Podcasts about long term relationships

What really keeps attraction alive in a long-term relationship? Legendary relationship expert John Gray joins Rebecca Whitman to reveal how hormones, communication, and emotional needs influence chemistry, connection, and lasting love. In this powerful episode of The Balanced, Beautiful & Abundant Show, the bestselling author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus shares practical ways to better understand your partner, strengthen intimacy, and keep the spark alive at every stage of love. John Gray is one of the most recognized relationship experts in the world, and this conversation takes a fascinating look at the biology and psychology behind lasting passion. Rebecca and John explore how hormones can affect attraction, stress, mood, and the way men and women connect. They also discuss why couples can love each other deeply and still misunderstand one another—and how learning to recognize those differences can create more compassion instead of conflict. John shares insights into what helps women feel supported and cherished, what helps men feel appreciated and connected, and why maintaining polarity, affection, and emotional intimacy matters in long-term relationships. Whether you're single, dating, married, or simply want to understand relationships on a deeper level, this episode offers game-changing insights for creating more love, chemistry, and connection. In this episode, you'll learn: * How hormones can influence love, attraction, mood, and intimacy—and why understanding your biology can improve your relationship. * Why men and women may respond differently to stress and emotional connection, and how to stop taking those differences personally. * What helps men and women feel genuinely loved, valued, and appreciated in a relationship. * How to keep attraction and passion alive over time instead of allowing romance to get lost in routines and responsibilities. * Simple relationship shifts that can create deeper intimacy, better communication, and more lasting chemistry. John's wisdom is a powerful reminder that lasting love doesn't mean the chemistry has to disappear. With greater understanding, intention, and connection, relationships can continue to evolve—and passion can grow right along with them.

Sexual desire mismatch quietly affects far more long-term couples than most people admit, and it rarely gets discussed with the dignity it deserves. The host talks with Dr. Lori Davis, a nurse practitioner and certified sex counselor who specializes in desire discrepancy, about why this particular mismatch feels so much harder to navigate than everyday differences in taste. Dr. Lori shares her own experience with the pattern before turning it into her clinical work, breaks down what she calls "the sex clock," the quiet, constant monitoring that can consume a relationship, and reframes awkwardness not as a warning sign but as the price of admission to real intimacy again. Note: This episode reflects the guest's professional perspective and personal experience, not medical advice. Listeners navigating their own relationship or sexual health concerns should consult a licensed professional. About the Guest: Dr. Lori Davis is a Doctor of Nursing Practice and AASECT Certified Sex Counselor who specializes in helping couples navigate mismatched desire and libido disconnects. She combines medical expertise in areas like hormones and pain with relational therapy, and offers coaching and counseling for couples nationwide, as well as licensed medical sex counseling in New York and Vermont. Key Takeaways: Mismatched desire is common and normal, the real question isn't why it happens, but why it causes so much distress and why couples struggle to negotiate it well. Desire mismatch is a "co-created dance." Both partners contribute to the pattern, which means blame rarely resolves it, curiosity does. The "sex clock", constantly tracking how long it's been and when it might happen again, can quietly dominate a relationship and turn intimacy into pressure rather than connection. The lower desire partner often carries far more guilt, shame, and physical tension than people assume. It's rarely about attraction, control, or withholding. The higher desire partner often carries real anxiety about self-worth and rejection, feelings that are just as valid and just as important to name. Awkwardness after a period of disconnection is normal, not a sign something is wrong. Facing it, rather than avoiding it, is often the actual doorway back to intimacy. Connect With Dr. Lori Davis: Website: dr-loridavis.com Mailing list and resources: mismatcheddesire.com Episode Chapters: [00:00] Introducing a conversation on mismatched desire in long-term relationships [01:53] Dr. Lori's own story and the pattern that led her into this work [05:05] Why mismatched desire causes so much distress when mismatch itself is normal [09:22] Why vulnerability sits at the center of sexual disconnection [11:21] What desire mismatch looks like in the small textures of daily life [13:00] Introducing "the sex clock" and how constant monitoring wears a relationship down [16:32] What's actually happening inside the lower desire and higher desire partner [20:10] Why awkwardness is the price of admission to a better sex life   Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Disclaimer: This episode is produced for educational and informational purposes only. All views expressed by the guest are their personal opinions alone and do not represent the views of the host or Healthy Mind by Avik™. The Network does not verify, endorse, or assume responsibility for any guest statements. Nothing in this episode constitutes medical, legal, financial, or professional advice, please consult a qualified professional before making any decisions. Listeners are encouraged to engage critically and independently with all content do not consume blindly. Use this content as a starting point for your own reflection and research, not as a substitute for professional guidance. Third-party content is referenced under fair use for informational purposes only. Guest speakers are solely responsible for their own statements. If you have concerns about any content, please contact us here By listening, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer in full. Read detailed disclaimer here. Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it's become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty, storyteller, survivor, and wellness advocate. With over 6500+ episodes and 200K+ global listeners, we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters.

What if compromise is not the path to a more connected relationship? For many of us, especially in long-term relationships, compromise can look like avoiding the conversation, making ourselves smaller, or giving up what is real and alive inside us so that our partner will be more comfortable. It keeps the peace, but it also creates distance. In this open, practical conversation, Dr. Jessie Mahoney is joined by physician coach, relationship and intimacy coach, and author Dr. Alexandra Stockwell. They explore the possibility of uncompromising intimacy: not getting your own way, but becoming more aware of what you want, need, and feel—and learning to share it in a way that creates more connection. They talk honestly about libido mismatch, emotional intimacy, the difference between connection before intimacy and intimacy as connection, why many high-achieving physicians bring their professional roles home, and how curiosity can help couples find their way back to one another. You will leave with practical ways to begin: asking better questions, creating intimacy dates without pressure, practicing pleasure in everyday life, and using small moments of intention and attention to reconnect. Learn more about Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, Uncompromising Intimacy, and her work at alexandrastockwell.com. Learn more about coaching, retreats, and mindfulness offerings on www.jessiemahoneymd.com *Nothing shared in the Healing Medicine Podcast is medical advice. The Healing Medicine Podcast was formerly known as the Mindful Healers Podcast.

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Chris Naugle is an entrepreneur, real estate investor, and founded of The Money School. A former pro snowboarder who rose from a lower-middle-class upbringing, he has built and owned 17 companies and managed over $30 million in financial assets.    Chris teaches the "Be Your Own Bank"/Infinite Banking Concept to help people control cash flow and escape traditional banking systems. Naugle has been featured on HGTV and Forbes and hosts the Money School Podcast.   0:00: Early Lessons in Saving 6:00: Snowboarding and his first business of Phat Clothing 12.00: Hardship, Sports, and Character Development 16:00: Success, Comparison, and Happiness 21:00: Wealth, and why retirement sounds awful 26.00: Time-Limited Pursuits and Personal Fulfillment 31.00: Why we have to play our own Game (not confirming) 30:00: Why we need more Focus and Loyalty, and Long-Term Relationships 46:00: Grit, and the Limits of Success 52.00: The "pay yourself first" principle from *The Richest Man in Babylon*. 56:00: Avoiding Quick-Money Strategies   Until next time, love and good vibes.     #fatherhood #selfimprovement #health #entrepreneur Podcast Website: https://enterthelionheart.com/ Check out the latest episode here: Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/enter-the-lionheart/id1554904704   Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4tD7VvMUvnOgChoNYShbcI

This episode is for a MATURE AUDIENCE: SOME STRONG LANGUAGEVisit the webpage to join our growing communitywww.podpage.com/the-3-13-men-money-and-marriageSummaryIn this episode, we explore the concept of the Denzel principle and its impact on modern relationships, discussing unrealistic expectations, vulnerability, and the importance of authenticity in partnerships.Keywords Denzel principle, relationships, expectations, vulnerability, modern dating, masculinity, standards, media influenceKey topicsThe Denzel principle and its influence on relationship expectationsThe reality of finding a Hollywood-perfect partnerThe importance of vulnerability in long-term relationshipsMedia's role in shaping unrealistic standardsBalancing high standards with attainable goalsThe impact of upbringing and social media on relationship viewsThe difference in expectations between men and womenStrategies for recognizing healthy high standardsThe importance of authenticity over superficial appearancesThe role of community and shared values in relationships"Life isn't a rom com, and perfection is unrealistic.""Media is opinion-driven and influences unrealistic standards.""You have to be vulnerable to build a real connection."Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Denzel Principle and Its Impact 01:48 The Unrealistic Expectations of Hollywood's Ideal Partner03:58 Can Men Live Up to the Denzel Standard?06:00 Should Men Strive for Perfection?08:04 The Influence of Upbringing and Media on Expectations 10:04 Vulnerability in Long-Term Relationships 12:01Media's Role in Creating Unrealistic Standards14:04The Superficiality of Modern Relationship Aesthetics15:57 Balancing High Standards with Reality18:10 Recognizing Healthy Expectations vs. Unrealistic Fantasies19:56 The Importance of Authenticity in Partnerships21:57 The Role of Community and Shared Values23:53 Lessons from Real-Life Relationships25:48 Advice for Those Holding Out for the Perfect Partner28:00 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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welcome to season two of grounded frequencies ~ it just felt right to make this the first episode back and I hope my holistic breakup tips can help someone out there going through this transition. discussed in this week's podcast episode:~ life updates & returning home after travelling for 2+ months~ my holistic breakup guide: everything that actually worked~ why self respect is the foundation for everything~ using this experience as an opportunity to grow and upgrade~ cutting the energetic cord~ creating your new identity without them~ walking and movement as a tool for emotional cleansing~ the importance of female friendship!!!!!!!~ supporting your body through the stress~ intentionally pouring your energy into places it will return to you~ holding space for your feelings as you heal~ everything I want you to remember if you're in the trenches right now

We all know the phrase but does dating someone who's completely different to you actually work? In this ep, we hear your stories of dating people who are opposite in lifestyle, interests and core values, compared to people who've dated similar - and find out if compatibility can work both ways.SHOW NOTES:Why Do Opposites Attract?https://www.verywellmind.com/is-it-true-that-opposites-attract-in-relationships-5194818Global study on opposites do not attract:https://www.psypost.org/why-opposites-dont-attract-a-global-study-reveals-the-true-rules-of-romantic-compatibility/https://economictimes.indiatimes.com/news/international/us/why-opposites-dont-always-attract-a-global-study-of-41606-people-across-74-countries-found-shared-values-matter-most-while-believing-your-partner-is-kinder-and-more-attractive-predicts-happier-relationships/articleshow/132179722.cms?from=mdrPerceived similarities in couples:https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/02654075251349720?utm_source=chatgpt.comEffects of similarity of life goals, values, and personality on relationship satisfaction and stability:https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1475-6811.2012.01417.x?utm_source=chatgpt.comDM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

What happens when the honeymoon phase ends and the real work begins? In this special collaborative episode of The Breaking Free Podcast, I sit down with Shannon Harrison, host of The Womanhood Podcast, for a deeply personal conversation about love, relationships, self-development and what it actually takes to build a lasting partnership. Shannon and I open up about their own relationship journeys from early dating experiences and synchronicities to long-term partnership, commitment, living together and navigating the uncomfortable moments that force us to grow. I share my journey into my relationship with Britt, including how personal development, unexpected guidance and synchronicities played a role in bringing them together. Shannon shares her own story with Elliot, including the importance of friendship, personal growth and consciously choosing commitment. Together, we explore the realities of conscious relationships  including emotional triggers, inner-child patterns, vulnerability, communication, patience and learning to understand your partner's emotional language. We also dive into how differences in emotional needs and the menstrual cycle can impact relationships, and why understanding rather than reacting can completely change the dynamic between two people. This conversation is about what happens when two people are willing to look at themselves, communicate honestly and grow together. Thank you for listening and watching wherever in the world you are!  Jump on BonCharge and grab yourself some protection  from wifi, 5G, blue/red light and so much more… At the Checkout Use Code “Nath22” to receive 15% off Part One Audio: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1KAOQoYjKtB6CmuMnFF4ra?si=28c4aee64a8b48bb Part One Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K8YLuMPNyE0 Connect With Shannon Harrison:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somatic.body/  Website:  https://www.somaticbody.com.au Connect With Me (Nathan Francis Coach/Mentor)  Substack: https://substack.com/@nathanfrancis Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/OSS.Health.Mind Personal Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nath.francis69 Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nathanfrancis222?_t=8iKxXw8R2ee&_r=1 Telegram: https://t.me/nathf94   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nathanfrancis__/ Email me anytime: nathanselfsabotage@gmail.com The Breaking Free Podcast  Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1fHxmfbFZwyZPIcOrjw3Hf?si=q42PtUR4Qeu8SvUuWDMrpw Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/breaking-free-podcast/id1657951151 Youtube: https://youtube.com/@nathanfrancis__?si=df69YA7zK-CUeG8-    

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Alyssa Ljub is an intimacy and relationship expert who coaches dozens of couples a day in her role as a concierge at Arya. She joins Em and Cass to unpack the biggest hurdles couples hit when it comes to sex, why scheduling sex is FAR from unsexy, the difference between responsive and spontaneous desire, and the most common ways rejection shows up in long-term relationships. Find Alyssa at @alyssaljub on Instagram and TikTok and Arya at arya.fyi. Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @honeydewmepodcast and subscribe to our Patreon for exclusive content and ad free episodes. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Welcome back to The Groupchat besties!!!In The Groupchat, we share some of your TMI & embarrassing stories that always leaves us on the end of our seat and crying of laughter! We share our advice around YOUR dilemmas and help you navigate different situations in life from dating, friendship, family, life & everything in between! As always your secret is safe with us and whatever happens in The Groupchat stays in The Groupchat!If you'd like to join The Groupchat and share any TMI stories, have your say in our dilemma debates or need any advice please DM or email us from the below: Instagram: @thegroupchatEmail: hello.thegroupchatpodcast@gmail.comFollow us on Tiktok: @the.groupchatpod Our Youtube Channel: @mesciatwinsfollow Liv on socials: Instagram: @oliviamesciaTiktok: @oliviamesciafollow Ash on socials:Instagram: @ashleymesciaTik Tok: @ashleymesciaOur small business: www.myvintagepleasure.comSee you next Thursday xx*We'd like to acknowledge the traditional custodians of this land in which we are able to record this podcast. We would like to pay respect to elders past, present and emerging and any aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people here today.*

In an industry where many brands are racing toward direct-to-consumer models, Simon G. Jewelry continues to take a different path, building its business around craftsmanship, trusted retail partnerships, and relationships designed to last for generations.On this episode of Retail Refined, host Melissa Gonzalez sits down with Brooke Brinkman, COO of Simon G. Jewelry, to explore how the family-owned fine jewelry company has built a 47-year legacy while continuing to evolve. Brooke shares how founder Simon Ghanimian's beginnings as a bench jeweler shaped the company's uncompromising approach to quality, why vertical integration gives the brand greater control from concept through production, and why its network of more than 900 independent retail partners remains central to its growth strategy.The conversation also explores how Simon G. equips retailers to create stronger customer experiences, approaches events and local activation, builds loyalty among collectors, and balances heritage with newness across thousands of active designs. Brooke also discusses the advantages of operating as a family business, the importance of preserving the human and emotional side of fine jewelry, and how Simon G. is using AI and emerging technology to improve analysis and efficiency without sacrificing authenticity.Explore more:Retail Refined: https://marketscale.com/shows/retail-refined/Simon G. Jewelry: https://simongjewelry.com/Simon G. Jewelry on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/simongjewelry/

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Navigating the dating world after a divorce or the end of a long-term relationship can feel overwhelming and confronting. I share essential, practical guidance for men re-entering the dating scene after being out of it for years.From allowing yourself to grieve before jumping back in, to leading with radical clarity and avoiding online pessimism, I walk you through how to approach this new chapter with confidence. Tune in to discover how to embrace a beginner's mindset and set yourself up for meaningful, healthy connections.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 - Why Dating After a Long-Term Relationship Is So Challenging01:39 - The Grief and Loss Behind the End of a Marriage03:28 - How Your Nervous System Is Preconditioned by Past Relationships05:07 - Step 1: Grieve First and Conduct a Relationship Autopsy10:00 - Step 2: Embrace a Beginner's Mindset and Let It Be Awkward14:30 - Step 3: Lead with Radical Clarity, Honesty, and Transparency19:06 - Avoiding the Trap of Modern Dating Pessimism***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don't know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they're looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | SpotifyFor more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram

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Sex is sometimes a taboo topic. Not today! Intimacy expert Ita O’Brien tells us all about the new normal in the bedroom, and how she’s introduced it to Hollywood.

High-achieving men often bring their boardroom skills into the bedroom — and it's destroying their relationships. In this episode, David Chambers sits down with Sean Forde Kelly to unpack why successful men struggle with intimacy, how male shame shuts down desire, and what it actually takes to build sexual confidence. Discover why society reduces male pleasure to something basic, how emotional suppression creates disconnection, and the practical steps to become more present, curious, and authentic in your intimate relationships. If you're a man in your 30s or 40s feeling stuck in repeating patterns, this conversation will change how you think about sex, intimacy, and what women actually need from you.   Seán Forde Kelly grew up on a council estate in Manchester. He went on to earn a Masters in Financial Economics, built his first business in 2015, and spent years in the corporate world. Then he started asking different questions and found the work that actually mattered. He now works privately with Founders and CEOs on leadership, impact and relationships — from boardroom to bedroom. Seán is also the Founder of Come What May, a non-profit Sexual Wellness community that has hosted 200+ free events globally since 2022, facilitating thousands of conversations people never thought they could have. Father. Certified Sex & Relationships Educator. Men's Sacred Sexuality Coach. Author of the forthcoming 'A Common Man's Guide to Pleasure'.   Key Topics:  ⭐ Men's Sexuality & Intimacy ⭐ Relationship Communication ⭐ Shame, Vulnerability & Emotional Safety ⭐ Emotional Intelligence & Self-Awareness ⭐ Healthy Masculinity & Male Identity ⭐ Long-Term Relationships & Desire Differences ⭐ Emotional & Physical Intimacy ⭐ Personal Growth Through Relationships ⭐ Conscious Conflict Resolution & Resentment Repair ⭐ Men's Mental Health & Sexual Wellbeing   Connect With David - The Authentic Man: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theauthenticman_/  Website: https://www.theauthenticman.net/  For Coaching: hello@theauthenticman.net  Newsletter: https://www.theauthenticman.net/home-subscribe    Connect With Seán Forde Kelly: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/comewhatmay.life/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/seanfordekelly/ Substack: https://substack.com/@seanfordekelly   RELATE:   

One of the biggest mistakes men make is thinking attraction takes care of itself once you're in a relationship. It doesn't. This is a rerun episode but every man in a long term relationship needs to hear it. I'm joined by Keith Yackey and Jesse Marquez from The Married Game to talk about how to maintain your masculine energy, keep attraction alive, and continue showing up as the man she fell for. >>> Get A FREE copy of Marni's Flirting Cheatsheet Here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠winggirlmethod.com/yousoflirty Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to another episode of Late Boomers! We're your hosts, Cathy Worthington and Merry Elkins, and we're thrilled you're joining us on this journey of reinvention, connection, and growth at every stage of life.In this episode, we dive deep into the foundations of thriving, lasting relationships with our insightful guests, Bruce Chalmer and Judy Alexander, co-hosts of the “Couples Therapy in Seven Words” podcast. Bruce Chalmer, an experienced couples therapist and author of several books including “The Passion Paradox,” joins us alongside Judy Alexander, retired educator, author, and “the real person” on their podcast. Together, they blend wisdom from decades of helping couples and add a generous dose of real-world humor and humanity.We explore everything from surviving betrayal, rekindling passion, and navigating intimacy in long-term relationships, to how faith, kindness, and a willingness to face uncomfortable truths can help couples not just survive challenges but come out even stronger.Key TakeawaysForgiveness After Betrayal: Bruce Chalmer reminds us that healing from betrayal is possible, but it's not guaranteed or easy it requires immense courage and honest engagement (02:35).Betrayal Beyond Infidelity: Betrayal in relationships isn't just about sex it can involve finances, addiction, and emotional wounds between friends, siblings, and partners (03:26).The Truth About Communication: Most relationship issues aren't really about how we communicate; they're about what we're communicating hurt, mistrust, or contempt (05:41).The Seven-Word Formula: “Be kind, don't panic, and have faith.” This powerful mantra underpins lasting relationships and guides partners through life's inevitable obstacles (04:35, 26:45).Stability vs. Intimacy: All couples need both stability (reliability, predictability) and intimacy (honesty, aliveness) but these can sometimes feel at odds. The key is learning to tolerate anxiety and embrace honest vulnerability (12:27).Practical Tools for Rekindling Connection: Emotional openness, respect, and humor matter. Judy Alexander also shares her unique creative journey into biblical erotica, showing that reinvention can spice up relationships at any age (20:36).Sacred, Good, and Plain Old Sex: The distinctions between different kinds of sexual experiences as relationships mature, good sex adds intimacy; sacred sex adds meaning and connection to something bigger (35:09).Sexual Fulfillment at Any Age: True sexual and emotional connection often reaches its peak in our 60s and 70s, thanks to maturity, communication, and creativity not just hormones or acrobatics (42:03).We hope you found today's episode as inspiring and practical as we did! If you enjoyed this conversation, please share it with one friend who could use a dose of hope, humor, and wisdom in their relationships. Don't forget to subscribe to Late Boomers wherever you get your podcasts so you never miss an episode.For more from Bruce Chalmer and Judy Alexander, check out their podcast “Couples Therapy in Seven Words,” Bruce's website, or Judy's book “The Blue Tent: Erotic Tales from the Bible” (as Laria Zilber).Remember, it's never too late to grow, to connect, and to create the life and relationships you truly want.Thank you for listening. It means the world to us. See you next time on Late Boomers!Mentioned in this episode:Late Boomers is part of the eWomenPodcastNetwork. eWomenPodcastNetwork

Why does desire fade in long-term relationships? And why does it feel so confusing, painful, and personal when it does? In this episode, we're unpacking one of the most misunderstood dynamics in relationships… when a woman stops wanting sex. Because it's rarely about attraction. It's about what's happening underneath.   In This Episode, We Cover: why female desire is deeply connected to emotional safety and the nervous system how stress, overwhelm, and over-functioning impact libido the concept of the “brake vs gas pedal” in desire why pressure and obligation shut desire down how resentment quietly builds and affects attraction the importance of emotional connection and presence how couples unintentionally miss each other in intimacy   A Question to Reflect On: Where in your relationship might stress, pressure, or disconnection be impacting your desire?   What's Really Happening Beneath the Surface Many women don't have a libido problem… They have: high stress emotional overload disconnection unresolved resentment lack of support When those pieces are addressed… Desire often returns naturally.   ✨ Save your spot for our September Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

In this episode, Hannah answers the question of "Is It Normal To Not Want Sex In A Long Term Relationship?" and the answer may surprise you. To learn more about how we can support you, click here: https://hannah-deindorfer.mykajabi.com/90-day-intimacy-accelerator?=podcast

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What if low desire does not mean something is wrong with you, but actually means you have never been taught how desire really works? This week on the Glow Up, Gyrl Podcast, Kyra sits down with Xanet Pailet, sex and intimacy educator, coach, entrepreneur, and author. For over 15 years, Xanet has helped women and couples heal intimacy challenges, rebuild emotional connection, and reignite desire in long-term relationships. She is the founder of Passionate Intimacy Retreats in Asheville, North Carolina. This conversation is warm, honest, and full of real, usable tools for anyone in a long-term relationship who feels like intimacy has quietly slipped to the bottom of the to-do list. In this episode: Why desire naturally fades after the honeymoon phase, and why that is normal How body image and self-worth directly impact our ability to feel desire A powerful reframe for reconnecting with your body after weight changes or major life transitions How emotional safety in a relationship creates the foundation for physical intimacy The feeling wheel exercise for practicing honest, vulnerable communication The biggest myth about desire that women need to let go of Spontaneous desire vs. responsive desire and why understanding the difference changes everything A simple, low-risk first step for starting the conversation with your partner Whether you are in a long-term relationship, feeling disconnected, or just want better tools for intimacy and communication, this episode is going to give you real, practical takeaways. Take the free Intimacy Equation Quiz: howtoimprovemylovelife.com Learn more: passionateintimacyretreats.comFollow Xanet: @xanetpop Stay connected to Glow Up, Gyrl: Website: glowupgyrl.com | Email: hello@glowupgyrl.com Instagram, TikTok, LinkedIn: @glowupgyrl | Facebook: @glowupgyrlatl Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you and your partner really collaborating in bed, or just going through the motions? In this episode, I'm diving deep into the third pillar of Sexual Intelligence: Collaboration. I break down why two people can be having sex without truly connecting, how sexual polarity creates that magnetic charge we all crave, and why desire mismatches don't have to drive a wedge between you and your partner. I also walk you through one of my favorite practices — the Sexual State of the Union — and share simple, actionable tools like the Yes!No!Maybe? list and 60-second eye contact to help you and your partner start co-creating the sex life you actually want. Whether you're partnered or flying solo, this episode will change the way you think about intimacy. ABOUT EMILY: Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.  CONNECT WITH EMILY: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/  X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily  Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily WANT MORE? Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides. Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/  Text With Me: https://sexwithemily.com/text  Receive Sex Tips On The Regular: https://sexwithemily.com/subscribe  Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to http://sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Send us Fan MailWhat does it take to secure a $100 million investment commitment? In this high-level discussion from the Family Office Club Investor Summit, experienced investors explain why large capital allocations are rarely based on a pitch alone—they are built through long-term trust, reputation, and strategic relationships.Hear how sophisticated investors think before writing major checks, what credibility signals matter most, and why patience often outperforms aggressive fundraising tactics.Featuring insights from family office principals, wealth managers, private equity leaders, and investors who have participated in nine-figure transactions.If you are raising capital, managing institutional relationships, or scaling a serious investment platform, this episode offers practical perspective from people who have done it.Recorded live at the Family Office Club Investor Summit, featuring family office executives, centimillionaires, private equity leaders, wealth managers, and active investors sharing real-world insights on capital raising, investing, and building relationships with sophisticated investors.The Family Office Club hosts 30 investor events a year across Dallas, Beverly Hills, South Florida, and New York. Our investor club offers 30 nationwide events a year, 10,000 registered investors, and 50 proprietary AI tools.Learn more at FamilyOffices.com https://familyoffices.com/

When it comes to dating your spouse, how often should you actually be going on dates? We started asking ourselves that question and quickly realized the answer depends on your relationship, your season of life, and what helps you feel connected. We share how our own approaches to dating have evolved over the years, from weekly nights out to low effort basement dates and small moments of connection throughout the week. We also dive into the research on dating your spouse, debate what actually counts as a date, and talk about why regular check-ins matter more than following someone else's rules.Key Topics Covered:The research behind dating your spouse, including the "gold standard" of weekly dates and the 2/2/2 method.Why Amy and Drew and Abby and Colin have completely different dating styles, and how their needs have evolved as their kids and schedules have changed.The debate over whether group dates count as dates and why couples may have different definitions of quality time.How to have honest conversations with your partner about feeling connected, sharing the mental load, and getting on the same page.Why meaningful connection can happen in everyday moments and does not always require elaborate plans or expensive nights out.LINKS AND RESOURCES:FORAGE KITCHEN: Check out your nearest locationAMAZON STOREFRONT: https://amzlink.to/az0BrkLl5pX9u Let's connect!HERSELF PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/herselfpodcastHERSELF INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/herselfpodcastMEET AMY: http://instagram.com/ameskieferMEET ABBY: http://instagram.com/abbyrosegreenThis episode was brought to you by the Pivot Ball Change Network.

In this episode of the podcast, Dr. Ryan Moyer speaks with clinical sexologist & licensed mental health counselor Dr. Rebecca Eudy to discuss sex in long-term relationships. They discuss how sexual desire evolves as relationships grow, how past experiences shape our expectations, the importance of open communication, how to navigate differences in desire, the dynamics of pursue–withdrawal cycles, and practical ways to repair connection and rekindle attraction. Why Do We Do That? is a psychology podcast that deconstructs the human experience from the perspectives of social scientists, psychologists, and others that use applied psychology in their work. Web | Patreon | YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter 

Message me your 'Takeaways'.Boring marriages aren't broken marriages. Nobody's fighting. Nobody's unhappy enough to leave. You just feel flat, two people running the same household. And that's exactly what makes them dangerous.In this episode, I break down why the spark dies in long-term relationships, and more importantly, the exact system I use with clients to bring it back, even when life is full, the career is demanding, and the kids are running the show. This is the conversation most couples avoid having until it's too late.You'll learn:- Why the honeymoon phase ends, and the real reason comfort becomes the enemy- How sitting across from your partner with nothing new to say is a signal, not a sentence- The two-list system: Mini Bucket List and Bucket List, and the cadence that keeps the spark alive- Why shared new experiences are the fastest fix for emotional disconnection- The infidelity stats that nobody talks about, and what they actually tell us about what couples are missing- Why the experiences that go wrong are the ones you'll talk about forever- How to stop wondering if the grass is greener and start watering your ownFree Bucket List Tool → https://www.lachlanstuart.com.au/the-listFree Life Performance Scorecard → https://scorecard.lachlanstuart.com.au/Support the showTake the "Life Performance" Scorecard: HEREFollow Lachlan:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lachlanstuart/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LachlanJStuartLINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lachlan-stuartmtc/Website: https://www.lachlanstuart.com.au/Newsletter: https://lachlan-stuart-tmtcp.ck.page/profileDo Something Today To Be Better For Tomorrow

Umar Aziz, Partner, Chief Operating Officer and General Counsel at DG Partners, joins Scott Brown to share lessons from a career that nearly took him into shipping brokerage before a major life event brought him back to law.In this episode of Lessons I Learned in Law, Umar reflects on how personal circumstances shaped the start of his legal career, including his decision to return to Clifford Chance after initially turning down his training contract. His first lesson is that there is more to life than work. Drawing on his own experiences of loss, family responsibility and high-pressure legal environments, he discusses the importance of building a full life outside the job — and why excellence matters across work, family, friendships and personal pursuits.His second lesson comes from advice he received early in his career: learn from the best bits of the lawyers around you. Umar explains why every lawyer you work with has something worth copying — and something worth leaving behind.His final lesson challenges the idea that lawyers should always try to “win” every point. Whether negotiating with clients, managing internal teams or building long-term business relationships, Umar argues that sustainable success comes from fairness, trust and mutual respect — not squeezing every last drop out of the other side.Along the way, Umar discusses moving from litigation into funds, the transition from private practice into DG Partners, his COO and GC role, and why full-contact karate helps him stay disciplined, present and switched off from work. This episode is brought to you in partnership with Wordsmith AI — the legal AI platform built specifically for in-house teams.Guest RecommendationsSport: Full-contact karate Sauce of choice: Buffalo or curry sauce Resources & Links Mentioned in This EpisodeRegister your interest in joining The Lodge In-house Legal Community: https://bit.ly/TheLodgebyHB Heriot Brown: https://heriotbrown.com/ Wordsmith AI: https://www.wordsmith.ai/ Legal Engineering Project Application form: https://wordsmith.fillout.com/legalengproject Listen to the PodcastSpotify: https://open.spotify.com/ Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/4 YouTube: http://www.youtube.com/Connect with Heriot Brownhttps://heriotbrown.com/ About Heriot Brown: At Heriot Brown, we help lawyers find fulfilment in their careers. Beyond recruitment, we foster a thriving community of in-house legal professionals who share insights, experiences, and growth opportunities.Enjoyed this episode? Subscribe to Lessons I Learned in Law, leave a review, and share it with someone building their career in legal leadership.Chapters: 00:00 Intro – Umar Aziz & DG Partners   03:40 Turning down Clifford Chance twice   09:28 From private practice to GC & COO   16:12 Lesson 1 – There's more to life than work   24:03 Karate, resilience & switching off   30:08 Lesson 2 – Learn from great lawyers   34:22 Lesson 3 – Winning isn't everything   39:55 Building long-term relationships   44:31 GC, COO & wearing multiple hats   56:42 Hot or Not, AI & closing thoughts   

Dr. Tara is back!She's sitting down with Zoe to talk about why women can sometimes stop wanting sex and why it's rarely about stress, hormones or the kids. What "awakened men" are doing differently. And why staying together for 40 miserable years is not always the flex society makes it out to be.Dr. Tara also walks us through the concept of pussy worshipping sessions (yes, really) how to have the conversation with your partner when desire has gone quiet and why self-pleasure isn't indulgent - it's essential!Emma Spring Bank Holiday Sale is live! Get up to 25% off plus extra 5% using the code MAYSLEEP at Emma Sleep. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What does it really take to keep intimacy alive after years together? In this episode of hol+, Dr. Taz sits down with Caitlin V, sexologist, educator, coach, author, and host of Good Sex, for a candid conversation about sex, connection, hormones, communication, and the relationship patterns that quietly shape long-term intimacy.Together, they explore why many couples start to feel disconnected over time, especially through the pressures of marriage, parenting, midlife, stress, changing bodies, shifting hormones, and unspoken resentment. Caitlin explains why intimacy is not something couples are simply supposed to “know how to do,” and why learning to talk about sex, desire, needs, and repair can completely change the direction of a relationship.Dr. Taz and Caitlin also discuss the role of men's health, testosterone, cortisol, perimenopause, menopause, performance pressure, emotional shutdown, and the invisible load that many women carry. They unpack why both men and women can check out of a relationship, how resentment builds, and why emotional distance is often one of the earliest signs that a couple needs support.This conversation offers a grounded and hopeful look at how couples can rebuild closeness, not through pressure or blame, but through communication, curiosity, physical connection, appreciation, and a willingness to keep learning each other.If you're listening to this and thinking, “I know something is off in my body, but I don't know where to start,” join the Circle here:

What does it actually take to build an empire, and what do you have to overcome within yourself to get there? In this episode of The Greatness Machine, Darius sits down with Elena Cardone, entrepreneur, philanthropist, investor, and bestselling author of “Build an Empire: How to Have it All”. Elena opens up about a childhood marked by profound loss, how she left New Orleans at 17 with nothing but a dream of making it in Hollywood, and the pivotal moment in 2008 that changed everything. When the financial crisis brought her and Grant to the edge of losing it all, Elena made a decision that would reshape her identity, her marriage, and her future. Elena and Darius go deep on what it really means to build a life by design. From defining roles in a marriage so both partners can operate at 100%, to confronting the subconscious patterns that quietly sabotage success, this conversation is raw, honest, and full of hard-won wisdom. Elena also shares how understanding the reactive mind through Dianetics became the single most transformative tool in her personal and professional life, and why she credits it as the foundation of everything she and Grant have built together. In this episode, Darius and Elena will discuss: (00:00) Introduction and Guest Introduction (01:26) Elena's Origin Story (05:31) Moving to Los Angeles and Early Life Challenges (08:44) Transitioning from Acting to Supporting Grant (11:44) Defining Roles in Their Partnership (15:15) Navigating Financial Crisis and Building Together (19:32) Creating a Supportive Environment in Marriage (24:26) The Value of Long-Term Relationships (25:40) Reinventing Relationships Over Time (27:43) The Importance of Agreements in Marriage (29:25) Understanding the Mind: Dianetics and Personal Growth (34:57) Navigating Emotions and Reactive Minds (40:58) Trusting Yourself and Overcoming Barriers to Greatness Elena Cardone Elena Cardone is a bestselling author, speaker, and entrepreneur dedicated to empowering women, strengthening families, and creating financial opportunity for the next generation. She is the author of “Build an Empire: How to Have it All” and the host of The Elena Cardone Show podcast. As co-founder of the Grant Cardone Foundation, Elena works to bring financial and business education to underserved youth. She also co-founded Cardone Mortgage, offering personalized home financing solutions across all 50 states, and serves as a licensed Realtor with eXp Realty, leading an organization of over 500 agents. Alongside her husband Grant Cardone, she has helped build a real estate portfolio valued at over $5 billion. Elena lives in Miami with Grant and their two daughters, Sabrina and Scarlett. Connect with Elena: Website: www.elenacardone.com/success Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elenacardone/  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elenacardoneWIP/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/ElenaCardone  Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this popular episode from last spring, Joanne speaks with author and fruit tree care educator Susan Poizner about her book, Fruit Tree Pruning: The Science and Art of Cultivating Healthy Fruit Trees, and shares Susan's practical advice for growing healthier, more productive fruit trees. About Susan Poizner Susan Poizner is an award-winning author, journalist, urban orchardist, and fruit tree care educator based in Toronto, Canada. She trains arborists, master gardeners, and community and home orchardists in fruit tree maintenance through in-person workshops, online courses, and webinars. Her books include Grow Fruit Trees Fast, Growing Urban Orchards, Fruit Tree Grafting for Everyone and Fruit Tree Pruning. Here are some of the topics discussed in this episode: Fruit Trees Are a Long-Term Relationship, Not an Impulse Purchase Fruit trees require planning, patience, and ongoing care. Instead of grabbing a pretty tree from a garden centre, research disease-resistant varieties, pollination needs, rootstock size, hardiness zone, and the right nursery source before planting.  Proper Pruning Is Essential for Healthy Trees and Better Fruit Susan explains why young bare-root trees should be pruned the day they're planted, how formative pruning shapes a tree for life, and why mature trees can often be restored with thoughtful pruning. Learn the difference between trimming and pruning, especially how over-trimming can create dense, unhealthy canopies.  Healthy Soil, Smart Placement, and Natural Care Lead to Better Harvests To thrive, fruit trees need full sun, enough root space, compost or quality mulch, annual cleanup, dormant spray, and attention to soil health. Good care reduces disease pressure, improves fruit quality, and makes fruit trees more productive without relying heavily on chemical sprays. Find Susan Poizner online at orchardpeople.com and Fruit Tree Pruning: The Science and Art of Cultivating Healthy Fruit Trees on Amazon. You can also check out her YouTube channel or listen to the Orchard People podcast. Have a topic you'd like Joanne to discuss? Email your questions and comments to downthegardenpathpodcast@hotmail.com, or connect with Joanne on her website: down2earth.ca Find Down the Garden Path on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube: @downthegardenpathpodcast. Down the Garden Path Podcast On Down The Garden Path, professional landscape designer Joanne Shaw discusses down-to-earth tips and advice for your plants, gardens and landscapes. As the owner of Down2Earth Landscape Design, Joanne Shaw has been designing beautiful gardens for homeowners east of Toronto for over a decade. She does her best to bring you interesting, relevant and useful topics to help you keep your garden as low-maintenance as possible.  In Down the Garden Path: A Step-By-Step Guide to Your Ontario Garden, Joanne and fellow landscape designer Matthew Dressing distill their horticultural and design expertise and their combined experiences in helping others create and maintain thriving gardens into one easy-to-read monthly reference guide. Get your copy today on Amazon. Don't forget to check out Down the Garden Path on your favourite podcast app and subscribe! You can now catch the podcast on YouTube.

Cement Manyathela speaks to Nicki Brivik, who is a Sexual Wellness Coach to discuss what erotic energy is and how couples can reignite it in long term relationships.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

✨ Episode SummaryIn this special Q&A episode, Keana answers real questions from listeners navigating the emotional, practical, and spiritual complexities of dating after divorce or the end of a long‑term relationship.This episode is filled with grounded wisdom, trauma‑informed guidance, and insights from leading psychologists who study post‑relationship healing. Whether you're newly single, cautiously curious about dating again, or trying to rebuild your confidence, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and direction.

Travels With Randy Route 66 Episode 17 is here! TWR Route 66 Ep 17: The Route 66 Postgame Debrief And Summer Plans Route 66 Murals Discussion Bubba and Randy discussed Randy's travels along Route 66 in Texas, particularly focusing on new murals being created in Amarillo. Randy explained how artists are now able to create murals due to recently received grant money, describing the process he observed where artists first sketch the design before painting it. The conversation concluded with a discussion about the financial challenges faced by artists, comparing their situation to other creative professions like acting and writing. Route 66 Travel Journey Discussion Bubba and Randy discussed Randy's ongoing Route 66 travel journey, which has generated $9 in advertising revenue through podcast sponsorships. Randy explained his plans to meet up with his friend Darren in Albuquerque for golf before potentially heading to California or taking a more inland route along the western side of the Rockies to Washington, depending on gas prices. Bubba noted that Randy's travel plans are often spontaneous and unpredictable, with Randy frequently moving between different locations across the country. Route 66 September Journey Planning Randy explained his plan to return to Route 66 in September for another 16-episode journey, this time focusing on exploring destinations and experiences along the later alignments of the route rather than just following the original 1926-1930 path. He aims to be in Seligman for the Route 66 Centennial in November and is using this current trip to meet people and gather information for potential fall events. Randy noted that he has changed his approach by driving at night to see neon signs and has adjusted his schedule to better experience the route's unique features. Route 66 Photography Plans Randy shared his recent experience photographing neon signs along Route 66, including a large neon Coke bottle at a store called Pops in Arcadia. He discussed plans for a future fall trip that would focus more on experiencing Route 66 rather than just taking pictures, potentially including staying in classic motels and renting a classic car. Randy also mentioned seeing a motorcade of motorcycles and SUVs with Italian flags in El Reno, Oklahoma, though Beth clarified that the Italian flag colors are green, white, and red. Route 66 Road Trip Plans Randy shared his Route 66 road trip plans, discussing his experience driving classic cars and staying at Cracker Barrel locations along the route. He explained that the trip could be completed in about two weeks of driving 2 hours daily, and mentioned his upcoming visit to meet with Mo in Arizona and Cindy in California. Bubba revealed that Cindy is a real person, not AI, and shared his positive experience meeting her at Randy's retirement party. Reconnecting Through Social Media Platforms Bubba and Randy discussed reconnecting with old acquaintances through social media platforms like Facebook and LinkedIn. Randy shared his experience reconnected with a former filmmaking partner through Facebook, leading to the recovery of their old Super 8 films from the 1970s. They discussed digitizing these films and potentially organizing a viewing party. The conversation also touched on their shared experiences with early technology, including the TRS-80 computer, and Bubba's childhood creative writing efforts. Generational Technology and Travel Discussion Bubba and Randy discussed the generational gap between boomers and millennials, particularly regarding technology use. They talked about Randy's travel plans, including attending 4th of July celebrations and exploring Route 66. Bubba suggested asking their Facebook audience for adventure ideas for Randy to consider during his summer travels. Randy shared his experience finding a section of Route 66 in Oklahoma with a sign marking Paul McCartney's visit in 2009. Long-Term Relationships and Travel Plans Bubba and Randy discussed their experiences with long-term relationships and travel, sharing personal anecdotes about their marriages and lifestyle choices. Randy explained his current living situation and approach to relationships, while Bubba shared insights about his 30-year marriage to Linda. They also discussed Randy's upcoming content plans for the summer, including weekly Saturday posts featuring Route 66 themes, and agreed to continue their weekly discussions while focusing on US travel content. The conversation concluded with plans to develop their website and potentially generate revenue over the summer. SO. MANY. PHOTOS - Come join the conversation on Facebook with our 33,000 friends! https://www.facebook.com/travelswithrandypodcast Have a great idea for the guys?  Want to sponsor us?  Want us to sell something National Park or Route 66 related? Want to be a guest? Want to pay for both of us to go to Alaska? Want me to stop asking questions?   bubba@travelswithrandypodcast.com !!

✨ Episode SummaryIn today's episode, Keana explores what it really looks like to date again after a divorce or the end of a long‑term relationship. This season of life can feel overwhelming, confusing, and even intimidating — but it can also be a powerful opportunity for rediscovery, healing, and intentional connection.Drawing from leading psychological research and trauma‑informed relationship principles, Keana breaks down why dating after a major breakup feels so different, how to know if you're emotionally ready, and what steps you can take to date with clarity and confidence.This episode is for anyone who's rebuilding their life after a significant relationship and wants to approach dating from a place of self‑worth rather than fear or pressure.

How To Repair Relationships & Create Lasting Emotional Connection https://offer.personaldevelopmentschool.com/relationship-repair?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=relationship-repair&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-04-20-26&el=podcast Have you ever wondered what a long-term relationship or marriage looks like with a Dismissive Avoidants who hasn't done the healing work? Dismissive Avoidants can be caring, loyal, and stable partners. But when deep attachment wounds go unaddressed, their subconscious patterns can quietly shape the entire relationship dynamic over time. Episode Summary In this episode, Thais Gibson walks through the story of a client (“Bob”) to illustrate what long-term relationships can look like when a Dismissive Avoidants Attachment Style remains unhealed. Bob had been married for decades before realizing how his attachment patterns shaped his marriage and family life. Growing up with emotionally distant parents, he learned to keep people at arm's length and suppress emotional needs. Over time, several patterns emerged in his relationship: • Difficulty receiving feedback without shutting down • A strong resistance to emotional interdependence • Struggles being emotionally present as a spouse and parent • Lack of awareness about his own relationship needs • Constantly regulating or protecting his emotional bandwidth The result wasn't a lack of love; it was a lack of emotional accessibility. As Bob began exploring his patterns later in life, he discovered that healing required learning to accept himself, open up emotionally, communicate needs clearly, and develop healthier boundaries. Because Dismissive Avoidants patterns are not permanent personality traits, they are learned survival strategies that can be rewired. Key Takeaways ✔️ Why Dismissive Avoidants often shut down when receiving feedback ✔️ How difficulty with interdependence affects long-term relationships ✔️ Why emotional presence can be challenging for Dismissive Avoidants ✔️ The hidden belief that they “don't have needs” from others ✔️ How protecting emotional bandwidth leads to withdrawal ✔️ Why self-acceptance helps Dismissive Avoidants lower their guard ✔️ How communication struggles create overly large boundaries ✔️ Why emotional numbing often replaces healthy self-soothing ✔️ The importance of healing core wounds to build secure relationships Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she's helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:

In this episode of 'Own Your Pleasure', sex and relationship coach Craig Cassey and host Whitni Miller discuss building satisfaction in relationships through psychological interventions, focusing on mindset crafting, understanding different couple archetypes, and practical strategies for enhancing intimacy and desire. Craig Cassey is a relationship & sex coach and researcher who helps couples reignite their desire and co-create mutually fulfilling relationships in the bedroom and beyond. Learn More From Craig Cassey Jr.:https://www.coaching-naked.com Follow Craig Cassey Jr:TikTok - @akacoachcraigIG - @craigcasseyjr Learn More From Whitni:https://www.bde-moves.com Follow Whitni at:IG - @bde.movesFB - groups/bdemovesYouTube - Podcast Channel = @BDE-Moves Old Channel = @BdeTalksTikTok - @bdemoves

This solo episode is going to explore a fear that many of us carry inside our intimate relationships but rarely say out loud: the fear of settling. What is it? Where does it come from? And most importantly, what does it cost us? Dr. Alexandra will offer you a reframe that is both clarifying and hopeful. We are going to reimagine what acceptance actually means – not as a passive giving-up, but as one of the most powerful and underrated tools available to us in love.  In this episode, you will hear about: The cost of comparison and how to shift from external comparison to internal reflection. How the word “settling” is working against you. What Acceptance is and is not, and how to determine whether you are acting in the spirit of acceptance or resignation. How to tend to the grief that is often built into Acceptance. Grab a pen and paper! Dr. Alexandra has included a writing exercise in this episode, designed to guide you towards acceptance - both of yourself and your partner. Resources worth mentioning from the episode: Reimagining Love episodes: Relational Ambivalence: Should I Stay or Should I Go? Part 1 https://dralexandrasolomon.com/podcasts/relational-ambivalence-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go-part-1-rerelease/ Relational Ambivalence: Should I Stay or Should I Go? Part 2 https://dralexandrasolomon.com/podcasts/relational-ambivalence-should-i-stay-or-should-i-go-part-2-rerelease/ Inviting a Reluctant Partner into Relationship Work https://dralexandrasolomon.com/podcasts/inviting-a-reluctant-partner-into-relationship-work-re-release/ “I Think I've Outgrown My Relationship!” https://www.dralexandrasolomon.com/podcasts/i-think-ive-outgrown-my-relationship Is There an “Effort Mismatch” in Your Relationship? https://www.dralexandrasolomon.com/podcasts/is-there-an-effort-mismatch-in-your-relationship Continue the conversation with Dr. Alexandra Solomon: Ask a question! Submit your relationship challenge: https://form.jotform.com/212295995939274 Access Resources, like quizzes and courses: https://www.dralexandrasolomon.com/resources Order Dr. Alexandra's book, Love Every Day: https://bookshop.org/p/books/love-every-day-365-relational-self-awareness-practices-to-help-your-relationship-heal-grow-and-thrive-alexandra-solomon/19970421?ean=9781683736530 Cultivate connection by subscribing to Dr. Alexandra's Loving Bravely newsletter: https://newsletter.dralexandrasolomon.com/ Learn more on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.alexandra.solomon/ Join Esther Perel's annual clinical conference Sessions Live 2026! Learn in person in Brooklyn, New York or virtually on May 15th and 16th. Use code SOLOMON50 for $50 off a virtual ticket or SOLOMON100 for $100 off in-person. Get your tickets at https://sessionslive2026.estherperel.com/Learn more about the Options Transition to Independence Program which offers education, vocational, independent living, and emotional support for young adults with complex learning needs. https://www.experienceoptions.org/ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this episode of 'Own Your Pleasure', sex and relationship coach Craig Cassey and host Whitni Miller discuss the complexities of desire, intimacy, and vulnerability in relationships. Topics include managing differing libidos, building safety and trust, and redefining what pleasure means in modern relationships. Craig Cassey is a relationship & sex coach and researcher who helps couples reignite their desire and co-create mutually fulfilling relationships in the bedroom and beyond. Learn More From Craig Cassey: https://www.coaching-naked.com Follow Craig Cassey Jr: TikTok - @akacoachcraig IG - @craigcasseyjr Learn More From Whitni: https://www.bde-moves.com Follow Whitni at: IG - @bde.moves FB - groups/bdemoves YouTube - Podcast Channel = @BDE-Moves Old Channel = @BdeTalks TikTok - @bdemoves

This Truth Bomb episode digs into the idea of being “sponge-worthy” in a relationship—what actually makes a partner worth committing to long-term. The hosts challenge listeners to look beyond surface-level compatibility and examine values, habits, communication, and personal responsibility. It's a candid conversation about standards, self-awareness, and whether you're intentionally choosing your partner—or just settling into what's comfortable. GET SOCIAL WITH US!

Welcome back to Boss Bitch Radio. This episode is a little different… and a little spicy! We're talking about intimacy, communication, body image, and why sometimes you just don't feel "in the mood" - even when you love your partner. This conversation is pulled straight from one of my live coaching calls inside Healthy & Hot, and I brought in therapist Leanne Wagner to go deep with us. We cover everything from Valentine's Day ideas to improving sexual intimacy in long-term relationships, and yes… we talk about foreplay, scheduling sex, and why grabbing your butt is not always the move. If you've ever struggled with body confidence and intimacy, or felt frustrated that your partner doesn't understand what actually turns you on, this episode will hit home. Join the newsletter for more behind-the-scenes tips, cheat sheets, and practical tools → https://www.bossbitchradio.com/newsletter #IntimacyInMarriage #RelationshipAdvice #ImproveYourRelationship   Key Takeaways: 00:52 It's a Valentine's Week Special

For a lot of us, having kids absolutely wrecks our sex lives… at least for a while. And no one really prepares you for that. In this episode, we're joined by Rebecca Howard Eudy, PhD, LMHC, an AASECT-certified sex therapist and couples therapist, to talk about what actually happens to desire, intimacy, and connection after kids (or even just in long term relationships). We dig into exhaustion, resentment, pressure, and why so many couples assume something is wrong with them, when really they're just navigating a huge shift. This conversation is about understanding what's happening and figuring out how to rebuild intimacy in a way that actually works for the season you're in. We cover: How pressure kills intimacy. What happens when sex becomes another expectation instead of a point of connection. Why resentment shows up in the bedroom. How unequal labor, emotional disconnect, and unspoken needs quietly erode desire. How to rebuild emotional and physical intimacy. Practical ways to reconnect that do not rely on forcing desire or “trying harder.” Why sex changes so much after kids. Rebecca explains how exhaustion, mental load, and identity shifts directly impact desire and arousal. The difference between low desire and low capacity. Why many parents still want sex but feel too depleted to access it. Understanding desire differences after parenthood. Why mismatched desire is common and not a sign something is wrong with your relationship. Why scheduling intimacy can actually help. How planning connection creates safety and reduces pressure instead of killing spontaneity. The importance of redefining sex after kids. Moving beyond penetration-focused sex and expanding what intimacy can look like now. How to talk about sex without blame or defensiveness. Language shifts that help couples feel like teammates again. Connect with Rebecca: BUY HER BOOK HERE! Visit her website HERE! Follow her on Instagram HERE! Listen to her podcast HERE! ⁠⁠⁠Looking to apply these tips to your REAL life? Schedule a FREE 1:1 strategy session with Cass & Em to see if coaching can support you.⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Get Honeydew Me Merch HERE!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join our Patreon and access exclusive content HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Nicole McNichols, psychologist, professor at the University of Washington, and author of You Could Be Having Better Sex, for one of the most honest, research-backed conversations we've ever had about sex, intimacy, and connection in long-term marriage.   This isn't about sex positions, tricks, or "trying harder." It's about why good marriages lose momentum over time, how pressure and expectations quietly kill desire, and why emotional connection is often the real foreplay. Dr. Nicole breaks down why scheduling sex can backfire, how shame and guilt around sex are learned early, and how curiosity—not performance—creates the kind of intimacy couples actually crave. I also share personal stories from my own marriage about connection, timing, and why mediocre sex just to "check the box" no longer works. If you want a healthier, more connected sex life, this episode gives you a roadmap grounded in science and real-life experience.     Timeline Summary [0:00] Why this episode isn't about sex positions or tricks [1:26] Introducing Dr. Nicole McNichols and her background [2:09] Why scheduling sex can quietly backfire [2:36] How pressure and expectation kill intimacy [2:58] Emotional connection as the real foreplay [3:36] Why intimacy dates matter more than sex calendars [5:18] How Dr. Nicole became a "sex professor" by accident [6:10] Loneliness, disconnection, and the role of sexual health [7:08] Shame, stigma, and misinformation around sex—especially for women [9:14] Why healthy sex improves forgiveness, health, and longevity [10:25] The failure of shame-based sex education [12:10] Countries with sex-positive education and better outcomes [13:18] Identifying the sources of shame we carry into marriage [15:09] Why sex shouldn't be the first thing sacrificed in busy seasons [16:07] Why conversations about sex should happen with clothes on [17:00] Using curiosity instead of pressure to improve intimacy [18:11] Announcement: Dad Edge Alliance February focus on intimacy and attraction [20:03] Curiosity vs. agenda in hard conversations [21:17] Why scheduling sex alone doesn't work [22:09] Creating the right context and mood for intimacy [23:24] Sexual effort that creates pressure instead of desire [24:55] Emotional lead-up and responsive desire [26:01] Initiation–rejection cycles and resentment [27:23] "Intimacy dates" and reconnecting outside the bedroom [29:11] Larry shares a personal story about connection over convenience [31:26] Choosing quality connection over mediocre sex [33:17] Maintenance sex vs. meaningful sexual connection [35:04] Balancing connection and realistic expectations [37:22] Long-term rejection cycles and rebuilding intimacy [39:00] Hormones, menopause, and why libido changes aren't personal [41:29] Division of labor, resentment, and loss of identity [43:48] Gottman research and why distance doesn't heal intimacy [45:43] Making your partner feel seen and heard [47:23] Listening vs. fixing in emotional conversations [49:13] Resources for better conversations with your wife and kids [49:31] Dr. Nicole's book and New York Times features [50:44] Where to find Dr. Nicole and her work [53:08] Why improving your sex life is a powerful way to start 2026     Five Key Takeaways Pressure and expectation kill desire, while curiosity and emotional safety create attraction.  Emotional connection is often the real foreplay, especially in long-term marriages.  Scheduling sex without context can backfire if couples don't create space to reconnect first.  Sexual shame is learned, and identifying its sources is the first step toward healthier intimacy.  Better sex isn't about frequency—it's about quality, safety, and connection.        Links & Resources 25 Intimate Conversation Starters: https://thedadedge.com/25questions Conversation Cards for Kids (Ages 5–Teen): https://thedadedge.com/kidquestions Dr. Nicole McNichols – Faculty Spotlight (University of Washington): https://psych.uw.edu/newsletter/summer-2020/faculty/faculty-spotlight-on-nicole-mcnichols New York Times – Modern Love Podcast Feature: https://www.nytimes.com/2026/01/07/podcasts/modern-love-better-sex-tips.html Book — You Could Be Having Better Sex Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1430     Closing Remark If this episode gave you language, clarity, or hope around intimacy in your marriage, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Strong marriages don't drift into great sex—they build it intentionally, with curiosity, connection, and courage.

Some of the most misunderstood and emotionally charged topics for men are: attraction, compatibility, and what actually creates lasting connection with a woman. My guest, Laurin Ponce, helps us break down the difference between compatibility, connection, and chemistry - and why confusing those three is where most relationships go off the rails. We talk about what women truly find attractive in a grounded man, what it really means when a woman asks for space, why it feels like there are more rules for men, and how respect is built long before it's ever given. From attachment styles and masculine frame to why women's touch is medicine and how peace and respect create a relationship where both people feel safe and free, this conversation cracks open the unspoken dynamics most men are trying to navigate alone. We also explore the practical side: non-negotiables, testing for compatibility, shared values, money, day-to-day living, and why partners are often mirrors and triggers for our own unresolved work. Laurin and I get into anxious versus avoidant dynamics, masculinity and femininity in modern relationships, emotional expression in men, vulnerability, physical attraction, and how connection is built - and rebuilt - over time SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 - Understanding Men and Women 01:07 - Is There a Line in "Figuring Each Other Out"? 03:22 - Masculine and Feminine Polarity 05:08 - The Bowl and the Water Analogy 06:46 - Why Respect Starts With Self-Respect 08:21 - Non-Negotiables in Relationships 10:05 - Compatibility vs. Chemistry 13:18 - Core Values and Relationship Dealbreakers 14:58 - You Can't Out-Love Incompatibility 17:16 - Chemistry vs. Trauma Bonds 18:46 - What Real Chemistry Feels Like 19:29 - Peace and Respect in Relationships 22:47 - Creating Emotional Safety 26:52 - Masculine and Feminine Imbalance Today 30:30 - Polarity Always Finds Its Way 33:41 - Letting Go of Armor and Control 35:16 - Becoming the Partner You Want to Attract 39:13 - Consistency and Trust 40:10 - Physical Attraction and Discipline 43:02 - Connection Is Built Over Time 46:37 - Scarcity Mindset in Dating 48:02 - Where Men Should Start in Long-Term Relationships 50:32 - Rekindling Attraction and Intentionality 57:12 - "Cracking the Code" of Your Partner 01:00:29 - Never Get Comfortable in Love 01:05:05 - Serving Each Other Without Shame 01:06:23 - Where to Find Laurin's Work Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready