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Tetanus has probably been around for most of human history, or even longer. But it’s preventable today thanks to vaccines. Research: "Emil von Behring." Notable Scientists from 1900 to the Present, edited by Brigham Narins, Gale, 2008. Gale In Context: Science, link.gale.com/apps/doc/K1619001490/GPS?u=mlin_n_melpub&sid=bookmark-GPS&xid=464250e5. Accessed 17 Apr. 2025. Breasted, J.H., translator. “OIP 3. The Edwin Smith Surgical Papyrus, Volume 1: Hieroglyphic Transliteration, Translation, and Commentary.” Oxford University Press. 1930. Chalian, William. “An Essay on the History of Lockjaw.” Bulletin of the History of Medicine, FEBRUARY, 1940, Vol. 8, No. 2. Via JSTOR. https://www.jstor.org/stable/44446242 Emil von Behring: The founder of serum therapy. NobelPrize.org. Nobel Prize Outreach 2025. Thu. 17 Apr 2025. https://www.nobelprize.org/prizes/medicine/1901/behring/article/ Galassi, Francesco Maria et al. “Tetanus: historical and palaeopathological aspects considering its current health impact.” Journal of preventive medicine and hygiene vol. 65,4 E580-E585. 31 Jan. 2025, doi:10.15167/2421-4248/jpmh2024.65.4.3376 George, Elizabeth K. “Tetanus (Clostridium tetani Infection).” StatPearls. January 2025. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK482484/ Hippocrates. “VI. Diseases, Internal Affections.” Harvard University Press. 1988. Jean-Marc Cavaillon, Historical links between toxinology and immunology, Pathogens and Disease, Volume 76, Issue 3, April 2018, fty019, https://doi.org/10.1093/femspd/fty019 Jones CE, Yusuf N, Ahmed B, Kassogue M, Wasley A, Kanu FA. Progress Toward Achieving and Sustaining Maternal and Neonatal Tetanus Elimination — Worldwide, 2000–2022. MMWR Morb Mortal Wkly Rep 2024;73:614–621. DOI: http://dx.doi.org/10.15585/mmwr.mm7328a1 Kaufmann, Stefan H E. “Remembering Emil von Behring: from Tetanus Treatment to Antibody Cooperation with Phagocytes.” mBio vol. 8,1 e00117-17. 28 Feb. 2017, doi:10.1128/mBio.00117-17 Kreston, Rebecca. “Tetanus, the Grinning Death.” Discover. 9/29/2015. https://www.discovermagazine.com/health/tetanus-the-grinning-death Milto, Lori De, and Leslie Mertz, PhD. "Tetanus." The Gale Encyclopedia of Public Health, edited by Brigham Narins, 2nd ed., vol. 2, Gale, 2020, pp. 1074-1076. Gale In Context: Environmental Studies, link.gale.com/apps/doc/CX7947900274/GPS?u=mlin_n_melpub&sid=bookmark-GPS&xid=a44bc544. Accessed 14 Apr. 2025. Milto, Lori De, and Leslie Mertz, PhD. "Tetanus." The Gale Encyclopedia of Public Health, edited by Brigham Narins, 2nd ed., vol. 2, Gale, 2020, pp. 1074-1076. Gale In Context: Environmental Studies, link.gale.com/apps/doc/CX7947900274/GPS?u=mlin_n_melpub&sid=bookmark-GPS&xid=a44bc544. Accessed 15 Apr. 2025. National Institutes of Health. “Tetanus.” https://history.nih.gov/display/history/Tetanus Ni, Maoshing. “The Yellow Emperor's Classic of Medicine: A New Translation of the Neijing Suwen with Commentary.” Shambhala. 1995. Smithsonian. “The Antibody Initiative: Battling Tetanus.” https://www.si.edu/spotlight/antibody-initiative/battling-tetanus Sundwall, John. “Man and Microbes.” Illustrated lecture given under the auspices of the Kansas Academy of Science, Topeka, January 12, 1917. https://archive.org/details/jstor-3624335/ The Nobel Prize in Physiology or Medicine 1901. NobelPrize.org. Nobel Prize Outreach 2025. Thu. 17 Apr 2025. https://www.nobelprize.org/prizes/medicine/1901/summary/ Tiwari, Tejpratap S.P. et al. “Chapter 21: Tetanus.” CDC Pink Book. https://www.cdc.gov/pinkbook/hcp/table-of-contents/chapter-21-tetanus.html Von Behring, Emil and Kitasato Shibasaburo. “The Mechanism of Immunity in Animals to Diphtheria and Tetanus.” Immunology. 1890. http://raolab.org/upfile/file/20200612164743_201234_56288.pdf War Office Committee for the Study of Tetanus. “Memorandum on Tetanus.” Fourth Edition. 1919. https://archive.org/details/b32171201/ World Health Organization. “Tetanus.” 7/12/2024. https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/tetanus See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Ce lundi 12 mai est débattue la loi sur la fin de vie à l'Assemblée nationale. L'occasion pour Florian Gazan de vous expliquer pourquoi trois femmes ont révolutionné la fin de vie. Trois femmes nées en Europe et dont le nom ne vous dit sans doute rien : Jeanne Garnier, Cicely Saunders et Elizabeth Kübler-Ross. Dans "Ah Ouais ?", Florian Gazan répond en une minute chrono à toutes les questions essentielles, existentielles, parfois complètement absurdes, qui vous traversent la tête. Distribué par Audiomeans. Visitez audiomeans.fr/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.
In this episode, Matt speaks with Richard Tarnas about his book Cosmos and Psyche: Intimations of a New Worldview. Richard Theodore Tarnas is a cultural historian and astrologer known for his books The Passion of the Western Mind: Understanding the Ideas That Have Shaped Our World View and Cosmos and Psyche: Intimations of a New World View. Tarnas is professor of philosophy and psychology at the California Institute of Integral Studies, and is the founding director of its graduate program in Philosophy, Cosmology, and Consciousness. In 1968 Tarnas entered Harvard, graduating with an A.B. cum laude in 1972. He received his Ph.D. from Saybrook Institute in 1976 with a thesis on psychedelic therapy. In 1974 Tarnas went to Esalen in California to study psychotherapy with Stanislav Grof. From 1974 to 1984 he lived and worked at Esalen Institute in Big Sur, California, teaching and studying with Grof, Joseph Campbell, Gregory Bateson, Huston Smith, Elizabeth Kübler-Ross, and James Hillman. He also served as Esalen's director of programs and education. Get the book: https://a.co/d/4gJFNxS warmachinepodcast.org Music for this episode: Lamentium, Monasterium Imperi Nomad's Theme, Matt Baker
In this episode, Alicia Coppola discusses her journey into the motivation behind her award-winning short films and her podcast Bootstrap Bitch Podcast. We discuss not only surviving, but thriving, choosing kindness, compassion, respect and acceptance.BIOAlicia Coppola is an actress, director, podcaster, producer and writer. Her entertainment career spans more than 30 years including starring roles on TV in Jericho, Blood & Treasure, Why Women Kill, and in the feature films National Treasure 2: Book of Secrets, and We Are Your Friends, among others. Her published book, Gracefully Gone, chronicles her father's battle with brain cancer and inspired the award-winning short film, Between Us, which Alicia wrote, directed and starred in. And You Are…? starring Jane Seymour is her second award winning short film that she wrote and directed. She supports various LGBTQ+ organizations and is a Global Ambassador for The Elizabeth Kübler Ross Foundation.IG @alicia_coppola#alittlelessfearpodcast #podcastshow #podcasthost #shortfilm #awardwinning #HRC #bootstrapbitchpodcast #compassion #respect #acceptance #kindness #cancer #spirit #LGBTQ #LGTBQ+ #LGBTQIA #trans #transgender #transman #alzheimers #alzheimersdementia #alzheimersdisease #fyp #foryoupage #foryourpage This is Dr. Lino Martinez the host for A Little Less Fear Podcast. For more information, please use the information below. Thanks so much for your support!Author | A Little Less FearA Little LESS FEAR Podcast (@alittlelessfearpodcast) • Instagram photos and videosLino Marinez (@alittlelessfear) TikTok | Watch Lino Marinez's Newest TikTok Videos(4) A Little Less Fear Podcast - YouTube
Dr. Katherin Elizabeth (K E) Garland is an award-winning creative nonfiction writer, blogger, and author based in Florida. She uses personal essays and memoir to de-marginalize women's experiences with an intent to highlight and humanize contemporary issues, such as reproductive rights, intergenerational trauma, adoption, and mental health issues. Her work has appeared in several online magazines and anthologies, including Midnight & Indigo and Chicken Soup for the Soul. Garland's debut memoir, In Search of a Salve: Memoir of a Sex Addict was released September 2023 with NEW Reads Publications. She is married, with two adult daughters and is an associate professor at a community college. Website: https://www.kegarland.com/Music by Corey Quinn
En este mensaje tratamos el siguiente caso de una mujer que «descargó su conciencia» de manera anónima en nuestro sitio www.conciencia.net, autorizándonos a que la citáramos: «Creo que interferí con la voluntad de Dios. Soy médica, y hace menos de un año mi hermano, la persona a la que más amé en este mundo, murió en una intervención por un tumor cerebral. »Yo estaba molesta y culpé a mi madre por el retraso en el diagnóstico porque, a causa de eso, no pude sacarlo del país para que tuviera mejores oportunidades.... Murió tras la segunda intervención. »Él era un hombre entregado a Dios y con una fe inquebrantable. Estaba convencido de que Dios lo sanaría... pero no fue así, y me siento culpable porque tal vez mi ira y dolor no me dejaron tomar las mejores decisiones.» Este es el consejo que le dio mi esposa: «Estimada amiga: »Sentimos mucho la pérdida que ha sufrido. Sabemos lo que es perder a temprana edad a un hermano o a una hermana muy cercana, y podemos asegurar que la vida no volverá a ser igual para usted. Siempre habrá un puesto vacío alrededor de la mesa y un vacío en su corazón. Así se manifiesta la tristeza. »Usted da a entender que estaba enojada con su mamá y que se culpa también a sí misma. Esos sentimientos de ira y culpabilidad forman parte de la segunda etapa del duelo.1 Como parte de sus estudios médicos, lo más probable es que usted haya estudiado acerca de la psiquiatra Elizabeth Kübler-Ross y de las cinco etapas del duelo que ella propuso.2 Durante los últimos cincuenta años esas etapas han sido ampliamente aceptadas por los que practican la medicina. Sin embargo, con frecuencia es fácil identificar las etapas en otra persona, pero más difícil en nosotros mismos. »La tercera etapa consta de preguntas tales como las que se ha hecho usted. ¿Qué habría pasado si mi hermano hubiera sido diagnosticado más temprano? ¿Qué si yo lo hubiera llevado a otro país a tiempo para aprovechar los tratamientos más recientes? {¿Qué si yo no hubiera tomado las decisiones que tomé?} »La cuarta etapa es la depresión. Sus palabras revelan que sus emociones ya están por el suelo, y ¿quién no sentiría tal depresión después de perder a la persona a la que más amaba en este mundo? ... »Usted dice que su hermano era un hombre entregado a Dios y que estaba convencido de que Dios iba a sanarlo. Sería natural que usted culpara a Dios por no evitar la muerte de su hermano. ¿Acaso los que son fieles a Dios no reciben algo de beneficio adicional de parte de Él? »¿Por qué entonces no sana Dios siempre a cada creyente fiel que se lo pide? Puede ser muy difícil aceptar esa realidad, pero los creyentes fieles confían en que Dios les ha de dar el número preciso de días sobre la tierra y luego la eternidad en el cielo. El número de días que Dios designó para su hermano no fue afectado por la fecha del diagnóstico ni por la ira y la culpa que usted sintió. Su hermano confiaba en Dios, así que, a pesar de que no sabemos por qué no fueron contestadas sus oraciones en la manera como él esperaba, su confianza estaba puesta en Dios y no en recibir lo que él quería. »La acompañamos en su dolor.» Con eso termina lo que Linda, mi esposa, recomienda en este caso. El caso completo puede leerse con sólo pulsar la pestaña en www.conciencia.net que dice: «Casos», y luego buscar el Caso 678. Carlos ReyUn Mensaje a la Concienciawww.conciencia.net 1 La primera etapa es la negación. 2 «Cuáles son las 5 fases del duelo y por qué no es algo que necesariamente tienes que dejar atrás», BBC Mundo, 26 abril 2018 En línea 7 mayo 2021.
Judah & the Lion's new album, The Process, is divided into five different stages, one for each stage of grief as described by Swiss psychiatrist Elizabeth Kübler-Ross. So there are songs about denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. Judah Akers was moved to create the album after a series of incidents in his life, including suicides in his family, the collapse of his marriage, and the development of an unwelcome alcohol habit. We talk with Judah about his recording but also about positive experiences with talk therapy, with neurofeedback therapy, and his relationship with God.Thank you to all our listeners who support the show as monthly members of Maximum Fun.Check out our I'm Glad You're Here and Depresh Mode merchandise at the brand new merch website MaxFunStore.com!Hey, remember, you're part of Depresh Mode and we want to hear what you want to hear about. What guests and issues would you like to have covered in a future episode? Write us at depreshmode@maximumfun.org.Help is available right away.The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 988 or 1-800-273-8255, 1-800-273-TALKCrisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741.International suicide hotline numbers available here: https://www.opencounseling.com/suicide-hotlinesThe Depresh Mode newsletter is available twice a week. Subscribe for free and stay up to date on the show and mental health issues. https://johnmoe.substack.com/John's acclaimed memoir, The Hilarious World of Depression, is now available in paperback. https://us.macmillan.com/books/9781250209566/thehilariousworldofdepressionFind the show on X @depreshpod and Instagram @depreshpod.John is on X @johnmoe.
In this episode, Rhea and I are joined by Dr. Elizabeth K. Thomas, Associate Professor of Geology at the University at Buffalo. Dr. Thomas employs advanced scientific methods to uncover ancient climate secrets. She analyzes lipid biomarkers found in sediment cores, which are cylindrical samples drilled from the Earth's surface containing layers of accumulated sediment. These biomarkers act as chemical fingerprints, revealing signs about past environmental conditions, including variations in precipitation patterns. Additionally, she examines isotopic signatures within these sediment cores. Isotopes, different forms of an element, with varying numbers of neutrons, provide insights into past climate conditions. By integrating these techniques, Dr. Thomas paints a detailed picture of how Earth's climate has evolved and influenced water distribution over millennia. Join us as we explore the fascinating intersection of geology, climate science, and water management.
Why are we so afraid to die, I ask afterlife expert, researcher, coach and writer Craig Hogan. “It's a misunderstanding. People think this life is all there is. But we don't die. Transition happens seamlessly. There is no pain.” Craig Hogan and his associates try to teach people about this. If we knew we were immortal, we would arguably live our lives differently. We wouldn't pursue things selfishly. We would realize we are on this journey together with the people around us. There are innumerable reports from people who have been in contact with deceased loved ones. Craig has himself had many experiences in which he has communicated with the other side. There are also many widely known accounts of contacts with the afterlife, such as the ones of Elizabeth Kübler-Ross, Raymond Moody and J.B. Phillips. Anybody can get in touch with the deceased, says Craig Hogan. You don't have to go through a medium. But you need to go into a meditative state and empty your mind. Ask a question or make a statement to the deceased person you want to contact. “You will get responses immediately, in one chunk, not in words. It's telepathic”, says Craig. So what is the afterlife like? “We need consistency, so it's very much like our earth life. People have bodies. There are houses and streets and different cultures and nationalities. People first use the language they are used to, but after a while they drop language, because they don't need it. It is like earth but without the problems. There is no old age and no ailments.” When we pass, we don't actually go anywhere, Craig explains. It's already here. It's all about a change of focus. It's like changing the frequency on the ‘life radio'. For some there is a ‘second death'. These people don't understand that they have passed at first. Or they don't want to leave the earth plane for some reason – they may have unfinished business, or they don't want to leave the sensual pleasures, or they are afraid they are going to go to hell. “So they stay earthbound for a while. They walk around, ride buses, and go to church. Some become poltergeists.” “Then there is another category of almost demonic influences. These are negative thought forms produced by people or groups of people who want to impede other people's progress because of the anger and violence that exist on earth.” But eventually, all go to life after this and get to have a respite. There is no hell. “This earth plane is a school. The purpose is to teach us lessons. We are growing in love and compassion”, says Craig. Before we are born our souls and guides get together and plan the circumstances and the kinds of struggles we will have in life. Afterwards we can share our learning with others that are within our higher self. Reincarnation is misunderstood, according to Craig. We stay the individuals we are, but we are part of a higher self which has thousands of people in it. When a new life is planned, the planning group will take pieces from other lifes, so that the new person will learn lessons that were not previously learned. That is where past life regression comes from, Craig explains. Lives are intertwined. You tap into experiences of another life. “So, we don't come back as some other person.” Humanity once knew about the afterlife but forgot. However, when we regain that knowledge, it will be on a higher level. We have understandings today that humankind has never had, Craig points out. “We are in the most mature state of understanding the life after this life. We are going far beyond the insights we used to have.” Within a few centuries, a new kind of earth will arise, he thinks. “There is no need to feel fear about the end of this life. There is no end.” Craig's organization Seek Reality
In this episode, we are joined by renowned grief expert and author, Dr David Kessler. David delves into the intricacies of grief, drawing upon his extensive experience and the wisdom gained from years of working with clients in the field and alongside the pioneering psychiatrist Dr Elizabeth K
En este episodio les comparto lo que me ha ayudado a atravesar el duelo. No desde una perspectiva psicológica. Desde una perspectiva de ser humano en proceso de duelo ❤️ Recomendación: libros de la dra. Elizabeth Kübler Ross (Que no me acorde jamás de su nombre mientras grababa este episodio ) Episodios recomendados del podcast: 41. La noche oscura del alma 42. Cómo sentir paz cuando imposible. 43. Remedios para la tristeza. Te abrazo infinitamente, si la estás pasando do muy mal pro favor busca ayuda. No tienes que atravesar esto en soledad ❤️
Illuminating the Way of the Bodhisattva, Jack shares wisdom from St. Teresa of Calcutta, Elizabeth Kübler-Ross, Ajahn Chah, and Sueng Sahn on walking the spiritual path.This vintage episode from April 10, 1977 at Camp Cedar Glen was originally published on DharmaSeed.Today's podcast is sponsored by BetterHelp. Click to receive 10% off your first month with your own licensed professional therapist: betterhelp.com/heartwisdomIn this vintage episode, Jack mindfully illuminates:The selfless service, love, and wisdom of Saint Mother Teresa of CalcuttaElizabeth Kübler-Ross's unshakeable compassion and revolutionary work around death and dyingHow his teacher Ajahn Chah's Thai monastery was an island of peace and possibility amidst war and conflictWhat the story of Korean Zen Master, Seung Sahn, getting a job at a laundry mat teaches us about non-attachment to selfCompassion, the spiritual path, and the Way of the BodhisattvaDiscover the transformative practice of teaching mindfulness in a new FREE 30-page ebook by Senior Buddhist teacher and Emmy award-winning musician, David Nichtern. With its blend of humor, wisdom, and accessible approach, The Art of Teaching Mindfulness ebook is a must-read for anyone interested in sharing the life-changing practices of mindfulness with others.Already downloaded by over 15k people, visit dharmamoon.com/ebook to get YOUR free copy of The Art of Teaching Mindfulness!"The power that a human being who's really committed to truth and love has to transform people around them is quite remarkable." – Jack KornfieldSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
We certainly have had – and the world has had – our fair share of reasons to grieve. Wherever you live, you felt the fear and loss of the pandemic. Add on to that, the impact of hurricanes, tornados, drought, fires, floods, war, racism, political unrest, violence… we've got it all - some countries more than others. But these events are also a backdrop for whatever happens in our personal lives – people who we've loved dying, losing a job, having to move or even to escape from where you've lived, developing a severe mental or physical illness or one that's chronically debilitating, being abused… The list goes on and on. And we need to grieve. Yet, one of the ironies is that the model we've been taught – in a very “this is how you should be grieving” kind of way – was created to help us understand what the person dying might feel and wasn't created to describe the grief of people who are alive and grieving loss. What's grief really like? How do the stages that Kübler-Ross help? How do they hurt? What are the effects of your culture or faith alter your experience of grief? How is the Internet changing the way we grieve? The listener email for today is from a woman whose sense of emotional stability has decreased after the death of her father – and she has no relationship with her mom. She uses the term, “I feel orphaned.” So as always, we'll talk about what you can do about it. Before we go on, I'd like to invite you to listen and watch my TEDxBocaRaton talk.. Here's one of the many reviews… "Dr. Rutherford, what a beautiful talk. I watched it several times. We can all learn to recognize the signs and be ready to support those who might be silently struggling. This TEDx talk is a powerful reminder to be more attentive to the people around us, listen beyond the surface, and offer support without judgment." Click here to listen! Advertisers Links: Have you been putting off getting help? BetterHelp, the #1 online therapy provider, has a special offer for you now! Vital Links: Heidi Bastian's article in The Atlantic Article: It's Time To Let The Five Stages of Grief Die Dr. Franco's article on cultural differences in grief. You can hear more about this and many other topics by listening to my podcast, The Selfwork Podcast. Subscribe to my website and receive my weekly newsletter including a blog post and podcast! If you'd like to join my FaceBook closed group, then click here and answer the membership questions! Welcome! My book entitled Perfectly Hidden Depression is available here! Its message is specifically for those with a struggle with strong perfectionism which acts to mask underlying emotional pain. But the many self-help techniques described can be used by everyone who chooses to begin to address emotions long hidden away that are clouding and sabotaging your current life. And it's available in paperback, eBook or as an audiobook! And there's another way to send me a message! You can record by clicking below and ask your question or make a comment. You'll have 90 seconds to do so and that time goes quickly. By recording, you're giving SelfWork (and me) permission to use your voice on the podcast. I'll look forward to hearing from you! Episode Transcript: Intro: This is SelfWork and I'm Dr. Margaret Rutherford. At SelfWork, we'll discuss psychological and emotional issues common in today's world and what to do about them. I'm Dr. Margaret and SelfWork is a podcast dedicated to you taking just a few minutes today for your own selfwork. Welcome or welcome back to SelfWork. I'm Dr. Margaret Ruthford. I'm so glad you're here. I started this podcast almost seven years ago now to extend the walls of my practice to those of you who are already interested maybe in therapy or you were just interested in psychological stuff, to those of you who might have just been diagnosed or you're looking for some answers. And to those of you who might just be a little skeptical about the whole mental health horizon, so welcome, welcome to all of you. We certainly have had, and the world has had their fair share of reasons to grieve recently. Wherever you live, you felt the fear and loss of the pandemic. Add onto that, the impact of hurricanes, tornadoes, drought, fires, floods, war, racism, political unrest, violence - we've got it all - some countries more than others, but these events are also a backdrop for whatever happens in our personal lives, people who we've loved dying, we lose a job, we have to move or even you, you have to escape where you've lived. You develop a severe mental or physical illness or or that's chronically debilitating or someone you love does or you're being abused. The list goes on and on and we need to grieve. And yet one of the ironies, and what I want to address in today's SelfWork is that the model we've had taught to us in a very "this is how you should be grieving" kind of way, was initially met or designed to describe the stages of grief for the person who is terminally ill or dying themselves. It's Elizabeth Kübler Ross's five stages of grief. It was never meant for the people who were alive in grieving a loss. So that's what we're gonna talk about today. What's grief really like? How did the stages that Kübler Ross suggests help? How do they hurt? What are the effects of your culture or faith and how does that alter your experience of grief? How is the internet changing the way we grieve? That's an interesting kind of subject. The listener mail for today is from a woman whose sense of emotional stability has decreased after the death of her father, and she has no relationship with her mom. She uses the term, "I feel orphaned." I've heard so many people say this, so we're gonna talk about it today on SelfWork. Before we go on, I'd like to invite you to listen and watch my TEDxBocaRaton talk. Here's one of the many reviews, "Dr. Margaret Rutherford. What a beautiful talk. I watched it several times. We can all learn to recognize the signs and be ready to support those who might be silently struggling. This TEDx talk is a powerful reminder to be more attentive to the people around us. Listen beyond the surface and offer support without judgment. Together we can break mental health stigma and create a more compassionate and understanding society." So I will have the link in the show notes or you can just put in Dr. Margaret Rutherford TEDx and it'll lead you right with my YouTube. And of course, if you like it, please say you do or check that off and even leave a review. I'm beginning to get asked to speak about perfectly in depression directly because of this TEDx talk. And so that's a wonderful and very helpful way you can help me spread what I believe is a very important message. Thanks, my gratitude to y'all. Episode Elizabeth Kübler-Ross, the psychiatrist who first developed and wrote about five stages of grief, gathered her ideas from conversations with dying patients. She talked to them and she watched the grief that they go through. And yet it was snapped up by others to describe what everyone who is grieving must go through. In fact, it doesn't make a lot of sense when you think of it and it's even becomes something you should be going through, which is really ridiculous. For one thing, the stages are interactive, but somehow people have felt bad that those stages weren't part of their experience. In an article put out by McGill entitled, it's Time to Let the Five Stages of Grief Die. The author state and I quote while she was a psychiatry resident in New York, Kubler Ross realized how little attention was paid by hospital staff to terminally ill patients and how little medical knowledge there was regarding the psychological aspects besetting patients facing death. She worked extensively with terminally ill patients throughout her medical school career and continued to study and teach about such topics. She was also criticized by academic researchers for not running a real study. Instead, she used conversations with a dying as her basis for putting the stages forth and wanting medical staff to be a better attuned to what was going on with these patients. Now, what are those stages that she was describing? You may have thought I needed to know this way before now, but here we go. Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. She asserted that these stages weren't rigid. You could feel or express them at any time. Denial that you were dying or that you had a serious illness might make you not seek treatment or refuse treatment. Keep how serious your illness was out of your consciousness. Anger is the second one, anger that it feels unfair that you're not ready to die, that you have more life to live. The third one is bargaining. If I can just get better, I'll never do X, Y, or Z again, or I'll start doing X, Y, or Z. Then there's depression, sadness over past choices, sadness over not having control, sadness that you're leaving the people you love, the life you've been fulfilled by and thus acceptance, realizing there's truly no more you can do. Acceptance that you won't see your grandchild born or your kid graduating from high school. Of course, how you grieve is shaped so much by the culture you live in or in the rituals, the religion you follow or that you have faith in general. Dr. Marissa Franco, who we've had here as SelfWork as a guest, she's really cool, writes in Psychology Today that research suggests that when we're helping our loved ones cope with grief, we should consider what they find. Most supportive people in the Asian and Asian American communities for example, may prefer spending time with close others without talking about their grief. While people in the European American community may want more explicit emotional support. So she's pointing out that we need to understand and be aware of how a certain person may be grieving, how their culture influences them, how their faith influences them, and what you may need or want to do to be respectful of that because that's what's important. Even with the best of intentions, you may make someone's experience of grief more difficult or if they really want that kind of support from you, they want to talk about their loved one who's gone. Then you hold back obvious emotional support and you don't wanna do that, or at least most of us don't. actually to know what's truly helpful. You could of course ask and not assume, how would you like for me to support you? So what role does a belief in life after death have on grief? I looked at several different studies but was drawn to one whose results showed that people reporting no spiritual belief had not resolved their grief. By 14 months after the death, participants with strong spiritual beliefs resolved their grief progressively over the same period. And then people with low levels of belief showed little change in the first nine months but thereafter resolved their grief. So basically a spiritual belief seemed to increase the likelihood that you'll resolve your grief earlier and even a small bit of relief helped to resolve grief more quickly. That's important. But let me quickly say that's not necessarily been what I've seen in my own clients, and I've watched many people grieve. Because so much of what matters is the timing or the way someone died. Did you have a chance to do what's called anticipatory grieving? Allowing yourself to feel what it's going to feel like to lose someone you love, whether you got to say goodbye, whether you feel to blame or partially responsible for their death or you were told that you were responsible. Grief can often challenge your belief in some of these instances. If there's a God, then how did this happen? Now for those of you listening who say, if you believe in heaven, if you believe in life after death or if your religion is Buddhist or Hindu or whatever it is, that may of course be very comforting. I'm not saying that, but here's an example. I worked with a man years ago whose alcoholic parents had told him he was to blame for a sibling's death when he had been only a child himself. When it occurred they were inside drinking and this 10 year old boy was tasked with watching his four younger siblings and one of them got hit by a car. So obviously when you're blamed, when you have a terrible time processing your own grief, or maybe you lose contact with others who you might be grieving with, you've got to go back to college or you've got a new job or you've quickly moved to a new home. So those that you might be grieving with are no longer there. Of course, our modern technology helps with that, but still, but there's also the possibility that you are not even allowed to speak of your mom who died because your father has remarried. So many factors affect your grief, how you are encouraged to express it or how you're not allowed to do so again, faith, a certain structure of what happens after death. If you believe, that can certainly be helpful, but from my perspective at in my experience, that suddenly you just don't grieve. That's far too simplistic. Let's stop for a moment for a brief message and offer from BetterHelp where you just might turn in this kind of grieving situation or time. BetterHelp Ad I recently heard a fascinating reframe for the idea of asking for help. Maybe you view asking for help as something someone does who's falling apart or who isn't strong. So consider this. What if asking for help means that you won't let anything get in your way of solving an issue, finding out an answer or discovering a better direction? Asking for help is much more about your determination to recognize what needs your attention or what is getting in your way of having the life you want better help. The number one online therapy provider makes reaching out about as easy as it can get. Within 48 hours, you'll have a professional licensed therapist with whom you can text, email, or talk with to guide you and you're not having to comb through therapist websites or drive to appointments. It's convenient, inexpensive, and readily available. Now you can find a therapist that fits your needs with better help and if you use the code or link betterhelp.com/selfwork, you get 10% off your first month of sessions. So just do it. You'll be glad you did that. Link again is betterhelp.com/selfwork to get 10% off your first month of surfaces. Episode Continues Sometimes when I'm looking into a topic like I did today, I realize that someone has said something born from their their own experience and expertise that I just can't say better. So when I read this Atlantic article by a grieving mother who's also a researcher, Heidi Bastian, I knew I was having that experience again. She went looking after her 38 year old son's sudden death for help. She found everything from you'll never survive This grief to the idea that there is a time period when grief will be at its strongest but will abate. I want to share this with you because it's the wisest thing I've read on my journey to bring you this episode. So I'm going to be directly quoting from Heidi Bastian's Atlantic article, and if you want to read all of it, I will have it in the show notes. So I quote, "For most people, after most deaths, grief starts to ease after a few weeks and continues to reduce. From there, there can still be tough times ahead, but in most circumstances, by the time you reach six months, you're unlikely to be in a constant state of severe grief. Although most people will experience grief when they lose someone close to them, they won't be overwhelmed by it. For roughly half the bereaved grief is mild or moderate and then subsides among those who experience high levels of grief at the outset, distress will usually begin to ease in a few weeks or months to, it's not a straight line where each day is better than the one before, but the overall level of suffering does go down over time" "Some bereaved people thought about 10% according to the research will be in severe grief for six months or longer. The risk of remaining in deep grief for more than a year is higher for those under socioeconomic stress or who experience the loss of a spouse and it's even higher still after the loss of a child or a sudden death via accident, suicide or homicide." That's kind of what I was saying before. So for example, I worked with someone last year who lost her older child in a plane wreck and her husband was also on that plane - and he survived. So where does grief get expressed in that family? Often grieve isn't a solo event others lived through. So again, is there a right way to grieve? No, no, no. Also, to chime in with Ms. Bastian, I have found that grief sort of comes in waves and I've talked about this on the podcast. And you'll wonder and even be afraid what's happening when you get hit by what seems like a stronger wave than ever when your grief had been subsiding. "Oh my, I'm going all the way back to where I was in the first place." That's not my experience with grief. Grief comes in waves and some are stronger than others and then all of a sudden you can get hit by a rogue wave when you get triggered in some way. That's also grief. But let's talk about when it becomes more severe in penetrating, and I'm gonna go back to Miss Bastian's article. "Adults who face this long-running, even severe distress are experiencing what many clinicians and researchers term prolonged or complicated grief. This increases their chances of having serious mental and physical health problems, including premature death and suicidal thoughts. Even if we don't personally know someone who died within a couple of years of a major loss, we've probably all heard stories of it". So back to just me talking , there is a new diagnosis called complicated grief and it's still very controversial 'cause it seems to be pathologizing really deep grief and they give it some sort of one year cutoff. If you're still grieving after one year, then you should be given a diagnosis of complicated grief. The Washington Post op-ed argued why set expectations on its pace or texture. Why pathologize love? Now I'm back to Miss Bastian. Okay, so basically Adam was the name of her son, and I'm gonna go back to this part of her article. "When Adam died, I needed hope that a vibrant life was within my reach. The science showed me that it might be closer than I could even imagine. So I tried to look forward, forward as I did so I held onto a thought about my boy that helped me face a future without him." And this is incredibly profound. So please listen closely. Ms. Baston: "He had loved me his whole life, that love is precious and it's for keeps. I will not waste it." So what she seems to be saying is she's reached a space or place in her heart and her mind where emotionally dying herself from the pain of losing her son would devalue his love for her. I remember a woman I worked with many years ago or several years ago, lost her daughter in a tragic accident, completely shocking and a little more than a year after her death, she went to a wedding of one of her daughter's really good friends and they had a picture of her daughter there because she was supposed to have been in the wedding. And she came back into therapy and said something very similar to Ms. Bastian. She said, "I realized I was there because everyone there had loved my daughter and I loved my daughter, and I was there to honor her as hard as it was for her to go." Deciding you're not going to emotionally die along with your your son or your brother, or your mother or your friend is so important. I see this so much. It's a choice to continue living and in so doing, honoring the person who died. I get a Christmas card every year, in fact, from a family I saw years ago, a couple who'd lost their second child days after his birth.One of them became very angry as his faith was temporarily shattered. The other focused on their living child while also grieving and they had a bit of struggle trying to understand and accept that their separate ways of grieving was okay, that neither had to give up or change their grieving pattern to appease the other. I've seen this difference in grief often within a couple. It's not wrong, it's normal and natural in their card. I noticed immediately another child that had been born, I'm sure they still grieve the child that didn't live, but it doesn't seem to be stopping them from living and connecting to their life. Now, if you're struggling, then please do seek help. If you're stuck, you can get unstuck, but you may need someone who understands that there's no correct recipe for grief. You simply may need help through compassion and gathering hope. Listener Email: Here's our listener email for today. Hi, Dr. Rutherford. I listened to your podcast many times and I love it. I'm 49. I escaped my mom physically to be leaving Israel 23 years ago. I've done extensive work on myself and now I'm in the process of writing a book. Since my dad passed away three years ago also in Israel, I've been re-experiencing feeling wise, returned anxiety, depression, and I'm not as grounded and solid in my place in life. It's all subjective. I have a great family, friends and a husband, but I feel orphaned and guilty for being a bad daughter to my mom, feeling sort of lonely. I'm in California and would love to connect on better help. She didn't realize I couldn't do that. The book writing is obviously triggering, but at the same time I have to do it. I love writing. So again, this was another message that was sent to me on my email, askdrmargaret@drmargaretrutherford.com and I invite you to do so. But as I read this, the first analogy that came to mind as this listener was talking about how writing a book, I'm assuming about her struggles as a child in Israel is very triggering for her. Of course it is often when people tell me they don't want to journal, but I might be suggesting it. What they say is, "I don't know what it'll be like to actually see things in black and white." Or I also hear, "What if someone finds it?" The first question I answer by saying they're absolutely correct. It's often difficult to see your feelings on paper to write down the painful experiences you had. It brings them much more to the surface. You bet it's hard. Here's the analogy I've used. So if your memories are held in a big iron soup pod on the stove and they've been simmering very, very slowly for years with the top on, so slowly they've barely even created any steam, but now you're opening the lid and you might get a huge cloud of steam that reflects those experiences and you have a sudden painful reaction, but you leave the lid off and the puddle settle down again, right? It'll go back to a simmer. In fact, you might not be able to smell anything at all when you got a huge whiff when you first opened the pot. But what if you continue to stir the pot with every one of those stirs some of the smells of your past, the emotions and memories that belong to what happened will become stronger. Therapy's almost always about stirring the pot, talking with friends, however you communicated. However you begin to reveal yourself is stirring the pot and journaling, or certainly writing a book is also doing the same thing. But there's one other factor. The death of her father and she doesn't describe their relationship, just says he was also in Israel. But that death may be very symbolically reminding her of the many losses she's experienced, maybe her dad's voice helped her feel that she'd done what she needed to do to protect herself from her mom. Maybe she's simply grieving that her dad is also gone. I'm not sure, but all of this sounds normal to me. Given the circumstance, estranging yourself from a parent or a sibling due to the damaging impact they had on you. When that estrangement is about self-protection, it's complicated. It can be a relief in many ways, but it's very sad as well. I hope this listener goes to better help or a local therapist to get some of the feedback that she seems to need. Outro: Once again, thank you for being here. I wanna remind you we're doing a little giveaway. If you'll leave a review, an actual written review on Apple Podcasts, then I'm gonna choose two of those reviewers to get a book. Marriage is Not for Chickens, and what I'm gonna do, I realize that many of you probably don't even know what I'm talking about. So in a YGTG coming up in just a couple of days, I'll actually read the book to you. It takes about maybe two and a half minutes , it's a little book meant to be a gift or a little anniversary, something special present or a getting married present. And I know we have a lot of following winter weddings coming up, or like I say, just anniversaries. It's a fun little gift. My communications manager, Christine Mathias, who's also this incredible photographer, she and I did it and she did a lot of the pictures and certainly did a lot of the framing of those. And I had a friend from way long ago also contribute to the photography. But the post itself, actually when it was in the Huffington Post, it earned 200,000 views and 50,000 shares. And of course, I didn't get invited on Good Morning America or , any of those. I guess if you're writing about something happy, that doesn't happen, but I'm gonna give away two copies to two people who leave written reviews for the month of September. So have at it. Let me know what you think about SelfWork, whether that's to say, oh, I wish you didn't do this so much, or you know, whatever I really need and want your feedback. Thanks so much and subscribe. Get onto my new website at drmargaretruthford.com. Look around. It's a lot of fun and if you subscribe there, then you'll get my weekly newsletter. That's it, I promise. But it has some interesting things that I'm doing or ideas I have things that you could be a part of on my Facebook page, that's facebook.com/groups/ self-work. Sometimes we get together for discussions, that kind of thing. But all in all, thank you for being here today. Please take very good care of you, of that family you love, and friends that you love, and your community. I'm Dr. Margaret and this has been SelfWork.
====================================================SUSCRIBETEhttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCNpffyr-7_zP1x1lS89ByaQ?sub_confirmation=1==================================================== DEVOCIÓN MATUTINA PARA MUJERES 2023“HIJA MÍA, NO TENGAS MIEDO”Narrado por: Sirley DelgadilloDesde: Bucaramanga, ColombiaUna cortesía de DR'Ministries y Canaan Seventh-Day Adventist Church 25 DE JUNIO EL SALMO GEMELO - 1A PARTECuando tengo miedo, confío en ti. Salmo 56:3, DHH.Luego de que me diagnosticaron ataques de pánico, asistí a mi primera visita a una terapeuta, quien tenía un péndulo en su mano. Le dije que yo era cristiana y no creía en ese método de trabajo, y que no regresaría más. Cuando llegué a mi casa, me arrodillé y le pedí a Dios que fuera mi terapeuta. Dios me inspiró para realizar una revisión de los textos sobre el miedo en la Biblia. Luego de unos meses pude volver a mis labores profesionales. Este libro es un resultado de la terapia que Dios sigue completando en mi vida.Aquel cuyo corazón está resuelto a servir a Dios encontrará oportunidades para testificar en su favor. Las dificultades serán impotentes para detener al que esté resuelto a buscar primero el reino de Dios y su justicia... Aquel cuya palabra es verdad promete ayuda y gracias suficientes para toda circunstancia. Sus brazos eternos rodean al alma que se vuelve a él en busca de ayuda. Podemos reposar confiadamente en su solicitud, diciendo: "En el día que temo, yo en ti confío". Salmo 56:3. Dios cumplirá su promesa con todo aquel que deposite su confianza en él (HAp, p. 372, 373).El "Salmo gemelo", por su gran parecido con el Salmo 57, fue escrito por David en las más extremas circunstancias:David parecía privado de todo apoyo humano. Había perdido todo lo que apreciaba en la tierra. Saúl lo había expulsado de su país; los filisteos lo habían echado de su campamento; los amalecitas habían saqueado su ciudad; sus esposas e hijos habían sido hechos prisioneros; y sus propios amigos y familiares se habían unido contra él y hasta lo amenazaron con la muerte... Repasó su vida agitada por tantos acontecimientos. ¿En qué circunstancias lo había abandonado el Señor? Su alma se refrigeró recordando las muchas evidencias del favor de Dios. Los hombres de David, por su descontento y su impaciencia, hacían doblemente penosa su aflicción; más el hombre de Dios, teniendo aún mayores motivos para acongojarse, se portó con valor. "En el día que temo, yo en ti confío" (Salmo 56:3), fue lo que expresó su corazón. Aunque no lograba ver una salida de esta dificultad, Dios podía verla, y le enseñaría lo que debía hace (PP, p. 681).Cuando confiamos en Dios, no necesitamos saber las respuestas. "Nuestros miedos no evitan la muerte, frenan la vida" (Elizabeth Kübler-Ross).
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Ep. 64 (Part 2 of 2) | Lynn Fuentes, Ph.D., author of The Koan of Chronic Illness and teacher of a series of courses on managing chronic illness, shines a bright light of understanding on chronic illness with all of its far-reaching ramifications in this very moving and important conversation. Lynn not only illuminates what chronic illness involves physically, emotionally, and relationally, but delves also into the existential questions it engenders: How should we live? How can we love each other? How can we embrace our suffering and allow it to be our path to greater connection with spirit? Lynn speaks from personal experience, having spent many years caring for a family member with a debilitating illness, and explains how she used the Integral Map in her own struggle to help make sense of the huge, all-consuming project that inevitably follows a diagnosis. Now she teaches others what she has learned about coping with the overwhelming logistics, healing the trauma, and also about transforming illness into a spiritual practice.This conversation really pertains to all of us, whether we are very ill or not, as aging towards death is something we all face. Can we learn to prepare ourselves? Can we reflect deeply on what is truly meaningful and important about life itself and live accordingly? Can we open to the wholeness of life, the pain and the bliss, the suffering that our cultural narrative would just as soon ignore? Chronic illness is a heartrending subject, but Lynn's warm, wise, skillful, Integral approach allows us to see it in an expanded way, more profound, more transformative, than we may have seen it before. Recorded December 15, 2022.“We cannot separate suffering from life, they are intimately interconnected. Illness really shows us that.”(For Apple Podcast users, click here to view the complete show notes on the episode page.)Topics & Time Stamps – Part 2What are the essential things in life? Self-knowledge, the need for community, a spiritual connection, appreciating the small things (01:27)Transforming illness into a spiritual practice and the practice of surrender—in surrendering we can become larger; it's not giving up, not defeat, it's acceptance (05:20) Elizabeth Kübler-Ross' stages of grief end in acceptance (08:22)Respecting people's journey: people are too ready to make assumptions about what is needed, when we actually need to listen and ask, “What do you need?” (09:00)It's very scary letting it in: this could happen to anyone at any moment (11:32)I thought life was about doing something! But now I can't do. (12:53)How to take sick people's grumpiness and irritability (13:27)How do we navigate the relationship part and allow each party, sick person and caregiver, to have their feelings; where is the place for sacrifice while still taking care of yourself? (14:50)We need to teach people how to be with a person who is suffering (18:13)Do most of us grow wiser as we age? (20:32)The importance of reflection and taking responsibility for one's life (23:08)How is God here with me—as caregiver, as provider, as patient? (24:19)Philosophy—the love of wisdom—and the importance of spiritual practice in preparation for illness and dying (27:26)We cannot separate suffering from life—they are...
Synopsis: If there's one thing I've learned so far from Elizabeth Kübler-Ross's On Grief and Grieving, it's that we all process grief differently, and there's no wrong way to grieve. As of the recording of this episode, Popo is still with us, but all indications point to the fact that she won't be with us for much longer. This has been on my mind, and when I woke up this morning, I knew I had to make this episode to process my impending grief. Related Rabbi Schneeweiss Content:- 1/11/23: Reflections on My 39th Birthday, New Years 2023, and 2nd Semester- 8/16/21: Tallis as a Vehicle of Gratitude and a Reminder of DeathSources:- Avos 5:21 with Rabbeinu Yonah, Rashi, Abravanel, Rashbatz- Seneca, Letters #23,26,101; On the Shortness of Life; Consolation of Marcia 10:4- Jacques Louis David, The Death of Socrates - Elizabeth Kübler-Ross and David Kessler, On Grief and Grieving p. 39- David Foster Wallace, This is Water-----The Torah content for the remainder of this week has been sponsored by my Patrons. If you gain from my Torah content and would like to help support it on a regular basis, please consider signing up for my Patreon at patreon.com/rabbischneeweiss - or, better yet, you can set up a recurring donation through Chase (so that Patreon doesn't take a cut). Even a small contribution goes a long way, and small recurring contributions go an even longer way! I'd also like to remind listeners of how to access my content. I have my five podcasts (The Stoic Jew, Mishlei, Machshavah Lab, Rambam, and Tefilah), my YouTube channel, my substack (which has replaced my blog), and my WhatsApp group (where I post ALL my content and shiur announcements). The links to all these resources can be found in the show notes at the bottom of my podcast episodes and my YouTube videos. Thank you for listening, watching, reading, and participating!-----If you have questions, comments, or feedback, I would love to hear from you! Please feel free to contact me at rabbischneeweiss at gmail.-----Substack: rabbischneeweiss.substack.com/Patreon: patreon.com/rabbischneeweissYouTube Channel: youtube.com/rabbischneeweissBlog: kolhaseridim.blogspot.com/"The Stoic Jew" Podcast: thestoicjew.buzzsprout.com"The Mishlei Podcast": mishlei.buzzsprout.com"Rambam Bekius" Podcast: rambambekius.buzzsprout.com"Machshavah Lab" Podcast: machshavahlab.buzzsprout.com"The Tefilah Podcast": tefilah.buzzsprout.comWhatsApp Group: https://chat.whatsapp.com/GEB1EPIAarsELfHWuI2k0HAmazon Wishlist: amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/Y72CSP86S24W?ref_=wl_sharelSupport the show
We discuss ways to work through struggles and challenges. Of course we share some amazing quotes because we love quotes. “All the energy in the universe is evenly present in all places at the same time. We don't get energy, we release energy. And the triggering mechanism to release energy is desire. When you have a strong desire to do something, you will always have the energy to do it.” —Bob Proctor “Show me someone who has done something worthwhile, and I'll show you someone who has overcome adversity.”– Lou Holtz “The most beautiful people I've known are those who have known trials, have known struggles, have known loss, and have found their way out of the depths.”– Elizabeth Kübler-Ross “We develop our character muscles by overcoming challenges and obstacles.” - Stephen Covey “ Although the world is full of suffering, it is also full of the overcoming of it.” - Helen Keller “Smooth seas do not make skillful sailors.” - African Proverb “Your hardest times often lead to the greatest moments of your life. Keep going. Tough situations build strong people in the end.” - Roy T Bennett Find Sprinkled with Hope on social media: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKvKY93BmNp9D-uuStspcEQ https://www.facebook.com/groups/727711128046733 https://www.facebook.com/sprinkledwithhopepodcast https://twitter.com/sprinkledhope20 https://www.instagram.com/sprinkledwithhopejason_shane/
In 1969, Elisabeth Kübler-Ross identified the five stages of dying in her book On Death and Dying. Her work has radically transformed the way we think and talk about grief and loss, giving us a shared vocabulary and understanding of a previously murky, yet universal, human experience. Towards the end of her life, Kübler-Ross worked closely with David Kessler, with whom she co-authored several books and formally adapted the stages of dying into the stages of grief. Today, David is the world's foremost expert on grief and has taught health care workers, counselors, and first responders on facing death and loss. His writings and his website Grief.com have reached millions of people. In this episode, David joins us to share his personal experiences with loss and what his decades of helping those on the edge of death have taught him about finding meaning amid suffering, and happiness after tragedy.In this episode, you will hear about:Thanatology — the study of death and dying — and what drew David to this field - 2:10Kessler's friendship with Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, the psychiatrist best known for developing the five stages of dying - 6:06How physicians are often ill-equipped to face death and how hey might better engage with dying patients - 11:22David's advice to physicians on finding meaning amid loss and tragedy - 19:05A review of the five stages of dying/grief - 28:58On Meaning, the sixth stage of grief that David developed - 33:38How the pandemic saw a renewed interest in grief management, and how his interview with the Harvard Business Review entitled “The Discomfort You Are Feeling is Grief” went viral - 38:04How David manages the overwhelming sadness he sometimes experiences in his line of work - 43:54David's advice to physicians on comforting grieving patients - 48:31David Kessler is the author of several books, including The Needs of the Dying and Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief, as well as Life Lessons and On Grief and Grieving with Elizabeth Kübler-Ross, who is herself the noted author of On Death and Dying.Follow David Kessler on Twitter @IamDavidKessler.Visit our website www.TheDoctorsArt.com where you can find transcripts of all episodes.If you know anyone working in health care who would love to explore meaning in medicine with us on the show, feel free to leave a suggestion or send an email to info@thedoctorsart.com.
Did you know that Endometriosis affects roughly 10% of people globally? In today's episode, Tanushri will be talking to Elizabeth K'mali about endometriosis. Endometriosis is a disease where tissue similar to the lining of the uterus grows outside the uterus, causing pain and/or infertility. Elizabeth is an endometriosis survivor and has an empowering story to share. You can check out her endometriosis pages on Instagram, @southasiansurvivor and @arewehealedyetpod This episode is part of the Know Your Rights, Period. Miniseries co-produced by Mrinal Gokhale and hosted by our podcast research director, Tanushri Akula! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/brownwomenhealth/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/brownwomenhealth/support
Did you know that Endometriosis affects roughly 10% of people globally? In today's episode, Tanushri will be talking to Elizabeth K'mali about endometriosis. Endometriosis is a disease where tissue similar to the lining of the uterus grows outside the uterus, causing pain and/or infertility. Elizabeth is an endometriosis survivor and has an empowering story to share. You can check out her endometriosis pages on Instagram, @southasiansurvivor and @arewehealedyetpod This episode is part of the Know Your Rights, Period. Miniseries co-produced by Mrinal Gokhale and hosted by our podcast research director, Tanushri Akula! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/brownwomenhealth/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/brownwomenhealth/support
In this podcast Elizabeth opens up to us about her life spanning from childhood right into her active addiction. We also speak about her recovery and what she is up to nowadays and how she intends to stay sober through her current routine. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
Communication from our Spirit Guides - In this episode I discuss how our spirit guides communicate with us. Sometimes in life, especially when things aren't going so well, we wonder if they're around us at all. So here I explain four different methods that spirit guides us to communicate with us. ____________________________________________ In this episode I refer to a previous podcast (Episode 39) where I discuss our life and soul purpose in detail, you can find that episode by clicking HERE. I also referred to books by Elizabeth Kübler-Ross here are some links: (a) On Grief and Grieving (with David Kessler) Amazon UK Amazon US (b) On Life After Death Amazon UK Amazon US (c) On Death and Dying Amazon UK Amazon US (d) Life Lessons (with David Kessler) Amazon UK Amazon US ____________________________________________ Published on July 6th 2022 Become a Patron of the Podcast to watch each episode in video, access bonus content, take part in monthly live readings and join my Patreon only Discord channel. Full details here: https://www.patreon.com/LifeAfterLifewithSandieByrne Sandie's details and links here: https://linktr.ee/SandieByrne
Survivors Guilt - In this episode I discuss survivors guilt (the guilt we feel because of or after someone's passing), why we feel it, why we have to go through it and what we learn both about ourselves and spiritually. ____________________________________________ In this episode I refer to a previous podcast (Episode 39) where I discuss our life and soul purpose in detail, you can find that episode by clicking HERE. I also referred to books by Elizabeth Kübler-Ross here are some links: (a) On Grief and Grieving (with David Kessler) Amazon UK Amazon US (b) On Life After Death Amazon UK Amazon US (c) On Death and Dying Amazon UK Amazon US (d) Life Lessons (with David Kessler) Amazon UK Amazon US ____________________________________________ Published on June 22nd 2022 Become a Patron of the Podcast to watch each episode in video, access bonus content, take part in monthly live readings and join my Patreon only Discord channel. Full details here: https://www.patreon.com/LifeAfterLifewithSandieByrne Sandie's details and links here: https://linktr.ee/SandieByrne
Very few of us will live a life without loss. As part of our Mental Health Reboot series in recognition of Mental Health Awareness Month, this week's episodes talk a lot about grieving. Mary-Frances O'Connor, an expert in bereavement research, explores the science of how we grieve and experience loss, whether it's a job or a loved one. Mary-Frances O'Connor is an Associate Professor of Clinical Psychology and Psychiatry at the University of Arizona, where she is also the Director of Clinical Training. And she is the author of a book called The Grieving Brain.In this episode we talk about: The distinction between grief and grievingHow her Buddhist practice has influenced her understanding of griefWhether or not we can ever quote/unquote “get over it”Why she argues for “a really big toolkit of coping strategies” How to understand the work of Elizabeth Kübler-Ross todayWhat grieving looks like in a pandemicWhat to say to people who are grievingThe new diagnosis of prolonged grief disorderContent Warning: Brief mention of suicide. Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/mary-frances-oconnor-450See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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In today's episode we discuss the ending of a relationship and the heart ache that follows. We are all familiar with the metaphor of the broken heart. Many songs have been sung about the experience of being left by a loved one. There actually is such a thing as broken heart syndrome at the extreme end of the emotional and physiological pain that relationship breakups can cause. Breaking up in a relationship is a life event that we have all experienced. It is a ‘common' experience like moving house, leaving school, growing up and yet it can be one of the most devastating and destructive experiences one has. In particular, the breakup of a long term relationship can be traumatic and give rise to a range of very strong (conflicting) feelings including rage, despair, resentment, relief, pain and an overwhelming sense of sadness. Each partner's future feels very delicate and uncertain.The end of a relationship has frequently been described in similar terms to those losing a loved person to death. When losing a partner – particularly a long term partner - you go through various stages of grief and through a cycle of very intense emotions. In her ground breaking book on Death and Dying (1969), Elizabeth Kübler-Ross describes the stages a grieving partner goes through in their experience of losing a person they loved. Kübler-Ross' description closely matches the emotions experienced when losing a partner:1. Denial - there is a sense of disbelief that the breakup is actually happening. You are still postponing your grief as you still hold out hope that things will work out eventually.2. Anger - the reality of what is happening has now set in. You may ask yourself why this terrible thing is happening to you. You are angry with your ex-partner for having ruined the relationship and you are angry with yourself for letting this pain happen to you. You may also be angry with others for not helping enough.3. Bargaining - at this point you may negotiate a different kind of relationship with your ex-partner, e.g. being friends from now on. Bargaining in the grief model referred to negotiating with a higher power for the situation to be different.4. Depression - you have now begun to acknowledge the reality of the situation. Feelings of sadness, regret or fear of the future may arise.5. Acceptance - at this stage there is more of an emotional detachment from the initial rawness; there is less of a sense of shock. You may slowly start to move forward in your life.The length of each these stages varies as does the order of each. Grief is not a linear process. Acceptance may be the predominant feeling, but there can still be days filled with anger or depressive feelings.
Keith Morrison is back to regale us with more tales of a woman so infamous in the Dateline universe, she had a network TV miniseries based just on her life and crimes. But if you think this is just any ordinary Huppdate... you would be very wrong. Because the team at Dateline have Russeled up a very special interview with one of the key players in the murder trial of Betsy Faria. Keith, the king of leaning on the scenery, is about to go head to head with Leah Askey, the queen of leaning on inaccuracy. Kimberly and Katie have their popcorn ready and are ready for a showdown of logic vs. lies. So, be sure to refill your giant fountain drink and brace yourself for the latest installment of A DATE WITH DATELINE: THE HUPPENING. This episode is dedicated to Kourtney W. and Elizabeth K.! Thank you so much for being a part of our patreon! Without you we would not be able to face the thunderous rage that comes from long hours spent watching these roundHupps. Thank you so, so much! Official Description from NBCU: The latest in the case of Pam Hupp, charged with murdering her friend Betsy Faria. Keith Morrison interviews Leah Askey, the prosecutor behind the wrongful conviction of Betsy's husband, Russ. Get some Spring in your step with our amazing sponsors! The eyes have it! Try Thrive Causemetics and support their Bigger Than Beauty mission by going to ThriveCausemetics.com/DATEDATELINE for 15% off your first order! Learn to love your skin! Save fifteen dollars on your first visit with Apostrophe at apostrophe.com/DATEDATELINE when you use our code: DATEDATELINE. Get the special mom in your life the gift of comfort this Mother's Day! Go to bombas.com/datedateline and get 20% off your first purchase, AND help someone in need, because Bombas donates a pair of socks, underwear or t-shirt for every purchase! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Elizabeth K. Eger, an assistant professor in the Department of Communication Studies at Texas State University joins the Big Ideas TXST podcast to discuss presenteeism—the pressure to work while sick—and the negative impacts this has on both the individual and business. Presenteeism, or sickness presence, is the act of showing up for work without (really) being productive. The individual is there because they have a project to finish or a boss or co-workers who depend on them. Another reason people engage in presenteeism is that they don't have paid sick leave and COVID has greatly complicated the situation with the increase in remote working. Eger obtained her Ph.D. at the University of Colorado Boulder where she also received graduate certificates in citical theory and in women and gender studies. Eger teaches undergraduate and graduate courses in organizational communication, qualitative methods, gender and communication, and work, identity and difference. Her research examines how we understand ourselves in relationship to work, how communication of difference impacts our organizational, health, and life experiences, and how collectives create organizational identities. Her ongoing research explores difference-based organizing, including long-term ethnographies of a transgender outreach center and a computing camp for girls of color. For five years before joining Texas State, Dr. Eger worked as a researcher for the National Center of Women and Information Technology to advance the meaningful participation of women and underrepresented people in IT careers and education. Further reading: Why Americans Can't Call in Sick https://www.damemagazine.com/2022/01/26/why-americans-cant-call-in-sick/ Communication Studies professor looks at how presenteeism affects workers and work places news.txstate.edu/research-and-innovation/2021/how-presenteeism-affects-workers-and-work-places.html #mydisabledlifeisworthy on Twitter: twitter.com/search?q=%23mydisabledlifeisworthy&src=typed_query
En este mensaje tratamos el siguiente caso de una mujer que «descargó su conciencia» de manera anónima en nuestro sitio www.conciencia.net, autorizándonos a que la citáramos: «Creo que interferí con la voluntad de Dios. Soy médica, y hace menos de un año mi hermano, la persona a la que más amé en este mundo, murió en una intervención por un tumor cerebral. »Yo estaba molesta y culpé a mi madre por el retraso en el diagnóstico porque, a causa de eso, no pude sacarlo del país para que tuviera mejores oportunidades.... Murió tras la segunda intervención. »Él era un hombre entregado a Dios y con una fe inquebrantable. Estaba convencido de que Dios lo sanaría... pero no fue así, y me siento culpable porque tal vez mi ira y dolor no me dejaron tomar las mejores decisiones.» Este es el consejo que le dio mi esposa: «Estimada amiga: »Sentimos mucho la pérdida que ha sufrido. Sabemos lo que es perder a temprana edad a un hermano o a una hermana muy cercana, y podemos asegurar que la vida no volverá a ser igual para usted. Siempre habrá un puesto vacío alrededor de la mesa y un vacío en su corazón. Así se manifiesta la tristeza. »Usted da a entender que estaba enojada con su mamá y que se culpa también a sí misma. Esos sentimientos de ira y culpabilidad forman parte de la segunda etapa del duelo.1 Como parte de sus estudios médicos, lo más probable es que usted haya estudiado acerca de la psiquiatra Elizabeth Kübler-Ross y de las cinco etapas del duelo que ella propuso.2 Durante los últimos cincuenta años esas etapas han sido ampliamente aceptadas por los que practican la medicina. Sin embargo, con frecuencia es fácil identificar las etapas en otra persona, pero más difícil en nosotros mismos. »La tercera etapa consta de preguntas tales como las que se ha hecho usted. ¿Qué habría pasado si mi hermano hubiera sido diagnosticado más temprano? ¿Qué si yo lo hubiera llevado a otro país a tiempo para aprovechar los tratamientos más recientes? {¿Qué si yo no hubiera tomado las decisiones que tomé?} »La cuarta etapa es la depresión. Sus palabras revelan que sus emociones ya están por el suelo, y ¿quién no sentiría tal depresión después de perder a la persona a la que más amaba en este mundo? ... »Usted dice que su hermano era un hombre entregado a Dios y que estaba convencido de que Dios iba a sanarlo. Sería natural que usted culpara a Dios por no evitar la muerte de su hermano. ¿Acaso los que son fieles a Dios no reciben algo de beneficio adicional de parte de Él? »¿Por qué entonces no sana Dios siempre a cada creyente fiel que se lo pide? Puede ser muy difícil aceptar esa realidad, pero los creyentes fieles confían en que Dios les ha de dar el número preciso de días sobre la tierra y luego la eternidad en el cielo. El número de días que Dios designó para su hermano no fue afectado por la fecha del diagnóstico ni por la ira y la culpa que usted sintió. Su hermano confiaba en Dios, así que, a pesar de que no sabemos por qué no fueron contestadas sus oraciones en la manera como él esperaba, su confianza estaba puesta en Dios y no en recibir lo que él quería. »La acompañamos en su dolor.» Con eso termina lo que Linda, mi esposa, recomienda en este caso. El caso completo puede leerse con sólo pulsar la pestaña en www.conciencia.net que dice: «Casos», y luego buscar el Caso 678. Carlos ReyUn Mensaje a la Concienciawww.conciencia.net 1 La primera etapa es la negación. 2 «Cuáles son las 5 fases del duelo y por qué no es algo que necesariamente tienes que dejar atrás», BBC Mundo, 26 abril 2018 En línea 7 mayo 2021.
Un programa dedicado a la necesidad de reinventarnos y renacer desde las circunstancias me difíciles de las perdidas. "Un barco existe en el océano, incluso si navega mas allá de los limites de nuestra vista. La gente del barco no ha desaparecido, simplemente se están mudando a otra orilla" - Elizabeth Kübler Ross - --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/gustavo-torres58/message
Learn about the paradigm-shifting work of Dr. Elizabeth Kübler-Ross and how her son carries on her legacy through the EKR Foundation. My guest Ken Ross, son of Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, is the founder and current president of the EKR Foundation. He discusses the foundation’s mission, which is to enhance compassionate care for the seriously ill… Continue reading Ep. 330 The Legacy of Elisabeth Kübler-Ross with Ken Ross
In this week's episode we are joined by Kayla Elizabeth, photographer extraordinaire and frequent Hey Rhody magazine cover star. Kayla, Nick and Sascha discuss tips for a novice photographer, the importance of loving what you do and checking off your bucket list. Follow her on Instagram!
For years, “delebrities” — which refer to the continued licensing of the names and images of dead celebrities, helped rake in millions of dollars for advertising and marketing purposes. In showbiz, they've also been utilized from beyond the grave to maintain the integrity of a film in progress. Back when Furious 7 was still in the works, fans all over the world mourned the untimely passing of Paul Walker. In an effort to remain true to the spirit of the film. Director James Wan decided to hire a digital effects studio to insert Walker's likeness into the last parts of the movie. 350 CGI shots of the late actor, with distant shots of his brother, helped bring his character's arc as well as the movie into completion. This trend isn't limited to deceased celebrities. Recently, the DeepNostalgia app brought tons of netizens to tears as they watched old family photos of loved ones come alive in just a few clicks. It's brought looking to pictures, text chats, and other content of our deceased loved ones for comfort to a different level. If this is a glimpse into what life after death can promise for the ones who've been left behind, how will tech professionalists, programmers, and data scientists navigate the ethics of preserving the name, image, and likeness of the deceased? In Loving Memory: In this podcast, we mention how important it is to collect information and knowledge gathered in the past, and forward it in the most efficient manner. Ultimately, the purpose of technology has always been to enhance our capabilities by opening doors to new and exciting possibilities. We've been capable of introducing a better quality of life through the introduction of blockchain technology in the global logistics industry, online banking and cryptocurrency for the unbanked in developing countries across the world, and cloud storage for businesses around the world. What's contentious about this is the intent behind our usage of such technologies. These machines have yet to find a way to operate autonomously and on their own goals; it's always an extension of our desires and needs. Grief and loss have always been difficult aspects of our existence. However, with the introduction of these technologies, the permanence of their death is brought into question. What if we could create new memories with the artificial likeness of our deceased loved ones? Meaningfully Processing Our Grief: The modern understanding of how we process grief, which can be attributed to Swiss-American scientist Elizabeth Kübler-Ross, laid out the general roadmap: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and finally, acceptance. There is no question about whether we can develop technologies powerful enough to emulate our deceased loved ones. However, there certainly is contention about whether it would help us come to terms with their passing. A common concern, should these technologies proliferate, is whether it would hinder the grieving from making it past the first stage of denial — where they choose instead to cling to a false, preferable reality. To add to the confusion, progress does not always take a linear path. It is possible for some people to cope well with the loss of a loved one for extended periods of time, only to relapse aggressively into nostalgic and even self-destructive behaviors when they are exposed to a trigger that brings them back to such a painful point in their life. Closing Thoughts - Human Psychology and Experience: When such a visceral reminder of people who have had a strong impact on our lives can become a lingering possibility, the temptation to relapse becomes more tangible. How can these technologies be used to improve the way we process our grief? As is with any other man-made creation, understanding and regulating the impact of our work is just as important as turning the potential of what we make into reality. We live in exciting times and we are, doubtlessly, privileged to have our lives improved by the presence of the latest scientific innovations. Whether we can continue to remain at the helm of our own progress remains to be seen. Our response to these possibilities may define what it means to live out one of the most pivotal parts of the authentic human experience: the aspect of our lives that is associated with human psychology and moving on, and the painful learning process that everybody inevitably has to deal with. How far would you go to bring back someone you love? www.tartle.co Tcast is brought to you by TARTLE. A global personal data marketplace that allows users to sell their personal information anonymously when they want to, while allowing buyers to access clean ready to analyze data sets on digital identities from all across the globe. The show is hosted by Co-Founder and Source Data Pioneer Alexander McCaig and Head of Conscious Marketing Jason Rigby. What's your data worth? Find out at: https://tartle.co/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/TARTLE Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TARTLEofficial/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tartle_official/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/TARTLEofficial Spread the word!
Scripture: Luke 6:20-36 This Sunday we were privileged to hear unique and powerful stories of three different gifts received by individuals in our congregation. Elizabeth K. shared about the gift of a piano she received as a 17-year-old. Nina shared about the gift a foster family provided her when she was growing up--and the colander she received from them as she moved on. SJ shared about the gifts given and received by a beloved surrogate mom who died recently. Chrys introduced the sermon time and Brenda NM concluded by weaving the individual stories together. Thanks to each of these for their willingness to share these gifts with us.
Tons of new summer releases to highlight in this episode. My friend Deborah Sexton from DKFM's Velvet Hum radio show also does a guest set. Detailed playlist:Kitchen Sink # 117 Playlist Film School – Superperfection (new single, Isla / Superperfection, LA shoegaze) Break 1 David Long and Shane O'Neill – Far from Home (Far From Home 3 track single, David Long from Into Paradise and Shane O'Neill from Blue in Heaven) The Orange Peels – Give My Regards to Rufus (Celebrate the Moments of Your Life, Virgin Islands indie pop) The Telephone Numbers – Cards They Show U (new, The Ballad of Doug, SF indie pop) Emperor of Ice Cream – It's Alright to Show Yourself (new, No Sound Ever Dies, Irish indie rock) Keen Dreams – Pasted (new, The Second Body, New Orleans indie rock) Break 2 First Communion Afterparty – Balloons (2013, Earth Heat Sound, Minneapolis psych rock) Muun Bato – Corn Woman (new, from forthcoming Paraphonic Vapors, Minneapolis psych featuring members of First Communion Afterparty) Velvet Sunset – Summer Night (new, French psych gaze) Magic Castles – Valley of Nysa (new, Sun Reign, Minneapolis psych) Sungaze – Sun in VIII (new, This Dream, Cincinnati dreamgaze) Break 3 Ed Dowie – Dear Florence (new, The Obvious I, London UK electronica) Immersion – All You Cat Lovers (new, Nanocluster Vol 1., Colin Newman and Malka Spigel, Laetitia Sadier, Ulrich Schnauss, Tarwater, Scanner) Cold Beat – See You Again (new single, from forthcoming War Garden, California synth pop) LETTEN 94- Red Lights Soft Skins (new, Empty Landscapes EP, Swiss darkwave) GRAYSONS – Never Be Home (new, I, Austin post punk) Break 4 HYLA – Safety or Ruin (new, Caravel, Melbourne shoegaze) Wednesday – One More Last One (new, from forthcoming Twin Plagues, NC shoegaze) Old Moon – Taste (new, Altars, NH shoegaze) STOMP TALK MODSTONE – Supercar (new single, Japanese shoegaze) Catatonic Suns – Sunshower Falling Demo (new, from Sunshower Falling / Afghan Sky Demo, Piroshka – V.O. (new, Love Drips & Gathers, UK dream pop) Starrgazy – Octopus (new single, Cornwall dream pop) Break 5a – Elizabeth K Break 5b – Deborah Sexton (Austin shoegaze and dream pop) Silver Bars – Pulse (Center of the City Lights LP) The Telewire – Never More Than Now (Years LP) Vet Trip – Shogun's Sister (single) Blushing - The Truth Part Time Punks Session (Part Time Punks Session LP) DAIISTAR – Stereo Drift (daiistar) Break 6a – Deborah Sexton outro Break 6b Elizabeth K outro 93MillionMilesFromTheSun – Forever Shine (new, The View From Woodhead EP, Doncaster UK shoegaze)
Back again with episode 25! DJ LO-L talks about Simone Biles, mental health, and discuss tarot card readings with special guest and tarot card reader Elizabeth K.C.! She even reads our producer's cards for her...interesting! levonetarot.com
This week on the BeautyCast we discuss the Lutronic Genius and why to upgrade! Featuring - Chris G. Adigun, MD, FAAD, and sisters Elizabeth K. Hale, MD and Julie K. Karen, MD. Chris G. Adigun, MD, FAAD, is a board-certified dermatologist in Chapel Hill, North Carolina and the President and Medical Director of her private practice, the Dermatology & Laser Center of Chapel Hill. She specializes in medical dermatology, cosmetic dermatology, and nail disorders. Dr. Adigun has devoted much of her time to increasing public awareness of skin cancer and promoting the collective responsibility striving to provide care to all patients that is of the highest quality and free of bias. In 2016, she launched her own practice, the Dermatology & Laser Center of Chapel Hill.Sisters Elizabeth K. Hale, M.D. and Julie K. Karen, M.D. are board-certified dermatologists who specialize in Mohs micrographic surgery, laser surgery, and cosmetic dermatology. Both Dr. Hale and Dr. Karen completed their dermatology training at The Ronald O. Perelman Department of Dermatology at NYU Medical Center, where they served as Chief Residents, followed by a fellowship in skin cancer and laser surgery.After working side by side for many years, they have fulfilled a lifelong dream of opening a state-of-the-art medical practice where, together, they can bring the highest level of care to their patients.Enjoy the episode!
Cold war secrets buried deep in the ice and forgotten, plus reanimating frozen life from Siberia. How could some frozen dirt, forgotten in a freezer for decades help us understand a future of rising sea levels? Greenland's name was a marketing stunt by Erik the Red, but it was once truly covered in greenery. Although Greenland is so close to the North Pole, all it's thick sheets of ice have completely melted (geologically) recently. How did scientists reanimate ancient animals buried in the Siberian Tundra? Rotifers can live in some unusual places, but they can also survive being frozen and brought back to life. Ancient animals have been 'unfrozen' and brought back to life though they are very small. Lyubov Shmakova, Stas Malavin, Nataliia Iakovenko, Tatiana Vishnivetskaya, Daniel Shain, Michael Plewka, Elizaveta Rivkina. A living bdelloid rotifer from 24,000-year-old Arctic permafrost. Current Biology, 2021; 31 (11): R712 DOI: 10.1016/j.cub.2021.04.077 Baqai, A., Guruswamy, V., Liu, J., & Rizki, G. (2000). Introduction to the Rotifera. Retrieved 10 June 2021, from https://ucmp.berkeley.edu/phyla/rotifera/rotifera.html Andrew J. Christ, Paul R. Bierman, Joerg M. Schaefer, Dorthe Dahl-Jensen, Jørgen P. Steffensen, Lee B. Corbett, Dorothy M. Peteet, Elizabeth K. Thomas, Eric J. Steig, Tammy M. Rittenour, Jean-Louis Tison, Pierre-Henri Blard, Nicolas Perdrial, David P. Dethier, Andrea Lini, Alan J. Hidy, Marc W. Caffee, John Southon. A multimillion-year-old record of Greenland vegetation and glacial history preserved in sediment beneath 1.4 km of ice at Camp Century. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 2021; 118 (13): e2021442118 DOI: 10.1073/pnas.2021442118
Raphael Shammaa converses with private art dealer and advisor Liz Garvey of GARVEY/SIMON, New York. Established in 2010, Garvey|Simon is both a private dealer and art advisory service located in New York City. Co-founded by advisor/dealer Elizabeth K. Garvey and contemporary collector, Catherine G. Simon, the gallery's focus is on drawing, works on paper, unusual materials, design, and photography. We are also active on the secondary market, especially with major female artists of the 20th century. In addition, we also enjoy championing artists from the Midwest.
The last stage of grief identified by Elizabeth Kübler-Ross is acceptance. “Not in the sense that “it's okay my husband died” rather, “my husband died, but I'm going to be okay.” In this stage, your emotions may begin to stabilize. You re-enter reality.” We can’t live in an alternate reality and expect what’s right in front of us to get better. We can only heal what we’re willing to acknowledge is real. — The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations on Codependency by Melody Beattie “Rage, resentment, offense, bitterness, and jealousy, to name just several unsavory emotions, release toxic chemicals in the brain and body that can, over time, severely affect the quality of our lives. They create neurochemical chaos in the brain and body!” Switch On Your Brain Every Day: 365 Readings for Peak Happiness, Thinking, and Health by Dr. Caroline Leaf Books mentioned in this episode: Forgiving What You Can't Forget: Discover How to Move On, Make Peace with Painful Memories, and Create a Life That’s Beautiful Again by Lysa TerKeurst Switch On Your Brain Every Day: 365 Readings for Peak Happiness, Thinking, and Health by Dr. Caroline Leaf The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations on Codependency by Melody Beattie Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself by Melody Beattie Connect with My Father’s Daughter on Social Media:Facebook ~ Twitter ~ Instagram ~ Website ~ Contact If you would like to purchase a book and have Tanya sign it for you or someone you know please email us: myfathersdaughter.tanya@gmail.com LADIES!!! Please leave a rating and review on apple podcasts and subscribe to our show wherever you listen to podcasts. AND please share with your friends. ~ Thank you!
Money, Money, Money... Money!!! That's right, financial planner Elizabeth K. Hand is here, and we are getting into the often difficult conversation surrounding money and finances. Get to know Liz by checking out her guest profile in our bio., and trust us, investing an hour of your day to listen to this episode is sure to provide a strong ROI. (See what we did there?) Connect with Liz: LinkedIn Join Liz's Private Group "Pleasant Financial Conversations" on Facebook Pleasant Wealth, LLC. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/havetheconversation/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/havetheconversation/support
Episodio 38 @masmaestros @maestromanuelgo Enviar mensaje de Audio SUSCRIBIRSE A LA WEB http://masmaestros.com/ El duelo suele aparecer en algún momento de nuestras vidas, la pérdida de un ser querido nos enfrenta a la realidad y nunca sabemos como superarlo. En algún punto de nuestra vida nos encontraremos con este inmenso dolor, la muerte, la perdida de un trabajo, el fin de una relación o cualquier cambio que altere nuestra vida tal cual como la conocemos. ¿De donde vienen las fases del duelo? Elizabeth Kübler-Ross en 1969 escribió en su libro “On Death and Dying” sobre las 5 fases en las que se puede dividir el duelo, sus observaciones se basaron en años de trabajo e investigación con enfermos terminales. Otros autores han agregado diferentes etapas o han tratado de describir con más detalle algunas otras, sin embargo, parece ser que la propuesta de Kübler suele ser la más popular y la más difundida. Las 5 fases del duelo Negación Ira / Enojo Negociación Depresión Aceptación Conclusiones El duelo nos hace experimentar un intenso dolor por la pérdida profunda en nuestra vida. Las 5 fases no son una lista de cheque, las personas pueden experimentar el duelo de diferentes maneras y formas. El sentimiento de perdida suele seguir presente, pero el dolor disminuye con la aceptación. Cada persona enmascara el dolor a su manera, dependiendo de su personalidad y de la intensidad de sus emociones. Para cuestionarse ¿Tomas conciencia del duelo que has sufrido en algún momento gracias a la información que acabamos de compartir? Podrías acompañar algún estudiante con un inmenso dolor y duelo. Sobrellevar el duelo es importante para seguir adelante. Todos nuestros PodCast Síguenos en Facebook Síguenos en instagram Escucharnos en spotify --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/masmaestros/message
Individuals with chronic pain may lack awareness that they are feeling grief. People who suffer from chronic pain may experience losses in several areas: comfort, sexual function, career, income, self-efficacy, cognitive function, intimacy, pride, joy, self-esteem, self-control, independence, mental health, hope, dignity, and certainty. Providers may overlook these patients biggest loss: themselves. While everyone copes in their own way and experiences their chronic pain condition uniquely, there are common feelings that most of us share: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. Elizabeth Kübler-Ross’s five stages of grief outlined in her 1969 book, On Death and Dying, may help patients better understand what they are going through. Frontline providers can help patients better cope with the grief that often has no resolution by understating the limitations of their illness, listening and trying to understand what they are going through, looking for signs and completing a thorough psychosocial assessment, and organizing psychoeducational support groups and other interventions. The goal is to transform their experience into something livable and bearable.
In this episode of “she reads” Alma shares her thoughts on “Authenticity” inspired by the book “Life Lessons” by Elizabeth Kubler Ross and David Klesser. This book is a kind of guide, of life lessons so that we can live our life to its fullest. basically, this book goes back to a core question Is this how I want to live my life? This question is answered through stories of people who are dying and can see clearly what really matters in love. The book shares Lessons about Love, happiness, loss, power, and relationships, and the lesson this episode is about: Authenticity. Find the podcast on Instagram HEREFind Alma Limón on Instagram HERE
En este larguisimoooo episodio les platico un poco porque me perdí la semana pasada (y parte de esta) y abordamos cómo sobrellevar nuestros duelos, como recuperarnos después de ellos. Espero que lo disfrutes y que sea de valor para ti✨ LIBRO QUE LES MENCIONE: La rueda de la vida de Elizabeth Kübler-Ross
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In this episode I'm joined by Dave Glaser. We talk about his process with: That's Deep I Grieved That A Lot Share A Shame Free 15 Show notes/resources: Dave Glaser - https://fitlifechampions.com https://connorbeaton.com/alliance/ - Man Talks Alliance Men's Group https://grief.com/the-five-stages-of-grief/ - The Five Stages Of Grief - David Kessler & Elizabeth Kübler-Ross https://brenebrown.com - Brené Brown https://www.eckharttolle.com - Eckhart Tolle https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/67896.Tao_Te_Ching - Tao Te Ching Patreon Link to support the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/PeterMiddleton_ If you'd like to continue these conversations, join us at our facebook Community: We Are The Light People https://www.facebook.com/groups/wearethelightpeople
Participantes: Clara Werneck, Dyesere Zanotti, Pedro Diniz e Thelma Domingues. 1) O que é luto?; 2) Crianças enlutadas; 3) Jovens enlutados; 4) Geriatra Ana Claudia Quintana Arantes, entender o processo de luto; 5) Dra. Sarah Vieira - as fases do luto; 6) Estágios de reação à perda, por Elizabeth Kübler- Ross (2005); 7) Luto patológico (Psiquiatra Dra. Maria Fernanda Caliani); 8) Tratamento psicoterápico. FONTE https://www.scielo.br/scielo.php?script=sci_arttext&pid=S0103-65642019000100217 http://pepsic.bvsalud.org/scielo.php?script=sci_arttext&pid=S1808-56872011000100007 https://www.maxwell.vrac.puc-rio.br/34467/34467_4.PDF
25 Myths About Bullying and Cyberbullying with Dr. Elizabeth K. Englander In the past few months of mandated quarantine against COVID-19, children have been far more likely to either be a cyberbully or be the focus of a cyberbully as structured and unstructured time seems to blur. Many parents are struggling to find a work/school/life balance for themselves and their children. This book will give the listener the tools they need to tackle the underlying causes - and meet the needs of the child who is acting as the cyberbully or the child who is the focus of the cyberbully and stop the behavior from occurring in the future as well. Whether dealing with bullying issues or worrying that they might occur, the parents in your audience are faced with more challenges than ever before. In the age of the internet and social media, traditional approaches to bullying haven't kept pace with new realities, and new problems like cyberbullying have emerged. Parents are searching for ways to prevent or cope with this new form of bullying and are flooded by a deluge of advice, opinions, and strategies –often conflicting or, even worse, potentially harmful! 25 Myths About Bullying and Cyberbullying helps listeners understand the causes and consequences of bullying, determine if something is truly a problem, and effectively deal with problems when they arise. For more information visit: https://www.englanderelizabeth.com/ *************************************************** For more information about BITEradio products and services visit: http://www.biteradio.me/index.html
Denial. Anger. Bargaining. Depression. Acceptance. When Swiss psychiatrist Elisabeth Kübler-Ross published her bestselling book On Death and Dying in 1969, she described a series of emotional stages that she had seen terminally ill patients experience – later known as the Five Stages of Grief. But there was much more to her work in end of life care. Her son Ken speaks to Lucy Burns. Photo: Dr. Elizabeth Kübler-Ross, Virginia Farm, 1987. Photo courtesy of Ken Ross www.ekrfoundation.org
In this episode we discuss coping mechanisms like the Arts and therapy, and reference Elizabeth Kübler-Ross's Five Stages of Grief. David Kessler is her former collaborator who, with the permission of her family, added a sixth stage. Read more about him here.
200805 Dr Elizabeth K Englander - 25 Myths About Bullying And Cyberbullying by Richard Dugan
Have you ever had the experience of a doctor telling you what was wrong with you, and even if you couldn't really do anything, it helped to know what it was? Maybe it was just an ache or pain, a small illness. Just having a name for it -- even some fancy latin term (or maybe especially some latin term) -- somehow makes it seem better. Naming something helps us feel some control. This pandemic has stripped us of many feelings of control. It more often feels like life is disrupted and dangerous. Early in the pandemic -- but far enough in that it was clear we were headed down a long path -- I was wondering why it took me so long to process that we were in for a long-haul... with implications for every segment of life. Why had I "missed" the signs? Denial. That is what I realized. I had been playing the denial game. Which reminded me that I was experiencing a grief response. I was in grief! From the pandemic. Well, the pandemic losses and impact. Over the next few weeks, as I talked with individuals and organizations, I noticed that we were all in collective grief, as well as experiencing the individual grief. And as the pandemic has continued, I have noticed that people are experiencing the different stages of grief at different times. That very fact seems to be at the root of much of the struggles I see played out on social media and regular media. Clashing stages. Still, stages. Grief comes in stages. Elizabeth Kübler-Ross noted 5 stages. Her colleague, David Kessler, has more recently added a potential 6th stage (an aspirational stage for many). The point of describing the stages is not so much to force people on through the stages. It is more for being able to name the stage for what it is. The capacity of looking at where you are and naming the stage gives a sense of control. And when we have some sense of control, we can choose whether we are where we want to be, or if we would rather shift. The shift becomes an option. Or we can just name the stage and know that is what we are experiencing. What stage of grief are you in? I discuss the 5+1 stages in this week's episode of the Thriveology Podcast. Listen below. RELATED RESOURCES Medium Article by Lee Baucom on Grief Medium Article by Lee Baucom on The Paradox of Pandemic Book by Lee Baucom, Thrive Principles Coping with Covid Series of Podcasts
Episode STP060 - With the whole corona-virus and lock-down thing going on, we wondered how we can help. It turns out there are three areas we know about that could be useful to you. How we do the 'home' thing, dealing with change, and learning new things. Look at all this stuff we covered: We chatted at the table and talked about Working from home - this is what can help: Set aside a dedicated area Plan your day with a structure Agree boundaries with the family Set a definite end time to the day Wear something different Doing 'Not-Work' from home: Set a schedule anyway - avoid the Netflix trap! Take baby steps Exercise Have a look at some online courses Be kind to others and yourself Change The change curve from Elizabeth Kübler-Ross The difference between a change, and the emotion it brings 5 stages of change Denial and shock Anger Bargaining Depression Acceptance and integration What all this has to do with toilet paper Some practical steps you can take Identify the positives Think about change that you've experienced before Talk it out with someone Consider the worst that could happen Focus on what you CAN control Protect your well-being Doing some self-development or online courses Not all online courses are the same We looked at 5 different providers YouTube (you don't need a link do you?) The Open University The Great Courses (Plus) LinkedIn Learning Udemy You can also consider TedEd, Coursera, Alison, the Forum and more. Links to those and others can be found in this article from Lifehack Further reading and information is available from the following places: Businessballs The University of Exeter TedX - The Kate Braestrup talk Harvard Business Review Reachout Australia As always, we're really grateful for your help in supporting this podcast. To do this you can: Rate or subscribe at i-tunes by going here - i-tunes Contact us on Twitter - we are @sharppodcast here Connect with us on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/sharppodcast/ Share with at us on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharppodcast/ Post comments on the website. This link will take you to home page, and then you can go onto the episode you'd like to comment on here Thanks EVER SO MUCH for listening. If we help you to BE BETTER at what you do, then it's all been worth it!
The quest to find a solution to a terminal cancer diagnosis at the age of 24 is how Susan Clarke’s entrepreneurial path took root to grow. At the point of no possible positive outcomes, Susan stepped off the beaten path and took on the task of finding health through having difficult conversations, facing buried secrets and scars from the past, and finally choosing connection over validation. Since her cancer journey, Susan has focused her life on living fully in each moment and creating fulfilling relationships. With her partner, CrisMarie Campbell, she started thrive!. They are the authors of The Beauty of Conflict: Harnessing Your Team’s Competitive Advantage and The Beauty of Conflict for Couples. They also have a podcast with the same name: The Beauty of Conflict for dealing with conflict at work and at home. Her passion comes in working with leaders, teams, couples and individuals to help them value differences, bring more of themselves to everything they do, and engage in the power of people working collectively together. Key Points from the Episode with Susan Clarke: Susan and her partner CrisMarie Campbell help leaders and teams deal with conflict as a means for creativity, communication and achievement. They also do similar work with couples in a non-business setting. We started the interview mid-conversation, talking about my interview with CrisMarie, who was on the show in November 2018 in Episode 77. Susan is a Cancer survivor who was given a six month prognosis that she has outlived multiple times over now. The moment she got that news was a pivotal shift for her to see herself not as a follower anymore, but as a leader. She picked up a book by Elizabeth Kübler-Ross called On Death & Dying, and reached out to her about how to figure out how learn how to die. What Susan found is that she’s no different from anyone else when it comes to date – we all are going to die, but Susan was just given a date so she’s focused on it. This was when Susan realized no one has the answers for her, and she has to lead herself. She had to look more fully at her life, which wasn’t just about the Cancer. It’s not about blaming the Cancer, but looking at what it’s here to teach her. What Susan realized is that she actually had nothing to lose, so even if her life became a living hell, which it sort of was anyway, what difference does it make? She actually had four difference Cancers over seven years. You can get in this place where it’s almost easier to die than to live. This wasn’t the first thing Susan had faced, with other things from her past that started to unfold and surface. Susan’s doctors were asking her questions she wasn’t able to answer, and in the quest to find those answers, she unearthed trauma from abuse in her past. As a young adult, Susan was a teacher, and had gotten into running pretty intensely, with two 10-mile runs a day, and she started losing weight. When she went to see a doctor about it, they said she had a classic eating disorder, which they fixated on, and sent her to a psychologist, who started asking her deeper questions. She started asking her family some of these questions, which got them upset. What came out is that Susan was abused by a charismatic member of her town’s society, and the response to this coming out was not good, with people threatening Susan, ostracizing her, and worse. In this period, they still didn’t find the Cancer, but couldn’t stop the weight loss and other health issues, so she was sent to the Mayo Clinic, who found Stage IV Non-Hodgkin Lymphoma. As her treatment went forward along with the self-work, Susan relationship with her family was severed. She also moved to the West Coast, and then started to have other Cancers, including Ovarian (resulting in having to have her ovaries removed), a brain-stem tumor and an optic nerve tumor, both of which required radiation. While you’re never technically in remission with Lymphoma, Susan did get a clean bill of health in 1989, and has remained Cancer-free since then. On the abuse case, authorities back home were trying to put a case together as they had found other victims willing to speak. In the end, that fell apart as the other victims and witnesses backed out or were too deep in the throes of mental issues from the abuse to stand up in trial, so the abuser remained free. What Susan was able to do, though, was learn empathy for her family, who went through something very hard themselves, even though it wasn’t the same as what Susan went through. She let go of comparing hardships or expecting, and just saw their pain in and of itself, and that allowed room to reconnect. She can believe in herself, and still hear the stories of others and have empathy without losing herself. This is what relationships are really and ultimately about. If we cannot work so hard on not making “them” wrong, we can get ourself back. We get to chose being right or relational. You don’t get to be both. After teaching, Susan went to The Haven in Western Canada, where she worked on her health and recovery. There, they did a lot of group work, realizing that people often got better in the waiting rooms than in the 1-on-1 appointments. Most people have their belief systems rattled at some point. Susan had her belief system shaken to the core, which can be a good place to be in if you want to grow. Essentially, she didn’t get to have her beliefs, and could instead build them. We talked about the way health situations like this where our bodies themselves are growing the thing that’s threatening our life can create trust issues with ourselves. What Susan has done around this is recognizing that her body is giving her information. That info can be scary, but it’s still information. It’s up to her to decide what to do with that info, and recognize it’s a conversation, and this is how your body does it. We got into talking about horses, which are the fastest animals to go back to a feral or wild state after being domesticated. Their ability to connect with our true nature is part of why they’re used in therapy and have been shown to have such strong impact on helping people deal with difficulties. Something Susan has learned about blaming someone else is that it’s often a sign that you’re uncomfortable about something in you. People think about choices as one we should make and one we shouldn’t. Susan doesn’t see it this way. It’s really about curiosity. Can I be curious about what I’m facing rather than making it about one thing or the other. With Cancer, it wasn’t about living or dying, it was about being curious about it and learning from it. Links: Website: thriveinc.com Books: The Beauty of Conflict: Harvesting Your Team’s Advantage and The Beauty of Conflict for Couples Podcast: The Beauty of Conflict Instagram: @thriveinc Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thriveincmt/ YouTube Subscribe to The Do a Day Podcast Keep Growing with Do a Day Get Bryan's best-selling first book, Do a Day, which is the inspiration for this show and can help you overcome your greatest challenges and achieve in life. Read Bryan's best-selling second book, The 50 75 100 Solution: Build Better Relationships, to tap into the power we all have to improve our relationships – even the tough ones we feel have no hope of getting better. Get started on your journey to Better with the Big Goal Exercise Work with Bryan as your coach, or hire him to speak at your next event
94.9 Açık Radyo'daki programımız Beyninizden Geçen Her Şey'in bu haftaki konusu "yas" idi. NöroBlog ekibinden Dr. Taner Yılmaz, Sigmund Freud'un yas ve melankoli üzerine düşüncelerinden, depresyon ve bağlanmanın yaş ile ilişkisinden bahsetti. Elizabeth Kübler Ross'un bir kaybın ardından yaşanan süreçleri nasıl tanımladığını anlattı. NöroBlog'u Patreon üzerinden desteklemek için: patreon.com/NoroBlog
In this episode of Let's Talk, we sat down with Elizabeth Joseph - Developer Advocate at IBM to talk about Mainframe and why it's a great platform for Linux developers. IBM is also offering free VMs on mainframe LinuxOne. Grab your VM here: https://developer.ibm.com/linuxone/
Libros recomendados: - La presencia ignorada de Dios - Víctor Frankl - El hombre en busca de sentido - Víctor Frankl - Búsqueda de Dios y el sentido de la vida - V. Frankl y Pinchas Lapide - Sobre la muerte y los moribundos - Elizabeth Kübler-Ross - La rueda de la vida - Elizabeth Kübler-Ross - Aprender de la pérdida - Robert Neimeyer - Déjalos ir con amor - Nancy O'Connor
Paul S. Appelbaum, M.D., joins Dr. Dixon and Dr. Berezin to discuss what degree of responsibility universities have to prevent student suicide or violence on campus. This question was the focus of two recent state supreme court decisions, in Massachusetts and in California. Looking to legal rules that define when duties exist to protect third parties, both courts held that the unique aspects of the campus setting create a responsibility for universities to take reasonable steps to protect students from themselves and each other. Widening the scope of institutional liability in this way could encourage schools to overreact to students with mental health problems, making them less likely to come forward for treatment. Dr. Appelbaum is the Elizabeth K. Dollard Professor of Psychiatry, Medicine and Law in the Department of Psychiatry at Columbia University, New York City, and is editor of the Law & Psychiatry column in Psychiatric Services. Check out Editor's Choice, a new set of curated collections from the rich resource of articles published in the journal. Sign up to receive notification of new Editor's Choice collections. Other articles may be viewed at our web site. Be sure to let your colleagues know about the podcast, and please rate and review it wherever you listen to it. The podcast is now on Spotify. Follow the journal on Twitter. E-mail us at psjournal@psych.org
Today, in Episode 6, I sit down with Ms. Heather Bolur & students Elizabeth W, Ava H, Lily R, Elizabeth K, and Alyssa P, who are members of our Bryan Student Council. They tell us a little about themselves, their interests, and their JOY! Also, they explain our leadership group, what they do, and some projects they have & will be working on. Later on, Ms. Bolur connects #BryanStuCo to our 3 C’s. Finally, some students share their “Bryan Wishes.” Enjoy!
Letos spomladi je odjeknila novica, da je v Keniji poginil zadnji samec severnega belega nosoroga. Vrsta, ki jo zdaj predstavljata le še dve samici, je zapisana neizbežnemu koncu. V tem nikakor ni edina. Naglo zmanjševanje biodiverzitete in izginjanje vrst je danes trend, ki ga lahko spremljamo na vseh koncih sveta. Na najrazličnejše, tudi zelo odmaknjene kotičke planeta se je odpravila tudi ameriška raziskovalna novinarka Elizabeth Kólbert in si skupaj z znanstveniki, ki spremljajo dogajanje v najrazličnejših ekosistemih, ogledala tako sledi nekdanjih velikih izumiranj kot tudi jasne znake današnjega. Rezultat je knjiga Šesto izumrtje: Nenaravna zgodovina, za katero je pred tremi leti prejela Pulitzerjevo nagrado za najboljšo stvarno literaturo. Knjigi, ki je pred nedavnim v prevodu Anje Radaljac izšla pri založbi Umco, se je v oddaji Sobotno branje posvetila Nina Slaček.
El escándalo de la niña de 3 años que estaba en protección del Icbf volvió a poner a todos lo medios a hablar de la violencia contra la niñez. Y aunque es lamentable, este es uno de mucho casos. En 2016, Medicina Legal hizo 21 mil exámenes por presuntos delitos sexuales de los cuales el 86 por ciento fueron hechos a menores de edad. Y más allá de estos casos, las políticas para la niñez todavía tienen grandes vacíos en temas como educación rural, salud, alimentación, etc. Para entender en qué están esas políticas y cuáles deberían ser las prioridades del próximo presidente, invitamos a dos expertos de La Silla Llena a nuestro podcast. Ellos son María Inés Cuadros, consultora y experta en políticas públicas para la niñez y Gonzalo Gutiérrez, Director ejecutivo en Fundación Cran. Para ver las lecturas recomendadas por los expertos puede visitar los siguientes vínculos: “Parenting from the inside out: ser padres conscientes” de Daniel J. Siegel y Mary Hartzell http://www.movilizacioneducativa.net/resumen-libro.asp?idLibro=257“La rueda de la vida” de Elizabeth Kübler-Ross http://www.index-f.com/lascasas/documentos/lc0040.pdfLey de infancia y adolecencia https://www.icbf.gov.co/bienestar/ley-infancia-adolescenciaConvención sobre los derechos del niño http://www.un.org/es/events/childrenday/pdf/derechos.pdf
Patrick O'Malley is a grief counselor with more than 35 years of experience. He has written many well-regarded articles on grieving, including the namesake New York Times article that inspired his new Sounds True book Getting Grief Right: Finding Your Story of Love in the Sorrow of Loss. In this episode of Insights at the Edge, Tami Simon and Patrick discuss his unique approach to grief and how it diverts from the popularly accepted five-stage model created by Elizabeth Kübler-Ross. Patrick asserts that the Kübler-Ross model, while helpful as a foundation, can actually create an emotional cage for people as they struggle to find the acceptance and closure that they expect to end their grieving. Tami and Patrick also talk about the odd way in which the concept "closure" became entwined with grief therapy and why sharing our stories of loss can be the most important step in the process. Finally, Patrick shares his own story of loss and explains that the simple act of being compassionately heard can be the most important step toward healing. (60 minutes)
So this is up a little later than intended because I wrote a song last night, and it's at the end of the podcast. If you show up to Milkboy on friday night, I might even play it again. wanna sing along? Elizabeth Kübler-Ross defined the five stages of grief as, Denial, Anger, Bargaining Depression and Acceptance. If you are a decent human being, and I think you are, November 9th began your trek through these five stages and you are doing everything in your power to never reach stage five. To that end, you should watch the inauguration in the afternoon and let those awful emotions assault you in waves,* Now comes the important part, grasp whichever of the four you’re feeling and bring it with you to Milkboy, where you’ve already purchased your tickets Here.You don’t need to see, Kid Rock, and Chachi and The Nuge, and maybe, like two Rockettes. You need to see, these local Philadelphians who comprise The High Road Revue. A tremendous windfall of musical talent on one stage to help us all begin the process of not just surviving, but fighting the incoming administration and not allowing a Donald J. Trump to profane and destroy the representative democracy that was founded over there at Independence Hall, just five blocks from Milkboy where you’ll be watching the likes of… •The Fractals•John Faye•Stargazer Lily•Schoolly D•Hinton Bower Jones •Hannah Taylor and The Rekardo Lee Trio•Scott Silipigni•Cookie Rabinowitz•Morgan Pinkstone •Hoagy Wing•Hemline Theory•Adam Brodsky•Mia Johnson•Chris Schutz•Brian Seymour•Eve Sheldon Tickets are 12$ in advance/15$ at door and can be purchased Herehttp://www.milkboyphilly.com/event/...all proceeds will go to:Penn Environmental, The Attic Youth Center, Women's Law Project and The ACLU of Pennsylvania. You can sign up to join letter writing campaigns with The Coffee Clatch Coalition:We’re gonna look back on this one day and be very proud of how we resisted. That resistance begins on Inauguration evening at Milkboy. See you there. *Also, if you have any sort of juice with weather gods, I think a very, very, very windy day would make for some nice historical photos. Thank you in advance.
On this episode, Kurt and Steve interview Rob Kendall, of www.conversationexpert.com. Rob has devoted his life to understanding how humans converse with one another and what makes them go wrong...and right. Rob its the author of BlameStorming and WorkStorming. If you know that you need to have a challenging conversation, it’s worth preparing thoroughly for it. The preparation time may be disproportionate to the length of the conversation itself, but if the conversation’s important enough, your preparation will rarely be wasted. As a friend of mine was always told, ‘Prepare thoroughly and deviate with confidence’. There are a number of things to consider: 1. Time and place. What’s the appropriate time and place for the conversation? If you squash it in between other meetings, you have no leeway for it to overrun. Is it best to have it now or later? And is it best to stay in the office or would it be more conducive to have it outside? 2. Set it up to succeed. Would it be beneficial for the other person to know (broadly) in advance what it’s about, or not? At a minimum, you may want to make sure that they’ve cleared enough time in their diary, so they don’t arrive and say they only have 15 minutes free. 3. Set the context. Once you meet up, make clear to them what you want to speak about. If you beat about the bush too much, the other person will wonder what on earth’s going on, and may not even be clear what you’ve said. 4. Make your commitment clear. This is vital and can often be missed. When you start a difficult conversation, you need to set the context. Take this example of Mia, who’s given some feedback by her boss. She’s highly regarded at work and is seen as someone with the potential for promotion in the coming year, but her boss assumes she knows this and starts their conversation by saying: As you know, we’ve gathered some feedback from your colleagues and there are a few areas that have come to light that I want to discuss.’ Mia’s immediately on the defensive, while her boss is surprised that she’s not being more constructive. It would help if he began by saying: ‘Mia, you’re highly valued and we’re really keen for you to progress to a more senior role. You’re already exceptionally strong in some areas, and need to develop in others.’ 5. Make the distinction between ‘facts’ and ‘stories’ or ‘opinions’. A fact may be: ‘You’ve been late 3 times in the last 10 working days’. A story or opinion would be: ‘You’re unreliable.’ There is nothing intrinsically wrong with having opinions, but it’s better to state it this way: ‘I have an opinion that you’re unreliable.’ 6. Acknowledge their perspective. Ask them questions so that you can understand their perspective (this doesn’t mean you have to agree with it). And then listen. If you’re not prepared to listen, don’t bother asking, but don’t expect much engagement from them either. Prior to a meeting most people spend their time thinking about what they want to say, but it may be even more important to consider what questions you want to ask. 7. Get clear what’s going to happen next. Obviously this depends on the situation, but it’s worth agreeing together a clear action or a date to review things after some reflection time. 8. Be aware. Lastly, be aware that – however well you conduct the conversation – what you say might come as a shock to the other person. In her 1969 book, On Death and Dying, Elizabeth Kübler-Ross introduced a hypothesis based on her work with terminally ill patients. In the majority of cases she found that patients went through a spectrum of different emotional states: beginning with denial then leading to anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. Her model has since been adapted to fit a broader set of situations where someone receives unwelcome news. The instinctive response is often to deny it, followed by feelings of anger, withdrawing to lick their wounds, and finally coming round to acceptance.
The Daily Quote Podcast will highlight a quote every day. I'll discuss how it has moved me and how it can also be meaningful to listeners also. "People are like stained-glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within." Elizabeth Kübler-Ross Leave us a comment www.dailyquotepodcast.com listener line (786) 693-2290 email contact@dailyquotepodcast.com
Earthlings are about to visit Mars again to search for traces of life. But since we can’t go in person, we are sending another robot spacecraft. Named Phoenix, the vehicle is scheduled to land on Mars on May 25 after a 420 million mile, 9-month voyage from Earth. An article on the Phoenix by Elizabeth K. Wilson appears in the May 25 issue of Chemical & Engineering News, the American Chemical Society's weekly newsmagazine.Intro theme and various sound effects by Adam Dylewski; music by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com); Creative Commons licensed audio from freesound.iua.upf.edu includes sounds by ERH, suonho, DJ Chronos, Sruddi1 and Freqman.