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Most women doing everything right in perimenopause still feel exhausted, foggy, and frustrated by belly fat that won't shift. This is not a willpower problem. It is an estrogen problem, and most women are being told to wait when they should be acting now. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Robin Berzin, founder of Parsley Health, to explore why belly fat accumulates around the middle as estrogen shifts, why 43% of ADHD diagnoses in women hit between 41 and 50, and why estrogen loss drives brain fog and dopamine decline that most doctors are missing. Dr. Berzin also makes the case for starting hormone therapy early and shares what data from 120 million women tells us about HRT, dementia risk, and long-term protection for your brain, bones, and heart. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN • Why brain fog gets worse in perimenopause • The link between estrogen, dopamine, and focus after 40 • Why so many women are being diagnosed with ADHD in their 40s • The early signs of perimenopause • How HRT reduce the risk of dementia and Alzheimer's in women • How low progesterone affects your sleep, skin, and mood • How to track perimenopause symptoms and labs over time • How magnesium helps with ADHD, anxiety, and sleep in perimenopause • How zone two cardio and yoga improve focus and brain function after 40 TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 What's Really Changing in Your Body After 40 06:33 Can You Skip HRT and Still Be Optimised After 40? 11:08 Does HRT Lower Your Dementia Risk? 14:00 Are You a Good HRT Candidate? How to Know and What to Track 23:19 What Your WHOOP Data Reveals About Perimenopause 28:16 Why ADHD Spikes in Your 40s: The Estrogen-Dopamine Link 33:46 Can't Focus After 40? The Exercise and Supplement Fix 40:17 How Weight Training Protects Your Brain After 40 45:02 Dr. Berzin's Daily Non-Negotiables for High Performance VALUABLE RESOURCES • Take the BioSyncing Quiz to help you understand what's actually happening in your body — and how to fix it.
Why does belly fat suddenly increase in perimenopause, even when you're eating well and exercising? In this episode, Angela Foster speaks with Cynthia Thurlow about the real drivers behind midlife body composition changes, from hormones and muscle loss to stress, inflammation, and gut health. They explore why cortisol and nervous system dysregulation play such a major role in abdominal fat storage, how the gut microbiome impacts oestrogen metabolism, and the simple strategies women can use to support metabolic health and feel more in control of their bodies again. KEY TAKEAWAYS Muscle loss reduces insulin sensitivity in midlife Chronic stress increases abdominal fat storage The gut microbiome influences oestrogen metabolism Fibre supports hormone detoxification and inflammation reduction Declining oestrogen impacts digestion and bile production Gut health plays a major role in body composition Midlife body composition changes are reversible with the right strategy VALUABLE RESOURCES • Take the BioSyncing Quiz to help you understand what's actually happening in your body — and how to fix it.
Belly fat in perimenopause isn't just about eating less and moving more — and if that's still the advice you're getting, this conversation is long overdue. Nurse practitioner and metabolic health expert Cynthia Thurlow breaks down the real drivers behind midlife body composition changes: muscle loss, declining insulin sensitivity, shifting hormones, a changing gut microbiome, and the one factor almost everyone overlooks — chronic stress and unresolved trauma. There's a fascinating deep dive into the estrobolome and how the gut processes and clears oestrogen, why fibre has become the most polarising word in nutrition, and what bitter greens have to do with your gallbladder. Practical, evidence-led and genuinely eye-opening. The good news? These changes are not permanent. There's a lot that can be done — and it starts with understanding what's actually going on. Informed, honest and packed with actionable insight for women navigating midlife health. 5 KEY TAKEAWAYS Belly fat in perimenopause has multiple root causes — muscle loss, declining oestrogen and testosterone, reduced insulin sensitivity, and a less diverse gut microbiome all play a role. Addressing just one without the others will only get you so far. The abdomen has 40 times more cortisol receptors than other areas of the body. Chronic stress — including unresolved childhood trauma — directly contributes to visceral fat accumulation and metabolic disease risk. The estrobolome — the part of the gut microbiome responsible for processing oestrogen — depends heavily on fibre intake. Without sufficient fibre, oestrogen gets recirculated rather than excreted, amplifying hormonal imbalance. Short-chain fatty acids, produced when gut bacteria ferment dietary fibre, are critical signalling molecules that reduce inflammation, protect the gut lining, and support the body's own natural GLP-1 production. Body composition changes in perimenopause are not inevitable or permanent. Practical steps — deep breathing before meals, nutrient-dense whole foods, adequate hydration, and addressing stress — can meaningfully shift outcomes. QUOTES "We have 40 times more cortisol receptors in our abdomen — so when someone says they went through a stressful period and noticed body composition changes, I understand physiologically exactly why that happens." "The gut is this main communicator with the rest of the body — when I think about how many things about body composition are impacted by gut health, it is literally everything." "If your body does not feel safe, that will absolutely contribute. Unresolved stress and trauma are not separate from metabolic health." "Fiber has become the new F word because it is very polarising — but if you look at the research, it is missing from most people's diets." "These do not have to be permanent issues. There are definitely things we can do to buffer up against the changes that are happening." VALUABLE RESOURCES • Take the BioSyncing Quiz to help you understand what's actually happening in your body — and how to fix it.
Most women doing everything right in perimenopause still feel exhausted, foggy, and frustrated by belly fat that won't shift. This is not a willpower problem. It is an estrogen problem, and most women are being told to wait when they should be acting now. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Robin Berzin, founder of Parsley Health, to explore why belly fat accumulates around the middle as estrogen shifts, why 43% of ADHD diagnoses in women hit between 41 and 50, and why estrogen loss drives brain fog and dopamine decline that most doctors are missing. Dr. Berzin also makes the case for starting hormone therapy early and shares what data from 120 million women tells us about HRT, dementia risk, and long-term protection for your brain, bones, and heart. WHAT YOU'LL LEARN • Why brain fog gets worse in perimenopause • The link between estrogen, dopamine, and focus after 40 • Why so many women are being diagnosed with ADHD in their 40s • The early signs of perimenopause • How HRT reduce the risk of dementia and Alzheimer's in women • How low progesterone affects your sleep, skin, and mood • How to track perimenopause symptoms and labs over time • How magnesium helps with ADHD, anxiety, and sleep in perimenopause • How zone two cardio and yoga improve focus and brain function after 40 VALUABLE RESOURCES • Take the BioSyncing Quiz to help you understand what's actually happening in your body — and how to fix it.
When was the last time you made a decision that fit for you? Performance coach and creative business strategist Shari Teigman joins Lesley Logan to pull back the curtain on the chaotic beauty of perimenopause. Shari specializes in helping high-achieving people stop following outdated templates to finally start listening to their own internal rhythm. This episode is a permission slip to stop holding everyone else's baggage, how to move from fear to curiosity, and start making decisions that actually serve the woman you are becoming today. If you have any questions about this episode or want to get some of the resources we mentioned, head over to LesleyLogan.co/podcast https://lesleylogan.co/podcast/. If you have any comments or questions about the Be It pod shoot us a message at beit@lesleylogan.co mailto:beit@lesleylogan.co. And as always, if you're enjoying the show please share it with someone who you think would enjoy it as well. 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Never miss another show by subscribing at LesleyLogan.co/subscribe https://lesleylogan.co/podcast/#follow-subscribe-free.In this episode you will learn about:Navigating the "not this" phase to rediscover your true identity.Why perimenopause is the best time for deep internal decluttering.The "red shoe" analogy for carrying other people's emotional baggage.How to transition from paralyzing fear to productive, playful curiosity.Using internal contradictions to stop lying to your own nervous system.Episode References/Links:Shari Teigman Website - https://shariteigman.comShari Teigman Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/shariteigmanThe Maverick Way: A Field Guide to Coming Undone on Purpose - https://sharidteigman.ac-page.com/TheMaverickWayPrelaunch?test=trueFemGevity - femgevityhealth.comBig Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert - elizabethgilbert.com/books/big-magicTiny Habits by BJ Fogg - tinyhabits.com/bookWhat to Expect When You're Expecting by Heidi Murkoff - https://a.co/d/0j80fU42Submit your wins or questions - https://beitpod.com/questionsGuest Bio:Shari Teigman serves as a catalyst for high achievers who are ready to dismantle the status quo and reclaim their individuality. As a performance mentor and strategist, she guides leaders through the process of unlearning rigid structures to make room for radical, creative breakthroughs. Shari is best known for her ability to cut through the noise with a blend of sharp strategic insight and a "Maverick" spirit, encouraging her clients to stop adjusting to external pressures and start building lives that resonate with their core values.Beyond her strategic work, Shari is a dedicated advocate for personal sovereignty, helping global professionals navigate the complex intersection of high-level performance and emotional well-being. By challenging the traditional "resiliency" narrative, she provides the tools necessary to move from a state of constant survival into one of intentional, authentic growth. Whether she is addressing the mental shifts of perimenopause or the hurdles of international business, Shari's mission is to ensure that success never comes at the cost of self-recognition. 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You call it your culture, your religion, your family, your blah, blah, blah. And you open up this bag and it's filled with shit you don't know, so you have no room for new stuff.Lesley Logan 0:18 Welcome to the Be It Till You See It podcast where we talk about taking messy action, knowing that perfect is boring. I'm Lesley Logan, Pilates instructor and fitness business coach. I've trained thousands of people around the world and the number one thing I see stopping people from achieving anything is self-doubt. My friends, action brings clarity and it's the antidote to fear. Each week, my guest will bring bold, executable, intrinsic and targeted steps that you can use to put yourself first and Be It Till You See It. It's a practice, not a perfect. Let's get started. Lesley Logan 0:57 All right, Be It babe, get ready. Get your notes out if you're driving, Get your ears on. This is an interview I was stoked to have, and I'm even more excited for it to be in your ears right now than I could have imagined. Shari Teigman is our guest today. She is the coach for Mavericks. But really, truly, you high flying women that listen to this podcast who are going through perimenopause, maybe already there may be on the other side, but when I talk about being it until you see it, sometimes you're like, well, who am I? Now? We are going to dive into so many different amazing tools, tats. There's going to be nuggets that are going to just go that hit right where I needed it to. You will relisten to this episode. I know it's great. We did record during Mercury in Retrograde. So there are a couple of times where I think there might be a blip in the audio. I promise you you didn't miss anything. So please bear with the three of those that happen if my team didn't get rid of them and and just know that like the magic is here, and it's very much worth listening to, and relistening to and sharing with a girlfriend of yours who needs to hear it. So here is Shari Teigman. Lesley Logan 2:06 All right, Be It babe. So here's the deal. I have been kind of stalking this woman for a bit through the socials, and when I saw her and what she raves about, I was like, oh, we have to have her on the be it pod. She is exactly what you guys need to hear today and probably repeat this episode. We haven't had it yet, but I have a feeling there's gonna be some nuggets you're gonna want to relisten to. So Shari Teigman, tell everyone who you are and what you rock at. Shari Teigman 2:30 I would say I feel pressure, but I don't. I'm just excited. So thank you for having me. I'm very excited to be here and stalking right back. So I always love finding a friend on the interwebs that sounds and moves like me. Well, you move better than I do, Pilates and all, but the energy, the excitement and the passion for life and a lot of realness as well. So I am a performance coach and a creative business strategist, and I help people unleash the Maverick within them. So it's stopping following everyone else's bullshit templates and moving into a space where you're listening to your own gut, you're following your own rules, and it doesn't mean you're rebelling against anything, and it doesn't mean you have to be angry at everyone. You know the stage of life can come with a little perimenopausal rage, which is always welcome in my world. But I work with both men and women to find a beat of their own drums so that they don't have to be checking in everyone's yards to see what they're doing and measuring themselves non stop. We're not in high school. I didn't do it in high school. I'm certainly not doing it now. So that is the fire that I like to bring to the world.Lesley Logan 3:27 Oh, I love that, and I love how clear you are in what you do. And I'm sure many people's ears perked up on the menopausal race, all that stuff, because I think, like one of the things that so I started doing this podcast years ago, and I'm like, I know who I am and people are trying to figure out why I'm so confident, and really, it's just because I do things scared. But then, like, you know, you start to get past 40, and you're like, why am I freaking out? Well, who? Why am I (inaudible). Shari Teigman 3:52 Fearless me? Lesley Logan 3:54 Yeah, why, why am I hesitating? Like, what? What is happening and and like, in being until I see it, it's like, wow, this is, like, a lifelong thing. Thank goodness I like doing this. But also, but also, like, it is interesting to get to know yourself again when you especially for the women who love the show and who we attract, who thought they did, and now they're like, kind of feeling like my girlfriend said today that she feels like she has, like, sea legs.Shari Teigman 4:20 Yeah, it's so nice of you to call it interesting, to get us to know ourselves, because I have some other choice words for the state of life while I accept it and rage, it's fascinating. And may not get all metaphysical here, and you're going to have to drag me into a crone phase of my life. I don't plan on going lightly or gracefully, but there is the no shits given point where we do get to course correct and say, okay, for those of us who did know ourselves for the past 15, 20, 30 years to check in that that's still what we want, or the identifications are still valid and accurate and have not expired just because everyone else like someone they work for everyone else. So it's a real face to the fire moment of I say I'm all these things. I better check in that I still am because I'm too tired and can't remember anything to pretend I'm something that I'm not. So I think it's a real truth telling phase. And like I said, I'm not planning on getting old and wise, but I will be loud and old and happy, fun. I just got to get through this can't remember my name thing, and then, you know, carry on to the next chapter. Lesley Logan 5:28 The other day, I saw this thing, and the guy was on Instagram, and the guy was like, hey, you meet someone who was born in 1995 and it's, they're 30 years old. And you're like, that's interesting. I'm 30 years old. And then I'm like, weird. And then I was like, wait, oh, I'm not I. I just keep thinking that I am.Shari Teigman 5:45 Yes, my eldest son turned 26 and I am not okay because I'm 22 and I'm not good at math, but that is not math. That is off, all off. Lesley Logan 5:50 So you said we have to, like, check in with ourselves. And I think that that is, like, a brilliant thing that no one has told us to do, right? Like, as you grow up, everyone's like, what do you want to be when you grow up? And then you go to school to be that thing, and you're like, check the box. And I think all the high flyers are good box checkers. Like, check this box and check that box and and so we've checked all the boxes, and then we get to a place, it's like, but how do you check in? Like, you add more boxes. What? What did you do, Shari? Like, how do you check in to see if these are the things you still want?Shari Teigman 6:22 So it's a long answer, Lesley. Lesley Logan 6:24 I'll take it. Shari Teigman 6:27 For me, I have, I have decluttered the boxes many times, because for the first 33 years of my life, I fit very well into the boxes I was supposed to that I was given. And I did a great job, and I was funny about it and zesty about it, and Miss bubbly and head cheerleader and exactly what you think I was like at 18. I still am like at 51 and I went through a really rough divorce in my early 30s as a mom of two kids, and after a couple of years of survival and just knowing what I didn't want, which is a very painful but beautiful process I can say now later, that not knowing what I want, Liz Gilbert had a great I saw her in an interview, and I love her. In my head, she's my best friend, but she just doesn't know it yet. So we'll let her know it's fine. But my bestie, Liz said on this podcast, she went through an era which was called not this. So everything became not this, not this, not this. Most of us think we have to know what we want, and you said it, we're asked when we're younger, what do you want to be? I have no idea what the hell I want to be. I have no idea what the things are my options. So I can pick something off the cereal shelf and not know what's inside. And then, because I said it, I then went to school for it, and then I wore the t-shirt for it, and I told everyone about it, and I posted on social media about it. I can't not do it now. So we wear these costumes for a while, and then they start getting tight and uncomfortable, and not because of the perimenopausal weight. I mean, internally. And then you say, wait, am I allowed to put it down? Is the question I asked myself. So in this, not this phase, at the end of my divorce with these two amazing kids that I love, I then free myself from a situation and I saw black because I had no idea who I was and I had no idea what I wanted. I hadn't gotten up to asking myself that question, probably for the first time in my life at 34. Terrifying, highly don't recommend, but we got here. And so I think at that point, I stripped away everything that I knew and said, well, if none of this was true, what if I could be anything? So hence, the Maverick was born after, I mean, I make it sound really nice, there were a lot of crying on the floor and break down in the therapist's office. And I had had psychiatrists call me scrappy. He's like, you don't need meds, you're scrappy, you'll be fine. I blew up at him, and I don't react to anyone. I was like, I get a reward for being able to constantly be in survival mode. Americans, brace yourself. He refunded me my $250 which does not happen in our country. He was so apologetic that he pissed me off so much he probably got all the rage that everyone in my life until then had not gotten. It was amazing. So the long answer is, I checked in, and all of a sudden nothing felt like me. And while that was scary, it was so liberating, because I didn't have to fit new stuff into an old package. I was like, wee let's just turn the whole thing upside down, and I rebuilt what I wanted and put the right things back in in the drawer, instead of whose is this sock? Like example I always use is, I think the first piece of finding yourself is unpacking. So let's say you go on a girl's weekend with a bunch of friends, and the last night's a little blurry. No one remembers how they got to the airport. You get home, you open your polka dotted suitcase, and there's a red shoe. You don't have a red shoe. You go into the WhatsApp group, you're like, hi, guys, has everyone thrown up yet? Anyone's red shoe? Does this belong to anyone? Of course, you know it's not yours. But in our lives, we walk around carrying everyone else's red shoes and polka dotted bags and pile of crap, and you walk around wheeling it with you, because you call it identity, you call it belonging, you call it your culture, your religion, your family, your blah, blah, blah. And you open up this bag and it's filled with shit you don't know so you have no room for new stuff. So you and I's come into the world with all this passion and all this excitement, and everyone's hands are filled wondering, where do I put one more thing? You have to unpack, and you have to understand why you keep repacking the same thing in order to then get a chance to make any choices.Lesley Logan 10:33 That is an I love that long answer so much because it's like the simple like, the part that we all wanted to hear was like the short answer, oh, just do these three things. Shari Teigman 10:44 I can't do it because I don't believe it. And I used to listen to it and cry and think I was broken because I don't have that availability. So now what do I do? Lesley Logan 10:51 Yeah, and I also like, thank goodness, like, that guy gave that money back. I can't believe there was a guy and he gave his money back. I can't believe it was a man who told you you don't need drugs. But I can't believe apologize (inaudible) because one of the things that like, I it like, is nailed on a chalkboard when someone goes, oh, you're just so resilient. I'm like, I don't want to be resilient anymore.Shari Teigman 11:14 And I hang that one up because I know, and I know you all appreciate it, but it's killing me from the inside, so (inaudible) anymore? Thank you for appreciating it. Lesley Logan 11:25 Right because also, like, of course, as a business owner, as someone who's still, like making the money we need to make till we're retired and living our best life. Resiliency is great in my day to day, like operating my business, but like being resilient in my friendships and my family-ships and all that stuff, it's like, no, because then you don't ever check on me. No one checks on me. Shari Teigman 11:43 And also, we don't know how to ask for help yet then, because it's already uncomfortable and there's no room for it, so you're like, but can I? No, can't, no. Lesley Logan 11:51 Why can't I ask you because I'm holding your red shoe. I can't ask you because I'm holding your red shoe. Shari Teigman 11:56 And I never learned how, so I guess I'm the red shoe holder now.Lesley Logan 12:01 Okay, so, but then, like, so we have to, I love the not this, and I love the unpacking. I think that that is so key. It's, I mean, like, you know, there's something I want to, I want to do in our business, and it requires letting go of some other things. Like, you can't, can't just keep adding to the, you know, it's so then it's unraveling. Like, well, what am I letting go of? And what? What does that look like? And for everyone listening who is freaking out, I'm not letting go of the things that you're paying for, don't worry. It's like, doesn't affect you. It's not affecting you. There's no change affecting you. Okay? It's affecting the people who work (inaudible) I know I'm like, it's affecting, it's affecting the people who work for me. It's not affecting you. You have to stipulate, because people start to freak out, like, so, but thankfully, I understand that right, like the old, the old me would have been like, okay, let's just, let's just, let's just add these, undo that expander zipper and, like, shove, we'll just shove this in. So I love that. I know that about myself now, and I think that that is the real key. But I think, you know, you Shari, got to figure that out kind of in your 30s and so, and like, I find that a lot of people are figuring out in perimenopause, as they're freaking out and don't know themselves, and now they have to unpack. And that's a I find, I still, I feel nervous for that, because is it a hard time to, like, relearn who you are, or is it the best time to relearn how you are?Shari Teigman 13:21 Both. It's hard and the best time. Because as crazy as this sounds, because from a neuroplasticity place, we can't hold on to as much of the story as we did because of the brain fog and the hormones changing, there's a release valve comes. But what's terrifying about it is we never had it before. So the feeling of loss of control is one that makes us want to grip to the old story, my old identity, the things that I achieved in my job before the younger people came in and take it, or technology's changing, or my kids no longer think I'm cool, or I've been with my husband 40 years. I can't even hear him chew anymore. You know, like all the things that we hear from this rage that they don't realize is coming from a lack of tolerance, the tipping point in themselves of what they've made okay for themselves for all these years. So it comes out in a burst, because it's not going to come out any other way. There's not going to be everyone at 2pm everyone open up their computers, scream, and then close it, and we'll all feel better. I mean, I feel like we should start this. The world would be a much better place. But since we don't have it, we wait until everything is chaotic and we hate everything, and then we have to start looking at it. So the kind of stuff I teach, when I teach with FemGevity and with a lot of my private clients, is just starting to ask yourself better questions. Instead of assuming it's only this one category of life, it gives you more permission to be creative. I think if we move from fear to curiosity, we ask better questions, we get better answers. It doesn't mean I'm asking anyone to change anything yet, but when was the last time you made a decision that fit for you? I know it hurts, because even as I teach it, I'm like, brace yourself, girls, because we're going in and I'm going in there with you, oh, my god, I haven't made a decision for myself or I didn't think of my partner, or I didn't think of my team, or I didn't think of my kids, or I didn't think what my family is going to think. I don't know. I don't know the last time I asked myself that. So then I have someone just start with an easy thing. What do you want for dinner? And it's heartbreaking to ask a woman in their 40s and 50s, what she wants for dinner, and she looks at you with a blank look because she doesn't know. She (inaudible) went to what do I have leftovers for the kids, for tomorrow, for school? What can my husband take? What did I get from the supermarket that's about to spoil? I asked what you want for dinner, and then the tears go. What kind of TV do you want to watch? What sheets do you want on the bed? And we're talking professional, high achieving women who just look completely blankly at no one ever taught me to I wouldn't, wasn't allowed to ask a question. There was no space in my high achieving masculine run life and then emotional vulnerability that I have to hide. Who has space for it? So I think if we allow ourselves in this perimenopausal phase to say the exploration can be curious and creative and playful and find community to do it in. You're not crazy or we're all crazy together, and we're just going to figure this out, and there's no right or wrong answer, and no one is taking anything away from you. So it's in sovereignty we get to unpack one whole red shoe for another three years? Go right ahead, girl, no one's pulling the shoe away from you, but if we can slowly untangle the things that hurt us the most limit us the most, a lot of the other stuff sorts itself. It just feels like an emergency because we've never asked ourselves the question. Lesley Logan 16:38 Yeah, it feels like an emergency because I also think like we are so, our brains don't really know how to prioritize different things, so we the red shoe and the leftovers and that big merger you're working on, or whatever it is, they all take up the same priority level in the brain. So that's why they feel like that, right? But I want to highlight something, you said, untangle. And I think that's where a lot of people don't understand that that's such a key word I got to study with BJ Fogg and his and his habits training, and he talks about how to break a habit, which is, you have to, there's no such thing. It's not a stick. You have to unravel it. Because a habit is something that you no longer like, that you do, like a habit.Shari Teigman 17:21 I don't know how to make habits. I'm like, oh, sure, you do. Where's your chocolate habit? Where is your phone scrolling habit? Like you're an epic master at your habits. Everyone needs to be different. Who is it? We're wired.Lesley Logan 17:33 We're wired, you're, it literally is a brain wiring thing. And so untangling those things, and it's true, like when you can figure out, okay, I would like to untangle that I have I don't get to choose what I'm having for dinner. You know, then it becomes, you get to figure out, well, where did it start? Well, actually, maybe everyone you've been thinking about, everybody wants for dinner, and they actually thought you were thinking what you wanted for dinner.Shari Teigman 17:57 And also you're dead on. And it's a more gentle process. It's not like you walk into the family and say, you can all fuck off and make your own food. I want pasta, and they will look at you like, did you bang your head? And then that perimenopausal terror on everyone else's face, receiving the rage is like, oh, wait a second. Can everyone pick a night like they're gentle ways to do this. I actually want everyone else to make some decisions in this house, teenagers then feel empowered. A partner is then included. You get to pick, or guess what, you're allowed to eat something different than everyone else. It's most of these parameters we put on ourselves, and we blame everyone else because we didn't ask.Lesley Logan 18:34 Yeah, yes, no, I'm laughing so hard. Okay, so my husband, he's amazing at doing projects at night. Like, he like, he like, like, the sun goes down, I go to bed, and he is like, you know, he becomes the midnight gardener. Or, like, he puts together something, or, right before I turn this on, he's like, hey, did you see the thing I did in your office? Like, he put all the cords, you know, all the cords, in like, a little sleeve. So, like, it's nice. I know, we love him. Last night, he was doing the same thing he did the same thing he did the night before. The night before, I slept like the dead. I got like a 90% recovery, last night, 1:14 I'm hearing this like It's like drilling, and I am like, did I get up and go, hey, that's I just woke up to that. No. Instead, do you know I did? I sat there for 15 minutes going, when the fuck is it gonna be done? (inaudible) And then I marched down the hall, like, what the fuck are you doing? Shari Teigman 19:28 Why is this a good idea? Lesley Logan 19:31 Why are you doing this? And he's like, I did this last night. I didn't wake up last night. And I was like, well, clears in a different part of my rim cycle. I'm clearly in a different part of my cycle right now.Shari Teigman 19:44 Wind has blown. I am no longer who I was yesterday. You should have known that.Lesley Logan 19:49 Hello, but like, it's this funny thing, because we we do take on so much, and we wait until it's the paramount explosion to say what we're thinking instead of like, I thought, at at the moment I woke up, I thought, what is that noise? And if I had just been inquisitive it could have been, oh, hey, instead of, like, the and then, of course, did I sleep? No, I didn't sleep because I was angry.Shari Teigman 20:10 You weren't finished. You were still processing. You know, it comes like someone doesn't throw out a tissue and the whole house you're on fire just because you didn't say 14 other things because, oh, it's fine. It's fine. It's no longer fine, ladies, it, none is, nothing's fine. So we have to find our voices be kind, and realize we taught everyone else how to treat us so we don't get to be mad at them. We get to teach them what the next version of us needs, and most of us have no idea. So we get to sit down with our children, and we get to sit down with our partners and our friends and our family members, as terrifying as it is, and say there's a new sheriff in town, and I'm just getting to know her, and I need a little grace. And I like I know for my partner, I'm not speaking for him, but I could see the relief on his face when I'll actually say what I'm feeling, instead of him trying to guess which mood I'm in, or I say I have no idea what I need. And he's so relieved, because then he doesn't have to figure it out. Like the people who love us just want us better. Is it over yet? I wish it was over. I don't have cold. I'm just 51 it does. I don't know when it ends.Lesley Logan 21:17 I know that's the fun part. It's like, like, and also, and also, if you care about your heart health, ladies, you want to keep it going for a really long time, so then you better figure out how to talk about what you need and how to manage is the, not the word I want to because I don't like the way that it sounds, but like navigate or dance with all of this change, because once you are on the other side of this and your brain has changed and all the things, then you get to worry about your heart. So I'm just gonna say like you might want to lengthen this out and figure out who you want to be.Shari Teigman 21:54 Also, what an opportunity. I know it sounds ridiculous, but I like to take the funny side of life. If we already feel like shit. Why don't we start unpacking when we already feel like shit? I'm not gonna wait till I feel better to then figure it out. I'll be much more honest with myself if I have frustration. It's like, you know what? I don't want to do that anymore, even though I've done it every Tuesday for the past 20 years. I'm good. I don't want to apologize for it. No is a complete sentence. I don't have to be unkind. But I'm done. I'm done with that task at work. People then learn your new boundaries, and weirdly, they adjust faster than we do. No one else stays up at night worrying about this. Oh, she wants something different, cool. Oh, God, I should have said that 20 years ago. Why didn't I say that 20 years ago? Lesley Logan 22:35 Yeah, yeah. Well, and that's, that is, I think, where a lot of people get stuck. It's like, why, why? And it's like, almost like it's that is worth exploring. And also, in the meantime, just start sticking up for yourself now.Shari Teigman 22:46 Process it later but we'll get to it. And I find a lot of my clients, both men and women, are so terrified to put down what they've been doing, because if they realize that it's much easier to get unstuck than it was to get stuck, they're mortified at how long they tortured themselves, in their mindset, in their performance, in their roles, in what they made true. I could just decide tomorrow not to be stressed about that. Obviously, there's more to it. But then, what do I do with the 20 years of torture that's I have to reconcile that I lost that time, or I gave that away, or I let someone else make decisions for me, it's painful, but we don't have to sit in it, acknowledge it, and say, I'm not going to lose any more days.Lesley Logan 23:28 Yeah, yeah. I guess, like, do they need to I mean, do they need to feel the pain? Do they need to grieve? How do they what is the best way to acknowledge it so that they can, you know, keep going with the new way and be satisfied in that?Shari Teigman 23:41 I love the question, because most people think I can't do that. You have no choice if you want to get there. I believe that equal to the level of joy and fulfillment and peace you want, you have to be willing to go as deep as you want to go high it's we don't get to close off one door and then think, you know the arrow is going to stretch without pulling it back. So I like to call it the glorious end. I can be pissed off and ready. I can be terrified and excited. I can be sad and elated about something. So if I don't allow the emotion, the emotion will sneak up on me when I don't want it, it will come out in the who put the empty cereal box back in the cabinet. It'll come out at work when it should have come out at home and vice versa. It'll come out in too small a new decision, because I don't have the bandwidth to make the real decision I want. Why would we waste more energy? So for me, I tell everyone, men and women, feel it. Punch a pillow. Cry in a pillow, write it out. Burn it out, whatever your ritual needs to be dance it out, bang it out. I'm actually coming out with a journal in a few months that is basically, it's called The Maverick Way: A Field Guide to Coming Undone on Purpose. And every exercise is more ridiculous than the next one. And it's like, the Fuck It Resume is one of them. Like, what are the things you're terrible at? Write it out like we have to tell the truth so we can't. Pretend to only have the highlight reel, and then feel like a human being I am awful at some things, which reminds me of why I'm so good at other things. Then I've got my own way. I don't know what I want. Of course, you don't know. You don't know who you are. You're not willing to say I'm not good at that. Knowing that bothers me. That makes me cry. Am I too much? Okay, am I too little for someone else? Okay. We have to take all of these rules away, feel what we need to feel, and say, I know that might not make may not make you sad, Lesley, but I've been thinking about this for 40 years, and I need to sit in this for a couple of hours and just grieve what I made okay, or mourn what I lost, the conversations I didn't have, the jobs I didn't get, the pain I allowed myself because I didn't want to hurt anyone else, like ow, that hurts, and we get tired of the feeling very quickly when we let it stick it out, when you avoid it, it will chase your ass everywhere and pop up when you don't want it. I am going to grieve, because it's part of my process of making space for something new. I'm unpacking. So I'm unpacking, and I'm understanding. In my unpack, I'm really angry at my third grade teacher because she told me that I couldn't do something, and I believed her for the next 30 years, and she wouldn't even remember who I was. So I already think it. I might as well let myself, let it come up, journal it out, write it on the wall, scream it, throw it, laugh at it. Whatever you need. You get a freedom. There's just a release. As soon as you have release, just like in our bodies, you know, Pilates, yoga, what do you do? Breathe deeper into it so it releases. Grip it. You're all in grip. You know, it's a Chinese finger, that's trapped, it's not getting out. So how do we get out of where we're trapped? We release. We go deeper in, and then we can come out. It sounds scary, but if we don't judge emotions for right or wrong, we'll just feel what I need to feel. I don't need it anymore.Lesley Logan 26:45 Oh, I love this so much. And also, are you gonna do a fuck it retreat? Because you could do a fucking retreat where we could have rooms with pillows and then the smash rooms, and then we could have those, like those phone booths you could just scream in. Shari Teigman 26:57 And then a nap room for all of the exhausted rage.Lesley Logan 27:01 Yes, oh my god, this is like this all. It could just be a fucking space, and people could just be members.Shari Teigman 27:07 Yes, I love this. Every month there's a new way to let it go.Lesley Logan 27:12 I'm in. I interviewed this guy who, like, created these booths for hospitals where, like, nurses or doctors could go in. And I think he said it was just so they could have some peace and quiet, because hospitals are really loud, and all I could think is, like, you could scream in there.Shari Teigman 27:26 I would totally. Are you telling me it's soundproof so you won't know what I'm doing in there? (inaudible)Lesley Logan 27:34 I know. Like, isn't this? I think this, in Vegas, there's a place where you can go and, like, smash things. And I'm like, you can go, like a rage.Shari Teigman 27:40 (inaudible) to one in New York. I think it's the greatest thing I've ever done in my whole life. We did it five years ago. My kids and I are still talking about it. It was so powerful, and it was very meditative. And I never felt stronger in my life. We were running in the streets afterwards, kicking garbage cans, which maybe they should have a restroom afterwards, because we were so amped up.Lesley Logan 28:01 Like, like a waiting area, like a reentry.Shari Teigman 28:05 We're gonna integrate before we let you on the streets of Brooklyn, lady, thanks.Lesley Logan 28:11 Oh, my god, I love that so much. Okay, so obviously, like, you work with these amazing Mavericks, and you do have a lot of experience, and you talk about perimenopause, is there anything that you find in the perimenopause space with women? Because that's we have a lot of and we have, you know, we have a women who are on the other side and enjoy your space, ladies, I hope you're, hope you're having a great time. We'll get this. Shari Teigman 28:30 We're coming as fast as we can.Lesley Logan 28:33 But is there, are there signs and symptoms that people are ignoring? Because I think, like everyone pays attention to the medical ones, the hot flashes or dryness, or my whatever, but like, what about like, the emotional? And that's one of the things I think I tried. There's these, these things that come out in our personalities.Shari Teigman 28:50 I think it's that. It's those days you feel like Jekyll and Hyde, and then you're counting your cycle, and you're wondering, it's not physical, it's the emotional, shorter fuse. Care about less things, because sometimes we're more emotional and other times we're equal amounts of completely numb. So when you feel yourself numbing out, notice when you feel yourself raging about something you didn't care about before. Or I know for me, the lack of control when a brain fog comes in, I'm obviously creative and very cerebral and very verbal, and when I can't remember my name or remember how to say the word pink, I get terrified. I thought I had dementia. I didn't know this was a thing. I was I something's wrong with me, so noticing when you just don't feel like yourself, like I remember when I was pregnant with my first son, I was 24, what the hell was I doing? But okay, I was 24 shouldn't have been allowed to cross the street by myself, and I didn't lose him. He's great. We were figuring things out as we go. But we have these books What to Expect When You're Expecting. Never read them. If you don't have the symptoms that week you think something's wrong, and the last time I checked a woman's body, you and I could be next to each other. We won't have anything that's the same. Why the hell would I follow someone else's blueprint for life, pregnancy, for business, for relationships? I don't want blueprints. I want tear away sheets where I can make it up and then throw it out when I'm done. So if you feel something that isn't you and you're not sure how you feel about it, because some of us like that, all of a sudden I care less or that I can't remember every detail about some gossip someone told me that I don't not interested in. I kind of like that it blows out. So when I started noticing the difference, because I was scared, I only paid attention to the bad things. But when I found out I wasn't dying, I blessedly, didn't have dementia, I'm just lucky enough to graduate to the next video game of mother of womanhood, yay. And the new monsters are coming. I tried to look at, what are the good things? And I do that with all the FemGevity women is, what do you like in the midst of it that I can't juggle as much as I used to? So, I used to be queen multitasker, and I can't do it anymore, and it's okay, and it's actually really nice for my nervous system not to be the master of all at all times, like, I don't have that valve anymore, I can enjoy that, that when I want to be present, I can actually feel more present, because I can't be on as much as I used to be. I care less about a lot of things, so I will speak out for myself, not as much as I'd like to, but much more than I used to, because I can't keep it in anymore. It just comes out of my mouth, like, who, who said that? I would never used to say that. So look at the pros and cons of this. If we're on this roller coaster, instead of just gripping the bar, maybe we could put our hands up once in a while. Maybe we can enjoy the view from at the top of it before we drop. So what are the things that if you could let go of that you've never been able to your whole life? What if this is the opportunity to loosen some of the glue, move some of those joints and let it out anyway, in the wash, because it's going so we don't have to hold everything and new hobbies, things that I haven't made the time for, that my brain can use as new instead of I used to be good at this, and I'm not anymore. What else do I want to try? So I travel a lot for work, so I'm in London for a month, New York for a month, alternating. So I try to let my brain be a different version of me, wherever I am, because I'm jet lagged and exhausted, even if I didn't go anywhere. So it's like, okay, which version is going to be me? So like, I'm in London now, when I go home, I saw a three hour DJ class. I'm not a musician. I know nothing about it, but my brain wants something new to chew on, instead of all the mistakes that I've made and all the things that I can't remember and where did I put my keys? I'm going to go use it for something fun. If there's space in there, because I can't remember anything, I might as well put something good in there. So I think it's the permission to let it flow out of you, good and bad at the same time, and just say you're moving anyway. So you know, when you move house, like, while it's emotional and sad, you find shit you didn't even know was there. So the piles for donation and the clearing out of the 14 mugs you got at someone's Bar Mitzvah that you don't need. Like, it's a great time to let stuff go. We don't have to pack it all and bring it to the next place. So I think if you look at it as a time of decluttering and re-deciding those mental symptoms can be less scary. It's not, oh, I'm gone. No, that version of me doesn't want to be here anymore, because if it did, I'd find a way to keep her.Lesley Logan 33:22 Yeah, yeah. Oh, okay. I'm obsessed with you and all this. And there is the woman who's listening going, okay, well, easy, easy for you to say, you know what? I mean, like, what do you what do you say to the person who's like, kind of, and I'm sure you've met them, they kind of fight to to hold, I mean, we already talked about this, fighting to hold on to the shoes.Shari Teigman 33:42 (inaudible) I am her, so I was the biggest train wreck in this of anybody. I've got two kids in their 20s. My mom, who was my best friend, passed away a year and a half ago. I work internationally, so I never know what time zone I'm in, and then perimenopause hits, and I'm 4'11" and gained about 45 pounds overnight, so I looked like a little blueberry. I didn't like I don't know what. Everything changed at once. And I'm a fighter. The psychiatrist told me I'm scrappy. I still have that personality trait. I don't go down easily. I don't surrender easily, which is why I'm really good at what I do, because I know the resistance. If 17 years ago, me met me now, I would cross the street. I would never go anywhere near me, because I didn't want the help. I didn't think anything was wrong. I couldn't handle the silence of my own mind. I was in survival mode. So like I get it, I want everyone to know they're looking and listening at a version of two women. I don't know your backstory, but I know you do the work. Who do the work? Which means there was a reason we started the work. You're seeing an evolved version of us. I mean, if you want the old me, I'm good, I'll tell you. And you people say to me, why do you tell everyone everything like so they don't put me on some imaginary pedestal. I'm crazier than you. I'm ragier here than you. I have more mood swings than you. I. Work with people, and I don't like them so much most of the time. I love souls. I don't like all the people-y stuffs like, I'm friendly, and then I'm not. I'm an introvert, and then I'm an extrovert. I'm on stage dancing, then I don't want to talk to anyone like I am the whole kaleidoscope. So for all the women thinking, oh, but you've got it figured out, I made it up as I go along, and I make it up every day, and people pay me a lot of money to help them make it up also. So if we make it playful and we make it funny, it's easier to untangle, it's easier to get out of our shackles, because everyone's making it up. Lesley Logan 35:33 Yeah? Well, that's the thing, right? Like, that's the thing you like, discover along your entrepreneurial journey. I'm like, I'm in a room with all these people who are making all this time, like, oh, you just bought ads and (inaudible).Shari Teigman 35:46 And you're crying in the bathroom too, while I wanted to take a selfie with you because I thought you were a guru, I'd rather hug you in the bathroom crying. This is even better. Lesley Logan 35:52 Yeah, yeah. And it's, it's really, it's so true, right? Like, because, like, we're on social media, and people can be like, the the typewriter troll, who's like, oh, easy. It's like, and I have just come to the place where I'm like, I really do like, this phase I'm in. I'm like, no, I was homeless 10 years ago, and I've worked my ass off to do my dream job. (inaudible) Yeah, yeah. So I've worked my ass off. And so you might think I'm this, but I'm gonna tell you right now, I deserve everything that I have right now because I work for it. So don't take that from me and.Shari Teigman 36:16 Go (inaudible) your mother's basement and (inaudible) someone else.Lesley Logan 36:26 Exactly. So, but, like, it's so fun. Like, I'm like, wow, the 10 years ago version be like, oh my god. People think I'm this. Shari Teigman 36:34 An imposter. Yeah, no, I am fully me. Sorry everyone. Lesley Logan 36:37 Yeah, but I do. I'm with you. Like, I also think that a lot of people we do have, we have put on imaginary pedestals, have told us their traumas and their stories, and we only we are like, this is this? You are the Mecca that I need to be, and I'm gonna, I'm gonna do all the things. And so I think it's really easy for us to just forget that stuff. And I appreciate your honesty. And I also think thank you for sharing like for everyone listening, I hope you heard like, you just have to kind of get started and get to know every single day. You can't wait until you feel ready. You're not gonna feel ready. I'm sure, I'm sure Shari's never felt, I don't feel ready. Shari Teigman 37:12 I don't feel ready even when I am ready because I wouldn't even ask myself that question, well, we're doing this then, aren't we?Lesley Logan 37:18 Yeah, yeah. It's true. Yeah. It's so true. Because, like, the one time I I said, okay, people, it was many years ago, but the first time I was teaching like 85 people, and all these people had come to this, the first time this event was happening. So, like, I was so, like, I felt blessed and honored and excited to be invited to this, the inaugural of this thing. And I'm looking at all these people who've, like, wanted to take class with me, and they know what they're doing. And then I'm looking at this front this front row of people who just wanted to support me, but they've never done anything. And I'm like, oh my God. I have people who don't know what they're doing. I have people who have this expectation of me that I don't even know what it is. And my husband was micing me, and I'm like, is the mic on? And he's like, no. And I'm like, I'm actually, like, really nervous, right? Like, I don't think I can do this. Shari Teigman 38:01 I don't even ask if the mic's on. I'm like, I'm gonna ship myself, and it'll be 600 people waiting, and I don't want to go, who gave me this microphone? Who thinks I can do this? And then 20 seconds later, I'm on stage, arm flapping like nothing happened. Like, bring all of it with us. If you weren't scared, you wouldn't have missed the whole thing.Lesley Logan 38:19 Yeah, well, and also, and that's just exactly it. And he just like at me, and he just said, how is this different than what you already do? And I was just like, oh, that's right, thank you. Thank you for the reminder that, like it's, I'm fine, but I think, like it's, it's so important that you all hear like we're every person you put on a pedestal. You hear their story, you're like, oh my god, I'm so inspired. They wake up every day and have to figure out who they are that day, like they all do. Shari Teigman 38:44 The panic in our stomach some days and the anxiety. And I'm not wishing anyone stuff they don't have, but I want you to know everyone has their version of this, and it's not, oh, you're so brave. I didn't have a choice, so I got brave. And some days I'm not brave and but unfortunately, I'm a naturally happy, sad person, so like, I navigate this who are we going to be today? I want to be happy, but I feel sad, but I am happy, but I'm also sad. I stopped trying to pick one or the other. I'm both. I love when I'm on a podcast and like BJ Fogg's sister Linda is a friend of mine. We were in a mastermind together years ago. Lesley Logan 39:20 She lives, she lives in my town. Shari Teigman 39:21 Linda, you're kidding me. I love she's amazing. How funny. What a small world. That's crazy, like I watched the Linda's and the BJs of the world, and it's brilliant, and it's all very organized, and it's strategic, and it makes sense. And then you've got me, who is complete creative chaos. It's the only way I know how to function. You either love it or I terrify you. I'm fine with both. I can't, not going to change. I've tried. This is who I am, and I'll be on a podcast big audience, and they're like so Shari, what are your rituals every morning? And I burst out laughing, because I'm not going to lie to anyone which day, which mood, which temperature. What's it like outside? What am I wearing? I don't know. I wake up every morning I decide what I want to feel. I'll start with a feeling I want connection today. So yes, my days are crazy and scheduled, and I'm blessed to have a very busy coaching practice, and I run a department for a company in a country, in another country like I don't have a lot of flexibility in my time, and I still have to lead with what I need. Otherwise, no one else will get anything from me, and it took me a long time to not go into my own performance mode to help everyone else with their performance. What? I stepped into the same step for wife game that I was in my marriage. Climbed out of that, and I'm like, oh, coach world, green juice, yoga pants, alignment, words, what am I wearing? It's all lovely. If it works for you, that's when the Maverick was born. It's either going to be my way or I can't do it. Stop trying to pick up everyone else's way of fitting into your own life. It won't fit you. So again, it's that curiosity, it's that playfulness, it's the bad mood and good mood mixed together. Then you're being honest.Lesley Logan 40:54 Yeah, it's true. I am. I have three hours every morning for a morning routine, and the very start of my morning routine is the same. I get into a cold plunge. I read three books that are like daily things that I'm hopeful that something sticks, and then I go for a walk. And then after the walk, it's like, okay, what do I want to do? Do I want to do Pilates? Do I want to do my shake plate? Do I want to do my red light? Do I want to have breakfast now or breakfast later? And it has to go with what I'm feeling, which is why I gave myself three hours to do that because I, like you, I, well, I just discovered I have ADHD, which is its own fun thing, to discover perimenopausal. And then you're just like, oh, I'm the one they need to I thought my husband had ADHD. No, I do. And then it's like, wait a minute. So I'm overwhelmed because of the ADHD and. Shari Teigman 41:47 All of it, yeah. Lesley Logan 41:49 Just like, What do you mean? I can't, like, I'm also freaking out about the typing of the fingers because I, like, I just thought that I just had sensory integration disorder. So it's just you have to, excuse me, excuse me. I just wasn't diagnosed as a child and and here we are and now I get to know myself and perimenopause. But I think, like, I love that you share that, because I think that there's a world where you can be in the yoga pants with the green juice and the alignment words, and if it does, yes, and if it doesn't work for you. You can be like Shari and I and you can ask yourself how you want to feel, and give yourself the time to feel that. And I think that that's brilliant, yeah. Shari Teigman 42:27 And then have your green juice, or take a nap or rage or sleep or meditate like it's all wonderful, but none of these things are going to save you from yourself till you know yourself.Lesley Logan 42:34 Yeah, oh my god.Shari Teigman 42:34 It doesn't work. I tried it.Lesley Logan 42:34 I'm obsessed with you. We're gonna take a brief break and find out how people can find you, follow you, work with you, and your Be It Action Items. Lesley Logan 42:44 All right, Shari, where do you hang out? Where will this journal be when it's ready? Where can they stalk you?Shari Teigman 42:55 So I hang out on Instagram. I am there. I am loud. Sometimes I'm consistent. This is my consistency. I'm gone for a week, and then you'll see me 14 stories later. It just depends on the mood. When the mood strikes and the ideas come, the journal will be out, I'm hoping in February, which is extremely exciting. It's being designed now by a chaotic designer, which is perfect for me. And I love making new friends so they can come and come say hi to me on Instagram. It's Shari Teigman. You'll see me with my crazy glasses. As I'm known for a variety of glasses, it only happened because I'm on Zoom all day long, and I get very tired of looking at my face, so I needed to mix it up so that I wouldn't be bored. So I'm saying hi.Lesley Logan 43:39 I just needed some magic to look at. There were signs that I had ADHD. I'm like, let's put stars on your hands.Shari Teigman 43:44 I wouldn't have known it, right? I don't know where it came from. So I'm there. This is what I'm like all the time. I love when someone gets on a call with me, like a sales call, like, oh my god, you're exactly like you are online. Who else could I be? This is enough trouble to maintain you think I'm gonna have another personality for someone else? So I'm exactly like this. No one else answers my messages. I love meeting new people. I'd love to hear what you got from the podcast, what you're working on, what's your Maverick? What do you want to say out loud that you won't say to anyone else, like, I'm here to witness it. Come and play.Lesley Logan 44:17 Gosh. Okay, you have really given us so much already, but we do like our bold, executable, intrinsic and targeted steps at the end. What do you have for us?Shari Teigman 44:25 So I actually felt long and hard about this, which you should feel special, Lesley. Lesley Logan 44:29 I do. I actually really do. Shari Teigman 44:30 (inaudible) about anything, so I'll think about it and then I'll forget it. So it's not a want to, it's just in and out. So I think, based upon everything we talked about, an easy action step to live this is it's a hard one to say out loud, but it's going to punch everyone in the face, which is why I like it. Clean up the internal contradictions, and it's as simple as you're saying you want a bigger life, but you keep making micro choices. You're lying to your nervous system. You're answering an older version of yourself. You have to understand that the identity that you want for the life that you want is going to require aligned actions to that. So it's as simple as I say, I want to do Pilates every day, and yet I find myself laying on the couch. Pilates isn't happening. I did it today. I am tired from jet lag. I'm a yoga person. I love it, and I haven't done it so I could tell you, I love yoga, but I haven't done it in six weeks. I didn't realize till I said, when's the last time I took my mat out? Oh my god, I would have told you I did it a few days ago. Perimenopausal brain, I thought I did. So, telling ourselves the truth and cleaning up the internal contradictions makes us stop looking for answers from the outside of like, how come I just can't do it because you're not telling yourself the truth. So if I choose to lay on the couch, maybe I needed it that day. Maybe I didn't realize that that's what I wanted. Like, if I decide to stay on the couch, I do it intentionally. If I decide to do the yoga I don't check my phone in between, like, choose whatever it is intentionally and clean up those internal contradictions. The questions you ask will be much more clear and much more honest, and then you'll get to some answers.Lesley Logan 46:07 It is a good punch in the face, and I really like it. Shari Teigman 46:09 I punch myself in the face with it too. I'm like, oh god, if I say it out loud, I then have to do it.Lesley Logan 46:17 I it's so true, and it's really it's really funny. We get smart like, then I'll just keep it to myself, but.Shari Teigman 46:23 Not gonna unleash that one. Are we? Lesley Logan 46:25 No, I'm like, I won't tell anyone, and then they won't know. Shari Teigman 46:29 Let me know how it goes. Lesley Logan 46:31 Yeah. Oh, that one is so good. I'm so glad to have you. I mean, we're gonna have to have you back. I can't believe we haven't crossed paths, because I feel like you are just a dear friend in my life already. You guys, I agree with Shari. What touched you, what made you think like, what? Where did you go, oh, fuck it, Shari. Can't believe you called me out. She wants to know. I want to know. So tag her. Tag the Be It Pod. Share this with a girlfriend who needs to hear it like cheer for the scrappy front of the resilient friend, because I know that they need to feel so seen, and you know what to do. Until next time, Be It Till You See It. Lesley Logan 47:03 That's all I got for this episode of the Be It Till You See It Podcast. One thing that would help both myself and future listeners is for you to rate the show and leave a review and follow or subscribe for free wherever you listen to your podcast. Also, make sure to introduce yourself over at the Be It Pod on Instagram. I would love to know more about you. Share this episode with whoever you think needs to hear it. Help us and others Be It Till You See It. Have an awesome day. Be It Till You See It is a production of The Bloom Podcast Network. If you want to leave us a message or a question that we might read on another episode, you can text us at +1-310-905-5534 or send a DM on Instagram @BeItPod.Brad Crowell 47:46 It's written, filmed, and recorded by your host, Lesley Logan, and me, Brad Crowell.Lesley Logan 47:51 It is transcribed, produced and edited by the epic team at Disenyo.co.Brad Crowell 47:55 Our theme music is by Ali at Apex Production Music and our branding by designer and artist, Gianfranco Cioffi.Lesley Logan 48:02 Special thanks to Melissa Solomon for creating our visuals.Brad Crowell 48:05 Also to Angelina Herico for adding all of our content to our website. And finally to Meridith Root for keeping us all on point and on time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Feeling enraged lately? Dr. Kameelah Phillips gives us the facts about perimenopausal mood swings — and gets personal about her own. (Red lipstick while listening is not mandatory, but highly encouraged!) … Disclaimer: Information presented by Dr. Phillips does not constitute medical advice or medical care. All medical concerns should be discussed with your healthcare professional. … Recommendations from the archive Check out the other episodes in our perimenopause series: • WTF Is Perimenopause? • Painful Sex and Elusive Orgasms in Perimenopause … Episode resources • Dr. Kameelah Phillips is the founder of Calla Women's Health in New York City • Check out Dr. Phillips's book, The Empowered Hysterectomy … • Join LST+ for community and access to You Know What, another show in the Longest Shortest universe! • Follow us on Instagram • Sign up for our newsletter, where we recommend other parenting + reproductive health media • Buy books by LST guests (your purchase supports the show!) • Website: longestshortesttime.com … Cover photo credit: Ginny Suss Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Microdosing GLP-1 agonists can create powerful shifts in your body—when they're used the right way. The problem? Most people (and even many doctors) are using them as a quick-fix weight loss tool. And when that's the approach, of course you see burnout, terrible side effects, and rebound weight gain. But that doesn't mean these compounds are the problem. It means the strategy is. When used in a microdosing approach, GLP-1 agonists can support your body on a much deeper level—helping improve insulin sensitivity, reduce inflammation, and calm an overworked nervous system. Especially if your body has been stuck in chronic stress or survival mode, this can be the missing piece that allows your system to finally feel safe enough to function differently. This isn't about forcing weight loss. It's about creating the internal environment where your body can release it. You don't have to stay on these forever. You don't have to suffer through harsh side effects. But you do need a more intentional, supportive approach. In this episode, I'll show you what that actually looks like. When you're ready to release the extra weight for good—and finally support your nervous system, metabolism, and relationship with food—it's time to have a conversation. Schedule your free consultation to explore what working together could look like, and whether my 3-part process is the right fit for you. www.bodyyoucrave.com/schedule Chapters (00:00:02) - Hungry for Love(00:00:26) - Gaining Weight With GLP1s(00:06:21) - Turning off your brain: The process(00:06:56) - Tirzepatide and Semaglutide:(00:12:39) - Microdose for Perimenopausal and Menopausal Women in Their 60(00:21:04) - How to Lose Weight With a Strategic Approach(00:22:06) - Pregnant women on GLP1s(00:29:58) - How to manage emotional eating with GLP1(00:33:17) - How to Break the Cycle Around Binge Eating
In this week's episode, I sit down for a chat with Chloe Skerlak. Chloe is wildly passionate about the menstrual cycle! A Full Spectrum Fertility Awareness Educator and Holistic Reproductive Health Practitioner, she educates people from their first period to their last because she believes body literacy is for everyone at every age. She's charted her own cycle for over 10 years and has 8 years of experience teaching fertility awareness education to people who want to achieve or avoid pregnancy without medical intervention, understand themselves and their health better, and live life more cyclically. Infused with joy, laughter, and play, Chloe's classes help people regain their sexual and reproductive sovereignty, become advocates for their own health, and live vibrant, healthy lives. She also loves full moon bathing, partner dancing of all kinds, and taking photos of cervixes! Connect with Chloe:https://www.instagram.com/chloeskerlakConnect with Holly:https://www.instagram.com/rosebud_wellness/
Angela talks to Dr Sarah Berry about the controversial topic of seed oils and their impact on inflammation and cardiovascular health. Dr Berry, who has gained notoriety for her views on seed oils, clarifies the role of saturated fats in increasing LDL cholesterol and cardiovascular risk, emphasising the importance of the food source from which these fats are derived. She also highlights the nuanced differences between unfermented and fermented dairy products, explaining how the fermentation process alters the health effects of saturated fat WHAT YOU WILL LEARN Saturated fat is known to increase LDL cholesterol and is associated with a higher risk of cardiovascular disease. The source of saturated fat matters, as different food matrices can influence health outcomes. Unfermented dairy products, like butter, are linked to increased cholesterol and cardiovascular risk Fermented dairy products, such as yogurt and cheese, do not have the same negative effects despite containing saturated fat. There is significant individual variability in how people respond to changes in saturated fat intake. Some individuals may experience substantial reductions in LDL cholesterol when reducing saturated fat and increasing polyunsaturated fat, while others may see little to no effect. VALUABLE RESOURCES • Take the BioSyncing Quiz to help you understand what's actually happening in your body — and how to fix it.
I am nervous posting this podcast…as this was not the episode I planned to release.We spend our lives trying to stay put together and neat. Keeping our hurt hidden and our smiles big.This podcast shows a very different side of me. A side of Heidi that has real insecurities that run deep. A side of Heidi that feels pain and actually does care what others think about her even when she says she doesn't.While the strong Heidi is me…this is also me, and it's not easy to share.Today, you are witnessing a real life hormonal meltdown. What was supposed to be an informational conversation turned into something very different...an unfiltered conversation I'm still shocked I'm allowing the world to see.In this episode, I open up about the emotional toll of shifting hormones, irregular cycles, feeling overwhelmed by life, work, motherhood, pressure, aging, and the weight so many women silently carry. I also share why this episode was so hard for me to put out into the world...and why I decided to share it anyway.The truth is, the episodes that feel the hardest to release are often the ones that make the biggest impact. So if you've been feeling messy, emotional, stretched thin, less like yourself, or just plain alone in this season...this one is for you.And if you love someone who's walking through hormonal changes, this episode might help you understand her a little better too.You are not broken. You are not crazy. And you are definitely not alone.We talk about:What it feels like to hit your emotional limit The pressure of being the one who always has the answersHormones, perimenopause, and identity shifts no one prepares you forThe grief of feeling like your best years are behind youBeing judged as a woman and as a mother, no matter what you doThe gap between how life looks and how it actually feelsThis one is part life update, part emotional dump, part honest reminder that even the strong ones have days where they fall apart.And maybe that's not a bad thing.Want a community of women going through a similar phase as you? Join my FREE 5 Day Better Body Bootcamp here, or go to heidipowell.net/bootcampHere are the key moments from the episode:00:00 This Episode Wasn't Meant to Go Live 03:11 The Last Straw That Broke Me (It Wasn't Just One Thing)06:24 Why This Messy Episode Matters 10:07 Hormones, Missing Periods & Feeling Off in My Own Body15:02 Mom Guilt, Doris, & Being Judged Online17:28 Why Women Get Criticized No Matter What They Do 21:04 What Hate Comments Really Say About People 24:13 The Pressure of Running a Business No One Sees 26:07 Carrying Financial Responsibility & Providing for Everyone30:18 Feeling Buried by Your Own Life (I'm Sick of Making Decisions) 34:58 Aging, Identity & What If This Makes Me Unlovable?38:22 Wanting Back What You Once Hated (I Just Want a Normal Period) 41:40 Strong Most Days… But Today I Broke (I Don't Even Feel Pretty) 44:01 The Moment I Wanted to Quit Everything 47:07 You're Not Alone in ThisConnect with Heidi:Website: https://heidipowell.net/Email: podcast@heidipowell.netInstagram: @realheidipowellFacebook: Heidi PowellYouTube: @RealHeidiPowellTrain with Heidi on her Show Up App: https://www.showupfit.app/
BBC Breakfast GP Dr Helen Wall shares her Perimenopausal pearls to help us hormonal ADHDers navigate this new chapter. WHAT A LEGEND! Thank yous so much Helen! Can't wait to read your book! The topic of this episode is also the focus topic for April's 9 free in-person ADHDAF+ Charity ADHD adult Peer Support Groups. We hope you can make your local group, starting next week! TRIGGER WARNING: Contains swearing, loud laughter, gallows humour, some high pitched sounds, and mentions of very sensitive topics including; trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship and work struggles, mental health struggles, medical negligence. Hormonal struggles. If you are struggling, lo siento. YOU ARE NOT ALONE! Please REACH OUT FOR HELP HEREAs mentioned in the episode, you can...- Find out more about ADHDAF+ Charity and our monthly in-person Peer Support Groups to connect and empower ADHD adults of marginalised genders in the latest Blog HERE- Join the Patreon Community of ADHDAF Podcast listeners to lean on and learn from literally like-minded legends in an online space that has been going strong for THREE WHOLE YEARS of invaluable Peer support, you can do so HERE- DONATE to ADHDAF+ Charity HERE (please)- Shop Neurodivergent on ADHDAF Emporium HERE- Get Red Carpet ready with me HERE- See us being allowed in the House of Commons HEREYou can follow all things ADHDAF on Socials:@adhdafpodcast @adhdafplus @adhdafemporium @lauraisadhdafThank you SO MUCH for listening! We'd be so grateful if you could leave a comment/review/hit those stars so that others can be signposted to support and know that they're not alone.BIG LOVELaura PS: March with us 'Huns Against the far right' in the Together Alliance on March 28th in London. We'll be in Womens Bloc (Zone E) at 11:30am near 45 Park Lane, Central London. Find out more about the march HERE
I was not always a supplement taker, however, there were 3 different times in my life that I found benefits in supplements. They were: in my early-20s when my diet was horrible and I was sick all the timein my mid-30s when I wanted to ensure a healthy pregnancyin my mid-40s when perimenopause symptoms became intolerableNow that I'm 52, in year 11 of perimenopause (what?! I know!!!), I'm a dedicated supplement consumer.In this episode, I discuss the supplements I take.Some background: Self-care is one of the pillars of my life. I've learned that if I don't make it a habit, I tend to run myself into the ground. In the next few months, I'm going to go into detail about my self-care practices and hopefully you can pick up some nuggets and craft one of your own. Next Episodes Mar 26, 2026: [SELF-CARE] The Supplements I Take Now That I'm Perimenopausal (for 11 effing years!) and Over Forty (I'm 52).Apr 2, 2026 [SELF-CARE] Creating an evening ritual to support "sleep hygiene"
Deciding what to eat can absorb a lot of time and energy, not to mention the time spent shopping, cooking, and cleaning. I've found that eating simply and repetitively not only keeps me healthy but saves me a lot of time and energy.In this episode, I show you some of the healthy foods that make my life simply and delicious!Some background: Self-care is one of the pillars of my life. I've learned that if I don't make it a habit, I tend to run myself into the ground. In the next few months, I'm going to go into detail about my self-care practices and hopefully you can pick up some nuggets and craft one of your own. Next Episodes Mar 26, 2026: [SELF-CARE] The Supplements I Take Now That I'm Perimenopausal (for 11 effing years!) and Over Forty (I'm 52).Apr 2, 2026 [SELF-CARE] Creating an evening ritual to support "sleep hygiene"
Having a morning ritual helps me start each day full of energy and good vibes. It also saves me a ton of time because I can just roll into my day without thinking about "what should I do next?"My AM hydration ritual keeps me hydrated and nourished until mid-day and is one of the key components of my morning ritual. In this episode, I walk you through my 3-step process.Some background: Self-care is one of the pillars of my life. I've learned that if I don't make it a habit, I tend to run myself into the ground. In the next few months, I'm going to go into detail about my self-care practices and hopefully you can pick up some nuggets and craft one of your own. Next Episodes Mar 19, 2026: [SELF-CARE] The Simple, Repetitive Things I Eat to Power Me Through My DayMar 26, 2026: [SELF-CARE] The Supplements I Take Now That I'm Perimenopausal (for 11 effing years!) and Over Forty (I'm 52).Apr 2, 2026 [SELF-CARE] Creating an evening ritual to support "sleep hygiene"
My PM skincare ritual is a key part of my "wind-down for bed" practice (aka "sleep hygiene") and sets me up to let go of the day that is ending and get a good night's sleep.Self-care is one of the pillars of my life. I've learned that if I don't make it a habit, I tend to run myself into the ground. In the next few months, I'm going to go into detail about my self-care practices and hopefully you can pick up some nuggets and craft one of your own. Today's topic: I demo my PM skincare ritual.Next Episodes Mar 12, 2026: [SELF-CARE] My AM Hydration RitualMar 19, 2026: [SELF-CARE] The Simple, Repetitive Things I Eat to Power Me Through My DayMar 26, 2026: [SELF-CARE] The Supplements I Take Now That I'm Perimenopausal and Over FortyResources: -Easy ways to call your reps with scripts and numbers. It takes 2 minutes. Make your voice heard and tell a friend https://5calls.org/ -The Seven Steps to Glowing Skin for Women Over Forty https://subscribepage.com/sevensteps -The Season of Selfcare Podcasts https://bywdreams.mailerpage.com/seasonselfcare-Website: http://BYWDreams.com (about:invalid#zCSafez) -My books: http://TinyURL.com/BYWDbooks
¿Sientes pérdida de memoria, niebla mental (brain fog) o falta de concentración después de los 40? Si alguna vez has pensado “mi mente ya no va tan rápida como antes”, este episodio es para ti. Junto con la Dra. Sonia Tejada, neurocirujana y especialista en neurocirugía mínimamente invasiva en Womanhood Clinic, exploramos qué pasa realmente en el cerebro durante la perimenopausia/menopausia y cómo afecta a la agilidad mental. Además, hablamos de: El papel de genes, estrés y hábitos en tu claridad mentalEjercicios rápidos: físicos, mentales y actividades “amigas” del día a día para entrenar memoria y concentraciónTratamientos tecnológicos que pueden ayudar a estimular el cerebro Porque sí, es posible proteger tu cerebro, recuperar la chispa y volver a sentirte tú misma. ¡Dale al play!
GLP-1s and bariatric surgery are powerful medical tools, and the real risk is starting them without understanding what long-term weight maintenance actually requires.This conversation pulls obesity treatment out of the culture wars and back into medicine. Dr. Betsy Dovec, one of the most experienced bariatric surgeons in the country,speaks plainly about what long-term care actually demands, whether someone chooses bariatric surgery, GLP-1 medications, or a combination of both. The question beneath it all is simple and uncomfortable: are you looking for a short-term result, or are you prepared for a long-term strategy?There is honesty here about weight regain, about the reality that stopping GLP-1 medications often leads to reversal, and about why a plan for maintenance matters more than the initial drop on the scale. The discussion touches on Microdosing GLP-1, the rise of GLP-1 oral medication, and how access and expectations shape outcomes. It also moves into GLP-1 for menopause and perimenopause, acknowledging how hormones change the metabolic equation for women and why GLP-1 inflammation benefits may explain why some feel better beyond weight loss alone.This episode challenges the shame narrative. Obesity is treated as a chronic metabolic condition influenced by biology, environment, and hormones. The deeper takeaway is not which tool to choose, but whether you are approaching your health with clarity about what sustainable care truly involves.Episode Breakdown:00:00 Bariatric Surgery Explained: What It Really Is09:11 Long-Term Weight Loss Success and Maintenance Strategies11:57 GLP-1 Medications, Ozempic, and Weight Regain Reality18:04 Hormones, Perimenopause, and GLP-1 for Women28:00 Visceral Fat, Fatty Liver, and Metabolic Risk37:01 Modern Bariatric Surgery and Recovery TimelineConnect with Dr. Betsy Dovec:Follow Dr. Dovec's InstagramVisit BodyByBariatrics WebsiteFollow BodyByBariatrics TikTokFor More on this Episode: Read the full show notes here
If you are a woman aged 45-60 ... or will be one day, you need to hear this episode! Debbie Harris is our guest to share key insights so that you can:Stop stressing over your weight and start living at your ideal health weight! Discover the truth about your hormones, and a simple 3-step action plan to embrace your ideal healthy weight without dieting.Debbie Harris is an Integrative Nutrition Health Coach, hypnotist, and Founder of the 30 to Life Solution, a proprietary program for women 45-60 to elevate their health, release excess weight, minimize menopause symptoms, and become Freedom Eaters. She has helped thousands of women ditch the dieting mentality and step into lasting freedom around food, and has been featured in Influencer Magazine, WOmenopause, Real Talk Real Stories Real Women, and more. Her new book, Dieting Sucks for Women Over 40: 30 to Life: The Ultimate Weight Loss and Hormone Balancing Solution (September 12, 2025), offers a plan rooted in compassion, science, and lived experience. Learn more at 30toLife.https://www.linkedin.com/in/fordebbielee/https://www.instagram.com/debbielee211/
In this episode, we explore what's really happening in the perimenopausal brain and why brain fog, word-finding pauses, and changes in focus don't mean you're losing your mind. We unpack the science of fluctuating estrogen and its role in memory, neurotransmitters, and cognitive processing, while naming the very real pressure of working full-time in a world that still expects constant productivity. This is an honest conversation about biology, nervous systems, and why fear and shame often make cognitive symptoms feel worse than they actually are. Through a Wild & Rooted lens, we also reframe forgetting as part of a larger neurological and spiritual reorganization. One that invites discernment, embodied knowing, and different ways of working. We explore how time in nature supports memory, focus, and neurotransmitter balance, and how small, practical shifts can help you stay functional without overriding your body. This episode is a reminder that you're not broken; you're adapting, recalibrating, and learning how to work with a different kind of intelligence. To find Heather visit: Website/Newsletter sign up: www.heatherwebsterwellness.com IG and FB: @heatherwebsterwellness
We often times want to fix perimenopause, but what if we are able to reframe it as a threshold the body is guiding us through. In this episode, we explore how time in nature supports the perimenopausal nervous system by lowering cortisol and inflammation, and how this physiological shift can ease symptoms such as anxiety, weight gain, brain fog, and the emotional rollarcoaster. Through a Wild & Rooted lens, this conversation weaves together science, nervous system wisdom, and the spiritual remembering that we are not meant to move through this season alone; instead we can work in partnership/relationship with nature, which offers co-regulation, rhythm, and belonging. If this sounds interesting, take a listen. To find Heather: Newsletter and more: www.heatherwebsterwellness.com IG and Facebook: heatherwebsterwellness Email: heatherwebsterwellness@gmail.com Feel free to reach out with questions, comments or interest in future topics.
Perimenopausal changes in hormones can make it feel like your personality is getting hijacked and you're suddenly not yourself anymore. There are different helpful routes you can take to start feeling like you again. Today we're going to talk about how to think in the meantime. Link to free mp3 download of empowering questions: https://www.healthcouragecollective.com/empowering-3856Find all free resources here: www.healthcouragecollective.com/freecontact me: healthcouragecollective@gmail.comAre you ready to give your cells their best chance to not have to stop living before they die by allowing them access to physiologic levels of hormones, but aren't sure how to even get started? Join the waitlist for my new beta program here and help me figure out how best to help wonderful women like you get the hormone care they deserve!Join the Waitlist HereCome visit me: www.healthcouragecollective.comemail me: healthcouragecollective@gmail.com
Stop diluting your serums and check your mascara expiry date immediately! Leigh and Kelly are back with a Q&A Monday wake-up call, exposing the big beauty mistakes you're making right now. Is your lotion not cutting it? Leigh has the non-negotiable solutions for fighting crepey skin, from internal fixes to major in-clinic options. Plus, we settle the ultimate shower cleansing showdown, find out why your hot water and quick cleanses are sabotaging your face! The Beauty Edit dives into the post-shopping chaos: Who won the Black Friday bonanza on Amazon (hello, Medicube and CeraVe), the scary truth behind the teen skincare ban, and the crucial reminder to check your product expiry dates! EVERYTHING MENTIONED: medicube - Collagen Jelly Cream Mini $33.66 Medicube PDRN Pink Peptide Serum $43 CeraVe Sol de Janeiro Cheirosa 68 Perfume Mist $66 BIODANCE Skincare Dermalogica Daily Microfoliant $32 Laura Geller Clean Skin Club Clean Towels $12.99 La Roche-Posay Hero Cosmetics Mighty Patch™ Original Patch $14.29 Paula's Choice 2% BHA Liquid Exfoliant $54 BIODERMA Sensibio H2O Micellar Water $22.99 GLAM 3D Lash $19.99 Look Good Feel Better Box $25 L'Occitane Almond Shower Oil $45 Vida Glow Burt's Bees 100% Natural Origin Almond & Milk Hand Cream $19.99 Susan Yara: The Naturium Founder's Journey from Reviewer to Million-Dollar Brand Owner GET IN TOUCH: Watch & Subscribe on YouTube – Our Q&A episode drops tonight at 7pm! Catch it here. Follow us on Instagram: @youbeautypodcast Follow us on TikTok: @youbeautypod Join our You Beauty Facebook Group here For our product recommendations, exclusive beauty news, reviews, articles, deals and much more - sign up for our free You Beauty weekly newsletter here Got a beauty question you want answered? Email us at youbeauty@mamamia.com.au or send us a voice note on Instagram! CREDITS: Hosts: Leigh Campbell & Kelly McCarren The Beauty Edit Hosts: Cass Green & Taylah Strano Producer: Sophie Campbell Audio Producer: Tegan Sadler Video Producer: Artemi Kokkaris Just so you know — some of the links in these notes are affiliate links, which means we might earn a small commission if you buy through them. It doesn’t cost you anything extra, and it helps support the show. Happy shopping! Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribe. Not only do you get all the incredible benefits of a Mamamia subscription, but you'll instantly get an entry into our current subscriber-only giveaway to win a $2,500 Justice Haircare voucher! Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Today, I am delighted to be joined by a friend and colleague, Mike Mutzel. Mike has a master's in Clinical Nutrition from the University of Bridgeport. He is a graduate of the IFM, applies functional medicine in clinical practice, and is a consultant lecturer who teaches leading-edge science in a concise format for progressive clinicians to prevent chronic diseases. In our discussion, Mike and I unpack the benefits of creatine monohydrate, highlighting the importance of ensuring the products we use are free of impurities. We explain how creatine monohydrate gets created, answer many listener questions, and describe current research specific to creatine monohydrate, discussing ways to support bone health, navigate dosing, and how to troubleshoot. This conversation with Mike Mutzel is truly invaluable, and I look forward to having him back on the podcast to dive a little deeper into the science. IN THIS EPISODE, YOU WILL LEARN: How creatine supports energy production across muscles, the brain, and other organ systems Why vegetarians and vegans should take creatine What to consider when choosing high-quality creatine supplements Dosing strategies based on diet, exercise, sleep, and individual needs How taking creatine with electrolytes while exercising can improve absorption Benefits of supplementing with amino acids alongside creatine for illness, recovery, or when protein intake is low Adjusting your creatine dosage for sleep, travel, or exercise demands How creatine supports bone and muscle health The value of creatine for the eyes and ears Connect with Cynthia Thurlow Follow on X, Instagram & LinkedIn Check out Cynthia's website Submit your questions to support@cynthiathurlow.com Connect with Mike Mutzel On his website YouTube Instagram High Intensity Health Podcast Creatine Research: Creatine in Women's Health: Bridging the Gap From Menstruation Through Pregnancy to Menopause Effects of Creatine and Resistance Training on Bone Health in Postmenopausal Women Creatine Supplementation (3 g/d) and Bone Health in Older Women: A 2-Year, Randomized, Placebo-Controlled Trial Creatine Supplementation in Depression: A Review of Mechanisms, Efficacy, Clinical Outcomes, and Future Directions The Effects of 8-Week Creatine Hydrochloride and Creatine Ethyl Ester Supplementation on Cognition, Clinical Outcomes, and Brain Creatine Levels in Perimenopausal and Menopausal Women (CONCRET-MENOPA): A Randomized Controlled Trial
In this empowering episode, I share my personal journey from being a "cardio bunny" to embracing strength training as a cornerstone of women's health—especially for those in their 40s and beyond. I break down the myths around cardio, muscle building, and the fear of "getting bulky." We discuss how hormonal changes impact women's bodies and why strength training is essential for metabolic health, confidence, and long-term independence. Chapters: 1:22 – Cardio vs. Strength for Women 3:22 – Rethinking Age & Fitness 3:51 – Lifting Heavier: The Why 4:51 – Hormones & Body Changes 5:36 – Perimenopause Explained 6:16 – Metabolism & Lifestyle Shifts 6:56 – Outdated Fitness Fixes 7:35 – Mindset Shifts in Fitness 8:14 – When Strength Training Isn't Working 15:26 – Debunking the "Bulky" Myth 16:11 – The Six Essential Strength Moves 16:37 – Deadlifts & Posterior Chain 17:00 – Hip Thrusts & Glute Bridges 17:19 – Rows for Back Strength 17:41 – Core Stabilizers 18:07 – Pushups & Upper Body 18:34 – Chest Press, Yoga, Pilates 19:12 – Squat Variations 19:36 – Building Mechanics Before Back Squats 20:00 – Why Strength Training Matters 20:19 – Injury Prevention & Confidence 20:36 – Balance, Mobility, & Longevity 21:14 – Mood, Hormones, & Independence 21:53 – Overcoming Barriers to Starting Key Topics Covered: Why traditional cardio may not be serving women in their 40s and how to shift your mindset. The science behind hormonal changes, perimenopause, and their effects on muscle, bone, and metabolism. The six foundational strength movements every woman should master: deadlifts, hip thrusts/glute bridges, rows, core stabilizers (planks, rotation), pushups, and squats (goblet, Bulgarian split, dumbbell). How to adapt your training as your body changes, and why rest and recovery are just as important as lifting. Debunking the myth of "getting bulky" and focusing on holistic health: nutrition, sleep, and lifestyle. The mental and emotional benefits of getting stronger—feeling more independent, assertive, and resilient. Let's dive in! Thank you for joining us today. If you could rate, review & subscribe, it would mean the world to me! While you're at it, take a screenshot and tag me @jennpike to share on Instagram – I'll re-share that baby out to the community & once a month I'll be doing a draw from those re-shares and send the winner something special! Click here to listen: Apple Podcasts – CLICK HERESpotify – CLICK HERE This episode is sponsored by: withinUs | Use the code JENNPIKE20 at withinus.ca for a limited time to save 20% off your order St. Francis | Go to stfrancisherbfarm.com and save 15% off your all your orders with code JENNPIKE15 Eversio Wellness | Go to eversiowellness.com/discount/jennpike15 and save 15% off every order with code JENNPIKE15 /// not available for "subscribe & save" option Free Resources: COMPANION VIDEO | Full Body Flex Class Free Perimenopause Support Guide | jennpike.com/perimenopausesupport Free Blood Work Guide | jennpike.com/bloodworkguide The Simplicity Sessions Podcast | jennpike.com/podcast Get 20% on thewalkingpad.com using code "JENNPIKE20" Get discounts at happybumco.com using code "JENNPIKE" *code doesn't apply with Black Friday sale* Programs: The Perimenopause Project | jennpike.com/theperimenopauseproject The Hormone Project Academy | jennpike.com/thehormoneproject Synced Virtual Fitness Studio | jennpike.com/synced The Simplicity Women's Wellness Clinic | jennpike.com/wellnessclinic The Audacious Woman Mentorship | jennpike.com/theaudaciouswoman Connect with Jenn: Instagram | @jennpike Facebook | @thesimplicityproject YouTube | Simplicity TV Website | The Simplicity Project Inc. Have a question? Send it over to hello@jennpike.com and I'll do my best to share helpful insights, thoughts and advice.
Gemma returns from a Five concert in full fangirl mode and tells us her stories from BACKSTAGE, whilst Gorka battles the blazing heat of her late-night biohacks... and the great snip debate finally hits boiling point. Throw in toddler poo stories, Christmas shopping drama, and Gemma's habit of losing everything, and you've got peak Lost in Translation. Contact us at lostintranslation@bauermedia.co.uk Follow us @lost.in.podcast
Send us a message with this link, we would love to hear from you. Standard message rates may apply.We discuss a clear, practical guide to menopause, explaining what it is, why it happens, and how to manage the most common symptoms with everyday steps and evidence-based options. We set up next week's deep dive on hormone therap. • Defining menopause and typical timing• Why estrogen declines and bodywide effects• Common symptoms across sleep, mood, and metabolism• Hot flashes and night sweats frequency and duration• Vaginal and urinary symptoms that mimic UTIs• Bone density loss and changing heart risk• Lifestyle tactics that actually help• When to ask about hormonal and non-hormonal treatments• Teaser for hormone therapy update next weekSend us an email at yourcheckuppod@gmail.comReferences1. Menopause-Biology, Consequences, Supportive Care, and Therapeutic Options. Davis SR, Pinkerton J, Santoro N, Simoncini T. Cell. 2023;186(19):4038-4058. doi:10.1016/j.cell.2023.08.016.2. The Menopause Transition: Signs, Symptoms, and Management Options. Santoro N, Roeca C, Peters BA, Neal-Perry G. The Journal of Clinical Endocrinology and Metabolism. 2021;106(1):1-15. doi:10.1210/clinem/dgaa764.3. Management of Menopausal Symptoms: A Review. Crandall CJ, Mehta JM, Manson JE. JAMA. 2023;329(5):405-420. doi:10.1001/jama.2022.24140.4. Menopause. Davis SR, Lambrinoudaki I, Lumsden M, et al. Nature Reviews. Disease Primers. 2015;1:15004. doi:10.1038/nrdp.2015.4.5. Menopause: Physiology, Definitions, and Symptoms. Gatenby C, Simpson P. Best Practice & Research. Clinical Endocrinology & Metabolism. 2024;38(1):101855. doi:10.1016/j.beem.2023.101855.6. Reproductive Aging in Biological Females: Mechanisms and Immediate Consequences. Muhammad YA. Frontiers in Endocrinology. 2025;16:1658592. doi:10.3389/fendo.2025.1658592.7. Treating Menopause - MHT and Beyond. Davis SR, Baber RJ. Nature Reviews. Endocrinology. 2022;18(8):490-502. doi:10.1038/s41574-022-00685-4.8. Management of Perimenopausal and Menopausal Symptoms. Duralde ER, Sobel TH, Manson JE. BMJ (Clinical Research Ed.). 2023;382:e072612. doi:10.1136/bmj-2022-072612.9. Hormone Therapy for Postmenopausal Women. Pinkerton JV. The New England Journal of Medicine. 2020;382(5):446-455. doi:10.1056/NEJMcp1714787.10. An Empowerment Model for Managing Menopause. Hickey M, LaCroix AZ, Doust J, et al. Lancet (London, England). 2024;403(10430):947-957. doi:10.1016/S0140-6736(23)02799-X.11. Menopause. Carter AE, Merriam S. The Medical Clinics of North America. 2023;107(2):199-212. doi:10.1016/j.mcna.2022.10.003.Support the showSubscribe to Our Newsletter! Production and Content: Edward Delesky, MD & Nicole Aruffo, RNArtwork: Olivia Pawlowski
Dr. Tony Boutagy, PhD in Exercise and Sports Science, joins me for a myth-busting conversation about the surge of influencer claims surrounding peri-menopausal and post-menopausal women's strength training.Tony brings clarity, scientific context, and decades of applied expertise to help cut through misinformation and fear-driven content targeted at women in midlife.He breaks down:• Debunking the claim that Zone 2 cardio isn't as effective for women as it is for men• Debunking the claim that women shouldn't ever train fasted• Debunking the claim that women have a short “anabolic window” for post-workout nutrition• Debunking the claim that women should only strength train in sets of 3–5 reps• How influencers misuse rodent data to make unsupported claims about women's training• Why the claim that there's “no research on women” is false• How entire brands get built around misleading or exaggerated ideas• How self-selection bias influences women's training preferences• Whether training should change for women seeking improved bone health• And much moreCHAPTERS01:02 Debunking Myths: Zone Two Cardio for Women06:18 Sponsorship Message: Macros First07:30 Fasted Training: Myths and Realities18:56 Debunking Myths: Anabolic Window for Women26:37 Training Recommendations: Heavy Lifting for Women30:01 Effective Rep Ranges for Different Exercises30:50 Practical Implications of Coaching31:24 Science vs. Online Advice33:31 Evaluating Credibility in Health Advice34:42 The Role of Conferences in Scientific Claims36:46 Challenges in Public Perception of Science46:44 Misconceptions in Female Training50:58 Training for Bone Health in Aging56:04 Final Thoughts and RecommendationsSUPPORT THE SHOWIf this episode helped you, you can help me by:• Subscribing and checking out more episodes• Sharing it on your social media (tag me - I'll respond)• Sending it to a friend who needs thisFOLLOW ANDREW COATESInstagram: @andrewcoatesfitnesshttps://www.andrewcoatesfitness.comPARTNERS AND RESOURCESRP Strength App (use code COATESRP)https://www.rpstrength.com/coatesJust Bite Me Meals (use code ANDREWCOATESFITNESS for 10% off)https://justbitememeals.com/MacrosFirst (nutrition tracking)https://www.macrosfirst.com/KNKG Bags (15% off)https://www.knkg.com/Andrew59676Versa Gripps (discount link)https://www.versagripps.com/andrewcoatesTRAINHEROIC - FREE 90-DAY TRIAL (2 steps)Go to https://www.trainheroic.com/liftfreeReply to the email you receive (or email trials@trainheroic.com) and let them know I sent you
Creatine isn't just for gym bros and bodybuilders, it's one of the most researched, safest, and most effective supplements for supporting strength, energy, and brain health.In this episode, I break down a brand-new study that found women in perimenopause and menopause who took a small daily dose of creatine saw faster reaction times, better cholesterol levels, and even a 16% increase in brain creatine.We'll cover:
EP. 235:Grab my FREE 4 Part Video Series: GLP1s Uncovered: https://bit.ly/GLP1uncovered In this episode, I chat with Dr. Mamina about everything skin-related. We cover how your skin reflects your internal health, the challenges of midlife skin, and tips for a natural skincare routine. We also cover retinoids: what works, what doesn't, and the myths you need to know. Plus, we talk about over-exfoliating, postmenopausal skin, GLP-1s and acne, and alternatives to retinoids. Dr. Mamina shares her expert insights on how small changes can make a big difference in your skin's health. Whether you're just starting a skincare routine or looking to refine it, this episode is packed with practical tips you can start using today. Topics Discussed: → How does your skin reflect your internal health? → What are the best natural skincare tips for aging skin? → Are retinoids really necessary for healthy skin? → Can GLP-1 medications improve acne? → What are the best alternatives to retinol? Sponsored By: → Qualia | Go to qualialife.com/DRTYNA for up to 50% off your purchase and use code DRTYNA for an additional 15% → Graza | So head to Graza.co/DRTYNA and use DRTYNA to get 10% off and get to cookin' your next chef quality meal! → Manukora | Head to manukora.com/DRTYNA to save up to 31% & $25 worth of free gifts in the Starter Kit, which comes with an MGO 850+ Manuka Honey jar. → BIOptimizers | For 15% off go to bioptimizers.com/drtyna and use promo code DRTYNA On This Episode We Cover: → 00:00:00 - Introduction → 00:03:17 - Skin reflects health → 00:05:45 - Midlife skin issues → 00:08:37 - Natural skincare issues → 00:14:11 - Dr. Tyna's favorites → 00:16:03 - Over-exfoliating → 00:18:32 - Retinol vs. retinoids → 00:23:17 - Retinol myths → 00:28:25 - Skin layers & turnover → 00:30:50 - Skin barrier → 00:33:58 - Night routine → 00:38:24 - Double cleansing → 00:40:49 - GLP-1s & acne → 00:44:57 - Rifamycin for acne → 00:47:01 - Starting retinoids → 00:52:51 - Microdosing & skin → 00:54:27 - Postmenopause skin → 00:59:09 - Retinoid alternatives Further Listening: → EP. 146: Beyond the Surface - Great Skin From Within | Quick and Dirty Check Out: → Website → Instagram → Tik Tok → YouTube Disclaimer: Information provided in this podcast is for informational purposes only. This information is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice provided by your physician or other healthcare professional, or any information contained on or in any product. Do not use the information provided in this podcast for diagnosing or treating a health problem or disease, or prescribing medication or other treatment. Always speak with your physician or other healthcare professional before taking any medication or nutritional, herbal or other supplement, or using any treatment for a health problem. Information provided in this blog/podcast and the use of any products or services related to this podcast by you does not create a doctor-patient relationship between you and Dr. Tyna Moore. Information and statements regarding dietary supplements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration and are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent ANY disease.
I’m joined by Neal Mercado, Chief Science Officer at Melrose, one of Australia’s leading wellness brands and the team behind Melrose Future Lab. Neal leads a thought-provoking conversation on ageing, vitality, and the science behind what really works. We unpack the difference between lifespan and health span—because it’s not just about living longer, but living well. From cellular senescence to musculoskeletal strength, we look at ingredients leading wellness conversations and the future of longevity science. Neal also lifts the lid on supplement quality, why not all extracts are created equal, and explains the concept of bioavailability to actually move the needle. If you’re navigating perimenopause, curious about longevity, embarking on strength training, or trying to make sense of the supplement aisle, this episode will help you cut through the noise and make informed, future-focused choices. In partnership with Melrose Future Lab. Key Takeaways: Health span means more years lived well, not just longer Cellular senescence (aka “zombie cells”) reduces function as we age Berberine can support healthy blood glucose and AMPK activation Quality matters: not all herbal extracts or proteins are created equal Collagen, especially bovine-derived, supports muscle health Strength training is essential for bone density in menopausal women Supplement bioavailability is as important as the ingredients themselves Innovative formulations are changing how we absorb nutrients Menopause research is decades behind other women’s health areas Perimenopausal women benefit from tailored support and active nutrients Intermittent fasting and autophagy support cellular repair Effective supplements are about formulation—not fads Watch the full episode here: https://youtu.be/g1OFqhrIl1ISee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
HAVE WE GOT A TREAT FOR YOU...my guest, Charlotte Body impulsively gifts FREE VIP TICKETS to the UK's biggest Women's Health event to all listeners at the end of this episode! Not only is that a fantastic Most ADHD Thing to conclude this informative and wonderful chinwag with the founder of Pause Live, but I'm also very excited that this is my first ever visual podcast on Spotify! EEEK! (only downside is, the new recording platform has cancelled out my cackling - but perhaps that's not such a bad thing?! ) :) Alongside Charlotte's own ADHD 'safari'; discovering her neurodivergence due to perimenopause; we discuss endometriosis, PMDD, internalised mysogyny, Dyslexia, Verbal Dyslexia, and owning who you are to live your best life in midlife... just don't mention Zara! ;) TRIGGER WARNING: Contains swearing, and mentions of sensitive topics including; grief, trauma, anxiety, depression, relationship and work struggles. If you are struggling, lo siento. Please reach out for help HEREAs mentioned in the episode: - GRAB FREE TICKETS HERE (code shared at the end) - Read the new ADHDAF+ Blog HERE- Register Interest in ADHDAF+ Charity's FREE Peer Support Groups to get email reminders HERE- Apply to Volunteer to start your own local ADHDAF+ Support Group, Volunteer your time or become an Ambassador HERE- Shop ADHDAF Emporium HERE to support neurodivergent makers and small businesses, with 10% of profits donated to ADHDAF+ CharityIf you would like to join the Patreon Community of ADHDAF Podcast Listeners you can do so HEREThough the work of ADHDAF Podcast led to the creation of ADHDAF+ Charity, and helps to promote and fundraise for the charity; all things ADHDAF are entirely separate entities.You can follow all things ADHDAF on Socials:@adhdafpodcast @adhdafplus @adhdafemporium @lauraisadhdafI can't wait to be part of the ADHD Workshop at @pauselive in London on Sat 4th Oct! Hope to see you there... don't forget to grab those free VIP tickets before Charlotte's team find out and cancel the 'secret code! :) Thank you SO MUCH for listening. I'd love to hear from you! Why not drop me a comment or review or hit those stars and please share to spread the word to help others benefit from this crucial conversation!Laura xLEOPARD PRINT ARMY!Photo taken at the Heartbreakers Club finale of Lu in Lu Land's 'Self Love Unleashed Camp '25' - where Charlotte and I met
Angela and special guest Eric Edmeades discuss the intricate relationship between diet, exercise, and women's health, particularly during challenging life stages such as perimenopause, and look at the common misconception that exercise is the primary solution for weight loss, emphasising instead the critical role of nutrition in achieving metabolic flexibility. KEY TAKEAWAYS: Nutrition is emphasised as the primary factor in achieving health and body composition, with food being considered more important than exercise For many women, particularly those under stress, intense exercise can lead to the release of stress hormones, which may hinder weight loss efforts Women may benefit more from less structured, community-oriented forms of exercise (like Zumba or Jazzercise) that allow for multitasking and social interaction, rather than high-intensity, focused workouts that can trigger stress responses. The Hadzabe people have unique cultural practices regarding childbirth and menstruation, with significant taboos surrounding male involvement in these experiences. This reflects a broader cultural context that influences women's health and social roles. TIMESTAMPS AND KEY TOPICS: [00:01:08] Exercise vs. diet priority. [00:05:03] Perimenopausal women's exercise struggles. [00:07:10] Men's presence at childbirth. [00:10:05] Female circumcision and social conditioning. VALUABLE RESOURCES Join The High Performance Health Community Click here for discounts on all the products I personally use and recommend Link to full episode https://lnk.to/EP353 ABOUT THE HOST Angela Foster is an award winning Nutritionist, Health & Performance Coach, Speaker and Host of the High Performance Health podcast. A former Corporate lawyer turned industry leader in biohacking and health optimisation for women, Angela has been featured in various media including Huff Post, Runners world, The Health Optimisation Summit, BrainTap, The Women's Biohacking Conference, Livestrong & Natural Health Magazine. Angela is the creator of BioSyncing®️ a blueprint for ambitious entrepreneurial women to biohack their health so they can 10X how they show up in their business and their family without burning out. CONTACT DETAILS Instagram Facebook LinkedIn Disclaimer: The High Performance Health Podcast is for general information purposes only and do not constitute the practice of professional or coaching advice and no client relationship is formed. The use of information on this podcast, or materials linked from this podcast is at the user's own risk. The content of this podcast is not intended to be a substitute for medical or other professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should seek the assistance of their medical doctor or other health care professional for before taking any steps to implement any of the items discussed in this podcast. This Podcast has been brought to you by Disruptive Media. https://disruptivemedia.co.uk/
Perimenopausal weight loss may seem daunting to some. We hear so much more about perimenopausal weight gain and weight loss resistance. If you've learned diets don't work the hard way, you'll identify with my guest. What you may not realize is why the diet isn't working. A whole food, healthy diet will often work for most. But it won't work if that isn't the problem. My guest in this episode overcame a stressful corporate existence, and thanks in part to the pandemic, was able to leave that and 80 lbs behind. Here is how she achieved her 80lb perimenopausal weight loss in this episode. My Guest: Terry Tateossian, 48, is a health and fitness expert, podcast host, and the Founder of THOR: The House of Rose, a wellness community for women over 40. Terry is an ISSA certified Personal Trainer and Nutritionist, Registered Yoga Teacher, and IIN-Certified Hormone Specialist and Emotional Eating Coach. She is also the host of the podcast, ‘How Good Can It Get'. Questions We Answer in This Episode: [00:04:10] Shedding over 80 lbs at 42, was this the first time you'd tried to lose weight? What had you tried before? What was different about this time? [00:07:10] What was life before vs after? You have a corporate background, did that end before, during or after the weight loss? [00:16:01] Any relationship changes as a result of the weight loss? [00:19:46] How did habit gravity and self-identity keep you stuck at 80 lbs overweight, and how did you break free? [00:23:59] What was it like to let go of your corporate identity and step into a new wellness-focused life? [00:28:30] What is the significance of the name THOR: the House of Rose? Why Diets Fail and What Actually Works in Perimenopausal Weight Loss The Struggles Pregnancy weight never lost Tried 30 diets before age 37 Health issues: hospitalizations for chest pain, prediabetes, PCOS, heart murmur, and more Coping mechanisms: alcohol, overwork, nightly binge cycles How Terry Overcame Weight Loss Worked with a coach which brought awareness on patterns Admitted patterns and habits Realized problem was stress and coping mechanisms Learned to ask: “Am I hungry, or am I coping?” THOR: The House of Rose Retreat center in Tennessee surrounded by roses Represents loving and honoring the body as sacred ROSE = love, divine, highest frequency flower THOR = strength + femininity → union of masculine & feminine energies What to expect? Yoga, massage, hiking, nutrition, and coaching Connect with Terry: Terry's Website - THOR: The House of Rose Instagram - @how.good.can.it.get Spotify - How Good Can It Get Other Episodes You Might Like: Previous Episode - Muscle Mass and Strength Gains After Menopause How Much How Fast? Next Episode - 3 Steps to Improve Cardio Fitness and Longevity (at any age) More Like This Adrenal Fatigue Talk with the Hip Hop Energy Doc, Tricia Pingel Intermittent Fasting: Solution or Sabotage Emotional Eating? How Emotional Eating Can Be the Hidden Reason for Weight Gain Happier Hour | What Wine Time, Sober, and Sober-Minded Living Mean to Health Resources: Flipping 50 Womens Retreats helps you step out of routine, challenge your body and mindset, and rediscover how you want to live midlife—supported by fitness, hormones, nutrition, and women just like you. Don't know where to start? Book your Discovery Call with Debra. Leave this session with insight into exactly what to do right now to make small changes, smart decisions about your exercise time and energy.
Today, we're talking about the changes that can happen to your vulva in perimenopause and lichen sclerosus, so you may want to listen somewhere away from sensitive ears. You'll find out what to expect of a perimenopausal vulva, what's normal, when to get help and what sort of help is available. We also talk about lichen Sclerosus, a common chronic inflammatory skin disorder that most often affects the genital and perianal areas.Becca Scott has nearly 25 years' experience working in women's health. She is passionate about helping women and girls overcome gynaecological, autoimmune and hormone issues, especially when symptoms are chronic and conventional approaches aren't working. She runs an international online clinic with an amazing team of specialist practitioners. She has a special interest in vulval-vaginal issues and difficult relationships. She is a Homeopath, Reflexologist and accredited Divorce and Breakup coach and has additional training in fertility and pregnancy.Becca's LinksWebsite: www.healingspaceonline.com and www.divorcehealingspace.co.ukInstagram: @healing_spaceforyou and @divorcehealingspaceFacebook: @healingspace and @divorcehealingspaceResourcesNHS advice on LS - https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/lichen-sclerosus/The Eve Appeal - https://eveappeal.org.uk/about-us/ IG live with Tessa Venuti Sanderson on correct language - https://www.instagram.com/reel/DLr2OgusdaK/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link&igsh=eDZyaWcxNDlzNzk4 Episode on incontinence - https://www.katecodrington.co.uk/inside-stress-and-urgency-incontinence/Episode on pelvic pain - https://www.katecodrington.co.uk/inside-pelvic-pain-2/You can buy me a cuppa here - https://buymeacoffee.com/katecodrington The Perimenopause Journal and Second Spring are available from all good retailers Kate's free resource library is here https://subscribepage.io/kates-resource-library Instagram @kate_codrington Perimenopause Starter Kit online course https://www.katecodrington.co.uk/perimenopause-starter-kit-online-course/ MusicTrust Me by RYYZNArtworkKate's portrait by Lori Fitzdoodles
Join us for an inspiring conversation with Lulu Ge, founder of Elix, as she shares her transformative journey from a high-stress corporate executive suffering from hormonal imbalances to creating the first personalized TCM platform for women's health. Discover how ancient Chinese medicine formulas helped her overcome severe period pain, migraines, and stress symptoms that Western medicine couldn't address. Lulu reveals the science behind traditional herbs like Angelica sinensis (dong quai), explains why only 4% of healthcare funding goes to women's health, and demonstrates how her company is bridging Eastern wisdom with modern clinical research. Learn about personalized herbal formulations, the importance of liquid extractions over pills, and get practical tips for incorporating TCM into your wellness routine.
In this program, correspondent Julia Joubert explores the often-overlooked connection between perimenopause and the sudden onset of anxiety, and together with her guests, discusses ways to bring more understanding, support, and peace to those experiencing this transition.
Send us a textThe Epic List You've Been Waiting For: What Women Physicians Are DONE Caring AboutWelcome back to the revolution, my friends. This is Part 2 of our "We Do Not Care Club" series, and today we're sharing the crowdsourced, unfiltered, absolutely brilliant list of things that women physicians are officially done caring about.But first, let's give proper credit where it's due:This entire movement exists because of Melani Sanders (@justbeingmelani) - an African-American content creator who courageously started sharing her perimenopause experience from a Whole Foods parking lot. She felt like a hot mess and decided she wasn't going to care about it anymore. That single moment of authenticity has created a viral movement with over a million followers and has been featured in the New York Times and on Katie Couric's platform.Melani gave women permission to speak up about experiences we've been silent about for far too long. This is her movement, and we're honored to be part of it.Why This Matters for Women PhysiciansWe are a special group. We care for others professionally, but we're also women navigating our own health transitions in a system that expects us to be superhuman. We've been socialized to:Care that our appearance is 100% professionalNever show emotions (while somehow conveying empathy)Be team players who give 110% but never be "too loud"Micromanage our appearance more than our male colleaguesPut everyone else first, alwaysThe result? We're exhausted from caring about the wrong things.The Epic List: What We Do NOT Care About AnymoreNote: This list came directly from women physicians who responded to my call. It's unorganized on purpose - because perimenopause isn't organized, and we're giving ourselves permission to say "this is good enough."The Medical System BS We're Done With:Online wellness modules (seriously, stop)C-suite leadership telling us to be more "resilient" (we hate that word)Insurance formularies and their secrecyEfficiency training and metrics (we're just trying to get through the day)Corporate medicine profitabilityAcademic titles earned by sacrificing mental healthExecutives losing money because we did the right thing for patientsPatient Nonsense We're Over:"What you saw on TikTok" (vinegar isn't going to help here)How happy people look in drug commercials (you don't have rheumatoid arthritis)The internet telling you that you have ADHD (it's probably perimenopause)How "explosive" your diarrhea was (that doesn't help me help you)College roommate's third cousin's reaction to sertraline (it's still a good choice)Kardashians getting full-body MRIsLife Stuff We're Liberated From:Wearing bras (special shoutout to the contributor who said "I only have one nipple after canc Support the showTo learn more about my coaching practice and group offerings, head over to www.healthierforgood.com. I help Physicians and Allied Health Professional women to let go of toxic perfectionist and people-pleasing habits that leave them frustrated and exhausted. If you are ready to learn skills that help you set boundaries and prioritize yourself, without becoming a cynical a-hole, come work with me.Want to contact me directly?Email: megan@healthierforgood.comFollow me on Instagram!@MeganMeloMD
Send us a textWhat if you could stop wasting your precious brain energy on things that don't deserve it?Welcome to a very special edition of Ending Physician Overwhelm, where we're diving deep into the revolutionary concept of the "We Do Not Care Club" – specifically designed for perimenopausal women physicians who are DONE with burning themselves out for a system that doesn't value them.Shoutout to Melani Sanders (@justbeingmelani) for creating this life-changing movement that's resonating with millions of women!The Truth Bomb You Need to HearWe care. We care A LOT. But here's what's killing us: we've been pressured and scared into caring about things that are literally destroying our well-being, our families, and our ability to practice medicine the way we know it should be practiced.It's time to stop. It's time to reclaim your power. It's time to join the club.The 3 Permission Slips You Need Right Now
In today's episode I am breaking down the best training methods for women in perimenopause and menopause.I will be discussing:Why weight gain and belly fat become issues in perimenopause and menopauseStrength Training strategies for perimenopause and menopauseThe importance of heavy lifting and progressive overloadSprint Interval Training, improved insulin sensitivity, stronger mitochondria, and improved fat burningJump training (plyometrics)WalkingYogaHow to put it all togetherLinks to the study I mentioned in the episode is here and hereLearn more about your options for working 1:1 with me: https://www.revivewellness.health/services Schedule a free call with me here__________________________________________________Join me on the 'gram! Get free recipes and tips delivered right to your inbox every Friday!Learn more about your options for working 1:1 with me: https://www.revivewellness.health/services Schedule a free call with me hereTry Syntrax! To try to the most delicious, gluten free, lactose free "top of the line" whey isolate AND save 25% use the code "syntraxallison" at checkout.Want some FREE LMNT? Use this link for a FREE sample pack with any order!Better Bodies discount code "BB15" at checkout to save 15% on my favorite betterbodies gear! Save 10% on PureFactorFormulations supplements with my code "Revive10" at checkout!
In this episode, we dive into the nuanced world of intermittent fasting and its unique benefits and challenges for perimenopausal women. Our guest, Ashley Bizzell, MS, RD, brings her expertise as the Director of Clinical Nutrition for L-Nutra Health to help us navigate this topic with clarity and confidence. https://l-nutrahealth.com/pages/about https://prolonlife.com/ Join our priority list to be the first to know when Burn Fat and Feast membership opens. https://pages.burnfatandfeast.com/hormone-reset-priority-list/ GRAB ONE OF OUR FREEBIES: Week of Meals (with grocery list and recipes) Ultimate Guide to Intermittent Fasting For Women Fat Burning Guide Metabolism and Hormone Checklist Fast Food Guide Free LIVE workout Alcohol & Macros Guide Protein & Portions Guide Connect with us on your favorite social media platform: Instagram: www.instagram.com/burnfatandfeast Facebook: www.facebook.com/burnfatandfeast TikTok: @burnfatandfeast LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/burn-fat-and-feast/ Join our FREE Facebook community to be surrounded by other women on a mission to live their best lives. Rate, Review and Follow on Apple Podcasts If you love this show, please consider rating and reviewing the show! This helps us support more people just like you, move toward the life they desire and deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars and select “Write a Review”. Then be sure to let us know what you loved most about the episode. Also, if you haven't done so, follow the podcast. We add episodes every week to the feed and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out. Follow now!
Satori Shakoor has had a fascinating life. From singing in Parliament, to being one of the Brides of Funkenstein, to her life as a mother and everything that has come after, Satori tells it all in her new concert film, "Confessions of a Menopausal Femme Fatale." It's a story only she can tell and she tells it wonderfully.You can stream the film on Amazon, AppleTV and Google Play. For more information, check out Satori's website.Volleybird Subscription BoxesVolleybird.shop for curated pickleball subscription boxes delivered every 8 weeks
Send us a textEver feel like you're constantly switching hats—chauffeur, snack-maker, therapist, work-meeting ninja—while trying to figure out why your body suddenly doesn't feel like yours anymore? Same.In this quick hit solo episode, I'm talking straight to my fellow perimenopausal moms. If you're in that messy middle of shifting from school-year structure to summer chaos—and trying to make sense of all the conflicting wellness advice—you are 1000% not alone.We were raised on “you can have it all.” But no one warned us that “all” might include brain fog, joint pain, sleep gone rogue, and still trying to show up for your people and yourself without falling apart.This episode is your permission slip to stop chasing perfect and start choosing what actually matters.We dive into:
Welcome to the podcast with Dr. Brendan McCarthy! In this video, Dr. Brendan McCarthy breaks down common misconceptions about hormone testing and treatment during perimenopause — including why many influencers and physicians get it wrong. From the misuse of expensive boutique tests like the Dutch test, to the dangers of suppressive hormone therapies without proper lab monitoring, Dr. McCarthy explains the science behind hormone fluctuations, why labs do provide valuable insights, and the importance of individualized care. Learn why ignoring hormone labs isn't just lazy — it's harmful — and how true, affordable care should prioritize your unique hormonal balance, not profits. If you're navigating perimenopause, this video offers critical clarity on your options and what you truly deserve from your healthcare provider. Dr. Brendan McCarthy founded Protea Medical Center in 2002. While he's been the chief medical officer, Protea has grown and evolved into a dynamic medical center serving the Valley and Central Arizona. A nationally recognized as an expert in hormone replacement therapy, Dr McCarthy s the only instructor in the nation who teaches BioHRT on live patients. Physicians travel to Arizona to take his course and integrate it into their own practices. Besides hormone replacement therapy, Dr. McCarthy has spoken nationally and locally before physicians on topics such as weight loss, infertility, nutritional therapy and more. Thank you for tuning in and don't forget to hit that SUBSCRIBE button! Let us know in the COMMENTS if you have any questions or what you may want Dr. McCarthy to talk about next! Check out Dr. Brendan McCarthy's Book! https://www.amazon.com/Jump-Off-Mood-... -More Links- Instagram: www.instagram.com/drbrendanmccarthy TikTok: www.tiktok.com/drbrendanmccarthy Clinic Website: www.protealife.com
Send us a textWe explore the profound importance of rituals in building connection with loved ones while navigating the complexities of perimenopause and our changing social world.• Rituals creating emotional safety• Post-church chicken and Friday movie nights • Turning extroverts into introverts• Head pressure, rage episodes, and social withdrawal • AI StressMake sure to subscribe to the 100 Things We Learned From Film podcast to hear Josh's upcoming appearance on the Facts and Lies, and Rock and Roll segment!Super Familiar with The Wilsons Find us on instagram at instagram.com/superfamiliarwitthewilsonsand on YoutubeContact us! familiarwilsons@gmail.com
In this episode, we explore the powerful benefits of a simple yet transformative habit: walking after meals. Designed with perimenopausal women in mind, this episode dives into how a 10-minute post-meal stroll can positively impact digestion, stabilize blood sugar levels, enhance mood, and support overall health. Whether you're navigating hormonal changes or simply looking to boost your daily routine, you'll discover how this easy practice fits into your lifestyle and why it's a must-try for lasting wellness. Join our priority list to be the first to know when Burn Fat and Feast membership opens. https://pages.burnfatandfeast.com/hormone-reset-priority-list/ GRAB ONE OF OUR FREEBIES: Week of Meals (with grocery list and recipes) Ultimate Guide to Intermittent Fasting For Women Fat Burning Guide Metabolism and Hormone Checklist Fast Food Guide Free LIVE workout Alcohol & Macros Guide Protein & Portions Guide Connect with us on your favorite social media platform: Instagram: www.instagram.com/burnfatandfeast Facebook: www.facebook.com/burnfatandfeast TikTok: @burnfatandfeast LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/burn-fat-and-feast/ Join our FREE Facebook community to be surrounded by other women on a mission to live their best lives. Rate, Review and Follow on Apple Podcasts If you love this show, please consider rating and reviewing the show! This helps us support more people just like you, move toward the life they desire and deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars and select “Write a Review”. Then be sure to let us know what you loved most about the episode. Also, if you haven't done so, follow the podcast. We add episodes every week to the feed and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out. Follow now!
In this episode, we dive into creating the ultimate morning routine tailored for perimenopausal women. Mornings set the tone for the rest of your day, and having intentional habits can help you thrive during this transitional phase of life. From boosting your energy to improving mental clarity and hormonal balance, these six morning habits will empower you to take charge of your wellness and start every day feeling your best. Join our priority list to be the first to know when Burn Fat and Feast membership opens. https://pages.burnfatandfeast.com/hormone-reset-priority-list/ GRAB ONE OF OUR FREEBIES: Week of Meals (with grocery list and recipes) Ultimate Guide to Intermittent Fasting For Women Fat Burning Guide Metabolism and Hormone Checklist Fast Food Guide Free LIVE workout Alcohol & Macros Guide Protein & Portions Guide Connect with us on your favorite social media platform: Instagram: www.instagram.com/burnfatandfeast Facebook: www.facebook.com/burnfatandfeast TikTok: @burnfatandfeast LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/burn-fat-and-feast/ Join our FREE Facebook community to be surrounded by other women on a mission to live their best lives. Rate, Review and Follow on Apple Podcasts If you love this show, please consider rating and reviewing the show! This helps us support more people just like you, move toward the life they desire and deserve. Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate with five stars and select “Write a Review”. Then be sure to let us know what you loved most about the episode. Also, if you haven't done so, follow the podcast. We add episodes every week to the feed and if you're not following, there's a good chance you'll miss out. Follow now!
This episode is a must-listen for every woman—whether you're navigating your first period, deep into perimenopause, or supporting someone who is. I'm joined by menstrual health educator Heather Allmendinger, who sheds light on a topic that should be taught in every school: menstrual cycle literacy.
Episode #202 In this Fasting Q&A episode, hosted by Coach Lisa Chance, Dr. Jason Fung answers questions from the TFM Community: I'm curious if TFM intends or would consider a ‘fasting-mimicking protocol' to be published for its members, possibly a TFM Quick Guide? [01:22] When I fast I find that I have trouble falling and staying asleep. Is it the hunger increasing my cortisol or the effect of ketones? What are your thoughts on valerian or kava tea to help with fasting insomnia? [02:54] What's the latest research on autophagy? [05:12] What does research say about the relationship between the HDL/Triglycerides ratio and high coronary calcium scores? And, in general, what does the scientific literature say about potential interactions between statins and fasting regimens? [07:00] There is a hormonal cascade where our sex hormones are made from cholesterol. We know from member stories that female hormones become balanced on alternate day fasting regimen. In those success cases, how does alternate-day fasting affect the hormonal cascade so that it starts working properly again? [12:59] I was recently reading research that suggests that moderate weight gain during menopause, particularly in lean women, may offer a degree of protection against cardiovascular disease, due to the increased production of adipose-tissue-derived estrogen, which can partially compensate for the decline in ovarian estrogen levels following menopause. What are your thoughts on this? [15:27] Why might weight loss stall during a multi-day fast, even when following an extended-fasting protocol with proper hydration, electrolytes, and exercise? What factors could influence the rate of weight loss, and how can one determine if adjustments are needed? [19:02] Is there a problem with lowering metabolic rate during fasting? Do I need to worry about this? [21:13] The RR interval typically refers to the time between consecutive R waves in an electrocardiogram (ECG/EKG) and is a fundamental measurement in heart rate variability (HRV). Has the RR interval been studied in diagnosing gastroparesis, specifically for diabetes? [24:51] LINKS Cholesterol Ratio Calculator https://www.omnicalculator.com/health/cholesterol-ratio Longevity Summit video with Cynthia Thurlow on Dr. Fung's YouTube channel. A Conversation with Cynthia Thurlow | Jason Fung https://youtu.be/YeELPeaQEFg?si=88JJWDzyzjDPGK76 Please note that you need to be a member of the TFM Community to submit questions to the Q&A webinars with Dr. Fung but you can submit questions to our regular Q&A episodes here: https://bit.ly/TFMPodcastQs LAST CHANCE to Sign Up for the Self-Sabotage Workshop with Dr. Terri Lance https://www.thefastingmethod.com/masterclasses-and-live-workshops-2025/#Self2 Discount Code - PODCAST10 Transcripts of all episodes are available at www.thefastingmethod.com on the Podcast page. CONNECT WITH US Instagram https://www.instagram.com/fastingmethod/ Facebook Page https://www.facebook.com/TheFastingMethod Join our FREE Facebook Group https://bit.ly/TFMNetwork 00:00 Intro 01:22 Fasting-Mimicking Diet Quick Guide? 02:54 Fasting and Insomnia 05:12 Latest Research on Autophagy 07:00 HDL/Trigs Ratio and high CAC Score 11:40 ADF and Balancing Female Sex Hormones 14:09 Weight Gain Protective in Perimenopause? 17:44 Weight-Loss Stalls During Multi-Day Fasts 19:55 Low/High Metabolic Rate 23:33 Heart rate Variability Disclaimer This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional care by a doctor or other qualified medical professional. You should always speak with your physician or other healthcare professional before doing any fasting, changing your diet, taking or adjusting any medication or supplements, or adopting any treatment for a health problem. The use of any other products or services purchased by you as a result of this podcast does not create a healthcare provider-patient relationship between you and any of the experts affiliated with this podcast. Information and statements regarding dietary supplements have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration and are not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease.
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"With the right training, nutrition, lifestyle strategies, and the power of the mind, women in their fifties and beyond can still [accomplish amazing feats] . . . women prove every day that our best years can be ahead of us no matter how old we are now . . . you've accumulated hard-earned wisdom and power over the years. You're higher on the totem pole of life. There are countless opportunities that lie ahead." —Dr. Stacy Sims, phD, International exercise physiologist and nutrition scientist The beautiful gift of stepping into another year of life is that we have the opportunity, but not the promise, to enjoy the application of wisdom learned along the way. As someone who lives with awareness and pays attention to the reality of life, we know that our bodies need to be taken care of properly so that they can take care of us. Knowing how our bodies change as we age is crucial to knowing how to give it the care it needs for optimal quality of living. Which brings me to a reality that Dr. Stacy T. Sims, an exercise physiologist and nutrition scientist, pointed out in a recent interview on The Mel Robbins podcast (listen here), the majority, and arguably supermajority of all fitness studies and how the body responds to exercise for weight loss and strength building has been done with men as their test subjects, and the few studies that did involve women, were women who were pre-menopausal age. In fact, she points out in her latest book Next Level: Your Guide to Kicking Ass, Feeling Great, and Crushing Goals Through Menopause that in a 2019 study published by the Mayo Clinic Proceedings "found that of 177 resident physicians in family medicine, internal medicine, and even obstetrics/gynecology who were surveyed, 20 percent received zero lectures on menopause during their training. Fewer than 7 percent reported feeling prepared to help manage the care of women through their menopausal years." However, thankfully, awareness and discussion and knowledge are being more readily shared thanks to many high profile individuals - Michelle Obama, Oprah, Naomi Watts, Halle Berry, Katie Couric, Maria Shriver and more. What is most important is understanding what we can do and how it will benefit us not only in the short-term but in the long-term. And as someone who has been active all of my life, and now am at the age of 46, I began to realize I need to learn more about what I can do to keep my body strong, reduce the symptoms and continue to enjoy working out while seeing results. That is why I was thrilled to be introduced to Dr. Stacy Sims, and I have a long-time TSLL reader and member to thank for this - Janet M. Janet sent me the link to the Mel Robbin's podcast episode with Dr. Stacy Sims that essentially just blasts so many myths out of the water about how to eat, workout and think about what we do to ourselves as women as we step into the perimenopausal and then postmenopausal period of our life, which is the rest of our life - we think we need to eat less and work out more and the exact opposite is true. I cannot tell you how refreshing, validating and inspiring that episode was, so I encourage you to listen to it so you can meet Dr. Stacy Sims and get an introduction to what we're going to talk about today and why I highly recommend picking up her latest book Next Level. With all of that said, I have simultaneously been reading a book about how to strengthen our memory to do all that we can, whatever our age, to prevent dementia and Alzheimer's, and what I discovered, which will not likely surprise you, is that so much of what we can do for our physical health that will also benefit our brain health and strong memory. So today's episode is the episode that will share with you 17 specific life habits, practices and approaches to keep both your body and mind healthy for the rest of our lives, specifically dedicated to women as we move through perimenopause, then menopause (which is essentially one day), and the postmenopause which will be for the rest of our lives. Why not discover how to thrive and enjoy this awesome time of our lives because as a favorite quote of my shares, "The climax of the story always occurs in the second act. It's the best part." as written for the dramatized show Julia about Julia Child. The other reason I wanted to bring this episode to you is because the more we talk about and celebrate and model how to live amazingly through this inevitable change, we destigmatize what has been for centuries seen as a negative along the journey of womanhood. No longer! And that can only change with women - the words we use, how we talk about it, how we live, etc. The mindset we bring, the attitude, the wisdom, the support, it will all make a powerful difference that not only will help each of us, but those around us and those who will arrive into the latter half of their life after us undaunted and eager to do so because of the women who came before who refused to be seen as less-than or a incapable of achieving amazing things. ~Find the Show Notes on The Simply Luxurious Life blog — https://thesimplyluxuriouslife.com/podcast402
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