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The Functional Gynecologist
243. Anti-Aging is a Myth? The REAL Way to Stay Strong After 50!

The Functional Gynecologist

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2025 46:26


Join our virtual practice for personalized wellness. https://keap.page/vy968/discovery-call.htmlCheck out Fast to Faith! https://fasttofaith.com/I'm celebrating my birthday with a gift for you—expert anti-aging advice from JJ Virgin. She's a 4x NYT bestselling author and health powerhouse, and today she's revealing how to make your second chapter better than the first. We're debunking fitness myths, talking hormones, and sharing the secrets to powerful aging. If you want to stay strong, reverse aging, and thrive after 50, this is a must-watch.Chapters: 0:00 - Welcome to My Birthday Celebration0:25 - Introducing JJ Virgin: Anti-Aging Expert1:32 - The Myth of Anti-Aging vs. Powerful Aging3:10 - Why Fitness and Diet Need to Change After 505:00 - The Biggest Fitness Mistake Women Over 50 Make7:00 - Strength Training, Cortisol, and Aging9:05 - Why Women Shouldn't Fear Cardio or Heavy Weights12:00 - The Longevity Secrets of Blue Zones14:00 - How Movement and Daily Activity Impact Your Health16:30 - JJ's Husband's Incredible Fitness Transformation19:40 - The Role of Protein in Weight Loss and Longevity22:15 - The Power of Muscle: The Key to Thriving After 5025:00 - Debunking the Scale: Why Body Composition Matters27:45 - The Truth About Hormone Replacement Therapy30:30 - How Hormones Affect Metabolism, Energy, and Aging34:00 - Why Women Need a Mentor for Health and Life Success37:15 - Investing in Your Health: The Key to Transformation40:00 - Final Advice: How to Stay Strong and Vibrant --------Thank You for Listening! Ready to deepen your fasting journey? Discover the Fasting Accelerator Collection—your ultimate guide to achieving remarkable fasting results and transforming your health. Don't miss out on the Fast to Faith app, your hub for exclusive recipes, community support, and tools to integrate faith, wellness, and health into your daily life.Build a Purpose-Driven, Profitable Business & Transform Lives? Take the next step with our Fast to Faith Coach Certification Program, crafted for individuals passionate about helping others thrive spiritually and physically. Find all these transformative resources and more at FasttoFaith.com. Start your journey today! Dr. Tabatha's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrTabathaDr. Tabatha's IG: https://www.instagram.com/gutsydrtabatha/Dr. Tabatha's YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@fasttofaith

Brain & Life
Movement and Healing with Adventure Athlete, Author, and Activist Rebecca Rusch

Brain & Life

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 13, 2025 64:55


In this episode of the Brain & Life Podcast, host Dr. Daniel Correa is joined by adventure athlete, best-selling author, activist, and Emmy-award winner Rebecca Rusch. Rebecca tells the story of her Traumatic Brain Injury (TBI) and how it led her on a new journey of healing and recovery. Dr. Correa is then joined by Dr. José Posas, board certified sports neurologist with a focus on the intersection of sports, neurology, and brain health. Dr. Posas explains TBI treatment options for all and the importance of reducing healthcare disparities and using innovation to improve care.   Additional Resources Who is Rebecca Rusch? How to Deal with Invisible Symptoms of Neurologic Disorders Surviving and Thriving After a Traumatic Brain Injury How Yoga Can Help People with Traumatic Brain Injury   Other Brain & Life Podcast Episodes Veteran Lindsay Gutierrez is Reaching New Heights with Traumatic Brain Injury Healing the Traumatized Brain with Dr. Sandeep Vaishnavi Julia Easterlin on Being a Performer with Migraine   We want to hear from you! Have a question or want to hear a topic featured on the Brain & Life Podcast? ·       Record a voicemail at 612-928-6206 ·       Email us at BLpodcast@brainandlife.org   Social Media: Rebecca Rusch @RebeccaRusch; Dr. Jose Posas @uvahealth Hosts: Dr. Daniel Correa @neurodrcorrea; Dr. Katy Peters @KatyPetersMDPhD

Suicide Zen Forgiveness
From Ideation to Collaboration :Healing Conversations and Hope

Suicide Zen Forgiveness

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2025 51:44 Transcription Available


Healing Through Stories: Addressing Mental Health, Emotions, and Empathy   Suicide Zen Forgiveness brings together Gina Cavalier and Dr. Amelia Kelly to discuss their collaborative book on suicidal ideation and healing. The conversation spans personal and professional insights, the power of community support, and the necessity of processing emotions. They explore the role of practices like gratitude exercises, meditation alternatives, and Internal Family Systems therapy in maintaining emotional balance. The importance of presence, self-compassion, and empathetic listening is highlighted. Future projects, including Gina's book and documentary, and Dr. Amelia's ADHD support group and podcast, emphasize ongoing efforts to support mental health, especially for highly sensitive individuals.   00:00 Introduction and Mission Statement 01:24 Meet the Guests: Gina Cavalier and Dr. Amelia Kelly 02:53 Gina's Journey: Healing Suicidal Ideation 06:11 Dr. Amelia Kelly: Trauma Work and Writing 09:22 The Importance of Proactive Mental Health Content 15:45 Creating Safe Spaces for Emotional Expression 29:04 Finding Comfort in Small Moments 30:25 The Challenge of Forgiveness 32:25 Self-Love and Healing 34:12 Understanding Internal Family Systems 38:11 Generational Differences in Upbringing 42:19 Future Projects and Aspirations 47:51 Closing Thoughts and Encouragement 49:54 Outro and Acknowledgements   Bios Gina Marie Cavalier is a mental health advocate, author, filmmaker, artist, speaker and spiritual teacher.   She is also the founder of The Liberated Healer, where she is building a 360º ecosystem in mental health with a focus on healing suicidal ideation through various products, meditation and healing courses, books, support groups, a six-part docuseries, and a mobile and web application that allows brands to cover fees for therapy and healing sessions. Gina Marie is a media veteran, former entertainment studio executive and technology enthusiast, having contributed to over 300 film/TV titles.   As a public speaker, she has delivered talks on mental health and well-being in front of a live audience of over six hundred attendees at the Warner Bros. studio lot. Gina Marie has participated in several events, summits, and conferences as a speaker and has been invited to twenty-five podcasts since February 2024. She currently resides in Los Angeles, CA. Links and Socials https://www.theliberatedhealer.com/ https://www.instagram.com/theliberatedhealer https://www.youtube.com/@TheLiberatedHealer https://www.linkedin.com/in/ginacavalier/ ----------------------------------------------- Dr. Amelia Kelley is a trauma-informed therapist, author, co-host of The Sensitivity Doctor's Podcast, researcher, and certified meditation and yoga instructor. Her specialties include art therapy, internal family systems (IFS), EMDR, and brainspotting. Her work focuses on women's issues, empowering survivors of abuse and relationship trauma, highly sensitive persons, motivation, healthy living, neurodiversity and adult ADHD. She is a psychology professor at Yorkville University and a nationally recognized relationship expert featured on SiriusXM Doctor Radio's The Psychiatry Show as well as NPR's The Measure of Everyday Life. Her private practice is part of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at the Kinsey Institute. She is the author of Powered by ADHD: Strategies and Exercises for Women to Harness Their Untapped Gifts, Gaslighting Recovery for Women: The Complete Guide to Recognizing Manipulation and Achieving Freedom from Emotional Abuse, coauthor of What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship, Surviving Suicidal Ideation: From Therapy to Spirituality and the Lived Experience, and is a contributing author for Psychology Today, ADDitude Magazine as well as Highly Sensitive Refuge, the world's largest blog for HSPs. Her work has been featured in Teen Vogue, Yahoo News, Pure Wow, Lifehacker, Well + Good and many others.  Dr. Kelley resides near Raleigh, NC. Links and Socials https://www.ameliakelley.com/ https://www.instagram.com/drameliakelley https://www.facebook.com/DrAmeliaKelley/ https://www.tiktok.com/@_drameliakelley https://www.ameliakelley.com/podcast/

Please Just Keep Breathing!
From Ideation to Collaboration :Healing Conversations and Hope

Please Just Keep Breathing!

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2025 51:44 Transcription Available


Healing Through Stories: Addressing Mental Health, Emotions, and Empathy   Suicide Zen Forgiveness brings together Gina Cavalier and Dr. Amelia Kelly to discuss their collaborative book on suicidal ideation and healing. The conversation spans personal and professional insights, the power of community support, and the necessity of processing emotions. They explore the role of practices like gratitude exercises, meditation alternatives, and Internal Family Systems therapy in maintaining emotional balance. The importance of presence, self-compassion, and empathetic listening is highlighted. Future projects, including Gina's book and documentary, and Dr. Amelia's ADHD support group and podcast, emphasize ongoing efforts to support mental health, especially for highly sensitive individuals.   00:00 Introduction and Mission Statement 01:24 Meet the Guests: Gina Cavalier and Dr. Amelia Kelly 02:53 Gina's Journey: Healing Suicidal Ideation 06:11 Dr. Amelia Kelly: Trauma Work and Writing 09:22 The Importance of Proactive Mental Health Content 15:45 Creating Safe Spaces for Emotional Expression 29:04 Finding Comfort in Small Moments 30:25 The Challenge of Forgiveness 32:25 Self-Love and Healing 34:12 Understanding Internal Family Systems 38:11 Generational Differences in Upbringing 42:19 Future Projects and Aspirations 47:51 Closing Thoughts and Encouragement 49:54 Outro and Acknowledgements   Bios Gina Marie Cavalier is a mental health advocate, author, filmmaker, artist, speaker and spiritual teacher.   She is also the founder of The Liberated Healer, where she is building a 360º ecosystem in mental health with a focus on healing suicidal ideation through various products, meditation and healing courses, books, support groups, a six-part docuseries, and a mobile and web application that allows brands to cover fees for therapy and healing sessions. Gina Marie is a media veteran, former entertainment studio executive and technology enthusiast, having contributed to over 300 film/TV titles.   As a public speaker, she has delivered talks on mental health and well-being in front of a live audience of over six hundred attendees at the Warner Bros. studio lot. Gina Marie has participated in several events, summits, and conferences as a speaker and has been invited to twenty-five podcasts since February 2024. She currently resides in Los Angeles, CA. Links and Socials https://www.theliberatedhealer.com/ https://www.instagram.com/theliberatedhealer https://www.youtube.com/@TheLiberatedHealer https://www.linkedin.com/in/ginacavalier/ ----------------------------------------------- Dr. Amelia Kelley is a trauma-informed therapist, author, co-host of The Sensitivity Doctor's Podcast, researcher, and certified meditation and yoga instructor. Her specialties include art therapy, internal family systems (IFS), EMDR, and brainspotting. Her work focuses on women's issues, empowering survivors of abuse and relationship trauma, highly sensitive persons, motivation, healthy living, neurodiversity and adult ADHD. She is a psychology professor at Yorkville University and a nationally recognized relationship expert featured on SiriusXM Doctor Radio's The Psychiatry Show as well as NPR's The Measure of Everyday Life. Her private practice is part of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at the Kinsey Institute. She is the author of Powered by ADHD: Strategies and Exercises for Women to Harness Their Untapped Gifts, Gaslighting Recovery for Women: The Complete Guide to Recognizing Manipulation and Achieving Freedom from Emotional Abuse, coauthor of What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship, Surviving Suicidal Ideation: From Therapy to Spirituality and the Lived Experience, and is a contributing author for Psychology Today, ADDitude Magazine as well as Highly Sensitive Refuge, the world's largest blog for HSPs. Her work has been featured in Teen Vogue, Yahoo News, Pure Wow, Lifehacker, Well + Good and many others.  Dr. Kelley resides near Raleigh, NC. Links and Socials https://www.ameliakelley.com/ https://www.instagram.com/drameliakelley https://www.facebook.com/DrAmeliaKelley/ https://www.tiktok.com/@_drameliakelley https://www.ameliakelley.com/podcast/

Fertility Wellness with The Wholesome Fertility Podcast
EP 317 Navigating Sensitivity on the Fertility Journey | Dr. Amelia Kelley

Fertility Wellness with The Wholesome Fertility Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2024 50:32


In this episode of The Wholesome Fertility Podcast, Dr. Amelia Kelley @drameliakelley , a trauma-informed therapist, discusses her journey and insights into high sensitivity, coping mechanisms, and the impact of trauma on mental health. She explores the differences between empathy and compassion, the importance of understanding one's nervous system, and shares her personal fertility journey, highlighting the integration of holistic approaches such as acupuncture and herbal medicine. In this conversation, Dr. Amelia Kelley and Michelle explore the complexities of pregnancy loss, trauma, and the role of the nervous system in fertility. They discuss the importance of letting go of control and embracing spirituality, as well as the dynamics of being a highly sensitive person (HSP). The conversation delves into the benefits of body awareness and how it can aid in healing, while also addressing the challenges HSPs face in relationships and daily life. Ultimately, they highlight the adaptive nature of high sensitivity and its prevalence in the population, encouraging listeners to embrace their sensitivity as a gift rather than a burden.   Takeaways   Coping skills should be viewed as a lifestyle. High sensitivity is a genetic trait, not a flaw. Empathy can have negative health effects. Highly sensitive people require more alone time for regulation. Generational trauma can impact reproductive health. Understanding one's nervous system is crucial for coping. Holistic approaches can aid in fertility journeys. Stress and nervous system balance are crucial for fertility. Highly sensitive people (HSPs) experience the world differently. Body awareness can enhance healing processes. HSPs often respond more positively to therapeutic interventions. High sensitivity is an adaptive trait found in many individuals. Embracing sensitivity can lead to greater self-awareness and compassion.   Guest Bio:   Dr. Amelia Kelley is a trauma-informed therapist, author, co-host of The Sensitivity Doctor's Podcast, researcher, and certified meditation and yoga instructor. Her specialties include art therapy, internal family systems (IFS), EMDR, and brainspotting. Her work focuses on women's issues, empowering survivors of abuse and relationship trauma, highly sensitive persons, motivation, healthy living, and adult ADHD.    She is currently a psychology professor at Yorkville University and a nationally recognized relationship expert featured on SiriusXM Doctor Radio's The Psychiatry Show as well as NPR's The Measure of Everyday Life. Her private practice is part of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at the Kinsey Institute.    She is the author of Powered by ADHD: Strategies and Exercises for Women to Harness their Untapped Gifts (whichhas a corresponding online support group!), Gaslighting Recovery for Women: The Complete Guide to Recognizing Manipulation and Achieving Freedom from Emotional Abuse, coauthor of What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship, as well as Surviving Suicidal Ideation: From Therapy to Spirituality and the Lived Experience, and a contributing author for Psychology Today, ADDitude Magazine, as well as Highly Sensitive Refuge, the world's largest blog for HSPs. Her work has been featured in Teen Vogue, Yahoo News, Lifehacker, Well + Good and Insider.   You can find out more about her work at https://www.ameliakelley.com.   Follow her on Instagram @drameliakelley   https://www.instagram.com/drameliakelley/   https://www.facebook.com/DrAmeliaKelley   https://www.linkedin.com/in/drameliakelley/   https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/in-your-corner       For more information about Michelle, visit: www.michelleoravitz.com   Check out Michelle's Latest Book: The Way of Fertility! https://www.michelleoravitz.com/thewayoffertility   The Wholesome FertilityFacebook group is where you can find free resources and support: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2149554308396504/   Instagram: @thewholesomelotusfertility   Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thewholesomelotus/     Transcript:     Michelle (00:00) Welcome to the podcast Amelia.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (00:02) Thank you for having me. It's good to see you again.   Michelle (00:04) It's so good to see you. So Amelia's had me on her podcast, the sensitivity doctors in the past, and I would love for you to share your background. I am really interested and very intrigued by what you do because it's something that we spoke about. I totally relate to. I love the fact that you've authored so many books and have such an interesting background. So I would love to have the.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (00:26) Hehehe   Michelle (00:30) audience hear you.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (00:32) Sure. Well, I'm currently in my office. So I'm a trauma informed therapist, professor, and podcaster, which is how you and I met. And I've been in the field for 20 years now. I primarily work with trauma of various forms, but a lot of it is interpersonal trauma, relationship trauma, some issues with sexual abuse, some instances where I also work with per...   a lot of first responders, so cops, doctors, and also folks from the military. So I'd say that my work is kind of an intersection. I sometimes call myself an integrative therapist because just before our session, I was doing a yoga therapy session. I do everything from EMDR, brain spotting, yoga therapy, art therapy is actually my background, sand play therapy.   Michelle (01:02) Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (01:27) I'm so into the brain too. I mean, I'm not, I would not say that my practice is comprehensive in neurofeedback. We do some minor interventions, but I love referring my clients to practitioners in the area to make sure that their brain health is on par too. And I also love referring to Carolina Clinic of Natural Medicine is my favorite in the area, but they do things like acupuncture and.   Michelle (01:40) Hmm.   Mm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (01:54) kind of holistic health, which I know really aligns with what you do. So, yeah.   Michelle (01:59) it's interesting because as you start to do anything, you start to find out how many different layers and different ways and methodologies that certain people respond to better than others. there's just so many different methods. And I think that some people just respond better to some.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (02:10) Right.   Right.   yeah. I think that's a great thing about coping skills. First and foremost, I love the idea of obliterating this idea that a coping skill is like work or that it's something that you only do when you're struggling. I think it's more of a lifestyle. And everyone is going to respond differently. Like I know I personally...   Michelle (02:35) Yes.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (02:41) water is very big for me. Like if I'm really stressed or I'm dysregulated, getting in hot water or cold water is very regulating for my nervous system. Whereas I have clients who the last thing they want to do when they're stressed or dysregulated is shower or get in water. It's actually one of the first things that they stop wanting to do.   Michelle (02:51) Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (03:04) So it's so interesting seeing how we all respond differently, I think, in our own unique nervous system when we're under stress.   Michelle (03:11) Yeah, definitely. I find that also with my patients. mean, some people, be much more open to like things like meditation, other people, there's other ways to self soothing, which I call it, because ultimately, that's really what it is. So yeah, it definitely isn't work. sounds like work.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (03:20) Mm   Mm-hmm.   Right.   Michelle (03:30) but it's not work. think the biggest work is really the strategy and kind of figuring it out. But ultimately it's really there to soothe you at times that you feel overwhelmed.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (03:35) Mm-hmm.   Absolutely. I couldn't agree more.   Michelle (03:44) So let's talk about the sensitive person because I've always felt that that was something that I can describe myself as when I was younger. It was something that I felt I found myself more overwhelmed by noises, by certain people's energy than other people. And people would just be like, you're too sensitive or you focus on things too much. And   Dr. Amelia Kelley (03:52) Mm   Okay.   Michelle (04:08) It was something that I realized, as I met other people like me. I was like, wait, this is kind of a thing. And then when I learned about it, that it really is a thing, I found it really interesting. And it also, I found it very comforting. So it's like, okay, I'm like, I'm not abnormal. Like this isn't crazy. Yeah. So I would love for you to talk about that. So I feel like a lot of people can relate.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (04:14) Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm.   Right, Mm-hmm.   Definitely, and I know my aha moment was a big deal to me. It was years ago now. I stumbled upon Dr. Elaine Aaron, who is kind of the pioneer of some of the modern research on high sensitivity on her documentary, Sensitive, the Untold Story.   And it was one of those light bulb aha moments that made so much of my life make sense. Interestingly though, when I dug a little deeper, she was not the of the originator of this. It was actually research done in the 80s on babies and their responses to different stimuli. Things like they had...   Michelle (04:59) you   Mm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (05:17) auditory stimulation with like a creepy face making sound. had light stimulation, physical stimulation. And what they found was that the babies who were more reactive, they were calling high reactive babies, you know, which down the road became high sensitivity. But the really interesting thing is that the researchers went and followed up with these babies who are now in their midlife, you know, they're in their   I'd say probably 40s at this point, 30s and 40s. And they're finding that those high reactive babies still are more reactive adults. And so this doesn't mean someone who's highly emotional or can't control their temper when we think of reactivity. It's more, what is your reaction to sensory input? And certain brains, it is genetic.   Michelle (06:07) Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (06:10) So it's a predisposition. It is a genetic trait. It is not a diagnosis. It is not something to fix. It is rather something to learn from and grow with and manage and live life in that way. And so it's highly genetic. And for that reason, I'm not surprised I have kids who are definitely highly sensitive. And high sensitivity can express in so many different ways. It can look like   Michelle (06:10) you   Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (06:39) hypersensitivity to medication, sensitivity to light, to sound, to being rushed to other people's emotions. That's a big part. The empathy piece is very strong. I think it's really important to understand the difference between empathy and compassion when we consider highly sensitive people. you, like when I say that, does that make sense to you? Do you want me to unpack that?   Michelle (06:52) Mm-hmm.   It does. mean, so what I'm perceiving in that is that empathy is kind of like almost giving more of your own personal energy to something versus just feeling compassion and understanding that another person's emotions or perspectives without almost taking it on. I'm not sure if I'm on or not.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (07:08) Mm-hmm.   Well, mean, I think that's we can all define it differently, but I guess if I was going to scientifically define compassion and empathy. So empathy is our ability to feel what someone else is feeling. We all tend to know that definition. However, the interesting thing is that empathy has a negative impact on your immune health and it increases inflammation. Right. And so when we consider the fact that highly sensitive people   Michelle (07:34) Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm.   Well, that's interesting.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (07:56) have more active mirror neurons, which means the areas of their brain designed to plan social interactions, problem solving around social interactions, and even something as simple as, as a highly sensitive person, one of my ways to decompress is to watch like trashy reality TV at night. And so I will find myself as I'm watching these dating shows, smiling with the contestants.   Michelle (08:15) Yeah   Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (08:23) or frowning with them. Sometimes I kind of laugh when I catch myself doing it. As a highly sensitive person, those areas of the brain are so much more active. And so it does make us have higher levels of empathy. But when you consider the fact that that can negatively impact your body, if you don't have enough boundaries around them, empathy is pro-social. It helps us get along, but also too much can be draining.   Michelle (08:32) Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (08:50) And so compassion is actually kind of the anecdote to empathy because compassion is centered around the desire to act or help. And so this, when we think of self-compassion, the act of speaking to yourself kindly is an act. So you empathize for yourself, I feel bad today because I made a mistake. Just thinking of an example. The compassion is,   Michelle (08:50) Right.   Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (09:18) I'm going to choose to speak to myself kindly and with love because that will be curative for me. Whereas if you stay in an empathy response, you just continue to feel bad about whatever mistake you made, right? And so for highly sensitive people, it's exponentially important to lean into compassion and we can't all go out and save the world all the time. So sometimes this looks like well-wishing meditation.   Michelle (09:24) Done it.   Got it.   Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (09:46) processing with other like-minded people, those can be ways to express compassion that doesn't all have to be going out. And I remember, do you remember the movie Free Willy?   Michelle (09:58) yeah, but I don't remember if I saw it or I don't remember the actual movie. wait, though. It was the one with the whale, right? Yes. Yeah.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (10:06) Right, it was fiction, obviously, but as an HSP or an HSC at the time, a highly sensitive child, when that movie was over, I was destroyed at the thought of all these whales in the world who need help. And so my gracious parents who encouraged my sensitivity helped me find an organization where could adopt a whale. So it's like, and I mean, who knows what's happening. We probably paid $20 and...   Michelle (10:29) that's cute.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (10:34) I've adopted a whale, who knows, but it was the act of taking my empathy response and putting it into action with compassion that was curative for my little highly sensitive child heart.   Michelle (10:34) Yeah.   Hmm.   That's beautiful. actually really love that. And it also makes you feel like there's more purpose in the feelings that you're having. You're kind of taking the feelings and creating purpose with it.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (10:57) Absolutely. That's such a way of putting it.   Michelle (11:01) And one thing too, that I was thinking about when you were talking about being highly sensitive, which I could tell you right now, I 100 % am self-diagnosed. The nervous system, I think to myself about the nervous system and possibly that having something to do with it, just having a more heightened sensitive nervous system.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (11:09) Mm-hmm   Mm-hmm.   Michelle (11:22) Besides obviously the antidote and kind of like using or acting or doing, to translate the empathy, but as one part of regulating the nervous system, learning to manage the nervous system, doing things like you said, like when you get home, take a shower, do something that really connects with your nervous system, I feel like is a really great tool. And figuring out what that is, is that something that you often look into?   Dr. Amelia Kelley (11:49) Absolutely. Because if you think about just a handful of the questions that I was posing that help you identify if you're highly sensitive, a lot of them have to do with nervous system response. highly sensitives are more responsive to caffeine, drugs and alcohol, pain tolerance, hunger cues even, are more, you know, felt more intensely. So with HSPs, the nervous system, specifically the limbic   system is more active. And this is something that can be seen on actual scans of HSP brains. It is. It's wild. so I was having a really interesting conversation with Michael Allison, who is one of the instructors for the Polyvagal Institute. And he was talking about, I don't think if he really fully bought into the HSP thing, I think he sees everything through the Polyvagal world.   Michelle (12:20) Mm-hmm.   That's so interesting.   Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (12:48) And which I totally appreciate. There's different ways to look at our nervous systems. But he said something when we were talking about highly sensitive that really struck a chord to your point about the nervous system. He was saying when our nervous system alerts danger and for him that means the vagal break is off and the vagus nerve is overactive, the heart rate is up, fight flight. When we're not feeling safe.   It's usually because we're attending to something we think we need to attend to because it's out of sorts. And so the highly sensitive person, a look on your face could alert danger to me. Like someone seeming off or upset or concerned could signal that. And so for the highly sensitive person,   Michelle (13:23) Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (13:42) They need more time and research has shown up to two hours of unstructured alone time per day is most quote prescribed for highly sensitive. And so the reason being is that our baseline is higher all the time. And so we need more things to regulate the nervous system so that sounds and things and emotions aren't pulling us out of our safety zone so quickly.   Michelle (13:49) Mm-hmm.   Right.   Mm-hmm.   my God, that makes sense on so many levels. I always felt like I needed, I need alone time. Like after a while, I just need to be by myself. need quiet. I need peace. And I totally understand what you're saying. And then also what's interesting is I remember when I was younger, always being afraid, like if somebody was mad at me or like, I would kind of feel a tone of like, my God, are they mad at me? And I get like really upset. And now I had to like learn to   Dr. Amelia Kelley (14:19) Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm.   Yes.   Michelle (14:42) just be like, okay, it's not that big of a deal. Maybe they were having a bad day, you know, sort of speak to myself on that, but that makes sense. And then I noticed that with my daughter, if sometimes I'll be busy and I won't respond with like a, you know, a full response, I'll be like, okay, okay, we'll talk later or whatever. Are you mad at me? And I always tell her, believe me, I would tell you I'm pretty clear about like what I'm happy about and not happy, you know.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (14:52) Mmm.   Hmm.   Right.   Michelle (15:07) And, but it's interesting. She'll kind of read between the lines with me. And she's like me, she just took after me. So it's kind of, yeah, so she's 19.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (15:12) Mm   How old is she, I ask? OK, so she's older. I was going to say, I know a great workbook, but it's for younger kids. yeah, she definitely, especially if you are too, it wouldn't surprise me that she would also be highly sensitive because it is so genetic.   Michelle (15:23) Yeah.   And she got like that more as she got older when she went to college than even before, for some reason. I don't know if maybe because she has a lot more going on or, she's starting to regulate on a different level, her nervous system. Cause I think that coming from home, things shift and change.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (15:39) Mm-hmm.   Right.   Totally. mean, think it's research has shown that some high sensitivity traits, you know, can be very present in childhood, but then there's other different types of traits that become more expressed later in life. But   Michelle (16:04) Mm-hmm. Yeah.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (16:06) I also beg to say, let's look at the external factors. You look at someone who is a highly sensitive child who didn't have to raise children, work a job, manage a home. So when you just keep adding more to your exactly, that can make those traits become more expressed too, I believe.   Michelle (16:16) Yeah, right.   Yep, responsibility. Yeah, for sure.   So I want to actually take this into your own journey, because I know you've had your fertility journey, because a lot of listeners, are going through the fertility journey. And I know a lot of people just based on my own clients and patients that are very sensitive and highly sensitive as well.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (16:38) Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm.   Michelle (16:48) I work a lot with them on, I don't know if you've ever heard of the NADA protocol. It's really good for PTSD. NADA, it's used, it's, yeah, yeah. So NADA, and it's a protocol that they use on the ears. it's like a, it's a series of ear points that we use like altogether.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (16:54) No. I love learning new things. Tell me. NADA. I have nothing to write on. Okay.   Michelle (17:12) And it works on regulating the nervous system. And it actually works amazing on it's even had published studies on working with vets, people with PTSD, like really major PTSD. Yeah. Yeah, I know. It's, it's really, really interesting. And, and also interestingly enough,   Dr. Amelia Kelley (17:23) I need a pen. Let me just grab one.   Do you use the mustard seeds or is it actual needles?   Michelle (17:33) So you could use the seeds. I use needles. I use needles. then some people, no, no, they're not mustard seeds, but they're seeds. And then some of the studies that were published, I think they even added electric stimulation. And what's interesting is it's not just really great for   Dr. Amelia Kelley (17:36) They're probably not called mustard seeds. I forgot what are they actually.   Mm-hmm.   cool.   Thank   Michelle (17:51) PTSD, but it's also really good for addiction. And interesting, if you think about the two, like what do they have in common? They're kind of like, it runs, they run on a loop. You know, it's this repeated either thoughts or behaviors. And it seems to kind of have that in common. Obviously it's two different things, but sometimes can cross over.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (17:56) wow.   Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm.   I love that. It's funny. It looks like you're on my podcast right now. So I'm like, let me take notes on what you're saying. You're so smart and knowledgeable in these areas. I love it. I will definitely check that out. I would be so curious if that's something that there are, like I said, a lot of veterans and addicts that I work with. And so I'm definitely going to look into that.   Michelle (18:16) So.   No, no, I know. It will...   I feel the same about you. it makes for a great conversation.   Yeah, definitely look into the studies. I think that that's, seeing the studies and seeing the numbers really makes a difference. And so that aspect of it is amazing. And also Joe dispense does work a lot of what he does helps tons of people with PTSD, like, they do scans and study the brains. It's pretty impactful. Yeah. Yeah. So back to you though, I would love to talk to you about how you feel, your nervous system.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (18:47) Mm-hmm.   That's really neat.   Michelle (19:10) Like how were you able to figure out a way to balance yourself through the journey, knowing what you know, and how do you think it's impacted you on that nervous system level and like the trauma, because I know that it can be very traumatic, even though people don't often talk about it like that. It should be, it should be highlighted in that way so that more people have awareness around it because it really is a very difficult process.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (19:16) Right.   Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm.   Michelle (19:37) has even been compared to a cancer diagnosis. It's really significant.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (19:41) Wow. Well, and I actually have something about my story that integrates the two. So I think when I really look now and I understand my nervous system better, I think that the generational trauma that I was carrying with me into my reproductive years that I didn't understand that I didn't understand my high sensitivity. I didn't have a name for it. I didn't realize that that's what that was. I just thought.   I just felt too much all the time. What I think that was doing was that when I was ready to try to start having a family is that I had been in flight mode. And when people think of flight mode, they think of like running the coop. I had been in flight mode being overly productive. And I laugh because I'm still overly productive, but it's in a different energy now. It's in a completely different energy than it was then. But.   Michelle (20:34) Yeah.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (20:39) This flight mode, think what it was doing is it was putting my nervous system in a state, like you said on my podcast, where it was never able to rest. It was never able to replenish. so my cycle was totally dysregulated. I ended up, I don't know how detailed you want me to get, but I'm happy to share. OK, OK. So I started off, we had tried to get pregnant for a couple of years and it wasn't working. And at the time, I think about it,   Michelle (20:58) you can get as detailed as you need.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (21:09) I was in my doctoral program. I was working at a women's clinic and the methadone clinic and trying to start my practice all at the same time and just live life and be like a normal adult. And so we went the route of Western medicine at first. I love my doctor and he worked with me through the whole journey, but we tried Clomid and I got pregnant. But I think now that I know what I know about egg quality, thank you, Rebecca Fett. She's amazing.   Michelle (21:19) Bye.   Yeah, she's phenomenal. I know I've tried, but she like, she wasn't really doing them. Maybe she is now, but let me know if you get her. She's great. Yes.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (21:40) my gosh, I need to get her on my podcast. Let's like.   We're going to like, we'll just go not tap, tap, tap. Come on. now that I understand what I know now about egg quality, I think that the clomid forced an egg that really wasn't ready to be fertilized. And so we miscarried that baby. And that was the first miscarriage and definitely the most shocking and painful miscarriage. From there, did my, one of my, I think healthier   trauma coping mechanisms is research. And so I just dug in and I created this kind of like wellness plan for my husband and I had like printouts. What I didn't realize is that I was basically creating what Rebecca Fett recommends without realizing what in the world I was doing. And so I had us on a laundry list of vitamins and supplements and all these things. We got pregnant again, very.   Michelle (22:33) and   Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (22:45) very luckily with our daughter, who is now nine. And then that was the end of that. was like, OK, that went OK. Maybe it was just like that first miscarriage. Lots of people have it, statistically speaking. Then we were trying for our second child. And I feel like that's when I really got introduced to the world that you're in, which is the Chinese herbal medicine and acupuncture, because we   I think I had already started working with my acupunctures at that time. again, we were having a hard time getting pregnant. And so they put me on like the most disgusting tea, but it was some sort of tea regimen and these herbs. And I was doing really cool acupuncture to your point with like the little electrodes and all of that. And I did get pregnant again, but that time ended up being a molar pregnancy.   Michelle (23:26) Yeah.   Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (23:42) which you know what those are assume or I don't know if you're listeners.   Michelle (23:46) Yes, I remember learning about it. haven't had any of my patients have that, but I remember learning about it actually in school.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (23:54) Right. So the trauma of the first miscarriage was, would almost call that like acute trauma, whereas the trauma with the molar pregnancy. So a molar pregnancy, for anyone listening who doesn't know, is when the sperm and the egg join and the DNA markers are not turned on. So no actual baby starts forming, but a mass starts to form. And your body thinks you're pregnant, and so it spikes your HCG actually above kind of average levels.   I thought I was pregnant with twins. was so sick. So I go in and I'm, I want to say eight, seven, eight weeks at that point that I thought and they scanned and there's no baby, which felt like a miscarriage, but it wasn't. But what happened after it was that I still had to do a DNC and then I had to do monthly HCG tests to make sure that my levels were dropping because if your levels of HCG go up at any point, have to   Michelle (24:26) Mm-hmm.   Right.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (24:52) do chemo. So this was this chronic six month period where we couldn't try again. And every month I was going in afraid for my health.   Michelle (25:00) Mm-hmm.   my gosh.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (25:05) Right. So that was a totally different type of trauma. And then we got pregnant again. And that one we lost at 10 weeks because it was a little boy with downs. And then we finally got pregnant with our son that we have now. But I would say during that journey of those miscarriages, that was when I really dug deep into   Things like I was saying, like really taking everything serious with Chinese herbalism, looking at what I was putting in my body, looking at what was around me, my stress level, mean, meditation, really anything I could to balance my nervous system. And to your point, I think the nervous system played a role finally in us getting pregnant with our son because I think when you were on my podcast, I told you that   Michelle (25:47) Yeah.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (25:58) I was doing all these things, it wasn't working, and then finally I did that, quite essential, fine, I give up. I'm not doing this anymore. I went to my acupuncturist and I said, just do stress this time. Don't do any of the fertility treatments, please. I just don't want to even think about it anymore. And then it's so obnoxious to say, but three weeks later we got pregnant.   Michelle (26:04) Mm-hmm.   It's not, it is, it's something that I'm, well, I'm not just, know why you're saying that because people are like, what the heck? Like, it's kind of like the just relax kind of thing. saying just relax is not helpful. That's why people are like, okay, well then how, you know, that's the how, like, how do I relax? so actually let's talk about that. Cause that, that is a big thing. That's a big thing.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (26:32) Right, right.   Right. Well, I I let go of the outcome. Yeah, I think for me, it was letting go of the outcome. And I think that allowed my nervous system to get back to a safer baseline. To your point about asking about high sensitivity, I think what used to be the stress was work and school. The stressor became the goal.   Michelle (26:52) Yeah.   Yes. You know, I just hadn't, an aha, but if you want to continue, I did, I just had an aha. It's like you're taking on the responsibility of the goal. You think that it's all up to you and you're taking that weight on your shoulders. And I think that that's what it is is, and, I'm kind of thinking back cause I had Dr. Lisa Miller. I don't know if you've heard of her. She's yeah, she's amazing. You would love her. And I think she would be great on your podcast. So put her down as a   Dr. Amelia Kelley (27:06) Which, what? Ooh, no, I wanna hear it.   Mmm.   Mm-hmm.   I've heard that name.   and a jotter down.   Michelle (27:32) as an option or somebody. She went through the fertility journey, but separately from that, she's also a professor in Columbia. I think you would love talking to her because you're a professor as well. And she's a psychotherapist and she is studying spirituality in the brain.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (27:41) good. Yeah.   that's interesting. Okay.   Michelle (27:50) It's fascinating. And so they found looking at, scans of brains and how they're functioning, where they're lit up, that spiritual people who are spiritual have different brains, their brains look different. And this could be the same brain of somebody who used to not be spiritual and then became spiritual. It doesn't matter. And what's interesting is, so this is my, as you were talking, not to interrupt, hopefully you're trained a thought, but   Dr. Amelia Kelley (28:05) Interesting.   Mm-hmm.   Michelle (28:18) can come at life taking on the responsibility of every single part of our outcome and like fully micromanaging ourselves and bearing that weight or when we're spiritual, that means that we believe in a higher power or some kind of higher intelligence. We're relying on something else and not carrying all the weight. So we're just basically giving our intention out there, but, but also feeling safe enough. Like you said, safe, word safe.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (28:28) Thank   Mm-hmm.   Yes.   Michelle (28:46) to let go. So that was kind of my heart just came out.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (28:48) Hmm, absolutely. No, I love it. mean, the connection makes so much sense because and it kind of makes me think of why it doesn't have to be quote religion that someone leans into. It doesn't. It can literally be if you're someone listening who is an atheist and staunchly does not believe in a higher power, it could be energy. I mean, we can't there's no denying scientifically there's energy. mean, even   Michelle (29:01) Mm-hmm. No, no, it doesn't have to be religion.   Right?   True.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (29:18) plants have been proven to grow better when we speak to them because of the energy and probably the carbon monoxide, but like you're a carbon dioxide, but not monoxide. I'm not breathing carbon monoxide, but you can't deny energy. even if someone is not religious or I would say, I would want to ask her actually, does this hold true for someone who's not quote spiritual, but   Michelle (29:25) Yeah, yeah, yeah, dioxide. Totally. understood. Yeah.   Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (29:44) who gives up things to the idea of energy. I want to ask her that.   Michelle (29:48) That's a great question. when you do have her on, let me know, because I'll be listening to the podcast.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (29:53) for sure. For sure. Thanks for the tip for the, I'll definitely check her out and reach out.   Michelle (29:57) Yeah, but it's fascinating. And I think to myself, I think that that might be that trusting in something else, trusting in an outcome or kind of releasing or relinquishing that burden and that responsibility. And that I guess that that was the aha is like taking on that responsibility of really trying to, take on the outcome, like as if you really have all of the responsibility and how it turns out and that burden and that feeling and that blame.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (30:06) Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm.   Now I'm having an aha. Well, yes, I'm having an aha because high sensitivity. So I was talking about the mirror neurons earlier and the empathy overload with highly sensitives. Highly sensitive people, we do tend to naturally take on the responsibility of other people's emotions. And we also, even one of the questions that Dr. Aaron poses is,   Michelle (30:29) Tell me. This is great. We bounce off each other really well.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (30:54) Do you know how to make people comfortable in a room? Like things like changing the lighting and the volume and the temperature in the room. I think even as a highly sensitive person, we kind of naturally take on the responsibility of the environment. And that's why some HSPs who are not high sensation seekers, who are just, you know, kind of more of the traditional introverted expression of it, they really get overwhelmed in social settings and they don't love hosting.   Michelle (31:19) Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (31:23) because it's too much to micromanage. I'm a high sensation seeking HSP, so I do enjoy hosting and having people over at my home. However, the hours leading up to the event, I need quiet and calm. I've got like a hairpin trigger nervous system leading up to inviting people in my space, even though I love it. It's like this weird.   Michelle (31:24) you   Mm-hmm.   Hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (31:52) dichotomy. yeah, letting go of responsibility, think, releases the nervous system of a highly sensitive person as well.   Michelle (32:00) Yeah. And it's so interesting that you're saying that because like, I look back at my childhood, I was a really good imitator. And that just makes sense because you pick up on the little details of people's behavior and energy and you mirror that like literally.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (32:09) Mmm. Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. I'm so curious and envious because I'm terrible at accents. Like, terrible. Really? Mm-hmm.   Michelle (32:26) Yeah, I used to, I would do it even when I wasn't trying. I would start to take on like, I would do it on purpose and when I wasn't trying, like I would just pick up on like certain behaviors or certain like tones and things. And I would kind of like take on like the energy of friends that would have very specific ways of talking. And I would almost be like, like I would catch myself. like, that's weird. I don't want to do that.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (32:35) Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm.   You're like, I don't want to look like I'm really imitating them. This might get awkward.   Michelle (32:55) For sure. But it's just so fascinating. and then you're talking also highly sensitive persons that they could also have glucose sensitivity. You were saying you were talking about the physical sensitivity, right? Like that sometimes it could be allergies or other things and it's not just emotional.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (33:06) Mmm.   Mm-hmm. Well, so if you think about, it's not that they're going to have more unstable blood sugar from a technical medical stance. It's that the highly sensitive nervous system can sense peaks and valleys more than someone who is not highly sensitive. So they might respond more to hunger cues and may feel more   Michelle (33:29) Mm.   Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (33:39) panic or anxiety or stress in the state of hunger. So they may be more likely to be the person that reaches for something to re-stabilize glucose. But then you can see how depending on someone's metabolic health, that might not fit well into whatever their health goals are. So I think of my non- he's actually quite highly sensitive now, but my husband- I'm going grab water.   Michelle (33:43) Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm.   Got it.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (34:08) Sorry. My husband, who is a little bit less sensitive and has a more stable metabolic system, when he's hungry, it doesn't cause as much distress.   Michelle (34:08) Sure.   Got it.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (34:20) If that makes sense.   Michelle (34:21) a body awareness thing. because HSPs are probably much more aware of how their bodies feel because a, immediately feel it. And then that impacts their emotions or how they feel mentally. Cause a lot of emotions get processed and they're really felt in the body. think, a lot of times people don't realize that it's why somatic.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (34:39) Mm-hmm.   Michelle (34:43) work can be so beneficial. Have you looked into somatic work?   Dr. Amelia Kelley (34:48) I do offer some forms of somatic work. I am not a somatic-experiencing practitioner. That takes a full, it's almost like a whole separate degree. But I actually find what you're saying very important to highlight, too, because HSPs, while anyone listening might think, goodness, OK, I'm highly sensitive. Now what? Does this just mean that I'm in for it? Everything's going to be harder?   Michelle (34:57) wow.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (35:14) The good thing, the hopeful thing is that HSPs also respond more to positives. So they feel more positive sensation from things like a massage or acupuncture or homeopathy or different aromatherapies. They're really going to benefit from it. I think that's why   Michelle (35:20) Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (35:39) My HSPs tend to stay in therapy longer. So HSPs are kind of a stronger ratio in therapy, not only because the world can feel more traumatizing at some points for HSPs, but because they just get so much out of it. I think it also leads to things like food can taste even better. Music can sound even more beautiful. Movies can be even more moving. So there's these...   Michelle (35:58) Mm-hmm.   There's benefits.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (36:09) Yeah, there's this, I wouldn't give it up. I wouldn't want to be less sensitive just because it would make me a little bit less likely to reach for a snack in the afternoon. So there's this yin and yang to it.   Michelle (36:14) brain.   Yes.   For sure. I actually like just from my own journey based on that, what I offer a lot of my patients and I always talk to them about it when I perceive that they get overwhelmed by stimulation. That was really how I saw it. I would say that it's not about changing that it's a gift actually, cause it could also teach you to be very aware of other people's feelings and   Dr. Amelia Kelley (36:40) Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.   Right.   Michelle (36:50) And that can be a great thing for healers, to be honest, because you're a lot more likely to be able to understand the people that you're working with. It's not about changing. It's more about managing, kind of figuring out ways to stabilize so that it works for you.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (36:53) Mm-hmm.   Right.   Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.   Right.   Absolutely. And I think that's the whole key of identifying whether or not you're one and why it's important. I've had clients who come in with a laundry list of diagnoses from other practitioners, usually because what's going on is trauma and it's being misdiagnosed as many other things, just my clinical opinion. But when I say maybe you're also highly sensitive, sometimes they just throw their arms up like another thing. And it's like, no, no.   Michelle (37:36) Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (37:37) This is a key. This is a huge level of insight that can inform everything from your fertility journey for people listening, from trauma, from navigating. Anytime something stands in your way of getting where you want to be, if you know, well, I'm highly sensitive, so I will be more likely to succeed at this thing or accomplish this thing or feel better about this thing if I take my sensitivity into account.   Michelle (38:01) Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (38:07) Perfect example, I had a very heavy day yesterday. had, I think, eight clients, a podcast, an interview, and a class. It was too much. It was a heavy, heavy day. I get home and my husband had managed to fix the voice-changing microphone toy that my kids have that had been broken that I wasn't rushing to fix. so I come in the house. They run to me. They're so excited to see me, so I'm excited to see them.   Michelle (38:17) Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm.   Ha ha ha!   Dr. Amelia Kelley (38:35) and then they start in on this microphone. The last thing I wanted was to hear that microphone. But I know I didn't want to ruin their fun. So I know about me that I am going to be sensitive to sound when I'm overstimulated. So I went into my bag. I got my loop earbuds. If no one's ever heard of them, they're great for dampening noise around you, but you can still hear people. Popped my earbuds in. I didn't feel like I had to mask the issue of being sensitive to the noise.   Michelle (38:56) Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (39:03) My family knows this about me. It wasn't anything against my kids. It was just, I'm going to pop these in so you can still have fun, but I can feel peaceful. And that's, think, a compassionate way to care for yourself is when you know these things about yourself, you can do things to help you still integrate and feel happy and peaceful in your life, but not have to push away what really is true.   Michelle (39:17) Mm-hmm.   I love that. actually really love that. It actually, the idea of highly sensitive, I don't mind it. Although I do think that there's definitely a lot of labels. I don't see this as one because the reason why I'm saying this, it reminds me of human design where you find out your strengths and sensitivities.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (39:42) Yes.   Michelle (39:47) and I think that once you know those, so it's not like a disorder, you know, cause we, think we hear all these different labels. think of it as like all these disorders. It's not no. And so that's the thing with this. I feel like it brings a lot of clarity. I, as a sensitive person   Dr. Amelia Kelley (39:54) Mm-hmm. It's not even a diagnosis.   Michelle (40:05) it really makes me understand myself more and manage it more. Just like you said, and I think that that is the key rather than getting frustrated with my husband who likes to really over explain. And sometimes I'm like, okay, my brain is like just on fire right now. And I have to explain that to, like, I know to explain that to him, like, it's not you, it's just me. He like right now I'm overloaded with information. I need a little quiet.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (40:10) Mm hmm.   Mm-hmm.   my gosh.   Yes.   Right.   Mm-hmm.   Michelle (40:33) So I think that when you do that, you'll also come at explaining things in a way that's more compassionate and easier to communicate rather than getting frustrated because you'll understand yourself better. And you understand sort of the situation that somebody else might not have that level of sensitivity and you do so they may not realize it. And I just feel like it really puts so much clarity to the situation.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (40:41) Right.   Right.   Right.   absolutely. if you happen to have kids or if you're on this fertility journey and in the future you're blessed with kids, the likelihood of them maybe being sensitive is quite high. And so you will be able to model for them. I joke one day, my daughter was probably three or four at the time, and she kept asking me for things in the bathroom. like, what is she doing? I walked in and she was laying in the tub with a book and a cup.   Michelle (41:17) Yes.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (41:30) and a towel over her face. And I'm like, what are you doing? She goes, I'm being mommy. I know, but it made me really proud too, because I'm like, OK, great. So this has been modeled for her. And you know, one thing we didn't even mention that we probably should have mentioned at the very beginning, high sensitivity is not abnormal. It's an adaptive trait. And it is a third. Up to a third of the human population is highly sensitive.   Michelle (41:35) That's really cute.   Yeah.   you   Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (41:59) And there are ranges. So you have high sensitivity, medium sensitivity, and there are actually people who are low sensitive as well. Like their nervous system takes a lot of stimulation to be activated. And you might notice if you start learning this about yourself, you'll be able to start reflecting on people in your life and how you respond to them. And there might be people you can get to depth with a little bit more easily. Those might be your other co-HSPs.   Michelle (42:12) Mm-hmm.   Mm-hmm.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (42:29) And this is not just humans. The research shows this is in hundreds of animal species, even bugs. So it's everywhere. It's part of nature. It's part of nature, essentially.   Michelle (42:38) Wow, that's fascinating. That's so interesting. It's wild. You know, and I think to myself, like one of the things that I noticed, and it's so interesting that you said this, because I noticed that my patients, One of the things that I really observe is how they respond to treatments. Not everybody responds as quick.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (42:52) Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.   Michelle (42:58) Some people take a little longer. so I can come up with like my first protocol, but then I realized I need to shift it a little bit, depending on how they do, or sometimes I'll even use baby needles on people who are very, very sensitive. Cause I don't want to overdo it with their nervous system. They don't need the strong needles. They don't need the strong stimulation cause they feel it already. And the people that have that body awareness   Dr. Amelia Kelley (43:04) Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.   Mmm.   Right.   Right.   Michelle (43:22) is that when they have that body awareness, I feel like they respond to treatment a lot faster.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (43:28) Mm hmm. Yep. You're right. Just like we were saying that you'll get more good out of the good.   Michelle (43:31) Yeah. Yeah. Interesting. So interesting. I can talk to you for hours. I really enjoy our conversations. It's a lot of fun. I'll come back and then I'll have you back because I'm sure we can come up with like all kinds of things to talk about.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (43:37) I know I have to have you back now.   Well, and you know the funny thing, so I'll tell your listeners my podcast is The Sensitivity Doctor, and I have folks on all the time to talk about different topics around sensitivity. Do you know I have not had an episode literally just talking about what it means to be a highly sensitive person? I would love to have you on to have a chat about what it means to another highly sensitive person, and we can just unpack it. Because we talk about it extraneously around it, but I'm like,   Michelle (44:04) really?   Let's do it. Let's do it.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (44:16) Yeah, we should just unpack what that means. So I would love to have you back.   Michelle (44:20) That would be great. I really enjoy talking to you. can just like totally pick your brain. You're so interesting to talk to. I got really, and I love your energy and you're also the way you approach it in such an empowering way. I love that. Like I think it's just amazing. yeah, yeah, this is fun. I'm really excited. I actually met you.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (44:26) thank you. You too.   Mm-hmm. Thank you.   Yeah, it was a good it was a good meeting   Michelle (44:41) it was definitely a great meeting. So I would love for you to share for people listening and if they want to learn more, if they want to read your books, how they can reach you and how they can work with you.   Dr. Amelia Kelley (44:47) Mm-hmm.   Sure, so as I was mentioning, I do have my podcast that comes out every Thursday. But if you want to learn basically anything that I have to offer, it's on my website at AmeliaKelly.com, and that's Kelly with an EY. And I have links to my Psychology Today blog. It's called In Your Corner. I've got meditations on Insight Timer on there. There's a couple different quizzes, like if you want to figure out if you're in a...   trauma bond, if you want to learn if you're a highly sensitive person, I have an assessment on there. I also offer what I think to be the most important tools from some of my books that I want to make available to everyone for free, like the safety plan of how to get out of domestic violence situations, suicide safety plan, gas lighting checklist, like some of the things that I feel like everyone really should just have. You don't need to go buy the book.   Those are available too. So you can also find links for all my books and I also have a group that I meet every Tomorrow actually it's meeting. It's every other Thursday It's called powered by ADHD and it's for women with ADHD and sometimes we have guest speakers on which we're gonna have tomorrow night so I'm excited about that and I love that because it's a resource that women anywhere in the world can reach out You don't have to be in the state of North Carolina where I'm licensed. So   virtually anyone who is a woman or identifies as a woman can join that.   of course. Thanks for having me. Yeah, you'll come back. Awesome.  

The #3UNIQUES Podcast
Cracking the Code on Belly Fat for Women Biz Owners Over 40

The #3UNIQUES Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 5, 2024 38:09


Join us as we welcome Kim Barnes Jefferson, creator of the Belly Fat Code, in this eye-opening episode. Kim is on a mission to help women over 40 reclaim their bodies and confidence during the menopausal journey. Kim shares her expertise on managing weight, particularly stubborn belly fat, during hormonal changes. Her approach blends practical strategies with humor and empathy, making health improvement feel achievable. Insights for Thriving After 40 Learn how to integrate wellness into your busy schedule Discover the power of community support in navigating menopause Understand why adapting new strategies is crucial for maintaining health Pick up Kim's 5 Days To Crack The Belly Fat Code https://www.fitgirlmagic.com/5-days-bfc-podcastguest/ Follow Kim on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kimjeffersoncoach/ ******************************* Join our community of ambitious midlife women entrepreneurs: https://www.skool.com/aligned-af-comm... Learn how to build a location-independent business, create passive income streams, and design the lifestyle you've always dreamed of. Whether you're just starting out or looking to scale your existing business, this video provides valuable insights and strategies. Disclaimer: Results may vary. The success stories shared are not guaranteed and depend on individual effort, market conditions, and other factors. ⁠#EntrepreneurAfter40⁠ ⁠#MidlifeWomenEntrepreneurs⁠ ⁠#OnlineBusinessSuccess⁠ ⁠#WorkLifeBalanceEntrepreneur⁠

Over the Next Hill Fitness
S2 Ep24 Transforming Lives: Will Harlow's Strategies for Healthy Aging

Over the Next Hill Fitness

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2024 56:01


Send us a textDiscover the inspiring journey of physiotherapist Will Harlow in this episode, where he shares how he transitioned from the high-stakes world of professional football to finding his true passion in supporting individuals over 50. Will's experiences reveal the unique challenges older adults face in maintaining muscle and bone health, offering insights from his book, "Thriving After 50." Through engaging discussions, we uncover strategies to counteract age-related physical decline and explore the importance of patience in healing, while proposing alternatives to surgery for greater mobility and independence.Will brings an empowering message that it's never too late to enhance your physical health, regardless of past activity levels. Even in one's 70s, 80s, and 90s, significant improvements in muscle mass and bone health are achievable through resistance training and consistent effort. This episode introduces the innovative "nine at 90" concept, a set of movements to maintain full-body mobility into one's 90s, offering listeners both personal goals and a framework for assessing their movement health.Throughout the conversation, we delve into practical strategies for injury prevention and rehabilitation. Will emphasizes exercises like the goblet squat and effective warm-up routines, advocating for rehabilitation over surgery in many cases, and highlighting the body's natural healing capabilities. We tackle common issues such as back pain and kyphosis, underscoring the power of exercise as a primary treatment. Tune in for a comprehensive guide on building strength and mobility after 50, and be inspired by Will's expertise, his YouTube channel, and his bestselling book, "Thriving Beyond 50.   You can sign up for: Will's newsletter at: https://info.ht-physio.co.uk/3tfWill's YouTube channel is:  https://www.youtube.com/@HT-PhysioWill's book Thriving Beyond 50: https://hayhs.com/TBF_pp_pb_az Hydrapatch.com code OTNH10 You can reach out to us at:https://coffeycrewcoaching.comemail: Carla@coffeycrewcoaching.com FB @ Over the Next Hill Fitness GroupIG @coffeycrewcoaching.comand Buy Me a Coffeehttps://www.buymeacoffee.com/Carlauhttps://hydra-patch.com/discount/OTNH10https://rnwy.life code: OTNH15https://jambar.com code: CARLA20

Healthy Mind, Healthy Life
The Power of Self-Perception: Transforming Life Over 50 with Cathlene Miner

Healthy Mind, Healthy Life

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2024 17:17


In this inspiring episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Avik welcomes Cathlene Miner, a multi-faceted expert in transformation. Cathlene is a bestselling author, fitness trainer, and the founder of Hopeful Handbags Global, a nonprofit dedicated to empowering survivors of domestic abuse. Together, they explore the transformative power of self-perception, the importance of mindset in personal and professional growth, and thriving after 50. Cathlene shares her journey from a single mother in her 20s to a leading voice in empowerment and advocacy. This episode is packed with practical advice and heartfelt stories to help listeners embrace change and unlock their potential at any age.   About the Guest: Cathlene Miner is the bestselling author of The 30-Day Self-Perception Makeover, a fitness expert with over three decades of experience, and the founder of Hopeful Handbags Global, a nonprofit supporting domestic abuse survivors. She's also the creator of ZZAD, a blogging platform designed to amplify creators' voices. Cathlene has dedicated her life to empowering others through mindset transformation, advocating for wellness, and fostering self-confidence. Her unique perspective combines personal growth, fitness, and advocacy to inspire change. Reach: https://cathleneminer.com/    Key Takeaways: Self-Perception as a Foundation: Transforming your mindset is crucial for building confidence and achieving sustainable growth in all areas of life. Mindset Over Muscles: Fitness and health start from within. Feeling good about yourself is just as important as physical training. Consistency is Key: Self-perception and mindset work require regular practice, much like maintaining physical fitness. Thriving After 50: It's never too late to reinvent yourself. Life after 50 can be filled with opportunities for growth, learning, and joy. The Ripple Effect: Changing how you perceive yourself positively impacts relationships, career opportunities, and even family dynamics. Facing Real-Life Problems: While challenges are inevitable, a strong mindset helps navigate adversity with resilience and optimism. This episode offers a blend of inspiration, actionable advice, and proof that it's never too late to transform your life. Whether you're in your 20s or 50s, Cathlene's insights will motivate you to embrace self-perception as a tool for lasting change.   Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch, DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik  Subscribe To Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ Join Community: https://nas.io/healthymind Stay Tuned And Follow Us! YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@healthymind-healthylife Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/podhealth.club/  Threads - https://www.threads.net/@podhealth.club Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymind LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/newandnew/ #podmatch #healthymind #healthymindbyavik #wellness

Long Shot Leaders with Michael Stein
A recruiter and coach as she shares her transformative journey through the pandemic that inspired her book Thriving After 40, Jolie Downs.

Long Shot Leaders with Michael Stein

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2024 45:31


Jolie Downs is a dynamic recruiter, coach, and author known for her compelling insights into personal growth and resilience. Her experiences during the pandemic inspired her to write Thriving After 40, a transformative book that explores universal principles for leading a fulfilling life. Originally focused on addressing ageism, Jolie shifted her perspective to uncover common traits of success through interviews with individuals who have faced adversity and emerged stronger. In her work, Jolie emphasizes the importance of setting clear personal goals, cultivating gratitude, and reframing challenges as opportunities for growth. She advocates for the philosophy of "Amor Fati," or loving one's fate, encouraging others to embrace life's realities and make empowering choices. Her book features poignant stories, including that of a woman with incurable cancer who chose to prioritize a meaningful life over despair, illustrating the power of resilience. In addition to her writing, Jolie hosts a podcast where she shares her journey and insights. She is also the founder of Paradigm Staffing, where she combines her expertise in recruitment with her passion for coaching. Jolie is currently developing a two-month group coaching program set to launch in early 2025, focusing on practical applications of personal development principles. As she progresses in her endeavors, Jolie is working on an audiobook version of Thriving After 40, set for release in January 2025, aiming to deliver the material with the impactful style of renowned self-help figures. She openly discusses her experiences with imposter syndrome, emphasizing that such barriers should not deter individuals from pursuing their goals. Jolie Downs remains an accessible and engaging presence on social media, including LinkedIn and Instagram, and her book is available on Amazon and soon on iBooks. Through her work, Jolie aims to inspire others to embrace their unique journeys and foster a mindset of gratitude and positivity.

I Am Refocused Podcast Show
Dr. Amelia Kelley - Surviving Suicidal Ideation

I Am Refocused Podcast Show

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2024 30:02


Dr. Amelia Kelley is a renowned trauma-informed therapist, author, researcher, and certified meditation and yoga instructor. She specializes in art therapy, internal family systems (IFS), EMDR, and brainspotting, utilizing an integrative approach to facilitate healing.As a psychology professor at Yorkville University, Dr. Kelley shares her expertise with students. Her work has earned national recognition, featuring her as a relationship expert on SiriusXM Doctor Radio's The Psychiatry Show and NPR's The Measure of Everyday Life.Committed to advancing research, Dr. Kelley's private practice is affiliated with the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at the Kinsey Institute. She has authored several influential books, including Powered by ADHD: Strategies and Exercises for Women to Harness their Untapped Gifts, Gaslighting Recovery for Women: The Complete Guide to Recognizing Manipulation and Achieving Freedom from Emotional Abuse, What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship, and Surviving Suicidal Ideation: From Therapy to Spirituality and the Lived Experience.Dedicated to making healing accessible, Dr. Kelley contributes to Psychology Today, ADDitude Magazine, and Highly Sensitive Refuge, the world's largest blog for Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs). She co-hosts The Sensitivity Doctor's Podcast, exploring topics relevant to mental wellness.Dr. Kelley welcomes connections and inquiries. Readers and listeners can reach out through her contact page or connect with her on social media to share questions or suggest topics for future discussions.https://ameliakelley.com/Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/i-am-refocused-radio--2671113/support.

The Locher Room
An Authors' Afternoon: Secrets, Scandals, and New Worlds to Explore

The Locher Room

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 8, 2024 62:57


Catch a special Author's Afternoon in The Locher Room!First, find inspiration with Jolie Downs as she guides you through Thriving After 40. Based on her popular podcast, Jolie's book offers a step-by-step guide to building a more authentic and fulfilling life, highlighting stories from over 100 thriving individuals to reveal universal truths for living your best life at any age.Next, take a hilarious journey into the world of celebrity culture with Jeremy Murphy's Too Good to Fact Check. Packed with outrageous and humorous stories from his years as a glossy magazine editor, this book offers a candid look behind the scenes, sharing star-studded moments with the likes of LL Cool J and Harrison Ford.Finally, discover the hidden gems of Connecticut with Sarah Cody's Around Every Corner of Connecticut. With over 25 years of experience as a travel reporter, Sarah showcases her favorite spots—from majestic bald eagles to unique hiking trails, offering insider tips for exploring the state's vibrant and scenic destinations.Download the audio version of this episode today and hear directly from these talented authors about their incredible books!

HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo
Ep 163 - Aging Out Loud! How to Rock Your Renaissance Years with Ande Lyons

HIListically Speaking with Hilary Russo

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 19, 2024 49:22 Transcription Available


How can life after 65 be more fulfilling than ever before? Just ask inspiring entrepreneur and podcast host Ande Lyons, who launched multiple successful ventures in her 60s. Join us as we explore how the Renaissance Years can be more fulfilling by embracing aging, defying ageism, and discovering new passions. We discuss shifting from hustle culture to an intentional energy portfolio—focusing on meaningful pursuits and rest, inspired by movements like the Nap Ministry. We also highlight the value of intergenerational connections, elder planning, and the joy of staying active. This is an opportunity to celebrate aging with purpose, endless possibilities, and a mindset that the best days are ahead of us. ⁣ ⁣ KEY MOMENTS/CHAPTERS⁣ 00:00 Intro⁣ 00:06 Thriving After 65 4:31 Power of Aging ⁣ 18:54 Creating an Intentional Energy Portfolio 23:39 Intergenerational Connections  ⁣ 36:00 Don't Retire. Rewire!⁣ 39:04  Navigating Elder Care⁣ 44:07  Rapid Fire⁣ 45:29 Ande Lyon's wisdom bomb⁣ 47:01 Hilary's Final Thoughts⁣ 48:00 Podcast Resources ⁣ WATCH THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE⁣ Subscribe  https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso ⁣⁣ Book mentioned during this episode: Don't Retire, Rewire! By Jeri Sedlar & Rick Miners  https://amzn.to/4gym8x8 (Amazon)⁣ ⁣ CONNECT WITH ANDE LYONS https://www.dontbecagedbyyourage.com/⁣ https://www.linkedin.com/in/andelyons/⁣ https://www.instagram.com/ande_lyons/ ⁣ ⁣ GET BRAIN CANDY DELIVERED TO YOUR INBOX⁣ https://www.hilaryrusso.com/braincandy⁣⁣ ⁣ JOIN ME AT ONE OF MY FREE EVENTS⁣ ⁣https://www.hilaryrusso.com/events ⁣ CONNECT WITH HILARY⁣ https://www.instagram.com/hilaryrusso⁣ https://www.youtube.com/hilaryrusso⁣ https://www.facebook.com/hilisticallyspeaking⁣⁣ https://www.tiktok.com/@hilisticallyspeaking⁣ ⁣ https://www.hilaryrusso.com/podcast⁣ ⁣ Music by Lipbone Redding https://lipbone.com⁣

#getUnstuck with Heather Newman
Episode 214: Thriving After 50: Top 7 Fitness, Health, and Life Struggles Answered

#getUnstuck with Heather Newman

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2024 28:47


Episode 214 of the #getunstuck podcast: Thriving After 50: Top 7 Fitness, Health, and Life Struggles Answered. We're diving into your most pressing questions about staying fit, healthy, and vibrant in the second half of life. Grab a cup of tea, take a walk, and let's chat about how to overcome these common struggles together.

The Art Of Being H(YOU)man
The Dark Side Of Personal Development

The Art Of Being H(YOU)man

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2024 69:42


Some of us have been on the personal development treadmill for years - constantly taking new courses, reading new books, listening to new podcasts, and going to new seminars. But how many of us actually feel any better?Could it be that there is a dark side to personal development that actually makes feeling better harder?Joining me for the conversation are Jolie Downs and Robin Thomas!Jolie Downs is a life coach and professional speaker. She is also the co-owner of Paradigm, a recruiting firm that specializes in public relations, marketing, and communications professionals and the co-owner of Hoojobs, a job board also specializing in PR, marketing, and communications. She is the host of two podcasts, Thriving After 40 and Career Wanderlust. Her first book was recently released, Thriving After 40.  Robin Thomas, is a happiness coach, spiritual GPS, and cosmic healer. She specializes in helping people fall in love with themselves by teaching them to embrace all the parts of themselves. She shows people how to choose fierce happiness and to shine their light unapologetically!You can find out more about Jolie and Robin here:https://joliedowns.com/https://www.phoenix-rising-healings.com/Wanna attend a Soul Sister Women's Circles?I know you do! So check them out in the links below!Soul Sister Women's Circle - Authentic Deep ConversationsLong-Term Soul Sister Circle

Accidental Experts with Bryce Hamilton
Thriving After an Autism Diagnosis: Parenting the Spectrum of Autism with Keslie Redel LCPC, ATR-BC, AS

Accidental Experts with Bryce Hamilton

Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2024 25:41


Keslie is back for another informative discussion with Bryce about how to parent children on the spectrum. This is such a wide range of children but Keslie has a great perspective and encouraging viewpoint on how to support yourself and your children on this very special journey.  Check out our video about it here! Follow […] The post Thriving After an Autism Diagnosis: Parenting the Spectrum of Autism with Keslie Redel LCPC, ATR-BC, AS appeared first on WebTalkRadio.net.

Daily SPARK Minute with Simon T. Bailey
570 Thriving After a Painful Season

Daily SPARK Minute with Simon T. Bailey

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2024


570 Thriving After a Painful Season

Caribbean Radio Show Crs Radio
Self-Care Healing, Surviving, coping and thriving after a Disaster.

Caribbean Radio Show Crs Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2024 91:00


Welcome to our radio show on self-care and healing after a disaster. Joining me today is my cohost Shalom, a Medic healer. Shalom has a very special name that was chosen for her before she was even born. She is the daughter of a World War II veteran and her mother is a Hiroshima bomb survivor, and she carries their legacy of resilience and hope. Shalom has a rich and diverse background, and she is passionate about sharing her wisdom and experience on how to cope and thrive after a disaster. We invite you to join us today as we explore this important topic. You can call us at 661-467-2407 or join the chat online. We look forward to hearing from you. Maui Medic Healers  Hui's mission is to facilitate care to vulnerable populations and to provide grounded, culturally appropriate physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual support in times of distress and repair. Talking Points: How to Build Resilience and Bounce Back from Adversity develop resilience,  practice gratitude, optimism, and self-compassion. Role of Mindfulness and Meditation in Self-Care and Healing; mindfulness and meditation can help reduce anxiety, depression, and trauma symptoms after a disaster The Power of Social Support and Community in Coping and Thriving After a Disaster. Building: social support can provide emotional, practical, and informational assistance, and how community can foster a sense of belonging, solidarity, and empowerment. iam-ced.org,  https://mauimedichealershui.org/ crsradio.com givebackjamaica.org

TheHealthHub
Gaslighting Recovery With Dr. Amelia Kelley

TheHealthHub

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 4, 2024 45:20


In this episode we speak with Dr. Amelia Kelley about recovering from being a victim of gaslighting. Dr. Amelia Kelley is a trauma-informed therapist, author, podcaster and researcher. Her specialties include; Art therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), EMDR and Brainspotting as well as being a certified meditation and Yoga instructor. Her work focuses on women's issues, empowering survivors of abuse and relationship trauma, Highly Sensitive Persons, motivation, healthy living, and adult ADHD. She is currently a psychology professor at Yorkville University as well as a nationally recognized relationship expert featured on XM Radio's Doctor Channel on “The Psychiatry Show”. Her private practice is part of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at the Kinsey Institute. She is the author of Gaslighting Recovery for Women: The Complete Guide to Recognizing Manipulation and Achieving Freedom from Emotional Abuse, as well as co-author of What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship and a contributing author for Psychology Today as well as the Highly Sensitive Refuge. Her work has been featured in Teen Vogue, Yahoo News, Life Hacker and the Insider. Learning Points: 1. What gaslighting is 2. Relationships where gaslighting can happen 3. How to begin recovering from being gaslit Resources & Links: Dr. Kelley's website: https://www.ameliakelley.com/ Dr. Kelley on Instagram:L https://www.instagram.com/drameliakelley

Mr. Worldwide and His Bride: Living Your Best Life
Top Tips After a Cancer Diagnosis: Rapid-Fire Reminders for a Healthier You

Mr. Worldwide and His Bride: Living Your Best Life

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2024 29:19


Thriving After a Diagnosis: Rapid-Fire Reminders for a Healthier You Darren and I discuss it all!  Remember, healing is a journey, and you have the power to shape your path. _______________________________________________________________________________ JOIN THE 3 Day Heath Reset: https://www.jendelvaux.com/3dayhealthreset Join the RESET & RISE communtity  HERE  Details on the NEW program; You Have Cancer, NOW WHAT? Download the FREE "Diagnosed with cancer... Now what?" HERE.   Download the FREE "Thriving Through Cancer" PDF HERE.  Download the FREE "Reclaiming Your Life After A Diagnosis HERE.  Get MY BOOK HERE.  EMAIL ME: coachjennyd@gmail.com FAVORITE TEA Pique Tea: Favorite Tea:  https://www.piquetea.com/?rfsn=5818415.d1d969a&utm_source=affiliate Queen of the Thrones Castor Oil Pack ->https://shop.queenofthethrones.com/jendelvaux2 

Loving Without Boundaries
Episode 236: Interview with Amelia Kelley

Loving Without Boundaries

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2024 51:29


Episode 236: Interview with Amelia Kelley Amelia Kelley, Ph.D., is a trauma-informed therapist, author, podcaster, and researcher, as well as a psychology professor at Yorkville University. Her work focuses on women's issues, empowering survivors of abuse and relationship trauma, Highly Sensitive Persons, motivation, healthy living, and adult ADHD. Her specialties include art therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and EMDR, and she is a certified meditation and yoga instructor. Kelley is a relationship expert featured on "The Psychiatry Show" on XM Radio's Doctor Channel. Her private practice is part of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at the Kinsey Institute. She is a co-author of What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship and the author of Gaslighting Recovery for Women: The Complete Guide to Recognizing Manipulation and Achieving Freedom from Emotional Abuse. Her work has been featured in Psychology Today, Teen Vogue, Yahoo News, Life Hacker, Insider and Highly Sensitive Refuge.  Follow her work and adventures at her websitehttps://www.ameliakelley.com/ and on instagram https://www.instagram.com/drameliakelley/ If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

Living The Next Chapter: Authors Share Their Journey
E280 - Kyle Jetsel - The Loss of A Spouse, Raising Kids With Autism and Measuring the COST

Living The Next Chapter: Authors Share Their Journey

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2023 63:29


EPISODE 280 - Kyle Jetsel - The Loss of A Spouse, Raising Kids With Autism and Measuring the COSTIn the heart of adversity, our guest today, Kyle Jetsel, discovered that life's most formidable challenges could be transformed into profound opportunities for growth. Growing up in a tough neighborhood Kyle found himself in a world where the line between safety and chaos was razor-thin.In this episode, Kyle takes us on a deeply personal journey, sharing how he navigated the turbulent seas of his youth. Kyle faced yet another colossal test of faith when his beloved wife of 30 years, a source of love and strength, suddenly passed away. The impact of this loss was felt not only in his own life but also within the lives of their six children, one of whom has a severely aggressive form of autism.It was in these darkest hours that Kyle leaned into God's strength like never before. He turned to a simple yet powerful strategy that helped him find his way back to hope and healing, all while knowing that God's grace was the cornerstone of his journey.Get ready to be deeply moved by Kyle's remarkable journey of faith and resilience, proving that we are never alone when we lean on God's strength and embrace His mysterious, undeserved grace. This episode is a testament to the human spirit's ability to rise above adversity. To download your free copy of his book "Facing My Biggest Fear. 180 Days of Surviving and Thriving After the Death of My Beloved Shelly" and the worksheet he shares, check the comments for the link.You may reach Kyle at https://www.youtube.com/@drivenautismdad187___https://livingthenextchapter.com/ National Podcast Post Month is celebrating 16 years! Join the 30 days of podcasting fun starting on November 1st! #NaPodPoMoSupport the showAre you looking to hire a podcast editor to do the behind the scenes work for you? Do you want to be a better Podcast Guest?Searching for How To Start a Podcast?Looking for Podcast Tips?Visit HowToPodcast.ca for practical advice, featured guest co-hosts from around the world and a community of podcasters dedicated to your success - join Dave and the entire podcast family at https://howtopodcast.ca/

Divorce Doesn't Suck
Dr. Amelia Kelley, Nationally recognized relationship expert

Divorce Doesn't Suck

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2023 36:38


Dr. Amelia Kelley is an integrative, trauma-informed therapist focusing on motivation, women's issues, empowering survivors of abuse and relationship trauma, Highly Sensitive Persons, healthy living, and adult ADHD. She's a nationally recognized relationship expert featured on SiriusXM's Doctor Radio program “The Psychiatry Show,” exploring the impact of gaslighting on our society. She is a co-author of What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship and a regular contributing writer for the world's largest blog for HSPs, The Highly Sensitive Refuge. Her work has been featured in Psychology Today, Teen Vogue, Scary Mommy, Yahoo! News, Well+Good, and Insider. In her latest book, Gaslighting Recovery for Women: The Complete Guide to Recognizing Manipulations and Achieving Freedom from Emotional Abuse, Dr. Kelley offers evidence-based therapy and tools to help women detect and protect themselves from manipulation. For practical tips and insights about how to recognize and respond to gaslighting, and lots of other valuable advice and information to help support your mental health, connect with Dr. Kelley: IG: @drameliakelley LI: Amelia KelleyThis show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5507039/advertisement

The Liberated Healer
253. Dr. Amelia Kelley talks New Book Gaslighting Recovery for Women

The Liberated Healer

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 26, 2023 42:20


In this book, Dr. Kelley delves into the intricate dynamics of gaslighting that can occur and offers evidence-based therapy and tools to help women from all backgrounds detect and protect themselves from manipulation that can occur in all key areas of life—family, intimate relationships, work, academia, and healthcare. The book combines a three-part trauma recovery program, real-life case studies, research, and accessible therapy exercises and techniques designed to help women understand gaslighting, heal from trauma, and truly move forward. Dr. Amelia Kelley is a trauma-informed therapist, author, podcaster and researcher. Her specialties include; Art therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), EMDR and Brainspotting as well as being a certified meditation and Yoga instructor. Her work focuses on women's issues, empowering survivors of abuse and relationship trauma, Highly Sensitive Persons, motivation, healthy living, and adult ADHD. She is currently a psychology professor at Yorkville University as well as a nationally recognized relationship expert featured on XM Radio's Doctor Channel on "The Psychiatry Show". Her private practice is part of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at the Kinsey Institute. She is the author of Gaslighting Recovery for Women: The Complete Guide to Recognizing Manipulation and Achieving Freedom from Emotional Abuse, as well as co-author of What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship and a contributing author for Psychology Today as well as the Highly Sensitive Refuge. Her work has been featured in Teen Vogue, Yahoo News, Life Hacker and the Insider. #podcastlife #women #gaslighting #therapy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast
Episode 233: Gaslighting Recovery for Women with Dr. Amelia Kelley

The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2023 65:52


Dr. Amelia Kelley is back! You may remember her from the popular episode about being a highly sensitive person (HSP), strategies for self-care, and how being an HSP can affect relationships. This time, we are talking about healing from gaslighting. In fact, Dr. Kelley has a new book/workbook called, “Gaslighting Recovery for Women.”  She shares some of the book's insights in this episode.   We talk about how to recover from gaslighting, including the importance of understanding it, and then, later, some steps toward healing. Dr. Kelley's passion is to equip women who have experienced gaslighting to understand what happened to them, how to protect themselves from potential gaslighting in the future, and how to understand the nuances between medical, relational, societal, and family gaslighting. Featured topics include: Gaslighting: what it is, what it isn't, and where/how it shows up (8:13) The act of lying is not gaslighting (11:27)  Tactics of gaslighting used by abusers (14:09) The seven stages of gaslighting (21:56) How gaslighting affects women, specifically (36:11) How do you get out of a relationship where gaslighting is occurring? (40:13) Beginning to heal: It is a time to be inquisitive, not a time to blame or shame yourself and enhance your relationship with Self (56:13) Learn more about Dr. Amelia Kelly: Dr. Amelia Kelley is a trauma-informed therapist who has conducted research on the effects of exercise on adult ADHD symptoms as well as the effects of resiliency on PTSD. She is a trained Hypno-therapist, Art therapist, HSP Therapist, EMDR-informed therapist, meditation teacher, as well as a Certified Yoga instructor integrating therapeutic yoga and psychotherapy. She is a trainer, podcaster and writer in the “science-help” field focusing on; women's issues, empowering survivors of abuse and relationship trauma, Highly Sensitive Persons, motivation, healthy living, and adult ADHD.  Dr. Kelley is an adjunct counseling professor at Yorkville University as well as a nationally recognized relationship expert featured on XM Radio's Doctor Channel on The Psychiatry Show. She is a coach and trainer for SAS's Work/Life Program in Cary, NC and a resident trainer for the NC Art Therapy Institute. Her private practice is currently part of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at the Kinsey Institute. She is a co-author of What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship and a contributing author for the Highly Sensitive Refuge. You can find out more about her work at her website www.ameliakelley.com or by following her on Instagram @drameliakelley. Resources & Links: Information and links may also be found at: https://kateanthony.com/podcast/episode-233-gaslighting-recovery-for-women-with-dr-amelia-kelley Pre-order Kate's book “The D Word” Should I Stay or Should I GoGrit and GracePrivate Coaching with KateDr. Kelley's websiteGaslighting Recovery for WomenDr Kelley's Insight TimerDr. Kelley on Instagram What My Bones Know, Stephanie FooCoDA TODAY'S EPISODE IS SPONSORED BY: SOBERLINK Proof. Protection. Peace of Mind. The Soberlink remote alcohol monitoring system comprises a portable breathalyzer with wireless technology for real-time results. With proven use as the leading choice in child custody cases since 2011, we are the only system that combines: Court admissibility in all 50 states Facial recognition Tamper detection Easy-to-read Advanced Reporting™ Trust the Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to support the best interests of the child in your Family Law cases. DISCLAIMER:  THE COMMENTARY AND OPINIONS AVAILABLE ON THIS PODCAST ARE FOR INFORMATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY AND NOT FOR THE PURPOSE OF PROVIDING LEGAL OR PSYCHOLOGICAL ADVICE.  YOU SHOULD CONTACT AN ATTORNEY, COACH, OR THERAPIST IN YOUR STATE TO OBTAIN ADVICE WITH RESPECT TO ANY PARTICULAR ISSUE OR PROBLEM.

Loving Without Boundaries
Episode 226: Dr. Amelia Kelley Interview

Loving Without Boundaries

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2023 53:16


EPISODE 226: Interview with Amelia Kelley.  Dr. Amelia Kelley is a trauma-informed therapist, Art therapist, HSP Therapist, EMDR-informed therapist and meditation and Yoga teacher. She is a presenter and writer in the science-help field and public speaker focusing on healthy relationships, Highly Sensitive Persons, trauma, motivation, healthy living, and adult ADHD. She is a trainer for the SAS Work/Life Program in Cary, NC and a resident trainer for the NC Art Therapy Institute. Her practice is part of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at the Kinsey Institute. Her newest book, What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship, was just January 10th of this year. Follow her work and adventures at her websitehttps://www.ameliakelley.com/ and on instagram https://www.instagram.com/drameliakelley/ If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

Fresh Blood, 'Killing it After 40'
087 - Fresh Blood Podcast is Rebranding to Thriving After 40

Fresh Blood, 'Killing it After 40'

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2023 2:58


The Fresh Blood Podcast is rebranding to Thriving After 40 I've learned some very important lessons in branding. Most important is to be Clear rather than Clever. My Fresh Blood title was inspired because as a recruiter, I would be asked to find new talent for a role, they needed “Fresh Blood”, Fresh Blood usually equaled younger blood. I wanted to take back the meaning because anyone can have that fresh blood at any age or stage. It's a frame of mind, not a number.  This was my intention with the name Fresh Blood, but what I found is a lot of people thinking it was a crime podcast or a vampire podcast – and this is not the message I'm looking to convey.  So - Clear rather than clever. And isn't that a good lesson for most aspects in life, particularly in our communications with each other.  Is there anywhere in your life where perhaps you haven't been as clear as you could?  I'm learning that direct, clear communication is the best way to go. I'll now be paying closer attention to the messages I convey and be sure my point is coming across.  It's also important for your brand to be streamlined, My book, based on the universal truths found through all of these podcast stories will be coming out in November of this year. The book is called Thriving After 40 and gives an easy step by step blueprint for living your most authentic, successful and fulfilled life. Now the podcast and book will be under the same name – Thriving After 40. I hope you check out the book once it is available. Thank you to everyone who has stuck with me through these first years as the Fresh Blood Podcast – I appreciate you giving me a try even if you happened to be confused about the name. I hope you'll continue to stick with me as Thriving After 40. Until Next time 

It Didn't Break Me
The Joy of Missing Out

It Didn't Break Me

Play Episode Listen Later May 17, 2023 24:22


Do you know when it is time to move on even when something is going well? That is something that I was contemplating in making the decision to retire this podcast. While my download numbers are increasing and with people contacting me to let me know my guests' message resonated with them, in my Spirit, I knew it was time for me to say goodbye to "It Didn't Break Me." I am so grateful I got an opportunity to share all of my guests' stories. I am so grateful to have inspired my listeners. From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU for allowing me to create and share this safe place with you. I invite you to join me as I discuss:IntuitionBoundariesRetiringSpeaking EngagementsCorporate WellnessSex and Love Addiction with Brianne DavisFrom Surviving to Thriving After a Tragic Loss with Falon BonnerRecognizing Someone's Humanity Saved My Life with Lion GoodmanDoing Federal Prison Time Didn't Break Me with Aaron "Ace" MooreAuthenticallyBeYou.com InstagramInterested in inviting Bianca to speak so she can inspire your audience? Click here and fill out a short form. Honourable MentionsShare how YOU overcame a situationYou're Enough: Letting go the Pressure to be Perfect by Bianca Hughes, LPCHow to make a difficult decisionHow to Listen to Your IntuitionSupport an EmployeeStudent mental health is in crisis.—————This podcast is hosted by Bianca Kesha Hughes. Known for authenticity and heart-work services, Bianca is the ultimate trailblazer in the mental health and wellness field as a therapist, coach, speaker, and podcast host, inspiring her audience to let go of the illusion of perfectionism. Ready to learn more? Contact her here!—————If you would love to connect with Bianca, join her in these following...

Loving Without Boundaries
Episode 212: Amelia Kelley Interview

Loving Without Boundaries

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 28, 2023 53:53


EPISODE 212: Interview with Amelia Kelley. Dr. Amelia Kelley is a trauma-informed therapist, Art therapist, HSP Therapist, EMDR-informed therapist and meditation and Yoga teacher. She is a presenter and writer in the science-help field and public speaker focusing on healthy relationships, Highly Sensitive Persons, trauma, motivation, healthy living, and adult ADHD. She is a trainer for the SAS Work/Life Program in Cary, NC and a resident trainer for the NC Art Therapy Institute. Her practice is part of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at the Kinsey Institute. Her book, "What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship", was published in January 2022. Follow her on social media: https://www.instagram.com/drameliakelley/  https://www.ameliakelley.com/  https://twitter.com/DrAmeliaKelley  https://insighttimer.com/kelleycounseling  https://www.facebook.com/KelleyCounselingNC  If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast
Healing from Gaslighting with Dr. Amelia Kelley

The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2023 65:02


The Merriam-Webster Word of the Year for 2022 was Gaslighting. Last year, the word experienced a 1,740% increase in lookups, yet there is still much to learn—and many myths to bust.  In this episode, fan-favorite Dr. Amelia Kelley returns to discuss healing from gaslighting. Together we shed light on the insidious nature of gaslighting and the importance of healing and self-care. Dr. Kelley is a trauma-informed therapist who has conducted research on the effects of exercise on adult ADHD symptoms as well as the effects of resiliency on PTSD.  She is a trainer, podcaster, and writer in the “science-help” field, focusing on; women's issues, empowering survivors of abuse and relationship trauma, Highly Sensitive Persons, motivation, healthy living, and adult ADHD.  We explore how gaslighting is used to maintain power and control over someone and how it can lead to self-doubt and a lack of confidence. Dr. Kelley shares the steps to overcome and heal from gaslighting and stresses the importance of self-care to self-regulate and fortify yourself against this deceptive form of abuse. Featured topics include: The misconception of gaslighting: what it is and what it isn't (2:25) The effects of gaslighting on a victim's mental health (4:20) Dr. Kelley addresses the question, “Is lying gaslighting?” (10:14) You cannot heal from trauma that you are still experiencing (20:08) The steps to overcome and heal from gaslighting include becoming aware, getting outside feedback, and boundary setting (21:39) What self-care looks like during the healing process (43:17) Self-regulation for chronic stress when being emotionally abused (59:40) Learn more about Dr. Amelia Kelley: Dr. Amelia Kelley is a trauma-informed therapist who has conducted research on the effects of exercise on adult ADHD symptoms as well as the effects of resiliency on PTSD. She is a trained Hypno-therapist, Art therapist, HSP Therapist, EMDR-informed therapist, meditation teacher, as well as a Certified Yoga instructor integrating therapeutic yoga and psychotherapy. She is a trainer, podcaster and writer in the “science-help” field focusing on; women's issues, empowering survivors of abuse and relationship trauma, Highly Sensitive Persons, motivation, healthy living, and adult ADHD.  Dr. Kelley is an adjunct counseling professor at Yorkville University as well as a nationally recognized relationship expert featured on XM Radio's Doctor Channel on The Psychiatry Show. She is a coach and trainer for SAS's Work/Life Program in Cary, NC and a resident trainer for the NC Art Therapy Institute. Her private practice is currently part of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at the Kinsey Institute. She is a co-author of What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship and a contributing author for the Highly Sensitive Refuge. You can find out more about her work at her website www.ameliakelley.com or by following her on Instagram @drameliakelley. Resources & Links: Information and resources may also be found at: https://kateanthony.com/podcast/healing-from-gaslighting-with-dr-amelia-kelley/ Register to join Kate on the 2nd Tuesday of Every Month for a Live Q&A SessionRetreat with Kate - Early Bird Pricing Ends 2/28! Grit & Grace Coaching ProgramDr. Kelley's websiteDr. Kelley on Instagram NYTimes Article about Women and Menopause  Heart Disease in Women TODAY'S EPISODE IS SPONSORED BY: THE REVISED SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO? PROGRAM   An online coaching program designed to help you make the right decision about your marriage...once and for all.  In this groundbreaking online coaching program, you'll unlock the support, education and deep transformational work you need to finally answer to your most burning question: should I stay or should I go? JOIN THE SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO FACEBOOK GROUP

One Last Network
The Art of Living in Love

One Last Network

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 31, 2022 55:07


After the death of her two sons, Cathy Cheshire walked away from a 30-year career as an executive in health care. She heard a calling to help other learn to heal from their grief. First, she studied what all the expert had to say about grief, then she created her own Master Grief Coach certification program. She learned from traditional and nontraditional professionals with various expertise in grief, including emotions, mindfulness, psychology and resilience. When Angela started the One Last Network earlier this year, she searched online for such a course and found Cathy, enrolling after comparing it to a few other courses. Cathy's course is based in simplifying the information and expert research around death and loss and grief. She chunks it into understandable, memorable bits because, when she found herself in despair, she felt overwhelmed by the information she found. She created the Master Grief Coach program after three years of researching the work of prominent psychologists, psychiatrists, neuroscientists and other specialists. Cathy has also authored a book, "Thriving After the Death of a Child," a powerful guide on how parents can enrich their lives with lessons about love. She recounts her spiral into a dark, relentless depression and then learned to live again in a powerful way. In today's episode, Cathy and Angela dig into the idea that we live in a grief illiterate society and how we can all take steps to change that … to normalize grief as a part of existence. Because death and loss and grief are an inevitable part of living and loving. What to listen for: Why grieving the loss of your pet is normal The power of memories and photos The importance of sharing your story How self-care moves you forward to healing The difference between guilt and regret Find Cathy CathyCheshire.com Her book Thriving After the Death of a Child --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/onelastnetwork/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/onelastnetwork/support

DBSAlliance
Supporting Survivors of Suicide Loss - Young Adult Council

DBSAlliance

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2022 41:16


https://www.cdc.gov/suicide/facts/index.html (Nearly 46,000 Americans died by suicide in 2020). That's one death every 11 minutes. Coping with the loss of a loved one is challenging. It can also be difficult for people around them to know how to best support them. https://www.dbsalliance.org/about/young-adult-council/ (DBSA Young Adult Council) members Olivia Eiler and Jamie Vaughn spoke with two co-facilitators from the https://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.starcenter.pitt.edu/clinical-services/survivors-suicide&sa=D&source=docs&ust=1664471909830827&usg=AOvVaw2nL4MUmGTgwFoB34Piz0mi (Survivors of Suicide) (SOS) bereavement support group at UMPC Western Psychiatric Hospital'shttps://www.google.com/url?q=https://www.starcenter.pitt.edu/&sa=D&source=docs&ust=1664471909831262&usg=AOvVaw2Na4Yq20mlWlKCQJNxxtb- ( STAR-Center in Pittsburgh.) They share their personal experiences with suicide loss, offer practical tips for supporting survivors, and discuss resources for survivors. For Immediate Help: National Suicide and Crisis Lifeline Call or text 988 Online Resources: American Association of Suicidology https://suicidology.org/ American Foundation for Suicide Prevention https://afsp.org/ Survivors of Suicide bereavement support group https://www.starcenter.pitt.edu/clinical-services/survivors-suicide Jamey Covaleski 412-864-3346 covaleskijj@upmc.edu The Dougy Center for Grieving Children & Families https://www.dougy.org/ The Child Mind Institute https://childmind.org/topics/suicide-self-harm/ Books for Adults: After Suicide Loss: Coping with Your Grief by Bob Baugher and Jack Jordan No Time to Say Goodbye: Surviving the Suicide of a Loved One by Carla Fine When Bad Things Happen to Good People by Harold S. Kushner Why People Die by Suicide by Thomas Joiner History of a Suicide: My Sister's Unfinished Life by Jill Bialosky I'm Sorry For Your Loss: Hope and Guidance in Managing Your Grief by Lillian L. Meyers, Ph.D. My Son…My Son: A Guide to Healing After Death, Loss, or Suicide by Iris Bolton Voices of Healing and Hope: Conversations on Grief after Suicide by Iris Bolton Cracked, Not Broken: Surviving and Thriving After a Suicide Attempt by Kevin Hines It's OK That You're Not OK: Meeting grief and loss in a culture that doesn't understand by Megan Devine Grief One Day at a Time: 365 Meditations to Help You Heal After Loss by Alan Wolfelt, Ph.D. A Time to Grieve: Meditations for Healing After the Death of a Loved One by Carol Staudacher Shattered: Surviving the Loss of a Child by Gary Roe Signs by Laura Lynne Jackson Books for Children: Suicide Loss: What Teens Need to Know by Terri Erbacher, Ph.D. & Tony Salvatore, MA But I Didn't Get to Say Goodbye: For Parents and Professionals Helping Child Suicide Survivors by Barbara Rubel My Uncle Keith Died by Carol Ann Loehr, Julianne Costentino & James Mojonnier

Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide
ERP 338: How Gender Equality Is Good For Us All — An Interview With Dr. Kate Mangino

Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2022 50:05


The majority of women due far more housework than men (in heterosexual relationships). According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, women spend 47 minutes more on housework on average than men each day. This translates to roughly 5 ½ more hours each week, which doesn't include childcare, grocery shopping or errands (which women do more of as well). This gender gap has an effect on everyone.  In this episode, Dr. Kate Mangino discusses what she learned from interviewing 40 men in equal relationships to show how gender norms can restrict one or both partners in a relationship compared to what it looks like in equal relationships. Kate Mangino, PhD is a gender expert who works with international organizations to promote positive social change. She has written and delivered curricula in over 20 countries about issues such as: gender equality, women's empowerment, healthy masculinity, HIV prevention, and early and forced childhood marriage. She brings her lens of social change to her debut book, Equal Partners, which addresses gender roles in the American household. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 5:51 Promoting social change as an expert and a parent. 9:14 Taking the gender equality conversation into the community. 14:02: How gender norms create inequity and limit the potential of one or both partners. 23:29 An illustration of how partners' tasks are typically divided. 37:42 What exactly is the EP40, and what did Dr. Mangino learn from them? Mentioned Equal Partners: Improving Gender Equality at Home (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Down Girl: The Logic of Misogyny (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Entitled: How Male Privilege Hurts Women (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Connect with Dr. Kate Mangino Websites: katemangino.com Twitter: twitter.com/manginokate Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship  Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins  Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins  Twitter: @DrJessHiggins  Website: drjessicahiggins.com   Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.  Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.  Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.  Thank you!   *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 5:00 The increased domestic violence during the pandemic. 7:02 Dr. Kelley's “aha!” moment that got her interested in helping people who have experienced trauma. 9:49 Why do people react differently to trauma? 14:38 Signs of a potentially abusive person. 28:50 Significant reasons why people are unable to confront or exit this situation. 38:52 Why highly sensitive people struggle more with decision making. 42:41 How to discern whether or not you should end the relationship and where someone in an abusive relationship can find support. Mentioned What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Internal Family Systems Model (*Wikipedia) Connect with Amelia Kelley Websites: ameliakelley.com — insighttimer.com/kelleycounseling Facebook: facebook.com/DrAmeliaKelley/ Twitter: twitter.com/DrAmeliaKelley Instagram: instagram.com/drameliakelley/ Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship  Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins  Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins  Twitter: @DrJessHiggins  Website: drjessicahiggins.com   Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.  Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.  Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.  Thank you!   *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.

The Liberated Healer
168. Dr. Amelia Kelley Trauma-Informed Psychotherapist Empowers Survivors to Thrive After Abusive Relationships

The Liberated Healer

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 31, 2022 42:02


Dr. Amelia Kelley is a trauma-informed therapist who has conducted research on the effects of exercise on ADHD symptoms as well as the effects of resiliency on PTSD. She is a trained Hypno-therapist, Art therapist, HSP Therapist, EMDR-informed therapist and meditation and Yoga teacher. She is a presenter and writer in the “science-help” field focusing on relationships, Highly Sensitive Persons, trauma, motivation, healthy living, and adult ADHD. She is a guest podcast presenter focusing on women's issues and coping with the trauma of unhealthy relationships, as well as a coach and trainer for SAS's Work/Life Program in Cary, NC and a resident trainer for the NC Art Therapy Institute. Her practice is also currently part of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at the Kinsey Institute. For more information on Dr. Amelia Kelley, please visit: www.Ameliakelley.comWhether you are a survivor of domestic violence, or in a relationship wrought with intimidation, gaslighting or control of any kind, it's time to regain the part of yourself that you may have lost and find your support network to regain living your true authentic life. In What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship written by co-author Dr. Amelia Kelley (and survivor Kendall Ann Combs), the authors use the journey of Ms. Combs' tragic relationship experience along with Dr. Kelley's trauma-informed, psychotherapist techniques and real strategies to support women and men who have experienced toxic, unhealthy, abusive relationships. Dr. Kelley's whole health approach to healing and self-care is critical for those suffering from violence and other forms of relationship abuse. She shares eye-opening anecdotes, cutting-edge research, facts, and intimate wisdom in this much needed, gripping guide. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Not Over, Just Different
137: The Girlfriend's Guide To Divorce Program with Carmen Silvestro

Not Over, Just Different

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2022 29:51


Life coach, creator of the Girlfriend's Guide to Divorce Program, and author of Piecing Your Heart Back Together: The Roadmap to Healing and Thriving After a Breakup or Divorce, Carmen Silvestro is sharing her divorce experience and, most importantly, sharing exactly how she was able to pull herself out of what she thought would be a never-ending nightmare. Encouraging her clients to never shy away from the grief a breakup can bring, Carmen educates us on what we must know and do to thrive!

TRUST & THRIVE with Tara Mont
176: Recognizing Emotional Abuse & Red Flags - with Dr. Amelia Kelley, Trauma-Informed Therapist

TRUST & THRIVE with Tara Mont

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2022 44:21


Dr. Amelia Kelley PhD, MS, LCMHC, ATR, RYT, is a trauma-informed therapist with a Doctorate of Philosophy in Psychology from Capella University, along with a Masters in Art Therapy and Counseling from Nazareth College of Rochester. She is a trained Hypno-therapist, Art therapist, HSP therapist, EMDR-informed therapist and meditation and yoga teacher.She is a presenter and writer in the “science-help” field focusing on relationships, Highly Sensitive Persons, trauma, motivation, healthy living, and adult ADHD. She is a guest podcast presenter focusing on women's issues and coping with the trauma of unhealthy relationships, as well as a coach and trainer for SAS's Work/Life Program in Cary, NC and a resident trainer for the NC Art Therapy Institute. Her practice is also currently part of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at the Kinsey Institute.In this episode, we deep dive into the topics of emotional abuse, red flags, accountability, boundaries, types of apologies, and more.FOLLOW DR. KELLEY:INSTAGRAM: @drameliakelleyWEBSITE: www.ameliakelley.com/about/BOOK: What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive RelationshipSTAY CONNECTED:INSTA: @trustandthriveTIKOK:@trustandthriveTWITTER: @trustandthriveFACEBOOK: bit.ly/FBtaramontWEBSITE: www.tara-mont.com EMAIL: tara@tara-mont.com  

Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide
ERP 332: Healing From Abuse In Relationship — An Interview With Dr. Amelia Kelley

Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2022 48:33


Making the choice to leave an abusive relationship can be one of the most difficult things a person has to do. Without the right resources and support, it would be hard to move on even after you have cut your ties with your abuser. Being in an abusive relationship causes you to constantly pay more attention to your surroundings than is necessary. So, in this episode, Dr. Amelia Kelley discusses some useful techniques for managing feelings of anxiety, depression, and hypervigilance, as well as how to retrain your body to feel secure in any situation. Dr. Amelia Kelley is a trauma-informed therapist who has conducted research on the effects of exercise on ADHD symptoms as well as the effects of resiliency on PTSD. She is a trained hypnotherapist, art therapist, HSP Therapist, EMDR-informed therapist, and meditation and yoga teacher. She is a presenter and writer in the “science-help” field, focusing on relationships, highly sensitive people, trauma, motivation, healthy living, and adult ADHD. She is a guest podcast presenter focusing on women's issues and coping with the trauma of unhealthy relationships, as well as a coach and trainer for SAS's Work/Life Program in Cary, NC, and a resident trainer for the NC Art Therapy Institute. Her practice is also currently part of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at the Kinsey Institute. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 7:18 How to rediscover yourself and rebuild your self-confidence after an abusive relationship. 20:32 Managing feelings of anxiety, stress, and hypervigilance. 40:43 Useful strategies for beginning self-healing. 43:04 A summary of her book, What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship and the narrative that inspired it. Mentioned What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship (*Instagram) High Heels and Heartache Podcast (*Apple podcast) ERP 321: How to Tell the Difference Between an Abusive Relationship & a Toxic Dynamic — An Interview with Dr. Amelia Kelley Relationship Map To Happy, Lasting Love Connect with Amelia Kelley Websites: ameliakelley.com — insighttimer.com/kelleycounseling Facebook: facebook.com/DrAmeliaKelley/ Twitter: twitter.com/DrAmeliaKelley Instagram: instagram.com/drameliakelley/ Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship  Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins  Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins  Twitter: @DrJessHiggins  Website: drjessicahiggins.com   Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.  Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.  Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.  Thank you!   *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.

High Heels and Heartache Podcast
What Do You Wish You Knew About Abusive Relationships?

High Heels and Heartache Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2022 52:05


On this episode, coauthor of Kendall Ann's book "What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After An Abusive Relationship", Dr. Amelia Kelley, stops by to answer reader and listener questions with Kendall Ann.  They discuss how the book came to fruition, suggest other books survivors can read to help them thrive, chat about the difference between an abusive partner and a "jerk" and much more. Dr. Amelia Kelley is a trauma-informed therapist who has conducted research on the effects of exercise on ADHD symptoms as well as a the effects of resiliency on PTSD. She is a trained Hypno-therapist, Art therapist, HSP Therapist, EMDR-informed therapist, meditation teacher, as well as a Certified Yoga instructor integrating therapeutic yoga and psychotherapy. She is a presenter and writer in the “science-help” field focusing on Highly Sensitive Persons, trauma, motivation, healthy living, and adult ADHD.  She is a guest podcast presenter focusing on women's issues and coping with the trauma of unhealthy relationships, as well as a coach and trainer for SAS's Work/Life Program in Cary, NC and a resident trainer for the NC Art Therapy Institute. Her practice is also currently part of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at the Kinsey Institute. For more information about Dr. Kelley visit her site and follow her social media HERE. Click HERE to purchase, rate, or review What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship.

Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide
ERP 321: How To Tell The Difference Between An Abusive Relationship & A Toxic Dynamic — An Interview With Dr. Amelia Kelley

Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide

Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2022 51:44


Conflicts are opportunities to learn more about your partner, and depending on how you handle them, they can either bring you closer together or lead to a toxic dynamic, or worse, an abusive relationship. If it's the latter, how do you determine whether to stay or leave the relationship? While some people recognize that they should leave an unhealthy relationship early on, others choose to stay. Dr. Amelia Kelley shed some light on why these people aren't making the same decision. She also discusses warning signs of abuse or potential abuse, as well as how to empower someone in an abusive relationship to stop this dynamic, find support, and heal from trauma. Dr. Amelia Kelley is a trauma-informed therapist who has conducted research on the effects of exercise on ADHD symptoms as well as the effects of resiliency on PTSD. She is a trained Hypnotherapist, Art therapist, HSP Therapist, EMDR-informed therapist, and meditation and yoga teacher. She is a presenter and writer in the “science-help” field focusing on relationships, Highly Sensitive Persons, trauma, motivation, healthy living, and adult ADHD. She is a guest podcast presenter focusing on women's issues and coping with the trauma of unhealthy relationships, as well as a coach and trainer for SAS's Work/Life Program in Cary, NC, and a resident trainer for the NC Art Therapy Institute. Her practice is also currently part of the Traumatic Stress Research Consortium at the Kinsey Institute. Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode 5:00 The increased domestic violence during the pandemic. 7:02 Dr. Kelley's “aha!” moment that got her interested in helping people who have experienced trauma. 9:49 Why do people react differently to trauma? 14:38 Signs of a potentially abusive person. 28:50 Significant reasons why people are unable to confront or exit this situation. 38:52 Why highly sensitive people struggle more with decision making. 42:41 How to discern whether or not you should end the relationship and where someone in an abusive relationship can find support. Mentioned What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship (*Amazon Affiliate link) (book) Internal Family Systems Model (*Wikipedia) Connect with Amelia Kelley Websites: ameliakelley.com — insighttimer.com/kelleycounseling Facebook: facebook.com/DrAmeliaKelley/ Twitter: twitter.com/DrAmeliaKelley Instagram: instagram.com/drameliakelley/ Connect with Dr. Jessica Higgins Facebook: facebook.com/EmpoweredRelationship  Instagram: instagram.com/drjessicahiggins  Podcast: drjessicahiggins.com/podcasts/ Pinterest: pinterest.com/EmpowerRelation  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/drjessicahiggins  Twitter: @DrJessHiggins  Website: drjessicahiggins.com   Email: jessica@drjessicahiggins.com If you have a topic you would like me to discuss, please contact me by clicking on the “Ask Dr. Jessica Higgins” button here.  Thank you so much for your interest in improving your relationship.  Also, I would so appreciate your honest rating and review. Please leave a review by clicking here.  Thank you!   *With Amazon Affiliate Links, I may earn a few cents from Amazon, if you purchase the book from this link.

Strong Enough
Dr. Amelia Kelley: You: Empowered

Strong Enough

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2022 52:39


Episode forty-five of Strong Enough Podcast brings Dr. Amelia Kelley, founder of Kelley Counseling and Wellness in North Carolina. She is a trauma-informed psychotherapist empowering survivors to set boundaries, understand red flags, and thrive after an abusive relationship. Dr. Kelley is also co-author of What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship.During this episode, Dr. Kelley shares simple strategies anyone can use to begin the process of self-reflection in a way that isn't overwhelming (and can even be fun). She also discusses the mind-body connection and shares reasons why emotional trauma can manifest itself in physical ways. Dr. Kelley also talks about ways a survivor can heal, learn to trust again, and move towards healthier relationships after an unhealthy or traumatic experience. Whether dealing with romantic relationships or friendships, Dr. Kelley gives tips that will help every one of us have more productive relationships with ourselves and others moving forward. #love #relationships #survivorstrongenoughpod.comInstagram.com/strongenoughpodFacebook.com/strongenoughpodstrongenoughpod@gmail.com Guest Information:Dr. Amelia Kelleyameliakelley.com Host Wardrobe:Revolt Tattoos: revolttattoos.comMindy Mae's Market: mindymaesmarket.com

Turn Me On
227 - Toxic Relationships and Highly Sensitive Persons

Turn Me On

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 23, 2022 85:27


Dr. Amelia Kelley, PhD, MS, LCMHC, ATR, RYT, is a trauma-informed therapist with a Doctorate of Philosophy in Psychology, along with a Masters in Art Therapy. She is a trained Hypnotherapist, Art therapist, HSP therapist, EMDR-informed therapist, and meditation and yoga teacher. Her recent book, "What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship", co-written by Kendall Ann Combs, is a fascinating conversation between survivor and therapist about toxic relationships. The hosts chat with Dr. Kelley about red flags, trauma, love bombing, and more. Learn more about Dr. Kelley's work and clinic at http://www.kelley-counseling.com/Jeremie and Bryde take the HSP test together and assign some feminist horror movie homework to the listeners. Check out "Fresh"!Thank you endlessly to all the Patrons of the podcast at patreon.com/turnmeonpodcast. $5+ PATRONS: you can watch the aftercare segment of this epsiode! See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Separate Bathrooms - and Other Handy Marriage Tips
Narcissism, Love Bombing, Gaslighting... What Does It All Mean?

Separate Bathrooms - and Other Handy Marriage Tips

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2022 38:28


CW: This episode contains discussion of domestic abuse. If you, or someone you know, is in immediate danger, call 000. Narcissism, love bombing, and gaslighting are terms that are thrown around liberally, but what do they actually mean? And when should we start worrying about these behaviours and traits? Dr Amelia Kelley, co-author of What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship, joins Cam and Ali in the bathroom to offer advice from years of experience working with survivors of domestic abuse. If this episode has raised any issues for you, call 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732, or visit 1800respect.org.au.  LINKS  Buy the book - What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship. Learn more about Dr Amelia Kelley on her website https://www.ameliakelley.com/  Follow Dr Amelia Kelley on Instagram. Follow Dr Amelia Kelley on Facebook. Follow Dr Amelia Kelley on Twitter. Listen to Dr Amelia Kelley's appearances on the podcast High Heels and Heartache. How Does Trauma Affect Your Body? What is Repeat Traumatization? Learn more about RizeUp Australia https://www.rizeup.com.au/.  Follow Cam on Instagram @camerondaddo.  Follow Ali on Instagram @alidaddo.  Follow Nova Podcasts @novapodcastsofficial.  Got a question for Cam & Ali? You can email them atseparatebathrooms@novapodcasts.com.au.  CREDITS  Hosts: Cameron Daddo and Alison Brahe-Daddo.  Managing Producer: Elle Beattie.  Producer and Editor: Amy Kimball.  Find more great podcasts like this at novapodcasts.com.au.  Separate Bathrooms would like to acknowledge the Gadigal people of the Eora nation, the First Peoples of the land on which we work. We acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded, and recognise their enduring connections to country, knowledge and stories. We pay our respects to Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all First Nations people listening.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

The Pretty Truth
What I Wish I Knew: A Trauma-Informed discussion with Dr. Amelia Kelley

The Pretty Truth

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2022 62:00


Dr. Amelia Kelley is a trauma-informed therapist and co-author of What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship. In this episode, we talk about intimate partner violence, trauma healing, and what it means to be a highly sensitive person with these experiences. We loved having her on and can't wait to talk to her again! https://www.ameliakelley.com/https://www.amazon.com/What-Wish-Knew-Surviving-Relationship/dp/1684898730Resources:https://www.thehotline.org/https://lizgbailey.com/https://hsperson.com/test/highly-sensitive-test/

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MH22-07 Dr. Amelia Kelley. Thrive After an Abusive Relationship.

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Play Episode Listen Later Feb 15, 2022 72:55


What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship. Whether you are a survivor of domestic violence, or in a relationship wrought with intimidation, gaslighting or control of any kind, it's time to regain the part of yourself that you may have lost and find your support network to regain living your true authentic life. In What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship written by co-author Dr. Amelia Kelley and survivor Kendall Ann Combs, the authors use the journey of Ms. Combs' tragic relationship experience along with Dr. Kelley's trauma-informed, psychotherapist techniques and real strategies to support women and men who have experienced toxic, unhealthy, abusive relationships. https://selfdiscoverymedia.com/?p=100682

WGRT's LIMElight with Jessie Wiegand
Identifying the Early Signs of Intimate Partner Abuse wsg. Dr. Amelia Kelley

WGRT's LIMElight with Jessie Wiegand

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2022 12:47


The story of intimate partner abuse unfolds from the beginning of a relationship until the end in the book What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After and Abusive Relationship. Dr. Amelia Kelly provides the clinical voice in the book, and she writes alongside co-author Kendall Ann Combs who shares her story of abuse. Listen as Dr. Kelley shares her perspective on topics such as narcissistic behavior, love-bombing, and how to recognize intimate partner abuse.  Learn more about Dr. Kelley here: https://www.ameliakelley.com/ (https://www.ameliakelley.com/)

How To Survive The Narcissist Apocalypse
How to Differentiate the Overlapping Behaviors of ADHD & Narcissist Abuse - Q&A With Dr. Amelia Kelley

How To Survive The Narcissist Apocalypse

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2022 53:46


Brandon talks with Dr. Amelia Kelley (trauma informed therapist & author) about the overlapping behaviors of ADHD & Narcissism and how to recognize where Narcissistic Abuse begins.  Plus they discuss, control, intentions, can't vs. won't, doing the work, comorbidity, weaponizing mental health issues, and much more. Dr Amelia Kelley's website is https://www.ameliakelley.com/ and you can purchase her book 'What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship' by clicking here. Thank you to our sponsor BOMBAS. Go to Bombas.com/nap and get 20% off your purchase of socks, underwear, and t-shirts. Bombas donates an item to a homeless shelter for every item purchased. They are a wonderful company. We love Bombas. Thank you to our sponsor HELLOFRESH. Go to HelloFresh.com/nap14 and use code nap14 for up to 14 free meals AND 3 free gifts! Enjoy America's #1 Meal Kit today! Thank you to our sponsor Tru Niagen. Tru Niagen is a supplement that's clinically proven to boost N-A-D levels, an essential coenzyme required for cellular energy and repair. Add more vitality to your life today, with Tru Niagen. Right now, new customers can save 10% on their first purchase by going to https://TruNiagen.com/nap and use code nap. Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.  Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Narcissist Apocalypse
How to Differentiate the Overlapping Behaviors of ADHD & Narcissist Abuse - Q&A With Dr. Amelia Kelley

Narcissist Apocalypse

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2022 48:01


Brandon talks with Dr. Amelia Kelley (trauma informed therapist & author) about the overlapping behaviors of ADHD & Narcissism and how to recognize where Narcissistic Abuse begins.  Plus they discuss, control, intentions, can't vs. won't, doing the work, comorbidity, weaponizing mental health issues, and much more. Dr Amelia Kelley's website is https://www.ameliakelley.com/ and you can purchase her book 'What I Wish I Knew: Surviving and Thriving After an Abusive Relationship' by clicking here. Thank you to our sponsor BOMBAS. Go to Bombas.com/nap and get 20% off your purchase of socks, underwear, and t-shirts. Bombas donates an item to a homeless shelter for every item purchased. They are a wonderful company. We love Bombas. Thank you to our sponsor HELLOFRESH. Go to HelloFresh.com/nap14 and use code nap14 for up to 14 free meals AND 3 free gifts! Enjoy America's #1 Meal Kit today! Thank you to our sponsor Tru Niagen. Tru Niagen is a supplement that's clinically proven to boost N-A-D levels, an essential coenzyme required for cellular energy and repair. Add more vitality to your life today, with Tru Niagen. Right now, new customers can save 10% on their first purchase by going to https://TruNiagen.com/nap and use code nap. Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.  Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA

WebTalkRadio.net » Books On Air
TBI – TO BE INJURED : Surviving and Thriving After a Brain Injury by Carol Gieg

WebTalkRadio.net » Books On Air

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2022 32:15


The author is a licensed clinical social worker with a Master’s degree in Social Welfare as well as a Master’s degree in Public Health from the University of California, Berkeley. She has worked as a Psychotherapist in private practice, a Case Manager with developmentally disabled clients and their families, Child Therapist working with abused and […] The post TBI – TO BE INJURED : Surviving and Thriving After a Brain Injury by Carol Gieg appeared first on WebTalkRadio.net.

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TBI – TO BE INJURED : Surviving and Thriving After a Brain Injury by Carol Gieg

WebTalkRadio.net

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2022


The author is a licensed clinical social worker with a Master’s degree in Social Welfare as well as a Master’s degree in Public Health from the University of California, Berkeley. She has worked as a Psychotherapist in private practice, a Case Manager with developmentally disabled clients and their families, Child Therapist working with abused and […] The post TBI – TO BE INJURED : Surviving and Thriving After a Brain Injury by Carol Gieg appeared first on WebTalkRadio.net.

HINESIGHTS Podcast
EP 20 | Ask Kev | WHO SHOULD READ MY BOOK “Cracked, Not Broken: Surviving and Thriving After a Suicide Attempt”

HINESIGHTS Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 25, 2021 7:44


We all have a story to share, some more than others. What better way to share our experience and inspire others to be better than to write a book? If you or anyone you know suffers from mental health, Kevin's “Cracked, Not Broken: Surviving and Thriving After a Suicide Attempt” is a must-read. It chronicles his experience living with a mental disorder, his suicide attempt off the Golden Gate Bridge, and the lessons and insights from his harrowing experience. It's a book about the strength of the human spirit and finding the will to survive. Go to Kevin's website and grab your copy!

WebTalkRadio.net » Books On Air
TBI – Traumatic Brain Injury – Surviving and Thriving After a Brain Injury by Carol Geig

WebTalkRadio.net » Books On Air

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2021 31:51


The author is a licensed clinical social worker. She has always thrived on helping other people solve problems. She had no idea that one day soon she would be facing serious problems of her own. After dropping her husband off at work, Carol went on a bike ride. As someone who enjoyed hiking and staying active, it […] The post TBI – Traumatic Brain Injury – Surviving and Thriving After a Brain Injury by Carol Geig appeared first on WebTalkRadio.net.

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TBI – Traumatic Brain Injury – Surviving and Thriving After a Brain Injury by Carol Geig

WebTalkRadio.net

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2021


The author is a licensed clinical social worker. She has always thrived on helping other people solve problems. She had no idea that one day soon she would be facing serious problems of her own. After dropping her husband off at work, Carol went on a bike ride. As someone who enjoyed hiking and staying active, it […] The post TBI – Traumatic Brain Injury – Surviving and Thriving After a Brain Injury by Carol Geig appeared first on WebTalkRadio.net.

Andie Summers Show Podcast
Cup o' Joy: Golden Gate Bridge Suicide Survivor Now Shares His Story to Bring Mental Health Awareness

Andie Summers Show Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2021 5:41


Golden Gate Bridge suicide survivor is sharing his story to bring awareness to suicide prevention and mental health. In September 2000 Kevin Hines was battling mental health issues when he jumped off the Golden Gate bridge. He felt instant regret while falling 240 feet at 75 miles per hour. “I thought it was too late, I said to myself, ‘What have I done, I don’t want to die,’” Hines said. “I realized I made the greatest mistake of my life.” Hines fell feet first into water breaking his ankle and crushing his spinal vertebrae, but he survived. One miracle that kept him alive was a sea lion which kept him afloat until the Coast Guard arrived. He now works hard managing the voices in his head and depression. Hines now travels the world sharing his story. He created the documentary, Suicide: The Ripple Effectand wrote a memoir, Cracked Not Broken, Surviving and Thriving After a Suicide Attempt. “My goal is to try to instill hope in at least one individual,” Hines said in a Garner-Webb University news release. “So that one individual says, ‘Maybe I can stay here, maybe there are tools to fight this.'” He connects with individuals in a one-on-one environment usually at his speeches or through social media. Since built in 1937, more than 1,7000 people have attempted suicide off the Golden Gate Bridge, according to Robert Olson of The Centre for Suicide Prevention in Calgary, Canada. Only 25 people are known to have survived the fall. According to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, in 2019, 47,511 Americans have died by suicide and 1.38million have attempted suicide. Hines insists anyone struggling with the idea of suicide, before you act on it, call the National suicide prevention hotline at 1-800-273-8255. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

MoneyHeart
Optimal Employment - Bill Harrison - Episode 046

MoneyHeart

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2021 34:42


Unemployment is typically looked upon as a bad thing. Bill Harrison teaches his clients to look on unemployment as an opportunity to discover what they would love to do and to find a career that is perfectly suited to their talents, strengths, and passions. "You have a unique set of talents, abilities, experience, your personality type that no one else it the world has." When you know your strengths you can be confident in what you're doing whether that's working on a project at your job, negotiating your next contract, or starting your own business. Bill shares why he encourages everyone to work in their strengths and not to waste any time on trying to build their weaknesses. Bill Harrison is a Spiritual Entrepreneur, Life Coach, Award Winning Author, and Public Speaker. His books “Spiritual Entrepreneurship: Fulfilling Your God-Ordained Destiny” and “TRAVELING SOLO, but NEVER ALONE: Surviving and Thriving After the Death of a Spouse” are available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and through his website spiritual-entrepreneurship.com. On the website there's also a page on his Career Transitions Support Group. They meet on the first and third Wednesdays via Zoom and have many shared links to help those in need. More at moneyheartshow.com. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/moneyheart/support

The Leftover Pieces; Suicide Loss Conversations
Tools Part 1; Books, Apps & Podcasts Oh My!

The Leftover Pieces; Suicide Loss Conversations

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2021 21:43


Today I head "Down The Rabbit Hole" to discuss some tangible "tools" that I would recommend taking a look at in the quest to find your own. This is a follow up to a previous episode, one of several to come, where I get more specific on some of the "tools" that have (or still do) serve me well in this suicide loss grief space I live in. Part 2 will be published in a few weeks! As with everything you hear on my podcasts, please take that which serves you & leave the rest. I hope you will find something of value & I am so sorry that you need to be here, but so honored you are here. Talk soon!The BOOKS I discussed are: Your Grief, Your Way: A Year of Practical Guidance and Comfort After Loss by Shelby ForsythiaDying to Be Free: A Healing Guide for Families After a SuicideThe Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der KolkThe Ultimate Guide to Chakras: The Beginner's Guide to Balancing, Healing, and Unblocking Your Chakras for Health and Positive Energy by Athena Perrakis PhDThe Audio books (on AUDIBLE) that I discussed: It's OK That You're Not OK Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn't Understand by Megan DevineNight Falls Fast Understanding Suicide  by Kay Redfield JamisonCracked, Not Broken Surviving and Thriving After a Suicide Attempt by Kevin HinesInside Out A Memoir by Demi MooreThe APPS I recommended you take a peek at are: The Insight Timer The MightyAudible Instagram & Facebook (?) for grief communitySome PODCASTS to get you thinking or to let you zone out: The Leftover Pieces; Suicide Loss ConversationsThe Mindfulness & Grief Podcast with Heather Stang&l

The Suicide Prevention Movement
Finding Your Treasured Gifts Through the Power of Story - Becky Norwood | TSPS #018

The Suicide Prevention Movement

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2020 32:21


Becky Norwood is CEO of Spotlight Publishing™, #1 International Bestselling author, speaker, & book publishing expert. Her focus has been teaching and working with entrepreneurs and small business owners to establish their knowledge and expertise, getting heard, seen, and read.   On a deeper level, Becky is an advocate for the positive that comes with change, overcoming difficult times and uniting those whose life's journey has prepared them with treasured gifts of wisdom and creative genius that can transform the lives of others. Well told stories are the gateway for growth, sharing, and a way to unite humanity. It is the threads of our story that will weave together an empowered new world.   BOOK: The Woman I Love: Surviving, Healing and Thriving After a Childhood of Sexual, Emotional and Physical Abuse https://amzn.to/32iewLe

School of Podcasting
Don't Quit On a Bad Day - How Glenn and Jamie Thrive After 2500 Episodes

School of Podcasting

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2020 43:07


Glenn "The Geek" Hebert and Jamie Jennings have been doing a ninety-minute daily show Horses in the Morning since 2010. If you listened to the show 24 hours a day it would take you 150 days to listen to all the episodes. That is a HUGE amount of work along with finding sponsors, booking over 6000 guests, facilitating contents and more. Today they share their secrets to longevity while keeping their sanity. Horses in the Morning is part of the Horse Radio Network. Quick Housekeeping 01:07 Answers for the Question of the Month 01:30 Vote For School of Podcasting at Podcastawards.com Surviving and Thriving After 2500 Episodes 06:54 How Did You Find Each Other 08:01 Shaping the Concept 10:54 What have you tried that didn't work? 12:29 6000 Guests Over the Years 16:10 Radio vs Podcasting 18:16 Handing Bad Days 20:43 How do you keep finding new content? 24:25 Because of My Podcast Story 25:58 Interacting With Patons 28:19 How Have You Gone This Long and Stayed Sane? 33:43 Glenn Knows Where the Episode is Going 34:41 Bring Your Passion 35:38 Don't Quit on a Bad Day 37:11 Tips for Wanna Be Podcasters 41:25 Bloopers Main Take-Aways Glenn and Jamie only promote products that they would use. Consequently, 98.5% of their listeners buy those products.  They use the Patreon account to allow their listeners to get closer (and appear) on the show.  They put hours into show prep and know exactly where the show is going.  They keep trying new things to keep the show fresh.  Some of their best segments "just happened." They never talk except on the show so they don't have to recreate conversations in their episodes. Question of the Month What is your favorite episode of your podcast and why? Answer by 7/24/20 at www.schoolofpodcasting.com/question Ready to Start Your Podcast? Join the School of Podcasting worry-free with a 30-day money-back guarantee and get access to step by step tutorials, live group coaching, and a private Facebook group filled with brilliant podcasting minds. You also get direct access to Hall of Fame podcaster, Dave Jackson via priority email support and when needed video conferencing. Join today at www.schoolofpodcasting.com/join Need Some Honest Feedback on Your Show? Get your show reviewed by 30-year radio veteran Erik K Johnson, and 15-year podcasting veteran Dave Jackson in addition to getting exposure on the Podcast Review Show. We go over every inch of your podcast, your website, your goals, and make sure they are in alignment with your content to deliver maximum results. Get reviewed today.

Smart Business Revolution
Matthew Griffiths | The “Escape Room” for Entrepreneurs and Surviving and Thriving After a Brain Tumor

Smart Business Revolution

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2020 46:17


Matthew Griffiths is a Vistage Group Chairman at Vistage International (UK) Ltd. Vistage is a leading global executive peer-group organization with 24,000 members worldwide. Matthew works with many business networks in his capacity as a Non-Executive Chair, Executive Coach, and Strategic Advisor. He has held senior leadership roles in the entertainment technology sector including being the Company Director/MD at TSL & White Light Group. He then became the Chief Executive Officer at PLASA Ltd, the world’s largest entertainment technology trade association, for 18 years.  Matthew is the host of the Turning Point Podcast series from Vistage (UK). He is also involved in a company called Games Without Frontiers, a kind of escape room for entrepreneurs.  In this episode, John Corcoran talks to Matthew Griffiths, of Vistage International (UK) Ltd about leadership and business coaching, about his role as a Vistage chair, and his experience with battling brain tumor. The post Matthew Griffiths | The “Escape Room” for Entrepreneurs and Surviving and Thriving After a Brain Tumor appeared first on Smart Business Revolution.

Narcissistic Abuse Recovery with Angie Atkinson
Shifting from Surviving to Thriving After a Toxic Relationship (Mindshift Motivational)

Narcissistic Abuse Recovery with Angie Atkinson

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2020 9:01


Mindshift Motivational: Shifting from Surviving to Thriving After a Toxic Relationship with a Narcissist - This is how you know you're going to be okay. Throughout the course of my recovery from a toxic relationship with a narcissist, I have found myself experiencing several shifts in mindset – moments where it felt almost like some sort of switch had been flipped – where I suddeNly understood things differently and recognized that I had been wrong all along in some way or another. Each time, I found myself evolving and growing in new ways. Discover. Understand. Overcome. It's how smart people change their lives! Subscribe to my channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/AuthorAngelaAtkinson?sub_confirmation=1 **NEW!! Become a member of my channel! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBnyC5I55W__RBj1PMybF5g/join **Never miss a live session! Just text "AngieLive" (no spaces) to 33222 and I'll send you a text each time I get ready to go live! Schedule a coaching appointment with me at http://narcissisticabuserecovery.online Start your healing at https://queenbeeing.com. Take your life to the next level at https://shine.buzz Get my books at http://booksangiewrote.com, pick up your free 7-day fear-busting email course (specially designed for narcissistic relationship survivors) at http://narcissismsupportcoach.com. Join SPAN (Support for People Affected by Narcissism in toxic relationships) - AKA "The SPANily" - at http://queenbeeing.com/group-support. Let's Also Connect On: Facebook at https://facebook.com/coachangieatkinson. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachangieatkinson/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/angyatkinson/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/angieatkinsonSubscribe to Narcissistic Abuse Recovery with Angie Atkinson on Soundwise

Kyle Malnati's Calibrate Real Estate
#127: Overcoming Race & Gender Issues in Marketing

Kyle Malnati's Calibrate Real Estate

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2020 52:32


Creating emotional connections with your desired audience is the definition of branding. Diving deeper, brand activism is branding with the goal making an impact on social, economic, or environmental issues. In the year 2020, in the wake of George Floyd's tragic death, and protests throughout the nation demanding equality - we have to ask the hard questions. How can I help? Race and gender qualifications are not separate and we must discuss these unspoken barriers. Kubi Springer is an award-winning international Brand Consultant and Trainer with over 24 years of experience in brand marketing. Her best selling book, I Am My Brand is a testament to the power of being a woman and illustrates what it takes to be a powerful female brand in today's male dominated business world. Tune into this very special episode where Kyle and Kubi have the tough conversations and discuss action steps to build your brand in a way that aligns with your values.  We believe Leaders are READERS, below are a few of our favorite leadership books: Entreleadership – 20 years of practical business wisdom, Dave Ramsey The Ideal Team Player – How to recognize and cultivate three ideal traits in your team, Patrick Lencioni Business Boutique– A woman’s guide for making money and doing what she loves, Christy Wright  Our 3 Most Recent Episodes: EP #126: 5 Tools for Success in a Shifting Market: When there is a shift in the marketplace, there is opportunity. Now is the time in which you can analyze what habits you have formed in your business and how they may or may not be serving you in this new market.  EP #125: Denver’s Biggest Landlords Discuss May Collections: How are the Leaders of Denver’s apartment industry navigating this pandemic? And more importantly, how they are planning for the future? From rent deferrals and delinquent tenants, rent strikes, and the effects of unemployment spikes – we are only starting to see the effects of COVID-19 on the commercial real estate industry.  EP #124: COVID-19 Lending: Where are we now? It has been 9 weeks since the President declared a national state of emergency due to the Corona Virus, and 7 weeks since states began to enact stay at home orders. The effects of this pandemic on the economy are just beginning to unfold. A month after his popular episode, COVID-19 Lending Update on the Calibrate Podcast, Patrick Langhans is back to provide us a timely update. EP #123: Thriving After a Pandemic: Who are you going to be right now? How are you going to see this time? According to Coach Wayne Salmans, the answers to these two questions will be your road map to choosing you reality and thriving after a pandemic.  Written & Produced by Kayla Davis | Hosted by Kyle Malnati Calibrate Real Estate 2425 S. Colorado Blvd #250, Denver, CO 80222 http://www.CalibrateRE.com

Kyle Malnati's Calibrate Real Estate
#126: 5 Tools for Success in a Shifting Market

Kyle Malnati's Calibrate Real Estate

Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2020 56:07


When there is a shift in the marketplace, there is opportunity. Now is the time in which you can analyze what habits you have formed in your business and how they may or may not be serving you in this new market. On this weeks episode, Kyle Malnati is the guest speaker on a Mastermind hosted by Coach Wayne Salmans. Kyle discusses how we all have the opportunity to make such drastic improvements that you will have to re-introduce yourself to the marketplace. Start today by enacting these 5 tools for success and moving to the revenue. Previous Episodes Featuring Wayne: #123: Thriving After A Pandemic | #70: 7 Decisions Every Leader Needs to Make | #55: Get Back to Simplicity We believe Leaders are READERS, below are a few of our favorite leadership books: Entreleadership – 20 years of practical business wisdom, Dave Ramsey The Ideal Team Player – How to recognize and cultivate three ideal traits in your team, Patrick Lencioni Business Boutique– A woman’s guide for making money and doing what she loves, Christy Wright  Our 3 Most Recent Episodes: EP #125: Denver's Biggest Landlords Discuss May Collections: How are the Leaders of Denver’s apartment industry navigating this pandemic? And more importantly, how they are planning for the future? From rent deferrals and delinquent tenants, rent strikes, and the effects of unemployment spikes – we are only starting to see the effects of COVID-19 on the commercial real estate industry.  EP #124: COVID-19 Lending: Where are we now? It has been 9 weeks since the President declared a national state of emergency due to the Corona Virus, and 7 weeks since states began to enact stay at home orders. The effects of this pandemic on the economy are just beginning to unfold. A month after his popular episode, COVID-19 Lending Update on the Calibrate Podcast, Patrick Langhans is back to provide us a timely update. EP #123: Thriving After a Pandemic: Who are you going to be right now? How are you going to see this time? According to Coach Wayne Salmans, the answers to these two questions will be your road map to choosing you reality and thriving after a pandemic.  Written & Produced by Kayla Davis | Hosted by Kyle Malnati Calibrate Real Estate 2425 S. Colorado Blvd #250, Denver, CO 80222 http://www.CalibrateRE.com

The Epic Comeback Podcast
#95 Carmen Silvestro

The Epic Comeback Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2020 18:21


Life coach, relationship coach, spiritual mentor, and author Carmen Silvestro shares that the best ways to get to the other side of a life-shattering experience are (1) to know that where you are right now is not the end, (2) to allow yourself to feel your grief, and (3) to find an amazing team of angels to surround yourself with. She learned these lessons while enduring the death of a family member and a painful and traumatic divorce.   Find Carmen at myselftruly.com, and on Facebook: @carmenshannon. Her book, Piecing Your Heart Back Together: The Roadmap to Healing and Thriving After a Breakup or Divorce, can be found on Amazon.

Kyle Malnati's Calibrate Real Estate
#125: Denver's Biggest Landlords Discuss May Collections

Kyle Malnati's Calibrate Real Estate

Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2020 54:58


How are the Leaders of Denver's apartment industry navigating this pandemic? And more importantly, how they are planning for the future? From rent deferrals and delinquent tenants, rent strikes, and the effects of unemployment spikes - we are only starting to see the effects of COVID-19 on the commercial real estate industry. It is clear we will continue to see growth in Denver, but it will be a different version growth all together. On this special episode, we feature a 5-member panel of experts with some of Denver's largest Landlords. Hosted by Thomas Gounley of BussinessDen. ORIGINAL SOURCE: BusinessDen 5 Featured Panelists:  David Zucker, CEO of Zocalo Community Development  Brian Wynne, President and Co-Founder of Yasmer Real Estate  Chris Waggett, CEO of D4 Urban  Zvi Rudawsky, Founder and CEO of Portus  Bobby Hutchinson, Chief Investment Officer at RedPeak We believe Leaders are READERS, below are a few of our favorite leadership books: Entreleadership – 20 years of practical business wisdom, Dave Ramsey The Ideal Team Player – How to recognize and cultivate three ideal traits in your team, Patrick Lencioni Business Boutique– A woman’s guide for making money and doing what she loves, Christy Wright  Our 3 Most Recent Episodes: EP #124: COVID-19 Lending: Where are we now? It has been 9 weeks since the President declared a national state of emergency due to the Corona Virus, and 7 weeks since states began to enact stay at home orders. The effects of this pandemic on the economy are just beginning to unfold. A month after his popular episode, COVID-19 Lending Update on the Calibrate Podcast, Patrick Langhans is back to provide us a timely update. EP #123: Thriving After a Pandemic: Who are you going to be right now? How are you going to see this time? According to Coach Wayne Salmans, the answers to these two questions will be your road map to choosing you reality and thriving after a pandemic.  EP #122: Becoming a Corporate Athlete: As a high functioning and highly productive real estate agent, you are in fact an athlete – a corporate athlete. You rely on your body to preform through 7-day work weeks, and working hours that can stretch all hours of the day. Written & Produced by Kayla Davis | Hosted by Kyle Malnati Calibrate Real Estate 2425 S. Colorado Blvd #250, Denver, CO 80222 http://www.CalibrateRE.com

Grief and Healing Corner Podcast
Episode 08: Cathy Cheshire

Grief and Healing Corner Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2019 20:11


Today on the Grief & Healing Corner, Episode 8, we speak with Master Grief Coach Cathy Cheshire. Profoundly evolving after extreme suffering following the death of her two sons, Cathy Cheshire left a business career in healthcare to support other grievers. In honor of her sons, she became an author, speaker, grief coach and the founder of the “Master Grief Coach” training program with a certification option which is available soon. She has diverse education from traditional and progressive professionals with varied grief expertise including the areas of thought, emotion, mindfulness and resilience. Her book is titled, “Thriving After the Death of a Child.” One reader commented, “This is such a powerful book.”

Greatest Motivational and Inspirational Speeches Ever
DREAM - Best Motivational Video Speeches Compilation - Listen Every Day MORNING MOTIVATION

Greatest Motivational and Inspirational Speeches Ever

Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2019 22:56


Dream without fear. Live without limits. Ask yourself, is what you're doing today getting you closer to your dreams and your goals? Listen to this in the morning and live a happier, healthier life! One of the BEST MORNING MOTIVATIONAL VIDEOS! Really excited to be releasing DREAM after so many of you liked our last compilation BELIEVE! If you like this video make sure you leave us a comment and share it with your friends! Listen to BELIEVE here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PgQ3sW0BWfI ------------------------------------------- ------------------------------------------- ►Follow Us: YouTube: http://bit.ly/MotivationVids Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/motiversity/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/motiversity_ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Motiversity/ Website: https://www.motiversity.com/ Spotify: https://goo.gl/uCEkJz ►Speakers: Eric Thomas: https://www.youtube.com/etthehiphoppreacher https://twitter.com/Ericthomasbtc https://www.instagram.com/etthehiphoppreacher/ https://www.facebook.com/etthehiphoppreacher http://etinspires.com/ Sadhguru YouTube: http://bit.ly/2I632lP Facebook: http://bit.ly/2BsOJSm Instagram: http://bit.ly/2MYXYhL Website: http://www.isha.sadhguru.org/ Download Sadhguru App: http://onelink.to/sadhguru__app Alex Banayan https://thirddoorbook.com/ https://twitter.com/AlexBanayan Mat Wilson Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC5KIGBVmpvYanoWhHyJwYpg Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/matywils/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matywilson/ Snapchat: @matywilson Les Brown https://www.youtube.com/user/riceNchicken Dwayne The Rock Johnson Nathan Harmon YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCl5KlAkmxXYb5IlEAcBqd6g Instagram: http://bit.ly/YourLifeSpeaksInstagram Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/yourlifespeaks/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/yourlifespeaks1 Kevin Cullum YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOW2c2R4u7Aig7Ur9LdNSSA https://www.instagram.com/pushup_kevin William Hollis YouTube: http://bit.ly/WillHollisYouTube Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/williamkinghollis/ Facebook: http://bit.ly/2LNZtgA Website: https://williamhollismotivation.com/ Book William Hollis for your next event: bookwilliamhollis@gmail.com Martin Luther King Gary Vaynerchuk https://www.youtube.com/user/GaryVaynerchuk https://www.garyvaynerchuk.com/ Tom Bilyeu YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnYMOamNKLGVlJgRUbamveA Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/ Special thank you to Tom Bilyeu for providing the amazing impact quote speech! Check out his awesome channel here: https://www.youtube.com/TomBilyeu Ajit Nawalkha Get his book at http://livebigthebook.com Website: https://www.ajitnawalkha.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ajitnawalkha/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmSQ... Meiyoko Taylor, Thriving After 30 Book: http://bit.ly/GetThrivingAfter30 https://www.instagram.com/meiyokotaylor/ http://www.meiyokotaylor.com/ Adam Phillips Website: https://lifegrip.com.au/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChekQu8j1aXgRlK5zZuy1Ww Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lifegrip.com.au Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/life_grip/ ------------------------- Videos: ►Dream - Motivational Video (New video by Motiversity) ►Why did you give up on your dream? - Fearless Motivation & William Hollis https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4-2jjC2WK0c ►Dream Big - Tom Bilyeu https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCnYMOamNKLGVlJgRUbamveA ►Step Into The Fire - Motiversity & William Hollis https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gxW2UZ5QP-0 ►Go After Your Dreams - Motiversity https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fxdUi74Brm8 --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Music: Audiomachine - No Matter What Really Slow Motion - Infinite Day Dream ►Buy their music: Amazon : http://amzn.to/1lTltY5 iTunes: http://bit.ly/1ee3l8K Spotify: http://bit.ly/1r3lPvN Why did you give up on your dream? - Fearless Motivation ►Download or Stream the Motivational Speech: iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/artist/fearless-soul/id1076763241 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/album/1xHis2p1B9088bZgY04YYA Apple Music: https://itunes.apple.com/artist/fearless-soul/id1076763241 Scott Buckley - Stars in Her Skies https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yk0ST5tLizw http://www.twitter.com/musoscientific https://www.facebook.com/musicbyscottb -------------------------------------------- ►Video Footage Sources: All Creative Commons works licensed under CC BY 3.0 https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/ Please see the end of the video for more videos sources. Other footage licensed through Videoblocks and Artgrid. --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #Dream #Motiversity #Motivation Help us caption & translate this video! https://amara.org/v/oyUe/

The ManageMental Podcast with Blasko and Mike Mowery
Top Tips for Independent Music Success

The ManageMental Podcast with Blasko and Mike Mowery

Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2019 30:57


Hypebot article "Thriving After 15 Years: 6 Keys To Independent Music Success" by Yael Meyer of CD Baby's DIY Musician Blog. ---- Want more insight? Check out Outerloop Coaching and kick-start your Music Career: outerloopcoaching.com Design and launch your band's website in minutes. Use code MENTAL for 15% off your first year of website hosting at Bandzoogle.com. Rockabilia is your One Stop Shop for all band merch with the largest selection of officially licensed music merchandise in the world! Use PCJABBERJAW for 10% off www.rockabilia.com Email any questions or comments for the podcast to askblasko@gmail.com Join the ManageMental Group on Facebook here! Follow Blasko on Twitter/IG: @blasko1313 Follow Mike Mowery on Twitter/IG: @mikeoloop Check out Blasko's Spotify Playlist here volumeforever.com ManageMental is part of the Jabberjaw Media Podcast Network. www.jabberjawmedia.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I Love Kelowna
Discovering past lives through Akashic Records with Kasia Rachfall

I Love Kelowna

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 28, 2019 43:32


Kasia Rachfall (pronounced Kasha Rashfall) is a Holistic Alternative Therapist, Akashic Records Healer and founder of Thriving After 40. She helps women in their 40s and beyond to ditch any signs of a Midlife Funk. Using Specialized Kinesiology, Neuro-linguistics and energy healing, Kasia helps women release the stresses and imprints of their past from their physical body and energy field so they can thrive and build a successful and meaningful life that they love.We talk about the decision to enrol children in alternative forms of education such as home schooling in contrast to the public education, and how to keep them socially integrated. Also: Kasia's discovery of Akashic Records and how everything in life can be understood through Quantum Physics.If you enjoyed this episode, an iTunes review would be SO appreciated! It's super easy to do right within the Podcast app.SHOW NOTES: IMPORTANT LINKS Learn about Akashic Records Reading and Transformational Life Coaching with Kasia on her Facebook page: Kasia Rachfall and her website: https://www.kasiarachfall.com/ and her YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/kasiarachfallKasia nominates Rochelle McFarlane and Chantelle Adams to come on the I Love Kelowna Podcast. Kara Rogers and I nominated Kasia. The I Love Kelowna Podcast has been downloaded thousands of times. It has a growing audience of people who are keenly interested in Kelowna and the Okanagan. To find out about ways to make a lasting impression on this growing audience, please send me a message.Follow me on Social Media:I Love Kelowna Podcast on FacebookInstagramLinkedinLuke Menkes Kelowna RealtorMy Personal Facebook PageIn this episode, we discuss #akashic, #records, #pastlife, #pastlives, #quantumphysics, #homeschooling, #socialintegration, #lifecoaching, #postpartum, #depression, #exploreKelowna, #KelownaNow, #YLW, #YVRtoYLW, #YEGtoYLW, #ExploreYLW, #YYCtoYLW, #Relocation, #KelownaViews, #handpickedkelowna, #kelownalife, #kelownaliving, #exploreBC, #Kelowna, #Okanagan, #podcast, #RealEstateSupport the show (https://paypal.me/lukemenkes)

Open to Hope
Cathy Cheshire: Thriving After the Death of a Child

Open to Hope

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2018 15:46


Cathy Cheshire is a bereaved parent and author of  “Thriving After the Death of a child,” summarized top grief expert findings in the “Understanding Grief and Loss” module, and founded […] The post Cathy Cheshire: Thriving After the Death of a Child appeared first on Open to Hope.

Intentional Beings & The Seven Simple Steps | The Innate Guide to Co-Creations & Self-Realization

In honor of her two deceased sons, Cathy Cheshire left a 30-year successful business career in healthcare to become a grief coach, author, and speaker. After extensive and diverse grief education, she founded the online 'Master Grief Coach Certification' training program. She is the author of ‘Thriving After the Death of a Child’.    Transcending The Maya Matrix. Using the Seven Simple Steps: Our Innate Guide to Co-Creation & Self-Realization

Trolling With Logic
#045 - Christine (2016) Review

Trolling With Logic

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2017 70:27


 Content Warning: In this episode there are lengthy discussions about suicide, mental illness and specifically, depression.  In this episode we review the 2016 movie "Christine" and the issues arising from the film. Christine is a biographical look at the life and tragic suicide of the news reporter, Christine Chubbuck. Christine infamously shot herself live on air in 1974. Film synopsis "In Sarasota, Fla., circa 1974, an ambitious, 29-year-old reporter is relentlessly motivated to succeed. She knows she has talent, but being a driven career woman in the '70s comes with its own challenges, especially when competition for a promotion and a tumultuous home life lead to a dissolution of self. With ratings in the cellar, the station manager issues a mandate to deliver juicier and more exploitative stories, a story firmly at odds with her serious brand of issue-based journalism." If you are affected by the issues raised in the movie or by our discussion, please seek helpsamaritans uk: www.samaritans.org/samaritans USA: http://www.samaritansusa.org/US National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: US National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255. Christine on Netflix: https://www.netflix.com/title/80097814Story of Christine Chubbuck: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christine_Chubbuck Synopsis "In Sarasota, Fla., circa 1974, an ambitious, 29-year-old reporter is relentlessly motivated to succeed. She knows she has talent, but being a driven career woman in the '70s comes with its own challenges, especially when competition for a promotion and a tumultuous home life lead to a dissolution of self. With ratings in the cellar, the station manager issues a mandate to deliver juicier and more exploitative stories, a story firmly at odds with her serious brand of issue-based journalism." Team for this show:Nathan DickeyCal MacDonaldJenna Further Viewing & Reading:Network on Netflix: https://www.netflix.com/gb/title/70044752Kevin Hines "Cracked, Not Broken: Surviving and Thriving After a Suicide Attempt": https://www.amazon.co.uk/Cracked-Not-Broken-Surviving-Thriving/dp/144222240913 Reasons Why on Netlfix: https://www.netflix.com/title/8011747013 Reasons Why (Novel): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Thirteen-Reasons-Why-Jay-Asher/dp/0141328290The Bridge Documentary: https://youtu.be/u10VsLsWPc4Taxi Driver: https://www.netflix.com/bl/title/18907685R. Budd Dwyer, a Pennsylvania politician who fatally shot himself in front of TV news cameras in 1987: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/R._Budd_Dwyer Like the show? Support us on patreon :- http://www.patreon.com/trollingwithlogic As always, many thanks to our patrons. Your support has helped with our web domain and podcast hosting! Our Patrons: Avinash KumarJosh, Society for Advancement of Sciencehttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCVXF–HIS6h1KBqlntnzc-QMicroBlogganism:https://www.youtube.com/user/MicroBlogganism TWL website : http://www.trollingwithlogic.com/TWL facebook group : http://on.fb.me/TZwgy3TWL twitter : https://twitter.com/TrollingWLogicTWL facebook page : http://on.fb.me/1Eq3b8k Subscribe to the podcast:-Feedburner: http://tinyurl.com/twl-feed-burnItunes : http://tinyurl.com/twl-itunesStitcher : http://tinyurl.com/twl-stitcher Podbean : http://tinyurl.com/twl-podbeanPodfeed : http://tinyurl.com/twl-podfeed

Stop Child Abuse Now
Stop Child Abuse Now (SCAN) - 1440

Stop Child Abuse Now

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2016 91:00


Tonight's special guest is Becky Norwood from Goodyear, Arizona, a victim of childhood sexual, emotional and physical abuse at the hands of her father from very early childhood. It was to last for many years. After a life of hard knocks and experience, she has come to thrive in her own right. Becky will be the first to say that healing and self love does not happen overnight. She's overcome depression and low self confidence. Loving herself and forgiving herself for the role she played has been critical. Forgiveness is something you do for yourself. Understanding that, "We do not owe our past a place in our future,” Becky makes conscious decisions daily as to how her life will be each day. Now Becky feels we live on this earth to share our own experience, perhaps sparing someone else who has gone through the same and need their own light to shine. Her book, "The Woman I Love: Surviving, Healing and Thriving After a Childhood of Sexual, Emotional and Physical Abuse" is a testament to this belief. Statistics reveal one in three girls and one in five boys are victims of incest and abuse, she notes, therefore healing steps must take place regardless of our gender. The damage causes lifelong issues than can color ones world miserable for an entire life, unless steps towards healing are diligently followed. Becky feels that, "Each human alive is a constantly unfolding story, a hero in a novel that no one else can write.” Currently Becky works with other women to help them discover the healing power of story and teaches them how craft their stories to share with the world or simply write for healing purposes. As with herself she has had the pleasure of watching others find peace through the telling of their stories.