The Winning Youth Coaching Podcast: Youth Sports | Coaching | Parenting | Family Resources

Pat Williams, senior vice president of the Orlando Magic, shares personal stories from his time as a parent with youth sports as well as what he teaches regarding developing leaders through sports. Pat's new book, CHARACTER CARVED IN STONE is about his discovery of the leadership virtues taught at the United States Military Academy at West Point. Duke University's Coach K (a West Point grad) wrote the foreword. Book: Character Carved in Stone   Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Dr. Jay Martin is the Ohio Wesleyan University Soccer coach and one of the nation's winningest soccer coaches ever. He has written one of the books in the series for United Soccer Coaches titled, The Best of Soccer Journal: The Art of Coaching. It is seen as one of the best soccer books in their book store. Jay is an author of several books approved by the United Soccer Coaches national office and advises them on their Coaches education curriculum. Book: The Art of Coaching   Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Chris Mance is a family coach who helps sports families pursue difficult goals while maximizing their happiness on their journey. Chris has a unique story from playing at football at West Point to becoming an entrepreneur, husband, and eventually a father of two young wrestlers. Through his experiences in leadership, Chris has been able to work with families to plan and execute their strategic plans. Chris's Website: chrismance.com Chris' Twitter: @chrismance Chris's Instagram: @chairmance2   Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Coaching Your Own Kids Chris was really hard on his first son from an early age. He has gone 180, with him now and with his younger son, he stays focused on being proud of them and just giving them a hug afterwards and de-emphasizing the winning/losing. Cringe moment At youth dual meets, early on in Chris' coaching, he was too focused on the scoreboard with the newer athletes instead of just working on technique and focusing on improvement. Teaching skills & Keeping it fun Reward kids for working hard with a fun game - sumo wrestling is fun. King of the hill - start with smallest kid, whoever takes down other wins, and keep going working way up Culture Parents are a big part of it - keep them tied in and on board Doing something like fantasy sports with the kids is a really fun way to build some comraderie within the players of the team Travel sports The biggest problem is the season never ends. In a perfect world, kids would only play a sport during its primary season, and then be able to enjoy other sports in the offseasons. The one that got away Chris' final wrestling match - he got beat someone who probably wasn't as good as him - but he had taken it for granted and not trained well that week. Best stolen idea Sports is a chess match. You always need to be 2 steps ahead, especially mentally. Favorite books/quote: Quote: 'Hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard' Book: Wooden (by John Wooden) Parting Advice Have a system, plan and prepare -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Gad Espinosa is a Certified High-Performance Mental Game Coach, and speaker who has been interviewed in numerous newspapers and radio shows. He has been privileged to train and mentor athletes at all levels, from those just starting their athletic careers to others who have gone on to represent their country and succeed at World Championships and Olympic games. As a former professional athlete, who has represented his country internationally, he knows first hand the psychological and emotional challenges a young athlete faces. As a parent of two former competitive athletes he knows the difficulty of raising athletes and as a varsity head coach, he sympathizes with coaches and their responsibilities. Gad is passionate about helping young athletes discover mental strength breakthroughs that allow them to maximize their development so they can take their game to another level and fulfill their athletic potential. Website: coachgad.com Instagram: @coach_gad Twitter: @coachgad Facebook: /Coach-Gad   Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Coaching Your Own Kids It's a balance between smothering them and still coaching them and enjoying being a parent with them Coaching a sport you didn't play 2 requirements: Enthusiasm and a passion to learn more A-ha moment Gad, as a player, rarely had coaches discuss the mental side of the game - so he has emphasized this as a coach Concussion recovery Time is the biggest key. Take the time to let your mind recover and don't rush it. Mental toughness It starts with letting your athletes know it's ok to fail. It's a very important part of the learning process. Having a clear goal in mind helps build grit to keep working even if things don't do the way you want. Teaching skills Tag - they put a pinnie on each hip, and they run around and try to grab as many pinnies as possible from their teammates Keep away - in a circle, 2 kids in the middle, try to keep ball away from the kids in the middle Culture and captains Leaders emerge amongst teams 'How do I Improve my Kid's Athletic Potential?' Book on website: coachgad.com WYC guest enter promo code 'WYC' and get 50% off book! A mental program for coaches and athletes The one that got away Gad had specifically reminded the team about a specific thing to look for in the game, and 1 minute into the game this situation happened, and a player didn't do what they just had talked about. Gad regrets that he immediately took the player out of the game and didn't play him much more that game. Best stolen idea Preparedness Favorite books/quote: Quote: 'If you're not making mistakes, then you're not doing anything. I'm positive that a doer makes mistakes.' - John Wooden Parting Advice Take a step back and remember how you wish you were coached when you were younger -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Susan Stout educates coaches specifically about working with kids who have ADHD, learning differences and/or anxiety. As a former swim coach and now a mom to an avid young athlete with ADHD and dyslexia, Susan wishes she had known when she was coaching what she knows now about how to recognize the differently wired kids, manage the challenges and bring out the best in these athletes. Website: ownbeatathlete.com Twitter: @SusanStoutOBA   Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Finding invisible differences It all starts with just getting to know each kid Some symptoms to look for: Can't sit still Talk back Interrupt Can't remember what you just said, especially with multi-step directions Inconsistent in their performance Poor sense of time (can be late) Poor emotional control Practical tips to coach kids with invisible differences Don't talk for long periods of time(no diatribes!) Routines help Give them a responsibility to keep them engaged Let them fidget and move Try to be patient - give them a minute to cool off Own Beat Athlete Website: ownbeatathlete.com Blogs, profiles of successful players and coaches with ADHD, letters from players Tools for coaches and facts to know about kids with invisible differences Cringe moment When Susan was first coaching, they lost a meet because the backstroke flags were the wrong distance. Susan was worried about over-coaching girls who had previously been her teammates. She learned she needed to be the coach first and not worry about trying to impress them or be their buddy. Keeping training fun Relay races are always a great way to compete and have fun while conditioning Achieving peak performance under pressure They start meets with cheering and getting energy up. Then she would have the athletes come and check in with her before their events to chat one-on-one. The coaching is finished at this point - instead reinforce them and tell them - 'you've done it, the work is done, now go have fun and show what you can do' The one that got away As a swimmer, for 3 years Susan was trying to break 36 seconds. 3 times she got 36.00. She still had a great time, just wishes she could have got a 35.99. :) Best stolen idea Building a culture of being a family. Favorite books/quote: Quote: 'A common mistake amongst those working in sports is to spend a disproportionate amount of time on X's and O's as compared to time spent learning about people.' - Coach K Quote: 'When I was a young coach, I used to say treat everybody alike. Instead- treat everybody fairly.' - Bear Bryant Book: Getting to Us by Seth Davis Parting Advice Build relationships. Get to know the kids, what do they dream about, what excites them, what do they like doing outside of sports. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Sean Conlon is the founder of We Make Footballers, a football(soccer in the U.S.) prep school to prepare athletes for playing at academies. With a background with the Chelsea club, Sean has the passion and vision to help young athletes improve their game on and off the field to reach their dreams. Website: wemakefootballers.com Twitter: @wmfootballers Instagram: @wemakefootballers   Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Learning on the playground Sean didn't play for a formal team until he was 13 years old. This has pros and cons - a lot of creativity can be developed, but mixing in a bit of coaching can help the guided discovery process. Emphasizing fun at young ages and training parents to recognize development vs. just wins and losses is key. We Make Footballers 14 franchises across England, have prepared 170+ players who have gone on to join academy teams Focus is preparing players for academies Website: wemakefootballers.com Great fun skill building games Stuck in the mud - Get in a square, everyone has their own ball, dribbling. Make one player the sticker - he runs and tries to tag the other players. When tagged, they hold their ball over their head, and if other players kick their own ball between a frozen players' head, that player is freed. Snake - In a square. 2 players have to hold hands, they are the snakes. The rest are the mice. Players don't have a ball, they just run around. As players are caught, they join the snake. The one that got away In the cup final, Sean looks back on a couple of changes he could have made earlier. Thinking clearly in high energy moments is critical. Be decisive and take action. Best stolen idea Make every practice fun, regardless of the age group. Favorite books/quote: Book: Alex Ferguson's Leading Quote: 'In football, the worst things are excuses, excuses mean you cannot grow or move forward.' - Pep Guardiola Parting Advice Utilize the internet and forums to continuously learn -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Freddy Hilliard is the head coach at Malvern Prep in Pennsylvania. In 8 seasons as coach, he has surpassed the 260 win mark, collected 5 PA state titles as well as 5 national top 25 rankings and has sent 75 players on to play college ball. His former players view him as a coach, mentor, teacher and role model. Although he develops baseball skills, he is even more talented in developing better people first and foremost. Baseball as we know is a small part of life, how we conduct ourselves as humans, as husbands, as brothers, as fathers…that is what is important in life and that is how we will be remembered. Twitter: @coachhilliard16   Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Cringe Moment After a loss, on the bus ride on the way home, the kids were laughing and having a good time. Freddy couldn't understand why they were having fun and weren't mad. It was a good eye-opener, that most of these kids enjoy being on the team, but they have a lot going on beyond this team. The biggest lesson he learned was investing more in them as people and getting to know what makes them tick. Choosing to be excellent at everything means work, but don't be satisfied with being OK or mediocre. Teaching skills It all starts with the why. Teaching is much more effective if they understand what they are trying to accomplish and why it's important. Players should be free to ask questions and suggest improvements Competing is key to getting kids to focus and give their all. They have 4 yellow jerseys - they give them to the best 4 defensive players at their 4 stations. They also have a batting championship belt they award (similar to a WWE or boxing belt) each practice. Achieving Peak Performance Work with your team on breathing to calm their heart rate down Visualize success. Think about success and don't be afraid to fail. Core Values They have 3 of them: Selflessness, Excellence, Energy Connecting with and impacting kids Freddy had a player who didn't get much playing time, but had a great attitude, and stayed in touch for years to come. This speaks to Freddy and his staff valuing him as a person, not based on his talent level. The one that haunts me Freddy's team was in the state championship game, they had beaten the other team twice that season rather easily. They lost in extra innings. Freddy thinks he could have done a better job getting his team focused and not being complacent. Favorite books/quote: Quote: 'Discipline yourself and others won't have to' - John Wooden Book: John Wooden's Pyramid of Success Book: Make Your Bed: Little Things That Can Change Your Life...And Maybe the World by Admiral William McRaven Book: The Captain Class: The Hidden Force That Creates the World's Greatest Teams by Sam Walker Book: Start with Why: How Great Leaders Inspire Everyone to Take Action by Simon Sinek Parting Advice Don't overthink or over-coach. Let the kids figure it out. Make it fun, you want the kids to love the game. Be authentic. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Dr. Rob Bell is a mental toughness coach. He is a husband and father of two wonderful kids. An Ironman and endurance athlete, and loves to PLAY: golf, swimming, skiing, running, ping-pong and chess. He speaks & trains with teams, organizations, and coaches on mental toughness. Website: drrobbell.com Twitter: @drrobbell Facebook: /TheImportanceofmentaltoughness Instagram: /drrobbell Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Hinge moments A person, a decision, or a moment that changes the direction of your life 1 of Dr. Bell's hinge moments was when he was in college and living a party life- he walked off an 80 foot cliff. But it woke him up and changed him: "Our worst moments in life often end up becoming our best moments" Mental toughness training Mental toughness - 'It's caught more than it's taught' The most important time is when adversity hits - How, as coaches, do we respond? When they fail - teach them that 'this is an event, not a person.' "It's a bruise not a tattoo." Visualization 'To visualize success you have to have had success' - So you have to lots of competitions - then the debrief is key: What were you thinking about when taking that key shot? Were you thinking about letting down the team, or what was going through your mind? And don't just compete physically - they can compete on who gives the most high-fives or something mentally so different kids win and lose Making the kids hungry How can I find the motivations for everybody? Motivating is the hardest mental skill. It's hard. You have to train your coaches and captains to help. Then it's a unified effort to pick everyone up and keep them on board. Timing for feedback Parents - during the game is not the time to give feedback. You want them listening to the coach. The 2nd worst time to talk to your kids is on the car ride home. The best time is in non-pressure environments. Best borrowed/stolen idea Jack Nicklaus: 'People don't understand how many times you have to finish 2nd before you finish 1st' Favorite books/quote: Quote: 'Some battles aren't worth fighting even if you win. Some battles are worth fighting even if you lose.' - Gil Reyes, Andre Aggassi's coach Books by coaches who have won and lost - Dean Smith, Pat Summit, Bear Bryant, Bill Walsh Parting Advice Better people make better athletes. Focus on developing the person. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

With over 30 years of experience as an educator, coach and administrator, Greg Winkler is currently in his first year as head coach of the boys soccer team at Ida Baker High School in Cape Coral, Fla., and physical education teacher at the Charlotte Campus of Florida SouthWestern State College in Punta Gorda, Fla. A decorated soccer coach in the state of Wisconsin, Winkler was named to the Wisconsin Soccer Association Hall of Fame's Class of 2015, recognizing a coaching career that saw him amass over 400 wins at both the youth and high school levels and earn State Youth Coach of the Year honors in 2006 and Wisconsin Large School Coach of the Year in 2004. In 2009, Winkler published “Coaching a Season of Significance,” a coaching resource that draws upon his vast experiences to map out a plan for fellow coaches to find success and overcome obstacles at every step along the way to a significant season. He has presented at coaching and athletic director conferences on topics ranging from building relationships through athletics to engaging in effective communication with parents and administrators. Website: gregwinkler.net Twitter: @gregwinkler10 Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Coaching your own kids Focus on treating every kid like they are your own kid Unless the kid brings it up, don't talk very much sports at home My Cringe moment from early coaching years Calling out a specific kid at halftime in front of the team Teaching skills while keeping it fun Sharks and minnows with a soccer ball or any tag/relay race game with a ball Losers of games do something embarassing - Ima Stars or donkey kicks Competition in practice is key Practicing pressure situations Knockout games are great Mistake recovery Work with players who beat themselves up, have conversations with them, guide them on how to deal with how to react to mistakes Having a value-based program They have 5 core values, they discuss 1 per week to start season, then they discuss other important topics in subsequent weeks Parents They are a huge resource! Be proactive to involve them so they are helping instead of complaining. Dealing with crazy coaches It's hard to deal with other crazy coaches, it's important to not let them get under your skin because your team can sense it. Favorite books/quote: Inside out Coaching by Joe Ehrmann Catch them being Good by Tony Dicicco Parting Advice Focus on relationships and individuals vs. wins and losses -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Travis Daugherty has been a coach for over 20 years and worked with thousands of athletes of all backgrounds, ages, and ability levels - plus the parents that came with them. Throughout that time, he also served as a speaker and development leader for Higher Level Sports, a father-son basketball camp my dad founded and directed throughout the Midwest. He recently authored a book- The LENS. Travis' explanation of the book: "Studying, writing, and developing this game plan have given me a chance to clarify for myself the sports parent I want to be. I hope it will help you clarify who you want to be, too. And even though nobody's perfect in this area, I do hope each of us can see clearly that there's no greater opportunity to prepare our kids for success than the one we have through sports. I want each of us to recognize that opportunity, and use it to build strong, committed, confident leaders in this world." Website: thelensbook.com Twitter: @The_LENS_Book Instagram: /the_lens_book Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - New Sponsor! Want to save time running your sports team without paying a penny? Overwhelmed by constant texts, calls and emails?  Check out the Heja app, which helps coaches all over the world more easily manage youth sports teams - 100% free of charge! Click the link to download the app and get your team better organized for free now! app.goheja.com/pod Show Notes - WYC 161 – Travis Daugherty Coaching your own kids The positive desire to see your own kids succeed can lead to negative reactions Myopic - being short-sighted. The key is to focus on the big picture and not short-term wins Developing a plan and clarifying your priorities to the kids and parents is a critical first step Remember that challenge and adversity is a key component of a child's development, learning to overcome those challenges is critical to healthy development Constantly sharing your coaching purpose statement build accountability into your coaching. Value the pursuit of excellence vs. the pursuit of success. Quit comparing yourself to others and rather spend time pursuing being the best you possibly can be. Hidden Talents Loving the game Giving your best Overcoming adversity Seeking improvement Getting coached Being a teammate Taking risks Having a positive attitude Best Stolen idea James Clear - Automic Habits - Resetting the Room - Whenever you leave a room, take 2 minutes to put things back in order. Favorite books/quote: Inside out Coaching by Joe Ehrmann Lead for God's Sake by Todd Gongwer Mindset by Carol Dweck Anything by Jon Gordon Ego is the Enemy and The Obstacle is the Way by Ryan Holiday Parting Advice See the big picture. Focus on the process of development and the pursuit of excellence. Trust the process. Building skills takes time. Stop comparing. Focus on development. Enjoy the journey. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Sean Afkhaminia is the CEO and technical director at Footy Factory. The mission of Footy Factory: To cultivate players'​ athletic performance by promoting physical, technical, and personal growth. Not only will we aim to sharpen their natural abilities, but we will also teach them the values of integrity, conviction, and self-belief. We aspire to form an institution that consistently takes in raw, unpolished talent and systematically develops and generates elite, well-rounded players. Website: footyfactory.us Twitter: @footyfactorydal Facebook: /footyfactorydallas Instagram: /footyfactory Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - New Sponsor! Want to save time running your sports team without paying a penny? Overwhelmed by constant texts, calls and emails?  Check out the Heja app, which helps coaches all over the world more easily manage youth sports teams - 100% free of charge! Click the link to download the app and get your team better organized for free now! app.goheja.com/pod Show Notes - WYC 160 – Sean Afkhaminia Long term development vs Immediate Results Technical - It's all about getting comfortable with the ball Tactical - Small-sided games Physical - As they get older and their bodies develop this becomes more important How do you enjoy technical training? Have them problem solve in competitive situations Start with small-sided games. Futsol in soccer. Very fast-paced, very small areas, tons of quality touches on the ball. Use standard P.E. drills and modify them to your sport. Example: ball tag - one player has a ball in his hand and the rest are dribbling balls at their feet, the player tries to tag the other players' ball Mental toughness Training needs to be hard and they need to learn to overcome adversity Encourage a culture where failure is part of the process to help remove fear of failure Connecting with and impacting kids Sean has a passion for kids who don't have the economic means to afford high-priced training. So he helps kids get the training even if they cannot pay for it. Best Stolen/Borrowed Idea Coaching is all about relationships and earning the kids' trust Favorite books/quote: Pep Confidential by Pep Guardiola Parting Advice Good is never good enough Be organized - have a structured practice design for the entire season -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Adam Walker is the coach of a U14 boys fastball(baseball) team in Ontario Canada. His note to WYC: 'I have been coaching for years in hockey and fastball, I have had good results but not great. I also had decent relationships with my athletes but again not great. Last winter I found your podcast and after listening to a lot of episodes especially those around creating a winning culture I made some changes to the way I coach. In the past I was never overly negative but I didn't focus on being positive. I spent time talking to my athletes but I didn't make it a point to really know them. After making these changes last season not only did I see a huge change in the passion these young athletes have for the game, we were also closer as a team, I developed great relationships with my athletes, and in the end we won our provincial championship and then went on to win a National Championship. These young athletes had such a passion for the game and it resulted in them working harder every time we were at the diamonds. In the end their skills and self confidence grew and the result was a National Championship and memories these kids will never forget.' Website: simcoebraves.teampages.com Link Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - New Sponsor! Want to save time running your sports team without paying a penny? Overwhelmed by constant texts, calls and emails?  Check out the Heja app, which helps coaches all over the world more easily manage youth sports teams - 100% free of charge! Click the link to download the app and get your team better organized for free now! app.goheja.com/pod Show Notes - WYC 159 – Adam Walker Cringe Moments Putting way too much emphasis on winning championships at the youth level. 'It was more what I wanted not what the kids wanted.' Long Term Athlete Development How do you prepare athletes long-term to succeed? Failure is part of the process - have them fail early, but make sure it is in a safe environment. Changing culture Post-game talks - Coach doesn't need to rehash all the things they did wrong. Have the players share with each other what they did well. 'Your athletes can either show up to every game afraid to make a mistake or excited to play the game. Both options are up to the coaches." Put pressure on the other team by making them make a perfect play, then live with the results. You have to be both: Positive & Demanding. They had a plan: Year 1 - Develop _____ skills Year 2 - Enhance _____ skills Year 3 - Put these together and compete to win championships Game goals Process based. Not 'go 3 for 3', but rather 'hit 2 balls hard' Best Stolen/Borrowed Idea 3 team game - 1 in infield, 1 in outfield, 1 hitting. They do it every practice. Favorite books/quote: Video - Jim Valvano's Cutting Down the Nets 'How do you motivate 23 year-olds? - I can't. I can motivate 1 person- myself' Parting Advice Focus on the long-term. Not the individual game wins. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Shannon Evans is the Founder of The Scholar Coach Academy. Shannon was an active lacrosse coach and is now incredibly passionate about spreading the word about the Truth of getting athletic scholarships, importance of teaching Leadership prior to college and HS and celebrating failure! Website: thescholarcoach.com Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/pshannonevans/   Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - New Sponsor! Want to save time running your sports team without paying a penny? Overwhelmed by constant texts, calls and emails?  Check out the Heja app, which helps coaches all over the world more easily manage youth sports teams - 100% free of charge! Click the link to download the app and get your team better organized for free now! app.goheja.com/pod Show Notes - WYC 158 – Shannon Evans Each One Teach One The experienced players get to teach the less experienced. So the coach shows the experienced player what they want to teach, then the experienced player teaches that skill to the less experienced. Great way to teach your leaders how to lead. Great small area game Chumash - 3 on 3 - can score on either side of the goal. Similar to 3 on 3 basketball, you have to take it 'back' when possession switches. Pop goes the weasel/Fox in the box 5 defenders in front of goal, 5 offensive players. Defenders have to stay in the box, offensive players cannot go in box. Then a defender 'pops' out of box and covers the ball, then when that players passes it the defender goes back into box and the next defender pops out. Teaches offense to not run into traffic and move the ball. Nonverbal communication Creating some really simple hand signals is much more effective than trying to yell across a field College recruiting - Showcases Elite camps - the key is the student needs to have a relationship with the coaches before the camp. College recruiting - Know what D1 demands are D1 - Train and practice year-round - Full time job year-round and you go to school D2 - Full time job in-season, mostly a full-time job out of season D3 - Full time job in-season, off-season the expectations are much lower Best way for a high school coach to prepare an athlete for college Freshmen/sophomore year - Look for camps where coaches from a school you want to go to will be. Make sure the school you are interested in has the major you want to study. The athlete should email coaches (make sure you understand the specific NCAA guidelines for your sport). Never should come from the parent. Coaches don't want to hear from parents. Remember MOST college athletic scholarships are not for full rides. Many only cover 1/4 to 1/3 of cost. Grades/test score/rigor of your schedule - are the most important things a high school athlete should focus on. The one that got away Being a female coach in a boys' sport - Shannon got called horrible names. She taught her players the best way to beat a bully is to outscore and outplay them. Favorite books/quote: 'You can march to the beat of a different drum but you have to stay in the parade' Parting Advice For each practice - have a clear measurable obective. Tell the players what it is at the beginning of practice, then review it at the end and ask for input on how well you accomplished it. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Pete Caliendo has lead clinics for Major League Baseball International, USA Baseball and many other baseball organizations in various Latin American and European countries, and throughout the United States. Pete has lectured on baseball all over the United States, Canada, Europe and Latin America, has written articles for various publications and an international coaches book. Has a set of 5 baseball instructional DVD's developed specifically for the volunteer coach to help them organize, teach and have fun throughout their practice and games. Websites: caliendosportsinternational.com; baseballmadeeasy.net, baseballoutsidethebox.com, isgbaseball.com Twitter: @BetterBaseball Facebook: /peter.caliendo.779 Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - New Sponsor! Want to save time running your sports team without paying a penny? Overwhelmed by constant texts, calls and emails?  Check out the Heja app, which helps coaches all over the world more easily manage youth sports teams - 100% free of charge! Click the link to download the app and get your team better organized for free now! app.goheja.com/pod Show Notes - WYC 157 – Peter Caliendo Cringe Moments Trying to repeat a process over and over again - each individual is unique and sometimes you're best to just work with what works for each individual. Keep an open mind when working with athletes. Teaching skills Don't just practice 'normal' situations - practice reacting after a mistake is made (a groundball is dropped, then react to how recover) Achieving Peak performance mentally Kids need to fail, earlier better than later. Ask them 'what did you learn?' Let the kids make decisions, let them learn, don't use them as robots. Team Culture It starts with respect for the game. Respect your equipment, your opponents, the umpires. Clean your dugouts. Character - are you happy when your teammates do well? How do you treat your teammates, the coaches, ets. Captains/Leaders They are servants and need to model behaviors Discipline It's all about communication - if a player isn't hustling, ask them 'are you tired?' If they say no, tell them it looks like they're tired because they're not running hard. Maybe tell them you're going to sit them out of the next few plays because they look tired, and they need to come tell you when they are ready to run hard again. Practice hustle. It's a habit, not inborn. For warm-ups in practice, have them run to their position on the field. Then blow a whistle and have them run back to you. (hidden conditioning) Connecting with and impacting kids It's cool when players you coach start implementing things you taught them The one that got away Tell kids what to do, not what not to do. Best borrowed/stolen idea Don't just copycat other coaches' ideas. Learn, but make it your own. Favorite books: Ken Ravizza - Heads-Up Baseball 2.0: 5 Skills for Competing One Pitch at a Time The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business by Charles Duhigg Podcast - Krush Performance by Jeff Krushell Podcast - ABCA Parting Advice Create the most fun you can in practice. Make it unique and not too repetitive/boring. Make it competitive. Come with enthusiasm. Talk to each kid during each practice. Talk less, ask more questions. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Dave's bio: My direct sports coaching experience range from 2-10th grade for the past 10-yrs, but I also intersect with the varsity players while I'm working w JV (girls lacrosse). But my day job (consulting Engineer) is what led me to learning to coach adults on the job, and see how similar the process is between 8-18 yr olds and 22-62 yr olds...different nuances, but it all comes from the same place: connections, compassion and creating community. And it doesn't have to be all rainbows and unicorns; but it certainly takes a lot more than “managing” and “instructing” with a firm attitude. My big interest is seeing how critical youth/HS sports are in helping the next generation grow into the best people they can be. And I tell stories about my time as an athlete, mentors I've found after college, my family history (Dad created a company/vocation with a HS diploma and a work ethic futures through sports), and the young people I “serve” as their “Chief” Engineer. And I now use these stories to help PARENTS see how to have less worry and find more joy in their kids' sports/school. website: www.complete3.net Podcast: Making the Play Twitter: @complete3org1 Facebook: /complete3 Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - New Sponsor! Want to save time running your sports team without paying a penny? Overwhelmed by constant texts, calls and emails?  Check out the Heja app, which helps coaches all over the world more easily manage youth sports teams - 100% free of charge! Click the link to download the app and get your team better organized for free now! app.goheja.com/pod Show Notes - WYC 156 – Dave Briglio Coaching your own kids In an ideal world you can have non-parent coaches, but often there aren't enough coaches so you have to step up to help the program The key is to be open and honest and communicate with your own kid and the other kids about being a parent coach Teaching skills Guided Discovery - It is more effective to let the kids figure it out on their own vs you just telling the kids how to do it Start with a basic drill, and as they develop expertise in that skill, you add a twist to the drill to add complexity Letting the players own the game The players can't hear you - so barking orders during the game is very inneffective and frustrating Send in instructions with the next group/line. Coach them vs. yelling at the players on the field. Achieving Peak performance mentally Praise the effort over achievement Fear is a very short-term motivation. A feeling of security and that someone believes in you is best way to increase kids' confidence. Figure out what you want to celebrate - and do it a bunch, in practice and in games. Real-time (otherwise it feels like false praise if you do it later.) Some of the best praise is when you are doing it 'behind their back' - when you are praising someone who is not there at the time. Self Esteem vs Self Confidence Confidence is what you visibly display. But esteem is what you truly believe about yourself. Favorite books: The Leadership Servitude The Way of the Champion by Dr. Jerry Lynch The Coaching Habit by Michael Bungay Stangier Parting Advice Play with them - Jump in and practice with them -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Brad Butterworth is the Director of Education and programs for Shoot360. Brad has been in basketball development for 18 years as a head high school and collegiate coach. As a high school coach, he was able to help guide Dana Hills to its best records in school history. He's worked with Florida State University, Western Washington University, Air Force Academy and Colorado College. Coach Butterworth's success at the high school level was due to the work he put into the youth of his program in order to create a more competitive community and repeat success. He took that philosophy and helped create scale-able basketball development programs using sports technology. Website: shoot360.com Facebook: /Shoot360 Instagram: @shoot360 Twitter: @shoot3sixty Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - New Sponsor! Want to save time running your sports team without paying a penny? Overwhelmed by constant texts, calls and emails?  Check out the Heja app, which helps coaches all over the world more easily manage youth sports teams - 100% free of charge! Click the link to download the app and get your team better organized for free now! app.goheja.com/pod Show Notes - WYC 155 – The War for Four – Brad Butterworth talks Intentionality in Everything You Do Cringe Moments (Brad calls 'Turnovers') Brad went into his early coaching experiences without understanding how he needs to sell his program to the players and parents and community. Selling their vision. Communication Always taken place, whether you say it or not Find shared values with parents Four Keys 1 - Spacing 2 - Timing 3 - Communication 4 - Dramatics (or engagement) - Am I sold out to this? Mastery 4 stages: 1 - Don't know what they don't know 2 - Know what they don't know 3 - Know what they know 4 - Doesn't even know that he knows (unconsciously competent.) Only way to get here is practice. The War for Four (rule of the doubles) Out-offensive rebound your opponent by factor of 2 Shot attempts in the paint 2x amount of opponent Deflections 2x amount of opponent Free-throw attempts 2x amount of opponent Shoot 360 Advanced basketball facility Teach individuals, teams with advanced skill development Get 350+ shots in 1/2 hour. Exact statistics are kept for every shot, allowing for instant corrections Facilities on west coast, Indianapolis, and growing all the time Website: shoot360.com Parting Advice Don't worry about winning. Kids need to enjoy the game. Legends on the Lake Coaching Academy September 22, 2018 in Georgia Registration Link: Legends Basketball Clinic -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Riley's bio: I am a former All-American pitcher at UW-Whitewater. I am now a Mental Conditioning Coach (Master's Degree in Sport Psychology), Author, and Speaker. I own a mentorship program called Coachability, where I have had the great fortune of coaching and mentoring athletes at every level. My book, "Pitching Against Myself," is about my baseball career and all of the life lessons I learned throughout it, and how they apply to life after sports. It also shares an important message that I wish I would have been able to hear back when I was playing before the identity crisis, depression, and suicide; a message that says “you are more than an athlete.” Pitching Against Myself book: Use discount code 'WYC20' at rileytincher.com to save 20% off book Website: RileyTincher.com Facebook: /RileyBTincher Instagram: @RileyTincher Twitter: @RileyTincher Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - New Sponsor! Want to save time running your sports team without paying a penny? Overwhelmed by constant texts, calls and emails?  Check out the Heja app, which helps coaches all over the world more easily manage youth sports teams - 100% free of charge! Click the link to download the app and get your team better organized for free now! app.goheja.com/pod Show Notes - WYC 154 – The Struggle of Self-Confidence – Riley Tincher Lessons from being told "You Should Quit" Riley's first baseball coach at age 14, after the season told Riley 'You Should Quit'. This created a huge chip on his shoulder to prove him wrong. But it created an unhealthy need in Riley to prove himself to others. 'There is purpose in your pain' - Riley's struggle with depression and suicide was turned around when a mentor taught him that the purpose in his pain was to help others. I AM MORE THAN AN ATHLETE - The drop caps that start each chapter of Riley's book spell this phrase, without him planning this. Performing in pressure situations A big key is understanding we are not alone Practicing pressure situations is also key Confidence comes from: Affirmation - Your words (as a coach) are critical. Remind athletes that they are great where they are. And they can get better. And most importantly, they are worthy enough to get better. A great activity is for athletes to write down affirmation statements about themselves, and then have them share them with their teammates - challenge them if they don't see to believe them: 'Speak up, say it like you mean it' You're the kind of person who _________ (is willing to take the big shot; will learn from any failures or mistakes you've had/made) Achievement. Struggle is part of it. The greater the struggle, the greater the reward. Culture The worst: the coach said 'I am your master and you have to listen to me'. They had 'rules' - but the best athletes didn't have to keep them. The best - Didn't have rules, had standards. The players created them. Best advice from a mentor If you don't change what you believe about yourself, nothing will change Parting Advice Stop focusing on the scoreboard and start focusing on your legacy -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Leonard Zaichkowsky, PhD, a professor, researcher and consultant for almost four decades at Boston University, pioneered sport psychology by bringing cognitive neuroscience and sport performance together as an interdisciplinary science. His academic textbooks and research publications demonstrated the importance of an athlete's remarkable brain in anticipating and acting on opportunities during competition. He has consulted with teams in the NBA, NHL, NFL, MLB, Australian Rules Football, the Spanish men's national soccer team, and Olympic sport organizations around the world. Len is a former president and a fellow of the Association for Applied Sport Psychology, a member of the editorial board of the Journal of Applied Sport Psychology, and currently section editor on psychology for the International Journal of Health & Sport Science. Recently, the American Psychological Association honored Len with the “Distinguished Service to the Profession” award. Today, Len is a co-founder and senior consultant at 80 Percent Mental Consulting, advising coaches, teams and sports organizations on developing athlete cognition. After too many Boston winters, he and his wife now live in Fort Myers, Florida. Buy The Playmakers Advantage on Amazon: Link   Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Teaching Skills Ask questions - get the kids to think instead of giving them all the answers Good book for this: How to Help Children Find the Champion within themselves Keep instructions to a minimum and brief. Let them figure it out. Performing in pressure situations Simulate pressure situations often in practice Small area games where all the kids get more touches in tight areas under pressure Encourage the better players to be your leaders and encourage the lesser talented players Developing athletes Kids need to be active physically (around the neighborhood, in the backyard) before diving into high-level competitive athletics The best athletes are typically self-developed, not grown by private lessons at an early age What makes a Playmaker? Deliberate practice - It takes a motivated athlete who constantly is thinking about, playing the sport Overspeed training - Go so fast that you fall down physically. For mental overspeed training - there is a neurotracker. Good website: gamesensesports.com The one that got away Len kicked a bag of oranges after a bad call and they went all over the court Best stolen/borrowed idea Tight area games Overspeed training The Playmakers Advantage The brain and understanding the thinking process is so important to all areas of life Buy The Playmakers Advantage on Amazon: Link -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Scott Hearon is a native Nashvillian and a 2006  graduate of Montgomery Bell Academy where he played football and basketball for the Big Red. A remarkably average athlete, Scott did not make a big impact in the high school stat columns, but he found his niche as a gifted leader and communicator among his teammates and coaches. Scott continued on to Baylor University and earned a degree in Communications and a minor in Business. While at Baylor, he met new football coach, Art Briles, during football tryouts when Coach Briles informed him that his 5.0 second 40 yard dash time was not quite good enough to be a slot receiver for the Bears. After returning from Texas, Scott took a ministry job working with high school students and their families and coaching in his spare time. He found a lot of success in his day job, but found his coaching to be a disaster. Reminded of the incredible potential athletics has to prepare players for life, Scott set out on a mission to be be a more full hearted leader himself and to develop opportunities to help other coaches do the same. This journey led Scott to co-found the Nashville Coaching Coalition in 2015 and begin as the Executive Director full-time in 2016 with the goal of fully leveraging the human growth potential of sport in Nashville. Website: nashvillecoachingcoalition.com thecoachforum.com twitter: @thecoachforum @NashCoach_Coal Previous episode with Scott: WYC Episode 106   Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - The good and bad of sports coaches Many kids validate themselves based on what coaches say to them and how they treat them The lost dream of being an all-state player When Scott realized he wasn't going to be an all-state player, he could feel the disappointment from his father. He and his father realized this wasn't healthy, so they ended up reaching out to Joe Erhmann to learn what being a man is really all about. The 8 Feelings Dr. Chip Dodd has researched emotional intelligence - and come up with 8 core emotions that every human has. We have the ability to choose a positive or a negative response to each emotion. The 8 core emotions are: 1 - Hurt 2 - Lonely 3 - Sad 4 - Anger 5 - Fear 6 - Shame 7 - Guilt 8 - Glad Why do you coach? To win a championship? or To build strong children? Difference in goal vs purpose: Purpose is about the big picture (to love kids) Goal is the short-term focus of the team (to win a championship) Meetings with parents Always have the players present Always start every conversation with your purpose statement Over-communicate your vision The Coach Forum Awesome coaching speakers in a Ted-x style format Website: nashvillecoachingcoalition.com or thecoachforum.com Use Promo code 'WYC' to save $20 - So you get everything for $79! -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

James is the Founder of Unleash the Athlete and former Head of Leadership and Character Development at IMG Academy. He helps college, professional athletes, and business professionals develop the mental and relational side of their craft through interactive lectures and teambuilding activities. James is also the director of performance for Complexity, the esports organization owned by the Dallas Cowboys. Website: utathlete.com or jamesleath.com Instagram: jamesleath twitter: @jamesleath Previous episodes with James: WYC Episode 31 WYC Episode 50 WYC Episode 61 WYC Episode 100   Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Don't sell yourself short James was going to apply for an internship at IMG, his mentor told him to go for the full-time job Do you ever sell yourself short, thinking you're unqualified? I've arrived - the destination of a championship 'I wished I would've enjoyed the journey more' 'Who am I now? I've always been the person going after this' The Circle of Intentional Influence Influence -> Relationship Relationship -> Trust Trust -> Authenticity Authenticity -> Ownership Ownership -> Credibility Credibility -> Influence How to Communicate Effectively Take your sunglasses off Take a knee Take note of what's behind you (the sun, the cheerleaders) Take 2 minutes or less Unleash the Athlete Online curriculums for coaches Mental toughness, teambuilding activities, and much more Website: utathlete.com or jamesleath.com -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Donny Murray is currently a professional pitcher in the independent Frontier League. Donny is from Boston, was a 4 year starter at D1 Holy Cross, and also pitched 2 summers in the Cape Cod Baseball League for the Falmouth Commodores. In 2016, Donny pitched the first no-hitter in USPBL (professional independent league) history. He also works with SuperSpeed Slugger, which is a bat speed training product being used by MLB teams and youth players of all ages. The WYC listeners can get 10% off SuperSpeed Slugger by using promo code “WYC”. SuperSpeedSlugger.com instagram.com/superspeedslugger/ twitter.com/speedslugger/   Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Making Cuts Always try to look at potential, and a huge factor is attitude and if they are coachable Adjusting when losing talent Be pre-emptive with your culture to get your players/coaches focused on the right things if the winning is going to drop off It's even more important to develop your leaders when winning is going to be tough. A leadership council of 2 kids per grade can help prepare your younger leaders for when they are future captains. 2 types of captain: 1 - Vocal leader 2 - The hard-worker who just gets it done Using video Using video analysis is a great tool for a player and/or a coach Teaching Skills Take the time to evaluate a player before you start giving advice. Don't watch them for 1 rep and start changing things. Then start with the fundamentals and get their foundation right. Individualize your feedback! The One that Got Away Donny's last collegiate game - he just wasn't 'on.' It made him work that much harder to make sure it didn't happen again. Best Stolen/Borrowed Idea Make every practice drill a competition SuperSpeed Slugger Overspeed training - a set of 3 bats. 1 is 20% lighter, 1 is 10% lighter, and 1 is 5% heavier Swing with both sides of the body (not just dominant hand). Great for injury prevention Teaches the body to swing faster. Within 6 weeks it's engrained in the body. Only takes 7-8 minutes per day, 3 days per week SuperSpeedSlugger.com The WYC listeners can get 10% off SuperSpeed Slugger by using promo code “WYC”. Parting Advice Players and parents notice how much effort you put it to your coaching, and they will play harder for you if they think you are putting in the effort -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Amanda and Vickie practice Special Education law in Southern California. They also run a non-profit called Inclusive Education Project where they aim to level the playing field in academic settings for students living with disabilities. They co-host their own weekly podcast by the same name - the Inclusive Education Project Podcast and they feature conversations on how parents and teachers can best ensure an inclusive school environment. Website: http:www.iepcalifornia.org Podcast: Inclusive Education Project Podcast:  www.iepcalifornia.org/blog Facebook: /IEPcalifornia Twitter: @IEPcalifornia   Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - A different approach Kids learn differently - kids with special needs might need things slowed down, show visually, or some other approach Utilize the parents - they have lots of techniques that work well with their child Peer role models and buddy systems work great, and benefit not only the kid with special needs but equally (if not more) it benefits the peer role model Positive reinforcement is much more effective than negative reinforcement. Catch them doing something right Breaking down skills into small pieces The steps: Hearing what you're being asked to do, then seeing what you need to do, then physically doing it. Sometimes actually taking their arm or leg and doing the motion for them. Handling emotions with kids with special needs Address it, don't hide from it. Handle it the same as you would with any kid who gets upset - address it, teach them what is acceptable. Then re-focus them. The parents are a great resource to get ideas Reach out to the school to get more inclusive P.E. teachers, school administrators could recommend a few kids that could be good candidates to join your team Favorite Quotes Quote: 'Clear eyes, full hearts, can't lose' - Friday Night Lights Quote: 'All of us do not have equal talents. But all of us should have an equal opportunity to develop our talents.' - JFK -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

2018 will mark John Adair's fourth year at Coerver Coaching. Adair is the Regional Director for all of New Jersey and Pennsylvania, overseeing player development and coaching education. Prior to joining the Coerver Coaching staff, he has enjoyed success at both the club and high school levels in the South Jersey area. Instagram: coachjohnadair Twitter: @coachjohnadair   Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Cringe moment Early on John did a lot of cone drills and isolated movements without decision-making and learning the game through their own mistakes Creativity and problem-solving Instead of cones, set up small area games in confined spaces. 2 v 1's. 3 v 2's. Training better individuals vs just winning as a team Instead of 11 v 11, break the game into corridors and small area games Use this mentality to create mini-goals so each unit has accountability and measurements to look at after games, not just wins/losses as a team Constraints based coaching Create games where players have a variety of choices, they learn skills while making decisions Self-confidence for players Focus on the process - so it's different for each player. Don't compare them with other kids. Use guided discovery through side conversations with players for them to uncover solutions to what they need to improve. Team Culture Involve the kids to get buy-in. Have the kids write down what they thing a good player on this team will do. Great teambuilder Have play days. The kids run the day, play mini-tournaments. Kids make all the decisions. 5 for 5 Spend at least 5 minutes talking to 5 different kids about something other than sports Connecting with and Impacting Kids John coached a kid who had the physical tools but not the technical and mental tools needed. The kid approached John and worked his butt off over the summer and went on to play college soccer. The one that got away Coaching a state playoff game, they played the underdog role too much, changed their tactics too much, and went away from what got them there. This led to a lack of confidence. Best learned/stolen idea Constraints based coaching. Make everything in practice relate back to the game and involve decision-making. Don't be reactive in practice-planning - set objectives and have a plan that you stick to. Great resource: Youtube channel: Opposite Direction Coaching - Task constraints; Environmental constraints Favorite Quote/Book Quote: 'If you're the smartest person in the room, you're in the wrong room' Book: Leading by Sir Alex Ferguson Parting Advice Value the experience over winning, and the results will follow -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Tywanna Smith, President & Founder of The Athlete's NeXus, has several years of experience working with professional athletes in a financial and business capacity. Smith earned her Bachelor of Business Administration (B.B.A.) in Marketing and her Master of Business Administration (M.B.A.) from The University of Mississippi (Ole Miss). She was also a four-year starter for the SEC program's women's basketball team, eventually taking her talents to Europe for a 2-year professional career. As a Registered Financial Representative, Entrepreneur, and Best-Selling Author of Surviving the Lights: A Professional Athlete's Playbook to Avoiding the Curse, Tywanna takes pride in her business professionalism and integrity. She is committed to helping each professional athlete become a better citizen, a better role model, and a better businessman. Website: theathletesnexus.com Book: Surviving the Lights Facebook: /TheAthletesNeXus   Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Transition Athletes are always preparing for the next transition, on and off the field Tywanna tore her ACL her junior year of high school - she used this as fuel when people starting to write her off. The importance of education Even if a student athlete's priority is to play college athletics, their grades will be extremely important in determining what opportunities they will be afforded Off the field keys Grades Social media - future coaches, employers - will look over your entire history of social media posts Mental toughness It comes from the top down. The coach's energy and confidence in the players is very contagious. Tough practices teach athletes how to deal with adversity, and they want competition Visualization - Have the athletes close their eyes and visualize favorable results Surviving the Lights Preparing for all the different areas of life beyond sports Book link Coaching system: survivingthelights.com/ Connecting with and Impacting Kids An athlete trying to play professionally was struggling to make in into the pros. Tywanna worked with him to re-center - and reaffirm him what his gifts were and that he had great talents off the sports field The one that got away The day Tywanna tore her ACL her junior year, and her team was poised to win the state championship But she says it was the best day in her life because it gave her the perspective on life that there's more to life than sports Best learned/stolen idea The balance between sports and life. Tywanna's college coach, when she walked out of practice was done with sports and focused on life off the court Favorite quote 'If you stay ready, you never have to get ready' Parting Advice Take the edge off a little bit, it's just a game. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Ben Kissam is a youth sports coach and writer in Denver, CO. Ben's areas of expertise are in relationship-based coaching and teaching, effective communication, and fusing lessons in sport and entrepreneurship. Website & podcast: thecoachkshow.com Facebook: /thecoachkshow/ Twitter: @thecoachkshow Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Coaching role models Ben had 2 examples from his athletic career - 1 very positive and 1 very negative. He learned from both Cringe moment His attitude towards the kids - he thought they should just always do what he says. The lesson learned was to focus on getting buy-in instead of just mandating what should be done. Practice format Routines help. Teach them to run their own warm-ups. Lots of reps, but get creative in making it competitive. It's also very important to start with the basics when explaining a skill and continue to reinforce what good looks like. Good practice games The gauntlet - Set up a 10 yard tunnel, and kids go 1 on 1 in it Odd man situations - 3 on 2 Self-confidence Teaching a growth mindset is key. Every failure is a step on the journey to success and it is a necessary part of learning. Be a relationships-based coach. Focus on having as many 1 on 1 conversations with your kids as possible. Captains It's important to have a right-hand man. They can also help with communication - group texts, etc. Four Quarter mentality culture Setting up a practice plan that builds up the intensity throughout and emphasize finishing strong Best team builder Eating together. Pasta nights. Connecting with kids A goalie who Ben coached lacked confidence, and after working with him for 3 years he sees a totally different kid who now is confident Favorite quote 'Athletes don't care how much you know until they know how much you care' The one that got away Ben coached a team of super talented, super knowledgeable kids. They rolled through the regular season, and played a way lower ranked team in the first round of the playoffs, and lost. Best Stolen Idea Have a sense of urgency in practice. Create a long-term vision but create a sense of immediate urgency of the importance of every drill and everything you do in practice. Favorite book How to win friends and influence people - by Dale Carnegie Parting Advice Know one thing about each of your kids that has nothing to do with the sport, and check in with them about it. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave

Carter Armendarez is a senior at Wesleyan University, where he's also captain of the wrestling team. Getting recruited to play sports in college is confusing to lots of athletes, but it really shouldn't be. Carter has seen too many athletes fail to get recruited. So he made Acute Recruit's College Recruitment Guide for Athletes so that doesn't happen anymore. Website: acuterecruit.com Facebook: /Acute-Recruit-369368080173002/ Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - The best coaches... Believed in me Had me focus on becoming an expert in one skill vs trying to be OK at everything Getting Recruited to college The most overlooked area is grades Start early Coaches want to hear from the athlete, not their parents Start a website to have as a landing page to share with coaches. Include: A page with highlight films An 'about me' with your accomplishments and bio A contact page with your contact details and your coach's contact details A big opportunity A lot of D3 schools have trouble recruiting quality athletes because their academic standards are too high. This is a great opportunity for athletes who may not have been the highest level elite athlete in high school. Contacting Coaches Meet them in person at tournaments Research schools you want to pursue and look up the coaches online The one that got away Carter lost by one point his senior year on the match to qualify for state What he learned: He learned to play to his strengths Best Stolen Idea Quote from Tim Ferris when he asked an professional skier what the most important turns are on the run: 'The most important turns are the 3 years I spent preparing before the run.' Parting Advice Focus on the basics Keep it fun! -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave

Michael Richards is the Owner and Operator of Elite Athletic Performance in Benton, Arkansas. After missing out on an opportunity to play collegiate baseball due to what he describes as  "Youthful ignorance and a slightly bad attitude", Michael began playing semi-pro baseball and attending his sophomore year of college. Shortly thereafter he began training fitness clients and young athletes as a sole proprietor. What started as a fun way to “Not get a real job” and make extra money in college, has turned into 16 years and approximately 30,000 hours of “in the trenches” training experience. Today he strives every day to help kids be the best athlete and person they can be. A particular love for Velocity and Accuracy training for baseball and softball pitchers has led to a number of 90+ MPH clients, professional and collegiate coaching contacts, and a burning desire to learn new information whenever possible. Website: eaperformancellc.com Book : Your Student Athlete: Should Do, Must Do, and Don't: The "Owner's Manual" for parents to maximize their kid's time, help them perform better, and avoid injury Facebook: /eliteathleticperformancellc/ Twitter: @EAPerform Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Grades and attitude as a high schooler Michael had the athletic ability to play baseball beyond high school, but his attitude and his grades prevented him from that opportunity Myths around youth sports 1 - Pitchers running day after pitching to flush the lactic acid buildup. J-bands (Jaeger bands) or massaging the muscles makes way more sense. 2 - Everyone needs to be hyper-flexible. Some people just aren't very flexible, and while some stretching can add a bit of flexibility, there are other things such as massage rollers and dynamic stretches that are much more beneficial. Multi-sport athletes  If kids love multiple sports, they should play them. But the belief that you must be a multi-sport athlete to be recruited to college is not always true. Especially in your junior and senior years -  Don't play a 2nd sport just to do it if you don't love it. Travel ball and showcases Don't fall into the trap of thinking the most efficient use of time is travel teams and showcases. Private lessons are often a much more time and cost efficient. And the lessons don't need to be year-round. Favorite books/quotes Book - Start with why by Simon Sinek Quote - 'If I had asked my customers what they needed they would have told me a faster horse.' - Henry Ford Parting Advice Keep it simple and make sure they're having fun -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave

Kathy Feinstein is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Certified Sport Performance Consultant (CMPC). Since 1998 her unique practice has empowered adolescents, adults, couples, families and teams to achieve greater satisfaction in sport, health and life. Kathy's practice focuses on the 3 key areas: counseling, sport performance psychology and education through seminars and workshops. Kathy works with youth, high school, collegiate, adult amateur and professional athletes in such sports as golf, tennis, hockey, volleyball, basketball, figure skating, cheerleading, track and field, swimming and cycling. In addition to sport and exercise psychology consulting, she also offers team and coach consulting. Website: kafcounselingandsportperformance.com Podcast: Parenting Peak Performers Podcast Facebook: /kafcounselingandconsulting/ Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Being a crazy sports parent Kathy got really excited about her daughter riding horses, but she lost sight of doing what's best for her daughter Performance Anxiety The first step is to normalize the need - kids need to know that performance anxiety is very normal The importance of breathing Anxiety is all about the future. What if... Breathing is all about the present. If you can do this 20 minutes per day, it changes your mindset When you inhale, there will be a cool sensation at the tip of your nostrils. When you exhale, there is a warm sensation at the tip of your nostrils. When you do this, you will start having some thoughts. Without any judgement, bring your focus back to the breath. Do this over and over again. Do this for 5 minutes with your team, your coaches, your players, etc. Recovery routines Having a discharge routine - if you are upset about something, have a quick discharge routine to flush away the past. Then have a different re-focus routine that gets you back in the moment and focused on the future. Growth Mindset Encourage kids to take risks, risk making mistakes. Mistakes are an opportunity to get better. Confidence inventory Have kids make a list of all of their accomplishments. Then have them read it before a performance. Post-competition routine After routines, write down what you did well, then add 1 or 2 things you want to do better next time Visualization You have to train how to visualize: Have the athlete do a simple activity (touch your toes and and jump in the air.) Then have them close their eyes and visualize doing that same activity. The more vivid the visualization is, the more effective it is. Try to involve as many senses as possible Visualization exercise:  Imagery Exercise - KAF The one that got away Kathy had a presentation that went bad and she got stuck. She learned a new way to prepare for presentations, where she focuses on the audience and their needs. Best borrowed/stolen idea The post-performance routine Well-better-next Favorite Quotes/books Quote: 'What is before us and what is behind us are small matters compared to what's within us' - Emerson Book: The Champions Mind by Jim Afremow Book: Getting Grit by Caroline Adams Miller Parting Advice Ask kids about what mistakes they made today - and be excited about them and celebrate them -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSaveSaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave

Steve and his wife Kerry started their first camp in 2008, and only 4 summers later, the camp was declared “Best Summer Camp” in Hartford Magazine's Readers Poll and their programs have received tremendous positive coverage from area media outlets. Now over 1000 kids have come to recognize that “Life's 2 Short 4 Just 1 Sport” and kids from throughout the U.S. and beyond are attending their programs. Website: 241Sports.com Facebook: /241SportsLLC Twitter: @241Sports Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Walking-on to his college basketball team Steve was probably the 4th best player on his high school basketball team. He approached his coach and said he thought he could play D1 basketball. His coach did everything but laugh at him. That fueled him to go on and start for his D1 team in college He now takes pride in living life as a 'walk-on.' Trying things he has no experience with and taking risks. Lesson for coaches: Be careful about ever telling a kid 'this just isn't your sport'- you never know when someone will be a late-bloomer or just outwork the others. Physical Literacy and Project Play Physical Literacy - The ability, the confidence, and the desire to be physically active for life The Quality Coaching Collective - QCoachingCollective.com Livewellpower.com 2-4-1 Sports Camps that promote sport sampling Now in Connecticut, Denver, and 2 more locations coming soon Recent great books read Deep Work by Cal Newport Good to Great by Jim Collins Born a crime  by Trevor Noah Parting Advice Be as genuine and honest as you can with your athletes. Value being trusted over being liked. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave

Jenn Casey is the Program Director for CrossFit Kids and Swing Fit (a Kettlebell Sport class) at CrossFit Kennesaw in Marietta, Georgia. She is the President and Co-Founder of Georgia Kettlebell Sport, which has the mission to develop and promote Kettlebell Sport in the state of Georgia and the greater Southeast Region of the US. She is developing a youth-focused Kettlebell Sport program and is taking her youth team on their first road trip in December 2017. Jenn is an active Kettlebell Sport athlete and in 2017 was chosen to participate in the IUKL World Championship in Seoul, South Korea as part of Team USA where she placed 4th in 16kg One Arm Long Cycle. Facebook: /CrossFitKennesaw/ ; /gakettlebellsport/ Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Quitting at age 13, because it wasn't fun anymore Jenn was on the team track in gymnastics, but by age 12 or 13 she quit because it wasn't fun anymore. Then she didn't do much of any athletic activity for 2 decades. At age 39 she jumped into Crossfit Kettlebell Look like a cannonball with a handle You can use them for hip-hinge movements, but they also can be great for cardio The competitive side of the sport involves Kettlebell overhead lifts The competitive side involves how many overhead lifts you can do in 10 minutes Keeping the fun in movement Give kids lots of opportunities for success and catch them doing things right Ask lots of question - 'where do I put my feet in a squat?', etc. Definitely praise when they self-correct Rep / No-rep - Coach does a rep, some correctly and some incorrectly, then the kids call out whether that was a good rep or a no-rep. Good analogies 'Glue your feet to the ground. Pretend you have concrete blocks on your feet' 'Your knees don't like each other' 'Pretend you are lifting an elephant over your head' Mental toughness Jenn was a kid who was good in practice, then would freeze up in competition/tryouts Breathing is key to keep your heart rate steady Do practice reps using the same routine you will use in games The Talent Code - by Daniel Coyle Mindset - by Carol Dweck Mastery - by Robert Greene Coaching Better every season - by Wade Gilbert Start with Why - Simon Sinek Best borrowed/stolen ideas Gamifying deliberate practice Parting Advice Find the fun in whatever you're doing. Get the kids involved. Have them help design a practice. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave

Ian Goldberg is the Founder and CEO of iSport360, Inc. a SportsTech venture that helps youth sport coaches and parents share objective player feedback. As a sport parent and coach, Ian has witnessed the chaos on the sidelines and in the bleachers when coaches' and parents' expectations are not aligned….and the kids suffer.  His company has developed a solution to the pain in the form of an app and an informative (and frequently humorous) newsletter “The Chaotic World of Youth Sports”. Website: isport360.com Facebook: /isport360/ Twitter: @isport360 Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - The feedback loop Ongoing feedback is way more effective than end-of-the-year feedback Regular feedback is important, but can be time-consuming. Ideally coaches should be able to spend a few minutes and quickly evaluate and provide feedback to all players Objective goals It's easy to just look at how many points/goals players score, but most coaches are trying to evaluate many things beyond just scoring. The key is to define measurable objectives of what you are trying to improve in players. Empowering kids Ideally kids should be able to: Talk to the coaches themselves Set their own goals What happens in a parents' brain when watching their kids play sports Fight or flight mode - Parents' stress levels and cortisol levels are skyrocketing when being on the sideline watching their kids Parents are either part of your process or part of your problem Involve them - they want to know what's going on, regardless of age A good way to base how much parents are involved - how much money they are spending. So for cheap low-level rec sports, not as much. For high-level travel teams costing thousands of dollars - the parents should be communicated with more. iSport360 - The feedback loop Mobile app - Coaches can work with players to set goals at beginning of season and allows the coach to provide feedback Parents can also send other players on the team positive emojis Weekly newsletter with funny stories Best Stolen Idea Barbara Corcoran from the Shark Tank: 'To be successful, you have to have a certain level of stupidity, so that when you keep getting knocked down, you continuously get back up, expecting better results.' Parting Advice Don't let sports take over your life. Enjoy it and keep it in perspective. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave

Coach Kav owns a sports performance facility called The Sport and Speed Institute. On top of that he runs NFL Combine Programs and All-American Football Camps every year, and just published a #1 bestselling book on Amazon. Website: coachkav.com Facebook: /justin.kavanaugh.75 Twitter: @CoachKavanaugh Instagram: @CoachKav Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - How kids learn Remember what you want them to work on is what they are most insecure about, so be strategic about how you approach it Trust The key is building trust, the kids will know when you don't truly have their best interest in mind Practice design Teach and deconstruct a skill Compete. There needs to be a winner and a loser. Positive conditioning- the winners get to do additional workouts. But at the youth level, this takes the right situation Make sure you're not just teaching a skill and doing a drill for 10 minutes - you have to keep reinforcing what you teach continuously throughout that practice and throughout the season Try not to use the term 'suicides' for running. Powerful word that should not be used in this context. Auditory reactionary drill Two lines in a relay race - have multiple cones - you stand behind them and call which cone they have to go around (#1,2,or 3). This also helps you balance the teams so you don't have to worry about evening up the teams. Also can reward the team that has better team spirit Good practice games Tic tac toe - 2 teams - throw cones/pinnies in a square Tag - great competition/conditioning game with lots of cutting. You can add a cognitive element - give everyone a number - then use math to call out the numbers of who is 'it' 4 things every parent can do with their kid to prepare them for life: Read Learn a 2nd language Play an instrument Play a team sport Favorite books/quotes Quote: 'Character strong as steel won't develop with skin smooth as silk' Book: How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie Book: Mastery by Robert Green Book: Inside out Coaching by Joe Erhmann Man up - The book The 5 areas of focus to guarantee your athletic success BALLS - Balance, Accountability, Lust (your drive), Sacrifice Link: Man up Parting Advice Remember all kids you coach are telling others about you - so treat them all with respect -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter:

John Moyer is a current teacher at Stow-Munroe Falls High School, where he has taught since 1990.  John is certified coach in Resilient Leadership, based in the Washington DC area.  John currently is employed by the Stow City School District as their District Leadership Coach, where he helps teachers, coaches and administrators become more effective leaders. Podcast: iTunes link Facebook: /theofpodcast/ Youtube: youtube link Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Every system(or team) desires 5 things: SCARF Status Certainty - This takes time for a newer coach. Autonomy Relatedness Fairness Good places to start Read books Attend conferences, talk to other coaches Critical thinking in the stress of a game If you have established your guiding principles, it greatly increases your ability to calmly think through and stay focused on what's important Overfunctioning=Underfunctioning When one overfunctions, there is a reciprocal reaction of underfunctioning The best balance for a coach is to be there to be a calm presence in a storm, but not overreact to negative situations that will occur in every game A child-focused society If a parent over-focuses on their children, the child is worse off As a coach- do your coaching well, but think less about it. Game theory - There is a fear our kid/team will get behind if someone else practices more or plays on more travel teams. A 2 person relationship is inherently unstable. For parents - it is far easier for them to talk about their kids than it it is to talk about their own relationship. Connecting with and impacting kids John works with kids to help them start establishing who they are and identifying their self The One that Got Away In John's senior year, he played against a tackle that went on to be an all-pro center. John got worked over pretty bad by this guy, but he learned resilience and knew to focus on process over outcome. Best borrowed/stolen idea Relentlessly eradicate hurry from your life Favorite books/quotes Book: A Failure of Nerve by Rabbi Ed Friedman Book: Resilient Leadership by Bob Duggan and Jim Moyer Parting Advice Smile a lot. Be organized. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter:

Jack Perconte has dedicated his post-major league baseball career to helping youth and their parents through the complicated world of youth sports. Combining his playing, coaching and parenting experiences he continues to help create better sporting experiences for both athletes and their parents. He has authored multiple books, including his most recent, Creating a Season to Remember. Website/Book: baseballcoaching.tips Facebook: /BaseballCoachingTips Twitter: @Jackperconte Thank you to our sponsors! - Lead 'Em Up - Save 10% using discount code 'wyccoaches' at leademup.com - Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Cringe Moments Early on Jack was bothered by the 'know-it-all' kids, but over the years he has learned to stick with them and they can become some of your best supporters Teaching skills Start with talking with the kids about their individual strengths and weaknesses Set up short-term and long-term plans with them Utilize multiple stations with small groups to keep everyone Achieving peak performance mentally Confidence comes and goes, it's the coaches job to keep stay optimistic. Good things happen in the players' heads when you have confidence in them and let them know you believe in them. Confidence comes from perfecting the fundamentals Attitude When Jack was playing in the Dodgers organization, the Dodgers came down to watch a couple players  in the minor leagues. One player was on fire, and the other was struggling. A few weeks later they called up the player who was struggling. They said it was because they were so impressed with the attitude of the player while he was struggling. Parents It's critical to have a meeting with the parents before the season and explain your philosophies on playing time, strategies, etc. Continue that communication with updates to the parents throughout the season Coaching your own kids Each kid is different. Some embrace learning from their parent, some resist it. The One that Got Away Jack made the last out of the season in a one game playoff when with the Dodgers Failure is a great motivator to work harder Favorite books/quotes All books by John Wooden Baseball coaching  Website/Book: baseballcoaching.tips Creating a Season to Remember - A great A to Z resource for coaching a team Podcast: Something Worth Catching Parting Advice Stay ahead of the curve. There are so many resources, keep learning. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave

Lynden Gwartney is the founder of Mind Of A Champion Sports, and trains athletes and coaches in the principles of winning in sports. He is the author of How to Win at Sports, where through examples from Marine Corps history and analysis of the world's top athletes and coaches - as well as thirty years of exprience as an athlete and coach - Lynden reveals the concepts that all champions use to gain an advantage over their opponents. Website/Book: sportstrainingsecrets.com Facebook/podcast: /scienceofwinningpodcast Thank you to our sponsors! - Lead 'Em Up - Save 10% using discount code 'wyccoaches' at leademup.com - Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Coaching 6 year olds Break every motion into 3 simple steps. Step bend pass, step bend pass. Maximize touches! Winning - The big 3 Find your opponents weakness and attack it Stick with what's working Find your opponents strength and neutralize it Find your opponents weakness and attack it Physical Mental What are their tendencies Stick with what's working This changes game to game. What's working TODAY. You have to use statistics to make these decisions. Don't just go on 'feel.' Find your opponents strength and neutralize it The Science of Winning Podcast & How to Win at Sports book Facebook/podcast: /scienceofwinningpodcast Website/Book: sportstrainingsecrets.com Parting Advice Focus on the big 3. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter:

Dr. Clayton Kuklick is a University of Denver Clinical Assistant Professor of Master of Arts in Sports Coaching and a PhD in Athletic Coaching Education. Clayton played college and pro baseball and has coached at all levels from youth through college. Twitter: @DrKuk14; @DU_sport_coach Thank you to our sponsors! - Lead 'Em Up - Save 10% using discount code 'wyccoaches' at leademup.com - Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link- - Coaching your own kids Make sure to communicate the different roles you will be having with your child - coach vs. parent Cringe moments Initially Clayton was very structured and controlling. He learned to incorporate different ways to facilitate and teach vs. structure and commands. Teaching Skills  The difference between learning and performance - Create variation in activities vs. blocked practice design. Dynamic systems theory - Provide a few guidelines, then allow athletes to try different strategies and learn. Small-sided tactical games are a great way to do this. Mental toughness Routines can reduce stress - Having a pre-bat routine in baseball reduces stress. Practice it. In practices, before they perform a task, have them: Take a deep breath, one positive thought, then we go. A positive thought is best when process related: fast and loose vs. get a hit. Culture It starts with core values. Keep it tight - have only a couple core values. Then you have to define what behaviors demonstrate those core values. Great analogies to reward behviors - The Sugar Shaker - who made practice sweeter today? The Live Sponge - who learned and applied something new today? Connecting with and impacting kids Clayton coached a kid who was struggling in school, he had a big presentation coming up - so they used some of the same mental skill approaches they use in athletics to apply to his presentation The one that got away Clayton played on a team in college that went to the playoffs, and they got pampered and ate a bunch of unhealthy food. They had not educated their players throughout the season about the importance of their diet. Best borrowed/stolen idea Clayton played with Justin Gordon - and Justin did a great job using analogies Favorite Quote/Book Book: The Mental Game of Baseball by H.A. Dorfman and Karl Kuehl Book: The Fifth Discipline by Peter M. Senge Book: The Double Goal Coach by Jim Thompson Book: Mindset by Carol Dweck Book: True Competition by David Light Shields and Brenda Light Bredemeier Book: Understanding Sports Coaching by Tania G. Cassidy and Robyn L. Jones Parting Advice Challenge: How can you embed life skills into your practice drills? Decision making, resiliency, social skills. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave

Anthony Stone is a Physical Education teacher at Gregory Elementary School and Quarterbacks Coach at Boylan High School in Rockford, Ill. He is also the Defensive Coordinator and Assistant Head Coach for the 2017 Women's Australian National Outback Team & writes blogs for “Hudl” & “Firstdown Playbook.” In July 2016, he was named to the Hudl 100 list. He has presented at IAPHERD, the top physical education convention in Illinois, on how to get students moving with his Games Galore presentations. He has also presented at the Chicago Glazier Clinics on quarterbacks & special teams. He was the Defensive Coordinator for the 2010 U.S. Women's National Tackle Football Team, winners of the IFAF Women's World Championship in which Team USA did not allow a point in three games with an overall score of 201-0. The rest of his coaching experience involves coaching in the CIFL and the IWFL Leagues as well as Beloit College (Linebackers/Special Teams Coordinator) and Rockford University (Quarterbacks/Wide Receivers).  As well as coaching football at the youth, middle school and high school level. He will be putting on fundamental youth football camps around the world in 2017, with his “Back to the Basics Football Camp” coming to a city near you. Website/books: coachstonefootball.com Twitter: @coach_stone_mt Thank you to our sponsors! - Lead 'Em Up - Save 10% using discount code 'wyccoaches' at leademup.com - Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link - Quote 'If you're still teaching your quarterback the day before the game, you're in trouble' Coaching your own kids Why not? You can learn what you don't know, go do it if it interests you Cringe moments 'I was a yeller'. Anthony has learned the value in being positive Teaching Skills - Great games 100 acre words & Cone Island Free games: coachstonefootball.com/enasco-physical-education-free-activities-lesson-plans/ One good strategy is to come up with games where kids don't get 'out'- have a danger zone and a safety zone - if they get tagged, they have to leave the danger zone and go to the safety zone and do some exercise before they return Practice Planning  Use notecards/notebook - keep it with you in practices and games and note things you need to work on When teaching skills - visual analogies comparing the motions to real-world activities work great. Mental toughness Practice reading situations - so your players know what to look for and don't panic when they see something new 'If you're still teaching your quarterback the day before the game, you're in trouble' Mondays through Wednesdays are work/teaching days Monday - introduction Tuesday/Wednesday - work day Thursday - the players should be teaching it back to the coach Friday (gameday)- just be there to chit-chat with the players, not teach them anything new. Ask them if they have any questions - if they do, have them try to answer their own question. Coaching up the parents Moms of football - go from a fan, to a team mom, to a coach on the field Have a teaching day - start with your coaching philosophy. Then make a one-page cheat sheet that explains the basic rules. Then take them on the field and have them try it out a bit. US Lacrosse soft stick program Free sticks/balls for P.E. programs - uslacrosse.org/programs-grants/soft-stick-program Culture Start with a team motto i.e. #CloseTheGap Have the kids create the team standards and the motto Connecting with and impacting kids Anthony mentioned several stories of guys he has connected with who have become lifelong friends Favorite Quote/Book Quote: 'Work smarter not harder' Quote: 'Don't make a bad play into a worse play' Quote from Lou Holtz: 'You need 4 things in life: Something to do. Someone to love.

Dave Holt is a high school administrator/ teacher, operates a private baseball teaching school, helps with an American Legion baseball team and constantly is researching, writing articles and guidebooks, and adding to his coach and play baseball website. Website/books: coachandplaybaseball.com Facebook: /Holtbaseball Thank you to our sponsors! - Lead 'Em Up - Save 10% using discount code 'wyccoaches' at leademup.com - Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link - Quote 'A good coach can give correction without causing resentment' - John Wooden Coaching your own kids Dave's dad did a great job of just going out and playing with and throwing with his boys, and not instructing them. Just let them learn to enjoy the sport and don't antagonize them by nitpicking their mechanics. Cringe moments Dave wishes he had spent more time on the one-on-one relationship side of coaching Teaching Skills Maximize # of touches! Get lots of touches in some type of competition Fast catch - Line up with a partner and when you've caught 10 in a row, take a knee (competition) Mental toughness You want kids to be ultra-aggressive and play without fear Be thinking long-term development, not short term wins. Don't focus on winning. Focus on playing well. Travel sports options Travel sports lite - you can do travel teams and compete within your own area, not all over the country Culture - Rewarding success Dirtiest uniform, biggest sweat ring on their hat, best encouraging teammate Connecting with and impacting kids Dave coached a kid who was going to quit, Dave got together with the principal and they encouraged him not to quit. He stuck with it and went on to start on the baseball team his senior year. The one that got away Dave had a player who was the best player on the team and skipped a team event. Dave played him instead of disciplining him, and regrets that decision. Best Stolen Idea 3-team it: Break the team into 3 teams and rotate them together. Great way to practice with lots of touches and you can scrimmage with these 3 teams. Favorite Quote/Book Book: The Matheny Manifesto by Mike Matheny Book: Inside-out Coaching by Joe Ehrmann Book: Go for the Magic by Pat Williams Book: Why Johnny hates sports by Fred Engh Quote: 'A good coach can give correction without causing resentment' - John Wooden Coach and play baseball resources Books, dvd's, articles, and many more resources Website/books: coachandplaybaseball.com Parting Advice Baseball has a very high level of failure. Embrace and expect mistakes. Help kids manage the failures. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave

Chris Buck, President of Get It Done Consulting (www.getitdoneconsulting.net), has his Masters in Exercise and Sport Psychology and is a Certified Consultant and member of the Association for Applied Sport Psychology (AASP). He has consulted with professional and amateur athletes alike, implementing mental conditioning programs in a wide variety of sports, including lacrosse, golf, tennis, soccer, basketball, track/field, crew, fencing, hockey, and baseball. Coach Buck works with multiple NCAA lacrosse programs as a Sport Psychology Consultant to the team as well as a Goalie Psychology Specialist. He is also the Goalie Psychology Specialist for G3 Lacrosse. Chris is the author of "Thinking Inside the Crease," a book describing how to become a mentally tough dominant goalie. He also wrote the Level 1, Level 2, and Level 3 goalie coaching certification materials for US Lacrosse. Chris grew up and played lacrosse in Wilton, CT, winning two state championships during his time there and finished his four-year high school career with a 46-1 record as the starting goalie. After high school, he played lacrosse at Ithaca College. Website/book: thinkinginsidethecrease.com Professional Website: getitdoneconsulting.net Twitter: @GetItDoneCT Thank you to our sponsors! - Lead 'Em Up - Save 10% using discount code 'wyccoaches' at leademup.com - Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link - Quote 'What you believe is more important that what is objectively the case' - Albert Bendora Cringe moment Chris coached a girls team, and didn't know the difference in the rules between boys and girls rules, so he was telling the girls the wrong things A-ha moments Grades are just as important as on-the-field skills to earn a scholarship! Remove self-limitations, believe you can accomplish huge things. 'What you believe is more important that what is objectively the case' - Albert Bendora Mental toughness The physiological affects of fear cause you get into Fight or Flight mode. Chris teaches his goalies to develop a fight mode, 'bring it!' "Let's see how many bruises you can get" Focus on doing your job, not on impressing others or getting the win Don't provide physical solutions to mental problems When making goalie changes - communicate! Even if you are just wanting to get someone else some playing time, they may view a switch as them getting benched. Talk to them about exactly what is going on. Something as simple as 'Wasn't your best game, but you're still my guy.' Practicing in a game-like environment Practice doesn't make perfect, practice makes permanent Ask who wants to take a pressure shot in practice - good way to see who might be clutch player at the end of a game Flushing routines Take your hat off, brush some water in your hair, when you put your hat back on you are starting anew Release, replan, refocus - Turn your back to the field of play, replan, then when you turn back around you are refocused Serena Williams - has notecards at her bench with 2 or 3 points of emphasis, she looks at them every time she changes sides Evaluative environment vs Expressive environment: Players don't perform well when they feel they are being evaluated every single play, they perform much better in a expressive environment Dump card - write down everything that is stressing you out - then leave it in their locker - you're not bringing that to the field with you - you can stress out about it again when you get back to your locker The Sport of School - the book 5 different types of student athletes: The workhorse The rookie The natural talent The spectator The intellectual 3 ways to be successful: Work hard Solve problems Have intellectual curiosity Book: Coming soon! Best Stolen Idea

Chris Trieste has over 20 years experience in K-12 education as a teacher, school administrator, athletic director, and coordinator of physical education.  For more than 10 years he has coached numerous youth sports, primarily baseball and basketball, from the elementary through high school grade levels. He has extensive experience in tennis, serving as the head men's tennis coach at Mount Saint Mary College where he was twice named Coach of the Year and playing for four years at Marist College where he was a team captain. Chris also recently authored 14 Great Coaches. Based on a study of the best practices of 14 of the most respected and successful coaches in the history of sports, and combined with the author's experiences and observations as a coach and instructional leader, this book provides a road map for all coaches who want to have an enduring positive influence and provide a transformative experience for their athletes. Book: /book link Twitter: @CTrieste2 Thank you to our sponsors! - Lead 'Em Up - Save 10% using discount code 'wyccoaches' at leademup.com - Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link - Coaching your own kid Coaching should end on the field. The ride home should be you as their parent, not their coach. Cringe moment Chris had some coaches he coached with that humiliated some of the kids, he quickly disassociated from those coaches Teaching Skills Teach in a games approach: Deliver some instruction - then create some type of game setting (competitive) activity to start the learning. Innovative scoring - Reward activities that you are trying to encourage. If playing tennis and trying to get players to the net - if you win a point at the net you get double points. Mental toughness Encourage athletes to picture times they have been successful - Play a movie in their head Other athletes don't want to think about much - encourage them to think of something simple like 'just see it and hit it' Culture Coaching staff should answer the question - in twenty years how do you want your players to remember their experience Have kids help own the experience by incorporating them in the standards you set for your team Captains - one good method might be to have rotating gameday captains based on merit (demonstrating leadership skills) 14 Great Coaches - the book 60 timeless concepts that coaches Vince Lombardi - Had zero tolerance for any type of racial discrimination. Also believed in simplicity over complexity. Nick Bolleteri - You don't have to be a great player to be a great coach. Pat Summit - Her players changed a play she called. She self-reflected - and realized she had not analyzed who the best player for that moment was. Tom Couglin - Tom changed his coaching style - he went from trying to force his compliance to a new style of trying to listen and incorporate their feedback. He established a player council who met regularly and communicated with Tom. Joe Torre - Had a great skill for working with huge egos, and making sure they all felt their role was important no matter what it was on the team Book: /book link Parting Advice Enjoy the experience. Don't take wins/losses too seriously. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave

Colonel (Retired) Michael Kasales recently retired from the U.S. Army after 28 years of active-duty service, and now volunteers as an assistant women's lacrosse coach and assistant strength and conditioning coach. Coach Kasales is an adjunct professor for the University of Denver's Master of Arts in Sport Coaching program (online), and is pursuing his Ph.D. with a focus on student-athlete leadership development. He recently completed his second graduate degree, a Master of Arts in Sport Coaching from the University of Denver. He received a Master's degree from Webster University in 2001, and received his undergraduate degree from DePauw University in 1987. LinkedIn: /michaelkasales Thank you to our sponsors! - Lead 'Em Up - Save 10% using discount code 'wyccoaches' at leademup.com - Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link - Quote 'We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is not an act but a habit' - Aristotle What can coaches learn from the military? The military isn't about yelling and screaming. It's about building teams and achieving peak performance. Team warm-ups A little bit of static stretching is OK, but focus is warming up the muscles through dynamic stretches. Foam rollers are inexpensive and a great tool Teaching Skills Constant blocked practices vs. random variable drills The memory and skill sticks better when allowing the athlete freedom to think during a drill vs. predetermining for them exactly what they should do Fun Games to teach skills HORSE - They play horse-like game, but use letters LAX. First player makes shot, then everyone follows. Mental toughness Mental toughness cannot be turned on/off. Weave it into your practice plan. Every task/drill need to incorporate it. How do you relax? How do use imagery? Have deliberate discussions throughout practice. If 50 to 80% of the game is mental - are you practicing it? Culture Have a written coaching philosophy Core values will keep you from bouncing from hot topic to hot topic and a flavor of the day Establish team standards and team goals From me you can expect... From you here is what I expect... Be careful to not give false praise - if they don't deserve it, don't falsely praise them, it will make your words mean less Copy of Mike's philosophies Connecting with and impacting kids Mike worked with an athlete who gained a great deal of self-confidence, mostly through Mike just taking an interest in him The one that got away Mike saw a young athlete not giving her all and he didn't say anything about it - she ended up getting hurt, he regrets not mentioning it Favorite book/quote Book: The Mentor Leader by Tony Dungy Book: Inside Out Coaching by Joe Ehrmann Quote: 'We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then is not an act but a habit' - Aristotle Parting Advice Don't say 'my team' or 'my athletes' - it's 'our team' -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter:

Casey Jacox is a former collegiate QB at Central Washington University and has been coaching his kids for many years. Casey is passionate about ensuring they continue down a positive path, and sports is a big part of that journey. LinkedIn: /caseyjacox/ Blog: winningtherelationship.com Thank you to our sponsors! - Lead 'Em Up - Save 10% using discount code 'wyccoaches' at leademup.com - Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link - Quote 'There are three types of people in life: Those who watch things happen, those who make things happen, and those who wonder what happened.' - Tommy Lasorda Coaching your own kids Works best if you have an assistant coach, and you coach each other's kids Cringe moment Early on, Casey was too focused on winning Teaching Skills Drills need a clear: Purpose Process Payoff Be ridiculously organized. Make everything competitive. Time everything. Small groups and lots of stations Games Girls get to take 2 free throws at end of practice - If they make 1, they get to run 1 lap. If they make 2 they get to pick someone to run with them (including parents on the sideline.) If they miss both, they have to dribble around with their off hand until drill is over. Then take the girls who make both free throws and put the pressure on them, say 'there is 2 seconds left, you need to make 2 free throws to win the game.' They only get to do this if the girls gave great effort during practice Mental toughness It comes down to believing in the kids you coach, and making sure they understand you believe in them Culture Everyone needs to do their role. Coaches coach. Players play. Parents cheer. Umpires make the calls. When everyone stays in their role, everything works well. Step out of your role, and trouble starts. Captains and leadership Captains lead stretching and conversation Teach them to be organized and communicate well Rewards and recognition Words of the week - keep the focus on the importance of everyone's role - Then give an award at the end of the week on who best embodied that characteristic Connecting with and impacting kids Kevin worked with a young man who was struggling to throw, and 2 years later watching his progress is really exciting. The one that got away Casey played on a team, and they came out flat, and lost. You must be prepared for every game. Favorite book/quote Book: The Matheny Manifesto Great resource - Proactive Coaching Quote: 'There are three types of people in life: Those who watch things happen, those who make things happen, and those who wonder what happened.' - Tommy Lasorda Book: The Advantage by Patrick Lencioni Craig recommendation: The Strangest Secret by Earl Nightingale Best borrowed/stolen idea EDD's - Everyday drills The power of goal setting. You write it down. Then you tell someone. Now it is goal not a wish. Positive environments and never taking a play off. Parting Advice Know the purpose in everything you do. Be organized, make it fun. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave SaveSave

In The Captain Class, Walker profiles the greatest teams in history and identifies the counterintuitive leadership qualities of the unconventional men and women who drove them to succeed. He began by setting out to answer one of the most hotly debated questions in sports: What are the greatest teams of all time? He devised a formula, then applied it to thousands of teams from leagues all over the world, from the NBA to the English Premier League to Olympic field hockey. When he was done, he had a list of the sixteen most dominant teams in history. With the list in hand, Walker became obsessed with another, more complicated question: What did these freak teams have in common? As Walker dug into their stories, a distinct pattern emerged: Each team had the same type of captain—a singular leader with an unconventional skill set who drove it to achieve sustained, historic greatness. Website/book: bysamwalker.com Twitter: @SamWalkers Thank you to our sponsors! - Lead 'Em Up - Save 10% using discount code 'wyccoaches' at leademup.com - Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link - Quote The secret to winning is not what you think it is. It's not the coach. It's not the star. It's not money. It's not a strategy. It's something else entirely. – Sam Walker – The Captain Class Inspiration for the book Sam's little league team went undefeated, and he didn't realize it but that was the last team he would be the last time he would experience a sports championship, and it led him to being curious about sports championships. The 2004 Boston Red Sox was a group of crazy players, they were struggling mid-season, then they turned it on and went on to break the 100+ year curse and win a championship. This got Sam to wondering what the make-up of great teams really is. Coaches - Develop your leaders The commonality found in the world's most dominant dynasties was the characteristics of their captains The captain needs autonomy, to act as a middle-manager between the players and the coach On gameday - stop over-functioning, back off and let the captains run the show Youth coaches - Key characteristics to Develop Carrying the water - They shouldn't want to be the superstar, they should want to serve the team first. Relentlessness - Players who have one gear, no matter what the score is Communication amongst teammates - A rah-rah speech is not what works, you want a leader that has one-on-one interactions with their teammates, is intense, uses body-language, uses humor. Charismatic connectors. Introverts are often the best leaders! Choosing captains It often makes sense to not make the star player the captain. Being the star is burden enough. The person needs to be the coach's right-hand and, therefore it usually makes the most sense for a coach to pick the captain vs. the team voting. Remember when nominating them - you want someone who will stand up to you and not be afraid to express a dissenting opinion. Do you need captains on a team? Sam says absolutely yes. Just remember - it doesn't need to be the star. It needs to be the water carrier. Sportsmanship - The Cuban National Volleyball team Two types of Aggression: Hostile Aggression - Driven by hatred or a desire to hurt somebody - This is negative. Instrumental Aggression - Looks similar, but the motive is to win. It turns off as soon as the game is over. This can be positive. Parting Advice Find a partner - a captain - on your team -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave

Dr. David Geier is an orthopaedic surgeon and sports medicine specialist who provides education and commentary on sports and exercise injuries for athletes and active people to help you stay healthy and perform your best. He started writing articles on his website – DrDavidGeier.com – in August 2010 as a hobby. His goal at the time was simple – to share sports medicine and wellness information in easy-to-understand language for athletes, parents, coaches and other healthcare providers. What he never expected to find back in 2010 was a passion for communicating this information. Despite long hours in clinic and surgery, he is still excited to open his laptop and write. He now writes a regular column for the daily Charleston newspaper, The Post and Courier. He records videos every week answering questions from his audience, and he produces a weekly sports medicine podcast. He also created a networking and educational site for healthcare professionals who work with athletes and active people – Sports Medicine University. As of this writing, over 200,000 unique visitors come to his website every month. Website/Podcast: drdavidgeier.com Book: tghbook.com Twitter: @drdavidgeier Facebook: /DrDavidGeier/ Thank you to our sponsors! - Lead 'Em Up - Save 10% using discount code 'wyccoaches' at leademup.com - Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link - Quote 'Everything is impossible until someone does it' - from Relentless by Tim Grover Practice Design 3 to 5 minutes - Slow warm-up - jogging, get the heart going 3 to 5 minutes - Gentle stretching End of practice - 3 to 5 minutes - Stretch again, can be static stretching 'That's gotta hurt' book 13 of the most impactful injuries that have occurred in sports - How it impacted the sports and new methods to prevent these injuries Youth injury prevention Sport specialization - 1/2 of sports injuries are overuse injuries - they need time off The US women's national soccer team that won the world cup - not a single player only specialized in soccer, they all played multiple sports ACL injury prevention - Teach proper landing mechanics while doing warm-ups. The PEP program - best if you bring in a physical therapist to teach the correct form. smsmf.org/smsf-programs/pep-program Concussions Repetitive blows to the head are a big concern, not just single concussive events. Young kids with brains still developing - tackle football could be a concern if the coach has them doing repetitive hits that involve the head. - Good youth football link: winningyouthfootball.com Favorite Book/Quote Book - Relentless by Tim Grover - About Michael Jordan, Kobe Bryant, Dwayne Wade's trainer, and how to become the best ever. Quote from book: 'Everything is impossible until someone does it' TedX Talk HEALTHY Game plan - Youth sports - Tips you can do as a parent and coach on how to keep youth sports fun and keep kids involved - TEDx talk link Parting Advice Sports are important to kids - make it fun and keep them healthy -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave

Meagan Frank is the author of the Choosing to Grow series, a national speaker, writer, teacher, coach, and mother of three. She is a regular contributor to the online magazine Books Make a Difference and she is working on four separate books, including Choosing to Grow for the Sport of It: Because All Kids Matter –Five years of research to justify the choices her family has made with regard to youth sports. Website: meaganfrank.com Twitter: @choosingtogrow Thank you to our sponsors! - Lead 'Em Up - Save 10% using discount code 'wyccoaches' at leademup.com - Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link - Quote 'Individual commitment to a group effort, that is what makes a team work, a company work, a society work, a civilization work.' - Vince Lombardi Coaching your own kids Each kid and age level has different needs, you have to adapt to the situation Meagan wore a hat when coaching, so it was clear when she had her hat on, she was coach; when she took the hat off, she was mom Cringe moments Don't necessarily emulate who coached you - 'Yelling never works' Coaching girls Different drills are needed for each type of girl. Some will respond to game-like competition, others will respond to more cooperative drills. Teaching skills Start and end each practice with something fun/positive Good energy-builders Blob tag - If you touch them they become part of the blob. You can bring in the parents too Player Choice practices Occasionally let the players choose their favorite games, then pick them out of the hat, and that's all you do for practice Peak performance Teach kids to flush mistakes 'Tell me one good thing you achieved today' Have players share shout-outs for each other at the end of practice The coaches' body language, especially after a mistake, is critical - kids will watch you and emulate your body language Building Culture They create a hashtag to reinforce their core value. i.e. #CloseTheGap Best team building activity Scavenger hunts - can include conditioning (2 mile run with stops with clues) Travel sports choices You have to prioritize your time - don't just blindly sign up for sport after sport. The one that got away Meagan's team was struggling, and they were on the verge of winning a game, and she subbed all her players in, and they lost the game. Best stolen/borrowed idea Communication - everyone is in the loop. Players, Coaches, parents. They all know philosophy and goals of the program Favorite Book/Quote Book - John Wooden's They Call me Coach Quote - Vince Lombardi: 'Individual commitment to a group effort, that is what makes a team work, a company work, a society work, a civilization work.' Parting Advice Smile. Have fun. It is contagious. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave

Jamy Bechler is a professional speaker, leadership trainer and executive business coach who is based out of Atlanta, Georgia.  Before going into full-time leadership work, Jamy served for 20 years as a college basketball coach, professor and administrator. When he hung up the whistle, he didn't stop coaching. Jamy just moved from the locker-room into the boardroom. He now travels the country motivating people and “coaching” organizations on how they can build championship teams and cultures. Website: jamybechler.com Book: theleadershipplaybook.com Twitter: @CoachBechler Facebook: /JamyBechlerLeadership Thank you to our sponsors! - Lead 'Em Up - Save 10% using discount code 'wyccoaches' at leademup.com - Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link - Quote 'Fish like worms. I don't like worms, but if I want to catch fish, I need to use worms' - Dale Carnegie in How to Win Friends and Influence People (paraphrased) Cringe Moment 'You'll be dead right' - Wisdom is choosing your battles, don't always need to be right Teaching skills Everything in practice needs to have a point. Scrimmages are often not effective. Practice special situations for 5 to 10 minutes in every practice. Fun activity: On your birthday - coach would put 2 $5 bills at midcourt - everyone would shoot half-court shots, if you made it - you got $5 and bday person got $5. If bday person made it, got all $10 Peak performance 'Every missed shot is a pass' - Teammates encouraging each other to shoot takes away the pressure of worrying about whether to shoot or note Practice being a terrible referee - Players need to practice tough situations. Bad calls are going to happen - practice them. Building Culture Core value - developing the mind - on and off the court; Integrity; Responsibility 2 core values for his basketball teams: Toughness and rebounding Kids pick up on the coach's consistency - you can talk all you want about what kind of culture you want, but the kids are watching and if you aren't consistent then your words will not hold up Captains Positional leadership - If you have 2 or 3 captains on your team, the rest of the players can use it as a crutch. Jamy did not have captains towards the end of his coaching career. They rotated game captains, but they taught that everyone was a leader. Then they engaged the upperclassmen to demonstrate leadership skills - carrying the water, etc. More is expected out of your experienced and older players - but they don't have to technically have the title of captain. They are the role models and set the tone for your culture. Training your leaders theleadershipplaybook.com - Stories about different ways leaders lead Leaders - don't need to get the whole team to do something, they need to get their closest friends to do it - The First follower theory. The one that got away Jamy's last game he coached - they blew a 14 point lead and it cost them getting into the national tournament. They had easily beat that team earlier in the year, and they came in a little cocky and weren't prepared. Best stolen/borrowed idea John Wooden's unflinching standards while connecting with his players Favorite Book/Quote Book - How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie - 'Fish like worms. I don't like worms, but if I want to catch fish, I need to use worms' Parting Advice Understand your why. And get to know your players. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter:

Dr. Charles Infurna has 10 years of coaching experience at the Division III level, he has had the great pleasure and privilege to have coached and mentored two Division III National Champion Weight Throwers, 10 All-Americans, multiple ECAC champions, and numerous SUNYAC and Empire 8 Conference Champions in the Hammer, Weight Throw, Discus, and Shot-Put. He writes a blog at forzathletics.com  Before completing his dissertation he wrote a lot about programming, workouts, overviews of meets, and even included some vlogs.  Since finishing his doctorate, he has focused more on how environment and support systems play roles in athlete successes. Website and blog: forzathletics.com Podcast: soundcloud.com/charles-infurna Twitter: @CharlesInfurna; @forzathletics Facebook: /forzathletics/ Thank you to our sponsors! - Lead 'Em Up - Save 10% using discount code 'wyccoaches' at leademup.com - Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link - Quote 'You never know who is going to walk through the door' First role model Charles' first coaching opportunity was when he was 22 years old. He didn't really know what to do - so he reached out to a head coach at a local university (who happened to be a 4x Olympian) and asked if he could come watch a practice and hang out with his coaching staff for a day, which the coach willingly did Cringe Moment The players Charles was coaching talked to him and addressed concerns that he didn't seem like he was as engaged - a very healthy sign that the players were comfortable enough to be honest with him Teaching skills Start with the basics like body awareness. Don't try to fix everything at once. Focus on one thing at a time. It's like a puzzle - put together one piece at a time. Long Term Athlete Development Some of Charles' best college athletes did not play that sport in high school Peak performance Kids often respond best to a coach that is calm and confident. It's usually best to not give coaching advice right before a competition - just pick up on the kid's body language whether they need you to just be quiet, or tell a joke to lighten the mood. Building Culture You are always representing the program Team building and trust activities are always great Magnet awards - they recognize each other's accomplishments on the bus ride home Connecting with kids Luis Rivera - Was given some bad information and was ineligible for the upcoming season. He could have easily quit and given up, but instead he worked hard and came back and went on to be one of the best track and field athletes in their college's history. He had grit. The one that got away It wasn't a tough loss - it was a team where Kate had let the culture get away from her Best stolen/borrowed idea 'You never know who is going to walk through the door' - One of Charles' mentors would take in any athlete that was willing, and if they would put in the work, you never know which one could turn out to be a national champion. Favorite Resources PDF - The mundanity of excellence - Developing Olympic Swimmers by Dan Chambliss Parting Advice Be in the moment. Put your cell phone away. Enjoy it. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter:

Kate Leavell: I have been an NCAA lacrosse coach, a high school varsity lacrosse and strength coach, a youth and travel coach of many different sports, swimming instructor, NASM certified personal trainer and senior fitness specialist, board member, a national coaches education trainer for US Lacrosse, an eternal college student, a parent of youth and high school athletes, speaker, teacher, and apparently now after four years of blogging and nationally featured articles and a book…a writer. I'm drawn to all things motivational and figuring out what makes people reach and discover what seems impossible. After a recent shoulder surgery led to staring a pulmonary embolism in the face (or staring at it in the lungs?!) i had time to reevaluate what is important. I came to the realization that it's not an interest after all that I spread motivation around, it's in fact, a necessity. So my mission begins, one kid, one coach at a time if need be. Website (and book coming soon): kateleavell.com Twitter: @kateleavell Thank you to our sponsors! - Lead 'Em Up - Save 10% using discount code wyccoaches at leademup.com - Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link - Quote 'Invite your team to get on the bus. Get the energy vampires off the bus. You are better off without them.' - Jon Gordon Coaching your own kids Have assistant coaches coach teach your kid and vice versa Stop coaching on the car ride home, leave it at the field Cringe Moment Putting your own self-worth based on a team's performance 'I know a lot about lacrosse, I don't know anything about building a culture' Big moment: meeting Jon Gordon in the airport, reading The Energy Bus - changed Kate's perspective on building culture Accelerate Deep Training Make everything fun, make everything competitive, then quit talking and just let them do it. 'Kids hear the first sentence and last sentence you say', the middle usually just goes in one ear and out the other. Good Icebreakers/games The Hug game - Call out a number, then the kids have to form a group with that number of people and put arms around each other to form a circle. Whoever doesn't end up in a circle is out. Zombie Tag - First time tagged, you lose an arm. Then you have to go out of circle, run a lap, then you're back in. Then you lose 2nd arm, then legs. So last time you have to roll out of circle b/c you have no legs. Stop playing chess with your players, put away the 'joystick', and Peak performance 'I'm a believer in belief' - The more the kids believe that you believe in them, the better their performance will be Building Culture It starts with expectations up front 3 different groups that feed into your culture: 1 - Coaches - Support one another. Do a mid-season survey to ask kids how they are doing 2 - Players - Positive self-talk 3 - Parents - Kate has an open door policy, the only restriction is that they will only talk about their kid, not other kids on the team Communication - "Drama is heavier than bricks, it always breaks through" Lessons from Jon Gordon 'Invite your team to get on the bus. Get the energy vampires off the bus. You are better off without them.' Urban Meyer 10-80-10 Principle - Quit spending energy on the energy vampires, put your energy towards your high energy people The one that got away It wasn't a tough loss - it was a team where Kate had let the culture get away from her The Positivity Experiment Kate did an experiment where she committed to only talking about what it going well, never pointing out negatives. The things they needed to work on, she would just add them to the practice plan instead of pointing them out. 'I let go of being focused on winning, which freed me up to enjoy coaching and took the pressure off the outcome of the game'

DeShawn Fontleroy is a sports performance coach working with athletes in the Portland, OR metro area. Currently, he works with the football team at Jefferson HS. Deshawn also hosts a podcast Sports Mastery- 'A place where we observe, examine, experiment, and explain the physical, mental, and social dynamics of the world's best athletes and coaches. My goal is to provide athletes, coaches, and parents with high level systems & strategies to achieve success.' Website/Podcast: sportsmastery.com Free Gifts for WYC listeners: Sportsmastery.com/winningyouth Twitter: @sports_mastery Facebook: /deshawn.fontleroy - Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link - Quote "Fears are a kind of prison that confines you within a limited range of action. The less you fear, the more power you will have and the more fully you will live.” - 50 Cent in The 50th Law Cringe Moment Kids are different than adults - have progressions Keep it simple, don't have too many plays Progressions Using your own body weight is a better starting place than jumping straight into weightlifting Focus on the process vs. the outcome Overcoming Fear Start by having the athlete list their fear on paper. Often when they put them down on paper, they realize many of them are not real. Then list your hopes and dreams. Create a desire map where they list their challenges and limitations. Have the parents do the same thing. Growth Mindset Bouncing back from hardship is a key to teach athletes. It's the only way to grow. After a setback, go back and watch your performance, then use positive visualization to picture what doing it right looks like Accelerate Deep Training It's a process - the key is the quality of your reps Know where your athlete is at - if they are working on a strength - put them against higher level competition. If they are working on a weakness - put them against some weaker competition. Building Culture Communication between coaches and athletes is key. Assistant coaches need to be listened to and empowered Immediate feedback, both good and bad - often works best Rewards and Recognition When athletes do something off the field - in the classroom, in the community - you can use social media to highlight their accomplishments Connecting with and impacting kids DeShawn is coaching a kid with ADHD, it has challenged him and made him a better coach by working with a kid who has different needs and challenges The one that got away DeShawn's team lost to their rival last year because of some poor coaching, they have evaluated what went wrong and analyzed how to make sure that it won't happen again Best books Good to Great - Jim Collins The 50th Law - 50 Cent and Robert Green Free gifts: - PDF of The Desire Map - PDF of How to Succeed - Free 1/2 hour consulting Go to Sportsmastery.com/winningyouth to take advantage of this great offer! Parting Advice Train and practice more - don't overdo it with travel sports Play multiple sports -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter:

Jennifer Duval has been a Class A member with the LPGA T&CP Division for over 10 years. During that time, she has continued to evolve as an instructor. She was among the first to acquire her Master certification as a Level 3 Golf Fitness Professional; and most recently, became a Level 2 Junior Certified Coach with Titleist Performance Institute. She has a passion for learning and is a regular attendee at the World Golf Fitness Summit. She believes firmly in coaching not only the technical skills of the game; but, also the physical requirements demanded by the sport, the mental skillsets needed and the emotional resilience necessary to play 'consistent' golf. Website: mytpi.com - Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link - Quote 'The first thing I learned was to hit it hard nevermind where it went' - Jack Nicklaus Coaching your own kid Instead of advising them, do an 'experiment' to coach them without being too direct Remember modeling is a key point at the younger age  Cringe Moment Spewing too much technical info early on Different is OK - there isn't a cookie-cutter swing Be patient - learning is frustrating, don't rush it Long Term Athlete Development Develop the athlete as a whole vs. just specific to your sport MYTPI.com - Titleist program Kids under 18 have significant changes and development going on - Teach them correct body movements One-sided sports (golf, baseball) - bodies need a break and to develop different muscles Mental toughness  Develop a performance routine: (taken from Vision 54 at vision54.com/html/mygame-thinkbox.html) A think box - when you are thinking through what you are going to do A play box - Stop thinking and start acting. If visual - stare at a dimple on the ball. If you're auditory - listen to a plane overhead. If you're kinesthetic - focus on your grip pressure, make it a 3 on a scale of 1 to 5. 2 outcomes to every shot: 1 - Where did the ball go (often can't control); 2 - Did I stay focused on what I was focused on (I can control) Body language and self-talk: Do a funny skit with some of the other coaches, exemplifying different mental approaches. Have the kids then practice: Hit 10 shots where think negative thoughts after each. Then hit 10 where you are neutral. Then hit 10 where you think of a positive thought after each. Each kid keep a notebook/recipe book. Write something after each practice and round about what they learn. Windows of Opportunity Sensitive periods (learn more at canadaiansportsforlife.ca): Boys 6-9 then 13-16; Girls 4-7 then 11-13: When you are growing fast, train fast When in growth spurt, there body is awkward. Speed training and mobility is key. Boys 9-12 then 14-18; Girls 7-10 then 12-16: Growth rest periods: better time to develop skills. 'The first thing I learned was to hit it hard never mind where it went' - Jack Nicklaus Great drills for re-developing movement patterns Milo Bryan - No Bull Fit - Awesome drills Connecting with and impacting kids Jennifer taught a class of kindergartners and started out asking: 'Who here is an athlete?' - a lot of the kids didn't raise their hand. She told them 'Today you are going to be an athlete' and when she asked the same question in the next class, a bunch of the kids who hadn't raised their hands initially were now raising their hands. The one that got away Her freshmen year of college, Jennifer had the opportunity to qualify to travel with the team and play with her sister, and she was so serious and uptight in her qualifying match that she played bad. She forgot to be herself, have fun, and enjoy the moment. Best borrowed/stolen idea Jennifer's college coach went above and beyond when Jennifer's dad had a heart attack. Jennifer learned for a coach it should always be a...

Kevin Jans is a youth sports coach who has seen both sides of rec and travel ball and shares his stories and great experiences with youth sports on this episode of the WYC podcast. He also hosts his own podcast and is a TEDx speaker, in which he featured the WYC podcast as an example of finding your micro-niche. Website/podcast: contractingofficerpodcast.com Contact info: kevinmjans.com TEDx: Youtube link Twitter: @ContractPodcast Facebook: /contractpodcast/ - Listen Now: Listen on iTunes: iTunes link Listen on Stitcher: Stitcher link Listen on Google Play Music: Google Play link - Quote 'Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened' - Dr. Seuss Coaching your own kid Try to find a different coach to talk to your kid Celebrate learning Double high-five - High Five up high for the team, down low for yourself Travel vs rec A balance of winning and fun is the key. Keep perspective on the end goal, competition is part of life, but you're not trying to have your child peak in middle or high school. Mental toughness - learning from giving a TEDx talk Understand your why - As a coach, I will never give you static for trying and swinging. Preparation is everything - practice game-like situations as much as possible. Prepare for uncertainty  - use Commanders Intent - so kids can play free and embrace uncertainty. 3 main elements of coaching Know your why - Why are you coaching? Tell the kids why. Be clear not clever. Example: Be on the front half (of your feet) instead of be on your toes Embrace conditioning - Don't use it as a punishment. Also  - the harder you practice, the more fun the game is. Connecting with and impacting kids Kevin worked with a young man who was struggling to throw, and 2 years later watching his progress is really exciting. The one that got away Kevin is a firm believer in 'It's not one thing, it's a bunch of things.' - Don't get hung up on one play deciding an outcome. Best borrowed/stolen idea Celebrate progress and completion. Keep stats that can be measured and improved. Parting Advice Pace yourself. Teach 1 thing at a time. It will take time. -- Reviews are the lifeblood of the podcast!- If you like the podcast- please take 2 minutes to write a review! Click here - Ready to be an Awesome Youth Coach? Sign up for our free weekly newsletter: SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSave SaveSaveSaveSave SaveSave SaveSave