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Greeting friends,Austin and Darry scramble to do a filler show as Jake had a last minute emergency come up.  We decided to push off this week's topic for tomorrow and answered some listener feedback regarding last weeks show "Relationships- Dating after 30" with listener request on our take on Teenage Dating and Sex and cheating in relationships.  It was a mad scramble but we shot from the hip.  We have new ideas in the works and will be starting to bring on interesting guests.  Also, keep your ears and eyes open for show merchandise coming soon.Thanks to:CastleMegastore.com - For over 30 years, Castle Megastore has built a reputation as trusted and reliable adult sex toys store and more.  Check them out now and receive your fun packages today.  For her, him and couples.   As always, reach us at perceptionerection@gmail.com.  Love, hate, suggestions, recommendations, criticism, we are all ears. Get your show gear now at Perception Erection Show Gear 

This week BBW adult performer, Kendra Lee Ryan, shares her experiences as a sex worker. She’s done various forms of sex work including dancing, camming, escorting, and adult films. Kendra tells us why she’s so passionate about sex work, how it affects her own love life & libido, and what her most rewarding client interactions entail. We also discuss how SESTA/FOSTA has made sex work more dangerous and the downsides of the job more impactful. Kendra shares helpful tips and little-known resources for screening clients & evaluating providers in this trying political environment. She also discusses the challenges of being a smaller BBW performer and the need to do away with problematic genres in porn. Ken & Sunny deal with the fallout from a similarly named podcast and Ken celebrates the big 5-0. As a bonus, Kendra shares two unbelievable stories at patreon.com/americansex.    ____________________________________ Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/edge Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 65 Links Kendra Lee Ryan Instagram http://instagram.com/Kendraleeryan2 Kendra Lee Ryan Twitter http://twitter.com/kendraleeryan Kendra Lee Ryan Website http://Kendraleeryan.website Kendra Lee Ryan ManyVids https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/1001466922/kendraleeryan/ Kendra's most adorable Job ever with Karla Lane (NSFW) https://twitter.com/kendraleeryan/status/1037424254076108800 More info on the other American Sex Podcast (with John David Whalen) http://sunnymegatron.com/the-other-american-sex-podcast/ Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Submit your 69 sex position related questions, thoughts & stories for our 69th episode to americansexpodcast@gmail.com Episode 65 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Tantus Rumble Instagram giveaway sponsored by http://DallasNovelty.com ($159 value). Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway Instagram post for details and to enter http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron (Direct link https://www.instagram.com/p/BoqQAKdBgYT/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link ) Lovense Edge Prostate Bluetooth Massager giveaway ($119 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/edge 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

Statistically speaking you’re probably a Sex Nerd Sandra fan. Her wildly popular sex podcast has over 15 million downloads! You also may have noticed she vanished during the last couple of years. Ken & Sunny catch up with Sandra and get all the details about her upcoming Sex Nerd Sandra podcast reboot. Sandra also shares what prompted her hiatus and the important things she learned about herself while she was away. The trio also talk about healing hurt, the skills needed for healthy relationships, rebranding comprehensive sex ed as comprehensive emotional ed, and the real reason so many Americans refute science. Sandra also dives into her personal experiences with HIV and the surprising facts the public doesn’t know about the virus. This episode is jam-packed with so much juicy goodness and we’re honored Sandra chose to hop back on the mic with us! Sandra also tells an amazing story about the time she made sweet, sweet love to an ironing board (yes, you read that right!) over at https://www.patreon.com/posts/22192697.    ____________________________________ Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/edge  Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 64 Links Sex Nerd Sandra Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexnerdsandra/ Sex Nerd Sandra Twitter http://twitter.com/sexnerdsandra Sex Nerd Sandra Facebook https://www.facebook.com/SexNerdSandra/ Sex Nerd Sandra Podcast https://sexnerdsandra.com/podcast/ 2012 Sunny interviews Sandra on Outside The Box https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCZlqnW6Y0w Sex Nerd Sandra Pussy Hug Video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DjYxeul7Q-I Why Won't You Apologize?: Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts https://www.amazon.com/Why-Wont-You-Apologize-Betrayals/dp/1501129597 Finite and Infinite Games https://www.amazon.com/Finite-Infinite-Games-James-Carse/dp/1476731713/ Sunny & Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!)http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Sunny Megatron & Ken Melvoin-Berg at Friends Club in Austin, TX November 9th & 10th http://austinfriends.club.com  Episode 63 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Tantus Rumble Instagram giveaway sponsored by http://DallasNovelty.com ($159 value). Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway Instagram post for details and to enter http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron(Direct link https://www.instagram.com/p/BoqQAKdBgYT/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link ) Lovense Edge Prostate Bluetooth Massager giveaway ($119 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/edge 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) Get the early-bird pricing late for Ropecraft Austin, TX on October 26-28 2018 with code SUNNY https://www.ropecraft.net/austin/ $250 off Midori’s Forte Femme Women’s Dominance Weekend New York October 26-28 2018 with code sunny18 http://www.fortefemme.com/

Body positive activist, musician, and Youtuber, Meghan Tonjes, tells us about the #BootyRevolution her very first Instagram butt photo sparked. We also talk about the good and bad in the body positive community, middle school bullying, dealing with online haters, how we’re all products of our past experiences & traumas, the importance of telling your loved ones how much they mean to you, and more. She teaches us why self-love & self-awareness are key and how to self-advocate like a bad-ass. Much of our conversation centers around a common theme: “if you're committed to your bullshit, you're going to feel my absence.” That’s sage advice for any relationship from marriages to online interactions with strangers. Meghan also shares the backstory of her short film #ADayForMargaret and tells a bonus story about a Tinder match gone wrong over at http://patreon.com/americansex Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/edge Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 63 Links Meghan Tonjes Twitter http://www.twitter.com/meghantonjes Meghan Tonjes Instagram http://www.instagram.com/meghantonjes Meghan Tonjes Youtube http://www.youtube.com/tonjes & http://www.youtube.com/meghantonjes Meghan Tonjes Patreon https://www.patreon.com/meghantonjes For Hire: Operator Volume 1 by Kevin Patterson &   Alana Phelan https://www.amazon.com/Hire-Operator-1-Kevin-Patterson/dp/1732872805/ref=sr_1_4?ie=UTF8&qid=1539485771&sr=8-4&keywords=kevin+patterson&dpID=51Vji1q%252BkCL&preST=_SY291_BO1,204,203,200_QL40_&dpSrc=srch Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!)http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Sunny Megatron & Ken Melvoin-Berg at Friends Club in Austin, TX November 9th & 10th http://austinfriends.club.com Episode 63 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Tantus Rumble Instagram giveaway sponsored by http://DallasNovelty.com ($159 value). Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway Instagram post for details and to enter http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron(Direct link https://www.instagram.com/p/BoqQAKdBgYT/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link ) Lovense Edge Prostate Bluetooth Massager giveaway ($119 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/edge 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) Get the early-bird pricing late for Ropecraft Austin, TX on October 26-28 2018 with code SUNNY https://www.ropecraft.net/austin/ $250 off Midori’s Forte Femme Women’s Dominance Weekend New York October 26-28 2018 with code sunny18 http://www.fortefemme.com/

Hudsy Hawn is not your typical dominatrix. She tells us how discovering BDSM in her 30s after tragedy and divorce changed her life. Careerwise kink took her literally from Disneyland to the Dungeon. It also healed personal wounds in unexpected ways. Hudsy shares how these experiences lead to her hit musical stage show geared toward vanilla audiences. We also get a peek into the pro-BDSM world and learn about the lives of professional submissives. She gives us tips for getting into kink with or without a partner and breaking into the business for those that want to go pro. Sunny & Ken kick off a second pleasure product giveaway for the month of October and look forward to Ken’s returning to Chicago after months away. Don't miss Hudsy's bonus audio--it's a cautionary buttplug tale--at http://patreon.com/americansex  Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.comTo support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!)Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/treGet friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.comJoin our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo!____________________________________ Episode 62 Links Hudsy Hawn Website http://www.fromvanillatokink.com Hudsy Hawn Twitter http://twitter.com/hudsyhawn Hudsy Hawn Instagram http://instagram.com/hudsyhawn Hudsy Hawn Facebook http://facebook.com/hudsyhawn Hudsy Hawn Medium http://medium.com/hudsyhawn Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Sunny Megatron & Ken Melvoin-Berg at Friends Club in Austin, TX November 9th & 10th http://austinfriends.club.com Episode 62 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Tantus Rumble Instagram giveaway sponsored by http://DallasNovelty.com ($159 value). Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway Instagram post for details and to enter http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron(Direct link https://www.instagram.com/p/BoqQAKdBgYT/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link ) Lovense Edge Prostate Bluetooth Massager giveaway ($119 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/edge 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) Get the early-bird pricing late for Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 26-28 2018 with code SUNNY https://www.ropecraft.net/austin/ $250 off Midori’s Forte Femme Women’s Dominance Weekend New York October 26-28 2018 with code sunny18 http://www.fortefemme.com/

Amy Jo Goddard specializes in women’s healing & empowerment and after the week our country has had, this conversation is perfectly timed. Sunny & Amy Jo discuss the impact of age of #MeToo has had on various members of society--women, survivors, allies, non-binary folks, men, people of color, etc--and how our roles in it all intertwine. Their discussion zeros in on how these factors affect women’s sexuality: why so many have difficulty focusing on pleasure and embracing desire, the struggle of getting sexual and emotional needs met, healing from trauma, feeling sexually ‘broken’, learning to be fully present in your body, and more. Amy Jo gives us a peek at the magic that goes on during private empowerment retreats plus gives great tips for partners of those negatively affected by the Kavanaugh hearings. Sunny also announces some nifty new podcast swag on its way to Patreon members. Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/tre Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999  Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 61 Links Amy Jo Goddard Website http://amyjogoddard.com/ Amy Jo Goddard Twitter https://twitter.com/AmyJoGoddard Amy Jo Goddard Instagram http://instagram.com/sexualempowerment Amy Jo Goddard Facebook https://www.facebook.com/amyjogoddard.coach/ $75 off Amy Jo Goddard’s Fire Woman retreat in San Diego October 12-14 with Code  IMONFIRE2018 http://firewomanretreat.com About the #WhyIDidntReport hashtag https://www.wired.com/story/whyididntreport-hashtag/ Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Episode 61 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Bio Bidet Slim Edge: http://bit.ly/sunnyslimedge Lovense Edge Prostate Bluetooth Massager giveaway ($119 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/edge 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) Get the early-bird pricing late for Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 26-28 2018 with code SUNNY https://www.ropecraft.net/austin/ $250 off Midori’s Forte Femme Women’s Dominance Weekend New York October 26-28 2018 with code sunny18 http://www.fortefemme.com/

Intimacy Coach Stella Harris is a healthy communication rockstar and just released a new best selling book on the subject. In this episode Stella teaches us: what to do when one partner isn’t putting in the effort, boundary & expectation setting in the early part of relationships, how communication differs for vanilla & BDSM situations, navigating consent without ruining the mood, sexual improv tips & communication exercises for improving your sex life & more! Sunny shows her appreciation for Bi Visibility Day and endures a lot of pounding while Ken is away. Catch Stella’s bonus story about a very unusual first date on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/21592544   Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/tre Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 60 Links Stella Harris’  Website www.stellaharris.net Stella Harris’  Twitter https://twitter.com/StellaErotica Stella Harris’ Instagram http://instagram.com/StellaHarrisErotica Stella Harris’ Facebook http://.facebook.com/StellaErotica Stella Harris’ Book, Exposure: Tongue Tied: Untangling Communication in Sex, Kink & Relationships https://www.amazon.com/Tongue-Tied-Untangling-Communication-Relationships/dp/1627782664 Screw the Roses Send Me the Thorns book http://sunnymegatron.com/product/screw-the-roses-send-me-the-thorns/ Sunny’s Bi Visibility Day Article http://sunnymegatron.com/happy-bisexuality-day-why-its-so-hard-to-be-bi/ Patreon Wall of Thanks http://sunnymegatron.com/sponsors/ Midori American Sex Podcast episode http://sunnymegatron.com/midori-erotic-roleplay-finding-your-dominance/ Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Episode 60 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Jimmyjane Love Pod Tre giveaway ($149 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/tre 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY

Dr. Chauntelle studies the sociology of sexuality and sex work. This fascinating conversation integrates the economics, ethics, psychology, politics, and marketing of sex--all critical components of sexual freedom we’re not accustomed to thinking about. We discuss: Why researchers shy away from studying sexuality, how our social & cultural discomforts with sex permeate everything, Stormy Daniels & how she’s single-handedly extinguishing puritanical biases about sex work, the impact of technology on sex, why Visa & Mastercard are at the helm of shaping your sexual preferences and regulating your access to porn, the realities of robot sex & more! Ken & Sunny are shocked by the latest hit to the ASMR community plus Ken reveals the special gift he picked up for Sunny in Los Angeles.  Submit your BDSM & sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/tre Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999   Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 59 Links   Dr. Chauntelle Tibbals Website http://www.chauntelletibbals.com/ Dr. Chauntelle Tibbals Twitter https://twitter.com/DrChauntelle Dr. Chauntelle Tibbals Book, Exposure: A Sociologist Explores Sex, Society, and Adult Entertainment https://www.amazon.com/Exposure-Sociologist-Explores-Society-Entertainment-ebook/dp/B01CMJ3G7U/ref=dp_kinw_strp_1 Dr. Chauntelle Tibbals Motorbunny Blog https://motorbunny.com/blogs/news/helpful-hop-on-hints-introducing-dr-chauntelle Stormy Daniels Twitter https://twitter.com/StormyDaniels ASMR creators shut down by Paypal article  https://www.engadget.com/2018/09/14/paypal-ban-asmr-sound-art-therapy/ Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron   Episode 59 Sponsor & Giveaway Info   10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Jimmyjane Love Pod Tre giveaway ($149 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/tre 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY    

The folks from Black People Kink Podcast, Dominus Blue & jaemina, drop tons of gems in this week’s episode.  They open up about their 24/7 total power exchange Dominant/submissive BDSM relationship and explain how the dynamic isn’t so different from vanilla couples. We talk monogamy vs. polyamory; dropping the racial terms black & white for melanated & demelanated; why jaemina views her submission as a feminist act; how to be an effective, nurturing, emotionally intelligent dominant; why respectability politics in marginalized communities hampers sexual freedom; inclusivity in kink; healing invisible scars with yoga & more. Sunny gives a nod to the Sex Talk with My Mom podcast as she invites her daughter to guest co-host the intro. The pair concoct an avocado blowbang extravaganza and have some comfortable uncomfortable conversations.  You can listen to the continued avocado conversation here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-audio-syd-21320929 Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 58 Links Black People Kink Website https://www.blackpeoplekink.com Black People Kink Instagram https://www.instagram.com/blackpeoplekink/ Black People Kink Twitter https://twitter.com/blackpeoplekink Black People Kink Facebook https://www.facebook.com/BPKink/ Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Sunny & Syd's avocado blowbang character creation bonus audio: https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-audio-syd-21320929 Episode 58 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 15% off at http://getmaude.com with code SUNNY 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Jimmyjane Love Pod Tre giveaway ($149 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/tre 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY

Science has never been so sexy! Adult performer, Fem Domme, and Infectious Disease professional, Bella Bathory gives us a peek at safety protocols in the adult industry. She tells us about the incredibly effective systems performers use to minimize STI transmission on porn sets. We also talk about HIV stigma. Last week an adult performer tested HIV positive and brought to the surface myths and biases rooted in homophobia and anti-sex work rhetoric. We discuss the damage these falsehoods do and what happens when they spill over into the mainstream community. Bella also gives helpful tips about testing and risks for the mainstream population plus she explains PREP and breaks down what having an undetectable viral load means. Ken & Sunny receive a gift from a listener plus Sunny becomes a CPAP evangelist. Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettylovefordGet friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 57 Links Bella Bathory Twitter https://twitter.com/thebellabathory Bella Bathory Instagram https://www.instagram.com/MistressBellaBathory/ Bella Bathory Website http://www.mistressbellabathory.com/ Sunny Megatron wands live stream with Peepshow Toys 9/6/18 9pm CST http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Podcast Amazon Wishlist: http://bit.ly/sunnykenwishlist Episode 57 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 15% off at http://getmaude.com with code SUNNY 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Jimmyjane Love Pod Tre giveaway ($149 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/tre 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY

Ken and Sunny dive into their mailbag to answer listener sex questions this week for their first ever Q&A episode! They cover subjects from vanilla to extra kinky-- erotic asphyxiation, electric play, blow job tips, orgasm issues, Daddy Dom/little girl relationships, desensitization from vibrators, how to go on after a good dick down, intro to BDSM, compromise in the bedroom, what to do with the balls, and more. This episode is not to be missed! Do you have a question you’d like answered anonymously in a future episode? Send it to americansexpodcast@gmail.com. Also this week Sunny & Ken adjust to temporarily living apart plus Sunny looks forward to wearing a CPAP mask. Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com  To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo!  ____________________________________ Episode 55 Links  Kink Academy online BDSM learning http://bit.ly/kinkacademy.com Autostraddle Yes/No/Maybe list https://www.autostraddle.com/you-need-help-here-is-a-worksheet-to-help-you-talk-to-partners-about-sex-237385/ Sunny & Ken’s BDSM Yes/No/Maybe list & ROUGHBS scene negotiation tool http://bit.ly/bdsmynm MyStim Tension Lover TENS unit for BDSM https://www.stockroom.com/mystim-tension-lover.html?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 Sunny’s BDSM 101 video series https://youtu.be/f-Z4NHj2FTc Sunny’s SPH video https://youtu.be/hiG1tp_85To DDLG Article http://sunnymegatron.com/7-fundamental-characteristics-of-a-daddy-dominant/ Body Clamps Article http://sunnymegatron.com/intro-labia-clamps/ Nipple Suckers https://www.stockroom.com/gripper-nip-pull.html?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) instagram.com/sunnymegatron   Episode 56 Sponsor & Giveaway Info   15% off at http://getmaude.com with code SUNNY 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY Ojoy Olive remote control kegel vibe giveaway ($89 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/oilve 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY    

This conversation about sex and disability is essential listening for every human on the planet! Andrew Gurza helps us sit with and work through our discomforts around disability.  We talk ableism, inspiration porn, and the reason he chooses to identify with words most people find uncomfortable. Andrew tells us about his own difficulties as someone with cerebral palsy navigating queer spaces and dealing with jerks in the dating pool.  We also get down to the juicy stuff as Andrew shares details from his own sex life. Ken & Sunny theorize about Doja Cat’s new hit “Mooo!” and its relation to hucow fetish plus they share a heartfelt goodbye as they wonder what the next 8 weeks will bring. Don’t miss Andrew’s bonus story at patreon.com/americansex   Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo!    ____________________________________ Episode 55 Links   Andrew Gurza Twitter https://twitter.com/andrewgurza Andrew Gurza Website http://www.andrewgurza.com/ Andrew Gurza Patreon https://www.patreon.com/cripplecontent Disability After Dark Podcast http://www.andrewgurza.com/disability-after-dark/ Support the first line of sex toys for people with disabilities https://www.gofundme.com/sxtoydisabilityresearch Love’s Not Color Blind by Kevin Patterson https://www.amazon.com/Loves-Not-Color-Blind-Representation/dp/1944934464 “Mooo!” By Doja Cat (“Bitch, I’m a Cow”) Video https://youtu.be/mXnJqYwebF8 Sunny’s hucow fetish educational video https://youtu.be/qqp093vJPf4 Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) instagram.com/sunnymegatron   Episode 55 Sponsor & Giveaway Info   10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Ojoy Olive remote control kegel vibe giveaway ($89 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/oilve 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY    

This hour with Amberly Rothfield is essential listening for anyone who’s ever considered being a phone sex operator, telephone dominatrix, cam performer, or XXX content creator.  Amberly gives us tips from her book “How I Made $10k a Month as a Phone Sex Operator” (the electronic version is free right now BTW, get it!). She covers: working for services vs. being independent, how to remain anonymous, considerations before breaking into the business, how to generate passive income, marketing yourself effectively, the different types of phone sex specialties, and more. We also talk about some of the unique calls and requests she gets, the psychology behind unusual fetishes, sexual improv, and how sex work and sex positivity have enhanced her own life. Sunny even tells some phone sex secrets of her own!     Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo!   ____________________________________ Episode 54 Links   Amberly Rothfield Twitter www.twitter.com/amberlypso Amberly Rothfield Website www.amberlyrothfield.com How I made $10,000 a Month as a Phone Sex Operator Free Digital Book https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/how-i-made-10000-a-month-as-a-phone-sex-operator-amberly-rothfield/1129216659?ean=2940161904374 Erotic Heritage Museum, Las Vegas Change Your Life Through Sex Positivity event 8/18/18 (free) https://www.eventbrite.com/e/change-your-life-through-sex-positivity-tickets-48794913901 Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) instagram.com/sunnymegatron   Episode 54 Sponsor & Giveaway Info   10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Ojoy Olive remote control kegel vibe giveaway ($89 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/oilve 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY    

minimus maximus is an experienced submissive and one of the hosts of the popular Off The Cuffs: A Kink & BDSM Podcast. We delve into the how's and why’s of some of his favorite kinky activities like chastity play, Female Domination, cuckolding, CFNM parties, and extreme humiliation. He takes us through the most intense scene he’s ever had (and it was a real mindf*ck!), we discuss why the BDSM lifestyle can be comforting to those on the autism spectrum, and he gives resources for “aspies & auties” navigating BDSM, dating, and relationships. We also explore the possibility of minimus maximus’ sexuality being influenced by the cult his parents raised him in as a child. Sunny & Ken celebrate the first anniversary of American Sex, answer listener questions about their first year on air, and reminisce about episodes past. Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 53 Links minimus maximus twitter https://twitter.com/minimusmaxim Off The Cuffs podcast https://www.offthecuffs.org/ Being There podcast https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/off-the-cuffs/being-there/e/53495735 Screw The Roses Send Me The Thorns book http://sunnymegatron.com/product/screw-the-roses-send-me-the-thorns/ Aspies & Auties Fetlife Group https://fetlife.com/groups/1225 Wild Wild Country documentary about the cult minimus maximus was raised in https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hBLS_OM6Puk Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) instagram.com/sunnymegatron $100 off Midori’s Forte Femme  August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny http://www.fortefemme.com/ $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY Episode 53 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Ojoy Olive remote control kegel vibe giveaway ($89 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter http://sunnymegatron.com/oilve 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

We sat down with BDSM & rope bondage superstars, Graydancer & Naiia, to talk about the BDSM “scene”. Some assume this group is ripe with open communication, ethical behavior, and clearly negotiated consent because those concepts are cornerstones of BDSM. It turns out kink communities have their fair share of toxicity and inequity too-- just like most other social groups. Gray & Naiia share some innovative perspectives on these issues and discuss possible solutions. They’ve even implemented some themselves, namely popularizing an “open source” style conference model that is revolutionizing the way the rope and kink communities operate. Interestingly, this conversation doesn’t just apply to kink-- most communities (yoga, theater, work groups, bowling leagues-- you name it!) can benefit from this episode. Appropriately we recorded this live at the COPE BDSM conference which was the perfect backdrop! (Original photo used in our episode art by Mistress Mayhem) Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 52 Links Graydancer Website  http://graydancer.com Naiia Website  http://naiiabound.com Grue Website http://GRUE.space Ropecraft Website  http://ROPECRAFT.net $10 off Ropecraft Austin, TX in October 2018 with code SUNNY Graydancer “kinky sketchnotes” Patreon http://patreon.com/graydancer Graydancer Twitter https://twitter.com/Graydancer Naiia Twitter https://twitter.com/naiia Kink Academy online learning video library  http://bit.ly/kinkacademy Uberrime Dildos https://www.peepshowtoys.com/collections/uberrime-handmade-dildos Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) instagram.com/sunnymegatron $100 off Midori’s Forte Femme  August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny http://www.fortefemme.com/ Episode 52 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Pretty Love Ford clitoral silicone stimulator giveaway ($69 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

Typically women in the U.S. are on the losing end of an uneven division of labor. We are expected to give a f*ck about everything. This isn’t only for those that are parents or in heterosexual marriages. These rigid gender roles seep in at work, in school, in friendships, etc-- even when we’re consciously trying to break free of them. In this episode, Airial Clark teaches us How to Be a Woman And Not Give a F*ck. It’s a must listen no matter your gender. Airial also tackles sex-positive parenting with us-- when and how should you start to your kids about sex? What’s the best way to teach bodily autonomy and privacy but still parent effectively? How do you introduce sex-positive parenting when your kids are already teens? Ken & Sunny discuss unsolicited dick pics and the demand for well-endowed sex workers.  Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! _____________________________________ Episode 51 Links Airial Clark Twitter http://twitter.com/airialclark Airial Clark Instagram  http://instagram.com/airial_not_ariel Airial Clark Facebook http://facebook.com/TheSexPositiveParent/ Airial Clark Website airialclark.com How to be a Woman & Not Give a Fuck http:// howtobeawomanandnotgiveafuck. com   The Sex Positive Parent thesexpositiveparent. com Garfunkel & Oates song 50/50 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YCKpJkplwoU&t=16s Scarleteen http://www.scarleteen.com/ The Body is Not an Apology https://thebodyisnotanapology.com/ Division of Labor cartoon/meme https://english.emmaclit.com/2017/05/20/you-shouldve-asked/ Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) instagram.com/sunnymegatron $100 off Midori’s Forte Femme  August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny http://www.fortefemme.com/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching!) http://adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Episode 51 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Pretty Love Ford clitoral silicone stimulator giveaway ($69 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

This is our jam-packed relationship episode! Dr. Jess zeroes in on the real issues we need to focus on for better relationships. She explains the chemistry of love and why things seem to go south after the honeymoon period is over, why taking calculated risks is vital to the longevity and quality of your relationship, how to battle the resentment and criticism that pop up in arguments, why addressing these issues will revitalize your sex life, plus she gives tips and resources you can start using today to improve communication with your partners. We also get personal-- Dr. Jess opens up about her own relationship hurdles and we reveal what the sex lives of sexologists are really like. Ken & Sunny discuss Stormy Daniels' latest legal hurdle plus Sunny comes up with the perfect couples anniversary gift.        Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! _____________________________________ Episode 50 Links Dr. JessTwitter twitter.com/SexWithDrJess Dr. Jess Instagram  instagram.com/sexwithdrjess Dr. Jess Facebook facebook.com/sexwithdrjess Dr. Jess Website sexwithdrjess.com The 36 Questions That Lead to Love https://www.nytimes.com/2015/01/11/fashion/no-37-big-wedding-or-small.html Dr. Jess' 60 Second Favors https://www.sexwithdrjess.com/2018/04/60-seconds-to-a-better-relationship-favours/ Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) instagram.com/sunnymegatron $100 off Midori’s Forte Femme July (New York) or August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny http://www.fortefemme.com/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching!) adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Episode 50 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Pretty Love Ford clitoral silicone stimulator giveaway ($69 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

Jimanekia Eborn takes a heavy subject and makes it feel like a breath of fresh air. Overcoming sexual trauma can be incredibly difficult. Jimanekia tells us about her journey of healing from her own trauma and the work she now does with other survivors*. She also discusses the ways in which people of color can experience trauma differently and why. This episode is jam-packed with ideas for working through trauma, helping friends and partners heal, and includes (low cost!) therapy resources. Sunny takes a vow for some much-needed self-care plus Ken & Sunny confess their love for watching Dr. Miami perform surgery on Snapchat. *Episode contains detailed accounts of sexual assault and partner abuse. It also mentions childhood sexual assault.          Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999Sunny & Ken, xo! _____________________________________ Episode 49 Links Jimanekia Eborn Twitter twitter.com/jimanekia Jimanekia Eborn Instagram  instagram.com/jimanekia Jimanekia Eborn Website sewjim.com Better Help http://tryonlinetherapy.com/jimanekia (You fill out a survey and get matched with a therapist who understands your experience within 24 hours. Costs as low as $30 a month. You can talk via skype, texting, phone, etc.) Juicebox https://www.juiceboxit.com/ Use promo code JIMANEKIA to get 60% off your first week Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) $100 off Midori’s Forte Femme July (New York) or August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny http://www.fortefemme.com/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching!) adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Episode 49 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Pretty Love Ford clitoral silicone stimulator giveaway ($69 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

Looking at Paul Fishbein you’d never guess he’s “the porn guy.” Fresh out of college in the early 80s Paul was working at a video store when he spotted an unaddressed need in the adult movie industry. He went on to found AVN-- the magazine, organization, and awards show otherwise known as “The Oscars of Porn.” Paul shares stories from the heyday of x-rated moviemaking and the personal tragedy that prompted his exit from that world. He also gives us a peek into his new career producing mainstream TV and film-- what it was like to feature Whoopi Goldberg in a documentary about porn, why Jeff Goldblum is a dream interview, the scoop on behind-the-scenes turbulence on the set of Sex with Sunny Megatron & more. Ken & Sunny answer a listener question about DDLG relationships plus Sunny discovers a disturbing Facebook loophole that enables dick pic senders. Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toy giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 48 Links The Butterfly Effect Podcast free on Audible with 30-day trial http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast Daddy Dom Little Girl (DDLG) article http://sunnymegatron.com/7-fundamental-characteristics-of-a-daddy-dominant/ Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) https://www.bloomberg.com/news/features/2018-06-18/the-dark-side-of-onetaste-the-orgasmic-meditation-companyhttps://www.instagram.com/sunnymegatron/ $100 off Midori’s Forte Femme July (New York) or August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny http://www.fortefemme.com/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching!) adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Episode 48 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Peepshow Toys is small, independently owned online pleasure products retailer committed to selling only quality products made of body-safe, non-toxic materials, at fair prices. Peepshow Toys carries a number of “indie” sex toy brands like The Butters, Split Peaches and Funkit Toys - companies that are similarly committed to offering body-safe, quality sex toys. Pretty Love Ford clitoral silicone stimulator giveaway ($69 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/prettyloveford  20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

Raven Roxx was the epitome of masculinity until just a few years ago. Now she’s a drop dead gorgeous adult performer living her best life. Ken & Sunny talk to Raven about her former conservative lifestyle as a married man in the military, the lengths she went to denying her sexual orientation & gender identity, and the explosive confrontation that lead to Raven’s secret transition and eventual coming out. Raven also tells us how the Veterans Administration helped with her transition and gives advice for transgender veterans navigating military health care. Ken & Sunny learn of damning accusations against the OneTaste Orgasmic Meditation organization and discuss their experience filming a segment for their TV show at the OneTaste San Francisco Headquarters. Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toys giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/ojoy and instagram.com/p/BiextfXg-Tg/ Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 47 Links Raven Roxx Twitter https://twitter.com/TsRavenRoxx Raven Roxx Instagram https://www.instagram.com/roxxraven/ Raven Roxx website RavenRoxx.com Raven Roxx Cam site  TsRaven.com Raven Roxx Many Vids https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/1000402016/TsRavenRoxx/ Raven Roxx horror themed movie https://www.adultempire.com/2497484/shemale-scares-porn-movies.html Totally Inappropriate Radio Show https://tiradioshow.com/ Bloomberg OneTaste Oming article https://www.bloomberg.com/news/features/2018-06-18/the-dark-side-of-onetaste-the-orgasmic-meditation-company Sunny Megatron Instagram/IGTV (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) https://www.instagram.com/sunnymegatron/ $100 off Midori’s Forte Femme July (New York) or August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny http://www.fortefemme.com/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching!) adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Episode 47 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Peepshow Toys is small, independently owned online pleasure products retailer committed to selling only quality products made of body-safe, non-toxic materials, at fair prices. Peepshow Toys carries a number of “indie” sex toy brands like The Butters, Split Peaches and Funkit Toys - companies that are similarly committed to offering body-safe, quality sex toys. Ojoy Lily Rose silicone thrusting rabbit vibrator giveaway ($99 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/ojoy 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

How would you feel if your spouse dated other people? This week Ken & Sunny open up and talk about their open marriage and include Ken’s girlfriend, Lee Lee as their guest.  They reveal how they manage jealousy, their time, and their emotions. Learn what rules are non-negotiable in their polyamory, what benefits and pitfalls come with maintaining multiple concurrent long-term relationships, and how their kids and extended family factor into the equation.  They answer listener questions about polyamorous relationships and dole out advice to others experiencing difficulties opening up. Sunny and Lee Lee also clear the air and address some issues they hadn’t talked about with each other before. If you’ve ever been curious what open marriages are like behind closed doors, this is the episode for you! Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toys giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/ojoy and instagram.com/p/BiextfXg-Tg/ Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 46 Links Lee Lee website http://leeleesarts.com Lee Lee Facebook https://facebook.com/LeeLeesarts Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) https://www.instagram.com/sunnymegatron/ $100 off Midori’s Forte Femme July (New York) or August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny http://www.fortefemme.com/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching) adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Episode 46 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Peepshow Toys is small, independently owned online pleasure products retailer committed to selling only quality products made of body-safe, non-toxic materials, at fair prices. Peepshow Toys carries a number of “indie” sex toy brands like The Butters, Split Peaches and Funkit Toys - companies that are similarly committed to offering body-safe, quality sex toys. Ojoy Lily Rose silicone thrusting rabbit vibrator giveaway ($99 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/ojoy 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

Dr. Chris Donaghue drops so much valuable knowledge in this episode! We get right to the heart of issues common in masculine sexuality-- low desire, masturbation habits, societal pressures to perform, the taboo of prostate play, the stigma of using sex toys, plus we examine what we can learn from other cultures that don’t view self-pleasure as shameful. Dr. Chris also gives us the definitive answer on how much self-love is too much (and what he says may surprise you!). Ken and Sunny answer a listener question about beginner prostate toys, Sunny has her first colonoscopy & they contemplate homemade edible pleasure devices.   Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toys giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/ojoy and instagram.com/p/BiextfXg-Tg/ Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 45 Links Dr. Chris Donaghue Twitter https://twitter.com/ChrisDonaghue Dr. Chris Donaghue Instagram https://www.instagram.com/drdonaghue/ Dr. Chris Donaghue Facebook https://www.facebook.com/TheChrisDonaghue/ Dr. Chris Donaghue Website https://www.drchrisdonaghue.com/ Tenga Website https://usstore.tenga-global.com/ Tenga 2018 Global Self-Pleasure Report https://www.tenga-global.com/ Aneros prostate products https://www.peepshowtoys.com/search?x=0&y=0&q=aneros (10% with code SUNNY) Sunny's colonoscopy Twitter moment-- documented from prep to post complications https://twitter.com/i/moments/1004064580895690752 Info about applying for Medicaid in your U.S. state (if you don’t have insurance, see if you qualify. Then go get your routine cancer tests and well checks!) https://www.hhs.gov/answers/medicare-and-medicaid/who-is-eligible-for-medicaid/index.html Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) https://www.instagram.com/sunnymegatron/ $100 off Midori’s Forte Femme July (New York) or August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny http://www.fortefemme.com/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching) adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Episode 45 Sponsor & Giveaway Info 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY & 18% off the "Pride nJoy" Collection with code PRIDENJOY. Peepshow Toys is small, independently owned online pleasure products retailer committed to selling only quality products made of body-safe, non-toxic materials, at fair prices. Peepshow Toys carries a number of “indie” sex toy brands like The Butters, Split Peaches and Funkit Toys - companies that are similarly committed to offering body-safe, quality sex toys. Ojoy Lily Rose silicone thrusting rabbit vibrator giveaway ($99 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/ojoy   20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

Dan Savage of the Savage Lovecast and Savage Love advice column talks with Sunny & Ken about growing up gay while attending an all boys Catholic seminary school (and the extreme measures he took to get expelled), the impact the It Gets Better Project has had on LGBTQ youth, how he accidentally became the go-to sex advice columnist of the 21st century, using sexuality to cope with our tough political times, the birth of Santorum, his ITMFA project & more. Sunny & Ken recap the International Whore’s Day protests/marches, talk about the next damaging law on the horizon--the End Banking for Traffickers Act & how it may affect freelancers, further social media censorship,  and they launch a new pleasure product giveaway.   Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toys giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/ojoy and instagram.com/p/BiextfXg-Tg/ Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 44 Links Dan Savage Twitter https://twitter.com/fakedansavage Dan Savage Savage Lovecast https://www.savagelovecast.com/ Dan Savage Savage Love Column https://www.thestranger.com/savage-love/2018/05/29/26582216/savage-love Hump Film Festival https://humpfilmfest.com/ ITMFA (Impeach the motherfucker already) Website https://www.impeachthemotherfuckeralready.com/ S952: End Banking for Traffickers Act - contact your local govt http://s952.tribunus.org/ Passionate U http://bit.ly/passionateu Optometrist sex video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mfoVSR0EQV4 Sunny Megatron Instagram (please help us get to 10k to unlock more business features!) https://www.instagram.com/sunnymegatron/ $100 off Midori’s Forte Femme July (New York) or August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny http://www.fortefemme.com/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching) adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Episode 44 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Femme Fun Ultra Bullet Instagram giveaway posted on instagram.com/sunnymegatron Entrants must be over 18, US or Canadian resident, no purchase necessary. Ends 6/6/2018. 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Peepshow Toys is small, independently owned online pleasure products retailer committed to selling only quality products made of body-safe, non-toxic materials, at fair prices. Peepshow Toys carries a number of “indie” sex toy brands like The Butters, Split Peaches and Funkit Toys - companies that are similarly committed to offering body-safe, quality sex toys. $79 for an nJoy Pure Wand + a jar of The Butters through 6/10/2018 with code SUNNY79 https://www.peepshowtoys.com/products/sunny-megatron-njoy-pure-wand-butters-lube Ojoy Lily Rose silicone thrusting rabbit vibrator giveaway ($99 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/ojoy  20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

This week Ken & Sunny interview a pair of high school teachers. Erin Heaney and Dr. Greg Marks are dedicated to making sure women and girls have equal access and representation in STEM (science, technology, engineering, and math). Why is this important and what does it have to do with sex and relationships? Surprisingly a lot. Learn how women not having an equitable seat at the table affects our dating, marriage, and sex lives and what you can do to change it. If you have women in your life, this is a must listen. Ken & Sunny experience more SESTA/FOSTA woes hitting the sex ed community and get closer to losing their Patreon bet. Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toys giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/domi and instagram.com/p/BiextfXg-Tg/ Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 43 Links University School Of Milwaukee https://www.usmk12.org/page $100 off Midori’s Forte Femme July (New York) or August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching) adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Peepshow toys mailing list, text the word PEEPSHOW to 345345 Episode 43 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Femme Fun Ultra Bullet Instagram giveaway posted on instagram.com/sunnymegatron Entrants must be over 18, US or Canadian resident, no purchase necessary. Ends 6/10/2018. All May Patreon members receive a jar of The Butters in the mail by 1. Providing a mailing address & 2. Signing up for peepshowtoys.com patreon.com/americansex Entrants must be over 18, US or Canadian resident, no purchase necessary. 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Peepshow Toys is small, independently owned online pleasure products retailer committed to selling only quality products made of body-safe, non-toxic materials, at fair prices. Peepshow Toys carries a number of “indie” sex toy brands like The Butters, Split Peaches and Funkit Toys - companies that are similarly committed to offering body-safe, quality sex toys. $79 for an nJoy Pure Wand + a jar of The Butters through 6/10/2018 with code SUNNY79 https://www.peepshowtoys.com/products/sunny-megatron-njoy-pure-wand-butters-lube $30 a Mimic manta Ray by Clandestine Devices with code SUNNYMIMIC at checkout https://www.peepshowtoys.com/products/mimic-manta-ray-clitoral-vibrator Lovense Domi giveaway ($200 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/domi 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

Our conversation with Midori will blow your mind! She’s changed countless sex lives for the better worldwide and might just change yours during this episode. Learn how to easily tap into your erotic creativity for roleplay and comfortably step into your sexual dominance. Midori tells us how to balance our “nice guy” and “bad boy” personas for steamy encounters and why channeling our “inner 8 year old” is the key to unlocking our erotic potential. Even if you fall more on the vanilla end of the spectrum or simply want to spice up your romance or flirting style, the gems Midori drops will CHANGE EVERYTHING. She also tells us about her new and improved version of “Enthusiastic Consent” called “Engaged Collaborative Consent.” This is a “don’t miss” episode! Also, at https://www.patreon.com/posts/midoris-bonus-18923014 Midori shares a funny bonus story about kittens, centrifugal force & a BDSM scene gone wrong. Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toys giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/domi and instagram.com/p/BiextfXg-Tg/ Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 42 Links Midori Twitter https://twitter.com/PlanetMidori Midori Instagram https://www.instagram.com/planetmidori/ Midori class/event calendar http://www.FHP-Inc.com/classes  Midori’s intensives www.ForteFemme.com www.RopeDojo.com www.WMintensive.com   $100 off Midori’s Forte Femme July (New York) or August (San Fransisco) - use code sunny Club Ascension Detroit Memorial Day Chicken BBQ (we're teaching). Use code SUNNY for $5 off  club-ascension.com/event/chicken-bbq-memorial-weekend/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching) adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Peepshow toys mailing list, text the word PEEPSHOW to 345345 Episode 42 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Femme Fun Ultra Bullet Instagram giveaway posted on instagram.com/sunnymegatron Entrants must be over 18, US or Canadian resident, no purchase necessary. Ends 6/10/2018. All May Patreon members receive a jar of The Butters in the mail by 1. Providing a mailing address & 2. Signing up for peepshowtoys.com patreon.com/americansex Entrants must be over 18, US or Canadian resident, no purchase necessary. 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Peepshow Toys is small, independently owned online pleasure products retailer committed to selling only quality products made of body-safe, non-toxic materials, at fair prices. Peepshow Toys carries a number of “indie” sex toy brands like The Butters, Split Peaches and Funkit Toys - companies that are similarly committed to offering body-safe, quality sex toys. $79 for an nJoy Pure Wand + a jar of The Butters through 6/10/2018 with code SUNNY79 https://www.peepshowtoys.com/products/sunny-megatron-njoy-pure-wand-butters-lube $30 a Mimic manta Ray by Clandestine Devices with code SUNNYMIMIC at checkout https://www.peepshowtoys.com/products/mimic-manta-ray-clitoral-vibrator Lovense Domi giveaway ($200 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/domi 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

Pro-Domme, Miss Maya Sinstress gives us a peek into her deviously wicked mind. Known for extreme degradation and her boundary-pushing videos, Maya shares tales of sadistic fun with viagra & lidocaine, embarrassing public humiliation scenes, semen omelets, fart machines, forced intox, cuckolding, and more. Sunny & Ken answer a listener question about solo BDSM & share a wealth of kink resources you can use alone. Plus they tell cautionary tales of poppers gone wrong and ookie-gookie-cookies. This may be the first episode we’ve labeled with an “extra-gross” warning (but you’ll love it, we know how twisted you really are!). On patreon.com/americansex Maya shares a bonus story about her submissive having an embarrassingly hilarious accident on national TV. Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toys giveaway at sunnymegatron.com/domi and instagram.com/p/BiextfXg-Tg/ Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 41 Links Miss Maya Sinstress Twitter twitter.com/MayaSinstress Miss Maya Sinstress Instagram instagram.com/MissMayaSinstress Miss Maya Sinstress Websites Sinstress.net MistressMayaSinstress.com iWantMayaSinstress.com MyFetishAddictions.com MyOralAddictions.com Club Ascension Detroit Memorial Day Chicken BBQ (we're teaching). Use code SUNNY for $5 off  club-ascension.com/event/chicken-bbq-memorial-weekend/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching) adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Peepshow toys mailing list, text the word PEEPSHOW to 345345 Sunny’s labia clips article kinkly.com/2/1533/passion-play/sex-toys/an-introduction-to-genital-clamps-for-women Sunny’s penis & testicles clips article kinkly.com/2/9029/sex-toys/oooh-ahhhouch-an-intro-to-genital-clamps-for-men Sunny’s TENS unit article kinkly.com/2/1367/passion-play/sex-toys/electrify-your-orgasms-tens-units-for-beginners Sunny’s orgasm control guide: kinkly.com/14/16957/sex-tips/everything-you-need-to-know-about-orgasm-denial Self bondage website selfbound.net Chastity management website https://www.emlalock.com/#/ One Submissive Act website https://onesubmissiveact.com/ One Submissive Act subreddit https://www.reddit.com/r/onesubmissiveact/ Write For Me https://writeforme.org/ Episode 41 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Femme Fun Ultra Bullet Instagram giveaway posted on instagram.com/sunnymegatron Entrants must be over 18, US or Canadian resident, no purchase necessary. Ends 6/10/2018. All May Patreon members receive a jar of The Butters in the mail by 1. Providing a mailing address & 2. Signing up for peepshowtoys.com patreon.com/americansex Entrants must be over 18, US or Canadian resident, no purchase necessary. 10% off your entire peepshowtoys.com order with code SUNNY. Peepshow Toys is small, independently owned online pleasure products retailer committed to selling only quality products made of body-safe, non-toxic materials, at fair prices. Peepshow Toys carries a number of “indie” sex toy brands like The Butters, Split Peaches and Funkit Toys - companies that are similarly committed to offering body-safe, quality sex toys. $79 for an nJoy Purewand + a jar of The Butters through 6/10/2018 with code SUNNY79 https://www.peepshowtoys.com/products/sunny-megatron-njoy-pure-wand-butters-lube $30 a Mimic manta Ray by Clandestine Devices with code SUNNYMIMIC at checkout https://www.peepshowtoys.com/products/mimic-manta-ray-clitoral-vibrator 18% off peepshowtoys.com through 5/18 with code MMAY18 at checkout https://www.peepshowtoys.com/collections/masturbation-may Lovense Domi giveaway ($200 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/domi 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

  Queen of dating & relationships, Shannon Boodram, drops knowledge gleaned from her TV show, Make Up Or Break Up. Learn what common pitfalls and strengths determine the longevity of your relationships. Shan also tells us how putting her private life on display through documenting it all on youtube affects her own life, how she handled being dragged on The Steve Harvey Show (by Steve himself!) with grace, her own issues with ruthless internet harassment, and she shares juicy deets from her hot, hot, hot open relationship with the man of her dreams. Ken & Sunny scold DJ Khaled for not dining at the Y, contemplate fornicating with automobiles, and make a bet you can help them lose (and it’s going to hurt . . . and be recorded!). Also, visit https://www.patreon.com/posts/shannon-boodram-18645091 to hear Shan Boody tell a story about a very tedious oops poops.    Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit http://patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toys giveaway at http://sunnymegatron.com/domi  and http://sunnymegatron.com/peepshowgiveaway Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999  Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 40 Links  Shannon Boodram Twitter @ShanBoody https://twitter.com/shanboody Shannon Boodram Instagram https://www.instagram.com/shanboody/ Shannon Boodram YouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/shannontboodram Club Ascension Detroit Memorial Day Chicken BBQ (we're teaching). Use code SUNNY for $5 off  http://club-ascension.com/event/chicken-bbq-memorial-weekend/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching) http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Peepshow toys mailing list, text the word PEEPSHOW to 345345  Episode 40 Sponsor & Giveaway Info  Femme Fun Ultra Bullet Instagram giveaway posted 5/7/2018 on instagram.com/sunnymegatron Entrants must be over 18, US or Canadian resident, no purchase necessary. All May Patreon members receive a jar of The Butters in the mail by 1. Providing a mailing address & 2. Signing up for peepshowtoys.com patreon.com/americansex Entrants must be over 18, US or Canadian resident, no purchase necessary. 10% off peepshowtoys.com with code SUNNY. Peepshow Toys is small, independently owned online pleasure products retailer committed to selling only quality products made of body-safe, non-toxic materials, at fair prices. Peepshow Toys carries a number of “indie” sex toy brands like The Butters, Split Peaches and Funkit Toys - companies that are similarly committed to offering body-safe, quality sex toys. 18%  off peepshowtoys.com through 5/18 with code MMAY18 at checkout https://www.peepshowtoys.com/collections/masturbation-may Lovense Domi ($200 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/domi 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)    

Would you like be the fly on a wall and peek in on what seemingly average people do behind closed doors? This week’s guest, Big Rubber Dragon, reveals his very unusual fetishes: smashing plates, dressing in a rubber maid’s uniform, and walking on leather sofas in pointy high heels. We learn how he indulges in these fantasies, the childhood experiences they originated from, how he overcame shame, and how his fetishes inspire his art. Listening to Big Rubber Dragon might just give you insight into the unusual things you find arousing (because most of us have at least one fantasy we think is “odd”). You also may discover unusual turn-ons really aren’t that weird at all. Sunny and Ken also talk about incels, unusual fetish acronyms plus they kick off the first May giveaway, and announce the gift May Patreon members will receive in the mail. Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit http://patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toys giveaway at http://sunnymegatron.com/domi  and http://sunnymegatron.com/peepshowgiveaway Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 39 Links Big Rubber Dragon’s fetish art https://bluedragon1974.deviantart.com/ Recap article on incels & the Toronto attack https://www.nytimes.com/2018/04/24/world/canada/incel-reddit-meaning-rebellion.html We Hunted The Mammoth http://www.wehuntedthemammoth.com/2018/04/24/incels-hail-toronto-van-driver-who-killed-10-as-a-new-elliot-rodger-talk-of-future-acid-attacks-and-mass-rapes/ Incel Tears Reddit https://www.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/ Sunny’s CBT Youtube video https://youtu.be/hmR8LU3xcYc Sunny’s SPH Youtube video https://youtu.be/hiG1tp_85To Split Thumper by Leather by Danny https://leatherbydanny.com/shop/en/home/265-patent-leather-split-thumper-deep-wine-burgundy-color-family.html Explore More Summit we're speaking in (free online sexuality summit April 23-May 2) bit.ly/sunnyexploremore Club Ascension Detroit Memorial Day Chicken BBQ (we're teaching)  http://club-ascension.com/event/chicken-bbq-memorial-weekend/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching) http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Sunny’s Womanizer/Satisfyer/Sona live stream sponsored by Peepshow Toys on Sunny’s facebook page (this is where you get secret word #2!) https://youtu.be/u-D5-6vzGu4 Peepshow toys mailing list, text the word PEEPSHOW to 345345 Episode 39 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Womanizer/Sona/Satisfyer giveaway sponsored by peepshowtoys.com. Entrants must be over 18, US or Canadian resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/peepshowgiveaway Giveaway entry ends 5/2/2018 10% off peepshowtoys.com with code SUNNY. Peepshow Toys is small, independently owned online pleasure products retailer committed to selling only quality products made of body-safe, non-toxic materials, at fair prices. Peepshow Toys carries a number of “indie” sex toy brands like The Butters, Split Peaches and Funkit Toys - companies that are similarly committed to offering body-safe, quality sex toys. Lovense Domi ($150 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/domi  20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

Urethral sounding-- what is it? Why do people do it? How do people do it? Is it safe? Does it hurt? Why does it scare the bejeezus out of me? Why does it also sound hot AF? And what exactly do urethras even sound like anyway? No matter what your questions are, John C. Luna has them covered! We also discuss advanced play with tuning forks and electricity, what to do if you're scarred from kidney stones, plus John shares a few cringey urethral sounding mishap stories and tells us about some of the most unbelievable, extreme urethral play he’s seen. American Sex Podcast also surpassed 40 Patreon supporters which means MORE SURPRISES (and if we get to 50 by 4/30, even more)! Ken also solves one of the biggest mysteries in modern American history-- what the Q in Q-tip really stands for. Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit http://patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toys giveaway at http://sunnymegatron.com/halo and http://sunnymegatron.com/peepshowgiveaway Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 38 Links John C. Luna Facebook https://www.facebook.com/JohnCalvinLuna John C. Luna Twitter https://twitter.com/johncluna Living a Sex Positive Life Podcast https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/living-a-sex-positive-life/id1197124228?mt=2 John's Bonus Story, "The $9k Cockring" https://www.patreon.com/posts/bonus-story-john-18327923 Explore More Summit we're speaking in (free online sexuality summit April 23-May 2) bit.ly/sunnyexploremore Club Ascension Detroit Memorial Day Chicken BBQ (we're teaching)  http://club-ascension.com/event/chicken-bbq-memorial-weekend/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching) http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Sunny’s Womanizer/Satisfyer/Sona live stream sponsored by Peepshow Toys on Sunny’s facebook page (this is where you get secret word #2!) https://youtu.be/u-D5-6vzGu4 Episode 38 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Womanizer/Sona/Satisfyer giveaway sponsored by peepshowtoys.com. Entrants must be over 18, US or Canadian resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/peepshowgiveaway Giveaway entry ends 5/2/2018 10% off peepshowtoys.com with code SUNNY. Peepshow Toys is small, independently owned online pleasure products retailer committed to selling only quality products made of body-safe, non-toxic materials, at fair prices. Peepshow Toys carries a number of “indie” sex toy brands like The Butters, Split Peaches and Funkit Toys - companies that are similarly committed to offering body-safe, quality sex toys. Jimmyjane Halo Love Pod ($150 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/halo Giveaway entry ends 4/30/2018 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

Episode 37 of American Sex Podcast is our big, girthy sex toy episode! Listeners tell us the hilarious household objects they’ve used to get off, we reveal some of our most laughable sex toy fails, plus we clear up some sex toy myths. Find out: What’s the deal with using silicone lube with silicone toys anyway? Are luxury sex toys really superior? What the hell is the difference between buzzy and rumbly sex toys? And more! We also talk to a 25 year sex toy industry veteran, Katy Zvolerin, for a peek into the business side of the sex toy industry. We learn how pleasure products have evolved over the last 40 years and what the future may bring. Will we really all have sex robots? Maybe ...   Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit http://patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels, stuff in the mail & more!) Enter our monthly sex toys giveaway at http://sunnymegatron.com/halo and http://sunnymegatron.com/peepshowgiveaway Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Join our mailing list by texting MEGATRON to 444999 Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 37 Links Adam and Eve Twitter https://twitter.com/adamandeve Adam and Eve Website https://www.adameve.com/ Explore More Summit we're speaking in (free online sexuality summit April 23-May 2) bit.ly/sunnyexploremore Club Ascension Detroit Memorial Day Chicken BBQ (we're teaching)  http://club-ascension.com/event/chicken-bbq-memorial-weekend/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 (we're teaching) http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Sunny’s Womanizer/Satisfyer/Sona live stream sponsored by Peepshow Toys on Sunny’s facebook page (this is where you get secret word #2!) https://youtu.be/u-D5-6vzGu4 Episode 37 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Womanizer/Sona/Satisfyer giveaway sponsored by peepshowtoys.com. Entrants must be over 18, US or Canadian resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/peepshowgiveaway Giveaway entry ends 5/2/2018 10% off peepshowtoys.com with code SUNNY. Peepshow Toys is small, independently owned online pleasure products retailer committed to selling only quality products made of body-safe, non-toxic materials, at fair prices. Peepshow Toys carries a number of “indie” sex toy brands like The Butters, Split Peaches and Funkit Toys - companies that are similarly committed to offering body-safe, quality sex toys. Jimmyjane Halo Love Pod ($150 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/halo Giveaway entry ends 4/30/2018 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

Kitty Stryker put the phrase “Consent Culture” on the map. Much of this week’s episode is devoted to SESTA/FOSTA and Kitty tells us why these bills are damaging to not only consensual sex workers but all of our personal and sexual freedoms. We dive into consent both inside and outside of the bedroom and discuss her new anthology “Ask: Building Consent Culture.” Kitty also gives us an interesting peek into Juggalo culture and how it might lead us down the path to a brighter future. Ken & Sunny spontaneously decide to send surprises in the mail to their growing Patreon family & give the secret word for the Peepshow Toys giveaway.  Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit http://patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels & more!) Enter our monthly sex toys giveaway at http://sunnymegatron.com/halo and http://sunnymegatron.com/peepshowgiveaway Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Kitty Stryker's "super awkward poop story" over on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/posts/kitty-strykers-18067385  Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 36 Links Kitty Stryker Twitter https://twitter.com/kittystryker Kitty Stryker Website http://kittystryker.com/ Kitty Stryker’s book, “Ask: Building Consent Culture” https://www.amazon.com/Ask-Building-Consent-Kitty-Stryker/dp/1944934251 Club Ascension Detroit Memorial Day Chicken BBQ http://club-ascension.com/event/chicken-bbq-memorial-weekend/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Sunny’s Womanizer/Satisfyer/Sona live stream sponsored by Peepshow Toys on Sunny’s facebook page (this is where you get secret word #2!): https://www.facebook.com/SunnyMegatron/videos/1777396082306225/ SESTA/FOSTA affected web properties: https://survivorsagainstsesta.org/documentation/ Petition to repeal SESTA/FOSTA (please sign & share!) https://petitions.whitehouse.gov/petition/repealstop-fosta-now Explore More Summit (free online sexuality summit April 23-May 3) bit.ly/sunnyexploremore Episode 36 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Jimmyjane Halo Love Pod ($150 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/halo Giveaway entry ends 4/30/2018 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) Womanizer/Sona/Satisfyer giveaway sponsored by peepshowtoys.com. Entrants must be over 18, US or Canadian resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/peepshowgiveaway Giveaway entry ends 5/2/2018 10% off peepshowtoys.com with code SUNNY. Peepshow Toys is small, independently owned online pleasure products retailer committed to selling only quality products made of body-safe, non-toxic materials, at fair prices. Peepshow Toys carries a number of “indie” sex toy brands like The Butters, Split Peaches and Funkit Toys - companies that are similarly committed to offering body-safe, quality sex toys.  

Kara Cooney is an Egyptologist whose work can be seen on the Discovery Channel and in museums around the world. What the heck does that have to do with the sexual climate here in the US? A LOT. History repeats itself, right? Political structure and patriarchal sexism in ancient Egypt draw surprising parallels to what’s going on here in America--even down to the authoritarianism and pu$$y grabbing in the white house. We top off the episode with sexy hieroglyphics, hand jobs & semen salads (how’s that for a happy ending?!). Ken & Sunny give the secret word for their April PeepShowToys.com giveaway (there’s TWO giveaways this month!) & dive way too deep into Willy Wonka. Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit http://patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, blooper reels & more!) Enter our monthly sex toys giveaway at http://sunnymegatron.com/halo and http://sunnymegatron.com/peepshowgiveaway Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 35 Links Kara Cooney Twitter https://twitter.com/KaraCooney Kara Cooney Facebook https://www.facebook.com/karacooneyegyptologist/ Kara Cooney Instagram https://www.instagram.com/karacooney Kara Cooney Website http://karacooney.squarespace.com/ Kara Cooney’s “When Women Ruled The Word” book https://www.amazon.com/When-Women-Ruled-World-Queens/dp/1426219776 Rochester Erotic Arts Festival http://www.rochestereroticartfest.org/ Club Ascension Detroit Memorial Day Chicken BBQ http://club-ascension.com/event/chicken-bbq-memorial-weekend/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Tuesday 4/3 Sunny’s Womanizer/Satisfyer/Sona live stream & giveaway kick-off sponsored by Peepshow Toys on Sunny’s facebook page: http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Episode 35 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Jimmyjane Halo Love Pod ($150 value) provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/halo  Giveaway entry ends 4/30/2018 20% off your order at  http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at  Lelo.com  with code SUNNY 10% off peepshowtoys.com with code SUNNY. Peepshow Toys is small, independently owned online pleasure products retailer committed to selling only quality products made of body-safe, non-toxic materials, at fair prices. Peepshow Toys carries a number of “indie” sex toy brands like The Butters, Split Peaches and Funkit Toys - companies that are similarly committed to offering body-safe, quality sex toys. 20% off the Womanizer Pro40 from peepshowtoys.com through 4/7 only--use code SUNNYPRO40 at checkout      

Joan Price specializes in sex and aging. You don’t have to be a senior to enjoy this episode--Joan’s information is not only priceless, it’s timeless too. Joan tells us how to write an effective online dating profile and take the perfect pic, what to tell prospective dates if you're kinky or looking for something very specific, how your body changes during menopause and “man”opause, what types of erectile dysfunction could be medical concerns, how to talk to your doctor about your sexual health and get them to listen, which sex toys & lubes are best for aging bodies and why, plus a lot more. Joan drops gems for people of all ages and even gives us all some sexy homework! Also, Ken & Sunny discover their podcast was being pirated without their knowledge plus they prep for an awesome facebook live stream to answer all of your questions about some of the most popular sex toys on the market. p.s. Joan tells us an unbelievable dating bonus story at patreon.com/americansex   Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit http://patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret bonus episodes and more!) Enter our monthly sex toys giveaway at http://sunnymegatron.com/osci Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com If you’re listening to American Sex on a podcast network (or if you heard American Sex on ASN Radio Network/Lifestyles Radio in the past) please let us know-- we have never belonged to any networks through March 2018, thanks! Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 34 Links Joan Price Twitter https://twitter.com/JoanPrice Joan Price Blog http://www.NakedAtOurAge.com Joan Price Website http://www.joanprice.com/ Joan Price E-mail joan@joanprice.com Subscribe to Joan price’s newsletter http://eepurl.com/cx2Nab Joan Price’s Safer Sex for Seniors https://youtu.be/efGXHzf19Bs Ken & Sunny’s 3/28 Chicago BDSM 101 Workshop https://discoverycenter.cc/bondage-class-intro-to-domination-s-m Rochester Erotic Arts Festival http://www.rochestereroticartfest.org/ Club Ascension Detroit Memorial Day Chicken BBQ http://club-ascension.com/event/chicken-bbq-memorial-weekend/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Tuesday 4/3 Sunny’s Womanizer/Satisfyer/Sona live stream & giveaway kick-off sponsored by Peepshow Toys on Sunny’s facebook page: http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Episode 34 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Osci by Lovense Smartphone controlled oscillating g-spot vibrator giveaway at sunnymegatron.com Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/osci  Giveaway entry ends 4/1/2018 20% off your order at  http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at  Lelo.com  with code SUNNY Get a 30 day free trial of Audible + a free audiobook download (The Butterfly Effect Podcast & The Breasts Abound Podcast are MUST LISTEN!): http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast 10% off peepshowtoys.com with code SUNNY. Peepshow Toys is small, independently owned online pleasure products retailer committed to selling only quality products made of body-safe, non-toxic materials, at fair prices. Peepshow Toys carries a number of “indie” sex toy brands like The Butters, Split Peaches and Funkit Toys - companies that are similarly committed to offering body-safe, quality sex toys.

Alice Little lets us be a fly on the wall behind closed doors at the infamous Moonlight Bunny Ranch.  She was named the #1 Companion of the Year and tells us about her work with adult virgins, couples eager to explore, BDSM, misconceptions & realities of sex work, plus her advocacy work including the organization she founded, “Hookers for Healthcare.” Alice is also a sexuality educator with strong opinions about how abstinence-only sex ed and improper use of porn are a detriment to us all.  Ken & Sunny make a sad, heartfelt announcement plus they get a little dark after discovering the seedy underbelly of the internet. Hop on over to https://www.patreon.com/posts/alice-little-17637543 sex to hear Alice Little’s bonus story about a bondage scene with a very unexpected ending. Visit Alice on social media @TheAliceLittle. Call in your BDSM & sex advice questions to our voicemail line 773-MUFF-TOY (we may play your message on air) or by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com To support American Sex podcast, please visit http://patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret bonus episodes and more!) Enter our monthly sex toys giveaway at http://sunnymegatron.com/osci Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com Thanks, Sunny & Ken, xo! ____________________________________ Episode 33 Links Alice Little Twitter https://twitter.com/TheAliceLittle Alice Little Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thealicelittle/ Alice Little Website http://www.thealicelittle.com Alice Little E-mail AliceLittle@BunnyRanch.com Ken & Sunny’s 3/28 Chicago BDSM 101 Workshop https://discoverycenter.cc/bondage-class-intro-to-domination-s-m Rochester Erotic Arts Festival http://www.rochestereroticartfest.org/ Club Ascension Detroit Memorial Day Chicken BBQ http://club-ascension.com/event/chicken-bbq-memorial-weekend/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Episode 33 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Osci by Lovense Smartphone controlled oscillating g-spot vibrator giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore.  Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/osci  Giveaway entry ends 4/1/2018 20% off your order at  http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at  Lelo.com  with code SUNNY Get a 30 day free trial of Audible + a free audiobook download (The Butterfly Effect Podcast & The Breasts Abound Podcast are MUST LISTEN!): http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast

Cam & KarenLee Poter are the dynamic mother/son duo from the hit Sex Talk With My Mom podcast. Esquire named it the #3 sex podcast of 2017. They share how their sex-positive, educational, hilarious partnership originated from tragedy. We talk about being a proud slut, coming out as an emotional man, how Cam curbed premature ejaculation & more. Ken & Sunny keep with the theme bringing on their 22 yo daughter to talk about having sex ed celeb parents & growing up in the unconventional Megatron-Berg household. Listen to Sex Talk With My Mom this Thursday 3/15 too because Ken & Sunny will be a guest on their episode released that day. Guest Bio Sex Talk With My Mom is a podcast hosted by a sexually-liberated, "cougar" mom and her stand-up comic son. They have "the talk" every week to entertain and explore sex in today's society.KarenLee Poter is an expert in large age-gap relationships and hosts the popular YouTube channel, The KarenLee Poter Show. Her son Cam decided to use his Stanford education to become a clown/mime. Episode 32 Topics Having “the talk” with your kids, when tragedy strikes, dick pics, Sara Jay & White Castle burgers, widowhood, being a cougar, Dr. Seuss, MILF, getting your first period, patreon business advice, teaching sex ed on youtube, A Cougars Guide to Getting Your Ass Back Out There, stand up comedy, premature ejaculation, Stanford University, clown sex, dacryphilia, edging, polyamory, Nina Hartley, silent mime sex, Stiffler’s mom, sex novice, proud sluthood, AVN convention, emotional sex, latex sex parties, kegel exercises, the infamous clown orgy, sex positive parenting, long term relationships, May December romance, hot yoga instructors, sexual experimentation, threesomes, sex conventions, monogamy, marrying young, STD tests, multiple orgasms for men, prostate play, spanking, blow jobbery, oral vs. intercourse, irrumation, face fucking, coming out as emotional when you’re masculine, using tears as lube, cumming too quickly, 21 day masturbation challenge, cock-ups Episode 32 Links Sex Talk With My Mom Website http://www.sextalkwithmymom.com/ Sex Talk With My Mom Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sextalkwithmymom/ Sex Talk With My Mom Twitter https://twitter.com/SexTalkPodcast Ken & Sunny’s 3/28 Chicago BDSM 101 Workshop https://discoverycenter.cc/bondage-class-intro-to-domination-s-m Rochester Erotic Arts Festival http://www.rochestereroticartfest.org/ Club Ascension Detroit Memorial Day Chicken BBQ http://club-ascension.com/event/chicken-bbq-memorial-weekend/ COPE Conference Ohio July 2018 http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/tickets.html Episode 32 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Osci by Lovense Smartphone controlled oscillating g-spot vibrator giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter:  http://sunnymegatron.com/osci  Giveaway entry ends 4/1/2018 20% off your order at  http://castlemegastore.com   when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at  Lelo.com  with code SUNNY Get a 30 day free trial of Audible + a free audiobook download (The Butterfly Effect Podcast & The Breasts Abound Podcast are MUST LISTEN!): http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast

Gut feelings, hunches, intuition-- we all have it. But how can we harness these skills & use them reliably? How can they help us get what (& who) we want in bed? Can it be done ethically & consensually? Susanna Brisk, Sexual Intuitive®, answers these questions & more talking about her new book, "How to Get Laid Using Your Intuition" (Sunny edited it!). Ken confesses his secret Russian Dominatrix fetish. Sunny & Ken answer a listener email about anal training to prepare for your first pegging session.   Guest Bio Susanna Brisk is a Sexual Intuitive® who coaches clients to uncover what they like, what they need, and how to get it. She coaches a variety of ages, genders, and orientations worldwide on Skype, as well as in person at her Topanga Canyon office. She was born in Estonia, grew up in Australia and moved to New York where she continued a successful career as a model, comedian, and actor before switching to sex ed. Susanna is a gifted public speaker, author, and broadcaster who has taught workshops in Los Angeles at the Stockroom and Sexual Health Expo LA. She has been featured in LA Weekly and on Vice, as well as on Fox, Sirius XM, Playboy.com, The MILF Code, and Playboy Radio. Her tell-it-like-it-is missives have been read by the better part of a million people on yourtango, After Party Magazine, sexpert, Sexual Health Magazine, and her own popular site Real Sex Daily. More info and testimonials on coaching are available at sexualintuitive.com Episode 31 Topics Don’t sit on concrete, FemDom roleplay, the language of love, ESP,  sex positive parenting, #MeToo, first time pegging, Russian superstitions, how to set boundaries, Ricky & Lucy beds, listening to your gut, societal gaslighting, Dommy Mommy, butt plugs, abusive relationships, peacocks faking orgasms, fight flight or freeze, love at first sight, privatizing the VA, overriding your gut instinct, ambassadors of fuck, emotional labor, the 1-2-3 finger method, how to figure out what your needs are, pee hands, astral projection, Estonian, anal training, leaving your wife, Aziz Ansari, dogs milk & mice Episode 31 Links Susanna Brisk Website http://sexualintuitive.com/ Susanna Brisk Blog, Real Sex Daily https://realsexdaily.com/ Susanna Brisk Instagram https://www.instagram.com/sexualintuitive/ Susanna Brisk Twitter https://twitter.com/susannabrisk How To Get Laid Using Your Intuition Book Amazon https://www.amazon.com/How-Laid-Using-Your-Intuition-ebook/dp/B079P1CZSG/ How to Laid Using Your Intuition Website http://www.howtogetlaid.org/ Sunny’s Booty Vibro Kit Youtube Video https://youtu.be/JtBgjLpbrn0 Sunny’s Butt Plug Video https://youtu.be/cSa-LtkBKyY Susanna's bonus story https://www.patreon.com/americansex Episode 31 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Osci by Lovense Smartphone controlled oscillating g-spot vibrator giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter:  http://sunnymegatron.com/osci  Giveaway entry ends 4/1/2018 20% off your order at  http://castlemegastore.com   when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at  Lelo.com  with code SUNNY Get a 30 day free trial of Audible + a free audiobook download (The Butterfly Effect Podcast & The Breasts Abound Podcast are MUST LISTEN!): http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast

Kevin Patterson talks about his new book Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities. We delve into how to figure out what you don’t know, being more inclusive in your community, balancing masculinity and non-monogamy, how the political climate has changed social interaction, light-skinned privilege, forced ambassadorship, those damn pink pussy hats & more. Ken & Sunny answer a listener question about g-spot play. Kevin’s bonus story (with a surprise, twist ending!) is at https://www.patreon.com/posts/17188911 Guest Bio Kevin Patterson is an active member of the Philadelphia polyamory community. He's been practicing ethical nonmonogamy since August of 2002 after opening up a relationship that eventually became his marriage. In April of 2015, Kevin was inspired to start Poly Role Models, an interview series for people describing their experiences with polyamory. Poly Role Models is part of a drive and a desire to change the way our lives and communities are viewed. It is currently the most diverse and inclusive platform for polyamory available. To continue the discussion of polyamorous representation, Kevin has extended the blog's work into nationwide speaking engagements about how race and polyamory intersect. This has led to the writing of the book, Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities. Episode 30 Topics Going platinum in Skyrim, unicorn hunters, one penis policy, the legion of angry triad girlfriends, sociology, The Ethical Slut,  gamer compersion, racial inclusivity, cautionary poly, angry black stereotype, light skin privilege, polycules, Black Panther, forced ambassadorship, pink pussy hats, not knowing what you don’t know, The Kevin Bacon Game, parallel of racism and misogyny, black comic book characters, Cunning Minx, Ready Player One, men in sex ed, power structure in hetero relationships, Dave Chappelle & Chris Rock on SNL, how to take criticism, Dirty Lola, consent in sex-positive communities, masculinity in polyamory, you let her do what!?, 1980s bad movies, how to make events more inclusive, punching dragons in the face, white feminism, but my one black friend said . . . Episode 30 Links Poly Role Models Facebook https://www.facebook.com/polyrolemodelscurator Poly Role Models Instagram https://www.instagram.com/polyrolemodels/ Poly Role Models Twitter https://twitter.com/PolyRoleModels Poly Role Models Tumblr http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/ Love’s Not Color Blind Book Amazon https://www.amazon.com/dp/1944934464/ref=cm_sw_r_fa_dp_t2_DiNUzbMDAA9EW Love’s Not Color Blind Book Barnes & Nobles https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/loves-not-colorblind-kevin-patterson/1127073225?ean=9781944934460 Kevin’s bonus story https://www.patreon.com/posts/17188911 Episode 30 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Ambi by Lovense Smartphone controlled bullet Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter:http://sunnymegatron.com/ambiGiveaway entry ends 2/28/2018 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at Lelo.com with code SUNNY Get a 30 day free trial of Audible + a free audiobook download (The Butterfly Effect Podcast & The Breasts Abound Podcast are MUST LISTEN!): http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast

Barak and Sheba tell Sunny & Ken how exploring sacred sexuality lead to them opening up a thriving sex-positive community center. They share some of the transformative moments they’ve witnessed in the community they built, tell us everything we need to know about sex conventions including tips for attending your first one, and how they’ve changed the way BDSM is viewed in the Midwest. Ken & Sunny share some embarrassing sex stories & get confused by the English language. More: americansexpodcast.com Guest Bio Barak & Sheba are pansexual, polyamorous, married partners who reside in Columbus, Ohio; with some gigantic cats. They are Contributing Authors for Sexis Online Magazine and have written numerous short stories and essays on Polyamory, Kink, and Sacred Sexuality. Traveling around the country, they present classes for Kink, Leather, and Vanilla audiences. On the first Monday of each month, you can hear them talking about all forms of creative sexual expression on BS’ing with Barak & Sheba hosted by the Erotic Awakenings Podcast network. Together they are the founding members and owners of Adventures in Sexuality (AIS), a fun, frolicking, PanPolyBSDM/Kink group in Central Ohio. Through AIS they are Coalition members of the NCSF (National Coalition for Sexual Freedom) are active supporters of The Sexual Assault Response Network of Central Ohio (SARNCO) and the Buckeye Region Anti-Violence Organization (BRAVO). They currently promote Pansexual BDSM Educational Events in Central Ohio – including the Central Ohio Perversion Excursion (C.O.P.E.) and Winter Wickedness. Episode 29 Topics Blow jobs, Steel City Scandal, having gas during sexytimes, naked swimming, two bandaids and a cork, fire play, custom made bondage furniture, How to Get Laid Using Your Intuition, clown burlesque, feed fuck or fight, couples sex classes, orgy pool sharks, drum circles, carving steamship round, how to prepare for your first sex convention, sexuality in the midwest, bootblacks, transformative kink stories, the golden rule, vibrating nightsticks, boudoir photography, gender neutral bathrooms, Central Ohio Rope Group, humor in BDSM, the 3-2-1 rule, sex party food, valuable vs. invaluable, abduction scenes, hotel takeover, sex and religion Episode 29 Links AIS Website http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/ Bafak & Sheba Website http://baraknsheba.org/ COPE (the next AIS Convention in July where Ken & Sunny are teaching) http://www.adventuresinsexuality.org/COPE/splash.html AIS Twitter https://twitter.com/ais_org Brat Sheba Twitter https://twitter.com/brat_sheba Brat Sheba Facebook https://www.facebook.com/brat.sheba?ref=ts Drum circle recording at The Space https://youtu.be/_nfqXO3APjg How to Get Laid Using Your Intuition book https://www.amazon.com/How-Laid-Using-Your-Intuition/dp/0692070184/ Rochester Erotic Arts Festival http://www.rochestereroticartfest.org/ Episode 29 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Ambi by Lovense Smartphone controlled bullet Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/ambiGiveaway entry ends 2/28/2018 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at Lelo.com with code SUNNY Get a 30 day free trial of Audible + a free audiobook download (The Butterfly Effect Podcast & The Breasts Abound Podcast are MUST LISTEN!): http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast

Joanna Angel talks with Sunny & Ken about her 1st book--a choose your own adventure style erotica book Called Night Shift: A Choose Your Own Erotic Fantasy, the universal need for raunchy dirty stranger sex, the Burning Angel origin (hilarious & amazing), & how to keep your punk rock heart strong while running a successful company. Ken & Sunny talk Valentine's Day & announce who received Patreon surprises in the mail. Joanna also shares a bonus story about how NOT to prepare for butt sex at https://www.patreon.com/posts/joanna-angel-how-16948067 Guest Bio Joanna Angel is an award-winning adult film star, director, producer, author, entrepreneur and CEO of the venerated adult studio, BurningAngel  Entertainment. Pacific Standard magazine stated she is "One of the most powerful feminist icons in the adult industry." She's stormed mainstream media outlets being featured in the New York Times, Forbes Magazine, Vice TV, LA Weekly, and CNBC just to name a few. She was inducted into AVN's hall of fame in 2016 and continues to make her mark on the adult industry and the world at large. Episode 28 Topics Dirty raunchy anonymous sex, parallel universes, Fiddler on the Roof, the best punk bands, the power of pornography, Jewish moms, Burning Angel origin story, Kuma’s Korner, 80s throwback, Asarotica, punk code of ethics, happy endings, crossdressing, the extinction of 24 hours porn shops, 50 Shades of Grey, Jiz Lee Coming OUt Like A Porn Star, Surf & Skate Fest, 420, vegan pot brownies, Jewish Girls Love Black Cock movie, Larry Flint, How to stay punk rock at heart in business, Florida, John Waters mail, EXIT Chicago, starting a porn site on a whim, Jello Biafra, storytelling, Myspace Episode 28 Links Night Shift: A Choose Your Own Erotic Fantasy https://www.amazon.com/Night-Shift-Choose-Your-Own-Erotic-Fantasy/dp/1627782885 Burning Angel https://www.burningangel.com/ Joanna Angel Twitter https://twitter.com/JoannaAngel Joanna Angel Instagram https://www.instagram.com/joannaangel/ Joanna Angel Bonus Story about a scene w/ Bella Donna: Episode 28 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Ambi by Lovense Smartphone controlled bullet Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/ambi Giveaway entry ends 2/28/2018 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at Lelo.com with code SUNNY Get a 30 day free trial of Audible + a free audiobook download (The Butterfly Effect Podcast & The Breasts Abound Podcast are MUST LISTEN!): http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast

We had a ton of laughs and learned a lot talking with Sex therapist Ruby B. Johnson about non-hierarchical polyamory, eroticised racism, BDSM & unusual roleplays, sex therapy vs. relationship therapy, her event Poly Dallas Millennium, her work as a forensic social worker, and a bunch more. Our conversation covers the spectrum from f*cked up (in a good way) to enlightening! Sunny & Ken also announce the January Giveaway winner, unveil the February prize, and rejoice at the news the f-bomb is allowed on TV.  Guest BioRuby B Johnson is a sex therapist and educator from Plano, Texas. Ruby founded PolyDallas Millennium in 2015 and it is in its 4th year. The symposium is July 13-15, 2018 in Dallas, Texas. Ruby is frequently asked to speak on black sexuality, polyamory, and consent. Episode 27 TopicsPoly & kinky group on fetlife, egalitarian polyamory, the movie Soul Food, serial killers, accidentally drinking your own pee, relationship therapy vs. sex therapy, mismatched libido, Nailin’ Palin, CBT, relationship anarchy, infidelity, non-hierarchical polyamory, dominant fantasy confessions, double penetration, Mollena Williams, Fire and Fury, The Chicago Ripper Crew, fire play and furries, veto power, Jeffrey Dahmer, solo polyamory, mixed metaphors, forensic social work, eroticized racism, bilingual sex ed, BDSM 101, topping yourself, unique roleplay, race play, anchor partners, fetish parties Episode 27 Links Ruby Johnson’s Website: http://www.sextherapistruby.com/ Ruby Johnson’s  Twitter: https://twitter.com/blacksexgeek Poly Dallas Millenium https://www.polydallasmillennium.com/ BDSM 101 Chicago Class with Sunny & Ken on 2/7/2018: https://discoverycenter.cc/bondage-class-intro-to-domination-s-m January giveaway & Ambi Preview facebook video: https://www.facebook.com/SunnyMegatron/videos/1709875359058298/   Episode 27 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Ambi by Lovense Smartphone controlled bullet Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/ambi Giveaway entry ends 2/28/2018 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at Lelo.com with code SUNNY Get a 30 day free trial of Audible + a free audiobook download (The Butterfly Effect Podcast & The Breasts Abound Podcast are MUST LISTEN!): http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast

Sex educator & pleasure industry wonder woman, Anne Hodder, shares stories of her sex journalism days including the ongoing Village Voice, coast to coast, “girl-fight” she helped craft under the pseudonym Barbie Davenport. We discuss the importance of sex ed in rehab facilities and the myth of ‘sex addiction.’ Anne teaches us about breathwork & how science and the spiritual can come together to help us ‘own our shit’ in sex, relationships & all areas of life. Ken & Sunny get warm & fuzzy feedback from a fan. Guest Bio Anne Hodder, ACS, is a multi-certified sex educator endorsed by San Francisco Sex Information and the American College of Sexologists International. A cum laude graduate of the Roy H. Park School of Communications at Ithaca College, Anne’s journalism and sociology background led her to work as a journalist focusing on sexuality and the adult industry before being professionally trained in accurate and inclusive sex education. Anne received her first certification and endorsement by the renowned San Francisco Sex Information program and continued her training via the American College of Sexologists International and Planned Parenthood Los Angeles’s School Based Sex Education Program, where she honed a special skill for working with adolescents. She boasts a unique understanding of age-appropriate education, high school sex ed, critical thinking, and trauma sensitivity and, most recently, Anne has brought her teaching style into the addiction treatment and mental health communities. Anne provides accurate and accessible sexual health information and healthy relationship tools with a special focus on inclusivity, shame reduction, and effective communication skills and, with a friendly and non-judgmental approach, Anne helps clients of all kinds heal, grow and be their most authentic selves. Episode 26 Topics Delta & theta brain frequencies, compulsive sexual behavior disorder, advice for the self employed, Barbie Davenport, the business side of sex toys, sex ed in rehab facilities, classic girl fights, Harvey Weinstein, DSM 5, Own Your Shit Workshops. AV Flox, alternative medicine in the US military, Backpage,  your rights in a relationship. rolling your third eye,  all the reasons Nathaniel is amazing, the sweet spot between science and woo-woo, sobriety & sexual identity, adult industry PR,  not my circus not my monkeys, LA Weekly firings, Sex & Love Addicts Anonymous/SLAW, The Village Voice, fuck you pay me, coke nails, east coast vs west coast, breathwork, how to get your brain to STFU Episode 26 Links Anne Hodder’s Website: http://annehodder.com/ Anne Hodder Twitter: https://twitter.com/theannehodder Anne Hodder Instagram: https://instagram.com/theannehodder Hodder Media: http://www.hoddermedia.com/ Own Your Shit Workshops https://ownyoursht.splashthat.com/ Breathwork for Recovery free Tuesday night class in LA http://breathworkforrecovery.com Nathaniel V. Dust http://nathanielvdust.com/ Episode 26 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Crave Vesper 24k Gold Vibrating Necklace Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/vesper/ Giveaway entry ends 1/31/2017 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at Lelo.com with code SUNNY Get a 30 day free trial of Audible + a free audiobook download (The Butterfly Effect Podcast by Jon Ronson is a MUST LISTEN!): http://www.audibletrial.com/aspodcast

Sexologist Cyndi Darnell dives in deep discussing #MeToo, the Aziz Ansari story, and how it relates to all of us. We know that #TimesUp and things have to change but how do we go about that? What steps do we take? What’s our personal responsibility? We discuss effective sexual communication, the role sex ed plays in all of this, plus Cyndi gives tips for sex-positive parenting. Before the interview, Sunny & Ken talk about hangovers and drinking Downy, plus Sunny has an embarrassing recording mishap. Cyndi also tells us a hilarious story about a date gone very wrong.  It's separate from the episode and you can hear it here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/cyndi-darnell-ep-16539959 Guest Bio Cyndi Darnell is Australia’s most in demand sex and relationship therapist, spearheading progressive sex & relationships seminars for adults that deeply change people’s lives and in 2015 she was the only sexologist named on MindBodyGreen’s Top 100 Women to Watch. Her approach spans the clinical to the esoteric, and is a reviewer and contributor to the academic Journals  Sex Education ( UK) Porn Studies ( UK) & Sex & Relationship Therapy ( UK). In 2015 she released The Atlas of Erotic Anatomy and Arousal a pioneering educational video series designed to give upfront adult information about sex, the body and most importantly, pleasure!  She’s currently working on her first book exploring the fusion of the mind, body and heart in enhancing and exploring libido and desire. Her 5 degrees range from a bachelor in adult education to two masters degrees in sexology and psychotherapy. A regular in the Australian media she has appeared on TV, radio and print as well as being principal consultant and advisor on Northern Pictures “Luke Warm Sex” (on Netflix) She counsels individuals & couples, offers training to professionals on sex and the human condition, and offers insight into the quandaries of the erotic to transform fear into freedom. Currently based in Australia and soon to be in New York City in 2018. Episode 25 Topics Forgetting to press record, misplaced anger, University of Tennessee Sex Week, modeling vulnerability, opening angels, #MeToo backlash, early childhood memories, emotional literacy, religious play, sexual communication, bad dates, the flavors of sex, tide pods, conspiracy theories, community sex ed, anal sex, tinder dates, defining sexual assault, comprehensive sex ed, erotic expression, why women don’t speak up, testosterone and sexuality, scratching your ass in public, gender socialization, victim blaming,  sex positive parenting, overrepresentation of sex & violence narratives, sex ed in math class, drinking fabric softener, cultural trauma, Margaret Atwood, emotional labor Episode 25 Links Cyndi Darnell website: http://cyndidarnell.com/ Cyndi Darnell newsletter: http://cyndidarnell.us3.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=7ab248cc10bd53654c0f6b44a&id=2160a23dff Cyndi Darnell Twitter: https://www.facebook.com/cyndidarnellpage/ @cyndi_darnell Twitter: https://twitter.com/cyndi_darnell Scarleteen.com http://www.scarleteen.com/ Bish.com http://www.bishuk.com/ Buzzfeed Best 2018 podcast: https://www.buzzfeed.com/scottybryan/podcasts-2018  ← please leave a comment and give us a mention! Episode 25 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Crave Vesper 24k Gold Vibrating Necklace Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/vesper/Giveaway entry ends 1/31/2017 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at Lelo.com with code SUNNY

“I think I’m kinky! Now what?” Ken & Sunny discuss 4 things you need to know before exploring the BDSM scene. They talk with Mr. BLK & Ms. Pomegranate of the award-winning BDSM blog theblackpomegranate.com. They tell us how they got started in kink & the Leather community, about the inner workings of the kink scene, including how to navigate it if you’re a person of color and how allies can be more welcoming and inclusive. Ken & Sunny also reminisce about their Mommie Dearest roleplay sexytimes.   Guest Bio The Black Pomegranate are collectively Mr.BLK and Ms.Pomegranate (Foxxy), two east coast based kink educators and bloggers who have presented nationally on issues such as consent, BDSM, inclusion, diversity, social media, Leather communities and sex-positive dynamics. Mr.BLK is an experienced bondage rigger, lifestyle dominant, writer and kink presenter who also works with sex-positive non-profits. Ms.Pomegranate is known as Foxxy and holds the title of Mid Atlantic Leather Woman 2018. An experienced lifestyle Domme and writer, Foxxy speaks nationally about inclusion in the Leather and kink communities. Episode 24 Topics Mommie Dearest, Be More Munch Baltimore, online BDSM classes, BDSM on a budget, interrogation scenes, uncomfortable conversations, #MeToo, choosing between community and standing up for your beliefs, sexual roleplay, play party etiquette,  Mid-Atlantic Leather Woman,  adult babies, Yes/No/Maybe lists for BDSM, racial diversity on conference panels, TNG, becoming a BDSM educator, foot fetish, Fem Domme, getting references for play partners, racism and misogyny in kink Episode 24 Links The Black Pomegranate website: http://theblackpomegranate.com Mid-Atlantic Leather Woman facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/Mid-Atlantic-Leather-Woman-Mid-Atlantic-Leatherwoman-Bootblack-2018-198443040694752/ @BlkPomegranate Twitter: https://twitter.com/BlkPomegranate Sunny & Ken’s BDSM Yes/No/Maybe List: http://bit.ly/BDSMYNM Kink Academy online BDSM video classes: http://bit.ly/kinkacademy Fetlife kinky social networking site: http://fetlife.com BDSM events page listing many of the major conferences worldwide: http://www.thebdsmeventspage.com/events.html Buzzfeed Best 2018 podcast: https://www.buzzfeed.com/scottybryan/podcasts-2018  ← please leave a comment and give us a mention! Episode 24 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Crave Vesper 24k Gold Vibrating Necklace Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/vesper/ Giveaway entry ends 1/31/2017 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) Touch by Warm hands-free warming lube dispenser: http://bit.ly/sunnytouch (remember to watch Sunny’s Instagram at http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron on Thursday for the giveaway!) Megatron Dearest & Kenstina! 

Sexual folklorist and host of the acclaimed Bawdy Storytelling podcast and stage show, Dixie De La Tour, talks about: the pivotal moment in her life that made storytelling her passion, the moving stories behind the stories she curates for Bawdy, how authenticity & vulnerability are universal languages, the transformative power of talking about sex, what love really is & more.  Ken & Sunny ponder ‘breather’ callers and ‘handsy’ doctors plus Ken accidentally sexts Dixie! Visit https://www.patreon.com/posts/16287092 for Dixie’s bonus story about an outrageous lights-out sex party. Guest Bio Dixie De La Tour is a sexual folklorist, storyteller, entrepreneur, podcaster, teacher, catalyst, coach, community builder, facilitator, & instigator (& that’s just for starters). She is also the founder, curator & host of the award-winning sex and storytelling series, Bawdy Storytelling.  Called “a stiff shot of courage in a push-up bra”, Dixie is passionate about storytelling’s power to connect strangers. A former sex party producer & dating site community manager, she founded Bawdy Storytelling almost 11 years ago. Dixie has been Sainted by the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence (“Saint Kiss & Make You Tell”) and is hailed as the originator of sex-positive storytelling (“The original sex and storytelling series” – Playgirl, “The Moth for Pervs” – LA Weekly) As a storyteller, Dixie’s stories is a fan favorite on the Risk! podcast, and can be heard on her own Bawdy Storytelling podcast (which was selected by Esquire.com as a top 5 ‘Best Sex Podcast’) Ping her (she likes that) at @Bawdy, facebook.com/DixieDeLaTour & at www.BawdyStorytelling.com  Dixie is available for : Private story coaching (via Skype) Corporate story coaching and workshops You can bring Bawdy to your city - we’ll be touring again in 2018 Live Storytelling workshops in San Francisco and Seattle (& you can bring her to your city for workshops AND a Live Bawdy) To bring her unique take on Sex and Story to sex-positive businesses To teach storytelling and lead events at colleges and universities Author discussions, book releases, and creating custom events (She’s been producing events for close to 25 years) Contact Dixie@BawdyStorytelling.com to learn more Episode 23 Topics Favorite movies, family secrets, non-monogamy, when you eat too many edibles and forget how to breathe, church sex, Kinky Salon, Bawdy gets you laid!, The Blue Ridge Mountains, narrative therapy, Clown Fucker, storytelling in business, the prospect of going to hell, what love really is, three day pig roasts, The Fuck Fairy Godmother, Catholic guilt, great boobs, creepy doctors, breather calls, storytelling and healing, feeling unworthy and in good company, being a gay virgin, sex and blindness, Tristan Taormino's Opening Up, sex party producing, getting blown on the altar, what makes a good relationship, oral tradition, getting rid of sexual shame Episode 23 Links Bawdy Storytelling website: www.BawdyStorytelling.com Listen to Bawdy Storytelling podcast on iTunes (and please leave a review!) http://bit.ly/bawdypodcast Watch Bawdy stories on YouTube http://bit.ly/BawdyTV Support Bawdy Patreon at https://www.patreon.com/Bawdy Contact Dixie Dixie@BawdyStorytelling.com Dixie Twitter https://twitter.com/DixieDLT  Bawdy Storytelling Twitter https://twitter.com/Bawdy Episode 23 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Crave Vesper 24k Gold Vibrating Necklace Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/vesper/ Giveaway entry ends 1/31/2017 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at Lelo.com with code SUNNY Off the Cuffs: A Kink & BDSM Podcast https://offthecuffs.org/   Dixie & Sunny at a Bawdy Storytelling show in Chicago. Photo by Benjy Feen.

Asa Akira is one of the world's most popular porn stars. She tells us about her new book Asarotica, her award-winning butthole, the prospect of parenthood, the realities of reality TV, being a woman of color in porn, & how accidental double penetration changed her life. Sunny & Ken share their new year's resolutions, kick off the Crave Vesper 24k vibrating necklace giveaway & become the Kevin Bacon of sex podcasts. Visit https://www.patreon.com/posts/asa-akira-bonus-16139866 for Asa’s bonus story about her most embarrassing scene. Guest Bio Asa Akira is a Japanese-American actress who has appeared in over 300 adult films. Her many awards include AVN's "Performer of the Year" award in 2013. In addition to acting and writing, she hosts a regular podcast on sex and relationships and is the author of Insatiable: Porn, a Love Story. About Asarotica: “What do porn stars find erotic?” is a question that has baffled the minds of adult film fans for decades. Thanks to adult film star and best-selling author of Insatiable and Dirty Thirty, Asa Akira, we finally get our answer—everything! No one knows the world of sex and eroticism better than those in “the industry.” They’ve seen and done it all, from the weirdest fetishes to the most extreme positions, and now in this hot, new erotic collection they are going to test our own sexual repertoire. Asarotica features twenty-two erotic short stories by some of your favorite porn stars: Joanna Angel, Kayden Kross, Nina Hartley, and Asa Akira herself, among others. Original, authentic, eye opening, and arousing, Asarotica guarantees to “get you there,” and to inspire a whole new generation to seek out unexpected pleasures…in books or in the bedroom. Episode 22 Topics Sex and disability, sci fi erotica, Jiz Lee, finding out relatives were pervs after they die, pegging, racial tokenization in porn, sex positive parenting, dick so good it makes you cry, guest starring on The Family Guy, accidental double penetration, the importance of awards in porn, disembodied buttholes, when the Fleshlight feels better than the real thing, Anal Royalty, Asa Akira is Insatiable, Kylie Ireland, yellow fever, the brown crown, non consensual objectification, Joanna Angel, fucking yourself, Glenny Balls, Super Curious, painful anal sex, Sex at Dawn by Chris Ryan, instagram censorship Episode 22 Links Learn more about Asa at www.asaakira.com/ Asa Akira Twitter https://twitter.com/AsaAkira Asa Akira Instagram https://www.instagram.com/asahole Asarotica book https://www.amazon.com/Asarotica-Asa-Akira/dp/1627782265 X-Rated 2: The Greatest Adult Stars of All Time (the documentary where Ken & Sunny talk about Asa) http://www.sho.com/titles/3420285/x-rated-2-the-greatest-adult-stars-of-all-time Episode 22 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Crave Vesper 24k Gold Vibrating Necklace Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/vesper/ Giveaway entry ends 1/31/2017 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) 20% off at Lelo.com with code SUNNY

Dominatrix Snow Mercy gives us treats for Christmas! She tells us how a PhD in Biochemistry lead her to the dungeon, the joys of clown play, why being dominant helped her combat sexism in the science world, how to use BDSM to as a motivator for adulting, plus we get a spanking mini-lesson. Snow also shares a hilarious story about a very dirty banana! Ken is Ebeneezer Scrooge & Sunny & Ken get disappointing news from Amazon.com. Visit patreon.com/americansex for Snow’s bonus story of a spanking session gone wrong. Guest Bio Snow Mercy is a BDSM professional based in Los Angeles. After 12 successful years on-staff at The Dominion, a BDSM house in West LA, Ms. Mercy opened her own private studio called “Mercy Studio LA”.  Always on-the-go, Ms. Mercy is a guest Domme at Pandora’s Box and Parthenon, both in NYC, and at Chicago Dungeon Rentals and The Studio. Ms. Mercy frequently stars in spanking videos, she’s an award-winning foot fetish model, and she has taught BDSM classes at Stockroom University, Kinky University, Folsom St. Fair, and DomCon. Episode 21 Topics Sensual impact play, Taboo Tabou in Chicago, abduction camp, Amsterdam Banana bar, women scientists and sexism, Pandora’s Barks, babybirding, Kink in the Caribbean, biochemistry, BDSM as a motivator for adulting, Nepal earthquake, Mistress Bella Bathory, jogging with a butt plug in, horror movies, fetish fitness, spankception, Mistresses without borders, bondage, spanking parties, the healing power of female supremacy, how BDSM can help you in business, Dominatrix Waze voice, how to spank safely, clown play, Hedonism resort, empowered women, Nikki Rouge, PhDeviant, Things 4, puppy play, Wizard of Gore Episode 21 Links Snow Mercy’s Website http://snowmercy.com/ Snow Mercy’s Twitter http://twitter.com/SnowMercy Snow Mercy’s Instagram http://instagram.com/TheSnowMercy Snow Mercy’s Newsletter http://eepurl.com/bPDu2z Episode 21 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Lelo SONA Sex Toy Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/sona/  Giveaway entry ends 1/02/2017 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) Shout out to our brand new sponsor, KinkBNB. We love this company and many of our friends use it to find kinky play spaces and travel destinations. We also have a bunch of friends that list their dungeons and play spaces on KinkBNB.  American Sex podcast listeners get 50% off the first six months of a KinkBNB subscription with code SUNNY https://www.kinkbnb.com/wallet/subscribe/ Right now KinkBNB is expanding their directory into services available from service providers to compliment your travel experience.  

Transgender porn sensation, Wendy Williams, opens up about past & present depression, challenges of aging in the porn industry, how her transition came as a surprise, breaking the mold at every step of her career, and cyberbullying in porn. She also discusses the pros & cons of transitioning at a young age and expresses strong opinions about infighting in the trans performer community. Sunny & Ken also discover the podcast call in number spells something ahhh-mazing! More: americansexpodcast.com & sunnymegatron.com Guest Bio It is universally accepted that Wendy Williams is one of the most influential transsexual performers within the adult entertainment industry. A talented performer, skilled producer and prominent publicist, Wendy has won a multitude of adult film awards and kick-started the careers of countless aspiring transsexual porn stars! Born and raised in Pikeville, Kentucky, Wendy has described how her family “grew up on food stamps and charity” to make ends meet. When Wendy was in the sixth grade she moved in with her great-grandmother due to the state of her father’s alcoholism. Despite these hardships, Wendy applied herself to her studies and graduated from Eastern Kentucky University in 1997 having achieved her Bachelor of Arts degree in Communications. Full Bio:  https://xxxbios.com/shemale-pornstar/wendy-williams-biography/ Episode 20 Topics Growing up trans in the south,  depression & suicide in the transgender community, sexual liberation, the pros and cons of medical transition as a teen, cyberbullying, the unanticipated challenges of being a porn performer, gay bars in Tennessee. Buck Angel, GILF porn, hyper-femininity, trans slurs and self-identity, opportunities for transgender talent, things porn fans don’t understand, suicide in porn, aging and depression, midlife career changes, AVN Awards, Hot Wendy PR, Grooby Girls, trans women of color, generational views on transgender issues Episode 20 Links Wendy Williams Website http://www.wendywilliamsxxx.com Wendy Williams Twitter https://twitter.com/TsWendyWilliams Episode 20 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Shop with Amazon & benefit American Sex: http://bit.ly/sunnyamazon (affiliate link) Lelo SONA Sex Toy Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/sona/  Giveaway entry ends 1/02/2017 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) Shout out to our brand new sponsor, KinkBNB. We love this company and many of our friends use it to find kinky play spaces and travel destinations. We also have a bunch of friends that list their dungeons and play spaces on KinkBNB.  American Sex podcast listeners get 50% off the first six months of a KinkBNB subscription with code SUNNY https://www.kinkbnb.com/wallet/subscribe/ Right now KinkBNB is expanding their directory into services available from service providers to compliment your travel experience.   Post a service listing ad for free at http://www.kinkbnb.com/services/ads/ (beta URL) Bear with us until our full launch on January 1st! Feedback is definitely welcomed at support@kinkbnb.com

This week Ken & Sunny get cozy with Glamazon Tyomi Morgan. In just a few short years she’s taken the world by storm. Her following is massive and with good reason. We talk about how Titty Tuesday is changing the world, how Tyomi’s year of celibacy + exploring kink completely altered her life, how the glamazon discovered she was a little, accidentally shooting an award-winning film & more. Ken also eats way too many edibles during the intro & we kick off the December sex toy giveaway. More at sunnymegatron.com & americansexpodcast.com   Guest Bio Passionate, innovative and ambitious are just a few words to describe the model-turned-Sexpert Tyomi Morgan.  Hailing from Chicago, Illinois Tyomi began her career as a model working for local designers, artists and national brands; and eventually landed a contending spot on America's Next Top Model Cycle 14.   The opportunity was short-lived, but after leaving the show, Tyomi decided to use her influence for good.  Possessing a love for all things sexual, and seeing a lack of modern-day edge in presenting sex education, the "Glamazon" decided to begin a blog all about sex.  And this is how glamerotica101.com was born in September of 2011. Originally created for the modern lady, Glamerotica101.com was inspired by women across the globe who have been left heartbroken and unsatisfied sexually.  After receiving an overwhelming response from men who desired to improve their sex lives, Tyomi extended her knowledge to all genders. Over the course of three years, Tyomi has launched a Youtube channel that reaches lovers worldwide, bringing in 1.4 million views monthly, and she has appeared on several radio shows including Naomi Banxxx's Chocolate Radio, Playboy Radio with Maya Jordan, Chicago's 107.5 WGCI, Chicago's B96 and many others.  She has also been featured as a favorite Sexpert on Comedy's Central's popular sketch comedy show "Tosh.0" and her blog has been referred to as a "go to source" for sex positioning and sex advice for the woman of color by activist and writer Feminista Jones.  Tyomi Currently serves as a contributing writer for Ebony.com and EBONY Magazine, contributing writer and resident sexpert for Cassiuslife.com,  and previously hosted a radio show on Playboyradio.com  "Glamazon Tyomi's Sex Academy". Tyomi has been a contributing writer for "The Guardian UK", Elitedaily.com and is quoted for several sex-positive platforms across the internet.   Tyomi is currently working on her certification as a Sex Coach through the World Association of Sex Coaches and works with clients one on one to help them move towards their desired improvement in their sex lives and relationships. Episode 19 Topics Exxxotica, Israeli bachelorette parties, breast affirmations, apple cider vinegar & cannabis, changing the world with Titty Tuesday, America’s Next Top Model, assholes on snapchat, DDLG, spanking, national Coalition for Sexual Health, Jet Setting Jasmine & King Noire, Fetcon, discovering your inner sadist, slut shaming in the sex ed community, montgomery glands, daddy issues, Perez Hilton & titty-grams, representation matters, celibacy, finding true love, harnessing social media for sex ed, election night 2016, non-sexual BDSM, being a “little” & age play, Kinky Kollege, millennials & safer sex, at home STI testing, Collared in Shadows, being collared, sex work, Cocktails & Condoms Episode 19 Links Tyomi Morgan’s Websites http://glamerotica101.com/ & http://www.sexperttyomi.com/ Tyomi Morgan’s Instagram  https://www.instagram.com/theglamazontyomi/ Tyomi Morgan’s Twitter https://twitter.com/glamazontyomi Tyomi Morgan’s Snapchat https://www.snapchat.com/add/glamazontyomi Tyomi Morgan’s Age Play article https://cassiuslife.com/36622/fetish-little-play-findom/ MyLabBox.com https://www.mylabbox.com/ AIS/Adventures in Sexuality Ohio http://adventuresinsexuality.org/AIS_portal.html American Sex Podcast Amazon wishlist http://a.co/axxpCXT American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex American Sex Podcast Voicemail (we may play your question/message on air) 773-683-3869 or 773-MUFF-TOY (and we didn't plan that, HAHAHA!) Episode 19 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Shop with Amazon & benefit American Sex: http://bit.ly/sunnyamazon (affiliate link) Lelo SONA Sex Toy Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/sona/  Giveaway entry ends 1/02/2018 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply) Shout out to our brand new sponsor, KinkBNB. We love this company and many of our friends use it to find kinky play spaces and travel destinations. We also have a bunch of friends that list their dungeons and play spaces on KinkBNB.  American Sex podcast listeners get 50% off the first six months of a KinkBNB subscription with code SUNNY https://www.kinkbnb.com/wallet/subscribe/     p.s. Please subscribe to American Sex & rate us on Apple Podcasts/iTunes and Stitcher. 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Allison Moon, author of Girl Sex 101, Bad Dyke, & the Tales of the Pack series teaches us: how to fist, satisfying cunnilingus tips, mindblowing and useful info about the clitoris & other pussy pleasing techniques. This is the sex ed you WISH you had in school! We also talk about queer identity, "dyke drama", how to flirt, navigating relationships, emotional intelligence & more. Sunny & Ken also talk about little-known fetishes & wrap up the November giveaway. More at americansexpodcast.com & sunnymegatron.com Guest Bio Allison is the author of the award-winning sex-ed book, Girl Sex 101, the Tales of the Pack series of novels about lesbian werewolves, and the sexual memoir, Bad Dyke. As a sex educator, Allison has presented her workshops to thousands of people around the US and Canada. www.GirlSex101.com Episode 17 Topics how to drive a vulva, eww vs ooh, vampires vs. werewolves, sex positive parenting, queer women, flirting, Fucking Trans Women ziene by Mira Bellwether, putting your finger in soup, sex & aging, muff diving with a beard, consensual slutshaming, hook up culture, Midori & The Pussy Hug, open relationships, alaphabet cunnilungus, the myth of the loose vagina, amateur porn, cunt punching, middle aged orgies, the hottest fictional lesbian, Bawdy Storytelling, grandma's “candy dish”, pornillingus vs real life cunnilingus, dontutsexuals, throwing a hotdog down a hallway, silent duck, muffing, variety vs consistency Episode 17 Links Allison Moon Twitter: @HeyAllieMoon https://twitter.com/heyalliemoon Girl Sex 101 http://girlsex101.com/ Tales of the Pack Werewolf books: Talesofthepack.com Episode 17 Sponsor, Affiliate & Giveaway Info Amazon Echo Dot: http://bit.ly/sunnyechodot (affiliate link to support American Sex) Amazon Echo: http://bit.ly/sunnyalexa (affiliate link to support American Sex) Amazon Echo Plus: http://bit.ly/sunnyechoplus (affiliate link to support American Sex) Browse All Amazon Products: http://bit.ly/sunnyamazon (affiliate link to support American Sex) Harness Glass Dildo Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com.: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/harnessglassgiveaway/ Giveaway entry ends 11/30/2017 Castle Megastore Lelo SONA & SONA Cruise Giveaway:  http://www.castlemegastore.com/castle-contests 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

Princess Kali is a former Pro Domme & current headmistress of the online sex ed platform, Kink Academy. Recently she’s taken everything she’s learned from years of being a dominatrix out of the dungeon & into the boardroom. She now teaches women’s empowerment in the business/startup sector. Kali tells us how skills acquired roleplaying in the bedroom can help you get ahead in your career. Ken & Sunny also give their top 8 picks for starting your kinky bedroom kit & introduce their new submissive, Alexa. Guest Bio Princess Kali is a dynamic educator & entrepreneur that focuses on power exchange, confidence & communication. With over 16 years of experience in exploring sexually alternative lifestyles & professions, she has presented over 160 times at venues such as Harvard, Kink in the Caribbean, Dark Odyssey and SXSW. Now her time is focused on personal coaching, running her revolutionary website KinkAcademy.com, speaking across the US as well as internationally and promoting her first book, "Enough To Make You Blush: Exploring Erotic Humiliation." Episode 16 Topics finding BDSM classes online, youtube comments, BDSM royalty, Prodommes, consensual mindfuck, foot fetish, the early days of the internet, Michael Bolton, Dominatrix videos, Kinky toolkit, erotic alliteration, truth or dare, absurdity fetish, the broader applications of BDSM, how to be more confident, using positive sensory triggers, Amazon Alexa, how to talk to your partner about kink, erotic humiliation, sex educators getting paid, sexy golf commentary, Femdom porn, cuckolding, truth or dare, trigger plans, pavloving yourself, how to roleplay, Nickleback as a sadistic tool Episode 16 Links Kail Twitter: @Princess_Kali https://twitter.com/princess_kali?lang=en Kali Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enoughtomakeyoublush/?hl=en Kink Academy: http://bit.ly/kinkacademy Passionate U: http://bit.ly/passionateu Enough to Make You Blush: http://www.enoughtomakeyoublush.com/ Sunny’s Ball Gag video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yD78IZaT0m4&t=2s Sunny’s O Ring Gag video: https://youtu.be/dqst4AYsqQc Sunny’s Bar Gag video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pTnmkWZEJsA Sunny’s Wartenberg pinwheel video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eigeLSBbWGc&t=1s Sunny’s BDSM 101 video series: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f-Z4NHj2FTc&t=3s Sunny’s Nipple & Body Clamps video series: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OBf7JyEEYxQ&t=2s Sunny’s Body Clamps for Men Article: https://www.kinkly.com/2/9029/sex-toys/oooh-ahhhouch-an-intro-to-genital-clamps-for-men Sunny’s Body Clamps for Women Article: https://www.kinkly.com/2/1533/passion-play/sex-toys/an-introduction-to-genital-clamps-for-women Explore More Summit Bodies Edition: http://exploremoresummit.com Episode 16 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Amazon Echo Plus: http://bit.ly/sunnyecho (affiliate link to support American Sex) Harness Glass Dildo Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com.: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/harnessglassgiveaway/ Giveaway entry ends 11/30/2017 Castle Megastore Lelo SONA & SONA Cruise Giveaway:  http://www.castlemegastore.com/castle-contests 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

Sex coach and host of the Sex Gets Real Podcast, Dawn Serra talks with Ken & Sunny about life as a sex coach -- What does a coach do? What are the challenges? What are the most outrageous things she's approached with? We touch on the ethics of unusual fetishes like breeding and splorching. We also dive into body politics, being sexy and fat, and her new free online summit, Explore More: Bodies Edition. Ken and Sunny give 8 Essential Tips on Penis Pleasure plus Sunny’s exciting announcement.   Guest Bio Sex is a social skill. Dawn Serra speaks it, writes it, teaches it, and she helps you learn how to develop it. She is the creator and host of the weekly podcast, Sex Gets Real, and of the online sexuality & body acceptance summit, Explore More. She also lectures at colleges and universities on sex and relationships and works one-on-one with clients who need to get unstuck around their pleasure and desire. Dawn's approach to sex is intersectional, inclusive, and justice-based. It's not all work, though! In her downtime, Dawn can often be found watching an episode of Masterchef Australia, cooking up something delicious, or adventuring with her husband. Pronouns: she/her/hers.    Episode 15 Topics what a sex coach does, adipositivity, sensory issues, when fetishes are too extreme, body politics, rule 34, blow job tips, top sex bloggers, weight loss surgery, breeding fetish, diet culture, fatphobia, cosmetic surgery and body positivity,  Explore More Sexuality Summit, the ethics of sex advice, BBW strip club nights, April Flores, Fat Girl Flow, Corissa Arlene, sex and disability, amplifying marginalized voices, fat appreciation vs. fat fetishism, alien baby fetishes Episode 15 Links Dawn Serra Sex Coaching - http://dawnserra.com Sex Gets Real Podcast - http://sexgetsreal.com Explore More Summit - http://exploremoresummit.com Dawn Serra Instagram - http://instagram.com/dawn_serra Dawn Serra Twitter - http://twitter.com/dawn_serra Sunny Megatron CBT/Cock and Ball Torture video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hmR8LU3xcYc&t=42s Sunny Megatron SPH/Small Penis Humiliation video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hiG1tp_85To Episode 2 discussing how to have penile multiple orgasms: http://sunnymegatron.com/relationships-cock-ups-episode-2-american-sex/ Episode 15 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Harness Glass Dildo Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com.: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/harnessglassgiveaway/ Giveaway entry ends 11/30/2017 Castle Megastore Lelo SONA & SONA Cruise Giveaway:  http://www.castlemegastore.com/castle-contests 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

Samwell of "What What in the Butt" fame talks about that time he helped Sunny & Ken get married, how his lighthearted song became a viral sensation, the seriousness & underlying message behind it, growing up black & gay in the south, reconciling his don’t-ask-don’t-tell family arrangement with being out in every other aspect of this life, his new projects including a song about hypocritical politicians, his cooking series, and more. Ken & Sunny give their top 8 must-know tips for amazing anal sex.     Guest Bio Samwell was propelled into internet infamy in 2007 when his song and video, What What (In the Butt) went viral. With over 80 million views, it was parodied on South Park, and he’s made appearances on popular TV shows like and Lily Allen and Friends and Tosh.0 where he sang an acoustic version of the song with Josh Homme from Queens of the Stone Age. Samwell was raised in North Carolina and growing up gay and black in the south was not without its difficulties. Currently, Samwell just released a new cooking series Sizzling with Samwell on the DigitalCanvas.xyz social network and is gearing up to release his new song, Dirty Nasty Naughty Boi. Episode 14 Topics viral videos, growing up black in the south, hypocrisy & Christianity, a decade in the butt, being a foodie, What What in the Butt, silicone lube, the proper pronunciation of Samwell, history & political science, chicken and waffles, anal training, creative marriage proposals, Butters on South Park, great asses, Janet Jackson’s Rhythm Nation, don’t ask don’t tell, the Dominican Republic, how to convince your partner to try anal sex, Racism in the White House, Just Be Free, The Statue of Liberty, gay cruising in public bathrooms Episode 14 Links Official Samwell Website http://officialsamwell.com/ Samwell Facebook https://www.facebook.com/officialsamwell/ Samwell Twitter https://twitter.com/OfficialSamwell Samwell Instagram https://www.instagram.com/officialsamwell/ Sizzling with Samwell cooking series http://www.digitalcanvas.xyz/samwell What What (In The Butt) video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fbGkxcY7YFU Just Be Free Video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kp7yoS0LNms Ken’s Anal Sizing using the Fibonacci Sequence article http://sunnymegatron.com/what-what-math-in-my-butt/ Sunny & Ken’s first prostate play video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6i4uYQm_9UU   Episode 14 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Harness Glass Dildo Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com.: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/harnessglassgiveaway/ Giveaway entry ends 11/30/2017 Castle Megastore Lelo SONA & SONA Cruise Giveaway:  http://www.castlemegastore.com/castle-contests 20% off your order at http://castlemegastore.com when you use code SUNNY at checkout (limited restrictions apply)

This week on American Sex Podcast, Blowjob Empress, Auntie Angel! We discuss: Why she makes those unforgettable fellatio noises, Girls Trip movie & Tiffany Haddish claiming Angel stole the grapefruit technique from her, what it feels like to be an internet sensation, how to give a grapefruit blowjob safely (no burning sensation!), how she went from being terrified of oral sex to being known worldwide for it, she even unleashes her inner blow job Dominatrix on Ken! We also talk about online harassment, what her family thinks, and how she handles criticism.    Guest bio Auntie Angel became an instant internet sensation after her Angel's Fellatio Secrets DVD was uploaded to Worldstarhiphop. The grapefruit technique blowjob was the highlight of that video. That video garnered millions of views and inspired thousands of grapefruit method reaction videos. There's gifs, parodies, and it was even talked about it on Comedy Central. Angel has been on Howard Stern, Playboy Radio, Cosmo, Essence, Ebony, and more. She even starred in an incredibly popular Vice video that has racked up 36 million views and counting. Most recently she inspired a very memorable scene in the new movie Girls Trip. Angel is the face behind Angel's Erotic Solutions-- she teaches interactive fellatio workshops and other intimacy classes all across the United States plus she offers DVD’s and other products for those looking to try some new things in the bedroom. Episode 13 Topics blowjob marketing strategies, internet memes, grapefruiting parody, sploshing,  fellatio ultimatums, customizing your pleasure portfolio, giving confident head, intellectual property rights, bad lip reading, sex ed in the African American community, prostate milking, recovering from sexual trauma, the arousing sound of blowjobs, spitnado, Meow University, Hudsy Hawn, the cucumber technique, fuck you pay me, being recognized in public, dominant blowjobs, burning urethras, sexual harassment online, Darth Vader with asthma gives head.  Girls Trip movie, the 5-minute blowjob, Episode 13 Links Auntie Angel Twitter @GrapefruitLady1 https://twitter.com/grapefruitlady1 Auntie Angel’s Facebook https://www.facebook.com/angeleroticzoneb Auntie Angel’s Instagram www.instagram.com/auntieangel2012 Auntie Angel’s website, Angel’s Erotic Solutions https://angelseroticsolutions.com/ Episode 13 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Sex Toy Spotlight item of the week: Velskin Premium Silicone (get them, or almost anything else at Castle Megastore for 20% off with Code SUNNY) Wonder O Wand Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/wandgiveaway/  Giveaway entry ends 10/31/2017 New Giveaway starting 11/2, Harness Glass Dildo Giveaway. Link will be live on 11/2 http://sunnymegatron.com/harnessglassgiveaway/

Dr. Joycelyn Elders was the 2nd woman and 1st African American person appointed Surgeon General of the United States. She’s also a sexual health revolutionary. In 1994 President Clinton forced Elders to resign after she advised masturbation be recommended in sex ed programs as an alternative to sex to curtail the spread of HIV. Ken & Sunny talk with Dr. Elders about sexual health, pleasure inclusive sex ed in church, transgender children, the legalization of marijuana, Waffle House vs. Denny's, #MeToo & more. Ken & Sunny also celebrate the second season of Netflix’s Stranger Things with their corny parody, Weirder Occurrences. Guest bio  Dr. M. Joycelyn Elders was the 16th United States Surgeon General. She was the First African American & second woman to ever hold the position. Dr. Elders grew up in rural segregated Arkansas and was the daughter of a sharecropper. After graduating high school she earned a university scholarship and found her calling was in medicine. Elders became a well respected pediatric endocrinologist. This is where her passion for comprehensive sex education took root. Pregnancy was dangerous for teenage girls with diabetes and other illnesses and elders recognized the need to give these young women clear useable information on pregnancy prevention and sexuality education. She taught these young women not be ashamed of their sexual feelings but instead have agency over their own bodies and to approach their own sexuality with intelligence and responsibility.   In 1986 Elders was named Director of the Arkansas Department of Health. She fought with conservative and religious opponents and opened clinics in schools, she made condoms and comprehensive sex education available to children and teens. In 1993 she was appointed surgeon general of the United States under President Bill Clinton. After 15 months she was forced to resign when she made an unforgettable remark to the press. When asked if the spread of AIDS could be reduced through advocating masturbation as an alternative to sexual intercourse, Dr. Elders answered: “I think that is something that is a part of human sexuality and it’s a part of something that perhaps should be taught.” Already controversial for speaking up about comprehensive sex ed, birth control, and supporting the legalization of marijuana, this was too much. President Clinton forced her to resign. Elders went back to medicine and teaching and has since retired. She is still, however, very vocal about the importance of sexuality education. Episode 12 Topics the importance of healthy sexuality, bad endocrinologist jokes, #MeToo, comprehensive sex ed, juvenile diabetes, transgender youth, sex ed in Indiana, Dungeons & Dragons, LGBTQ issues under the Trump administration, consent violations, cake vs. pie, child abuse in the church, sex ed for seniors, HIV/AIDS, German shepherds, child sexual abuse prevention, the power of telling your story, Stranger Things parody, Harvey Weinstein, the spectrum of gender, harmful surgery on intersex children, bathroom bills, marijuana legalization, child abuse in the church Episode 12 LinksSpecial bonus story told by Dr. Elders available to all Patreon followers (even those that don’t contribute-- just hit “follow” on our main Patreon profile page for all our free updates and posts!) https://www.patreon.com/posts/hilarious-bonus-14995929 Episode 12 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Sex Toy Spotlight item of the week: Wonder O Wand (get it, or almost anything else at Castle Megastore for 20% off with Code SUNNY) Angela White Fleshlight Contest: Win an Angela White Fleshlight and a copy of Angela Loves Women 3 which signed by both Angela White and Abella Danger, Contest runs from 10/1-10/15/17. Winner announced on 10/17. No purchase necessary. Enter online at Castle Megastore Wonder O Wand Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/wandgiveaway/

Mollena Lee Williams-Haas ep 11  Mollena discusses her contractual Master/slave relationship with famous modern composer husband Georg Friedrich Haas, the unlikely way they met, and how his upbringing in post-Nazi Austria influenced his later work that highlights racism & injustice.  We discuss her struggle with alcoholism, how a very real but not real hyena accompanied her in her early days of sobriety & how that inspired a libretto she’s performed worldwide. Mollena also sheds light on why unsolicited advice sucks, reconciling feminism and BDSM & more. Guest Bio  Mollena Williams Haas - This “Delicate, Trembling Flower of Submission” © is an NYC born and raised writer, actress, BDSM Educator, Storyteller, sobriety fiend since March 2007, and an Award-Winning Executive Pervert. Owned and collared by renowned contemporary composer Georg Friedrich Haas since 2013 and his wife since 2015, she serves as his beloved slave, submissive, wife, servant and Muse. February 2016 saw a groundbreaking piece about their relationship featured in the New York Times. Her opinion and viewpoints on issues of kink, Leather and BDSM are frequently sought after by news and information sources like The New York Times, The Huffington Post, Newsweek, Essence, Ebony, etc. She is a frequent guest expert on Dan Savage’s “Savage Lovecast,” Tristan Taormino’s “Sex Out Loud” three times, and Margaret Cho’s “Monsters of Talk” podcast. Exploring kink since 1993, active in BDSM and the Leather Community since 1996, and teaching since 1998, she speaks internationally on those topics. She’s even spoken about Kink at Harvard, Yale, Princeton. Molena is also a leather titleholder-- International Ms Leather 2010 and Ms. San Francisco Leather 2009. She’s the co-author of the “Toybag Guide: Taboo Play.” and “Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the Kink, Leather and BDSM Communities”. Both collaborations with fellow educator Lee Harrington.   A professional stage performer since the age of 5, Mollena’s credits include singing on the soundtrack for the movie The Wiz and co-starring with Danny Bonaduce in the underground cult-classic America’s Deadliest Home Video. Her short film, IMPACT, won the “Cinekink’s Best Experimental Film Award. Mollena’s latest performance piece is Hyena, a collaboration with her husband. They are also both the subject of an upcoming documentary called The Artist and The Pervert (trailer below). Mollena also appeared on Sex with Sunny Megatron on Showtime in a segment on race play.   Episode 11 Topics Alcoholism, hammerhead sharks, Master/slave dynamics, shower conversations with the universe, a persuasive hyena named Bubbles, Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, being an accidental prophet, anti-fascist art, growing up in the projects, the power of storytelling, hummingbirds are assholes, psychotic breaks, racism on Facebook, NPR Snap Judgement, reconciling self hatred, #NoAdvicePlease, power exchange relationships, The Evil Jewish Lesbian Landladies, BDSM slave contract, post WWII Nazi Austria, what politics has to do with sex, leaving love to fate, Gestalt Therapy, experiencing racism as a child, making an old Austrian cry, conflict is human, the struggles of becoming a sex educator Episode 11 Links  Mollena Williams Haas Website Mollena Williams Haas Facebook Other Mentions Chicago BDSM Class:  http://bit.ly/bdsmclasssunny Kinkly Sex Blogger 2017 voting: http://bit.ly/votesunny Episode 11 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Sex Toy Spotlight item of the week: Velskin Premium Silicone (get them, or almost anything else at Castle Megastore for 20% off with Code SUNNY) Angela White Fleshlight Contest: Win an Angela White Fleshlight and a copy of Angela Loves Women 3 which signed by both Angela White and Abella Danger, Contest extended-- runs from 10/1-10/31/17. No purchase necessary. Enter online at Castle Megastore Wonder O Wand Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/wandgiveaway/ The Artist & The Pervert Trailer

Sex positive mental health professionals are hard to find. Enter marriage & family therapist, Kate Loree. In this episode she tells us: how to deal with family  you have opposing political views with, finding a kink-friendly therapist, what corrective experiences are & why you should seek them out, how to tell a partner you’re kinky, what to do if you & your partner have mismatched libido, why we tend to eroticise our fears when it comes to sexual fantasies, what the deal is with sex addiction, and more.    Guest Bio  Kate Loree, LMFT is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in kink, non-monogamous, LGBTQ, and sex worker communities. In addition to her Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy, she is also a registered art therapist (ATR) and has a second Masters in Business Administration (MBA). She has been practicing psychotherapy for fourteen years and has additional training in EMDR and the Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) for the treatment of trauma including sexual, physical, and emotional abuse. She has been featured in Buzzfeed videos, has frequently been a guest on Playboy Radio and The Sex Nerd Sandra Podcast, and has written for Good Vibrations and Hollywood Magazine. She is currently writing her first book. Privately, she has been connected to poly, swing and kink communities since 2003 and understands the hurdles, massive emotional growth, and amazing joy these worlds can provide. Her private practice resides in Encino, CA. Episode 10 Topics Avoiding toxic family, Amber Rose Slutwalk, depression and the Trump administration, monitoring your emotional gas tank, sexless marriages, glass dildos, Sex Nerd Sandra Daugherty, mass hypnosis, sexual compulsive behaviors, how to find a sex-positive therapist, slut shaming, suicidal ideation, parasympathetic nervous system, how to initiate sex if you’re shy, rape culture, Tristan Taormino's Open List, consent violations in the BDSM community, Aquaman Fetish, sex educators as sex coaches, corrective experiences, mismatched libido, therapeutic kink, Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix, cuckold fantasy, Dan Savage on dealing with adult temper tantrums, sex addiction, sex classes at sex toy stores, the “Orange Depression”, attachment injuries, using BDSM to overcome your fears Episode 10 Links Kate Loree Website Kate Loree Twitter Kate Lorree Facebook Kate Loree Instagram Recommended Resources Tristan Taormino's Open List Getting The Love You Want by Harville Hendrix   Other Mentions Chicago BDSM Class:  http://bit.ly/bdsmclasssunny Kinkly Sex Blogger 2017 voting: http://bit.ly/votesunny Episode 10 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Sex Toy Spotlight item of the week: Harness Compatible Glass Dildos (get them, or almost anything else at Castle Megastore for 20% off with Code SUNNY) Angela White Fleshlight Contest: Win an Angela White Fleshlight and a copy of Angela Loves Women 3 which signed by both Angela White and Abella Danger, Contest extended-- runs from 10/1-10/31/17. No purchase necessary. Enter online at Castle Megastore Wonder O Wand Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/wandgiveaway/

Davecat’s wife, Sidore, is a doll-- meaning, she’s not just a sweetie, she’s actually synthetic! Happily coupled for 17 years, they also live with their mistress Elena and her partner Miss Winter. Davecat considers himself an iDollator because all three women in his life are dolls. You may have seen him on My Strange Addiction, the BBC Documentary Guys and Dolls, or other shows. Davecat sat down with us to give us a peek into his very unusual but seemingly average polyamorous life. Guest bio  A Scorpio born in 1972, Davecat has been tirelessly promoting positive interaction with artificial humans. Specifically, he refers to Synthetiks, a term which describes artificial people with either passive bodies such as Dolls, or ones with active bodies like Gynoids and Androids. Davecat has a bit of expertise on the subject, as he shares his home with three beguiling life sized Dolls. Sidore Kuroneko, a RealDoll made by Abyss creations, would be his not-legal-but-may-as-well-be wife, and she and Davecat have been inseparable since 2000. They share a mistress named Elena Vostrikova, a silicone woman assembled by the Russian company Anatomical Doll back in 2012, and joining them in 2016 is Miss Winter, from the Chinese company Doll Sweet. When not going on at length about Doll this or Gynoid that on his Twitter feed, Davecat enjoys Japanese cuisine, playing Destiny with his mates, sleeping, and writing about himself in the third person. Episode 9 topics robosexuals, using a vibrator on a sore back, Leah Type Reall Doll, the loneliness of being in a relationship, ASMRguing, fantasy vs. reality, marrying yourself, JoJo Baby, polyamorous families, selling used sex toys, Bette Midler, objectifying women vs personifying objects, personal growth, falling in love with the idea of love, Fisher-Price PXL2000, artificial intelligence, Marios Mannequins in Detroit, seeking healthy conflict, being the side piece, robotic pets and children, fear of rejection, 1998 internet, dolls of color, Yugo cars, hacking sex  robots, Shonen Knife, the shortcomings of organic love, synthetic partners live forever Episode 9 links Shouting to Hear the Echoes, Davecat’s blog: http://www.kuroneko-chan.com/ echoes/ Synthetik week-end: http://synthetikweekend. tumblr.com/ Davecat Twitter: @Davecat Sidore Twitter: @leahtype Elena Twitter: @ElenaVostrikova Miss Winter Twitter: @snowblind1980 Davecat's recommended resources: Love and Sex with Robots, by David Levy: http://a.co/668NO1z The Sex Doll: A History, by Anthony Ferguson: http://a.co/eFzzTjI Episode 9 Sponsor & Giveaway Info Sex Toy Spotlight item of the week: Wonder O Wand (get it, or almost anything else at Castle Megastore for 20% off with Code SUNNY) Angela White Fleshlight Contest: Win an Angela White Fleshlight and a copy of Angela Loves Women 3 which signed by both Angela White and Abella Danger, Contest runs from 10/1-10/15/17. Winner announced on 10/17. No purchase necessary. Enter online at Castle Megastore Wonder O Wand Giveaway at sunnymegatron.com: Provided by Castle Megastore. Entrants must be be over 18, US resident, no purchase necessary. Visit the giveaway page for details and to enter: http://sunnymegatron.com/wandgiveaway/

Cooper S. Beckett sat down with us to talk all things swinging. What’s the difference between swinging and polyamory? Why don’t the sexual subcommunities always play nicely together? What’s the deal with bisexuality in the swing lifestyle? When is the right (and wrong) time for couples to explore non-monogamy? What the heck does the 2008 financial collapse have to do with non-monogamy today? We also discuss Cooper’s coming out and how the current political climate has affected him as a leader in the sex-positive community.   Guest bio Cooper S. Beckett is the co-founder and host of Life on the Swingset: The Podcast since 2010, author of swinging & polyamory novels A Life Less Monogamous and Approaching The Swingularity, and memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory. He teaches and speaks on swinging, polyamory, pegging, play parties, and coloring outside the boundaries of your sexuality. He is a graphic & web designer, photographer, and voice over artist, has been a guest expert on Dan Savage’s Savage Lovecast, & is the announcer of Tristan Taormino’s radio show Sex Out Loud. Episode 8 topics the ethics of unicorn hunting, sex-positive snobbery, queer swinging, the best sex clubs in the US, strictly dickly, toxic monogamy in the swinging lifestyle, kik & snapchat, Life on the Swingset, boring times at sex clubs, everyone wants to fuck Jack Harkness, the personal is political, David Bowie holding the fabric of the universe together, swinging etiquette, millennial swingers, Becker S. Coopet, how to navigate the poly scene, the age gap in the swing community, Approaching the Swingualrity, SLS, bro-jobs, Desire Resorts, bi visibility, Donald Trump golden shower sex tape, Lord of the Cock RIngs, bar-sexuals, sex scandals, swinging for the wrong reasons, the one couples problem swinging can solve, swinging for single men Episode 8 links & info  Get Cooper’s book including his new Approaching the Swingualrity audiobook: https://coopersbeckett.com  Cooper’s blog and podcast: https://lifeontheswingset.com Episode 8 links Sponsor/Promotional information American Sex Podcast iTunes Giveaway Win a Fun Factory Darling Devil Silicone Vibrator and a Hybrid Battery Kit valued at $110! How? Review and/or subscribe to American Sex Podcast on iTunes during the month of September.  Screenshot both and email it to americansexpodcast@gmail.com to be entered in the contest.   Winners selected by random computerized drawing 10/2. Must be 18+ and live in the contiguous 48 states to win. More details on the giveaway page. Castle Megastore's 30th Anniversary Celebration & Contest Week 4 Castle Megastore has been helping customers with romance and fun for 30 years! To celebrate they’re running a contest for the whole month on September. Every Purchase you make in store or online will automatically enter you in the the contest. There will be 6 winners at each location for a total of 102 winners. The winners will receive a mystery gift from either We-Vibe, Fun Factory, Clandestine Devices, System JO, Jopen or Lelo. All prizes are valued over $100! The 30th Anniversary Celebration contest runs September 1, 2017 through September 30, 2017. Prize drawings will be held October 2, 2017. You’ll automatically be entered into the contest with every purchase you make, NO MINIMUM! So if you make a $5 purchase or a $100 purchase you’ll be entered. No form to fill out to enter online. In Stores: you’ll need to give your email at checkout so that they can contact you if you win. If you have already provided your email from previous purchases, then you’re already in their system and you’ll be entered in the contest. One entry per purchase per visit, but if you make 5 purchases within the month of September, you be entered into the contest 5 times. Castle Megastore's 30th Anniversary Month Long Specials All Month Long: $30 for 30 days Toy Rack Online & in stores sale 10 for $30 Panties (in stores only) 8 for $30 Plus Size Panties (in stores only) 5 for $30 DVDs *3 for $20 Dvds and $9.99 titles only (in stores only) Weekly sale 9/22-9/30 30% off all Velskin Silicone dildos and penis extenders 20% off Castle Megastore.com purchases every day of the year for our fans with code SUNNY (limited restrictions apply)

Lenora Claire has spent years living in terror. Her stalker contacts her every single day, violating the restraining order she has in place, often with violent threats. He made a name for himself stalking the first daughter, Ivanka Trump. Despite his long, well-documented history of terrorizing and threatening women, Lenora’s stalking continues. Ivanka has the secret service to protect her. Lenora and the 7.5 million American victims of stalking don’t. In this episode, Lenora discusses how the justice system fails stalking victims and the work she’s doing to change that.     Guest bio Named one of LA Weekly’s  “People of the Year” as well as the “Erin Brockovich of stalking” by Vice,  Lenora Claire is a complex career juggling artist and advocate working to promote safety and respect for the misunderstood and marginalized across her various projects and platforms. With diverse accomplishments ranging from her years as an entertainment journalist , media and nightlife personality, national news making art curator, casting director, and TV producer,  Lenora has dedicated her life to the creation of legislation to protect victims and is currently at work on multiple TV projects, apps, initiatives, and a non-profit V. E. R. S. E  to empower others using advancements in technology. Episode 7 topics  Julie Newmar, failures in the justice system, victims rights, nude Bea Arthur, senior sexuality, domestic violence, Rebecca Schaffer murder, crowdfunding a legal initiative, Pauley Perrette, serving someone without an address, World of Wonder Gallery, death threats, Golden Girls XXX, Ivanka Trump, glass eating clowns, victim shaming, Sandra Bullock’s stalker, when the secret service comes knocking at your door, staying safe in the internet age, lack of mental health care in the US, emotional support for stalking victims, the ankle monitor initiative, Dave Navarro,  getting a restraining order, erotomania, property damage having more value than human life, Showgirls 2,  Justin Massler, Cloud Starchaser, Congressman Adam Schiff Episode 7 links & info Lenora Claire Instagram Lenora Claire Twitter Lenora Claire Website To watch the 2 part 48 Hours episode featuring Lenora Claire, Pauley Perrette from NCIS, and other women advocating for better stalking laws, you can stream both episodes on CBS All Access (it’s $5.99 a month but you can sign up for a free 1-week trial).  You can also stream Lenora’s Crime Watch Daily segment free on YouTube. Are you a victim of stalking looking for support? This stalking victim resource website may be a good place to start.    Episode 7 links Sponsor/Promotional information American Sex Podcast iTunes Giveaway Win a Fun Factory Darling Devil Silicone Vibrator and a Hybrid Battery Kit valued at $110! How? Review and/or subscribe to American Sex Podcast on iTunes during the month of September.  Screenshot both and email it to americansexpodcast@gmail.com to be entered in the contest.   Winners selected by random computerized drawing 10/2. Must be 18+ and live in the contiguous 48 states to win. More details on the giveaway page. Castle Megastore's 30th Anniversary Celebration & Contest Week 3 Castle Megastore has been helping customers with romance and fun for 30 years! To celebrate they’re running a contest for the whole month of September. Every Purchase you make in-store or online will automatically enter you in the contest. There will be 6 winners at each location for a total of 102 winners. The winners will receive a mystery gift from either We-Vibe, Fun Factory, Clandestine Devices, System JO, Jopen or Lelo. All prizes are valued over $100! The 30th Anniversary Celebration contest runs September 1, 2017 through September 30, 2017. Prize drawings will be held October 2, 2017. Entry with Every Purchase You’ll automatically be entered into the contest with every purchase you make, NO MINIMUM! So if you make a $5 purchase or a $100 purchase you’ll be entered. No form to fill out to enter online. In Stores: you’ll need to give your email at checkout so that they can contact you if you win. If you have already provided your email from previous purchases, then you’re already in their system and you’ll be entered in the contest. One entry per purchase per visit, but if you make 5 purchases within the month of September, you be entered into the contest 5 times. Pssst! Check out Sunny & Ken's favorite picks here!  Castle Megastore's 30th Anniversary Month Long Specials All Month Long: $30 for 30 days Toy Rack Online & in stores sale 10 for $30 Panties (in stores only) 8 for $30 Plus Size Panties (in stores only) 5 for $30 DVDs *3 for $20 Dvds and $9.99 titles only (in stores only) Weekly sale 9/15-9/21 30% off Wonder ‘O’ Wand (seriously, one of our favorites, HIGHLY recommended!) 30% off in-store purchases of Schoolgirl Skirts and Shirts 20% off Castle Megastore.com purchases every day of the year for our fans with code SUNNY (limited restrictions apply)

To some, the term “social justice” is a dirty word. But to others, it means “basic human decency” and should be everyone’s default setting. When it comes to dating, relationships, sex, or navigating sexual sub-communities it’s important. It can make or break your dating and sex life. But how and why do things like race, gender, ability, size, etc, affect getting laid? Sex is just sex, right? Not necessarily. This week’s guest, Dirty Lola, explains why your dick (or whatever genitals you happen to have) should care about social justice. Guest bio Dirty Lola is a storyteller, edutainer, sex educator, sex toy peddler, and the creator and host of the live sex Q&A and variety show and podcast Sex Ed A Go-Go. During the last six years, she has shared her distinctive brand of kickass body and sex-positivity and her personal journey into the kink and polyamorous lifestyles with the masses on and off stage. Lola has taken Sex Ed A Go-Go across the country from New York City to Los Angeles and beyond. She has presented at various conferences and expos such as Catalyst Con, Woodhull, The Sex Expo, and AVN, and during sex week at Baruch College, Hofstra University and the University of New Mexico. When she’s not hosting Sex Ed A Go-Go or teaching folks about pleasure, kink polyamory and sex positivity you can find her behind the counter at Shag, a sex shop in Brooklyn. Episode 6 topics  Donald Trump talking about sex to Boy Scouts, our favorite sex toys, racial dating preferences, POC representation in the media, 13 Reasons Why on Netflix, cultural trauma, growing up black, pickup artists/PUA, mixed chick problems, BDSM & polyamory, racial ambiguity, body size acceptance, being the only black person in the room, sugar daddies, Splenda daddies, light skinned privilege, sex club rules & inclusivity, Kevin Patterson, being fetishized for your race, how to get dates on OKCupid, how NOT to get dates on OKCupid, how to become a sex educator, titty pics, negging, white privilege, South Carolina, Mollena Williams-Haas, internalized racism, having a woke partner Episode 6 links & info Dirty Lola Instagram Dirty Lola Twitter To book Lola for workshops, bachelorette parties or her infamously funny and educational Sex Ed A Go-Go send requests to Lola@SexEdAGoGo.com Episode 6 links Sponsor/Promotional information: American Sex Podcast iTunes Giveaway Win a Fun Factory Darling Devil Silicone Vibrator and Hybrid Battery Kit valued at $110! How? Review and/or subscribe to American Sex Podcast on iTunes during the month of September.  Screenshot both and email it to americansexpodcast@gmail.com to be entered in the contest.   Winners selected by random computerized drawing 10/2. Must be 18+ and live in the contiguous 48 states to win. More details on the giveaway page. Castle Megastore's 30th Anniversary Celebration Contest Week 2 Castle Megastore has been helping customers with romance and fun for 30 years! To celebrate they’re running a contest for the whole month on September. Every Purchase you make in store or online will automatically enter you in the the contest. There will be 6 winners at each location for a total of 102 winners. The winners will receive a mystery gift from either We-Vibe, Fun Factory, Clandestine Devices, System JO, Jopen or Lelo. All prizes are valued over $100! The 30th Anniversary Celebration contest runs September 1, 2017 through September 30, 2017. Prize drawings will be held October 2, 2017. Entry with Every Purchase You’ll automatically be entered into the contest with every purchase you make, NO MINIMUM! So if you make a $5 purchase or a $100 purchase you’ll be entered. No form to fill out to enter online. In Stores: you’ll need to give your email at checkout so that they can contact you if you win. If you have already provided your email from previous purchases, then you’re already in their system and you’ll be entered in the contest. One entry per purchase per visit, but if you make 5 purchases within the month of September, you be entered into the contest 5 times. Castle Megastore's 30th Anniversary Month Long Specials All Month Long: $30 for 30 days Toy Rack Online & in stores sale 10 for $30 Panties (in stores only) 8 for $30 Plus Size Panties (in stores only) 5 for $30 DVDs *3 for $20 Dvds and $9.99 titles only (in stores only) Weekly sale 9/8-9/14 30% off Mighty Wands & Champions Dual Density Silicone Dildos 30% off in-store purchases of Dreamgirl Packaged Lingerie 20% off Castle Megastore.com purchases every day of the year for our fans with code SUNNY (limited restrictions apply)

In 2015 Mark Shrayber & his fiance Allen traveled to Morehead, KY to get married-- the same town where county clerk Kim Davis refused to issue marriage licenses to same sex couples citing religious beliefs. Davis was held in contempt of court and jailed for 6 days. Mark & Allen arrived in Morehead just in time for her release. As a journalist, Mark was chasing a story. As a couple, they were realizing a dream. Then they found themselves in the middle of a terrifying family values rally facing both violent discrimination and unconditional acceptance. Intense, happy, scary, exciting, suspenseful, joyful, hilarious, and starkly sobering, Mark's story is a ‘must listen’! Guest Bio  Mark is a freelance writer whose work has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Jezebel, Vice, The Daily Dot, and The Awl (among others). Most recently, he was the deputy editor of the LIFE vertical at UPROXX. Mark is also a psychology lecturer at San Francisco State University. Episode 5 Topics  Do you get more head in Morehead Kentucky?, marriage equality, media martyrdom, all denim all the time, fucking a pizza, Kentucky is for lovers, Carter County, KY, The Wizard of Oz, Mike Huckabee, Moldova, fake news, hate the sin love the sinner, anti-Semitism, grappling with privilege, internalized homophobia, RuPaul’s Drag Race, wedding night sex, the personal is political, San Francisco, Liza Minelli, weekend white supremacy, traditional family values, gay wedding destinations, activism for non-activists, Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence,  fighting the alt-right, Chesterton Indiana, growing up LGBTQ in rural America Episode 5 Links & Info Mark’s Jezebel piece on his experience in Morehead, KY Mark Shrayber twitter: @MShrayber Mark Shrayber email:  m.shrayber@gmail.com Video of Mark & Allen’s Morehead, KY wedding experience   Mark really did write about having sex with pizza in Cosmo, BTW Episode 5 Sponsor/Promotional Information American Sex Podcast iTunes Giveaway: Win a Fun Factory Darling Devil Silicone Vibrator and a Hybrid Battery Kit valued at $110! How? Review and/or subscribe to American Sex Podcast on iTunes during the month of September.  Screenshot both and email it to americansexpodcast@gmail.com to be entered in the contest.   Winners selected by random computerized drawing 10/2. Must be 18+ and live in the contiguous 48 states to win. More details on the giveaway page. Castle Megastore's 30th Anniversary Celebration Contest: Castle Megastore has been helping customers with romance and fun for 30 years! To celebrate they’re running a contest for the whole month on September. Every Purchase you make in store or online will automatically enter you in the contest. There will be 6 winners at each location for a total of 102 winners. The winners will receive a mystery gift from either We-Vibe, Fun Factory, Clandestine Devices, System JO, Jopen or Lelo. All prizes are valued over $100! The 30th Anniversary Celebration contest runs September 1, 2017 through September 30, 2017. Prize drawings will be held October 2, 2017. You’ll automatically be entered into the contest with every purchase you make, NO MINIMUM! So if you make a $5 purchase or a $100 purchase you’ll be entered. No form to fill out to enter online. In Stores: you’ll need to give your email at checkout so that they can contact you if you win. If you have already provided your email from previous purchases, then you’re already in their system and you’ll be entered in the contest. One entry per purchase per visit, but if you make 5 purchases within the month of September, you be entered into the contest 5 times. Castle Megastore's 30th Anniversary Month Long Specials: All Month Long: $30 for 30 days Toy Rack Online & in stores sale 10 for $30 Panties (in stores only) 8 for $30 Plus Size Panties (in stores only) 5 for $30 DVDs *3 for $20 Dvds and $9.99 titles only (in stores only) Weekly sale 9/1-9/7 30% off Leg Avenue Hosiery (in stores only) 30% off Spank Provocateur Bed Coupler Restraint System 20% off CastleMegastore.com purchases every day of the year for our fans with code SUNNY (limited restrictions apply)  

About our guests: Casey Calvert is an adult performer, sex educator, and custom porn video mogul. Her husband, Bryn Pryor, has been in the porn industry since before Casey was born, doing every job around except performing. Together, they have a family full of dogs, cats, and comic-book collectibles, and have recently finished their first mainstream feature film, Diminuendo. Recap: Ken & Sunny go from the personal parts of Casey & Bryn's lives to professional (and professionally bizarre). A few of our topics: The surprisingly average home lives of porn stars; their mainstream movie starring the late Richard Hatch; why the porn industry is dead, how it happened & what's its future; how to properly pick your porn name; and unique custom clip requests.  Episode 3 topics: Ron Popeil, porn & marriage, sick & twisted movie plots, jealousy and compersion for psychopaths, using tears as lube, the real people behind porn personas, stamp collections, insiders look at the porn industry, AVN porn awards, Manwin & Mindgeek, Gremlins & Phoebe Cates, The Butterfly Effect Podcast with Jon Ronson, findom, Richard Hatch from Battlestar Galactica, Castle Megastore, custom made porn clips.   Episode 3 Links:  www.caseycalvert.com @caseycalvertxxx twitter @BrynPryor twitter @DiminuendMovie twitter   

It seems to happen like clockwork. Someone cheats, or gets caught in some sort of sex scandal. They have to make amends, show that they're working to fix "the problem" so they can return to their normal lives. While we on the Swingset happen to think that many of their normal lives might've been improved with open and honest conversations about monogamy, so often they fall back to the excuses of "I'm addicted to sex" and failing that, "I'm addicted to porn." It's widespread and it's been propagated by early friend to open sexual discussion Dr. Drew (who has since descended into some sort of madness). Tonight we're thrilled to be joined by clinical psychologist Dr David Ley to discuss the myths of sex and porn addiction. Join Cooper, Dylan, Dirty Lola, Mike Joseph, and Dr. Liz Powell on tonight's panel! As you listen, don't forget to tweet at #sspodcast! We're sponsored by Castle Megastore, a one stop shop with everything you could want, from wand vibrators, to harnesses, to lube and condoms, to a complete suite of BDSM equipment including sex furniture. If you use the promo code SWINGSET at check out you can save 20% on your order. Resources: The Klein Sexual Orientation Grid Christian C. Joyal & Julie Carpentier's study: The Prevalence of Paraphilic Interests and Behaviors in the General Population: A Provincial Survey   Leave us a review and a five star rating on iTunes! Leave us a review and a five star rating on Stitcher! Subscribe to us on Youtube! Android Users: Download and review our Android App! Leave us a comment on this post or at contact@lifeontheswingset.com or leave us a voicemail at 573-55-SWING (573-557-9464). Find Cooper on Twitter @CooperSBeckett, Dylan on Twitter @DylanTheThomas, and Ginger on twitter @GingerNTheProf. You can Cooper’s novel about swinging, A Life Less Monogamous, at alifelessmonogamous.com or his memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory at mylifeontheswingset.com as an ebook, paperback, or audiobook and if you buy them from his sites, use promo code SWINGSET to save 10%! Our 2017 THEME comes courtesy of Vlad Lucan and his track: Reverse! Intro Music: PYLOT - Shadowtask, off the new Shadowtask EP Politics Music: Muzzy & Droptek - Warhead Outtakes Music: Tokyo Machine - PIXEL Review Music: Haywyre - Sculpted Outro Music: Haywyre - Endlessly   Cooper S Beckett   Dylan Thomas   Dirty Lola   Dr. Liz Powell   Mike Joseph

It's the New Year, 2017, and for much of our country that means halfhearted resolutions. I'm going to change. I'm going to improve. These resolutions come about because of the arbitrary timeline that defines last year and this year. We are unfinished, and as such, we can strive to always improve. We discuss working on ourselves and becoming better, in sex, in relationships, and in life with Cooper, Dylan, Dr. Liz, Mike Joseph, and Dirty Lola. As you listen, don't forget to tweet at #sspodcast! We're sponsored by Castle Megastore, a one stop shop with everything you could want, from wand vibrators, to harnesses, to lube and condoms, to a complete suite of BDSM equipment including sex furniture. If you use the promo code SWINGSET at check out you can save 20% on your order. Leave us a review and a five star rating on iTunes! Leave us a review and a five star rating on Stitcher! Subscribe to us on Youtube! Android Users: Download and review our Android App! Leave us a comment on this post or at contact@lifeontheswingset.com or leave us a voicemail at 573-55-SWING (573-557-9464). Find Cooper on Twitter @CooperSBeckett, Dylan on Twitter @DylanTheThomas, and Ginger on twitter @GingerNTheProf. You can Cooper’s novel about swinging, A Life Less Monogamous, at alifelessmonogamous.com or his memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory at mylifeontheswingset.com as an ebook, paperback, or audiobook and if you buy them from his sites, use promo code SWINGSET to save 10%! Our 2017 THEME comes courtesy of Vlad Lucan and his track: Reverse! Intro Music: Snavs - Time Outtakes Music: Tokyo Machine - PIXEL Outro Music: Rameses B - We Love   Cooper S Beckett   Dylan Thomas   Dr. Liz Powell     Mike Joseph         Dirty Lola

We've been overdue for for a rapprochement with one of our favorite past topics: Privacy and Security in Swinging & Polyamory.The team of Mister Pent and Dylan Thomas put together information about securing yourself on the internet that a panel also including Dr. Liz Powell, Mike Joseph, and Cooper S. Beckett could discuss, digest, and put into action. In the age of our ability to connect anywhere and anytime, share information easily, and be as open as we want to be, it's important we arm ourselves with the knowledge  necessary to make good decisions about what we put online and the information required to raise our level of computer and internet security. As you listen, don’t forget to tweet at #sspodcast and feel free to ask questions of @MisterPent and @DylanTheThomas! We’re sponsored by Castle Megastore, a one stop shop with everything you could want, from wand vibrators, to harnesses, to lube and condoms, to a complete suite of BDSM equipment including sex furniture. If you use the promo code SWINGSET at check out you can save 20% on your order.   While we are definitely going to put together ebook / guide on cybersecurity for perverts, we wanted to list some of the resources we discussed during the podcast here: On Two-Factor Authentication When enabled, two-factor authentication (or 2FA) can surface as a "we don't recognize this device" message sent to an email address or a mobile phone number, or it can refer to an installed mobile app or a physical security token. You can find a list of websites that support 2FA here: https://twofactorauth.org/ In the meantime if you have a Google account, or have logins on sites like Dropbox, Lastpass, or Microsoft, go grab the Google Authenticator app. If you're a steam gamer, grab the Steam app and enable Steam Guard. On Passwords Securityinabox.org has a lot of great contnet with tools and tactics for digital security, they have a particularly good guide on creating, maintaining, remembering, and recording secure passwords, including with a password manager. XKCD's comic on Password Security that we love: On Password Managers and Sharing Passwords: Mister Pent, Cooper S. Beckett, and Dylan Thomas use Lastpass. Lastpass allows you to have a single set of passwords securely accessible over multiple devices and over the web, while setting up two factor authentication to limit access. It includes web browser extensions to automatically log you into sites and an Android app that does the same, depending on desired level of ease of use. It also allows you to share sets of passwords secureiy and simply with other people. Dylan Thomas also uses mSecure synchronized to a Dropbox account. mSecure has mobile and computer apps. It's not as nice or feature filled as Lastpass, but it's a little extra hassle for a lot of extra security for the most sensitive of passwords. If you need to share a temporary password with someone you can use OneTimeSecret. You create an a self-destructing link that disappears once it's accessed or once a certain amount of time passes. On using VPNs: You can't always trust the access to the internet you have, whether it's because you're in an airport on free airport wireless or a coffee shop or because you're travelling. Sometimes you may just want to tune into BBC Radio 5 using their iPlayer and you happen to not live in the Commonwealth. VPNs can keep your traffic secure when you can't trust your connection, with the added benefit of giving you choice on what country your traffic exits so you can use region specific resources. Dylan Thomas uses BlackVPN. Mister Pent and Cooper S. Beckett use Private Internet Access. Both can support simultaneous connections to cover multiple devices at once, and both allow multiple country exit points  It has guides for usage on Windows, OS X, Linux, Android and iOS. On Encrypting your Devices using Passwords or Biometric Authentication: If you don't use a password, pin code, or thumbprint on your mobile devices, set one up! Modern Android and iOS based phones will automatically encrypt your device or give you the option to once you've set a password. While a six digit pin code or better is best, anything is better than nothing. Just Do It. On Encrypting your Computer with Full Disk Encryption! If you have a maching running a Pro version of Windows, use Bitlocker. Windows 7 ||| Windows 10 If you are running any other version of Windows, use Veracrypt. Securityinabox.org has a great guide on using Veracrypt to encrypt an external drive or your entire computer. If you're running MacOS, Backblaze (the Cloud Storage company) has a comprehensive FileVault usage guide, though Apple's isn't so bad. If you're running Linux you probably don't need our assistance. *grin* On Backing up your data & Encryption in the Cloud: One of the biggest risks to your data is physical failure or destruction of your devices. While services like Google Drive, iCloud, Dropbox and Box give us places to put our files in a pretty secure way, information stored on those services can be accessed and recovered by the services themselves in case of an investigation or subpoena. We recommend Backblaze as they encrypt data at rest and support two factor authentication. On Communicating Securely: We recommend using Signal Private Messenger, which includes iOS and Android apps and a Chrome extension and supports private messaging and calling. Whatsapp supports end-to-end encryption. With Facebook Messenger you can enable secret conversations. We suggest never sending sensitive information over email. On Social Media: Check out SecurityInABox.org's guide to security and privacy on social networking sites. On Browsing Secureiy: Drive-by malware downloads and poisoned ad networks, or shady looking porn sites, can mean you may pick something up while browsing the internet, often through no fault of your own. Most of us use both Google Chrome and Mozilla Firefox to browse the web, each for different sets of accounts (Multiple Google Accounts!) and with different sets of extensions installed to help protect ourselves. Mister Pent prefers Ghostery. Dylan Thomas uses Adblock Plus with Google Chrome, and NoScript on Mozilla Firefox. For ultimate browsing privacy, the Tor Browser is a good option.   Leave us a review and a five star rating on iTunes! Leave us a review and a five star rating on Stitcher! Subscribe to us on Youtube! Android Users: Download and review our Android App! Leave us a comment on this post or at contact@lifeontheswingset.com or leave us a voicemail at 573-55-SWING (573-557-9464). Find Cooper on Twitter @CooperSBeckett, Dylan on Twitter @DylanTheThomas, and Ginger on twitter @GingerNTheProf. You can Cooper’s novel about swinging, A Life Less Monogamous, at alifelessmonogamous.com or his memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory at mylifeontheswingset.com as an ebook, paperback, or audiobook and if you buy them from his sites, use promo code SWINGSET to save 10%! Our 2017 LOTS THEME comes courtesy of Vlad Lucan and his track: Reverse! Intro Music: Pegboard Nerds - Talk About It f/ Desirée Dawson, off the new Nerds By Nature EP Outtakes Music: Tokyo Machine - PIXEL Outro Music: nanobii - Chipland   Cooper S Beckett Dylan Thomas Dr. Liz Powell Mike Joseph Chris Pent

Welcome to Gang Bang The Mailbag TRIPLE X (plus 1)!  We're recording tonight with a live (and muted) studio audience! As always, questions have been edited for content and clarity. As usual, answers have not been edited for content or clarity! If you have a question for a future listener mailbag, please give us a call at 573-557-9464 and leave us a message, or email us at contact@lifeontheswingset.com. Tonight, Dr. Liz Powell, Mike Joseph, Cooper and Dylan gang bang the mailbag! As you listen, don't forget to tweet at #sspodcast! We're sponsored by Castle Megastore, a one stop shop with everything you could want, from wand vibrators, to harnesses, to lube and condoms, to a complete suite of BDSM equipment including sex furniture. If you use the promo code SWINGSET at check out you can save 20% on your order.         Tonight we answer the following written questions: My road into non-monogamy has been a twisted and challenging path. My 13-year marriage ended last year partly because of an incompatibility around the potential for opening our marriage. When I started dating I tried to be very open with women about my desire for non-monogamy and live a polyamourous life that includes swinging and sometimes a little kink and BDSM. Through dating apps like Tinder I have met many wonderful women and had some great relationships develop. I have tremendously transparent conversations with these women. Most run for the hills after to non-monogamy talk, some are intrigued and go along with it for a while, but in the end these relationships mostly follow the same pattern. The woman is okay with other partners in the beginning, but as time passes she always has a difficult time with the non-monogamy and it ends or goes to the friend zone. Otherwise the woman wants a “don’t ask don’t tell” or “friends with benefits” approach, which to me is just single dating rather than ethical non monogamy. It is impossible to have intimacy without transparency. Where does one go to find women who are already there in the poly/swinger community who are looking for other poly/swing single partners? Are there any better strategies for finding women more directly who already share these values? Aaron from Canada My brief backstory: 50ish male, married for twenty-something years. I have always struggled with attraction, crushes, and even feelings for, and from, others. Monogamy isn't actually what I want, and, in the spirit of a good mid-life crisis, I'm not getting any younger. Being aware of the trauma that this might cause my wife, I have introduced the topic gently and slowly. She has reacted... well, it's hard to say. There has been no screaming and crying, which I guess is a good sign. The best description of her reaction is "ninja-level avoidant", as she deflects my every attempt to explore this in depth. An example: after a recent talk she said "you've given me a lot to think about". I realise what I want most is to have the relationship communication skills that are necessary to be non-monogamous in the first place. To have the openness that I hear others describe in their relationships. It's not even principally about the swinging anymore. I have communication envy! So how do I learn to communicate like a non-monogamous person? And how do I teach someone else to do this? Is it possible? My husband I have been in the swing lifestyle since we first started dating 6 years ago. Along the way, I have developed more romantic feelings for some of our partners, while things remain mainly about friendship and sex for my husband. I've tried to hide my feelings which has resulted in a lot of hurt. We are trying to figure out how to move forward when I feel more poly and he still feels more like a swinger and isn't interested in developing romantic relationships. I'm having trouble finding resources that talk about how to successfully move between the two. Kara Today I found out, in a convoluted way, that a long-term male partner of mine sexually assaulted someone. I don't know the any details. I don't know when it happened, or what happened afterwards. I do know that women don't lie about sexual assault. I also learned two others say they witnessed him pushing boundaries or putting women in uncomfortable situations , and that he's seen as a "missing stair" in some subsets of our local kink community. This is someone I love. Someone I've only ever had positive, affirming, respectful experiences with. Someone I trusted with my life (and I'm an angry, suspicious, mostly-lesbian hardcore feminist killjoy who rarely trusts anyone). What should I do? Oh, and just to make things even more complicated, this partner's live-in partner is also my partner. We're a triad. Do I tell her? How? In answering this question, Dylan lamented not reading the question before he read it as he wanted to have a more prepared answer. Dr. Liz on the other hand was able to respond quickly and effectively on ways to address members of the community to who have violated boundaries and support people who have had their boundaries violated, and how to both repair and grow the larger community after. Visit a compilation of resources Dr. Liz put together here.   We took a little time at the end of the episode for business. Dr. Liz put out a new video on Youtube titled "What's the 'Friend Zone' Anyway?" Mike Joseph has been speaking lately on behalf of the Jed Foundation, a NYC based organization empowering teens and young adults with the skills and support to grow into healthy thriving adults. Visit them at www.jedfoundation.org. You can also always find Mike Joseph at his podcast the Jheri Curl Chronicles Radio Show at www.popblerd.com.   Leave us a review and a five star rating on iTunes! Leave us a review and a five star rating on Stitcher! Subscribe to us on Youtube! Android Users: Download and review our Android App! Leave us a comment on this post or at contact@lifeontheswingset.com or leave us a voicemail at 573-55-SWING (573-557-9464). Find Cooper on Twitter @CooperSBeckett, Dylan on Twitter @DylanTheThomas, and Ginger on twitter @GingerNTheProf. You can Cooper’s novel about swinging, A Life Less Monogamous, at alifelessmonogamous.com or his memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory at mylifeontheswingset.com as an ebook, paperback, or audiobook and if you buy them from his sites, use promo code SWINGSET to save 10%!   Today's intro music came via: ▁ ▂ ▃ ▄ SXIP SHIREY in a track titled: Cinnamon Stick, featuring XAVIER. Find more information about Sxip Shirey here, or check out their January 9th, 2017 cd release show at National Sawdust in NYC at 7PM for "A Bottle of Whiskey and a Handful of Bees"!         Reading Reviews Music: Haywyre - Sculpted Outro Music: DROELOE - Bon Voyage   Cooper S Beckett   Dylan Thomas   Dr. Liz Powell   Mike Joseph

Welcome to Gang Bang The Mailbag TRIPLE X! That's right, this is our thirtieth listener mailbag episode, and we're recording tonight with a live (and muted) studio audience! As always, questions have been edited for content and clarity. If you have a question for a future listener mailbag, please give us a call at 573-557-9464 and leave us a message. Tonight, Dr. Liz Powell, Mike Joseph, Cooper and Dylan gang bang the mailbag! As you listen, don't forget to tweet at #sspodcast! We're sponsored by Castle Megastore, a one stop shop with everything you could want, from wand vibrators, to harnesses, to lube and condoms, to a complete suite of BDSM equipment including sex furniture. If you use the promo code SWINGSET at check out you can save 20% on your order.   Tonight we answer a voicemail question on how to maintain long distance play relationships, and the following written questions: I'm a big fan of the podcast,of you as people and of all you're doing for people in the lifestyle. First of all I would like to say as a black man I appreciated the episode on Polyamorous as a Person of Colour, granted my experiences are a different as I am from a majority black country(Jamaica) so I swing with mostly black people. Is being in fuck with someone a thing? Meaning you're not in love with them but you and them have a unique sexual chemistry. Is this a thing, can you be in love, just with having sex with someone? I'm married to a great guy in a monogamous relationship. My fantasy has always been to have an MFM threesome. I finally found the courage to mention this to him a couple years ago, and he was cautious but excited about exploring; he could tell it really turned me on. The question has been who - we both want it to be someone we know well enough that we trust them, and I'm pretty picky. So we haven't really pursued it. Well, we finally have someone in mind. Here's the thing: he's married. He and I originally met at burning man, and since then the four of us have all gotten to know each other. His wife is great. She jokes about his "girlfriends" and he implies they have some flexibility, but I'm not sure exactly what that means. When I asked him if they are poly, he said no, he doesn't like that term. So I don't really know if she'd be cool with it. What is the protocol for trying to move things forward? I'd feel pretty comfortable asking the third if he'd be into it. I'd feel less comfortable asking his wife's "permission." Whatever happens, I don't want to foul up our friendship. (FWIW we don't have an interest in swinging at the moment.) What would you do?   Oh, and assuming the third is into it, any tips for keeping things sexy and comfortable for us? My husband is a little nervous how he'll feel seeing his wife with another man!   Leave us a review and a five star rating on iTunes! Leave us a review and a five star rating on Stitcher! Subscribe to us on Youtube! Android Users: Download and review our Android App! Leave us a comment on this post or at contact@lifeontheswingset.com or leave us a voicemail at 573-55-SWING (573-557-9464). Find Cooper on Twitter @CooperSBeckett, Dylan on Twitter @DylanTheThomas, and Ginger on twitter @GingerNTheProf. You can Cooper’s novel about swinging, A Life Less Monogamous, at alifelessmonogamous.com or his memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory at mylifeontheswingset.com as an ebook, paperback, or audiobook and if you buy them from his sites, use promo code SWINGSET to save 10%!     Outtakes Music: Tokyo Machine - Pixel Intro Music: Soupandreas & inverness - Tumbling Down Reading Reviews Music: Haywyre - Sculpted Outro Music: Hush - Ruimtevaart   Cooper S Beckett   Dylan Thomas   Dr. Liz Powell   Mike Joseph  

Dating in the heteronormative world is difficult. It's also bizarre enough that hundreds of comedies and dramas are made about dating every year. When you zoom down to that subsection of the culture, the minorities of the LGBTQ community who are seeking others in that same minority, it gets more complicated. Tonight we're joined by Claire to talk about dating on the outskirts of sexuality, and LGBTQ matchmaking with Dirty Lola, Dr. Liz Powell, Dylan, and Cooper. As you listen, don't forget to tweet at #sspodcast! We're sponsored by Castle Megastore, a one stop shop with everything you could want, from wand vibrators, to harnesses, to lube and condoms, to a complete suite of BDSM equipment including sex furniture. If you use the promo code SWINGSET at check out you can save 20% on your order. You can find Claire Ah, matchmaker, at friendofafriendmatchmaking.com! Leave us a review and a five star rating on iTunes! Leave us a review and a five star rating on Stitcher! Subscribe to us on Youtube! Android Users: Download and review our Android App! Leave us a comment on this post or at contact@lifeontheswingset.com or leave us a voicemail at 573-55-SWING (573-557-9464). Find Cooper on Twitter @CooperSBeckett, Dylan on Twitter @DylanTheThomas, and Ginger on twitter @GingerNTheProf. You can Cooper’s novel about swinging, A Life Less Monogamous, at alifelessmonogamous.com or his memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory at mylifeontheswingset.com as an ebook, paperback, or audiobook and if you buy them from his sites, use promo code SWINGSET to save 10%!   Intro Music: Rogue - Through the Dark, off the Earth EP Politics Music (near the end): Pegboard Nerds - BADBOI VIP Outtakes Music: Tokyo Machine - Pixel Outro Music: Muzzy - Get Crazy (AgNO3 Remix)   Cooper S Beckett   Dylan Thomas   Dr. Liz Powell   Dirty Lola

A large percentage of us dwell pretty securely within the non-monogamy closet. Friends and family may know something is different about us, but they rarely know fully what is up. That said, we live in a world where being sex-positive and progressive can make a big difference, as can standing with those who are bravely out, so tonight, Dirty Lola, Dr. Liz Powell, Cooper and Dylan talk about how to navigate being sex-positive from inside the non-monogamy closet . As you listen, don't forget to tweet at #sspodcast! We're sponsored by Castle Megastore, a one stop shop with everything you could want, from wand vibrators, to harnesses, to lube and condoms, to a complete suite of BDSM equipment including sex furniture. If you use the promo code SWINGSET at check out you can save 20% on your order.  Leave us a review and a five star rating on iTunes! Leave us a review and a five star rating on Stitcher! Subscribe to us on Youtube! Android Users: Download and review our Android App! Leave us a comment on this post or at contact@lifeontheswingset.com or leave us a voicemail at 573-55-SWING (573-557-9464). Find Cooper on Twitter @CooperSBeckett, Dylan on Twitter @DylanTheThomas, and Ginger on twitter @GingerNTheProf. You can Cooper’s novel about swinging, A Life Less Monogamous, at alifelessmonogamous.com or his memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory at mylifeontheswingset.com as an ebook, paperback, or audiobook and if you buy them from his sites, use promo code SWINGSET to save 10%!   Today's podcast featured music by: Intro Music: Puppet - Listen to the Storm, off the new Fear is Fleeting EP Politics Music (in the beginning): Pegboard Nerds - BADBOI VIP Outtakes Music: Tokyo Machine - Pixel Outro Music: Hush - Eenhoorn, off the upcoming Ruimtevaart EP   Cooper S Beckett Dylan Thomas Dr. Liz Powell Dirty Lola

Communication. It doesn't need to be said, yet as it's the answer to so many questions we get asked, it really can't be overstated. One of the most important parts of communication when it comes to sexy time, is learning to ask for what you want, so we discuss that in today's episode of Life on the Swingset, along with Dr. Liz Powell, Mike Joseph, Cooper, and Dylan. Today's episode of Life on the Swingset is sponsored by Better Than the Hand, a website that aims to deconstruct stigma and toxicity surrounding male sexuality and masturbation through articles, blogs, toy reviews, and an online store. We're also sponsored by Castle Megastore, a one stop shop with everything you could want, from wand vibrators, to harnesses, to lube and condoms, to a complete suite of BDSM equipment including sex furniture. If you use the promo code SWINGSET at check out you can save 20% on your order. Dr. Liz starts out stating that there's an assumption of wanting to respect what we think someone else wants, and that we make the assumption that "asking for what I want may negatively affect their experience". Cooper asks if Dylan has this problem because he's trying not to be selfish, Dylan suspects that's the case. Mike Joseph mentions that homosexual sex (especially the top vs. bottom negotiation) by default has more communication than heterosexual sex. Dr. Liz comments that women that have sex with women also have a ton more conversations, and that people who consider themselves sex geeks or sex educators really bump up the level of conversation and negotiation that goes into sex. “If you don’t ask for what you want, you’re not going to have that next level sex you’ve been dreaming of.” “Just like you need to be gracious in saying yes, you should try to be gracious in your no’s as well.” - Dylan “I think a lot of those shitty no’s are coming from people shame as well. The reason you give a really shitty no and react with disgust is this kind of, performative goodness. If what they want is bad, then the best way to separate yourself from it is to perform how offended you are by it.” - Dr. Liz "HOW DARE YOU." “Everything changed when I started asking for what I wanted, It as just as likely to be a result of you not asking for what you want than the party not giving you what you want.” - Cooper While Dylan explains how sometimes, when about to play with someone who has a large tool kit / is well skilled at communication, he likes to get an initial yes to exploration and chart the path forward in the moment, listening to non-language verbal cues, and body response. Mike Joseph mentions that it sounds like a recipe for uncertainty and anxiety, so Dylan talks his way through a play session with someone that's willing an open. Mike discovers that being inside someone often elicits all sorts of non-verbal responses. *grin* Cooper mentions that sometimes, in the run up to a party or play session, it's easy to fire away a thought via instant messenger and walk away, it makes it easy to ask for something without necessarily needing feedback right away. Dr. Liz mentions the mildest and wildest activity that many people use at the beginning of play parties and Dylan mentions that even though he uses it, tt never quite "feels" right. “The way I’ve always seen that exercise (mildest and wildest) is that it tells you where the buffet starts and ends. It doesn’t guarantee that you’ll be able to get any specific dish on the buffet.” - Dr. Liz Dr. Liz also mentions that the mildest and wildest activity helps her check-in with herself, and that it's a way of conveying a range of options, not necessarily a set destination, describing it as the beginning and the end of a buffet. The conversation moves to being awkward about starting conversation. Dr. Liz mentions she has a formula. "What I tell people is one of the most effective ways to start a conversation, is by sharing something you’re feeling about having that conversation. You're leading with your softness instead of leading with your hardness." - Dr. Liz You can also find the John Oliver "This Week Tonight" video about Third Parties here:     Leave us a review and a five star rating on iTunes! Leave us a review and a five star rating on Stitcher! Subscribe to us on Youtube! Android Users: Download and review our Android App! Leave us a comment on this post or at contact@lifeontheswingset.com or leave us a voicemail at 573-55-SWING (573-557-9464). Find Cooper on Twitter @CooperSBeckett, Dylan on Twitter @DylanTheThomas, and Ginger on twitter @GingerNTheProf. You can Cooper’s novel about swinging, A Life Less Monogamous, at alifelessmonogamous.com or his memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory at mylifeontheswingset.com as an ebook, paperback, or audiobook and if you buy them from his sites, use promo code SWINGSET to save 10%!   Today's podcast featured music by: Intro Music: Grant - Wake Up (feat. Jessi Mason) Outtakes Music: Slips & Slurs x Mikha! - WiFi Tears Outro Music: Koven - Telling Me End of Episode Outtakes: Koven - Breathing Me Politics Music (At the very end): Muzzy & Droptek - Warhead   Cooper S Beckett Dylan Thomas Dr. Liz Powell Mike Joseph

It's no secret that in the pantheon of the LGBT spectrum, bisexual people are looked down upon, told they don't really exist, avoided in dating life. Bisexuals also often feel less pressure to come out, as they can so easily pass as one side or the other. Paradoxically, this leads to bi invisibility and erasure, so we discuss, and make an attempt to deconstruct this in today's episode of Life on the Swingset, along with Dr. Liz Powell, Mike Joseph, Cooper, and Dylan. Today's episode of Life on the Swingset is sponsored by Better Than the Hand, a website that aims to deconstruct stigma and toxicity surrounding male sexuality and masturbation through articles, blogs, toy reviews, and an online store. We're also sponsored by Castle Megastore, a one stop shop with everything you could want, from wand vibrators, to harnesses, to lube and condoms, to a complete suite of BDSM equipment including sex furniture. If you use the promo code SWINGSET at check out you can save 20% on your order.   National Coming Out Day was a pretty big deal for Cooper this year. He discussed his reasons as coming out, specifically to his conservative family, as someone who has struggled with his sexuality and is still working through it, and why he chose not to identify to them as queer, even though he specifically identifies with queer. The conversation moves to reasons why not to come out, whether because livelyhood may be jeopardized (as in Dr. Liz's relaying of her experience of being in the army before Don't Ask Don't Tell was fully repealed), or child custody may be revoked, or any other reason to stay in the closet. Mike posits that many people aren't all open to themselves (as with straight identified men who still seek men), and mentions that even being the out partner in a gay couple has stress that comes with it. The panel talks specifically about ways that people specifically disappear bisexuality, telling men who identify as bi that they are gay and they haven't admitted it yet (bi now, gay later), or that bisexual people, because so much effort has been exerted to create the separate gay identity that having a bridge between those identities, muddy the waters. To Dr. Liz, the conflict presents differently as women, that there's a "penis phobia" that can exist so that bi women who have sex with men are tagged as higher risk because there is less transmission risk between women who only have sex with women. Dr. Liz also takes time to lament the fact that before she got her "super stereotypical queer haircut" everyone assumed she was straight, but now that she has it, everyone assumes she's gay! Mike brings up that at many events he attends, almost every woman identifies as bisexual even though most men identify as straight, even if they later identify as curious or fluid, and that it may be a holdover from the aids crisis in that if you identified as bi or gay you were automatically more likely to get infected. Dr. Liz adds that there's a challenge to masculinity involved, and that men who identify as straight but still fuck men create a safe space to sexually express themselves without the stigma of challenging that masculinity, and that any question as to why that man may marry a woman even if he fucks men doesn't get asked. Dylan brings up that many bi woman in monogamous relationships get the same challenge, and they get questions as to why they "even bother" identifying as bisexual if they're marrying a man, because they'll never get to do anything about their attraction to women. Dr. Liz mentions that bisexuals get misidentified sexually based on the genitals they're interacting with as opposed to their actual preferences. Dylan asks about the pansexual label, and whether people identifying as pansexual get to skip some of the bisexual stigma or confusion... but gets that thought dismissed as most people outside of the queer community would just not understand what it is. He follows up with a questions about whether bisexual men are seen as, as dangerous as bisexual women are to "the husbands" of straight women in monogamous relationships and... yes. Mike, as a queer man, has had his male friends told by their female partners not to hang out with them or has had his male friends' sexuality questions because of their desire to be friends with him. Cooper mentions that whenever you present an alternative to traditional heteronormative nonmonogamy to people who actively try not to look into and not think about it, that anyone with predispositions to something other than traditional heteronormative may show interest and that's dangerous. Dylan compares it to Doctor Who weeping angels and... pretty much stuns everyone into silence, and into a little bit of weeping. After a break, Dr. Liz discusses ideas to help with bi erasure, whether thinking about the bi celebrities you know (and with say, Anna Paquin being bi but being identified as straight because she's married to a man), and that when you meet someone you really only have one datapoint, and to stay open. We talk about attraction, and how you don't necessarily need to identify the way your attraction takes you, because it's ok to explore fantasy, explore the juiciness of, and even still decide to act it out without identifying as your attraction. Fantasy doesn't have to be the same as reality. And your fantasies do not define your sexuality in practice https://t.co/y1WvtgZtx1 — Liz Powell, Psy.D (@sexpospsych) October 26, 2016   Leave us a review and a five star rating on iTunes! Leave us a review and a five star rating on Stitcher! Subscribe to us on Youtube! Android Users: Download and review our Android App! Leave us a comment on this post or at contact@lifeontheswingset.com or leave us a voicemail at 573-55-SWING (573-557-9464). Find Cooper on Twitter @CooperSBeckett, Dylan on Twitter @DylanTheThomas, and Ginger on twitter @GingerNTheProf. You can Cooper’s novel about swinging, A Life Less Monogamous, at alifelessmonogamous.com or his memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory at mylifeontheswingset.com as an ebook, paperback, or audiobook and if you buy them from his sites, use promo code SWINGSET to save 10%!   Today's podcast featured music by: Intro Music: Tokyo Machine - FIGHT Politics Music: Muzzy & Droptek - Warhead Outro Music: Nervo - Anywhere You Go (feat. Timmy Trumpet) Outtakes Music: Slips & Slurs x Mikha! - WiFi Tears Cooper S Beckett Dylan Thomas Dr. Liz Powell