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Sébastien Page explores how great leaders navigate failure, conflict, pressure, and purpose. — YOU'LL LEARN — 1) How agreeableness holds you back 2) How to know whether a goal is still worth pursuing 3) How to make stress work for you Subscribe or visit AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep1056 for clickable versions of the links below. — ABOUT SÉBASTIEN — Sébastien Page is Head of Global Multi-Asset and Chief Investment Officer at T. Rowe Price. He has more than two decades of leadership experience and has done extensive research on positive, sports, and personality psychology. He currently oversees a team of investment professionals actively managing over $500 billion in Assets Under Management. Page has written two finance books: Beyond Diversification: What Every Investor Needs to Know, and the co-authored Factor Investing and Asset Allocation, and he has won six annual research-paper awards: two from The Financial Analysts Journal and four from The Journal of Portfolio Management. He appears regularly on CNBC and Bloomberg TV, and in 2022 was named a Top Voice in Finance by LinkedIn. He has been quoted extensively in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, and Barron's. His latest book, The Psychology of Leadership, is on sale now from Harriman House. Page lives in Maryland with his wife and kids.• Book: The Psychology of Leadership: Timeless principles to improve your management of individuals, teams… and yourself! • LinkedIn: Sébastien Page• Website: PsychologyofLeadership.net — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW — • Book: Can't Hurt Me: Master Your Mind and Defy the Odds by David Goggins • Book: Never Finished: Unshackle Your Mind and Win the War Within by David Goggins • Book: Open: An Autobiography by Andre Agassi • Book: Quit: The Power of Knowing When to Walk Away by Annie Duke • Book: The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay Stanier • Book: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Powerful Lessons in Personal Change by Stephen Covey • Past episode: 727: How to Start Something New and See it Through with Michael Bungay Stanier— THANK YOU SPONSORS! — • Strawberry.me. Claim your $50 credit and build momentum in your career with Strawberry.me/AwesomeSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This New Year's episode, co-hosts Gayla Scrivener and Fran Attilio talk about transforming your mindset for the year ahead. Drawing from personal experiences and favorite self-development books, they explore how small shifts in thinking can lead to significant life changes. Episode Highlights: Gayla & Fran share books that can reshape your perspective on personal growth and success Learn how setting boundaries and embracing imperfection can lead to personal empowerment Explore the importance of taking action without waiting for the "perfect moment" Understand the connection between self-love and achieving your goals Get practical insights on how to maintain resilience when facing challenges Book Recommendations: Fran's Picks The 8 Day Self-Love Project by Anna Z. Ryan [Amazon Link] Girl, Stop Apologizing by Rachel Hollis [Amazon Link] Atlas of the Heart by Brene Brown [Amazon Link] Fierce Boundaries by Cynthia Garner, DBH [Amazon Link] The Choice [Amazon Link] & The Gift [Amazon Link] by Dr. Edith Eger Girl On Fire: How to Choose Yourself, Burn the Rule Book, and Blaze Your Own Trail in Life and Business by Cara Alwill Leyba [Amazon Link] Gayla's Picks The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay Stanier [Amazon Link] Building a StoryBrand 2.0: Clarify Your Message So Customers Will Listen by Donald Miller [Amazon Link] Slow Productivity: The Lost Art of Accomplishment Without Burnout by Cal Newport [Amazon Link] Coach Builder: How to Turn Your Expertise Into a Profitable Coaching Career by Donald Miller [Amazon Link] Profit First by Michael Michalowicz [Amazon Link] SYSTEMology: Create time, reduce errors and scale your profits with proven business systems by David Jenyns [Amazon Link] Continue the conversation. Share some of you favorite books on Facebook. Additional Resources: Free “Don't Let the Start Stop You” Journal (just pay shipping): https://livefullworkfun.com/journal Free motivation download: https://tentouchcreative.com/flowforward/ Connect with Gayla: Website: https://www.gaylascrivener.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gaylascrivener/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/GaylaScrivenerLiveFullWorkFun Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gscrivener/ Connect with Fran: Website: https://tentouchcreative.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/fran-groesbeck/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tentouchcreative Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tentouchcreative/ This episode is brought to you by Scrivener Social. The easy-to-use social scheduling platform built for the busy solopreneur. Go to ScrivenerSocial.com and schedule a demo today!
Send us a textIn this episode, I'm joined by Peter Ruchti, the founder of Adept Plus, who has turned a solo digital marketing venture into a thriving agency specializing in home services. Peter reveals the challenges he faced in moving from freelancer to leader, from the hurdles of delegation to establishing trust within his growing team. We dive into the balance between using cutting-edge technology like AI and maintaining the personal touch that's essential in client relationships. Peter sheds light on his approach to freedom, discussing how financial security and time flexibility allowed him to focus on growth and explore new industry trends. As we discuss the future of digital marketing, particularly for contractors and home service providers, Peter provides actionable insights on scaling effectively and staying adaptable. Whether you're leading a team, looking to scale, or trying to integrate the latest digital tools without losing the human connection, this episode will guide you through the nuances of growing a digital marketing agency in today's fast-evolving landscape. Connect with Peter Ruchti: If you're ready to elevate your approach to digital marketing and want to explore the latest in AI-driven strategies, connect with Peter Ruchti at Adept Plus. Reach out to him via email for insights and ideas that can help you navigate today's fast-evolving digital landscape. Books Mentioned:The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay StanierJoin the New Catalytic Leadership CommunityCheck out our new online membership site, with new resources by Dr. William Attaway and his team added weekly: https://checkout.catalyticleadership.net/Support the showJoin Dr. William Attaway on the Catalytic Leadership podcast as he shares transformative insights to help high-performance entrepreneurs and agency owners achieve Clear-Minded Focus, Calm Control, and Confidence. Free 30-Minute Discovery Call:Ready to elevate your business? Book a free 30-minute discovery call with Dr. William Attaway and start your journey to success. Special Offer:Get your FREE copy of Catalytic Leadership: 12 Keys to Becoming an Intentional Leader Who Makes a Difference. Connect with Dr. William Attaway: Website LinkedIn Facebook Instagram TikTok YouTube
The number one priority for HR leaders in 2025 is leader and manager development and yet, only 36% of organizations with leadership development programs think they work. Organizations are spending money and prioritizing leadership development but they aren't seeing the results. So what's missing?New manager expert, Eric Girard is joining me on this episode to share two essential skills your people managers need, but probably don't have.▶️ Two Skills Your People Managers Need But Probably Don't Have with Eric Girard ▶️ Key Points:04:27 Eric's journey to new manager development07:48 The challenge new managers face10:37 Leading with empathy13:16 How to invest in your people managers15:25 If you can only develop two skills, focus on these17:37 The value of coachingResources from this episode:Lead Like a Pro: The Essential Guide for New Managers by Eric GirardThe Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay StanierJoin the Nonprofit Learning and Development Collective: https://www.skillmastersmarket.com/nonprofit-learning-and-development-collectiveWas this episode helpful? If you're listening on Apple Podcasts or Spotify, follow and leave a review!
Hey folks, welcome to another episode of The Chris LoCurto Show! Today, we're diving into four offbeat, yet powerful questions every leader should ask themselves—and maybe even their team. These aren't your standard leadership questions; they're designed to shake things up, challenge your thinking, and reveal truths you may have been avoiding. If you're ready to take your leadership and your team to the next level, this episode is for you. Let's get to it!Introduction (00:00:00)Discover how asking the right questions can lead to better decisions, stronger teams, and personal growth. Stick around to see how these questions could revolutionize your leadership.Question 1: "What am I pretending not to know?" (00:01:45)This tough question forces you to confront blind spots and hard truths. Are you ignoring signs of low morale or avoiding necessary but uncomfortable conversations? Examples included!Question 2: "If I could solve only one problem in my business, what would it be?" (00:10:59)Focus on the one issue that could have the biggest ripple effect across your business. This question helps you streamline, align your team, and boost efficiency. Check out the examples provided!Action Steps After Identifying the Problem (00:18:45)Once you've pinpointed the biggest problem, here's how to define success, create a plan, and engage your team in solving it. Includes actionable steps and examples.Question 3: "What would my business look like if it were easy?" (00:20:47)Challenge the mindset that business has to be complicated. Simplify processes, boost team morale, and increase efficiency by focusing on what truly matters. Examples illustrate how simplicity drives success.Question 4: "Who is not telling me the truth and why?" (00:27:39)Evaluate the transparency in your team and identify barriers to open communication. Are you creating an environment where team members feel safe to share the truth? Examples provided to help you navigate this tricky terrain.Next-Level Leadership LIVE Event 2025 (00:31:15)Additional Resources (00:35:48)Want more? Check out these related episodes and blog posts:Episode 149: Five Essential Leadership QuestionsEpisode 257: Questions to Change the Way You Lead Forever with Michael Bungay StanierBlog post: 4 Questions You Should Ask About Your Leadership (Updated 2024)PDF - Practical Steps to Make Business EasierAll links are in the show notes to help you dig deeper and grow.Conclusion (00:36:48)Leaders who aren't afraid to ask the hard questions are the ones who excel. Use these questions to challenge yourself, refine your leadership, and transform your business. As always, take this information, change your leadership, change your business, change your life. See you next time!
I'm so excited to share this special 20 min episode recap with a powerful message. I'm publishing this curation to help you make the most of your time. The episode features segments from the episode 043 focussing on motivational excerpts from Season 1. https://richie.libsyn.com/boom-season-1-compilation-motivational-expert-think-snacks ====== Eek! You're gonna love this. We took highlights from all my past guests from Season 1 and compiled this powerful podcast for you to listen to over and over. If you're new to The Richie Norton Show this will really give you a mind-bend. For the dedicated listeners from the beginning, your head will spin as you recall the context of these power statements from some of the most influential people on the planet. Namely... - Gretchen Rubin is one of today's most influential and thought-provoking observers of happiness and human nature, bestselling author of The Happiness Project and many others. - Stephen M. R. Covey, Leadership Development Pioneer, New York Times and #1 Wall Street Journal best-selling author of The SPEED of Trust—The One Thing That Changes Everything, which has been translated into 22 languages and has sold over 2 million copies worldwide. - Jeff Goins, best-selling author of five books including the The Art of Work and Real Artists Don't Starve. - Pat Flynn, top podcaster of Smart Passive Income and WSJ bestselling author Superfans, Will It Fly, Co-founder of The Switchpod and more. - John Lee Dumas, host of Entrepreneurs on Fire, an award winning podcast with over 2000 episodes, 1 million+ listens a month, and seven-figures of annual revenue, author of The Freedom Journal, The Mastery Journal and The Podcast Journal. - Susan Cain, author of the bestseller Quiet: The Power of Introverts in A World That Can't Stop Talking, her TED Talk was named by Bill Gates one of his all-time favorite talks and LinkedIn named Susan the 6th Top Influencer in the world. - Jacquelyn Umof, former Laker Girl, ranked top 5 Yoga Instructor to follow on Instagram, and has been featured in Shape Magazine, Good Housekeeping, Bride Magazine, the Alo Yoga Mindful Movement Book, and was a select interview guest on Los Angeles' Morning News KTLA 5. - SIRAH is a Grammy award winning rapper (Skrillex - Bangarang) who overcame abject poverty, homelessness, kidnapping, rape, drugs, gangs, violence, and addiction. She lived through the unimaginable and created a new life through self-determination. - Michael Bungay Stanier is the author of The Coaching Habit. It's the best-selling coaching book of this century, with more than 700,000 copies sold and The Advice Trap: Be Humble, Stay Curious, and Change the Way You Lead Forever. Michael is the Founder of Box of Crayons, a Rhodes Scholar and in 2019 was named the #1 thought leader in coaching. - Casey Garland who is patient #6 in Salt Lake City, Utah and in quarantine opens your eyes to the unseen world that is the COVID-19 pandemic. - Whitney Johnson is the CEO of WLJ Advisors and one of the 50 leading business thinkers in the world as named by Thinkers50, expert on helping high-growth organizations develop high-growth individuals, an award-winning author, frequent lecturer for Harvard Business School's Corporate Learning and an executive coach and advisor to CEO, popular contributor to the Harvard Business Review, has 1.7 million followers on LinkedIn, ranked #3 on the Global Gurus' Top 30 Organizational Culture Professionals, and cofounder of the Disruptive Innovation Fund with Clayton Christensen. Listen to this compelling compilation of expert sound bites and thought snacks to discover how to stop putting your goals at the fringe of your life. Learn how to live your highest dreams now and build economic moats and strategic moats that support your dream now. Create projects and businesses that create time, not take time. RICHIE NORTON SHOW COMMUNITY: https://www.facebook.com/groups/richiepodcast RICHIE NORTON SHOW NOTES AND RESOURCES: http://www.richienorton.com/ RICHIE NORTON SOCIAL: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/richie_norton LINKEDIN: http://www.linkedin.com/in/richardnorton FB: https://www.facebook.com/richienorton TWITTER: http://www.twitter.com/richienorton
I'm so excited to share this special 20 min episode stack as a highlight with a powerful message. I'm publishing this curation to help you make the most of your time. The episode features segments from the episode 026, 027, & 028 featuring Michael Bungay Stanier the following Aftercast & Solocast. https://richie.libsyn.com/michael-bungay-stanier-the-advice-trap ====== Richie and Michael discuss how to avoid giving the wrong advice and how to be humble, stay curious and change the way you lead forever. Michael Bungay Stanier is the author of The Coaching Habit. It's the best-selling coaching book of this century, with more than 700,000 copies sold and more than 1,000 5-star reviews on Amazon. His new book is The Advice Trap: Be Humble, Stay Curious, and Change the Way You Lead Forever. Michael is the Founder of Box of Crayons. He was a Rhodes Scholar and in 2019 was named the #1 thought leader in coaching. Before founding Box of Crayons, Michael held senior positions in the corporate, consultancy and agency worlds He has lived and worked in Australia, the UK, the US and Canada. Michael has an M Phil from Oxford, a law degree and a BA with highest honors from the Australian National University. RICHIE NORTON SHOW COMMUNITY:https://www.facebook.com/groups/richiepodcast RICHIE NORTON SHOW NOTES AND RESOURCES: http://www.richienorton.com/ RICHIE NORTON SOCIAL: INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/richie_norton LINKEDIN: http://www.linkedin.com/in/richardnorton FB: https://www.facebook.com/richienorton TWITTER: http://www.twitter.com/richienorton
We all love giving advice! But when advice is your default as a leader, you can fall into an “advice trap” that actually crushes curiosity, creates disconnect, and prevents your team from finding productive outcomes. Bestselling author Michael Bungay Stanier (MBS) tackles this subject in his newest book The Advice Trap: Be Humble, Stay Curious & Change the Way You Lead Forever. In this episode, MBS shares some of the key lessons from the advice trap and his other books, including lessons and insights leaders can use to change their mindset, grow their curiosity, and create great new habits for building curiosity. 2:17 – With more curiosity, you can engage your people, boost morale and retention, and create a thriving organization 3:31 – Slow down in your rush to provide immediate advice 4:16 – As a leader, shift away from making advice your default response 5:13 – With curiosity, you can become a more strategic leader 6:11 – Defaulting to giving advice is often an ingrained habit 6:48 – When you start being more curious, you let others shine 7:17 – Curiosity can also strengthen your relationship with your family and others outside of work 8:40 – Forming new curiosity habits can take time and practice 9:47 - If you always give answers and advice, your team can become over-dependent, more disconnected, and less productive 10:48 – Through more curiosity, you and your team can find the purpose of your work 12:22 – While practicing curiosity and other new skills, approach it with patience and grace for yourself 13:28 – Be specific and deliberate in building your coaching habit 14:13 – Your team are your allies 15:19 – Instead of answering right away, stay in a place of curiosity a little bit longer 16:53 – Ask curious questions to find the root cause of issues within your team 18:48 – Asking questions can be more effective than giving advice 20: 11 – Your job isn't to come up with the best answer, but to help your team come up with the right answer 21:42 – To practice curiosity, pay attention to your body language Connect with Michael Bungay Stanier Visit his website and download chapter one of The Coaching Habit Learn more about Box of Crayons Read my book reports of The Coaching Habit
However you define "new," Richard and Dean discuss what coaches need to consider at the start of a new adventure and the resources they should access.Books:How we learn to move by Rob GrayThe Coach's Guide to Teaching by Doug LemovTransforming Basketball by Alex SaramaThe Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay StanierPodcasts:This one, of course!The Talent Equation - Stuart ArmstrongThe Perception-Action Podcast - Rob GrayHEO Youtube channel - Brian Gillam (Hockey Eastern OntarioWeb sites:hockeycoachingabcs.com - Tom Molloyadmkids.com - USA HockeyContact: richard(at)grassrootsminorhockey.comTwitter:Richard - @berky544Dean Holden: funlearnreturn@gmail.com
Getting a Coach After You Have Been In Graduate School for Dozens Of Years May Seem Redundant But what if hiring a coach is the one thing you need to simplify your life? Make your transition to a new job, or adventure seem possible instead of overwhelming. What if a coach is the one person you need in your corner to finally live the life you were meant for? It's all about perspective. And in this episode, I am breaking down the power of a coach in your teacher business, classroom tasks, and life! In this episode, you will learn: The top 2 reasons people are hiring coaches The number of interactions with a coach it takes to see growth Why teachers make the best coaches When a coach is worth it How to determine if a coach is right for you Links Mentioned in this Episode about being coached by other teachers: Sir John Whitmore Bill Gates The Coaching Habit What is Coaching? The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay Stanier CEO Teacher® Resources Worth Their Weight in Gold: You could probably throw a flair pen and hit an online business coach right now- so the question of the hour is why should you place your trust in me, right?! Teachers Supporting Other Teachers is what we do here at the CEO Teacher®. Tbh this is the world's ONLY guide that helps teachers become their own online business coach and show other educators how to make money online. It's the 9 Steps to Becoming an Online Business Coach for Teachers kaysemorris.com/coaching Come get the answers to all of your questions and more for waaaaay less than your last cup of Starbucks or Target Trip (‘cuz its ) Let me hit you with some good news, you're already doing half of the work and well on your way to becoming a CEO Teacher®. It's time you start leveraging your teaching ideas and begin making money to make your classroom work seem less like a chore and more like the fun you always dreamed about. The 10 Steps To Get Started Selling Your Teaching Resources workbook is important when setting a clear focus for your business goals. Goals are imperative so grab your workbook and get yours on autopilot. Check out my CEO Teacher® Book Recommendations here! Join Our CEO Teacher® Podcast Community to Grow With Like-Minded Teachers: Send me a DM on Instagram– I love chatting with my people, so let's chat about your thoughts on being coached as an adult. Come visit us each Thursday Night for the coolest teachers' lounge on the planet: Teacher TV is back and better than ever! Enjoying the podcast? Thanks for tuning in! Tag me @theceoteacher on Instagram and tell me what you are listening to! I love seeing what resonates most with our listeners! I don't want you to miss a thing! Be the first to know when a new episode is available by subscribing on iTunes here! If you would like to support The CEO Teacher® podcast, it would mean so much to me if you would leave a review on iTunes. By leaving a review, you are helping fellow CEO teachers find this podcast and start building a life they love. To leave a review on iTunes, click HERE and scroll down to Ratings and Reviews. Click “Write a Review” and share with me how this podcast is changing your business and your life! More of a Hands On or Visual Learner? Need to “see” your content in action? Check out the latest CEO Teacher® Blog Posts and YouTube Videos Here! 9 Steps to Becoming An Online Businesses Coach CEO Teacher® Online Coaching Certification Program Teacher's Guide To An Online Coaching Program Why Not You – How I Became A Business Coach
In this episode on The Coaching Podcast, we dive into the topics of coach performance, well-being, and intuition. Our guest is Cody Royle, a renowned coach of head coaches in elite sports, who brings a wealth of experience and insights from his decade-long journey coaching Canada's men's AFL national team to mentoring head coaches across various professional sports. We chat about his latest book "Second Set Of Eyes," the importance of feedback, and how intuition can guide decision-making. Plus, we explore how old-school pearls of wisdom still have a place in modern coaching, and what work-life balance means in the life of a head coach surviving for high-performance life. So, grab your cortado and join us for an enlightening conversation with Cody Royle! Here are the summary points; 1.39: Favorite coffee? Cortado! 4.04: About Cody's book: Second Set Of Eyes and the Emotional Toll of Being a Head Coach 6.52: If you are a coach, do you have a coach providing you with feedback? 7.55: Choosing a person to be your second set of eyes: Decision-making in pairs is substantially better Both coaches need approximately equal experience Verbalize your confidence in the plan 10.43: Coaching through intuition (is our best decision-making platform) 15.11: How do you help coaches grow? Don't discount "old school" coaches because they often experimented with different motivational tools to bring out the best in their athletes. 19.10: Receiving feedback is the greatest accelerator of knowledge work for all coaches. 21.04: What makes a great coach? Emotionally intelligent and mindful (everything is connected) 23.00: Book recommendation: "The Coaching Habit - Say Less, Ask More, and Change the Way You Lead Forever" by Michael Bungay Stanier 23.51: Is it possible for a Head Coach to have a balanced life? 26.17: Coach well being 26.41: The primary coaching skills are awareness, communication, and decision-making. When you are tired, it is difficult to maintain your empathy. 28.46: Disruptive coaching idea that will change the way we coach in 2030? That coaches are going to have coaches! Book recommendation: The Trillion Dollar Coach by Bill Campbell 31.42: Top 3 tips for coaches who want to grow and get better: 1) Turn the mirror on yourself 2) Explore concepts around EI, decision-making, performance psychology, and mindfulness 3) Read widely To learn more about becoming a workplace coach or advancing your coaching skills, visit: www.coachem.cc or email Sarah: info@emmadoyle.com.au About Cody Royle - Coach of Head Coaches Cody Royle coaches head coaches in elite sports. After a decade coaching Canada's men's AFL national team, he now mentors a dozen head coaches across professional soccer, basketball, rugby league, rugby union, ice hockey, and Australian football. Cody has written three books, including The Tough Stuff, an Amazon bestseller that chronicles the emotional toll of coaching in professional sports. His most recent effort, Second Set Of Eyes, sets its sights on the head coaches who are gaining a competitive edge by being coached themselves. Most importantly, Cody is a father, husband, son, brother, and grandson (among other roles) to a family spread all over the world. He lives in Toronto, Canada, and hails from Melbourne, Australia. Connect with Cody https://www.codyroyle.com Instagram: @codyroyle
My guest today is author of a few good books including, How to work with almost anyone, How to Begin, The Advice Trap and the one we all know and love, The Coaching Habit, Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever. Michael Bungay Stanier has a gift for distilling big, complex ideas into practical, accessible knowledge for everyday people that helps them be a force for good.His books have sold over a million copies, with The Coaching Habit topping The Wall Street Journal bestseller list. MBS has been featured on the blogs and social media platforms of thought leaders including Seth Godin, Tim Ferriss, and Brené Brown, and has appeared on ABC, BBC, CBC, Ted.com, and innumerable podcasts--as well as in notable publications including the Harvard Business Review, Forbes, Inc., and Fast Company. MBS is the founder of Box of Crayons, a learning and development company, that helps organizations move from advice-driven action to curiosity-led transformation. They have trained more than half a million people for clients including Microsoft, Salesforce, TELUS, and Gucci. Before establishing Box of Crayons, MBS's accomplishments included publishing an academic article on James Joyce and a Harlequin-esque short story; playing small roles in helping invent Pizza Hut's Stuffed Crust pizza and creating "one of the worst single-malt whiskies in existence"; and spending 20 minutes writing what has remained GlaxoSmithKline's global vision for more than 20 years. A former Rhodes Scholar, MBS is an Australian who now lives in Toronto, Canada. This show is dedicated to Michael's journey, this conversation is what we make it. This is Counsel Culture. Learn more at www.ericbrooker.com | www.mbs.works | www.bestpossiblerelationship.com
This week we are exploring The Coaching Habit with Michael Bungay Stanier. This book is all about Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever. Micheal has written books that have sold about a million copies all told, including The Coaching Habit, a self-published book that's become the best-selling book on coaching this century. He founded a training and development company, Box of Crayons, that has taught coaching skills to hundreds of thousands of people around the world. If you get a copy of the book and register at the website you then get access to new training (3 webinars in June) and are in with a chance to win coaching with Michael.The website is here: https://TCHlive.com. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dr-greg-wells/support
Feeling bombarded with unsolicited advice? Struggling to truly hear what others are saying? Bernice Casserly and James Cooper are here to equip you with essential techniques to become a better listener, build stronger relationships, and avoid the pitfalls of "advice monsters." In this episode, you'll discover: The key differences between active and passive listening Powerful body language cues for active listeners Practical strategies to improve your focus and truly understand others How active listening can help you discern wise advice from misleading noise Tips to set healthy boundaries and protect your energy from "advice monsters" This episode is perfect for you if: You want to improve your communication skills You struggle to truly listen to others You feel overwhelmed by unsolicited advice You're looking for ways to build stronger relationships Subscribe for more content on communication, self-improvement, and navigating tricky social situations! Chapters: The Importance of Listening 00:00:00 - 00:05:13 The Downside of Not Listening 00:05:13 - 00:10:27 The Enemies of Good Listening 00:10:27 - 00:15:01 Advice Monster Intro 00:15:01 - 00:15:30 The Impact of Advice Monsters 00:15:30 - 00:18:19 Examples of Advice Monsters in Action 00:18:19 - 00:20:24 The Power of Pausing 00:20:24 - 00:22:22 The Third Advice Monster: Control-It 00:22:22 - 00:25:19 The Negative Impact of Control-It 00:23:34 - 00:25:43 Curiosity 00:25:43 - 00:30:12 The Seven Coaching Questions 00:30:12 - 00:43:23 Active Listening in Coaching Conversations 00:43:23 - 00:57:58 Closing Comments - 00:57:58 - 01:06:36 Follow us on: * Tiktok- https://www.tiktok.com/@t2_performance * Instagram- https://www.instagram.com/thet2hubcast/ *Youtube-https://www.youtube.com/@trans2performance/videos * Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/trans2performance * Twitter- https://twitter.com/Trans2P * Linkedin- https://www.linkedin.com/company/9404485/ Featuring: *Bernice Casserly, Consultant, Trans2 Performance *James Cooper, Consultant, Trans2 Performance We've included some additional resources to continue your learning on this topic that you can find below Articles https://www.forbes.com/sites/forbeshumanresourcescouncil/2019/08/23/failing-forward-and-why-its-ok/?sh=424809561a51 Books to take your learning further Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever: https://amzn.eu/d/c0SvZxv THE ADVICE TRAP: Be Humble, Stay Curious & Change the Way You Lead Foreverl: https://amzn.eu/d/3RnlWfr --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/thet2hubcast/message
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Order Now: How to Work with (Almost) Anyone: Five Questions for Building the Best Possible Relationships https://www.amazon.com/Almost-Anyone-Michael-Bungay-Stanier/dp/1774582651/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687463911&sr=1-1 Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Buy Now The Book: The Coaching Habit: Say Less Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever https://www.amazon.com/Coaching-Habit-Less-Change-Forever/dp/B0C3D25L89/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687463856&sr=8-1 In this episode, negotiation expert Kwame Christian sits down with Michael Bungay Stanier, bestselling author and coaching guru. They delve into the secrets of building thriving working relationships through the power of five essential questions. Gain actionable insights and unlock the key to successful communication and collaboration. Don't miss out on this episode that will transform your approach to relationships. Key Takeaways: Learn five essential questions that can transform your working relationships. Discover practical strategies to prepare, maintain, and enhance connections with colleagues, clients, and superiors. Gain insights from renowned coach Michael Bungay Stanier on building thriving working relationships that lead to success. Michael Bungay Stanier helps people know they're awesome and they're doing great. He's best known for The Coaching Habit, the best-selling coaching book of the century and recognized as a classic. His most recent book, How to Work with (Almost) Anyone, shows how to build the Best Possible Relationship with the key people at work. Michael was a Rhodes Scholar. He's Australian, and lives in Toronto, Canada. Learn more at www.MBS.works. Pre-Order Now: How to Work with (Almost) Anyone: Five Questions for Building the Best Possible Relationships https://www.amazon.com/Almost-Anyone-Michael-Bungay-Stanier/dp/1774582651/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687463911&sr=1-1 Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Michael's website: https://www.mbs.works Buy Now The Book: The Coaching Habit: Say Less Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever https://www.amazon.com/Coaching-Habit-Less-Change-Forever/dp/B0C3D25L89/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687463856&sr=8-1 Pre-Order Now: How to Work with (Almost) Anyone: Five Questions for Building the Best Possible Relationships https://www.amazon.com/Almost-Anyone-Michael-Bungay-Stanier/dp/1774582651/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687463911&sr=1-1 Follow Michael Bungay Stanier on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/michaelbungaystanier Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1
Order Now: How to Work with (Almost) Anyone: Five Questions for Building the Best Possible Relationships https://www.amazon.com/Almost-Anyone-Michael-Bungay-Stanier/dp/1774582651/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687463911&sr=1-1 Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Buy Now The Book: The Coaching Habit: Say Less Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever https://www.amazon.com/Coaching-Habit-Less-Change-Forever/dp/B0C3D25L89/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687463856&sr=8-1 In this episode, negotiation expert Kwame Christian sits down with Michael Bungay Stanier, bestselling author and coaching guru. They delve into the secrets of building thriving working relationships through the power of five essential questions. Gain actionable insights and unlock the key to successful communication and collaboration. Don't miss out on this episode that will transform your approach to relationships. Key Takeaways: Learn five essential questions that can transform your working relationships. Discover practical strategies to prepare, maintain, and enhance connections with colleagues, clients, and superiors. Gain insights from renowned coach Michael Bungay Stanier on building thriving working relationships that lead to success. Michael Bungay Stanier helps people know they're awesome and they're doing great. He's best known for The Coaching Habit, the best-selling coaching book of the century and recognized as a classic. His most recent book, How to Work with (Almost) Anyone, shows how to build the Best Possible Relationship with the key people at work. Michael was a Rhodes Scholar. He's Australian, and lives in Toronto, Canada. Learn more at www.MBS.works. Pre-Order Now: How to Work with (Almost) Anyone: Five Questions for Building the Best Possible Relationships https://www.amazon.com/Almost-Anyone-Michael-Bungay-Stanier/dp/1774582651/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687463911&sr=1-1 Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Michael's website: https://www.mbs.works Buy Now The Book: The Coaching Habit: Say Less Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever https://www.amazon.com/Coaching-Habit-Less-Change-Forever/dp/B0C3D25L89/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687463856&sr=8-1 Pre-Order Now: How to Work with (Almost) Anyone: Five Questions for Building the Best Possible Relationships https://www.amazon.com/Almost-Anyone-Michael-Bungay-Stanier/dp/1774582651/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687463911&sr=1-1 Follow Michael Bungay Stanier on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/michaelbungaystanier Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1 569003
Program Description: In this episode, Jim Dickson, Senior Consultant and Executive Coach at Equis Consulting shares his impressions of Michael Bungay Stanier's book The Coaching Habit. Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever. Please note that all views expressed in this podcast are the opinions of the individual participants and do not necessarily represent the views of any organization, employer, or group.
Mon-Chaio gives a rundown of leadership books he's read in the past few months and pulls out interesting nuggets from each selection. References: Leaders Eat Last: Why Some Teams Pull Together and Others Don't by Simon Sinek The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay Stanier Team Topologies: Organizing Business and Technology Teams for Fast Flow by by Matthew Skelton, Manuel Pais, and Ruth Malan --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tactics-tech-leadership/message
Program Description: In this episode, Jim Dickson, Senior Consultant and Executive Coach at Equis Consulting shares his impressions of Michael Bungay Stanier's book The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever. Please note that all views expressed in this podcast are the opinions of the individual participants and do not necessarily represent the views of any organization, employer, or group.
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This is a re-airing of episode 284. New episodes return on Monday, August 14th. Michael Bungay Stanier: The Coaching Habit Michael Bungay Stanier is the author of eight books, including The Coaching Habit*, which has sold more than a million copies and is the best-selling book on coaching this century. In 2011 he created and edited End Malaria, a book written in partnership with Seth Godin that raised more than $400k for Malaria No More. Michael is the founder Box of Crayons, a learning and development company that's trained thousands of people around the world to be more coach-like. He has been featured in many publications including Harvard Business Review, Forbes, and Fast Company. His TEDx Talk on Taming Your Advice Monster has been viewed more than a million times. Key Points When things get difficult, there are three roles people may fall into: the victim, the persecutor, and/or the rescuer. To step out of a victim role, figure out what's really going on, take a deep breath, and think, “And what else?” To avoid the persecutor role, assume positive intent and that people are trying their best. To stop rescuing as much, ask the victim, “How can I help?” or “What do you want from me?” Ask yourself what you want in the situation, and make sure you've communicated it to others. Then ask the others what they want. Resources Mentioned The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever* by Michael Bungay Stanier The Advice Trap* by Michael Bungay Stanier Related Episodes How to Start Coaching Someone (episode 2) How to Improve Your Coaching Skills, with Tom Henschel (episode 190) These Coaching Questions Get Results, with Michael Bungay Stanier (episode 237) Discover More Activate your free membership for full access to the entire library of interviews since 2011, searchable by topic. To accelerate your learning, uncover more inside Coaching for Leaders Plus.
You can't always choose the people you work with, but you can choose to pursue having the best possible working relationship with them. Joining us today is return guest Michael Bungay Stanier, author of the new book How to Work With Almost Anyone: Five Questions for Building the Best Possible Relationships, to talk about the importance of working relationships and how to create ones that are safe, vital, and repairable. Listeners may recognize Michael from Episode 210 of Finding Brave, How to Begin Doing Something That Matters, where Michael shares his keen insights on the three key components of a worthy goal and what it means to commit to one. Michael is the author of six books to date, the combined sales of which go well beyond one million copies. He is most known for his best-selling book The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever, and is considered one of the world's top thought leaders when it comes to coaching. Michael is also the host of 2 Pages with MBS, a fascinating podcast where his exceptional guests read the two most noteworthy pages of a favorite book and share how reading it impacted and shaped them. In today's conversation, we dig into the complex nature of working relationships, why they are so important, and how to have the best possible relationship with the person across the table from you. Michael shares why he felt compelled to write his latest book before outlining some of the essential questions he poses to readers and how they can improve working relationships today. He also provides a detailed breakdown of how to have a keystone conversation and explains how these can help you maintain and improve relationships by giving one another permission to check in and keep talking about how well (or poorly) you're working together. Working with people will always be messy and challenging, but when you commit to having the best relationship possible, incredible things can happen. To hear all of Michael's thought-provoking and very helpful insights on one of the most important aspects of our working lives, be sure to tune in today. You won't want to miss this one! Key Highlights From This Episode: • An introduction to today's guest: Michael Bungay Stanier. [05:10] • What compelled Michael to write his new book How to Work With Almost Anyone. [08:15] • Michael's approach to the writing process. [10:27] • Understanding how to build relationships that are safe, vital, and repairable. [16:34] • How to have a keystone conversation and why it's so valuable. [18:11] • The five questions in How to Work With Almost Anyone and how they help create a shared language between you and the person you're working with. [23:46] • How to overcome the (inevitable) obstacles in any working relationship. [26:48] • Building the best possible relationship with the person across the table from you. [30:13] • The biggest barrier to giving feedback and how to do so with clarity. [38:36] • How to access Michael's latest book and great bonus content. [41:53] For More Information: Michael Bungay Stanier Michael Bungay Stanier on Instagram Michael Bungay Stanier on LinkedIn Michael Bungay Stanier on YouTube Michael Bungay Stanier on Twitter Michael Bungay Stanier on Facebook Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Michael's bestselling book: The Coaching Habit Michael's latest book: How to Work With Almost Anyone Michael's previous appearance on Finding Brave: How to Begin Doing Something That Matters Michael's podcast: 2 Pages with MBS Michael's TedTalk: ‘How to Tame your Advice Monster' Are you ready for a BIG positive shift in how you're working and what you're capable of achieving today in your career and leadership? Let's work together and make that happen! While you might know me best as a podcast host and writer, a key focus in my work is career and leadership coaching for mid- to high-level professional women. 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This episode is a replay from 09/29/2022. In this season Kathryn and Laura are inspired to learn and inspired to share. Each week they discuss the ongoing story of their learning as they engage in reflective practice to connect their ideas and continuously grow. This week's inspiration is shared from Laura as she discusses the 7 Essential Coaching Questions. Transcript Inspired to Learn site of playlists Resources: What Are Famous Fictional Examples of My “Four Tendencies” Framework?, Gretchen Rubin Gmail Filtering to Organize Inbox (video) from Dr. Desiree Alexander The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever, Micahel Bungay Stanier Michael Bungay Stanier's Website 7 Essential Questions to Kick-start Your Instructional Coaching, Allison Peterson The Definitive Guide to Instructional Coaching, Jim Knight My One Best Question | Box of Crayons
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Pre-Order Now: How to Work with (Almost) Anyone: Five Questions for Building the Best Possible Relationships https://www.amazon.com/Almost-Anyone-Michael-Bungay-Stanier/dp/1774582651/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687463911&sr=1-1 Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Buy Now The Book: The Coaching Habit: Say Less Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever https://www.amazon.com/Coaching-Habit-Less-Change-Forever/dp/B0C3D25L89/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687463856&sr=8-1 In this episode, negotiation expert Kwame Christian sits down with Michael Bungay Stanier, bestselling author and coaching guru. They delve into the secrets of building thriving working relationships through the power of five essential questions. Gain actionable insights and unlock the key to successful communication and collaboration. Don't miss out on this episode that will transform your approach to relationships. Key Takeaways: Learn five essential questions that can transform your working relationships. Discover practical strategies to prepare, maintain, and enhance connections with colleagues, clients, and superiors. Gain insights from renowned coach Michael Bungay Stanier on building thriving working relationships that lead to success. Michael Bungay Stanier helps people know they're awesome and they're doing great. He's best known for The Coaching Habit, the best-selling coaching book of the century and recognized as a classic. His most recent book, How to Work with (Almost) Anyone, shows how to build the Best Possible Relationship with the key people at work. Michael was a Rhodes Scholar. He's Australian, and lives in Toronto, Canada. Learn more at www.MBS.works. Pre-Order Now: How to Work with (Almost) Anyone: Five Questions for Building the Best Possible Relationships https://www.amazon.com/Almost-Anyone-Michael-Bungay-Stanier/dp/1774582651/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687463911&sr=1-1 Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Michael's website: https://www.mbs.works Buy Now The Book: The Coaching Habit: Say Less Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever https://www.amazon.com/Coaching-Habit-Less-Change-Forever/dp/B0C3D25L89/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687463856&sr=8-1 Pre-Order Now: How to Work with (Almost) Anyone: Five Questions for Building the Best Possible Relationships https://www.amazon.com/Almost-Anyone-Michael-Bungay-Stanier/dp/1774582651/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687463911&sr=1-1 Follow Michael Bungay Stanier on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/michaelbungaystanier Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1
Pre-Order Now: How to Work with (Almost) Anyone: Five Questions for Building the Best Possible Relationships https://www.amazon.com/Almost-Anyone-Michael-Bungay-Stanier/dp/1774582651/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687463911&sr=1-1 Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Buy Now The Book: The Coaching Habit: Say Less Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever https://www.amazon.com/Coaching-Habit-Less-Change-Forever/dp/B0C3D25L89/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687463856&sr=8-1 In this episode, negotiation expert Kwame Christian sits down with Michael Bungay Stanier, bestselling author and coaching guru. They delve into the secrets of building thriving working relationships through the power of five essential questions. Gain actionable insights and unlock the key to successful communication and collaboration. Don't miss out on this episode that will transform your approach to relationships. Key Takeaways: Learn five essential questions that can transform your working relationships. Discover practical strategies to prepare, maintain, and enhance connections with colleagues, clients, and superiors. Gain insights from renowned coach Michael Bungay Stanier on building thriving working relationships that lead to success. Michael Bungay Stanier helps people know they're awesome and they're doing great. He's best known for The Coaching Habit, the best-selling coaching book of the century and recognized as a classic. His most recent book, How to Work with (Almost) Anyone, shows how to build the Best Possible Relationship with the key people at work. Michael was a Rhodes Scholar. He's Australian, and lives in Toronto, Canada. Learn more at www.MBS.works. Pre-Order Now: How to Work with (Almost) Anyone: Five Questions for Building the Best Possible Relationships https://www.amazon.com/Almost-Anyone-Michael-Bungay-Stanier/dp/1774582651/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687463911&sr=1-1 Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Michael's website: https://www.mbs.works Buy Now The Book: The Coaching Habit: Say Less Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever https://www.amazon.com/Coaching-Habit-Less-Change-Forever/dp/B0C3D25L89/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687463856&sr=8-1 Pre-Order Now: How to Work with (Almost) Anyone: Five Questions for Building the Best Possible Relationships https://www.amazon.com/Almost-Anyone-Michael-Bungay-Stanier/dp/1774582651/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1687463911&sr=1-1 Follow Michael Bungay Stanier on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/michaelbungaystanier Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1
For this week's Quick Fire Friday episode, Rob interviews Kurt Wilkesmann, a Director at Intelligent Business Thinking. He was born and educated in Melbourne, Australia. Kurt obtained his degree of Bachelor of Business at Swinburne University of Technology. He's a successful entrepreneur and has had a variety of businesses. Always having an inherent virtue of helping people, Kurt is now helping small-medium business owners overcome this pandemic of disengagement in the workplace. According to Kurt's research, 90% of business owners recognize that engagement is essential, but fewer than 25% have a plan, and not much of that 25% is executing their plan. Employees are the company's greatest asset; engaged employees are the gears that keep the company machine running smoothly, and without them, it seems impossible for the organization to succeed. Kurt helps small-medium business owners integrate a connection with their employees by teaching them the three components that constitute a miserable job: first, a deep dive into transactional relationships, second, informing them that the work they do helps the organization, and third, commending them for the measured improvement that they've shown. A key takeaway that small-medium business owners can learn from Kurt, is the emphasis on the subject that business owners should realize that meaningful relationships are critical within the company. Relationships and emotions govern rational thought; they're stronger. It's the glue that holds the team together. It increases productivity and job satisfaction, but most importantly, it develops a positive company culture. This Cast Covers: The significance of employee engagement and organizational culture in the organization. A widespread lack of engagement in the workplace across the globe. People accepting the status quo of workplace disengagement. Business owners increase their awareness regarding their employees. Employees are a company's or organization's most valuable resource. Employees are attracted to an organization because of what it stands for. Managers and business owners need to embody the organization's core values. Emotions are more powerful than rational thought. The three components that compose a miserable job. Developing meaningful relationships and solidarity inside the company. Links: Kurt's Linkedin Kurt's Company Website Additional Resources: The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay Stanier Quotes: “Without good people, it's impossible to be successful.” — Kurt Wilkesmann. “People join organizations but leave managers.” — Kurt Wilkesmann. “There are certain key elements that business owners should be aware of.” — Kurt Wilkesmann. “Emotions are stronger than rational thoughts.” — Kurt Wilkesmann. “You can't have a team of individuals, each doing their own thing without communication.” — Kurt Wilkesmann.
Welcome to the PressPlay Lifestyle AI-Inspired podcast, where we're all about helping coaches like you leverage AI in your business. Our mission is to bring you book summaries of the best ideas from the world's top experts, focused on improving your business by enhancing your coaching, products, marketing, sales, and operations. So grab a pen and a notebook, get ready to take some notes, and let's dive right into today's book summary. Hello, Coach! Our goal here is to help you leverage AI in your business with book summaries from the best ideas from the world's top experts focused on helping you improve your business by enhancing your coaching, products, marketing, sales, and operations. Today, we'll explore one of the top coaching books that will support you in improving and enhancing your coaching. So, let's dive in and get you the insights you need to take your coaching practice to the next level. "The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever" by Michael Bungay Stanier This book summary will teach you how to establish effective coaching habits to transform your coaching practice and create a more significant impact on your clients. The key to successful coaching lies in asking powerful questions that enable clients to unlock their own insights and solutions. Step-by-Step Playbook for Implementation: Develop the coaching habit by adopting the 7 essential questions: 1. The Kickstart Question: "What's on your mind?" 2. The AWE Question: "And what else?" 3. The Focus Question: "What's the real challenge here for you?" 4. The Foundation Question: "What do you want?" 5. The Lazy Question: "How can I help?" 6. The Strategic Question: "If you're saying 'yes' to this, what are you saying 'no' to?" 7. The Learning Question: "What was most useful or valuable here for you?" Practice the 7-Step Process for establishing a coaching habit: 1. Identify a coaching opportunity: Look for situations where you can support someone's growth, learning, or problem-solving. 2. Listen actively: Pay full attention to the person you're coaching, and resist the urge to offer solutions or advice. 3. Ask one of the 7 essential questions: Choose the most appropriate question for the situation, and ask it with genuine curiosity. 4. Pause and wait for their response: Give the person time to think and process before answering. 5. Ask a follow-up question, if needed: Use the AWE Question or another essential question to help them explore deeper. 6. Offer support, if requested: If they ask for your help, provide guidance or resources. 7. Close the conversation with the Learning Question: This encourages reflection on the insights gained during the conversation. Cultivate a mindset of curiosity: Shift your focus from providing answers to asking questions, and trust that your clients have the ability to discover their own solutions. Set boundaries and limits: Understand the difference between being helpful and overstepping your role as a coach. Encourage clients to take ownership of their challenges and solutions. Embrace the power of silence: Give your clients space to think, process, and articulate their thoughts without feeling rushed or pressured. Continuously improve your coaching skills: Stay informed about the latest coaching techniques and best practices. Invest in your professional development through workshops, seminars, and further reading. Measure your progress and success: Monitor the impact of your coaching on your clients' personal and professional growth. Use feedback and self-reflection to refine your coaching approach and ensure you're making a difference. In conclusion, "The Coaching Habit" by Michael Bungay Stanier offers invaluable insights into the power of asking the right questions in coaching. By implementing the strategies outlined in this summary, you'll be well on your way to transforming your coaching practice and making a lasting impact on your clients. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pressplayinspired/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/pressplayinspired/support
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It all starts with meaningful conversations. That's what Jenny Herald's guest on this episode of Dreams With Deadlines believes, and he's got data points to back it up.Devon Brown of Inciting Leaders shares insights on the evolution we've seen over the past decade from traditional top-down performance management techniques to a more continuous, ongoing framework that encourages ongoing communication.Key Things Discussed Why meaningful results start with meaningful peer-to-peer conversation The difference between (and mechanics behind) one-on-ones versus check-ins How to apply OKRs and measure for individual success within a team context Driving what matters: Choosing to emphasize behavior, delivery or both The future of performance management – what it looks like and what it needs Show Notes [00:00:35] About innovating the transition from traditional performance management to continuous performance management, starting in 2009 and accelerating as the function has shifted away from HR. [00:01:50] Why shifting the performance management model away from top-down annual event to ongoing, frequent conversations empowers managers and employees. [00:03:04] About the potent combination of Conversation, Feedback and Recognition (CFRs) with Objectives & Key Results (OKRs) at the heart of visionary leadership. [00:04:06] What poor management looks like versus a continuous, integrative approach that seeks to develop skills and adapt to situations on an ongoing basis. [00:06:33] Distinguishing between leaders and managers, where their skills overlap and why their tendencies are often (wrongly) conflated: Leaders create change while managers react to/execute on it. Leaders are people-focused while managers tend to be process-oriented. Leaders seek feedback while managers avoid or minimize vulnerabilities. [00:09:00] How the tension between organizational, team and individual application of OKRs can be managed to create a culture that supports progress across the enterprise. [00:14:30] Applying OKRs to and measuring for individual success – and growth – within a team context within a robust continuous performance management framework. [00:17:28] Why performance management is trending towards a team emphasis: Increasingly complex global and internal business structures The intensifying need for cross-departmental communication and collaboration [00:18:43] Defining “check-in” versus “one-on-one” conversations: Check-ins are ongoing conversations about performance, development, expectations wellbeing, and general feedback. One-on-Ones are solution-oriented, task-oriented, operationally-oriented and tactical. [00:20:25] A deeper dive into the big-picture, strategic nature of “check-ins”, including these four types: Assessing and adjusting to effectively manage expectations and goals. Short- and longer-term career development. Ongoing feedback conversations, both positive and negative. Overall, holistic well-being within a personal and professional context. [00:22:50] Why well-being conversations are key to the current workplace landscape: Pandemic-related recognition that people are not computers and have emotions. Potentially isolating hybrid conditions. The need to be in touch with whether workers are engaged – or not. To maximize retention and corporate loyalty. [00:27:01] How “performance” and “relational” currencies impact outcomes – and why. [00:29:13] Driving what matters: A look at which levers to pull in measuring for success and how they vary based on whether the emphasis is on behavior, delivery or both. [00:34:16] Distinguishing between the “what” (results) and the “how” (behavioral) in managing OKRs for both teams/individuals. [00:37:00] About identifying and incentivizing individual behaviors that build towards positive team results (without leaving behind a trainwreck). [00:41:20] Looking at the future of performance management: A move away from the individual towards team management through ongoing feedback. A tremendous need for enhanced leadership and training for stronger ongoing conversations at all levels of the enterprise. Integrative software systems to support ongoing agility and adaptability. [00:46:39] Quick-Fire Questions for Devon: What is your dream with a deadline? To impact 1,000 leaders in 2023 with positive downstream results across company cultures and individual lives. What is the No. 1 thing leaders can be doing to uplevel performance? There's no one thing, but frequent and ongoing conversations are essential. What advice would you give to people undertaking an OKR journey? It's easy to get excited by the idea of results, but stay attuned to how concepts like stretch and transformation actually fit into your workplace culture and history. What book has shaped the way you think about leadership and performance management? "The Leadership Pipeline: How to Build the Leadership Powered Company," by Ram Charan, Stephen Drotter and Jim Noel. "The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever," by Michael Bungay Stanier. Relevant links: "Measure What Matters: OKRs, the Simple Idea that Drives 10x Growth," by John Doerr More about Daniel Montgomery and Agile Strategies, an OKR consultancy More about Dr. David Rock and his Neuroleadership Institute "The Leadership Pipeline: How to Build the Leadership Powered Company," by Ram Charan, Stephen Drotter and Jim Noel "The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever," by Michael Bungay Stanier About Our Guest:Devon Brown transforms teams and organizations using neuroscience research for insight, habits, and performance. He considers both individual and organizational behavior change with a systemic approach. Certifications include NLI Brain-based Coaching, Hogan, DiSC, MHS EQ-i/360, KAI, and Linkage – Purposeful Leader.Follow Our Guest:Website | LinkedInFollow Dreams With Deadlines:Host | Company Website | Blog | Instagram | Twitter
Negotiate Anything: Negotiation | Persuasion | Influence | Sales | Leadership | Conflict Management
Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ In this special episode with author, Michael Bungay Stanier, Michael talks about his new book, The Advice Trap and ends with a live LinkedIn Q&A. Connect with Michael on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelbungaystanier/?originalSubdomain=ca Book: The Advice Trap: Be Humble, Stay Curious & Change the Way You Lead Forever https://www.amazon.com/Advice-Trap-Humble-Curious-Forever/dp/1989025757 Book: The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever https://www.amazon.com/Coaching-Habit-Less-Change-Forever/dp/0978440749 Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1
Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ In this special episode with author, Michael Bungay Stanier, Michael talks about his new book, The Advice Trap and ends with a live LinkedIn Q&A. Connect with Michael on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/michaelbungaystanier/?originalSubdomain=ca Book: The Advice Trap: Be Humble, Stay Curious & Change the Way You Lead Forever https://www.amazon.com/Advice-Trap-Humble-Curious-Forever/dp/1989025757 Book: The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever https://www.amazon.com/Coaching-Habit-Less-Change-Forever/dp/0978440749 Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1
This week on the show I throw back to my interview with the incredibly talented Michael Bungay Stanier (or MBS for short). Michael is the author to several books included best-seller The Coaching Habit which has sold over 1 million copies to date. Michael also founded a training and development company, Box of Crayons, that has taught coaching skills to hundreds to thousands of people around the world. He has also been featured on the TedX stage with a brilliant speech titled, “How to Tame Your Advice Monster.”Topics-“Be curious a little bit longer and rush to action and advice giving a little bit more slowly.”-What goes wrong when we give advice?-What is our advice monster and how do we tame it?-7 Coaching questions to lead to empowerment, clarity, and action-Understanding where you fit into the Drama Triangle-The importance of silence in conversation-Lessons learned from a former FBI Hostage Negotiator -The three key components to start doing something that mattersIf you enjoyed this show be sure to leave a rating, review, and refer it to a friend as that helps the show grow tremendously and puts a huge smile on my face.
You've probably heard the phrase, “A book is a business card.” That's because what you don't hear is that a book is a wonderful revenue generator! It isn't — at least not directly. The extreme Time-to-Revenue Ratio of writing and marketing a book is not for the faint of heart, unless the book connects directly to a larger part of your business model, serving as lead generation for more profitable products and services. Some interesting stats for you: Even the big behemoth, Penguin Random House, reports that just 35 percent of books they publish are profitable. Among those that make money, just 4 percent account for 60 percent of those profits. In 2021, fewer than one percent of the 3.2 million titles that BookScan tracked sold more than 5,000 copies. Continuing on last week's conversation about the three different publishing options and how to choose which one is right for you, today I'm diving deep into the mysterious royalty waters. How do each of the three methods — self, hybrid, traditional — stack up? Listen in to find out. For more data points beyond my own examples, check out The Transparency Project's Publishing Paid Me crowd-sourced spreadsheet with nearly 3,000 responses.
Helen Fanucci is a best-selling author, transformational sales leader, team builder, podcaster, and sought-after keynote speaker. She is currently the Customer Success Sales Leader at Microsoft, where she's on a mission to provide thought leadership in employee engagement, hybrid work productivity and security. In today's episode, we discuss how sales leaders can learn to love their teams. Helen shares proven strategies sales managers can use to build stronger team cultures and deliver outsized business performance while retaining top talent. What You'll Learn: Red flags you should never ignore in conversations with sellers Why sales leaders must understand the things that matter to their people The two types of conversations every sales leader should master Traditional versus "Love Your Team" sales leader Why modern sales leaders should read Hellen's book Love Your Team How leaders unintentionally promote bad behavior in teams The benefits of having an accurate pipeline How to have tough love conversations with your team Why curiosity is a core skill in leadership The pandemic dramatically flipped the workforce power structure on its head. Team members have more power in the marketplace and they know it. As sales leaders, we must intentionally shift our approach from the traditionally accepted hustle mode and focus on the success and wellbeing of our team. Links and Resources When you need to hire top sales professionals, turn to a recruiting partner that speaks sales. Alaant Workforce Solutions. Learn more and book a discovery call at www.fullfunnelfreedom.com/alaant The perfect CRM system, streamlined business processes and happier customers – Eligeo CRM Inc can make it happen for your business. Go to www.fullfunnelfreedom.com/eligeo for more info Helen's LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/helenfanucci/ Love Your Team: A Survival Guide for Sales Managers in a Hybrid World by Helen Fanucci - https://amzn.to/3GdeEOt Love Your Team Podcast - https://www.loveyourteampodcast.com/ Brené Brown's Dare to Lead Podcast - https://brenebrown.com/podcasts/ Becoming by Michelle Obama - https://amzn.to/3VEUoLz The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay Stanier - https://amzn.to/3igbQrZ Brotopia by Emily Chang https://amzn.to/3jS5uiQ Girl in the Gun Club by Tracy Salzgeber https://amzn.to/3iazF4z Full Funnel Freedom https://fullfunnelfreedom.com The Sandler Summit 2023 https://www.hamish.sandler.com/orlando Sandler on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sandler_yyc/ Sandler in Calgary - www.hamish.sandler.com/howtosandler Connect with Hamish Knox on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/hamishknox/ Sponsorship or guest inquiries - podcast@fullfunnelfreedom.com
Who knew that one could look so youthful yet call themselves an elder?! Michael Bungay Stanier (or as he's often nicknamed, MBS) and I had a good laugh recording this episode as we chatted about the values of leading like an “elder,” despite looking and sounding much more like a 28-year-old ‘bloke' (British version of man, chap…you can choose your own word). Michael Bungay Stanier is the author of a number of successful books including: End Malaria, Do More Great Work, Get Unstuck & Get Going, Great Work Provocations and most recently The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever. He is also the founder and Senior Partner of Box of Crayons (BoxOfCrayons.biz), was the first Canadian Coach of the Year, and is a Rhodes Scholar. MBS regularly speaks to audiences around the world about “The Coaching Habit” and doing more great work. Highlights include speaking at Google, the HRPA and SHRM conferences, the Rural Women of Manitoba Conference, and anywhere that's vaguely warm during wintertime in Toronto, his home. My highlight is his appearance on the podcast of another favorite thought leader of mine, Brene Brown.In this episode, we discuss legacy and time, what it means to be an elder, and how to make a meaningful contribution to the world that is aligned with who you are. Links Mentioned:‘The Coaching Habit' by Michael Bungay StanierMBS Works website
In this season Kathryn and Laura are inspired to learn and inspired to share. Each week they discuss the ongoing story of their learning as they engage in reflective practice to connect their ideas and continuously grow. This week's inspiration is shared from Laura as she discusses the 7 Essential Coaching Questions. Transcript Resources: What Are Famous Fictional Examples of My “Four Tendencies” Framework?, Gretchen Rubin Gmail Filtering to Organize Inbox (video) from Dr. Desiree Alexander The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever, Micahel Bungay Stanier Michael Bungay Stanier's Website 7 Essential Questions to Kick-start Your Instructional Coaching, Allison Peterson The Definitive Guide to Instructional Coaching, Jim Knight My One Best Question | Box of Crayons
Robert Sofia is the Co-founder, Chairman, and CEO of Snappy Kraken. This marketing automation advertising service helps financial advisers track marketing campaigns and various business processes to expand their market share. Robert's recent accomplishments include leading his team to win the Best Places to Work in FinTech Award and Best Overall Content Marketing Company for four straight years. He is also the author of Blend Out: From Ordinary to Irresistible: How Advisors Can Market Like the Greatest Brands in the World, which divulges marketing secrets meant to disrupt the status quo and get you noticed. Robert joins me today to describe what Snappy Kraken is, its humble beginnings, and how they help financial advisers get their brands out there. He shares his extensive experience in sales and how he joined the financial industry. He explains why he isn't fond of curated content and the extent of the marketing Snappy Kraken provides per month. He discusses how they keep content fresh regardless of their output. Robert also shares a list of books he likes to read and go back to—especially The Great CEO Within. "If you saturate your audience with exposure to your brand, you become omnipresent." - Robert Sofia This week on The Model FA Podcast: Robert's extensive experience in sales, including selling copy machines How Robert joined the financial industry Where Snappy Kraken started and the services they offer How data gives them a significant advantage over the competition Why Robert doesn't believe in curating content The types of campaigns and topics they make every month How they keep their articles and marketing fresh and timeless Other forms of marketing outside of digital Expanding the content of Robert's book, Blend Out How to create omnipresence in marketing Why Robert likes reading The Great CEO Within Resources Mentioned: Book: The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay Stanier Book: The Great CEO Within: The Tactical Guide to Company Building by Matt Mochary, Alex MacCaw, and Misha Talavera Book: Three Feet From Gold: Turn Your Obstacles Into Opportunities (Think and Grow Rich Series) by Sharon L. Lechter and Greg S. Reid Book: Crushing It!: How Great Entrepreneurs Build Their Business and Influence-and How You Can, Too by Gary Vaynerchuk Our Favorite Quotes: "You can do all the marketing you want, but if you don't have a good brand or website, visitors are going to bounce." - Robert Sofia "Advisors should still create their own content." - David DeCelle "If someone's going on social media, they're going there to consume content." - David DeCelle Connect with Robert Sofia: Robert Sofia Website Snappy Kraken Book: BLEND OUT Snappy Kraken on YouTube Robert Sofia on Twitter Robert Sofia on LinkedIn About the Model FA Podcast The Model FA podcast is a show for fiduciary financial advisors. In each episode, our host David DeCelle sits down with industry experts, strategic thinkers, and advisors to explore what it takes to build a successful practice — and have an abundant life in the process. We believe in continuous learning, tactical advice, and strategies that work — no “gotchas” or BS. Join us to hear stories from successful financial advisors, get actionable ideas from experts, and re-discover your drive to build the practice of your dreams. Did you like this conversation? Then leave us a rating and a review in whatever podcast player you use. We would love your feedback, and your ratings help us reach more advisors with ideas for growing their practices, attracting great clients, and achieving a better quality of life. While you are there, feel free to share your ideas about future podcast guests or topics you'd love to see covered. Our Team: President of Model FA, David DeCelle If you like this podcast, you will love our community! Join the Model FA Community on Facebook to connect with like-minded advisors and share the day-to-day challenges and wins of running a growing financial services firm.
Mark Hershberg is the author of Career Toolkit: Essential Skills for Success That No One Taught You. He is the CTO of Stynt, an innovative, tech-driven healthcare staffing platform that enables clinicians and hiring facilities to connect and transact directly. Mark has spent his career launching and developing ventures in start-ups, Fortune 500 companies, nonprofits, and academia. At MIT, he helped launch the Undergraduate Practice Opportunities Program, also known as the “career success accelerator." At the Harvard Business School, he created a financial education platform used in prominent business schools. Mark completed his Bachelor of Science in Physics, Bachelor of Science in Electrical Engineering and Computer Science, and Master of Engineering in Electrical Engineering and Computer Science at MIT, where he also currently serves as an instructor. Mark joins us today to discuss accelerating your and your employees' careers. He provides insight on current trends in the job market and job seekers' perception of work. He explains what “firm” skills are and why you need to complement your technical skills with them. He also details how to be seen at work without putting the spotlight on yourself and underscores the importance of upholding ethics in the workplace. “There are other skills you need in leadership roles: communication, negotiating, team-building. But these skills aren't just for executives—they're for everyone in the company.” - Mark Hershberg This week on Mastering Overwhelm: What drives Mark's passion for helping others develop their careers The Great Resignation and trends in the job market How people are rejecting the old mindset about jobs and working The factors that attract job seekers to a company How COVID-19 shifted workplace and working culture The exponential impact of firm skills on technical skills How to ensure you're seen at your job without taking the spotlight Networking versus nepotism and the benefits of corporate politics Becoming the lazy manager Handling sexual harassment and abuse in the workplace Resources Mentioned: Book: Survival of the Savvy: High-Integrity Political Tactics for Career and Company Success by Rick Brandon Book: The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay Stanier Connect with Mark Hershberg: The Career Toolkit Stynt Book: The Career Toolkit: Essential Skills for Success That No One Taught You Stynt on LinkedIn Stynt on Facebook Stynt on Twitter Mark Hershberg on LinkedIn Mark Hershberg on Instagram Mark Hershberg on Facebook Mark Hershberg on Twitter Mastering Overwhelm - Set Yourself Free to Enjoy Your Success Thanks for tuning into this week's episode of the Mastering Overwhelm Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | GooglePlay | Stitcher | Spotify | Amazon Music | iHeart | Deezer Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more listeners, like you. Join me on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and LinkedIn. For more exclusive content and information, visit our website.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
We grow personally and professionally through learning, and what better way to self-educate than through books. In the first episode of our Behind the Cover series, I'm joined by my friend and colleague Audrey Cannata, Operations Lead at the Digital Growth Institute, to talk about The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More, and Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay Stanier. We break down this masterwork that guides leaders in helping their constituents reach the next level so they can embolden others through their transformation journey. Join us as we discuss: - (3:11) Some of the common misconceptions about professional coaching - (7:55) Challenges to building a culture around coaching - (14:53) Seven questions everyone should ask during the coaching process Check out these resources we mentioned during the podcast: - Audrey Cannata - The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More, and Change the Way You Lead Forever - Michael Bungay Stanier You can find this interview and many more by subscribing to Banking on Digital Growth on Apple Podcasts, on Spotify, or here. Listening on a desktop & can't see the links? Just search for Banking on Digital Growth in your favorite podcast player.
“We need to share stories to really get our people connected and engaged to our company values.” – Gabrielle Dolan In today's episode, we welcome Gabrielle Dollan. Gabrielle is a leadership expert and the author of several books, including "The 7 Day Starter Kit: How to Change the Way You Lead Forever" and "The Art of Strategic Communication." In this conversation, Gabrielle shares how storytelling has been an important tool for her in her work as a leader. She talks about how storytelling is an important part of effective communication and leadership, and how it can connect leaders to their employees and customers authentically. [00:01 - 11:47] Storytelling Connects With People On A Personal Level Gabrielle on failing English as a student and experiencing imposter syndrome Getting her first leadership role Realizing the power of storytelling in business communication Sharing personal stories as a leader How she started teaching storytelling to businesses [11:48 - 18:35] Understanding The Importance of Storytelling Teach leaders to improve on their storytelling skills in order to connect with their audiences The blindspots leaders have when in comes to storytelling Using storytelling for internal communications to motivate employees Engaging with customers with brand storytelling [18:36 - 27:04] Storytelling As A Powerful Tool for Businesses Gabrielle on the catalyst that made her write her book Stories are what customers resonate with Instead of telling a timeline, share your “why” Make your story more relatable to your audiences Talk about mistakes and life lessons [24:05 - 30:44] Closing Segment Gabrielle shares her insights on how storytelling can be used to empower leaders and create a legacy Connect with Gabrielle (links below) Join us for Tactical Friday! Head over tohttps://www.myvoicechallenge.com/discovermyvoice ( myvoicechallenge.com) to find out how you can discover your voice, claim your independence, and build that thriving business that you've always wanted! Key Quotes: “Storytelling is about communicating and influencing. Whether you're leading your team or whether you're pitching for work or whether you're strengthening the relationship with your clients to get more work, it's actually a really valuable skill.” - Gabrielle Dolan “People aren't seeing the power of these stories and so there's a reluctance to put it out there and it takes courage.” - Gabrielle Dolan Connect with Gabrielle Learn more about Gabrielle through her websitehttps://www.facebook.com/gabrielledolanconsulting/ ( Facebook),https://twitter.com/GabrielleDolan1/ ( Twitter),https://www.linkedin.com/in/gabrielledolan/ ( LinkedIn),https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClAs1ijUnlVKFTk8H4SEnmg ( YouTube), andhttps://www.instagram.com/gabrielledolan.1/ ( Instagram)! Check out herhttps://gabrielledolan.com/starterkit/ ( 7 Day Storytelling Starter Kit) and begin crafting stories for your business now! Resources Mentioned: https://www.amazon.com/Real-Communication-How-Lead-True/dp/0730369722 (Real Communication: How To Be You and Lead True by Gabrielle Dolan) https://www.amazon.com/Stories-Work-Essential-Business-Storytelling/dp/0730343294 (Stories for Work: The Essential Guide to Business Storytelling by Gabrielle Dolan) https://www.amazon.com/Magnetic-Stories-Customers-Employees-Storytelling/dp/0730388514 (Magnetic Stories: Connect with Customers and Engage Employees with Brand Storytelling) https://www.amazon.com/Leaders-Guide-Storytelling-Mastering-Discipline/dp/1522686371 (Leader's Guide to Storytelling by Stephen Denning) https://www.amazon.com/Story-Factor-Inspiration-Persuasion-Storytelling/dp/0465078079 (The Story Factor by Annette Simmons) https://www.amazon.com/Wake-Me-When-Data-Over/dp/047048330X (Wake Me Up When The Data is Over by Lori L. Silverman) https://www.dalecarnegie.com/en (Dale Carnegie) Did you love the value...
People say they are attracted to people who make them laugh and have a good sense of humor. But it is a bit more complicated than that. It is true that humor can bring people together, but it can also pull them apart. This episode begins with an explanation about humor and couples. https://www.theknot.com/content/couples-who-share-sense-of-humor-study When someone asks you for advice, you likely give it. After all, they asked. However, you may be better off by keeping quiet and withholding your advice, at least for a little while. That's the suggestion of Michael Bungay Stanier. Michael has been named #1 Thought Leader in Coaching and he is considered one of the top coaches in the world. He is also author of a book called The Advice Trap: Be Humble, Stay Curious & Change the Way You Lead Forever (https://amzn.to/36WEUdY). Michael joins me to explain why you might want to be a little more stingy with your advice. We all tend to justify our mistakes and poor decisions to ourselves. When we do something wrong or that we regret, it doesn't line up with our beliefs about how we are good and honest people. So we make excuses or we decide there were extenuating circumstances because we know we are not bad people – we are good people who made a mistake. This process is called cognitive dissidence. Everyone does it and it can get you into trouble according to social psychologist Carol Tavris author of the book Mistakes Were Made (but Not by Me): Why We Justify Foolish Beliefs, Bad Decisions, and Hurtful Acts (https://amzn.to/2ADP2Mw). Listen as Carol joins me to discuss this fascinating topic. How do you cut your lawn – side to side? Front to back? Listen and I'll tell you what the experts say which is the best way to mow. https://www.familyhandyman.com/landscaping/lawn-care/the-most-efficient-way-to-mow-the-grass/ PLEASE SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! We really like The Jordan Harbinger Show! Check out https://jordanharbinger.com/start OR search for it on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you listen! Truebill is the smartest way to manage your finances. The average person saves $720 per year with Truebill. Get started today at https://Truebill.com/SYSK! Sign up for your FREE Novo business checking account RIGHT NOW at https://Novo.co/Something and you'll get access to over $5,000 in perks and discounts! With Avast One, https://avast.com you can confidently take control of your online world without worrying about viruses, phishing attacks, ransomware, hacking attempts, & other cybercrimes! Small Businesses are ready to thrive again and looking for resources to rise to the challenge. That's why Dell Technologies has assembled an all-star lineup of podcasters (and we're one of them!) for the third year in a row to create a virtual conference to share advice and inspiration for Small Businesses. Search Dell Technologies Small Business Podference on Audacy.com, Spotify or Apple podcasts starting May 10th! With prices soaring at the pump, Discover has your back with cash back! Use the Discover Card & earn 5% cash back at Gas Stations and Target, now through June, when you activate. Get up to $75 cash back this quarter with Discover it® card. Learn more at https://discover.com/rewards If you're the type of person who's always thinking about new business ideas or wondering “What's the next side hustle I should spin up?” — check out the podcast My First Million! Today is made for Thrill! Style, Power, Discovery, Adventure, however you do thrill, Nissan has a vehicle to make it happen at https://nissanusa.com Whether you're going on a cross country trip or just up the street, please buckle up! Don't risk it. And remember, Click It or Ticket. Brought to you by NHTSA. Use SheetzGo on the Sheetz app! Just open the app, scan your snacks, tap your payment method and go! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Have you ever felt “The Speed of Trust?” It's the “shortest route to results” (Robert Allen, author of Multiple Streams of Income), and “the one thing that affects everything else you're doing. It's a performance multiplier which takes your trajectory upwards, for every activity you engage in, from strategy to execution.” Stephen R. Covey I felt “The Speed of Trust” from the moment I asked our next guest if he would come on the podcast, knowing full well that he hasn't spoken on a podcast or radio show since around 2014, but I know that “when trust is high, communication is easy, instant and effective.” Watch this interview on YouTube here https://youtu.be/kCRjLyCKE40 On this episode you will learn: ✔︎ Who was behind the marketing strategy that took Stephen Covey's 7 Habits Book to sell over 40 million copies worldwide (surpassing the popular Think and Grow Rich book) in 40 languages. ✔︎ How exactly did Greg Link come to meet and partner with the late Dr. Stephen Covey and what dots were connected as he looks back over his career now. ✔︎ How “Inspired Action” a term coined by Jack Canfield helped many leaders forge a path where no one had ever been before. ✔︎ What the Covey Organization learned from taking their book to Japan, and how they became the best-selling foreign business book in Japan. ✔︎ How Dr. Covey simplified the 7 Habits, and his vision for this book from the beginning. ✔︎ The challenges that Dr. Covey had as they began their work in the K-12 school market, how they overcame these challenges, and created The Leader in Me program. ✔︎ How they overcame daily obstacles they faced and used the 7 Habits to move forward. ✔︎ How he came up with the idea for the 8th Habit. ✔︎ How Greg's expertise was recognized in the motivational speaking industry. ✔︎ Why Trust was a trait that was the center of The Speed of Trust, Smart Trust and their new book Trust and Inspire. ✔︎ What advice did Dr. Covey give Greg Link that changed his life, and how can you use this advice today? Welcome back to The Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning podcast, EPISODE #207, I'm Andrea Samadi, author and educator from Toronto, Canada, now in Arizona, and today's guest is someone I have mentioned often on this podcast. For returning guests, you'll be able to figure it out quickly. For those who are new, welcome. This episode is very special to me in many ways—not just with the fact that I consider myself beyond lucky to have had the opportunity to have met some of the world's most influential people at a time in my life (late 20s) when this influence was important for the direction that I would take, that would land me exactly where I am now, all these years later. While listening to today's episode, my hope is that this story inspires you in some way, to take action with whatever it is you are working on as I take you on a trip that goes back over 20 years ago, with the lessons learned along the way highlighted, so that you can see how some of the top influencers in the world have faced challenge, had doubts, fears and worries, and even unthinkably difficult life challenges that they all had to overcome, just like you and me. What was unique with this opportunity that I had while working in the motivational speaking industry in the late 1990s, is that I was driven to keep in touch with many of the speakers who came in over the years, (as you can see from this podcast) and this platform allows us all to continue to learn and grow from them with what author Jack Canfield would call Inspired Action (that I'll cover in a minute). Today's guest, I know we can all learn from which is why I knew I had to ask him to share his experience on this podcast. If you think back to our final episode of The Think and Grow Rich book study, EPISODE #196[i] that we launched 2022 with, we opened with a quote from Bob Proctor, who said ““You can't just THINK and GROW RICH, you've got to do something with those thoughts” and it reminded me of meeting some of these global leaders, around 20 years ago, including our guest today, Greg Link, and that knowledge is power, but without action, it's useless. It's got to be Inspired Action as well, that comes from the heart. The seminar where I met Greg Link was a pivotal one, and we'll talk about this in the interview, when Steve Jobs says, you can't connect the dots looking forward, only looking back. It was here that I met Mark Victor Hansen, who co-authored The Chicken Soup for the Soul Series with Jack Canfield, Presidential Historian Doug Wead from EPISODE #187[ii] and many others including celebrities like Melanie Griffith, and world class athletes who came in to speak. I met today's guest, Greg Link in the lobby of the Ritz Carleton in Pasadena, as he introduced me to his good friend Stedman Graham, the longtime partner of Oprah Winfrey, at the very beginning of this event. I remember at the time, I had just started to write my first book that would be published quite a few years later, The Secret for Teens Revealed, (that was originally called The Mentoring Excellence Now Program that was created when I worked with over 100 youth with physical disabilities for the Easter Seals Foundation) and when I met Stedman, and saw that he had just written a book for teens[iii], I remember that feeling of “oh no, I've missed the boat on this topic” but the message I would receive loud and clear this weekend from the speakers, was quite the opposite. I can still hear Doug Wead shouting out at the audience, in an attempt to motivate action from them, when he said, “Get up and do something” with this booming voice and I wrote down-move forward with publishing this book idea I had in my head. What shocks me to the core, looking back and reading my notes from this event, is that I had written Doug's age beside his name. 21 years ago, Doug Wead was 54. I'm turning 51 this year, and if you heard EPISODE #187, you'll know that Doug passed away unexpectedly last year, at the age of 75. I don't know how old you are, but I do know that whatever age you are, that there's no such thing as “missing the boat” with whatever it is you want to do. If that's not a huge motivator, I don't know what is. Remember, you can't connect the dots looking forward, only looking back. Everything I needed for success in my lifetime was right in front on me that weekend. They were all standing a shoulders length away from me. If you were standing next to someone who could possibly change the course of your life, would you see it? After I had recorded our Top 10 episodes of all-time, I got this strange feeling to ask Greg Link if he would come on as a guest. I mentioned taking “inspired action” at the beginning of this episode, and recognize this was one of those moments when I sent the message to Greg, but hesitated. Why was I afraid to ask him to do this? He's always been there, ready to help when I've asked in the past. He did an incredible testimonial[iv] for our work in 2013, AFTER those days working in the seminar industry, and he even wrote a back of the book endorsement for The Secret for Teens. I hesitated because I knew he had been off the grid for some time, but I asked him anyway. That's what Jack Canfield, who partnered with Mark Victor Hansen for the Chicken Soup for the Soul Series would call taking “Inspired Action.” I learned from Jack Canfield that those flashes of insight we get to reach out to someone, are important to listen to. I'm so excited to see what this Inspired Action will uncover, and know that whatever it is that you take away from these secrets to success from someone who not only worked with, but partnered with the late Dr. Stephen Covey, my hopes are that it inspires you to move forward, and take the Inspired Action needed, to move you in the direction of your goals. Let's meet Greg Link…. Welcome Greg!! Thank you for speaking with me today on what I am shocked is your FIRST podcast appearance? Before I get to the questions, I always like to open up with something that helps us to dig a bit deeper before we begin, and it has to do with the fact that you kept coming into my head the past few podcast episodes, as I do tie in past episodes to current ones, and after quoting you on the last episode, I thought “I've got to ask Greg Link to see if he would speak with me on my next episode” and I know we have kept in touch over the years, but I wasn't sure if this is something you would want to do, so I was a bit nervous before I sent you that message. I usually listen to those thoughts that come into my head (Jack Canfield called it taking inspired action)—so I wonder, if you would share what you have been up to the past few years, since I saw you last, and what did you really think when I asked you to come on this podcast? This leads me to go back to where your career began… Q1: How exactly did you come to meet and partner with Dr. Stephen R Covey, I know you've told me the story—I wonder if looking back, like Steve Jobs' incredible commencement address at Stanford, what dots were connected when you think back to that moment? Q2A: When I found that interview you did in 2014 with that Toronto radio station where you mention where your journey with Dr. Covey began--it made me wonder what qualified you to work in publishing and why did Covey pick you? What did you do that made Ken Blanchard refer you to Dr. Covey when he was launching the 7 Habits book? Q2B: 2 PART QUESTION--It's written everywhere how you took the 7 Habits Book to incredible heights, published globally in 40 languages. Can you explain what you did? Also 7 Habits is the best-selling foreign business book in history in Japan. How did that happen? Q2C: How did get Dr. Covey to “simplify” the habits to make them easier for people to understand? Why did you call him your recovering academic? Q3: I saw it when I first began, and so did you! I remember you telling me how difficult it was BEFORE Leader in Me launched in our schools. You gave me millions of tips BEFORE I went into the schools with my work, and I still met with challenge and obstacles. Can you share how difficult it was for the 7 Habits BEFORE it sold millions of copies worldwide, inspiring the Leader in Me curriculum? AND what led the 7 Habits into primary schools in the first place? Q4: We could spend a good week on my next question, because you've got some incredible life experience, with high levels of success and achievement reached, but I want to know about those times where things were difficult. Our audiences consist of educators, and those in the corporate workplace (around the world) who could benefit from your story that you told me where everything went wrong in Portland (I think) and Dr. Covey insisted that “the show must go on.” Can you tell this story, so we can all take some pressure off ourselves when it comes to presenting or speaking in front of others and wanting everything to be perfect? What about Distance Learning from Microsoft and Zoom? Q5: I think I like the 8th Habit the most, as that's what I've centered my life's work around (especially with this podcast). You mentioned to me that The 8th Habit almost didn't get published! What happened? 5B: What's YOUR favorite habit, and one that you find yourself working on the most? Q6: When I first met you, it was around 2002 when you came to consult with Bob Proctor and Mark Victor Hansen from the Chicken Soup for the Soul on their 3% Club seminars, around the same time Doug Wead came in, and I remember meeting you in the lobby of the Ritz Carleton in Pasadena, that's now called the Langham, and I remember that you were coming in to help impact change with the seminars back then. What do you remember about those days, and working with the seminar industry leaders? Didn't you also work with Tony Robbins and Werner Erhard? Q7: We've talked about your book with Stephen M.R. Covey, Smart Trust. I've got a Character Book on my laptop that I've held off producing (it was a compilation of lessons I used when I worked with schools) but will release it eventually. Trust has always been THE most important character trait for me. What was it about Trust that you thought was important for everyone to know-what was so important about Trust for you that you wrote a book on this topic? Q8: I know you've got another book on Trust coming with Stephen MR Covey (Trust and Inspire)…and in this low-trust world, I think this is the best time for this book. What's this next book about? Q9: I've got to ask a question about family, since I know it's an important part of your life, and the pandemic surely put the emphasis on family for us globally. Your family has gone through some really difficult times. For those listening, who may also be dealing with difficult times, what words of encouragement could you offer with your life experience in mind? Q10: As we think of all the habits, I like the 8th Habit the most, as it relates to our building our legacy (Find your Voice and Inspire others to find theirs. What advice can you offer for people listening as they might be working on the legacy they want to create, thinking of Dr. Covey as an example? Q11: What's next for you? Trust and Inspire, and then what? Q12: What are your final thoughts? For people who want to reach you, what's the best place? I'll be sure to put your Twitter, Linkedin and social media accounts, and I'm sure when this goes out, everyone will be reaching out to you for an interview. A lot of excitement was generated BEFORE I even asked if you would do this podcast today. Greg, I want to thank you for your time today, to share these secrets that only you would know. I'm so grateful we met, and that you took an interest in helping me along the way to find my voice, and help others find theirs. Where I am today is such a huge quantum leap from where y mindset was back when you first met me, so I'm forever grateful for the help, ideas and support along the way. I'm looking forward to Trust and Inspire coming out next month and learning more from you moving forward. This episode is far from over. My mind was blown while editing this episode as Greg mentioned so many book titles, that I do plan on creating a map of this episode, with his suggested book titles to guide us along the way. I do highly suggest grabbing this next book, Trust and Inspire, and taking on Dr. Covey's challenge of reading a book a week, like Greg has done over his career. His final challenge of writing out the 20 books that have changed your life, with your commentary, is something I will do in the future, and hope that this episode inspires you to take inspired action in your life. See you next episode! RESOURCES: Steve Jobs' 2005 Stanford Commencement Address Published on YouTube March 7, 2008 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UF8uR6Z6KLc The Brain That Changes Itself Norman Doidge Published Dec. 18, 2007 https://www.amazon.com/Brain-That-Changes-Itself-Frontiers/dp/0143113100 Shakti Gawain Creative Visualizations Published November 15, 2016 https://www.amazon.com/Creative-Visualization-Power-Imagination-Create-ebook/dp/B01MSL5SIL/ref=sr_1_2?crid=3OTH9QMA0T39R&keywords=shakti+gawain+creative&qid=1648757709&s=books&sprefix=shatki+gawain+creative%2Cstripbooks%2C108&sr=1-2 Tiny Habits by BJ Fogg Published December 31, 2019 https://tinyhabits.com/book/ Success Through a Positive Mental Attitude by W Clement Stone published June 12, 2007 https://www.amazon.com/Success-Through-Positive-Mental-Attitude/dp/1416541594/ref=asc_df_1416541594/?tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=312025908234&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=7742204498469496254&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9030068&hvtargid=pla-436652129468&psc=1 Werner Erhard https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Werner_Erhard ASQ American Society of Quality Consultants https://asq.org/ The Leader in Me (The 7 Habits for Schools) https://www.leaderinme.org/ Leader in Me Lighthouse Schools https://www.leaderinme.org/lighthouse-schools/ Muriel Summers' Leader in Me School https://www.leaderinme.org/muriel-summers/#:~:text=For%20more%20than%20two%20decades,book%20by%20the%20same%20name. The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More and Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay Stanier Published Feb. 29, 2016 https://www.amazon.com/Coaching-Habit-Less-Change-Forever-ebook/dp/B01BUIBBZI/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3QFW8U95Q6QZG&keywords=the+coaching+habit&qid=1648831862&s=digital-text&sprefix=the+coaching+habit%2Cdigital-text%2C141&sr=1-1 The Advice Trap: Be Humble, Stay Curious, and Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay Stanier, Published February 29, 2020 https://www.amazon.com/Advice-Trap-Humble-Curious-Forever-ebook/dp/B083YZTW4B/ref=sr_1_1?crid=JXXFWF2F19C5&keywords=advice+trap&qid=1648832648&s=digital-text&sprefix=advice+trap%2Cdigital-text%2C125&sr=1-1 Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPSIODE #60 “A Deep Dive into Dr. Dan Siegel's Wheel of Awareness Meditation” https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/the-science-behind-a-meditation-practice-with-a-deep-dive-into-dr-dan-siegel-s-wheel-of-awareness/ IMPORTANT LEGACY QUOTES: There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.” Albert Einstein 'We are human beings not human doings” Dalai Lama "We are not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience." Pierre Teilhard de Chardin. "In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit.” Albert Schweitzer “This is the true joy in life, the being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one; the being a force of nature instead of a feverish, selfish little clod of ailments and grievances complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy. I am of the opinion that my life belongs to the whole community, and as long as I live it is my privilege to do for it whatever I can. I want to be thoroughly used up when I die, for the harder I work the more I live. I rejoice in life for its own sake. Life is no "brief candle" for me. It is a sort of splendid torch which I have got hold of for the moment, and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations" George Bernard Shaw “At the end of the day people won't remember what you said or did, they will remember how you made them feel.” Maya Angelou “In the end all you have is your reputation” Oprah “It takes 20 years to build your reputation and 5 minutes to ruin” Warren Buffett REFERENCES: [i] Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE #196 “The Neuroscience Behind the 15 Principles in Think and Grow Rich” https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/the-neuroscience-behind-the-15-success-principles-of-napoleon-hill-s-classic-boo-think-and-grow-rich/ [ii] Neuroscience Meets Social and Emotional Learning Podcast EPISODE #187 in Memory of Presidential Historian Doug Wead https://andreasamadi.podbean.com/e/in-memory-of-presidential-historian-doug-wead-on-applying-leadership-and-character-lessons-from-the-greatest-us-presidents/ [iii] Teens Can Make it Happen by Stedman Graham, December 2001 https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/Teens-Can-Make-It-Happen/Stedman-Graham/9780684870823 [iv] Greg Link's Testimonial of Andrea's Work Published Fed. 14, 2013 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yTfN-6ZSmdY
In today's episode of Leaders of Tomorrow, Chris chats with seven young leaders about a book that has literally transformed the coaching community and made an enormous difference selling millions and millions of copies: “The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever” by Michael Bungay Stanier They will discuss the main points of the book as well as the most important takeaways they received from it. You will find out why it is so important for a young manager to learn how to be a good coach and also why a good leader should spend more time listening and asking questions then talking. You will discover what are the 7 questions from the Coaching Habit, how they can make a real difference and how each of the leaders in this show uses them. You will learn how good habits can propel you to success and some effective techniques that can help you form new habits. Chris and his guests will also discuss the two types of coaching that are presented in the book and what each of them means. Plus, they will also reveal the advantage of talking about an experience versus giving advice. Join Chris and his guests for a special episode about the art of coaching and a book that made a huge difference in this field! What You Will Learn In This Show: Why it is important for a young leader to learn how to be a good coach Why is it important as a leader to spend more time listening and asking questions than talking? What are the 7 questions from the Coaching Habit and how they can make a real difference. How good habits can propel you to success and some effective techniques to help you form new habits. What's the advantage of talking about an experience versus giving advice? And so much more... Resources: Student Works Book: The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever
Alisa Cohn is an executive coach. She has worked with C-suite executives at prominent start-ups such as Venmo, Etsy, and DraftKings, as well as Fortune 500 companies, including Dell, IBM, and Google. A highly-regarded and sought-after speaker, Alisa was named by Inc. as one of the top 100 leadership speakers and was recognized as the Top StartUp Coach in the World at the Thinkers50/Marshall Goldsmith Global Awards. She is also the author of From Start-Up to Grown-Up, a book sharing her insights and tools for the journey all leaders and founders go through as they scale their leadership. Alisa joins us today to discuss what it takes to be an executive coach and entrepreneur. She shares what led her to write From Start-Up to Grown-Up and offers advice to people who want to start a coaching business. She also reveals what individuals should know about moving from traditional jobs to the start-up world and explains why leaders should prioritize taking care of their mental, physical, and emotional wellbeing. “People are realizing that life is too short, and that our future is not guaranteed. So, if there's something you want to do in life, you need to get yourself together to do that thing now.” - Alisa Cohn This week on Mastering Overwhelm: What made Alisa decide to write her book, From Start-Up to Grown-Up The Great Resignation and transitioning from traditional jobs into the start-up world Alisa's advice to people who want to start a coaching business Using your age strategically and the importance of taking care of your mental, physical, and spiritual wellbeing Leading with empathy and what it takes to be a successful leader in the start-up world Resources Mentioned: Book: The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More, & Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay Stanier Book: Future Proofing You: Twelve Truths for Creating Opportunity, Maximizing Wealth, and Controlling Your Destiny in an Uncertain World by Jay Samit Connect with Alisa Cohn: Alisa Cohn Website Book: From Start-Up to Grown-Up: Grow Your Leadership to Grow Your Business Alisa Cohn on LinkedIn Alisa Cohn on Instagram Alisa Cohn on Facebook Alisa Cohn on Twitter 5 Scripts for Delicate Conversations Email: alisa@alisacohn.com Mastering Overwhelm - Set Yourself Free to Enjoy Your Success Thanks for tuning into this week's episode of the Mastering Overwhelm Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | GooglePlay | Stitcher | Spotify | Amazon Music | iHeart | Deezer Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more listeners, like you. Join me on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and LinkedIn. For more exclusive content and information, visit our website.
Alisa Cohn is an executive coach. She has worked with C-suite executives at prominent start-ups such as Venmo, Etsy, and DraftKings, as well as Fortune 500 companies, including Dell, IBM, and Google. A highly-regarded and sought-after speaker, Alisa was named by Inc. as one of the top 100 leadership speakers and was recognized as the Top StartUp Coach in the World at the Thinkers50/Marshall Goldsmith Global Awards. She is also the author of From Start-Up to Grown-Up, a book sharing her insights and tools for the journey all leaders and founders go through as they scale their leadership. Alisa joins us today to discuss what it takes to be an executive coach and entrepreneur. She shares what led her to write From Start-Up to Grown-Up and offers advice to people who want to start a coaching business. She also reveals what individuals should know about moving from traditional jobs to the start-up world and explains why leaders should prioritize taking care of their mental, physical, and emotional wellbeing. “People are realizing that life is too short, and that our future is not guaranteed. So, if there’s something you want to do in life, you need to get yourself together to do that thing now.” - Alisa Cohn This week on Mastering Overwhelm: What made Alisa decide to write her book, From Start-Up to Grown-Up The Great Resignation and transitioning from traditional jobs into the start-up world Alisa’s advice to people who want to start a coaching business Using your age strategically and the importance of taking care of your mental, physical, and spiritual wellbeing Leading with empathy and what it takes to be a successful leader in the start-up world Resources Mentioned: Book: The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More, & Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay Stanier Book: Future Proofing You: Twelve Truths for Creating Opportunity, Maximizing Wealth, and Controlling Your Destiny in an Uncertain World by Jay Samit Connect with Alisa Cohn: Alisa Cohn Website Book: From Start-Up to Grown-Up: Grow Your Leadership to Grow Your Business Alisa Cohn on LinkedIn Alisa Cohn on Instagram Alisa Cohn on Facebook Alisa Cohn on Twitter 5 Scripts for Delicate Conversations Email: alisa@alisacohn.com Mastering Overwhelm - Set Yourself Free to Enjoy Your Success Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of the Mastering Overwhelm Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | GooglePlay | Stitcher | Spotify | Amazon Music | iHeart | Deezer Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more listeners, like you. Join me on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, and LinkedIn. For more exclusive content and information, visit our website.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
This week on the show I interview the incredibly talented Michael Bungay Stanier (or MBS for short). Michael is the author to several books included best-seller The Coaching Habit which has sold over 1 million copies to date. Michael also founded a training and development company, Box of Crayons, that has taught coaching skills to hundreds to thousands of people around the world. He has also been featured on the TedX stage with a brilliant speech titled, “How to Tame Your Advice Monster.”Topics-“Be curious a little bit longer and rush to action and advice giving a little bit more slowly.”-What goes wrong when we give advice?-What is our advice monster and how do we tame it?-7 Coaching questions to lead to empowerment, clarity, and action-Understanding where you fit into the Drama Triangle-The importance of silence in conversation-Lessons learned from a former FBI Hostage Negotiator -The three key components to start doing something that mattersIf you enjoyed this show be sure to leave a rating, review, and refer it to a friend as that helps the show grow tremendously and puts a huge smile on my face.
Michael Bungay Stanier, a Rhodes Scholar and author of multiple books including "The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More, and Change the Way You Lead Forever", joins Leader Dialogue co-hosts Dr. Roger Spoelman and Ben Sawyer on the March 15, 2022 podcast. The topic is “Achieving Systemness: Coaching Opportunities” and takes a closer look at […] The post Achieving Systemness: Coaching Opportunities appeared first on Business RadioX ®.
In this episode, Dustin talks with Michael Bungay Stanier about his book, The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever. You'll discover how coaching others lets you work less hard and have more impact. Dustin and Michael discuss why it is so important to limit advice and ask questions instead. Michael shares the kickstart question and how it can make all the difference, getting right to the point.We'll talk about how practice owners often become the "advice monster," always wanting to slip into fix-it mode and why it's so important to sit back and ask the right questions instead. Michael shares an excellent focus question that can bring you to the heart of the present challenge, slow down the urgency to create action and allow your coworkers to spend more time resolving the actual problem, not just the initial problem.***This episode is brought to you by Dentma. From Appointment Reminders to New Patient Satisfaction Surveys, Dentma's cutting-edge assistant, Ava, has your patient communication covered and is growing every day! Visit Dentma.com to schedule a demo today.***Resources Mentioned in The Burleson Box:Three Books with Neil PasrichaRyan Holiday's Reading ListBrené BrownBox of CrayonsThe Coaching Habit***Go Premium: Members get early access, ad-free episodes, hand-edited transcripts, exclusive study guides, special edition books each quarter, powerpoint and keynote presentations and two tickets to Dustin Burleson's Annual Leadership Retreat.http://www.theburlesonbox.com/sign-up Stay Up to Date: Sign up for The Burleson Report, our weekly newsletter that is delivered each Sunday with timeless insight for life and private practice. Sign up here:http://www.theburlesonreport.com Follow Dustin Burleson, DDS, MBA at:http://www.theburlesonfiles.com
Riaz Meghji reveals the key behaviors that lead to more meaningful connections. — YOU'LL LEARN — 1) The one trick to becoming a better listener 2) Where to draw the line between vulnerability and oversharing 3) How to be assertively empathetic Subscribe or visit AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep678 for clickable versions of the links below. — ABOUT RIAZ — Riaz Meghji is a Human Connection Expert. He has 17 years of broadcast television experience, and, during his time as host on Citytv's Breakfast Television, MTV Canada, TEDxVancouver, CTV News, and the Toronto International Film Festival, has interviewed thousands of experts about human connection and collaboration, undertaking critical training that helped shape the tangible takeaways he shares in his new book, Every Conversation Counts. • Riaz's book: Every Conversation Counts: The 5 Habits of Human Connection that Build Extraordinary Relationships • Riaz's website: RiazMeghji.com — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW — • Exercise: Wim Hof method • Researcher: Gordon Livingston • Book: The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy • Book: The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay Stanier • Past episode: 667: How to Cultivate Your Influence and Build Powerful Connections with Jon Levy — THANK YOU SPONSORS! — • TheZebra. Quickly save on home and auto insurance at TheZebra.com/awesome• Care.com. Find the perfect caregiver for your child, parents, and home.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Andrea Wanerstrand shares how widespread coaching has helped transform Microsoft. — YOU'LL LEARN — 1) Why curiosity is the secret sauce to growth 2) Three coaching approaches that accelerate growth 3) How to get into the coach mindset Subscribe or visit AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep631 for clickable versions of the links below. — ABOUT ANDREA — Andrea Wanerstrand works with leaders across the globe in transforming their teams to keep pace and get ahead in today's digital market through developing leadership and management capabilities. She is an International Coaching Federation (ICF) certified executive coach, serves as a global board director with the ICF, and leads the global coaching programs at Microsoft. With a business strategy focus, Andrea has 15+ years of international experience in organizations from 50 to 100,000+ employees with a multi-industry background including Technology Solutions & Services, Business Management Consulting, and Telecommunications. Expertise in leading the development and management of large-scale global talent lifecycle & development programs specializing in sales, marketing, technical operations, and customer service organizations. • LinkedIn: Andrea Wanerstrand • Website: AndreaWanerstrand.com — RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW — • Book: Everything Is Figureoutable by Marie Forleo • Book: Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol Dweck • Book: Solve Your Child's Sleep Problems by Dr. Richard Ferber • Book: The Advice Trap: Be Humble, Stay Curious & Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay Stanier • Book: The Coaching Habit: Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever by Michael Bungay Stanier • Book: The Code of the Extraordinary Mind: 10 Unconventional Laws to Redefine Your Life and Succeed On Your Own Terms by Vishen Lakhiani • Book: Undaunted: Overcoming Doubts and Doubters by Kara Goldin • Company: Hint • Company: Human Capital Institute • Company: International Coach Federation • Past episode: 055: Coaching Questions of Mass Instruction with Michael Bungay Stanier • Past episode: 297: Encouraging Insight Through More Coach-like Conversations with Michael Bungay Stanier • Past episode: 555: Why We Fail to Empower, Inspire, and Engage: Unmasking the The Advice Trap with Michael Bungay Stanier • Personality: Michael Bungay Stanier See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.