Podcasts about intimacy

This is such an incredible conversation to wrap up our Fridays in the Fall, Wider Lens series. Jerry Flowers is bringing encouragement about the patterns of your life and posture of your heart as we talk through his new book Heart Rehab: Finding the You God Created You to Be. Lean into the discomfort, create disciplines for preparedness, and surrender your need for control in order to step into your true calling as a son or daughter of the Lord Almighty. He loves you, he is for you, and we can trust him with our hearts!   Episode Highlights: Stop blaming everyone else. Take time for self reflection.  If we invite God in, He can use all seasons for our good and growth. Intimacy with the Lord allows us to grow into the people God created us to be.  Discipline and preparation go hand in hand. The more disciplined you are, the more prepared you are for what God has next.  Culture influences us to mislabel our fears, thoughts and anxieties. Make sure you are labeling them correctly. Strong core beliefs help us combat the lies of society and satan. Quotes from Today's Episode: I recognize many times, our placement in life isn't just because of problems, it's because of patterns. -Jerry Flowers Patterns reveal character. -Jerry Flowers Patterns are one of the ushers to certain seasons. -Jerry Flowers We want to blame the enemy, but we have to look at ourselves too. -Jerry Flowers Be aware of the enemy, for sure. But I think sometimes that keeps us from taking responsibility for our part. -Jerry Flowers It may not make sense right then, but later it'll make sense. -Jerry Flowers I see things that God put me through, before we got married, that helped me when I got married. -Dr. Kim We want to be whole enough where the Lord can pour into us and we can pour back out.- Jerry Flowers If you want results, you lean into discomfort.- Jerry Flowers What changed for me is realizing that my mind can lie to me. -Jerry Flowers A Wider Lens: Questions for Self Reflection Look at your daily life and identify one unhealthy pattern you've grown comfortable with. What one discipline could you start practicing to combat this pattern and prepare for what God has next? Identify an area of your life you haven't fully surrendered to the Lord. Choose a Scripture verse to meditate on as you commit to trusting Him completely.   Mentioned in this Episode: Website: Jerryflowersministries.com ; redefinedtv.net Facebook: facebook.com/JerryFlowersMinistries ; facebook.com/@redefinedtv Instagram: instagram.com/jerryflowers.jr ; instagram.com/redefinedtv YouTube: youtube.com/@Beredefined TikTok: tiktok.com/@jerryflowers.jr Heart Rehab: Finding the You God Created You to Be  

Send us a textMary Lambert joins us for a powerful, intimate, and joyful conversation that bridges music, activism, and radical self-love. From her breakout with Same Love to her new anthem The Tempest, Mary shares how art becomes resistance and why fat liberation is at the heart of her work.We dive into:The story and politics behind The Tempest and why every lyric matters.How Mary's journey through poetry, community, and visibility shaped her fat liberation voice.Building the Fat Friendly Medical Provider Directory and fighting for healthcare access.Intimacy, desire, and why pleasure isn't an act of charity, it's liberation.The power of workshops like Everybody Is A Babe to dismantle shame and spark joy.Mary also gets candid about sex toys (yes, “The Boss” makes an appearance), queer joy, playlists for pleasure, and how choosing authenticity has transformed her life.✨ This episode is a reminder that liberation isn't just personal, it's collective, messy, sexy, and revolutionary.Learn more about Mary at marylambertsings.comSupport the showBigSexyChat.com appreciates you and our community. We do this for you, so if you ever have any ideas about a subject we can discuss for you, email us at bigsexychatpod@gmail.com.You can find us on Facebook and Instagram as BigSexyChat.Twitter (who knows how long we will stay there) is BigSexyChatPodCheck out our merch at www.BigSexyTees.com (credit to Toni Tails for setting this up for us!)Chrystal also sells sex toys via her website BlissConnection.com and you can use the code BSC20 for 20% off. Big thanks to our Sponsor Liberator Bedroom Adventures. We ADORE the products from Liberator. And, to be clear, we all loved their products even before they became a sponsor!

For so many high-achieving women, intimacy becomes the one area of life that feels stuck, overwhelming, or even like another thing on the to-do list. In this episode, we're diving into why with licensed sex therapist Vanessa Marin (featured in The New York Times, Oprah, and more) and her husband and co-host Xander Marin. Together, they break down the hidden pressures, perfectionism, and cultural myths that block successful women from experiencing the intimacy they actually want. From navigating the mental load and shifting gender roles to rebuilding desire after dry spells or postpartum, this conversation is equal parts practical and refreshing. Vanessa and Xander share simple tools you can start using right away, like transition rituals, the “Get Intimate” method, and reframing foreplay - so intimacy feels less like work and more like connection. Whether you're in a season of burnout, carrying the breadwinner role, or just craving more closeness, this episode will help you feel seen and give you realistic steps to reignite your relationship. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - Why successful women struggle with intimacy more than you think 02:45 - The hidden role of perfectionism and pressure in the bedroom 06:30 - Transition rituals that shift you out of “go mode” into connection 11:55 - How changing gender roles and breadwinner dynamics impact intimacy 19:40 - Mental load, resentment, and why it kills desire 28:15 - The “Get Intimate” method: gratitude, eye contact, and touch 33:50 - Why desire is overrated + what to focus on instead 38:35 - Rethinking foreplay: starting long before the bedroom 49:10 - Breaking dry spells and postpartum “sexual inertia” 55:25 - Is there a ‘normal' frequency couples should be having sex? 01:01:10 - Practical tools for better quality, more connected intimacy RESOURCES + LINKS Explore Vanessa And Xander's Membership Deeper → Get 3 Months For Just $97 With This Link. Join The Société: Build Your Freedom-Based Business™ With Systems, Templates, Coaching + Community. Just $97/Month. Imagine Having Natalie As Your CMO, On Call 24/7 To Help You Make The Right Moves In Your Business. That's Exactly What You Get With Bossbabe AI The Freedom Engine™: AI-Powered Strategy And Systems That Show You What To Sell, How To Sell It, And How To Scale - Without All The Guesswork. Learn More And Unlock It Here. Sign Up For Our Free Weekly Newsletter & Get Insights From Natalie Every Single Week On All Things Strategy, Motherhood, Business Growth + More.  Drop Us A Review On The Podcast + Send Us A Screenshot & We'll Send You Natalie's 7-Figure Operating System Completely FREE (value $1,997).

Maintaining Intimacy After Kids with Vanessa & Xander Marin Parenthood changes a lot, including your relationship. In this episode, Rachael sits down with New York Times bestselling authors (and real-life couple) Vanessa and Xander Marin to talk about keeping intimacy alive after kids, the infamous “roommate phase,” and why honest conversations about sex matter more than you think. Vanessa, a sex therapist with 20 years of experience, and Xander, her “regular dude” husband, share how they've navigated their own ups and downs while helping millions of couples do the same. They dive into the five conversations from their book Sex Talks, why emotional connection is the real foreplay, and what to do when one partner isn't feeling ready for intimacy. Plus, they share how couples therapy, online courses, and even their own podcast have helped them, and can help you, build a more connected, playful, and passionate relationship. Inside this episode: The inspiration behind Sex Talks and the five key conversations couples need to have How to break out of the “roommate phase” and reconnect Tips for navigating mismatched readiness for intimacy Why emotional connection is just as important as physical intimacy The benefits of couples therapy (and other resources that work) How to keep sex and pleasure on the table even when life is hectic Mentioned in this episode: Instagram: @vanessaandxander Vanessa & Xander's Online Courses Rediscovering Us: Intimacy and Sex for Parents Course Pillow Talks Podcast Sex Talks Book If you enjoyed this episode, please rate 5⭐️ and write us a review! ⬇️ ✨For sleep support and resources, visit heysleepybaby.com and follow @heysleepybaby on Instagram!

Here's how to initiate more intimacy, affection and erotic connection. Initiating can be vulnerable, scary and intimidating – but it doesn't have to be. The more you practice, the easier it gets and you can create a culture in your relationship where you can fearlessly initiate, respond authentically and together create more of the kinds […]

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From nursery rhymes to boardrooms, men are taught to keep their guard up at all costs. In this raw conversation, David explores why our walls must crack for us to truly live. Drawing on personal stories of divorce, family illness and business collapse, he challenges the myth that strength equals stoicism and invites listeners into a more authentic way of being.Key Takeaways:~[00:00] The wall cracks — challenging the myth that strength means never breaking.~[02:00] Fear of being seen — why people in positions of power hide their true selves.~[04:40] Put down your guard and let in your God — accessing the soul beyond the armor.~[06:30] Take down your own walls — the cost of keeping your heart hidden and the invitation to self‑responsibility.~[08:50] The price of hiding — from dementia to divorce, what it costs you and those you love when you refuse to crack.

In this powerful and deeply intimate episode of The Art of We, Krista sits down with visionary movement educator Melissa Michaels to explore the intersection of sexuality, embodiment, and healing—through the lens of Melissa's late-stage ovarian cancer journey. What unfolds is a story of profound transformation, where trauma, loss, and surgery become portals into deeper intimacy, love, physical pleasure and devotion to life force.“The Art Of We” podcast with Krista Van Derveer and guest Melissa Michaels00:00 — Intro00:55 — Melissa's cancer diagnosis story and background06:15 — The ritual of preparing for surgery & calling in community09:46 — The post-surgery declaration12:19 — Intimacy, partnership, and scarred bodies15:34 — How Melissa worked with pain and chemo23:12 — Building intimacy with others & the sacredness of presence25:36 — Chemotherapy: grief, gratitude, and identity shifts28:21 — Reclaiming sexuality and orgasm after cancer33:04 — The long road back to intimacy and physical connection 36:36 — Balancing solitude and partnership with devotion to aliveness40:58 — Melissa's guidance for returning home to your body46:19 — What this journey taught her about love, humanity, and the path forward50:22 — Where to learn more about Melissa's work & the short film Twisted GiftReach out with your thoughts, experiences, and topics you want to hear about. We love hearing from you!Resources Mentioned: Our Top 10 Relationship Agreements Golden BridgeGolden Girls GlobalGet in Touch: The Art Of We WebsiteThe Art of We Instagram Integrative Psychiatry Institute: Psychedelic Therapy TrainingRate, Review & Follow on Apple Podcasts: If you want to show your support for this show, please consider rating and reviewing The Art of We on Apple Podcasts. To do that, open the Apple Podcasts app and search for The Art of We. Scroll to the bottom of the package and rate with 5 stars. Let us know your favorite part of the show by clicking “Write a Review.” While you're at it, follow the show so you can get the latest episode delivered to your phone weekly. Listen to the episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube or on your favorite podcast platform.

Guest, Liz, mid 40s female, asks about how to navigate a desire discrepancy with her husband, so it feels fulfilling versus filling a quota. Dr. Jenni and Daniel explain asynchronous arousal; and offer tips on how lower desire partners could be invited with more space and intention; while Daniel offers insight into the higher desire partner's thinking process. They offer a playbook on why desire discrepancy can be so polarizing for couples, with tactical solutions on how to understand and resolve it- to include moving your mindset from obligation sex to a gift.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this tender and powerful coaching session, Christine works with SJ—a single mother who has done tremendous inner work but still wonders if something is blocking her from partnership. Together, they explore the difference between apathy and protection, generational patterns, and the fear of letting someone see you at your most vulnerable. As SJ opens up about her history, caregiving responsibilities, and longing for connection, Christine reflects back the progress she's already made and challenges the belief that there's “a problem” to be solved. Instead, this conversation shows how surrender, self-love, and reframing our stories can transform what we see as liabilities into pathways for deeper intimacy. If you've ever felt “stuck,” compared your progress to others, or believed that your life circumstances made you unlovable, this episode will help you soften those fears and recognize the growth already alive within you.   Consider/Ask Yourself Do you sometimes confuse surrender with apathy? Have you felt so self-sufficient that there's little room for anyone else? Do you carry the fear that your challenges or past make you undesirable in relationships? How might it feel to let someone witness you in your weakest moments and discover that you are still worthy of love?   Key Insights and A-HAs Not every challenge is a “problem” to be solved—sometimes there's no problem at all. What looks like apathy may actually be self-protection. True partnership is about interdependence, not codependence. Intimacy often deepens when we let others see us in our hardest moments. Shifting your inner language and beliefs can change how others experience your life story.   Upcoming Event Christine's Women's Retreat Join Christine for a life-changing experience where you'll release old patterns, reconnect with your truth, and step into the next level of your life. Date: October 17, 2025 Location: San Diego, CA Register: christinehassler.com/retreat   Social Media + Resources: Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler @ChristineHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram @SacredUnionCouples on Instagram Email: jill@christinehassler.com — For information on any of my services! Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show! Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches.

When homosexuality enters a marriage, it can feel like the ground has been ripped out from beneath you. Confusion, pain, and even questions about your own worth can overwhelm your heart. You're not alone—and there is a way forward. In this episode of The Bridge Between Us, host Melinda Patrick welcomes back Joe Dallas along with his wife Renee Dallas to speak directly to spouses, strugglers, parents, and ministry leaders who long to understand the impact of homosexuality in marriage. Drawing from years of experience, Renee shares the AFTER acrostic—five practical steps that guide spouses toward healing—and explains the three types of wounds that can deeply affect a marriage in these moments. Together, Joe and Renee point to the root issues beneath homosexuality and reveal the two essential steps every person must take if they want to experience restoration and hope. You'll walk away with: Clarity on the three types of wounds that surface when homosexuality impacts a marriage Insight into the root issues of homosexuality The two major steps toward healing that every person needs A renewed belief that if there is good faith on both sides, there is hope for restoration This conversation is not just information—it's a lifeline of truth, compassion, and hope for every person navigating the heartbreak of homosexuality within marriage.   Prior episodes that relate to this episode: Longing for Intimacy, Walking in Freedom Eps 99 with Amy Riordan Christians In a Cancel Culture Eps 17 with Joe Dallas    Connect with Joe Dallas:  Joedallas.com Find out more about The Challenge for Pastors   Connect with Renee Dallas:  WifeBoat   Books mentioned: Order The Daring Rescue here.   Stay up to date by signing up here to receive the Bridge Newsletter.   To share your thoughts: Leave a note in the comment section below or send me an email to: melinda@melindapatrick.org Leave an honest review on ITunes or your favorite podcast app. Your ratings and reviews help get this message of hope into the hands of hurting families and I read each one.

Nate Bagley is a relationship wizard – he's a researcher and teacher who has traveled the country in search of what works in lasting, deep relationships.In this episode, we dive into the purpose of marriage, identifying and labeling problems, why we fall in love vs. staying in love, moving through the roommate syndrome, the growth cycle of marriage, how to address triggers, conflict, anxiety, and high- and low-desire dynamics. Nate shares the six principles of sexual health and the impact of pornography in relationships. Watch this episode on the Heare YouTube channelConnect with Nate and learn more:Growth Marriage websiteGrowth Marriage PodcastSign the Heare OathCheck out Heare GearSupport the Brotherhood with a tax-deductible donation

Have you ever censored what you are going to say based on your judgement of what someone else will think about you, or based on whether it is a right or wrong choice? What if you had total trust in you and were vulnerable enough to honour you instead? This episode of Choice, Change and Action is a part-recording of a Five Elements of Intimacy class that Simone Milasas facilitated. The Five Elements of Intimacy are: trust, honor, allowance, gratitude and vulnerability. If you actually embrace the Five Elements Of Intimacy and have those Five Elements Of Intimacy with you, you can have the freedom to have everything in your world. Find out what it would be like if you had those Five Elements of Intimacy with you. Keys Takeaways The Five Elements Of Intimacy Question Takes You Out Of Conclusion The Five Elements of Intimacy With You A Five Elements of Intimacy Exercise No More Mediocrity What Future Would You Like To Create? Daily Questions: “What element of intimacy am I not being?”  “What am I choosing this for?” “Is this honoring of what it is that I would like to create as a future?” Useful Links: The Clearing Statement explained Access Consciousness Website Choice, Change & Action Podcast Instagram Follow Simone Milasas Simone's Website Simone's Instagram Simone's Facebook Simone's YouTube Simone's Telegram Simone's Contact Email  Play with Simone Milasas The Profit Club membership Getting Out of Debt Joyfully Taking Action online video course All Upcoming Classes with Simone Past Class Recordings As Mentioned In This Episode The Five Elements of Intimacy class recordings this episode came from: https://www.simonemilasas.com/offers/JBjkXvx4/checkout  The Five Elements of Intimacy October 2025 online class: https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/class-catalog/access-special-classes/relationships-done-different/The-Five-Elements-of-Intimacy---Series_638910972081676663/?occ=38572  Richard Says Goodbye: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt6865690   

In this episode, Hannah goes over four strategies to have more connection and intimacy in your relationship when life is busy and stressful. To learn more about getting our support, click here: https://hannah-deindorfer.mykajabi.com/90-day-intimacy-accelerator

Struggling with communication, intimacy or dating after divorce?Meet Jonathon Aslay!Jonathon is a renowned midlife dating and relationship coach. His focus has expanded into a deeper, essential philosophy of what it truly means to LOVE.  After losing his 19-year-old son Connor in 2018, Jonathon Aslay's grief led him on a soul-searching inner journey, where he became aware of an often-overlooked dimension of the dating conversation.  He realized that the process of dating reveals the most common emotional health issue faced by many singles seeking a partner: a distressing lack of self-worth, self-regard, and self-love.  Today, he is on a mission of encouraging both men and women to fully love themselves with a new book, "What The Heck Is Self-Love Anyway?"—packed with fun, engaging spiritual and personal growth practices—and his dynamic Mid-Life Love Mastery mentorship program, that inspires hundreds of people daily, around the world.Listen as Jonathon shares:- communication and emotional maturity after 40- how finances and intimacy are the No 1 predictor of divorce- why self-love is the foundation of lasting relationships- intimacy beyond chemistry- the pitfalls of today's dating app culture- why 2nd and 3rd marriages often fail- how to ask the right questions for emotional depth- ghosting, narcissism and love bombing- why we struggle to communicate and be vulnerable...and so much more!Connect with Jonathon:Website: https://www.jonathonaslay.comAdditional Resources:"What the Heck is Self-Love Anyway?" by Jonathon Aslay on AmazonListen to the Podcast, subscribe, leave a rating and a review:Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-to-improve-communication-in-your-relationships/id1614151066?i=1000728188565Spotify:   https://open.spotify.com/episode/4JpNvAwjsGs18YNs8AQmIx?si=rh4StLSZQ8SBAjLxov0MGAYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ouhPKM3z2Do

Learn how chronic illness, hormonal imbalances, and lifelong medical conditions can impact intimacy in your marriage. | “Beautiful people do not just happen. They are forged through trials, struggles, and loss.” —Elisabeth Kubler Ross Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today's episode: Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this vulnerable and empowering conversation, host Tera Wages sits down with Ally Bullock — licensed marriage and family therapist, Head of Relationships at Paired, and creator of Relationships with Ally. Together, they unpack the realities of sex and intimacy after parenting. From mismatched desire and the weight of invisible labor, to the science behind stress and sexual satisfaction, Ally shares practical strategies couples can use to reconnect. Listeners will hear real-life stories, expert insights, and powerful tools — like co-regulation rituals, responsive desire reframes, and scheduling intimacy — that can transform the way partners approach connection in the busiest seasons of life.Chapters:00:00:00 - Welcome to Fatherhood Field Notes Pocast00:00:27 - Meet Aly Bullock00:01:50 - 45% of parents report less intimacy00:03:58 - Aly's Background: A marriage and family therapist with the Paired app00:05:48 - Aly's Personal Story: Marriage, three kids, and "chaotic" life00:07:28 - How does sex change after kids?00:08:13 - Why Intimacy Decreases00:09:00 - Feeling "touched out" after 10 years of pregnancy/nursing00:10:17 - Desire Types: Spontaneous vs. responsive desire explained00:12:55 - Use a shared note to "brain dump" the mental load00:15:47 - Reframing Expectations: Embrace a new normal post-kids00:17:45 - Why to Schedule Sex00:19:06 - Study: A mother's stress predicts lower sexual satisfaction for both partners00:20:00 - A New Approach: Schedule "intimacy time," not just sex00:24:08 - A Moment of Empathy: Tera's husband experiences overstimulation00:25:37 - Tip for Overstimulation: Co-regulation with back-to-back breathing00:28:03 - Use AirPods with relaxing music during sex00:28:53 - Study: Small, daily intimate acts boost satisfaction00:30:18 - Identity Matters00:31:21 - Tip on Identity: Separate your "parent" and "partner" roles00:32:21 - Intimacy can get better with time00:41:41 - Recap: A summary of the episode's key tips00:42:13 - Resource: The Paired app's "Recharge Your Sex Life" course00:42:57 - Where to find AlyLinks and Resources:Relationship with Aly Website:Aly on InstagramAly on ⁠LinkedIn⁠:⁠ Aly BullockDownload the Core Emotion Wheel: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://youtube.com/@connectioncodes?si=phORYBsGMOOrj9mA⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Find out how to become a Certified Coach:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://connectioncodes.co/certified-coaching⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Find a coach:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://connectioncodes.co/coaches#find-a-coach-menu⁠

Bad sexual advice is one of the top reasons couples struggle early in marriage, often because most grow up with distorted expectations about what a healthy sex life looks like.• Sex advice is usually messed up because the topic is taboo in most families• Most couples start marriage with distorted expectations about their sex life• "A Good Wife Keeps Her Husband Satisfied" creates an unhealthy obligation dynamic• Healthy sex is mutual with both partners free to say yes or no• The myth that "men always want it and women never do" oversimplifies desire• Desire varies from person to person and changes in every season of life• Understanding "bridges to desire" helps couples communicate about intimacy• The myth that "great sex should happen naturally" creates disappointment• Most couples have one partner with spontaneous desire and one with responsive desire• Great sex takes communication, intentionality, and sometimes scheduling• Sex is a journey, not a destination – you'll grow and learn together• Sex is more about connection than performance• Communication is essential – you can't fix what you don't talk about• Sexual satisfaction gets better over time when you make it a priorityGo get your copy of Bad Marriage Advice on October 1st, and join me next week for a special episode where I'll interview my oldest son and his wife about what they wish they'd known before marriage.If you are ready to work with a coach around these topics, email me at: moni@monicatanner.com.Send us a text

Join Dave and Bethlie as they discuss the third book in this series entitled Books That Can Help and Why. This series they'll be discussing Sheet Music by Dr. Kevin Leman. About the author Dr. Leman is a psychologist and best-selling author He is also a radio and tv personality  He is a speaker About the book Dr. Leman says that sex is about the quality of your entire love life His book is a challenge to give your spouse the best gift ever—a sexually enthusiastic mate Not just a how to book but a do it yourself look at why to do it and how to do it better He writes about what goes on in our brains and in our relationship with our spouse and how to overcome some errors and also to use what we learn to our advantage A few good points “The physical aspect will usually take care of itself if the relationship is healthy. If you decide to become sexually adventurous as a couple, you're not going to do things perfectly, anyway; you're going to fail, and hopefully, you'll laugh about it when you do. Nobody's sex life is such that every experience is a ten. You may have to be satisfied with regular eights or sixes and even an occasional three. P 10 This book is written “to hep you understand what a unique and wonderful gift you are to each other, as well as the unique and wonderful ways you can express your love in a very physical and pleasurable sense.” P 10 “Sex is part of a relationship.” P 12 “Why do you think that God reserves sex for marriage? I believe that one of the reasons (which gets very little attention, unfortunately) is that good sex is not easy and it's very personal.” “Abstinence doesn't make the loins grow hotter, it just begets more abstinence.” P 184 “We live in a world that glorifies youth, uncommitted sex, and bodies that require a ridiculous amount of self-serving time in the gym. Let's turn that around. Let's reaffirm the bodies of women who have generously and selflessly produced life for one, two, three, or four babies. Let's appreciate those men who work hard to support their families and who don't have time to stop off at the gym and lift weights because they're eager to get home and play with their kids” p 238[‘;;  A  few challenges from the author about reading the book One to you who are living together but not married - this book is not for you “If you are living with someone outside of marriage, I suggest you move out and start over. The two of you may still make it work, but if you can't make it work outside of marriage without being sexually active, odds are that the marriage will soon fall apart anyway.” p. 19 One for those who are uncomfortable talking about sex in a forthright manner. He is rather frank. So be warned! So some good quotes: Good lovers learn to know their lover better than they know themselves. You've got to stop viewing sex through your perception alone and start viewing in through your spouse's eyes.” P 32 Great marital sex is about learning to love someone else the way he or she wants to be loved. p. 33 Some recommended chapters Learning to make music, the first night and beyond Very good for those about to get married Very good in preparing for the honeymoon For women only For men only 31 flavors (not ice cream) 31 suggestions for keeping your love life exciting and fresh Turning off the turnoffs Sex's greatest enemy For women - weariness Chapter 14 is called “too pooped to whoop” It gives practical advice for dealing with weariness For men - lack of pursuit on the part of the wife A man wants to be needed and wanted and prized Sex in the Winter - about getting older and how to face it and handle it well and enjoy sexual relations as you do

In this episode of Wives Not Sisters, Alix and Kayla put their relationship to the test with a compatibility quiz led by producer Lex. From cover-stealing confessions to worst vacations, love languages, chores, intimacy, and financial teamwork, the couple dives deep into what makes their partnership thrive (and where it needs work). This candid and hilarious conversation shows that compatibility is about more than just matching answers—it's about laughter, growth, and resilience.Timestamps:00:01 – Intro + Producer Lex joins the mic01:09 – Who steals the covers?03:07 – Best and worst trips together05:22 – Karaoke or dance party?12:25 – Talking finances + shared goals18:54 – Communication struggles & therapy wins32:33 – Gratitude and love languages38:34 – Intimacy + the lesbian deathbed55:16 – Conflict styles & growth over time58:25 – Future goals + Pele energy#WivesNotSisters #QueerPodcast #CouplesGoals #CompatibilityTest #LGBTQPodcast #RelationshipGoals #QueerLove #LesbianCouple #PodcastLife #LoveAndLaughterConnect with us on social media: IG: @wivesnotsisterspod | TikTok: @wivesnotsisterspod Follow our hosts on Instagram: @kaylalanielsen @alix_tucker

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In this episode of the Supported Wife Society, the host delves into the often-overlooked concept of the mental load, describing it as the constant, invisible list of tasks and responsibilities many women carry.She shares her personal journey of how the mental load impacted her relationship with her husband, Glenn, and diminished their intimacy. She explains the importance of conducting a mental load audit to identify and share the responsibilities, thus alleviating the burden and fostering a closer connection in the marriage.Listeners are encouraged to download a free mental load audit and join the community for further support and guidance.00:00 Introduction to the Mental Load00:46 Defining the Mental Load01:26 Personal Story: Managing the Mental Load04:14 Impact on Intimacy and Relationship07:40 Solution: Mental Load Audit11:22 Invitation to Join the Community11:59 ConclusionGet your Mental Load Audit: Lemonprice.co/auditEnjoy the episode, everyone!How can you be part of the movement to equip women?1. Share the podcast!2. Leave a 5-star review!Here are the best ways for you and me to connect and grow together!Step 1: Subscribe to the PodcastStep 2: Download the Mental Load AuditStep 3: Let's Connect: https://www.lemonprice.co/coffeechatThanks for listening!If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to share this in your stories and tag me!  And don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review the podcast.CONNECT WITH LEMON:FacebookInstagramVisit the WebsiteJoin the Supported Wife Society

What does a healthy relationship look and function like? That's the focus of this 7-part series. The goal is to paint an accurate and aspirational picture of how two people behave in a conscious, loving relationship by discussing the seven components of heathy intimacy.   In this episode, you'll learn the fourth component of healthy intimacy: Affection.   One of the signs that a relationship is healthy is that there is a lot of physical affection. There is touching, kissing, holding, hugging, and of course, sexing. And in this episode, you'll hear all about affection and sex while dating as well as how it occurs in an established relationship.   This is a very important and complicated issue to understand, so don't miss this episode!   Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:   Roy's Website: https://coachingwithroy.com   Roy's Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/   Roy's 4 Books: ·      Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/ ·      Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR ·      Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh ·      A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K     Roy's Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/   Roy's Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.   The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

Send us a textIn this episode we start a two-part mini series on Intimacy with God. Technology is evolving at an amazing pace! We have more resources than ever available to help us in our Christian walk. But not all our good. While some will enrich our time spent with God one - on - one, others will derail it and possible lead us into heresy! What constitutes spending time with God and what doesn't? What is good, true, honorable, just,  pure, lovely, commendable, excellent, and worthy of praise, and what is just lies and garbage? Join us as we look at some of the most popular resources that are not just a waste of your time, but could be making you spiritually malnourished!Thanks for tuning in! Be sure to check out everything Proverbs 9:10 on our website, www.proverbs910ministries.com! You can also follow us on Facebook, Instagram, Rumble, YouTube, Twitter, Truth Social, and Gettr!

 Today's sermon explored the foundational truths of marriage through the lens of Ephesians 5:31 and the Genesis creation account. Using the metaphor of marriage as a garden, we examined how agape love—selfless, sacrificial love—is only possible through the Holy Spirit, not by human effort. The “soil” of marriage, as described in Genesis, is not perfect but good, and it is in this soil that God calls us to subdue sin and grow in sanctification. The sermon highlighted how the fall introduced shame, blame, and conflict into marriage, transforming it from a place of vulnerability and safety into a battleground for sanctification. Ultimately, marriage is not about achieving happiness or perfection, but about God using our spouse to shape us into the likeness of Christ, with prayer and humility as essential tools for this journey.

Join Dan and Stephanie as they speak about the importance and power of holy matrimony. Don't miss out as they discuss how the presence of God increases through the sacrament of marriage!

What happens when your child's first love isn't a person at all… but a machine?
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Premiering at TIFF '25, the short film DISC brings us into the room of a couple recovering from a one-night stand. But, after a shocking event requires them to both jump into action, they must decide whether or not they're willing to jump in and fix it together. In this 1on1, we speak to director Blake Winston Rice about the nature of intimacy and what makes sex so awkward to talk about.DISC is playing at TIFF '25. For more information, check out tiff.net.

LISTENER DISCRETION ADVISEDTonight's episode contains mature subject matter including detailed descriptions of sexual encounters, assault, and religious themes that may be disturbing to some listeners. This content discusses explicit supernatural sexual experiences and is not suitable for children or younger audiences. Mentions of alternate sexual preferences and/or gender preferences are not my opinions, but those of the researchers and theologians who conducted the studies referred to. Please use discretion when listening.For centuries, people across cultures have reported terrifying nocturnal encounters with entities that seem to exist somewhere between nightmare and reality.Join the DARKNESS SYNDICATE for the ad-free version: https://weirddarkness.com/syndicateTake the WEIRD DARKNESS LISTENER SURVEY and help mold the future of the podcast: https://weirddarkness.com/surveyIN THIS EPISODE: Throughout history, countless individuals have awakened in the dead of night to find themselves unable to move, sensing a presence in their room that defies explanation. From medieval monasteries to modern suburban bedrooms, people describe encounters with entities that seduce, terrorize, and feed upon their victims in ways that blur the line between nightmare and reality. These accounts span every culture and continent, from ancient Mesopotamian texts about the demon Lilith to contemporary Reddit posts about beings that attach themselves like parasites to human souls. Tonight's journey explores the disturbing consistency of these testimonies across millennia, and asks why so many unconnected people describe experiencing the exact same phenomena - entities that wait until we're at our most vulnerable, when sleep and waking merge, to make their presence terrifyingly known.CHAPTERS & TIME STAMPS (All Times Approximate)…00:00:00.000 = Lead-In00:02:34.344 = Show Open00:05:34.552 = The Sleep Paralysis Connection00:20:18.980 = Modern Encounters, Ancient Methods00:43:26.557 = Breaking The Ancestral Chain00:53:48.871 = Show CloseSOURCES AND RESOURCES FROM THE EPISODE…“Sex and the Single Succubus”: https://weirddarkness.tiny.us/sexandthesinglesuccubus“Temptation To Terror, Seduction To Screams”: https://weirddarkness.com/incubus-succubus/Church of the Undead episode about sleep paralysis: https://weirddarkness.com/cotu-sleepparalysis/BOOK: “Sleep Paralysis: Historical, Psychological and Medical Perspectives” by Brian Sharpless: https://amzn.to/46HXtTI=====(Over time links may become invalid, disappear, or have different content. I always make sure to give authors credit for the material I use whenever possible. If I somehow overlooked doing so for a story, or if a credit is incorrect, please let me know and I will rectify it in these show notes immediately. Some links included above may benefit me financially through qualifying purchases.)= = = = ="I have come into the world as a light, so that no one who believes in me should stay in darkness." — John 12:46= = = = =WeirdDarkness® is a registered trademark. Copyright ©2025, Weird Darkness.=====Originally aired: September 18, 2025EPISODE PAGE at WeirdDarkness.com (includes list of sources): https://weirddarkness.com/DemonsThatFeedOnIntimacyABOUT WEIRD DARKNESS: Weird Darkness is a true crime and paranormal podcast narrated by professional award-winning voice actor, Darren Marlar. Seven days per week, Weird Darkness focuses on all thing strange and macabre such as haunted locations, unsolved mysteries, true ghost stories, supernatural manifestations, urban legends, unsolved or cold case murders, conspiracy theories, and more. On Thursdays, this scary stories podcast features horror fiction along with the occasional creepypasta. Weird Darkness has been named one of the “Best 20 Storytellers in Podcasting” by Podcast Business Journal. Listeners have described the show as a cross between “Coast to Coast” with Art Bell, “The Twilight Zone” with Rod Serling, “Unsolved Mysteries” with Robert Stack, and “In Search Of” with Leonard Nimoy.DISCLAIMER: Ads heard during the podcast that are not in my voice are placed by third party agencies outside of my control and should not imply an endorsement by Weird Darkness or myself. *** Stories and content in Weird Darkness can be disturbing for some listeners and intended for mature audiences only. Parental discretion is strongly advised.#succubusdemon #sleepparalysisdemon #paranormalstories #incubusattack #demonicencounters

In this heartfelt episode of Transform Your Life, Teresa Gallegos and Tonya Spangler dive deep into the realities of marriage, love, and partnership after massive weight loss. With two completely different perspectives—Tonya celebrating over 30 years of marriage with her high school sweetheart Bobby, and Teresa embracing newlywed life after finding love later in life—their stories shed light on the challenges and joys of building relationships through transformation.From navigating body image changes, intimacy after weight loss surgery, and shifting household routines, to finding balance when partners are on different health journeys, Teresa and Tonya keep it raw, real, and empowering. They share vulnerable moments about confidence, sex, emotional connection, and rediscovering joy in long-term partnerships, proving that love can evolve, strengthen, and thrive at any stage of life.✨ Key Topics Covered:How weight loss transformations impact marriage dynamicsBuilding intimacy and confidence after plastic surgeryBalancing different lifestyles and eating habits in marriageRediscovering love, fun, and passion in long-term relationshipsHonest conversations about sex, routines, and connectionWhy self-love and acceptance make for stronger marriages

Do You Love Me as Much as the Kids? A Conversation Every Couple Needs One of our friends recently asked his wife, “Do you love me as much as the kids?” and it sparked a powerful conversation about love, priorities, and intimacy in marriage. Many husbands have shared with us, through messages or emails, that sometimes they feel like they come after everything else, especially the kids. And yes, this can go both ways, of course.Instead of quickly answering, “Of course not! Duh!”, take a moment to reflect on your own marriage. Does your spouse feel the need to ask this? Why? It's not a bad question, it's deeply important. When discussed in a loving, thoughtful way, it can strengthen connection, clarify needs, and prevent resentment.In this episode, we dive into:Why husbands ask this question and what's really underneath itHow wives may unintentionally spark this concernHow to balance parenting and marriage without guilt or competitionConversation questions that can transform your connectionPlus 5+ Questions Couples Can Ask Each Other on this episode:When do you feel most loved and prioritized by me?Do you ever feel like the kids come before you, and if so, what does that look like?How can I reassure you that you're my spouse first, even in busy seasons?What would “balance” between marriage and kids look like in this season?What's one intentional or fun thing we could do this week to remind each other that our marriage comes first?Tune in for honest, heartfelt advice that will inspire you to keep your marriage at the center of your life. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

What does it take to shift from avoidant attachment to secure, engaged connection in just eight weeks? In this episode, Adam talks with a client who shares her powerful story of breaking free from lifelong avoidance and building safety in love. Topics Covered:

I know most folks yearn for deep intimacy and lasting love in relationships.And deep inside we have a hunch that's it's possible.But how do we make that happen?Modern love is a challenge to say the least.The current state of intimacy in most long-term relationships is not what most couples dreamed it would be.It's so easy to feel like you've lost the plot on love.It's so easy to feel like you're the problem.But what if that's simply not the case?What if there was a new model of approaching sex?One that could take the pressure off and support you in cultivating a vital intimate relationship lifelong?My guests today; Sarah Rose Bright and Graeme Waterfield have a lot to share on this topic.They're both seasoned practitioners and skilled teachers in the realm of Tantra and embodiment.Their warmth, authenticity and wisdom is rare and beautiful.I know they will inspire you as much as they continue to inspire me.Let's dive in!Dive deeper:Learn more about The Making Love Retreat for couplesVisit Sarah's siteVisit Graeme's site

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What if busyness isn't about the hours you have but about the wounds you carry? In this episode of Man On Fire, we explore how childhood trauma, poor habits and an overactive mind make time feel scarce. We reveal the physiological and spiritual practices that shift your relationship with time from pressure to poetry.

What happens when you throw kids into the mix of even the strongest marriage? Intimacy gets harder, resentment creeps in, and connection can get buried under exhaustion and endless to-dos. In this episode, we sit down with Jocelyn and Aaron Freeman — bestselling authors, relationship coaches, and parents — to explore how to keep your relationship thriving in the thick of parenting. From navigating sex and intimacy to building new ways of communicating and creating emotional safety, the Freemans share raw, practical tools for staying close. We also dive into how resentment builds, and why understanding each other's childhoods and triggers can strengthen your partnership while modeling a healthier blueprint for your kids.This episode is brought to you by: Nara Organics, a new one-of-a-kind baby formula, is the very first USDA organic certified whole milk formula that's made with no skim milk. Use code MORETHANMOMS10 for an extra 10% off their already discounted Starter Bundle for a limited time.Instagram: @wearemorethanmomsPatreon: More Than Moms Guides & Resources Join our IRL LA communitySubscribe to our NewsletterProduced by Peoples Media Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What's really happening in midlife—menopause, andropause, or just a “crisis”? It is unpacked how aging and declining hormones affect mood, sleep, drive, cognition, and sexual function, and why comprehensive testing and balancing can restore vitality. They reframe lovemaking as daily connection—communication, touch, and shared time—rather than performance metrics. Common barriers include poor circulation, excess weight, and limiting beliefs. Finally, they spotlight longevity role models and argue that living with purpose fuels healthy aging.Get a FREE chapter of Fork Your Diet: http://forkyourdiet.comFor Functional Medical Institute supplements https://shop.fmidr.com/Financial consulting for your future https://kirkelliottphd.com/sherwood/To Find out more information about the plan Kevin Sorbo uses with the Functional Medical Institute https://sherwood.tv/affiliate/?id=152...Watch “The Prayer List” On Amazon https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B09C8FW2CK/ref=atv_dp_share_cu_rVisit: www.okmoviestream.com/Our privacy policy & disclaimer apply to this video. You can view the details here:https://fmidr.com/privacy-policy#Midlife, #Menopause, #Andropause, #HealthyAging, #HormoneHealth, #RelationshipGoals, #Intimacy, #SexualHealth, #Longevity, #Purpose, #MentalWellbeing, #FunctionalMedicine

Send us a textWhat if the root of your disconnection, pain, or avoidance in intimacy wasn't brokenness—but misunderstanding?In this powerful episode, I'm joined by guest coach Sarah Vincelli, a biblically-rooted intimacy coach who helps women release tension, trauma, and shame stored in their bodies so they can experience intimacy the way God designed it: naked and unashamed (Genesis 2:25).We talk about:The power of emotional and physical safety in marriageWhy many wives feel “pressure to perform” and how to heal itUnderstanding pain and disconnection as protective survival patternsPractical bodywork tools like vaginal massage for nervous system healingThe role of feminine softness in receiving love, connection, and pleasureGod's design for intimacy that goes beyond the act and into onenessHow to invite your husband into the journey without shame or blameWhether you're struggling with pain, avoidance, or simply want deeper intimacy in your marriage, this episode will leave you encouraged, empowered, and equipped to reclaim your body and your heart—with God at the center.Follow Sarah on IGWork with Sarah Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I help Christian wives surrender fully, live Spirit-led, and be set apart according to God's design in marriage, motherhood, and life."Grab my free training here: https://chelsey.coach/highlevelwife-blueprint 2x certified Coach (John Maxwell Leadership, Kristen Boss SSLS)10+ years coaching experienceNASM-certified in Personal Training and NutritionMom of 5, Army wife 16 yearsSupport the show!The Chelsey Holm Podcast (The Chelsey Holm Podcast) It's hard to give your best when you don't feel your best- replenish your health with Ready Set Wellness: https://us.shaklee.com/site/chelseynoel/Nutrition/Ready-Set-Wellness/Ready-Set-Wellness-Bundle/p/89599

Today's guest is Laurie Handlers — Tantra educator, talk show host, and intimacy coach. She's the author of Sex & Happiness: The Tantric Laws of Intimacy and leads programs through Butterfly Workshops, Inc. and the International School of Temple Arts. In this ~40-minute episode, you'll learn: Why long-term sex gets better only with intentional effort (after the honeymoon & kids). The starter “effort stack”: schedule date night, learn to dance, have the conversation. How to decode complaints into clear requests—without hurting feelings. The training mindset: treat intimacy as a skill (courses/coaching > guessing). The presence playbook: breathe together, watch her face, phones down. The 10/10 framework women name: Presence, Connection, Safety, Communication, Skill. A simple boundary script and the repair rule: “First to return to love wins.” Listen now. ________________________________________________________________

Listen to three listeners as they ask me questions about how to handle their relationship! The theme is they all are facing infidelity or separation. 

If sex feels disconnected, mechanical, or just not happening, then the real block might not be desire… it might be safety.In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why emotional safety is the foundation of intimacy and how it creates the conditions for passion, polarity, and lasting connection. What you'll hear in this episode:What emotional safety really means and why “not fighting” isn't enoughHow polarity and turn-on are fuelled by safety in both masculine and feminine energyWhat is the hidden cost of ignoring safety, and how does it erode intimacy over timeWhat are some simple, daily practices that build safety, trust, and connectionWhy safety is the foundation of better sex and not just more sex.If you're craving sex that feels alive, nourishing, and deeply connected, this episode is your reminder: it all starts with safety. OUR NOVEMBER 20–24 GROUP RETREAT IS A FULL TANTRA EXPERIENCE AND REGISTRATION IS NOW OPENHere's what you'll experience:• Practices that bring your body into safety so pleasure can expand• Tools to rewire old patterns of shame, disconnection, or performance• Sacred intimacy rituals that turn sex into something nourishing and electric• Private time to take everything you've learned into your own bed

Learn about the power of books as you gain insights on what you can do to strengthen your life and your marriage in any season of life. | "A book is a dream you hold in your hands." —Neil Gaiman Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today's episode: Our Favorite Reads (Books) Join Intimacy Mastery Today Apply for Coaching With Alisa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Zach sits down with Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith, co-founders of the RaabSmith Team, to talk about their journey from betrayal and addiction to building a thriving marriage and coaching practice. They share candidly about Matthew's struggles with sex addiction and pornography, Joanna's experience of betrayal trauma, and the long process of stabilizing their relationship. What began as survival slowly transformed into something deeper, thanks to radical honesty, acceptance, and the development of their “Pyramid of Intimacy,” which helps couples rebuild step by step from honesty to safety, trust, vulnerability, and finally intimacy. Now leading a team of couples who help other couples, Matthew and Joanna demonstrate that it's possible not only to recover, but to thrive—turning personal pain into a pathway for others. Key Takeaways Addiction doesn't define the whole story - Matthew explains how accepting his past, rather than hiding it, became the turning point toward freedom and connection. Betrayal trauma is real - Joanna describes how deception and secrecy shattered her sense of safety, and why naming betrayal trauma was key to healing. Honesty is the foundation - Their “Pyramid of Intimacy” begins with honesty, because trust and connection can't exist without it. Recovery takes time and practice - Small, consistent acts of honesty, even about little things, helped restore safety and rebuild intimacy. Second chances can be stronger - Their “second ‘I do'” is richer and more meaningful than the first, because it's grounded in truth and intentionality. Purpose, passion, and play fuel intimacy - They emphasize that thriving couples cultivate not just survival, but shared joy and adventure. Guest Info Matthew and Joanna RaabSmithFounders of the RaabSmith Team, Matthew and Joanna are authors, speakers, and coaches specializing in betrayal recovery and intimacy building. Their book Building True Intimacy outlines their Pyramid of Intimacy framework. Together, they lead a team of couples who have walked through betrayal and now help others find honesty, healing, and deeper connection. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever felt like your resilience is being pushed to its limits, especially in the chaotic and complex world we live in today? Dr. Alexandra sits down with organizational psychologist, researcher, and New York Times best-selling author Dr. Tasha Eurich to delve into the insights from her new book, Shatterproof: How to Thrive in a World of Constant Chaos (and Why Resilience Alone Isn't Enough). In this conversation, they discuss the myths of resilience, as well as what a “resilience ceiling” is and how to identify when we've hit it. Most importantly, they talk about how to understand the limits of resilience so that we don't, as Dr. Tasha would call it, “grit gaslight” ourselves when our usual coping strategies don't work the way they used to.You'll come away from this episode with:A clearer understanding of the limitations of resilience and how to identify when you've reached your 'resilience ceiling'.A renewed perspective on the importance of acknowledging struggles as part of personal growth and healing (stoicism isn't the answer here!).Practical strategies and tools to enhance your self-awareness and well-being, such as Dr. Tasha's self-assessment for determining how much of our self-definition is about our work and ambition, and her 2-2-2 tool for managing overwhelm.Insights into the essential emotional needs that foster deeper connections in your relationships.Resources worth mentioning from the episode:The Resilience Ceiling Quizhttps://resilience-quiz.com/Shatterproof: How to Thrive in a World of Constant Chaos (And Why Resilience Alone Isn't Enough) by Tasha Eurichhttps://bookshop.org/p/books/shatterproof-how-to-thrive-in-a-world-of-constant-chaos-and-why-resilience-alone-isn-t-enough-tasha-eurich/9f0e6a8876113ed0Managing Back to School Stress on MasterClass:  http://masterclass.com/backtoschoolCouple Therapy Certification Course from PESI: http://pesi.com/dralexandraContinue the conversation with Dr. Alexandra Solomon:Ask a question! Submit your relationship challenge: https://form.jotform.com/212295995939274Order Dr. Alexandra's book, Love Every Day: https://bookshop.org/p/books/love-every-day-365-relational-self-awareness-practices-to-help-your-relationship-heal-grow-and-thrive-alexandra-solomon/19970421?ean=9781683736530Cultivate connection by subscribing to Dr. Alexandra's newsletter: https://dralexandrasolomon.com/subscribe/Learn more on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dr.alexandra.solomon/ Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Grab your wand and try new ways to make some magic in your relationship!  I'm sharing an extended foreplay idea, a fantasy jar full of surprises, and a sex match game (and more!) to increase your mojo in the bedroom!  Intimacy is vital to a healthy and happy relationship and I want you to thrive!  Abracadabra baby!Get COCO 20% OFF on TracysDog.com using code CRAVERS20

On this episode of The Wholesome Fertility Podcast, I am joined by intimacy expert and author Susan Bratton (@susanbratton)  to explore the powerful connection between passion, pleasure, and fertility. Too often, trying to conceive becomes mechanical and stressful, leaving intimacy feeling like a chore. Susan brings her 20+ years of experience helping couples transform “having sex” into “making love” and shares practical tools to reignite joy and connection on the fertility journey. We dive into her three keys to conception, relaxation, connection, and engorgement, and how practices like yoni massage, oxytocin-boosting foods, and conscious lovemaking can not only increase the chances of conceiving but also create a more vibrant and lasting intimacy. Susan also shares insights on male performance challenges, natural fertility-friendly products, and why cultivating oxytocin can be life-changing for both partners. If you've been feeling like intimacy has become all about the baby-making schedule, this episode will give you a refreshing and empowering perspective on bringing back the romance and planting the seeds for a lifetime of passion. Key Takeaways: Why fertility often makes intimacy feel mechanical and how to shift that. The three keys to conception from a sex expert's perspective: relaxation, connection, and engorgement. How yoni massage and nitric oxide support female arousal and fertility. Oxytocin's overlooked role in conception, joy, and long-term intimacy. Practical tools to reduce stress, reignite pleasure, and support both partners through TTC. Guest Bio: Susan Bratton (@susanbratton), widely known as the “Intimacy Expert to Millions,” is a champion for lifelong passion and connection. She is the co-founder of Personal Life Media, creator of the Better Lover brand, and CEO of The20, a company producing organic and botanical supplements to support vitality. A best-selling author of over 40 books and programs, including Relationship Magic and Revive Her Drive, Susan has been featured on ABC, CBS, NBC, and is one of the most downloaded guests on countless podcasts worldwide. Connect with Susan: Visit her websiteFollow her on FacebookFollow her on InstagramWatch her videos in YoutubeGet your free bottle here! —------------------------------------------------ For more information about Michelle, visit www.michelleoravitz.com Take the quiz and start your journey here: https://www.michelleoravitz.com/the-wholesome-fertility-journey To learn more about ancient wisdom and fertility, you can get Michelle's book at: https://www.michelleoravitz.com/thewayoffertility The Wholesome Fertility facebook group is where you can find free resources and support: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2149554308396504/ Instagram: @thewholesomelotusfertility Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thewholesomelotus/ Disclaimer: The information shared on this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not intended as medical advice. Please consult with your healthcare provider before making any changes to your health or fertility care.  

A marriage advice detox can transform your relationship by eliminating harmful myths and replacing them with practical communication skills. Bad marriage advice like "never go to bed angry" or "happy wife, happy life" often sounds good but leads to frustration and resentment when applied to real relationships.• Identify the marriage beliefs and advice you've been operating under• Challenge unhelpful advice by asking if it's actually serving your relationship• Replace false beliefs with communication skills that foster connection• Implement the 3% rule: daily communication, weekly date nights, yearly check-ins• Many couples give up prematurely because they're holding themselves to impossible standards• The common thread in all bad marriage advice is lazy communication• Write new rules specifically for your marriage instead of following generic adviceMy new book "Bad Marriage Advice: Debunking Myths That'll Make You Miserable and What to Do Instead" launches October 1st! Join my launch team by emailing moni@monicatanner.com or sign up for the waitlist at badmarriageadvice.com to be notified when it's available.Send us a text

"I belong to my lover, and my lover belongs to me; he feeds among the lilies."~ Song of Solomon 6:3Why isn't my sex life going the way I hoped it would?How do I talk to my spouse about sex after we've gotten into ruts?Is it possible to have more sex and better sex in our marriage?In Episode 82 of This Whole Life, Kenna is joined by Vonda Tiede, LMFT and Daniel Merboth to kick off a powerful three-part series on “Holy Sex” in marriage. Together, they dig deep into the “good news” about sex from a faith-filled, psychologically-informed perspective. Through candid conversations, the trio explores the prevalent myths and cultural lies surrounding sex, the harms of "obligation sex", and the importance of mutuality, communication, and healing within intimacy. They highlight how a couple's sexual relationship reflects God's creative genius and the need for curiosity and grace—not shame or rigid expectations. With personal stories, practical insights, and a compassionate challenge for listeners to reimagine intimacy, this episode offers hope, encouragement, and a fresh perspective on cultivating joy and connection in marriage. Whether you're newly married, have been married for years, or want to better support holy marriages, this episode invites you to approach sexuality as a sacred gift of love.Vonda Tiede is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in private practice in Minnesota. Vonda lives outside the Twin Cities of Minnesota with her husband, and together they have 6 children.Daniel Merboth is currently pursuing a Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy degree at the University of Wisconsin-Stout. Daniel lives in Minnesota with his wife and two children.Episode 82 Show NotesChapters:0:00: Introduction and Highs & Hards15:17: Falsehood about sex in marriage26:21: The consequences of "obligation sex"34:45: Moving from obligation sex to open communication45:17: It's not just about an orgasm1:01:50: Challenge By ChoiceReflection Questions:What is one specific thing that stuck with you from this conversation?When and how did you learn to communicate about sex? What were you taught about conversations involving sex?What falsehoods and obstacles keep spouses from being joyfully connected in their sex life?What "great news" about sex did you draw from this episode?How can you move toward greater connection and closeness in your emotional and sexual relationships with your spouse?Send us a text. We're excited to hear what's on your mind!Register for Figuring It Out: Real-Life Skills for Healthy Minds, Relationships, and Habits, a live, online course for anyone who's ready to thriveSupport the showThank you for listening, and a very special thank you to our community of supporters! Visit us online at thiswholelifepodcast.com, and send us an email with your thoughts, questions, or ideas.Follow us on Instagram & FacebookInterested in more faith-filled mental health resources? Check out the Martin Center for IntegrationMusic: "You're Not Alone" by Marie Miller. Used with permission.