The 318 Project

What determines the value of an item?Does the item have cracks, dents or flaws?Two people may look at the same object and see the same issues, but while one feels this makes it worthless another may embrace the uniqueness and feel it is worth more than it was originally.D to you see yourself or feel others see you as "JUNK"?There are examples in the Bible of men that either felt this way or others felt that way about them.Judges 6:11-23 - God calls Gideon 1 Samuel 16:1-13 - Samuel anoints David as KingCollecting Baseball card as kid growing up and how the value of cards have changed over the years.Auctions: People bid on items based on the appraised value and what they are willing to pay for it.Ebay- people post items they wish to sell and you can either buy the item at the listed price, make an offer for what you feel it is worth, or bid on the item with others, like an auction, to see who wins the item to purchase.Sudden Death - a set time limit, no added time or delays to allow other bids to be placed, that the last bid in wins. Art of Kintsugi:Dr. Doug Stringer wrote and article about the "Art of Kintsugi".  He explains that in Japan when someone breaks a cup or dish, they don't throw it away but take it to a craftsman that repairs the broken item. The art of Kintsugi is to use gold or silver to fill in the cracks. Over time the item may be repaired several times and have a very unique design that makes it more valuable now that when it was originally created."The Art of Kintsugi is the ability to see value in brokenness." - Dr. Doug StringerSudden death moment when Satan thought he had Jesus and mankind defeated when Jesus went to the Cross; but Jesus had the final maximum bid that Satan couldn't match when He said "IT IS FINISHED!"Ephesians 2:10 - His Workmanship (Masterpiece)Music:Broken Clouds by Tellsonichttps://www.epidemicsound.com/track/46Avw5ERiS/Send us a textBuzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREEPodpageBuild a beautiful podcast website in 5 minutes.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show

Go The Distance:1 Kings 19:1-8 - Elijah flees to HorebVerse 9-18 - God appears to ElijahVs. 13- when Elijah heard God whisper to him, he hid his face in his cloak(mantle).Elijah meets Elisha.  Elijah throws his cloak on Elisha. The very things we use as a security blanket/coping device to hide behind, God can use as a vessel for power and authority to strengthen and courage others. Mentorship/discipleship. Elisha slaughtered the oxen and burned the plow to cook the meat to give to the people. His decision to go the distance at all cost. No turning back.BURN THE SHIPSIn 1519, Hernan Cortez arrived in Mexico. He told the 600 men and over 100 sailors to burn the 11 ships. Many had plotted to take some of the ships and flee to Cuba.  This sent a message that there was no turning back. This phrase, burn the ships, is to mean that you are fully committed to a cause, purpose or goal. This demonstrated that it is better to show a commitment of moving forward than to stop and hesitateBy destroying the ships, Cortez ensured his crew would be motivated, dedicated and willing to work together for a purpose.2 Kings 2:1-10 Elijah tells Elisha that he will be taken up to Heaven. Elijah then takes his cloak, the same one that he had hid his face in when the Lord appeared to him on Mount Horeb, rolls it up and strikes the Jordan with it. They cross over on dry ground.Take up the MantleIn the Bible, the double portion was always reserved for the first born male child of the family. The right of the firstborn son.Verse 11 says they walked and talked along the way together and when the chariot of fire came that it had to separate them.This indicates that they were walking shoulder to shoulder as brothers.Elisha then tore his clothes and then picked up Elijah's cloak and struck the water and crossed back over.Matthew 16:13-23 - Jesus asks His disciples “Who do people say that the Son of Man is?”In John 21- Peter tells the others that he is going fishing. Going back to what he knew before he met Jesus. He didn't burn the ships to leave any chance of being completely sold out.Going the DistanceSo, what is going the distance?In the Cambridge dictionary, it is defined as to manage or continue until the end of a competition.Yourdictionary.com says - to have the endurance to see a difficult sustained challenge to its natural end without faltering.To continue to the end, no matter how difficult.In the movie "Field of Dreams", Ray is following the prompting of The Voice to build a baseball field. Then it directs him to go see Terrance Mann and take him to a baseball game. At the game Ray hears the voice telling him to go the distance. As Ray takes Terry home he would tell Ray, “I wish I had your passion Ray, as misguided as it may be; it's still a passion. I used to feel that way about things.”In 2 Timothy, Paul encourages Timothy to “Preach the Word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort, with great patience and instruction.”Wide World of Sports” Send us a textBuzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREEPodpageBuild a beautiful podcast website in 5 minutes.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show

We tend to associate ourselves with a college team, pro team or any sports team that we are a fan of; but does that really identify who we are?We see people, in today's society, questioning their very identity. They want to be identified in so many different ways that it is no wonder our society is in turmoil and confusion; yet we know that God created 2 identifiable genders in Male and female. Does that still truly explain who each of us are?People everywhere are struggling with that very question and we see how more and more are going to counseling and are put on medication and still they can't find a peace with it.I want to pose 3 questions for you to answer for yourself. You can write them down on your notepads or wherever you can.What is your Title? - Pastor, deacon, teacher, coach, engineer, firefighter, chief, doctor. This is usually associated with your work or something you do.What do people call you? Dad, mom, grandma, granddaddy, Pops, son, daughter, jerk, loser, dummy, idiot, explicit names, Sir, maam, jock, dead-beat or something that describes your personality or behavior.Who do you see yourself as, especially spiritual traits or gifts? Prayer-warrior, mentor, comforter, Word of Knowledge, healing, prophecy, and discernment.How does God see each of us and do we see ourselves the way that He sees Us?So, how are we to see ourselves?It isn't through a title, a description from yourself or others, and it isn't through what you have or haven't done as a child of God.Paul told the church in Ephesians 2:10 that, “we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared ahead of time for us to do.”  Ephesians 3:20 say, “Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly, abundantly, above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us,”.Song - Identity by Velvet Moon https://www.epidemicsound.com/track/XUoXHitDzJ/Send us a textBuzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREEPodpageBuild a beautiful podcast website in 5 minutes.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show

It is through God's divine guidance that God's shows us the path that He has for each individual's life. This guidance comes from being discipled. This can be as a child and your parents teaching you the “rights and wrongs” for your actions and behavior. Or it comes from a teacher or counselor helping you learn skills for as you grow and use in life. As christians, we get guidance from our pastors and evangelists that bring a word from God to strengthen, encourage, correct or rebuke us. But each of us should have a close relationship with a leader or mentor that is discipling us. Paul wrote letters to Timothy and Titus as their mentor to strengthen them as leaders. This is what discipleship is about. This is evident when Paul told Timothy in 2 Timothy chapter three verses 16 & 17 that “All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction for training in righteousness; so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work.” You know that the Word of God is inspired or God breathed and that it is useful for the training and edification of the saints. So how does each person apply this in their individual life?There are 4 points that Paul shared with Timothy in those verses that I am going to share. Two of them are on beliefs, what we should or shouldn't believe. The other two are on behavior, what each of us should or shouldn't do. Teaching-These are instructions through God's Word. God reveals His Word through His Spirit to us. 1 Corinthians  2:12-13John 6:64Psalms 71:17Colossians 3:16Rebuking-This is when God through the Holy Spirit brings conviction of sinful actions.1 Timothy 2"141 Corinthian 15:33 Proverbs 15:32Romans 8 :51 John 2:16Titus 3 :3Correction-This is a revealing of bad behavior that comes from conviction of those sinful actions.Proverbs 15:32 Proverbs 10:17 Proverbs 3:11-12 Proverbs 19:20Righteous training. This is developing the right behavior of what God wants you to do and act. Romans 7:61 Peter chapter 3:11 timothy 2:14Titus 2 :11 Peter 1:15 1 Peter 3:17Ephesians 5:1- 21 Corinthians 11:1In conclusion, I want to go back to those verses in 2 Timothy chapter 3, but this time as you read it, insert your personal name, where it says “man of God”. It would sound like this” All Scripture is inspired by God and is profitable for teaching, for rebuking, for correcting, for training righteousness, so that Ryan Hare, may be complete, equipped for every good work.Music - Egg Rollz by Jobii Baegel https://www.epidemicsound.com/track/YyZZD5KjMd/Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched! Start for FREEPodpage Build a beautiful podcast website in 5 minutes.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show

So often we feel it is easy to purchase that new home or car and not worry about the cost, but then the first payment comes or a costly repair and your appreciation for that item diminishes.How about with your marriage?Or even your relationship with God?In this episode, I share about how God sees the true value in each of us no matter what you and I have gone through in life. You may have that feeling that you are worthless and junk just like an old abandoned house or vehicle, but God doesn't see junk only a Masterpiece and is worthy of being a FIXER UPPER.Scripture:Mark 4:14-20Matthew 25:14-30Music: Links providedIntro segment- Eye of the Newscaster by Out to the Worldhttps://www.epidemicsound.com/track/K4Xu4Jlesc/Outro segment - Kid on the Move by El Flaco Collective https://www.epidemicsound.com/track/h8KuCiV7Al/

The 318 Project is taking a short mid-season break.I recently took on a new role in the Fire Department and my schedule is changing from a 24/48 schedule to a Monday-Friday routine. Because of this change and going through training for this position, it has left me little time to concentrate on the podcast.The 318 Project is NOT ENDING, but simply taking a short hiatus.New episodes will return starting on Thursday, June 2nd, 2022. Until then, I challenge you to go back to the previous episodes that you haven't heard yet or one that stood out to you  and listen to them.Music:So Get Ready by spring gang on epidemic soundhttps://www.epidemicsound.com/track/wCVDLnVW3f/

Do you remember in school when a classmate would whisper or make a noise just loud enough to get your attention while hoping that the teacher did not hear it?Maybe you remember when your wife, an old girlfriend or even that first crush you had in school came up and whispered something sweet into your ear for only you to hear it.How about those times when you were outside playing and it was getting dark and you heard your mom or dad yell your name so that the whole neighborhood heard it, that it was time to come home for dinner?Do you feel like you are waiting to hear God shout your name to speak to you?Many times when you read the Bible it would say that God spoke to someone; but was it always in an audible voice?In this episode, I talk about the different ways God spoke to the saints in the Old and New testament.There are other ways that God can speak to us that lets us know what He wants each of to hear.It may be through a feeling about a situation, or when a Bible verse stands out to you at that moment. Maybe it is another Christian brother or sister that brings a word of encouragement; or even a worship song  that lifts your spirit. Scripture References:John 10:271 Samuel 3:2-10Exodus 3:1-4Acts 9:3-7Joshua 5:13-151 Kings 19:11-13Music in this episode:Intro - "Whisper Out" by Mica Emory https://www.epidemicsound.com/track/t2XvNhSaax/"In the Cool of the Day" by JOYSPRING https://www.epidemicsound.com/track/1ZegjHOK1L/

Did your parent ever tell you to "Don't throw the ball in the house"?What Happened when you disobeyed and broke a bowl, plate, or special figurine?Did you try to hide what you did by gluing the broken pieces back together?More than likely after your parents found out and the ceramic ware couldn't be fixed it was thrown out in the trash.You probably feel the same way after some of the things that have happened in your life that you are junk and that God has no need for you and just discards you.In this episode, I share about how God can use the broken pieces of your life to create something wonderful and even more valuable that the original.I talk about how a trip to St. Peterburg, Russia and seeing the mosaic artwork at the Church of the Savior on Spilled Blood reminded me of how God can use those broken pieces to make a masterpiece.I also share about the ancient Japanese artform called "Kintsugi" and how an artist will take a broken ceramic ware and add something special to fill the cracks to make it more valuable than before.Scriptures:Isaiah 64:8Jeremiah 18:4Ephesians 2:10To check out the music in this episode:Introduction- "Dust till Dawn" by Dusty Decks https://www.epidemicsound.com/track/FhKgzwY2Jm/"Broken Pieces" by Gavin Luke https://www.epidemicsound.com/track/J5X91AXv9G/

What does it look like to have an encourager in your life?We all want to have people that will speak life and encouragement to us when we are going through a trial or crisis.Does that person have a selfish or selfish agenda?Are they looking for way to lift you up even if it means they take a back seat to your accomplishments?Do you have a BARNABAS your life?What was so special about Barnabas?He is mentioned only in a few chapters in Acts, 1 Corinthians, Galatians and Colossians; yet he had such an impact that the majority of the New Testament was written by those he encouraged.In this episode, I will share with you the 3 key character traits that Barnabas displayed and how we can apply those same traits in our lives to be an encouragement to others. We can also us these key areas for what to look for in a person that we are seeking as a mentor.1. He was a good man2. He was full of the Holy Spirit 3. He was strong in his faithScriptures:Acts 4:36,37Acts 9:27Acts 11:24 ( 3 key character traits)Acts 13-152 Timothy 4:11Music:Intro - It's Time by Ealot - https://www.epidemicsound.com/track/4XvPw1VzFE/Train of Thought by Ealot- https://www.epidemicsound.com/track/wXHX9VhnF8/

Do you have an armorbearer? In the Bible, you only see an armor bearer mentioned in the Old Testament, but the same duties and responsibilities continue on even today.An armor bearer was a young man that would carry the weapons and shield of the man he was under, much like a knight's squire that would carry the weapons into combat, but also use the shield to protect his master. Over time he would train and even be able to fight alongside the warrior or knight. Sometimes the armor bearer would use the shield or weapon to protect or defend the flank of his master. In 1 Samuel 14: 1-14 we read of Jonathan and his armor bearer defeating the Philistines. We see that David became Saul's armor bearer in 1 Samuel 16:21But it isn't just about having one person, there are times you need a full garrison of brothers. The foundation of the 318 Project comes from Genesis 14:14. Here we see that Lot was taken captive and Abraham raised up with his 318 men and servants that were trained in his household to go and rescue Lot. Proverbs 17:17  says " A friend loves at all times, but a brother is born for adversity." Proverbs 27:17 "As iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpens the countenance of his friends."To sharpen a sword or weapon means that it has been used in a battle and has been dented, chipped and gotten dull from hitting against the enemies armor and shield. As an armor bearer and brother in arms that is what we are required to do for our fellow brothers. We may see their flaws, just as they see ours and through guidance and prayer allow the Holy Spirit to mend us. The thing is that Satan doesn't just attack us from the same direction. He may first  come at us with a frontal assault then the next time a sneak attack from behind or end tries to side swipe you or me, that is why we need brothers praying for us on all sides, almost like we are covered in a box on all six sides.Going back to David, Over time he rose from being just a young shepherd that became King Saul's armor bearer,  to became King David that had his mighty warriors that stood out as his elite force of mighty men that is stated in 2 Samuel 23:8-36. Many of these warriors risked their lives because they believed in King David.He even had his army of 600 men that followed him when he was running from King Saul. Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 talks about the value of a friend.. When you and I read it, we tend to associate it with marriage , but this also applies to any friendship. This is that unity and bond that when the enemy comes and attacks you, there is strength in numbers to overcome and defeat Satan.So as I am coming to a close, my challenge to you is to start praying about and looking for those brothers that you can unite with that will be your band of brothers, but also that you can be theirs also. It isn't just to say that you have a brother by your side, but to also know that they won't abandon you in times of trouble. I want to encourage you to really search for that man that will be a mentor and brother in your life, but to also look for those men that you can be a mentor and brother to help encourage them.Music from Epidemic Sound:song during Intro: Choirs of War by Dream Cave- https://www.epidemicsound.com/track/FR6Ed05Tc0/Isong - The Gallant Squire by Jon Bjork https://www.epidemicsound.com/track/8nGHn5OQSj/Anvil sound effect -https://www.epidemicsound.com/track/ysH73yQcGi/

You and I have seen so many types of relationships and the different ways men and women have shown love for each other. Some have been healthy relationships and marriages that worked, while there have been harmful ones where the man or woman felt that even though it was a hostile environment that they needed to stay; or did leave the relationship because of a bad situation.How do you view your relationship with God? Or do you have a full understanding of the relationship that God wants to have with you?Many people would view it as a hard discipling Father that wants to punish you when you mess up and sin. Others see Him as a passive Father that just created the universe and then just left it alone. Maybe you see it as to how your mother and father were to you or to each other?But, do you know that God wants to have a deep and intimate relationship with each and every person.When you think of intimacy, is it usually in that close personal relationship with your spouse in bed. The definition of intimacy is a close friendship, a deep knowledge of a subject, a private atmosphere, or closeness to someone or something.This can be stated in having an intimate knowledge of details about a person, place or event like sports statistics or movie quotes. Maybe it is being in a nice, quiet and romantic place or simply being close to someone such as holding, embracing or hugging someone.The word “Intimacy” itself isn't mentioned in the Bible, but God did show us how He wants to have an intimate relationship with Him.There are several examples of intimate friendships that weren't of a sexual nature in the Bible. There was the love that Jonathan and David had for each other as mentioned in 1 Samuel chapter 18. Then we see in the New Testament how John was called “The Beloved One” and we see him at the Last Supper with his head resting on the chest of Jesus. Both of these are examples of an intimate and caring friendship.But something with John stood out to me when it said he rested his head on the chest of Jesus. Think about your marriage or relationship and when your spouse is lying beside you and lays their head on your chest. At that moment their ear is next to your body and depending on which side, over your heart they can hear your heart beating. That is what God is wanting from each of us. He wants you and I to draw close to Him and hear what His heart is saying to each of us. That is the moment of intimacy that we can truly have with God.The word “Love” is mentioned the most times in the book of Psalms.Why is that?Maybe ,because David spent so much time with God in prayer while he was out in the fields watching the sheep that he had those intimate moments with God and even mentioned as “A man after God's own heart”How was that even when David stumbled and fell, made mistakes that God still called him that. It was because of those close personal times in prayer and worship. Dr. Cole said that “Prayer produces intimacy. You become intimate with the one for whom you pray, with whom you pray and to Whom you pray.”When we get in a place that you and I can focus and not allow the distractions of the world around us to interfere, then we can truly get into the presence of God and have those intimate times with Him. In Psalms, each time the word “Love” was mentioned it was preceded by the word “faithful” or “unfailing”. When you read about the greatest type of Love that is mentioned it is called “Agape”, which means unconditional love. And that is how God showed us His love. It is that unconditional, faithful and unfailing love that even when we fall, mess up or even walk away from Him, that He still loves you and me.Scripture:Matthew 11:28-30John 3:16,17Romans 5:81 John 4:16James 4:8"Love 2 Deep" by Velveteen available at www.epidemicsound.com

We have all probably grown up with the James Bond movies and the image of the character that is presented with him. If you are like me, you probably even saw yourself as the suave, debonair, mysterious man who got all the gorgeous women, drove the greatest cars and had all the cool gadgets. In every movie, he always was with the most attractive woman that was irresistible to his charm even if it cost her life. As a spy working for the Queen and country he still had an image to uphold that included being well dressed in a tuxedo that was custom fit. He had stylish and expensive cars along with all the latest gadgets created to help him out of any situation. This all seemed to come at no cost or expense to him and no concern for them. It seems that he had the Girls, Gold and Glory.So why do so many men feel that they have to do everything in their power to emulate this fictional character?Like many things, guys tend to fantasize about getting the girl, winning the big game, being rich or having super powers while feeling like they are stuck in a dull average Joe life. When you really look at it though, Bond may have had all those things, but he tended to be a loner. Yes, he had what many psychologists would say is an ISTP type of personality. This type of person is practical yet great at handling a crisis and resourceful. He prefers to be alone yet outgoing as an Introvert. He would be sensing depending on his senses and observation skills. His thinking would be based on logical decisions and not just going on his feelings. Finally, he would be a perceiver in that he is a non-planner and never plans what he is about to do.Now you may be thinking, how does this apply to me as a Christian man?In 1 John 2:16, it says “For all that is in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—is not of the Father but is of the world.”Girls- the lust of the FleshGold- the lust of the EyesGlory- the Pride of LifeNow Dr. Cole said that “Lust is the desire to get at the expense of others, while love desires to give at the expense of self.” This is evident when you see Bond in that he uses women as an object for most parts to get information from them, help him to get to the bad guy (which usually gets her killed) or simply to use them for his sexual pleasure. Even Jesus was tempted. In Hebrews 2:18 it says “ Jesus was tempted in every way as we were. For in that He Himself has suffered, being tempted, He is able to aid those who are tempted.”With the James Bond syndrome, we see how these same issues can cause men to get caught up in the traps of sin. You can even see how many want to have that Peter Pan or Playboy lifestyle that they don't want to grow up and take responsibility for their actions or to have that image of a rich lifestyle and have anyone or anything they want and then discard it when they are done with it. We have too many lives, marriages and families destroyed because of the temptation of Satan to try and live up to a glamorous lifestyle that God hasn't intended for them and to later fall or destroy lives trying to reach it. Music is "Car on the Corner" by V. V. Campos https://www.epidemicsound.com/track/4mzm5x9ruQ/

In this episode, my guest host Cliff Hare shares a message about the Five sins that kept the children of Israel out of Canaan.It is those same five sins that can keep you and I from reaching God's Promise Land that He has for our lives.This teaching is taken from the book "Maximized Manhood" by Dr. Edwin Louis Cole.0:00 - Intro1:58 - Beginning of message and Introduction by Cliff Hare.2:48 - Canaan Land is that place that many see as Heaven.5:15 - Dr. Cole's direction to call men that are craving direction in their lives.5:52 - Story about the TV show Monk and how it relates to men wandering for                     direction.7:44 - Direction from God8:09-  The Five sins mentioned by Dr. Cole in Maximized Manhood.8:21-  #1 LUST - The desire to benefit self at the expense of others.                Love is the desire to give as mentioned in John 3:169:28-   #2 IDOLITRY - Esteeming something more worthy of our devotion than                devotion to God.11:07-#3 FORNICATION - Every kind of sexual sin.12:55-#4 TEMPTING GOD - Demanding that God do what is contrary to His                 character.  The characteristics of the kingdom emanate from the                                      character of the king.15:14-#5 MURMURING - The negative confession                Psalms 19:1418:20- Conclusion -                 Scriptures: 1 Corinthians 10:6-10                 1 Peter 2:9                John 17:15-1722:07- OutroTransition sound provided by:Nerve by Dream Cave courtesy of www.epidemicsound.comThe Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

This is the third episode in a series that I am highlighting segments from guest of previous episodes that I interviewed.In this final series my guest talk about restoration of their marriage, programs that help young men and women, helping overcome the struggles of depression, understanding the gifts and anointing of the Holy Spirit,  help men and dads add "Life" to their children by being intention with their involvement and finally about a Father's Affirmation.Segment #1- Bett Harvey shares about Men's Encounter North. He also talks about how God saved his life and marriage through a men's Bible study and a book "Maximized Manhood" by Dr. Edwin Louis Cole.Segment #2- Tony Rorie talks about the Men and Ladies of Honor program that he started as a school principle to help troubled kids and to instill honor, respect, courage and chivalry in a strong character.Segment #3-  Dr. Rob Carman shares about the struggles society has with depression and how the toxicity of the mind with the trash we see and hear impacts us to the point of breaking and how to clear those thoughts by praying and reading God's Word.Segment #4- Pastor David Bendett talks about how we as Christians can and should allow the gifts of the Holy Spirit to operate in our lives.Segment #5- Jeff Zaugg tells about the framework he developed after he had done 100 episodes of his podcast, Dad Awesome. He uses this to help men and father be intentional in adding Life to the Dad Life.Segment #6- Cliff & David Hare share about what a Father's Affirmation means and the impact it can have on a child's life. They talk about even in times of feeling as a failure as a parent can still have a positive impact on a child's life.Transition music provided by Epidemic Sound. Title of the transition sound is "Make the Call" by Jay Varton https://www.epidemicsound.com/track/xWQCSS8nNg/The Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

In this episode, I am featuring guests that shared their testimony or a point that truly stood out and helped them in their life.I have take a segment from seven guest that I felt stood out from those previous podcast episode interviews. Some of them will be about how God saved their lives and marriages, while others are sharing a point of transition with work and ministry.Segment #1- Todd Smith and how his boys responded during the divorce and restoration of his marriage.Segment #2 - Chris Newton shares about the darkest moment but how he still saw the presence of God on his life and his Road to Damascus encounter with God.Segment #3 - Jay Parker shares how God saved his life and marriage through a phone call to his wife on Mother's Day that led him to going to church with her that day and being delivered from drugs and alcohol.Segment #4 - Mick Moffitt shares the 7 pillars that he God gave him to structure on helping fire recruits understand what describes the character of a person.Segment #5- Shaun Miles talks about finding a peace through the fear of death and being alone; and that our lives are in God's hands and how He wants us to finish strong.Segment #6 - Paul & Maria Muzichuk both share how they each processed dealing with advice of holding onto faith after being told that their son was diagnosed with Autism.Segment #7 -  Betty King shares about a wife's perspective of men's ministry and how it not only benefits the man, but the wife and children.The Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

In this episode, I wanted to take some time and go back over several of the previous episodes that I have done and share some highlights from a few guests. I will be doing this over the next few episodes just as a reflection of the different guests that I have had so far and just do a small retrospective look at key moments that stood out to me with the guests that I have had, and highlight those moments to help encourage you from these previous episodes.Segment #1- Lee Grady and the 4 hats of a mentorSegment #2- Eddie Taylor shared the Acronym F. A. T. (Faithful, Available & Teachable) for what to look for in a mentor or disciple.Segment #3- Jody Burkeen shares the 7 areas in a man's life that they can be spiritually weak in.Segment #4- Desmond Frey answers the question "What is the #1 tip that you can give other men as they mentor and disciple other men?Segment #5- Pastor Joaquin Molina shared the effects of defective and absent fathering in society.Segment #6- Doug Stringer talked about the 4 areas that the Church has had to overcome for the past 2,000 years.Segment #7- Paul Cole discussed the definition of Manhood and Maturity.The Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

What is your first thought when you think back to school and having to take History?Did you enjoy learning about the history of your country and the people back then? Or did you dread it and feel that history was nothing more than dates and dead people?Did you feel like it had no meaning or relevance to your life today?Have you taken the time to understand why a memorial or monument was built; and the significance it had for being built?What if I told you that God has a purpose for memorials and monuments in our lives?So thinking back as a kid, I remember going to Washington D.C. and seeing the different monuments honoring leaders or memorials to remember those that gave their lives in the Vietnam and Korean War. For me, seeing those images or names felt like such an honor to know that so many gave their lives for our freedom.Then we went to see several battle grounds of the Civil War such as Gettysburg. That feeling I had when I walked along the fields and saw the monuments honoring the men that gave their lives on both sides of the war. But as a Christian, what do monuments and memorials have to do with our salvation?Many people in the Bible, especially in the Old Testament, would build an altar, monument or memorial to remind them of what God did for them or reveal Himself to them in a mighty and miraculous way.In Joshua chapter 4, we see that God placed Joshua to lead the children of Israel after Moses. They are about to cross the Jordan River when the Lord gives Joshua a command about what they should do once they cross. Before Joshua, God had given Moses instructions about what should be done during the first Passover. In Exodus chapter 12 God tells Moses that this day will be a memorial and that when the children ask why we do this, to remind them of what God did as He passed over the houses of the Israelites while they were in Egypt.Then in chapter 13, God tells Moses what to say to the future generations when they ask why they redeemed the first born lamb as a sacrifice, which again was a reminder of the Passover and being brought out of Egypt.Finally in Deuteronomy, God tells Moses on again to remind the children of Israel and the future generations of how God delivered them from the hands of Pharaoh and the Egyptians.Then in 1 Samuel chapter 7 verse 12 it tells of Samuel setting a large stone and calling it “Ebenezer” to remind the Israelites of the great difficulty they had with the Philistines, but that God had rescued them. This was to be a reminder of a critical turning point in their past and that God had helped them through it to the present time. Memorials can help you and me remember God's past victories in our past and help us gain confidence and strength for the future.Even the Pilgrims had a memorial that they did when celebrating surviving those first couple of harsh winters. They would take 5 kernels of corn before they ate as a memorial to remind them of the times that it was difficult and the food supply was low and that all they had as rations were 5 kernels of corn to eat each day. Once through those hard times and now having  a bountiful crop and meat they wanted to remind the future generations of the sacrifice they made.That is what God has for us. He wants us to remember at times where we have come from. That is where our testimony comes from. It isn't to dwell on the past faults, failures, struggles and sins; but to remind us of what God brought us out of to call us His Children. The truth is that YOU are that monument.Song:Chaxti/Eighties Kid/courtesy of www.epidemicsound.com

Do you remember as a kid when your parents sent you to do a chore or task?Maybe you thought, "I'm the favorite if they asked me to do this", or "they don't like me if I have to do this chore"?Probably once you were old enough to drive they asked you to run errands for them.Do you feel the same way when God wants you to do something for Him?Clifford Hare, President of Faithful Men Ministries, talks about how God used certain men and how their natural  fathers sent them for an assignment.In Genesis chapter 37, we see that Jacob loved his son Joseph. Jacob made him a coat and it even says in the chapter how he was his favorite and had him go check on his brothers.Then in 1 Samuel chapters 16 &17 we see the opposite. Jesse had several sons including David and when the prophet Samuel came to anoint the next king, Jesse didn't even consider David and had him out in the field watching the sheep.Later you see that Jesse does send David also to check on his brothers when Israel was battling the Philistines and how God used David to defeat Goliath.In Matthew chapter 21, Jesus tells the parable of the evil vinedressers and how the owner of the fields left them to harvest the field and after he had sent several servants to get the harvest from them, he decided to send his son, who they then killed. So how does that apply to us with God?In Galatians 4 verses 4 through 7 it tells you and me that we have become son's of God through the inheritance and adoption through faith in Jesus; and that we aren't just heirs, but joint-heirs with Christ.God is sending each of us to further His Kingdom. Just as Jesus told the disciples in Matthew 28 verses 19 & 20 that we are to Go forth and make disciples and share the Gospel in the Great Commission.God will remind you that you were created for such a time as this and that He has a purpose and plan for each of us. You may feel that you aren't smart enough, strong enough or talented as others that you see, but God has a specific plan for you .Even when others will reject you and it may feel tough, sometimes He requires us to get out of our comfort zones to do what He has called us to do.References:Genesis 37:31 Samuel Chapter 16 & 17Matthew 21:33-45Galatians 4:4-7Romans 8:16-17Matthew 28:19-20

Have you had those moments in your life where it felt like everything was going the wrong way?You were serving God and being faithful, yet it felt like every step forward in your walk with Christ resulted in what seemed like 10 steps backwards.Finally you got to the point that you thought why am I doing all of this if I am getting nowhere stronger in my faith.Maybe you were dealing with a financial crisis, marriage troubles, depression or just the stresses of life seem to be piling up all at once.Yet something inside you kept reminding you to hold on, don't give up and KEEP MOVING FORWARD.Many times we are going through  a season of change and God is wanting to take us to a closer relationship with Him and that requires us to go through some tough times. Sometimes those around us may not understand or even feel resentment at where God is taking you.In your mind you may even think that it would be easier to “go back to the way things were” so that there isn't  as much stress or worry. Maybe you feel like giving up on a calling from God, what feels like a dead end job or even hopeless marriage. But, that is not what God has for you.In Proverbs 16:9 it says “The mind of man plans his way, But the Lord directs his steps.”In Joshua 6:6-7, he tells  them  “Take up the ark of the covenant, and let seven priests carry seven trumpets of rams' horns before the ark of the Lord.” Then he said to the people, “Go forward, and march around the city, and let the armed men go on before the ark of the Lord.”In Genesis chapter 19, we see what happened to someone that did look about at what they were leaving behind. In verse 17 one of the angels tells Lot “Escape for your life! Do not look behind you, and do not stay anywhere in the valley; escape to the mountains, or you will be swept away.” But then in verse 26 we see that as fire and brimstone came upon the city that Lot's wife looked back and was instantly turned to a pillar of salt. Her heart was still toward the things of her past that were being destroyed and it was difficult to let them go.When it seems like old habits or addictions want to rise up and you feel tempted to give into those urges, because it seems like it will take the pain or stress away, even if for just a few moments.In Luke 9 verses 61-62 Jesus is talking with several of His followers when one asks him a question, "And another also said, “Lord, I will follow You, but let me first go and bid them farewell who are at my house. But Jesus said to him, “No one, having put his hand to the plow, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God.”Dr. Cole says in his book Never Quit that “ so often in times of crisis, we think of escaping from something, some undesirable place or condition. We think in terms of avoiding crisis, problems, difficulties, punishment, correction and the hard issues of life because we are basically negative by nature.  When we deal with change in a godly way, we will multiply, or increase rather than decrease.”In Philippians 3:12-14 “Not that I have already attained, or am already perfected; but I press on, that I may lay hold of that for which Christ Jesus has also laid hold of me. Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended; but one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.”And then in 2 Timothy 4:7 Paul reminds Timothy, “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith."That is what I want to remind you that even in those difficult times, when it seems like all hope is lost and there is no way out, God wants you to keep looking forward to him. “Moving Forward” by Israel Houghton. 

Have you ever felt like all that you were doing was just enough to survive?Do you have a calling in your life that God wants to use you, but feel like after some time those opportunities will never happen and you just settle into being a faithful Christian?Does it feel like the calling has died?In episode 42, I am going to share with you about the Shunamite woman and Elisha and how God doesn't want you to settle for good, but to seek and hold onto what is His Best for your life.Our settling for good, isn't God's Best! 2 Kings 4:8-37 - Elisha and the Shunammite woman. Elisha Raises the Shunammite's SonGod's promise and His resurrected promiseGod can answer your prayer and even meet the needs that you don't take about, but know that you need.How many times has someone asked you “How are things?” or “How are you doing?” and you just say “I am good.” Even when you know that you are dealing with something, but don't want to share. Has someone asked you about a need and they were willing and able to help provide for that need; but you didn't want to share or say what you really needed?Down the road as time passes, the dream or promise may feel like it is dying or is dead, but God can resurrect that promise that He gave you in a prodigal child, a job, financial needs, overcoming an addiction and restoring a marriage that is facing divorce.To have a resurrection you have to die, usually to self. This is represented when we get baptized in that it represents the killing of the old man of flesh and resurrected in the new man in Christ.What dream or purpose has God given you that needs to be resurrected?There is a time that the children of Israel were given the promise of Canaan, but wandered in the wilderness for 40 years and many felt that the promise had died as many of them had died in the wilderness. Even once in the Promise Land there still had to fulfill the promise and God provided their every need.In Genesis, Joseph had his dreams and felt like they were dead when his brothers sold him. Then later when Potiphar had him thrown in prison. There was a time that he helped translate the dreams of the butler and baker that were in prison with him and he told the butler that when you are restored in position to Pharaoh to remember me. At this moment he was trying to fix it himself and not rely on God.Abraham and Sarah were given a promise of having a child. After waiting years they got to the point of having a child through Haggai, but that was not God's Best for them.In John Bevere's Book, “Good or God” he talks about what may be good and created by God isn't always God's best for us. He shares how when God created the Garden of Eden he told Adam and Eve that they could eat from every tree except from the Tree of the knowledge of good and evil. God created it and it was a good thing, but it wasn't the best that God had for them.Back in episode 15 titled “In times of testing, Winners never Quit.” I shared how I felt that God was calling me to ministry and I thought that the way to do that was to get ordained through the denomination that we were in at that time. After the process, I walked away feeling defeated because I knew that it wasn't the direction God had for me and my family. It took time, but I learned that this was what I thought I needed to do, which is a good thing, but it wasn't God's best for me and the calling He has for me.2 kings 8:1 - 6EphesianThe Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

What is that one thing that you pray for when going through a trial or dealing with a situation or person that just seems to test your limits?PATIENCE!It seems like everyone is in a hurry everywhere you look. If you are like me, you want to have an answer or solution to any problem that may arise. And if you don't, you want to find it as quickly as possible. How many times have you gone to YouTube to find a video to fix a problem with an appliance, vehicle or electronic device? Maybe you went to Google to search a question of how or why this problem is happening?We are in a day and time now that everything is at a speed that we expect what we want to come in quick and timely manner. We are living in a fast food, microwave, and amazon time that if we don't get it our way in 5 minutes, 30 minutes or next day delivery, we get frustrated that it isn't here fast enough.You may be going through a trial and you have prayed and it feels like God hasn't answered your prayer. Maybe His answer was “Not at this Time, WAIT.”Most of us, including myself  hate to hear that word, “WAIT”Look at some of the saints in the Bible, like Abraham and Sarah; Joseph, Moses, David and Noah that had to wait years to see the fulfillment of God's promise given to them.What does “be still” mean?It means to stand respectfully motionless, halt, quiet, calm, tranquil, devoid of motion.Waiting means to await, hope, be patient, look forward to and tarry.God wants that for us in that when we wait in faith we are expressing our confidence in Him, even in those times of trial and uncertainty. Especially if we have a feeling of urgency.Many times we want to rush and find a solution, which isn't always a bad thing, but there are times that God wants us to stop and rest and put our faith and dependence on Him and know that He will provide and make a way, when all else seems hopeless.God is wanting us to “Be Still” and listen to Him. Just as He told Elijah on the mountain. God wasn't in the wind, the earthquake or fire, but in a still small voice. So many times we get caught up in our daily lives and activities that we don't take the time to listen to what God has for us each and every day. Whether it is first thing in the morning or at night before you go to bed you need to take that time to stop and listen to what God is saying to You. We get caught up with things that become like static noise and can be so overpowering that we can't focus or hear what God is wanting to show us. So take that time as you thank Him each day for what He has done or is doing in your life, even if is seems like you are going through that valley or wilderness and feels like there is no hope or help in sight; but that in those times God is taking you to a place to stop and rest and put you complete faith and trust in Him.Scripture references:Psalms 46:10Psalms 40:1-3Psalms 37:7,9,34Psalms 27;14Exodus 14:13Isaiah 8:17Isaiah 30:18Isaiah 40:31Matthew 11:28James 1:2-4James 5:7-8The Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

When we hear the word Crisis it is usually in the form of economic, environmental, the oil crisis, the crisis in the Middle East, a marital crisis or the ever popular Mid-Life Crisis.Most times when we hear these words it has a negative connotation, but did you know that there are times when a crisis is a good thing in your life?Wikipedia defines crisis as  "any  event or period that will lead or may lead to an unstable or dangerous situation affecting an individual, group, or all of society. Crisis are negative changes in the human or environmental affairs, especially with little or no warning".Webster's Dictionary defines crisis :1) A turning point for better or worse in an acute disease2) A paroxysmal attack of pain, distress or disordered function3) The decisive moment ( plot of a story)4) An unstable or crucial time or state of affairs in which a situation that has reached a critical phaseSo what does God want you and me to do when we face those moments in our lives.Crisis is Normal to LifeFollow God's Pattern of Forgiveness - John 20:23. Luke 23:34Admit that God is Your Source- Hebrews 13:6,  Psalms 30:6, Psalms 54:4Don't Panic-  Psalms 91;5,10-11Admit God's Sovereignty-  Genesis 50:19-20Don't Limit God- Matthew 13:58Humble Yourself to God- 1 Peter 5:6; Philippians 2:8-11Trust God to Vindicate You- Romans 12:19Communicate- Matthew 5:37; 2 Corinthians 1:20Act On Principle- 1 Thessalonians 5:18Resources: Winners Never Quit by Dr. Edwin Louis Colehttps://cmn.men/collections/books/products/never-quitThe Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

Jeff Zaugg is the founder and host of the Dad Awesome podcast. Jeff started the podcast three and a half years ago after seeing friends go through great pains with their family and kids from broken marriages. Jeff is married to his wife, Michelle, for over 15 years and they have 4 daughters ranging in age from 8 years old to 3 months old.It was through seeing this pain that sparked a passion to help those hurt by a fatherless issue. He shares that pain is part of our story, but isn't something that we should pass on to our children.As a result, he wanted to help find ways that we as men can stay intentional in this area of fatherhood.  As a dad, we need to be fully present and taking the time to compound interest in the dad life, much like investing with stocks.Jeff shares the framework of unpacking the meaning of the tagline -"Adding life to the dad life".L- Loved (I am Loved - our identity as sons of God)I- Intentional ( Taking the effort to spend time and interact with our children)F- Freedom ( Not passing on the hurts and pains) Hebrews 12:1-2E- Enjoyment of Life ( Feeling follows focus to pass on life, love, callings, identity, affirmation and destiny instead of hurts and pains.)The Father for the Fatherless is a bike rally that started as a small group to challenge men to do something difficult and allow God to speak to them through it. The secret mission of F4F is to awaken a generation of dads to the fact that we are living as if we are the fatherless and that many are living as if fatherless. The goal it to help encourage  men to make that deposit into others and encourage change in a positive trajectory, while raising money to help local and global organizations such as the Venture Orphanage in SE Asia.Resources:https://dadawesome.org/https://dadawesome.org/groups/https://f4f.bike/The Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

Jay Parker shares his testimony from growing up in a rough environment in Yonkers, New York, where he was raised by a abusive and drug addicted father after his alcoholic mother left when he was 8 yrs. old. After giving his life to Christ at the age of 8 in a store front ran by a dear lady, Mother Gaskins, Jay was introduced to alcohol by a brother-in-law around the same time. Then began smoking marijuana by age 12, hooked on crack and cocaine by 15 and in and out of jail by age 16.Jay met his wife, Valeska, in 1992 and married in 1997. By 2000, they were facing divorce because he had gone back to drinking, drunks and partying. After calling Valeska on Mother's Day in 2000, she told him that she was going to church. He decided to go also, because he thought there was another man in her life and he was going to beat him up. During the service, a former drug buddy got up to speak and God changed Jay's life forever.Jay tells of how as a teenager he had a tattoo on his arm that had a vulger saying with the initials "DGF", but after getting saved God showed him the new meaning it has in his life of "Displaying God's Forgiveness".Jay then had a spiritual father figure, Bishop Clarence Lassister,  that poured into his life and gave him opportunities to serve. After time, Jay was a part of 13 different ministries at the  Gospel Tabernacle Outreach Ministry in Rhode Island. One of those ministries was going into a Maximum Security Prison and ministering to the inmates.In 2018, after Bishop Lassiter passed away, Jay felt that God was moving him from Rhode Island and ended up in Jacksonville, Florida and finding the Springs Church. Jay is now part of the men's ministry team and also speaks each week at the Duval County Juvenile Detention Center to around 60-120 young men.During the recent pandemic, Jay started a weekly Facebook Live video that is now called the "Porch Chat" that he and Valeska teach and speak what God has shown them, as well as, guest ministers and other guest that share their testimony.The Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

Dr. Joaquin Molina is the senior pastor of Spring of Life  Fellowship Church in Miami, Florida.  Dr. Molina has been married to his wife, Yvette, for 27 years and has 3 boys, Nick, Josh and Brandon, and 1 daughter, Christina.  Dr. Molina is also a lawyer and author. In this episode, we discuss about his book, What Is A Man.Dr. Molina shares how as a young man at the age of 15 he was trying to understand what it meant to be a man and wasn't shown an example from his father. Later his older brother took him to a brothel and that was how to become a man.Dr. Molina was saved at the age of 16 and searched in the Word of God what is meant to be a man and to find the roadmap to finding that direction to true manhood. It was a 38 year pursuit that led him to write the book to help mentor and disciple men in that same pursuit of identity in Godly Manhood.Dr. Molina travels around the world teaching the steps of servanthood and submission in obedience to grow in manhood. Through this maturity in manhood, men can learn to identify that they must be fathered  to become a man, that then leads to marriage and their own family.Quotes:If you don't know where you are going, you end up at NOWHERE.The call to champion life is the call to champion Manhood.Scripture References:Psalms 127:3-4Ephesians 3:1-6Luke 15James 3:16Ecclesiastes 10:16Malachi 4:6Romans 11 Peter 3:5-7Genesis 45:81 Timothy 1:12Resources:website: https://whatisaman.com/Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/WhatisamanFacebook page: https://www.facebook.com/whatisamanbookThe Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

In this episode, I have the privilege of talking with Chris Newton. He is a firefighter/Engineer for the Jacksonville Fire and Rescue Department.Chris shares his testimony of growing up and not really experiencing church till around the age of 10.  He tells how the message was of Heaven or Hell and felt more of a pressure to not choose Hell.  Even with this decision, he still lived a reckless life for the next 28 years. Finally in September of 2015, Chris hit a low point in his life going through a second divorce.It was during this time that he found an old Bible someone had given him and fell down on his knees in a spare bedroom and sincerely gave his heart to God.Chris has a wonderful wife, Arline, of 2 years, and has 2 sons from his previous marriage and 2 step-daughters.Chris has been in the fire service for almost 25 years and shared how a ride along at fire station inspired him to pursue a career in the Fire Service.He shares about the moment in November of 2015 how he has a "Road To Damascus moment" with God will on a hunting trip with his dad.He tells about those that have been a mentors and influence in his Christian walk and how his desire is to see the needs of those on the job as well as in the community and be there to help.Verses Reference:2 Corinthians 5:17John 15:5John 10:10The Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

Do you feel like what you are doing for God is not having an impact or recognition? Maybe, You got to that point where you felt completely empty and dried up. Well, you aren't alone. I will share how an image from an old movie about the desert revealed to me how God uses men and women throughout the Bible as a vessel for Him. In John Ch 4: 7-15, Jesus spoke about the living water that He had to the Samaritan woman, and it is that same water that flows in those that are saved. Jesus said we would have rivers of living water flowing from our belly (John 7:37-39). This is a representation of the Holy Spirit that is poured out in us and flows through us. Jesus said that we as Christians would do greater things than He. Not because of our abilities and power, but from the Holy Spirit working through us. We are the vessel. When the Holy Spirit moves through us to speak into someone or over them (prophecy) or a message of tongues and interpretation, We are simply being a willing vessel. Jesus told those that followed Him to go to the upper room .  (Acts 1:8) What God showed me was a water canteen? Just as a canteen carries water to refresh and bring life to a thirsty soul, so are we a vessel that brings living water (the Word) to a lost and thirsty world.  II Corinthians 4:7‭-‬10  II Timothy 2:20‭-‬21 It is the water that brings life and gets the honor, not the vessel. The same goes with us. It is Jesus who gets the glory and honor by the Holy Spirit working through us as the willing vessel. Like in those movies, like the westerns or others where they are stranded on the desert with only that one canteen. It is great for them while there is water in it, but Once the vessel runs dry it is worthless till they find an oasis or water supply to refill it.The same applies with us. While we have the Spirit living in us to help uplift others, we too need a refilling of the Holy Spirit to continue on and refill our vessel so that we don't run dry and become worthless. Jesus talked about that in the parable of the old wineskin in Luke 5:36‭-‬39. This same parable is mentioned in Matthew 9:17 and in Mark 2:22In Matthew 23:27-28, Jesus even called out the Pharisees  about their outer appearance But again it is the Holy Spirit flowing in and through us that the world needs to see.  Even in the Old Testament, the Holy Spirit was placed on men and women at special times to prophesy and speak judgement from God. In Ezekiel, God shows the prophet of an example of how the Holy Spirit can bring life to dead souls when in Ch 37 God commands him to speak to the valley of dried bones. Then we see when Jesus is with the disciples at the Last Supper and he begins to wash their feet. In John 13:5-9, Peter tells Jesus not only to wash his feet by his hands and head.Finally the Holy Spirit gives us an unlimited supply source that never runs dry. However, at times we may become tired, discouraged, run down or overwhelmed, but that is when we need to go back to that water source to refill. The same thing with those movies when the character finally finds a well or oasis. They drink as much as they can to get refreshed and regain their strength and then they also refill that canteen for the journey. That is with us as we are refilled, it allows us to continue the paThe Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

In this episode, I talk with Clifford Hare, my dad and President of Faithful Men Ministries; and David Hare, my brother.We talk about the importance of a father's blessing of affirmation in a child's life. The meaning of affirmation and where we first hear of the father's affirmation, or blessing, in the Bible.Cliff shares about how he grew up in a non-christian home and had caring parents, but never had that affirmation of you are a good son.Many people grow up with an image of the only way we get affirmation, or love, is out of fear unless we accomplish goals in life. Other times we may have a fear that we never measure up to receive that love and affection.As men, we must allow ourselves to be vulnerable in front of our children and those we mentor. This isn't to show weakness, but that we  have difficult time and how we work through them.The origin of the father's blessing goes back to the book of Numbers 6:23-27 when God speaks to Moses and shares with him the Aaronic Blessing. Later we see when Jesus is being baptized by John that as He comes up from the water that God speaks and tells Him, "This is My Beloved Son, in whom I AM well pleased." This comes before Jesus has done the first miracle, sermon or teaching; yet God was affirming him as his son.Our identity in society come from the father.  This comes with us going back to learn to hear the voice of the Lord.The way to truly know of that love is not just by having a conversation with God, but having those intimate times with Him; whether in prayer, praise, both or simply just resting in His presence.Even for Jesus after was affirmed by God, he went into the wilderness that brought a  time of testing a walking by faith that we see that Jesus had confidence in His heavenly Father.Clifford Hare has been married to Patricia Hare for 48 years. They have 2 sons, 1 daughter-in-law, 3 grandsons and 1 granddaughter. Cliff took over Faithful Men Ministries for Jack King in 2016. He serves as an elder and pastor at the Springs Church in Jacksonville, Florida.David has works for the Florida State Corrections 6 years and has also is an ordained minister for almost 10 years.The Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

What is the first thing you do when you get home with your new phone, car or any electronic device?Do you stop to read the instructions from the owner's manual, or just start messing with it to figure out all the options that it has on your own?I remember as a kid, that as soon as I got home with a new video game that I would plug it into the game console and start playing it without reading the book to know the purpose for each level and what some of the options available to help defeat the game. Even when I got Legos, I would open the box and dump all the pieces out and start building what I saw on the box. But, about half way through it looked nothing like what was on the box cover. That was when I went and got the instruction book or owner's manual out of the box to see what I need to defeat the game or the step-by-step instructions to build the Lego ship.Even as we get older, we buy a new cellphone or car and immediately start trying to look at what all we can go with it to make us feel comfortable.Later on when we have an issue arise or help on how to fix it, where do we go?THE OWNERS MANUAL!It is the same thing with our lives and our spiritual walk with Christ. We give our hearts to Him and ask for forgiveness of our sins and start growing. But, over time we get into a routine and then all of a sudden we face a crisis or an issue arises that we don't know how to handle or fix.Much like when we see a indicator light come on the dash of the car, we can go to the owner's manual to see what the problem may be and what we need to do to fix it.That  owner's manual is the BIBLE!God's word has so much for us to help guide and lead us in our daily walk. Yes, many of us may read the word in a daily devotion plan. You and I may take the time to pray everyday; even listen to praise and worship music while doing activities. But do we know all the options that are available to us from GOD?Even for many seasoned Christians that have been saved and serving God for many years will tell you that God is still revealing new things to them when they read His Word. That is the beauty of the Bible is that it is God's breath and is alive for us and in us. As we read and grow from reading the Bible, God reveals all the options and daily instructions that are available to use that will help us each and every day as we face life. 

In this episode, I talk with Tony Rorie, founder and President of the Men and Ladies of Honor. Tony talks about the program and how he saw a need in the public school system to help mentor and train young people to understand that they are CHAMPIONS.Tony is married to his wife Melissa and they have 4 children and one grandson. They live in the Dallas/Ft. Worth area.Tony was involved with youth ministry at the church they were attending over 30 years ago when the youth leader transitioned to the family life pastor and the senior pastor asked him to take over. During that time, Tony was a public school principle for a Title One (at risk) in the Dallas area, when he began to see the need to help troubled young men in his school because many didn't have dads in the home. He began being a surrogate dad to many of the students. Then he took 4 of the worst boys in the school and began to start teaching them the basics of manhood, etiquette and chivalry.From those four young men the group then grew to around 50 boys and at the end of the school year, the county school leaders asked him what he was  doing to see such a dramatic change in these boys grades, attendance and behavior.  He shared the program, since most school boards know that the more kids that attend brings more money to the county, and they began to implement his program in several pilot schools, which ended up having better results that what he had done.The Men and Ladies of Honor goal is to teach young people to honor God, honor themselves, honor parents and then when honor comes it changes everything. Tony tells that the definition of ministry is seeing a need and meeting it.  The kids don't care how much you know until they know how much you care. This comes through with affirmation.Dr. Cole said "When you accept another man's philosophy, you also accept his consequences." And that is what many young people settle for in today's society. Jack King told Tony "that the #1 job of a father is to affirm our children to greatness." As the young men and women go through the program, they learn and implement to honor themselves and show respect. Most young men are looking for affirmation through a parent(mainly their father), a teacher or coach and if you don't get it they will go somewhere that they can find it, which usually is in the gangs. They also want to be recognized for doing the right thing. From that original pilot program in the Dallas/Ft. Worth area the program has been used in school districts in East Texas area, Oklahoma, Michigan, South Africa, Swaziland, Honduras and Belize. With the program, it starts with them going through three magazines that help them learn to read the Bible, memorize verses and develop a daily reading and prayer time. Once they finish that segment, the young men earn a dagger as a symbol of honor and then advance to the next level, which is to complete six books from the Dr. Edwin Cole Majoring in Men's Curriculum and then earn a full sword for the boys and a shield for the young ladies.At the beginning of the program, they take they young men and women, separately, to a weekend camp. On Friday night they talk about salvation and pray with those that haven't received Christ, since many that come have never been raised in a Christian environment.  Saturday during the day they teach about leadership and have time for games and adventure; and then that evening they talk about the Father's Bless and pray with those that have never The Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

In this episode, I have a conversation with Pastor David Bendett, of Rock City Church in Corpus Christi, Texas. Pastor David shares his testimony of how he was born in Miami, Florida till he was 5 years old. His father left him and his mother when he was small till she met his step-dad and they moved to the Excelsior Springs, Kansas, where he grew up for most of his teenage life.After several years, his mother divorces and moved back to Miami, where David went back after High School. It was during this time that he became addicted to drugs and alcohol and also was arrested with LSD and sentenced to jail. It was while he was in jail that he gave his life to Christ at the prison chapel during a Gideon's service. During this time he began to teach other inmates how to read by using the Bible as he was growing in his faith from reading the Bible.After his time in jail, David decided he wanted to go to Bible college when the Lord directed him to go to Oral Roberts University to get his Business Degree.  David then served in ministry at various positions when a friend asked him to move to Corpus Christi to help be a campus pastor for a satellite church.After nearly six and a half years the senior pastor from the home church, which was based in Oklahoma City, decided to close the church. It was from there that Pastor David and the congregation launched and started Rock City Church that has grown from a school cafeteria to now owning a strip mall that the church is in. Pastor David shares about his family. His wife Amber, who he met at the church plant, have been married 10 years. They have a daughter, Cadence age 8, and son, Zion age 6. They are currently in the process of adoption.  David talks about one of the darkest times in the life when Amber had to deliver their daughter Eden Grace, who was a still birth at 32 weeks. Through that tragedy, Amber began writing and share their story. From that she wrote a children's book called The Lost Crown and how it is a story of trading ashes for beauty.David then tells about how the mission field is in our backyard then into the world. He talks about how through the church they are not just active in the community, but also that he owns 2 coffee shops, voted best in Texas, and even sits on boards and committees for the city. Pastor David shares how Rock City Church believes in the operation of the gifts of the Holy Spirit and that is shouldn't be an oddity, but as they have coined the phrase "Super Normal Natural". It should be natural just as Jesus and later the church did and that the Bible is full of the supernatural. He talks about how God wants and army and not an audience and that as Christians we should not be consumer, but wind driven. He shares that the fulness of the Holy Spirit comes when we are saved and that initial filling of the Holy Spirit; but that God has more for us through the gifts that we are greater equipped and not all about salvation. He uses an illustration of how God is a gardener and that is represented in Genesis 1:27 as the job title; but that the job Description of God is defined in Genesis 3:27 in the five fold ministry of being fruitful, multiply, replenish, rein and dominion. This, he relates that God took it from the Garden Commission the the Great Commission and that the same five fold ministry must be in operation through the body of Christ, the Church. Through this we can have a desire for the super natural gifts of the Holy Spirit without having to chase it.The Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

Paul Cole is a co-founder and current president of Christian Men's Network. He is a husband to Judi Cole for almost 50 years. Father to 2 sons, Brandon and Bryce and 1 daughter, Lindsey, and grandfather. He is a speaker, preacher and author.  Paul has written 2 books entitled "Just a Bartender" and "Daring".Christian Men's Network was started after Dr. Edwin Louis Cole spoke at a men's event at an Oregon men's camp in the summer of 1977. His passion for men to reach their full potential as Godly men was birthed at that moment.Dr. Cole wrote the book "Maximized Manhood",that has sold millions of copies and been translated in 36 languages. From that, he also wrote several other books and workbooks to form the Majoring in Men's Curriculum as a tool to help mentor and disciple men.Christian Men's Network is operating in 134 countries and the books have been translated into 36 languages. In this episode, Paul talks about what CMN is doing currently with reaching men and families around the world.We talk about the lack of father's in the family has led to many societies issues of incarceration, gangs, drug abuse, premarital pregnancy and fatherlessness in the home.The emphasis of CMN is to help pastors and leaders to be able to train the men in their congregation through discipleship. Paul states, "Many pastors are trained to preach sermons but not how to train men.” “The immaturity of men has led to the mediocrity of men.”“God wants us to have a Maximized Manhood and God wants every man to be three things. Consistent, decisive and strong. Consistency, decisiveness and strength are the hallmarks of a mature man”.Why so many men have struggles in life is because they don't know their identity. Many have a mid-life crisis because they haven't found their identity.“Pressure doesn't make a man. Pressure only reveals a man for who he really is”.Paul shares the definition of maturity. Maturity isn't about age, but the acceptance of responsibility. Maturity is the strength to make the right choice even when the emotions or context of the moment would cause you to do something different”.Paul also shares how the word “Peace” is misunderstood or misinterpreted. By society's standard, Peace is the absence of conflict, the absence of storms, the absence of problems. However, “Peace” in the Word of God and lived out in the life of Christ never meant the absence of conflict, it always meant the presence of God even in the middle of the conflict”.We discuss what CMN is now doing with their Dangerous Nations and Global Fatherhood Initiative. Their goal is to go into the 50 most dangerous nations to help equip 50,000 pastors in the next five years in countries such as Nigeria, Bulgaria, Vietnam and Iran. Paul also shares stories of men that have over the years had a heart to reach men and change their countries. Men like Pastor Eddie Leo in Jakarta, Indonesia and Alex Mitala in Uganda. Through the “Majoring in Men” in Uganda, they have seen the AIDS rate go from 33% to 6.4% over a 28 year period by teaching men the honor and respect of women and virginity. Paul tells how men 30 years ago wanted 3 things:SuccessRespectLegacyBut, today they are looking for:IdentityPurposeBrotherhood/BelongingFor further information about Paul Cole and Christian Men's Network, I have provided links.Resources:http://cmn.menThe Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

How do you respond when you learn you have a special needs child?In this episode, I talk with Paul and Maria Muzichuk as they share about what God has done for them during this season of life with a special needs child.Paul was born in the Ukraine and moved to the United States with his family when he was 4 years old.  Maria was born in Estonia and her family moved to the United States while she was young. Both were raised in Christian homes and met at a Bible College on the West Coast in 2004 and were married in August of 2006. They have 4 children, two girls and 2 boys, ages 13, 10, 5 and 2 1/2 years old.Both Paul and Maria have a heart for mentoring and counseling. They lead the Arise Biblical Counseling at the Springs Church in Jacksonville, Florida, which they started in 2018.They both had spiritual mentors that poured into their lives as teenagers and young adults that have helped drive their passion to help others dealing with personal,  marriage, mental, emotional and spiritual struggles.Nathan is their third child and he is 5 years old. At around 2 years old Maria began to notice that Nathan wasn't developing as the older children had at the same age and wasn't talking much either. A  worker in the church even noticed that he had minimal interaction with other children in the nursery and mentioned to them that Nathan may have a form of Autism. When Nathan was around Three and a half years old, Paul and Maria took him for analysis at a place called Childfind, which after a year and a half, said Nathan had a speech delay and possible autism.   In August of 2020, Paul and Maria took Nathan to the University of Florida Pediatric Neuro-Developmental Facility where they performed an extensive testing for 9 months and was then diagnosed with Global Development Delay and Autism Spectrum Disorder.During the testing they were told that Nathan was having 800 screaming or squealing episodes during a 7 hour period, making it difficult for them to take him places. In November of 2020, Nathan started ABA Therapy working on different cognitive and motor skills and the screaming and squealing episodes dropped down to 10-15 episodes during a 7 hour period.Paul and Maria talk about how they each individually and as a couple and family sought help through each other, mentors, pastors, family and friends. They talked about have even in moments of questioning and fear, they turned to God and allowed Him to speak and share how even in these moments God has a purpose and plan for each of His children, even those with Special Needs.This has helped then as counselors to be more authentic and open with those that are counseling and understand the struggles and pain they are going through also. The Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

In this episode, I talk with Eddie Taylor, co-founder of Taylor Ministry Group, about his and his wife, Beth, and their ministry that is a vision to help every leader live from a healthy core and to do that by reaching, reproducing and resourcing healthy leaders though mentoring and discipleship.Eddie and Beth have been married for over 33 years and have three sons. Eddie has been a lead pastor, writer, conference speaker and sits on several ministry boards as an advisor and counselor. Eddie was born and raised in Waycross, Georgia.Early in their marriage, Eddie and Beth were prophesied over that their marriage would one day be their ministry and today they are fulfilling that calling with The Taylor Ministry Group that believes it takes healthy spiritual leadership to promote church revitalization and evangelism for around the world.Eddie talks about how his brother Kevin led him to the Lord and how he went to a revival service and was saved on November 2nd, 1986 and then on December 31st was filled with the baptism of the Holy Spirit at a youth event when he heard a message given out from the Holy Spirit to receive the Holy Spirit and a calling into the ministry. He tells about Ray Owens, that mentored him and many others, and how he impacted his life even to this day that they still talk. He didn't just give him encouragement, but also at times that they would go for a ride and he would rebuke, or correct, Eddie in love over a comment or action that he had said or done. This was a father's love of correction and not out of hate and spite.Eddie also talked about how we should have 3 significant people in our lives and relationships. There are those who are a Barnabas, Silas, or a Timothy. They  may be someone that is in your life for a short time that pours into your life or vice versa. Then, there are those that are in your life for a long period of time as either a mentor or disciple. Eddie planted and started a church in in 2000 till they stepped down in 2018 to start their next season in ministry. Eddie shared that he has an acronym for mentoring and discipleship. This may be a lifelong or for a season for building and developing a protégé. It is call F. A. T.F- Faithful ( in that those you are mentoring should be faithful not just to you but in their walk with Christ.)A- Available ( are they willing to make time for you to pour into their lives and not as a servant to meet your needing.)T-Teachable ( are they willing to be taught. You can't teach an expert. Looking for those that are hungry to grow in their spiritual walk.)Eddie shares that when you are mentoring you should always be closing  and always looking for the next Timothy. He shared a quote from Mike Breem, which says, "If you attempt to build a church you will rarely make disciples; but if you attempt to make disciples, you will have a church."Eddie shares what him and Beth do it to teach what you know, but you reproduce everywhere else and who you are. You impress from a distance but impact up close.He talked about how pastors and leaders should look at attendance or budgets to gauge the health of a church or ministry, and that size and health of a church are two different ideas of ministry.What discipleship and accountability relationships do is help us see around us at 360 degrees to keep us from being deceived.We finally talked briefly about Eddie's new book that he has written and hope to be out laterThe Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

Are you Puffed Up or Built Up?Do you know what foundation your faith is built upon?In this episode, I talk about knowing and building upon a firm foundation in Jesus Christ.In the fire department, for a promotional exam we have to study a building construction book. The book talks about the 5 different types of building construction. They range from a Heavy timber down to a light-weight frame (basic home frame).  One type that I remember studying about was the membrane structure. This type of building is nothing more that a cloth type material that is inflated with positive pressure air to keep the structure up while keeping you protected from the elements and weather; but once the air is stopped, the structure deflates much like a bounce house.Same with you faith. What is it built on?Is it built on the Word of God or just on the next fad or wind of doctrine that you like and makes you feel good, but doesn't truly build your faith?In Luke 6:48-49, Jesus tell the parable of the wise man, who builds his house upon the rock, and the foolish man, who builds his house on the sand.A high rise building must have a deep foundation to be able to hold the weight and forces that will come against the building and can be several stories large below the surface of the ground. We also need to have a deep foundation in Christ.1 Corinthians 3:10-15 talks about the wise master builder and the foundation that will last the test of time.In the building construction book, it tells that a concrete foundation takes up to 28 days to properly cure and set. If not, then you will have  cracks, air bubbles, air pockets and unlevel floors. If this isn't corrected early on then you will have bigger issues later on as the building settles.This is where older Christians feel that they need to step in after a new convert gets up from the alter and they want to tell them what they need to change or fix in their lives before God and the Holy Spirit can work in their lives.We see that with any building the first stone that is set in place will determine how the rest of the construction can go. This is called the cornerstone. Acts 4:11 and Psalms 118:22 tell us the Jesus is that chief cornerstone in our lives and faith.The Leaning Tower of Pisa started being built in 1173 A.D. and in 1178 the builder realized that the building had started leaning after only building the first 3 floors. This was due to the soft ground that consisted of clay, fine sand and shell. Over the next several hundreds of years the shifting soil has destabilized the foundation of the tower. The builder even tried to compensate with the remaining floors to prevent it from leaning more, but to no avail. It has continued to lean even with the builder taking extra precautions to maintain the center of gravity.So, how do you build a FIRM  foundation on Jesus in you life?Here are 4 steps to help you.F-  Faith (scriptures for reference: Matthew 16:17-18; Hebrews 11:1-3; Ephesians 2:8)I-   Inspiration (II Timothy 3:16-17)R-  Read God's Word (Deuteronomy 17:19; Psalms 119:11,16; Jeremiah 36:6; Mark 12:10; Ephesians 3:4)M-  Meditate on God's Word( Psalms 1:2, Psalms 119:15; Psalms 119:148; Colossians 4:2; I Thessalonians 5:17; I Timothy 4:15-16Songs that I remember hearing when I was young and in Children's church that we use to sThe Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

Did you ever have that feeling that God had abandoned you when you were facing a difficult trial? Maybe you wandered from your faith and felt like He left you or gave up on you?In this episode, I share a story of when I was around 6-8 years old and wandered away from my mom in a department store; and how this event compares to the parable that Jesus told of the Lost Sheep in Luke 15.Many times we feel that God leaves us or ignores us during hard times or even when we make mistakes and pick up old habits, but that isn't the case. There are many scriptures that tell us that He is always there and never left us.Just as with the lost sheep, Jesus as that Good Shepherd knows where we are even when we feel lost, abandoned and afraid. He never took his eyes off us and was watching out for us.It may not have felt like that when you went through a difficult situation and may not have turned out the way you hoped, but God still is wanting the best for us and cares enough to go get us and bring us back to the fold. Just as a parent, we care for our children and don't want to see them hurt; but we have to at times allow them to face trials and even get hurt. That is when we step in to restore and bring healing and help to them, much like God, our Heavenly Father, does for us.King David referenced many of his Psalms about God as a shepherd, because that was what he could relate to as a child and watching over his fathers flock.Scripture references:Psalms 23:1,4Luke 15: 4-7John 14:16Matthew 18:20Matthew 28:20Matthew 1:23Isaiah 7:14Isaiah 58:9Hebrews 13:5Cover art provided by www.LumoProject.com

How many times have you told yourself you didn't have a problem with porn and that you weren't hurting anyone?Have you had that moment of shame and guilt of being caught watching Porn?How about the effect it had on your relationship or marriage? Well, the effects that pornography can have on us is just as powerful as any drug or alcohol.In this episode, I talk about the struggles that I had with pornography and the over 30 year addiction that nearly cost me losing family because of it.Many men don't see it as an issue or look at it as a right of passage into manhood to look at a X-rated magazine, movie or website. Many fathers even encourage their son's to look or participate with them in watch it. But, we are seeing the effects it is having on marriages and relationships with the lack of intimacy and unity that God wants us to have in a marriage.Pornography is Satan's attempt to counterfeit what God has created and distort it to think that this is normal. God even spoke against sin with a women. In Exodus 20:14 it says as one of the Ten Commandments that  "You shall not commit adultery." and then in verse 17 of " You shall not covet your neighbors wife...".Then in the New Testament when many came to Jesus, He told them in Matthew 5 :27-28 of not only of the physical act of adultery itself, but  "if anyone who even looks on a woman with lust has already committed adultery with her in his heart."Temptation isn't a sin, but when you dwell on it; then it becomes sin. Temptation becomes a sin only when you go after those sinful, wrongful desires.  Being tempted to sin and the sinful act itself are two different things. Quotes:Dr. Edwin Louis Cole - " Lust is the desire to benefit self at the expense of others, while love is the desire to benefit others at the expense of self. (Maximized Manhood) (Sexual Integrity)Michael John Cusick- from the book Surfing For God "Desiring something that is contrary to what is God's best that He has for your life."" The reality is that your heart needs something, and porn promises to meet that need.""Like all idols, porn promises us something we desire. In reality it overpromises and underdelivers.""In our minds, porn makes us bigger, stronger and more desirable. It affirms our manhood.""We run to porn at times than normal intimacy with our spouse due to fear of conflict.""If you don't have something in your life that regularly inspires adventure, risk, and passion; beware, because if you don't, you will seek the counterfeit.John Eldridge - What makes porn so addictive is that more that anything else in a man's life, it makes him feel like a man with ever requiring a thing of him."Resources for statistics mentioned:https://conquerseries.com/15-mind-blowing-statistics-about-pornography-and-the-church/https://keyloggers.mobi/pornography-addiction-statistics/?amphttps://www.covenanteyes.com/pornstats/https://www.guystuffcounseling.com/porn-addiction-statisticsBook resources -Surfing For God - Michael John CusickMaximized Manhood - Dr. Edwin Louis ColeSexual Integrity -  Dr. Edwin Louis ColeThe Real Win -  Colt McCoy and Matt CarterThe Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

Do you know that UNFORGIVENESS can bear a physical weight?Have you been weighted down with worry, concern or fear?In this episode I discuss and share how in a personal event how much of a weight it was on me physically and emotionally. I also share what you can do to identify those issues and what you can do to move pass them and get the freedom you need. It is the power of release that is so valuable to heal every hurt and pain. You may remember the hurt, but God can remove it if we release it to Him.Scriptures:Luke 6:37-38-“Judge not, and you shall not be judged. Condemn not, and you shall not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven.  Give, and it will be given to you: good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over will be put into your bosom. For with the same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you.”John 20:23-If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven them; if you retain the sins of any, they are retained.”Matthew 6:14-15-“For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.  But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.Quotes:Albert Einstein -"Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting different results."Dr. Edwin Louis Cole-  "We do two things in life — enter and leave. How we leave determines how we will enter.” Giveaway:To be entered in the giveaway please send an email with you name and a brief message about what you think of the podcast and how has it blessed you. You can sent that to: rhare318@gmail.comDeadline to enter is March 1st, 2021.Resources(Book):The Unnatural Act of Forgiveness by Jack King.The Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

In this episode, I interview Mick Moffitt, owner and operator of Training Division Fire Academy. Mick shares about growing up through tragedy and how it eventually led him to a career as a firefighter. Mick has been married for over 20+ years to his wife Julie and has 2 sons and 1 daughter. After 17 years with the fire department, Mick took an early retirement to focus on training and building the character of future firefighters around the world.Mick shares about a tragedy that he faced as a child at age 6 that completely changed his family, but had an impact on his life to eventually become a firefighter. During his youth, Mick had struggles and got into trouble, but it wasn't until he was in his 20's with the encouragement from his wife, Julie, that Mick finally became a firefighter. After several years and advancing up through the ranks, Mick felt that it was time to reboot and make a change. Even after stepping away from the fire department, Mick said it was difficult to know that he had left his identity at the fire station and how it took him a few years through a journey to be free from that false sense of who was felt he was.Mick then started Training Division fire academy in the Fort Worth, Texas area that provides online training as well as the hands on aspect for students to get the hands on training and experience of being in a fire station environment.  They were the first to provide a full online course of this kind and is recognized as the #1 privately owned training academy in North America. They also work with 9 local high schools, several departments and Colleges to provide training and education for future firefighters.The basis behind the training school that Mick explains is the "6 Pillars of Professional Firefighting Character Traits". Mick shares how God laid on his heart the verse Proverbs 9:1 and the vision of 7 pillars and this was the foundation of helping build strong characters in future firefighters.Link:http://trainingdivision.com/The Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

Did you have a plan in place or goal set and everything went wrong or a different direction? Looking back, do you think this year or season went the way you thought it was going to go. In this episode, I talk about what God showed me a few years ago that has helped me and I believe with help you also.As you go into a new year or season of your life, I encourage you to take the time to pray, meditate on God's Word and seek what direction He has for you next. It isn't just about praying a quick pray or reading your Bible on a daily basis, but really taking the time to listen to what He has to say.For the last couple of years, God has had the word Reposition  on my heart. He showed me that, sometimes, we get routines and Satan knows our patterns and activities and knows where and how to attack us in our lives; but if we reposition our path, much like repositioning a satellite, we can get a better view of what God is wanting for us.As we are approaching the new year I take the time to pray and seek watch word or verse God has for me in the upcoming year. The words and verse that He put on my heart was Proverbs 29:18 which says " Where there is no vision..." -KJV "Where there is no Revelation..."-NKJV"When people do not accept divine guidance..."- NLTThe word that went with this scripture was Clarity. I felt that for me, God was wanting me to take that time to seek His guidance and have clarity in the vision that He has for me in all areas of my life in this coming year. I want to encourage you to take the time to see what verse or word that God has for you in the upcoming year or season of your life.Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched! Start for FREEDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.

In this episode, I have a conversation with Dr. Shaun Miles of Salm67 Ministries. Shaun shares about how he had a troubled childhood and that finally after a night of alcohol and drugs, he was arrested. At that moment in jail he surrendered his life to Christ and God radically changed him. Shaun talks about how he went from being a high school drop out and finally just getting his GED because of learning issues, to then how God directed him to attend Bible College and receive not only his Bachelor's Degree in Theology but also his Doctorate.Shaun met his wife, Lien, while on a mission trip to Vietnam. They have been married 10 years and have 2 sons. Together they minister and help train and develop pastors and leaders throughout Vietnam. They are currently back in the United States, but God has led them to plant and pastor another Church/training center in the city of Da-Nang.Shaun share how he has experienced what he calls "God Moments" throughout his life from his sister providing financially for him to go to Bible College to even being at home with his mother when she passed away earlier this year.If you want to see more resources of what they are doing in their ministry go to http://www.salm67.com/Also Shaun has a podcast called "Shaun and the Word" available on Apple Podcast and Podbean.The Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifyBuzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched! Start for FREEDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.

What does men's ministry look like from the eyes of a woman? Does it have an impact on the marriage and the family?Betty King shares how she grew up in a small town in Oklahoma and met the love of her life, Jack King, who she married in 1968. They were married for 50 years till he passed away in 2018. They have 5 children, 12 grandchildren and 1 great-grandchild. She lives in the Dallas/Ft. Worth area where even though she retired as a school principle, currently substitute teaches and tutors. Betty serve with Jack and helped form Faithful Men Ministries. She has traveled and ministered with him around the world. Betty has a prophetic gift of speaking a word of encouragement into people life when God places it on her heart.Betty talks about her life and marriage before Jack stepped into ministry, and even how it was difficult to allow him to lead the family once he was saved and taking the role as the head of the family. She shares the perspective of how God wants the husband to take the lead in his marriage and family. The Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifyBuzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched! Start for FREEDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.

In 2012 Todd's life imploded when his wife told him that she wanted and divorce and had been seeing another man.  What happened next was something that only  GOD  could do.Todd is retired from the Jacksonville Fire and Rescue department after 26 years of service. He was assigned to station 7, which is the Hazardous Materials team, for 21 of those years.  Since retiring in 2014, Todd has been an instructor for Federal Resources Inc. and travels around the United States teach Propane Response classes to area fire departments. Todd tells how he met his wife on a flight home from New Mexico after an training class and she was returning home to New Orleans in 2000.  They struck up a conversation and exchanged emails. Over time, they began dating and got married in 2002.Amy had been raised Catholic, but Todd had no Christian background and even when their 2 sons were born they returned to New Orleans to have them christened. Todd tells how even though they were married he still lived at times a single lifestyle of flirting with other women and looking at pornography. So when she asked for a divorce his world fell out from under him. This was because the other man was a close friend and co-worker on the fire department. Then in 2013 Todd walked into  The Church of 1122  and surrendered his life to Christ for the first time. Unknown to him, his ex-wife at this time had started attending the church also. Then in late 2016 Pastor Jobe  Martin spoke on a series titled "Act like a Man" and Todd felt that he needed to talk to Amy. To his surprise, she had been going to a women's group at the church and they had been praying that the relationship be restored. They then had a conversation and Todd shared how he had gotten past the hurt of the divorce, but never got over his love for Amy. They began dating again and remarried in 2016. Since then they have grown closer than ever before with God at the center of their marriage and family as an example for their 2 sons. The Small Church Media PodcastThere are many podcasts for church media, but this one is for the small churches!Listen on: Apple Podcasts Spotify

In this episode, I have a conversation with Bett Harvey, director of Men's Encounter North. Bett shares about how after being married for over 25+ years and his wife asking him to be the leader of the home, tells him that she wanted a divorce. Shortly after this, she attends and church service and upon returning home Bett asked where she had gone. He told her the next time she went that he was going with her, as a way of showing that he wanted to work on the marriage. After getting saved so after, he signed up for a men's class called "Maximized Manhood". This class consisted of 9 books and workbooks. After returning home from the class, Bett explained the class and all that was involved with it. When time came for his class the next week, Bett was unable to find his book. When he asked his wife, she stated that she had read it and want to take the class also. This gave him the motivation to continue that class.After several months, a few of the men in the class invited Bett to a men's retreat call "Men's Encounter". He was reluctant to go, but after a couple of months, he attended and it radically changed his life. Due to some medical issues with their daughter, Bett and his wife moved from Houston to Dallas to help take care of her. It was during this time that Bett would still travel to Houston to help with other Men's Encounter events. After one event, he told his wife that he felt they should start a Men's Encounter in the Dallas area. A few weeks later they help their first Men's Encounter North event. In October of 2020 they held their ninth event and will be having their tenth Men's Encounter North event in February  19-20 of 2021. On May 14-15 of 2021 Bett will host their first Men's Encounter North men's conference, with the goal of have of 650 men attend the event. One highlight that Bett shared was the "BEAN STORY".  He tells how at each event they have a fiesta night with fajitas and black beans. After a few of the events, the cook came to Bett and asked if instead of black beans they could serve charro beans, which Bett said they would look into it. The next day a friend of Bett's called him saying that a local church was looking to donate 750 pounds of charro beans to anyone that they know. At that moment he knew God would take care of even the small things like have charro beans for the meals,The motto for Men Encounter North is:Find Your IdentityFind God Find Your True NorthFor more information you can find their resources at the links below:website: https://www.mensencounternorth.com/Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/MENSEncounterNorthYoutube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdj5fA0YZHdbf5uc8RCo1Jg

In this episode, I talk with Rob Carman. Rob has been in ministry for over 44 years with his wife Ginger. They were lead pastors for over 22 yrs in Albuquerque, New Mexico before going into evangelism and leadership training. Rob has traveled to over 70 nations and trained over 60,000 ministry leaders worldwide. Rob has also sat as the Executive International Director for the Christ of the Nations Bible College and their 40 schools worldwide. Rob and Ginger started and continue to head up Victory World Missions that supports many projects around the world including a hospital in Papua, New Guinea. He also provides the 412 Leadership school for free on his website. He has written several devotionals for the YouVersion Bible app and also host his own podcast.We talk about the issue of depression men are facing in society today and why it has become such a passion of his. Rob explains how suicide is at an all time high and especially in California recent studies showed that the suicide hotline has increased over 8000% during the pandemic and that there have been more deaths in one month from suicide than the six months from covid. Rob tells of a personal experience of dealing with and being diagnosed with clinical depression. We see that in todays society that 1/3 of Americans suffer with some sort of depression. The root is not all physical but a majority is traced back to the Bible of how to get and keep out of depression. It had to be dealt with from a Biblical standpoint.Just as the need to wash the body that gets dirty, we need to also wash our mind of the toxicity of the debris we pickup throughout the day. Rob shares the reference of a plank suspended between two blocks on each end and you begin to layer dirt at the center of the plank that over time  the board can no longer hold the weight and breaks; much like the human soul. This is caused by fear, anxiety, stress,  bitterness, unforgiveness and many other issues. This can then develop into an attitude of being negative  and having resentment.Rob tells that while reading a book on the diplomat from the 1800's by the name of Lawrence Townsend and when a young man asked what was the secret to why God used him powerfully. He took the young man and showed him that he prayed. He took about 15 minutes at the conclusion of each day as if communicating with God to remove from his mind anything that wasn't in harmony with Him and then to fill him with his Holy Spirit.  Rob shared how this moment impacted him profoundly to not just at night remove the toxicity of the dayl, but to start each day by inviting the presence of Jesus each morning to set the stage for your day.The cure for depression can start with thought replacement. God gives us over 7,000 promise of hope in the Bible. Hope is the anchor to the soul and a place of refuge.To say that a situation is hopeless is to say that God is helpless; and God is never helpless, so nothing is hopeless.Men need relationships with other men, because isolation will kill you. We were not made for isolation; we were created to gather together in fellowship.Our life follows our thoughts. Our feelings are the results of your thoughts and then manifest themselves into emotions. If we can change a day, we can change a life of devotion.How can I change?You can't change dramatically, but you can do it for a day. Live for God one day at a time joyfully. Life is an accummulation of days, We need a purpose or we will die in boredom.Our greatest adversity is the evil twins of fear and worry. To counter this we must inject hope into our lives. You are the right man in the right place at the right time!Resources:https://www.robcarman.comThis has a list of weekly devotions and the devotions available on YouVersion Bible app.Also the 412 Leadership School

Desmond Frey is the Lead International Pastor at Christliches Zentrum Burhegg in Zurich, Switzerland. He teaches, coaches and helps develop pastors and leaders in their ministry rolls and callings. Desmond is the overseer for several churches in Europe and also helps in missions with an emphasis of fighting against Human Trafficking, especially in Moldova. Desmond along with his wife Sandy host 2-4 "Refresh" marriage seminars each year around the world. Desmond and Sandy have been married for 34+ years and have four children (2 sons and 2 daughters) and 9 grandchildren.In this episode I asked 4 key questions that you need to know to help you grow as leader, mentor or what to look for in a mentor. We will take a look at some misconceptions that you feel may keep you from stepping out to fulfill a calling or to even grow in your faith.Question #1- What is the one thing that you wish you had known before you started in your ministry or mentoring others?Response- Learning to say "NO" at times. You can oversaturate to the point that thoses that you are teaching are unable to retain the material.Quote by Zig Ziglar- "The differencef between successful and unsuccessful people is the power to say "No"'.Question #2- What is the biggest mistake you have made as a mentor, husband, father, leader or christian?Response- To realize the patterns that happen in life. Those times of negative patterns to please people and cause a self sabotage in your life. Neglecting family to get praise from pastors and leaders; and feeding on the praise and accolades that feed into the flesh of pride. Question #3- What is the #1 tip that you can give to help other men as they mentor and disciple other men?Response- You need to be careful and selective of who you mentor, or pour your life into. You need to have a healthy balance of helping in healing and growing a calling. Don't take it personal if the person you are help leaves after they feel that they have gotten they help they were seeking. Just as a sick patient goes to a doctor to get healing, some men may come to you for healing the trouble the are facing; while others are seeking to grow and develop a ministry or calling. You must also have the time to invest into those that you are mentoring. Invest in those that are ready and hungry to develop and grow their calling.Question #4- Besides the Bible, what is your favorite tool ( material, techniques, study guides or books) that you recommend to train, mentor, strengthen, or disciple men?Response- The Majoring in Men materials by Dr. Edwin Louis ColeJohn Maxwell and his Equip coursesCasey Treat- Renewing the mindFrank Demazio- The making of a LeaderDr. Caroline Leaf- most of her books use the study of neuroscience and the habits that we deal with in crisis.Finally your life experience of what you have faced and learned is a tool that you can use to teach others.Resources-John Maxwell- https://www.johnmaxwell.com/Casey Treat- https://christianfaith.us/successfulliving/The following resource material are listed is part of an affiliate links with Amazon that if you use and purchase from, I will receive a portion of the sale:John Maxwell- Developing the Leader Within You 2.0- https://amzn.to/2HUJiSdCasey Treat- Renewing The Mind 2.0- https://amzn.to/3nkm8VAFrank Demazio- The Making of A Leader- https://amzn.to/2GzClp7Dr. Caroline Leaf- https://amzn.to/30Cryl5   https://amzn.to/2F4m5fvMajoring in Men curriculum material- https://cmn.men/collections/curriculum-sets

I discuss the life of Elijah and how he ran away after his greatest victory, and want to quit for fear that he was alone. I will share how God strenghtened Elijah during of time of solitude and rest to allow Elijah to reflect on God's presence and power. This allowed Elijah to continue the work that God had called him to do as a prophet to the people of Israel.Timeline:0:00 -  Introduction2:07 - James 5:172:33 - I Kings 17- Elijah tells King Ahab of the drought and helps the widow in Zeraphath3:54 - I Kings 18 - Battle on Mount Carmel against 450 prophets of Baal7:09 - I Kings 19 - Runs in fear of Queen Jezabel7:41 - God reminds Elijah that 7,000  people have not bowed to the idols of Baal9:00 - Book by Dr. Edwin Louis Cole - Winners are not those that never fail, but those that Never Quit13:30 - Joseph sold into slavery14:01 - David runs in fear from King Saul14:20 - Noah after building the Ark14:52 - Thomas questioning if Jesus had resurrected from the dead15:28 - Gideon hiding in the winepress to thresh wheat15:58 - Satan is a conterfeit17:05 - Be strong and courageous - mentioned over 36 times in the Bible. Fear not over 100 times.18:42 - 5 Fold Temptation Elijah struggled with:            1) Depression             2) Despair (19:35)            3) Resignation (19:50)            4) Failure (21:29) Ex. Thomas Edison            5) Inferiority (22:46)27:35 - The day after the battle is more important than the eve of the battle.28:45 - Winners are not those that never fail, But those that NEVER QUIT!Resources:This is an affiliate link that I have through Amazon below for Dr. Cole's book listed:Winners are not those that never fail But those that NEVER QUIT https://amzn.to/3kDeXFO

I discuss how at a time when I was questioning my faith that a story for the Old Testament helped me overcome my fear and doubt. It was about Elijah and the widow woman and here lack of faith that I talk about in this episode.Scriptures referenced:Luke 6:38I King 17:1-16James 1:3Ephesians 3:20Quotes:From Winners Never Quit by Dr. Edwin Louis Cole Christians believe that God has the power to do anything. Often they have doubts, not about God's ability, but His faithfulness. Their question in not 'Can He do it?' but 'Will He do it for me?'" pg. 18"Whatever the cause of your crisis-job loss, marital tensions, mid life frustations, religious or social persecution; you must remember that outward appearance and inward emotions change. Not everything has changes. God is the same, God is faithful to His Word and to you. " pg 23"Worry centers on self. Faith centers on God." pg.25http://the318project.comhttp://speakpipe.com/the318projectAmazon affiliate link:Winners Never Quit bookhttps://amzn.to/3jVXbxmBackground music provided by Ricardo Camargo of Tidalwav StudiosBuzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched! Start for FREEDisclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.

Doug Stringer is the founder and President of Somebody Cares America and Somebody Cares International, which works with chapters, affiliates, churches and organizations from a local to international level to provide prayer initiatives, compassion outreach and cooperative community efforts during diasters. Doug is an internationally known speaker, evangelist, author and has helped consultate with churches, community groups, as well as with, local, state, and national leaders. Doug is a licensed Clinical Pastoral counselor and has earned degrees from various colleges including a Ph. D. from Logos Graduate School. He has authored  numerous books, including: It's Time to Cross the Jordan, The Fatherless Generation, Somebody Cares, Who's Your Daddy Now?, Born to Die, Living Life Well: A Look at the Spirit of the 10 Commandments, and most recently, In Search of A Father's Blessing and Leadership Awakening: Foundational Principles for Lasting Success. He has recently been involved with several Prayer initiative gatherings organized by several state govenors. He is married to his wonderful wife, Lisa, who has recently published her first book titled, God Didn't Do This To Me. They have a daughter, Ashley, who has released an LP titled Simply Smile.Highlights:07:09 - Involved in Disaster relief, Global Prayer Iniative, and National Prayer gatherings08:37 - Talks about his wife, Lisa, and her new book " God Didn't Do This To Me"12:20 - Talks about his daughter, Ashley, and her LP Simply Smile.21:50 - History of Somebody Cares (Houston, America, International)25:09 - "If we work to and through the local churches, ministries and organizations; when all the media is gone and all the big boys and girls from the large agenies leave. If you  empower local organizations, ministries and churches then they are the ones who have the equity and know and love their communities."26:03 - "From a spiritual standpoint a crisis is a terrible thing to waste because we as the body of Christ need to work together to bring a tangible expression of God's love into communities."27:02 - 4 Components of reaching the communities            1) Prayer & Presence            2) Prayer Inniatives & solemn assemblies            3) Compassion coalition            4) Leadership Awakening34:49 - "That if God can't get it through you, He won't get it to you."35:11 -  "Every pearl has it's own story to turn into a beautiful gem, but we should be the string that pulls them together. being the unseen string."38:42 -  Dr Cole "What we see in the larger context there is always a microcosism to it."44:24 - 4 areas the church has had to overcome the last 2,000 years            1) persecution            2) poverty            3) Long periods of prosperity            4) Long periods of peace55:48 - "My desire to win must be greater than my moments of challenge."Resources: Affiliate links with Amazon for available books and LPLeadership Awakening - https://amzn.to/34tyPGIIn Search of a Father's Blessing - https://amzn.to/32qUpcaWho's Your Daddy Now? - https://amzn.to/34vrlTuGod Did Not Do This To Me by Lisa Stringer - https://amzn.to/2EAnwSoSimple Smile (LP) by Ashley Stringer - https://amzn.to/3gsmbKkwebsite:https://somebodycares.org/Music segments provided by Richard Camargo on Tidalwav Studios in Queens, NY

In this episode, I speak with Jody Burkeen. Jody is a full time pastor of Ignite Church, as well as the director for an International Men's Ministry called Man Up God's Way. Jody has been married for 30 years and they have 4 children ages 19, 18 and twin 9 year olds.Jody talks about how he had ran from God for most of his life even though he was raised as a child in church, but became an self proclaimed atheist. It was when he was holding his two oldest children, who at the time were about 1 and 2 yrs. old, that he felt and realized that there is no way my kids came from a cesspool of algae. This started him to think that if his children were created and he was created wasn't just by chance. He tells how he and his wife were both saved on May 22nd, 2003. It was during that change in his life, which opened his eyes to the problem that there is in the church; and that is the lack of men stepping up to do what God's called them to do.Jody then tells that as he began to read the Bible that the presence of the Holy Spirit would tell him not to do something or what he was doing was sin, the Holy Spirit would convict him as well as basically agreeing with God's Word. Through this process he gave up habits,  and addictions. Even through this, Jody talks about how he dealt with depression to the point that in 2016 he almost committed suicide. he explained how he "faked it really good , to my church, to my ministry, to my wife, for a matter of fact, until I got to a certain point where I actually planned it our." But, through getting help and pray and a close relationship with Jesus and allowing the Holy Spirit to work in his life for over a year to bring healing.Jody discusses the purpose behind Man Up God's Way and how they go through a process of teaching men to stop be spiritual immature. Jody also talks about an upcoming project that he is working on with Tate Jordan of Kingmen Way that is a 40 day coaching program that focuses on all areas of a man's life from  faith, family, fitness, finances and helping men to have a focus through discipleship.Highlights:5:10 - Galatians 5:22-23 17:39 - 7 areas in a man's life that they are spiritual weak           1)Personal relationship with Jesus.               A) Read your Bible              B) Pray               C) Repentance           2) Marriage           3) Children           4) Church           5) Work           6) Accountability           7)Discipleship43:40 - 40 Day challenge coaching program- 5 "F's"  of faith, family, fitness, finances, and focus. The cost is $35 a week and a link is included below with all the other resources and products discussed.Links:website: https://manupgodsway.org/ 40 day challenge- https://www.manupkingsmenway.com/optin1592967438546Facebook page:   https://www.facebook.com/manupgodsway/Facebook group:  https://www.facebook.com/groups/manupgodswaygroup/?ref=web_social_pluginTwitter:  https://twitter.com/Manupgodsway1Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/manupgodsway/Resourse:Affiliate link for products available on Amazon:Man Up- Becoming a godly man in an ungodly world  https://amzn.to/3gBLlaxPursuit of a GodlyLife  https://amzn.to/2PuHuA0Man Up God's Way Prayer Journal   https://amzn.to/2XxOsbZMan Up God's Way Family Devotional  https://amzn.to/3ijdcg1The Marriage Advise: 15 Answers to Questions Men wont Ask https://amzn.to/2DLNBgU

http://the318project.com/blog/In episode 11, I have a conversation with Lee Grady. Lee is an author, award-winning journalist and ordained ministry. He served as a writer and editor for a christian magazine for many years before going into full-time ministry.Lee and his wife Deborah have been married 36 years and currently reside in LaGrange, Georgia. They have 3 daughters. Along with disciplining and mentoring men, Lee is Director of the Mordecai Project that helps to heal, protect and empower women around the world. The Mordecai Project works with multiple projects in countries such as Mexico, Guatemala, Somalia, Afghanistan, Uganda and many others to help provide homes and schooling for young girls. They also provide counseling centers, shelters, and rescue centers in Asia, the Middle East, Central and South America  Conversation Notes:3:45  - Lee talks about his experience of when he was baptized with the Holy Spirit.11:40 - The 4 hats of discipleship             1) Mentor - lead by being an example and model             2) Coach - help them to discover their life potential or calling             3) Counselor - help them to get free from addictions, sin, and other issues in life             4) Spiritual Father - Affirmation. Times of encouragement but also maybe a need                                                for correction.20:45 - James 5:16 "Confess your trespasses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much"24:06 - The call to ministry for Lee Grady and when he prayed Isaiah 6:8 "Also I heard the voice of the Lord, saying:“Whom shall I send,And who will go for Us?”28:05 - Lee talks about the Mordecai Project and the book he wrote "10 Lies the Church tells Women"31:50 - Lee discusses the other books that he wrote for men and women; and also on the topic of understanding the power of the Holy Spirit.34:00 - The 6 "I" of discipleship            Matthew 28:19-20 "Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, 20 teaching them to observe all things that I have commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age."1)Identify - find the ones that God puts on your heart to connect with to mentor2) Invest- TIME spent with those you disciple.3) Include- invite them into your life4) Instruct- Teach the Bible and get the Word in them. Show them to read the Bible and have a daily devotion.5) Intercede- Pray for those you disciple6)Impart- spiritual process by the Holy Spirit. A powerful infusion of the Holy Spirit into their lives of a prophetic gift or an outpouring of the Holy Spirit.Resources:https://leegrady.com/https://themordecaiproject.org/For a list of books available:https://leegrady.com/untitled/