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Family is where we learn to love, but it's often where we experience our deepest wounds. Whether it's navigating conflicts with siblings, figuring out how to raise kids with faith in a secular world, or the difficult journey of healing family trauma, home life is rarely simple. We aren't just giving generic advice, we look at family dynamics through the lens of those who live in intense community life, like monks and nuns, to see what they can teach us about resolving conflict. We also have an honest conversation about when family situations turn abusive, and how therapy, community, and our Catholic Faith play a role in true healing. Plus, is AI replacing human connection? We react to what Pope Leo recently said about AI being "too affectionate" and discuss why an algorithm can never replace the empathy of a real person. Featuring: Fr. Simon Esshaki, Abbot Ankido Sipo, Fr. Tristan Farida, Fr. Fadi Auro ––– 00:00 Why Family Relationships Are So Hard 01:48 Religious Life Teaching Us to Resolve Conflict 07:08 Catholic Parenting: How Methods Have Shifted Over Time 12:13 Raising Children with both Faith and Reason 27:59 Healing Family Trauma 32:58 Finding Emotional Support in a Digital Age 35:41 Why AI Can't Provide True Empathy 38:39 Vital Importance of Real Human Connection 44:21 'Bless or Pass?' Chaldean Food Edition 50:35 Comment of the Week! ––– ▶️ Video version of this episode: https://youtu.be/v2h987Fiims
Fr. Matthias Shehad discusses the essential role of parents in raising children within the Christian faith. He emphasizes that the primary responsibility for a child's spiritual education lies in the home rather than the church building alone. Drawing from Scripture and the experience of Metropolitan Yousef, Fr. Matthias highlights the importance of daily parental involvement, spiritual modeling, and consistent communication. He addresses common challenges such as lenient or overly strict parenting and encourages a godly balance grounded in both the love and fear of God. Fr. Matthias explains why children must understand their identity as children of God and how spiritual habits formed early can shape lifelong faith. He also explores practical ways parents can protect their children from worldly influences, foster genuine attachment to the church community, and nurture a living relationship with God through prayer, discipline, and patience. Subscribe to us on YouTube https://youtube.com/stpaulhouston Like us on Facebook https://facebook.com/saintpaulhouston Follow us on SoundCloud https://soundcloud.com/stpaulhouston Follow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/stpaulhouston Visit our website for schedules and to join the mailing list https://stpaulhouston.org
Rodelf Edward explores practical and spiritual aspects of parenting, emphasizing the importance of raising children with grace rather than shame. He discusses different parenting styles—authoritarian, authoritative, permissive, and uninvolved—highlighting their impacts on children's behavior and spiritual growth. Rodelf stresses the need for personalized parenting that recognizes each child's unique personality and talents, encouraging ongoing self-awareness and positive direction in parenting. He addresses the significance of household atmosphere, role modeling, and gradual spiritual upbringing, urging parents to view their home as a place where faith is lived and nurtured step-by-step. Rodelf also calls for unified parenting approaches between spouses and the power of prayer in the family. The talk underscores that parenting is an incremental journey needing patience, grace, and continual improvement toward spiritual maturity. Subscribe to us on YouTube https://youtube.com/stpaulhouston Like us on Facebook https://facebook.com/saintpaulhouston Follow us on SoundCloud https://soundcloud.com/stpaulhouston Follow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/stpaulhouston Visit our website for schedules and to join the mailing list https://stpaulhouston.org
Michael Sidrak explores key principles from Metropolitan Yusuf's book *Raising Children*, which compiles over 30 years of sermons on Christian parenting. He emphasizes the importance of setting specific spiritual goals for children rather than vague or materialistic aims. Michael highlights three essential steps for parents: choosing the right influences for their children, instructing them through both words and example, and applying discipline with balance. The discussion also covers the need for parents to maintain a unified approach combining grace and truth to avoid extremes of permissiveness or authoritarianism. Michael addresses gender differences in raising boys and girls, focusing on teaching boys responsible leadership and girls emotional discernment and self-advocacy. This talk offers guidance on how to nurture children's faith and character within a Christian framework, encouraging parents to protect their children's spiritual well-being as diligently as their physical health. Subscribe to us on YouTube https://youtube.com/stpaulhouston Like us on Facebook https://facebook.com/saintpaulhouston Follow us on SoundCloud https://soundcloud.com/stpaulhouston Follow us on Instagram https://instagram.com/stpaulhouston Visit our website for schedules and to join the mailing list https://stpaulhouston.org
Parenting is not complicated, but it is intentional. And if we don't intentionally form our children, the world will. In this powerful episode of Meet at the Well, Justin and Lauren have an honest conversation about parenting—what's working, what's failing, and why so many modern approaches are leaving children anxious, entitled, and spiritually unanchored. They talk openly about why gentle parenting feels deeply unbiblical, how culture has centered children's feelings instead of building emotional resiliency, and what it actually means to train up a child in the way they should go. Inside this episode, they discuss:
In Season 3: Episode 20 of The Jessica Koulianos Podcast, Jessica shares about raising kids who love Jesus. Jessica hopes that through the candid conversations she hosts about life, ministry, and family, that you will be pointed back to Jesus. There is no greater joy than loving Jesus with all of your heart — may you fall more in love with Him than ever before!More resources at jessicakoulianos.comJessica Koulianos is the Co-Founder of a church, international ministry, and school with her husband, Michael Koulianos. You're invited to join them in person or online every Sunday at Jesus Image Church. For more information on Jesus School, local and nationwide events hosted by Jesus Image, and resources, visit jesusimage.tv.Watch podcast episodes on YouTube! Connect with Jessica: Jessica's Website | Instagram | Facebook | TikTok Michael's Website | Instagram | Facebook | TikTok Jesus Image Website | YouTube | Instagram | Facebook | TikTok Jesus Image Church Website | Instagram | Facebook Jesus School Website | Instagram | Facebook | TikTok...
This week on The Mama's Den, we're coming together in our LA studio in the best way — with a conversation inspired by the upcoming animated film GOAT, a story all about dreaming big, overcoming expectations, and discovering the greatness already inside you.Using themes from the movie, the Mamas ask each other powerful questions about legacy, pressure, confidence, setbacks, and what it really means to keep going — not just for our kids, but for ourselves.And because we hadn't been in the same room together in months, this episode turns into something even more special: a chance to truly catch up, laugh, get honest, and go deep about the seasons we've been living through as women, moms, and friends.It's heartfelt, it's fun, and it's a reminder that sometimes the best conversations happen when you give yourself space to reflect — and the people who know you best are right there beside you.Make sure you connect with our Mamas on IG: @themamasdenpodcastAshley - @watermeloneggrollsCodie - @codieco Melanie - @melaniefiona Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
If you've tried everything like therapy, counselling, advice from people and still feel more confused, hopeless, or lost than before, this episode is an invitation to pause and look in a different direction. In this episode of Kinetic Blue, I speak to parents who feel like the world is shaping their children faster than they can protect them. I share why I believe so much of what we're facing today in parenting, health, and emotional suffering is spiritual at its core, not just psychological or physical. Have a listen as I unpack the Three Pillars as God-given foundations for how we live as a family and how I raise my children. I know it may not be for everyone but if you are ready to turn your eyes upward and ask where your help truly comes from, this episode will meet you there.Catherine xx
From The Divinely Uninspired Podcast - Episode 59 - Deconstructing Atheism, Parental Lies, and Olympic Wrap-Up --- Deconstructing Faith: A Thoughtful Discussion on Religion, Atheism, and Belief In this episode, we dive into the complexities of faith, deconstruction, and the impact of religious upbringing. Our conversation touches on reading influential atheism books by Christopher Hitchens, Richard Dawkins, and Sam Harris, and the challenging arguments these authors present. We discuss the process of deconstructing and reconstructing faith, the historical and cultural influences on Christianity, and the importance of open, honest conversations about doubt and belief. Join us as we explore these deep topics and share our personal journeys and insights. 00:00 Introduction: Parental Influence and Truth 00:18 Exploring Atheism: Influential Authors 01:07 Deconstructing Faith: Personal Journey 02:30 The Brutality of Sam Harris 03:45 Cultural Christianity and Identity 09:06 Atheism vs. Theism: Systems of Faith 14:06 Critiques of Religion: Historical and Ethical Issues 16:07 The Monument to Money 17:00 Deconstructing Faith 18:40 Raising Children in Faith 20:30 Science vs. Religion 21:29 The Importance of Admitting 'I Don't Know' 26:18 Winning Arguments vs. Winning People 30:27 Concluding Thoughts and Upcoming Events
In today's episode, Pastor Marron & Lady T talk about how raising children come into play when trying to ensure that you keep the main thing the main thing. Do you have a topic or question you'd like to hear addressed? Visit www.StillinLovePodcast.com. Subscribe to our channel | Innovation Church Memphis (Playlist -Still In Love Podcast) Follow us on social media | FB & IG - Innovation Church Memphis/PastorMarronThomas & on TikTok - WeAreInnovation
Fatherhood is not a role a man steps into when it is easy. It is a calling that demands clarity, responsibility, and presence. In this episode of the I Am Dad Podcast, host Kenneth Braswell welcomes Jesse Anderson, a fatherhood coach, court-appointed monitor, and ministry leader whose work focuses on helping men lead their families with strength, faith, and emotional integrity. Jesse shares his deeply personal daddy story, growing up without a biological father and learning how to become a dad through mentors, faith, and lived experience. The conversation explores why many fathers disengage after separation or divorce, how leadership breaks down inside families, and why vulnerability, forgiveness, and consistency are essential to raising healthy children. Together, Braswell and Anderson examine the role of faith in shaping masculine leadership, the difference between being present and being accountable, and how fathers influence both sons and daughters through modeling, structure, and love. From courtrooms to kitchens, the discussion centers on one core truth: children thrive when fathers rise. This episode is a grounded, faith-centered conversation for fathers, mentors, and anyone committed to breaking generational cycles and building purpose-driven families.
Drive Time Show Podcast 23-01-2026: Education & Raising Children by Voice of Islam
In this episode of the MTMJ podcast, the hosts discuss a variety of topics ranging from current events and family dynamics to the impact of AI on society. They share personal anecdotes and insights on parenting, financial responsibilities, and the evolving roles of men and women in relationships. The conversation is infused with humor and critical commentary on the political climate and mental health perceptions, making for an engaging and thought-provoking listen. In this episode, the hosts discuss various themes surrounding household responsibilities, financial conversations in marriage, personal financial experiences, community involvement, and parenting dynamics. They explore the importance of communication in relationships, the impact of financial transparency, and the challenges of navigating social situations. The conversation also touches on automotive industry trends and the significance of support systems in education and parenting.00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview02:41 Current Events and Social Commentary05:20 Family Dynamics and Parenting Challenges07:09 Music and Cultural Reflections08:28 Political Climate and Public Safety11:16 Law Enforcement and Community Relations13:23 Mental Health and Public Perception16:29 Financial Responsibilities in Relationships19:20 AI and Its Impact on Society22:05 Personal Sacrifices and Gender Roles24:58 Secrets in Marriage and Communication27:45 Raising Children in a Digital Age30:36 Expectations of Husbands and Household Responsibilities50:28 Household Responsibilities and Communication52:59 Financial Conversations in Marriage54:47 Personal Financial Experiences and Lessons58:41 Community and Church Involvement01:05:27 The Importance of Financial Transparency01:06:55 Navigating Relationships and Responsibilities01:11:29 Automotive Industry Trends and Consumer Rights01:15:50 New Year's Eve Experiences and Social Anxiety01:18:18 Family Celebrations and Travel Experiences01:22:57 Education and Parenting Dynamics01:39:39 Support Systems in Parenting and EducationBecome a Patreon of the mtmj poDcast w/the wife for bonus episodes and visual content. Join our Patreon Here: https://patreon.com/MTMJPodcastwiththewife?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink
This episode continues the laws governing a child's actions in matters of prohibition, with a focus on Shabbos and forbidden foods. It clarifies when a parent must actively stop a child, when others may intervene, and the limits of involving non-Jews. Key topics include feeding prohibited foods to children, special leniencies for a sick child (including on Pesach), restrictions on instructing children to perform Shabbos violations—even rabbinic ones—and how responsibility changes once a child reaches the age of understanding. The episode concludes with guidance on moral accountability, education, and corrective measures for harmful behavior, even when formal liability does not yet apply.
Telling a great story is a hallmark of being a dad, and Nate Norman doesn't miss! From recovering from injury, to homeschooling, to teaching his kids how to hunt, Nate will level up your dad game with his incredible and unique style. Follow Nate here on X:https://x.com/_NateNorman
In this episode, Wayne Johnson shares his experiences as a father of eight, discussing the challenges and rewards of raising a large family. He emphasizes the importance of being a present father, building a strong family culture, and the significance of leadership in parenting. Wayne also delves into conflict resolution within marriage and the dynamics of working with his wife in business. He concludes with insights on generational wealth, focusing on nurturing individual identities and strengths in his children rather than imposing a family legacy. In this conversation, Wayne Johnson shares insights on resilience, adaptability, and the importance of financial dynamics in relationships. He emphasizes the value of side hustles and multiple income streams, while also highlighting fitness as a core family value. Wayne reflects on the wisdom of slowing down as a parent and cherishing time with children, reinforcing the idea that love is expressed through time spent together. The discussion is rich with practical advice for navigating the complexities of family life, business, and personal growth. Follow Wayne: IG - https://www.instagram.com/waynejohnson_official LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/risechampions/ Website - https://risechampions.com/
In this special Christmas-season conversation, Cissie Graham Lynch joins the podcast to discuss how families can balance faith, parenting, and tradition in an increasingly challenging culture. Reflecting on the legacy of her grandfather, Billy Graham, Cissie shares powerful insights on preparing children to face opposition while remaining grounded in Christian values. She explains why Christmas traditions matter, how parents can intentionally teach faith at home, and what it means to raise children with conviction, courage, and clarity in today’s world. Listen to Cissie's Podcast HERESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
2025 pushed us to our limits. In this episode, the hosts of The Mama's Den share what helped us survive a difficult year — and how we're shifting into a future built on intention, clarity, and joy. We talk about recognizing our talents, letting go of what no longer serves us, and choosing joy without guilt. If you're ready to move from survival mode into purpose, this conversation is for you.Follow The Mama's Den on Instagram at @TheMamasDenpodcastWrite us at podcasts@blacklove.comWe can't wait to hear from you! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
For this Chanukah season Pastor Mark went with the angle of being dedicated to our parents and to our children that the generations may teach being faithful to the Father and Yeshua and all of Their ways.
Have you ever considered why the experience of being a dad can look radically different across cultures and communities? In our 2025 holiday episode, we're honored to welcome Dr. Alvin Thomas—associate professor, mentor, thought leader, award-winning podcast host, and an internationally respected researcher in human development and family studies. Dr. Thomas has devoted his career to supporting Black fathers, families, and children, and advancing anti-racism efforts, and in our conversation he opens up about anti-racism, modern masculinity, and our responsibility as parents to raise empathetic, informed, and resilient kids.Topics include:• Exploring the broad definition of fatherhood—including mentorship, community care, and “cosmic children”—beyond biological ties.• Dr. Thomas's anti-racism work and what it means to create spaces for Black children and families to thrive authentically.• The challenges and responsibilities of teaching kids about racism, empathy, and dualities in the world, especially as white parents in predominantly white communities.• Storytelling, mentorship, and the creation of The Black Fathers' Pulse podcast as tools for sharing research, building community, and supporting fathers.• Modern masculinity, vulnerability, and the evolving expectations of men and fathers in society—and how culture and the internet can impact those roles.• The importance of supportive spaces for men, breaking generational cycles, and building resilient, healthy family ecosystems.• And more!LINKSDr. Alvin Thomas (homepage)Dr Alvin Thomas (LinkedIn)Dr. Alvin Thomas (YouTube)Dr. Alvin Thomas (Instagram)Dr. Alvin Thomas (X)The Black Fathers' Pulse Podcast (Apple)Caspar BabypantsSpencer AlbeeModern Dadhood (website)AdamFlaherty.tvStuffed Animal (Marc's kids' music)MD (Instagram)MD (Facebook)MD (YouTube)MD (TikTok) Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays, Modern Dadhood listeners! We are so grateful for you.-Adam & Marc #moderndadhood #fatherhood #parenthood #parenting #parentingpodcast #dadding #dadpodcast
Show Notes:In this deeply moving episode of The Human Experience, host Jennifer Peterkin sits down with Rebecca (Becky) Faye Smith Galli in her Maryland home for a powerful conversation about loss, resilience, faith, and the courage to keep moving forward. Becky shares her life journey marked by profound hardship, including the death of her teenage brother, raising children with special needs, divorce, and sudden paralysis from transverse myelitis—a rare spinal cord inflammation that left her wheelchair-bound just days after her marriage ended. Through it all, Becky reflects on grief, uncertainty, and the strength she found through faith, family, community, and storytelling. She also discusses founding Pathfinders for Autism, navigating evolving autism awareness, and how writing became both a lifeline and a calling—allowing her to connect with others and offer hope through shared experience. Becky’s story is a testament to compassion, perseverance, and the belief that life can still be good—no matter what. ⚠️ Content Warning: This episode contains discussions of death, chronic illness, disability, and grief. Listener discretion is advised. Key Takeaways:● Personal experiences of profound loss and lifelong grief.● The impact of a sibling’s death on family dynamics and identity.● How different family members grieve in different ways.● The challenges and rewards of raising children with special needs.● Coping strategies for repeated adversity and unanswered questions.● The importance of community, support systems, and shared understanding.● The evolution of autism awareness and access to resources.● Balancing personal health challenges with parenting and purpose.● The role of faith, optimism, and mindset in resilience.● Storytelling as a powerful tool for healing, connection, and hope. Timestamps:00:00:00 — Podcast Introduction: Jennifer introduces the show and its mission.00:00:44 — Meet Becky: Background and life in Maryland.00:02:08 — The Loss of Forrest: Losing her brother at age 17.00:03:32 — Learning to Grieve: Family coping and lessons on grief.00:06:20 — Grief & Social Expectations: Pressure to “move on.”00:11:10 — Living with Uncertainty: Accepting unanswered questions.00:13:13 — College & Healing: Journaling and support systems.00:16:15 — Marriage & Motherhood: New joys and health challenges.00:17:31 — Raising Children with Special Needs: Epilepsy and autism.00:19:01 — Coping with Repeated Hardship: Finding purpose through writing.00:21:45 — Healing & Mindset: The non-linear journey of resilience.00:23:08 — First Encounters with Disability: Navigating medical systems.00:25:00 — Discovering Autism: A lack of resources sparks action.00:27:23 — Founding Pathfinders for Autism: Building community support.00:29:03 — Isolation & Community: The need for connection.00:30:36 — Autism Awareness: How times have changed.00:31:45 — Managing Fear: Living one day at a time.00:34:20 — Faith & Family: Foundations of strength.00:35:34 — Marriage, Divorce & Co-Parenting.00:37:59 — Sudden Paralysis: Transverse myelitis diagnosis.00:39:58 — Life in a Wheelchair: Adapting to a new reality.00:44:44 — Parenting Through Disability.00:45:43 — Writing as Healing: From columns to books.00:48:29 — Children’s Resilience & Adaptation.00:49:29 — Looking Back: Adult children and continued connection. Rebecca (Becky) Faye Smith Galli’s Bio: Rebecca (Becky) Faye Smith Galli is an author and columnist who writes about love, loss, resilience, and healing. After surviving a series of life-altering losses—including the death of her 17-year-old brother, her son’s degenerative illness and death, her daughter’s autism diagnosis, divorce, and paralysis from transverse myelitis—Becky discovered an unexpected but prolific writing career. In 2000, The Baltimore Sun published her first column about playing soccer with her son—from the wheelchair that inspired her long-running column, From Where I Sit. Her website now houses over 400 published columns. Becky is the author of Rethinking Possible: A Memoir of Resilience (2017) and Morning Fuel: Daily Inspirations to Stretch Your Mind Before Starting Your Day (2024). She continues to publish Thoughtful Thursdays—Lessons from a Resilient Heart, sharing insights that help others stay grounded in hope. A Morehead-Cain Scholar at UNC Chapel Hill, Becky previously worked at IBM, where she received the Golden Circle Award for marketing excellence. She lives in Lutherville, Maryland, outside of Baltimore. Her guiding belief: “Life can be good—no matter what.” Connect with Becky Galli:
In part two of this essential conversation, host Dr. Jodi Richardson continues her discussion with Dr. Lexi Frydenberg about supporting children and teens struggling with anxiety.Dr. Frydenberg shares practical, real-world examples of how parents can shift from focusing on challenging behaviours to catching their kids doing things right - from messy kitchens to difficult playdates. She explains the power of specific, timely feedback and why connection matters more than correction.This episode tackles the questions parents are really asking: What do you do when your teenager won't talk to you? When should you seek professional help? What's the difference between seeing a GP, pediatrician, psychologist, or psychiatrist? And the big one - when is medication appropriate for childhood anxiety?Dr. Frydenberg offers reassuring, evidence-based guidance on navigating the mental health system in Australia, including Medicare-rebated options, online therapy alternatives like the BRAVE program, and innovative approaches including music and art therapy. She also addresses the stigma around medication, explaining when it might be needed to "break the circuit" and help children engage with therapy.Throughout the conversation, both parents share their own vulnerable moments—from caravan confrontations to modelling repair - reminding us that "good enough" parenting is exactly that: good enough.Resources mentioned: The Strength Switch by Dr. Lea Waters, Headspace, ReachOut, BRAVE program, Raising Children's Network, Royal Children's Hospital, Beyond BlueSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this episode, Dr Jodi Richardson welcomes Dr Lexi Frydenberg, a pediatrician with over 20 years of clinical experience working with children and families at a large pediatric hospital in Melbourne and the Victorian Children's Clinic.Dr Frydenberg shares what she's seeing in the clinic and how anxiety in children has changed, particularly post-COVID. She explains how anxiety often shows up in ways parents might not expect - through behavioral challenges, tummy aches, headaches, and school refusal - rather than children simply saying "I'm anxious."In this conversation, they discuss:How young children are now presenting with anxiety (younger than the traditional tween years)The three main ways anxiety presents in children: somatic symptoms, articulated worries, and behavioral challengesWhy it's important not to rush to label children with diagnosesThe concept of anticipatory anxiety and how labels can become self-fulfilling propheciesPractical first steps for parents: recognition, education, and having conversations at the right timeThe power of "catching them being good" and focusing on strengths over challenging behaviorsCo-regulation: how parents need to regulate themselves first before helping their childThe fine line between helicopter/lawnmower parenting and teaching resilienceGraded exposure with practical examples (like food-related anxiety)Why celebrating small wins matters more than achieving the end goalDr Frydenberg emphasizes that anxiety is a normal, protective response we all experience, but offers clear guidance on when it's gone too far and practical strategies families can use while waiting for professional support.This is Part 1 of a two-part conversation. Join us next week for Part 2, where Dr Frydenberg discusses the roles of different practitioners, when medication might be helpful, and what to do when teens refuse to talk.Resources mentioned: https://www.rch.org.au/kidsinfo/anxiety/ https://mentalhealth.melbournechildrens.com/media/kiuftzzo/mhs_childhood-anxiety_guide_e-single.pdf Raising Children’s Network: https://raisingchildren.net.au/ Anxiety and fears in children (0-8 years) Generalised anxiety in children (3-8 years) Anxiety: the stepladder approach (3-18 years) Raising Healthy Minds AppBeyond BlueReach OutThe BRAVE ProgramShow less 54Sheet1See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
By David Chornomaz - This message emphasizes the importance of building close relationships with children, drawing on biblical passages, urging parents to use all available tools to express love, helping children understand both parental and divine love.
Johann Kurtz on 'Leaving a Legacy': Vital Insights into Multigenerational Wealth and Family Dynasties Johann's important book: https://a.co/d/7OmwAS6 Substack: https://becomingnoble.substack.com/ Join us for an enlightening conversation with Johann Kurtz, author of 'Leaving a Legacy: Inheritance, Charity, and Thousand-Year Families.' Johann discusses the thought-provoking questions that spurred the creation of his book, focusing on the moral, philosophical, and practical reasons for preserving family wealth across generations. He delves into the societal impacts of disinheriting children, the importance of instilling values and responsibility in wealthy heirs, and the pivotal role of family legacies. Learn how ancient traditions, stewardship, and family identity can shape the future of dynastic wealth. Don't miss this episode for a deep dive into preserving family heritage and creating lasting impact. 00:00 Introduction and Special Guest Announcement 00:23 The Inspiration Behind the Book 00:55 The Moral Debate on Inheritance 02:37 Challenges of Preserving Wealth 04:01 Raising Wealthy Children Responsibly 08:22 Philosophical and Theological Perspectives 16:38 The Role of Wealth in Society 32:22 The Importance of Rituals and Traditions 40:07 The Decline of Western Civilization 40:30 The Role of Religion in Society 41:07 Challenges Facing Western Europe 41:56 The Future of Society and Community 42:45 The Importance of Moral Foundations 46:51 Freedom and Self-Mastery 48:59 The Role of Family and Community 50:12 Personal Reflections and Decisions 54:13 Raising Children with Values 58:30 The Importance of Family History 01:03:08 The Role of Books and Writing 01:08:12 Final Thoughts and Reflections
In this episode, we discuss why women feel they can't find a healthy masculine man. We delve into the importance of inner frequency, specifically how women should approach finding healthy masculine men; monitoring their own mindset and energy. We discuss why some men resent their roles as husbands, fathers and providers. The episode also covers the challenges of raising boys in a society that may push them into unhealthy expressions of masculinity and offers insights on balancing discipline with love. The host shares personal experiences raising both a son and a daughter, aiming to cultivate internal safety and feminine energy in daughters while fostering resilience and strength in sons. 00:42 The Quest for Healthy Masculine Men 01:19 The Importance of Frequency and Energy in Attraction 03:13 Raising Masculine Boys and Feminine Girls 05:34 The Impact of Trauma on Femininity 06:48 Building Internal Safety and Healthy Relationships 08:45 Raising Resilient and Disciplined Boys 11:24 Empathy and Responsibility in Relationships 13:05 The Benefits of Marriage for Men 16:42 The Self-Fulfilling Prophecy of Negative Beliefs 20:33 Raising Children with Strong Family Values 22:35 Conclusion: Becoming an Energetic Match for Healthy Relationships Key Quotes: " You can't simultaneously hate men and think you're gonna attract a man who is going to love you because you will radiate a negative energy" "...angry men are just wounded, sad little boys inside." " So when we think about how do we raise these healthy, masculine boys, we need to have enforced boundaries with love." " I truly believe that the success of a parent is not giving your kids all of the things you didn't have, it's teaching your kids all of the things you were never taught that radically changed your life for the better" IG: @marciacolosi | TikTok: @marciacolosi LI: @marciacolosi | FB: @marciamiatke Ready to take your life and relationships to the next level? Follow The EQ Academy Official where you'll learn to optimise your emotions, leverage your feminine and masculine energies and show up your most confident and radiant self!
This week in the Den, the Mamas finally bring on Ashley's LITERAL day one—Nalo, her best friend since birth, Nalo Wise. After years of stories, references, and inside jokes, the audience gets to meet the woman herself. Together, Melanie, Codie, Ashley and Nalo take us deep into what it really takes to make a friendship last for decades: the honesty, the maturity, the forgiveness, and the intentionality that adult friendships demand—especially for women and moms.With maintaining new and old friendships being such a hot topic among moms and on social media, this conversation couldn't come at a better time. As we head into Thanksgiving, a season centered on love, gratitude, and the people who feel like home, this episode is a beautiful reminder that chosen family matters just as much as the ones we're born into. Prepare to laugh, reflect, and maybe text a friend after this one.We love getting Listener Letters! Send any thoughts or questions for the Mamas at podcasts@blacklove.com.Make sure you connect with our Mamas: @themamasdenpodcastAshley - @watermeloneggrollsCodie - @codiecoMelanie - @melaniefiona Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
When it comes to teaching our children about life, how should we go about it – especially when it comes to teaching them about God? As Pastor Kyle continues his series on Abraham's life, we see the effect of Abraham's parenting in the lives of his descendants (Isaac, Jacob, etc). Although not all his descendants followed after God, we do know of some that did – and had a significant impact on history. What can we learn from this and how can we apply it to our lives today?
Another round of global climate talks is taking place at the COP30 summit, but some are questioning whether there is much point to these gatherings. We bring people together who have decided to take their own action. One guest, Gwynn, suggests the best way to save the planet is to not have children. She has even had surgery so she cannot get pregnant. “Forests and oceans and prairies are being destroyed so I can exist, so I can have my life,” Gwynn tells us. “I decided that I didn't want to do that, I didn't want to continue that, and I realised that the most impactful thing I could do is to not make more people.” Gwynn, who is in the US, is joined in conversation with another environmental campaigner, Maja in Sweden. She has three children. We also explore what happens when families disagree about the environment. And, we hear from an airline pilot, Rich, and his son, Finn, a climate activist. Can they find common ground?
“Who gives this woman to be married to this man?” In most weddings today, these words are just a quaint formality. But what stands behind them is a timeless biblical principle—that parents have the authority to give or withhold consent in their children's marriages. The truth is, parents generally know their children better than they know themselves and see blind spots they miss. This said, parents should exercise their authority with wisdom. They must recognize there's no “perfect suitor” and that their child and potential spouse won't be as mature, at age 20 or 25, as they are now. Learn more on these points in: A Holy Vision for Raising Children
Dr. Zach Bush spent years working in hospice care, witnessing hundreds of patients in their final moments. That experience taught him profound lessons about how to live. In this episode, he shares what he's learned about presence, beauty, fear, and what it means to reconnect with nature. The conversation explores how our thoughts shape physiology, why regenerative farming matters, and how playfulness and authenticity are essential for healing.==========OUR GUEST==========Zach Bush, MD is a triple board-certified physician specializing in internal medicine, endocrinology, and hospice care. He is internationally recognized for his work in microbiome science, regenerative farming, and deep systems health. Zach's mission centers around the intersection of human and planetary health, cellular intelligence, and conscious evolution.==========ZACH BUSH==========
From IBM and Microsoft to serving as Chief Business Officer at Google X, Mo Gawdat has spent over three decades at the forefront of technology and innovation. Today, the bestselling author turns his engineer's mind toward life's biggest question: how can we live well and meaningfully in an age defined by artificial intelligence? This monumental 2.5 hour episode, which Mo Islam called “the best I've ever shot”, is a journey through life, loss, and the future of humanity.Mo Gawdat opens up about his late son Ali and the lessons that inspired ‘Solve for Happy', before diving into the decade of disruption ahead: from the rise of AI and autonomous weapons to universal basic income and the impending economic reset. Together, the two Mo's explore why Arabs are so misunderstood in the West, how ethical AI must be grounded in love and empathy, and how the Middle East can lead the next wave of innovation. They challenge the failures of modern education, the grip of the military-industrial complex, and even the mysteries of the space-time continuum, all while searching for meaning in what Mo calls the “legendary level” of modern life. A very big thanks to Merwas Studios in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia for inviting us to shoot in their WORLD CLASS Studios! 00:00 Intro03:18 IBM, Microsoft & Google X05:07 Losing Ali: The Moment Everything Changed09:27 Writing Solve for Happy11:41 Leaving Google & Launching “1 Billion Happy”13:35 Living with Loss17:05 Fate, Life & the Interconnectedness of Everything23:04 Death as the Opposite of Birth26:02 The Video Game of Life31:23 Ali's Death & Mo's Purpose34:53 Redefining Success: Impact over Ego38:54 Learning, Curiosity & Creation44:08 Solitude & Silent Retreats49:01 Meditation Practices55:13 Mindfulness in Daily Life57:06 The Loneliness Epidemic1:01:02 East vs. West: Community vs. Individualism1:05:10 Surveillance, Privacy & the Illusion of Security1:08:11 Raising Children in a Broken World1:11:03 The Collapse of Capitalism & the Rise of AI1:21:16 China vs. The West1:24:06 The Illusion of Stock Markets & Institutional Control1:30:03 War Economics: How Weapons Drive Profit1:35:19 Humanity's Awakening & Questioning the System1:41:08 Reclaiming the Arab Narrative1:47:27 Building Ethical AI1:52:18 Entrepreneurship, Self-Reliance & Believing in the Region2:00:03 Education is Broken2:07:03 Business vs. Capitalism: Purpose Over Profit2:10:00 Reclaiming Global Perception2:17:13 Governance, Fairness & Leadership in the Arab World2:22:06 Living in Uncertain Times2:25:17 The Ultimate Video Game of Life2:26:57 Closing Reflections
Send us a textWelcome to a truly special 100th episode of Passing the Torch! Hosts Martin Foster and his wife Lora sit down for a heartfelt conversation about leadership, resilience, character development—and what it means to navigate life's biggest transitions together. After 23 years of military service and countless moves, Martin Foster is stepping into retirement, and together, he and Lora reflect on the journey: the challenges of starting over in new communities, the lessons learned from adversity, and the strength found in family and partnership. From parenting in unpredictable times to the importance of finding your people wherever you go, this episode dives deep into authentic insights, shared laughter, and real advice on leading not just in the workplace, but at home and in everyday moments. Whether you're a longtime listener or just joining us, settle in for an inspiring celebration of growth, gratitude, and the torch-passing moments that shape who we become.-Quick Episode Summary:Celebrating milestones, resilience, and family leadership through life's transitions.-SEO Description:Passing the Torch celebrates 100 episodes with special guestLora Foster, reflecting on leadership, resilience, marriage, and navigating military life's biggest transitions.-Chapters:00:00 Intro03:49 Model the Rise Concept06:33 Finding Community in New Places10:00 Retirement Reflection and Shoutouts13:47 Unseen Motivation and Support17:40 Listening Matters Most22:38 Life Abroad in Military Service23:49 Hawaii Memories and Milestones27:33 Family's Pro Wrestling Obsession32:14 Supportive Friends Make Life Better35:26 Comparison: Thief of Joy39:41 Celebrating 100 EpisodesConnect with Passing The Torch: Facebook and IG: @torchmartin More Amazing Stories: Episode 41: Lee Ellis – Freeing You From Bond That Make You Insecure Episode 81: Kurt Warner – Perseverance, Humility, and Lighting the Way Episode 90: Michelle 'MACE' Curran – How to Turn Fear into Fuel
While you may have a job at a church, our families are also a part of the church community. Sometimes churches can have expectations of the whole ministry family. And sometimes growing up in the pastor's home can come with both benefits and challenges. In our conversation, Pastor Jim and I explore how we've navigated raising a family while serving in ministry. How do we serve both our families and the church toward loving Christ?
Sunday Evening- Pastor Larson- Proverbs 1:7=19
In this episode, Hunter sits down with Louisiana guide Ty Hibbs to talk about life in the marsh — raising kids in Cajun country, fighting for local fisheries, and what it means to stay rooted in the place you love. From shrimp boils and haunted car washes to the Jack Project and the next generation of conservation, Ty shares his heart for family, community, and the Louisiana coast. This conversation is full of humor, honesty, and perspective — a reminder that sometimes the best measure of success isn't the size of the fish, but the legacy you leave behind. Brought to you by Skinny Water Culture, YETI, Turtlebox Audio, Purpose Built Optics, My Captain, and The Drifter Fish Club. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
In this episode of the C-Suite for Christ podcast, we're declaring war on the spiritual apathy that has handed our children over to the enemy. We have ten-year-olds who know more about gender theory than the Gospel of John. We have teenagers who can quote Taylor Swift by heart but have never read the words of Jesus. And we have Christian parents who will drive across three states for a baseball tournament but can't make it to church on Sunday.This isn't an accident. It's a strategic spiritual assault. While the Church has been sleeping, the world has been actively discipling our children, and it is not leading them to heaven. We've traded our sacred duty for worldly success, prioritizing grades over grace and trophies over truth.This episode is a wake-up call. It's a declaration of war on the spiritual apathy that has infected Christian homes. The world is raising your children. The question is, will you let them?Buckle up. This episode isn't about guilt—it's about repentance. And the stakes are eternal."As for me and my household, we will serve the LORD." – Joshua 24:15Episode Highlights:11:48 - The number one answer wasn't, 'I stopped believing in God.' It was, 'Faith was never real at home.' Yikes. It's not that kids hate Jesus. It's that they never saw Jesus truly lived out.14:06 - Most Christian parents today aren't worshiping God with their families. They're worshiping success through their families. We've replaced 'seek first the kingdom of God' with 'seek first the scholarship, the promotion, the image, the win.' We've turned parenting into performance.23:00 - The only question that is going to matter is this: Did your child know Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior? Imagine that moment standing before God, realizing you spent 18 years preparing your child for college but not for eternity. You made sure they got into Harvard, but never made sure they got into heaven.Connect with Paul M. NeubergerWebsite
Pastor Steve preaches on the importance of biblical parenting. Message originally preached October 15, 2025.
In this special crossover episode, The Mama's Den links up with The Gin & Juice Podcast—hosted by powerhouse sisters and moms, Mel Goolsby and Melissa Fredericks. Together, we dive into how these two turned life's curveballs into purpose and profit. After being laid off on maternity leave 2022, Mel built a thriving social media platform called "I'm Not A Lawyer, But" while Melissa stood beside her—both in sisterhood and entrepreneurship—as they launched their hit podcast, Gin & Juice. At a time when so many are navigating job loss and reinvention, this conversation is a reminder that sometimes the end of one chapter is the spark for a new beginning. Tune in for real talk, laughter, and the kind of inspiration every mama (and dreamer) needs in 2025.This episode marks PART 2 of The Mama's Den x Gin & Juice mashup. Catch Part 1 on The Gin & Juice podcast feed.REMEMBER: If you're in Atlanta on November 3rd, come see The Mamas live! https://citywinery.com/atlanta/events/the-mamas-den-podcast-live-6vpkv0________________________ Send any thoughts or questions for the Mamas at podcasts@blacklove.com.Make sure you connect with our Mamas on Instagram:The Mama's Den - @themamasdenpodcastAshley - @watermeloneggrollsCodie - @codiecoMelanie - @melaniefiona Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Young adults today are 1,600% more likely to identify as transgender than people over 50. Every family may not struggle with this issue—but every family will face it. Are you ready? In this critical episode of Refining Rhetoric, host Robert Bortins sits down with Dr. Jeff Myers, President of Summit Ministries and author of the new book Raising Gender Confident Kids, for an unflinching conversation about one of the most pressing challenges facing Christian families today. Dr. Myers reveals why gender ideology isn't just about elevating Pride Month—it's a calculated strategy to tear down the foundations of Western civilization and biblical worldview. What You'll Discover: Why 39% of young adults now identify as LGBTQ—and what's driving this dramatic shift The shocking reality of "transgender recruitment" happening in public schools (and some private schools) How gender ideology functions as an anti-Christ religion with its own evangelism and discipleship steps Age-appropriate conversation strategies for elementary, middle school, and high school students Why middle schoolers are being specifically targeted before they complete puberty How to help your child respond when they can't tell if someone is a boy or a girl The biological truth: 6,500 cataloged differences between males and females—and why they're designed to harmonize Why teaching "Imago Dei" (being made in God's image) is now mission-critical for every Christian family Dr. Myers doesn't sugarcoat the reality: this is a well-funded, strategic assault on the biblical understanding of humanity. But he also offers hope, practical tools, and a pathway for parents to raise children who are confident in God's good design—while showing Christ's love to a generation that's been tragically deceived. Resources: Raising Gender Confident Kids book - genderconfidentkids.com https://www.summit.org/ This episode of Refining Rhetoric is sponsored by: 2026 Classical Conversations Family Cruise Have you heard? The Classical Conversations 2026 CC Family Cruise will set sail on May 16, 2026. This exciting adventure is open to all CC families and alumni. It will include the National Memory Master Competition, National Commencement, and special CC family activities. Interest is booming with over 800 people interested in cruising with us and cabins are selling out fast! Book your cabin now at www.classicalconversations.com/cruise-2026 Remember, to participate in the CC activities you need to book through the CC group. Grab your sunscreen, your beach bag. and join us on board!
Husband and father of two, Sean Patrick Thomas, is in The Mama's Den talking about the emotional experience parenting 15 and 17-year olds who are making some very grown up decisions about their lives, feeling proud of how he and his wife, Aonika, have raised them, and playing a grieving father in season two of the Amazon Prime series Gen V. Buckle up because this episode has laughs, tears, incredible parenting lessons, and even some roti and curry! (You'll get that later.)REMEMBER: If you're in Atlanta on November 3rd, come see The Mamas live! https://citywinery.com/atlanta/events/the-mamas-den-podcast-live-6vpkv0________________________ Send any thoughts or questions for the Mamas at podcasts@blacklove.com.Make sure you connect with our Mamas on Instagram:The Mama's Den - @themamasdenpodcastAshley - @watermeloneggrollsCodie - @codiecoMelanie - @melaniefiona Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
How do parents cultivate a child's affection? First and foremost, model love in your marriage. You can be perfect technicians in child training, but if you're snippety toward your spouse, you'll undo everything—so teach your children, by example, what loving respect is through your conversations. Second, give clear expectations and hold your children to them. You only get what you insist on, so promptly discipline them in love when they cross the line. Finally, don't allow your children to constantly interrupt, but teach them to wait to ask questions by modeling patience as husband and wife. Learn more on these points in: A Holy Vision for Raising Children
Welcome back to Snafu with Robin Zander. In this episode, I'm joined by Miki Johnson – coach, facilitator, and co-founder of Job Portraits, a creative studio that helped companies tell honest stories about their work and culture. Today, Miki leads Leading By Example, where she supports leaders and teams through moments of change – whether that's a career shift, new parenthood, or redefining purpose. We talk about how to navigate transition with awareness, why enjoying change takes practice, and what it means to lead with authenticity in uncertain times. Miki shares lessons from a decade of coaching and storytelling – from building human-centered workplaces to bringing more body and emotion into leadership. We also explore creativity in the age of AI, and how technology can either deepen or disconnect us from what makes us human. And if you're interested in these kinds of conversations, we'll be diving even deeper into the intersection of leadership, creativity, and AI at Responsive Conference 2026. If you're interested, get your tickets here! https://www.responsiveconference.com/ __________________________________________________________________________________________ 00:00 Start 01:20 Miki's Background and Reservations about AI Miki hasn't used AI and has “very serious reservations.” She's not anti-AI – just cautious and curious. Her mindset is about “holding paradox”, believing two opposing things can both be true. Her background shapes that approach. She started as a journalist, later ran her own businesses, and now works as a leadership coach. Early in her career, she watched digital technology upend media and photography – industries “blown apart” by change. When she joined a 2008 startup building editable websites for photographers, it was exciting but also unsettling. She saw innovation create progress and loss at the same time. Now in her 40s with two sons, her focus has shifted. She worries less about the tools and more about what they do to people's attention, empathy, and connection – and even democracy. Her concern is how to raise kids and stay human in a distracted world. Robin shares her concerns but takes a different approach. He notes that change now happens “day to day,” not decade to decade. He looks at technology through systems, questioning whether pre-internet institutions can survive. “Maybe the Constitution was revolutionary,” he says, “but it's out of date for the world we live in.” He calls himself a “relentless optimist,” believing in democracy and adaptability, but aware both could fail without reform. Both worry deeply about what technology is doing to kids. Robin cites The Anxious Generation by Jonathan Haidt and says, “I don't believe social media is good for children.” He and his fiancée plan to limit their kids' screen time, just as Miki already does. They see it as a responsibility: raising grounded kids in a digital world. Robin sees AI as even more transformative – and risky – than anything before. “If social media is bigger than the printing press,” he says, “AI is bigger than the wheel.” He's amazed by its potential but uneasy about who controls it. He doubts people like Sam Altman act in the public's best interest. His concern isn't about rejecting AI but about questioning who holds power over it. Their difference lies in how they handle uncertainty. Miki's instinct is restraint and reflection – question first, act later, protect empathy and connection. Robin's instinct is engagement with vigilance – learn, adapt, and reform systems rather than retreat. Miki focuses on the human and emotional. Robin focuses on the structural and systemic. Both agree technology is moving faster than people can process or regulate. Miki uses curiosity to slow down and stay human. Robin uses curiosity to move forward and adapt. Together, they represent two sides of the same challenge: protecting what's most human while building what's next. 10:05 Navigating the Tech Landscape Miki starts by describing how her perspective has been shaped by living in two very different worlds. She spent over a decade in the Bay Area, surrounded by tech and startups. She later moved back to her small hometown of Athens, Ohio—a progressive college town surrounded by more rural areas. She calls it “a very small Austin”, a blue dot in a red state. She loves it there and feels lucky to have returned home. Robin interrupts briefly to highlight her background. He reminds listeners that Miki and her husband, Jackson, co-founded an employer branding agency called Job Portraits in 2014, the same year they got married. Over eight years, they grew it to around 15 full-time employees and 20 steady contractors. They worked with major startups like DoorDash, Instacart, and Eventbrite when those companies were still small—under 200 employees. Before that, they had started another venture in Chicago during Uber's early expansion beyond San Francisco. Their co-working space was right next to Uber's local team setting up drivers, giving them a front-row seat to the tech boom. Robin points out that Miki isn't coming at this topic as a “layperson.” She deeply understands technology, startups, and how they affect people. Miki continues, explaining how that background informs how she sees AI adoption today. Her Bay Area friends are all-in on AI. Many have used it since its earliest days—because it's part of their jobs, or because they're building it themselves. Others are executives leading companies developing AI tools. She's been watching it unfold closely for years, even if she hasn't used it herself. From her position outside the tech bubble now, she can see two clear camps: Those immersed in AI, excited and moving fast. And those outside that world—more cautious, questioning what it means for real people and communities. Living between those worlds—the fast-paced tech culture and her slower, more grounded hometown—gives her a unique vantage point. She's connected enough to understand the innovation but distant enough to see its costs and consequences. 16:39 The Cost of AI Adoption Miki points out how strange it feels to people in tech that she hasn't used AI. In her Bay Area circles, the idea is almost unthinkable. Miki understands why it's shocking. It's mostly circumstance—her coaching work doesn't require AI. Unlike consultants who “all tell leaders how to use AI,” her work is based on real conversations, not digital tools. Her husband, Jackson, also works at a “zero-technology” K–12 school he helped create, so they both exist in rare, tech-free spaces. She admits that's partly luck, not moral superiority, just “tiny pockets of the economy” where avoiding AI is still possible. Robin responds with his own story about adopting new tools. He recalls running Robin's Café from 2016 to 2019, when most restaurants still used paper timesheets. He connected with two young founders who digitized timesheets, turning a simple idea into a company that later sold to a global conglomerate. By the time he sold his café, those founders had retired in their 20s. “I could still run a restaurant on paper,” he says, “but why would I, if digital is faster and easier?” He draws a parallel between tools over time—handwriting, typing, dictation. Each serves a purpose, but he still thinks best when writing by hand, then typing, then dictating. The point: progress adds options, not replacements. Miki distills his point: if a tool makes life easier, why not use it? Robin agrees, and uses his own writing practice as an example. He writes a 1,000-word weekly newsletter called Snafu. Every word is his, but he uses AI as an editor—to polish, not to create. He says, “I like how I think more clearly when I write regularly.” For him, writing is both communication and cognition—AI just helps him iterate faster. It's like having an instant editor instead of waiting a week for human feedback. He reminds his AI tools, “Don't write for me. Just help me think and improve.” When Miki asks why he's never had an editor, he explains that he has—but editors are expensive and slow. AI gives quick, affordable feedback when a human editor isn't available. Miki listens and reflects on the trade-offs. “These are the cost-benefit decisions we all make,” she says—small, constant choices about convenience and control. What unsettles her is how fast AI pushes that balance. She sees it as part of a long arc—from the printing press to now—but AI feels like an acceleration. It's “such a powerful technology moving so fast” that it's blowing the cover off how society adapts to change. Robin agrees: “It's just the latest version of the same story, since writing on cave walls.” 20:10 The Future of Human-AI Relationships Miki talks about the logical traps we've all started accepting over time. One of the biggest, she says, is believing that if something is cheaper, faster, or easier – it's automatically better. She pushes further: just because something is more efficient doesn't mean it's better than work. There are things you gain from working with humans that no machine can replicate, no matter how cheap or convenient it becomes. But we rarely stop to consider the real cost of trading that away. Miki says the reason we overlook those costs is capitalism. She's quick to clarify – she's not one of those people calling late-stage capitalism pure evil. Robin chimes in: “It's the best of a bunch of bad systems.” Miki agrees, but says capitalism still pushes a dangerous idea: It wants humans to behave like machines—predictable, tireless, cheap, and mistake-free. And over time, people have adapted to that pressure, becoming more mechanical just to survive within it. Now we've created a tool—AI—that might actually embody those machine-like ideals. Whether or not it reaches full human equivalence, it's close enough to expose something uncomfortable: We've built a human substitute that eliminates everything messy, emotional, and unpredictable about being human. Robin takes it a step further, saying half-jokingly that if humanity lasts long enough, our grandchildren might date robots. “Two generations from now,” he says, “is it socially acceptable—maybe even expected—that people have robot spouses?” He points out it's already starting—people are forming attachments to ChatGPT and similar AIs. Miki agrees, noting that it's already common for people under 25 to say they've had meaningful interactions with AI companions. Over 20% of them, she estimates, have already experienced this. That number will only grow. And yet, she says, we talk about these changes as if they're inevitable—like we don't have a choice. That's what frustrates her most: The narrative that AI “has to” take over—that it's unstoppable and universal—isn't natural evolution. It's a story deliberately crafted by those who build and profit from it. “Jackson's been reading the Hacker News comments for 15 years,” she adds, hinting at how deep and intentional those narratives run in the tech world. She pauses to explain what Hacker News is for anyone unfamiliar. It's one of the few online forums that's still thoughtful and well-curated. Miki says most people there are the ones who've been running and shaping the tech world for years—engineers, founders, product leaders. And if you've followed those conversations, she says, it's obvious that the people developing AI knew there would be pushback. “Because when you really stop and think about it,” she says, “it's kind of gross.” The technology is designed to replace humans—and eventually, to replace their jobs. And yet, almost no one is seriously talking about what happens when that becomes real. “I'm sorry,” she says, “but there's just something in me that says—dating a robot is bad for humanity. What is wrong with us?” Robin agrees. “I don't disagree,” he says. “It's just… different from human.” Miki admits she wrestles with that tension. “Every part of me says, don't call it bad or wrong—we have to make space for difference.” But still, something in her can't shake the feeling that this isn't progress—it's disconnection. Robin expands on that thought, saying he's not particularly religious, but he does see humanity as sacred. “There's something fundamental about the human soul,” he says. He gives examples: he has metal in his ankle from an old injury; some of his family members are alive only because of medical devices. Technology, in that sense, can extend or support human life. But the idea of replacing or merging humans with machines—of being subsumed by them—feels wrong. “It's not a world I want to live in,” he says plainly. He adds that maybe future generations will think differently. “Maybe our grandkids will look at us and say, ‘Okay boomer—you never used AI.'” 24:14 Practical Applications of AI in Daily Life Robin shares a story about a house he and his fiancée almost bought—one that had a redwood tree cut down just 10 feet from the foundation. The garage foundation was cracked, the chimney tilted—it was clear something was wrong. He'd already talked to arborists and contractors, but none could give a clear answer. So he turned to ChatGPT's Deep Research—a premium feature that allows for in-depth, multi-source research across the web. He paid $200 a month for unlimited access. Ran 15 deep research queries simultaneously. Generated about 250 pages of analysis on redwood tree roots and their long-term impact on foundations. He learned that if the roots are alive, they can keep growing and push the soil upward. If they're dead, they decompose, absorb and release water seasonally, and cause the soil to expand and contract. Over time, that movement creates air pockets under the house—tiny voids that could collapse during an earthquake. None of this, Robin says, came from any contractor, realtor, or arborist. “Even they said I'd have to dig out the roots to know for sure,” he recalls. Ultimately, they decided not to buy that house—entirely because of the data he got from ChatGPT. “To protect myself,” he says, “I want to use the tools I have.” He compares it to using a laser level before buying a home in earthquake country: “If I'll use that, why not use AI to explore what I don't know?” He even compares Deep Research to flipping through Encyclopedia Britannica as a kid—hours spent reading about dinosaurs “for no reason other than curiosity.” Robin continues, saying it's not that AI will replace humans—it's that people who use AI will replace those who don't. He references economist Tyler Cowen's Average Is Over (2012), which described how chess evolved in the early 2000s. Back then, computers couldn't beat elite players on their own—but a human + computer team could beat both humans and machines alone. “The best chess today,” Robin says, “is played by a human and computer together.” “There are a dozen directions I could go from there,” Miki says. But one idea stands out to her: We're going to have to choose, more and more often, between knowledge and relationships. What Robin did—turning to Deep Research—was choosing knowledge. Getting the right answer. Having more information. Making the smarter decision. But that comes at the cost of human connection. “I'm willing to bet,” she says, “that all the information you found came from humans originally.” Meaning: there were people who could have told him that—just not in that format. Her broader point: the more we optimize for efficiency and knowledge, the less we may rely on each other. 32:26 Choosing Relationships Over AI Robin points out that everything he learned from ChatGPT originally came from people. Miki agrees, but says her work is really about getting comfortable with uncertainty. She helps people build a relationship with the unknown instead of trying to control it. She mentions Robin's recent talk with author Simone Stolzoff, who's writing How to Not Know—a book she can't wait to read. She connects it to a bigger idea: how deeply we've inherited the Enlightenment mindset. “We're living at the height of ‘I think, therefore I am,'” she says. If that's your worldview, then of course AI feels natural. It fits the logic that more data and more knowledge are always better. But she's uneasy about what that mindset costs us. She worries about what's happening to human connection. “It's all connected,” she says—our isolation, mental health struggles, political polarization, even how we treat the planet. Every time we choose AI over another person, she sees it as part of that drift away from relationship. “I get why people use it,” she adds. “Capitalism doesn't leave most people much of a choice.” Still, she says, “Each time we pick AI over a human, that's a decision about the kind of world we're creating.” Her choice is simple: “I'm choosing relationships.” Robin gently pushes back. “I think that's a false dichotomy,” he says. He just hosted Responsive Conference—250 people gathered for human connection. “That's why I do this podcast,” he adds. “To sit down with people and talk, deeply.” He gives a personal example. When he bought his home, he spoke with hundreds of people—plumbers, electricians, roofers. “I'm the biggest advocate for human conversations,” he says. “So why not both? Why not use AI and connect with people?” To him, the real question is about how we use technology consciously. “If we stopped using AI because it's not human,” he asks, “should we stop using computers because handwriting is more authentic?” “Should we reject the printing press because it's not handwritten?” He's not advocating blind use—he's asking for mindful coexistence. It's also personal for him. His company relies on AI tools—from Adobe to video production. “AI is baked into everything we do,” he says. And he and his fiancée—a data scientist—often talk about what that means for their future family. “How do we raise kids in a world where screens and AI are everywhere?” Then he asks her directly: “What do you tell your clients? Treat me like one—how do you help people navigate this tension?” Miki smiles and shakes her head. “I don't tell people what to do,” she says. “I'm not an advisor, I'm a coach.” Her work is about helping people trust their own intuition. “Even when what they believe is contrarian,” she adds. She admits she's still learning herself. “My whole stance is: I don't know. I don't know. I don't know.” She and her husband, Jackson, live by the idea of strong opinions, loosely held. She stays open—lets new conversations change her mind. “And they do,” she says. “Every talk like this shifts me a little.” She keeps seeking those exchanges—with parents, tech workers, friends—because everyone's trying to figure out the same thing: How do we live well with technology, without losing what makes us human? 37:16 The Amish Approach to Technology Miki reflects on how engineers are both building and being replaced by AI. She wants to understand the technology from every angle—how it works, how it affects people, and what choices it leaves us with. What worries her is the sense of inevitability around AI—especially in places like the Bay Area. “It's like no one's even met someone who doesn't use it,” she says. She knows it's embedded everywhere—Google searches, chatbots, everything online. But she doesn't use AI tools directly or build with them herself. “I don't even know the right terminology,” she admits with a laugh. Robin points out that every Google search now uses an LLM. Miki nods, saying her point isn't denial—it's about choice. “You can make different decisions,” she says. She admits she hasn't studied it deeply but brings up an analogy that helps her think about tech differently: the Amish. “I call myself kind of ‘AI Amish,'” she jokes. She explains her understanding of how the Amish handle new technology. They're not anti-tech; they're selective. They test and evaluate new tools to see if they align with their community's values. “They ask, does it build connection or not?” They don't just reject things—they integrate what fits. In her area of Ohio, she's seen Amish people now using electric bikes. “That's new since I was a kid,” she says. It helps them connect more with each other without harming the environment. They've also used solar power for years. It lets them stay energy independent without relying on outside systems that clash with their values. Robin agrees—it's thoughtful, not oppositional. “They're intentional about what strengthens community,” he says. Miki continues: What frustrates her is how AI's creators have spent the last decade building a narrative of inevitability. “They knew there would be resistance,” she says, “so they started saying, ‘It's just going to happen. Your jobs won't be taken by AI—they'll be taken by people who use it better than you.'” She finds that manipulative and misleading. Robin pushes back gently. “That's partly true—but only for now,” he says. He compares it to Uber and Lyft: at first, new jobs seemed to appear, but eventually drivers started being replaced by self-driving cars. Miki agrees. “Exactly. First it's people using AI, then it's AI replacing people,” she says. What disturbs her most is the blind trust people put in companies driven by profit. “They've proven over and over that's their motive,” she says. “Why believe their story about what's coming next?” She's empathetic, though—she knows why people don't push back. “We're stressed, broke, exhausted,” she says. “Our nervous systems are fried 24/7—especially under this administration.” “It's hard to think critically when you're just trying to survive.” And when everyone around you uses AI, it starts to feel mandatory. “People tell me, ‘Yeah, I know it's a problem—but I have to. Otherwise I'll lose my job.'” “Or, ‘I'd have bought the wrong house if I didn't use it.'” That “I have to” mindset, she says, is what scares her most. Robin relates with his own example. “That's how I felt with TikTok,” he says. He got hooked early on, staying up until 3 a.m. scrolling. After a few weeks, he deleted the app and never went back. “I probably lose some business by not being there,” he admits. “But I'd rather protect my focus and my sanity.” He admits he couldn't find a way to stay on the platform without it consuming him. “I wasn't able to build a system that removed me from that platform while still using that platform.” But he feels differently about other tools. For example, LinkedIn has been essential—especially for communicating with Responsive Conference attendees. “It was our primary method of communication for 2025,” he says. So he tries to choose “the lesser of two evils.” “TikTok's bad for my brain,” he says. “I'm not using it.” “But with LLMs, it's different.” When researching houses, he didn't feel forced into using them to “keep up.” To him, they're just another resource. “If encyclopedias are available, use them. If Wikipedia's available, use both. And if LLMs can help, use all three.” 41:45 The Pressure to Conform to Technology Miki challenges that logic. “When was the last time you opened an encyclopedia?” Robin pauses. “Seven years ago.” Miki laughs. “Exactly. It's a nice idea that we'll use all the tools—but humans don't actually do that.” We gravitate toward what's easiest. “If you check eBay, there are hundreds of encyclopedia sets for sale,” she says. “No one's using them.” Robin agrees but takes the idea in a new direction. “Sure—but just because something's easy doesn't mean it's good,” he says. He compares it to food: “It's easier to eat at McDonald's than cook at home,” he says. But easy choices often lead to long-term problems. He mentions obesity in the U.S. as a cautionary parallel. Some things are valuable because they're hard. “Getting in my cold plunge every morning isn't easy,” he says. “That's why I do it.” “Exercise never gets easy either—but that's the point.” He adds a personal note: “I grew up in the mountains. I love being at elevation, off-grid, away from electricity.” He could bring Starlink when he travels, but he chooses not to. Still, he's not trying to live as a total hermit. “I don't want to live 12 months a year at 10,000 feet with a wood stove and no one around.” “There's a balance.” Miki nods, “I think this is where we need to start separating what we can handle versus what kids can.” “We're privileged adults with fully formed brains,” she points out. “But it's different for children growing up inside this system.” Robin agrees and shifts the focus. Even though you don't give advice professionally,” he says, “I'll ask you to give it personally.” “You're raising kids in what might be the hardest time we've ever seen. What are you actually practicing at home?” 45:30 Raising Children in a Tech-Driven World Robin reflects on how education has shifted since their grandparents' time Mentions “Alpha Schools” — where AI helps kids learn basic skills fast (reading, writing, math) Human coaches spend the rest of the time building life skills Says this model makes sense: Memorizing times tables isn't useful anymore He only learned to love math because his dad taught him algebra personally — acted like a coach Asks Miki what she thinks about AI and kids — and what advice she'd give him as a future parent Miki's first response — humility and boundaries “First off, I never want to give parents advice.” Everyone's doing their best with limited info and energy Her kids are still young — not yet at the “phone or social media” stage So she doesn't pretend to have all the answers Her personal wish vs. what's realistic Ideal world: She wishes there were a global law banning kids from using AI or social media until age 18 Thinks it would genuinely be better for humanity References The Anxious Generation Says there's growing causal evidence, not just correlation, linking social media to mental health issues Mentions its impact on children's nervous systems and worldview It wires them for defense rather than discovery Real world: One parent can't fight this alone — it's a collective action problem You need communities of parents who agree on shared rules Example: schools that commit to being zero-technology zones Parents and kids agree on: What ages tech is allowed Time limits Common standards Practical ideas they're exploring Families turning back to landlines Miki says they got one recently Not an actual landline — they use a SIM adapter and an old rotary phone Kids use it to call grandparents Her partner Jackson is working on a bigger vision: Building a city around a school Goal: design entire communities that share thoughtful tech boundaries Robin relates it to his own childhood Points out the same collective issue — “my nephews are preteens” It's one thing for parents to limit screen time But if every other kid has access, that limit won't hold Shares his own experience: No TV or video games growing up So he just went to neighbors' houses to play — human nature finds a way Says individual family decisions don't solve the broader problem Miki agrees — and expands the concern Says the real issue is what kids aren't learning Their generation had “practice time” in real-world social interactions Learned what jokes land and which ones hurt Learned how to disagree, apologize, or flirt respectfully Learned by trial and error — through millions of small moments With social media and AI replacing those interactions: Kids lose those chances entirely Results she's seeing: More kids isolating themselves Many afraid to take social or emotional risks Fewer kids dating or engaging in real-life relationships Analogy — why AI can stunt development “Using AI to write essays,” she says, “is like taking a forklift to the gym.” Sure, you lift more weight — but you're not getting stronger Warns this is already visible in workplaces: Companies laying off junior engineers AI handles the entry-level work But in 5 years, there'll be no trained juniors left to replace seniors Concludes that where AI goes next “is anybody's guess” — but it must be used with intention 54:12 Where to Find Miki Invites others to connect Mentions her website: leadingbyexample.life Visitors can book 30-minute conversations directly on her calendar Says she's genuinely open to discussing this topic with anyone interested
Character and integrity aren't just learned, they're taught, and all our children have to do is listen and observe how we parent them and live our daily lives to know what those values look like. As Christian parents, we not only need to teach our children about character and integrity, but we also want them to understand how these two values connect to the bigger picture of Christianity and their role in it. If character and integrity are something you personally struggle with or struggle to teach your kids, don't worry. Every day is a new day and in today's episode, I share verses on what God has to say about these values and discuss how we can exhibit and teach them to our children as we as parents strive to become more like Jesus in our own lives. Let's go.
God has given us a church family to help us raise our children for Christ. Today, Sinclair Ferguson considers the benefits of receiving the wisdom and support of older parents in the congregation. Read the transcript: https://ligonier.org/podcasts/things-unseen-with-sinclair-ferguson/raising-children-in-the-church/ A donor-supported outreach of Ligonier Ministries. Donate: https://donate.ligonier.org/ Explore all of our podcasts: https://www.ligonier.org/podcasts
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Forgive us for being all "woo woo" but we are in our feelings this week as we catch up 1 month after Melanie's move. We read your messages and comments on every platform and couldn't leave our Mama's Den fam hanging on the morning commute. This week, we discuss our recent transitions and the impact of change on family dynamics, the importance of supportive relationships, the even power of manifestation. Tap in with us as we embrace some beautiful changes TOGETHER!And if you're in Atlanta on November 3rd, come see us live! https://citywinery.com/atlanta/events/the-mamas-den-podcast-live-6vpkv0________________________ Send any thoughts or questions for the Mamas at podcasts@blacklove.com.Make sure you connect with our Mamas on Instagram:The Mama's Den - @themamasdenpodcastAshley - @watermeloneggrollsCodie - @codiecoMelanie - @melaniefiona Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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