacy.” Dr. Soh, previously identified as “sex positive” but now criticizes the harmful movement that holds consent as the only moral standard. Many scientists in her field have political motivations and agendas they want to push on the public which has affected their research. Her evolving views surrounding her research demonstrates her credibility on these topics as she draws conclusions from fact rather than fitting them into a political agenda. She discusses how many are choosing AI over actual people both physically and relationally. What many see as harmless actually poses danger to children and can lead to the degradation of human beings. Dr. Soh also explains the reason many GenZ are identifying as gay and why both sexes would benefit from being less promiscuous, proving scientifically what God has said from the beginning. Do you have a question for Allie? Leave a voicemail at 844-755-5252 Share the Arrows 2026 is on October 10 in Dallas, Texas! Tickets are on sale now at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://sharethearrows.com⁠⁠⁠ Share the Arrows is sponsored by: A'del Natural Cosmetics: AdelNaturalCosmetics.com Range Leather: RangeLeather.com/ALLIE We Heart Nutrition: WeHeartNutrition.com Buy Allie's book "Toxic Empathy: How Progressives Exploit Christian Compassion": ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.toxicempathy.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ – Time Codes 0:00 Introduction 3:52 Why Dr. Soh's Views Changed 8:00 Technology's Negative Impact on Relationships 18:12 The Consequences of Adult Entertainment 27:02 The Connection Between Transgenderism & P*rn 42:38 Feminism's Role 48:34 Dating Apps 58:20 Solutions – Today's Sponsors: Good Ranchers | If you go to ⁠⁠⁠GoodRanchers.com⁠⁠⁠ and subscribe to any box of 100% American meat, you'll save up to $500 a year! Plus, if you use code ALLIE, you'll get an additional $25 off your first order. CovePure is giving my audience $250 off if you use my link, CovePure.com/ALLIE . Patriot Mobile | Go to PatriotMobile.com/ALLIE or call 972-PATRIOT. Use promo code ALLIE for a free month of service. Alliance Defending Freedom | Every dollar you give to ADF by March 31 will be doubled by a special matching grant, only while matching funds last. Go to JOINADF.com/ALLIE or text ALLIE to 83848 to have your gift matched to protect brave Americans. Geviti | Go to gogeviti.com/allie and use code ALLIE for 20% off. Episodes You May Like: Ep 1140 | What Christian Men Look For in a Woman | Guest: Timothy Stuckey (Chief Relatabro) https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-1140-what-christian-men-look-for-in-a-woman/id1359249098?i=1000691988398 Ep 340 | The End of Gender? | Guest: Dr. Debra Soh https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-340-the-end-of-gender-guest-dr-debra-soh/id1359249098?i=1000502813990 --- ► Buy Allie's book, "You're Not Enough (& That's Okay): Escaping the Toxic Culture of Self-Love": https://alliebethstuckey.com/book ► Subscribe to the podcast: iTunes: https://apple.co/2UVssnP Spotify: https://spoti.fi/2FwkXxj ► Connect with Allie on Social Media: https://twitter.com/conservmillen https://www.instagram.com/alliebstuckey/ https://facebook.com/allieBlazeTV/ ► Relatable merchandise – use promo code 'ALLIE10' for a discount: https://shop.blazemedia.com/collections/allie-stuckey

A Swiss survey from 2023 suggests they do: 73% of women said they never watch pornography, compared to just 17% of men. Talking about porn consumption is still taboo and even more so for women. Sexologist and psychotherapist Patrizia Anex says that's no surprise. Admitting to watching and enjoying porn is still frowned upon, she explains. Many women do it quietly, fearing judgment. But do women actually watch less porn, or just keep it to themselves? And how do women feel about the porn that's out there? So why are more women watching now? In under 3 minutes, we answer your questions! To listen to the latest episodes, click here: ⁠What is revenge porn?⁠ ⁠What is poverty porn?⁠ ⁠What is Pornhub?⁠ A Bababam Originals podcast written and realised by Amber Minogue. First Broadcast: 12/1/2025 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What I Discussed With Dr Jess O'Reilly- Why sex toys can help couples adapt to changing bodies, arousal, and sexual needs as they get older.- How introducing a toy can create novelty and playfulness in a long-term relationship.- Why a sex toy is a tool for pleasure — not a replacement for intimacy or a partner.- How smaller, simpler toys can make introducing them into a relationship feel less intimidating.- Why toys can reduce performance pressure when erections, libido, or orgasm become less predictable.- How self-pleasure can help women understand what they like and communicate it more clearly.- Why desire doesn't always come before arousal, particularly in long-term relationships and later life.- How shame and embarrassment can stop older adults from talking openly about sex.- Why conversations about sex don't need to be perfect to be useful.- How the Yes/No/Maybe checklist can help couples explore sexual interests together.Chapters00:00 Introducing Dr Jess O'Reilly and the conversation about sex toys01:30 Why sex toys can improve intimacy in long-term relationships02:34 The importance of novelty as our bodies change with age04:36 Why some men feel threatened by sex toys06:20 How toys can reduce performance pressure07:14 Choosing versatile, accessible toys for different bodies08:38 How sex toys open up better conversations09:03 Using toys when erections or sexual performance are unreliable10:30 Why pleasure matters more than performance10:51 Choosing toys for different sensations and mobility needs11:59 Why simple controls can make toys easier to use13:58 The best couples' sex toys for beginners15:21 How air-pulse pleasure feels different from vibration16:08 Understanding the clitoris and changing sensations19:45 Why desire can begin after arousal21:17 Learning to trust your body and your capacity for pleasure22:47 Why satisfying sex and communication need to come first24:06 Shame, aging, and the pressure placed on older women25:20 Why talking about sex can protect long-term relationships27:59 How to start a conversation about sex toys with your partner30:52 A simple way to introduce a new toy without pressure33:45 The Yes/No/Maybe checklist for couples35:05 Dr Jess introduces the Womanizer Enhance36:10 Where to find more from Dr Jess and SuzanneShow NotesI've always been fascinated by sex toys. I was first given one when I was a blogger in the early 2000s, and these days I have boxes of them perhaps more than I really need.But sex toys aren't just about novelty or having a large collection. They can be genuinely useful as our bodies change, especially when arousal takes longer, sensitivity shifts, or erections and orgasms become less predictable.In this episode of Sex Advice for Seniors, I'm joined by Dr Jess O'Reilly, a globally recognised sexologist and relationship expert. Jess has a PhD in human sexuality and has delivered workshops in more than 45 countries.We talk about how couples can introduce sex toys without making either partner feel inadequate or threatened. We also discuss why starting with something simple can make all the difference, how toys can take the pressure off performance, and why pleasure should be viewed as a shared exploration rather than a test that someone has to pass.Jess and I also talk about the changing nature of desire. Sometimes we don't feel spontaneously “in the mood”, but that doesn't necessarily mean our desire has disappeared. With patience, touch, communication, and the right kind of stimulation, arousal can sometimes come first and desire can follow.We explore the role of masturbation, shame, sexual communication, and the importance of understanding what feels good in your own body before trying to explain it to someone else.And if you're not sure how to bring up the subject of sex toys with your partner, we have a simple suggestion: blame us. Tell them you heard about a product or idea on this podcast and ask what they think.Key Takeaways- Sex toys can help couples adapt to changing bodies and sexual responses.- Introducing a toy does not mean that a partner is inadequate.- The simplest toy is often the best place to begin.- Pleasure and connection matter more than sexual performance.- Desire may develop after arousal, rather than appearing beforehand.- Self-pleasure can improve communication between partners.- Talking about sex may feel awkward, but avoiding the conversation can create greater distance and resentment.About the GuestJess O'Reilly is a sexologist & relationship expert (PhD, MSc) who has delivered thousands of workshops in 45+ countries. She's the author of 5 books, host of the Sex With Dr. Jess podcast and a regular in media outlets ranging from Oprah Magazine and The Today Show to Playboy and Forbes.About SuzanneSuzanne Noble is a sex and relationship expert, author, and host of Sex Advice for Seniors, a podcast for people who want to enjoy sex, intimacy, and connection at every age.Through her podcast, newsletter, courses, and community, Suzanne challenges the idea that sex has an expiry date and offers honest, practical conversations about sexuality, ageing, relationships, and pleasure.Connect With SuzanneInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexadviceforseniorsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexadviceforseniorsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexadviceforseniorsSubstack: https://sexadviceforseniors.comConnect With Dr Jess O'ReillyWebsite https://happiercouples.com/Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexwithdrjess/Facebook https://www.facebook.com/sexwithdrjess/The Sex With Dr Jess Podcast https://happiercouples.com/podcasts/Want More?Visit the Website: https://sexadviceforseniors.com — includes FREE guides and resources for better sex at any age.Free Downloadable Guide: 10 Most Overlooked Secrets to Better Sex PDF: https://subscribepage.io/suzannenoblefreebieSign Up for My FREE Newsletter: https://sexadviceforseniors.comOvercome Erectile Dysfunction & Stay Firm: https://www.stayfirmprogram.comCheck Out My Storefront for Better Sex: https://zaap.bio/stayfirmInterested in 1:1 Coaching or Custom Sex Advice for Seniors Sessions? https://tidycal.com/suzannenoble/30-minute-mentoringRelated EpisodesWhy Women Are Ashamed of Sex Toys | ft. Dr. Shamyra Howard https://www.sexadviceforseniors.com/p/why-are-women-over-50-ashamed-ofWhy Sex Changes After 50 and What Nobody Tells You | ft. Dr. Jenn Kennedy https://www.sexadviceforseniors.com/p/why-sex-changes-after-50-and-what This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.sexadviceforseniors.com/subscribe

 Get your Yes / No / Maybe List HERE Season 3 is officially a wrap, so Arielle is sitting down solo for a long-overdue update on what worked, what definitely didn't, and what's changing before Season 4. After producing 20 episodes as a one-woman show, Arielle talks burnout, questionable audio, why Patreon didn't work, moving the bonus Birds & Bees Don't Read Reddit episodes to Substack, and the launch of Come Again. She also gets personal about the realities of working in entertainment right now, shifting her focus toward hosting and presenting, and why she no longer wants to be "the expert." Plus, The Distinguished Gentleman's Drive returns September 27th in support of Movember and yes, Birds & Bees Don't Fck will be back for Season 4. Check us out on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@birdsandbeesdontfck Venmo: @ArielleZadok  Want more? Catch bonus Reddit story reactions, date and experience reviews, and show updates on Substack!  Where to find Arielle: Instagram: @birdsandbeesdontfck TikTok: @birdsandbeesdontfck Substack: Come Again w/ Arielle Zadok Like jewelry that'll make you cum? Me too! Get $15 Off Crave Pleasure Jewelry Here: https://lovecrave.com/arielle   Episode Cheat Sheet 00:45 Thank You to Hundreds of New Subscribers 01:51 Why the Arts Matter 04:10 The Reality of Producing a Podcast for Free 08:25 Why Patreon Didn't Work 10:30 Introducing Come Again 11:12 Date, Travel & Experience Reviews Through a Sexologist's Lens 13:30 The Reality of Working in Hollywood Right Now 15:52 The Yes / No / Maybe List & What Happens to My Sex Education Resources 16:55 A Career Update + A New Mystery Project 17:35 The Distinguished Gentleman's Drive 18:14 Movember, Men's Health & Why Supporting Men Matters 22:57 Season 4 Is Happening! Here's What I Know 24:15 Why I Have to Take Care of Myself Before Making Another Season 26:35 Late Night Playset & Goodnight with Ben Gleib

Welcome to the first episode of Ask a Sexologist, where listeners send in their questions, stories and dilemmas, and Emily, a sex and relationship therapist, weighs in. Today's episode explores catfishing. Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness CentreSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Kim Anami, the world's top board-certified sexologist, joins Kid Carson for a bold conversation about sexual energy, intimacy, stamina, semen retention, breathwork, and the deeper potential of long-term relationships. She challenges conventional ideas about sex and shares practical techniques alongside some of her more controversial views on pleasure, connection, and conscious sexuality.Connect with Kim Anami:Website: KimAnami.comInstagram: @KimAnamiPodcast: Orgasmic Enlightenment on Spotify

Season 2, Episode 7: How Do You Define Fun at Different Ages?At some point, the club stops feeling like a release and starts feeling like a chore. Especially when you need acid reflux medication just to get through the night.

Emily is joined by sexologist and sex educator Lex Nyree to unpack humiliation kinks. They cover what counts as humiliation versus degradation, why some people are drawn to it, and how to explore it without crossing into harm. The conversation also goes deep on consent, aftercare, and why having this kink does not automatically mean someone has low self-esteem. Key topics Lex defines humiliation kink. Examples discussed include verbal humiliation, small penis humiliation, service humiliation, public embarrassment scenarios, forced feminisation, and financial domination. Emily and Lex discuss why humiliation kink can be appealing, including the release of control, novelty, sexual association developed over time, and accidental discovery through play. They discuss what it means to have a fantasy vs kink that is practised. Safety. Lex describes the experience of both submissives and dominants. They discuss how to bring up your humiliation kink with a partner. Does having a humiliation kink mean you have low self-esteem? Get the Ultimate Sexual Wellness Bundle (all my resources/ebooks!!) Want 10% off store products? Use code thatsorgasmic10 Submit your anonymous question for the podcast Anonymous question link: https://www.sexualwellnesscentre.com/podcast FOLLOW US on Instagram @thatsorgasmicSend your comments, questions and stories to: emilyduncan@thatsorgasmic.com Interested in therapy? Book your free discovery call HERE with Emily at The Sexual Wellness Centre www.sexwithlex.com.au Instagram @sexwithlexmelbSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Season 2, Episode 3: Why is it so hard for men to tell the truth? Lies have ended more relationships than cheating ever has. And nobody on this panel is pretending otherwise.

Season 2, Episode 4: "Bonnets & Durags Outside: Yes or No"It sounds like a small conversation. It is not a small conversation.Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Taz, and the full panel are back at the table, and this episode starts a debate that had everybody in their feelings before the first commercial break. Bonnets and durags outside—where do we draw the line? Is it a style choice, a cultural norm, a comfort thing, or has it become an excuse to stop caring about how we show up in public?Please visit our website for more https://www.onsiteglobalmedia.us/Luis comes in immediately with his position and he is not backing down. He wears his durag on the way to the function, takes it off when he gets there, and sees nothing wrong with that. The panel is not fully convinced. Kash draws the line at bonnets specifically and makes the case for the silk scarf instead.She breaks it all the way down: it's not really about the bonnet or the durag, it's about perception, image, and the version of yourself you're putting out into the world. Rah Ali even admits to being a bit of a hypocrite, confessing she loves a comfortable mumu and bonnet but will still pass judgment on others who step outside in them!Then the conversation takes a sharp left turn into men getting their nails painted, proper hookah posture, and whether any of it is a dealbreaker in a relationship. It goes exactly where you think it's going to go and somehow goes further. There's a time and a place for everything.The question is do you know the difference? We're not letting anybody off the hook. On the contrary.

The narrative that women can't keep friends, that we're catty, competitive, and disloyal?We're flipping all of it today. Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Rico, and Taz are at the table and this episode they're getting into one of the most layered conversations the panel has had all season female friendships. Who benefits from women believing they can't trust each other?What does it actually take to build a friendship between women that lasts?And is it really that women lose friends or that they outgrow them? Rico comes in immediately with zero female friends and zero apologies about it.The women at the table are not letting that slide. Kash breaks down the tiers of friendship and why not every friend is meant for every room. Rah gets real about the friends you love but can't bring everywhere and why that's not a betrayal, it's just knowing your people.And Taz brings the perspective that stops the whole conversation sometimes the friendship doesn't end, it just changes shape. And we have to get comfortable with that.Then a caller drops a situation that hits different her best friend of 12 years has gone cold and won't say why. The panel is divided on what to do next.Women don't lose friends. They outgrow them. And that's not something to apologize for.We're not letting anybody off the hook.On the contrary. Please visit our website for more http://www.onsiteglobalmedia.us/

What I Discussed With Dr Shamyra Howard...- What a man actually hears when his partner tells him she needs a toy to finish- The three words she gives every couple before they open the box- What happens to the clitoris once the estrogen goes, and why nobody warned us- The one question to answer before you look at a single product- What a manufacturer found when it stopped testing on twenty-five-year-olds- Why she keeps a box of lube next to her desk and gives it away to everyone- What a partner did with my vibrator that I have not stopped thinking about since- The belief about women's sexuality after 50 she would destroy tomorrowChapters00:00– Sponsor spotlight: https://www.ohmibod.com/00:28 – Breaking the silence on why midlife intimacy is due for a serious upgrade.02:06 – Looking at the outdated societal scripts and the hidden pleasure gap affecting mature women.04:11 – Why physical body changes after 50 make intimate aids essential tools rather than afterthoughts.05:10 – Why male partners often feel replaced by bedroom aids and the crucial mindset shift that changes everything.07:54 – How to smoothly invite a hesitant partner to explore intimate devices together without making it awkward.11:02 – The surprising clinical research showing how certain stimulation devices can actively reduce menopause symptoms.12:18 – Choosing the right sensation when navigating internal versus external stimulation options.13:53 – How targeted clitoral air technology is transforming arousal and natural blood flow in post-menopausal bodies.15:07 – Sponsor spotlight: GITM Playbook http://gitmplaybook.com/SUZANNE2015:53 – A compelling study on how regular orgasms can meaningfully protect and boost your mental health.17:17 – Creative ways to use a multi-use massage wand across the entire full body's erogenous zones with a partner.19:37 – Why investing in high-grade intimate wellness tools is just as essential as your regular self-care routine.20:12 – The non-negotiable rule about pairing the right body-safe lubricants with medical-grade silicone.22:04 – Overcoming the persistent stigma around dryness and why lubrication is basic physiology, not a personal failure.24:04 – Combining topical solutions with daily bedroom habits to turn intimate comfort into a completely seamless experience.25:50 – Letting go of performance anxiety and completely redefining what pleasure feels like after 50.26:48 – The single most damaging myth about ageing women's sexuality that needs to be completely dismantled.27:31 – Wrapping up with community resources and practical ways to keep prioritising your intimate life.Show NotesMost women over 50 were handed a script that said sex was something we provide rather than something we receive. Then our bodies changed, nobody explained why, and we quietly decided the problem was us.In this episode I'm joined by Dr Shamyra Howard, an award-winning sexologist and licensed therapist who founded On the Green Couch. She spends her working week with couples over 50 who cannot say one sentence out loud to each other, and she has heard every version of how that silence ends.I told her something I do not say often. I need a toy about 80% of the time to get there. I have also been with a man who told me toys were not coming into his bedroom, and that put more strain on the relationship than the toy ever could have. Shamyra explained what he was hearing that I had no idea he was hearing.She is just as direct about the industry. Most sex toy companies still design for the average twenty-five year old, and she names the two that stopped and started asking menopausal women what they actually want instead.There is no clinical distance in this conversation and no coyness either. If sex has quietly got harder and you have been waiting for it to sort itself out, this is the episode that tells you what you are waiting on.Listen, learn and enjoy.Key Takeaways- The oral medications for men release the brakes. Sex toys do the same job for women, and Shamyra's line for partners who feel replaced is that tools don't compete, they assist. The toy is a teammate, not a rival.- Estrogen, progesterone and testosterone all fall from around 50. Lubrication drops, clitoral sensation drops and arousal needs more input than it used to. Most male partners have never been told any of this, so they keep doing what always worked.- Invite, don't surprise. Bring your partner into the decision before the toy arrives, frame it as an us thing rather than a me thing, and be clear that if pleasure matters to both of you, this is not optional.- Do not start with the catalogue. Decide where you want the sensation first. Shamyra finds women over 50 are moving away from penetrative options and towards clitoral ones, which narrows hundreds of products to a handful.- Womanizer and We-Vibe are running their market research with menopausal and post-menopausal women rather than twenty-five year olds. Womanizer reports that users of one of its pleasure air devices experienced fewer menopause symptoms, including poor sleep and irritability.- Clitoral suction increases blood flow to the area, and blood flow is where the arousal problem sits. Plenty of women are not orgasming for the simple reason that they were never sufficiently aroused.- A wand earns its price outside the bedroom. Neck, shoulders, feet, behind the knees, the inside of the thighs, and on a partner's body too. Shamyra treats good toys the way we treat hair and nails, as something worth paying for.- Water-based lube only with silicone toys, or the material breaks down. Check the ingredients for glycerin. And needing lube is not a verdict on you or your partner. Wetness depends on hormones and arousal, and the hormones are leaving.About the GuestShamyra holds a Doctorate in Social Work, she's an international award-winning Sexologist, Professor, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist who exposes people to what they're missing from intimacy, so they can have a great relationship and better sex!She's a sexuality media maven featured in major digital and television productions, such as CNN, VOGUE, The New York Times, Peacock, OWN and many more, and she's the Founder of On the Green Couch, where she helps people manage sexual issues, create their best relationships, and have amazing sex.About SuzanneSuzanne Noble is a sex and relationship expert, author, and host of the Sex Advice for Seniors podcast, one of the top-rated shows empowering people 50+ to embrace confident, joyful intimacy. Known for her candid, warm, and often humorous approach, Suzanne challenges age-related taboos, misinformation, and awkward conversations about sex after 50. She helps millions around the world navigate their sexual lives with pleasure, connection, and self-assurance. Because life is too short for bad sex... or silence about it.Connect With SuzanneInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexadviceforseniorsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexadviceforseniorsTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexadviceforseniorsSubstack: https://www.sexadviceforseniors.comConnect with Dr Shamyra HowardWebsite: onthegreencouch.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexologistshamyraYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@sexologistshamyraFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/shamyralcsw/Want More?Visit the Website: https://sexadviceforseniors.com — includes FREE guides and resources for better sex at any age.Free Downloadable Guide: 10 Most Overlooked Secrets to Better Sex PDF: https://subscribepage.io/suzannenoblefreebieSign Up for My FREE Newsletter: https://sexadviceforseniors.comCheck Out My Storefront for Better Sex: https://zaap.bio/stayfirmInterested in 1:1 Coaching or Custom Sex Advice for Seniors Sessions? https://tidycal.com/suzannenoble/30-minute-mentoringLovehoney discount code ADVICE15 for the toys and lubricants discussed in this episode.Related EpisodesWhy Sex Changes After 50 and What Nobody Tells You | ft. Dr. Jenn Kennedy - https://www.sexadviceforseniors.com/p/why-sex-changes-after-50-and-whatThe Surprising 69% of Women Unhappy in Sex... and How to Fix It | ft. Malia Lazu - https://www.sexadviceforseniors.com/p/the-surprising-69-of-women-unhappy This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.sexadviceforseniors.com/subscribe

Welcome to PGX: Raw & Real #207PGX: Raw & Real is simple. I sit with people who've lived through something and/or made it big.This isn't meant to be inspiration or a template for life (for that, you can check out PGX Ideas).This space is different. It's their story, as they experienced it.In this episode, I spoke to Dr. Sankalp Jain — S*xual Health Expert.Timestamps:00:00 - IntroSegment 1: Myths VS Facts01:33 - Masturbation: Myth or Fact?04:00 - Is Nightfall Really Unhealthy?06:01 - Does Penis Size Matter?10:54 - Turtling Syndrome: What Is It?13:16 - Do Women Want Less S*x?16:32 - Can Porn Improve Your S*x Life?18:46 - Do Condoms Reduce Pleasure?19:32 - Why Viagra Could Be The Next Pandemic23:08 - Do Men Really Want More S*x?24:04 - Can You Spot A Virgin?25:19 - Can Tight Underwear Cause Infertility?27:13 - Doctors' #1 S*x Myth35:16 - Why Parents Avoid S*x Talks44:23 - Where Kids Learn About S*x49:32 - Pregnancy Myths People Still Believe51:33 - Circumcision & Phimosis Explained54:47 - Paraphimosis: A Medical Emergency58:41 - The Painful Side Effect Of Circumcision01:01:35 - Premature Ejaculation vs Erectile DysfunctionSegment 2: Google's Most Searched S*x Questions01:06:34 - Google's Biggest S*x Questions01:07:02 - How Often Should Couples Have S*x?01:10:04 - Is Low Libido Normal In Your 20s?01:12:31 - Is Normal To Have No S*xual Desire?01:16:38 - Virgin At 28: Is It Normal?01:17:06 - Losing Your Erection From Nervousness01:17:32 - Not Attracted To Your Partner?01:18:08 - When Your Partner Wants More S*x01:20:00 - Never Had An Orgasm?01:21:46 - Married But S*x Life Is Terrible01:25:13 - Why Young Indians Face Fertility Issues01:28:08 - Ancient Pregnancy Wisdom We Forgot01:30:35 - Building Your Intimacy Health Team01:32:24 - The Real Meaning Of LongevityEnjoy.— Prakhar

Gugs Mhlungu is joined by Dr  Mpume Zenda, Sexologist and OBGYN, unpacking what it is, what causes it, how it manifests, and why individuals may experience it differently. Gugs Mhlungu gets you ready for the weekend each Saturday and Sunday morning on 702. She is your weekend wake-up companion, with all you need to know for your weekend. The topics Gugs covers range from lifestyle, family, health, and fitness to books, motoring, cooking, culture, and what is happening on the weekend in 702land. Thank you for listening to a podcast from 702 Weekend Breakfast with Gugs Mhlungu. Listen live on Primedia+ on Saturdays and Sundays from 06:00 and 10:00 (SA Time) to Weekend Breakfast with Gugs Mhlungu broadcast on 702 https://buff.ly/gk3y0Kj For more from the show go to https://buff.ly/u3Sf7Zy or find all the catch-up podcasts here https://buff.ly/BIXS7AL Subscribe to the 702 daily and weekly newsletters https://buff.ly/v5mfetc Follow us on social media: 702 on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TalkRadio702 702 on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@talkradio702 702 on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talkradio702/ 702 on X: https://x.com/Radio702 702 on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radio702See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Watch the full video here: https://rucenterforpsychoanalysis.substack.com/p/recording-two-renegade-sexologists Join RU CENTER FOR PSYCHOANALYSIS at Substack: https://rucenterforpsychoanalysis.substack.com TWO RENEGADE SEXOLOGISTS: ON PSYCHOPATHIA SEXUALIS & THE SEXUAL CRIMINAL: A PSYCHOANALYTIC STUDY with Dr. Mikita Brottman This lecture considers the life and work of two renegade sexologists: Richard von Krafft-Ebing, and J. Paul de River. The aristocratic Krafft-Ebing was a German psychiatrist and author of the seminal Psychopathia Sexualis. J. Paul de River was the chief psychiatrist of the Los Angeles Sex Offense Bureau during the 1940s and author of The Sexual Criminal: A Psychoanalytic Study. The work of these two eccentric, obsessive, and sometimes deluded psychiatrists provide compelling time-capsules into the dark underbelly of 19th century Vienna, and the sordid backstreets of mid-century Los Angeles. Mikita Brottman is Professor of Literature at the Maryland Institute College of Art in Baltimore. She has a D.Phil from Oxford University in English Language and Literature, and is an NAAP certified psychoanalyst. She performs forensic evaluations for the National Institute for the study, prevention and treatment of sexual trauma. She is also the author of 15 nonfiction books, the latest of which, Guilty Creatures (Simon & Schuster, 2024) was described by the New York Times as “an unputdownable read.” https://mikitabrottman.com News & updates: Our next event is Saturday, August 15th, with the next installment of An Introduction to Psychoanalysis. We'll look at Jean Laplanche and his influence on queer theory, Heinz Kohut and Self Psychology, Transpersonal Psychology a la Abraham Maslow and Stanislav Grof, as well as Israel Regardie, an interesting character at the crossroads of 20th-century psychoanalysis and occultism. MORE INFO & REGISTER HERE: https://rucenterforpsychoanalysis.substack.com/p/an-intro-to-psychoanalysis-continues-c7e RU Center's next event with Mikita is scheduled for Wednesday, October 28th: The Uncanny as Creative Catalyst with Dr. Mikita Brottman. https://www.tickettailor.com/events/renderingunconsciouscenterforpsychoanalysis/2341560 This will be a taste of a 4 week course she is giving via Morbid Anatomy Museum: The Uncanny as Creative Catalyst with Author and Psychoanalyst Mikita Brottman, Ph.D., Begins November 11. https://www.morbidanatomy.org/classes/p/syo9i8m3saiiszq3b97cc6e5kr251e And before that she is teaching Reading and Writing True Crime with Author and Psychoanalyst Mikita Brottman, PhD, Begins September 15 via Morbid Anatomy Museum. https://www.morbidanatomy.org/classes/p/reading-and-writing-true-crime-with-true-crime-author-and-psychoanalyst-mikita-brottman-phd All these events are online and will be recorded! If you are interested in pursuing psychoanalytic treatment or supervision with me, please feel free to contact me directly: www.drvanessasinclair.net/contact/ As always, huge thanks to Carl Abrahamsson for providing the intro and outro music for Rendering Unconscious. https://linktr.ee/CarlAbrahamsson https://thefenriswolf.substack.com https://anartapart.substack.com The song at the end of this episode is "Invisible Womb" from the album "Indulgence not Abstinence" by Vanessa Sinclair and Pete Murphy: https://petemurphy.bandcamp.com/album/indulgence-not-abstinence-12 Support independent artists and musicians! Visit Pete's Bandcamp: https://petemurphy.bandcamp.com Our music is also available at Spotify and other streaming services. https://open.spotify.com/artist/3xKEE2NPGatImt46OgaemY Links to everything can be found at: https://linktr.ee/renderingunconscious Enjoy! Thank You.

In this episode, I'm sharing three more ways to give her more pleasure during sex and these are separate from the tips in Part 1, so if you haven't caught that one yet, go back and listen first :)I'm Stephanie, sexologist and sex coach for men. I help men overcome performance pressure and have great sex!Here's what I cover in this episode:1. Why great sex doesn't have to follow a linear "porn script" as most men learn.2. Why moving slower and paying attention to the "winning spot" will give your woman more pleasure.3. What it means to "pay attention to the cumdown"If you want to learn how to feel pleasure and stay present in your own body during sex instead of stuck in your head, get my app, Ronan:https://apps.apple.com/us/app/ronan/id6760799274

Why Is It Still So Hard to Talk About Sex? | Brainz Podcast with Dr. Linda FraimDr. Linda Fraim, Clinical Health Psychologist, Marriage & Family Therapist, certified Sexologist, educator, television host, and author, joins the Brainz Magazine podcast for a fascinating conversation on psychology, relationships, sexuality, communication, and holistic healing.In this episode, she shares how an unexpected career journey led her from studying engineering to becoming an internationally recognised psychologist, and why life rarely unfolds according to plan. Drawing on decades of clinical practice, teaching, and public education, Linda explores common misconceptions about mental health, why true wellbeing depends on balancing the mind and body, and how our earliest experiences shape the way we connect with others.The conversation also explores why conflict escalates, practical techniques for turning heated arguments into healthier conversations, the importance of trust and attachment in relationships, and why conversations around sex continue to feel uncomfortable despite living in a world with more information than ever before. Linda also shares insights from her extensive research into the history of sexuality, revealing how attitudes towards intimacy have evolved across different cultures and what those lessons can teach us about relationships today.From the science of attachment to the history of sexuality, this conversation explores the many factors that shape how we love, communicate, and connect with one another.With podcast host Míceál O'KaneEnjoy the episode! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Are you ready to confess? 'Cause we have something we wanna talk about! Singapore's 1st clinical sexologist, Dr Martha Tara Lee, joins us for an honest discussion on love, lust and all things coitus. We ask Martha all the burning questions we have, including: Can pornography be educational or destructive? Is no sex in a relationship a red flag? Should d*ck cheese and unwashed genitals be the ultimate dealbreaker? Also, how is Martha's sex life as a sexologist? As with many of our episodes, we find ourselves in therapy mode, unpacking our most traumatic sexcapades! Like why Josh developed a fear of sex. And why Sam Jo doesn't always enjoy choking. Watch the full video version of this episode on Youtube at The SG Boys channel.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How do we communicate our needs in a way that doesn't feel like criticism? Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from an episode that you might have missed.  Expressing our true desires, communicating what actually makes us feel good or safe, and dialling into our preferences and needs can be vulnerable territory with a partner... but it's a powerful path to intimacy when done with care. So we're throwing it back to this masterclass in feedback, communication, and relating more intimately with Darshana Avila.  Darshana is a trauma-informed somatic sex educator and Erotic Wholeness coach who has dedicated her career to helping people tune in to their truth, desires, and authentic relationships. Her work has been featured on Netflix's Sex, Love & goop, and she's spent over a decade guiding people out of the cultural patterns that keep them stuck. Listen to our full episode with Darshana here. Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes. Follow Darshana on her website and Instagram. For advertising and sponsorship inquiries, please contact Frequency Podcast Network. Subscribe to my Substack:teachmehowtoadult.substack.comFollow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

Sexologist and TV expert Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn (Celebs Go Dating, 90 Day Fiancé) joins us to break the heavy silence and shame surrounding sex, intimacy, and recovery.In a particularly raw moment, Matt admits he's never spoken openly about sex with another man, highlighting the exact stigma that causes so many men to suffer in silence.Dr. Tara, who has built an audience of over 2 million followers sharing advice on modern relationships, unpacks the reality of hypersexuality and how using sex to escape emotional pain only deepens our wounds. She shares her own journey of breaking free from oppressive cultural expectations, while offering vital advice on navigating heartbreak, handling mismatched desire, and practicing sexual mindfulness.It's an essential, judgment-free conversation about learning to listen to your body and trading performance for genuine connection.This episode covers the following themes: Hypersexuality, Shame, Heartbreak, Male Stigma, and Connection.Dr Tara's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luvbites.co/Interested in booking Dr. Tara? Enquire about her availability for appearances worldwide through MN2S. https://mn2s.com/booking-agency/talent-roster/dr-tara/AG1

Amanda Dames is a Certified Sex and Relationship Coach, Sexologist, and former professional dominatrix with over a decade of hands-on experience in the world of kink. As the creator of The Kink Consultant brand and host of The Kink Consultant Podcast, Amanda is on a mission to destigmatize kink, empower exploration, and help individuals and couples integrate BDSM into their relationships with confidence and clarity!00:00 - Welcome Amanda Dames04:00 - How Amanda became a Sex and Relationship Coach10:10 - Being a Dominatrix13:15 - Why do people like pain?14:20 - Types of Doms/Subs19:00 - Physical vs Non Physical Relationship20:45 - Dirty Talk22:45 - Amanda's Relationship25:00 - What is a Kink Convention/Swingers Cruise27:30 - How to deal with the lifestyle/shame30:00 - Where to find Amanda!-Watch full uncensored episode & bonus content: https://www.patreon.com/c/CayVin-Official Merch Store (cayvin.com): https://cayvinuniverse.square.site/-intro Music: youtube.com/@UCrAGIedgy7p-3j99DjJgpHgSocials! @cayvinuniverse-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cayvinuniverse/-TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@cayvinuniverse-Discord: https://discord.gg/c9d6eQ7MNe-X: https://x.com/CayVinUniverse- DM us a question!CayVin Universe is a weekly society podcast hosted by Caylin & Vinny Vasquez, where real conversations meet the wildest stories and current events of the week! Each episode dives into news, viral videos, pop culture, science, mysteries, space, and history — exploring the everyday questions people actually think about through honest, laid-back discussions that go wherever curiosity leads! No fake outrage or forced takes, Just thoughtful opinions, surprising facts, and moments that make you laugh, question things and reflect!

Aubrey Masango speaks to Elvis Munatswa, Co-Founder of Urban Psychologist and Sexologist to discuss male and female sexual desire, the science behind it, and the social and cultural factors that shape relationships. Tags: 702, Aubrey Masango show, Aubrey Masango, Bra Aubrey, Man Torque, Elvis Munatswa, Sexologist, Polygamy, Sex Drive, Infidelity, Cheating The Aubrey Masango Show is presented by late night radio broadcaster Aubrey Masango. Aubrey hosts in-depth interviews on controversial political issues and chats to experts offering life advice and guidance in areas of psychology, personal finance and more. All Aubrey’s interviews are podcasted for you to catch-up and listen. Thank you for listening to this podcast from The Aubrey Masango Show. Listen live on weekdays between 20:00 and 24:00 (SA Time) to The Aubrey Masango Show broadcast on 702 https://buff.ly/gk3y0Kj and on CapeTalk between 20:00 and 21:00 (SA Time) https://buff.ly/NnFM3Nk Find out more about the show here https://buff.ly/lzyKCv0 and get all the catch-up podcasts https://buff.ly/rT6znsn Subscribe to the 702 and CapeTalk Daily and Weekly Newsletters https://buff.ly/v5mfet Follow us on social media: 702 on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TalkRadio702 702 on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@talkradio702 702 on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talkradio702/ 702 on X: https://x.com/Radio702 702 on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radio702 CapeTalk on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CapeTalk CapeTalk on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@capetalk CapeTalk on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ CapeTalk on X: https://x.com/CapeTalk CapeTalk on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CapeTalk567See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is there such a thing as too much PDA? While there is no definitive answer, there are moments where even the most open of us must draw the line?But, are we drawing the line too soon in Ireland?Joining Seán to discuss this is Dr Siobhan O'Higgins, Sexologist and Educator from the School of Psychology at the University of Galway.

Do you know your sexual personality type? Welcome to today's ICYMI, where we kick off the week with a quick game-changing tip from an episode that you might have missed.  If you like personality tests and frameworks like Myers Briggs, learning your sexual profile can make a huge difference in your sex life. We're throwing it back to this helpful segment from TikTok's #1 sex educator, Dr. Tara, on how to know if you and your partner are sexually compatible, what to do if you have different sexual preferences, and the key to connecting in bed if you have different sexual personality types. Dr. Tara is a certified sexologist, award-winning researcher, tenured professor of relational and sexual communication, TV host, radio host, a coach and the Internet's Resident Sex Expert. She's the host of Luvbites Podcast that focuses on sexual wellness and sexploration, and she just released her new book, How Do You Like It? A Guide for Getting What You Want (in Bed).  Listen to the full episode here! Take the Sexual Profile Quiz: https://www.luvbites.co/quizzes/whats-your-sexual-profile Tune in every Monday for an expert dose of life advice in under 10 minutes. Follow Dr. Tara on TikTok and Instagram Get Dr. Tara's new book, How Do You Like It   Subscribe to my Substack:teachmehowtoadult.substack.comFollow us on the ‘gram:@teachmehowtoadultmedia@gillian.bernerFollow on TikTok: @teachmehowtoadultSubscribe on YouTube

Is modern dating broken or are we just playing it too safe? Sexologist and soon-to-be sex therapist, Tori, joins us for a refreshingly honest conversation about why dating feels so exhausting right now. We cover the swipe-culture trap, why women keep settling for bare minimum, and the very real problem with using ChatGPT to write your texts. Tori breaks down what a real red flag looks like, why inconsistency is the number one relationship killer, and why dating yourself might be your best move yet. Plus, compliments, eye contact, and why your gym is the dating app you're not using.✨ Special Offers: ✨Splash Blanket! | Use code Jordan15ProDx Health | Use JordanDnelle to save 25%Thank you to our Sponsors: Splash Blanket, Prodx, PhexxJump to the Good Stuff:05:23 – Meet Tori, sexologist, sex therapist, & former exotic dancer06:17 – What even IS modern dating? The dopamine swipe trap explained07:32 – Why women are swearing off men08:59 – The best places to meet people IRL; apps aren't it17:27 – How to date yourself & be available while doing it19:59 – The ChatGPT dating problem24:04 – Red flags: what's real vs. what's noise24:57 – Inconsistency as the #1 relationship dealbreaker27:22 – Calling someone out without blowing it up34:05 – How Tori defines pleasurePleasure Highlights:Swipe culture kills depth, be intentionalIRL presence beats any dating appChatGPT can't fake real vulnerabilityInconsistency is the #1 red flagPleasure isn't always sexual, reclaim itConnect with Tori:Instagram @torirthesexcoachWebsite: Tori the Sex CoachEnhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more HERE. Connect with Jordan D'Nelle:Facebook @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌jordandnelle Instagram @‌TheVVVPodcastTikTok @‌jordandnelleYoutube @jordandnelleWebsite: jordandnelle.comEmail: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.comLove this Episode?Join Patreon for bonus content: patreon.JordanDnelle.comLeave a review on iTunes.Subscribe & Follow on socials!Listen and Subscribe to the Podcast:Apple PodcastSpotify PodcastYoutube @jordandnelle*Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational and/or entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The views and opinions expressed are my own, or those of my guests, and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions with which I am affiliated.Vaginas, Vulvas, and Vibrators, the unapologetic women's sexual wellness podcast, normalizing pleasure, bodies, and sexual health through expert, shame-free conversations.PhexxINDICATIONPhexx® is an on-demand prescription birth control used to prevent pregnancy. Phexx is not effective when used after sex.IMPORTANT SAFETY INFORMATIONRare cases (0.36%) of bladder and kidney infection have been reported. If you have a history of urinary tract problems that keep coming back, you should not use Phexx.Contact your healthcare provider if you are experiencing genitourinary side effects such as vaginal burning, itching, discharge, genital discomfort (including in male partners), yeast infection, urinary tract infection or bacterial vaginosis.Phexx does not protect against any sexually transmitted infections, including HIV. Avoid using Phexx with a vaginal ring.Avoid Phexx if you or your sexual partner is allergic to lactic acid, citric acid, potassium bitartrate, or any of the Ingredients in Phexx. Stop using Phexx If you develop an allergic reaction.For more information about Phexx, talk to your healthcare provider and see full Product Informationat www.phexx.com.Please report side effects by contacting Evofem Biosciences® toll-free at 1-833-EVFMBIO or contact FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 or www.fda.gov/medwatch. EVFM-PHX-000068

What if the biggest barrier to better sex isn’t your body, your partner, or your libido, but the shame and silence surrounding it? In this episode, Dr Mariam sits down with Australia’s go-to sexologist, Chantelle Otten, for a candid, practical and deeply reassuring conversation about sex, intimacy and why so many of us are still too embarrassed to talk about what’s happening in the bedroom. From mismatched libidos and postpartum desire dips to painful sex, vaginismus and the mental load that can kill the mood before anyone even makes it to bed, Chantelle explains why great sex isn’t about performance, it’s about curiosity, communication and giving yourself permission to change the rules. Plus, she answers your anonymous listener questions: Why can you orgasm alone but not with a partner? Is it normal to lose all desire after kids? And what should you know before going to your first sex party? GET IN TOUCH Sign up to the Well Newsletter to receive your weekly dose of trusted health expertise without the medical jargon. Ask a question of our experts or share your story, feedback, or dilemma - you can send it anonymously here, email here or leave us a voice note here. Ask The Doc: Ask us a question in The Waiting Room. Follow us on Instagram and Tiktok. Support independent women’s media by becoming a Mamamia subscriber New Mamamia subscribers get $40 off — $20 off an annual membership and $20 off your TWOOBS order. Click here to subscribe.Already a subscriber? Click here for your $20 TWOOBS discount code.T&C's apply. CREDITS Hosts: Claire Murphy and Dr Mariam Guest: Chantelle Otten Senior Producer: Tahli Blackman Executive Producer: Grace Rouvray Group Executive Producer: Ilaria Brophy Audio Producer: Scott Stronach Social Producer: Elly Moore Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Information discussed in Well. is for educational purposes only and is not intended to provide professional medical advice. Listeners should seek their own medical advice, specific to their circumstances, from their treating doctor or health care professional.Support the show: https://www.mamamia.com.au/mplus/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

How you're feeling emotionally has such an impact on your sex life. It can be hard to feel turned on or connect with people when you're feeling down, stressed or just numbness from the cooked state of the world. In this ep, Dee chats to sexologist Claire Diaz about how to reconnect to pleasure during hard times. SHOW NOTES:Claire Diaz: https://www.clairediazsexology.com/Lifeline: 13 11 14 DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

This is one of those conversations every parent needs to hear...so we had to RUN IT BACK. Certified sex educator, intimacy expert, and bestselling author Shan Boodram joins the Mamas for an honest, hilarious, and deeply informative conversation about how to talk to our children about their bodies, boundaries, consent, crushes, and sex—without fear or shame. From toddlers touching themselves to teenagers navigating their first relationships, Shan walks us through what healthy sexual development actually looks like at every age and explains why giving kids the correct language for their body parts can be one of the most powerful ways to protect them. The Mamas also get personal, sharing their own experiences with purity culture, parenting teenagers, and the very real tension between wanting to keep our children safe while preparing them for healthy, loving relationships. Whether you're raising toddlers, tweens, or teens, this episode is packed with practical guidance, unforgettable laughs, and the kind of information many of us wish our own parents had. Trust us: save this episode, send it to your partner, and share it with every parent you know. ____ The Mama's Den is on tour throughout May and there are THREE cities left!

Sexologist, Shan Boodram joins me to discuss porn, the orgasm gap, and so much more. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

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We’re kicking off the week with a conversation guaranteed to spark a few chats at home… The guys sit down with globally recognised sexologist Juliet Allen for an honest, eye-opening chat about intimacy, connection, and keeping the spark alive. From dirty talk and wooing their wives, to the uncomfortable question of whether they’re actually doing the bare minimum as partners - nothing is off limits. Juliet shares practical advice on low libido, emotional moments after sex, and how to start those sometimes awkward conversations about mixing things up in the bedroom. Insightful, relatable, and just the right amount of spicy - this one might leave you wanting more… from the episode or from your partner!If you want to get in touch with Juliet or check out her huge catalog of resources, tips and advice - head to her instagram here or her website here If you need a shoulder to cry on: Two Doting Dads Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/639833491568735/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheTwoDotingDads Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/twodotingdads/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@twodotingdads See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

If you thought part one was raw, wait until you see where this conversation goes next. Sexologist Coral Osborne is back: No holding back, no scripts, just actual tools for healing, exploring, and redefining intimacy. From sex addiction myths to the epidemic of loneliness, and even the wild world of AI relationships, Coral exposes the hidden psychology, cultural baggage, and unmet needs that shape everything from fantasies to choosing your partner. This is where you discover the secrets for breaking free from shame and finally creating the relationship you want.  Women's sexuality as power: the data, the disparity, and weaponization explained Kinkifying everything: how women and men use sex to negotiate, connect, and gain leverage RBDSMA: The step-by-step guide every woman should teach her daughter before sex Confidence, self-worth, and why “being desired” has NOTHING to do with your age or body type Eight types of intimacy, the “situationship” epidemic, and how we find real connection Magnetic chemistry, toxic attraction, and why you keep choosing the wrong love The negative aphrodisiac: how pain, shame, fear, and anxiety shape sexual pleasure Healing dissociation, surrender, and Coral Osborne's radical journey to self-love (featuring a wild DMT story!) The rise of AI boyfriends, digital intimacy, and why some women might prefer bots What happens when a woman hires a male sex worker? Receiving, giving, vulnerability, and the “female thing” no one talks about Healing in relationship, building trust, and why your “paradoxical” traits are your superpower The one thing every woman needs to know about men: complexity, truth, and radical acceptance Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com  Follow Coral Osborne: Website: https://coralosborne.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne/ Podcast: The Next Man Up FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you thought part one was raw, wait until you see where this conversation goes next. Sexologist Coral Osborne is back: No holding back, no scripts, just actual tools for healing, exploring, and redefining intimacy. From sex addiction myths to the epidemic of loneliness, and even the wild world of AI relationships, Coral exposes the hidden psychology, cultural baggage, and unmet needs that shape everything from fantasies to choosing your partner. This is where you discover the secrets for breaking free from shame and finally creating the relationship you want.  Women's sexuality as power: the data, the disparity, and weaponization explained Kinkifying everything: how women and men use sex to negotiate, connect, and gain leverage RBDSMA: The step-by-step guide every woman should teach her daughter before sex Confidence, self-worth, and why “being desired” has NOTHING to do with your age or body type Eight types of intimacy, the “situationship” epidemic, and how we find real connection Magnetic chemistry, toxic attraction, and why you keep choosing the wrong love The negative aphrodisiac: how pain, shame, fear, and anxiety shape sexual pleasure Healing dissociation, surrender, and Coral Osborne's radical journey to self-love (featuring a wild DMT story!) The rise of AI boyfriends, digital intimacy, and why some women might prefer bots What happens when a woman hires a male sex worker? Receiving, giving, vulnerability, and the “female thing” no one talks about Healing in relationship, building trust, and why your “paradoxical” traits are your superpower The one thing every woman needs to know about men: complexity, truth, and radical acceptance Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com  Follow Coral Osborne: Website: https://coralosborne.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne/ Podcast: The Next Man Up FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Let's get real: Have you ever wondered why men step out, even when they claim they love their partners? Or struggled to understand the weird paradoxes men carry about sex and love, and why communication just keeps missing the mark?  Today, I am sitting down with Coral Osborne—certified sexologist, former high-end sex worker, and absolute powerhouse when it comes to pulling back the curtain on the things men never tell their wives, unraveling the psychology of men, sex, and connection. If you've ever felt confused about how intimacy actually works, this episode is your new playbook for building real connection and exploring sexual truth! Why Men See Sex Workers for What They Can't Get at Home Why Couples Therapy Doesn't Fix Sex Issues Men in love who still cheat: the “why” behind their actions Unpacking the Madonna/Whore complex: How childhood wounds shape adult sex and intimacy Connection, pleasure, and kink: the three pillars of great sex Authenticity over performance: Why turning yourself on matters more Breaking down the psychology of fantasies, attachment styles, and the shadow self Differences in men's and women's fantasies and erotic blueprints YES/NO/MAYBE lists, sexual types, and designing your sex life together Men's most common unspoken fantasy: dominance, sadomasochism, and the dark side of unmet anger Why dominance and submission show up in ways that surprise both men and women Threesomes, boundaries, and the symbolism behind group sex  Sex addiction: why it's a myth, what's really behind infidelity, and the power of truth-telling outside the bedroom Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com  Follow Coral Osborne: Website: https://coralosborne.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne/ Podcast: The Next Man Up FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Let's get real: Have you ever wondered why men step out, even when they claim they love their partners? Or struggled to understand the weird paradoxes men carry about sex and love, and why communication just keeps missing the mark?  Today, I am sitting down with Coral Osborne—certified sexologist, former high-end sex worker, and absolute powerhouse when it comes to pulling back the curtain on the things men never tell their wives, unraveling the psychology of men, sex, and connection. If you've ever felt confused about how intimacy actually works, this episode is your new playbook for building real connection and exploring sexual truth! Why Men See Sex Workers for What They Can't Get at Home Why Couples Therapy Doesn't Fix Sex Issues Men in love who still cheat: the “why” behind their actions Unpacking the Madonna/Whore complex: How childhood wounds shape adult sex and intimacy Connection, pleasure, and kink: the three pillars of great sex Authenticity over performance: Why turning yourself on matters more Breaking down the psychology of fantasies, attachment styles, and the shadow self Differences in men's and women's fantasies and erotic blueprints YES/NO/MAYBE lists, sexual types, and designing your sex life together Men's most common unspoken fantasy: dominance, sadomasochism, and the dark side of unmet anger Why dominance and submission show up in ways that surprise both men and women Threesomes, boundaries, and the symbolism behind group sex  Sex addiction: why it's a myth, what's really behind infidelity, and the power of truth-telling outside the bedroom Thank you to our sponsors: Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at https://shopify.com/lisa K18: 10% off with code LISA at https://k18hair.com  Follow Coral Osborne: Website: https://coralosborne.com  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theunrealcoralosborne/ Podcast: The Next Man Up FOLLOW LISA BILYEU: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/womenofimpact⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu?lang=en Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Season 6, Episode 730: This is a replay of an episode that aired on 4/25/25, but being reposted to provide the video version for the podcast audience. Removing Shame and Roadblocks to Women's Sexual Pleasure with Sexologist Lucy Rowett. Guest Bio: Lucy Rowett, CSC, is a certified sexologist and sex coach who is passionate about helping women and people with vulvas let go of sexual shame and hangups and embrace pleasure to create the passionate relationships they've always desired. She is the host of the Naked and Unashamed Life podcast, and the resident sex coach at UK contraception platform, The Lowdown. She is regularly quoted in the media for her expertise in sexual health and wellness, pleasure, and sexual shame- including iNews, Cosmopolitan, Men's Health, GQ, The Sun, Insider, and Glamour. In 2023, she was nominated for somatic sexologist of the year at the sexual freedom awards. She uses a combination of mind body tools with evidence-based sexuality education to create a fun and open space for women and vulva havers to explore their full erotic potential. Her speciality is working with women and people with vulvas who come from Faith backgrounds who are struggling to let go of sexual shame and enjoy pleasurable and intimate relationships again. Summary: Breaking Free from Sexual Shame: A Revolutionary Conversation Dive into a transformative discussion between Ruan Willow and sexologist Lucy Rowett as they tackle the often-silenced topic of women's sexual pleasure. This eye-opening episode challenges the deeply rooted shame surrounding female sexuality and offers a fresh perspective on embracing our natural desires. Lucy, a specialist in supporting women and non-binary individuals, shares powerful insights about: - The universal impact of sexual shame across all backgrounds - Dismantling harmful cultural narratives that suppress pleasure - The importance of comprehensive sexual education - Understanding female arousal and the physiology of pleasure - Creating safe spaces for sexual exploration and expression The conversation navigates through the evolution of female sexuality in modern culture, from the mainstreaming of erotic literature to the vital role of sex-positive communities in fostering acceptance and growth. Ready to transform your relationship with pleasure and embrace a shame-free approach to sexuality? This episode is your gateway to understanding and celebrating your sexual wellbeing. Tune in now for an empowering journey towards sexual liberation. Sexual health is mental health, and your sexual wellness matters! Links: Learn more: https://lucyrowett.com/ Free guide to confident sexual communication: https://bit.ly/askforwhatyoureallywant Free meditation to connect to your vulva: https://bit.ly/handheartv Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lucylurowett Podcast: The Naked and Unashamed Life Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0MdbEOJW9nXRqLsAMSTRAn?si=2ce2d298be93495c Get Ruan's new spicy dark romance book Beach House Views: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/beachhouseviewsbook Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow  

We try to figure out Cornhole, then we talk about a famous Sexologist, we review the Love Story finale, and more!patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, I'm taking you inside one of Paris's most talked-about and notoriously hard-to-get-into sex clubs: Les Chandelles (aka "The Candlesticks"). Andrew and I had been planning this Europe trip for a while, and visiting this club was on our list.I share what it was actually like getting in (yes, the stilettos and suits are non-negotiable), the stark cultural differences between American and European sex clubs, and how the experience ended up being a sexy, fun, trust-building moment in our relationship.I also get real about timing-  why my boyfriend and I waited until we were truly secure as a couple before exploring this kind of experience and why trying to use something like this to "fix" a relationship is often a recipe for disaster based on my professional opinion. Whether this is something you're curious about or just want to understand better, I hope this episode gives you an honest, thoughtful perspective into what a great first experience can look like!The 1% Man's Guide to the Sex Life You Were Built For:https://www.stephanieganowski.com/the-shift/

Ever been mentally turned on but your body isn't responding? Or maybe your body is turned on but your mind isn't? That's arousal non-concordance, and it's way more common than you think. In this ep, Dee speaks to psychologist and sexologist Laura Lee about why it happens, how it can impact consent and how to handle it.SHOW NOTES:Laura Lee Website - https://www.lauralee.com.au/DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

Coral Osborne is a Certified Sexologist, Sex and Intimacy Coach who specializes in helping men overcome intimacy struggles, reconnect with their desires, and build more fulfilling relationships. Before becoming a Sexologist, Coral spent years as a high-end provider, where she witnessed men in their most unguarded moments—revealing fears around performance, shame about desire, and confusion about intimacy. Those experiences laid the foundation for her current work: helping men heal sexual shame, build confidence, and create embodied, emotionally connected relationships. She has trained with the Sexual Health Alliance, Somatica Institute, and Dr. Saida Desilets' Embodied Psychosexual Method (EPSM), with additional study in tantra, kink/bdsm, somatic experiencing, Jungian psychology, and men's work. Her multi-disciplinary approach integrates evolutionary psychology, attachment theory, cultural constructivism, depth psychology, and polyvagal theory. Coral believes our relationship to sex mirrors how we engage with life—and that healing the Madonna–Whore split is essential to reclaiming wholeness and vitality. She writes a regular Substack column dissecting erotic experience through a sexological lens and is at work on her first book, The Whore's Gospel: Case Studies in Sex, Power & Truth. She also hosts The Next Man Up podcast, exploring the paradoxes and misconceptions of modern masculinity.  Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

If you're a man who feels lost, insecure, or unsure of how to own your sexual confidence, this episode will hit home. My client, Kyle, came to coaching after a divorce, a career change, and a lifetime of quiet shame around sex.Kyle opens up about the uncomfortable but sexually freeing journey of learning to trust himself, express his desire, and feel sexy again. His story is raw, relatable, and inspiring. If you're wondering what real transformation looks like for men, this is it. I hope you enjoy this episode. If you're interested in 1:1 coaching with me you can apply here: https://stephanieganowski.typeform.com/to/Fm6LGfa9?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=1on1_coachingIf you're interested in joining Ronan, start here: http://stephanieganowski.ac-page.com/ronan-landing-pageIf you're a man who has used my content (or worked with me 1:1 in the past!) and want to share your story on the podcast, you can email me at stephanie@stephanieganowski.com