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Basketball Illuminati
Valuing Imperfection

Basketball Illuminati

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 30, 2026 58:33


Tom and Mayes sit down with Brandon Payne of Accelerate Basketball, who reveals the advanced training principles behind Stephen Curry's sustained excellence, from protecting Curry's body with recovery-focused and underwater work to building faster decision-making through cognitive overload drills. Brandon also explains why Steph is an “AI learner,” the value of imperfect reps, how Jalen Brunson wins with patience and why youth athletes should consider sports like soccer and water polo. Plus what he has learned working with Trae Young, Tyler Herro, Davion Mitchell and Julian Champagnie this summer. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to the Illuminati YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Channel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Basketball Illuminati is now part of the Count The Dings Network. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join the Count The Dings Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to support the show, get ad free episodes and exclusive content at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/countthedings⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ILLUMINATI MERCH HAS RETURNED⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ - Check it out here:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bit.ly/CTDMERCH⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Basketball Illuminati! On⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Apple⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Email us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠basketballilluminati@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@bballilluminati⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@basketballilluminati⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Enniscorthy Christian Fellowship
Twelve Ordinary Men - PDF

Enniscorthy Christian Fellowship

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2026


Audio recording of the Sunday morning Bible Teaching given by Andrew Burt at Enniscorthy Christian Fellowship, Enniscorthy, County Wexford, Ireland on 27th September 2026

Enniscorthy Christian Fellowship
Twelve Ordinary Men - Audio

Enniscorthy Christian Fellowship

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2026 35:18


Audio recording of the Sunday morning Bible Teaching given by Andrew Burt at Enniscorthy Christian Fellowship, Enniscorthy, County Wexford, Ireland on 27th September 2026

Fluent Fiction - Japanese
Capturing Imperfection: A Zen Garden's Lesson in Light

Fluent Fiction - Japanese

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2026 16:02 Transcription Available


Fluent Fiction - Japanese: Capturing Imperfection: A Zen Garden's Lesson in Light Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/ja/episode/2026-09-25-22-34-02-ja Story Transcript:Ja: 紅葉が鮮やかに彩るある秋の日、愛子と武志は龍安寺の禅庭を訪れました。En: On an autumn day when the foliage was vividly colorful, Aiko and Takeshi visited the Zen garden at Ryoanji.Ja: 愛子は情熱的な写真家です。彼女は完璧な写真を撮りたいと願っています。En: Aiko is a passionate photographer, always wishing to capture the perfect photograph.Ja: 武志はその指導者。彼はレンズを通して見る以上に大切な何かがあると信じています。En: Takeshi is her mentor, believing there is something more important than what can be seen through the lens.Ja: 「今日はツキミですね。」と、愛子はカメラを手に取りながら言いました。En: "Today is Tsukimi, isn't it?" Aiko said while picking up her camera.Ja: 「完璧な秋の写真を撮りたいです。」武志は笑顔で彼女を見ました。En: "I want to take the perfect autumn picture." Takeshi looked at her with a smile.Ja: 「いい写真のためには待つこともありますが、流れに身を任せることも重要です。」En: "While waiting is sometimes necessary for a good photo, it's also important to go with the flow."Ja: 禅庭は静かで、砂利は丁寧に並べられ、岩が配置されています。En: The Zen garden was quiet, with gravel neatly arranged and rocks placed carefully.Ja: 木々の葉は赤や黄に輝いています。En: The leaves of the trees shimmered in red and yellow.Ja: 愛子はレンズを覗き込み、心を集中させました。En: Aiko peered through the lens, focusing her mind.Ja: でも、光は一定ではなく、雲が空を行き来するたび変わりました。En: But the light was inconsistent, changing each time clouds moved across the sky.Ja: 愛子は考えました。「光がベストになるまで待つべきか?それとも、今の瞬間に美を見つけるべきか?」En: Aiko pondered, "Should I wait until the light is at its best? Or should I find beauty in the moment right now?"Ja: 彼女はカメラを置き、庭を眺めました。En: She put down her camera and gazed at the garden.Ja: 風が吹き、葉が揺れました。その姿に心を動かされました。En: The wind blew, making the leaves sway, and she felt moved by the scene.Ja: 月が昇り、ツキミの時間が訪れました。En: The moon rose, and the time for Tsukimi arrived.Ja: 庭は月の光で美しく照らされました。En: The garden was beautifully illuminated by the moonlight.Ja: その瞬間、愛子はふと目を覚ましました――彼女の前に、影と光が絶妙に交差する瞬間がありました。En: In that moment, Aiko suddenly became aware of a fleeting moment where shadow and light intersected exquisitely in front of her.Ja: 愛子はすぐにシャッターを切りました。En: She quickly pressed the shutter.Ja: 撮れた写真を武志に見せました。En: She showed the photo she captured to Takeshi.Ja: 武志は微笑み、愛子に言いました。「これは素晴らしい。En: He smiled and said to her, "This is wonderful.Ja: 完璧なものを求めると見逃しがちな、自然で生の瞬間だ。」En: It's a natural, raw moment that might be missed when you're chasing perfection."Ja: 愛子は笑顔になりました。En: Aiko smiled.Ja: 彼女は新しい思いに気付きました。En: She realized a new thought.Ja: 完璧を追うだけではなく、今この瞬間も重要だと。En: It wasn't only about pursuing perfection, but also cherishing the present moment.Ja: 彼女は不完全さを受け入れ、その中に美を見つける自信を得ました。En: She gained the confidence to embrace imperfection and find beauty within it.Ja: その夜、愛子と武志は庭で満月を眺め、静かに祝いをしました。En: That night, Aiko and Takeshi silently celebrated, watching the full moon in the garden.Ja: 彼女の心には、新しい見方と感じ方が生まれました。En: A new perspective and way of feeling were born within her heart.Ja: 流れに身を任せ、カメラのレンズを越えた美を探し続ける旅。En: A journey where she would go with the flow and continue searching for beauty beyond the camera lens.Ja: それが愛子の新しい歩みです。En: This is Aiko's new path. Vocabulary Words:foliage: 紅葉vividly: 鮮やかにZen garden: 禅庭passionate: 情熱的なmentor: 指導者lens: レンズgo with the flow: 流れに身を任せるgravel: 砂利inconsistent: 一定ではなくpondered: 考えましたgazed: 眺めましたsway: 揺れilluminated: 照らされましたfleeting: ふとintersected: 交差するexquisitely: 絶妙にshutter: シャッターnatural: 自然raw: 生perfection: 完璧cherishing: 重要imperfection: 不完全さembrace: 受け入れpath: 歩みconfidence: 自信perspective: 見方autumn: 秋capture: 撮りたいmoonlight: 月の光journey: 旅

Voices Of Courage
How Words Can Heal Your Soul | Dr. Norman Rosenthal | Ken D Foster | #VOC S10EP9

Voices Of Courage

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2026 59:09


What if the medicine you needed most wasn't in a prescription bottle, but in a poem? In this episode of Voices of Courage, we explore the healing power of words, the wisdom of embracing life's hardest seasons, and the science behind why some of us feel the darkness more heavily than others. Ken sits down with Dr. Norman E. Rosenthal, the pioneering psychiatrist who first identified Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) and changed the way the world understands the connection between light, mood, and healing. Together, they explore how poetry can become prescription, how adversity can become a teacher, and how true health and happiness are possible in every season of life, not just the sunny ones.   Dr. Norman Rosenthal is an American psychiatrist, author, and coach best known for leading the team that first described Seasonal Affective Disorder and for pioneering light therapy as a treatment for it. A discovery that has brought relief to millions worldwide. A best-selling author many times over, his books include Transcendence: Healing and Transformation Through Transcendental Meditation, PoetryRx: How 50 Inspiring Poems Can Heal and Bring Joy to Your Life, The Gift of Adversity: The Unexpected Benefits of Life's Difficulties, Setbacks and Imperfections, and his newest work, Defeating SAD: A Guide to Health and Happiness Through All Seasons.

Profit First REI Podcast
Brett McCollum: How This Investor Lost Over $1 Million and Clawed His Way Back

Profit First REI Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 21, 2026 35:06


Brett McCollum ran his own investment operation for a decade, did hundreds of deals, and thought he'd made it, until back-to-back contractor issues and a market shift wiped out over $1 million in a little over a year and took his business nearly to zero. In this raw and honest episode, he shares what actually pulled him out, and it's not what most people would guess.Now leading REI growth at PropertyRadar and hosting the On the Clock podcast, Brett opens up about reacting instead of responding, abandoning his Profit First discipline to juggle buckets, and the marriage conversation that became the real turning point. He and David also dig into why most investors waste time with AI, and how PropertyRadar's distress scoring and court-sourced data help you reach real sellers first. If you've ever hit rock bottom or wondered if you should quit, this one is for you.Timeline Summary[2:20] – The biggest shift Brett has seen from getting a behind-the-scenes look at top investors[3:10] – His contrarian take that most people don't know how to use AI to produce real revenue[4:00] – Why AI gives you a dopamine hit and sends you down time-wasting rabbit holes[4:58] – The both/and: using AI to complement human performance, not as a crutch[6:38] – Why you should only take AI advice from someone who can prove it on a P&L[7:23] – Getting back to fundamentals first, then layering AI in[8:12] – The setup: buying 22 houses in under three months at the top of the 2022 market[9:34] – Contractor fallout and market signals he missed, costing multiple six figures[10:36] – Trying to fix it alone instead of asking for help, and reacting emotionally[11:00] – Breaking Profit First protocol by paying from different buckets to cover losses[11:42] – Losing over $1 million in a year and going nearly to zero, back to back to back[12:06] – The toll it took on him as a husband and father[13:17] – His father's pattern of quitting and the childhood poverty and homelessness behind it[13:57] – Setting pride aside, making phone calls, and finding great organizations to work with[14:19] – Tom Krol's line that rock bottom is a very firm foundation[15:41] – The "finish" tattoo and the decision to never be the guy who quits[16:02] – His wife's turning-point words: if we're right, we'll figure out everything else[18:10] – David on why seeing a counselor monthly is the engine behind his own ability to travel and work[20:56] – No man is an island, and the distinction that no one does the work for you but people are there for you[23:34] – Why Profit First is really the put-first-things-first principle applied to your whole life[23:53] – Brené Brown's The Gifts of Imperfection on courage, compassion, and connection[24:50] – What PropertyRadar is and its simple approach to seller data[26:00] – The distress score built on real signals, not arbitrary list stacking[27:03] – The dynamic, AI-driven lists that refresh every 15 minutes and auto-run outreach[28:03] – The court-sourced divorce and probate data that arrives before it's ever recorded[31:14] – Brett's Profit First advice: delayed gratification and discipline over reacting5 Key TakeawaysMost Investors Waste Time With AI — After seeing behind the scenes at hundreds of top operations, Brett's take is that AI has become a shiny object. Only take AI advice from someone who can prove it made them money on a P&L, and get your fundamentals right first.Reacting Instead Of Responding Kills You — When deals went sideways, Brett reacted emotionally, abandoned Profit First, and started juggling buckets to cover losses. That lack of discipline is what turned one bad deal into a million-dollar hole.Rock Bottom Is A Firm Foundation — Brett went nearly to zero but refused to quit, set his pride aside, and made the calls he'd avoided. Had he reached out a year earlier, he'd have saved himself a year of panic attacks and heartache.Your Marriage Is The Real Engine — The actual turning point was his wife telling him that if the two of them were right, everything else would follow. Investors who bring their spouse along and protect that relationship have the foundation to get through anything.Profit First Is A Tool You Have To Use — The model only works if you keep the discipline when the rubber meets the road. Follow it and a sideways deal won't hurt as badly. Abandon it under stress and you end up at zero.Links & ResourcesPropertyRadar (5-day free trial) — https://www.propertyradar.comOn the Clock podcast (hosted by Brett McCollum) — https://www.propertyradar.com/on-the-clockSimple CFO — https://simplecfo.comProfit First for Real Estate Investing by David Richter — https://profitfirstrei.comThe Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown — https://brenebrown.comThe 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey — https://www.franklincovey.comEnjoyed This Episode?If Brett's honesty about losing everything and clawing back gave you the nerve to pick up the phone and call the person you've been avoiding, then do it before you do anything else. Share this episode with an investor who's hiding in a hole through a hard season, and follow the show and leave a rating and review so more real estate investors can hear that rock bottom really can be a firm foundation.

Indian Hills Community Church
Imperfection in Imitation (Luke 9:37–50) | The Gospel of Luke (Part 67)

Indian Hills Community Church

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2026 57:16


Papatriarcat
BONUS #202 - Confiance, imperfection et droit à l'erreur - André Stern

Papatriarcat

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2026 25:03


Dans ce bonus, je retrouve André Stern pour prolonger notre échange autour de L'enfant qui construit. J'avais envie de revenir avec lui sur certaines phrases fortes, comme : « l'enfant devient principalement tel que nous le voyons, et aussi tel qu'il nous voit ». Beaucoup d'auditeurs et auditrices m'ont écrit à ce sujet, parfois avec des doutes ou des craintes. Avec André, nous précisons pourquoi cette idée n'est pas une injonction supplémentaire pour les parents, mais une invitation à la nuance. Nous parlons aussi du droit à l'erreur, de l'imperfection assumée et du fait de montrer à nos enfants que nous restons humains, vulnérables, changeants. Nous en profitons pour critiquer le culte de l'effort, hérité d'une vision patriarcale, et rappeler la force de l'enthousiasme comme moteur naturel. Enfin, nous explorons l'idée d'un « je multiple », toujours en mouvement, qui ouvre un espace de liberté pour soi et pour ses enfants. Salutations adelphes et solidaires ✊

Restore The Glory Podcast
Honoring Your Family

Restore The Glory Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2026 53:25


This week, Jake and Bob talk about the relationship between parents and children and what it means to honor one another while also being honest about the wounds we've experienced. They explore the dignity of parenthood, the responsibility parents have to create a loving and secure home, and their call to model honor by honoring their children first. They also discuss the honor our parents deserve, how to honor someone who has wounded us, and how to create healthy boundaries in family relationships.   Key Points: Many times, in families, we must learn how to honor others while remaining honest about the ways they have wounded us. Parents are a child's first representatives of God. But parents have their own wounds and sin and have the capacity to distort a child's understanding of God.  While children are called to honor their parents, parents are not meant to occupy the place that belongs to God alone. Getting married involves a healthy separation from one's parents so that a new family can be established. The honor owed to parents is connected to their dignity and role, even when they do not always live according to the dignity of that role. Understanding the stories and wounds of both parents and children helps us to form healthier relationships with family members. A child's wounds do not excuse disrespect, just as a parent's wounds do not excuse harmful behavior. Forgiveness is essential to breaking the cycle in which parents and children continually wound one another. Forgiveness does not mean returning to an unsafe relationship or abandoning the boundaries necessary to protect one's dignity and family. Healthy boundaries can create enough space for love to remain without allowing unhealthy attachment or enmeshment to continue. The amount of distance necessary in a relationship can change as circumstances, maturity, trust, and safety change. Parents have a responsibility to pursue their own holiness and healing rather than expecting their children to compensate for their wounds. Children are also called to examine their own hearts, repent of disrespect, and take responsibility for the ways they have wounded their parents.   Resources: Submit a Question for a Future Show   Chapters: 00:00 Introduction 03:38 What Does the Church Say About Family Wounds? 11:15 What Does it Mean to Honor One Another? 19:35 Recognizing Our Own Parent's Imperfections 26:23 Forgiveness within Families 32:48 The Responsibility of Parents 38:01 The Responsibility of Children 42:36 Discernment in Setting Boundaries   Connect with Restore the Glory:  Instagram: @restoretheglorypodcast  Twitter: @RestoreGloryPod Facebook: Restore the Glory Podcast   Never miss out on an episode by hitting the subscribe button right now! Help other people find the show and grow in holiness by sharing this podcast with them individually or on your social media. Thanks!

Fluent Fiction - Mandarin Chinese
Moonlit Reunions and the Sweetness of Imperfection

Fluent Fiction - Mandarin Chinese

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2026 15:24 Transcription Available


Fluent Fiction - Mandarin Chinese: Moonlit Reunions and the Sweetness of Imperfection Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/zh/episode/2026-09-16-07-38-19-zh Story Transcript:Zh: 苏州古城的秋天,空气中弥漫着桂花的芳香。En: In the autumn of Suzhou ancient city, the air was filled with the fragrance of osmanthus blossoms.Zh: 明宇站在家中宽敞的院子里,周围是古老的建筑,水渠流淌。En: Mingyu stood in the spacious courtyard of his home, surrounded by ancient buildings with water channels flowing nearby.Zh: 他抬头,看向高悬的圆月,心中默念,他要为逝去的奶奶准备一次完美的中秋节。En: He looked up at the high-hanging full moon, silently promising himself to prepare a perfect Mid-Autumn Festival in memory of his late grandmother.Zh: 家中灯笼高挂,庭院中影影绰绰。En: Lanterns hung high in the home, casting shadows throughout the courtyard.Zh: 明宇很早就开始准备这个节日。En: Mingyu had started preparing for this festival early.Zh: 他要做最香甜的月饼,要讲最动人的家族故事。En: He wanted to make the sweetest mooncake and tell the most touching family stories.Zh: 可是,他也知道,奶奶的中秋永远是那么温暖和团圆,而他能否达到这种状态,是个巨大的压力。En: However, he also knew that his grandmother's Mid-Autumn was always so warm and full of reunion, which put tremendous pressure on him to reach that same state.Zh: “明宇哥哥,我也来帮忙!”小表妹淑芬从一旁蹦跳过来,脸上挂着淘气的笑容。En: "Mingyu哥哥, let me help too!" His little cousin Shufen hopped over with a mischievous smile.Zh: 淑芬是个活泼的孩子,总是能带来无穷乐趣。En: Shufen was a lively child who always brought endless joy.Zh: 她的加入让这个任务又增添了几分混乱。En: Her involvement added another layer of chaos to the task.Zh: 明宇叹了口气,但心中却有了主意。En: Mingyu sighed but then had an idea.Zh: “好,淑芬,我们一起做月饼吧。”明宇微笑着说。En: "Alright, Shufen, let's make mooncakes together." Mingyu said with a smile.Zh: 他意识到,中秋节的核心,是一家人和乐融融。En: He realized that the heart of the Mid-Autumn Festival was a harmonious and happy family.Zh: 于是,他放下了自己必须什么都完美的想法,开始享受和家人的这段时光。En: So, he let go of his need for everything to be perfect and began to enjoy this time with his family.Zh: 院子里,一家人忙碌又欢声笑语。En: In the courtyard, the family was busy amid laughter and joy.Zh: 淑芬往月饼馅里加糖,结果加多了,好几个月饼都变得超甜。En: Shufen added sugar into the mooncake filling, adding too much, which made several mooncakes overly sweet.Zh: 大家都笑了起来,明宇也不禁被感染,觉得这样的不完美反而是美好的一部分。En: Everyone laughed, and Mingyu couldn't help but feel that such imperfection was actually a beautiful part of it.Zh: 夜幕降临,大家聚集在庭院。En: As night fell, everyone gathered in the courtyard.Zh: 随着一盏盏花灯升起,满月柔和的光洒在每个人身上。En: With each lantern that rose, the gentle light of the full moon bathed everyone.Zh: 明宇的姨妈宇涵坐在一旁,双手端着一碗热乎乎的桂花茶,她讲起了奶奶年轻时过中秋的故事。En: Aunt Yuhan sat to the side, holding a bowl of steaming osmanthus tea while she recounted stories of how grandmother celebrated the Mid-Autumn Festival in her youth.Zh: “能围在一起,就是最好的团圆。”宇涵慈祥地说。En: "Being together is the best reunion," Yuhan said kindly.Zh: 月光下,大家分享着甜美的月饼,故事和笑声交织,连夜风都显得温暖。En: Under the moonlight, they shared sweet mooncakes, with stories and laughter interwoven, even the night breeze felt warm.Zh: 此时此刻,明宇心中泛起一种从未有过的宁静。En: At this moment, Mingyu's heart was filled with a peace he had never known before.Zh: 完美不在于复制过往,而在于珍惜眼前的人。En: Perfection lies not in replicating the past but in cherishing those present.Zh: 家人的温情是最无可取代的团圆。En: The warmth of family is the most irreplaceable reunion.Zh: 中秋节这样度过,成了所有人心中珍贵的回忆。En: Spending the Mid-Autumn Festival in this way became a precious memory for everyone.Zh: 明宇明白,他不仅接过了奶奶的优良传统,更收获了一颗与家人相守的心。En: Mingyu realized that he had not only inherited his grandmother's excellent traditions but also gained a heart committed to staying with his family. Vocabulary Words:autumn: 秋天fragrance: 芳香spacious: 宽敞courtyard: 院子high-hanging: 高悬full moon: 圆月late: 逝去的lanterns: 灯笼casting: 影影绰绰touching: 动人reunion: 团圆tremendous: 巨大的mischievous: 淘气的lively: 活泼的chaos: 混乱harmonious: 和乐融融realized: 意识到imperfect: 不完美gentle: 柔和的steaming: 热乎乎的recounted: 讲起了cherishing: 珍惜irreplaceable: 无可取代的precious: 珍贵的inherited: 接过traditions: 优良传统committed: 收获water channels: 水渠bathed: 洒在endless: 无穷

Fluent Fiction - Hindi
Imperfection and Magic: A Navratri Celebration of Memories

Fluent Fiction - Hindi

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 16, 2026 18:20 Transcription Available


Fluent Fiction - Hindi: Imperfection and Magic: A Navratri Celebration of Memories Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/hi/episode/2026-09-16-22-34-02-hi Story Transcript:Hi: धूप की हल्की किरणें खिड़की से अंदर घुसकर बड़े से घर के फर्श पर अपनी चमक बिखेर रहीं थीं।En: The soft rays of the sun entered through the window, spreading their glow on the floor of the large house.Hi: ये वही घर था जहां हर साल मालिनी के परिवार में नवरात्रि का खास आयोजन होता था।En: This was the same house where every year Malini's family held a special celebration for Navratri.Hi: इस साल भी मालिनी ने उमंग और जोश के साथ तैयारियां शुरू कर दी थीं।En: This year too, Malini began preparations with enthusiasm and energy.Hi: घर की दीवारे पीले-नारंगी गेंदों के फूलों से सजाई जा रही थीं।En: The house walls were being decorated with yellow-orange marigold flowers.Hi: हल्का सुगंधित धूप वातावरण में मिठास भर रहा था।En: The light fragrant incense filled the atmosphere with sweetness.Hi: मालिनी सब कुछ सही और सटीक चाहती थी।En: Malini wanted everything to be perfect and precise.Hi: उसने पूरा आयोजन अपने हाथ में लिया था।En: She took charge of the entire event.Hi: लेकिन उसके दिल में एक डर था कि कहीं कुछ गड़बड़ ना हो जाए।En: However, there was a fear in her heart that something might go wrong.Hi: राघव, उसका भाई, हमेशा की तरह मुस्कुराता हुआ उसके पास आया।En: Her brother, Raghav, came to her with his usual smile.Hi: राघव पाए हुए पल का भरपूर आनंद लेने वाला व्यक्ति था।En: Raghav was someone who enjoyed every moment to the fullest.Hi: "दी, इतना मत सोचो।En: "Di, don't worry so much.Hi: सब ठीक होगा," उसने हंसकर कहा।En: Everything will be fine," he said with a laugh.Hi: मालिनी के चेहरे पर मुस्कान लौटी।En: A smile returned to Malini's face.Hi: वहीं, उनकी चचेरी बहन देविका विदेश से वापस आई थी।En: Meanwhile, their cousin Devika had returned from abroad.Hi: उसे भारतीय रीति-रिवाजों की थोड़ी कम जानकारी थी, लेकिन उत्साह में कोई कमी नहीं थी।En: She had little knowledge of Indian customs, but she was full of enthusiasm.Hi: उसने भी मदद की पेशकश की।En: She offered to help as well.Hi: जब वे बाजार गए, तो मालिनी को सुनहरे रंग की अनाज ढूंढ़ते समय परेशानियों का सामना करना पड़ा।En: When they went to the market, Malini faced difficulties while searching for golden-colored grains.Hi: "अरे, ये तो नवरात्रि का आवश्यक हिस्सा है," मालिनी ने चिंता से कहा।En: "Oh, this is an essential part of Navratri," Malini said with concern.Hi: राघव ने उसका हाथ थाम कर कहा, "काश हम इसे आसानी से जुटा पाते।En: Raghav held her hand and said, "I wish we could acquire it easily.Hi: पर देखो, सब चीजें हमारे वश में नहीं होती।En: But look, not everything is within our control.Hi: चलो, कुछ नया आजमाते हैं।En: Let's try something new."Hi: "मालिनी ने सोचा।En: Malini thought.Hi: वह हमेशा परंपरा से चिपकी रहना चाहती थी, लेकिन उसकी बेजोड़ उम्मीदें उसे थका रही थीं।En: She always wanted to stick to tradition, but her unmatched expectations were wearing her out.Hi: तभी देविका ने सुझाव दिया, "हमें यहाँ के पास की मंडी में जाना चाहिए।En: That's when Devika suggested, "We should go to the nearby mandi.Hi: शायद वहां कुछ मिल जाए।En: Maybe we'll find something there."Hi: "मालिनी ने दोनों पर भरोसा करने का निर्णय लिया और धीरे-धीरे चिंता को छोड़ दिया।En: Malini decided to trust both of them and gradually let go of her worries.Hi: घर में आते ही तीनों ने मिलकर नए विचारों से आयोजन की योजना बनाई।En: As they returned home, the three of them together planned the event with new ideas.Hi: समारोह में पारंपरिक और आधुनिक, दोनों तरह के पकवान तैयार किए और सजावट को नए ढंग से किया गया।En: Traditional and modern dishes were prepared for the celebration, and the decorations were done in a new way.Hi: अंततः, नवरात्रि का आयोजन एक शानदार सफल आयोजन बना।En: Ultimately, the Navratri celebration turned out to be a grand success.Hi: पूरे परिवार ने संगीत और नाच-गान के साथ इसे मनाया।En: The whole family celebrated it with music and dance.Hi: मालिनी को अहसास हुआ कि असली खुशी इस आयोजन की मिठास में नहीं, बल्कि अपनों के साथ बिताए इन पलों में है।En: Malini realized that the true joy was not in the sweetness of the event itself, but in the moments spent with loved ones.Hi: मालिनी ने मुस्कुराते हुए राघव और देविका की ओर देखा।En: Malini looked at Raghav and Devika with a smile.Hi: "यह यादगार रहा।En: "This was memorable.Hi: शायद परफेक्शन में नहीं, बल्कि इन यादों में हल्का imperfect होना ही असली जादू है।En: Perhaps the real magic lies not in perfection, but in the slight imperfection of these memories."Hi: "उद्घाटन समारोह की ढोल की आवाज, हंसी की गूंज और त्योहार की रौनक ने उसे बताया कि आयोजन का असली मोल इसमें बसा है।En: The sound of drumbeats from the opening ceremony, the echo of laughter, and the festival's vibrancy told her that the true value of the event lay within these moments. Vocabulary Words:rays: किरणेंglow: चमकcelebration: आयोजनenthusiasm: उमंगfragrant: सुगंधितincense: धूपprecise: सटीकcharge: हाथ में लियाfear: डरknowledge: जानकारीcustoms: रीति-रिवाजोंmarket: बाजारdifficulties: परेशानियोंgrains: अनाजessential: आवश्यकconcern: चिंताacquire: जुटा पातेcontrol: वश में नहींtradition: परंपराexpectations: उम्मीदेंworries: चिंताplan: योजना बनाईtraditional: पारंपरिकvibrancy: रौनकmemorable: यादगारimperfection: imperfectceremony: समारोहdrumbeats: ढोल की आवाजecho: गूंजvalue: मोल

Lynden Protestant Reformed Church
The Perfection of the Law

Lynden Protestant Reformed Church

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2026 52:51


1.Revealing our Imperfection 2. Kindling a Desire for Perfection Scripture: Romans 7 Text: L.D. 44

SoloMoms! Talk
Understanding Parenting as Leadership and a God-Given Ministry

SoloMoms! Talk

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2026 30:43 Transcription Available


1. Finding Your Strength: An Invitation to LeadHey mama, I know exactly what it feels like when you're barely keeping your head above water. I've been where you are. There were days when raising my two youngest sons who were just two and four years old when their father walked out felt like an impossible weight. In those moments, "thriving" isn't even on the radar; you're just trying to survive the next hour. But I want to share a truth that changed everything for me: to see our families truly flourish, we have to move from "getting by" to a mindset of parenting as leadership.In my own journey, this shift happened when I stopped trying to carry the burden of being a solo mom on my own shoulders. I realized that I didn't have to parent from a place of depletion, but could begin parenting from a position of power. This isn't a power we muster up ourselves; it's a power that comes from a radical realization I had while my boys were small: I wasn't actually alone. I was co-parenting with God. When we move from the struggle of isolation into a divine partnership, our entire parenting landscape changes.2. The Radical Shift: Co-Parenting with God [02:15]Viewing God as your co-parent is the foundational step for any mother seeking to lead her household with confidence. When my husband left, I hit rock bottom. I felt like I couldn't even parent myself, let alone two babies, and there were moments I wanted to end it all. But then my mind shifted. I realized that if God cared for me, He cared for the children He gifted me.By making God your primary confidant, you protect yourself from the judgment of others. I learned early on that some people are only waiting for you to tell them your problems so they can use them against you. Confiding in God instead reduces that crushing burden of decision-making and keeps your heart safe.My journey from Atlanta to New York is a perfect example of this partnership. I had my mind set on going to Florida. But I had asked for God's help, and He led me to New York. Even when it felt like the craziest idea ever, I followed His lead because I knew He had the answers I didn't. This partnership allows you to:Navigate Financial Uncertainty: Turning to Him when the numbers don't add up.Receive Decisive Guidance: Seeking wisdom for your children's future.Find Emotional Safety: Knowing you have a partner who never leaves.Before we can effectively lead our children, we must first allow ourselves to be led.3. The Oxygen Mask: Letting God Parent You [06:40]You know the airplane instruction: put on your own oxygen mask first. In parenting, this is a strategic necessity. If we don't address our own internal wounds, anger at the ex, impatience, or the deep insecurity that abandonment leaves us with, we can't lead our children well.I had to learn to let God parent me. I didn't know my earthly father, but I discovered through the Word that God is an all-powerful, loving Father. Adopting Him as your own Father provides the emotional security you need to handle conflict and life's challenges. As Proverbs 3:5-6 tells us, when we trust Him with all our heart and stop depending on our own limited understanding, He shows us exactly which path to take. When we ask Him to help us with our fear or frustration, that internal healing becomes visible to our children. They see us being led, and it teaches them how to follow.4. Leadership Through Demonstration & The Power of Apology [10:45]True leadership in the home is demonstrative. Our children internalize our reactions more than our instructions. We have to move away from that old "boss" mentality where the parent is always right just because they're in charge. Instead, we lead by example.One of the most powerful tools you have is a sincere apology. I grew up in a culture where parents never apologized, but I'm telling you, it builds respect. If you lose your temper and start cussing or carrying on because someone made you mad, apologize to your child. Say, "I'm sorry I acted that way; I let my emotions control me." That's a seed of accountability. You're teaching them how to handle their own future mistakes.Leadership in Action:Money Management: I have to be honest, I've struggled with a "scarcity mindset" myself, where you get money and feel you need to spend it immediately. My guest, Al Jones, saw this in his own mother. Leading means breaking those cycles of poor credit and impulsive spending.Health Habits: Modeling how we value our bodies through exercise and nutrition.Respect for Others: Refusing to gossip or speak ill of the children's father in their presence.Emotional Regulation: Showing them how to respond to hardship without losing control.5. Rewriting the Legacy: Breaking Generational Cycles [14:50]As the leader of your home, you have the power to recalibrate your family legacy. It's about rejecting the idea that "this is just in my DNA." My family had a legacy of high blood pressure and young people dying of aneurysms. But 40 years ago, my mother who is now 91, decided to focus on her health. She changed the trajectory. I think about Patti LaBelle, who saw the women in her family dying of cancer and decided she wasn't going to "buy into" that legacy.You can alter your bloodline. I see it in my sons. My oldest maintained celibacy until he was married at 38, and my younger sons have made intentional choices about their own health and lives. Legacy isn't one dramatic declaration; it's repeated behavior.The Legacy AuditAsk yourself these questions to see what needs to change:How does our family handle money?How do we resolve conflict? (Is it yelling, or prayer and apology?)How do we talk about people when they aren't around?Do we keep our word?How do we treat our bodies?Remember: some things can stop with you, and some things can start with you.6. The Ministry of Imperfection [20:00]Sustainable leadership means releasing the perfectionism trap. You aren't "screwing up your kids" because you aren't perfect. When we realize that children are a reward and a gift from the Lord (Psalm 127:3), we can finally relax. Your home is your primary ministry.You don't have to be perfect; you just have to be present and willing to let God work in your life right in front of them. Let them see you pray, let them see you learn, and let them see you change course. As Isaiah 41:10 promises, you don't have to fear or be dismayed, because God is with you, strengthening you and upholding you with His hand.7. Episode Summary & Scripture Reference TableScriptures for the Solo Mom's JourneyJames 1:5 - Seeking wisdom for parenting decisions from a God who gives generously without fear of rebuke.If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. (NIV).Proverbs 3:5-6 - Relying on divine guidance instead of personal understanding to find the right path for your family.Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take (NLT).Proverbs 22:6 - Investing in your child's future by training them through demonstrative leadership.Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it (WEB).Psalm 127:3 - Reframing children as a gift and a reward to lower parental anxiety and perfectionism.Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from him (NLT).Isaiah 41:10 - Finding the strength to lead by resting in the promise that God is upholding you.So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand (NIV).In this episode, we explore how a solo mom can transition from survival mode to parenting as leadership. By embracing the radical concept of co-parenting with God, mothers can alleviate the burden of decision-making and begin rewriting their generational legacy. Learn why demonstrative leadership and the power of apology are more effective than a "boss" mentality in shaping a child's character and breaking the cycle of scarcity.8. Call to Action (CTA)I invite you to take this journey further. If you need a daily reminder that you aren't walking this path alone, please check out my 21-day Christian devotional, Courage to Believe. It's available on Amazon and is translated into French, Spanish, Portuguese, German, and Italian (and it's free on Kindle Unlimited!). **Amazon affiliate links when you purchase I earn a small commission at no extra cost to you.I'd also love to connect with you. Follow me on Instagram @solomomstalk or subscribe to the SoloMoms Talk Podcast...

Better Known
Molly Mahon

Better Known

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2026 30:08


Printmaker Molly Mahon discusses with Ivan six things which should be better known. Molly Mahon is a distinguished British printmaker and textile designer renowned for her vibrant and original block prints. Offering a range of uplifting collections, each rooted in Molly's passion for the traditional and transformative craft of block printing, designs merge classic techniques with a fresh, modern aesthetic that feels timeless and joyful. Drawing inspiration from nature and her surroundings in the Sussex countryside, collections of fabrics, wallpapers and homewares are infused with a sense of homeliness that enriches and enlivens interiors. She has written a book ‘House of Print: A modern printer's take ono design, colour and pattern' which was printed in 2020 and this year is the 10th anniversary of the brand. The Anokhi Museum, Jaipur – A tiny museum that celebrates the enduring beauty of hand block printing and changed the course of my creative life. East Sussex – A county where creativity and nature exist side by side, from Charleston to Ashdown Forest, inspiring artists, writers and makers. The White Umbrella by Brian Sewell – A gentle fable about kindness, compassion and the extraordinary journeys that begin with a single act of care. Imperfections are the Luxury – The tiny variations in something made by hand are no longer flaws; they're what make an object unique, authentic and worth treasuring and more and more extinct! The Craftspeople Behind Beautiful Things – The remarkable makers behind the objects we treasure deserve far greater recognition - is this too connected to the one above? Florals and Stripes Belong Together – One of decorating's happiest marriages, proving that the most timeless interiors are built on contrast, confidence and a love of pattern. This podcast is powered by ZenCast.fm

Raising Boys & Girls
Episode 407: Joyful Anyway with Kate Bowler

Raising Boys & Girls

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2026 33:57


In this episode of Raising Boys and Girls, it features Sissy Goff and David Thomas in an in-person conversation with author and Duke professor Kate Bowler about her newest book, Joyful Anyway. Kate unpacks the difference between happiness (built from luck and circumstance) and joy (a surprising, embodied experience that can coexist with grief and hardship), drawing on her own journey through stage four cancer. She talks about letting go of the "professional happiness manager" role in parenting, how to be honest with kids about grief without burdening them, and how relinquishing control can open people up to deeper love and connection. Resources mentioned: Joyful Anyway by Kate Bowler Everything Happens for a Reason: And Other Lies I've Loved by Kate Bowler No Cure for Being Human: (And Other Truths I Need to Hear) by Kate Bowler Good Enough: 40ish Devotionals for a Life of Imperfection by Kate Bowler and Jessica Richie The Lives We Actually Have: 100 Blessings for Imperfect Days by Kate Bowler and Jessica Richie  Everything Happens with Kate Bowler The Rabbit Listened by Cori Doerrfeld . . . . . .  Sign up to receive the⁠ bi-⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠monthly newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to keep up to date with where David and Sissy are speaking, where they are taco'ing, PLUS conversation starters for you and your family to share! Order our new book, Capable, here!! See our speaking dates, purchase books and check out our courses here.. . . . . .  If you would like to partner with Raising Boys and Girls as a podcast sponsor, fill out our⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Advertise With Us⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ form. CHRISTIAN HEALTHSHARE MINISTRIES: Take charge of your healthcare by visiting chministries.org/solution. BOLL & BRANCH: Get 15% off plus free shipping on your first set of sheets at Bollandbranch.com/rbg⁠. Exclusions apply. QUINCE: Go to ⁠Quince.com/rbg⁠ for free shipping on your order and three hundred and sixty-five -day returns. SEEDS: Download the free SEEDS app and take one small step today. Plant your first seed and see what God can grow. THE ABSORPTION COMPANY: Visit absorbmore.com and use code RBG for up to 35% off your first order. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Inward with Rabbi Joey Rosenfeld
Teshuvah: Joyously Accepting our Imperfection and Retuning with our Unique Point of Deficiency

Inward with Rabbi Joey Rosenfeld

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2026 29:03


Join Rabbi Joey Rosenfeld as he guides us through the world and major works of Kabbalah, Hasidic masters, and Jewish philosophy, shedding light on the inner life of the soul.Support Reb Joey's Torah: ⁠⁠⁠https://inwardtorah.org/support⁠⁠

Let's Talk Scripture
The Intended Imperfections of the First Tabernacle

Let's Talk Scripture

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 26, 2026 70:27


The Intended Imperfections of the First TabernacleHebrews 9:1–10Hebrews 9 begins by looking back at the tabernacle, its furnishings, and the priestly ministry associated with the first covenant.The writer's point is not that the Mosaic system was flawed in origin. God Himself established it. Its limitations were intentional.The priests ministered continually. Access to the Most Holy Place was severely restricted. Blood had to be offered. And even after all of this, the sacrifices could not make the worshiper perfect in conscience.That is the central issue.The first tabernacle could regulate worship. It could provide ceremonial cleansing. It could temporarily address sin within the covenant structure. But it could not finally remove guilt or cleanse the conscience.All of it was pointing forward to what the writer calls:“a time of reformation.”That time arrives in Christ.The repeated gives way to the once-for-all.The restricted gives way to access.The external gives way to true inward cleansing.This is why the first tabernacle had to be replaced.Hebrews 9:1–10 — The Intended Imperfections of the First TabernacleRead the full teaching at Let's Talk Scripture.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

American Glutton
Ethan Suplee- Confidence and Competence

American Glutton

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2026 37:38


Ever wondered why reaching your goal weight doesn't automatically bring lasting peace? Ethan sits down with Paige Dorian to explore the difference between misguided confidence in fad diets and true certainty in long-term habits. Ethan shares how relying on temporary weight loss schemes repeatedly failed him, and why planning for maintenance must begin on day one. Together, they unpack the psychological arrival fallacy and discuss how finding daily satisfaction in small health wins is the key to sustainable success.Want more actionable insights on mindset and longevity?Sign up for Ethan's newsletter: https://ethansuplee.substack.com/subscribeSHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 - Intro and Recording Banter01:45 - Defining Confidence and Certainty02:41 - Misplaced Confidence in Past Fad Diets04:02 - The Real Challenge: Weight Loss Maintenance08:29 - Why Postponing Maintenance Planning Fails11:06 - Acceptance, Imperfection, and Applying Grace16:51 - Pragmatic Acceptance Versus Perfection19:51 - The Arrival Fallacy and Shifting Your Baseline24:35 - Finding Immediate Satisfaction in Daily Choices26:46 - Regaining Certainty After Going Off Course27:45 - Reframing Sweating and Breathing at the Gym31:54 - Choosing Movement You Enjoy for Longevity Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This is Ag!
47. Hilary Craig - Director of Produce Category Management at Misfits Market, perfect imperfection and sustainability

This is Ag!

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2026 30:56


In this episode of This Is Ag!, Hilary Craig, Director of Produce Category Management at Misfits Market, joins me to explore the connection between agriculture, sustainability, and the people who eat the food farmers grow. Hilary shares how her work helps connect growers with consumers by finding a market for quality produce that may be overlooked because of cosmetic imperfections. From scarred blueberries to unusually shaped fruits and vegetables, the conversation explores how our expectations of perfect-looking produce contribute to food waste and how education and storytelling can help change that. Together, we discuss the importance of understanding where our food comes from, appreciating the work and relationships behind every piece of produce, and choosing flavor and quality over appearance. We also look ahead at the future of agriculture, where technology can help reduce waste, but the human connection to food, farming, and one another remains irreplaceable. Misfits Market: https://www.misfitsmarket.com Kirti Mutatkar, President and CEO of UnitedAg: Reach me at kmutatkar@unitedag.org, www.linkedin.com/in/kirtimutatkarUnitedAg - www.unitedag.org UnitedAg Health and Wellness Centers - https://www.unitedag.org/health-benefits/united-agricultural-benefit-trust/health-centers/ Episode Contributors - Hilary Craig, Kirti Mutatkar, Dave Visaya, Mickayla Ursini The episode is also sponsored by Brent Eastman Insurance Services Inc. - https://brenteastman.com Blue Shield of California - https://www.blueshieldca.com Elite Medical - https://www.elitecorpmed.com Gallagher - https://www.ajg.com/ SAIN Medical - https://sainmedical.com/ MDI Network - https://www.mdinetworx.com/about-us

A Spacious Christianity
Perfectly Imperfect

A Spacious Christianity

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2026 30:00


Aug 23rd - Perfectly Imperfect, with Rev. Dr. Steven Koski. Series: The Word That Found Me. A Spacious Christianity, First Presbyterian Church of Bend, Oregon.Ever feel the pressure to have everything perfect, and wonder if the messes in your life disqualify you? This Sunday's message reminds us that our cracks are where light gets in, and that ordinary, even messy days can hold hidden blessings. Join us online or in person to hear stories that turn brokenness into grace and discover how you can shine just as you are.Join us each Sunday, 10AM at bendfp.org, or 11AM KTVZ-CW Channel 612/12 in Bend. Subscribe/Follow, and click the bell for alerts.At First Presbyterian, you will meet people at many different places theologically and spiritually. And we love it that way. We want to be a place where our diversity brings us together and where conversation takes us all deeper in our understanding of God.We call this kind of faith "Spacious Christianity." We don't ask anyone to sign creeds or statements of belief. The life of faith is about a way of being in the world and a faith that shows itself in love.Thank you for your support of the mission of the First Presbyterian Church of Bend. Visit https://bendfp.org/mygiving for more information.Keywords:imperfection, hope, grace, light, brokenness, everyday life, sermon, resilience, community, presbyterian, church, online worship, bend, oregonFeaturing:Rev. Dr. Steven Koski, Rev. Sharon Edwards, Julie Cash, Becca Breed, Brave of Heart, GuestsSupport the show

Fluent Fiction - Hebrew
Finding Imperfection's Sweetness: A Rosh Hashanah Market Tale

Fluent Fiction - Hebrew

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2026 14:48 Transcription Available


Fluent Fiction - Hebrew: Finding Imperfection's Sweetness: A Rosh Hashanah Market Tale Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/he/episode/2026-08-21-22-34-02-he Story Transcript:He: השבוע טל אביב הייתה מלאת חיים וצבע, במיוחד בשוק הפתוח.En: This week, Tel Aviv was full of life and color, especially in the open market.He: הריח המתוק של פירות טריים, ריח התבלינים הנעים לאף, והקולות של הסוחרים המציעים את מרכולתם מילאו את האוויר.En: The sweet scent of fresh fruits, the pleasing aroma of spices, and the voices of vendors offering their wares filled the air.He: רוחות חדשות הורגשו בכל פינה, כי ראש השנה מתקרב.En: New energies were felt in every corner because Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year, is approaching.He: אריאל ויעל התקדמו בין דוכני השוק.En: Ariel and Yael moved among the stalls of the market.He: אריאל הייתה מלאה זמן ונחישות למצוא את הרכיבים המושלמים לארוחת החג המסורתית.En: Ariel was full of purpose and determination to find the perfect ingredients for the traditional holiday meal.He: היא אמרה לעצמה: "הכל חייב להיות מושלם", כי המטרה שלה הייתה ליצור זיכרונות מתוקים למשפחתה.En: She said to herself, "Everything has to be perfect," as her goal was to create sweet memories for her family.He: יעל פנתה לאריאל: "תראי את כל הצבעים האלה!En: Yael turned to Ariel: "Look at all these colors!He: אני אוהבת את השוק בקיץ".En: I love the market in summer."He: פניי יעל היו מלאות חיוכים.En: Yael's face was full of smiles.He: היא נהנתה מהרגעים הקטנים, והספונטניות הייתה מרכיב חשוב עבורה.En: She enjoyed the small moments, and spontaneity was an important element for her.He: אריאל בדקה כל פרי, כל ירק.En: Ariel examined every fruit, every vegetable.He: אבל השוק היה עמוס אנשים ודחוק.En: But the market was crowded and packed.He: היא לא מצאה את כל מה שחיפשה.En: She didn't find everything she was looking for.He: החמוצים שכל כך קיוותה למצוא אזלו.En: The pickles she had so hoped to find were sold out.He: המתח החל להשתרר בקרבה.En: Anxiety began to settle in her heart.He: איך תכין את הסלט המיוחד בלי החמוצים?En: How would she prepare the special salad without the pickles?He: "אל תדאגי ככה, אריאל," אמרה יעל רגועה ונעימה.En: "Don't worry so much, Ariel," said Yael, calm and pleasant.He: "זה ראש השנה, לא סוף העולם.En: "It's Rosh Hashanah, not the end of the world.He: מצאנו כל כך הרבה דברים טובים.En: We've found so many good things.He: אולי ננסה משהו חדש?En: Maybe we can try something new?"He: "אריאל הביטה סביב.En: Ariel looked around.He: היא ידעה שיעל צודקת.En: She knew Yael was right.He: המחשבה על חוסר שלמות לא צריכה להעיב על שמחת החג.En: The thought of imperfection shouldn't overshadow the joy of the holiday.He: היא חייכה ליעל ואמרה: "בואי ננסה למצוא משהו אחר.En: She smiled at Yael and said, "Let's try to find something else.He: התבלינים האלה נראים מדהימים".En: These spices look amazing."He: עם רגיעה בליבה וקצת תעוזה, אריאל החליטה לנסות תבלינים חדשים בסלט.En: With a calm heart and a bit of daring, Ariel decided to try new spices in the salad.He: היא ראתה את שמחת החג בעיניים של יעל, ולמדה שהתחושה של הסיפוק והביחד היא החשובה ביותר.En: She saw the joy of the holiday in Yael's eyes and learned that the feeling of contentment and togetherness is the most important.He: כאשר יצאו מהשוק, השמש זרחו ושיחקו על פניהם.En: As they left the market, the sun shone and played on their faces.He: אריאל הרגישה גאווה.En: Ariel felt proud.He: לא בכל יום לומדים לשחרר, ונהנים מהמסע חשוב באותה מידה כמו התוצאה עצמה.En: It's not every day you learn to let go, and sometimes the journey is just as important as the final result.He: ראש השנה הקרוב יהיה מתוק יותר מאי פעם.En: This upcoming Rosh Hashanah would be sweeter than ever. Vocabulary Words:vendors: סוחריםapproaching: מתקרבdetermination: נחישותingredients: רכיביםtraditional: מסורתיתspontaneity: ספונטניותexamined: בדקהcrowded: עמוסpacked: דחוקsettle: להשתררanxiety: מתחovershadow: להעיבcontentment: סיפוקletting go: לשחררtogetherness: ביחדshone: זרחוimperfect: חוסר שלמותpurpose: זמןmemories: זיכרונותsweet: מתוקaroma: ריחjourney: מסעexplore: לחקורspices: תבליניםmarket stalls: דוכניםpickles: חמוציםmissing: חסרimportant: חשובהdaring: תעוזהpersistence: עיקשותBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/fluent-fiction-hebrew--5818690/support.

The Adventures of Pipeman
Behind the Music with Tina Firefly: Beautiful Skeletons, Tour Stories, and Authenticity in Rock

The Adventures of Pipeman

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2026 46:15 Transcription Available


In this energetic and honest episode, Pipeman welcomes Tina Firefly of Beautiful Skeletons to discuss the band's journey, new album "Pulse/Line/Scar," and the ever-evolving culture of live music. The conversation dives into the realities of touring, embracing musical diversity, the authenticity of live performance, and how technology has changed the ways artists and audiences connect. Candid stories, insightful takes on genre and fandoms, and a bit of backstage gossip make this an essential listen for fans of independent music and live music culture.Main Topics CoveredRoad trip stories and the charm of traveling for musicThe pretentiousness and evolution of music scenesGenre gatekeeping and the rise of crossover audiencesThe importance of live music vs. streaming and digital engagementBacking tracks vs. live musicianshipStories of stage mishaps and on-the-fly improvisationArtists' egos, industry personalities, and fan interactionsSupporting indie bands: buying merch, streaming, and show attendanceKey Discussions & StoriesRoad Trips and TouringPipeman and Tina Firefly discuss the merits of road trips over flying, sharing personal touring stories and how some adventures are best experienced by car instead of plane (01:11).Touring in bands and handling the movement and motion differently than regular road trips (02:16).Navigating Genre and SceneBoth speakers reflect on experiencing and witnessing gatekeeping in different rock and metal subcultures, including the pressure to conform and the surprising openness post-COVID (07:49).Tina Firefly shares about inclusion in setlists, playing ballads at heavy shows, and audiences' responses to genre crossover (06:08).The joy of witnessing metalheads singing along to pop songs at festivals, breaking down stereotypes (07:07).The Power and Imperfection of Live MusicStreamed/live-stream pandemic performances versus the raw energy of crowds (15:05).The dilemma of backing tracks: authenticity, technical failure horror stories, and the adaptability required of live performers (17:00).Memorable stage disasters, including jumping off risers, falling through stage cracks, and how such incidents can actually endear musicians to their audience (42:16, 44:19).Artists, Egos, and Industry EncountersPipe Man candidly recounts backstage and interview experiences—sharing that many famed artists are friendlier than their reputations suggest, while some mid-tier acts carry far more ego (24:02).Specific stories include audience scolding by Stevie Nicks for smoking, and how icons and new artists are often the most down-to-earth (26:45, 31:02).Supporting Indie BandsThe importance of buying merch to support independent musicians and the paltry income from streaming platforms (34:16, 35:00).How and where to find Beautiful Skeletons online and at shows—with a special offer for listeners who mention this interview at the merch booth (34:41).Notable Quotes“We're all just sampling our own personal tastes and mishmashing it with our bandmates... Nothing we do is new. So what's the difference between using crossover in the songs?” — Tina Firefly (10:56)“If it speaks to you, listen to it. Don't care about what your stupid roommate next to you is telling you is, that's not real metal.” — Tina Firefly (11:22)“Music is felt, it's not just heard.” — Pipeman (35:58)“The world can stop, but the creation of things never does, especially music.” — Tina Firefly (36:27)“That's key. And I think it is extremely important. I think the chemistry is way more important than the genre.” — Pipeman (39:55)Resources & Links MentionedBand Links:Linktree: Find all streaming, merch, and social links for Beautiful Skeletons (search ‘Beautiful Skeletons' on Linktree)YouTube: Search ‘Beautiful Skeletons'Spotify: "Pulse Line Scar" available from the 21stMerch & Show Details:Official merch available online and at showsSpecial offer: Mention this podcast at a show's merch table for a free shirt (35:29)Music Platforms Mentioned:Spotify, Apple Music, Google Music, Amazon MusicConnect with Beautiful SkeletonsCheck out all links and upcoming show info on their Linktree (search/visit their page for current listings)Attend a live show, meet Tina Firefly at the merch booth, and support new music directlyHighlights for ListenersFor fans of live music: Insightful discussion on why in-person shows will always outshine online streams.For musicians: Honest takes on stage mistakes, band dynamics, and why musical chemistry beats technical perfection.For genre-jumpers: Encouragement to support musical blend, resist gatekeeping, and enjoy music without boundaries.Don't miss "Pulse/Line/Scar" and the Beautiful Skeletons' commitment to authentic, no-filter rock and roll.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-adventures-of-pipeman--941822/support.Click Here to Subscribe for PERKS, BONUS Content & FREE GIVEWAYS!Follow @pipemanradio on all socials & Pipeman Radio Requests & Info at www.linktr.ee/pipemanradioStream The Adventures of Pipeman daily & live Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays at 1PM ET on W4CY Radio & Talk 4 TV. Download, Rate & Review the Podcast at The Adventures of Pipeman, Pipeman Radio, Talk 4 Media, iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, YouTube & All Podcast Apps.

The Unburdened Leader
EP 161: Why High Performers Don't Always Make a High-Performing Team with Jamie Shapiro

The Unburdened Leader

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2026 59:38


What does connection mean to you? How do you know when you're feeling connected?Connection is foundational to building trust, and trust is an essential quality that any team or relationship needs to grow.Yet in many relationships, both personally and professionally, we tolerate disconnection. We miss the early signals of missed deadlines, the subtle cues of quiet resentment, and the team that's compliant and even productive, but not engaged.  Until disconnection creates the distrust, the dis-ease, and the erosion of psychological safety that, left unchecked, hijacks even the strongest relationships, teams, and organizations.Leaders and their teams need to not only learn to identify markers of disconnection early, but to also develop the skills to repair it. The goal isn't a team that never ruptures. It's a team that knows how to reconnect.That's why I'm so excited to talk with my guest today about her work that integrates well-being science, positive psychology, and systems-level leadership to help organizations uncover what it takes to build connected, thriving teams where well-being and high performance can truly coexist.Jamie Shapiro, PhD, is a Keynote Speaker, Master Certified Executive Coach, organizational psychologist, researcher and the CEO of Connected EC. Jamie's approach blends science, strategy, and lived leadership experience to her work with CEOs and executive teams navigating growth, complexity, and cultural transformation.Jamie is the author of Brilliant: Be the Leader Who Shines Brightly Without Burning Out and Connected Culture: The New Science for Thriving Teams and Cultures. She is also the founder of the Leader and Organization Vitality (LOV) Center, a research institute that advances the science of leadership vitality, culture, and performance and bridges the gap between research and real-world practice.Listen to the full episode to hear: How Jamie's personal experience with cycles of burnout in the corporate world informs her research and coaching practiceThe physical, mental, and emotional impacts of trust and connection on teamsWhy Jamie's model for thriving teams has trust, care, and connection at its coreWhat corporate culture consistently gets wrong about candid communication and the number one way to improve itWhat we can learn from chickens about building high-performing teamsHow psychological safety and connection positively drive performanceLearn more about Jamie Shapiro:Connected ECConnect on LinkedInBrilliant: Be The Leader Who Shines Brightly Without Burning OutConnected Culture: The New Science for Thriving Teams and CulturesLearn more about Rebecca:rebeccaching.comWork With RebeccaThe Unburdened Leader on SubstackSign up for the weekly Unburdened Leader EmailResources:Links The Gifts of Imperfection, Brené BrownLoneliness: Human Nature and the Need for Social Connection, John T Cacioppo and William PatrickThe Neuroscience of Trust, Paul J. Zak | Harvard Business ReviewThe Fearless Organization: Creating Psychological Safety in the Workplace for Learning, Innovation, and Growth, Amy C. EdmondsonRight Use of Power InstituteShaping Power for Good: Wayfinding to Right Relationship, Amanda AguileraSuper-Chicken ModelJust One Word: The Surprisingly Simple Method to Discover Your Purpose and Unleash Your Power, Erin WeedILLENIUMOff CampusVoicemails for IsabelleSixteen CandlesChapters:(00:22) - Introduction (07:33) - New Book and Career Pivot (11:33) - Support Systems (13:38) - Burnout to Vitality Research (16:10) - Trust Fuels Team Energy (21:29) - Connection Model and Accountability (24:36) - Defining candid communication (27:59) - Psychological Safety Reframed (30:00) - Listening and Power Dynamics (32:58) - High Performer Chicken Study (37:46) - From Doing To Being (41:21) - Safety Versus Accountability Myth (48:30) - Defining Leadership (49:52) - Quick Fire Questions (55:51) - How to Connect (56:35) - Closing Thoughts

Awaken My Soul
116: How to Host an Epic Masquerade Ball (Smutty Book Club Edition)

Awaken My Soul

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2026 27:22


What happens when a smutty book club, a Masquerade Ball theme, and a whole lot of intention come together for one special night?This past weekend I hosted a Masquerade Ball for the women of my Dark Romance book club — and their partners — to celebrate finishing Lights Out by Navessa Allen. Full mask theme, couples-focused, and honestly one of my favorite nights I've ever hosted.In this episode, I'm taking you fully behind the scenes — the Pinterest board, the games (yes, I'm sharing a couple), the playlist, the menu, the surprise element, and everything I learned hosting a co-ed, on-theme event from start to finish.This isn't a generic hosting guide. This is the real, full story — mess and magic included.Inside this episode, we explore:How the theme came together around our book club read — and why staying true to the book made everything else easier to planWhy I made this a couples event, and how I kept it inclusive for partners who hadn't read the bookThe exact way I picked the date with the group (hint: it landed on Lion's Gate, 8/8 — unplanned and perfect)Why I chose a home-cooked menu over potluck this time — and how I accommodated gluten-free, vegetarian, pescatarian, and allergy needs without losing the "abundant" feelingThe on-theme spicy games I created — including the Dark Confessions Box and the Hot Seat Reading GameHow I organized 16-20 game ideas into an evening the group could vote on and collaborate on togetherBuilding the playlist — and why I brought my husband in as the co-curatorThe decor details that made the room feel like a real masquerade, not just a themeThe one surprise element that came together last minute (thanks to a book club friend's generosity)The truth about "wanting it to be perfect" — even after years of hostingThis episode is for you if:You're part of a (smutty) book club, friend group, or community that loves to gather around a shared themeYou want to host something for couples, not just womenYou've ever wondered how to turn a Pinterest board, book, a color palette, or a vibe into a full eventYou want real examples of interactive games and activities that build connectionYou're curious how AI tools like Claude can actually support the planning processYou've been waiting to feel "ready" to host — and just need permission to start

Tony & Dwight
8.13: Top Stories of the Day, Spending on Subscriptions, Revisiting the Youth Explorer Program, and A.I. Imperfections

Tony & Dwight

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2026 33:20 Transcription Available


ReConsider
[2.6] The One Wisdom

ReConsider

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026 52:00


Today we explore wisdom. Not the "don't put tomatoes in a fruit salad" kind. Serious business wisdom.It turns out, the wise tend to converge on understanding the world in a similar way.In the 20th century, philosophical titans saw this convergence. They look back to the original seers of wisdom and see in them parallels that run so deep, that upon deep contemplation of these philosophies, they found a "highest common factor," including among:Epicteus, Marcus Aurelius, and the StoicsPlato, and various Neoplatonists such as PlotinusSpinoza, SchopenhauerPossibly Hegel, Wittgenstein, though they are famously difficult to interpretJiddu KrishnamurtiLao Tzu, who authored the Tao Te ChingALso Chuang Tzu and Lieh TzuJewish philosophers such as Philo of AlexandriaSufi mystics of Islam, most famously Jalal al-Din RumiJesus of NazarethSt. PaulMeister Eckhart, the mystic Christian St. Jon of the CrossHinduism:The Sages of the UpanishadsAdi Shankara's The Crest-Jewel of WisdomThe Bhagavad GitaThe BuddhaParticularly Zen masters who followedVarious SutrasThe Bardo ThodolIt is the Perennial Philosophy. I call it the One Wisdom. Huxley called it the “Highest Common Factor” of universal truth.SOURCESCamus, Albert. The Myth of Sisyphus. 1942.Huxley, Aldous. The Perennial Philosophy. Harper & Row, 1945.John of the Cross, St. Dark Night of the Soul (La noche oscura del alma).Jung, C. G. Letters, Volume 1: 1906–1950. Princeton University Press.Kahan, Dan. Identity-protective cognition research (cross-referenced, this project).Platform Sutra of the Sixth Patriarch (Liuzu Tan Jing).Polanyi, Michael. Personal Knowledge: Towards a Post-Critical Philosophy. University of Chicago Press, 1958.Polanyi, Michael. The Tacit Dimension. Doubleday, 1966.Tolle, Eckhart. A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life's Purpose. Dutton, 2005.Tao Te Ching (Laozi).Watts, Alan. Become What You Are. Shambhala, 1995 (essays, 1930s–1950s).Watts, Alan. Out of Your Mind: Tricksters, Interdependence, and the Cosmic Game of Hide-and-Seek. Sounds True, 2017.Watts, Alan. The Wisdom of Insecurity. Pantheon, 1951.Wittgenstein, Ludwig. Tractatus Logico-Philosophicus. 1921.Wright, Robert. Why Buddhism Is True. Simon & Schuster, 2017.Xiangyan Zhixian — traditional Chan/Zen biographical account (Tang dynasty, c. 820–898).Zhuangzi (Chuang Tzu), "On the Equality of Things" ("Discussion on Making All Things Equal").Bible. Job 42:5–6; Luke 15:11–32 (KJV).Bhagavad Gita, 2.47.Ovid. Metamorphoses.McGilchrist, Iain. The Master and His Emissary: The Divided Brain and the Making of the Western World. Yale University Press, 2009.Miles Kington. Quoted in The Independent (UK), Mar 28, 2003. Joseph Campbell. The Hero with a Thousand Faces. Pantheon, 1949 — "Freedom to Live," Stage 17. Eckhart Tolle. The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment. New World Library, 1997 Ramana Maharshi, quoted in Ram Dass, "Dying Is Absolutely Safe"Alan Watts, Become Who You Are. Sam Harris, Waking Up: A Guide to Spirituality Without Religion. Dalai Lama & Paul Ekman, Emotional Awareness: Overcoming the Obstacles to Psychological Balance and Compassion. Times Books, 2008Emmet Fox, The Sermon on the MountErnest Kurtz & Katherine Ketcham, The Spirituality of Imperfection. BantamByron Katie, Loving What Is. Harmony, 2002. Diana Chapman & Jim Dethmer (with Kaley Klemp), The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership. 2014.Epictetus, Discourses / Enchiridion.Marcus Aurelius, Meditations.Plato, RepublicPlotinus, The Enneads.Spinoza, EthicsSchopenhauer, The World as Will and Representation.Hegel, Phenomenology of Spirit. Jiddu Krishnamurti, Freedom from the Known Philo of Alexandria, On the Creation of the World. 1 Corinthians 1:20, 1:25, 3:19 — "the wisdom of the world is foolishness"John 14:6 — "I am the way, the truth, and the life." John 8:12 — "I am the light of the world."Galatians 2:20 or 2 Corinthians 5:17 -- "in Christ" Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Impact in the 21st Century
EP #37: Jasper Eales - The Upcycled Human | Perfect Imperfection | Why Waste Is a Design Problem

Impact in the 21st Century

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026 77:13


Jasper Eales calls himself "a living upcycled human." Diagnosed with Crohn's disease and Primary Sclerosing Cholangitis as a teenager, he underwent a liver transplant in his twenties after a ten-month wait for a donor match. That experience reshaped everything: his relationship with time, with risk, and with the idea that something broken or discarded can be rebuilt into something better. A consulting project put a pile of retired yacht sails in front of him, and in 2015 he and fellow surfer Mike Schlebach co-founded Sealand Gear,handcrafting bags and apparel from upcycled sails, Bedouin stretch tents, and advertising banners. They launched at The Old Biscuit Mill in Woodstock. A decade later, Sealand has upcycled over 105 tonnes of material from landfill, holds B Corp certification, and is a member of 1% For The Planet. The brand has been featured in MR PORTER, Design Indaba, and Men's Health South Africa, and won awards including the 2019 Twyg Sustainable Fashion Award and the 2024 V&A Waterfront Our Better Nature Sustainability Award. Behind the product sits the Protect Our Paths Foundation, co-founded by Sealand and Skybound Capital, which employs previously unemployed custodians to clean shared natural spaces across Cape Town, inspired by a man named Keith Kleans who was already keeping Saunders Beach clean on his own. In this episode, Jasper and Aaron explore: The transplant and what came after: what it means to receive an organ from another life, to call yourself "upcycled," and how that experience became the foundation for a design philosophy built around the beauty of things that have been repaired rather than replaced The consulting project, the sails, and the Old Biscuit Mill: how a freelance job revealed an opportunity in discarded yacht sails, what those early days looked like selling furniture from a market stall, and the leap from noticing waste to building a company around it "Perfectly imperfect" and the stamp inside the bag: why every Sealand product carries the name of the machinist who made it, what Sealand means when they use the word "responsibility" rather than "sustainability," and how the founding WHY shapes decisions a profit-first framework would make differently Protect Our Paths and the custodians: the story of Keith Kleans and Saunders Beach, how one man cleaning a beach on his own became a registered foundation with seven custodians across four Cape Town sites Scaling impact when your raw material is waste: whether access to discarded sails and banners is the real constraint on growth, and what it looks like to commercialise upcycling at scale while keeping each product handmade Freedom over funding: why Jasper is not chasing the next raise, and what the breathing room lets him focus on The upside-down reader: how learning to read differently made him a better designer, and what it taught him about education systems that reward conformity over curiosity Family, the ocean, and the next twenty years: how having kids changed his urgency about the planet, what flexibility means to someone whose body nearly failed him, and what he hopes the next generation does differently This is a conversation about the gap between what we discard and what still has life in it, about a man who knows that gap in his own body and in the materials he works with every day. Learn more about Jasper's work at sealandgear.com, and follow @sealandgear and @jaspereales on Instagram.

Nitzotzos: Thoughts to keep your spark alive
Elul - Wearing The Crown Of Imperfection

Nitzotzos: Thoughts to keep your spark alive

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2026 34:37


We often imagine teshuvah as going backward—to the person we were before we failed, became cynical, or compromised something inside ourselves. But if teshuvah simply meant retracing our steps, why does the letter ה contain a second opening?The Gemara teaches that this world was created with the letter ה: a wide opening below through which anyone may leave, and a smaller, higher opening through which the person who returns is brought back inside.A person can leave alone. She cannot return alone.In this shiur, delivered in NCSY Michlet, Rav Burg explains why teshuvah was never meant to be a religious self-improvement project powered by shame and willpower. The first movement must come from us—בא לטהר. But once we begin turning toward Hashem, He joins us. He does not demand that we clean ourselves up before returning. The cleansing takes place inside the relationship.And we do not return to the people we once were. We enter through a higher opening, carrying a humility and longing we could not have possessed before. Hashem does not welcome us back as tolerated guests.He crowns us.Our return becomes His crown.

ZamZamAcademy
Dealing with Imperfections in Marriage

ZamZamAcademy

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2026 62:40


Dealing with Imperfections in Marriage By Dr. Mufti Abdur-Rahman Mangera Every marriage is built on two imperfect people striving towards a shared life. The key to a successful and lasting relationship lies not in finding perfection, but in learning how to navigate each other's shortcomings with patience, wisdom, and compassion. In this insightful talk, Dr. Mufti Abdur-Rahman Mangera draws upon decades of experience as an Islamic scholar, marriage counsellor, and author of The Handbook of a Healthy Muslim Marriage to explore the realities of married life. Combining authentic Islamic guidance with practical counselling insights, he addresses the challenges that couples commonly face and offers constructive approaches to fostering understanding, resilience, and emotional intimacy. Whether you are preparing for marriage, newly married, or have been together for many years, this session provides valuable principles for managing expectations, resolving conflict, strengthening communication, and nurturing a marriage rooted in mercy and mutual respect. Attendees will benefit from the balanced and compassionate perspective that has made Dr. Mangera's work an indispensable resource for Muslim couples worldwide. https://www.whitethreadpress.com/products/handbook-of-a-healthy-muslim-marriage Link to donate - https://www.whitethread.org/whitethread-centre/

Latter Day Struggles
457: Prophet Worship Compassionately Explained

Latter Day Struggles

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2026 42:36


Send us a Positive Review!In this episode Val digs into the concept of prophet worship [or any time humans hand over their discerning power to a formal authority figure] from the context of psychology and the “shadow”. While we tend to talk about our “shadows” from the context of that which we are ashamed of, sometimes we actually disown our greatest divine attributes. Tune in to this episode to learn why this happens and how to reintegrate our “golden shadows” back into our core identities.  This conversation is an extension of Episode 447, so go back and listen if this intrigues you!Does the idea of awakening your core identity or "True Self" resonate with you ? If so, jump onto a waitlist to join Valerie's next healing group that focuses on the awakening of one's True Self core identity. This group is titled “Fundamentals of LDS Faith Crisis Healing” and the next group of this type begins spring of 2027!Timestamps:00:00 Welcome and Setup 03:09 Traditional Shadow Basics 07:58 Golden Shadow Defined 09:27 Projection and Triggers 12:36 Golden Shadow Projection Example17:07 How Outsourcing Happens20:08 Official Carrier and the Cost of Imperfection 25:37 When Following the Prophet Doesn't Work 29:36 Reclaiming Discernment 32:22 Practicing and Giving Yourself Grace 35:52 Integration Not Overcorrecting 39:15 Closing ThoughtsSupport the showStories of Healing: Live Event July 30th in SLCSupport the showListen, Share, Rate & Review EPISODESFriday Episodes Annual Access $89Friday Episodes Monthly Access $10Valerie's Support & Processing GroupsGift a ScholarshipDownload Free ResourcesVisit our Website

Morning Meditation for Women
Embrace Your Imperfections

Morning Meditation for Women

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2026 11:43


Hello, Beautiful...I'm so grateful you're here with me. What if you stopped measuring your worth by how perfectly you're doing? This compassionate meditation helps quiet your inner critic, release perfectionism, and cultivate self-acceptance and inner peace. You are already enough exactly as you are. Love,

Not Another Shooting Show
Glock Gen6 Imperfection - Ep 254

Not Another Shooting Show

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2026 55:41


Get your "Try Hard" T-shirt!  Subscribe on Patreon to get an extra episode every week! Listen on YouTube! Andy on Instagram - andy.e.605 Jeff on Instagram - jeff_the_monster_king MW Aktiv Wear - mw_aktiv_wear Not Another Shooting Show on Reddit

Paving The Way Home Podcast
St. Mary Magdalene: Sanctity Despite Imperfection - By Fr. Patrick Cahill

Paving The Way Home Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2026 11:15


PAVING THE WAY HOME:   YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@pavingthewayhome85 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/ie/podcast/paving-the-way-home-podcast/id1517252693 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0sywWGWjqXFSErvxOcNeEt?si=jjRM2DjsQvGUJppEQqFS_g   HOLY FAMILY MISSION: If you wish to support the work that Holy Family Mission does, you will find details on how to do so here - https://www.holyfamilymission.ie/supportus   Visit https://www.holyfamilymission.ie/ to learn more about Holy Family Mission.

Fluent Fiction - Hindi
Finding Joy in Imperfection: A Rishikesh Retreat Tale

Fluent Fiction - Hindi

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2026 15:48 Transcription Available


Fluent Fiction - Hindi: Finding Joy in Imperfection: A Rishikesh Retreat Tale Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/hi/episode/2026-07-29-07-38-20-hi Story Transcript:Hi: मॉनसून का समय था।En: It was the monsoon season.Hi: रिषिकेश की हरियाली चारों ओर फैली हुई थी, और गंगा नदी की लहरों की आवाज़ मन को शांति देती थी।En: The greenery of Rishikesh spread all around, and the sound of the waves of the Ganga River brought peace to the mind.Hi: हरे-भरे पहाड़ों के बीच स्थित एक स्पिरिचुअल रिट्रीट ने कई योग प्रेमियों को अपनी ओर खींचा था।En: A spiritual retreat located among the lush green hills had attracted many yoga enthusiasts.Hi: बारिश की हल्की बूंदे योग हॉल के कांच की खिड़कियों पर टपक रही थीं, जिन्हें देखते ही मन प्रसन्न हो उठता था।En: The gentle raindrops were dripping on the glass windows of the yoga hall, bringing joy at first sight.Hi: अर्जुन, एक उत्साह से भरा हुआ मगर थोड़ा संभ्रांत योग प्रेमी, इसी रिट्रीट में आया था।En: Arjun, an enthusiastic yet slightly elite yoga lover, had come to this retreat.Hi: उसकी ख्वाहिश थी कि वो राखी के अवसर पर अपने भाई-बहनों को प्रभावित करने के लिए मयूरासन कर सके।En: His wish was to impress his siblings on the occasion of Raksha Bandhan by mastering the Mayurasana.Hi: अर्जुन के मन में एक ही धुन थी - योगासन में महारथ हासिल करनी है।En: Arjun had one thing in mind - to achieve mastery in yoga poses.Hi: मेरे के योगा क्लास की वजह से अंदर माहौल किशमिश हो चुका था।En: The atmosphere inside had become lively because of Mira's yoga class.Hi: मीरा, जो एक चिर-परिचित और हंसमुख योग प्रशिक्षक थी, अपने छात्रों को आरामदायक महसूस कराने के लिए हल्के-फुल्के मज़ाक करती रहती थी।En: Mira, a well-known and cheerful yoga instructor, often made light-hearted jokes to make her students feel comfortable.Hi: एक दिन मीरा ने क्लास के दौरान मयूरासन सिखाने का ऐलान किया।En: One day during the class, Mira announced that she would teach Mayurasana.Hi: अर्जुन ने ध्यान से उसकी बातें सुनी, लेकिन उनकी हल्की-फुल्की शरारत की वजह से वह थोड़ी-बहुत चीजें समझ नहीं पाया।En: Arjun listened to her words attentively, but due to her light-hearted mischief, he couldn't fully understand a few things.Hi: लेकिन अर्जुन ने कभी न पूछकर खुद ही अभ्यास करने का निश्चय किया।En: However, Arjun decided not to ask and resolved to practice on his own.Hi: जब समापन का दिन आया, तब मीरा ने सबको उनके आसनों का प्रदर्शन करने के लिए कहा।En: When the final day arrived, Mira asked everyone to demonstrate their poses.Hi: अर्जुन आत्मविश्वास से मुस्कुराता हुआ आगे बढ़ा।En: Arjun stepped forward with a confident smile.Hi: उसने अपने तरीके से मयूरासन का प्रयास करने की कोशिश की, और यह देखकर सब हॉल में हंसी-ठिठोली की गूंज उठी।En: He tried to perform Mayurasana in his own way, and seeing this, laughter and giggles echoed throughout the hall.Hi: उसका शरीर इधर-उधर डगमगा रहा था, और उसकी स्थिति बिलकुल हास्यास्पद लग रही थी।En: His body was wobbling here and there, and his position looked completely ridiculous.Hi: हर कोई हंसते-हंसते लोटपोट हो गया।En: Everyone burst into laughter.Hi: मीरा ने भी उसकी ओर मुस्कुराते हुए अर्जुन के पास जाकर धीरे से बताया, "अर्जुन, योगा में परिपूर्णता से ज्यादा जरूरी है मुस्कुराना।En: Mira also smiled at him and went to Arjun, gently saying, "Yoga is more about smiling than perfection."Hi: " अर्जुन भी अपनी गलती पर हंसने लगा और अपने प्रयासों के बावजूद उसे बहुत मज़ा आया।En: Arjun also laughed at his mistake and enjoyed himself despite his efforts.Hi: उसने समझ लिया कि परिपूर्णता में नहीं, बल्कि अपूर्णता और खुशियों में ही असली संतोष है।En: He realized that true satisfaction lies not in perfection, but in imperfection and happiness.Hi: इस प्रकार, अर्जुन ने अपने योग अभ्यास में एक नई सीख पाई और रिट्रीट से सच्ची खुशी के साथ लौटा।En: In this way, Arjun learned a new lesson in his yoga practice and returned from the retreat with true joy. Vocabulary Words:monsoon: मॉनसूनgreenery: हरियालीspiritual: स्पिरिचुअलretreat: रिट्रीटmind: मनlush: हरे-भरेattract: खींचाenthusiasts: प्रेमियोंraindrops: बूंदेwindows: खिड़कियोंdripping: टपक रही थींenthusiastic: उत्साह से भरा हुआslightly: थोड़ाelite: संभ्रांतsiblings: भाई-बहनोंimpress: प्रभावितmastery: महारथgentle: धीरेwobble: डगमगाridiculous: हास्यास्पदgiggles: ठिठोलीechoed: गूंज उठीmischief: शरारतdemonstrate: प्रदर्शनperfection: परिपूर्णताimperfection: अपूर्णताhappiness: खुशियोंsatisfaction: संतोषjoy: खुशीlesson: सीख

Save America Ministries on Oneplace.com
PERFECTION OF IMPERFECTION

Save America Ministries on Oneplace.com

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 28, 2026 54:55


The Constitution and the Future To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/549/29?v=20251111

Focus on the Family Commentary
Imperfection Embraced by Love

Focus on the Family Commentary

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2026 1:30


Is a child with Down Syndrome a curse? Or a blessed opportunity? Jim Daly shares a truth so obvious that even a rock star understands it: human dignity isn’t found in our perfection … but in our imperfection.Support Family MinistryIf you enjoyed listening to Focus on the Family Commentary, please give us your feedback.

Fluent Fiction - Hebrew
Finding Beauty in Imperfection: @Noam's Creative Journey

Fluent Fiction - Hebrew

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 26, 2026 14:19 Transcription Available


Fluent Fiction - Hebrew: Finding Beauty in Imperfection: @Noam's Creative Journey Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/he/episode/2026-07-26-22-34-01-he Story Transcript:He: נעם ישב בצריף הקטן, מוקף בעצים ירוקים של יער שקט.En: @Noam sat in the small cabin, surrounded by the green trees of a quiet forest.He: השמש של הקיץ חיממה את כתפיו, והוא הביט בבד הלבן שנצב מולו.En: The summer sun warmed his shoulders, and he looked at the white canvas standing in front of him.He: כאן, בסדנת הציור הקיצית, הוא רצה ליצור את היצירה הטובה ביותר שלו.En: Here, at the summer painting workshop, he wanted to create his best work.He: טליה, המורה הוותיקה, הסתובבה בין התלמידים.En: Talia, the experienced teacher, moved among the students.He: "אל תפחדו מהבד הריק," היא אמרה בחיוך.En: "Don't be afraid of the blank canvas," she said with a smile.He: "תנו לעצמכם להרגיש את הקיץ.En: "Allow yourself to feel the summer.He: האווירה, הצבעים, החום.En: The atmosphere, the colors, the warmth."He: "אבל נעם הרגיש אחרת.En: But @Noam felt differently.He: הוא חשב על הציפיות שעל כתפיו.En: He thought about the expectations on his shoulders.He: הוא רצה שהיצירה שלו תהיה מושלמת, שתרשים את טליה ותראה לכולם מה הוא יכול.En: He wanted his work to be perfect, to impress Talia, and to show everyone what he could do.He: כשניסה להתחיל לצייר, ידיו רעדו מעט.En: When he tried to start painting, his hands trembled slightly.He: שעות עברו, והוא בקושי הצליח להניח כתם צבע אחד.En: Hours passed, and he barely managed to place a single spot of color.He: הוא ראה את שאר המשתתפים מנסים ונהנים, אבל תחושת אי הוודאות הפריעה לו.En: He saw the other participants trying and enjoying themselves, but the sense of uncertainty troubled him.He: הטיל ספק בכל החלטה אמנותית.En: He doubted every artistic decision.He: כשטליה התבוננה בעבודתו, היא חייכה בעדינות.En: When Talia observed his work, she smiled gently.He: "נעם, אולי תנסה לשחרר קצת?En: "@Noam, maybe try to let go a little?"He: " היא הציעה.En: she suggested.He: "אתה לא צריך להיות מושלם.En: "You don't have to be perfect.He: לפעמים היופי נמצא באי־שלמות.En: Sometimes beauty lies in imperfection."He: "נעם החשיב את הצעתה, ולראשונה החליט לוותר על הפחד.En: @Noam considered her suggestion, and for the first time decided to let go of fear.He: הוא לקח עמוק נשימה, והניח למכחול להתנועע יותר בחופשיות.En: He took a deep breath and allowed the brush to move more freely.He: הוא צייר את השמש, היער, ובסופו של דבר, תחושת הקיץ שהתגעגע אליה.En: He painted the sun, the forest, and eventually, the feeling of summer he missed.He: בסוף היום, נעם הסתכל על יצירתו המוגמרת.En: At the end of the day, @Noam looked at his finished piece.He: זה לא היה מושלם במובן מדויק, אבל הייתה בה חיות ורגש אמיתי.En: It wasn't perfect in the precise sense, but it had liveliness and true emotion.He: טליה נעמדה מאחוריו וסיפקה לו את החיוך שתמיד רצה.En: Talia stood behind him and gave him the smile he always wanted.He: "זה נפלא, נעם," היא אמרה.En: "This is wonderful, @Noam," she said.He: הרגשה חמימה מילאה את לבו.En: A warm feeling filled his heart.He: הוא הבין שהדרך היא החשובה, לא התוצאה המושלמת.En: He realized that the journey is what's important, not the perfect result.He: הוא הרגיש בטוח יותר, מוכן ליצור מתוך שמחה ולא מתוך פחד.En: He felt more confident, ready to create out of joy and not out of fear. Vocabulary Words:cabin: צריףcanvas: בדworkshop: סדנהexperienced: וותיקהatmosphere: אווירהdoubted: הטיל ספקartistic: אמנותיתimperfection: אי־שלמותconsidered: החשיבlivelihood: חיותemotional: רגשuncertainty: אי וודאותprecise: מדויקtrembled: רעדוfear: פחדconfidence: בטוחbrush: מכחולfreely: בחופשיותmissed: התגעגעwarmth: חוםjourney: דרךperfect: מושלםsuggestion: הצעהexpectations: ציפיותcreate: ליצורobserved: התבוננהtroubled: הפריעהdecision: החלטהstood: נעמדהattempt: ניסיוןBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/fluent-fiction-hebrew--5818690/support.

The Second Phase Podcast - Personal Branding & Brand Marketing and Life Strategies for Success for Female Entrepreneurs

When Leadership Looks Good but Feels Broken Haley Cooper's professional life was impressive by any measure. The Secret Life Behind the Competent Leader Haley describes leading two completely separate lives. Living in a Constant State of Fear At the heart of Haley's struggle was unrelenting anxiety. The Turning Point: Surrender and Sobriety For Haley, the turning point came on March 31, 2025. What to Do If You Recognize Yourself in This Story If you are a leader reading this and something feels familiar, Haley has a clear message. Y Leading Others Starts with Leading Yourself One of the most profound shifts in Haley's recovery has been in her role as a parent. There Is No Shame in Asking for Help The final message from Haley's story is one of radical worthiness. Website for Haley Cooper Additional Resources The Gift of Imperfection by Rene Brown Finding Your Superpowers: Leaning into personal values and dropping comparison Addiction and Parenting: Truths Every Parent Needs Reduce Anxiety and Get Healthy with Amino Acid Therapy Do You Believe Your Self-Talk? Links for You, Me, and Anxiety: Parent Book Teen Book Schedule a free consultation discovery call with Robyn. Download the free eBook: Alleviate Anxiety by Developing Healthy Habits for a Healthy Mind Read the full show notes and access all links.

Sleep Calming and Relaxing ASMR Thunder Rain Podcast for Studying, Meditation and Focus
You Can Find Peace in Imperfection

Sleep Calming and Relaxing ASMR Thunder Rain Podcast for Studying, Meditation and Focus

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2026 12:23 Transcription Available


# You Can Find Peace in Imperfection## Episode 139Hey there. Welcome back to Your Quiet Moment. I'm so glad you made it here today.Today we're exploring something that weighs on so many of us — the exhausting pursuit of perfection. If you've been feeling like you're constantly behind, constantly falling short, constantly apologizing for being a work in progress, this one's for you. We're going to talk about why imperfection isn't the problem — and how you can start finding real peace right where you are.We'll settle in with some gentle breathing, go deep on why perfection is a trap, and close with affirmations you can carry with you past this moment.This is Your Quiet Moment.---## Timestamps[00:00] Opening — Finding peace in imperfection[02:30] Settling In — Arriving in the present[04:00] The Theme Part One — Permission to be a work in progress[07:00] The Theme Part Two — Embracing the messy journey[09:30] Breathwork — Box breathing together[10:30] Affirmations Part One[11:30] Affirmations Part Two[12:20] Closing---## Affirmations in This Episode- I am allowed to be a work in progress.- I do not have to be perfect to be worthy.- My imperfections do not define my value.- I am growing, and that is something to celebrate.- I give myself permission to learn, to change, and to try again.- I am enough exactly as I am in this moment.- I release the need to compare my chapter to someone else's entire book.- I choose peace over perfection.- I release the belief that I must have everything figured out before I'm allowed to move forward.- I let go of the comparison trap.- I give myself grace on the days when I feel behind or uncertain.- I celebrate my progress, even the small steps that no one else sees.- I choose to see my imperfections as evidence of a life fully lived.- I am becoming the person I'm meant to be, one imperfect day at a time.---## Theme Tagsimperfection, self-compassion, self-acceptance, peace, letting go, growth mindset, self-worth---## DisclaimerThe information in this podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Please consult a mental health professional for personalized advice.---*Your Quiet Moment is produced by Hustle Studios.*DISCLAIMER

Monocle 24: Monocle on Design
Henry Wilson's philosophy of designing imperfection and Rolf Fehlbaum on the importance of friendship    

Monocle 24: Monocle on Design

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2026 33:38


Australian designer Henry Wilson on why perfection is not something he strives for. Then: Rolf Fehlbaum of Vitra on why fun and friendship make for better work. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Stories From Women Who Walk
Wednesdays on Whidbey: Choosing to Incorporate Our Shortcomings

Stories From Women Who Walk

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2026 2:50


Coming to you from Whidbey Island, Washington this is Stories From Women Who Walk with Wednesdays on Whidbey and your host, Diane Wyzga. We humans have shortcomings in common. Certain personal and professional imperfections—such as procrastination, impatience, and difficulty with public speaking, among others—that we naturally work to improve or manage. Maybe like me you've struggled to perfect your shortcomings only to discover that a better use of your energy might be to put them in service to self-awareness. Developing a habit of proactive personal growth identifies shortcomings without excessive self-shame and focuses on practical strategies for improvement, rather than dwelling on the weakness itself. No more “Should on you!” What if instead of focusing on what I'm not because of a standard set by someone else, I assess all I've done, accomplished, overcome, created, and become over the course of my life thus far because I learned how to fall down 7 and get up 8? What if I make up my mind to attend to projects and ideas that are achievable and meaningful to me despite my shortcomings—because I say so! Question: How are you incorporating your shortcomings to live the life you want, where you want, how you want, with whom you want, and for the reasons you want? We determine who we are, shortcomings and all! You're always welcome: "Come for the stories - Stay for the magic!" Speaking of magic, I hope you'll subscribe, share a 5-star rating and nice review on your social media or podcast channel of choice, bring your friends and rellies, and join us! You will have wonderful company as we continue to walk our lives together. AND!  Stop by my Quarter Moon Story Arts website during reconstruction, email me [info@quartermoonstoryarts.net] to arrange a no-obligation Discovery Call, and stay current with me as Quarter Moon Story Arts on Substack. Stories From Women Who Walk Production Team Podcaster: Diane F Wyzga & Quarter Moon Story Arts Music: Mer's Waltz from Crossing the Waters by Steve Schuch & Night Heron Music ALL content and image © 2019 to Present Quarter Moon Story Arts. All rights reserved.  If you found this podcast episode helpful, please consider sharing and attributing it to Diane Wyzga of Stories From Women Who Walk podcast with a link back to the original source.

RedeemerCast
A Spirituality of Imperfection

RedeemerCast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2026 22:09


A Spirituality of Imperfection Romans 7:21-8:6 and Matthew 11:25-30 The Fifth Sunday After Trinity Sunday, July 5, 2026 The Rev Kenny Benge, Associate Rector Church of the Redeemer, Nashville, TN www.Redeemer-Nashville.net

The Chase Jarvis LIVE Show
Your Imperfection Is the Advantage

The Chase Jarvis LIVE Show

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 1, 2026 10:40


Hey friends, Chase here We are living in a moment where perfect is cheaper than ever. A few words into a prompt can generate an image. A template can make your brand look polished. A filter can smooth the rough edges. An AI tool can help you produce something slick, flattering, and technically impressive in seconds. On the surface, that sounds like creative abundance. But there is a catch. When everything can be perfected, perfect starts to feel invisible. That is the tension at the heart of this episode. In a world flooded with polish, your imperfections are not the liability. They are the signal. They are the thing that makes your work feel alive. They are the fingerprints that remind people there is a human being on the other side. Whether we are talking about your writing, your art, your business, your personal brand, or the way you show up in conversation, authenticity is becoming more scarce. And because it is more scarce, it is becoming more valuable. This is not an excuse to make sloppy work. It is not a call to be careless. It is not a suggestion that everything needs to be grungy, lo-fi, or deliberately rough. The point is much more useful than that: the future does not belong to the most polished version of everybody else. It belongs to the thing only you can make. That is why your imperfection is the advantage. Perfect Is Boring Because Perfect Is Predictable There is a reason perfect things often slide right past us. It is not just taste. It is biology. Our brains are wired to ignore consistent patterns and fixate on disruptions. We notice the thing that breaks the pattern. The one blade of grass that moves. The tiny irregularity. The detail that does not quite fit. Evolutionarily, that mattered because the disruption might have been danger. Creatively, it still matters because disruption is what catches attention. That is why a too-perfect image can feel dead. It is why stock photography often feels generic. It is why so much AI-generated visual work can feel like slop even when it is technically "good." It is predictable. It has been averaged into smoothness. It has no meaningful edge. And when everything around us starts to look polished, polished stops being special. The creative opportunity now is not to chase a cleaner version of sameness. It is to understand the specific ways your work can break the pattern. The weirdness. The humanity. The point of view. The taste. The slight asymmetry that could only come from you. Imperfection Has Always Been Part of What We Love Most of the things we love in art are not perfect. They are human. Think about the warmth of music played on vinyl. The light leaks from an old camera. Film grain. Paper texture. VHS distortion. A hand-drawn line that is not perfectly straight. A stage performance that leans on raw emotion. The detail that feels a little unpredictable, a little alive, a little impossible to manufacture cleanly. Those are not defects. They are part of the experience. That is the beauty of being you. You cannot be perfect. It is impossible. Even when you try, something human slips through. Your taste. Your timing. Your awkwardness. Your humor. Your obsession. Your point of view. Your hand drawn line that is beautifully off by just a bit. In a world of homogeneity, you being you is an act of rebellion. That is not a cute phrase. It is a real creative strategy. If everyone has access to the same tools, the same prompts, the same templates, and the same visual trends, the thing that separates your work is not the tool. It is the person using it. The Question Is No Longer "Can You Create?" There was a time when the bar was simply whether you could make the thing. Could you shoot the photo? Could you write the essay? Could you record the video? Could you build the product? Could you design the page? Now the bar is changing. The more creation becomes automated, the more valuable it becomes to make something only you could create. Not something flattering. Not something frictionless. Not something that looks like it belongs in the same feed as everything else. Something that carries your signature. This is why authenticity is becoming scarce. It is also why people are hungry for creator content that feels real. When every surface can be perfected, imperfection becomes a signal. It tells the audience that there is a person here. A voice here. A perspective here. A set of fingerprints here. And as AI gets better at creating any aesthetic you like, including artificial imperfection that presents as authentic, the focus shifts again. It becomes less about what is being said and more about who is saying it. That is the big takeaway: you matter now more than ever before. Deliberate Imperfection Is a Creative Tool This does not mean you should pursue slop. That distinction matters. The point is not to make careless work and call it authentic. The point is to understand what kind of imperfection belongs to you and then master it as deliberately as you would master any other creative tool. Maybe you love film grain. Go deep. Maybe you love JPEG compression and the artifacts it creates. Study it. Maybe you are drawn to hand-drawn lines, VHS distortion, paper textures, strange dialogue, raw performance, awkward honesty, or a niche visual language that does not make sense to everyone. Follow that thread. The goal is not to be rough for the sake of being rough. The goal is to channel the specific chaos, taste, and humanity you are drawn to in a way that becomes unmistakably yours. If your aesthetic is polished, great. Double down. Triple down. Ten X on that. Just make sure the polish is based on you, not on a generic idea of what polish is supposed to look like. Your work does not have to be messy to be authentic. It has to be yours. What You'll Hear in This Episode This is a short episode, but the message is direct: perfect is no longer the advantage. In a world where everything can be smoothed, generated, and optimized, the edge belongs to the work that feels human. Why too polished, too proper, and too slick are losing power in creativity, branding, and personal connection Why authenticity is becoming more scarce, and therefore more valuable Why the shift toward imperfection is showing up in popular culture and even inside the platforms that helped create the polished-feed era Why perfect anything becomes boring when it is predictable How human biology makes us notice disruption instead of consistent patterns Why stock photography and AI slop often feel forgettable, even when they are technically polished Why deliberate imperfection is a creative mandate, not a lack of craft How film grain, light leaks, vinyl warmth, and raw performance reveal what we actually respond to Why being yourself is an act of rebellion in a world of homogeneity Why your awkward, quirky, unapologetic creativity may be exactly what your audience wants Timecodes So You Can Jump to What You Need If you're not listening straight through, here are a few landmarks to help you find the part that speaks to where you are right now: 00:00 – A note about my weekly email and where I put my time and attention each week 01:50 – Welcome to the micro show and why too polished, too proper, and too slick are dead 02:20 – Why authenticity is more scarce and more valuable than ever 02:43 – Why the alarm bell is ringing now and how this idea is filtering through popular culture 03:07 – The Instagram CEO's point about authenticity, creator content, and imperfection as a signal 04:03 – What this means for anyone banking on a perfect, all too polished aesthetic 04:26 – Why perfect anything is boring, and why this is rooted in human biology 04:48 – How our brains notice disruptions in patterns rather than the patterns themselves 05:13 – Why stock photography and AI slop feel predictable and forgettable 05:45 – The mandate to master your own deliberate imperfection 06:07 – Why so many things we love in art are imperfect, from vinyl warmth to film grain 06:31 – Why the beauty of being you is that you cannot be perfect 06:51 – Why being yourself is an act of rebellion in a world of homogeneity 07:11 – Why the focus will shift from what is being said to who is saying it 07:38 – Why now is an amazing time for your work to stand out in an authentic niche 07:58 – How to go deep on the imperfections and textures you are drawn to 08:35 – Why this is not permission to pursue slop or force a grungy aesthetic 08:55 – Why you are the imperfect, beautiful element in the next chapter of creativity 09:26 – A thank you for listening, sharing, and growing together Read This If Your Work Feels Too Imperfect If you have been waiting until your work looks more polished before you share it, pay attention to that instinct. There is nothing wrong with craft. There is nothing wrong with quality. There is nothing wrong with caring deeply about the details. But the pursuit of polish can become a hiding place when it turns into a way to remove yourself from the work. Sometimes we sand down the exact thing that would have made the work connect. We remove the weird sentence. We smooth the rough edge. We choose the safer visual. We make the thing look more like what we think it is supposed to look like and less like something only we could have made. That is the trap. Your audience does not need you to become a cleaner copy of the internet. They need the part of you that has taste. They need the part of you that notices what other people miss. They need the part of you that is awkward, specific, playful, obsessive, and unapologetic. That does not mean you publish work you do not care about. It means you stop confusing sameness with excellence. Stop Treating Polish Like Proof Polish can be useful, but polish is not proof of meaning. A thing can be polished and empty. It can be clean and forgettable. It can be technically impressive and still feel like nobody was home when it was made. That is the danger of building everything around surface. The deeper question is whether the work carries a point of view. Can people feel the person behind it? Can they sense a choice? Can they tell that the texture, tone, rhythm, humor, awkwardness, restraint, mess, or precision came from someone specific? Can they tell that the thing was made from taste rather than simply assembled from trends? That is where the advantage lives. Because as the tools get easier, taste matters more. As production gets faster, point of view matters more. As the internet fills with frictionless output, the strange and unmistakable human element matters more. A Simple Practice for Finding Your Deliberate Imperfection Start by noticing what you are already drawn to. What textures do you love? What details do you keep saving, collecting, or returning to? What kinds of images, sentences, sounds, performances, conversations, or objects feel alive to you? Where do you feel a little spark of recognition? Then ask why. Maybe it is the grain. Maybe it is the pacing. Maybe it is the awkward pause. Maybe it is the rawness. Maybe it is the restraint. Maybe it is the way something feels handmade, overheard, imperfect, or emotionally unvarnished. Whatever it is, do not dismiss it as random. Your taste is data. Once you see the pattern, go deeper. Master it. Study the nuance. Learn how to use it on purpose. Turn the thing you thought was a flaw into a language. The goal is not to manufacture authenticity. The goal is to stop editing out the parts of your work that already carry it. Don't Be Generic in a World That Rewards the Unmistakable Generic work has never been easier to make. That is not an insult. It is just the reality of the tools we now have. Anyone can make something that looks good enough. Anyone can generate a flattering image. Anyone can produce a polished surface. But not everyone can make something that carries the weight of a lived point of view. That is your opening. Your niche can be playful. It can be esoteric. It can be polished. It can be raw. It can be quiet. It can be strange. It can be rooted in film grain, hand-drawn lines, paper textures, compression artifacts, dialogue, performance, or any other creative language that pulls you in. What matters is that it is based on you. Because there is a world of fans, friends, and customers who are not waiting for another generic version of what already exists. They are waiting for something with fingerprints. Something awkward, quirky, and unapologetic. Something that feels real. Questions to Ask Yourself Where am I making my work more polished but less personal? What rough edge am I tempted to remove that might actually be part of the signal? What do I love in other people's work because it feels imperfect, raw, or human? What kind of imperfection am I naturally drawn to? Where has my pursuit of polish become a hiding place? What could I master as a deliberate creative tool instead of treating it like a flaw? What part of my taste feels too niche, too weird, or too specific? What would make this work feel more unmistakably mine? Am I chasing excellence, or am I chasing sameness? What can I make that only I could make? The Core Idea Your imperfection is the advantage. Not because craft does not matter. Not because sloppy work is suddenly good. Not because every aesthetic needs to become rough, grungy, or lo-fi. Your imperfection is the advantage because it is evidence of a human being. It is the signal inside a culture drowning in polish. Perfect is cheap to produce and boring to consume when it becomes predictable. What people want now is work that feels real. Work with taste. Work with fingerprints. Work that carries the strange, specific, beautiful mark of the person who made it. So stop trying to sand yourself out of the work. Pick the textures, rhythms, ideas, edges, and obsessions that are yours. Go deep. Master them. Channel the chaos. Make something beyond the algorithm's training data. Make something that only you could make. Until next time: trust your taste, master your deliberate imperfection, and let the human part of the work lead.

Huberman Lab
Movement Practice to Strengthen Your Mind-Body Connection | Ido Portal

Huberman Lab

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 29, 2026 179:48


Ido Portal is a world-renowned movement coach who has developed specific practices anyone can use to greatly evolve their mental and physical health, and even gain clearer self-understanding. We discuss the effects of playful movement versus exercise, discipline versus willpower, and how approaching friction points in your practice with relaxed awareness can rewire your default reactions to stress and fear. Ido explains how to leverage transition states, such as the state between sleep and waking, to gain heightened bodily awareness and new insights. He also explains specific movement patterns. This is a highly practical conversation about integrating movement, embracing uncertainty and bringing awareness into everyday life to expand your brain-body connection and deepen your sense of self. Read the show notes at hubermanlab.com. Thank you to our sponsors AG1: https://drinkag1.com/huberman Rorra: https://rorra.com/huberman ROKA: https://roka.com/huberman LMNT: https://drinklmnt.com/huberman Function: https://functionhealth.com/huberman Timestamps (00:00:00) Ido Portal (00:03:18) Waking Up, Transitional States, Sleep, Lucid Dreaming (00:10:30) Meditation, Tool: Micro-Meditation (00:13:55) Sponsors: Rorra & ROKA (00:17:05) Meditation, Anxiety (00:19:54) Mind-Body States (00:24:41) Play vs Discipline, Motivation & Will, Awe (00:37:25) Willpower vs Discipline, Developing Will; Physical Practice (00:47:20) Sponsor: AG1 (00:49:06) Power of Play, Rigidity (00:54:41) Playful Restraint, Softness (01:00:57) Subtle Ripples of Consciousness, Granularity, Bodily Resolution (01:09:36) Language, Ambiguity, Dance; Psychedelics (01:15:19) Sponsor: LMNT (01:16:51) Paying Attention to Everyday Movement, Exercise (01:24:57) Challenging the System, Life as a Practice (01:32:37) Awareness & Time; Emotional, Mental & Physical Nutrients (01:38:41) Social Media, Importance of Granularity (01:43:41) Noticing Transition, Kumbhaka Practice; Antagonism (01:53:56) Sponsor: Function (01:55:37) Cowardice, Remorse; Sensory Desensitization (02:03:53) Relationships, Dynamic Practice (02:10:59) Music, Movement (02:16:21) Art; Movement Models; Awareness Through Movement (02:27:24) Fresh Moments & Growth, Noticing Subtlety (02:35:23) Air Sense, Skateboarding, Confidence; Meta-Movement (02:49:32) Beauty of Imperfection, Embracing Uncertainty (02:57:12) Zero-Cost Support, YouTube, Spotify & Apple Follow, Reviews & Feedback, Protocols Book, Sponsors, Social Media, Neural Network Newsletter Disclaimer & Disclosures Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Ryan Kelley Morning After
Happy Little Imperfections (Hour 4)

The Ryan Kelley Morning After

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2026 14:13


(00:00-9:31) Troy Percival. Turtleback greens. Which of Tim's imperfections (there aren't many) would he fix last? The deterioration of our nomenclature. Leg shortening surgery. Jackson's been challenged to a 1v1 at Triple Lakes.(9:39-13:17) Audio from Cards Territory of Matt Holliday talking about Nolan Gorman being sent down to AAA and why the team decided to make the move. Doug thinks Gorman needs a fresh start. Maybe go live on Instagram.(13:27-14:04) And the winner of the Design Aire Heating & Cooling EMOTD is...See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Huberman Lab
The Mental Frame & Specific Daily Actions to Succeed | Andy Stumpf

Huberman Lab

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2026 175:10


Andy Stumpf is a retired Navy SEAL, world-record-holding wingsuit BASE jumper, martial artist, and author. We discuss the mental framework and moment-to-moment decision-making process that can allow anyone to build discipline and resilience and better navigate both everyday life and life's most challenging moments. Andy explains several simple-yet-powerful tools gleaned from his time in — and after — his SEAL career that can help you determine where to focus your actions and how to clear your mind of things you can't control or that hold you back mentally. Andy also shares and reflects on lessons learned from some of the deeply personal challenges he faced outside of combat and freefall. Finally, we explore the all-too-frequent tragedy of people — including high performers — taking their own lives, and consider what might be done to prevent more such losses. Thank you to our sponsors AG1: https://drinkag1.com/huberman Our Place: https://fromourplace.com/huberman Wealthfront*: https://wealthfront.com/huberman Function: https://functionhealth.com/huberman Joovv: https://joovv.com/huberman Timestamps (00:00:00) Andy Stumpf (00:03:09) Protocols Book (00:04:06) Nagging Thoughts, Tool: Determine Influence vs Concern (00:10:14) Social Media, Screen Time Discipline (00:17:01) Sponsors: Our Place & Wealthfront (00:20:11) Social Media Addiction, Young Adults, Rebellion, Alcohol (00:27:38) Alcohol & Social Experiences; Cannabis; Ice Bath (00:36:07) Skydiving, Wingsuit Flying (00:41:47) Sponsor: AG1 (00:43:06) Skydiving, BASE Jumping, Wingsuit Flying; Navy (00:55:25) Danger & Fear, Wingsuit Flying Risk, Death (01:03:04) Divorce, Imperfection; Parenting Kids in Divorce (01:12:16) Sponsor: Function (01:13:55) Parents' Divorce (01:19:38) Long-Term Flow State, Focus, Adrenaline; Time Perception (01:30:58) Toilet Paper, Shortcuts, Tool: Do the Slightly Harder Choice (01:37:11) Micro-Discipline, Doing the Harder Thing, Tenacity & Super-Agers (01:48:00) Sponsor: Joovv (01:49:12) Physical & Mental Pain, Discussing Pain; Dogs (02:00:45) Suicide, Self-Talk, Isolation, Alcohol (02:11:52) Top Performers, Suicide; Ibogaine; Military, Trauma (02:21:36) Trauma & Healing, Exploring Other Possibilities, Control (02:28:57) Disciplined Acts, Choosing the Slightly Harder Option (02:35:20) Current Projects, Project Choice (02:41:48) Price of Success, Happiness, Money (02:53:09) Zero-Cost Support, YouTube, Spotify & Apple Follow, Reviews & Feedback, Sponsors, Social Media, Neural Network Newsletter *This experience may not be representative of other Wealthfront clients, and there is no guarantee of future performance or success. Experiences will vary. Andrew Huberman receives cash compensation from Wealthfront Brokerage for paid testimonials in his podcast, creating a conflict of interest. The Cash Account, which is not a deposit account, is offered by Wealthfront Brokerage LLC, member FINRA/SIPC. Wealthfront Brokerage is not a bank. The base APY is 3.30% on cash deposits as of January 30, 2026, is representative, subject to change, and requires no minimum. If eligible for the overall boosted rate of 4.05% offered in connection with this promo, your boosted rate is also subject to change if the base rate decreases during the 3 month promo period. Additional terms and conditions apply, which can be found on Wealthfront.com/Huberman. Funds in the Cash Account are swept to program banks, where it earns the variable APY. Same-day withdrawal or instant payment transfers may be limited by destination institutions, daily transaction caps, and by participating entities such as Wells Fargo, the RTP® Network, and FedNow® Service. New Cash Account deposits are subject to a 2-4 day holding period before becoming available for transfer. Investment advisory services are provided by Wealthfront Advisers LLC, an SEC-registered investment adviser. Securities investments: not bank deposits, bank-guaranteed or FDIC-insured, and may lose value. Disclaimer & Disclosures Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Your Daily Prayer Podcast
A Prayer to Embrace Imperfection

Your Daily Prayer Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2026 7:00 Transcription Available


Isn't it oddly freeing to be humbled? To be gently caught in a blind spot and brought back down to solid ground? In this warm and disarming episode, Lia Girard invites us to reconsider our relationship with imperfection — not as something to be ashamed of or frantically fixed, but as part of God's purposeful, loving design. In a world that bombards us with impossible standards of beauty, brilliance, and success, the pressure to appear perfect is relentless. And for Christians, it can feel even more loaded — especially when Jesus Himself says in Matthew 5:48, "Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect." But here's where the Greek original opens everything up. The word used — teleios — doesn't mean flawless. It means to mature in pursuing a goal. And Romans 3:23-24 makes the rest beautifully clear: not one of us achieves perfection on this earth. We all fall short. Every single one. That is not a verdict of shame — it is an invitation to grace. Our imperfection is what keeps us running to God, receiving His forgiveness, and extending compassion to others who are equally in need. Lia reminds us that only Jesus is perfect, and it is His perfection — not ours — that reconciles us to God. So rather than chasing the illusion of flawlessness, we are invited to happily, humbly become works in progress — directed, healed, and matured in His loving hands. Today's Bible Verse "...for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus." — Romans 3:23-24, NIV Ponder Today Imperfection is not a flaw in God's design — it is part of it. Our propensity for sin and our need for grace are what continually draw us back to God, to receive His love and redemption, and to realize that only Jesus is perfect. Teleios means mature, not flawless. When Jesus calls us to be "perfect," He is calling us to grow and pursue Christlikeness — not to achieve a sinless standard we were never designed to reach on our own. Humility is a gift, not a defeat. Being made aware of our shortcomings protects us from pride and self-glorification — the very trap Satan uses to lead us away from dependence on God. A humble heart is a protected heart. Our imperfection gives us the capacity for compassion. When we honestly face our own sin and receive God's forgiveness, we become better equipped to extend that same grace to others who are struggling alongside us. Chasing the illusion of perfection keeps us from receiving grace. When we cover up or ignore our weak places to appear flawless, we rob ourselves of the very thing we need most — God's transforming, healing presence in those exact places. A Prayer for You Today Dear God, it's never easy to face imperfection. But I know You made me on purpose, and I don't need to compare myself to anyone else — because we are all unique creations. Help me understand that there is no human standard for "perfect." Help me remember that my propensity for sin gives me the opportunity to receive Your forgiveness and grace, which equips me to show compassion to others. Don't let me be misled by the pursuit of flawlessness — because only You are perfect. Instead, help me to happily and humbly be a work in progress, directed, healed, and matured in Your loving hands. I love and thank You. Amen. Don't Miss an Episode If today's prayer gave you permission to stop striving and start growing, we'd love to stay connected. Subscribe to the LifeAudio newsletter at LifeAudio.com for daily prayers, devotionals, and more content to walk with you — imperfectly and beautifully — in faith every day. If you like this podcast, be sure to check out our sister podcast, Your Nightly Prayer - an evening Christian prayer podcast to help you end your day in conversation with God. https://www.lifeaudio.com/your-nightly-prayer/ Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

Recovery Elevator 🌴
RE 590: Are You Broken?

Recovery Elevator 🌴

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 8, 2026 44:01


Today we have Stef. She is 39 years old, lives in Truckee, CA, and took her last drink on March 24th, 2026.   This episode is brought to you by:   Sign up and get 10% off: Better Help Bozeman 2026 – August 12th-16th, 2026   If you're wondering what you can expect in your first seven days alcohol free, well, we just created a FREE 7-day guide for your first seven days.    [02:00] Thoughts from Paul:   Yes, we are all broken. Not because of a drinking problem, but because all 8 billion humans on the planet are perfectly imperfect.   While a drinking problem breaks you, it can be alchemized or transformed into your greatest strength. The transformation that someone makes when stepping into an alcohol-free life is hard to describe. Imperfection, brokenness, and flaws are not failures, but rather essential openings for growth, understanding, and hope.   "There's a crack in everything. That's how the light gets in." – Leonard Cohen   "The world breaks everyone, and afterward, many are strong at the broken places..." – Ernest Hemingway   Kintsugi – the Japanese art of repairing broken pottery by mending cracks with lacquer dusted or mixed with powdered gold, silver, or platinum.   [06:10] Paul introduces Stef:   Stef is 39 years old, works in property management and has two dogs.     Stef was socially awkward growing up, but when she had her first drink, she says she felt at home. She loosened up and her personality came out. Rules were restrictive at home, so she didn't have a lot of opportunities to party until she was kicked out. She says she floated around and did a lot of partying at that point.   When Stef was in her early 20s, her boyfriend passed away in a drunk driving accident. Stef says the only way she knew how to cope with things was to drink and forget it.  It wasn't long after that she got her first DUI. She ran from the charges for about two years and when she was picked up on a warrant, she was sent to AA meetings.   Stef says going to the first AA meeting felt like the first drink she had. She felt like she belonged there. She was 24 at the time and was able to quit drinking for six months before moving which is when she stopped reaching out to her sponsor.   Stef thought that she could use what she learned in AA to keep her from drinking alcoholically again. But as time went on, the drinking ramped back up. Stef eventually found herself unemployed, unable to pay rent, and had to move in with her grandmother in Sacramento.   Things were going well for Stef. She was able to get a job, stopped drinking and partying, but she was still hiding alcohol and drinking after everyone in the house went to bed. Not long after this, she moved to Lake Tahoe because she enjoys snowboarding. She ended up choosing the party over snowboarding and began having consequences.   Between 2014 and 2019, Stef got three more DUIs. The fourth DUI came after a rock bottom day of drinking that ended with Stef in a mental health facility swearing that if she was able to get out of there, she would return to AA. The judge ultimately mandated that Stef attend AA, so she dove in and began a four and a half year stretch alcohol-free.   Stef says the desire to drink came out of nowhere in April of 2025. I progressed to daily drinking very quickly and once she caught herself justifying driving drunk again, she knew enough was enough. This time she is quitting for herself, not a court order.   Praying, playing the tape forward and attending meetings are important resources for Stef. She hasn't forgotten anything she learned in AA and now she enjoys being able to help others. Stef is grateful to have a clear head and be present for everyone in her life now.   Stef's parting piece of guidance: "Give yourself a chance. See what could come from it. It's likely going to be very positive for you. So give yourself that chance. You deserve it."   Recovery Elevator It all starts from the inside out. I love you guys.   RE Instagram Sobriety Tracker iTunes  RE YouTube Café RE      

Huberman Lab
Master Self Control & Overcome Procrastination | Dr. Kentaro Fujita

Huberman Lab

Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2026 148:04


Dr. Kentaro Fujita, PhD, is a professor of psychology at The Ohio State University and an expert in the science of self-control and motivation. We discuss the best tools for developing strong self-control: to do more of what you aspire to and cease doing things you would like to avoid. We discuss why you need more than one form of willpower to achieve sustained motivation and overcome procrastination. Dr. Fujita also clarifies the data on the 2-marshmallow test, delayed gratification and intrinsic vs. extrinsic motivation. Read the show notes at hubermanlab.com. Thank you to our sponsors AG1: https://drinkag1.com/huberman David: https://davidprotein.com/huberman Lingo: https://hellolingo.com/huberman LMNT: https://drinklmnt.com/huberman Function: https://functionhealth.com/huberman Timestamps (00:00:00) Kentaro Fujita (00:03:08) Marshmallow Tests, Self-Control; Adult Modeling (00:08:24) Criticism of Marshmallow Tests, Learning Self-Control (00:15:08) Sponsors: David & Lingo (00:17:34) Movement & Motivation (00:21:42) Doing Hard Things; Exhaustion & Depletion Effect (00:29:02) Willpower vs Self-Control, Improving Self-Control (00:34:27) Aspiration or Fear for Motivation, Long- vs Short-Term Outcomes (00:40:55) Self-Control Toolkit, Tool: Failure & Exploration (00:46:44) Sponsor: AG1 (00:48:28) Motivation Warm-Up?, Tools: Mindset; Motivation Orientation (00:57:30) Imperfect Conditions, Self-Control Conflicts, Tool: Why vs How (01:05:25) Tool: "Whys" & Motivation Goals (01:11:26) Competition, Tool: Motivation Types (01:17:13) Sponsor: LMNT (01:18:33) Abstinence vs Moderation, Consistency vs Rigidity (01:27:48) Burnout; "Invisible" Goals, Single Goal & Trade-Offs (01:35:17) Intrinsic Motivation for Sustained Goals (01:40:16) Sponsor: Function (01:41:53) Meaning in Simple Tasks, Ikigai (01:49:03) Self-Control Failure, Tools: Distancing, 3rd Person & Heros (01:55:04) Words as Motivation, Visualization, Social Validation (02:03:51) Music, Anchors, Nostalgia (02:06:46) Intrinsic vs Extrinsic Motivation, Job & Salary (02:14:11) Mindfulness & Taking Breaks, Wabi-Sabi & Imperfection, Ikigai (02:20:56) Future Directions (02:25:19) Zero-Cost Support, YouTube, Spotify & Apple Follow, Reviews & Feedback, Sponsors, Protocols Book, Social Media, Neural Network Newsletter Disclaimer & Disclosures Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices