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What does it actually take to build an empire, and what do you have to overcome within yourself to get there? In this episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius sits down with Elena Cardone, entrepreneur, philanthropist, investor, and bestselling author of “Build an Empire: How to Have it All”. Elena opens up about a childhood marked by profound loss, how she left New Orleans at 17 with nothing but a dream of making it in Hollywood, and the pivotal moment in 2008 that changed everything. When the financial crisis brought her and Grant to the edge of losing it all, Elena made a decision that would reshape her identity, her marriage, and her future. Elena and Darius go deep on what it really means to build a life by design. From defining roles in a marriage so both partners can operate at 100%, to confronting the subconscious patterns that quietly sabotage success, this conversation is raw, honest, and full of hard-won wisdom. Elena also shares how understanding the reactive mind through Dianetics became the single most transformative tool in her personal and professional life, and why she credits it as the foundation of everything she and Grant have built together. In this episode, Darius and Elena will discuss: (00:00) Introduction and Guest Introduction (01:26) Elena's Origin Story (05:31) Moving to Los Angeles and Early Life Challenges (08:44) Transitioning from Acting to Supporting Grant (11:44) Defining Roles in Their Partnership (15:15) Navigating Financial Crisis and Building Together (19:32) Creating a Supportive Environment in Marriage (24:26) The Value of Long-Term Relationships (25:40) Reinventing Relationships Over Time (27:43) The Importance of Agreements in Marriage (29:25) Understanding the Mind: Dianetics and Personal Growth (34:57) Navigating Emotions and Reactive Minds (40:58) Trusting Yourself and Overcoming Barriers to Greatness Elena Cardone Elena Cardone is a bestselling author, speaker, and entrepreneur dedicated to empowering women, strengthening families, and creating financial opportunity for the next generation. She is the author of “Build an Empire: How to Have it All” and the host of The Elena Cardone Show podcast. As co-founder of the Grant Cardone Foundation, Elena works to bring financial and business education to underserved youth. She also co-founded Cardone Mortgage, offering personalized home financing solutions across all 50 states, and serves as a licensed Realtor with eXp Realty, leading an organization of over 500 agents. Alongside her husband Grant Cardone, she has helped build a real estate portfolio valued at over $5 billion. Elena lives in Miami with Grant and their two daughters, Sabrina and Scarlett. Connect with Elena: Website: www.elenacardone.com/success Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elenacardone/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elenacardoneWIP/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/ElenaCardone Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this popular episode from last spring, Joanne speaks with author and fruit tree care educator Susan Poizner about her book, Fruit Tree Pruning: The Science and Art of Cultivating Healthy Fruit Trees, and shares Susan's practical advice for growing healthier, more productive fruit trees. About Susan Poizner Susan Poizner is an award-winning author, journalist, urban orchardist, and fruit tree care educator based in Toronto, Canada. She trains arborists, master gardeners, and community and home orchardists in fruit tree maintenance through in-person workshops, online courses, and webinars. Her books include Grow Fruit Trees Fast, Growing Urban Orchards, Fruit Tree Grafting for Everyone and Fruit Tree Pruning. Here are some of the topics discussed in this episode: Fruit Trees Are a Long-Term Relationship, Not an Impulse Purchase Fruit trees require planning, patience, and ongoing care. Instead of grabbing a pretty tree from a garden centre, research disease-resistant varieties, pollination needs, rootstock size, hardiness zone, and the right nursery source before planting. Proper Pruning Is Essential for Healthy Trees and Better Fruit Susan explains why young bare-root trees should be pruned the day they're planted, how formative pruning shapes a tree for life, and why mature trees can often be restored with thoughtful pruning. Learn the difference between trimming and pruning, especially how over-trimming can create dense, unhealthy canopies. Healthy Soil, Smart Placement, and Natural Care Lead to Better Harvests To thrive, fruit trees need full sun, enough root space, compost or quality mulch, annual cleanup, dormant spray, and attention to soil health. Good care reduces disease pressure, improves fruit quality, and makes fruit trees more productive without relying heavily on chemical sprays. Find Susan Poizner online at orchardpeople.com and Fruit Tree Pruning: The Science and Art of Cultivating Healthy Fruit Trees on Amazon. You can also check out her YouTube channel or listen to the Orchard People podcast. Have a topic you'd like Joanne to discuss? Email your questions and comments to downthegardenpathpodcast@hotmail.com, or connect with Joanne on her website: down2earth.ca Find Down the Garden Path on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube: @downthegardenpathpodcast. Down the Garden Path Podcast On Down The Garden Path, professional landscape designer Joanne Shaw discusses down-to-earth tips and advice for your plants, gardens and landscapes. As the owner of Down2Earth Landscape Design, Joanne Shaw has been designing beautiful gardens for homeowners east of Toronto for over a decade. She does her best to bring you interesting, relevant and useful topics to help you keep your garden as low-maintenance as possible. In Down the Garden Path: A Step-By-Step Guide to Your Ontario Garden, Joanne and fellow landscape designer Matthew Dressing distill their horticultural and design expertise and their combined experiences in helping others create and maintain thriving gardens into one easy-to-read monthly reference guide. Get your copy today on Amazon. Don't forget to check out Down the Garden Path on your favourite podcast app and subscribe! You can now catch the podcast on YouTube.
Cement Manyathela speaks to Nicki Brivik, who is a Sexual Wellness Coach to discuss what erotic energy is and how couples can reignite it in long term relationships.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
✨ Episode SummaryIn this special Q&A episode, Keana answers real questions from listeners navigating the emotional, practical, and spiritual complexities of dating after divorce or the end of a long‑term relationship.This episode is filled with grounded wisdom, trauma‑informed guidance, and insights from leading psychologists who study post‑relationship healing. Whether you're newly single, cautiously curious about dating again, or trying to rebuild your confidence, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and direction.
Travels With Randy Route 66 Episode 17 is here! TWR Route 66 Ep 17: The Route 66 Postgame Debrief And Summer Plans Route 66 Murals Discussion Bubba and Randy discussed Randy's travels along Route 66 in Texas, particularly focusing on new murals being created in Amarillo. Randy explained how artists are now able to create murals due to recently received grant money, describing the process he observed where artists first sketch the design before painting it. The conversation concluded with a discussion about the financial challenges faced by artists, comparing their situation to other creative professions like acting and writing. Route 66 Travel Journey Discussion Bubba and Randy discussed Randy's ongoing Route 66 travel journey, which has generated $9 in advertising revenue through podcast sponsorships. Randy explained his plans to meet up with his friend Darren in Albuquerque for golf before potentially heading to California or taking a more inland route along the western side of the Rockies to Washington, depending on gas prices. Bubba noted that Randy's travel plans are often spontaneous and unpredictable, with Randy frequently moving between different locations across the country. Route 66 September Journey Planning Randy explained his plan to return to Route 66 in September for another 16-episode journey, this time focusing on exploring destinations and experiences along the later alignments of the route rather than just following the original 1926-1930 path. He aims to be in Seligman for the Route 66 Centennial in November and is using this current trip to meet people and gather information for potential fall events. Randy noted that he has changed his approach by driving at night to see neon signs and has adjusted his schedule to better experience the route's unique features. Route 66 Photography Plans Randy shared his recent experience photographing neon signs along Route 66, including a large neon Coke bottle at a store called Pops in Arcadia. He discussed plans for a future fall trip that would focus more on experiencing Route 66 rather than just taking pictures, potentially including staying in classic motels and renting a classic car. Randy also mentioned seeing a motorcade of motorcycles and SUVs with Italian flags in El Reno, Oklahoma, though Beth clarified that the Italian flag colors are green, white, and red. Route 66 Road Trip Plans Randy shared his Route 66 road trip plans, discussing his experience driving classic cars and staying at Cracker Barrel locations along the route. He explained that the trip could be completed in about two weeks of driving 2 hours daily, and mentioned his upcoming visit to meet with Mo in Arizona and Cindy in California. Bubba revealed that Cindy is a real person, not AI, and shared his positive experience meeting her at Randy's retirement party. Reconnecting Through Social Media Platforms Bubba and Randy discussed reconnecting with old acquaintances through social media platforms like Facebook and LinkedIn. Randy shared his experience reconnected with a former filmmaking partner through Facebook, leading to the recovery of their old Super 8 films from the 1970s. They discussed digitizing these films and potentially organizing a viewing party. The conversation also touched on their shared experiences with early technology, including the TRS-80 computer, and Bubba's childhood creative writing efforts. Generational Technology and Travel Discussion Bubba and Randy discussed the generational gap between boomers and millennials, particularly regarding technology use. They talked about Randy's travel plans, including attending 4th of July celebrations and exploring Route 66. Bubba suggested asking their Facebook audience for adventure ideas for Randy to consider during his summer travels. Randy shared his experience finding a section of Route 66 in Oklahoma with a sign marking Paul McCartney's visit in 2009. Long-Term Relationships and Travel Plans Bubba and Randy discussed their experiences with long-term relationships and travel, sharing personal anecdotes about their marriages and lifestyle choices. Randy explained his current living situation and approach to relationships, while Bubba shared insights about his 30-year marriage to Linda. They also discussed Randy's upcoming content plans for the summer, including weekly Saturday posts featuring Route 66 themes, and agreed to continue their weekly discussions while focusing on US travel content. The conversation concluded with plans to develop their website and potentially generate revenue over the summer. SO. MANY. PHOTOS - Come join the conversation on Facebook with our 33,000 friends! https://www.facebook.com/travelswithrandypodcast Have a great idea for the guys? Want to sponsor us? Want us to sell something National Park or Route 66 related? Want to be a guest? Want to pay for both of us to go to Alaska? Want me to stop asking questions? bubba@travelswithrandypodcast.com !!
✨ Episode SummaryIn today's episode, Keana explores what it really looks like to date again after a divorce or the end of a long‑term relationship. This season of life can feel overwhelming, confusing, and even intimidating — but it can also be a powerful opportunity for rediscovery, healing, and intentional connection.Drawing from leading psychological research and trauma‑informed relationship principles, Keana breaks down why dating after a major breakup feels so different, how to know if you're emotionally ready, and what steps you can take to date with clarity and confidence.This episode is for anyone who's rebuilding their life after a significant relationship and wants to approach dating from a place of self‑worth rather than fear or pressure.
If your relationship looks great on paper but your physical connection has quietly faded, you're not broken and you're definitely not alone. We sit down with Australia's leading relationship therapist and sexologist Isiah McKimmie to name the real reason intimacy disappears in long-term relationships: it drifts, slowly, until touch feels risky and sex turns into the unspoken tension sitting between you.We unpack why “quick fixes” rarely work and why sexual intimacy can't be treated like a separate problem to solve. Isiah walks us through the order that actually rebuilds a thriving relationship: get clear on a shared vision, rebuild daily connection, learn to communicate needs without criticism or defensiveness, then bring that safety into the bedroom. Along the way we talk about rejection, guilt, fear, and the stories couples tell themselves when desire doesn't match.We also go deep on pleasure, tantra, and the nervous system, translating spiritual tools into practical, evidence-based strategies. You'll hear why relaxation is essential for arousal, what “foreplay” really means, and why many couples benefit from redefining sex beyond penetration and orgasm. Michael and Amy share a 30-day intimacy experiment that became an “embodiment practice”, plus a simple appreciation game you can start tonight to soften resentment and bring warmth back fast.If you want better couples communication, stronger emotional safety, and a sex life that feels connected instead of pressured, press play. After you listen, share this with your partner or a friend, then subscribe and leave a review so more couples can find the support they need.To find Isiah and her amazing work:https://isiah-mckimmie.com/https://www.instagram.com/isiahmckimmie.sexologist/Thankyou for listening, if you liked it, please remember to subscribe.Join our Private "Thriving relationships - Deepening connection to self and others" community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1107209283451758/Website: https://michaelandamy.com.au/Join our free 7 day relationship challenge: https://michaelandamy.com.au/free-relationship-challengeIf you would like to book in a private discovery call with us, here is the link: https://michaelandamy.com.au/call
How To Repair Relationships & Create Lasting Emotional Connection https://offer.personaldevelopmentschool.com/relationship-repair?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=relationship-repair&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-04-20-26&el=podcast Have you ever wondered what a long-term relationship or marriage looks like with a Dismissive Avoidants who hasn't done the healing work? Dismissive Avoidants can be caring, loyal, and stable partners. But when deep attachment wounds go unaddressed, their subconscious patterns can quietly shape the entire relationship dynamic over time. Episode Summary In this episode, Thais Gibson walks through the story of a client (“Bob”) to illustrate what long-term relationships can look like when a Dismissive Avoidants Attachment Style remains unhealed. Bob had been married for decades before realizing how his attachment patterns shaped his marriage and family life. Growing up with emotionally distant parents, he learned to keep people at arm's length and suppress emotional needs. Over time, several patterns emerged in his relationship: • Difficulty receiving feedback without shutting down • A strong resistance to emotional interdependence • Struggles being emotionally present as a spouse and parent • Lack of awareness about his own relationship needs • Constantly regulating or protecting his emotional bandwidth The result wasn't a lack of love; it was a lack of emotional accessibility. As Bob began exploring his patterns later in life, he discovered that healing required learning to accept himself, open up emotionally, communicate needs clearly, and develop healthier boundaries. Because Dismissive Avoidants patterns are not permanent personality traits, they are learned survival strategies that can be rewired. Key Takeaways ✔️ Why Dismissive Avoidants often shut down when receiving feedback ✔️ How difficulty with interdependence affects long-term relationships ✔️ Why emotional presence can be challenging for Dismissive Avoidants ✔️ The hidden belief that they “don't have needs” from others ✔️ How protecting emotional bandwidth leads to withdrawal ✔️ Why self-acceptance helps Dismissive Avoidants lower their guard ✔️ How communication struggles create overly large boundaries ✔️ Why emotional numbing often replaces healthy self-soothing ✔️ The importance of healing core wounds to build secure relationships Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:
This solo episode is going to explore a fear that many of us carry inside our intimate relationships but rarely say out loud: the fear of settling. What is it? Where does it come from? And most importantly, what does it cost us? Dr. Alexandra will offer you a reframe that is both clarifying and hopeful. We are going to reimagine what acceptance actually means – not as a passive giving-up, but as one of the most powerful and underrated tools available to us in love. In this episode, you will hear about: The cost of comparison and how to shift from external comparison to internal reflection. How the word “settling” is working against you. What Acceptance is and is not, and how to determine whether you are acting in the spirit of acceptance or resignation. How to tend to the grief that is often built into Acceptance. Grab a pen and paper! Dr. Alexandra has included a writing exercise in this episode, designed to guide you towards acceptance - both of yourself and your partner. Resources worth mentioning from the episode: Reimagining Love episodes: Relational Ambivalence: Should I Stay or Should I Go? Part 1 https://dralexandrasolomon.com/podcasts/relational-ambivalence-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go-part-1-rerelease/ Relational Ambivalence: Should I Stay or Should I Go? Part 2 https://dralexandrasolomon.com/podcasts/relational-ambivalence-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go-part-2-rerelease/ Inviting a Reluctant Partner into Relationship Work https://dralexandrasolomon.com/podcasts/inviting-a-reluctant-partner-into-relationship-work-re-release/ “I Think I've Outgrown My Relationship!” https://www.dralexandrasolomon.com/podcasts/i-think-ive-outgrown-my-relationship Is There an “Effort Mismatch” in Your Relationship? https://www.dralexandrasolomon.com/podcasts/is-there-an-effort-mismatch-in-your-relationship Continue the conversation with Dr. Alexandra Solomon: Ask a question! Submit your relationship challenge: https://form.jotform.com/212295995939274 Access Resources, like quizzes and courses: https://www.dralexandrasolomon.com/resources Order Dr. Alexandra's book, Love Every Day: https://bookshop.org/p/books/love-every-day-365-relational-self-awareness-practices-to-help-your-relationship-heal-grow-and-thrive-alexandra-solomon/19970421?ean=9781683736530 Cultivate connection by subscribing to Dr. Alexandra's Loving Bravely newsletter: https://newsletter.dralexandrasolomon.com/ Learn more on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.alexandra.solomon/ Join Esther Perel's annual clinical conference Sessions Live 2026! Learn in person in Brooklyn, New York or virtually on May 15th and 16th. Use code SOLOMON50 for $50 off a virtual ticket or SOLOMON100 for $100 off in-person. Get your tickets at https://sessionslive2026.estherperel.com/Learn more about the Options Transition to Independence Program which offers education, vocational, independent living, and emotional support for young adults with complex learning needs. https://www.experienceoptions.org/ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Shanne Carvalho's journey reveals how discipline, resilience, and an unstoppable mindset can transform adversity into success, offering powerful lessons for anyone seeking growth, strength, and long-term achievement in both business and life.See article: https://www.unitedstatesrealestateinvestor.com/from-rock-bottom-to-relentless-strength-a-real-estate-warriors-comeback-with-shanne-carvalho/(00:00) - Introduction and Welcome to The REI Agent Podcast(00:45) - Meet Shanne Carvalho and Her Real Estate Background(02:30) - Early Start in Construction and Family Influence(04:15) - Transition from Lending to Real Estate Sales(06:10) - Combining Construction, Staging, and Sales Services(08:00) - Building a Team and Managing Multiple Business Arms(10:05) - Long-Term Relationships and Multi-Generational Partnerships(12:00) - First Fix and Flip Experience and Lessons Learned(14:10) - The Power of Lending Knowledge in Real Estate(16:30) - Creative Financing and Short Sale Experience(18:20) - How Construction Knowledge Elevates Sales Strategy(20:30) - The Impact of Small Renovations on Property Value(22:10) - Energy in Homes and the Role of a Shaman(24:15) - Disclosure Laws and Unique Property Histories(26:00) - Gaining a Competitive Edge Through Diverse Experience(28:30) - Evaluating Deals with Numbers and ROI Focus(30:45) - Contractor Pricing and Finding the Sweet Spot(32:30) - Building and Letting Go of a Real Estate Team(34:50) - Challenges with Team Structures and Time Management(36:30) - Staying Focused on Clients Over Scaling a Team(38:15) - Health, Fitness, and Daily Routines for Peak Performance(40:00) - Supplements, Sleep, and Longevity Strategies(41:30) - Cancer Diagnosis and Life-Changing Perspective(42:45) - Recovery Journey and Rebuilding Strength(43:50) - Mental Toughness and the Power of Discipline(44:40) - Golden Nuggets for Success in Real Estate and Life(45:20) - Recommended Books and Final Advice(45:58) - Closing Remarks and Where to Connect with ShanneContact Shanne Carvalhohttps://shannecarvalho.com/https://www.facebook.com/shannecarvalhorealtor/https://www.instagram.com/shannecarvalho_re_team/https://www.linkedin.com/in/shannecarvalho/https://www.youtube.com/@shannecarvalhoRealEstate No matter what you are facing right now, remember this. Your comeback is built in the moments when you refuse to quit. Stay disciplined, stay focused, and trust the process because your breakthrough is closer than you think. visit https://reiagent.comIs success destroying your peace? Most pros grind until they break. Download The Investor's Life Balance Sheet: A Holistic Wealth Audit to see if you are building a legacy or heading for burnout. Presented by The REI Agent Podcast & United States Real Estate Investor® https://sendfox.com/lp/m4jrl
Season 26, Episode 12 - Shaun Boyce, Bobby SchindlerSummaryIn this episode, Juan Garcia, the director of brackets at San Deguito Tennis Club, shares his journey from a baseball player to a tennis coach. He discusses the importance of leadership, building trust with clients, and the need for mentorship in the tennis industry. Juan emphasizes the significance of making tennis accessible and enjoyable for newcomers, advocating for a lower barrier of entry to attract more players. He also reflects on his unique background and how it shapes his coaching philosophy, aiming to inspire the next generation of tennis professionals.TakeawaysJuan Garcia transitioned from baseball to tennis coaching.He emphasizes the importance of leadership in tennis.Building trust with clients is crucial for long-term relationships.Juan believes in making tennis accessible to newcomers.He advocates for lowering the barrier of entry in tennis.Mentorship is key to developing future tennis leaders.Juan's military background influences his coaching discipline.He encourages coaches to connect with their clients personally.Juan's motto is to get better every day.He aims to inspire the next generation of tennis professionals. sound bites"Get better every day.""You are a leader.""Let them have fun."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Juan Garcia04:34 Juan's Journey in Tennis and Baseball09:17 The Evolution of Roles in Racket Sports13:58 Unique Background and Military Experience18:53 Building Trust and Relationships in Coaching23:56 Building Trust in Coaching Relationships25:43 Creating a Positive Club Culture28:00 Empowering the Next Generation of Leaders31:53 The Importance of Mentorship in Coaching41:56 Lowering Barriers to Tennis ParticipationFull YouTube Video: https://youtu.be/_lM66ownpMoShort Clip: https://youtube.com/shorts/IoTBpoh6-TcJuan's King of Tennis Answer: https://youtube.com/shorts/bk4f7miclvALearn more about Juan: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juan-garcia-tennis/Download Juan's booksThe Modern Tennis Coach: Leadership Beyond The CourtThe Courts: How Tennis, Pickleball, and Padel Reshaped Sport, Business, and Community KeywordsJuan Garcia, tennis coaching, leadership, mentorship, tennis industry, trust, client relationships, coaching philosophy, tennis culture, sports managementContact Our HostsShaun Boyce, RSPA: shaun@americanracketsportsassociation.com | https://americanracketsportsassociation.com/Bobby Schindler, RSPA: schindlerb@comcast.net | https://letsgotennis.com/windermereGeovanna Boyce: geovy@regeovinate.com | https://regeovinate.com/GoTennis Website: https://letsgotennis.com/Learn more about the Marc Kaplan Media Excellence Award we (the GoTennis! Podcast) won from USTA Georgia: https://letsgotennis.com/captivate-podcast/gotennis-podcast-wins-the-marc-kaplan-media-excellence-award/Join Our CommunityCheck out the GoTennis! Atlanta Facebook page for deals, updates, events, podcasts, news, stories, coach profiles, club information, and more.Support the ShowDonate Directly: https://gotennispodcast.captivate.fm/supportCrypto Donations: Get into crypto with https://coinbase.com/join/PEWRLWK?src=referral-linkStart Your Own PodcastConsidering your own podcast? We recommend Captivate: This podcast is hosted by Captivate, try it yourself for free.
Ten years in, marriage doesn't look like the highlight reel—it looks like growth, tension, laughter, and choosing each other again and again. In this episode, Nesha G and Moelethal pull the curtain back on what it really takes to stay locked in when life keeps shifting.In this episode, we discuss how marriage evolves through seasons, from young love to real-life partnership, and what happens when expectations don't match reality. They unpack accountability, forgiveness that doesn't forget, and the truth about staying committed when it would be easier to walk away.There's honesty here about mental load, identity shifts, and learning how to love each other through different versions of yourselves. You'll walk away with clarity on what commitment actually means after a decade, and why choosing your partner daily is the real flex.Send us Fan MailSupport the show Thanks for rocking with us! Don't forget to follow Life After I Do so you never miss an episode. Got a relationship situation you want us to weigh in on? Hit us at https://beacons.ai/laidpodcast — we just might talk about it in a future episode.
What happens when the love is still there…but the desire isn't?You care about each other.You've built a life together.You're loyal, committed… maybe even best friends.And yet…Something feels off.The spark has faded.The tension is gone.Sex feels infrequent… or like a chore… or like it's quietly disappeared altogether.If you've ever found yourself wondering:
This Truth Bomb episode digs into the idea of being “sponge-worthy” in a relationship—what actually makes a partner worth committing to long-term. The hosts challenge listeners to look beyond surface-level compatibility and examine values, habits, communication, and personal responsibility. It's a candid conversation about standards, self-awareness, and whether you're intentionally choosing your partner—or just settling into what's comfortable. GET SOCIAL WITH US!
Steve and I asked each other a simple question this week:“What are you carrying right now that I might be unaware of… and how can I support you?”When you live with someone, love them and talk to them every day there are always things they're carrying that you don't see. Or maybe you do, but you're asking the best question to help them express it. Pressure. Worry. Fatigue. Things they haven't quite found words for yet.It's easy in relationships to assume we know what's going on for the other person, or to get caught up in our own world and forget to ask.This episode is just us talking about that.Just a real conversation about remembering to look at the person you love and ask a real type of question that will give real answers. One-day retreat - April 24th, 2026Authentic The Program - sign up hereCoach 1:1 - Book a 20-minute call nowRead my book, Authentic - coming home to your true self - AUS, EUR, USAWrite into us - let us know what you want to hearWelleCo - use code KAT15 for 15% off welleco.com.auwww.katjohn.com.auSupport the show
Clement Manyathela speaks to Lisa Welch, who is a Sex Educator about how long-terms couples can go about scheduling intimacy and sex in busy lives. The Clement Manyathela Show is broadcast on 702, a Johannesburg based talk radio station, weekdays from 09:00 to 12:00 (SA Time). Clement Manyathela starts his show each weekday on 702 at 9 am taking your calls and voice notes on his Open Line. In the second hour of his show, he unpacks, explains, and makes sense of the news of the day. Clement has several features in his third hour from 11 am that provide you with information to help and guide you through your daily life. As your morning friend, he tackles the serious as well as the light-hearted, on your behalf. Thank you for listening to a podcast from The Clement Manyathela Show. Listen live on Primedia+ weekdays from 09:00 and 12:00 (SA Time) to The Clement Manyathela Show broadcast on 702 https://buff.ly/gk3y0Kj For more from the show go to https://buff.ly/XijPLtJ or find all the catch-up podcasts here https://buff.ly/p0gWuPE Subscribe to the 702 Daily and Weekly Newsletters https://buff.ly/v5mfetc Follow us on social media: 702 on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/TalkRadio702 702 on TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@talkradio702 702 on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/talkradio702/ 702 on X: https://x.com/Radio702 702 on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radio702 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this powerful and deeply honest episode, Eve sits down with Xanet Pailet — former healthcare attorney turned sex and intimacy coach, bestselling author, and retreat leader. After leaving a 20+ year marriage that had become largely sexless, Xanet began a transformative journey of healing sexual shame, trauma, and emotional disconnection. At age 50, she realized that desire doesn't disappear because of aging or hormones — it fades when emotional safety erodes, communication shuts down, and the body stops feeling invited into the relationship. Together, Eve and Xanet explore how to rebuild intimacy after a sexless marriage, repair emotional ruptures, heal trauma, and redefine sex beyond penetration to create lasting connection and pleasure. Topics Covered Emotional safety as the foundation of sexual intimacy Why repair is critical in long-term relationships The impact of childhood shame and medical trauma on desire Healing sexual shutdown through tantra and embodied practices Expanding the definition of sex beyond penetration Navigating erectile dysfunction with compassion and creativity Mutual masturbation and alternative intimacy practices How to start difficult conversations about sex Touching for your own pleasure to build erotic connection Intimacy Equation QuizA playful conversation starter to explore your intimacy style: https://howtoimprovemylovelife.com Website & Retreats: https://passionateintimacyretreats.com Books: Living an Orgasmic Life The Sex & Intimacy Repair Kit Available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Bookshop.org. Website:https://pleaseme.online Social Media & Contact:https://pleaseme.online/contacts Substack Newsletter:https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon – Ad-Free Episodes & Bonus Content:https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest on Please Me:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Taboo to Truth: Unapologetic Conversations About Sexuality in Midlife
What do you do when the relationship is good, but the sex is boring?In part two of my conversation with clinical sexologist Dr. Stacey Friedman, we talk about what really happens to sexual relationships over time. We move beyond the idea of “dead bedrooms” and dive into boredom, communication, novelty, and the evolving nature of intimacy in midlife.We explore how to talk to a partner about disappointing sex without damaging their ego. Dr. Stacey Friedman explains why many couples lose desire simply because their sex life becomes predictable. And she shares practical ways to bring novelty back into the bedroom without pressure or shame.The conversation also explores topics many couples are curious about but rarely discuss openly. Alternative relationship structures, sexual exploration later in life, and how to redefine sex as connection rather than performance.If part one opened the door to rebuilding intimacy, part two shows how curiosity, communication, and creativity keep desire alive long term.In this episode:00:00 Welcome Back And Part Two Overview00:35 Karen's Story About The “Lazy Lover”02:05 How To Talk About Bad Sex Without Hurting Ego03:30 Curiosity Instead Of Criticism04:40 Why So Many Couples Are Bored In Bed05:45 The Importance Of Novelty In Long Term Sex06:55 The Roller Coaster Analogy For Predictable Sex08:00 Simple Ways To Add Variety And Playfulness09:05 When Couples Consider Opening Their Relationship10:30 Why Alternative Relationships Sometimes Work11:55 Ad Break. Lem By Hello Nancy12:55 A Real Example Of A Couple Who Opened Their Relationship13:45 Navigating Midlife Changes In Sex And Desire14:40 The Daily Question That Strengthens Relationships15:25 Dr. Stacey's Definition Of Sex15:55 Best Orgasm And Sexual Exploration16:15 Final Advice. Curiosity Keeps Desire Alive Want a deeper look? Watch the full episode on YouTube for a more visual experience of today's discussion. This episode is best enjoyed on video—don't miss out!
Taboo to Truth: Unapologetic Conversations About Sexuality in Midlife
Are you ever going to have sex again?It is the question so many couples in midlife are quietly asking. Sex has become obligatory. Or it has disappeared. Hormones have shifted. Resentment has built. Communication has broken down.In this episode of Taboo To Truth, I sit down with clinical sexologist Dr. Stacy Friedman to talk about how couples move from duty sex or no sex back to real desire. We break down spontaneous versus responsive desire. We explain why sex starts to feel like a chore. We talk about what happens after the lust phase fades and oxytocin replaces testosterone.We also cover:Why many women need arousal before desireHow long term relationships shift biologically and emotionallyWhat to do if you have not had sex in months or yearsHow removing the expectation of intercourse can rebuild intimacyHow to handle mismatched libidos without resentmentWhy collaboration works better than compromiseIf you feel stuck in the friend zone with your own partner, this conversation will give you a practical roadmap back to connection.And if you are a man trying to understand what menopause is doing to your relationship, my NEW course Men Meet Menopause is built for you! To celebrate the launch, iI am giving you 20% off with code MMPLAUNCH20 https://bit.ly/MeenMeetMenopauseTimestamps: 00:00 Men Meet Menopause Course For Men01:05 Welcome And The Question No One Wants To Ask02:10 When Sex Becomes An Obligation03:30 Responsive Vs Spontaneous Desire05:15 Why “Once We Start It's Good” Happens06:45 The Lips Nips Below The Hips Problem08:05 From Lust To Dead Bedroom09:30 The Biology Of Testosterone And Oxytocin10:40 Sex Snacks And Daily Micro Connection11:45 Rebuilding After Years Without Sex13:05 Baby Steps Back To Intimacy14:20 Removing The Expectation Of Intercourse15:40 Redefining Sex Beyond Penetration16:30 Mismatched Libido And Collaboration17:30 Why Anger And Pressure Kill Desire18:00 Part Two Preview And Call To ActionWant a deeper look? Watch the full episode on YouTube for a more visual experience of today's discussion. This episode is best enjoyed on video—don't miss out!Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:Email: karen@taboototruth.comWebsite: https://www.taboototruth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruthYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcastAbout the Guest:Dr. Stacy Friedman is a Clinical Sexologist, certified intimacy coach, and the unapologetically fierce voice behind The Purple Passion Project podcast. With decades in medicine and sexuality work, she helps people awaken desire, reclaim pleasure, and ignite passion through coaching, curated pleasure essentials, and provocative e-books. Known for making sex talk feel like your most daring friend, she turns taboo into tantalizing—zero shame, all heat. Dr.Stacy's motto: My passion is to help you create yours.Connect with Dr. Stacy Friedman:Website: https://drstacyfriedman.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/drstacyfriedmanPodcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-purple-passion-project/id1825458840Tease me, touch me, Talk To Me:https://e.drstacyfriedman.com/product-details/product/6960f9e9612364ee5873c8c9Reigniting passion in Long-Term Relationships:https://e.drstacyfriedman.com/product-details/product/69419a1f19a5c70271d8df18Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:Email: karen@taboototruth.comWebsite: https://www.taboototruth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruthYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcastSubstack: https://karenbigman.substack.comLINKS, EXCLUSIVE VIP DISCOUNTS, COURSES & FREEBIES⭕️ Save 15% off on the MaxPR using code TABOO15
In this episode, we take "consistency over intensity" out of the gym and straight into relationships. Because if it's intense all the time, you burn out. If it's consistent all the time, you get bored. So what's the sweet spot? We talk about respect as the real baseline, convenience vs. connection, why lifelong marriage might need a rethink (yes, we went there), and how finances, in-laws, religion, and resentment erode connection faster than lack of chemistry ever could. We unpack how to approach hard conversations without triggering defensiveness, why movement helps when words get stuck, and how planned romance can still be romantic (if it's not transactional). There's a dash of "Liz & Lee Love Plan" brainstorming, a little twerking therapy, and a reminder that love isn't about pressure or perfection. It's about bravery, honesty, low expectations, and choosing each other again and again… until you don't. And if you don't? That's information, too. Resources mentioned: Consistency vs. Intensity in Fitness (Episode 206) Love Languages Are Kinda BS (Episode 179) Liz's favorite Everyday Oil - Unscented Liz's favorite Everyday Oil - Mainstay 3 Ways to Strengthen Your Relationship Without Burning It Down: Respect is the real baseline. Intensity is exciting. Consistency is comforting. But without respect, neither one holds. Love without respect doesn't last. Speak from love, not accusation. Hard conversations are inevitable. Defensiveness is optional. Lead with "I'm struggling" instead of "You never." Move your body together. Lower the pressure. Sometimes breakthroughs come after laughter, not confrontation. Keep a dash of crazy. Grand gestures are great. Daily small touches matter more. Plan the dinner. Drop the expectations. Twerk in the kitchen. Low expectations + real affection = longevity.
Wanna work with us? Schedule a call here: https://go.oncehub.com/bookacall 5 Ways to Build Long-Term Relationships With Capital Investors - #329 Learn how to raise capital, manage investor relationships, and scale a private lending business—without unnecessary friction. In this episode of the Private Lenders Podcast, Jason Balin and Chris Haddon of Hard Money Bankers share 20+ years of real-world lessons working with capital investors.
Welcome back to Boss Bitch Radio. This episode is a little different… and a little spicy! We're talking about intimacy, communication, body image, and why sometimes you just don't feel "in the mood" - even when you love your partner. This conversation is pulled straight from one of my live coaching calls inside Healthy & Hot, and I brought in therapist Leanne Wagner to go deep with us. We cover everything from Valentine's Day ideas to improving sexual intimacy in long-term relationships, and yes… we talk about foreplay, scheduling sex, and why grabbing your butt is not always the move. If you've ever struggled with body confidence and intimacy, or felt frustrated that your partner doesn't understand what actually turns you on, this episode will hit home. Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter #IntimacyInMarriage #RelationshipAdvice #ImproveYourRelationship Key Takeaways: 00:52 It's a Valentine's Week Special
Jann Arden welcomes back friend of the show (and friend in real life), Cynthia Loyst, co-host of CTV's The Social, a renowned author and sex educator ahead of Valentine's Day! They discuss the importance of female friendships, attachment styles, the dynamics of relationships, the emerging trend of living apart, and how to prioritize pleasure and desire. Cynthia shares insights on navigating desire and burnout in long-term relationships, the pressures surrounding Valentine's Day, and the importance of understanding love languages in relationships. More About Cynthia Loyst: Cynthia Loyst is a National Bestselling Author, Producer, Television Host, and self-described “Professional Sensualist.” She is also the creator of FindYourPleasure.com, a popular online destination that celebrates decadence, indulgence and pure, unadulterated joy. Throughout her award-winning career, Cynthia has become one of Canada's most recognized and respected TV personalities and producers. Co-hosting CTV's most watched daytime talk show, The Social, Cynthia shares her fresh and genuine views to help people learn to appreciate life and all the pleasures it brings. Cynthia also hosts a fan-favourite podcast with Josie Dye called Cynthia and Josie's Unmentionables, where they discuss the delicious, messy and sexy topics that we all have questions about, but are afraid to ask. Cynthia is also a sought-after public speaker and relationship advice columnist. She has contributed to the likes of Elle Canada, Working Mother Magazine, and more. Website: www.findyourpleasure.com www.cynthiaandjosie.com Resources: https://findyourpleasure.com/mapping-your-pleasure/ https://www.simonandschuster.ca/books/Come-As-You-Are-Revised-and-Updated/Emily-Nagoski/9781982165314 https://thework.com/2017/10/four-liberating-questions/ #ASKJANN - want some life advice from Jann? Send in a story with a DM or on our website. Leave us a voicenote! www.jannardenpod.com/voicemail/ Get access to bonus content and more on Patreon: www.patreon.com/JannArdenPod Connect with us: www.jannardenpod.com www.instagram.com/jannardenpod www.facebook.com/jannardenpod Chapters (00:00) Introduction to Cynthia Loyst (02:24) The Importance of Female Friendships (05:04) Understanding Attachment Styles (10:06) Navigating Relationships and Personal Growth (14:00) The Role of Timing in Relationships (19:44) Living Apart Together: A New Relationship Model (24:45) Exploring Pleasure and Self-Care (28:44) Desire and Burnout in Long-Term Relationships (30:54) The Impact of 'Heated Rivalry' on Canadian Culture (32:51) Navigating Valentine's Day Pressures (39:28) Personal Love Languages and Meaningful Gestures (41:39) Rediscovering Intimacy and Longing in Relationships (45:12) Managing Anxiety Around Valentine's Day Expectations (45:58) Navigating Anxiety with Four Questions (47:58) The Nature of Worry and Its Impact (48:47) The Importance of Friendships in Relationships (50:12) Understanding Low Sex Drive in Relationships (53:05) Breaking Patterns from Parental Relationships (55:00) Voice Notes and Listener Engagement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
For a lot of us, having kids absolutely wrecks our sex lives… at least for a while. And no one really prepares you for that. In this episode, we're joined by Rebecca Howard Eudy, PhD, LMHC, an AASECT-certified sex therapist and couples therapist, to talk about what actually happens to desire, intimacy, and connection after kids (or even just in long term relationships). We dig into exhaustion, resentment, pressure, and why so many couples assume something is wrong with them, when really they're just navigating a huge shift. This conversation is about understanding what's happening and figuring out how to rebuild intimacy in a way that actually works for the season you're in. We cover: How pressure kills intimacy. What happens when sex becomes another expectation instead of a point of connection. Why resentment shows up in the bedroom. How unequal labor, emotional disconnect, and unspoken needs quietly erode desire. How to rebuild emotional and physical intimacy. Practical ways to reconnect that do not rely on forcing desire or “trying harder.” Why sex changes so much after kids. Rebecca explains how exhaustion, mental load, and identity shifts directly impact desire and arousal. The difference between low desire and low capacity. Why many parents still want sex but feel too depleted to access it. Understanding desire differences after parenthood. Why mismatched desire is common and not a sign something is wrong with your relationship. Why scheduling intimacy can actually help. How planning connection creates safety and reduces pressure instead of killing spontaneity. The importance of redefining sex after kids. Moving beyond penetration-focused sex and expanding what intimacy can look like now. How to talk about sex without blame or defensiveness. Language shifts that help couples feel like teammates again. Connect with Rebecca: BUY HER BOOK HERE! Visit her website HERE! Follow her on Instagram HERE! Listen to her podcast HERE! Looking to apply these tips to your REAL life? Schedule a FREE 1:1 strategy session with Cass & Em to see if coaching can support you. Get Honeydew Me Merch HERE! Join our Patreon and access exclusive content HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Love Strategies: Dating and Relationship Advice for Successful Women
Most dating advice is built around short-term outcomes: attraction, chemistry, excitement, momentum. And while those things matter, they're not what determine whether a relationship lasts—or quietly falls apart a few years in.Long-term love doesn't fail because two people didn't feel enough in the beginning. It fails because they built a relationship on the wrong foundation.If you want a partnership that holds up over decades, not just months, there are three qualities that matter far more than most people realize. Miss one of them, and the relationship will eventually strain under its own weight.If you want to understand how to evaluate men beyond chemistry so you can commit with confidence, click the link here - https://go.lovestrategies.com/register-malemindNEXT STEP: Book a complimentary Love Strategy Session and let us help you attract love this year: https://go.lovestrategies.com/session
It's a party weekend! Judson prepares for a friend's bachelor party in Chicago, and Brian prepares to celebrate his husband's birthday on the Saturday, and his younger daughter's on the Sunday. They attend screenings on consecutive nights of the new movie, Pillion, starring Alexander Skarsgård and Harry Melling, and compare notes with one another for the first time since. Together, Brian and Judson take a seat on The Big C*nty Couch with drag queen Gina Spears and her longtime friend Mike Fails. Our recent episode on Deshaming Sluttiness inspires a listener to submit a Hookup of the Week about his competition with a friend to see who can fill the pages of their little black books faster. Brian and Judson are then joined by star of stage and screen Jason Veasey, currently co-starring in the new comedy-drama, “Best Medicine,” on Fox and Hulu. Jason talks about the joy of being on the sets of both his current show and “Only Murders in the Building,” his desire to represent gay men our age on screen as sexual beings, and the need for more depictions of queer Black-on-Black love and sex in TV and film. He also gets personal and chats with Brian and Judson about sexual comfort levels, the value he places on sex in his relationship, being in a long-term relationship without living together, reclaiming his sexuality after his HIV diagnosis, sharing the news of his diagnosis with his family, and what it took for him to realize that he's versatile in bed. Jason then helps Brian and Judson address a Go Ask Your Dad question from a listener who wants to know how he should conduct himself around his grade school-age niblings when the MAGA members of his husband's extended family feel that kids shouldn't know that gay people exist. Find Jason Veasey on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/veaseyville Watch Brian and Judson on The Big C*nty Couch on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/@TBCCPod/featured or listen to the audio on all major podcast platforms. Find The Big C*nty Couch on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/tbccpod/ Email your Hookup of the Week, Go Ask Your Dad and Dr. Daddy submissions to dadsanddaddies@gmail.com Dads and Daddies on the Web: https://www.dadsanddaddies.com/ Dads and Daddies on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dadsanddaddiespod Dads and Daddies on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dadsanddaddiespod Dads and Daddies on Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/dadsanddaddiespod.bsky.social Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Why does desire often fade in long-term relationships — even when couples deeply love each other?Book a Discovery Call for Relationship Renovation CoachingIn this episode, EJ and Tarah are joined by Dan Purcell, founder of Get Your Marriage On, to explore why intimacy can start to feel pressured, routine, or emotionally distant over time. If you've ever wondered why connection doesn't automatically follow commitment, or why closeness can suddenly feel anxiety-producing instead of natural, this conversation offers a deeper explanation.Together, they unpack how expectation, anxiety, and unspoken pressure quietly erode connection, and why many couples try to fix intimacy by focusing on the act itself rather than the emotional and nervous-system conditions that make closeness possible.Dan shares insights from his own marriage and his work helping couples move beyond obligation and routine, including why:Desire cannot be forced or scheduled into existenceCloseness often shuts down when there is pressure or expectationMany couples confuse validation with true connectionAnxiety around vulnerability can lead partners to disconnect without realizing itEmotional safety must come before deeper physical closenessThey also discuss practical ways couples can rebuild connection gradually, including slowing down, creating moments of presence, and learning to tolerate closeness instead of rushing past it.This episode is especially helpful if:Intimacy feels tense or disconnectedOne partner feels pressured while the other feels rejectedYou miss feeling close but don't know how to get back thereYou want to rebuild connection without blame or shameThis is a grounded, honest conversation about intimacy in real relationships — not quick fixes, but what actually helps couples feel close again over time.
Want more readers who buy, finish, and recommend your books? It starts with one thing most authors underestimate: keeping the promise your brand makes.In this episode, we break down the real driver of sustainable author growth—reader trust—and why clear genre signals, accurate positioning, and consistent delivery outperform hype every time.We begin with expectation alignment: how your cover, subtitle, and book description create an instant promise in a shopper's mind. When the vibe is off—or the opening pages don't match the pitch—clicks disappear and reviews quietly signal the disconnect with phrases like “not what I expected.” We show you how to read those reviews as marketing intelligence, spotting language patterns that reveal whether your tone, pacing, tropes, and emotional promise are landing as intended.From there, we tackle consistency: unified series branding, predictable communication, and an author website that speaks clearly to your ideal reader, not just your aesthetic preferences. We also call out overhyped copy and vague clichés—why words like “unputdownable” often dilute your positioning, and how to replace them with specific, sensory hooks that only fit your book.You'll learn how to create a simple Reader Expectation Statement—an internal compass that guides your covers, copy, and content decisions. We also use Amazon ads as a practical gut check: when relevant targets don't click, the issue is often misaligned packaging, not bad keywords. The fix is usually small and strategic—tightening your first three blurb lines, adjusting your cover to match top comps, or refining subtitle language—rather than a full rebrand.Throughout, the focus stays on retention. Repeat readers are easier to reach, faster to convert, and the true engine behind word-of-mouth growth. When you treat readers like partners—showing up with clarity, respect, and consistency—you build a brand they trust and return to.If you're ready to trade noise for loyalty, and quick hacks for durable growth, this conversation gives you a clear path forward.If this helped, follow the show, share it with an author friend, and leave a quick reSend us your feedback!Help shape our 2026 content by taking our 30-second listener poll!
Strong relationships don't collapse overnight, they slowly break down when values are unclear, misaligned, or never communicated.In this episode of Coaching In Session, relationship and mindset coach Michael Rearden explores the critical role values play in building healthy, lasting relationships. He breaks down how understanding your own values and recognizing whether they align with your partner's directly impacts trust, commitment, and long-term connection.This conversation dives into modern dating challenges, including situationships, emotional baggage from past relationships, and why so many connections fail to move beyond temporary moments. Michael explains how unresolved experiences shape relationship choices, how lack of clarity creates confusion, and why self-awareness and communication are essential for deeper emotional connection.If you're navigating dating, questioning relationship direction, or seeking a more meaningful partnership, this episode provides practical relationship coaching insights to help you build connections rooted in values, clarity and intention.
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Today we're joined by Casaundra Hope, a certified sexologist, tantra practitioner, and professional Dominatrix. With over 2 decades of experience, she helps individuals and couples reconnect to their erotic power, deepen intimacy, and dissolve shame through Tantra and BDSM. In this episode, we explore kink beyond the stereotypes — as a language of safety, devotion, polarity, and play. If you've ever felt the spark dim, swallowed a desire you didn't know how to name, or sensed that intimacy could be more alive than what you've been taught... this conversation is for you. Share this with your partner! ❤️
Want to re-eroticize your long-term relationship and keep the fires burning for the long-haul? Somatic Psychologist, and Sex Therapist Dr. Holly Richmond joins us with expert advice for couples. She gets practical with flirting techniques, understanding your sexual template, and the four things healthy couples do to have a thriving relationship in and out of the bedroom. Dr. Holly Richmond is a licensed marriage and family therapist, certified sex therapist, and holds a PhD in Somatic Psychology, and is the associate director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes.More on these topics:Pleasure after trauma episode with HollyReclaiming Pleasure Book ReviewPartner desire discrepanciesDesire stylesHow much does frequency matter?Erotic personasErectile dissatisfaction vs Erectile dysfunctionAffection and the 6 second kissORDER my Book Permission for Pleasure: Tending Your Sexual GardenJOIN my Newsletter: Good Education for Good SexFOLLOW on Instagram @cindyscharkeyVISIT my website and blog
In this episode, Krista sits down with Shan Boodram, certified sex educator, sexologist, and host of the podcast Lovers by Shan, to explore seduction, intimacy, and self-confidence for modern women. Whether you're single or coupled, Shan shares the secrets to embodying your most alluring, authentic self.Morning Microdose is a podcast curated by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik, the hosts and founders of Almost 30, a global community, brand, and top rated podcast.With curated clips from the Almost 30 podcast, Morning Mircodose will set the tone for your day, so you can feel inspired through thought provoking conversations…all in digestible episodes that are less than 10 minutes.Wake up with Krista and Lindsey, both literally and spiritually, Monday-Friday.If you enjoyed this conversation, listen to the full episode on Spotify here and on Apple here.
Certified Sex Therapist, Heather Shannon explores the common sexual assumptions and misunderstandings that derail couples' sex lives. She discusses how past experiences shape current perceptions, the importance of maintaining a growth mindset, the influence of hedonic conditioning and the need for open communication to navigate assumptions. The conversation emphasizes the role of curiosity in fostering intimacy and understanding between partners.Chapters00:00 Understanding Sexual Assumptions05:40 The Impact of Past Experiences on Present Relationships10:46 Mindset and Its Role in Sexual Communication14:34 Navigating Assumptions in Long-Term Relationships20:40 The Importance of Curiosity in IntimacyWork With HeatherWant to get out of your sex rut? Request a free consultation for Heather's signature Pathway to Passion coaching program. Unlock Your Passion - Consultation CallVideo VersionCheck out the video version of this epsiode on our YouTube channel here: https://youtu.be/hyyz4ZyY65A This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podtrac - https://analytics.podtrac.com/privacy-policy-gdrp
The Dad Edge Podcast (formerly The Good Dad Project Podcast)
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Nicole McNichols, psychologist, professor at the University of Washington, and author of You Could Be Having Better Sex, for one of the most honest, research-backed conversations we've ever had about sex, intimacy, and connection in long-term marriage. This isn't about sex positions, tricks, or "trying harder." It's about why good marriages lose momentum over time, how pressure and expectations quietly kill desire, and why emotional connection is often the real foreplay. Dr. Nicole breaks down why scheduling sex can backfire, how shame and guilt around sex are learned early, and how curiosity—not performance—creates the kind of intimacy couples actually crave. I also share personal stories from my own marriage about connection, timing, and why mediocre sex just to "check the box" no longer works. If you want a healthier, more connected sex life, this episode gives you a roadmap grounded in science and real-life experience. Timeline Summary [0:00] Why this episode isn't about sex positions or tricks [1:26] Introducing Dr. Nicole McNichols and her background [2:09] Why scheduling sex can quietly backfire [2:36] How pressure and expectation kill intimacy [2:58] Emotional connection as the real foreplay [3:36] Why intimacy dates matter more than sex calendars [5:18] How Dr. Nicole became a "sex professor" by accident [6:10] Loneliness, disconnection, and the role of sexual health [7:08] Shame, stigma, and misinformation around sex—especially for women [9:14] Why healthy sex improves forgiveness, health, and longevity [10:25] The failure of shame-based sex education [12:10] Countries with sex-positive education and better outcomes [13:18] Identifying the sources of shame we carry into marriage [15:09] Why sex shouldn't be the first thing sacrificed in busy seasons [16:07] Why conversations about sex should happen with clothes on [17:00] Using curiosity instead of pressure to improve intimacy [18:11] Announcement: Dad Edge Alliance February focus on intimacy and attraction [20:03] Curiosity vs. agenda in hard conversations [21:17] Why scheduling sex alone doesn't work [22:09] Creating the right context and mood for intimacy [23:24] Sexual effort that creates pressure instead of desire [24:55] Emotional lead-up and responsive desire [26:01] Initiation–rejection cycles and resentment [27:23] "Intimacy dates" and reconnecting outside the bedroom [29:11] Larry shares a personal story about connection over convenience [31:26] Choosing quality connection over mediocre sex [33:17] Maintenance sex vs. meaningful sexual connection [35:04] Balancing connection and realistic expectations [37:22] Long-term rejection cycles and rebuilding intimacy [39:00] Hormones, menopause, and why libido changes aren't personal [41:29] Division of labor, resentment, and loss of identity [43:48] Gottman research and why distance doesn't heal intimacy [45:43] Making your partner feel seen and heard [47:23] Listening vs. fixing in emotional conversations [49:13] Resources for better conversations with your wife and kids [49:31] Dr. Nicole's book and New York Times features [50:44] Where to find Dr. Nicole and her work [53:08] Why improving your sex life is a powerful way to start 2026 Five Key Takeaways Pressure and expectation kill desire, while curiosity and emotional safety create attraction. Emotional connection is often the real foreplay, especially in long-term marriages. Scheduling sex without context can backfire if couples don't create space to reconnect first. Sexual shame is learned, and identifying its sources is the first step toward healthier intimacy. Better sex isn't about frequency—it's about quality, safety, and connection. Links & Resources 25 Intimate Conversation Starters: https://thedadedge.com/25questions Conversation Cards for Kids (Ages 5–Teen): https://thedadedge.com/kidquestions Dr. Nicole McNichols – Faculty Spotlight (University of Washington): https://psych.uw.edu/newsletter/summer-2020/faculty/faculty-spotlight-on-nicole-mcnichols New York Times – Modern Love Podcast Feature: https://www.nytimes.com/2026/01/07/podcasts/modern-love-better-sex-tips.html Book — You Could Be Having Better Sex Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1430 Closing Remark If this episode gave you language, clarity, or hope around intimacy in your marriage, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Strong marriages don't drift into great sex—they build it intentionally, with curiosity, connection, and courage.
Noob Spearo Podcast | Spearfishing Talk with Shrek and Turbo
In this episode of the Noob Spearo podcast, host Shrek is joined by Matthew Lewthwaite, who owns the Dive Cave on the Sunshine Coast. They discuss the intricacies and origins behind spearfishing gear, share important community updates, and reminisce about early spearfishing memories. Matt provides insights into starting the Dive Cave, his passion for high-quality gear, and the challenges of running a spearfishing business. They also delve into the local spearfishing scene, the importance of safety, and the journey from basic to advanced spearfishing techniques. The episode blends humor, personal anecdotes, and deep knowledge, making it a must-listen for spearfishing enthusiasts. Important Timestamps 00:00 Introduction and Shoutouts 00:36 Listener's Voice Message 02:01 Spearfishing Retreat Announcement 02:52 Interview with Matt Luth 03:35 Matt's Early Days in Spearfishing 06:04 Spearfishing Adventures in South Africa 24:33 Transition to Australia 30:28 Understanding the Challenges of Spearfishing 30:52 The Importance of Mentorship and Clubs 32:29 The Role of Local Retailers in Spearfishing 33:44 Celebrating the Community and Legends 36:00 The Art and Taste of Crayfish 36:53 The Journey of Spearfishing Gear 39:23 The Craftsmanship Behind Spearfishing Equipment 43:28 The Realities of Manufacturing Spearfishing Gear 46:36 Choosing the Right Spearfishing Gear 52:07 Balancing Quality and Budget in Spearfishing 01:00:37 Honest Advice and Long-Term Relationships 01:01:16 Inspiration from a Fly Fisherman 01:02:22 The Birth of Dive Cave 01:04:02 Social Media and Business Challenges 01:06:50 Spearfishing Innovations 01:19:07 Deep Diving and Spearfishing Passion 01:22:17 Podcast Conclusion and Future Plans Links Mentioned, Partner Deals and Discounts + Froth
When a long-term relationship ends, it can be devastating to deal with - even if you agree it was for the best. While some grieving for the relationship is natural, it can be very easy to get stuck in cycles of depression and longing for the life you once had.In this episode, I'll go over how you can process your feelings and move on from the relationship in a healthy and satisfying way.---Website: https://lewdlexi.comSign up for my email newsletter! https://lewdlexi.com/email/Patreon: https://patreon.com/lewdlexiaudioBook a call with me: https://lewdlexi.com/phoneOther links: https://linktr.ee/lewdlexiaudio
In this episode, Heather Shannon delves into the hidden reasons why sex becomes frustrating in long-term relationships. She explores four types of stories and meanings that couples attach to their sex lives, which often lead to emotional suffering. Through examples and frameworks like existential kink and internal family systems, Heather provides insights into how these unconscious belief patterns affect relationships and offers ways to reframe and address them for healthier connections.Looking to get past sexual pressure or frustration and feel authentically close and excited again? Book a free consultation to see if coaching with Heather or a member of her team could be a good fit! Booking A Consultation With The Right PersonThis podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podtrac - https://analytics.podtrac.com/privacy-policy-gdrp
On today's episode of The Therapy Crouch: Ask Us Anything, Abbey and Peter tackle the chaos of January head-on as listeners write in with their biggest dilemmas, disasters and frustrations. From the pressure of dating apps and speed dating horror stories to the very real pain of hosting a dinner party that goes completely off the rails, nothing is off limits.The pair also dive into why January is financially ruthless, whether a proper “reset” is even possible after Christmas, and why trying to improve your mental health with daily walks can quickly turn into rage at the general public. There's also a fiery debate on gym culture, Gen Z filming etiquette, and whether social media has completely warped how we see ourselves.In the Agony Abs, the conversation turns more serious as a listener questions a relationship that's been stuck in limbo for 11 years, raising honest questions about commitment, living apart, and knowing when to draw the line. As always, Abbey and Peter offer straight-talking advice, plenty of laughs, and a comforting reminder that most of us are just trying to get through January in one piece.If you want to submit an Agony Ab to the podcast — hit the link below.00:00 – The reluctant but passionate subscribe plea01:05 – Freshers flu, cold water swims & winter routines02:01 – Why being cold is worse than being hot03:14 – Sideline fashion disasters & the “undertaker coat”05:34 – Dating pressure, speed dating chaos & conspiracy theorists07:34 – Dinner party disasters and Come Dine With Me humiliation09:58 – January finances falling apart spectacularly12:52 – Mental health walks ruined by the general public14:30 – Forest walks, flashers & clearing your head15:25 – The most disrespectful snorer on the Eurostar17:27 – Gen Z gym culture and filming rage19:04 – Social media, comparison & gym anxiety22:38 – Living apart after 11 years: relationship crossroads24:26 – Hard truths about commitment and moving in togetherEmail: thetherapycrouch@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetherapycrouchpodcastTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thetherapycrouch Website: https://thetherapycrouch.com/ For more from Peterhttps://twitter.com/petercrouchFor more from Abbeyhttps://www.instagram.com/abbeyclancyOur clips channelhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZntcv96YhN8IvMAKsz4Dbg#TheTherapyCrouch #AbbeyAndPete #RelationshipAdvice #Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Some of the most misunderstood and emotionally charged topics for men are: attraction, compatibility, and what actually creates lasting connection with a woman. My guest, Laurin Ponce, helps us break down the difference between compatibility, connection, and chemistry - and why confusing those three is where most relationships go off the rails. We talk about what women truly find attractive in a grounded man, what it really means when a woman asks for space, why it feels like there are more rules for men, and how respect is built long before it's ever given. From attachment styles and masculine frame to why women's touch is medicine and how peace and respect create a relationship where both people feel safe and free, this conversation cracks open the unspoken dynamics most men are trying to navigate alone. We also explore the practical side: non-negotiables, testing for compatibility, shared values, money, day-to-day living, and why partners are often mirrors and triggers for our own unresolved work. Laurin and I get into anxious versus avoidant dynamics, masculinity and femininity in modern relationships, emotional expression in men, vulnerability, physical attraction, and how connection is built - and rebuilt - over time SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Understanding Men and Women 01:07 - Is There a Line in "Figuring Each Other Out"? 03:22 - Masculine and Feminine Polarity 05:08 - The Bowl and the Water Analogy 06:46 - Why Respect Starts With Self-Respect 08:21 - Non-Negotiables in Relationships 10:05 - Compatibility vs. Chemistry 13:18 - Core Values and Relationship Dealbreakers 14:58 - You Can't Out-Love Incompatibility 17:16 - Chemistry vs. Trauma Bonds 18:46 - What Real Chemistry Feels Like 19:29 - Peace and Respect in Relationships 22:47 - Creating Emotional Safety 26:52 - Masculine and Feminine Imbalance Today 30:30 - Polarity Always Finds Its Way 33:41 - Letting Go of Armor and Control 35:16 - Becoming the Partner You Want to Attract 39:13 - Consistency and Trust 40:10 - Physical Attraction and Discipline 43:02 - Connection Is Built Over Time 46:37 - Scarcity Mindset in Dating 48:02 - Where Men Should Start in Long-Term Relationships 50:32 - Rekindling Attraction and Intentionality 57:12 - "Cracking the Code" of Your Partner 01:00:29 - Never Get Comfortable in Love 01:05:05 - Serving Each Other Without Shame 01:06:23 - Where to Find Laurin's Work Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
Episode #1083 In this episode, Doug sits down with Andrew to unpack one of the biggest challenges men face in long-term relationships: staying consistent not just for a few weeks, but for the long haul. They get real about why short-term effort isn't enough, why so many guys slip when things start improving, and how old patterns (especially the ones from childhood) keep showing up in marriage. Doug shares a powerful story about a man trying to turn things around after years of being emotionally checked out and why "two and a half weeks of trying" doesn't undo a decade of disconnect. If you've ever felt frustrated because you're doing the work and not seeing results, this is for you. If you're showing up with expectations and getting burned, this is for you. And if you're ready to shift from surface-level fixes to real identity change this conversation cuts straight to it. You'll walk away with practical tools and insights to help you stop the pattern, drop the scorekeeping, and show up in a way that actually builds trust not just today, but consistently. Want the step-by-step roadmap to turn things around in your marriage? Get free access to the powerful training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales. No fluff, just clear, actionable tools that actually work.
We dissect the insidious, often subconscious behaviors that erode long term relationship success. This episode challenges men to confront nice guy conditioning and understand why emotional resilience, boundaries, and grounded behavior determine whether attraction survives over time. This is not about surface tactics. It is about recognizing the patterns that quietly destroy connection and replacing them with strength that lasts.
Sai Marie is back for a conversation about the importance of Sex Positivity in long-term relationships.
I am joined this week by the brilliant and beautiful Patty Wexler. Patty is not only backing bold founders reimagining the future economy through Avila but also someone who has had such a unique story on this earth. From growing up in Venezuela as the granddaughter of Holocaust survivors to becoming a venture capitalist investing in nuclear fusion and geothermal energy, Patty's journey is a masterclass in experiencing excellence and finding your path. Today, we dive deep into Patty's formative years split between Venezuela and New York, where she learned early that counting every penny was survival. You'll hear about the boss who picked up the phone and changed her life trajectory, her realization that $28,000 felt like infinite wealth until rent was due, and how she tasted excellence at the buffet of opportunities from consulting to Disney to tech investing. Patty shares her philosophy on why venture isn't for everyone, the critical importance of choosing financial partners like you're entering a marriage with children, and why she pivoted from typical Silicon Valley investing to backing companies working on humanity's biggest challenges. Listen as Patty talks about teaching her son to invest in her fund at age eight, the awkwardness of mixing money and personal relationships when fundraising, and her deep belief that we all need to stay involved with critical thinking as the world teeters on instability. This is a conversation about building wealth while keeping your eyes on the long-term future of our planet. Key Topics: Growing up with the epigenetics of Holocaust survival and what it means to count every penny Learning that the first leap is the hardest, but once you're an immigrant, there's more optionality Why early career is about experiencing different things to figure out what makes you tick Understanding that venture capital isn't for everyone and choosing the right financial partners is like marriage with children Making the pivot from lazy Silicon Valley investing to backing nuclear fusion and geothermal energy Teaching your kids that privilege isn't random and comes from working very hard Why the world needs critical thinking and long-term vision when everything feels unstable Connect with Patty online: Website: https://www.avila.vc LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/patriciahalfenwexler/ Instagram: @pattywexler @avila.vc Find more from Syama Bunten: Instagram: @syama.co, @gettingrichpod Website: wealthcatalyst.com Substack: https://thewealthcatalystwithsyama.substack.com/ Download Syama's Free Resources: wealthcatalyst.com/resources Wealth Catalyst Summit: wealthcatalyst.com/summits Speaking: syamabunten.com Big Delta Capital: www.bigdeltacapital.com
In this episode of The Influence Factor, host Alessandro Bogliari chats with Dan "Monty" Montalto, Head of Global Brand Advertising, Influencer, and Social Marketing at Etsy. They discuss the evolution of the commerce funnel, the power of creators and their stories, and Etsy's Creator Collective and partnership approach. The conversation also dives into long-term relationships with creators, co-creation strategies, and what's on the horizon for 2026, offering insights into how Etsy leverages creativity and collaboration to engage communities and shape the future of commerce.
When it comes to relationships, being comfortable is not necessarily the same as sharing emotional intimacy. But if you're in a long-term relationship, how do you maintain closeness over time? In this episode of Life Kit, psychologist James Cordova shares tips on how to build emotional intimacy into your daily life.Follow us on Instagram: @nprlifekitSign up for our newsletter here.Have an episode idea or feedback you want to share? Email us at lifekit@npr.orgSupport the show and listen to it sponsor-free by signing up for Life Kit+ at plus.npr.org/lifekitLearn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy
In this engaging episode of the Transform Your Mind to Transform Your Life Podcast, host Myrna Young delves into the fascinating world of relationship dynamics with experts E.J. and Tarah Kerwin. With their extensive experience in therapy, the Kerwins explore the kaleidoscope of challenges faced by couples and share insightful strategies to transform disconnected relationships into bonds of deeper intimacy. Through their innovative Relationship Renovation Center, they have dedicated their careers to guiding couples across pivotal life transitions, ensuring that love and communication remain at the forefront.Key Takeaways:The Kerwins emphasize the importance of addressing relationship challenges early, before they become insurmountable, introducing their structured Relationship Renovation model.Relationships often falter under the weight of unspoken expectations and deteriorating communication, urging couples to embrace vulnerability, articulate needs clearly, and prioritize empathy.Concerns around life transitions, like new parenthood or retirement, require intentional focus and adaptive communication strategies to foster continued relational growth and intimacy.Infidelity and deficits in emotional intimacy can be tackled through guided therapy, focusing on acceptance, vulnerability, and open-hearted communication.Website: relationshiprenovation.comPodcast: Relationship Renovation PodcastThis Episode is Sponsored by: NativePath Transform Your Skin, Hair, and Joints with Ancient Grass-Fed Collagen... Discover the life-changing effect of NativePath Collagen. RIGHT NOW, VISIT getnativepath.com/Transform FOR A SPECIAL BUNDLE DEAL AuraFrames For a limited time, visit AuraFrames.com and get $45 off Aura's best-selling Carver Mat frames by using promo code TRANSFORM at checkout. GoDaddyVisit Godaddy.com/GDNOW and you can get a domain and professional email plan for just $0.99/month for one year. To advertise on our podcast, visit https://advertising.libsyn.com/TransformyourMindor email kriti@youngandprofiting.com See this video on The Transform Your Mind YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/@MyhelpsUs/videosTo see a transcripts of this audio as well as links to all the advertisers on the show page https://myhelps.us/Follow Transform Your Mind on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/myrnamyoung/Follow Transform Your mind on Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100063738390977Please leave a rating and review on iTunes https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/transform-your-mind/id1144973094 https://podcast.feedspot.com/personal_development_podcasts/
In this powerful coaching session, Christine works with Kevin, a husband of 21 years, as he explores the delicate balance between healthy relational needs and unresolved childhood wounds. Kevin opens up about longing for deeper intimacy and appreciation from his wife—and wondering if those desires are truly valid or rooted in his past. Together, they unpack how unmet childhood needs often show up in our adult relationships, especially when we expect a partner to fulfill what our parents couldn't. Christine helps Kevin distinguish between the “little boy” who seeks attention and the “grown man” who can communicate clearly, take leadership, and set his partner up for success. If you've ever felt unseen, under appreciated, or rejected by someone you love—or if you've wondered why the same emotional patterns keep showing up in your relationships—this episode offers a roadmap for transforming frustration into empowerment and deeper connection. Consider/Ask Yourself Are there needs in your relationship that go unmet, leaving you resentful or withdrawn? Do you ever feel like your partner “should just know” what you need? Have you confused childhood wounding with adult desire? How might your relationship change if you led with grounded communication instead of expectation? Key Insights and A-HAs Many relational frustrations stem from projecting unhealed childhood wounds onto our partners. Expressing needs from a grounded, adult self invites intimacy—while expressing them from a wounded inner child often repels it. True leadership in love means clearly communicating needs and guiding your partner on how to meet them. Resentment and unspoken expectations block intimacy more than unmet needs themselves. Relationships thrive when both partners take 100% responsibility for their own healing and communication. How to Deepen the Work Before expressing a need, pause to ask: “Is this coming from my adult self or my inner child?” Practice the phrase: “If you really knew me, you'd know I'd love to hear…” to communicate appreciation requests gently. Create “safe yes” conversations—where each partner can express needs without fear of rejection. Consider setting aside scheduled connection time to nurture intimacy intentionally. Reflect on how your family patterns might still shape how you relate to love, desire, and worthiness. Upcoming Event Couples Retreat with Christine & Steph Join Christine and Steph for a small, intimate couples retreat in San Diego, designed to deepen communication, heal emotional patterns, and restore passion and partnership. Date: April 2026 (exact dates TBA) Location: San Diego, CA Register: Email assist@christinehassler.com or DM @ChristineHassler to join the interest list Social Media + Resources: Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler @ChristineHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram @SacredUnionCouples on Instagram Email: jill@christinehassler.com — For information on any of my services! Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show! Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches.