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I'm on a mission to free people to be true to who they really are and to unleash their buried voices within. "Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid" is inspired by birthday verse, Proverbs 7:4, "Say to wisdom, “I love you,” and to understanding, “You’re my sweetheart.” We discuss stupid "situationships", "tolerationships" leading to "revelationships". What may appear wise in the world's eyes is really just foolishness. Our discussions may expose our own foolishness but in doing so, it may bridge that great divide and UNITE. *Check out Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid on YouTube for visual version. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

Amy Perras


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    Ain't Gonna Be No Voice Unheard with Ryan Haehnlein

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 30, 2024 34:47


    Introduction: Don't settle for being unheard. Dispelling Ignorance: Toilet paper roll 2:53 “Bangs are cool and mullets are not” 4:00 Ryan's stupid situationship that made Amy cry from laughing so hard. “ It was like agreeing to build a birdhouse, only to discover halfway through that you're actually constructing a full-scale replica of the Taj Mahal... out of duct tape and optimism”. 5:55 Reconnecting through generations. 7:20 I ran into teachers through the years and reflected on how high school connects to real life. 8:46 Fitting in while in high school, we don't just fit into ONE box. 9:45 Connect with others  10:50 Adapting to the Ever-Changing Life 11:35 The Need for the Trades 13:16 Local 701 in Aurora offers a training center for mechanics. 16:33 January and July start times: Submit application at any time:  https://local701training.org/ 17:42 Education and career paths. Don't think what we learn in school isn't relevant to life: persuasive essays, for example. 19:41 Writing is your voice. 19:54 Lessons from a Union Rep-The Power of Negotiation 22:05 The Life of a Mechanic 25:00 Rusty Bolt metaphor 25:20 Undercover Boss 26:40 Process is Key 27:03 Dead Poet's Society 27:14 Grow ye roses buds while ye may. 27:54 Questioning Authority 28:19 Exercising my right not to walk. 29:10 Check yourself as a parent who makes their kid grind too hard. 29:32 Independent Thought is key 31:42-3-2-1 Three things every worker/person needs to know How to say no When to walk away Power of collective action Two Life Lessons Ask Questions (even the hard ones) Mistakes are Part of the Process-this is when you learn the most One Thing to Never Forget Your Community Matters Where Can I Find Ryan? X:@ryan_haehnlein, email: ryanh@mech.org Where Can I Find Amy?   www.amyperras.com   Linkedin: Amy Perras   Twitter: @perras_scope   IG @aintgonnabenostupid   Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid   Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book)   https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj   Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast   https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm   Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel   https://bit.ly/3fT6v31   Coaching Session  https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Ain't Gonna Ever Stop Learning with Jason Rhodes

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2024 31:46


    2:09 Wrong college for the wrong reasons 3:10 Goshen College opportunities: student newspaper, hosted radio show, acting, changed his major, met his wife 4:16 Wanted to be a sports journalist but not fulfilling 4:44 ended up in education instead, a better decision 5:28 Coach Rhodes will give feedback on your essays ;) 5:51 Social Emotional Learning and teaching literature 6:30 Hole in My Life: Gantos, Jack: Amazon.com: Books 7:10 “The unexamined life is not worth living” Socrates 7:35 E+R = 0 [Experience + Reaction = Outcome] 8:50 Run - Flow -  Disrupt 9:40 Jason's coaching records 10:41 C.A.'s wisdom  11:34 Jason's macademia nut experience (7 years of rebuilding) 13:12 Natural talent and work ethic 13:50 Ibrahim Samra shout out for his work ethic, leadership and reaching his potential 14:17 No ceiling on any kid 15:08 Inner Game of Tennis  16:28 Mistake response mechanisms 17:17 Player development tools 19:46 Reading and how it's changing 21:08 Tik Tok  22:00 Anything we don't wanna learn 23:24 Making college decisions-do what's right for you but especially get on college campuses to get a feel for it. Final Thoughts 3 Author Peter Heller Emily St John Mandel Colesom Whitehead 2 Podcasts Smartless The Big Picture 1 Thing That Has Changed Jason's Life Yoga --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Ain't Gonna Defy the Lessons in Life's Turbulence with Carolyn Deck

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 11, 2024 37:11


    Introduction | How we know each other 4:15 Faith muscle that grows during struggles 4:48 if you're not in a storm yet, you'll be heading into another one or coming out of one. 5:10  Above the Turbulence: Your Ticket out of Pain to Purpose 6:06 Fly higher and you'll be able to weather the storm 6:40 Gain perspective and look down on your earth's circumstances 7:11 The eagle flies directly into storms and spreads his wings out and does nothing. The currents of the wind helps them rise up. They have the best predator eyesight too. They also sit and for 40 days and 40 nights like Jesus 8:30 The phrase "mount up with wings like eagles" appears in Isaiah 40:31 of the Bible, which reads, "Those who wait on the Lord will renew their strength. They will mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint". 9:12 Be careful what you allow in your mind.  9:42 Travel agent metaphors 10:42 Carolyn's self-deprecating journey that lead to this book. 11:42 She asked herself, how did Jesus teach a lesson, through stories. 12:05 Head knowledge vs. applying that knowledge. 12:40 spiraling into the what ifs solutions in her book 13:00 Faith is an action word. 13:17 Turn off your thoughts if they are not productive 13:32 Be the air traffic controller of your mind 13:53 Change the channel 14:35 Messages when her mom was in the hospital. She leaned on: • Proverbs 3:4: "Then you will win favor and a good name in the sight of God and man"."Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding". "In all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight". 15:15 Get in a rhythm with God 16:45 I am the god of order. Do not worry. 18:29 BeLIEve - Lie is inside of BELIEVE 19:15: The power is in our choices 20:20 Also marriage isn't perfect. It's two broken people coming together so buckle up 21:30 Prince of this World -  John 14: 1-6 “Don't let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God, and trust also in me. There is more than enough room in my Father's home. If this were not so, would I have told you that I am going to prepare a place for you. When everything is ready, I will come and get you, so that you will always be with me where I am. And you know the way to where I am going.” and Corin 2:4 The enemy actively participates in blinding the minds of those who don't believe in Jesus, to keep them from coming to faith in Christ. His purpose is to keep them from seeing the light.  23:45 In the Beginning Genesis 1:1 In the beginning God created the heavens and the earth. 2 Now the earth was formless and empty, darkness was over the surface of the deep, and the Spirit of God was hovering over the waters. 25:30 God had a plan of redemption and He wants to be loved by us. 26:34 In your pain-Rom 8:28 "And we know that for those who love God, all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose" 27:21 No plane has crashed in turbulence 28:21 Not a citizen of earth.  Phil 3:20 But we are citizens of heaven, where the Lord Jesus Christ lives. And we are eagerly waiting for him to return as our Savior. 29:50 all proceeds of the book go here:  faceswithnames.org  30:29 Connect the dots of your life to where you are today. 32:55 Link to the creator of the clouds. CONCLUSION 3-2-1 3 Bible Verses 34:11 11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. 12 Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. 13 You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. 14 I will be found by you,” declares the Lord, “and will bring you back from captivity.[b] I will gather you from all the nations and places where I have banished you,” declares the Lord, “and will bring you back to the place from which I carried you into exile.” The Names of God: Yahweh, Emmanuel, Jehovah Jireh, etc. 2 Books to Read The Garden Within Ed Mylett - DrJoe Dispensa interview podcast 1 Final Thought You are greatly loved, seen, you are worthy and he has a plan for you. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Mom with Amy Betters Midtvedt

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2024 47:15


    1:18 Amy intro 3:03 Trauma in the orphanage about our grandmothers | orphan spirit | gen curses 5:01 Amy's “ignorant moment” 6:40 nurture into their nature 7:23 pancake metaphor 10:11 unexpected grief 10:30 https://herviewfromhome.com/teen-shes-14-and-i-already-miss-her/ 11:00 Figuring out what I was doing wrong 17:43 Learning to parent differently 18:00 NOTICE and NAME 19:45 What story are they telling? 20:14 Mental Health Issues 23:11 Negotiate vs Control 23:54 The bank of trust 25:45 Launching Kids 27:00 Amy has grown 27:16 God has them 28:02 Parenting for the Long Haul 30:28 Sock Hack 33:30 Kids in church 34:29 You can lead a kid to church but you cannot make them pray. 36:11 Prov 22:6 (KJV) Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. 37:45 Learning how to pass the torch in a different way 40:30 Ouch and Ooops 41:29 Three things you need for communicating with your teenagera. not ready to talk? give them spaceb. when they are ready, listenc. use technology | is their native language and they can speak more openly 43:28 Two Self Carea. give yourself a time-outb. get a therapist (even if you don't think you need one) 45:22 One: Never underestimate the power of prayer 46:07 2 Chronicles 7:14 New International Version (NIV) if my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land. Where can I find Amy Betters Midtvedt? https://www.facebook.com/amybettersmidtvedthidingintheclosetwithcoffee https://www.instagram.com/amy.betters.midtvedt amybettersmidtvedt.com Where Can I Find Amy Perras? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 503: Ain't Gonna Be Sitting Stuck with Phyllis Calderon

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2024 28:07


    1:52 One thing You Know For Sure | God loves you and Jesus is coming soon. Get right with Him today. 3:09 Stop Sitting and Stand by Phyllis Calderon - available on Amazon. 3:33 2 Corinthians 12:10 NRSV Therefore I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities for the sake of Christ; for whenever I am weak, then I am strong. 4:09 Our posture (Luke 7 - healed just because of his posture) 5:04 Humble Out 6:00 Idolatry 8:07 a friend sticks closer than a brother 9:19 His grace is sufficient CLUTTER = Greed 10:22 spiritual clutter and physical clutter 11:48 remove clutter if you want to hear God 12:26  “Anxiety in a man's heart weighs him down, but a good word makes him glad” Prov 12: 25 13:01 Anxiety is rooted in fear and self-control 13:50 “Cast your care upon Him, for He cares for you” - 1 Peter 5:7 14:30 Stop turning up your nose to all that doesn't match your worldview. 16:46 Despising what you don't know is dangerous.  17:28 TProverbs 9:10, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom: and the knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.” 18:16 Forgiveness frees you. Unforgiveness gets in your bones. 19:05 SDD Spiritual Deficit Disfunction 19:47 Psalm 94:16 Who will stand against the wicked? 21:00 2 Corin 6:1 We are coworkers with God.  22:22 Offended by our faith? That's your problem. Gal 5: 22-23 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. 24:00 Romans 5:3, "More than that, we rejoice in our sufferings..." He says in Colossians 1:24, "Now I rejoice in my sufferings for your sake..." 25:25 Proverbs 4:25-26 (NIV) Let your eyes look straight ahead; fix your gaze directly before you. Give careful thought to the paths for your feet and be steadfast in all your ways. 26:00 The end is near. Get right with God. How Can I Find Phyllis? www.violinprophet.com  Listen to her sermon on August 4, 2024 https://thevc.org/church-services Where can I find Amy? www.amyperras.com Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31   Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm   Podcast Pre-interview Questionnaire https://bit.ly/3U8Drui --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Ain't Gonna Be in No Legalistic Religious Relationship with God

    Play Episode Listen Later May 9, 2024 52:15


    9:11 What is Born a Again? 10:37 The Serpeant and the Dust - Genesis 3:14, of the curse given to the serpent that he would crawl on his belly and eat dust all his life. 11:22 Even though we walk with Christ, we still will have issues. Trust and walk with Him. Learn Him.  12:03 Christianity isn't religion. Fire and brimstone is often fear-based.  12:56 God was fully man and fully God in Jesus. He died for our sins and fulfilled the original covenant in the garden.  13:38 Jesus brought restoration.  14:11 Willy Wonka  14:49 Unlocked on Netflix 15:33 Do we reap what we've sown? Thank God for what Jesus did for us. 16:07 For by grace we are saved not by works. 16:50 Fear is what keeps you from being honest. 17:07 Jesus paid the penalty. Don't let fear stop you from coming forth with anything you're hiding. 17:37 He welcomes us with open arms. 19:00 Luke 23:39-43 (NIV) The thief feared God displaying it by not hurling insults at Jesus or blaspheming or reviling Him but rather turning to Christ – seeing Him as His intercessor. The thief was aware of his repeated, habitual sin and his inability to save himself. The thief realized that his sin had to be punished. 19:10 Take off the do not disturb sign 19:25 2 Corinthians 12:9: But he said to me, j“My grace is sufficient for you, for kmy power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that lthe power of Christ may rest upon me. 19:40 For when I am weak, then I am strong” (2 Corinthians 12:9-10). 20:00 prayer 22:59 come as you are. Doesn't need to be formal prayer. Just talk to him. 23:00 Keep coming back to Jesus 23:45 Please God show me you're real. 24:21 The Bible will reveal God's character 24:58 Isaiah 53: 5 But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed. 27:07 The Power of God is still for now. 28:27 His supernatural power is still at work today. 29:04 Kingdom vs. Worldview 30:30 Jesus is still healing today 30:39 John 5:19-20 Jesus gave them this answer: “Very truly I tell you, the Son can do nothing by himself; he can do only what he sees his Father doing, because whatever the Father does the Son also does. 20 For the Father loves the Son and shows him all he does. Yes, and he will show him even greater works than these, so that you will be amazed. 31:40 Matthew 17:21 [AMP] But this kind of demon does not go out except by prayer and fasting. ” 32:00 How to fast 33:12 Counteracting negative interactions 33:55 “Date night” 34:26 We are the bride of Christ | Ephesians 5:22–33 35:55 How God is with us like parent/child 36:58 How God wows us with our children, the gift they had. 37:55 Tampatha has the mother anointing 38: 15 Matthew 14:14-21 And when Jesus went out He saw a great multitude; and He was moved with compassion for them, and healed their sick. 39:00 Warfare is Alive today 40:00 John 10:10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full. 40:57 Ephesians 6:12 (KJV) For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places. 41:51 Imposter/copy cat 42:00 God has equipped us with everything we need in our relationship with Him. 42:48 Speak the word to dispel the lies. 43:50 Pray Psalm 91 44:00 Baby Christians - don't give up 47:15 Ephesians 2:8-9: For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: 9 Not of works, lest any man should boast. Final Thoughts 3 Restaurants  2 Favorite Foods 1 Favorite Song --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 501: Ain't Gonna Ignore the Spiritual Significance of the Eclipse

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2024 56:48


    1:06 Introduction 2:53-ADHD Situationship-Neurodiversity | ADHD-misconceptions-Not a DISORDER, but a Superpower Womanhood | ADHD Source: The Disruptors, a documentary about ADHD, spins it as “distraction can really be curiosity, hyperactivity can really be creativity, and impulsivity can really be energy.” 16:30 Eddie cameo 16:38 - The Eclipse Talk 20:40 - The Statue of Liberty hit my lightning 21:21 Francis Scott Key Bridge 21:34 Tav and Aluf-Last letter of the Hebrew alphabet 23:09 Rainbow is a sign of God's covenant to never flood the earth again. Genesis 9: 13-17 I set My rainbow in the cloud, and it shall be for the sign of the covenant between Me and the earth. 14 It shall be, when I bring a cloud over the earth, that the rainbow shall be seen in the cloud; 15 and I will remember My covenant which is between Me and you and every living creature of all flesh; the waters shall never again become a flood to destroy all flesh. 16 The rainbow shall be in the cloud, and I will look on it to remember the everlasting covenant between God and every living…” 32:46 Unfilled Prophecies - https://bible.org/seriespage/lesson-7-unfulfilled-prophecies 36:01 Tetelastai “It is Finished” https://bible.org/question/what-does-greek-word-tetelestai-mean Business context  Used on receipts:  “paid in full” - a literal debt had been paid Judicial Context Fully served sentence Military Context-A Battle as been won. In other words: Your debt of sin has been fully paid.  The judgment for your sin has been fully served. And the spiritual war against death, sin and Satan has been fully won. Listen to: Todo va a estar bien & No Weapon Formed Against Me Shall Prosper Psalm 91: Pray it back to Him. More Resources: FACT CHECK: Two cities named Ninevah not Seven https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/factcheck/2024/04/05/april-8-eclipse-totality-path-nineveh/73215252007/ Where Can I Find Amy?   www.amyperras.com  support@amyperras.com IG: @aintgonnabenostupid Where Can I Find Jill? jillmalkowski@icloud.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 408: "Ain't Going Back to the Way I Used to Be" with Dr. Shari Scott

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2022 39:41


    1.27 What Dr. Shari knows for sure 2.21 For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh,) dwelleth no good thing: for to will is present with me; but how to perform that which is good I find not. Rom 7:18 KJV & Psalm 57:2 says, “I cry out to God Most High, to God who fulfills his purpose for me.” This is key in understanding God's purpose for your life. God has numbered your days and will fulfill every purpose He has for you 2:42 he made known to us the mystery of his will according to his good pleasure, which he purposed in Christ (Eph 1:9) 3:31 Dr. Shari's Stupid Situationship 5:23 Daddy poem 6:28 Little girl crying 8:49 They defeated him through the blood of the Lamb and the bold word of their witness. Rev 12:11 9:57 How the past can affect us 11:11 Shari's criteria for God to send her a counselor 11:35 Peeling back the layers 11:59 Don't be afraid to dive into the pain. 12:55 Shari recites her Holy Spirit-inspired poem, “The Confessions of a Very Proud Woman” 15:45 Trying to counsel the counselor but a pivotal moment turned her around 16:50 Forgiveness story 17:51 The tears are healing 18:55 How do you hear God's voice like Dr. Shari? Matt 18:3 And he said: “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. 20:00 Spend time with God. Listen. Don't just ask, ask, ask 23:00 The Big Cover Up Poem - sexual abuse 24:37 “If you say something, I'm gonna let the dogs get you” 25:55 “How do you get the Holy Ghost?” 26:40 “Meet me in my office” 29:00 Genesis 50:20 “You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.” 30:42 Skin Hunger 31:29 How Shari isolated, cut, and was suicidal “God does not want me either” 32:00 Amy's healing journey 33:15 Performance-based will make us crash 34:40 Honk for Jesus-type ministers, what do you say to people who see ministers like this and don't go towards God? With every authentic, there is an opportunity for fabrication 35:35 “They just want your money” 36:00 Bad things happen to good people 36:19 Don't let one bad experience turn you off from the whole church. 37:10 Final Thought from Dr. Shari Dr. Shari's Book https://www.amazon.com/Wounded-Hearts-Whole-Shari-Scott Where Can I Find Dr. Shari? Drshariscott@gmail.com www.drshariscott.com Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 407: "Ain't No Stupid Students, Only Stupid Teachers" [Part 2] with Christine Barboza

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2022 23:36


    30: Dante Stewart - Shouting it the Fire book “Let's be clear. There's a vast difference between diversity and inclusion and liberation and justice. One enjoys the feeling of my presence. The other embraces the fullness of my humanity” 2:26 Colonization Approach - Ask vs. lecture 4:34 Teacher evaluation blunders 4:48 Alternative Methods-Grading for Equity 5:11 Embrace the Change-But Give It Time 5:43 California Initiatives-Some change types: Policy Changes | New Admin's Philosophy 6:44 Block Scheduling 8:08 The Classroom in the heart of the school-why are you breaking it? 9:09 So quick to get out of touch with the classroom when you aren't in it. 10:06 Sage on the Stage vs. Student Centered Approach 10:47 Education isn't about just making money-it's about being a contributing member of society. 11:29Addressing Implicit Biases/Social Cognition 12:29 Challenge Stereotypes-Don't subscribe to common thought. 13:00 Develop Empathy - SUPPORT THEM. ASK QUESTIONS. Imagine yourself in their shoes 14:44 Landline story from classroom to classroom-VCRS 15:05 Embrace Differences - We spend so much time with our own “kind”. Experience diversity instead. Nicole Mirra Teaching for Empathy - Activity for Embracing our Differences 16:07 Grapple with the work you are assigning your students. 16:30 Intersectionality California Black School Educator Association Dr Marks Acknowledging and Managing Implicit Bias 17:41 Learn about Your Students: 17:47 Language, Gender and Culture Unit - Code Switching 20:30 Speaking with an Accent is a superpower because you speak more than one language. 20:41 Advocacy 21:30 Be Anti-Racist Podcast 21:31 Book Recommendations: Culturally Responsive Teaching & The Brain, Legend of Bass Reeves, Black Enough, Harriet Tubman: Conductor on the Underground Railroad, The Watsons God to Birmingham, Post-Traumatic Slave Syndrome, How to Raise an Anti-Racist, Solo, When I Was a Slave, Piecing Me Together, Great Speeches by African Americans, The Silence of Our Friends. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 406: "Ain't No Stupid Students, Only Stupid Teachers" [Part 1] with Christine Barboza

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2022 34:41


    Introductions 3:53 What Chris knows for sure: “All kids can learn”. https://cabse.org/ 4:24 Here is the bar, I'm going to help you meet it. 5:50 Emerging Multilingual vs. English Language Learners 6:15 Student names-pronounce their names or give them an endearing nickname 6:56 Don't be afraid to apologize 7:15 Pronouns-Embracing Identities 8:05 Ooops, Amy's dog makes an appearance. 8:28 Educating for Empathy 8:59 Embracing our differences inspired by Leading Equity, Sheldon Eakins 9:15 Empathy vs. Pity 9:35 What's the problem with San Francisco school system? LA Times article 10:11 Comments and what we believe about students is key. 11:05 That doesn't serve the kids. 11:35 BIPOC literature-letting students tell their story 12:29 Get your ACE up-UCLA 12:40 Shervaughnna Anderson-Byrd, Director 13:22 The problem with Color Blind 13:45 Sociologists: Age, Race, Gender 14:00 Ibram Kendi, Anti Racist 14:36 Disruptor not just an Ally 15:00 Know-It-Alls 16:11 Learning Maps-Do we do everything for them? 17:05 Don Murray Lessons from America's Greatest Writing Teacher 18:28 Monitor your students conversation-Socratic Seminars 19:04 The power of conversation as pre-writing-CONFIDENCE is KEY 20:07 More noise = more learning 20:48 Killing Student Spirits 21:08 See Who Students Are 21:44 Sarcasm 22:28 Connect with Kids 22:53 Confirmation Bias—Don't ever let another teacher give you a rundown of your roster. 23:19 Pushover/Too Friendly-There is a line and they cross it but tow that line. 23:47 Be firm, fair and flexible 24:00 Integrity 24:47 Isolate vs. Collaborate - Learn the value of collaborating 25:30 Don't dominate your PLCs - a meeting after the meeting. 27:27 Stressball Teachers 28:40 Covid teaching stories 30:40 Know Your Audience 31:18 “Stupid” teachers are lazy teachers 32:38 FINAL THOUGHTS: If you don't really care about kids, please find another job. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 405: "Ain't Gonna Live My Life Without a Spiritual Birthday" with Dr. Jamie Harms

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2022 32:47


    4:00 January - Intrigued by Amy's lifestyle 4:15 Born Again-what does that mean? 4:50 Say it aloud 5:12 Whirlwind of Transformation 5:55 Feb 3, Jamie's spiritual birthday 6:31 Desire for a public declaration through baptism 6:55 Explained Christian principles 7:24 Deliverance 8:00 Authority Explained. “Behold, I give you the authority to trample on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing shall by any means hurt you” (Luke 10: 19 KJV). 8:46 “This is the same mighty power that raised Christ from the dead and seated him in the place of honor at God's right hand in the heavenly realms. Now he is far above any ruler or authority or power or leader or anything else—not only in this world but also in the world to come” (Eph 1:19-21). 9:50 Morning Prayer-A & B Counseling - Forgiveness 10:36 - Walk in Holiness [right standing with God] 11:18 "I am the vine; you are the branches. If a man remains in me and I in him, he will bear much fruit; apart from me you can do nothing. If anyone does not remain in me, he is like a branch that is thrown away and withers; such branches are picked up, thrown into the fire and burned” (John 15: 5-6 NIV) 11:32 Blood of Jesus 12:18 Generation Curse (Deuteronomy 30:19) (Exodus 34:7) (Exodus 20:5) 12:48 Living Sacrifice 13:02 Renewing of our Mind (Helmet of Salvation) 14:16 New Creation in Christ- mind of Christ-wisdom of God within us 15:04 “He fills my life with good things, so that I stay young and strong like an eagle” (Psalm 103: 5 GNT). 15:21 No Evil Words 15:31 By the power of the Holy Spirit-obedient to Christ 15:45 No weapon formed against us will prosper 16:30 Lift up in prayer today 17:28 Working for Eternity 18:03 Break every curse - written or texted, objects 19:26 Cleansing Prayer for Your Home 20:38 Soul Ties 21:41 Blinders off 22:00 Strongholds 22:30 Take authority over disease 23:00 Spirit of theft 23:47 Fear is the enemy's perversion of our faith 24:00 Fruit of the Spirit 24:53 “His master replied, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master's happiness!' (Matt 25:21 NIV) 25:30 “Blessed is the one who reads aloud the words of this prophecy, and blessed are those who hear it and take to heart what is written in it, because the time is near” (Rev 1:3). 3-Books (1. The Passion Translation of the Bible, 2. True North by Gary and Lisa Hime 3. What's Here Now by Jeanne Stevens) 2-Reminders About Our Body (Posture - Ear over Shoulders over Hips - Engage Your Core) 1-Prov 4:20-22 My son, pay attention to what I say; turn your ear to my words. Do not let them out of your sight, keep them within your heart; for they are life to those who find them and health to one's whole body. 29:27 Jamie's second doctorate - Christian Counseling Clinical Psychology - Temperament Therapy 93% success rate. Secular techniques are 8% effective. 30:45 You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body and knit me together in my mother's womb. (Psalm 139:13 NLT) Where Can We Find Dr. Jamie Harms? jamieharms20@hotmail.com Where can we find Amy? www.amyperras.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 404: "Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Christian" Part 2 with Pastor Omar A. Muhammad

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2022 33:38


    28: Pre-Christianity “The Seven Things the Lord Hates” Prov 6: 16-19 43: Matt 7:1-6 Judge not 1:06 “The LORD” Exodus 3:14 2:00 Ten Commandments (Exodus 20) 2:57 1. “Haughty Eyes” Prov 6: 16-19 3:50 Leviticus 23:22 “Do not cut the edges…leave it for the poor and foreigners among you” 4:12 2. A lying tongue-keeps you from your blessing and divides people Prov 6: 16-19 6:22 3. Hands that shed innocent blood Prov 6: 16-19 7:29 4. “A Heart the devises wicked schemes” Prov 6: 16-19 8:32 Prov 25:21-22 “If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; if he is thirsty, give him water to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head, and the LORD will reward you.” 8:50 Law of reaping and sowing: Luke 8:5-15: “A sower went out to sow his seed. And as he sowed, some fell by the wayside; and it was trampled down, and the birds of the air devoured it. Some fell on rock; and as soon as it sprang up, it withered away because it lacked moisture. 9:08 “Feet that are quick to rush into evil” Prov 6: 16-19 9:58 low vibration country 10:00 “False witness that pours out lies” Prov 6: 16-19 (causes division) 11:14 “A person who stirs up conflict in the community” 11:44 Community is where God dwells-UNITY (all of the aforementioned causes division) 12:12 The power of agreement 12:54 Full armor of God - Eph 6:10-20 13:46 The hierarchy of spiritual forces 15:35 Gird up your loins 2 Kings 4:29 16:40 “breastplate of righteousness” Eph 6:10-20 17:40 Keep your hands clean and your heart pure 18:04 repentance “turn around and agree with God about your actions” 18:35 “readiness with the gospel of peace” 20:06 “shield of faith in which you can distinguish the flaming errors of the enemy” Eph 6:10-20 20:37 “Faith is the substance of things hoped for, evidence of things not seen” (Hebrews 11:1) 20:48 Faith is simply trusting in God-this gives us power 21:15 The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I am come that they might have life, and have it in abundance” (John 10:10) 22:35 Helmet of Salvation (renewing our mind) Eph 6:10-20 24:36 Brain Detox-Dr. Caroline Leaf - Switch on Your Brain 24:55 Not Science or God 25:23 Helmet of Salvation which is the sword of the spirit which is the word of God Eph 6:10-20 28:11 Exercising the word like a master swordsman 28:55 Pray in the spirit at all times [Eph 6:10-20] to keep this activated 30:00 “No Weapon Formed Against Me Shall Prosper” Isaiah 54:17 30:05 Bonus: Fred Hammond - No Weapon Formed Against Me Shall Prosper 30:48 Final Thoughts: Matt 22:34-40 Love God and Love Thy Neighbor Where Can We Find Pastor Omar? Beloved Community - Join Pastor Omar's Bible Studies on Youtube Instagram: the_love-ambassador Facebook: Omar Muhammad - Love in Action Where Can We Find Amy? www.amyperras.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 403: "Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Christian" Part 1 with Pastor Omar Muhammad

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2022 42:37


    47: Pastor Omar's history with the Nation of Islam 1:25 Flipping the script 1:55 Experiencing homelessness 2:20 Reading the Quran - Who is this Jesus? 2:42 We send him as a sign unto you, listen to him. 3:21 Ask God for wisdom and understanding while reading these holy books. 4:30 How Pastor Omar became a Christian 5:48 Pastor Omar's near death experience in Africa 11:21 Hateful Christians 15:00 Recommended reading: White Lies and White Awake by Daniel Hill God of the Oppressed by James H. Cone Jesus and the Disinherited by Howard Thurman 18:03 Basic beliefs of Christianity 23:53 Our body is the temple of the Holy Spirit 24:45 “Dead Man Walking” 25:32 Will you receive God's love? 26:02 “Whose the devil now, Omar” 26:45 The same power that raised Jesus from the dead… 28:21 embibe the Word and you receive God 28:35 Jesus is an example of what we can do -John 9 (blind man healed) 30:11 What is your faith in? 30:30 Faith, the currency of heaven 32:00 How the Word changed Omar from a racist to an ambassador of love 33:00 Our authority 34:00 “The devil” (not a human in white skin) or the devil of the pitch fork 34:45 How the enemy rebelled - “father of lies” John 8:44 36:40 There is no he/she, he is a spirit. 37:11 God allows these forces to make us stronger. 38:20 Unforgiveness, bitterness, resentment is an open door to close. 38:40 “The battle is not against flesh and blood…” Ephesians 6:12 Where Can We Find Pastor Omar? Beloved Community - Join Pastor Omar's Bible Studies on Youtube (Namely for Seniors) Instagram: the_love-ambassador Facebook: Omar Muhammad - Love in Action Where Can We Find Amy? www.amyperras.com FB: Amy Perras IG: Ain'tGonnaBeNoStupid --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 402: "Ain't Gonna Worry About Money Anymore" with Eric Himmel

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2022 28:48


    Preshow: Eric saved money by not shaving or getting a haircut. ;) 1:00 Amy's values 1:41 What Eric knows for sure - if people can automate their money, you'll be okay. Always think of money as a tool not a goal. 3:06 Money Mirror-Eye opening to see where your money is going 4:00 Make sure you live within your means 4:55 College debt - student loan story - thanks grandpa 5:50 Envelope system now different accounts 6:36 Big money mistakes 6:57 Give 10% to savings 7:00 #automatetobegreat 8:32 You can enjoy life without worrying about money by automating 9:18 A little bit goes a long way - it's time IN the stock market not TIMING. 9:36 One regret Eric has—waiting too long to invest (Same for Amy) 10:10 Roth IRA 11:28 How it works when stock market is low. Automated systems buys more so you don't have to worry about it 12:22 Dollar Cost Averaging 12:40 Live within Net Income not the Gross income 14:30 Sweeping cash from checking into savings not vice versa 15:30 Amy's vacation budget going to dog budget 16:15 Consider our Future Self vs our Current Self when dealing with money 16:44 See past the end of your nose 17:27 How to plan for that vacation—not all or nothing 17:43 “The power of the and, not the tyranny of the or” https://www.jimcollins.com/concepts/genius-of-the-and.html 18:23 Needs - Wants - Wishes 18:25 How “yes, and” got Amy in trouble in life 18:46 Marriage and Money - ASK: “What was money like for you growing up?” 19:20 Saying NO can be very empowering 20:00 We fight about money because we fear we don't have enough 20:59 Financial planning is more than finding the right products, it's about knowing your WHY-Have a purpose. 21:42 Make your money work so you don't have to worry 22:38 “What you're supposed to do” 24:00 Many ways to skin a cat 24:30 Thrivent - Integrity Award 26:32 Don't be afraid to look in that financial mirror. 27:00 Bloopers Where can we find Eric? (219) 627-3371 eric.himmel@thrivent.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 401: "Ain't a Book I Won't Try" with Carol Jago

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2022 23:46


    21: Carol's Books: Cohesive Writing: Why Concept is Not Enough | Classics in the Classroom | Papers, Papers, Papers | Literature and Composition | With Rigor for All | Beyond Standards |The Book in Question: Why Reading is in Crisis 1:25 Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Title Explained 2:40 What Carol knows for sure 2:47 National Writing Project - “Claiming Our Agency in the New Normal” - July 16 Carol's breakout sessions - “The Role of Literature in Troubling Times” NWP Midwest Conference registration link 4:29 Chicago Area Writing Project - August 8-10 (9am-12pm) Contact rwoodard@uic.edu 5:08 Carol processed her questions while teaching by writing - Weekly Education Column for Los Angeles Times 6:01 “Animal in and of itself” No animals were harmed while filming (Amy just adopted two dogs from Paws and they were crying for attention) 6:44 Why Carol is such a voracious reader 7:48 Not just about making a living, it's about making a life 9:41 Carol's childhood reading experience 11:13 Three Step Approach to Reading: Experience, Analysis, Extension | 12:47 Shawn Peters - The Unforgettable Logan Foster 13:53 Antwan Wilson Mouth to Mouth | 14:00 Rebecca Donner - All The Frequent Troubles of Our Days 18:00 The Graphic Novel of George Takei - They Called Us Enemy | 18:54 Carol's epiphany about non-fiction | 19:00 Beth Macy - Dopesick 19:10 Andrea Elliott - Invisible Child | 19:15 Matthew Desmond - Evicted | 19:20 Patrick Radden Keefe - Empire of Pain www.caroljago.com www.amyperras.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 111: "Ain't Gonna Jump on Another Diet Bandwagon" with Maria McCarthy

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 10, 2021 34:09


    1:07 Stupid Innocent Stories (Amy and ephedrine) 2:15 Maria's Innocent Story (The Military Diet) 3:29 Stupid situationships (Amy, #lymphedema #Lipedema) 4:59 Maria's weight gain #excuses 7:40 Accountability 7:48 Ketogenics explained 8:38 Net carbs and fiber breakdown 10 carbs + 3 grams of fiber = 7 grams of carbs 8:55 Carb manager 9:15 Keto doesn't work when you give up in a couple of days. 10:45 Cravings for carbs stop 11:30 ADHD nightmare for Amy to meal plan 12:57 Trying to squeeze into old sizes 13:23 #Lipodema, #lyphedema 14:22 Do people really judge us that harshly because of our weight? 14:39 Consistency 15:37 Cortisol 16:20 “Sleep your way to sexy” 16:39 “Not Amazon prime” 17:28 Keto flu 18:10 Keto used for diabetes 18:20 Silly fad diets (60s-70s) https://www.decades.com/lists/12-fad-diets-and-weight-loss-trends-from-the-60s-and-70s 20:01 Thoughts change our brain 20:46 How ads lie to us #erogenic 22:06 Not enough calories = weight gain = storing carbs 24:00 Fat-free created an obesity epidemic 25:08 Discernment with advertising hype 25:22 The lie of “Being Nice” and “Pretty” [Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent & Feeling Guilty…And Start Speaking Up, Saying No, Asking Boldly, And Unapologetically Being Yourself by Dr. Aziz Gazipura 26:35 We are so much more than that. 27:00 Maria's side hustle, believing she's not artistic, realized she CAN Craft 27:30 Cricket machine (perfect cutting machine) 27:48 Maria can make custom designs too. www.mariacancraft.com 29:00 Final Points 1. Accountability 2. Sleep 3. Don't eat after 7 pm 31:12: Make your plate colorful 31:34 Healthy Habits - Stay away from refined sugar, preservatives or high fructose syrup Watch: Super Size Me 32:00 Final piece of advice: Be good to yourself Where Can I Find Maria? www.mariacancraft.com MariaCanCraft@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 310: "Ain't Gonna Avoid Tough Things" with Coate

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2021 44:35


    Introduction Innocent story: Shoe 6:00 Stupid Situationship - Billy Corgan 8:03 Living in squalor - University of Colorado 10:01 Covid extreme symptoms 12:30 James 1: 2-4 14:10 Proverbs 1: Wisdom Personified 17:15 You just have to face it. 17:26 Not perfection, just acknowledge it's rough 18:08 The second wind of Covid “could finally breathe” (Amy) 18:50 How do you slow down? Focus on your energy 19:26 Limit your inputs 19:40 On social media first thing in the morning? Reflect with yourself first 21:00 Clarify your thinking by being intentional 21:50 Do not disturb or turn off notifications 22:30 Center your soul through slowing down - what am I about and what do I care about? 23:43 Who do I spend my time and energy? 23:50 Mental health is key - Sims Foundation https://simsfoundation.org/about-us/ 24:30 Mental health is not linear 25:11 Feelings fluctuate 26:14 No backsliding with feelings-no judgment 26:30 Coate is a Genius 27:46 Misdiagnosis https://www.amazon.com/Misdiagnosis-Diagnoses-Gifted-Children-Adults/dp/1935067435?asin=0910707642&revisionId=&format=4&depth=1 28:14 Mischief and anxiety in the classroom (often a sign of genius) 29:24 Cry Macho “You used to be strong macho” “This macho thing is over rated, people trying to be macho to show they got grit. That's all they end up with.” 30:10 Tough guy lies 30:20 What am I supposed to learn from this? 31:42 Mental toughness - asking for help and saying you don't know the answer is key. 32:07 Grinning and bearing isn't the plan-you're still bearing it. 32:20 Think back on your timeline 32:87 Runners don't like the first mile 33:35 Yes, And: How Improvisation Reverses "No, But" Thinking and Improves Creativity and Collaboration--Lessons from The Second City https://www.amazon.com/Yes-Improvisation-Reverses-Creativity-Collaboration-Lessons/dp/0062248545 33:45 "Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts." Winston Churchill 34:11 Reframe it: “I get to do this” 35:21 We don't avoid tough things because we become a more authentic stronger sense of who we truly are 36:20 Creativity comes from constraints 37:02 Challenges are opportunities to grow - you don't have to like them Three Things: Book-Stillness it the Key https://www.amazon.com/s?k=stillness+is+the+key&ref=nb_sb_noss_2 Podcast: Rebuilding the Past https://www.instagram.com/p/CQq-ZPsD-ci/Blog: Brainpickings.com Where can I find Coate? Twitter: @andrewjcoate IG: @andrewjcoate Medium: https://andrewjcoate.medium.com/paradise-makes-no-demands-d2979f2e2489 42:19 Paradise Makes No Demands The Geography of Genius https://www.amazon.com/Geography-Genius-Lessons-Worlds-Creative/dp/145169167X Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    "Ain't Gonna Stifle Student Voices" with Matt Capriola

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2021 28:21


    Introductions 1:48 Innocent Stories 2:13 Book reference: A Vein of Gold: A Journey to Your Creative Heart 2:28 Compliant vs reaching our potential 2:49 Matt's Innocent Tiger Story - age 8 4:00 Comedy in the “tragic” moments of life 5:33 Remote learning stifled voices without realizing it 6:14 Masks and projecting our voices 6:30 Masks and the smile 7:26 Speak Up 7:46 Theatre vocal exercises 8:30 Empowering student voices by reading their writing in front of the class. 9:00 Main Dish: Misdiagnosis: Dual Diagnosis of Gifted Children 9:41 The Genius Child by Langston Hughes 10:10 Soul rape at school 10:27 Glorifying genius can also backfire 10:43 the burden of genius/giftedness 11:07 take care of yourself-don't try to be perfect 11:29 1. Gifted and undiagnosed learning disability, 2. Severe learning disabilities but highly gifted elsewhere. 3. Majority: Learning disability masked their giftedness, average but performing below their gifted level. 13:44 Elevating Student Voices in Education https://www.americanprogress.org/issues/education-k-12/reports/2019/08/14/473197/elevating-s tudent-voice-education/ 14:00 Elevating Student Voices (Allyship) https://www.greatschoolspartnership.org/empowering-students-to-use-their-voice/ 15:34 Vulnerability is key when working with people, teenager, to break down these walls. 16:00 We are there to serve. 16:29 Share your own struggles, show our failures 17:00 What do you need right now? 17:21 Self-efficacy 19:00 Deepening Student Voice - Open Mic representing ALL students https://www.ascd.org/blogs/deepening-student-voice-and-empowerment 19:44 Voices that are stifled and we don't fit in that box. 20:31 Tiger metaphor 21:21 What's really happening with our students? ASK!! 22:22 Empowering solutions by disrupting the inequities of the school. 23:02 What identity do you want to learn more about 23:21 Social-emotional learning should be a part of every class. 23:49 Empower vs. stifle - less conflict 24:17 “Empowering student voices transform the learning from being an observer to being an initiator” 25:38 When we disagree, doesn't make our point invalid 25:50 Look past ourselves, there is still more work to be done. 26:20 Create a safe environment or students won't share Additional Sources: National Speech and Debate https://www.speechanddebate.org/explore-membership-students/ Additional Sources: National Speech and Debate https://www.speechanddebate.org/explore-membership-students/ Where Can I Find Matt? Twitter: @MrCapriolaOLCHS Charities: aidschicago.org and chicagolandlabrescue.org Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj YouTube: Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 308: "Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Toxic Male" with Tony Farinella

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2021 61:25


    Introductions: :42 Tony comes out of social media hiding 1:33 lost independence but gained it back 3:00 benefits of reconnecting with social media 3:16 love/hate relationship with social media 3:40 never just in one cliche 4:38 Stay true to yourself 4:55 Innocent story-Quiet chair in kindergarten 6:15 Amy's talks too much and disturbs others comments causing her to shut down 7:09 Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Teacher story 7:43 Stupid Situationship - Tony's in-laws 8:43 Life with no car 10:10 Trying to get others to like you futility 11:11 Working from home 12:00 Tony's profession 13:03 Lambeau, Tony's cat 13:30 1. Acting like a bully 16:20 Party peer pressure 16:40 Reared by an alcoholic 17:24 Old soul wise beyond his years 17:50 2. Avoiding Losing at all Costs 18:11 Wrestling manager 19:41 3. Restraining One's Emotions except for pride and anger 20:20 Nice guy vs. bad boy 20:47 President, CEO, chairman of the friend's zone 21:22 Let out your emotions 21:54 Story behind Tony's marriage 23:13 Relationships dying slowly are brutal 24:48 Like me for who I am 25:15 Men and the pursuit 25:55 Taking the plunge into marriage 26:09 Get your mental health right 28:46 Mental Health Stability 30:10 We are all a work in progress 31:40 4. Aggression in Conflict 33:49 How technology has contributed to anxiety 34:34 Benefits of therapy 35:27 Therapeutic Alliance 35:50 5. Dominance Over Other 36:12 The Uncommon Male 36:49 Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Boomer 38:08 False Perception of Black and White TV 39:19 When I was your age 40:10 6. Treating Women as Sex Objects 40:20 7. Resorting to Violence to Resolve Conflict 40:43 Katherine Hepburn “You can't have it all” 41:30 Amy's Fighting in classroom 43:43 You can't fake gravity 44:04 Amy's chipped tooth wrestling with her brother 45:03 Tony's first and last fight 46:00 8. “Boys will be Boys" 47:00 Respect for women 48:00 Good men out there 48:40 9. Feeling it's not okay to talk about your feelings 49:00 Self Awareness and Reflection 49:15 Always right? You're toxic 50:12 Insincere apologies are worse than no apology 51:00 Famous people with a gap in their teeth like Tony 51:59 Sit with your triggers 52:21 10. Homophobia 53:21 Wrecked by Star is Born 54:00 NFL Pink Attire 56:00 Be You- Sensitivity is because we are provoked 57:23 Narcissistic abuse 57:32 "Be Curious, Not Judgmental" Ted Lasso Where Can I FInd Tony? https://theultimaterabbit.com/411interviewer@gmail.com Amanda Crochets YouTube Channel https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=InwX8wdlGcI Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 307: "Ain't Gonna Be No Fearful Dude" with Rosemary Jepsen

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2021 28:19


    1:00 Introductions 1:33 Dude story 4:30 Trauma and the brain 6:50 Tooth Extraction story 11:29 Use your imagination 12:22 Physical reaction to fear 12:53 Misdiagnosed with anxiety 13:20 Six tips for how to overcome fear 13:36 Sit in your fear for 2-3 minutes 15:08 Rose and her baking expertise 16:10 Gratitude list 17:00 Anxiety is a storehouse of wisdom 17:44 Exercise 18:34 Humor-Worst Case Scenario thinking 19:10 Appreciate your Courage 19:30 Taming of the Shrew story 20:40 "The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom: a good understanding have all they that do his commandments: his praise endureth forever.” Psalm 111:10 21:02 "The Lord is my rock, and my fortress, and my deliverer” Psalm 18:2 22:22 Blessing from her uncle 22:52 "The Lord is my rock, and my fortress, and my deliverer" 1 John 4:18 23:02 Gospel music 23:15 "And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.” Romans 8:28 23:20 Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you." ... The LORD himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.” Deuteronomy 31:8 23:40 baking_rosemary list of desserts 24:19 Watermelon Jello How-To 26:21 Final Thoughts - Do not be discouraged when you go through a struggle because it's preparing you for the next step. Where Can I find Rosemary? baking_rosemary Where Can I Find Amy? Amy Perras Perras Scope, LLC www.amyperras.com Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping Podcast Pre-interview Questionnaire https://tinyurl.com/preinterview2020 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 306: "Ain't Gonna Retire During Covid Without Saying a Proper Good-Bye" with John Teeples

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2021 34:09


    4:43 AARP Discount at El Pollo Loco 5:44 John's retirement during the pandemic 6:29 Construction paper chain good-bye 10:00 Connecting with our students 11:51 We are not their friend but a mentor 12:01 What students need 12:17 Advice for first year teachers (and veterans) 13:22 Improve your lessons annually and take notes that day about how the lessons went 13:44 Don't be afraid to ask for help 14:07 John as a perfectionist in recovery and how he overcame 15:00 Poor first period 15:36 Start your first period after your prep period! That will free up your evening. 16:07 Copy machine mania 16:31 DeeO'HGee (John's dog) cameo! 17:34 Join a club as a co-advisor 18:15 C.A.T. cameos 19:15 Tips on fundraising 19:26 New Rules in California “Healthy Snacks” 20:46 One last message to his students 21:25 Virtual Graduation - Fun Fact: John was Valedictorian from his graduating class and Amy was Salutatorian 23:00 Amy's fear of retirement 23:59 How John processed his retirement date and why he retired at 55. 26:14 Attitude is so crucial 27:06 Staff meetings and changes for next year are so sweet in your last year. 28:03 Top plans in retirement-travel, docent program at L.A. Zoo, improv classes, photography, Disneyland. 3 Places to Travel -Buenos Aires -South Africa -All Disney park around the world 2 Two Animals at the Zoo -Snow Leopard -Tiger 1 Improv Game -Four Corners Where Can I Find John? Contact Amy. Where Can I Find Amy? Amy Perras Perras Scope, LLC www.amyperras.com Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping Podcast Pre-interview Questionnaire https://tinyurl.com/preinterview2020 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 305: "Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Zoomer" with Eric DelGatto

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2021 30:38


    *Introductions Innocent Stories 2:00 Eric, a former bully 2:02 "Hurt People, Hurt People 2:41 Killing people with kindness is so much better 4:00 Ms. Perras' memory of Eric in class 4:45 Responding vs. reacting 5:36 Stupid Situationship - Moving from Catholic school to public school 6:45 Don't judge a book by its cover, cliche but true 7:52 Improv actor, Eric, was one of the best actors 8:41 EMT journey 9:35 Thoughts as the enemy 9:45 How do you get in control of your mind? 10:28 Living in the moment 11:22 Responsibilities of an EMT/Firefighter *Teamwork *Use the equipment properly *Treat every patient as if they were your own family member 12:47 Greatest success story 14:06 Emergency situation tips 14:34 Most challenging call 16:30 Money for mental health is needed in all of our systems 17:12 What you thought the job was and what it is 19:33 How Can Bystanders Help or Hurt an Emergency Situation? 19:50 PUT AWAY YOUR PHONES! 20:22 Respect the dead 21:45 Final Thoughts - One question to think more deeply about: Do you love yourself? 23:10 Know your worth 25:10 Doesn't have three books "I Used to be a Miserable F*uck Go to any local book store and find a book that pops at you. Unf*ck Yourself Two TV Shows - Go on Youtube and find any motivational videos 26:45 Find Matthew McConaughey and Ray Lewis 27:30 1 Habit - Get off social media! Stop comparing yourself. 28:15 Doesn't like his own generation, Gen Z - PLAY OUTSIDE! Where Can I Find Eric DelGatto? Contact Amy for Eric deets Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 304: "Ain't Gonna Hold Me Down" with Amber Marquez

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2021 42:34


    Ain't Gonna Hold Me Down Introductions 1:44 Stupid Innocent Story 2:13 Misophobia 4:39 Stupid Situtationship 10:00 Don't get depressed over some circumstances for another opportunity is right around the corner 10:15 Don't let the first thought fly out of your mouth 10:45 Amber's journey as a Christian 11:28 Mom the driving force as a prayer warrior 12:10 Why Be Normal? 12:20 Beast Mode 14:00 Runners don't like the first mile either 14:18 Get your momentum is a metaphor for life 15:00 Bubble Wrap 16:04 Goals & Commitment 17:12 Run for a Goal 17:29 Mom's loss and gain in the best mentor 19:40 Running across country idea for charity 21:20 The Forgotten Woman, the cause 22:30 The satisfaction of the beauty industry 23:55 Old makeup 24:04 The Forgotten Woman explained 24:29 Girl's residence in their home 26:01 Donations for Halfway house story 26:38 GIve whatever you can 28:14 Going in whatever directions I want or doing what's right 28:20 Get out of jail free card 28:31 How to get out of grief 29:00 Worship leader 29:25 Tips for Staying Motivated During Workouts 30:27 Some people like a buddy but neither of us do 31:17 Push throught the pain (another metaphor for life) 31:40 Three Beauty Hacks Wear sunscreen as early as possible and reapply it Always wash your makeup off every night - because it ages you. Don't pull your hair back when wet due to bacteria. 35:45 Don't stress out about losing your hair or you'll lose more hair Two Books to Read Kingdom Series by Tony Evans (Kingdom Woman) Armor of God Bible Study One Habit to Adopt Make your bed and take a shower in the morning so you can accomplish more things throughout the day. Where Can I Find Amber Marquez? IG: Beauty @touchofgracebeauty IG: Beast Mode: @runforimpact Where Can I Find Amy Perras? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 303: "Ain't Gonna Be No News Without My Name" with Ibrahim Samra

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 16, 2021 47:29


    2:46 Innocent “Stupid” Story - The Snack Closet 4:13 Weird is a good thing, we're not “normal” 6:35 Situationship - The internship 11:47 Ibrahim's Journey as a Reporter 13:00 The camera is on you, beware of the competition 13:26 Blue eyes, dark hair “genetic freak” 14:22 Sister cameo 14:40 Discrimination in Springfield, Illinois 17:12 South Bend, IN 18:57 Palestinian conflict explained 20:42 Occupied by Zionists 21:12 Generosity of Palestinians 21:28 1968 Israeli Occupation - 1948 21:50 Killed and kicked people out of their homes 22:22 Rock throwing is all they have 22:48 National News bias - connotation of words 23:40 Not about religion-the religious folks stick together 24:00 It's a political and financial fight 24:59 How 911 caused more Muslim discrimination 25:23 Labels are so destructive 26:00 Protests 26:57 The Present - 20 min documentary 27:40 Caucasian fear 27:57 Award Winning Report on Ramadan during Covid 28:41 Ramadan - a time to submit yourself to God with fasting, prayer, repentance, giving, etc. 29:40 Hidden stories-purpose of this podcast 31:00 Hard reset grew our faith 32:32 Depression 32:38 Social Anxiety 33:42 Faith Alive Ministries-Pastor YPJ 34:34 Teacher training - learning how to pronounce names 35:54 Final Deep Thought: How far are you wiliing to go to do what you love and would you change your name? 38:44 The conversation after the interview with his sister, Layali. 42:00 Fun insider news stories 44:44 Social Media Drain 45:00 Living like a genius, engaging all senses Where Can I Find Ibrahim Samra? Facebook (Ibrahim Samra WNDU) Twitter @IbrahimSamra IG: Ibrahimsamratv Tik Tok: isamratv --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 302: Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Divorce with Errol Thompson

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2021 57:00


    4:13 1 – Maturity for Marriage 7:14 2 – Balance of Responsibility in Marriage 7:45 Eliminate the gender-specific responsibilities 9:50 3 – Making a Connection (Intimacy) 11:00 Be spiritually, mentally, emotionally naked in front of your spouse. 14:06 4 – Expectations 14:15 Hollywood endings vs. "Marriage is hard". 16:57 5 – Self-esteem and Self-Image in Marriage 17:17 Physical appearance and body image are influenced by outside sources. Put things into perspective. 21:30 6 – Learning How to Argue and Reason Together 21:45 Not a prizefight, it's sparring 25:08 7 – Communication in Marriage 26:17 Communicating honestly eliminates 70% of what problems we often have in marriage. 30:16 8 – Marriage and Money 32:32 Carpenter metaphor 33:33 “No one can serve two masters. Either you will hate the one and love the other, or you will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.” Matthew 6:24 34:52 “ For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs” (1 Tim 6:10). 38:02 9 – Touch and Affection 40:17 Fire metaphor 41:41 A message to the fellas 47:25 10 – Loyalty and Support 47:34 Infidelity is the Great White Shark in marriage 48:04 Faithfulness is one of the fruits of the spirit. Galatians 5: 22-23 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things, there is no law. 50:45 “He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake” Psalm 23:3 52:48 Luke 14:15–24 The Great Banquet Where Can I Find Errol Thompson? e-mail: wearekingdomstrong@gmail.com Twitter: @bekingdomstrong Instagram: @wearekingdomstrong Facebook (New!): The Kingdom Strong Blog Where Can I Find Amy Perras? www.amyperras.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 301: Ain't Gonna Be No, "I Wasn't Ready" with Errol Thompson

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 2, 2021 53:29


    Introductions 2:54 Life of the Party 3:23 Errol's Stupid Innocent Story 5:47 Errol's Situationship 9:47 Interpersonal Development 10:57 1. Punctuality and Time 11:56 Book of Genesis - Time has given us time so value it as a gift. 12:31 When we value our time, we make better decisions about what we value. 13:20 You show others you value them too. 14:18 Our core values are influenced by God's wisdom 14:37 God is good all the TIME, and all the TIME, God is good. 15:25 Time as a love language 15:45 Quality time 16:52 2. Work Ethic 17:55 Effort, practice, work 19:05 Practice your faith - Phil 2:12 continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling 20:02 3. Effort 20:20 Grace - unearned favor 22:15 4. Body Language 25:12 Developing Emotional Intelligence 26:45 5. Energy 29:23 High and Low Energy versus Negative and Positive Energy 34:15 Obnoxious Energy Examples 35:45 6. Attitude 35:50 Options not Force 36:50 Give feedback to partner with change 38:20 “What do you need from me?” 38:30 7. Passion 39:45 Dream Manager 40:16 8. Be Coachable 41:21 Have a good relationship with your coach 42:16 Proverbs 27:6 Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses. 43:58 9. Doing Extra 44:23 Under promise and over deliver 45:35 Put thought into your gifts 47:08 10. Be Prepared 49:33 Circle of friends who hold each other accountable Where Can I Find Errol? e-mail: wearekingdomstrong@gmail.com Twitter: @bekingdomstrong Instagram: @wearekingdomstrong Facebook (New!): The Kingdom Strong Blog (search: @thekingdomstrongblog) --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 212: Ain't Gonna Live Dirt Cheap Forever with Laura Sample

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2021 47:53


    Intros 4:39 Stupid Innocent Stories 6:00 The Meaning of the Name Laura Sample 7:58 Rear axle ratios 9:36 Steelsmith Brothers “Richest farmers in Latah County” 10:40 Millionaire Next Door 11:00 Amy's coffee in the car without coffee 13:22 Barry, the serial killer 15:30 As a mom accustomed to taking care of everyone else 16:00 Bought a Motorhome instead 19:26 How the motorhome was discovered 23:56 Parked near the beach and a dog beach! 24:34 What types of different locations traveled and parked 25:00 Walmart is safe because it has 24-hour security 26:36 Cost of gas to drive a motorhome 27:50 Are those footsteps on my roof? 30:33 Sheriff arrives lighting the place up like a stadium 31:30 The bike survived! 32:15 Benefits of Motorhome Living 32:40 You have everything you need 33:25 Creativity abounds - making it work with what you have like Apollo 13 46:43 You have to entertain yourself - painting and podcast downloads before off the grid 34:33 Own repairs on the RV 35:18 Cooking in an RV 37:12 Unencumbered yet Cumbersome 37:45 Driving a motorhome is like a 6 point earthquake every time you drive it. 38:06 Sewer hose emptying 38:27 Scar, owner of RV Park 41:11 Questions that Come from the First Documentary below: 1. When did I give so much meaning to stuff? 2. Who is the person I want to become and how will I define that when I'm there? 3. Who is truly important in my life? 4. Why have I been so disconnected 3-2-1 *****THREE Shows/Films to Watch on Netflix 1. Marie Kondo, Tidying Up https://konmari.com/ 2. Minimalism 3. The Minimalist Less is Now *****TWO Habits to Adopt 1. Start throwing away stuff one thing at a time. 2. Put your money in growth funds *****ONE: Question to Think About What would I do if money was no object and if you were not afraid? Where Can I Find Laura? Facebook https://www.facebook.com/dirtcheaplivin Lauralynnmac.com Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 211: Ain't Gonna Let Society Tell Me I Don't Have a Right to be Here with Kerrie Ann Murphy

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2021 45:37


    Stupid Innocent Stories Stupid Situationships https://um-insight.net/perspectives/has-%E2%80%9Chomosexual%E2%80%9D-always-been-in-the-bibl 11:42 “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength. The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.'[b] There is no commandment greater than these.” (Matt 12:30-31 NIV) 11:58 Pedophilia and Gang Rape 13:13 Levitical Law source 17:30 “Bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you” Luke 6:28 18:00 Everybody has a purpose 19:49 Going down the path with God. “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? (Matt 7: 1-3 NIV) 21:34 “Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me.” (Rev 3:20 NIV) 26:00 Bullying story 27:00 High school love 30:07 Loyalty vs. Love 30:55 Their happiness is not your responsibility 31: 46 Not by might nor by power, but by my Spirit,' says the LORD Almighty (Zec 4:6 NIV) 32:04 Adoption 35:00 Challenge to the heterosexuals who stand in judgment 41:00 Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.' All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments” (Matt 22: 37-40). 43:00 3-2-1 Three Books Two Shows/Videos: The Egg, Gray's Anatomy One Habit: Stop trying to look for things that could go wrong. Sources: http://religiousinstitute.org/denom_statements/homosexuality-not-a-sin-not-a-sickness-part-ii-what-the-bible-does-and-does-not-say/ https://www.iaffirm.faith/ https://www.ted.com/talks/sir_ken_robinson_do_schools_kill_creativity?language=en Where Can I Find Kerrie Ann? IG: k3rrieannmurphy https://kerrieannmurphy02.wixsite.com/thesearch Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 210: Ain't Gonna Lose My 20/20 Vision with Dave Kobelin

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2021 41:16


    Introductions 4:00 Younique 4:38 Pastor since 1984 5:00 Dave's initial mission statement 5:17: Younique Mental, Spiritual Discovery Experience 5:39 We can do a lot of things but what is our true passion? 6:12 What MUST I do? 6:18 Driving Force 6:31 Dave's mission [restoring identity] 7:03 Unshackle Identity 7:19 Greatest Joy 8:17 Identity Restoration Specialist 8:25 CPR 8:35 Our identities were stolen from us 8:50 Born again experience is needed and we all have this desire. 9:20 Successful Client-Salesman 9:45 Need to know my WHY… 10:09 Fulfillment comes from doing what I MUST do. 10:45 If our goals don't match our WHY, then they don't stick 11:15 “Not what we've done but who we've become” 11:30 Nail, screw, hammer, screwdriver metaphor 13:32 How do you find your why? 14:18 Car metaphor 16:00 Favorite part of coaching 17:29 Literal Eye Exam https://allabouteyes.com/6-eye-tests-basic-eye-exam/ 1. One Eye at a Time 2. Shines the Light - Look off in the distance 3. Perception of Light 4. Peripheral Vision Test 5. Puff in your Eye 19:30 Clearer Here or Clearer There? 20:20 [Ironically this falls on the 20:20 Minute Mark] Worst Case Scenerio Clients 21:21 The Struggle to Look Forward 21:54 Never given permission to dream 22:15 If you could, what would that look like? 22:36 You're doing it. What does that look like? 22:55 A couple of metaphors and a cliche 23:54 Our Nation Has Lost Our Vision 24:08 Where there is chaos, often in there is restoration and redemption. 24:35 John Adams-this nations can only exist of a religious and moral people. 25:15 What you focus on is what you get more of 25:36 What is it, moving forward can we do together that is going to honor and reflect our values that will include all of us. 26:03 Scab metaphor 26:25 Not about covering up but about healing—what are our values? 27:07 How to disagree without hating each other 27:27 Individual redemption-receive the love you were created in. 27:43 You cannot legislate a change of heart 28:26 MLK's clarity and walking in purpose 29:18 White Supremacy must be dismantled in order 29:50 Faith in humans? 29:59 How do you roll within your circle? 30:23 Deactivated FB and Twitter due to censorship 31:00 Interpretation of a message 34:04 Weight of the world on your shoulders 34:44 Fasting from Social Media 35:31 Every strength we have can become a weakness. 35:54 Balance is needed-be careful 36:50 Peace in living from who I am and feeding what I need 37:43 Imagine If 38:44 Dave is a telescope helping people to look into the distance. Where Can I Find Dave? Linkedin: Dave Kobelin www.davekobelin.com Books referenced: Daniel Hill's White Awake and White Lies --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 209: Ain't Gonna Subscribe to What You Think I Should Be with Marisa Bonney

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2021 49:22


    3:00 Stupid Story: Freckles and Lemons and Small Town Living - Suntan with aluminum foil and baby oil 4:14 Ignorance is Bliss 5:52 The Aging Stereotype 7:15 Situationships that Propel you into purpose 7:30 Divorce/Single motherhood 8:27 Our conditioning 8:58 When we know better, we do better 9:32 Trailblazer of how to recover from divorce 10:12 Hindsight is 20/20 - the valley 10:30 “Who We Are” is who we are. 10:52 Like an Onion - Fall off or build up walls 11:17 The beautiful sacrifice of motherhood 11:55 Cross Fit 12:25 Unbecoming 13:45 Makeover Contest/Modeling 16:14 Doors will open - but you need to have the courage to walk through them 17:15 Mission to Mars 18:18 Fitness Contest/Photoshoot 19:10 Fear Enters In 19:18 Why Not? 20:00 How Do You Get Over Fear? 22:54 What is your why? 24:30 How did Isagenix come about? 25:00 What is it you're looking for? Less stress? Better sleep? Vitamins? Weight loss? 25:45 Filling in the gap in our diet 26:26 Amy's inflammation story 27:59 Forks Over Knives 28:25 Starving Nutrionally 28:45 Collagen Special 29:38 Biodegradable Packaging 29:53 Gut Health, probiotics, collagen bone broth 30:22 Marine Collagen Elixir-Type 1 -zero preservatives-glass packaging 32:52 Six box after glow bundle $184 (2 month supply) $160 (4 box + shipping) 33:35 Why do we need collagen? (Lines/wrinkles/hydration + hair, skin, nails and tendons) 35:30 Evaluate your goals 37:33 4-3-2-1 Marisa recommends: Four Books The Carpenter-Jon Gordon Untamed - Glennon Doyle Business of the 21st Century Robert Kiyosaki Happily Ever After - Kristin Armstrong Three Bits of Advice 38:00 Never take advice from someone whose life you wouldn't want 38:30 What you think of me is none of my business 39:04 “Bless those who curse you…” (Luke 6:28) 39:20 What is coming is better than what is gone Two Things to Start Your Day Write down what you are grateful for Full yourself with a healthy breakfast One Thing You Cannot Live Without 42:05 Have a Plan B ONE MORE THING!!! Marreaux Drake “You can be, do, have and give anything you dream because God and greatness is inside of you. Where Can I Find Marisa? FB: Marisa Thomas Bonney IG: @marisathomasbonney Isagenix: marisabonney.isagenix.com Email: marisabonney@hotmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 208: Ain't Gonna Fit into One Niche; Have You Met Me? with Eric Kallenborn

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2021 50:40


    Introduction: Comic/Graphic Novel Discussion 4:39 Pushback incorporating graphic novels in the classroom? 6:48 Not just a gateway to literacy 7:00 Rare words per novel 8:00 S.E.L. in the English classroom 9:03 Tone/Mood 9:47 Student Growth 10:20 Jane Erye 11:08 Experiment: Moby Dick text vs graphic novels and Spark Notes Quiz 11:58 Difference between Comics {Sequential Art} and Graphic Novels 13:00 Multiple Intelligences 13:30 AP Lit Beowolf Graphic Novel vs. Traditional Adaptation (Text) Experiment 14:50 Spiderman Graphic Novel 14:59 More Books, More Books! 16:00 How do we adapt in remote learning in getting books to students? 16:33 Planning in a Pandemic 17:26 Comixology- https://www.comixology.com/ 18:36 How to Think Like DaVinci [A Genius] - Literary Expressions 19:17 Oreo Writing Assignment 20:14 Other Types of Writing Besides the FIve Paragraph Essay 20:45 Activating The Senses - Part of Thinking Like a Genius 21:07 Ronell Whitaker - Shout Out thecomicbookteacher.com 21:50 Research and boys—if they see dad reading, that's the ticket https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/reading-minds/201906/fathers-roles-in-reading https://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/ED513437.pdf Vegan Discussion 23:00 The Game Changers-Netflix 23:54 Forks over Knives-Netflix 24:00 Why Eric Chose to Become a Vegetarian 29:54 Eating Animals - Jonathan Safran-Foer Eric goes Vegan (No Dairy) 30:37 How Advertising Lies to Us 31:26 Follow @thekoreanvegan 32:16 Health Benefits of Veganism 32:47 Financially No More Expensive [if you follow certain sales] 33: 47 Gives Your Body a Spring Cleaning (Inflammation down) 35:12 Eating Meat and Dairy Epiphany - Open Your Mind to a World of Possibilities 35:00 Vegan Research Environmental: https://www.futurekind.com/blogs/vegan/17-environmental-benefits-of-veganism Health: Watch The Game Changers and Forks over Knives 36:50 Finer Things Club & Suggestions 39:16 Sharpen Your Analysis Skills 40:45 Rapid Fire Questions 44:30 3-2-1 Close: Three Vegan Dishes *Fall in Love with Chickpeas *Lean into Mexican Dishes *Make Neopolitan Pizza Crust Two Graphic Novels to Read *Here by Richard McGuire *Scott Pilgrim Series-Bryan Lee O'Malley One T.V. Show to Watch - *Cobra Kai - Netflix Where Can I Find Eric? Twitter: @comics_teacher Instagram: comics_teacher Website: www.theothercomicbookteacher.com YouTube Channel: Comics Teacher Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping Podcast Pre-interview Questionnaire https://tinyurl.com/preinterview2020 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 207: Ain't Gonna Let Covid Steal my Peace of Mind or Sanity with Mayra Flores

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2021 44:21


    3:29 Anti-bodies Test doesn't mean you cannot get Covid again The coronavirus mainly spreads face to face via infected droplets expelled in a cough or sneeze. https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/coronavirus-covid19-antibodies-immunity-infection-124304659.html https://www.deseret.com/u-s-world/2020/7/4/21310693/coronavirus-covid-19-antibodies-immunity-study 4:20 Donate Plasma for Plasma Transfusions—it saves lives! 4:47 Amy's anti-bodies test results… 5:12 Amy's “Stupid Story” “I've fallen and I can't get up" 6:30 Mayra's “Stupid Story” 7:57 The best age is the age you're at. 8:12 Mayra's Story 8:27 Mayra's sister had it in April. 9:01 Staying away from family was hard but she and her husband were super careful. 10:49 How Mayra got the virus 11:11 Trying to get tested rigamarole 11:46 Sore throat and cough 12:13 This cannot be happening, we have always been careful 13:19 Test results “negative” for Mayra and her husband 13:49 Horrible body aches, breathing issues, coughing, etc. ER visit #1 13:47 Mayra had no pre-existing conditions 14:18 Posts suggesting that Covid wasn't that serious 15:06 Coughing uncontrollably 15:25 At the ER 17:44 sent home from the ER with anti-biotics and heavy duty cough medicine 18:04 PTSD from watching mom have a heart attack 18:55 Return to the ER-grasping for air 19:40 Sending her back home AGAIN 20:05 Pneumonia diagnosis and cough attack while leaving the hospital-panic attack 21:21 Nurse “angel” doesn't let her leave 23:29 Virus feeds on fear 24:00 Anxiety discussion 25:20 In the hallways lying on stretchers 26:00 People still insisting on meeting with their families for Thanksgiving 28:00 Story of a Nurse with Covid doing LIVE Facebook videos and died. 33:33 Normal oxygen levels 35:00 Inoculum effect 36:00 Grateful for our husbands 36:48 Fanfare of Hallejuliah -Discharge 39:58 Read Psalm 91 and Plead the Blood of Jesus 40:00 Rapid Fire Questions: Last Show You Binged Watched - 90 Day Fiance and Latin America's Rock History on Netflix Night Owl or Early Bird? Neither Proverbs 18:21 puts it this way: “The tongue has the power of life and death.” The stakes are high. Your words can either speak life, or your words can speak death. Our tongues can build others up, or they can tear them down. An unchecked fire doubles in size every minute. Where Can I Find Mayra? Ask Amy. Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping Podcast Pre-interview Questionnaire https://tinyurl.com/preinterview2020 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 206: "Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Stick in the Mud" with Nick Soto

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 2021 41:46


    3:33 Nick growing up "white-passing" (half German/half Mexican). What it means to be me… 4:34 “When I discover who I am, I'll be free” (Ellison). 7:00 What it means to be a person of color… 8:50 “Perras-phrasing” 11:00 What and how much I had lost by trying to do what was expected of me rather than what I, myself, had wished to do” (Ellison). 11:16 What made Nick decide to do music. 13:06 Domino Effect - Interpersonal Relationships 14:00 Play the Game but don't believe in it, but don't believe in it (Ellison). 14:30 Personal Growth and Creativity go hand in hand. 14:30 Acting vs. Music 15:00 share my experience through music 15:30 Music with no lyrics also tells a story 15:50 New Project…Coming Soon… 16:23 Your words only go so far 16:35 Language within music - improv within jazz 17:00 Music explained 17:45 Finding your voice in a community 18:00 Shout out to Miguel, Freddie, Brandon, Sergio, and how to embrace criticism to help you grow. 18:54 Learning to walk and run-growing your knowledge base 19:27 Our task… (Ellison) 20:00 The masses won't create, the masses will consume. The individuals create. 20:40 Culture is community. 21:30 People's Party - Talid Kweli and JPEGMAFIA https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=BSNrub2Td6w&feature=youtu.be 22:00 The absurdity of life— just throw it out there and let it happen. 22:36 Self-fulfillment with your art 23.:20 Nick's failure moment but flew above the ashes like a phoenix 25:25 You need to hit a low in order to have clarity. 27:00 Practice things you're doing - Art of Islam 28:15 Find the art in anything 29:47 If you don't make life this big ole art piece, it's super hard to get through it. 30:30 Focus on your goals and it can be self-fulfilling 31:00 There is so much to learn or consume—get out of your funk and focus on it. 31:16 Be curious and a life long learner 31:48 3-2-1 Closure 3 ---Listen to an album fully—Go to a museum—reflect on yourself/meditate 2—Read The Alchemist (Paulo Coelho) and The Invisible Man (Ralph Ellison). 1——Keep your creative space separate from your resting space. 34: 23 Fire Questions: *Binge-Watch - Ramy *Tries to be a morning person *Snapshot of an ordinary moment that gives you true joy—Traveling the EL train *Grateful for—family & networking (growing up with three women!!) *One thing in 2021 you're gonna do differently that you didn't even do in 2019. Tell them I love and appreciate people. Where Can I Find Nick? @nickmsoto Spotify and Apple Music - Nick Soto Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 205: "Ain't Gonna Live Under the Curse of Religion" with Stephanie Cerda

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 25, 2020 58:59


    Disclaimer: We are not putting down anyone's religion. We are sharing the beauty of what Jesus wants for us in a relationship with Him beyond religiosity. Episode 205: Ain't Gonna Live Under the Curse of Religion with Stephanie of Steph it Up to Freedom 2:33 Shout out to Carney-Nadeau, Michigan “Stupid” Catholic Story - Skipping CCD by “Missing the Bus" 3:53 Fruit of the Spirit Award 6:00 Skipping Chapel 7:36 Stupid Situationship Story-Unemployment in 2020 10:36 Why did you become a Christian YouTuber if you hate church? 16:15 Galatians 3: 1-5 Discussions What has happened to you Galatians to be acting so foolishly? You must have been under some evil spell! Didn't God open your eyes to see the meaning of Jesus' crucifixion? Wasn't he revealed to you as the crucified one? 2 So answer me this: Did the Holy Spirit come to you as a reward for keeping all the Jewish laws? No, you received him as a gift because you believed in the Messiah. 3 Your new life in the Anointed One began with the Holy Spirit giving you a new birth. Why then would you so foolishly turn from living in the Spirit by trying to finish by your own works? 4 Have you endured all these trials and persecutions for nothing? 5 Let me ask you again: What does the lavish supply of the Holy Spirit in your life, and the miracles of God's tremendous power, have to do with you keeping religious laws? The Holy Spirit is poured out upon us through the revelation and power of faith, not by keeping the law! 18:18 We don't believe we are blameless in his sight. 19:13 I am your advocate to God. 21:45 We cannot give love without tapping into the source. 22:00 Our sinful desires can be anxiety, bitterness, resentment, etc. 22:55 Galatians The Word became flesh 28:15 Galatians 3:26 30:39 Love others like we love ourselves (but do we love ourselves?) 31:45 Self Rejection Freedom 32:22 Forgive others in order to be forgiven 38:11 “Over this religious stuff” 45:00 “No Parties” Covid Rules 46:59 Rules exist to guide us to love people better not to obey the laws. 49:00 Ohio State Fans-Packer Fans-Whose We Are Where Can I Find Stephanie? YouTube: Steph-it-up-to-FREEDOM https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSKvq7z0sGJEMdmZzk6m2Vw IG: @stephituptofreedom Podcast: Freed and Unafraid https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/freed-and-unafraid/id1536957995 Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 204: "Ain't Gonna Let Life Win" with Harry Cordero

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2020 46:49


    We discuss regrets but also Harry reads some of his writing and he lets me facilitate a life coaching session to get more clear on our values so our to-do list makes more sense. Harry is also extremely organized and creative. Those two gifts don't often go hand in hand. #opentowork 10:32 “That is why you're a screenwriter today” Save the Cat - Blake Snyder 12:02 How Schools are Failing: Fish to Climb a Tree metaphor 16:09 Values Intro 16:34 Back story about screenwriting 16:55 T.V. Film Degree 19:19 Faced with Temptation 20:05 Sample Life Coaching Session 20:43 Which animal would you be and why? 21:10 Cold Weather Love 21:44 Value #1 Nurturing Others 22:03 Value #2 Comfort 22:44 Which Super Hero would you be? Hulk and Batman 25: 14 Value #3 Communication 25:46 Value #4 Authenticity 26: 41 Value #5 Security #playboy #romance 27:30 Value #6 Romance 27:44 100 Year Birthday Party - What are they saying about you? #OCD #detailoriented #vocal #meticulous #giving 29:13 Value #7 Organization 30:00 Value #8 Responsibility 31:00 We ranked each value on a scale of 1 to 10 as to where he is currently living I but cut the ranking out and jumped to the "If you could move one value forward just one point that would have the greatest effect on all other values, which one would you pick? He picked "security" which lead to this action plan. 31:00 Action Plan 1. Find a Job-Actively Look at least one hour a day 2. Screenwriting-Write at least one hour a day (9-10 a.m.) 3. Avoid Temptations 34:55 Pomodoro Technique 36:05 I am unfinished - on a journey 36:23 Life kicks you when you're down and never helps you up. 37:46 Session Ends 37:56 Rapid Fire 1. One thing on your bucket list? 2. One thing you hate about 2020. Brilliant 2020 metaphor here******************WATCH! 3. One thing you love about 2020. 4. Favorite summer activity 5. One thing you bought under $100 - stumped him but we decided his two French bulldogs were his favorite. Yankie and Dukie Cameo CELTX - Screenwriting software 44:29 My play idea—live one-woman Improv Show (probably for a fringe festival) with audience participation--a different show every night. Where can we find Harry and Yankee? IG: @asapcordero and @yankeethebulldog Where Can I Find Amy? Amy Perras Perras Scope, LLC www.amyperras.com Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping Podcast Pre-interview Questionnaire https://tinyurl.com/preinterview2020 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 203: "Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Self" with Naihal

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2020 43:33


    Naihal Wajid is a creative working in the nonprofit sector. Born and raised near Chicago, she's on a mission to give back to her local community through art, marketing, and opening the door for tough conversations.   #tastetherapy #metoo #cptsd #bodyandsoul #disassociation #shakespeare #grounding #cptsd #metoo #rape #asyoulikeit   Sources:  The Presentation of Self in Everyday Life - Erving Goffman   "All the World's the Stage" William Shakespeare from As You Like It   Manage Your Day-to-Day: Build Your Routine, Find Your Focus, and Sharpen Your Creative Mind by Jocelyn K. Glei  Unfuck Yourself - John Gary Bishop   How to Be a Badass at Making Money - Jen Sincero    Where Can I Find Naihal?  IG: @naihal #ninieats #ninishoots   Linked in: Naihal Wajid   Where Can I Find Amy?  Amy Perras Perras Scope, LLC  www.amyperras.com   Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman  https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj  Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel  https://bit.ly/3fT6v31  Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping  Podcast Pre-interview Questionnaire  https://tinyurl.com/preinterview2020 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 202: "Ain't Gonna Be Just a Survivor; I'm Gonna Thrive" with Jamie Lewis MD

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2020 41:23


    Jamie Lewis is a Palliative medicine MD, C-IAYT candidate, certified yoga instructor, promoting healthcare professionals wellness & holistic cancer care for patients. We discuss all things mindful, peaceful, restorative, and how to reconnect with your mind, body, and spirit. Jaime also has free virtual yoga classes on Sunday night (donation only). Where Can I Find Jamie? http://www.instagram.com/jaime_mdyogi/ OR http://www.linkedin.com/in/jaime-k-lewis-304497b4 Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 201: "Ain't Gonna Let Fear Rob Me From My Purpose" with Lorena Galaviz

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2020 27:28


    Where Can I Find Lorena? Tik Tok: @lorenasvision IG: Wreaths https://www.instagram.com/wreathsnbeyond/ Changing Your Mindset Motivation IG: https://www.instagram.com/visionswithlorena/ Etsy Shop: https://www.etsy.com/shop/WreathsnbeyondCrafts?ref=search_shop_redirect #anxiety #mindset #mindfulness #breathing #Jesus #voiceofGod #art #wreaths #tiktokWhere Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 113: "Ain't Gonna Suffer Through Menopause" with Dr. Michelle Gordon

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 28, 2020 48:01


    1:00 Hollywood's View of Women 1:28 The Meno System 2:07 Beta Course Link https://beta.menopausemovement.com/sf/f825fb62?pid=ai496HDq 2:50 Menopause is Not a Medical Condition 3:40 Let's Break the Silence Around Menopause 3:55 “An Alien Has Come Down and Taken Control of My Body” 5:35 Intermittent Fasting for Today's Aging Woman 7:12 There is No One Size Fits All 8:50 Make Peace With Our Bodies 9:02 Where Our Attention Goes, Our Energy Flows 9:16 Disrupt Thought Processes 9:28 Pick One Thing 10:28 Stop the Self Loathing 11:22 Don't Loathe the Food You Eat 13:41 Advice for Child Bearing Women-Take a Parenting Class 14:32 Whole Brain Child by Daniel J. Siegel 15:10 Hot Flashes - Menopause is treated by symptoms. 15:23 It's not a medical condition but a phase of our lives. 16:16 Shame 16:46 Losing Our Libido 18:10 Hot Flashes-SSRI Recommended 19:05 Mental Health Stigma 21:43 The First Covid Wave in New York and Treatments...Please, Where a Mask! 24:24 Brain Fog and Insomnia 24:35 Diet and Meals 26:50 Sleep Tips: 27:27 4-7-8 Breath 27:57 The Pause-10 Slow Deep Breaths Then Speak Proverbs 15:1 Respond gently when you are confronted and you'll defuse the rage of another. Responding with sharp, cutting words will only make it worse. 31:30 Weighted Blankets 32:07 Lacking Human Connection? Do Havening to Release Oxytocin 33:06 Hormones 33:48 Mood Swings is more of an Existential Crisis ( Who Am I? Why Am I Here? What Do I Do?) 35:05 Put a Finger Down (Never Have I Ever) 37:34 Three Habits to Adopt 38:20 1. A Spiritual Practice with Visualization-Three Year Increments 41:06 Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me. (Revelation 3:20) 41:18 2. Reading one hour a day 41:55 3. Move Your Body (Cognitive decline is directly related to lack of movement) Bonus: Get off vegetable oil!!!!—poison (fast food) Use Coconut or Olive-pure oil. 43:37 Two Books to Read 43:40 1. Autobiography of a Yogi - Paramahansa Yogananda 44:30 2. Success Principles by Jack Canfield 45:00 One T.V. Show to Watch 1. Gaia - Becoming Supernatural One Final Thought: To Always Examine, Who Am I Being in this Moment? Is it the person that I idealize myself to be? If it is the person I idealize, would she make that choice? Where Can We Find Dr. Michelle Gordon? The Menopause Movement Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-menopause-movement-podcast/id1471592943 FB: Dr. Michelle Gordon*****Twitter: Michelle E Gordon*****IG: Dr. Michelle Gordon Where Can I Find Amy Perras? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping Podcast Pre-interview Questionnaire-Want to Be My Next Guest for Season Two? https://tinyurl.com/preinterview2020 *Disclaimer: Views in this episode may or may not represent views of the host. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 112: “Ain't Gonna Forget the Benefits of Therapy with Therapist Julie

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 21, 2020 36:59


    Julie Villarejo and I talk about how we need to get to therapy before we hit rock bottom and it's truly a form of self-care. Don't let lack of insurance or money stop you for the resources below are free. 7:06 Man's Rejection is God's Protection 10:06 Stigmas Around Therapy 10:11 “Where there is no counsel, the people fall, but in the multitude of counselors there is safety” (Prov 11: 14 KJV) 10:20 "The senseless fool treats life like a joke, but the one with living-understanding makes good choices. Your plans will fall apart right in front of you if you fail to get good advice. But if you first seek out multiple counselors, you'll watch your plans succeed." (Prov 15: 21-22 TPT) 10:57 Stigmas of Therapy 14:07 Honor Ourselves While in Therapy 15:39 How It Helps You Grow 22:08 Benefits of Coming to Counseling 25:25 Learn How to Create Boundaries 28:00 Don't Should on Yourself 28:45 -Boundaries by Henry Cloud and John Townsend Hotlines: National Suicide Prevention Hotline - 1-800-273-8255 Crisis Center for South Suburbia (Chicago area) 708-429-7233 National Domestic Violence Hotline - 1-800-799-7233 or Live Chat Love is Respect -1-866-331-9474 or Text 22522 Where Can I Find Julie? Contact Amy Perras Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping Podcast Pre-interview Questionnaire https://tinyurl.com/preinterview2020 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 111: "Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Content Creator" with Tim Krull

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2020 37:49


    11:30 Raw Emotion of Poetry 12:05 Depression and Anxiety 12:42 Creativity as an Outlet 13:05 You are Not Alone 15:25 Batnips Productions - Sheperds Pie 16:05 Video Games 19:00 That's High School 20:00 Cooking Show-WATCH!!! Concise and Creative 20:57 Vlogging 22:49 Video Game Commentating 24:00 Improv 25:13 Finding Your Voice 26:20 Perfection is the Enemy to Progress 26:40 As Soon as You Get Comfortable, Change Your Material 28:30 Poetry Interpretation - Tim's Latest Creation (It's okay to feel and know you're not alone) · One poet · One musician · One actor Tim's Three Takeaways Three Books We Should Read: 1. Feed - Matthew Tobin Anderson 2. Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy - Douglas Adams 3. Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman - Amy Perras Two T.V. Shows to Watch on Netflix 1. Maniac 2. BoJack Horseman One Habit to Adopt 1. Do it (Stop Procrastinating) Where Can We Find Tim? Subscribe to Batnips Productions (Excellent Cooking Shows and check out That's High School below) https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCheybJVNofbZXmXXDIk_mEg Film made by Nick Grijalva and Amy Perras for Red Ribbon Week 2010. That's High School Part 1 (Amy at :58 seconds) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6QQJqtkZ1N8&t=51s That's High School Part 2 (Dukie at :1) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Txfuz-mVb6E That's High School Part 3 (Tim at 3:26) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pmnw_mk7TP4 Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping Podcast Pre-interview Questionnaire https://tinyurl.com/preinterview2020 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 110: "Ain't Gonna Be A Christian Who Won't Access All Its Benefits" with Tammy Massey

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2020 42:52


    Intro: Proverbs 31 Woman 16:59 Benefit #1 Healing, Restoring, Renewing 17:10 Psalm 103: 2-3 20:12 The Black Woman Pain Threshold https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov 22:11 Benefit #2 Jesus Counters the Lies Because He is the Truth (John 14:6) 22:31 Proverbs 18:21 23:47 Isaiah 53:3 26:07 Isaiah 55:11 26:48 Mark 11: 22-25 30:18 Benefit #3 The Word of God is Alive - It cannot return to Him void) 31:16 James 5:16 33:07 Benefit #4 Our Health 33:26 Matthew 17:20 Faith of a Mustard Seed 35:05 Benefit #5 Our Testimony and the Blood of Jesus 35:21 Who is Jesus? Read The Book of John (The last gospel) 36:04 Matthew 9: 20-22 40:57 Sierra makes a Cameo! Where Can I Find Tammy? Instagram: @truluv4jc Facebook: www.facebook.com/truluv4jc LinkedIn: Tamesha Massey Personal Blog: sharetamshare.blogspot.com Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 109: "Ain't Gonna Let My Ugly Heart Ruin This World" with Shatha

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 31, 2020 48:22


    Alternatives to Going Back to the Building in August 2020: Instead of risking our lives by going back to school during Covid, first quarter could be a discovery project tied to S.E.L, racial equity and emotional intelligence. Discovery Projects/Inquiry Based Learning Learners draw on own past experience and existing knowledge to discover facts and relationships and new truths to be learned. Share Your Story: “There isn't anyone you couldn't love once you've heard their story. ” Mary Lou Kownacki Work by Helping Each Other Through This Time: S.E.L. for staff, self and students. 16:00 You have a robust emotional vocabulary. 16:19 You're curious about people. 18:32 You Embrace Change 21:15 Don't Have Shame Over Your Weaknesses 22:53: Good Judge of Character 23:59 You're Difficult to Offend 24:30 You Easily Can Say No 26:29 You Let Go of Mistakes 28:00 You Give and Expect Nothing in Return 35:00 You Don't Hold Grudges 35:40 You Neutralize Toxic People 36:32 You Don't Seek Perfection 37:42 You Appreciate What You Have 37:57 You Disconnect 38:42 You Limit Your Caffeine Intake 40:06 You Get Enough Sleep 41:06 You Stop Negative Self-Talk In Its Tracks 42:15 You Won't Let Anyone Limit Your Joy 43: 10 Final Takeaway Quran and Bible Mentioned: “Serve God...and do good – to parents, kinsfolk, orphans, those in need, neighbors who are near, neighbors who are strangers, the companion by your side, the wayfarer (that you meet)...” [The Holy Qur'an] 30 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.'[a] 31 The second is this: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.'[b] There is no commandment greater than these.” Mark 12:30-31 Don't forget to show hospitality to strangers, for some who have done this have entertained angels without realizing it! Heb 13:2 NLT Community Service Project: Build Free Mini Libraries Around Town https://tinyurl.com/minilibraries Racial Inequality and Heart Changes: Excellent Resources http://www.pb-resources.com/ Eradicating Covid Research South Korea Lead the World in Covid-19 Eradication https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2020/05/whats-south-koreas-secret/611215/ New Zealand says Coronavirus ‘Eliminated', to Lift Most Curbs https://www.reuters.com/video/watch/idOVCHIM8U9 Social Emotional Learning-Five Pillars https://tinyurl.com/seldiscoveryproject2020 Eighteen Signs You High Emotional Intelligence https://www.success.com/18-signs-you-have-high-emotional-intelligence/ Where Can I Find Shatha? IG and Twitter: OLCHSMsOdeh Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping Podcast Pre-interview Questionnaire https://tinyurl.com/preinterview2020 --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 108: "Ain't Gonna Forget the Lessons From Our Grandmothers" with Jodi Perras

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2020 43:24


    We explore our paternal French Canadian history of tragedy, scandal and triumph through stories about our grandmothers dating all the way back to the 1600s. 7:14 Helene Desportes 11:31 Look at History From All Perspectives, Not Just the White Lens 12:19 Marie Denise Lemaître 14:21 Woman are Caregivers and Savvy Business Owners. 15:43 Marie Amelié "Minnie" Gamache 19:28 Don't Let Societal Expectations Pressure You Into Marriage 18:49 Hubert Perras 20:17 Tragedy Strikes 21:00 Lillian Perras Kuenne 23:09 The Orphanage 25:48 Clara Reinhard Walls “Grandma Perras” 31:25 When Life Gives You Lemons, Make Lemonade-Grandma Lilli 29:30 Jim Perras (Dad) 32:28 Ordinary People Can Do Extra Ordinary Things-Clara Reinhard Walls (Grandma Perras) 33:43 Della Buckley 36:18 Be a Part of Something Bigger Than Yourself Amy's Recommended Readings:  The Awakening by Kate Chopin https://www.gutenberg.org/files/160/160-h/160-h.htm  “The Yellow Wallpaper” by Charlotte Perkins Gilman https://www.gutenberg.org/files/1952/1952-h/1952-h.htm Audience Comments Answering, “What was some of the best advise you learned from your grandmothers?” “We were best friends, very close, and I can't remember one piece of advice. That generation didn't helicopter, but let kids figure it out on their own and I think that helped us mature at a much younger age. If there was a lot of advice, it was so subtle, I didn't notice. Parents back then taught by example. There were also many things that you just "knew", like making money as soon as you could to help pay your expenses and save for college. Sally Nauta Minnix “Same pants you get mad in, you'll get glad in.” “Don't worry about something until there's something to worry about.” “If it's meant to be, it will be.”  Patty Shafer “Put one foot in front of the other and give the rest up to God” Jamie Lynn Where Can I Find Jodi? Twitter @jodiperras Linkedin: Jodi Perras Facebook: Mono M. Monkey, World Traveler Jodi's Professional Accomplishments:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FkwSRqibTCE Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid  Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid *********************************** Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 107: "Ain't Gonna Lose My Saltiness" with Carolyn Deck

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2020 52:55


    “You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot.” Matt 5:13 9:36 Salt Property #1 Gives Flavor  16:00 Check your R.P.M.s - Relationships-Physical-Mental  16:48 You are the air traffic controller of your own life.  17:20 Psalm 91: 4 He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart. 17:56  17:50 Salt Property #2 Preservative  18:25 Andy Stanley - Belief – Action = Outcome “You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father's desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies.” John 8:44  21:21 Salt Property #3 Makes Us Thirsty  25: 21 Refiners Fire - “The crucible is for silver, and the furnace is for gold, and the LORD tests hearts” Prov 17:3  23:53 Writing is Like Milking a Cow  27:00 Salt Property #4 & 5  Gives Life & Purifies  28:36 Enneagram https://www.eclecticenergies.com/enneagram/test  Books by Suzanna Stabile • The Path Between Us Suzanna Stabile • The Road Back to You 30:00  “They triumphed over him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony; they did not love their lives so much as to shrink from death.” Rev 12: 11 32: 31  “The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?” Jeremiah 17:9 32:47 “Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks” Matt 12:34 KJV  33:47 Salt Property #6 Unites  38:18 “Then the word of the LORD came to Jonah a second time: 2 “Go to the great city of Nineveh and proclaim to it the message I give you.” Jonah 3: 1-2  39:00 You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me… Deuteronomy 5:9  41:14 Find Out What Your Name Means  43:09 "Far above all rule and authority, power and dominion, and every name that is invoked, not only in the present age but also in the one to come." Ephesians 1:21 NIV  44:41 "Whoever belongs to God hears what God says. The reason you do not hear is that you do not belong to God. ... The reason why you do not hear them is that you are not of God.” John 8:47   “All this I will give you,” he said, “if you will bow down and worship me. Jesus said to him, “Away from me, Satan! For it is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God, and serve him only.' Then the devil left him, and angels came and attended him.” Matt 4:9-11  “We have become the unmistakable aroma of the victory of the Anointed One to God—a perfume of life to those being saved and the odor of death to those who are perishing.” 2 Corin 2: 15  Salt Property #7 Strong Where Can I Find Carolyn Deck? IG: carolyn.deck Where Can I Find Amy Perras? www.amyperras.com Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 IG: @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 106: "Ain't Gonna Let My Boston Steal My Heart: Love, Dogs & The Pursuit of a Green Card" with Esther Aguilar

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 9, 2020 59:22


    Esther Aguilar (a.k.a. Tina from Bob's Burgers) and I talk about surviving Covid (her), dog attacks (Dukie), border patrol (me) and the process of becoming a U.S. citizen. Our dogs and her cat even make a cameo!   Resources: "Talking to Strangers," Maxwell Gladwell   Dream Relief Day https://news.wttw.com/tags/dream-relief-day  Immigration Myths https://www.businessinsider.com/immigration-myths-open-us-borders-debunked-2018-8#myth-1-theyre-all-terrorists-1   Ten Myths About Immigration https://www.tolerance.org/magazine/spring-2011/ten-myths-about-immigration   Immigrant Justice is Racial Justice https://www.defineamerican.com/   Netflix - Living Undocumented   Bob's Burgers https://tinyurl.com/bobsburgerstina Idiom of the Day: No Te Hagas Pato You can find "Tina" through Amy. Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 105: "Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Teenager" with Theo Barnes

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2020 49:20


    Where Can I Find Theodore Barnes? Currently: ABC: The Goldbergs Reruns:  Legendary Dudas Nicky, Ricky, Dicky and Dawn The Prince of Peoria IG: @theodorejbarnes Tik Tok: theodorejbarnes IMDB: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm5680310/ Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid  Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 104: "Ain't Gonna Live With A Savior Complex" with Coach Toni Pelayo

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2020 34:43


    Resources from Today's Show: White Savior: Racism in the American Church trailer https://medium.com/@namenzie/why-you-need-to-watch-this-documentary-on-racism-in-the-american-church-5171a78d6ea8 Five Ways to Tell If You Have White Savior Complex https://hiplatina.com/white-savior-complex-is-real/ Books recommended by Toni Pelayo Discover Your God Given Gifts by Don & Katie Fortune https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B0033E14KU&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_L5P8Eb59JFJ25 Keep Your Love On: Connection Communication And Boundaries by Danny Silk https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B011AA2I6C&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_E6P8EbYT7ZX9V Where Can I Find Toni? Instagram: @tonipelayo_coach Facebook Toni Jones-Pelayo tonipelayo.com Psalm 23:3 he refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name's sake. Where Can I Find Amy? Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping Proverbs 7:4 (TPT) Say to wisdom, “I love you,” and to understanding, “You're my sweetheart.” --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 103: "Ain't Gonna Be A Performative Anti-Racist Educator" with Patti Minegishi-Delacruz

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 20, 2020 37:02


    Patti Minegishi-Delacruz and I discuss enduring understandings from our remote learning/teaching experiences and practical choices we aim to make in order to practice (not just preach) culturally-sustaining pedagogy during the next school year.   Resources:  Dr. Bettina Love's Bio: https://bettinalove.com/   Teachers, We Cannot Go Back to the Way Things Were by Dr. Love:  https://www.edweek.org/ew/articles/2020/04/30/teachers-we-cannot-go-back-to-the.html     Patricia Hill Collins: https://www.dukeupress.edu/intersectionality-as-critical-social-theory   My Utmost for His Highest - Oswald Chambers   Do Schools Kill Creativity? https://www.ted.com/talks/sir_ken_robinson_do_schools_kill_creativity?language=en   Servant Humility John 13: 12-17 12 After washing their feet, he put his robe on and returned to his place at the table.[e] “Do you understand what I just did?” Jesus said. 13 “You've called me your teacher and lord, and you're right, for that's who I am. 14–15 So if I'm your teacher and lord and have just washed your dirty feet, then you should follow the example that I've set for you and wash one another's dirty feet. Now do for each other what I have just done for you. 16 I speak to you timeless truth: a servant is not superior to his master, and an apostle is never greater than the one who sent him. 17 So now put into practice what I have done for you, and you will experience a life of happiness enriched with untold blessings!” Where Can I Find Patti? Evanston High School (or through Amy). Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping Proverbs 7:4 (TPT) Say to wisdom, “I love you,” and to understanding, “You're my sweetheart.” --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 102: "Ain't Gonna Stand By Anymore" with Bishop Ed Smith

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 15, 2020 33:02


    Bishop Ed and I have a conversation about two forms of justice: for a penalty (slap on the hand) but also justice for helping others: orphans, widows, sojourners, refugees, etc. and how can we be more helpful in practical areas right where we are, breaking generational curses, renewing our minds and living in our authority in Jesus Christ.  By reflecting not deflecting, we can truly make a difference by listening to each other. Book of John 4 -Woman at the Well/Living Water  “I must go through Samaria”. Who I am in Christ (Authority in Christ) https://vintagelawrence.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/01/ANDERSON_WhoIAmInChrist.pdf Nehemiah Project Mentoring Training https://www.awyken.com/product-page/coachtraining?fbclid=IwAR0jCpaJdj3XI4x1K3mGKF4NLCw0PASudXSp1R4GiBFQuX5gWmOaKJPR-4g Where Can I Find Bishop Ed Smith? www.zcf.org Where Can I Find Amy? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

    Episode 101: "Ain't Gonna Hold My Tongue Anymore" with Amanda Moncada-Perkins

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2020 44:30


    Amanda R. Moncada-Perkins discusses how it is not enough to be “not racist,” but that we are all duty-bound to be proactively “anti-racist,” which requires us to actively fight against racism in every form. Where Can I Find Amanda? LinkedIn: Amanda R. Moncada-Perkins Facebook: A.R. Moncada-Perkins Instagram: @ar_moncada Website: www.stoutegy.com Resources for more information regarding this episode: tps://www.denisonforum.org/resources/what-does-the-bible-say-about-racism The Book of Jude The Book of Zephaniah Where Can I Find Amy Perras? www.amyperras.com Linkedin: Amy Perras Twitter: @perras_scope IG @aintgonnabenostupid Tik Tok @aintgonnabenostupid Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid Woman (Book) https://amzn.to/2Np4aRj Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid podcast https://spoti.fi/2Nt4nTm Ain't Gonna Be No Stupid YouTube Channel https://bit.ly/3fT6v31 Coaching Session https://tinyurl.com/perrasscoping --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/aintgonnabenostupid/support

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