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Howi dropped by Talkin' Reggae to discuss Ballyhoo!'s new album, Bad Summer. PLUS songs of reflection, why you can't worry about losing fans when speaking out against injustice, and can artists ever tell when one of their songs is going to be popular?Bad Summer is out everywhere now!Check Ballyhoo! at https://ballyhoorocks.com/For more info on Streetlevel Uprising:streetleveluprising.comfacebook.com/streetleveluprisinginstagram.com/streetleveljay

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annieguestdesignforyourmind.com Annie Guest had a varied career in bookpublishing, advertising, and law, before she took another jump to work as amental health therapist and publish her first book. In Design For Your Mind, Anniecombines her passion for people and their potential with her love for interiordesign and her appreciation for the design choices that support mental health. Reading the room. We have a lot on our minds, right now. Not a great time for a book about how to make your house pretty. Right? Or maybe it is. DESIGN FORYOUR MIND is about more than aspirational countertops. It's a story about howany of us can use interior design to help us find our voice and our strengthand creativity, build community with other people (IRL!), and recharge ourlives. If you coulduse a boost, right now, check it out. DESIGNFOR YOUR MIND: How a Family Caregiver and Mental Health Therapist Renovated HerHome to Recharge Her Life—and Didn't Break the Bank by Annie Guestis hot off the proverbial press. We can find hardbound, paperback, and ebookeditions on Barnes and Noble and Amazon. Just click on this UBL (Universal BookLink) to order a copy. https://books2read.com/DesignForYourMind But wait,there's more. The Limited Edition is AVAILABLE NOW! Copies of Design For Your Mind - Limited Edition are available exclusively on thiswebsite. Printed on luxurious 80-lb. coated stock, the Limited Edition makes anelegant coffee table book and the perfect gift. The Limited Edition will beavailable while supplies last. Use coupon code FRIENDSHIP20 at checkout, andshipping within the U.S.will be FREE. We welcome payment by credit card, Venmo, and PayPal. The LimitedEdition will be shipped within the U.S. only, but our friends in othercountries are still welcome to order the handsome regular edition on Amazon andother outlets. Just click on the Universal Book Link below or on the Order Nowbutton at the top of this page to find your favorite retail outlet. https://books2read.com/DesignForYourMind What is the book about? Homes are morethan buildings; they are environments that embrace loved ones who make us afamily. But when those we've cared for under that roof depart—whether fromgrowing up or growing old—we can feel overwhelmed. How do we move on andrejuvenate our lives after years of putting others first? After years ofcaring for my parents and working with clients as a mental health therapist, Ifaced just such a dilemma. When my parents passed away, they left their houseto me. I decided to reimagine it in ways that would help me remember the wholeof my parents' lives – not just those sad final years – as I rebuilt my ownlife. I wanted to uncover the house's beauty, dust it off, and maybereinterpret it. I wanted to bring the house alive. The process has helped mework through my grief over my parents' final struggles and appreciate thefullness of their lives. It has also helped me take stock of my own life andfind my way forward. Come join meon my journey of reinterpretation in DESIGN FOR YOUR MIND: How a FamilyCaregiver and Mental Health Therapist Renovated her Home to Recharge HerLife—and Didn't Break the Bank (B.D. Walsh Publishing) and see for yourself howI transformed the house sustainably and on a budget. DESIGN FORYOUR MIND takes you step-by-step through the renovation that jumpstarted mycreativity, refreshed my life, and allowed me to mourn my parents. Using 95“before” and “after” photos accompanied by easy-to-follow explanations of thescience of good interior design, I'll help you discover the true purpose of eachroom in your own home and how those rooms can promote healthy living. · Design for your emotional health. Good home design can fulfillthe needs of its inhabitants, everything from safe zones for children exploretheir own interests, to fostering a sense of independence for adolescents, togiving busy adults spots to unwind from the pressures of daily life.

In episode 4 we drop all kinds of ancient knowledge and talk about our least-favorite airportJam Mechanics is a podcast hosted by Matt (The Narcissist Cookbook) and Bug (Bug Hunter) where we are challenged to write a song demo from scratch every episode If you'd like to download the demos we showed off, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠you can go to our ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Bandcamp⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠website⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to pay-what-you-want to support us!Our Music:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Narcissist Cookbook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Bug Hunter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠and our brand-new discord is here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠-- SPOILERS FOR THIS EPISODE BELOW ------Bug's Song-----Title: How to Build a HousePrompt Page: Deep Sea Exploration -> Quenching -> Magia NaturalisLyrics:I'm at the grocery store thumpin' every watermelon in the binDunno what I'm listenin' for but I saw my father do it when I was a kidHe never taught me his tricks so its been hardcause guess and check only goes so farAnd now I have a watermelon of my ownSo I'm gonna teach it everything I knowLike how to build a house, how to tie your sneakershow to walk and talk, and when you gettem, how to brush your little teethand when you're wrong, how to say you're sorrybut this list is getting long so we can start it in the morningwhen you're old enough to know it, your dad'll show you howI'll teach you everything you need to knowHow to Build A HouseBut I dunno how to build a house but I can teach yawhen ya need to lean on people and just ask someone for helpthe best lesson, while you're malleable, is teaching you how valuableit is to say: "I don't have to do everything myself"Because the ancient books of wisdom we're full of men who didn't listenbut they claimed to know how everything workedthey'd say the roof bones connected to the wall bones connectedto the floor bones connected to the Earth, and that's[Chorus]Cause you don't know shit kid!But I can help ya with itWe should start with shapes and colors, how to recognize your motherbut I'm waiting and impatient and I really wanna skip toHow to Grow a GardenI got some seeds to get you startedWe can grow some watermelons, teach each other how to tell whenthey are ready or be patient when they're still a bit too hard, andI can't build a house, unless it is for birdsBut I can try to build a home and get you ready for the worldAnd when you are, I hope you'll do it tooBecause you wanna be like me and that is something I would doWhen you're old enough to do it, you're gonna show 'em howTeach 'em what I did and didn't knowHow to Build a House---- Matt's Song -----Title: Four Stop SignsPrompt Page: Whippits -> Biomaterial -> Structural Integrity and FailureLyrics:there's a tree growing out of the gutterin the house across from herethere are cracks in the brick of the big smoke stacks at the ironworks museumthere are bodies in this building's foundations, prophets sick with weather painspress your ear to the doors or the hardwood floors that swell up when it rainsYou are living in the arhythmical heart of the empireAnd it's four stop signs at each intersectionAnd it's all uphill in every directionHear the groaning of the city, count the rings around its eyesFind out how big animals like this can grow before they dieHarvest ivy from the ceiling, drink the damp right off the wallBecome a vessel for whatever's growing in the laundry pileScrawl your debut novel longhand on the hulls of subway trainsServe single malts and double shots for half minimum wageGet married in the basement, get tetanus for the highGet sexy new infections just before they go worldwideYou are living in the arrhythmical heart of the empireAnd it's four stop signs at each intersectionAnd it's all uphill in every direction Kiss yourself goodnight and sneak outWhen you're fast asleep and don't come backKiss yourself goodnight and sneak out

Episode 200 | 5 Years!!!! This episode marks a major milestone — 200 episodes and five years of Caught on the Mike conversations. To celebrate, I'm joined by Howi Spangler the voice and driving force behind the long-running reggae rock band Ballyhoo!. From their start in Aberdeen, Maryland, to years of relentless touring, Ballyhoo! has built a dedicated following with a sound that blends reggae, rock, punk, and pop. In this episode, Howi shares the band's journey through early struggles, breakthrough moments, and the lessons learned along the way. We dive into the art of songwriting, the reality of life on the road, and how to build a career in music that lasts decades. We also reflect on personal growth, creative evolution, and what it takes to keep pushing forward as both an artist and a band leader. This conversation is packed with stories, inspiration, and perspective — the perfect way to mark five years and 200 episodes. If you're a longtime fan of Ballyhoo! or just discovering them now, this milestone episode offers an inside look at the passion and perseverance behind the music.

so I have decided to get back on track and today get in probably one of the last walks I'll get in until winter destroys that.so I decided that when I do some walks why not take you guys along with me so here is my first come take a walk with kimology.we're going to talk about how change is okay.we're going to talk about howI started this podcast why I started this podcastand some other topics.you are where you are because this is where you put yourself.you might be someplace different, if you had paid attention to something else.if you love where you're at then you are listeningyou are paying attention, if you do not like where you're at you can change that just pay attention.

In this episode, I'm breaking down one of the most emotionally charged moments in coaching… That moment when your client is spinning. You've coached them on this before. They “should” get it. But they're stuck. They're spiraling in confusion, asking questions, doubting, avoiding, not implementing. And you're wondering: Is it me? Is it my coaching? Is it my IP?

Let's be real: Running a creator biz in 2025 takes more than content — it takes systems that scale.In this episode, I'm sharing 10 powerful ways I use AI to save 20+ hours a week in my business — while scaling content, brand deals, community, and cash flow.You'll hear exactly how I use AI to:✅ Automate business outreach with Apollo + ChatGPT✅ Manage projects + tasks using AI-powered ClickUp✅ Batch content + schedule with Later Media, Repurpose, and Canva✅ Write blog posts, podcast descriptions, captions & emails in minutes✅ Track performance, analytics, and KPIs in real time✅ Create high-converting ad creatives and email sequencesWhether you're a solopreneur, side hustler, or scaling CEO — these tools will help you create TIME (literally) and lead with freedom

On episode 178 of March Forth with Mike Bauman, Mike chats with guitarist Wes Anderson! Based in Baltimore, Maryland, Wes is a guitarist who has been playing music for over 25 years. Since 2018, Wes has focused on his solo work, collaborating with artists from the hip hop, rock, alternative, and numetal genres. By 2024, Wes' musical collaborations had amassed over 500,000 streams. Among those collaborations are the likes of P-Nut (311), Howi and Donald Spangler (Ballyhoo!), Lyrics Born, Duke Sims, Kosha Dillz, Marlon Asher, King Green, DJ Lethal (Limp Bizkit), Jared Gomes (Hed PE), Trey Miller (Cherie Amour), Bevin Hamilton, The Kaleidoscope Kid, MC Bravado, Blake G, and Madalen Duke, among others. On May 23rd, Wes dropped his compilation album entitled destination nowhere, which was accompanied by two new singles the day of the release: the title track with RDGLDGRN, and "chillin on the couch" with Blake G and Madalen Duke. In this episode, Wes talks with Mike about the decision to put together his compilation record destination nowhere, music marketing strategy for his releases, his favorite albums from growing up (is Slipknot's Iowa the heaviest album of the 21st Century?), attending the Turnstile show at Wyman Park Dell in Baltimore, future music in the works, making decisions that would make the 8-year-old you proud, and more. This episode also features the title track off destination nowhere from Wes Anderson and RDGLDGRN, available where you get your music! Follow Wes on Instagram @songsbywes. To keep up-to-date on the latest with Wes, head over to https://wesandersonmusic.com/. Follow Mike on Instagram @marchforthpod. To stay up-to-date on the podcast and learn more about Mike, visit https://linktr.ee/marchforthpod. Thanks for listening! If ya dug the show, like it, share it, tell a friend, subscribe, and above all, keep the faith and be kind to one another.

MUSICThe wife of Weezer bassistScott Shriner, Jillan Lauren, was shot by Los Angeles policeTuesday while they were pursuing three hit-and-run suspects  Slash has announced he's leaving X, the platform formallyknown as Twitter, after his account was hacked last week. He wrote, "Thiswas a considered decision after repeated hacks, and it reflects a shift in howI'd like to stay connected moving forward. You can still find me on Instagram,TikTok and Facebook, where I'll be posting regular updates."   I would guess thatthe paparazzi are the most annoying thing about being famous.  But onceyou let them get to you, they've won.  And that's what happened to JustinBieber yesterday in Palm Springs.   Is the snake semenconcoction that Jessica Simpson uses on her throat just snake OIL?  Your weekly Jelly Rollnews: Jelly Roll just won a very prestigious award at Oxfordin England at the 2025 World Literacy Summit. Morgan Wallen just broke a record Taylor Swift held. He now has the most top 10s on the Billboard Hot 100 from an album prior to itsrelease.  He has five songs that have already made the top 10, and hisalbum "I'm the Problem" isn't out until May 16th.  TVAimee Lou Wood from "The White Lotus" hasbeen getting attention for her gapped front teeth, but it's making her "abit sad."  MOVING ON INTO MOVIENEWS:DC fans are worried that'The Batman II' may never come to theatres after star Robert Pattinson isreportedly being eyed for a villainous role in 'Dune 3'.Oliva Munn istalking about her steamy love scenes with Jon Hamm on their newshow, Your Friends & Neighbors.  Someone has identifiedthe original version of the Overlook Hotel 1921 July 4th Ball photo. that wasused at the end of "The Shining".  MISCElvira is releasing a "Cookbook fromHell"  LeBron James is settinghistory again as the first NBA star to get his own doll in the Barbiefranchise.         AND FINALLYTRASH THIS LIST: "The HollywoodReporter" ranked the 20 SEXIEST TV shows.  Ofcourse, this list is subjective, and reflects different definitions of what"sexy" is. AND THAT IS YOUR CRAP ONCELEBRITIES! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Episode 300! Featuring local legend Howi Spangler of Ballyhoo! They're a touring beach rock band from Aberdeen, Maryland, and have been a staple in the scene for a long time. This was Howi's second appearance on the show (his first was way back on Episode 100), and it was another fun conversation. In this episode, we talked about songwriting, TikTok, pursuing your dreams, and what Ballyhoo has planned for the summer. I also featured Ballyhoo's track Shellshock on this episode. If you dig it, you can stream it wherever you listen to music. Thanks for listening and supporting local music! If you'd like to help out the pod or the band, please drop a follow on any of the socials or check out BallyhooRocks.com.   https://ballyhoorocks.com/   Part-Time Rockstar Spotify Playlist   Please follow, rate, or review the podcast wherever you are streaming if you'd like to help us out.  -- Part-Time Rockstar Productions is available in the DMV for music videos and live filming. 

Melih Arat hazırlayıp sunduğu programda Becoming Trader Joe How I Did Business My Way and Still Beat the Big Guys Joe Coulombe kitabını konu aldı.

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He's just not that into you! Or maybe he is? Or maybe we all need to just snuggle up with a good mug of tea, put on some comfy pants and watch ourselves some romantic comedies. In this episode, join Lexi and Ben and maybe Nora Ephron to really get into the world of funny romance movies. (Please note that Nora Ephron is not actually IN this episode). Are you more of a "Forgetting Sarah Marshall" kinda person, or maybe a "The Notebook" person? Listen now and pick your romantic poison!Jess Says:- I was going to say Swedish berries but like is that a gummy??? idk- Rooked is mommy, thanks for the shout out - Ryan is so tickled- You missed When Harry Met Sally!!! I just think it's iconic and the diner scene is so good- Ryan and I's song is The Whole of the Moon by The Waterboys (idk why, it's a song that Ryan always liked and I didn't know it until we started dating and we both love it)Transcript:Keywords: gummies, candy, romantic comedies, romcom, chick flick, relationship, breakup, puppet, MuppetLexi 00:01 Just regular gummy bears. Ben 00:03 Oh, I guess that's all right. I'm partial to real fruit gummies. Lexi 00:09 I like a bear in a gummy.Ben 00:11 Yeah. Lexi 00:13 Or a coke bottle. I like a good cola bottle. Ben 00:13 Coke bottles are good. What's your ultimate gummy? I don't think we've ever talked about gummies.Lexi 00:19 Iced tea.Ben 00:19 There's an iced tea gummy?Lexi 00:19 There's an iced tea gummy by the makers of the... Haribo?Ben 00:27 Haribo, yeah. Lexi 00:29 They also make an iced tea gummy. Ben 00:30 I don't think I've ever seen that one, but I'm down with some Haribo. Lexi 00:32 I've only ever found it in the candy store in Banff.Ben 00:36 Wow, I like their mixed gummies. I'm a gummy stan.Lexi 00:41 Me too. I can say no to a lot of candy, but a gummy? I have a hard time passing up a gummy. Ben 00:48 It just feels right.Lexi 00:49 It does.Ben 00:49 Okay. Taking away any sort of extra-special types of gummies, what's like a normal gummy go-to for you?Lexi 00:58 Um...Ben 00:59 If you had to choose sort of the run-of-the-mill, you can find them at the drugstore, Shoppers Drug Mart. Lexi 01:04 Coke bottle. Any type of coke bottle. Ben 01:06 All right, all right.Lexi 01:06 A blue shark. I like a blue shark. Ben 01:07 Ooh. Lexi 01:07 I like a gummy bear.Ben 01:12 Mm, mm, mm.Lexi 01:12 And then, if I'm hard pressed, I'll do a gummy worm. Ben 01:12 Mm.Lexi 01:17And then, everything else, I can kind of say no to. What about you?Ben 01:20 I'm partial to sour gummies. Lexi 01:23 Mm. Mm-hmm. Yeah. Ben 01:23 I do like them. So, a sour soother is pretty good. Dina-sour, if you will. Lexi 01:29 Yeah. Very good. My mom used to have those in bulk when she was a high-school principal, and I would just eat them off of her desk all the time. Yep. Ben 01:36 Yeah. I used to hang out in a hot tub with my older brother when we were finished high school, but hadn't moved on with life yet, and we'd sit in the hot tub out back, and just eat sour soothers till, like, 3 in the morning. Lexi 01:50 Well, you know, there's worse things. Ben 01:51 Yeah, right?Lexi 01:53 Do you have a favourite colour of gummy? Ben 01:55 Oh, no. I've never really worried about that. I do like those fried egg looking ones though from Haribo, as well. Lexi 02:00 Mm. Like the 10-cent candies, which are more like a dollar, like just the mix of things.Ben 02:05 Yeah, I like a mix, as well, like a little mix bag, but I like the sour packages. If we are talking about king of gummies, for me, it's a jube-jube.Lexi 02:14 Really? Ben 02:15 Or a Jujube. Yeah, I mean, I'll eat them fresh or not fresh, but they are definitely better when they're fresh. They haven't gone all hard and shit. Lexi 02:23 Yeah. I miss the pink package of gummy bears. That was the king of gummies--Ben 02:29 Oh, I don't know that package. No, I don't. Lexi 02:31 Do you remember that? Like, I remember being a child in going to see The Lion King in theatres and my mom was like, "You can get a snack," and I was like, "I want gummy bears," and it was in a pink package.Ben 02:45 Huh.Lexi 02:45 And the gummy bears—the bears themselves—spelled out the word "gummy". Ben 02:47 Wow, I do not recall those at all, but that's dope. Lexi 02:51 And they were my favourite. Oh, they were... I'll see if I can find pictures of them, but my god, it was my favourite. Ben 02:57 There's a period from 14 to 16 where I was convinced that I liked wine gums, but now, as a more cultured individual, I realize that those are kind of trash. Lexi 03:07 Yeah, they're not...Ben 03:07 Yeah. They're bottom-of-the-barrel gummies, if we're being honest.Lexi 03:11 Yep.Ben 03:11 You know, I can still appreciate a run-of-the-mill, like a frog or, you know, even a fuzzy peach.Lexi 03:17 Mm-hmm.Ben 03:17 They're a little too sweet for me. Lexi 03:20 You know, sometimes, I don't like a whole package of fuzzy peaches, but I'd like, like, two or three.Ben 03:25 Yeah, if they're mixed in. Yeah, if they're thrown in with, like, a little dime bag. Lexi 03:27 Yeah, if they're mixed in, perfect. Little dime bag.Ben 03:31 Little bag of candies.Lexi 03:34 Sounds nice.Ben 03:34 Apparently, when the previous generation was younger, those were one cent, and then when we were kids, they were like 5 cents, and now they're like a quarter a candy.Lexi03:42 Yeah, it's wild.Ben 03:42 It's inflation, motherfuckers. Nobody's earning anymore, but those gummy prices just keep risin'. [Lexi laughs] Lexi 03:48 Gotta pay the gummy toll... the gummy tax?Ben 03:51 Something like that. I've always wanted to make my own gummies at home, but it seems like a complicated process. Lexi 03:56 Oh, god, no. No, I don't wanna see what the sausage is made of. I just wanna eat the gummy.Ben 04:01 I mean, out of sausages to make, I feel like a gummy's a pretty benign sort of thing to see. [chuckles]Lexi 04:08 Well, it's gelatin, so it's like ground hoof.Ben 04:10 Yeah, yeah, you put-- a little hoof or... No, I guess it's just ground-up hoof, isn't it? [laughs]Lexi 04:14 It is. It's ground-up bone and hoof and--Ben 04:16 You know what? Would you prefer we didn't use the entirety of the horse?Lexi 04:19 No, you know... [both laugh] Is it...? Can you...? Is it pig or what type of hoof is it? [laughs]Ben 04:25 I straight up don't fucking know. This is a perfect opportunity for Jess to jump in and educate us.Lexi 04:34 What type of hoof is in gelatin?Ben 04:34 Yeah, what's the most prominent type of hoof in gelatin? If you know, please write in. That e-mail address again is everyone@dorkmatterspodcast.com. Lexi 04:44 I hope the answer is fish bones or something really weird.Ben 04:47 Yeah, it's fish bones.Lexi 04:47 Chicken beaks. The answer is chicken beaks. Like, "Ah, yes."Ben 04:50 You know what it is? If we're being honest, it's probably all these things – everything that you can't put in anything else, yeah. Lexi 04:54 Ah, it's a mishmash. All the hoofs and beaks.Ben 04:58 And some big anus for good measure, you know? [Lexi laughs] That's where you get the tart from. You need a little pucker? [both laugh] We're terrible. Lexi 05:10 We're terrible. [both laugh]Producer Jess 05:12 [magical chime] Really bad news. I did not want to look this up because I wanted to continue enjoying gummies, but then my curiosity got the better of me. Okay, so this is from snopes.com, fact-check gelatin source. I'm going to just read this verbatim. "Sometimes the most innocuous of foodstuffs contain constituents whose origins are less than appetizing. Such is the case with JELL-O, a dessert that has graced millions of dinner tables since its 1897 debut.Underneath JELL-O's jiggly wholesomeness lurks a secret many consumers are disconcerted to learn: JELL-O is made from gelatin, an animal product rendered from the hides and bones of animals, typically pork skins, pork, horses, cattle bones, and split cattle hides." So yeah, you were right, Ben and Lexi; it's all of the above. No fish bones. Sorry if gummies are ruined. They are for me. [magical chime]Ben 06:13 We had some other intro topics. Did you still want to do that or is this good enough? Lexi 06:17 Oh, yeah. No, this is good. Let's punch it. Ben 06:20 All right, let's do the theme song then. [Dork Matters theme music, Dance by YABRA plays]Voiceover 06:51 [echoing] Dork Matters.Ben 06:53 Welcome back to the podcast. This is Dork Matters, a dorky podcast for dorks, and I'm your Dad Dork host, Ben Rankel. And, with me every time we do the show, is your Edorkater, Lexi Hunt. Yeah. Irreplaceably. With us, irreplaceably, Lexi Hunt. Lex, what are we doing today? We're not talking about pig anuses anymore. Lexi 07:14 We're not talking about pig butts. I mean, maybe we are. I mean. Ben 07:16 Maybe. Lexi 07:19 [both chuckle] I mean, anything is possible. We're talking about romantic comedies. Ben 07:25 There's gotta be a pig butt or two in there.Lexi 07:28 You gotta kiss a couple of pig butts to find the right one. Is that right? Ben 07:31 Yeah, to find a good one. Well, won't you bring us here?Lexi 07:36 This was really popular on Instagram. A lot of people were chiming in. Ben 07:39 Yeah, romcoms are a thing. It's interesting to me because I feel like the romcom is kind of gone. Lexi 07:49 The romcom is gone.Ben 07:49 Like the good one, like the blockbuster, like the big-release romcom is gone.Lexi 07:53 Yeah.Ben 07:53 That was a thing of the '90s and it's gone now.Lexi 07:56 Yeah, it's a Hallmark...Ben 07:56 Like, they just can't make bank anymore, can they? Yeah, it's a Hallmark Channel exclusive.Lexi 08:01 Yeah.Ben 08:01 Speaking of, I've got a fun game for you to play a little bit later. Lexi 08:03 Oh, okay. I'm looking forward to that one. Ben 08:05 Surprise for you after the break. Lexi 08:06 Okay. Well, a romantic comedy is just what it sounds like. It is a comedic movie that is centred around the relationships, typically between a man and a woman, although we're starting to see more movies branch out into other types of relationships. And so, it's nice to see. Ben 08:21 Bros. Lexi 08:22 Yeah, but it's also romantic comedies can be associated with negative stereotypes, one might say – a "chick flick", perhaps?Ben 08:32 Mm.Lexi 08:32 I found a great article actually called The Problem with Chick Flicks and I thought it kind of sums it up quite nicely with this quote from Deborah Barker. In the book literally titled Chick Flicks, she says, “The chick flick has been defined variously as escapist entertainment for women, simply as films men do not like, as examinations of capable independent female characters and their empowerment, as emotional ‘tearjerkers,' as tales of female bonding, and as the antithesis to male-oriented action films”.Ben 09:05 Well, we got a lot going on there and I think the primary one is the outdated sort of gender norms.Lexi 09:13 Mm-hmm.Ben 09:13 But also, there's the malignment of female-centric media, you know, the same way that things that women like in very many different aspects of media are kind of talked down to, like, you know, boy bands, etc. "Well, it's not good music. It just appeals to girls," and it's, you know, been used, I think, to malign a lot of different culture that could be engaged with more sincerely by dismissing it because it's femme-centric.Lexi09:46 Mm-hmm. Well, and it's not unheard of... I think it was Chevy Chase who actually said, like, "Women aren't funny," and so romantic comedies--Ben 09:56 Old racist, misogynistic Chevy Chase.Lexi 09:59 Old Chevy.Ben 09:59 The guy too racist to stay on Community. Lexi 10:04 Just, there's so many issues with him and there are so many great examples from Saturday Night Live of funny women, but so, you know, romantic comedies aren't exactly touted for being great examples of writing or even comedic writing, or even of, like, great romantic writing. They're kind of like the stereotype is they're these trashy, kind of like fun films that a bunch of gals get around and drink a bottle of pink wine and cry and laugh and have a good time. Ben 10:35 We call it rosé. Lexi 10:37 Rosé. Like, part of me is like, "What the hell's wrong with that? If that's what you're doing with a group of pals..."Ben 10:41 Absolutely.Lexi 10:42 ...who cares? Do it.Ben 10:43 Again, and this is like it's okay for dudes to get together and watch UFC, but you know, femmes can't get together and watch a romcom that's somehow... Like, we're supposed to think less of that than a bunch of guys watching people hit each other. Lexi 10:54 If you like the movie, watch the movie. And some of the movies, we'll talk about in a little bit. One of them was actually suggested to me by a dude friend of mine because he was like, "This movie makes me laugh every single time. It's hilarious So..."Ben 11:07 Hmm. Is it Bridesmaids? Lexi 11:10 It is not, actually. The other thing that I was reading about too, in doing research for this here episode, was about the--Ben 11:18 Research? Not on Dork Matters. Lexi 11:22 Yeah. Dork, dork, dork. Nerds!Ben 11:23 We have show notes, folks. We actually do way more work on these than I think comes across when we record them. [both laugh]Lexi 11:32 "The guy with the... What's the name of that guy? [snaps fingers] The guy with the face." [laughs]Ben 11:35Oh, that's a personal failing. [chuckles]Lexi 11:38 But, I was reading about the Bechdel Test. Ben 11:41 Alison Bechtel, comics legend. Lexi 11:43 Mm-hmm. The Bechdel-Wallace test is a test that measures the representation of women in film and other fiction. It's a test that asks whether a work of fiction basically features at least two female characters who have a conversation about something other than a man on screen or in the book, or whatever. Ben 12:01 Right. And it's been expanded since that original definition, but I don't know where we're at now to include some other criteria. But, yeah.Lexi 12:08 Yeah.Ben 12:08 Yeah, and again, the thing that some people forget about the Bechdel Test is that it is the lowest bar that you could step over.Lexi 12:16 Yes. [laughs]This is not meant to be like, "Hold your head up high and fly a flag." Like, this was the bare minimum. You had enough female representation in a film to have two people talk to each other, that are femme, that were not talking about the masc character in the film and, like, is a very low bar to clear [whispers] and a lot of media does not clear it.Lexi 12:41 Well, and especially romantic comedies because, so often, romantic comedies are typically centred around like the heteronormative man-woman, cis relationship, and so--Ben 12:51 Man-woman, man-man relationship.Lexi 12:55 Yeah, it's typically that triangle of--Ben 12:58 Yeah, M-F, M-M.Lexi 13:00 --man dates woman, woman has problem with man for some reason, starts dating other man. Original man wants to get her back with something very...Ben 13:07 Grandiose?Lexi 13:10 ...grandiose. Gets her back. There's usually some type of rain. Ben 13:13 Oh, yeah, you gotta have rain. Lexi 13:15 And then everything ends hunky dory. Ben 13:18 Yeah, happily ever after. There are a few that subvert that trope, and one of those is on my list...Lexi 13:26 Yep. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.Ben 13:30 ...of favs, which is what I call faves, which is short form for favourite.Lexi 13:33 That is true.Ben 13:35 Can you hear the "u" when we say favourite? Lexi 13:37 Fav-our-ite.Ben 13:38 [chuckles] I feel like we can. We're Canadian, so we say the "u". Fav-our-ite col-our.Lexi 13:44 Col-our. [laughs]Ben 13:47What else we got? Although I do get tripped up because I want to add one to major. Lexi 13:51 Mm, mm-hmm. Ben 13:52 Trips me up. Lexi 13:54 Can't do it.Ben 13:54 I can't just put a "u" in whatever I want, but I want to. That "u" is important to me. Where were we? Lexi 14:01 Uh, we've talked about what they are. Let's get into it. Let's talk about what's your favourite-- your top three. Ben 14:07 Our top three? Okay, let's go. Why don't you lead us off here? Lexi 14:11 Yeah. Okay, I'm going to start with--Ben 14:14 Give me your favourite. Tell me why it's your favourite, and then let's chat about it. Lexi 14:17 So, this is the one, I was going through a breakup. I was very, very, very sad, having a hard time. Ben 14:24 Do you want to give us more details on your personal life? Lexi 14:26 Nope. I was very sad.Ben 14:27 Who did you break up with? How long were you going?Lexi 14:30 Don't want to talk about it, but I was very, very sad and my friends, Jillian and Dylan—as I like to call them, Dillian because they're a couple—Ben 14:37 Or Jillan.Lexi 14:38 Jillian... Nope. Jillan?Ben 14:40 J--J--Jillon.Lexi 14:40 I like to call them Dillian.Ben 14:41 Dillon? Dillian is better.Lexi 14:45 They are huge fans of the romcom, and Dylan was actually like, "You have to watch Forgetting Sarah Marshall." It is so ridiculous and over the top, and this was right around the time Forgetting Sarah Marshall came out. That was, like, what? 2007, 2008, in and around there. Ben 15:03 Earlier than we'd like to admit. [Jason Segel sings Peter You Suck, from Forgetting Sarah Marshall]Lexi 15:05 Yes, but it was hilarious. Now, okay, in hindsight, yes, Russell Brand. Now, by today's standards, not a good dude. Also, Jonah Hill.Ben 15:14 There was a long while there, where we're like, "Hey, this dude's telling it like it is in a more progressive bent," and...Lexi 15:19 And now we're like, "Oof." But, at the time, so you have people-- it was kind of like that frat pack group of dudes.Ben 15:27 Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.Lexi 15:28 So, you got Jonah Hill. Who else is there? Mila Kunis, Russell Brand... Oh, my god. I've completely.Ben 15:37 Star of the show. [song continues]Jason Segel 15:38 [sings] It's so self-loathing, go see a psychiatristI hate the psychiatristWell go see one anywayI don't like the psychiatristYou need to go see oneSee a psychiatristI'm not going.Lexi 15:48 Jason...Ben 15:50 You got this.Lexi 15:50 Segel.Ben 15:52 Yeah. I was gonna do a caw for you, like [caws]. Is that seagull or is that...? [laughs]Lexi 15:57 'Cause, in my head, I could see him, but I was like, "It's not Sudeikis. That's--Ben 16:00 No.Lexi 16:03 So basically, there's a breakup. He takes it hard. He has to get over Sarah Marshall. He goes to Hawaii, and hilarity ensues.Ben 16:12 Guess who's there?Lexi 16:12 Bill Hader's in it, and Sarah Marshall is there. They have this great time of, like, one-upping each other and being sad on the island. But, what I really liked about the movie was, after they leave Hawaii and things don't end well, he goes back and it shows him kind of pushing through his depression and still coping with it, still being sad, and still trying to work on himself, versus trying to get back to a relationship that, as the movie kind of goes on, you see he keeps having all these flashbacks of Sarah, and then they're so perfect at first, and then as the movie goes on, the flashbacks kind of show how the relationship actually wasn't that perfect. Ben 16:50 Rose-coloured glasses--Lexi 16:52 --start to come off. Ben 16:54 Yeah, yeah, the idealization or, you know, turning somebody into an idea as opposed to dealing with them as they actually were. Lexi 17:02 Yeah. And, seeing it from her perspective too, because she points out that he was actually quite depressed and she was trying to help him through it, but eventually had to save herself because he was not taking care of himself and she had to make this hard call. And so, then you start to empathize with her, that she's not just this bitch that she's been cheating on him. She's a person who also was really struggling. And then, it really wraps it up with, like, yeah, he kind of dates Mila Kunis to kind of get over her, but they both kind of separate and become buds in the end, and it just culminates in the funniest, cutest Muppet/puppet Dracula musical. [Jason Segel sings Dracula's Lament from Forgetting Sarah Marshall]Ben 17:43 You know we love-- we love puppets here.Lexi 17:44 And it's just so funny. We love puppets and so that--Ben 17:47 With the exception of part-time guest host, Stephanie Gerk, who is afeared of puppets.Lexi 17:52 --is not a fan of puppets. Jason Segel 18:05 [sings] And I've been living too hard to believeThat things are going to get easier nowI'm still trying to shake off the painFrom the lessons I've learnedAnd if I see Van Helsing, I swearTo the Lord I will slay him! (A-ha-ha-haa!)Take it from meI swear I will let it be so! (A-ha-ha-ha!)Blood will run down his faceWhen he is decapitated... (Aah!)His head on my mantle is howI will let this world knowLexi 18:31 But, I just love that, at the end, he wants to do this ridiculous musical and he does it. He finds a way to bring it together and I just love that movie. [song ends] There's one specific line, Ben, that I think about constantly and it's from Russell Brand's character is missing a flip flop and he's trying to find it and he's like...Russell Brand [18:45] [with Lexi quoting along sporadically] "Excuse me, missus. I lost a shoe-- like, this one. It's like this one's fellow. It's sort of the exact opposite. It's not like it's evil or something. Just, you know, a shoe like this, but for the other foot. Otherwise, I'd have two right...Lexi 19:07 And I think that is so funny. [laughs] Ben 19:12 I knew it was going to be that part. Lexi 19:13 He was funny in it.Ben 19:13 He was funny. It's too bad it didn't work out for him to be a good person, overall.Lexi 19:16 So, forgetting Sarah Marshall, I love you. Ben 19:20 A fantastic pick and that idea of focusing on oneself as a means of growth, as opposed to focusing on a relationship that didn't work and obsessing over it, is something I think I appreciate from that film as well, which leads me into my first pick, in a similar vein, which is 500 Days of Summer. [500 Days of Summer Main Title by Mychael Danna Rob Simonsen plays]Lexi 19:40 Ooh.Ben 19:40 We got Joseph Gordon Levitt and Zoe Deschanel, who I'm generally not a New Girl fan. Lexi 19:47 No. I go back and forth on her but, yeah.Ben 19:50 Yeah. Yeah. So basically, you know, guy meets girl, guy and girl have relationship, relationship seems great to one, not to the other. Eventually, it falls apart and JGL's character spends a lot of time just being like, "What went wrong? Why didn't this work out? What did I do wrong? What did she do wrong?" obsessing over this failed relationship until eventually somebody kind of is like, "Hey, you are being a bit of a loser about this. You need to stop and actually think about how this relationship was going," and it's a similar situation to FSM, if you will, as we call it – us Marshall-heads.Lexi 20:29 Mm-hmm. [both chuckle]Ben 20:29 In that he realizes that he has built up this sort of idealized version of the relationship, and even himself and Zooey's character, in the relationship as well. And then, you get... It's told out of order, as well, so you kind of start with the breakup and then work back to sort of how that happened and you start with more of his perspective on things and kind of him as the protagonist and like the victim. But then, as you get through it more, you realize how much JGL's character has pushed this other character into something she was very clear about not wanting to start with.Lexi 21:06 Mm-hmm. Ben 21:08 And we eventually find out that basically she wanted to keep things casual, and then eventually they clicked enough that, you know, he pushed her and sort of not nagged but, you know, insisted upon a relationship that she wasn't comfortable with. And then, it somehow shocked Pikachu-face when it doesn't work out the way he wants. And then, she goes off and finds a thing that he wanted with her, with somebody else and, you know, it kind of culminates in a moment where he's like, "Why? Why did you tell me you didn't want this?"Lexi 21:33 Yeah.Ben 21:33 "And yet, you immediately went out and found it with somebody else," and she said, "I didn't want it with you. It didn't work with you. You know, you weren't the right person for me."Joseph Gordon Levitt 21:43 I mean, it doesn't make sense. Zooey Deschanel 21:47 It just happened. Joseph Gordon Levitt 21:49 Right, but that's what I don't understand. What just happened? Zooey Deschanel 21:53 I just... I just woke up one day and I knew. Joseph Gordon LevittKnew what? Zooey Deschanel 22:03 What I was never sure of with you. Ben 22:03 And it's a very honest and humbling moment. And then, you know, the end of this movie is him finding a way to move on past his obsession over this failed relationship and better himself. And, that leads to sort of the culmination of his movie, which is like, you know, finding a way to be a better person and healthier relationships in the end. And, I like that as well.Lexi 22:26 Yep.Ben 22:26 Did you ever watch it? Lexi 22:27 I did watch it and I found it not my favourite of his work. Ben 22:36 So, I think for me it was a zeitgeist thing, as well, like same for you for Sarah Marshall. I had gone through a relationship and had found myself sort of obsessing over, like, "Why didn't this work out?"Lexi 22:48 Yeah.Ben 22:48 "I thought we had all of this," and then going back and being like, "Oh." Eventually, after spending some time working on myself and getting some distance and feeling better about where I am as a person, I can look more objectively at the relationship and be like, "Oh, here's some places that I pushed when I didn't need to," or when they didn't want me to and seeing some stuff that was there that you don't want to see when it breaks up initially. Lexi 23:11 They do a really good job in that movie of showing how a relationship can really bring out the worst in decent people, because I found his character, he really ran the gamut in that movie because there's moments where I was like, I understood him, I related to him, and then other times where I was like, "God, you are like an incel," because he was so angry. [Ben laughs]Ben 23:32 Yeah. Lexi 23:32 And I was like, "God, get over it." And it was right around the time that the friend is kind of like, "You're not doing well.”Ben 23:39Yeah, it's his little sister, I believe, who's like, "You're kind of an asshole about this."Lexi 23:42 Yeah. And I think we all have that in us. Like, we've all had a relationship—maybe not a romantic relationship, even a friendship—that's brought out not good things in us. And, sometimes, it takes a person who's really brave and really cares about you to be like, "You're not well." That's a hard thing to say to someone. Ben 24:01 Do you respond well to that? I find, not for me. I think I have to, like, live five to six years afterwards and be like, "Oh, fuck."Lexi 24:08 I do when it comes from certain people. Like, I have a couple of friends in my life, like if they were to sit me down and be like, "I'm concerned about you," then I'd be like, "Oh, shit." Like, I would take it super seriously because, for the most part, those people would not get involved in my problems. So, if they were to sit down and say like, "I'm concerned," I would be like, "Okay, I'm taking this seriously," and that's basically what happened with Forgetting Sarah Marshall. [both laugh] Dillian was like, "Hey, bud, you're sad. You okay?"Ben 24:40 Yeah. [Lexi laughs] Yeah, yeah, 500 Days, as well. His little sister's like, "You're only thinking about happy stuff. I saw a lot of stuff that was not very happy."Lexi 24:49 Yeah.Ben 24:49 There's the part where I think it's a party where he finds out she's engaged and he turns into a real piece of shit there. And, there's a quote during the, like, press junket from this movie where Joseph Gordon Levitt himself is like, "I need people to understand that I am the protagonist of this film. I am not the hero, and I don't think anybody should be looking at me as a heroic person in this movie."Lexi 25:09 Yeah.Ben 25:12 And I just get that. Yeah. I felt that at the time, the obsession, the confusion, the anger.Lexi 25:18 Mm-hmm. Totally. Love it. Ben 25:20 And that's what that makes that one stick for me.Lexi 25:22 That's a good pick. Ben 25:22 The title, though, not my favourite. It's a little twee. 500 Days of Summer... Oh, because her name is Summer and they're together for 500 days.Lexi 25:29 Yeah. Oh!Ben 25:32 Wow. That's a year and a half. That's a long time.Lexi 25:33 That's a good long time for a relationship that...Ben 25:36 It's not nothing, but it's also not enough to be like, it's worth your everything--Lexi 25:42 Well, and it's also, if you think about it from the other side of it, 500 days to be in a relationship that you never wanted to be in, in the first place, like, ooh.Ben 25:49 Oh, my god. Yeah, it's rough. When you start moving back through that movie and realizing that she was like, "I want to keep it casual," and he just sort of--Lexi 25:55 --like, forces her into a relationship. Ben 25:57 Pushes. Just pushes. Yeah, he just pushes and is never cool or chill about it.Lexi 26:00 No. Hence the incel part where I'm like, "Okay." [laughs]Ben 26:05 Yeah, absolutely. No, absolutely. And it was before we had a word for that or, you know, a bunch of people watched that movie and we're like, "Oh, god. She's bad to him."Lexi 26:14 She should have just said, "Yes," and gone along with it. Ben 26:15 Yeah. "Why didn't she marry him even though she didn't feel like he was the right person for her?" [Lexi laughs] "He loved her so much, and he treated her really good, and when you treat someone good, they have to give you anything you want."Lexi 26:27 Like, "Oh, boy." Reminds me of a friend from art school. [Ben laughs] I've said it before – best piece of dating advice I ever got from them was, "You don't date nice." Like, it's not a good enough reason to stay with someone. Like, "They're nice to me." Like, "So what? Everyone should be nice to you."Ben 26:41 Yeah. Everybody should be nice to you.Lexi 26:43 Yeah.Ben 26:43 Yeah, absotootly, as they say on Thomas and Friends: All Engines Go, because they're trains and they toot. [steam train whistle blows] Yep. Absotootly. [Lexi sighs] Sorry about that. Should we keep going or do you want to do mid-break? It's your call. Lexi 26:59 Let's do one more and then we'll go mid-break. We'l do three and three. Okay.Ben 27:02 All right. All right, I'm gonna do the next one.Lexi 27:04 Oh, okay.Ben 27:06 Is that okay with you, or do you wanna do the next one?Lexi 27:07 No, no. You go. You go. Ben 27:09 All right, I'm launching into a problematic fave... Lexi 27:13 Okay.Ben 27:12 ...which is You've Got Mail.Lexi 27:15 Yeah.Ben 27:15 It's a Nora Ephron flick. It's Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan's re-starring together again after their first tilt at Sleepless In Seattle, which is another favour of mine, but we'll do that some other time. [Over the Rainbow by George Fenton from You've Got Mail plays] You've Got Mail, I loved. I watched the hell out of this movie. I thought it was romantic as heck until somebody confronted me and, like, this entire movie is based off of a premise of complete power imbalance towards the male character who lies and manipulates the other person and then puts her out of fucking business, all while being very callous and still trying to court her surreptitiously.Lexi 27:56 Yeah.Ben 27:57 But it still has a special place in my heart because I liked it for so long. And then, so after I was confronted with how terrible the relationship in this movie actually is and being like, "Oh, fuck, they're right," I still like the film and I had to slow down and be like, "What is it that I actually really loved about this film?" and I realized it's the character of New York in You've Got Mail. I am in love with this version of New York that they show, which admittedly is very twee and non-existent. It's almost a Friends version of New York.Lexi 28:33 [chuckles] Yep.Ben 28:33 Almost. But, it's just this really romantic version of New York, to me, where like people just stroll around and there's a Joni Mitchell soundtrack to this thing that kind of slaps, and it's just one of my favourites, and I like Parker Posey a whole lot. Lexi 28:49 Parker Posey is an absolute treasure. Ben 28:52 So, she's a delight in this as an executive who gets kind of dropped by Tom Hanks' character and is just sort of like, 'Fuck it. I don't care. I'm successful and awesome. I don't need... Like, this doesn't matter to me."and just sort of shrugs him off. And, you get a great Greg Kinnear as a nut who is really obsessed with typewriters.Lexi 29:11 Mm-hmm.Ben 29:12 I love that bit. [music continues] And... Whats his name? Steve Zahn plays a character that works in this, like, little independent bookshop who is just--Lexi 29:20 He's always like a zany--Ben 29:22 --zany, bonkers weirdo. Yeah.Lexi 29:23 He always plays a zany kind of like, "What are we gonna do with him?" kind of character.Ben 29:28 Yeah, we get a great line from him in this film, which is, "I'm going to the nut shop where it's fun." It's a real classic.Lexi 29:37 I will say, the Nora movies, they do a great cozy vibe.Ben 29:43 Yeah.Lexi 29:43 Like, everybody's got a good scarf, the kitchens always very nice.Ben 29:46 Yeah, the lighting is good.Lexi 29:46 Like all of the Father of the Bride movies, they just feel like you're having a cup of cocoa and a big-- Ben 29:54 They're very white, though. Lexi 29:55 Yeah, they're super white. Yeah.Ben 29:56 Yeah. Lexi 29:57 Very like Connecticut. Ben 30:00 Yeah, we get what's-his-face in You've Got Mail as the bestie, which is Chris... Oh, my god. This is gonna kill me. Fucking, now he's come back as a comedian again and he's very transphobic and nobody's a big fan of him returning.Lexi 30:17 Oh, who is it?Ben 30:17 Dave Chappelle. God, that took me enough.Lexi 30:19 Oh. Dave Chapelle is in that? No.Ben 30:18 Yeah, he's the best friend. Lexi 30:22 Are you sure?Ben 30:23 Not anymore. You're making me really question myself. I've watched this movie, like, 3,000 times. Lexi 30:27 I feel there's no way Dave Chappelle is in You've Got Mail. [music continues]Ben 30:30 I'm almost positive he is. To Google! [old-school computer bleeping] [scratching record, DJ-style]Lexi 30:39 Looking at it right now. Oh, my god, you're right. Ben 30:42 He's in it. Yeah, he plays Tom Hanks' best friend/assistant/whatever his job is. Lexi 30:48 I find that shocking. It has been so long since I have seen that movie. Ben 30:54 Yeah.Lexi 30:57 My goodness. Ben 30:57 It's been a minute now for me too, 'cause I don't have time to do anything anymore, but yeah. Yeah, so the whole premise is manipulative and wrong, and he treats this woman like shit, in person, and then, via these emails that they're sending is just romantic and nice. And for, like, two thirds/three quarters of the movie, he knows who she is, she doesn't know who he is, and he never bothers being like, "Hey, I'm actually the guy you're emailing with. Let's deal with this relationship on an equal footing." He just fucking manipulates her. Yeah. Lexi 31:32 No, he catfished her before it was catfishing and this was the precursor to shitty social media relationships where it's like, "Don't talk to me in public, but online we can, like, sext, and it'll be cool."Ben 31:42 And then they meet up in the park and she's like, "I hoped it would be you." And then I'm like, "Nah, real life, she'd be like, 'You motherfucker.'"Lexi 31:50 "No, you didn't." Ben 31:50 Shove him in the water.Lexi 31:51 Yes, she should. That's how it should have ended – just, "Fuck you," right in the water.Ben 31:56 "You fucking piece of shit," and just shoves him into the water. [both laugh] Yeah. Lexi 32:01 "You've ruined my life. But don't worry, you can be the little honey bun at home."Ben 32:04 Yeah, "You destroyed the shop that my mother started," and that's supposed to be a great release for her, according to this movie.Lexi 32:12 Hey, she finally let her mother go. Ben 32:13 Yeah, "You troubled yourself too much with this shop. This shop wasn't really for you. It was for your mom." No, it's for her, too. It's her business. And now what? She gets to go edit books or something for Parker Posey? I guess that's not that bad.Lexi 32:25 No, it sounds kind of nice too, but...Ben 32:26 Yeah, Parker Posey hires her in the end, which I think is great. [chuckles]Lexi 32:30 [sighs] Yeah.Ben 32:30 [Dreams by The Cranberries from You've Got Mail plays] Anyhow, I still like the film from the version of New York, we get to the Joni Mitchell opening. Greg Kinnear is great. Steve Zahn's awesome in it. And then, you also have this like story where Tom Hanks' character's father is on his third wife and he's got these two little siblings from, like, his grandfather's just disgusting relationship with a younger woman and his father's disgusting relationship, and then eventually the nanny leaves with the second or third wife or whatever. It's amusing.Lexi 33:01 Yeah, there's some jabs in there, but okay.Ben 33:03 Anyhow, I can't do faves without talking about it, even though it is problematic and, you know, I now see a lot of issues with that film's writing, but... [both chuckle] I had a huge crush on Meg Ryan for a long time. [music fades out] What is your second one? Do you have a great lead in? Lexi 33:23 I do because actually, as you were talking, I changed my mind about--Ben 33:29 Oh, my goodness. What?!Lexi 33:29 I did.Ben 33:32 I saw that a pop up on the screen here that said, "Lexi has edited the show notes."Lexi 33:35 I made a change. So, I've changed my second one to others to kind of chat about, runner up, whatever. The next movie romcom that I'd like to talk about is Baby Mama. Sorry.Ben 33:47 So, I've never heard of this.Lexi 33:47 [Stay Up Late by The Talking Heads from Baby Mama plays] Oh, Benjamin. It is awesome. Okay, so we've got Tina Fey, we've got Amy Poehler, we've got Greg Kinnear, and Dax Shepard. So, the whole premise is Tina Fey... Again, this movie was recommended to me by Dillian. Ben 34:07 Oh, it's coming back to me now. Lexi 34:09 And it's about Tina Fey, who's this corporate lady who she's getting up there in age and she wants to have a baby, but she's not in a relationship. So, she decides to just hire a surrogate who turns out to be Amy Poehler, who kind of plays this like white trash crazy lady. Ben 34:28 Yeah. Yeah. Lexi 34:28 And the two of them forge this, like, really unlikely friendship, and meanwhile are having their own, like, issues with men on the side. And I feel like it's a romantic comedy about friends and, like, yes, there's male love interests in both of the ladies' lives, but it's more or less like it's the coming together of two unlikely friends to form a really strong relationship. Ben 34:48 Mm-hmm.Lexi 34:49 And it is funny as shit. I loved it. To this day, still makes me LOL. I love it. Ben 34:56 Yeah, laugh out loud for the younger generation. Lexi 35:00 Just, there's one scene because. I worked at--Ben 35:02 Wafflecopter.Lexi 35:02 I worked at a well-known grocery store...Ben 35:07 We all know by now, if you listen to the show.Lexi 35:07 I worked there, and we used to joke about it all the time that this movie came out 'cause it kind of felt like working in this, like, corporate, natural grocery store, where the owner of the store is, like, fabulously rich and wealthy and very like, not down to earth, but then is also pretending to be this hippy.Ben 35:26 Only hires granola people. Lexi 35:28 Well, no, but like is pretending to be this hippie and kind of is, but absolutely so disconnected from life, and there's one minute, and it's they played by Steve Martin and he plays such a good wacky, hippie billionaire. He rewards Tina Fey's character with five minutes of uninterrupted eye contact [Ben laughs] and it's just so good. Ben 35:52 My god, I can't do a three count of eye contact with anybody. Five minutes is  fucking torture. It's like staring into the sun. Lexi 35:58 It's so funny and the whole thing, it starts with Liz Lemon-- [laughs] Tina Fey's character--Ben 36:05 I feel like when you have a prominent actor, you can call them anybody from their oeuvre of films or whatever. Lexi 36:12 Yeah. Tina Fey's character is looking for a new location for one of their new grocery stores, which is basically like a Whole Foods, and she scouts out a place which is Greg Kinnear's juice shop and they forge a bit of a romantic relationship that way. That man plays a good romantic lead. Ben 36:29 Yeah, he's unthreatening and has sort of big eyes.Lexi 36:32 Yeah. Very gentle, deer-like qualities.Ben 36:36 [laughs] Yeah, he's a deer man.Lexi 36:38 He is a dear man. But, if you haven't seen it, Ben, you need to watch Baby Mama. It's hilarious. [song continues]Ben 36:42 Yeah, I'll check it out. I'll put it on the to-watch list, for sure. Awesome. [music fades out] Well, if that wraps up the second, I think it's time for us to go to our mid-show break. [sings along with "Who's That Pokémon?" theme music] Da-na, na-na... [record scratches off record] No, no. What? Da-na... [record scratches off record] No, we're not doing it, not this time.Lexi 36:56 Whaaaat?Ben 36:57 [sings along with "Who's That Pokémon?" theme music] Da-na, na-na... [record scratches off record] We're not doing Who's that Pokémon? [gasps] We're playing a game I've stolen from another podcast called My Brother, My Brother and Me, in which I offer you a Hallmark rom comedy description.Lexi 37:11 Okay.Ben 37:12 I'm going to give you a romcom title and description. You tell me if it's Hallmark or AI [Lexi laughs] in a segment I like to call... [playful music plays] Hey, I?Lexi 37:23 Oh, wow.Ben 37:25 Hallmark or AI?Lexi 37:25 AI.Ben 37:27 AI, question mark. I don't know. So, that's the game we're playing today. Lexi 37:31 Okay.Lexi 37:31 Yeah, let's do it. Ben 37:31 Let's get into it. You ready for your first one? [romantic music plays] The title of this romcom is Love Notes and Bookstore Blunders. "In a quaint bookstore nestled in the heart of a bustling city, a shy and reserved librarian finds herself caught in a whirlwind romance with a charming but disorganized writer who accidentally swaps their notebooks, leading to a series of comedic mishaps and unexpected connections as they embark on a journey to retrieve their misplaced musings and maybe find love along the way." AI or Hallmark? [music ends]Lexi 38:03 I'm going to go with AI.Ben 38:04 Ding, ding, ding! That is AI. Well done. Lexi 38:07 Yay!Ben 38:07 [laughs] What gave it away? Lexi 38:11 It's a little too on-the-nose.Ben 38:12 Is it too on-the-nose?  You just wait. Some of these Hallmark ones are very...Lexi 38:16 Okay. Well, no, I mean like I don't have... Yeah, okay. Give me the next one. Let's do this. Ben 38:20 The next one here is Cupid's Catering Chaos. [romantic music plays] Lexi 38:24 Oh, god. [Ben laughs]Ben 38:26 "When an ambitious but overwhelmed chef reluctantly agrees to cater her ex's wedding, she finds herself entangled in a comedic web of mistaken identities, culinary calamities, and unexpected romance when she collides with the charming wedding planner determined to make the event perfect, forcing her to confront her past and maybe find a second chance at love." [music ends]Lexi 38:49 I'm going to say that's Hallmark. [wrong buzzer sounds]Ben 38:50 It's AI. Lexi 38:53 Agh. Okay, okay.Ben 38:57 All right. All right, let's do one more.Lexi 38:59 Okay.Ben 38:59 Let's see if you'll land this one. The next one is called Dater's Handbook. [romantic music plays] "Cass is searching for the man of her dreams, except she thinks she has found the ideal man. She finds out she's wrong after a few dates and decides to read The Dater's Handbook, a guide that outlines the expectations a man should achieve. George follows all the expectations in the handbook, whereas Robert doesn't, but he's equally charming. Blah blah, blah blah blah." Basically, should you follow your heart or the expectations of others? That's it. [music ends]Lexi 39:29 I'm gonna go with AI. [wrong buzzer sounds]Ben 39:31 It's Hallmark.Lexi 39:32 No! Oh, my god. Ben 39:35 Dater's Handbook, 2016m starring Meghan Markle in this cast.Lexi 39:40 No.Ben 39:40 Yeah, and two people I've never heard of as the other competing men. [Lexi sighs] Anyway, I could play this game all day, but it does lead you to wonder if perhaps AI is writing everything that comes out of Hallmark. [Lexi laughs] Lexi 39:56 I mean, reading some of the titles that came out around Christmas-time, I was just like, "My god. This is awful."Ben 40:04 I'm not going to do the full thing, but here's a couple more. There's one called Finding Normal.Lexi 40:08 Ooh.Ben 40:08 So boring. Summer Villa, generic as hell. Hidden Gems. Lexi 40:12 Yeah, I've heard of that one. Ben 40:13 Deliver by Christmas--Lexi 40:16 I've heard of that one too. Ben 40:15 Just My Type.Lexi 40:18 Oh. Ben 40:18 So, I think the thing I'm taking away here is that the more specific the title is, the more likely it is to be AI. The actual Hallmark ones are boring as hell. Lexi 40:28 We should write one of these. Ben 40:30 We absolutely should. Lexi 40:32 Like, "Man in sweater likes pie." Like, "Oh."Ben 40:34 Yeah, it's called Pie of my Eye. [laughs]Lexi 40:38 Pie of My Eye.Ben 40:39 When an artisanal sweater maker accidentally has their yarn delivered to the equally artisanal pie maker next door, hilarity ensues.Lexi 40:52 Basically, there's so many ones like The Truth About Cats and Dogs. Ben 40:56 Yeah. Lexi 40:56 Like, that's another one of like the dogs meet in the dog park.Ben 40:59 Well, that's not Hallmark.Lexi 40:59 40:59 No, but I'm just saying that lie they could definitely do one where it's like, "The people at the puppy store are next door to the kitten store and they fall in love, but will cats and dogs ever truly get along?" Like, "Eugh." Puke.Ben 41:13 Yeah, because cats are the opposite of dogs. Lexi 41:16 Cats are girls and dogs are boys. [both laugh]Ben 41:17 Yeah. There's a term for that stupid thing in psychology, but I don't remember what it is, so fuck that. Anyhow, [sings along with "Who's That Pokémon?" theme music] Da-na, na-na-na. [speaks] AI? The worst fucking title for that.Lexi 41:33 That's a good one.Ben 41:35 All right, I'm glad we got to switch it up a little bit. Let's go into our final choices here.Lexi 41:40 Yeah.Ben 41:40 Why don't you take it away? Lexi 41:42 Okay, for my final romantic comedy shout-out of the evening, I'd like to... [laughs] It makes sense to me. My movie pick is Idiocracy. Ben 41:55 Okay. Yeah. [Buckaroo by Buck Owens from Idiocracy plays] This is a strange one for me. I don't necessarily think of Idiocracy as a romcom or as a prescient look into the future that we now live in. Lexi 42:06 Yeah, it's a documentary about our current day and age.Ben 42:10 Yeah.Lexi 42:10 No. I just find like the two-- well, I guess there's three main characters in. it. So, you've got Maya Rudolph and then one of the Wilson boys--Ben 42:19 Luke.Lexi 42:19 Luke Wilson, fall in love in a hopeless place, Ben.Ben 42:25 A hopeless place being what amounts to now, 2024 America. Lexi 42:32 The future. It's just so funny because both of them are kind of like useless in the present day, but then they wind up--Ben 42:38 But really shine.Lexi 42:38 But then they wind up-- they're absolute geniuses—geniusi?—in the future. Ben 42:44 Yeah, geni.Lexi 42:44 Geni. And they come together to, like, have a really positive relationship that's built on respect and kindness, and I think that's something that we should all aspire to is just like doing the best you can, be nice to each other, look out for everybody around you, and be respectful. And that movie is so hilariously bad and so much of it, Terry Crews, as the president who rides a motorcycle, and my favourite is when he--Ben 43:17 They're spraying Gatorade on all the lawns. Lexi 43:19 When he's doing the state of the address and he's walking up and down the stage and just like into the microphone is like, "Shit." Like, that is so funny. That entire movie is amazing and it is a great romantic comedy. I don't care what anyone says. Ben 43:35 No, we ain't here to judge. You get to choose what you like, and I think that's a fantastic choice. Lexi 43:41 Other favourite part of the movie is when he's in prison—Luke Wilson's character—is in prison and he goes up to the guards and he's like, "Hi, excuse me. I'm actually I'm supposed to be getting out," of jail and the guards are like, "Then you're supposed to be in that line, stupid." [laughs] "Yeah, right. Sorry." [laughs] Ah, it's so good.Ben 43:59 The idea that, you know, a completely sort of average to below-average intelligence like myself could someday be useful or possibly a genius is very appealing to someone like me, so I get it. Lexi 44:15 Great movie. Ben 44:17 Idiocracy, apparently a romcom. Lexi 44:19 Yep. It is. It is.Ben 44:20 I'm letting you have it. I ain't challenging that. Lexi 44:22 Prove me wrong, world. Prove me wrong. Ben 44:24 None of us want to take the time to do that. We're all very busy.Lexi 44:27 Busy. Well, I definitely have a lot of shout-outs about runners up, but I think we'll probably talk about them in just--Ben 44:32 Let's do it. Let's go around in a minute. I'm going to do my next one quickly here and it's Music and Lyrics. [Main Theme from Music and Lyrics by Adam Schlesinger plays] After I started my relationship with [imitating Borat] my wife, [in usual voice] we decided to exchange romantic comedies that we enjoyed, and I presented You've Got Mail to Fiona and I was like, "Did you love it? Did you love it?" and that's when I got the, "Actually, it's fucked up and here's why" back from Fiona. [Lexi laughs] And then, she's like, here's a romantic comedy where the two main people are on a more even footing with each other and it was Music and Lyrics. This is a movie starring everyone's favourite British dude--Lexi 45:17 Hugh Grant. Yep.Ben 45:18 High Grant. I can't believe I just blanked on his name, who is a sort of washed-up or retired pop star from the '80s – think like George Michael from Wham, but he's straight. So, he was a young pop megastar and now he's sort of washed up and then Drew Barrymore as a... What is she? A house sitter in this movie, if I'm remembering correctly? She ends up watering his plants for some reason while he's busy taking jobs, writing shitty lyrics for shitty pop stars that he doesn't really care about, and he's just in it for the pay check and they come to a point where she starts meddling with his lyrics, and they get together and they start working on the music and lyrics together and they form this really lovely relationship where they are equals in it and they're both contributing to all aspects of it and we get this great fake Shakira in the movie that I think is just wonderful. Lexi 46:15 Mm-hmm. Ben 46:17 And it was the juxtaposition of the romcom that I'd offered up as a fave versus this one that has made it a fast fave for me, and also came from the person that I chose to spend the rest of my life with--Lexi 46:30 Aw, that's sweet.Ben 46:30 --which makes it a very special movie to me that I've watched many, many times, but it's just a lovely, wholesome romantic comedy full of laughs because Drew Barrymore is, generally speaking, charming when she's not crossing picket lines. Writers' strike reference there, for everybody.Lexi 46:47 That's true.Ben 46:50 And, you know, Hugh Grant is charming, always charming, and that makes this my third pick. Music and Lyrics – go watch it if you haven't watched it yet. I think you'll enjoy it. Lexi 46:59 He's kind of like the British, Greg Kinnear, isn't he? Ben 47:04 Yeah, yeah. Lexi 47:05 Or Greg Kinnear is the American Hugh Grant. Ben 47:08 Yeah, that sounds better. I think that's the way we put it. Greg Kinnear is an American Hugh Grant, with less staying power. Lexi 47:15 Yes. Yeah.Ben 47:18 I mean, what's that new movie that's Guy Pearce that was like Colin Farrell and Hugh Grant and is like a... [pause] Woof. We're bad at this. It's like a a crime movie.Lexi 47:33 Is it, like, The Gentlemen?Ben 47:33 A British crime. Is that what it's called? The one with the blond guy that looks like Thor that isn't Thor.Lexi 47:39 Yeah, that's Charlie...Ben 47:41 Yeah, yeah.Lexi 47:42 The Gentlemen.Ben 47:42 Yeah, Charlie Hunnam and is that called The Gentlemen?Lexi 47:46 Yeah.Ben 47:46 Yeah, it's a great one and Hugh Grant's playing this like smarmy-ass tabloid reporter. Lexi 47:53 I'm just double checking. Ben 47:54 It's great. He's wonderful.Lexi 47:55 Matthew McConaughey's in it.Ben 47:57 Yeah. Lexi 47:58 Colin Farrell. Oh, yeah. That's a great... Have you seen the TV show?Ben 48:02 There's a TV show based off of this?Lexi 48:05 Yeah, it's on Netflix. There's a series now that's kind of in the same universe. It is excellent. Ben 48:09 Oh, wow. No, I haven't, so there's a drop. Lexi 48:10 Yeah, Guy Ritchie also works on that one too. It's wonderful. Ben 48:16 Hugh Grant's very likeable and hilariously this is not Notting Hill, which other people might choose as his more prominent romcom adventure, but...Lexi 48:27 I'm just making sure. Yeah. Charlie Hunnam, Michael McConaughey...Ben 48:32 Is he in Love Actually?Lexi 48:32 Who? Charlie?Ben 48:35 No, Hugh Grant.Lexi 48:37 Yes, he is. He's the prime minister.Ben 48:37 Is he the president or I mean the premier-- yeah, prime minister. [chuckles] And he's the one that basically has the really inappropriate relationship with his staffer. Lexi 48:45 There's a lot of inappropriate relationships in that whole film, but yes. Ben 48:50 What I wanted to do, since we were talking about how great the response was on Instagram, is just shout out some of the favourites from the listeners here.Lexi 48:58 Yeah, do it.Ben 48:58 Somebody suggested that... Oh, username... I'm bad at this. We don't usually actually remember to call people out on the show, so... @timothywinchester offered up a classic romantic comedy called I've Got Your Number, and they suggested that it's more fun than they expected. For worse, the same person—Timothy Winchester—offered up Holiday in Handcuffs, which looks like a Hallmark movie with that dude from Saved By the Bell and, for some reason, they're handcuffed together.Lexi 49:30 Oh.Ben 49:30 I don't know. Let's keep going. What else we got? The F Word is a recommendation from somebody.Lexi 49:36 Ainsley? Ben 49:36 Was it Ainsley?Lexi 49:38 Yes, Ainsley suggests The F Word. Ben 49:41 Also known as What If? in other countries. Yeah, for some reason I can't see who actually sent these in to me anymore. Lexi 49:46 Oh, I can kind of see here, I can see Dave, who was just recently on the podcast, Dave Stone, said PS I Love You is a great romantic comedy. Ben 49:54 Oh, cool. We got...Lexi 49:58 Ryan Webb says the worst is Love, Actually. Ben 50:02 Of Rooked podcast – our homies over at Rooked.Lexi 50:05 Of Rooked podcast.Ben 50:05 I would say sister podcast. Mother podcast? Brother podcast. Anyhow, Ryan. Lexi 50:11 Yeah, probably mother podcast. The best is She's All That. Ben 50:15 As they posit, it's a prequel to the Scooby-Doo movie. Lexi 50:19 What else do we have here? We have @photoguy79 says How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days is the best, but only for the bullshit scene. Matthew McConaughey 50:27 Lexi I think you're running away. Drew Barrymore 50:32 Why don't you save your mind games for your next bet? Okay, I am not running away.Matthew McConaughey 50:36 Bullshit.Drew Barrymore 50:36 [softly] Excuse me. Matthew McConaughey 50:39 [softly] You heard me. [romantic music plays] [softly] Bullshit.Lexi 50:44 What else we have? Ling Zena has a couple – While You Were Sleeping, probably the biggest one, Irish Wish, is a cool premise but with zero chemistry and the friendships make no sense. Ben 51:02 It's a Lindsay Lohan romcom.Lexi 51:03 Yeah. And, I feel like that was like her comeback movie.Ben 51:07 Her attempted revival.Lexi 51:07 Like, she wanted... This was going to be... Yeah.Ben 51:10 Yeah. Did not work. And the same user gave us While You Were Sleeping, which I enjoyed, I remember watching that, but it is a weird premise, as well...Lexi 51:20 It is.Ben 51:21 ...where Sandra Bullock is so in love with--Lexi 51:24 --a person she doesn't even know because she's--Ben 51:25 With Peter Gallagher. Yeah, because she sees him at the train.Lexi 51:30 Yeah. She's made up this fake world for themselves. Ben 51:31 This delusional relationship, and then eventually, that all comes to light and it's terrible, but she falls for his brother, Bill Pullman... RIP.Lexi 51:38 [laughs] Aw.Ben 51:40Peter Gallagher, if you don't recall, is Sandy Cohen from The OC. [sings along with OC theme song] Dana-nana-na-na-na. California, here we come. [speaks] Right, that's enough. So, thank you for submitting those. Lexi 51:52 Yeah.Ben 51:52 I think that's everybody. Lexi 51:53 Yeah, yeah. And we have some runners-up to kind of throw down. We won't go into big detail, but there's a lot of really great ones. I'm going to throw out there 10 Things I Hate About You. Ben 52:03 Yeah, yeah. That's on my list of runners-up as well. 10 Things I Hate About You is fantastic. We got some Joseph Gordon Levitt and his brother, Heath Ledger. Have you ever seen those memes where they put like their faces together and it looks like the same guy? [Heath Ledger sings Can't Take My Eyes Off Of You]Lexi 52:16 Yeah, if they're the same person. Julia Stiles.Ben 52:18 Julia Stiles.Lexi 52:17 There's Alexis from... Well, Alex, from Alex Mack.Ben 52:24 I don't know.Lexi 52:24 You never watched Alex Mack?Ben 52:27 No.Lexi 52:27 [gasps] Ben, what were you doing in the '90s?Ben 52:30 It's the blonde one, though, but I--Lexi 52:31 It's The Secret World of Alex Mack. Like Alexis...Ben 52:34 But I I mean, I know who you're talking about and I had a huge crush on her when I was younger. Yeah. 10 Things I Hate About You is just fantastic because of Heath Ledger's bleacher scene. Lexi 52:44 Larissa Oleynick. Thank you. Sorry.Ben 52:46 No. Please.Lexi 52:46 There we go.Ben 52:48 Heath Ledger's dancing up and down the bleachers bit is pretty fantastic. Lexi 52:54 Yeah, it's a great one. So, 10 Things I Hate About You, Bridesmaids – another one about, like, finding yourself before you can care for others. You have to care for yourself.Ben 53:04 Yep.Lexi 53:05 Really great. And another one where a friend comes forward and says, "You're not doing well. I care about you. You got to get your shit together," so great, great movie.Ben 53:15 Maya Rudolph plays the friend who comes forward and is like, "You are effing this all up."Lexi 53:20 Well, she's actually-- there's a couple of people that go forward and kind of say that. Sookie St. James actually sits her down and says, "Get your shit... Better get your poop in a group." Maya Rudolph shits in the street. Ben 53:31 Yep. Yep. Yes, diarrhea. [blows raspberry] Diarrhea. If you're sitting in a Chevy and you're feeling something heavy...Lexi 53:38 Oh, what have I done?Ben 53:40 Diarrhea. [blows raspberries]Lexi 53:40 I'd also like to throw out The Princess Bride. That was what I swapped out Baby Mama for.Ben 53:46 Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.Lexi 53:47 I love The Princess Bride. I think that it is--Ben 53:49 [imitating Peter Cook] Mawage. Twoo wuv.Lexi 53:52 There's so many great moments in that movie about love and friendship. Ben 53:56 "Witch, get out of here!" "I'm not a witch. I'm your wife."Lexi 54:01 Perseverance. Whenever anybody asks me to like, "Hey, what are you up to? You never post pictures of yourself on Instagram," I always send them a picture of Miracle Max and I say, "I'm not looking my best these days," and then I post that, and people... I like to laugh, Ben. I like to laugh.Ben 54:17 I wouldn't say you look that much like Miracle Max. Passing resemblance at most. Lexi 54:22 Thank you, but I feel like I do, at my best. But anyway, great movie. Andre the Giant. Delightful.Ben 54:24 Yeah. Uh-huh. Absolutely. It is a delight. Another one I wanted to talk about is The Notebook. It's not one of my faves. I just like the fact that Ryan Gosling apparently did not get along so much with Rachel McAdams that they hate each other to this day.Lexi 54:43 Really?Ben 54:43 Yeah, they apparently just did not gel on set. Because it was everybody's favourite romance movie when it came out. It was a huge hit and I just love that little factoid that they apparently just did not work well together to the point that they still dislike each other. Lexi 54:59 [laughs] Hey, whatever. The working relationship--Ben 55:04 The Wedding Singer. Drew Barrymore is a great romcom star. Lexi 55:07 Ah yes, she is. And Adam Sandler is a really good opposite for her. Ben 55:11 Yeah. And we get a redo with them as well, later on, in kind of the same way that we got Sleepless in Seattle and You've Got Mail. We've got 50 First Dates, which is actually a super charming film. Lexi 55:20 It is.. And there's a song in there that I sing to myself in the car all the time. Ben 55:25 Which song is? Lexi 55:28 [sings along to Forgetful Lucy by Adam Sandler] Cracked her head like Gary Busey. [Ben laughs] Bum, bum, bum. [speaks] It's such a great little. He's a good singer, Adam Sandler. Ben 55:37 The more I think about it, the more I really like that film, the way that it ends with just sort of like finding a way forward together, even though things can't be the way they were initially, and I think that's--Lexi 55:47 Yeah, or the way they want it.Ben 55:50 Yeah. And I think that's kind of sweet and beautiful is that it's still worth having, [song continues] even though it's changed and it's harder and there's more to it. There's more difficulty. It's kind of about-- I mean it's literally about an injury, a life-altering injury for a person, but it's, you know, kind of about the idea of like for better or for worse sort of idea of a relationship and caring for a partner as their health needs change. And, that's kind of-- that's romantic.Lexi 56:16 Yeah. Well, it's unconditional love. Ben 56:19 Yeah. There you go. Thank you for summing that up in two words [chuckles] what took me about 50 paragraphs? I am AI. You can tell that we live in an AI because I am just spewing out nonsense that I've heard before.Lexi 56:33 What else we got? Ben 56:34 Groundhog Day, I want to talk about because I love Groundhog Day. I think it's funny. As a romcom though, it is disgusting. Lexi 56:43 It's all about manipulation, but...Ben 56:46 Yeah, exactly. Again. He never learns. Bill Murray's character never learns to be a better person. He learns how to game the system to get what he wants.Lexi 56:54 Yes. Yeah.Ben 56:54 It is literally the wrong message to be sending to people that want to find a healthy relationship. Lexi 57:01 But, at the same time, too, I feel like he's punished for it because he's basically in purgatory. Like, somebody did the math and something like he lived 9,000 years or something.Ben 57:10 Yeah. Yeah, to get all these things right. Lexi 57:12 He is a horrible person, but, yeah, he's stuck in his own personal hell. Ben 57:18 I don't feel like this movie gives us a change for him.Lexi 57:21 No.Ben 57:21 More that he just finally gets the game right and presses all the controls in the right way.Lexi 57:24 Yeah, absolutely. Ben 57:26 He never engages. I mean, I guess the idea is that he finally, when he stops trying and actually engages, is sort of the premise, but I never really felt that way. I felt like he's just trying. Lexi 57:37 Figured out how to game it. Yeah.Ben 57:38 Yeah, exactly. But anyhow, it's still a fun film and I quote what's-his-name who plays Ned. "Ned? Watch out for that step. It's a doozy."Lexi 57:53 That's a good one.Ben57:55 Gross Point Blank is a blast. I like the idea of an assassin romcom.Lexi 58:00 Where he goes back to his high school reunion, trying to make something of himself.Ben 58:02 Yeah. Yeah. Assassin is in the doldrums because he's like, "Oh, I never saw myself being an assassin. Let me go back to my hometown and see if I can find myself again."Lexi 58:14 Tom Cusack is a is another good romantic comedy guy. Ben 58:16 Did you just call him Tom Cusack? Lexi 58:17 What did I say? Ben 58:18 I think you said Tom. But, I like Tom Cusack. He's like his evil twin brother...Lexi 58:23 What's his actual...? John Cusack.Ben 58:24 ...for Johnny, Johnny. Lexi 58:25 Oh, god.Ben 58:30 Yeah, and you get Dan Ackroyd as a kind of menacing villain. Lexi 58:30 Yeah. Mm-hmm.Ben 58:31 With a bad haircut. Lexi 58:34 Many levels to hi

On this episode of March Forth with Mike Bauman, Mike chats with Wes Anderson! Based in Baltimore, Maryland, Wes is a guitarist who has been playing music for over 25 years. Since 2018, Wes has focused on his solo music work. His collaborations have included artists from numerous music genres, including hip hop, rock, alternative, and numetal. To date, those musical collaborations from Wes have amassed over 500,000 streams. Among those collaborations are the likes of P-Nut (311), Howi and Donald Spangler (Ballyhoo!), Lyrics Born, Duke Sims, Kosha Dillz, Marlon Asher, King Green, DJ Lethal (Limp Bizkit), Jared Gomes (Hed PE), Trey Miller (Cherie Amour), Bevin Hamilton, The Kaleidoscope Kid, and MC Bravado, among others. In this episode, Wes talks with Mike about his marketing strategy for his music in 2024, including releasing more new music, the positive momentum he's had to start the year, what's been key to staying consistent chasing his dreams, teaming up with Stephen Richards of Taproot, and more. This episode also features the song "drive down a different road" from Wes Anderson, Kosha Dillz, and MC Bravado, available where you get your music! Follow Wes on Instagram @songsbywes. To keep up-to-date on the latest with Wes, head over to https://wesandersonmusic.com/. Follow Mike on Instagram @marchforthpod. To stay up-to-date on the podcast and learn more about Mike, visit https://linktr.ee/marchforthpod. Thanks for listening! If ya dug the show, like it, share it, tell a friend, subscribe, and above all, keep the faith and be kind to one another.

Episode Highlights With KatieWhat I spent my time on this past yearHow I don't do resolutions but instead do experiments, and whyOur new format for podcasts this yearMy annual water fast: why I do it and howI'm working on writing three books, creating a new in-person space in my area, and a surpriseWatch for new content and more videos this year about some of my favorite things: plants, DIY, mindset, and businessI'm focusing on more time with my kids and enjoying my teenagersMy words to live by this year: Grace, Ease, and Joy and PresentTop tips and recurring themes of the past year's episodes: minerals, protein, movement, sleep, mindset, microbiomeMy favorite things right now: rosemary in hair, castor oil packs, minerals, Just Thrive, lymphatic massage, feet up the wall, drinking salt water, sunlight, and natural lightResources We MentionWellnesseJust ThriveEidonQueen of Thrones Castor Oil PacksUpgraded FormulaBeam MineralsEvvyThe Emotion Code: How to Release Your Trapped Emotions for Abundant Health, Love, and Happiness by Dr. Bradley NelsonMan's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. FranklIt Didn't Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle by Mark Wolynn

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Since 1995, Howi Spangler, alongside his brother Donald Spangler, and their reggae rock group, BALLYHOO!, have been crisscrossing the United States and bringing their unique brand of #MarylandBeachRock to bars, clubs and vacation towns all across the shoreline and beyond. For nearly three decades they've been inspiring the locals and reminding us that rock n' roll is a lifestyle and the importance of just having a little bit of fun in our lifetime. They've reached the perfect level of success; they're able to make the music the want on their own terms, while still selling out venues everywhere they go. Ballyhoo! are heading out on tour with Jimmie's Chicken Shack on September 19th, but tonight I'm lucky enough to have the voice, Mr. Howi Spangler, on the show. Join me in welcoming Howi to the Mouthful of Graffiti podcast.Ballyhoo! on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/artist/6py4uFIC7T6RdrZnH6hFYJ?si=Xloq_RzXRna-cVOsqnF3XwSpecial thanks to: Double Groove Brewing, Vagabond Sandwich Company, Music Land Store, Heather Sipes - Baltimore Decal Gal, Black Eyed Suzie's, REB Records-MD & Caprichos Books

If 2 Guys 1 Cup is like TOFOP but AFL then 2 Guys 1 Urn is like FOFOP but cricket. None of that make sense? Don't worry. This is a series about test cricket where Wil Anderson speaks to cricket-loving comedians throughout the World Test Championship and Ashes. First up though, to give us a bit of cred, we're joined by Wil's childhood friend (no shit, they went to school together) and commentator, Mark 'Howie' Howard. Howie gives an insight into his recent trip to the IPL and remembers the king of spin, Shane Warne. Then, an in-depth preview of the World Test Championship where Australia will take on India on English soil. It's a big winter of test cricket and I get the feeling Wil doesn't want to feel guilty about the many hours of cricket he's about to watch — it'll all be for the podcast. This podcast. 2 Guys 1 Urn. Listen to Howi's podcast, The Howie Games: https://podfollow.com/1146329262  Follow TOFOP on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tofop/  More TOFOP universe: https://tofop.com/  Buy Foz's art: https://www.redbubble.com/people/mrfoz/shop  Support TOFOP on patreon: https://www.patreon.com/tofop  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Hey Angels today's episode is truly a great listen. I had the privilege of interviewing my girl Les, who is the host of Balanced Black Girl podcast. Les is the founder and host of Balanced Black Girl, an online wellness community and podcast focused on mind-body health, habits, spacious productivity, financial wellness, and self-care. Her mission is to help others create nourishing habits that help them create necessary space to live their best lives. Since launching in 2018, Balanced Black Girl has garnered over 7 million downloads, has over 1,000 5-star reviews, and has been featured by Apple Podcasts and Spotify.This series was inspired by my experience at podcast movement in March, and I wanted to take the time to interview people and figure out their story and allow them to tell it with thought provoking questions!In this episode, we discuss:Les's career and journey, and how she started the Balanced Black Girl podcast, as well as her prior experiences and her corporate job!Money trauma" and how that affects our quality of life and experiencesHer “little "yes's” and how that has impacted her journey and success.How reform in the social media space is needed. And so much more! This episode is packed with transparency and valuable information that I know will really bless each, and everyone of you!If you would like to check out Les and her platforms, click the link below!Social Media ChannelsLes Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/balancedlesBalanced Black Girl Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/balancedblackgirlpodcastTwitter: https://www.twitter.com/balancedblkgrlWebsite: https://www.balancedblackgirl.comBalanced Black Girl on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/balanced-black-girl/id1438982040Balanced Black Girl on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/46muBfvOgp2U44ycqZJPPN?si=ebebd88eae914d28Click this link to access my other platforms and you can book a 1:1 consult with me! All My Platforms! If you have enjoyed this episode, please be sure to rate and review this podcast! Thank you for your time, thank you for listening and thank you for your support! And remember to always stay Kind! xo A

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On this episode of March Forth with Mike Bauman, Mike chats with Wes Anderson! Based in Baltimore, Maryland, Wes is a guitarist who has been playing for over 25 years. Since 2018, Wes has focused on his solo music work and collaborating with other artists. To date, he's released 13 singles which have amassed over 500,000 streams. Those songs have included collaborations with the likes of P-Nut (311), Howi and Donald Spangler (Ballyhoo!), Lyrics Born, Duke Sims, Kosha Dillz, Marlon Asher, King Green, DJ Lethal (Limp Bizkit), Jared Gomes (Hed PE), and Trey Miller (Cherie Amour), among others. On September 9th, Wes dropped his latest single entitled "And It Don't Stop" with Blake G. In this episode, Wes talks with Mike about his musical journey over the past 10 years, including his humble beginnings when he committed to pursuing music, the marketing side of his music releases, his numerous collaborations, A.I. in the modern music scene, his latest single "And It Don't Stop" with Blake G, his YouTube series "Time Tested," and more. This episode of the podcast also features the aforementioned "And It Don't Stop" with Blake G, available where you get your music! Follow Wes on Instagram @songsbywes. To keep up-to-date on the latest with Wes, head over to https://wesandersonmusic.com/home. Follow Mike on Instagram @marchforthpod, and on Twitter @mikevbauman. To stay up-to-date on the podcast and learn more about Mike, visit https://linktr.ee/marchforthpod. Thanks for listening! If ya dug the show, like it, share it, tell a friend, subscribe, and above all, keep the faith and be kind to one another.

500 days of summer, not the season, the woman! Anyways, heres wonderwall.Today is gonna be the day that they're gonna throw it back to youAnd by now, you should've somehow realised what you gotta doI don't believe that anybody feels the way I do about you nowAnd backbeat, the word is on the street that the fire in your heart is outI'm sure you've heard it all before, but you never really had a doubtI don't believe that anybody feels the way I do about you nowAnd all the roads we have to walk are windingAnd all the lights that lead us there are blindingThere are many things that I would like to say to you, but I don't know howBecause maybeYou're gonna be the one that saves meAnd after allYou're my wonderwallToday was gonna be the day, but they'll never throw it back to youAnd by now, you should've somehow realised what you're not to doI don't believe that anybody feels the way I do about you nowAnd all the roads that lead you there were windingAnd all the lights that light the way are blindingThere are many things that I would like to say to you, but I don't know howI said maybeYou're gonna be the one that saves meAnd after allYou're my wonderwallI said maybe (I said maybe)You're gonna be the one that saves meAnd after allYou're my wonderwallI said maybe (I said maybe)You're gonna be the one that saves me (saves me)You're gonna be the one that saves me (saves me)You're gonna be the one that saves me (saves me) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to Her Ambitious Career, the personal branding and success podcast for corporate women who want to land dream opportunities in their careers and get that recognition they so deserve.This episode, 'Don't Wish It Was Easier; Wish You Were Better' is based on a quote from author and motivational speaker, Jim Rohn. In this episode I am exploring the concepts of victim-thinking and growth mindset to help you realise your full potential. Highlights of the episode:  I am sharing some examples of 'victim' thinking... we all do 'victim' thinking to some extent but the difference is that whilst some people stay locked in that space, others choose to free themselves and quickly move into solution-mode - I am sharing howI look at the difference between passivity and proactivity when seeking out the outcomes you want in your life and careerKnowing what is within your realm of control is a big part of moving out of victim-mode - let's talk about that too!Episode Quotes:"You have the power to solve any challenge you're faced with. It's about focusing on everything you have instead of wasting all your energy focusing on all that you feel you lack."  (Rebecca Allen, Career Success Coach and host of Her Ambitious Career podcast)*****Some More About Your Host:Rebecca Allen is a Career Success Coach for ambitious women who want more from their lives and careers. She has worked over the last 13+ years with clients from companies including ANZ Bank, Origin Energy, J.P. Morgan, IHS Markit and Coca-Cola Amatil and loves getting those excited phone calls from clients saying they've been promoted, have negotiated a seismic pay rise or have moved into a role completely aligned with their mission, values and strengths. Her own ambitions include raising two beautiful, happy confident children; building a fun and impactful coaching business that empowers 50,000 women worldwide; and visiting Alaska! You can connect with Rebecca on linkedin here: Rebecca Allen Career Coach******Want a promotion?Rebecca's most popular FREE download:   'The 7 Habits of Female Execs Who Get Promoted'Connect with Rebecca:> Book a free 15-minute Career Strategy Call

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     This week's episode features Howi Spangler of the Baltimore area band Ballyhoo! They are local legends around here and have been toruing/releasing music for over 25 years now. I wanted to talk to Howi in particular for the 100th episode because his podcast “Tales From the Green Room” inspired me to start this show. He's also got a new solo album out called “Aberrations” which is a lo-fi instrumental reggae type thing that was just released. You can dowload it for free and/or use it license free for any of your projects. I featured a track called “Ghost Tour” on this episode, as well as Ballyhoo's song Mixtape at the end. Both of which you can find wherever you listen to music. Ballyhoo's next show is February 10th at the 930 club in DC with The Movement and Little Stranger. Anyway, big gratitude & thanks to Howi and everyone who's listened and supported the show so far. Links below.    https://ballyhoorocks.com   “Aberrations” Album Link  SPOTIFY LINK   “Mixtape” By Ballyhoo! SPOTIFY LINK   —   This podcast is now partially brought to you by the Music Video Accelerator course. Which teaches you how to make your own professional music videos like Boyce Avenue or Tyler Ward without spending thousands of dollars on gear, so you can post killer content every week and grow your following organically. It's the first course of it's kind that specifically teaches how to shoot on your iPhone as well. Mention the podcast for a discount. Learn more at www.musicvideoaccelerator.com  

How do I get customers? How do I market my business? How do I get repeat business? HowI do I make sales? Those are just a few questions relating to marketing. This week we will kick of a two part series on Marketing your business as part of the RoadFS Business 101 series with Prentice St. Clair This week we explore Marketing. What is the best marketing Finding and attracting the ideal customer how do we build a good marketing strategy when we are just starting out What does it look like when you are working? Do you look professional? Decide which market you are going after Don't be afraid to ask for referrals Logos, business cards, branding, uniforms Using your vehicle as a billboard Should you create a brochure or not - should you include pricing? Make sure to join us for Part 2 where we get into more specific strategies on how to market your business. Co-Host Prentice St. Clair Detailing Academy (619) 701-1100 https://detailinprogress.com/ Hosts Rod Puzey (https://instagram.com/rodpuzey) Jody Sedrick (https://instagram.com/jodysedrick) RoadFS Detail Memoirs is a production of Zenware https://roadfs.com or https://zenware.com

TW Gender violence, hate crimes Ciao, Happy New Month! September is one of the fashion months and the Milan is among the fashion capitals. How has the fashion industry changed following the 2020 Black Live Matter protests? Talking about social justice and politics in Italy we have seen the unfair sentence of the pro-integration mayor of Riace, Mimmo Lucano. In this episode, I share my feelings and disappointment in the justice system and political parties. Something that also caused much disappointment it's the Italian media one more time failing to address misogyny with the words of journalism Barbara Palombelli that instead of addressing the issue of violence against women, she has done more damage. I share some thoughts on howI struggled with internalized misogyny. Enjoy x IG: @chroniclesofabiw @smileybennyy

Do you believe if you work really hard you will be rewarded? Do you tell yourself that you had such a hard day therefore you deserve chocolate tonight?Listen up to today's episode where I share something that you probably never heard before.Effort doesn't equal results. Sometimes we get rewards by working less, sometimes we work our butt off and get no rewards. That's how the world works. But if you believe that every hard work results in rewarding, you might feel  entitled to have quick results and if it doesn't happen you will be frustrated and not getting the results you want anyway. The text I shared today is from Brooke Castillo, Master Coach and Owner of The Life Coach School. You can find more about her and her school and podcast at www.thelifecoachschool.comP.S.: Want to work with me? Here's howI run a 6-week group programme as a kick start to your journey in overcome emotional eating and losing weight for good. You'll learn all the tools and have the support from me and a group of amazing women that have the same goals as you do. This is the place for you that want to make a change, have results, and not do it alone... if this is you, our next group starts on August 9th. Check it out HERE P.P.S.: I also work with women on a 6-month 1:1 programme. This programme is for you if you're ready to take your work to the next level, go deeper and have full transformation from inside out. I have limited spots for my 1:1 roster. Book a free consult call to discuss further about work together, for either group or 1:1 support.Follow meInstagramFacebookWebsiteSupport the show (https://paypal.me/pamellaarnoldpodcast?locale.x=en_GB)

Today's episode I'm talking about being human being. How to be a human being. We have expectations in life that are unrealistic and not really part of the human experience. When we have thoughts like "I shouldn't be feeling this way" we suffer. As humans we are going to have all the feelings, the spectrum of feelings, from positive to negative. Having an expectation of just being happy all the time, when we feel negative emotions we make it mean something is terrible wrong and we try to numb or avoid with food. So, let's be humans, having an human experience because we have a human brain.P.S.: Want to work with me? Here's howI run a 6-week group programme as a kick start to your journey in overcome emotional eating and losing weight for good. You'll learn all the tools and have the support from me and a group of amazing women that have the same goals as you do. This is the place for you that want to make a change, have results, and not do it alone... if this is you, our next group starts on August 9th. Check it out HERE P.P.S.: I also work with women on a 6-month 1:1 programme. This programme is for you if you're ready to take your work to the next level, go deeper and have full transformation from inside out. I have limited spots for my 1:1 roster. Book a free consult call to discuss further about work together, for either group or 1:1 support.Follow me on Social MediaInstagramFacebookWebsiteSupport the show (https://paypal.me/pamellaarnoldpodcast?locale.x=en_GB)

There are so many titles associated to our guest speaker today! We have with us Howard Davis who aka HAUI, who is a diverse multidisciplinary entrepreneur of many artistic trades, including performing, directing, design & visual arts. Howard J. Davis performs professionally in Film & Television and Theatre. A graduate Ryerson Theatre School of University in Toronto in 2014, he has acted with companies such as the Shaw Festival of Canada, Native Earth Performing Arts, Cahoots Theatre, Paper Canoe Projects, Factory Theatre, Neptune Theatre as well as in film and television. In the summer of 2020, he was slated to design the world premiere of Anne Marie MacDonald's play Hamlet 911 at the Stratford Festival of Canada. His work as a filmmaker emphasizes how the past can inform our current sociopolitical climate to build a practice in telling stories of his heritage, marginalized cultures, and original modern works that bridge classical, theatrical, and historical context to contemporary cinema and stage. In this episode, HOWI takes us through his journey of being ‘Mixed' and how it inspired him to create this incredible film called Mixed up. 2020 wasn't an easy year – not for me, not for you but for some people wonderful things came out of it because they got into their creative potential and inner voice.  His feature-length film debut entitled MIXEDUP explores the isolation of being BIPOC and LGBTQ+ and demands that we celebrate what is unique about each of us. The film was co-produced with trans producer/filmmaker Jack Fox and premiered November 2020 on OUTtv and OUTtvGO network television and at Image+Nation LGBTQueer Film Festival. Howard is part of Wildseed Black Arts Residency in association with Black Lives Matter Toronto - a 20-month paid residency and space for interdisciplinary collaboration through arts and activism. In 2019, He was the recipient of ByBlack's People's Choice Award for Best Director. In 2020 he was nominated for a Montreal English Theatre Award for Outstanding Contribution to Theatre. From being queer, to an artist – his life story has been pretty interesting. We discuss about his work that revolves around race, gender, orientation and how he beautifully brings it up in his movie MixedUp. He talks about his struggle of coming out and the support that he received from his family and friends. As an artist, his life journey has shaped his perspective as an Actor, Film maker, and Director. I am so delighted to have Howard on my show who takes us through the nuances of his queerness and mixed heritage. There's so much that we discover and learn about Howi in this episode. Tune in to the entire episode to know more about creativity, queerness, happiness, black joy and his film MixedUp (ps - please check out his film - it's incredible) To know more about Howard Davis Social handles are @hauidavis / @mixed_upfilm Website: www.haui.ca --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/thehappinessproject/message

If you are not losing weight despite how little you're eating and how much you're exercising, you have to stop what you're doing and listen to this episode now.You're probably under-eating. I'm seeing so many women struggling to lose weight and actually gaining weight even when eating small portions and exercise regularly. Why is that?Our body is super smart. If you're not giving enough fuel to it, it won't work on full capacity to lose weight. Your body needs fuel to function. Food is the only fuel we have as humans. If you have been under-eating for a long period of time and not losing weight, you probably put your body in starvation mode, which means, your body is holding everything you eat in.This episode explains why you're not losing weight, how to identify if you're under-eating, what to do to change that.It's a must listen!Want to work with me? Here's howI run a 6-week group programme as a kick start to your journey in overcome emotional eating and losing weight for good. You'll learn all the tools and have the support from me and a group of amazing women that have the same goals as you do. This is the place for you that want to make a change, have results, and not do it alone... if this is you, our next group starts on June 28th. Check it out HERE http://www.pamellaarnold.com/programmeI also work with women on a 6-month 1:1 programme. This programme is for you if you're ready to take your work to the next level, go deeper and have full transformation from inside out. I have limited spots for my 1:1 roster. Book a free consult call to discuss further about work together, for either group or 1:1 support. http://www.pamellaarnold.com/callTo join the FREE Secrets to Overcome Emotional Eating Masterclass that is happening on June 23rd at 6pm BST (UK time), click below: https://zoom.us/meeting/register/tJIpduihrz0tG9c8TxzyNFvzyN1lyKeHeqg8Follow meInstagramFacebookWebsiteSupport the show (https://paypal.me/pamellaarnoldpodcast?locale.x=en_GB)

Whats GUCCI welcome to Roll Wit Uz Radio live from Denver Colorado with your host Eric Loco The 3 day weekend is happen right now enjoy it I dont know really howI feel today ill let the music speak for metune in anytime from anywhere just search us or find us on any music platform so with that said lets get our roll on.

you’re growing up way too fast, Dear / Happy 6th B-day, Miles :D (Parody of slower by Tate McRae)*Original written by: Nolan Lambroza, Russell Chell, Tate McRae, Zach Zadek, & Zoë MossMiles,Happy 6th Birthday!!!Love always,Your Lisa Lyrics:First year at school, you’re the masked superhero typeMiles, you make me the person I’ve wanted to be all my lifeAt 6 years old, you’re learning how to memorize Your popcorn words, spelling them, for me, just rightFor your 6th birthday, I wrote this little tuneFor my coffin dancing King, You’ve got such clever grooveYou’re belting out Believer by Imagine Dragons tooSo here, I’ll sing for youWords from you Lisa, true:You’re growing up way too fast, Dear You keep on growing tallerGrowing into an adult, seeHow you keep on running faster I’ll be with you as you’re agingYou keep on getting smarterPromise you’ll never lose meAs long as I’m alive hereYou’re growing up way too fast, Dear You’re growing up way too fast, Dear I know you’re a fearless fighterBig brother to OliLoving owner to Tufty You’re Spiderman, with your webs and know howI’m thrilled to see what your imagination createsFor your 6th birthday, I wrote this little tuneFor my coffin dancing King, You’ve got such clever grooveYou’re belting out Believer by Imagine DragonsThat’s just youSo here, I’ll sing for youWords from you Lisa, true:You’re growing up way too fast, Dear Keep right on growing tallerGrowing into an adult, seeHow you keep on running faster I’ll be with you as you’re agingYou just keep on getting smarterPromise you’ll never lose meAs long as I’m alive hereYou’re growing up way too fast, Dear You’re growing up way too fast, Dear For your 6th birthday, I wrote out this little tuneFor my coffin dancing King, You’ve got such clever grooveYou’re belting out Believer by Imagine DragonsThat’s just youSo here, I’ll sing for youWords from you Lisa, true:You’re growing up way too fast, Dear Keep right on growing tallerYou’re growing into an adult, seeHow you keep on running faster I’ll be with you as you’re agingYou just keep on getting smarterPromise you’ll never lose meAs long as I’m alive here, You’re growing up way too fast, Dear You’re growing up way too fast, Dear Happy Birthday, Miles!Love, Lisa :DEnd Parody by Melissa Smith:-Melzy of Wonderland on Youtube&-Mel’s Music on Spreaker, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, JioSaavn, Castbox, Deezer, Podcast Addict, Google Podcasts, iHeartRadio, Podchaser, & Facebook

FEBRUARY THEME: Self-Care is Community Care February is generally overrun with Valentine's day and all of the societal conditioning that comes with a Hallmark holiday. It's a great time to show others you care, but how often do we show ourselves that same love that we so freely give to others? This month, let's talk about how self-care isn't selfish. Let's talk about how when we show up consistently for ourselves, we can show up more powerfully for the people in our community. TIM MCDONALD Tim McDonald is a speaker and coach who works with organizations and individuals who are facing challenges and feel stuck to get unstuck. Recognizing how fear held him back, Tim has changed his relationship with fear and has used it to get unstuck and leave toxic jobs, end a 17 year marriage, move to a new city, meet his life partner, and he currently looks at having stage 4 metastasized colon cancer as a gift. He was previously the Director of Community at Huffington Post, Founder of My Community Manager, Director of Communications for Social Media Club Chicago, and various other jobs. While he thought climbing the corporate ladder had all the answers, he found out that looking within held all the answers he needed. HOWI SPANGLER - BALLYHOO! Through 25 years and eight independent albums, the last four on their own Right Coast Records, Ballyhoo! have earned the exclamation point which marks their name. Starting in the basement of their mom's Aberdeen, MD, home, rocking out on guitar and drums respectively, practicing every day, brothers Howi and Donald Spangler formed the proto-punk band in the mold of Green Day and Nirvana, with an eye towards the emerging ska genre led by Goldfinger, Sublime, 311 and No Doubt. The group's eighth and most recent studio album, the breezy, ska-fueled, hook-filled Message to the World, on their own Right Coast Records, finds the self-declared “beach-rockers,” having grown up in public, accepting the responsibilities of adulthood while still hanging on to their dreams of world domination. With its newest members now veterans – keyboardist Vandrey has been in the band since 2000, while bassist Lucera joined in 2014 – Ballyhoo! is ready for what the future brings. Stylistically, their music ranges from the hard-edged punk of 2018's Detonate, which captured the feelings of anger and depression from dealing with personal loss and the exhaustion generated by over a decade on the road, to the island reggae beats of the follow-up, Message to the World. “Whatever you want to achieve, just focus on that and work towards it,” explains Howi about the Ballyhoo! ethos. “Don't worry about followers, views or even money. Just keep making good stuff. One day it may be possible to finally quit that day job and live your dream full time.” Ballyhoo! is still doing just that, purveying good vibes, positivity and fun live shows meant to take you away from real life for just a little bit. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/hikingmyfeelings/support

Another Season 1 Remaster is here. Listen to the high-quality, brand new sound of How i Died, featuring Patryk Sokol as Will. 

Greetings Dub Family!This is a story about howI got a song on the biggest Netflix series of 2020-2021 without even knowing it!Enjoy,DubbyPlease consider helping to keep the boat in the water through these turbulent times by dropping a buck in my "virtual tip jar" or by simply doing your regular Amazon/ Target shopping through one of my affiliate links below. The price is the same for you the consumer, but the big boy stores pay us out of their profits! It’s a win-win-win. Click Link - Scroll Site - Buy - Done - Thanks!DubbyThe Virtual Tip JarPAYPALhttps://www.paypal.com/paypalme2/virtualtipsVENMOhttps://venmo.com/code?user_id=2602451001671680987CA$H APPhttps://cash.app/$dubassassinsMy Affiliates : Amazonhttps://www.amazon.com/shop/dubassassinsTargethttps://goto.target.com/eWyjrZzounds Music Storehttps://www.zzounds.com/a--3960258Start Your Own Online T-Shirt Company https://www.tshirtgang.com/invite/IBgq0F637P3BQiHStart Your Website - Hosted by BlueHosthttps://www.bluehost.com/track/dubassassins/Start Your Own Email Listhttps://www.aweber.com/easy-email.htm?id=512136Support the show (https://www.paypal.me/virtualtips)

...or at least how I became an interior designer! Join me as I tell the story of howI got into this wild industry! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/softlanding/support

Hey everybody what is going on, I am joined by Nikki Neretin and we're talking about howI got a crash course in gas delivery yesterday, Lili is back home and we all have a fear of people talking badly about us hear Nikki's solution!!!! Follow me @reluctantveganson on instagram I post food and about my life and please like, rate and review the podcast!!!!!

Continuing with the brand new, high-quality sound of How i Died, check out the new-and-improved Episode 2. Keep an eye on this feed for new episodes as they're completed. We're gearing up for Season 2 for an all new mystery - help us make it and get some great rewards at https://patreon.com/howidied. 

Hello Aunique Beauties! This week let's talk about howI am comfortable with being uncomfortable. I have a track record  that I am proud of lol AUnique Beauty Product of the week: Facial LED Mask can be purchased @joiresspa https://www.joiresspastudio.com/joiresproducts/69d3qktpdpj9n7vfxjnoq81ibcl76h

It’s not often that a band celebrates their 25th anniversary – it’s a special milestone for any business, but especially in the music world it’s truly incredible. Ballyhoo! is one of the lucky few that has made it to this milestone, and they’ve done it based on the commitment, sacrifices, and pure drive of their members. Howi Spangler, singer and guitarist of Ballyhoo!, joins us on today’s episode to discuss the band’s longevity, adapting to COVID-19, and how they have managed to make a living as creatives. Listen now to learn more about Howi and Ballyhoo! and find out what you can do to grow your own business into a great career! What you’ll learn: What Ballyhoo! did to adapt to live streaming when the pandemic beganWhy Ballyhoo! started hosting an annual Hoolloween showHow adaptation is one of the keys of Howi and Ballyhoo!’s long-term successHow you can monetize your band’s live streamsWhy you should build a community for your fansWhat Howi attribute’s to the longevity of his careerWhy taking risks within reason is necessary for your businessWhy changing your sound needs to be natural – but you shouldn’t be afraid of losing fansHow to become a successful artist or creativeWhy you should just do it – start planning a live stream for your band today! For full show notes visit https://thebetterbandbureau.com/48

On this episode of March Forth with Mike Bauman, Mike chats with Wes Anderson! Formerly of Fiction 20 Down, Wes has focused on his solo music work over the past couple years, releasing numerous singles and collaborating with several different artists. Among those collaborations have been P-Nut (311), Howi and Donald Spangler (Ballyhoo!), Lyrics Born, Duke Sims, Kosha Dillz, Marlon Asher, King Green, and Ted Bowne (Passafire). Wes talks with Mike about what it's been like for him during quarantine, including what he's been working on, what things have been like in Baltimore, his collaborations, playing a live show in September, and more. This episode of the podcast also features the song "Red Cup Dub" from Wes featuring ¡MAYDAY! & Trey Miller (One Life To Lead), available now! To keep up to date on what Wes has going on and to follow his socials, head over to https://wesandersonmusic.com/home. You can follow March Forth on Instagram @MarchForthPod and Mike on Twitter @MikeVBauman. Thanks for listening! If ya dug it, like it, share it, tell a friend, subscribe, and above all, keep the faith and be kind to one another.

My dad was a true artist with wood. Someone could describe what they wanted then he’d draw it and then he’d create it and they’d be even happier with it than what they envisioned. He was a total genius. This is the first time I recognized his artistry was genius.This morning as he came to me in my vision I saw he had a big ego. He didn’t trust others to do things as good as him. He died a poor man. I can learn and trust to delegate. Proverbs 29:18 Where there is no vision, the people perish.Vision is a gift from God to provide hope and motivation to keep going. This also brings us closer to God. Great thoughts shared today by Malinda and Lara.Today I give myself permission to see my future as nowI am following Christ and He knows howI have power of direction from God, who loves meI am surrounded in abundance as I serve in my geniusI find joy in everything I do, that is my gift!I have powerful directionI am grateful for what isMy celebration adds substance to creationI am edified in celebration and all is upgradedI am joy!I add joy in the creation as I celebrate!Click Here for more info on living a life of gratitude.Click Here to find out how to join the Gratitude Call live every weekday morning at 7 am Mountain Time.Click Here to join the “Breakthrough with Gratitude!” Facebook Group. Check out the NEW! Daily GPS Planner. It’s a Gratitude Journal and Planner in one! There is space to write your Inspired Shortcuts, record all your thoughts and impressions from The Daily Gratitude Call and even pages to help you stay focused on your Path of Purpose!To have a 15 minute conversation with Wylene Benson and gain new perspective on an area you desire to change, schedule a time on her calendar by going to this link: askwylene.comTo work more closely with Wylene, email her and click here to learn more about her new book The Seven Gateways – Your Map to Integrity in Life and Business that so many have discovered to be the key to living a life of purpose, fulfillment and happiness!Support the show (https://wylenebenson.com)

78 - Howi Spangler returns to make his second appearance on The Fifth Dimension! Howi is the lead singer of Ballyhoo! and host of Tales from the Green Room podcast. Always inspiring creativity in his listeners, Howi comes on and talks about learning to adapt an entrepreneurial mindset, viewing obstacles and struggles as tools for personal breakthrough, and the message of Ballyhoo's latest album Message to the World.Stream Ballyhoo's new album:Message to the World (Spotify link)Howi Spangler:Tales from the Green RoomInstagramIf you like the show, leave us a Review :)Interact with The Fifth Dimension!InstagramYoutubeLet's Meditate!The Fifth Dimension ShopEvan McDermodLearn about The 30 Day Transformation & Consultations!Become a Patreon Subscriber!On Patreon, you will have access to exclusive guided meditations with Evan, Q&A's, an opportunity to interact with other subscribers, and early access to the featured guests coming on the podcast. Donate what you can, any amount is appreciated.Or a one time donation to help keep the show running! :)PayPal | VenmoSupport the show (https://www.paypal.com/paypalme/evanmcdermod)

Howi Spangler, lead singer of the Reggae band “Ballyhoo!” and host of Tales from The Green Room Podcast joins us live from Maryland. In this episode we talk about how horrible Howi is at pulling pranks, what life off the road amid the Covid-19 pandemic feels like, and all the positives we can take from our current situation. SPONSORED BY: manscaped.com use code word SHITSHOW at check out for 20% off.

This week's show features an interview with Torrance, CA's 131'rs about their indie-folk-rock sound, songs from Wallows, Static & Surrender, Twin Peaks, In Tall Buildings, Stop, Drop & Rewind, Wes Anderson ft. Howi from Ballyhoo!, The Bellrays, Confused by Zebras, Cold War Kids, CORVYX & David Martinez! Hosted by Stac Edwards 06/12/2018

This week's show features an interview with Howi from Ballyhoo! about their Punk Rock Reggae Sex music, songs from Mikky Echo, Knox Fortune, Dirty Projectors, Soccer Mommy, Django Django, Orphan the Poet, Yukon Blonde, The Decemberists, The Interrupters and KOPPS ft Joywave! Hosted by Stac Edwards 05/22/2018