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Welcome to the Social-Engineer Podcast: The Doctor Is In Series – where we will discuss understandings and developments in the field of psychology.   In today's episode, Chris and Abbie explore the complexities of attraction and the concept of love at first sight. They discuss the biochemical responses associated with attraction, the importance of understanding cognitive biases, and the role of familiarity in relationships. [Aug 4, 2025]   00:00 - Intro 00:35 - Dr. Abbie Maroño Intro 01:15 - Intro Links -          Social-Engineer.com - http://www.social-engineer.com/ -          Managed Voice Phishing - https://www.social-engineer.com/services/vishing-service/ -          Managed Email Phishing - https://www.social-engineer.com/services/se-phishing-service/ -          Adversarial Simulations - https://www.social-engineer.com/services/social-engineering-penetration-test/ -          Social-Engineer channel on SLACK - https://social-engineering-hq.slack.com/ssb -          CLUTCH - http://www.pro-rock.com/ -          innocentlivesfoundation.org - http://www.innocentlivesfoundation.org/                                 03:14 - The Topic of the Day: Love at First Sight 03:22 - Pulling Apart the Fairy Tale 04:26 - Knowledge is Power 05:49 - Why Can't This Be Love? 07:12 - More Than a Feeling 09:28 - May Impair Your Ability 10:59 - The Rickety Bridge Study 13:20 - Head or Heart? 15:04 - Cognitive Biases 16:16 - The Halo Effect 17:19 - Prototypical Matching 18:51 - I Want You to Want Me 21:54 - Retrospective Bias 23:34 - Feels Like Home 28:44 - Keep One Eye Open 30:32 - A Responsibility to Self-Awareness 32:53 - Wrap Up 33:11 - Next Month: Intuition 33:31 - Outro -          www.social-engineer.com -          www.innocentlivesfoundation.org   Find us online: -          LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/dr-abbie-maroño-phd -          Instagram: @DoctorAbbieofficial -          LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/christopherhadnagy     References: Dutton, D. G., & Aron, A. P. (1974). Some evidence for heightened sexual attraction under conditions of high anxiety. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 30(4), 510–517. Fisher, H. E., Aron, A., & Brown, L. L. (2006). Romantic love: A mammalian brain system for mate choice. Philosophical Transactions of the Royal Society B: Biological Sciences, 361(1476), 2173–2186. Fletcher, G. J. O., Simpson, J. A., & Thomas, G. (2000). The measurement of perceived relationship quality components: A confirmatory factor analytic approach. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 26(3), 340–354. Hazan, C., & Shaver, P. (1987). Romantic love conceptualized as an attachment process. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 52(3), 511–524. Marazziti, D., & Canale, D. (2004). Hormonal changes when falling in love. Psychoneuroendocrinology, 29(7), 931–936.  Nisbett, R. E., & Wilson, T. D. (1977). The halo effect: Evidence for unconscious alteration of judgments. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 35(4), 250–256. Sprecher, S., & Metts, S. (1989). Development of the "Romantic Beliefs Scale" and examination of the effects of gender and gender-role orientation. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 6(4), 387–411. Sternberg, R. J. (1986). A triangular theory of love. Psychological Review, 93(2), 119–135. Zeki, S. (2007). The neurobiology of love. FEBS Letters, 581(14), 2575–2579. Zsok, F., Haucke, M., De Wit, C., & Barelds, D. P. (2017). What kind of love is love at first sight? An empirical investigation. Personal Relationships, 24(4), 869–885.

How do you handle seasons where you're not enjoying physical intimacy as much as you want in marriage? Jim Daly speaks to Erin Smalley and Sherri Mueller about when sex isn't happening much for married couples. Plus, Greg Smalley shares how a husband can be a safe place for his wife to talk about sex. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book I Want Him to Want Me for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Pursuing Intimacy with a Reluctant Husband Major Turn-Offs to Intimacy Contact Our Counseling Team Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.

How do you handle seasons where you're not enjoying physical intimacy as much as you want in marriage? Jim Daly speaks to Erin Smalley and Sherri Mueller about when sex isn't happening much for married couples. Plus, Greg Smalley shares how a husband can be a safe place for his wife to talk about sex. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILY. Receive the book I Want Him to Want Me for your donation of any amount! Focus on Marriage Assessment Pursuing Intimacy with a Reluctant Husband Major Turn-Offs to Intimacy Contact Our Counseling Team Support This Show! If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1196/29

You're listening to Burnt Toast! Today, my guest is Tracy Clark-Flory. Tracy is the feminist writer behind the newsletter TCF Emails and the author of Want Me: A Sex Writer's Journey into the Heart of Desire. She's also the cohost of the new podcast Dire Straights where she and Amanda Montei unpack the many toxic aspects of heterosexual relationships and culture. I brought Tracy on the podcast today to talk about my feet, but we get into so much more. We talk about porn, sexual identity, and the male gaze—and, of course, how all of this makes us feel in our bodies.This episode is free but if you value this conversation, please consider supporting our work with a paid subscription. Burnt Toast is 100% reader- and listener-supported. We literally can't do this without you.PS. You can always listen to this pod right here in your email, where you'll also receive full transcripts (edited and condensed for clarity). But please also follow us in Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, and/or Pocket Casts! And if you enjoy today's conversation, please tap the heart on this post — likes are one of the biggest drivers of traffic from Substack's Notes, so that's a super easy, free way to support the show!Episode 202 TranscriptVirginiaI am so excited. We've been Internet friends for a long time, and it's so nice to finally have a conversation. I'm very jazzed! TracyRight? I feel like we've talked before, but we have not, which is such an odd sensation. We've emailed.VirginiaWe've emailed, we've DM-ed, we've commented on each other's things. But we have not, with our faces and mouths, had a conversation. The Internet is so weird.Well, the Internet being weird is a lot of what we're gonna talk about today. Because where I want to start today is feet.TracyWhy not?VirginiaSo I initially emailed you when I was working on my essay about my Wikifeet experience, because you have written so extensively about porn and the Internet's treatment of women. And when I discovered my Wikifeet, one of my first thoughts was, “I need to talk to Tracy about this.” TracyThat makes me so happy. I want to be the first person that everyone thinks of when they find themselves on Wikifeet.VirginiaI was like, “I don't know how she'll feel…” so I'm glad you take that as a compliment.I don't even know where to start. Even though I wrote a whole essay about this, my brain is still, like, “record scratch moment” on the whole thing. Sojust talk to us a little bit where in your vast reporting on porn did you kind of become aware of fetish sites and what's your read on them? What's going on there?TracyI think I first became aware of Wikifeet in 2008-ish when they launched, and that's when I was a proper, full-time sex writer, on the sex beat, covering every weird niche Internet community. And then in the years since, I've unfortunately had many women colleagues—often feminist writers—who have ended up on the site. So unfortunately, you're not the first person I know who's ended up on there.VirginiaIt's a weird thing that a certain type of woman writer is gonna end up on Wikifeet. Why?TracyThere are no shortage of women who are consensually volunteering photos of their feet online for people to consume in a sexualized way, right? So the fact is that this site is providing a venue for people to do it in a very nonconsensual way, where images are taken from other venues that are not sexualized. They're stolen images, you know? Things that are screenshotted from Instagram stories, that kind of thing—and then put into this sexualized context. Not only that, but put into a sexualized context where there is a community around sexualizing and objectifying and even rating and evaluating body parts.My take is that this violation is part of the point. Because there is having a foot fetish—great, have at it, enjoy. And then there's consuming images that are nonconsensual. So I think that the violation is part of the point. And to the point of feminist writers, women writers online, ending up on it—I don't think it's an accident. Because I think that there is—perhaps for some, maybe not all—some pleasure taken in that aspect of trespass.VirginiaYes. My best friend is a food blogger, and I immediately searched for her because she's way more famous than I am, and she's not on there. And I'm glad, I don't want her non-consensually on there! But I was like, oh, it's interesting that I'm on there, lyz is on there. It is a certain type of woman that men are finding objectionable on the Internet. And putting us on WikiFeet is a retaliation or just a way of—I don't know. It's not a direct attack, because I didn't even know about it for however long my feet have been up there. But it is a way for men to feel like they're in control of us in some way, right?TracyOh, totally. And it's because there is something interesting about taking a body part that is not broadly and generally sexualized, and sexualizing it. There is this feeling of a “gotcha!” in it.There is something, too, about feet—I mean, I think this is part of what plays into foot fetish, often. There is this sense of dirtiness, potentially, but also the sense of often being hidden away. It's secret, it's private, it's delicate, it's tender. Feet are ticklish, there's so much layered in there that I think can make it feel like this place of vulnerability.I've written about upskirting. This was maybe like 15 years ago. But it's these communities where men take upskirt videos and photos of women on the subway or wherever, and then they share them in online forums. And that's very clearly a physical trespass. You're seeing something that was not meant to be seen. So it's quite different. But it's feels like it exists on a spectrum of trespass and violation and taking sexualized enjoyment out of that.VirginiaFrom someone who had no intention of you taking that enjoyment, who's just trying to ride the train to work.TracyTotally. And the foot thing, it just makes me think of all these different ways that women experience their bodies in the world. You can't just be at ease in your body, because someone might think your feet are hot.VirginiaIt's really interesting. I've talked about this on the podcast before: A little bit after I got divorced and I started having, weekends totally to myself in my house, it was the first time I'd been alone in my house in a long time. Obviously, usually my kids were there. My husband used to be there. And I had this strange sensation of being observed, even when I was completely alone in the house.It's just me and the dog. She's asleep. I'm making dinner or watching TV or doing whatever I'm doing. And I couldn't shake the sensation that I was watching myself, still thinking about what I was going to wear. It was so weird, and I realized it actually isn't particularly a comment on my marriage. It's more a comment on women are so trained to always feel observed. It's really hard for us to actually access a space where we're not going to be observed. It was wild.TracyWe adopt that perspective of the watcher, and we are the watched. We experience ourselves in that way, as opposed to being the watcher, the person who sees and consumes the world and experiences the world. It's like we experience ourselves being experienced by someone else—an imagined man often.VirginiaYes, you're always self-objectifying. It doesn't matter whether you're trying to please that gaze, whether you're trying to protect yourself against that gaze. Whatever it is, we're always aware of how we'll be perceived in a way that I don't think cis men ever have to consider. I don't think that's a part of their experience of the world in the same way.TracyAnd how messed up is that tension between trying to please and trying to protect oneself? What an impossible tightrope walk to be constantly doing.VirginiaRight, and to not even know which one you want sometimes. Like, which one you need, which one you want.TracyYeah, going back and forth between those extremes. You're always kind of monitoring and on edge.VirginiaAnd, it did shift. Now when I'm alone in my house, I don't feel like I'm watching myself. Like, it did lessen. But it was this very stark moment of noticing that. And I think the way our work is so online, we are so online, it doesn't help. Because we also have all learned through the performance art of social media to constantly be documenting. And even if you're by yourself, you might post something about it. There's that need to narrate and document and then also objectify your experience.TracyThe sense of, like, if I don't take a photo of it, it doesn't exist. It didn't happen. It's not real. It must be consumed by other people. I mean, when you were talking earlier about that sense of being surveyed, I think that is a very just common experience for women, period. But then I think, for me, growing up with reality TV, the explosion of reality TV, like that added this like sense of a camera on one's life.And then I think, like, if you want to bring porn into it, too—Like, in the bedroom, that sense of the watcher, so you have this sense of being watched by men, but then you have the sense of kind of performing for an audience, because that's so much of what I came up with culturally.VirginiaI mean, the way we often conceive of our sexuality is through performance and how are you being perceived not how are you experiencing it yourself? I mean, you write about that so well, that tension.TracyThat was my whole thing. My sexual coming of age memoir is so much about what it meant to try to move out of that focus on how I'm being perceived by my partner and into a place of what am I experiencing? What do I even want beyond being wanted?VirginiaMan, it's amazing we've all survived and gotten where we are. Another layer to this, that I thought about a lot as I was processing my Wikifeet, was how instantly I felt like I had to laugh it off. I really felt like I couldn't access my true reaction to it. I just immediately sort of went into this Cool Girl, resigned, jaded, like “What do you expect from the Internet?” This is why I wanted to talk to you. Because I was like, oh, this feels very similar to stuff Tracy struggled with and wrote about in her memoir.TracyOh, totally. It makes total sense to me that you would go to that default place. It makes me think of how I, especially early in my career writing online as a feminist blogger, I would print out the very worst, most misogynistic hateful comments and post them on my fridge because I was willing myself to find them funny, to be able to laugh at them and just kind of distance myself from them and to feel untouched by them.I think that Cool Girl stance is a way of putting on protective armor. So I think that makes sense as a woman writing online, but I also think it makes sense in the context of sex. So much of what I did—this performative sexuality, this kind of sense of being down for whatever in my 20s—was, subconsciously, a kind of defensive posture. Because I think I had this feeling that if I'm down for anything, then nothing can be done against my will, you know? And that was the mental gambit that I had to engage in, in order to feel safe enough to explore my sexuality freely. Granted, it wasn't very freely, turns out. But it makes total sense that you would want to default to the laughing at what is really a violation. Because I do think that there's something protective about that. It's like, “No, you're not going to do this to me. You're not going to make me feel a certain way about this.” But that only takes you so far.VirginiaWell, because at the same time, it also is a way of communicating, “Don't worry, I can take a joke. I'm not one of those feminists.” It also plays right into that. So it's protective and you can't rattle me. And, I'll also minimize this just like you want me to minimize it. So I'm actually doing what you want. Then my brain breaks.TracyRight? And then we're back to that thing we were just talking about, the wanting to please, but then wanting to protect oneself, and the impossible balancing act of that. VirginiaLike you were saying you've experienced these horrific misogynistic troll comments. I experienced them in the more fatphobic sense, but like a mix, misogyny and fatphobia, very good friends.So I think when you've experienced more extreme things, you then do feel like you have to downplay some of the minor stuff. It feels scarier for men to say that my children should be taken away from me than it does for them to take pictures of my feet. I can hold that. And yet I'm still allowed to be upset about the foot thing. Just because some things are more awful, it doesn't mean that we stop having a conversation about the more mundane forms of violation, because the more mundane forms of it are also what we're all experiencing all the time.TracyRight? Like the daily experience of it. I mean, unfortunately, there just is a full, rich spectrum of violation.VirginiaSo many choices, so many ways, so many body parts.TracyI do think that the extreme examples do kind of serve to normalize the less extreme, you know? And what we sort of end up putting up with, you know? VirginiaWhat would you say was a helpful turning point for you? What helped you start to step back from being in that cool girl mode? From being in that “I'm performing sex for other people” mode? What helped you access it for yourself?TracyI mean, honestly? A piece of it was porn. It's funny because I turned to porn as a teenager online in the 90s as a source of—I felt at the time—intel about what men wanted. Like, here's how to be what men wanted. And I tried to perform that, you know? And there were downsides to that, of course. There are some downsides. But I would also say that like in the midst of plumbing the depths of 2000s-era, early 2000s-era tube sites to understand what men “wanted,” I also started to kind of explore what I wanted.I wasn't drawn to it from that place of self discovery, but I kind of accidentally stumbled into it because I was watching these videos. And then I was like, oh, wait, what about this thing? Like, that's kind of interesting to me. And then, you start to kind of tumble down the rabbit hole accidentally. Women are socialized to not pursue that rabbit hole for themselves, right? So it was only in pursuing men's desires that I felt like I was able to unlock this whole other world of fantasy and desire for myself that I wanted to explore and that I was able to get into some non-mainstream, queer indie porn that actually felt very radical and eye opening.It was this circuitous route to myself. That was just a piece, I think, of opening up my mind to the world of fantasy, which felt very freeing. Then, getting into a relationship where with a partner who I could actually be vulnerable with, was a huge piece of it. To actually feel safe enough to explore and not be performing, and to have those moments of awkwardness and that you're not just this expert performer all the time. Like, that doesn't lead to good sex.VirginiaNo, definitely not.There's a part in the memoir with your then boyfriend, now husband, and you say that you wanted—you call it “a cozy life.” And I think you guys put that in your wedding vows. I think about that all the time. I think it's so beautiful. Just like, oh right, that's what we're looking for. It's not this other giant thing, the performing and the—I don't know, there's something about that really stuck with meTracyThat's so interesting. I haven't thought about that for a while. It's really interesting, and it's funny, because it was part of our wedding vows. VirginiaCozy means safety with another person, that felt safety with another person, right? And the way we are trained to think of sex and relationships really doesn't prioritize women's safety, kind of ever.TracyI mean, yeah, it's true. There is something very particular about that word cozy—it's different from when people say, like, “I want a comfortable life.” VirginiaYeah, that's bougie.TracyCozy is like, I want to be wrapped in a cozy blanket on the couch with you. And feel safe and intimate and vulnerable. So thank you for reminding me of that thing that I wrote.VirginiaWell, It was really beautiful, and I think about it often, and it was kind of clarifying for me personally. And it's not saying sex won't be hot, you know? It's just that you have that connection and foundation to build whatever you're going to build.TracyRight? And I think coziness kind of is a perfect starting point for being able to experience sexiness and hotness. I think we have this cultural idea that one must have this mystery and sense of otherness in order to be able to build that kind of spice and fire. And at least in my experience, that was not ever the case. I know that other people have that experience, but for me, I never had the experience of that sense of otherness and kind of fear even, and trepidation about this other person leading to a really exciting experience. It was more like being able to get to a place of trust and vulnerability that could get you there.VirginiaAnd obviously, there are all different ways people enjoy and engage in sex. And I don't think every sexual relationship has to be founded in any one thing, but I think when we're talking about this transition that a lot of women go through, from participating in sex for his pleasure, for performance, for validation, to it being something you can do on your own terms, I think the coziness concept is really helpful. There's something there.All right, well, so now you are working on a new podcast with Amanda, as we mentioned, called Dire Straights. Tracy, I'm so excited, because Heterosexuals are not okay. We are not okay, as a population.TracyJust like, literally, look at anywhere. Open up the front page of The New York Times. We're not okay on so many levels.VirginiaSo tell us about the pod.TracySo it's a feminist podcast about heterosexual love, sex, politics and culture, and every episode, we basically pick apart a new element of straight culture. So examples would be couples therapy, dating apps, sex strikes, monogamy, the manosphere, pronatalism, the list goes on and on. Literally this podcast could just never end. There's too much fodder. Unfortunately, I'd love for it to end for a lack of content, but that's not going to happen.So we look at both sex and dating alongside marriage and divorce, and the unequal realm of hetero parenting. We examine celebrities and politicians and consider them as case studies of dire heterosexuality. Tech bros, tradwives, terfs, all the whole cast of terrible hetero characters are up for examination, and our aim is to examine the worst of straight culture, but it's also to step back and kind of try to imagine better possibilities.It's not fatalist, it's not nihilistic. I think we both have this sense of wanting to engage in some kind of utopian dreaming one might say, while we're also picking apart what is so awful and terrible about the current state of heterosexual culture.So our first episode is about dark femininity influencers. I don't know if you've ever encountered them online.VirginiaYes, but I hadn't connected the dots. So I was like, oh, this is a thing.TracyThat's that thing, yeah. That's how I experienced it. It was, like, they just started showing up on my TikTok feed, these women who are usually white and wearing a bold red lip and smokey eyes, and they're essentially promising to teach women how to use their sex appeal in order to manipulate straight men into better behavior. They're selling this idea of seduction as liberation, and specifically liberation from the disappointments of the straight dating world. This idea is that by harnessing your seductive powers, you can be in control in this terrible, awful straight dating sphere.VirginiaIt's like, if Drusilla from Buffy the Vampire Slayer wrote a dating book. I don't know if that reference speaks to you or not.TracyI'm a little rusty on my Buffy, I have to say.VirginiaShe's like, pale skin, red lips, black hair, and tortures men. But yeah, it's this idea that you harness all your like, seductive powers to torture men to get what you want, which is men. Which is a husband or a boyfriend or gifts or whatever. They're shooting for a heterosexual relationship by exerting this power over men, and so the idea is it is somehow it's giving them more power in a patriarchal dynamic. But it doesn't really because they end up in the same place.TracyIt's the same place, it's the same exact place. It feels to me, in some ways, like a corrective against the cool girl stuff that we're talking about that kind of emerged in the 2000s, where, you know, it's this sort of like being down for whatever, that kind of thing. These women are kind of saying, you're not going to sleep with him on the first date. You're going to make him work for it, you know? And so there's a sense of like, I'm in control, because I'm not giving it away for free. It plays into all these awful ideas about women and sex and power. But it is ultimately ending up in the same place, and it is just ultimately about getting a man, keeping a man. And so, you know, how different is it really? I don't think it is.VirginiaI mean, it's not. It's the same rules and conversations that Charlotte's having in the first season of Sex in the City, which is ancient at this point. How are we still here? Are we still here?TracyWe're just inventing new aesthetics to kind of repackage these very old, retro, sexist ideas, you know?VirginiaI also think it's really interesting and helpful that you are interrogating straight culture as someone inside a heterosexual marriage. I've written about my own divorce, my critiques of marriage, and it triggers great conversations, but it always triggers a very uncomfortable response from a lot of married women who don't really want to go there, don't really want to pick up the rocks and look underneath it because it's too scary. It makes sense. And I'm wondering how you think about that piece, and how that's working for you.TracyI think it's very destabilizing for a lot of women in straight marriages and just straight relationships, period, to consider these things. I think it was over a year ago now that I wrote this piece about trying to coin this term hetero-exceptionalism in response to the backlash that I was seeing to the divorce memoir boom, where women reviewers, but also just people on Twitter or wherever, were kind of pointing at these authors and being like, well, I don't know what's wrong with you because my marriage is great.VirginiaThe Emily Gould piece in New York.TracyThere's this sense of like, oh, well, either I chose a good man or I know how to conduct a healthy relationship.VirginiaI'm willing to put in the work.TracyGotta put in the work. You will love our next episode about couples therapy, because we talk about this concept of putting in the work, and the idea that marriage is work, and that if you're not doing the work you're lazy. You're failing, the whole project of it.VirginiaThank you for unpacking that incredibly toxic myth! It really keeps women trapped in “I just have to keep working harder.”TracyWhich I think totally relates to this, the response to the divorce memoirs we're getting from people and the discomfort of when women raise these issues in hetero relationships that are not individual. Like, yes, we all feel that our relationship issues are special and unique. But they all relate to these broader systemic factors.I think that is really, really, really uncomfortable to acknowledge. Because I think even if you're reasonably happy in your hetero relationship, I think if you start to look at the way that your even more minor dissatisfactions connect to these bigger dissatisfactions that women are writing about that's all part of this experience of love in patriarchy that it doesn't feel good. That feels terrible. So I totally understand that.In the same way that we're sold this idea of trying to find the one and that whole romantic fantasy, I think we're also sold this idea of trying to achieve romantically within these patriarchal constraints. So it's like, well, I found the good one. I found the unicorn man who checks all the boxes and I did my work and so I'm in a happy marriage.Virginia“I'm allowed to be heterosexual because I'm doing it right.” That's feeling uncomfortably familiar, to be honest. You think you're going to pull the thread, and you realize you'll rip it all out.TracyThe thing is that a lot of people should be pulling the thread, and a lot of lives should be unraveling, you know? I think that's the uncomfortable truth, right? I totally get the resistance to it. But on the other side of it, I think there are obviously, clearly, a lot of women who are wanting to look at it, and who do want to have these conversations.VirginiaIt sounds like this is what you're trying to chart. There has to be a middle path where it's not this defensive stance of, oh, I found the one good one. And we're equal partners. It's okay, but a relationship where we can both look at this, we can both acknowledge the larger systemic issues and how they're showing up here, and we can work through it and it's not perfect, because it is love in patriarchy, but it can still be valuable. There has to be this third option, right? Please tell me you're living the third option, Tracy.TracyI mean, I do believe that I am but I also hesitate to put any man or any relationship on a pedestal. What I'll say is that to me, it feels so utterly essential in my relationship to acknowledge the ways that our relationship is touched by patriarchy, because all relationships are touched by patriarchy, right? And to not fantasize about us somehow standing outside of it, but also to be having constant ongoing conversations within my relationship where we are mutually critiquing patriarchy and the way that it touches us and the way that it touches the relationships of people we know, you know? I think that's part of why I think I'm able to do this podcast critiquing heterosexuality from within heterosexuality is because my partner showed up to the relationship with his own prior political convictions and feminist awareness. I wasn't having to be like, here's what feminism is and, here's what invisible labor is, and the mental load and all that stuff. He got it, and so we're able to have a mutual shared critique, and that feels very important.VirginiaThat's awesome to know exists, and that you're able to figure that out without it being such hard work. But where does that leave women who are like, oh yeah, my partner doesn't have that shared knowledge? Like, I would be starting the education process from zero and encountering many resistances to it. And therein is the discomfort, I think.TracyI mean, and that is the discomfort of heterosexuality. It's in this culture, because that is the reality is there are not a ton of men who have voluntarily taken women's studies courses in college and have the basic background for this kind of stuff. It's a really high bar and there is this feeling of what are you going to do? Are you going to hold out for the guy who did do that? Or are you going to try to work with him to get there? And I think that's fine, but I think what's essential is are you both working to get there, or are you pulling him along?VirginiaYeah, that's the core of it.I think just in general, reorienting our lives to where our romantic relationships are really important, but so are our friendships. So is our community. I think that's something that a lot of us, especially us in the post-divorce club are looking at. I think one of the great failings of heterosexual marriage is how it silos women into these little pods of the nuclear family and keeps us from the larger community.TracyTotally. I really do believe that the way that our lives are structured, this hetero monogamous, nuclear familydom, it works against these hetero unions so much. Which is so funny, because so much of this is constructed to try to protect them. But I actually think that it undermines them so deeply and drastically. And that we could have much richer and more vibrant, supportive, communal lives that made these romantic unions like less fragile and fraught.VirginiaBecause you aren't needing one person to meet every single one of your needs, you aren't needing this one thing to be your whole life.TracyWe put all of the pressure on the nuclear household for the cooking, the cleaning, the childcare, all of that. That is an impossible setup. It is a setup for failure. There's I wish I could quote the writer, but I love this quote about marriage and the nuclear family being capitalism's pressure cooker. If you think about it in those terms, it's like, this is absurd. Of course, so many people are struggling.VirginiaIt was never going to work. It was never going to work for women anyway, for sure.Well, I'm so excited for folks to discover the new podcast. It's amazing, and I'm just thrilled you guys are diving into all of this. It's such an important space to be having these conversations. So thank you.TracyThank you! I'm very excited about it, and it does, unfortunately, feel very timely.ButterTracyI definitely do have Butter. And this is so on topic to what we've been discussing. This book of essays titled Love in Exile by Shon Faye. It is a brilliant collection of essays about love, where she really looks at the problem of love and the search for love as a collective instead of individual problem. It is so good. It's one of my favorite books that I've read in the last five years.She basically argues that the heteronormative couple privatizes the love and care and intimacy that we all deserve. But that we're deprived of in this late capitalist hellscape, and so she sees the love that so many of us are deprived of as not a personal failure, but a failure of capitalism and community and the growing cruelty of our world. It's just such a tremendous shift of perspective, I think, when it comes to thinking about love and the search for love and that longing and lack of it that so many people experience.VirginiaOh my gosh, that sounds amazing. I can't wait to read it. Adding to cart right now, that is a great Butter. Thank you.Well, my Butter is, I don't know if you can see what I'm wearing, Tracy, but it is the friendship bracelet you sent me when you sent me your copy of Want Me.TracyDo you know that I literally just last night was like, oh, I'm going on the podcast tomorrow, I wonder if she still has that friendship bracelet.VirginiaI'm wearing the one you sent me, which says Utopia IRL, which I love. And then I'm wearing one that says “Fuck the Patriarchy,” which was made by one of my 11 year old's best friends for me. So the 10 year old girls are going to be all right, because they're doing that.TracyThat's amazing.VirginiaI wear them frequently. They go with many outfits, so they're just a real go-to accessory of mine. My seven year old the other day was reading them and was so delighted. And now, when she's at her dad's and we text, she'll randomly text me, “fuck the patriarchy,” just as a little I love you text. And I'm like, alright, I'm doing okay here.TracyYou're like, that's my love language. Thank you.VirginiaSo anyway, really, my Butter is just for friendship bracelets and also mailing them to people, because that was so sweet that you did that.TracyCan I mention though? Can I admit that I literally told you that I was going to send you that friendship bracelet, and I made it, I put in an envelope, and it literally sat by my front door for a full year.VirginiaI think that makes me love it even more, because it was a year. If you had been able to get it out the door in a timely fashion, it would have made you less relatable to me.That it took a full year that feels right. And I was just as delighted to receive it a year later.TracyIt was a surprise. I was like, you probably forgot that.VirginiaI had.TracyI emailed about it and that we had an inside joke about it, because it had been a year.VirginiaI did, but then I was like, oh yeah!TracyYou know what? I think it's a testament to you and how you come off that I like felt comfortable sending it a year later and just being like, fuck it, she'll be fine with it.VirginiaYes, it was great. Anyway, my recommendation is send someone a friendship bracelet by which I mean put it in an envelope by your front door for the next year. Why not? It's a great thing to do.So yes, Tracy, this was so much fun. Thank you for being here. Tell folks where we can follow you support your work, all the things.TracyYou can find the Dire Straights podcast at direstraightspod.com. And you can find my weekly newsletter about sex, feminism, pop culture at Tracyclarkflory.substack.com and you can find me on Instagram at Tracy Clark-Flory.VirginiaAmazing. We'll link to all of that. Thank you for being here.TracyThanks so much for having me.The Burnt Toast Podcast is produced and hosted by Virginia Sole-Smith (follow me on Instagram) and Corinne Fay, who runs @SellTradePlus, and Big Undies.The Burnt Toast logo is by Deanna Lowe.Our theme music is by Farideh.Tommy Harron is our audio engineer.Thanks for listening and for supporting anti-diet, body liberation journalism! This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit virginiasolesmith.substack.com/subscribe

Everyone has been shaped by the pain and hurt in this world. This week the Reverend Kahlil Carmichael shows us God is restoring us to who we were supposed to be in Him. We begin in Galatians 5 and John 16 with the message, “Free to Be Me- Even When the World Doesn't Want Me to Be.”Live Well, your spiritual family, gathers every Sunday at 11 a.m. at 51 Church Street, Robbinsville, Windsor, NJ. We look forward to welcoming you and sharing this faith journey with you.Thank you for givingpushpay.com/g/itiswellchurchVisit our website at livewellchurch.orgFollow us on Facebook @pastorkahlilFind us on Instagram @livewellwithpastorkahlil

This month on Groove On we're diving headfirst into the summer season with brand new heat from D. Ramirez, Amine Edge, Martin Ikin, R3wire, ESSEL, and more. I'm also debuting two upcoming singles I'm really excited about—"The Vibe" dropping June 6th on Xima Records, and "Want Me," my collab with NYC heavyweights Sted-E & Hybrid Heights. Turn it up and let's groove! ⚡️Like the Show? Click the [Repost] ↻ button so more people can hear it!

Get the inside scoop on ‘Want Me’, the electrifying new single from SA pop star Ben Rodrigues and dynamic duo We Could Be Related. Just after Ben’s first international headline show in London, the team drops a track full of tension, temptation, and addictive beats. It’s all about that love you know you shouldn’t want—but can’t walk away from. Ready to catch feelings? Press play.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

For Yahweh, the Most High, is to be feared, a great king over all the earth.- Psalm 47:2 This Episode's Links and Timestamps:00:00 – Scripture Reading01:33 – Introduction16:53 – Commentary on Psalm 4740:08 – About Trump's First Speech to Congress of His Second Term1:14:15 – To Those Who Don't Want Me to Talk About Everything

You're tired of the apps, and you'd love to confidently talk to women at bars, cafes, stores or your gym. But hesitation and overthinking stop you. With Valentine's Day here, it's time to break free and start meeting women in real life. Dating coach Connell Barrett presents a special 4-part series to teach you how to meet women IRL the right way—not with weird “approach tactics” but with authentic confidence. In Part 1, Connell reveals the 5 mental blocks keeping you stuck and shares the 5 breakthroughs that will help you meet and flirt with wonderful women—anywhere, anytime.Episode Highlights:4:25: Why ‘Approaching' Feels So Hard and Scary13:37: Mental Block #1: ‘I'm Not Enough' and Why This is Total B.S.16:34: Mental Block #2: ‘She Doesn't Want Me to Bother Her' and What Women Really Think17:18: Mental Block #3: ‘I Might Creep Her Out' and How This Kills Your Confidence19:45: Mental Block #4: ‘I Don't Know What to Say' and the Simple Move to Fix This21:16: Mental Block #5: ‘What If I Get Rejected?' and the Win-Lose Mindset That Hurts You25:33: Breakthrough #1: ‘I Am Enough' and the Truth About Attraction31:45: Breakthrough #2: ‘She Wants Me to Talk to Her'—What Women Truly Want38:37: Breakthrough #3: ‘Talking to Women Is Attractive' and the ‘Aha!' Shift You Need50:12: Breakthrough #4: ‘I Don't Need the Perfect Line'—How to Know What to Say1:02:02: Breakthrough #5: ‘I Cannot Lose'—the Win-Win Mindset that Makes You ConfidentListen now and start confidently meeting women in real life!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL'S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON'T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU'LL GET IT INSTANTLY:Connell@datingtransformation.com

It's reported that 20-30% of marriages have a higher-desire wife and lower-desire husband. This means that while many women may wish their husbands requested less sex, there are also many women who experience the opposite. For the woman who wants her husband to want sex a little more, Sheri Mueller, LCPC, author of “I Want Him to Want Me”, joins Juli to share insights, wisdom, and encouragement.   Guest: Sheri Mueller, LCPC   Sheri's Website: marriagetrac.com Sheri's Instagram: @growthtrac   Book: I Want Him to Want Me by Sheri Mueller, LCPC Blog: Why Christians Need to Care About Sex   Missed last week's episode? Listen to it here.   Java with Juli with Dr. Juli Slattery – Christian Discussions on Marriage, Sex and Singleness.

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In This Episode: We talk about a person who accidentally fell in love while married, what we call our parents, mom's new boyfriend who wants to be called dad, a father who wants his daughter to open her relationship, a listener who had a public dump, and a fiance who doesn't want his bride to wear white. We also go over our New Years Resis! Judgies Merch is Available HERE! Want fun and cool stickers and MORE? www.aurorascreaturecorner.store Palestine Children's Relief Fund Donation Link Our Patreon is officially open, if you want to see extra content go check it out!  https://www.patreon.com/JudgiesPod  Send us mail! (Addressed However You'd Like)  P.O. Box 58 Ottawa, IL 61350  Leave a Review!  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-judgies/id1519741238  Follow us on Twitter: https://twitter.com/judgiespod Follow us on Instagram: https://instagram.com/judgiespod  Intro Music by: Iván  https://open.spotify.com/artist/5gB2VvyqfnOlNv37PHKRNJ?si=f6TIYrLITkG2NZXGLm_Y-Q&dl_branch=1  Story Links: AITA: Falling In Love While Married Relationship Advice: New Dad Dad Wants Daughter To Open Relationship Fiance Doesn't Want Me to Wear White DELETED Time Stamps: 0:00 New Pants 6:35 Mail Time 11:31 AITA: Falling In Love While Married 16:18 What Do You Call Your Parents 19:56 Relationship Advice: New Dad 31:29 Dad Wants Daughter To Open Relationship 40:24 CJ: New Years Resis 1:00:04 LS Sound 1:02:11 LS Story: Public Dumping 1:11:10 AIO: Fiancé Doesn't Want Me to Wear White 1:30:44 Outro Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you & your spouse lost the ability to be physically intimate, what intimacy would remain? Join Greg & Erin as they sit down with author Sheri Mueller to discuss each aspect of intimacy, and how to rediscover them when they've been lost. Later, we unpack some interesting marriage research. Then, we answer a question from a wife who's husband wants her to contact the woman he had an affair with. Click here to receive Sheri's book, I Want Him to Want Me, for a gift of any amount! Click here to take our free marriage assessment! Is your marriage recovering from an affair? Click here for our Hope Restored marriage intensive. Donate Now! We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.

In Part 1 of our jam-packed conversation with feminist writers Tracy Clark-Flory and Amanda Montei, Sarah and Miranda attempt to unpack why this has been such a big year for examining sex in hetero-marriage, the specter of patriarchy haunting all of our marital beds, and whether or not good sex is possible anymore in a hetero-marriage. Links:* Amanda Montei's “Can a Sexless Marriage Be a Happy One? Can a Sexless Marriage Be a Happy One?” in the New York Times Magazine* Liars by Sarah Manguso* All Fours by Miranda July* Tracy on The Endless Repetition of Heterosexuality* Want by Gillian Anderson* Anne Hathaway's The Idea Of You * Nicole Kidman's Babygirl* Ester Perel* Tracy Clark-Flory's fabulous newsletter, TCF Emails and her book, Want Me.* Amanda Montei's fabulous newsletter, Mad Woman, and her book, Touched Out. Culture Recs:* Lisa Taddeo's Three Women and the related television series* Brian Jordan Alvarez This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit motherofitall.substack.com/subscribe

MONOLOGUE Trump's Bold New Plan: Dismantling the Deep State and Restoring Power to the People Trump's plan to take down the Deep State Elon Musk on X “Do you Want Me and President Trump to Release Epstein and P Diddy Lists?  Hamas and Russian Both Say They're Seeking End To War with Israel and Ukraine within Hours of Trump Victory, Coincidence? Michael A. Letts, Founder, President, and CEO of In-Vest USA https://investusa.org THE LIMRIDDLER Quixotic Attack Quixotic attack on a fictional foe. Tip the decanter to pour the merlot. Full speed or pace Will determine the race. Joust with a lance in a Middle Age show. For Remembrance Day, pro-Hamas supporters want Canadians to wear poppies that bear the colours of the Palestinian flag! https://www.rebelnews.com/sacrilege_for_remembrance_day_pro_hamas_supporters_want_canadians_to_wear_poppies_that_bear_the_colours_of_the_palestinian_flag  A Vigil will be taking place for Hamas leader Yahya Sinwar along with other terrorist leaders on Tuesday November 26th at the Mississauga Celebration Square https://x.com/l3v1at4an/status/1854548592263840093?s=46  David Menzies, Rebel News Mission Specialist What Does Trump Victory Mean for Climatism and Green Energy Policies? What Impact will Trump Election have on COP29? Quebec and B.C. Are Phasing Out or Limiting EV Subsidies Steve Goreham, Executive Director of The Climate Science Coalition, advisor to the Heartland Institute and author of Green Breakdown: The Coming Renewable Energy Failure- https://www.stevegoreham.com STEELHEADS TALK Brendan Lang Brampton Steelheads Play-By-Play and Color Commentator. THERE'S SOMETHING HAPPENING HERE Will Trump Presidency Be Good or Bad for Canada? Has Legacy Media Learned It's Lesson? Greg Carrasco, Host of “The Greg Carrasco Show” Saturday Mornings 8-11am on NewsTalk Sauga 960 https://www.gregcarrasco.com LIMRIDDLE ANSWER AND WINNERS Quixotic Attack ANSWER: Tilt Quixotic attack on a fictional foe. The idiom “tilt at windmills” comes from the 17 th century novel, Don Quixote, and means attacking imaginary enemies. Quixote would imagine that the windmills were giant warriors to be attacked. The adjective “quixotic” has come to mean exciting, but impractical or unrealistic. Tip the decanter to pour the merlot. To tilt is to tip, incline or lean. Full speed or pace Will determine the race. Full tilt means at top speed or with full force and energy. Running at full speed helps win in a sprint but it's not the best strategy in a marathon. Joust with a lance in a Middle Age show. In medieval times (a.k.a. the Middle Ages, normally capitalized), competitors would tilt or joust in an entertaining public contest. Essentially, two combatants would charge at each other on horseback with lances, trying to knock the other off their horse. First Five to Answer Correctly: Nicholas Cole, Toronto, Ontario (winner of Steelhead tickets(nrichardsoncole@gmail.com) 2. Duncan Ruxton, Thunder Bay, Ontario 3. Linda Blee, Oakville, Ontario 4. Bill Heller, Edinburg, Texas 5. Barbara Pink, Canberra, Australia Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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"From Steel Pulse to Wu-Tang: A Festival of Musical Diversity"Larry Mishkin discusses a review of various experiences and performances, starting with a cannabis event called "Miracle in Mundelein," which took place over the past weekend. The main focus of the review is a discussion of a Grateful Dead show from September 9, 1987, at the Providence Civic Center in Rhode Island. The show was notable for being the second night of a three-show run, marking the opening of the Grateful Dead's 1987 East Coast fall tour.Key highlights include:"Hey Pocky Way" Performance: This was the first time the Grateful Dead performed the song "Hey Pocky Way," which is originally by the Meters, a New Orleans funk band. The song became a fan favorite, primarily due to the influence of Brent Mydland, the band's keyboardist. However, the song fell out of rotation after Brent's death in 1990."Jack Straw" Performance: Another song featured was "Jack Straw," a Grateful Dead classic written by Bob Weir and Robert Hunter. It was originally performed in 1971 and became a staple in the band's setlists. The song was performed in the second spot of the setlist during the 1987 show, indicating the band's tendency to feature it early in their concerts.Music News Segment: The transcript also includes a segment on music news, which starts with a brief history of the band Cheap Trick, particularly their song "I Want You to Want Me."Review of the Miracle in Mundelein Festival: The review shifts to discussing the recent "Miracle in Mundelein" festival, where several acts performed:Steel Pulse: A roots reggae band from Birmingham, England, who delivered a lively and energetic performance.The Soul Rebels: A New Orleans brass band known for their energetic live shows and collaborations with major artists. Their set featured Raekwon and GZA from the Wu-Tang Clan, adding a strong hip-hop element to the performance.Wiz Khalifa: The headliner of the event, Wiz Khalifa, is praised for his stage presence and connection with the audience. The review notes his strong advocacy for cannabis and how his music resonated well with the crowd.Overall, the review captures the blend of nostalgia with the Grateful Dead's classic performances and the fresh, dynamic energy of the Miracle in Mundelein festival, highlighting both the music and the culture of cannabis.https://www.cheaptrick.com/ Grateful DeadSeptember 9, 1987 (37 years ago)Providence Civic CenterProvidence, Rhode IslandGrateful Dead Live at Providence Civic Center on 1987-09-09 : Free Borrow & Streaming : Internet Archive Second night of a three show run, the opening shows of 1987 East Cost fall tour.  INTRO:                                 Hey Pocky Way                                                Track #1                                                :35 – 2:03 First time ever played Hey Pocky Way was written by George Porter Jr., Leo Nocentelli, Art Neville & Joseph Modeliste, founding members of The Meters, an American funk band formed in 1965 in New Orleans by Modeliste (drums), Porter Jr. (bass), Nocentelli (guitar) and Neville (keyboards). The band performed and recorded their own music from the late 1960s until 1977 and played an influential role as backing musicians for other artists, including Lee Dorsey, Robert Palmer, Dr. John, and Allen Toussaint. Song was released on Rejuvenation the band's fifth studio album in 1974. In 2003, the album was ranked number 138 on Rolling Stone magazine's list of the 500 greatest albums of all time,[6] and 139 in a 2012 revised list. Beginning with this show, the Dead began to feature Hey Pocky Way, usually as a show opener.  Sung by Brent who really got into it with both his keyboard playing and strong singing, it  became a fan favorite.  But as a Brent influenced tune, it died when he did. Played:  25 timesFirst:  September 9, 1987 at Providence Civic Center, Providence, RI, USALast: July 22, 1990 at World Music Theatre, Tinley Park, IL, USA (Brent's second to last show)  SHOW No. 1:                    Jack Straw                                                Track #2                                                4:00 – 5:50 "Jack Straw"  written by Bob Weir and Robert Hunter. The track first appeared on the album Europe '72. The song was first performed in concert on October 19, 1971, in Minneapolis, Minnesota at new keyboardist Keith Godchaux's first appearance with the band. In the song's earliest performances (c. 1971–72), Weir sang all of the vocals. By the time the 'Europe 72' version was recorded, (at the Olympia Theater in Paris on 5-03-72), Weir and Jerry Garcia were switching up the vocals - as they had on April 26th when 'Hundred Year Hall' was recorded. The song appeared in both the first and second sets until the band's short hiatus in 1974-1975. After re-forming, the song almost exclusively appeared in the first set. After Brent Mydland joined the band in 1979, the song almost exclusively opened the band's first set. The band also often extended the jam after the second verse after Mydland's joining, often extending the song to over six minutes. Dead and Company have also further extended the song, often adding an abstract opening jam prior to the song's first verse.[1] Bob Weir stated in a 2004 interview that the song's lyrics were partly based on John Steinbeck's novel Of Mice and Men.[2] The song's themes include riding the rails, the Great Depression, and hobo (homeless) camps of the era. Jack Straw is also—perhaps coincidentally—the name of the original plantation owner, who lived controversially with his gay lover, Peter Ochello, in Tennessee Williams's play Cat on a Hot Tin Roof.[3] Always a great song to hear in concert, the fans loved it and it was always an omen of good things to come in the show. Played:  477 timesFirst:  October 19, 1971 at Northrop Auditorium, Minneapolis, MN, USALast:  July 8, 1995 at Soldier Field in Chicago MUSIC NEWS Miracle In Mundelein – second year of the festival in Mundelein a suburb northwest of Chicago.  Missed last year with JRAD but made it this year on Saturday with my sons Jonathan and Daniel, Jonathan's fiancé, Bella and Daniel's buddy AJ.  Different theme to this year's music focusing on hip hop and rap, not part of my regular music, but certainly a key genre for Daniel and AJ who filled me on details during the show. Acts:Steel Pulse - Steel Pulse are a roots reggae band from the Handsworth area of Birmingham, England. They originally formed at Handsworth Wood Boys School, and were composed of David Hinds (lead vocals, guitar), Basil Gabbidon (lead guitar, vocals), and Ronald McQueen (bass); along with Basil's brother Colin briefly on drums and Mykaell Riley (vocals, percussion). Steel Pulse were the first non-Jamaican act to win the Grammy Award for Best Reggae Album. They were initially refused live dates in Caribbean venues in Birmingham due to their Rastafarian beliefs. During the popularization of punk rock in the mid-1970's, Steel Pulse began to play punk venues such as the Hope and Anchor in London and The Electric Circus in Manchester in 1976.[1] Aligning themselves closely with the Rock Against Racism organization and featuring in its first music festival in early 1978, they chose to tour with sympathetic elements of the punk movement,[1] including the Stranglers and XTC. Eventually they found a more natural home in support slots for Burning Spear, which brought them to the attention of Island Records. Fun set that was in progress when we arrived, great sound and lots of energy that kept the crowd moving. The Soul Rebels - The Soul Rebels (also Soul Rebels Brass Band, Soul Rebels or The Rebels) are an eight-piece New Orleans based brass ensemble that incorporate elements of soul, jazz, funk, hip-hop, rock and pop music within a contemporary brass band framework.  Starting out as a local New Orleans favorite, The Soul Rebels have evolved into collaborating live with major artists in all worlds of music including:Katy PerryNasMetallicaGreen DayTrombone ShortyProdigyString Cheese IncidentUmphrey's McGeeGalacticSuzanne VegaEurythmicsLettuceGov't Mule                                               And many more The band has built its career around an eclectic live show that harnesses the power of horns and percussion in a funky party-like atmosphere. The band routinely plays over 250 shows a year. They have been described by the Village Voice as "the missing link between Public Enemy and Louis Armstrong.  The Soul Rebels consist of percussionists and founding members Lumar LeBlanc and Derrick Moss, trumpet players Julian Gosin and Marcus Hubbard, trombonists Corey Peyton and Paul Robertson, saxophonist Erion Williams, and sousaphonist Manuel Perkins Jr.                                                 On Saturday, they featured Raekwon and GZA from Wu Tang Clan.                                      RAEKWON - Corey Woods[2] (born January 12, 1970),[3][4] better known by his stage name Raekwon (/reɪˈkwɒn/, ray-KWON), is an American rapper. He rose to prominence as a founding member of the hip-hop group Wu-Tang Clan, which achieved mainstream success following the release of their debut album, Enter the Wu-Tang (36 Chambers), in 1993. Raekwon would subsequently pursue a solo career, releasing his first solo album, entitled Only Built 4 Cuban Linx..., in 1995. The album received critical acclaim, and is regarded by many critics as one of the greatest hip-hop albums of all time, as well as a staple of 1990s rap.                                     Raekwon attributes the name Raekwon to the Five-Percent Nation, an offshoot of the Nation of Islam, when he was a "young kid."[11] He converted to Islam in 2009.                                     Growing up, he witnessed his mother being hit and abused by different men, an experience which he said "affected [him] a lot."[10] As a young man, his mother kicked him out of their Park Hill home when Raekwon got into an argument with her boyfriend and his mother sided with the boyfriend. During this time, he spiraled into a pattern of hopelessness and violent behavior.[8] He became addicted to cocaine and crack cocaine until he became aware of how the crack epidemic was affecting those around him, at which point "it was an automatic stop."[10]Raekwon and rap partner Ghostface Killah attended junior high school together on Staten Island.[14] Raekwon attended New Dorp High School, where he befriended rappers Remedy, Method Man and Inspectah Deck.[15]             Woods first rapped as Sha Raider. In 1992, he joined the Wu-Tang Clan, an originally nine-member rap group drawing mainly from the Staten Island but also from the Brooklyn boroughs of New York City. He rapped as Raekwon The Chef, and also used the aliases Lex Diamonds, Shallah Raekwon, and Louis Rich. After being caught in a crossfire and accidentally shot four times, Raekwon began rapping in earnest. He later described being shot as an "important eye opener." In September 2009, MTV ranked Raekwon tenth among "hottest" rappers. In December, HipHopDx's 2009 awards named Only Built For Cuban Linx... Pt. II album of the year, calling it "the Hip Hop equivalent to The Godfather 2, with Rae as revitalized as Marlon was". Raekwon won Emcee of the Year—the prior year, Nas won—while HipHopDX staff explained, Raekwon brought it back to lyrical, dope rap. He released an album that spoke to teens, twenty-somethings, thirty-somethings, and beyond. Without compromising, the Chef made an edgy Hip Hop record that refused to bastardize the catalog he laid down 15 years ago. On top of that, Rae (along with Ghostface) was a go-to for numerous rappers making albums, ranging from the Playaz Circle to Jadakiss to BK One. That's beyond real, as was a year filled with performing in arenas, clubs and even churches. When it came to mastering the ceremony, Rae had 'em all following the leader.[28]— HipHopDX GZA - Gary Eldridge Grice[2] (born August 22, 1966), better known by his stage names GZA (/ˈdʒɪzə/JIZ-ə) and The Genius,[3] is an American rapper. A founding member of the hip hop group Wu-Tang Clan, GZA is the group's "spiritual head", being both the first member in the group to receive a record deal and being the oldest member.[4] He has appeared on his fellow Wu-Tang members' solo projects, and has maintained a successful solo career starting with his second album Liquid Swords (1995). His lyrical style often dismisses typical rap story lines in favor of science and wide-ranging philosophies and has been characterized as "armed with sharp metaphors and a smooth flow".[5][6][7][8] An analysis of GZA's lyrics found that he has the second largest vocabulary in popular hip hop music.[9][10] He teamed up with an education group to promote science education in New York City through hip hop. In 1992, GZA joined the Wu-Tang Clan, a group of nine, formed by his cousin RZA. GZA had some high-profile appearances on the group's debut album, Enter the Wu-Tang (36 Chambers) (1993), including a solo track, "Clan in da Front".[22] This, combined with appearances on other Clan members' albums such as Return to the 36 Chambers: The Dirty Version (1995) and Only Built 4 Cuban Linx... (1995) brought him much recognition. According to Method Man, "we form like Voltron and GZA happens to be the head".                         The combination of the Soul Rebels beat and Raekwon's and GZA's rapping made for an exceptional set of music that caught me off guard but was worth the price of admission.  With lots of cannabis references scattered throughout their lyrics and stage talk, they were a perfect match for this festival. Wiz Khalifa - Cameron Jibril Thomaz (born September 8, 1987),[2] better known by his stage name Wiz Khalifa, is an American rapper from Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. He signed with the local independent label Rostrum Records to release his debut studio album, Show and Prove (2006). His contract entered a short-lived joint venture with Warner Bros. Records the following year. His Eurodance-influenced 2008 single, "Say Yeah" received urban radio airplay and entered both the Rhythmic Top 40 and Hot Rap Songs charts, becoming his first minor hit.[3] Outside of music, Thomaz has delved into acting with television roles in Dickinson and The Eric Andre Show, the lead role alongside Snoop Dogg in the 2012 stoner comedy film Mac & Devin Go to High School, and voice roles in the animated series American Dad!, Duncanville, and Big City Greens. Thomaz founded the record label Taylor Gang Entertainment in 2008, through which he has signed artists including Juicy J, Ty Dolla Sign, and Berner. Known for his abundant usage of cannabis, Thomaz launched his own cannabis brand, Khalifa Kush, in 2016, which expanded for release in nationwide dispensaries in 2022. His stage name is derived from Khalifa, an Arabic word meaning "successor", and wisdom, which was shortened to Wiz when Khalifa was a young boy.[10] Khalifa stated to Spinner.com that the name also came from being called "young Wiz 'cause I was good at everything I did, and my granddad is Muslim, so he gave me that name; he felt like that's what I was doing with my music." He got a tattoo of his stage name on his 17th birthday.[11][12] By the age of 15, he was regularly recording his music at a local studio called I.D. Labs.[13] Impressed by the young teen's talent, E. Dan, the owner of the studio offered Khalifa an intern job at the studio in exchange for free recording time. Dan, being a veteran of the Pittsburgh hip-hop scene, would help develop and mentor the young artist early on in his career. He was the headliner and lived up to the billing.  Great tunes, great stage presence, great spokesperson for cannabis.  My first experience with his music and it was very positive. A great musical education for me with my tutors, Daniel and AJ. More in MJ News  Herbie Flowers  RIPJerry Miller  RIPGoose this week at the Salt Shed, Thursday and Friday   SHOW No. 2:                    Greatest Story Ever Told                                                Track #9                                                3:25 – end                                                 INTO                                                 Devil With a Blue Dress                                                Track #10                                                0:00 – 1:33 Greatest Story – written by Hunter/Bobby/Mickey, originally called “The Pump Song” on Mickey Hart's 1972 album Rolling Thunder.  As the opening tune of Ace, it is called Greatest Story Ever Told.  But this isn't about that song.  Here, it is the lead-in to a first set couple of “extras” thrown in for some fun. "Devil with a Blue Dress On" (also known as "Devil with the Blue Dress") is a song written by Shorty Long and William "Mickey" Stevenson, first performed by Long and released as a single in 1964. A later version recorded by Mitch Ryder and The Detroit Wheels in 1966 peaked at No. 4 on the U.S. Billboard Hot 100.  "Devil with the Blue Dress" was originally released as Shorty Long's debut single on Motown in 1964, but the single failed to chart. The song describes a femme fatale in a blue dress and not an actual devil.[2] Two years later, Mitch Ryder and The Detroit Wheels recorded the song at Bell Sound Studios in New York City[3] as a medley with an original arrangement of Little Richard's "Good Golly, Miss Molly". Their version, released on their album, “Breakout . . . . !”,  was notably more up-tempo than Long's more blues-influenced rendition.[2] Reaching No. 4 on the Hot 100, their version of the track would end up becoming their most well-known and highest charting hit in the United States. Rolling Stone Magazine ranked it No. 428 on their list of Top 500 Songs of All Time. Basically, another great cover to showcase Brent's singing and keyboard skills.  This was the first of 3 times the Dead covered the song.  Another fun diversion by the band that kept the Deadheads guessing and not wanting to ever miss a show. The transition out of Greatest Story is seamless and makes it so you can't hear the end of Greatest Story without hearing the signature beat of Devil making it a “natural” fit. Played – 3 timesFirst:  September 9, 1987 at Providence Civic Center, Providence, RI, USALast:  October 4, 1987 at Shoreline Amphitheatre, Mountain View, CA, USA  SHOW No. 3:                    Good Golly Miss Molly                                                Track #11                                                0:00 – end                                                 INTO                                                 Devil With a Blue Dress                                                Track #12                                                0:00 – 0:51"Good Golly, Miss Molly" is a rock 'n' roll song first recorded in 1956 by American musician Little Richard and released in January 1958 as single on the Specialty label, and later on the album, Little Richard in July 1958.[1] The song, a jump blues, was written by John Marascalco and producer Robert "Bumps" Blackwell. Although it was first recorded by Little Richard, Blackwell produced another version by the Valiants, who imitated the fast first version recorded by Little Richard, not released at that time. Although the Valiants' version was released first (in 1957), Little Richard had the hit, reaching No. 4.[2] Like all his early hits, it quickly became a rock 'n' roll standard and has subsequently been recorded by hundreds of artists. The song is ranked No. 92 on the Rolling Stone magazine's list of the 500 Greatest Songs of All Time. Little Richard first heard the phrase "Good golly, Miss Molly" from a Southern DJ named Jimmy Pennick.[4] He modified the lyrics into the more suggestive "Good golly, Miss Molly/You sure like to ball." Little Richard himself later claimed that he took Ike Turner's piano intro from his influential 1951 rock and roll song "Rocket 88", and used it for "Good Golly, Miss Molly".[5] "I always liked that record," Richard recalled, "and I used to use the riff in my act, so when we were looking for a lead-in to 'Good Golly, Miss Molly', I did that and it fit." In 1966, Mitch Ryder and the Detroit Wheels incorporated "Good Golly Miss Molly" into their version of "Devil with a Blue Dress On". Their version scored a major hit, not only in Ryder's native Detroit, but nationwide, placing at No. 4 on the Billboard Top 100. As with Devil, a Brent thing.  Unfortunately, it was only around for a month.  Then vanished from the Dead's playlist thereafter.  Played:  3 times, makes senseFirst:  September 9, 1987 at Providence Civic Center, Providence, RI, USALast:  October 4, 1987 at Shoreline Amphitheatre, Mountain View, CA, USA  MJ NEWS:             Miracle in Mudelein – a great event sponsored by Rise Dispensaries and Rhythm cultivators.  Second year, featuring great music, excellent food and drink and too many booths for dabbing from various types of rigs including a Studenglass Gravity Bong – my first time using one and it is not your father's four foot Graffix bong!  Daniel and AJ were all over it and as it turned out, the wait in line was well worth the experience.  Rather than try to explain it to you, just Google Gravity Bong and see for yourself!  Great high.             Miracle is that Lake County, a more conservative leaning county, and Mundelein permitted the event.  Attendees can bring in their own flower or extracts (supposedly only if purchased at an Illinois dispensary), smoking accessories, etc.  Rise also was selling products at the show.             A wonderful thing to attend an event and not have to hide and smuggle in your cannabis.  People lighting up everywhere, offering to share, talking strains, etc.  Police were there to keep order and otherwise let it all go on.  Very professional.             Excellent mellow crowd (what else would you expect?).  Well run.  Shot joints out of a canon.  A wonderful day and experience for those who enjoy cannabis, especially not having to hide it or pretend you don't have any when everyone knows attendees are smuggling it in anyway.             A great way to promote cannabis and help normalize it within the community.  And a fun event to be able to share with my boys, Bella and AJ.  Fun had by all.  SHOW No. 4:                    Not Fade Away                                                Track #24 (NOTE – this song is listed as Track #23 AND #24, be sure to use #24)                                                0:00 – end "Not Fade Away" is a song credited to Buddy Holly (originally under his first and middle names, Charles Hardin) and Norman Petty (although Petty's co-writing credit is likely to have been a formality[3]) and first recorded by Holly and his band, the Crickets. Holly and the Crickets recorded the song in Clovis, New Mexico, on May 27, 1957, the same day the song "Everyday" was recorded.[1] The rhythmic pattern of "Not Fade Away" is a variant of the Bo Diddley beat, "Not Fade Away" was originally released as the B-side of the hit single "Oh, Boy!" on 10.27.1957 and was included on the album The "Chirping" Crickets (1957). The Crickets' recording never charted as a single. In 2004, this song was ranked number 107 on Rolling Stone's list of "The 500 Greatest Songs of All Time". The song is closely associated with the Grateful Dead as one of their signature tunes—one which the band transformed from Holly's 1950s boy/girl romanticism to one reflecting the 1960s' more spiritual universal love. Their 1971 recording of the song is included on their second live album, Skull and Roses, paired with Going Down The Road Feeling Bad, a regular happening in the early ‘70's. Primarily a second set tune that used to show up in the second half of the second set after Drums-Space.  Beginning in 1983, the Dead began to play it as the second set closer, trailing off with “Love is real will not fade away” as they exited the stage.  A few years later, the Deadheads starting chanting the line as the Dead left the stage and in some cases, kept it up until the band reappeared for their encore, when the band would pick back up on the beat and play it for another minute or so before their encore tune, such as with this show.    Great example of the Deadheads making their mark on the show and the band being tuned in enough to play along with it.  Although sometimes if the Dead took too long to come out for the encore, the chanting would start to fade off.  And sometimes even when the chant made it all the way to the band's return on stage, the band would ignore it and just dive straight into their encore.  Fun when it all came together like this show. Played:  561 timesFirst:  February 19, 1969 at Fillmore West, San Francisco, CA, USALast:  July 5, 1995 at Riverport Amphitheatre in Maryland Heights, MO (St. Louis) OUTRO:                               The Mighty Quinn                                                Track #25                                                2:11 – 3:48 Bob Dylan wrote and first recorded the song in 1967 during the Basement Tapes sessions, but did not release a version for another three years.  The song's first release was in January 1968 as "Mighty Quinn" in a version by the British band Manfred Mann, from their album Mighty Garvey, and became a great success. A demo of 14 of the 1967 Basement Tapes recordings, including the first of two takes of "Quinn the Eskimo (The Mighty Quinn)", was produced in 1968, but was not intended for release. Recordings taken from the demos began appearing on bootlegs, starting with Great White Wonder,[7] a double-album bootleg that came out in July 1969. The first official release of the song was in 1970 on Dylan's Self Portrait album,[14] a live recording from 1969's Isle of Wight Festival. The live version (titled "The Mighty Quinn (Quinn the Eskimo)") was also selected in 1971 for the second compilation of Dylan's career, Bob Dylan's Greatest Hits Vol. II. Covered by:  the Hollies, Leon Russell and Phish, among others. Although they never played the song with Bob Dylan, the Grateful Dead started playing "The Mighty Quinn" in concert in 1985. It became a favorite encore among the Grateful Dead's fans, and remained so to the end of their career. Last verses, end with, “when Quinn the Eskimo gets here, everybody's gonna want to doze” but the Deadheads heard it as “dose” and always gave it a big cheer. Played:  59 timesFirst:  December 30, 1985 at Oakland-Alameda County Coliseum Arena, Oakland, CA, USALast:  July 2, 1995 at Deer Creek Music Center, Noblesville, IN, USA  Shoutouts: Lary Vinocur – birthdayElena Mishkin – birthday .Produced by PodConx Deadhead Cannabis Show - https://podconx.com/podcasts/deadhead-cannabis-showLarry Mishkin - https://podconx.com/guests/larry-mishkinRob Hunt - https://podconx.com/guests/rob-huntJay Blakesberg - https://podconx.com/guests/jay-blakesbergSound Designed by Jamie Humiston - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamie-humiston-91718b1b3/Recorded on Squadcast

Is my sex vanilla just because I don’t want a threesome? My ‘no strings attached’ sex life is not as fulfilling as I thought. I don’t want to be a sex doll! How do I navigate external validation and what I really want? Tracy Clark-Flory explores desire in her book Want Me and weekly newsletter. This week, she joins Myisha in tackling personal versus external desires. Plus, Tracy gives advice to her younger self.  Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at sexlife@kcrw.org. We might answer your question in a future episode. Follow Myisha: @myishabattle  Follow Tracy: @tracyclarkflory Read the full transcript on our website: kcrw.com/sexlife

Do you want sexual intimacy with your husband more than he wants itwith you? Then this episode is for you! We sit down with Sherri Mueller, author of I Want Him to Want Me, to hear about navigating this journey well.Partner with us through donating (A Wife Like Me is a 501(c)3 nonprofit), here: https://awifelikeme.com/giveGrab our book, Dear Wife, here: https://www.amazon.com/Dear-Wife-Invitations-Practice-Connection/dp/0578470594Watch on YouTube, here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCe5HUNNkN0hhA8Xv-g1R3qgGrab our planner, Design My Day, here: https://awifelikeme.com/design-my-dayFind out your Wife Type in less than 3 minutes, here: https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/63b9c12b3108f50016d71ba7Grab our FREE marriage resources, here: https://awifelikeme.com/subscribe-to-a-wife-like-meSupport the Show.

Husbands and wives are different physically, emotionally and sexually. Tragically, 1 out of 3 married women have a greater sex-drive than their husbands, which can lead to shame, isolation, and conflict in their marriages. But couples can learn how to draw together and trust God through this struggle, and expand their understanding of intimacy in marriage.   Receive the book I Want Him to Want Me and the audio download of the broadcast "Pursuing Intimacy with a Reluctant Husband" for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive.   Get More Episode Resources   We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.

Coming to town next weekend on Sunday, June 30, to the Magic Bag in Ferndale is a band that anyone who grew up in the nineties will definitely know. And if you don't, well, you should get acquainted with the alt-rock legendary sound of Letters to Cleo. The band has some new material to go with favorites like "I Want You to Want Me," "Here and Now," and "Cruel to Be Kind." To talk about the band, music, and the show, my guest is guitarist Michael Eisenstein. If it sounds like I'm a little excited, I'll put it on the table right now that I'm a fan. Michael shares stories along the band's journey — and the fresh energy they bring to their new material. We discuss how technology has changed the way they create music, contrasting the hands-on, live development of songs in the early nineties with today's digital collaboration. Michael reflects on the unique challenges and benefits of remote recording and how it has affected the band's creative process. We also get into the band's involvement with the iconic movie "Ten Things I Hate About You," sharing behind-the-scenes stories, including the thrilling experience of filming the closing shot from a helicopter. Michael talks about the gratifying experience of hearing from younger musicians who were influenced by Letters to Cleo and how the band continues to inspire the next generation of artists. Looking forward to their upcoming show at the Magic Bag, Michael shares his excitement about returning to the Midwest and performing in a venue that feels like home. He reminisces about past tours through Metro Detroit with other artists and the joy of reconnecting with old friends and fans. The intimate setting of the Magic Bag suits the band's vibe perfectly, promising a night of great music and energy. Don't miss Letters to Cleo at the Magic Bag in Ferndale on Sunday, June 30. Doors open at 7pm. Tickets: https://www.ticketweb.com/event/kickstand-productions-presents-letters-to-the-magic-bag-tickets/13463344?pl=magicbag p.s. - I want to put a pin in your calendar for Thursday, July 11, 2024. Our Daily Detroit Happy Hour returns, this time at The Royce in downtown Detroit from 4pm to 7pm. If you've got questions, email us at dailydetroit - at - gmail - dot - com. Follow us on Apple Podcasts: https://lnk.to/dailydetroitonapple Or Spotify: https://lnk.to/dailydetroitonspotify Thanks to our members: http://www.patreon.com/dailydetroit  

I'm learning to just say "YES" to the Refiner's Fire and everything going on in my life right now. I am choosing to flow with my life and trust God more.Hope you enjoy this little bonus episode. Things are picking up but I need to stay patient. :)More From Me:Subscribe to YIELD Deeply - https://dallincandland.substack.com/Podcast YouTube Channel (For Highlights, Cool Shorts, and More!): https://www.youtube.com/@yieldtodaypodcastMy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dallinsyield/Time Stamps:0:51 - Throwing Yourself into the Growth Zone2:23 - Learning to Truly Treasure My Brain3:20 - Saying "YES" to ALL of the Craziness in My Journey5:12 - God Doesn't Want Me to Think Small9:20 - Now is the Time to Capitalize!10:45 - Spend Time with The Refiner12:20 - God is Testing Me with Joy15:49 - I am Joyfully RecommittingQuotes:4:15 - "The opportunity of a lifetime is still in my hands."Support the Show.

Tom Petersson is a musician best known as the bassist and co-founder of the iconic rock band Cheap Trick. Born in Rockford, Illinois, Petersson's musical journey began at an early age when he picked up the guitar. However, he later transitioned to bass guitar, a move that would define his signature sound and role in shaping Cheap Trick's distinctive style. In the early 70s, Petersson co-founded Cheap Trick with guitarist Rick Nielsen, drummer Bun E. Carlos, and vocalist Robin Zander. The band quickly gained recognition for their high-energy performances, catchy melodies, and fusion of hard rock, pop, and punk influences. Petersson's melodic basslines became a hallmark of Cheap Trick's sound, adding depth and groove to their music. Throughout his career with Cheap Trick, Petersson has been a key contributor to the band's success, both in the studio and on stage. His innovative bass playing can be heard on many of the band's hit songs, including "Surrender," "I Want You to Want Me," "Dream Police," and "The Flame." In addition to his work with Cheap Trick, Petersson has collaborated with various artists and pursued solo projects. He released a solo album titled "Tom Petersson & Another Language" in 1984, showcasing his versatility as a musician beyond the confines of Cheap Trick's sound. Petersson's influence extends beyond his musical contributions. His distinctive 12-string bass guitar, custom-built by Hamer Guitars, has become iconic in the rock world, inspiring generations of bassists. He is also known for popularizing the use of the 12-string bass in rock music, pushing the boundaries of the instrument and paving the way for its acceptance in mainstream rock. Over the years, Petersson and Cheap Trick have received numerous accolades and awards, including inductions into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 2016. Despite lineup changes and the evolving music industry, Petersson remains an integral part of Cheap Trick's enduring legacy, continuing to tour and record with the band, captivating audiences with his dynamic bass playing and infectious stage presence. Tom Petersson's contributions to rock music and his enduring influence on bassists worldwide solidify his status as a legendary figure in the annals of rock history. I hope you will enjoy Tom Peterrson's story. For more information about Tom and Cheap Trick head for the band's website http://www.cheaptrick.com/ or https://watch.countrymusichalloffame.org/videos/tom-petersson-of-cheap-trick-demonstrates-gretsch-white-falcon If you'd like to request a future guest for the show, please get in touch with me through my website https://www.abreathoffreshair.com.au

I don't know what Dawson's Creek means when they say “Something Wild” but things remain pretty tame, at least in our opinion. We spend most of this episode in two locations: at the clubby club with Jen, Audrey…and Charlie and then we're back in Capeside with Jen and Dawson. At the clubby club, we're privileged to witness some of the most cringe scenes where Charlie hits on Joey, Audrey trying to get some random bro to make out with Joey, and the biggest cringe moment - Joey performing “I Want You to Want Me” with Charlie's band. Meanwhile, Dawson brings Jen “home” to "meet" his mom whom she knows and watched grow up. So, what is happening right now?

This week, Paramount had record ratings for the Super Bowl, then things went south, fast. Nielsen Ratings Show Notes Super Bowl 2024 Was the Most-Watched Telecast of All Time, Reaching 123.7 Million Viewers Paramount+ problems highlight how unserious the idea of a streaming-only Super Bowl is Paramount Global to lay off 800 employees after record Super Bowl ad revenue and ratings | CNN Business Paramount+ to Remove Some International Originals (Exclusive) Paramount+ Culls Raft Of International Drama Originals Including 'The Burning Girls', 'One Night', 'The Killing Kind' & 'The Serial Killer's Wife' Comcast, Paramount Global Held Early Talks About a Peacock-Paramount+ Combination Paramount Global Stock Slides After Warren Buffett Chops Stake Apollo Distancing Orbit From National Amusements Buyout As The Pursuit Of Paramount Global Continues – The Dish Jon Stewart's ‘The Daily Show' Return Ratings Big For Comedy Central Jon Stewart Says Apple TV+ Canceled His Show Because 'They Didn't Want Me to Say Things That Might Get Me in Trouble' Amazon Prime Video's New Ads-Based Subscription Has A Surprise Catch Amazon is Raising The Price of Its MGM+ Streaming Service | Cord Cutters News Amazon Prime Video Ad Tier Sparks Class Action Lawsuit From Subscribers Warner Bros. Discovery Beats Investor Suit Over Inflated Subscriber Figures 'American Rust' Season 2 Moves to Amazon Prime Video From Freevee, Sets Premiere Date Roku Hits Major Milestones, Surpassing 80 Million Active Accounts and More than 100 Billion Streaming Hours in 2023 Roku's stock sinks after earnings, but analyst sees ‘conservatism' in outlook - MarketWatch Roku's stock falls 23%, and one bear now sees challenges brewing ‘on all flanks' - MarketWatch Walmart reportedly acquiring Vizio TVs for $2 billion to fight Amazon Fire TV and Roku | Tom's Guide Peacock to Stream Adaptation of 'Three-Body Problem' Ahead of Rival Netflix Version ‘Silk: Spider Society' Writers Room Scrapped by Amazon ‘Invasion' Renewed for Season 3 at Apple TV+ – The Hollywood Reporter Goosebumps Renewed, Gets New Cast for Season 2 at Disney+ Chris Estrada Comedy ‘This Fool' Canceled at Hulu 'Survival of the Thickest' Renewed for Season 2 as Michelle Buteau Sets Second Netflix Comedy Special ‘The Traitors' Renewed For Season 3 At Peacock 'Evil' to End With Season 4 at Paramount+ Recommendations Mission: Impossible - Dead Reckoning  The Equalizer 3  Bottoms  The Three Body Problem  Octopath Traveler II  For All Mankind 

This Week's Topics: Jon Stewart Confirms Apple Canceled Show: 'They Didn't Want Me to Say Things That Might Get Me in Trouble' Foldable iPhone Development Allegedly Paused Due to Failing Screens Apple […]

This Week's Topics: Jon Stewart Confirms Apple Canceled Show: 'They Didn't Want Me to Say Things That Might Get Me in Trouble' Foldable iPhone Development Allegedly Paused Due to Failing Screens Apple […]

The latest In Touch With iOS with Dave he is joined by guest Kelly Guimont, Jeff Gamet, and Ben Roethig. Topics include Beta this week. iOS 17.4 beta 3 was released this week as well as VisionOS 1.1. In Touch with Mac The panel gives their thoughts on the Macintosh at 40 and how it shaped the iPhone and iPad. In Touch with cord cutting including YouTubeTV new features including the addition of the last channel button. Jon Stewart confirms why his Show on Apple TV+ was cancelled. Apple buys domain iWork.ai it could be a Star Trek Experience. TikTok now has an app on Vision Pro and more.  The show notes are at InTouchwithiOS.com 
Direct Link to Audio  Links to our Show Give us a review on Apple Podcasts! CLICK HERE we would really appreciate it! Click this link Buy me a Coffee to support the show we would really appreciate it. intouchwithios.com/coffee  Another way to support the show is to become a Patreon member patreon.com/intouchwithios Website: In Touch With iOS YouTube Channel In Touch with iOS Magazine on Flipboard Facebook Page Mastadon Twitter Instagram Spoutible Topics Beta this week. iOS 17.4 beta 3 was released this week.  Apple Seeds Third Betas of iOS 17.4 and iPadOS 17.4 to Developers iOS 17.4 Beta: All the New Features  Apple Seeds Third Beta of watchOS 10.4 to Developers  Apple Seeds Third Beta of tvOS 17.4 to Developers  Vision Pro Topics  Apple Releases Second Beta of visionOS 1.1 Kelly's experience with VisionPro demo. Apple fans are starting to return their Vision Pros  Apple Releases visionOS 1.0.3 With Reset Option for Forgotten Passcode Macintosh at 40 40 years of the Macintosh Steve Jobs Archive Hello. The Apple Mac @ 40 The Mac at 40: Iconic, indelible, immortal This week in cord cutting. YouTube TV Confirms It Will Let You Customize Your Multiview Experiences and Pick the Games You Want | Cord Cutters News YouTube TV Confirms The Ability to Jump Back To The Last Channel You Watched With a Single Button Press  Zeam, a Free Streaming Service Featuring Local News, Travel and Sports Content, is Now Live Zeam News Apple Confirms iOS 17.4 Disables Home Screen Web Apps in the European Union  Apple's iMessage Avoids EU's Digital Markets Act Regulation Peloton Is Dropping Apple Watch GymKit Support  Jon Stewart Confirms Apple Canceled Show: 'They Didn't Want Me to Say Things That Might Get Me in Trouble' 'The Joe Rogan Experience' Returns to Apple Podcasts After 3-Year Hiatus Apple buys iWork.ai domain as evidence of a big AI push mounts TikTok Releases Vision Pro App With 'Immersive' Viewing Experience Our Host Dave Ginsburg is an IT professional supporting Mac, iOS and Windows users and shares his wealth of knowledge of iPhone, iPad, Apple Watch, Apple TV and related technologies. Visit the YouTube channel https://youtube.com/intouchwithios follow him on Mastadon @daveg65, and the show @intouchwithios   Our Regular Contributors Jeff Gamet is a podcaster, technology blogger, artist, and author. Previously, he was The Mac Observer's managing editor, and Smile's TextExpander Evangelist. You can find him on Mastadon @jgamet as well as Twitter and Instagram as @jgamet  His YouTube channel https://youtube.com/jgamet Ben Roethig Former Associate Editor of GeekBeat.TV and host of the Tech Hangout and Deconstruct with Patrice  Mac user since the mid 90s. Tech support specialist. Twitter @benroethig  Website: https://roethigtech.blogspot.com About our Guest Kelly Guimont is a podcaster and friend of the Rebel Alliance. She appears on The Incomparable network as well as hosts I Want My M(CU) TV. you can find her on Mastodon and Instagram @verso

In the latest heartwarming episode of "Dirty Bathwater," hosts Giddy and Lux delve into the complexities and joys of dating past 50. Titled "I Want You to Want Me," the show spins a tapestry of love, acceptance, and the quest for companionship that doesn't fade with age. The hosts weave a Valentine's Day theme, encouraging listeners to embrace love in all its forms and to maintain a positive mindset, which is as nourishing as the healthiest of foods. They reminisce about just wanting to be loved, you know like the iconic Cheap Trick song, a metaphor for the human desire to be wanted and loved. Don't we all want to be wanted?! Lux and Giddy banter about creative dating ideas, while also acknowledging the bittersweet feelings that can come with being single. They invite their audience to find joy in the small things, spread happiness with simple smiles, and keep their hearts open to the possibilities of new beginnings, reminding everyone that romance isn't just a young person's game but is alive and well in the hearts of those dating after 50. And wishing you a happy Lunar New Year!And of course, here is the link to Giddy's Blog!  Support the show"Dirty Bathwater, is dedicated to empowering seniors and promoting a fulfilling lifestyle. Join our hosts each week as they explore the latest trends and products that are transforming senior living. Subscribe to the show today and never miss an episode."

When two worlds collide, you get an episode that's as surprising as it is enthralling. My run-in with John Harbaugh could have been just another star-struck fan moment, but I got the Baltimore Ravens' head coach to reveal his favorite music. Then, there's David Lowery's acoustic session where the strum of his guitar felt like a private conversation, echoing the sentimentality and storytelling of Camper van Beethoven and Cracker classics.The haunting memory of "The Day the Music Died" reminds us of the ever-present echoes of those we lost in Buddy Holly's fateful 1959 plane crash. And then there's "American Pie," a tune that feels like a collective memory, etched into our consciousness with its layered references and McLean's resonant lyrics, all wrapped up in an album cover that's as iconic as the song itself.It's the 45th Anniversary of Cheap Trick at Budokan. We revisit the record that put the band on the map in America. From "Ain't That a Shame to "I Want You to Want Me" to "Surrender", this ranks as one of my favorite live albums.This episode is no stranger to the legends of live recordings, as we revisit the high-octane performances that immortalized bands like The Kinks and Kiss, not to mention the electric atmosphere Peter Frampton created with his live shows. Plug in for an episode that hits all the right notes and unpacks the intricacies of the music that moves us.

Heyyyy friend! What's up? Today we're chatting on finding you some major-specific scholarships! These are specific to what YOU are doing, NOT ones you don't qualify for, anywhere from pre-med to education majors and beyond! Does this sound like too much, or is it totally NOT where you want to spend your time? Want ME (instead of you) to find you scholarships for which you ACTUALLY qualify? I can guarantee finding students between $10,000-30,000 in scholarships for college, university, grad school, law school, etc. I charge less than 1% of what I find them, depending on which tier you choose to hire me. I try to find them based on school, major, interests, and other random/general scholarships for which anyone can apply.  I cannot guarantee that you will for sure receive the scholarships, as you will need to apply for them yourself, but I can at least provide the opportunities. (It would pretty much be illegal for me to apply for things in someone else's name:) Interested? Plan a free discovery call at --> https://calendly.com/moneyandmentalpeace    LET'S GOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!     Related Episodes:   172 - 3 Ways to Search and Find the Scholarships Specific To You on Apple Podcasts 173 - She Paid Off $20,000 in Student Loans in a Few Months, Before Ever Paying Any Interest! Learn How You Can Too (: on Apple Podcasts 158 - How to Graduate College with $10,000 to SPARE! Learn About FREE COLLEGE Here... on Apple Podcasts   P.S. Join me on... Facebook --> Christian College Girl Community ~ Scholarships & Graduate Debt-Free | Facebook Instagram --> @moneyandmentalpeace Email --＞ info@moneyandmentalpeace.com   **Get scholarships and pay for college without student loans!**   Are you worried about how to pay for college? Stressed because it's so expensive? Are you having trouble finding scholarships, or all you find don't apply to you? Overwhelmed with all things school and money?   Welcome fam! This podcast will help you find and get scholarships, avoid student loans and maybe even graduate college debt-free!   Hey! I'm Kara, a Christian entrepreneur, amateur snowboarder, and scholarship BEAST! I figured out how to not only finish college debt-free, but I even had $10k left over in the bank after graduation. (& btw, my parents weren't able to help me financially either!)   During school, I was worried about paying for next semester. I couldn't find scholarships that worked specifically for me, and didn't know how to get started while juggling homework and keeping up with ALL.THE.THINGS.   But dude, I learned there was a better way! With God's direction, I tested out of classes, and found the perfect scholarships, grants, internships, and weird budget hacks that helped me go from overwhelmed to debt-free with $10k in the bank–all with God on my side.   ... and I'm here to walk you through this, too.   If you are ready to find scholarships specific to you, learn to manage your money well, and have enough money to kill it at college, this pod is for you!   So grab your cold brew and TI-89, and listen in on the most stress-free and debt-free class you've ever attended: this is Money and Mental Peace.   Topics mentioned: scholarships, grants, search, references, recommendation, testimonial, credentials, essay, thesis statement, scholarship essay, college essay, apply, scholarship application, scholarship deadlines, due dates, bursary, endowment, education award, database, Find God's Path for College, Graduate Loan and Debt-Free, Scholarships, Budget Tips, Goals, Jobs for College Students, Time Management  

Want ME to coach you? ✨ Join my FREE 5 Day Confidence + Clients Bootcamp ✨: https://www.alyssanobriga.com/bootcamp   If you're ready to build your waitlist of dream clients, deliver life-changing results, and step into the impact you know you're capable of….join us! The Bootcamp runs from Jan 22nd - 26th + I only offer this FREE training once a year. Don't miss it!   ======   Are you looking for a change but don't know where to start? We've got you covered in this episode!   In today's episode of Healing & Human Potential, Alyssa speaks with Ashley Stahl, career coach and best-selling author. Ashley explains how to understand your strengths, tune into your joy and take steps towards crafting the career you've always wanted.   Finding purpose can feel challenging....but it's actually simple. You just need to know what you're looking for, and Ashley breaks it down for you. If you want clarity around the best path forward + dream of creating an aligned career, you don't want to miss this!   Highlights to listen for: ⭐ A Step-by-Step Exercise to Find Your Joy ⭐ What Makes a Successful Talk ⭐ The Best Way to Open a Speech + Captivate the Audience ⭐ Everyone has a Story - Learn How to Find Yours   === 0:00 - Intro 2:00 - Ashley's Experience with Therapy 8:45 - Being an Expander for Others 14:57 - Understanding Your Skill Set 17:45 - The Energy of Different Archetypes 20:30 - How to Figure Out Who You Are 22:40 - Where to Look When You Need to Make a Change 23:15 - Invitation to Join The Free 5 Day Confidence + Clients Coaching Bootcamp 25:47 - How to Find Your Joy through a Joy Journal 27:30 - How to Start Living Your Purpose 31:28 - The 3 Phases of Your Career 47:00 - The Structure of a TedX Talk 48:38 - The Most Memorable Human Emotion 51:25 - How to Find Your Powerful Story   === Join The Institute for Coaching Mastery, my accredited certification program. Apply Now to get on the waitlist to receive priority access + the best price + bonuses! https://www.alyssanobriga.com/applynow/ Acceptance letters will be sent January 29th 12pm PST. Apply before then to save $500 off!   === Ashley Stahl is a counterterrorism professional turned career coach, an international bestselling author, and a Fortune 500 spokesperson. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashleystahl/ Website: https://www.ashleystahl.com/   ===   Have you watched our previous episode on Accessing your Creative Magic with Elizabeth Gilbert? Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xqsPjbJj2E4   ====   Alyssa Nobriga International, LLC - Disclaimer This podcast is presented solely for educational and entertainment purposes. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or any other qualified professional. We shall in no event be held liable to any party for any reason arising directly or indirectly for the use or interpretation of the information presented in this video. Copyright 2023, Alyssa Nobriga International, LLC - All rights reserved.   === Website: alyssanobriga.com Instagram: @alyssanobriga TikTok - @alyssanobriga Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/6b5s2xbA2d3pETSvYBZ9YR Apple Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/healing-human-potential/id1705626495

Stand-up, comedian, writer, and actress Beth Stelling joins us today to chat about her Netflix special "If You Didn't Want Me" special as well as time writing on Rick & Morty. She shares how she overcame a challenging childhood, dating after being in a difficult relationship, and what it's like to get ready to play with the masters women's field US hockey team in the Pan Am games. To no surprise her brilliance, warmth and wit exude every area of her life. Doing Scary Things -00:03:23 The Pan American Games -00:09:12 The Mental Shift from Stand Up to Field Hockey -00:11:25 Finding Our Essence -00:17:46 Learning to Find the Humor -00:18:32 Beth's Road from Ohio to LA -00:20:55 Lessons from Our Parents -00:27:59 Compassion and Forgiveness with Our Parents -00:34:48 The Predictability and the Chaos -00:39:01 Finding Comfort and Ease with Yourself -00:42:14 Emotional Relationships with Food -00:46:04 Our Expectations vs the World's -00:49:38 Working on Healthy Relationships -00:57:48 Finding Inner Peace -01:01:03 What About Instincts -01:03:03 Your Childhood Can't Be an Excuse -01:04:38 The Creative Process -01:11:20 Dealing with the Old Stuff -01:19:09 Focus on Beth's Physical Practice -01:24:02 Looking for New Possibilities -01:31:45 A Champion for Strong Women -01:32:33 Parallels with Team Sports and Stand Up -01:41:20 Connect with Beth: Website: www.bethstelling.com Specials: HBO, Girl Daddy Netflix, If you didn't want me then Instagram: @bethstelling Podcast Sponsors and Discounts: Neurohacker - neurohacker.com/GABBYREECE for an extra 15% off your purchase Vionic Shoes - use code GABBY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at www.vionicshoes.com when you log into your account OneSkin - Get 15% off with 15% off using code GABBY at oneskin.co. HVMN - save 30% off your first subscription order of Ketone-IQ at HVMN.com/GABBY Follow Gabby on:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gabbyreece/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gabbyreeceofficial Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OfficialGabrielleReece/ Gabby Reece Website - https://gabriellereece.com/ Bio: Gabrielle 'Gabby' Reece is an American actress, podcaster, and former model and professional volleyball player best known for hosting a lifestyle, health & fitness podcast titled The Gabby Reece Show. Additionally, she is the co-founder of XPT | Extreme Performance Training and Laird Superfood alongside her husband and big wave surfer Laird Hamilton. The Gabby Reece Show talks to top experts with the goal of extracting the best information you will need to navigate the universe of health, fitness, relationships, parenting, and business. Gabby keeps it simple but gets to the heart of the conversation with the hopes of providing you with realistic takeaways. The Gabby Reece Show Transcript: https://gabriellereece.com/podcast/ The Gabby Reece Show Podcast on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeEINLNlGvIceFOP7aAZk5A Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oi Oi Saveloy….Nick Power give you only the very best in Soulful & Uplifting House Music with Soul Kandi. Play LOUD, Share Plenty! Zoey Jones – “We Had A Love” (Inner Spirit) [Lovestruck Records] Vianne & Neone – “Take Me With You” (Richard Earnshaw Extended) Oded Nir & Rob Hayes ft Sandler – “Want Me […] The post Soul Kandi Radio Show 30th Sep 2023 appeared first on SSRadio.

The journey begins...   The Yellow and Blue Crew sit down to talk all things S1E1 of Heartstopper.   Section 28, trans representation, 'fast' running - they're all up for discussion in this deep, deep dive into the first episode of the hit Netflix series.   If, like Luke, you're compiling a 'Music from Heartstopper' playlist then make sure you add these tracks: Want Me by Baby Queen Lovesick by Peace   And don't forget to check out Sebastian Croft's Queer Was Always Here exclusive t-shirt design by following the Instagram link below.   Remember, you are all part of the Yellow and Blue Crew so get in touch to be part of the conversation!   Insta: @mr_s_teaches or @flx_wrestler  

In this week episode, new music from Pig & Dan, Pusher, Dilby...the track of the week is. Want Me by the Supra House Collectif. EnjoyTune into new broadcasts of Club Cozzo, Saturday from 10 PM - Midnight EST / 4 - 6 AM CET (Sunday)For more info visit: https://thefaceradio.com/club-cozzo///Dig this show? Please consider supporting The Face Radio: http://support.thefaceradio.com Support The Face Radio with PatreonSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/thefaceradio. Join the family at https://plus.acast.com/s/thefaceradio. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week's episode of the podcast, Candice is joined by journalist and author of, "Want Me," Tracy Clark-Flory, to talk about sex. Tracy shares how her mother's experience of being sent away for having a child out of wedlock inspired her to write shamelessly about sex, why she believes that liberation is a lie, and how her own beliefs about sex have evolved over the years.Tracy's story is both personal and relatable, and it offers a unique perspective on the way that we talk about sex in our society. She challenges us to think critically about the concept of liberation, and she offers a powerful reminder that our beliefs about sex are shaped by our experiences.This episode is sure to spark conversation and challenge your own assumptions about sex. So listen in and join the conversation!Tracy's Social Media:https://www.tracyclarkflory.com/https://twitter.com/tracyclarkfloryhttps://www.instagram.com/tracyclarkflory/Candice's Social Media:www.instagram.com/candiceking/www.instagram.com/asuperbloompod/www.tiktok.com/@itscandicekingUpcoming Guest:Claire Holt Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Intro Song –  Albert King, “I'll Play The Blues For You”, At The Forum 1972 
First Set -
 Howlin' Wolf, “Little Red Rooster”, Ebbet's Field, Denver CO 8/23/1973 
 The Fabulous Thunderbirds, “Feelin' Good”, Rhein-Mein Halle Maifestspiele, 5/23/1980

 Second Set –
 James Cotton, “Dust My Broom”, Dallas Motor Speedway, 08/30/1969
 Tommy Castro, “Calling San Francisco”, Aladdin Theater, Portland OR, 10/31/2001
 Lightnin' Hopkins, “My Babe”, Live in Montreal, 6/23/1977 

Third Set – 
 Albert Collins, “Iceman”, Red Rocks, Morrison CO, 8/16/1992
 Coco Montoya, “Nothing But Love”, Petrillo Music Shell, Chicago, IL, 7/4/2000 
Fourth Set – 
 Muddy Waters, “Instrumental with Intro”, Live at Ebbetts Field, Denver, 5/30/1973 
 Muddy Waters, “Band Intros”, Live at Ebbetts Field, Denver, 5/30/1973
 Muddy Waters/BB King, “I Know You Didn't Want Me”, Live at Ebbetts Field, Denver, 5/30/1973


Heyyyy friend! What's up? Today we're chatting on finding you some major-specific scholarships! These are specific to what YOU are doing, NOT ones you don't qualify for, anywhere from pre-med to education majors and beyond! Does this sound like too much, or is it totally NOT where you want to spend your time? Want ME (instead of you) to find you scholarships for which you ACTUALLY qualify? I can guarantee finding students between $10,000-30,000 in scholarships for college, university, grad school, law school, etc. I charge less than 1% of what I find them, depending on which tier you choose to hire me. I try to find them based on school, major, interests, and other random/general scholarships for which anyone can apply.  I cannot guarantee that you will for sure receive the scholarships, as you will need to apply for them yourself, but I can at least provide the opportunities. (It would pretty much be illegal for me to apply for things in someone else's name:) Interested? Hmu --> info@moneyandmentalpeace.com   LET'S GOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!     Related Episodes:   172 - 3 Ways to Search and Find the Scholarships Specific To You on Apple Podcasts 173 - She Paid Off $20,000 in Student Loans in a Few Months, Before Ever Paying Any Interest! Learn How You Can Too (: on Apple Podcasts 158 - How to Graduate College with $10,000 to SPARE! Learn About FREE COLLEGE Here... on Apple Podcasts   P.S. Join me on... Facebook --> Christian College Girl Community ~ Scholarships & Graduate Debt-Free | Facebook Instagram --> @moneyandmentalpeace Email --＞ info@moneyandmentalpeace.com Website --> Home (moneyandmentalpeace.com) Online course The Debt-Free College Blueprint --> debtfreecollegeblueprint.com   Some great apologetics books to feel confident and grounded in your faith! Jesus Skeptic - https://www.amazon.com/Jesus-Skeptic-Journalist-Credibility-Christianity/dp/0801078083  The Case for Christ - https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/73186.The_Case_for_Christ  The Case for a Creator - https://www.amazon.com/Case-Creator-Lee-Strobel/dp/0310242096  The Case for Heaven - https://www.zondervan.com/p/the-case-for-heaven/  Proving Christ's resurrection - https://www.equip.org/video/the-f-e-a-t-that-demonstrates-the-fact-of-resurrection-introduction-with-hank-hanegraaff/    ** Find God's Path for College and Graduate Loan and Debt-Free **   Do you want guidance on where to go and what to study… wonder if you should change majors? Do you find yourself up late at night searching for scholarships, and ways to pay for college without parental help? Do you wake up worried about everything, and just want to make sure you're following God's plan for your life?   In this podcast for Christian college girls, you will learn to find GOD'S path for your college journey, and graduate with no loans or debt!   I get it! It is so tough doing things the world‘s way, when everybody else is doing life without God and in their own strength, making poor choices, and taking out loans. So, if you're ready to stop dreading making decisions, and find EASY solutions to help you pay for college while following His path for your life, this podcast is for you!   Hey there! I'm Kara Walker, a twenty-something entrepreneur, amateur snowboarder, recovering over-achiever, and debt-free college graduate. In college, I too was a stressed college student, looking for money and mental peace. I wondered if there were other ways to pay for college besides loans, and wished for clear direction on how to make college and career decisions! Not only was I worried about drowning in debt, but also afraid I hadn't heard Jesus correctly. Was I studying the wrong thing? Was I completely off track?   I felt semi-out of control and was spiraling, until I learned how to hear from God and follow His direction. He guided me and gave me the stepping stones to pay for college.  Scholarships, grants, testing out of classes, and other weird school hacks got me through debt-free!   And, I'm here to teach you HOW to do this, too.   If you are ready to find answers about your future, have an intimate and fruitful relationship with Jesus, and have enough money to KILL it at college, this pod is for you! So grab your cold brew and TI-89, and listen in on the most stress-free and debt-free class you've ever attended: this is Money and Mental Peace.   ** Scholarships, Student Loans, Christian College Girls, Pay for College, Dave Ramsey, College Major, Declare Major, Student Loan Forgiveness, Federal Student Loans **   ** Debt-Free College Coach, College Financial Strategist, College Money Mentor, College Budget, Scholarship Coach, Debt-Free Degree **   Money and Mental Peace - Scholarships, Budget Tips, Goals, Jobs for College Students, Time Management   Kara Walker - College Scholarship Strategist, Financial Aid, Money Tips, Dave Ramsey Aficionado  

In this inaugural episode of Once Every Two Weeks, Mark Ricks and Thom Crowe discuss the revolutionary impact of Nirvana's iconic 1994 MTV Unplugged in New York. They explore the risks the band took in creating a set that looked "exactly like a funeral" and Kurt Cobain's insistence on the lesser known Meat Puppets to join the performance. Tune in to this podcast to hear an in-depth discussion and retrospective of the albumShow Notes00:00 - Intro and welcome00:34 - Where the podcast came from01:21 - Introduce the Nirvana's MTV Unplugged and discuss the history of the album19:07 - About a Girl discussion21:02 - Come as You Are discussion21:55 - Jesus Don't Want Me for a Sunbeam (the Vasalines cover) discussion24:49 - Man Who Sold the World (David Bowie cover) discussion26:33 - Pennyroyal Tea discussion28:28 - Dumb discussion29:29 - Polly discussion32:32 - On a Plain discussion32:36 - Something in the Way discussion35:18 - Plateau (Meat Puppets cover) discussion36:13 - Lake of Fire (Meat Puppets cover) discussion39:23 - All Apologies discussion42:18 - Where Did You Sleep Last Night discussion43:43 - Retrospective, where are they now discussions, and discussions about the loss of Kurt58:18 - Having suicidal thoughts? Get help, by calling 988. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I kick off this episode with new releases that I dig, which includes Kid Sistr's "X-Tape (Want to Want Me)," Nell Mescal's "Homesick," C Lilley's "Truth Is (Demo)," White Reaper's Asking For A Ride, and Kota The Friend's Lyrics to GO, Vol. 4. My special guest includes Brooklyn's electro-sludge psych-doom duo Trip Villain! Josh Musto & Damien Moffitt join me on BRANDI IS GOING TO HELL to share their musical journey that lead them to full “doom” control, influences on their latest EP WON, and approaching their music like arts & crafts. The guys also share their weirdest trips.

Emma Rothman '21 was 12 years old when she had a heart transplant. It's easy to understand why Emma is still working to process everything that's happened in her life to this point. In this 'Cuse Conversation, Emma talks about her health journey, her Syracuse University experience and how writing her book, "Things My Therapist Doesn't Want Me to Say: Ten Years Post Heart Transplant," has helped her process the challenges she's faced in her young life and embrace something she spent a lot of time trying to hide—her heart transplant is a big part of who she is. Emma has started a non-profit, Hearts for Emma, and encourages people to sign up for the National Donate Life Registry.

Eric Beetner is that writer you've heard about but never read. Then when you finally do, you wonder why you waited so long. There are over 25 books and more than 100 short stories so you'd better get started. Books like Rumrunners, All The Way Down, Two In The Head and The Devil Doesn't Want Me. He also hosts the podcast Writer Types and the Noir at the Bar reading series in L.A. He's been described as “The 21st Century's answer to Jim Thompson” (LitReactor) He's been nominated for three Anthony's, an ITW award, Shamus, Derringer and 5 Emmys. Seriously, what are you waiting for? #podcast #author #interview #authors #EricBeetner #SpiesLiesandPrivateEyesPodcast #authorsontheair #podcast #podcaster #authors #authorsofig #authorsofinstagram #authorinterview #writingcommunity#authorsontheair #suspensebooks #authorssupportingauthors #thrillerbooks #suspense #wip #writers#writersinspiration #books #bookrecommendations #bookaddict #bookaddicted #bookaddiction#bibliophile #read #amreading #lovetoread #terrencemccauley #terrencemccauleybooks #bookouture#thrillers #theuniversityseries #ThereAndBack #RoughEdgesPress

Jennifer Haupt is here to talk about her new novel, ‘Come As You Are'. Set against a backdrop of Seattle in the early '90s, ‘Come As You Are' is a compelling love story and family drama that addresses the question: Can we alter our dreams and stories from the past to create a better future for our children?In the second half of the show, we're joined by two giants of the real Seattle grunge world: music journalist Charles R. Cross, author of the award-winning 2001 biography on Kurt Cobain, ‘Heavier Than Heaven', and Nabil Ayers, co-founder of Seattle's iconic Sonic Boom Records store and author of the new memoir ‘My Life in the Sunshine'. Charles and Nabil share their memories of and insight into that pivotal moment in music history. Jennifer:The significance of the title and Nirvana, particularly Kurt Cobain, in the novelHow Jennifer depicted drug addiction, anxiety, and grief in the storyThe death of Jennifer's own sister and how that informed the novelWhat music, especially the music of Nirvana, means to the main charactersMusic as a religion; Kurt Cobain as a god-figure in the novelJennifer's brush with celebrities: Dizzy Gillespie, author Wally LambHow seeing live music helps disparate people bondWhat “Smells Like Teen Spirit” means to Jennifer CharlesThe difference between Kurt Cobain's public and private personas and his attitude toward fameKurt's struggles with drug addiction, mental illness, and gastrointestinal problemsKurt's family history of suicide and his own many suicide attemptsHow Charles found out Kurt had diedWhy the ‘Nevermind' album is greatWhy naysayers of Nirvana should listen to their MTV Unplugged performanceWhen Charles first heard “Smells Like Teen Spirit”The genius of Nirvana's music and their impact on the culture NabilNabil's new memoir, ‘My Life in the Sunshine', about trying to connect with his father, funk, soul, and jazz legend Roy AyersSeattle in the early 1990s: music, record stores, clubs, atmosphere in general at that time (“Everyone here just looks like they're in a band”)Sub Pop RecordsBands Nabil saw play live in Seattle clubs that became grunge legends, like Mudhoney, Alice in Chains, Soundgarden, NirvanaTales of when Eddie Vedder and Chris Cornell used to shop at the record store where Nabil workedOK Hotel Nirvana show Nabil saw when Nirvana played “Smells Like Teen Spirit” for the first timeOpening Sonic Boom Records in Seattle in the ‘90s and interacting with the many great bands that frequented and played at the store Listen to the episode then migrate to the Rock is Lit Vault for the uncut interview with Charles R. Cross and outtakes from the Jennifer Haupt and Nabil Ayers interviews: https://www.christyalexanderhallberg.com/rockislit MUSIC AND MEDIA THAT APPEAR IN THE EPISODE IN ORDER OF APPEARANCE:“Come As You Are” by Nirvana (instrumental)“Piggy” by Nine Inch Nails“Hurt” by Oliver Tree“About a Girl” by Nirvana“Come As You Are” by Nirvana“Heart-Shaped Box” by Nirvana“Smells Like Teen Spirit” by Nirvana“Jesus Doesn't Want Me for a Sunbeam” by Nirvana“Something in the Way” by Nirvana“I Hate Myself and Want to Die” by NirvanaAudio clip of Kurt Cobain talking about his stomach problems, drug use, suicidal thoughts“Smells Like Teen Spirit” by Nirvana (Kurt solo), MTV Unplugged“All Apologies” by Nirvana“Smells Like Teen Spirit” live at the OK Hotel, 17 April 1991Clip of Michael Stipe inducting Nirvana into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame in 2014LINKS: Jennifer's website, https://www.jenniferhaupt.com/Jennifer on Twitter, @Jennifer­­_HauptJennifer on Instagram, @jenniferhauptauthor Charles' website, https://charlesrcross.com/Charles on Twitter, @charlesrcross  Nabil's website, https://www.nabilayers.com/Nabil on Twitter, @nabilayersNabil on Instagram, @nabilayers Link to Nabil's ‘Rolling Stone' article on Nirvana's OK Hotel show, “The Night Nirvana Changed Everything,” https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-features/nirvana-smells-like-teen-spirit-first-performance-1154128/ Link to Nabil's ‘The Stranger' article on Soundgarden, https://www.thestranger.com/music/2017/05/18/25153388/soundgarden-will-never-be-the-first-seattle-band-anyone-mentions-but-for-me-soundgarden-was-the-first-band-that-changed-everything Christy Alexander Hallberg's website, https://www.christyalexanderhallberg.com/Christy Alexander Hallberg on Instagram, @christyhallberg Christy Alexander Hallberg on Twitter,  @ChristyHallbergChristy Alexander Hallberg on YouTube, https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfSnRmlL5moSQYi6EjSvqagRock is Lit Vault, https://www.christyalexanderhallberg.com/rockislit

Jennifer Haupt is here to talk about her new novel, ‘Come As You Are'. Set against a backdrop of Seattle in the early '90s, ‘Come As You Are' is a compelling love story and family drama that addresses the question: Can we alter our dreams and stories from the past to create a better future for our children? In the second half of the show, we're joined by two giants of the real Seattle grunge world: music journalist Charles R. Cross, author of the award-winning 2001 biography on Kurt Cobain, ‘Heavier Than Heaven', and Nabil Ayers, co-founder of Seattle's iconic Sonic Boom Records store and author of the new memoir ‘My Life in the Sunshine'. Charles and Nabil share their memories of and insight into that pivotal moment in music history.    Listen to the episode then migrate to the Rock is Lit Vault for the uncut interview with Charles R. Cross and outtakes from the Jennifer Haupt and Nabil Ayers interviews: https://www.christyalexanderhallberg.com/rockislit   MUSIC AND MEDIA THAT APPEAR IN THE EPISODE IN ORDER OF APPEARANCE: “Come As You Are” by Nirvana (instrumental) “Piggy” by Nine Inch Nails “Hurt” by Oliver Tree “About a Girl” by Nirvana “Come As You Are” by Nirvana “Heart-Shaped Box” by Nirvana “Smells Like Teen Spirit” by Nirvana “Jesus Doesn't Want Me for a Sunbeam” by Nirvana “Something in the Way” by Nirvana “I Hate Myself and Want to Die” by Nirvana Audio clip of Kurt Cobain talking about his stomach problems, drug use, suicidal thoughts “Smells Like Teen Spirit” by Nirvana (Kurt solo), MTV Unplugged “All Apologies” by Nirvana “Smells Like Teen Spirit” live at the OK Hotel, 17 April 1991 Clip of Michael Stipe inducting Nirvana into the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame in 2014 LINKS:  Jennifer's website, https://www.jenniferhaupt.com/ Jennifer on Twitter, @Jennifer­­_Haupt Jennifer on Instagram, @jenniferhauptauthor   Charles' website, https://charlesrcross.com/ Charles on Twitter, @charlesrcross    Nabil's website, https://www.nabilayers.com/ Nabil on Twitter, @nabilayers Nabil on Instagram, @nabilayers   Link to Nabil's ‘Rolling Stone' article on Nirvana's OK Hotel show, “The Night Nirvana Changed Everything,” https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-features/nirvana-smells-like-teen-spirit-first-performance-1154128/   Link to Nabil's ‘The Stranger' article on Soundgarden, https://www.thestranger.com/music/2017/05/18/25153388/soundgarden-will-never-be-the-first-seattle-band-anyone-mentions-but-for-me-soundgarden-was-the-first-band-that-changed-everything   Christy Alexander Hallberg's website, https://www.christyalexanderhallberg.com/ Christy Alexander Hallberg on Instagram, @christyhallberg  Christy Alexander Hallberg on Twitter, @ChristyHallberg Christy Alexander Hallberg on YouTube, https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfSnRmlL5moSQYi6EjSvqag Rock is Lit Vault, https://www.christyalexanderhallberg.com/rockislit Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You asked, we're answering. If you want to ask a question for our next Q&A episode, ask us on Instagram @thoughtsmayvarypod! Today's Thoughts include:Masturbation after SA on SSRIsHow to forgive an ex with substance use challenges Giving yourself validation vs seeking it externally Public speaking tips + tricksPet peeves of each other + our partners Second puberties Learning to trust your intuition & more! Mentioned: “Why Does My ‘For You Page' Want Me to Practice Post-Sex Aftercare?” By Gaby Ulloa — https://www.thecut.com/2022/08/post-sex-aftercare-what-is-it-how-to.html  Find Us Herehttps://www.instagram.com/thoughtsmayvarypodhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thoughtsmayvarypodMeadow: https://www.instagram.com/itsmeadowlarkGaby: https://www.instagram.com/gabyulloa_Patreon

My podcast got a makeover! Welcome to Stress Therapy! A podcast about getting better at stress for people living in the real world. Yes, things have changed a bit, but for the better. Today, you'll learn just why change is so hard (even if it's "good change!") and how to make it easier, more beneficial and way less stressful. Here is a book I mentioned: Change Your Thoughts Change Your Life by Wayne Dyer https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4473.A_Prayer_for_Owen_Meany?from_search=true&from_srp=true&qid=0g1LCnvgll&rank=1And another:You Can Heal Your Life by Louise Hayhttps://www.goodreads.com/book/show/129603.You_Can_Heal_Your_Life?from_search=true&from_srp=true&qid=8C2PGU7w2R&rank=1Join me on my next retreat!https://thestresstherapist.com/retreats/https://thestresstherapist.com/beach-retreats/Stay in touch with md, sign up for The Stress Therapist's Newsletter: https://thestresstherapist.com/contact/Want Me to be your therapist? If you live in Georgia, click here https://thestresstherapist.com/contact/ to schedule a free 15 minute consultation.Instagram: @thestresstherapistFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/cheriaugustineflakeWebsite: https://thestresstherapist.com/Twitter: @stresstherapyFollow me on GoodReads: https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/15903117.Cheri_Augustine_FlakeBuy My Book: Honey Do to Honey DONE! A Simple System for A Productive and Happy Household with Absolutely No More Nagging! https://www.amazon.com/Honey-DONE-Productive-Household-Absolutely/dp/0997950919/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_bdcrb_top?ie=UTF8

I Want Ü 2 Vant Me is track 12 on the original 1993 edition of How to Clean Everything and track 15 on the 2013 reissue! This is a cover of Cheap Trick's I Want You to Want Me from their 1977 album In Color. Introduction: 00:00-17:30 Rory Phillips (The Impossibles/The Stereo) interview: 17:40-1:01:20 Lang Huck interview: 1:03:00-1:36:50 Keith and Greg: 1:37:10-END