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**Dark Indulgence 06.19.22 Industrial | EBM| Dark Techno Mixshow by Scott Durand featuring brand new music from Latenite Automatic | spankthenun | Zwaremachine | Mi.ro | Phase fatale | Analog 80 | Leathers | Eklekticue | Jimi Jules | Black Cats | Minimal Violence | Candy Riot | Antiflvx | Obscure Nexus & more! Please remember to REPOST | FAVORITE & SHARE to help spread the new music!** .mas - 121 A Latenite Automatic - Gravity spankthenun - I SELF ME (define.human remix) Markus Gibb - B Side Analog 80 - Angel Of Death Obscure nexus - Flower of destruction Duncan Gray Feat. Dominic Silvani - Gone & Forgotten (Jack Butters Remix) AIRMANN - The Blackening Candy Riot - Only You Austin Digo - Northern Lights Phase Fatale - The Drowned World (Teste Remix) Tiempo De Maldad - Soufi (Freudenthal Remix) Uncarnate - Deep Green Antiflvx ft Ambivalencia - Silueta de Luz COGEX - GREEN (FaceXHugger Remix) AckerMan & Kushitz & Rakovsky - Dalkan Sonol (Original Mix) Dino Lenny - You Little Punk (Original Mix) Leathers - Runaway Halina Rice - Drive [Richard Norris remix] MI.RO - Conversation (Blavatsky & Tolley Remix) BadWolf Feat. Soff - Dame Mas (Original Mix) Bufi - Horsepower Eklekticue - Mads Dance Negartodo - Lxs pacxs llegaron ya! Jimi Jules - Too Far (Original Mix) John Lord Fonda ft Gabriel Afathi - Together Again LorD and Master ft Neil Francis - Green Light (Nature of Wires Remix) Black Cats - Carne radioactiva Victor Ruiz - Hope (Original Mix) Nasty King Kurl - Devonian Formato Negativo - Zterbem Kalathos - Biphasique Zwaremachine - Parasol (Visible Doom Remix by Martiné) Minimal Violence ft Mad Johnny - Flatline
**Dark Indulgence 06.19.22 Industrial | EBM| Dark Techno Mixshow by Scott Durand featuring brand new music from Latenite Automatic | spankthenun | Zwaremachine | Mi.ro | Phase fatale | Analog 80 | Leathers | Eklekticue | Jimi Jules | Black Cats | Minimal Violence | Candy Riot | Antiflvx | Obscure Nexus & more! Please remember to REPOST | FAVORITE & SHARE to help spread the new music!** .mas - 121 A Latenite Automatic - Gravity spankthenun - I SELF ME (define.human remix) Markus Gibb - B Side Analog 80 - Angel Of Death Obscure nexus - Flower of destruction Duncan Gray Feat. Dominic Silvani - Gone & Forgotten (Jack Butters Remix) AIRMANN - The Blackening Candy Riot - Only You Austin Digo - Northern Lights Phase Fatale - The Drowned World (Teste Remix) Tiempo De Maldad - Soufi (Freudenthal Remix) Uncarnate - Deep Green Antiflvx ft Ambivalencia - Silueta de Luz COGEX - GREEN (FaceXHugger Remix) AckerMan & Kushitz & Rakovsky - Dalkan Sonol (Original Mix) Dino Lenny - You Little Punk (Original Mix) Leathers - Runaway Halina Rice - Drive [Richard Norris remix] MI.RO - Conversation (Blavatsky & Tolley Remix) BadWolf Feat. Soff - Dame Mas (Original Mix) Bufi - Horsepower Eklekticue - Mads Dance Negartodo - Lxs pacxs llegaron ya! Jimi Jules - Too Far (Original Mix) John Lord Fonda ft Gabriel Afathi - Together Again LorD and Master ft Neil Francis - Green Light (Nature of Wires Remix) Black Cats - Carne radioactiva Victor Ruiz - Hope (Original Mix) Nasty King Kurl - Devonian Formato Negativo - Zterbem Kalathos - Biphasique Zwaremachine - Parasol (Visible Doom Remix by Martiné) Minimal Violence ft Mad Johnny - Flatline
It's New Tunesday: new releases from the past week! Give the bands a listen. If you like what you hear, support the bands! Today's episode features new releases by Analog 80, Blind Passenger, Blondeking, Comfort Cure, Conscience, Das Fortleben, Ginger Snap5, Graflex, Grey Gallows, Hatemagick, Holocoder, House Of Harm, The Last Years, Latenite Automatic, Lucidward, Machine Made Pleasure, Matt Hart, Matteo Tura x Biomechanimal, Metal Disco, Nayio Bitz, NITE, Purification System, Reakton, Retro Electro, Rodney Cromwell, Savage Grounds, Silent Auction, Simon Carter And Fabsi, Stabbing Westward, Stereoskop, Stillnox, Symptom Eskalation, SynthAttack, Teknovore, This Is The Bridge, and VEI Scale!
James Swanwick is an Australian-American investor, entrepreneur, speaker, former SportsCenter anchor on ESPN and host of The James Swanwick Show podcast. He is the creator of the 30 Day No Alcohol Challenge, which helps people reduce or quit alcohol; and creator of blue-blocking glasses Swannies by Swanwick Sleep, which improve your sleep. Swanwick has interviewed celebrities including Brad Pitt, Angelia Jolie, George Clooney and Arnold Schwarzenegger. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Connor asks... Could you share a defining moment for you? - 3:22 What is the mentorship and relationships like in an all-boys school? - 8:48 Why did you move to London? - 12:35 Can share some insights on your experience of interviewing? - 17:07 Could you share with us how and why you created the 30 day no alcohol challenge? - 31:18 Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Jim Sheils is the business partner of Brian Scrone (who we’ve previously had on) of the organization called Board Meetings, which helps Entrepreneurs and professionals deepen their relationships with their families with their partners with their loved ones. In this episode, we chat with Jim mostly about how he manages to balance work and home life. Jim shares some incredible stories not only for his own personal life but from people that he's worked with through the work that he does. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Connor asks... Could you share a defining moment for you? (3:20) What led you to wanting to adopt your kids? (3:50) Could you share some of the businesses that you started and give us some insight in your success? (11:45) What are "rhythms" and how does that benefit your family life? (18:40) What are "sanity pillars"? (35:30) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Aside from being a razor-sharp entrepreneur, Brian Scrone is a certified yoga instructor in Siddha Yoga, which is rooted in meditation and most importantly, selfless service. Brian has integrated his knowledge and passion of his yoga and meditation practice as well as the importance of selfless service into the core principles of Board Meetings International. www.boardmeetings.com Brian has always focused on living a healthy and whole life, and he made the conscious decision to build his life and successful business around holistic principles, not the other way around. From the moment you meet Brian, you immediately feel his kind, caring nature and it quickly becomes apparent that he is committed to enriching as many lives as possible using experiential education and the key success principles that are shared throughout all Board Meetings International retreats. In addition to revamping the education system, Brian still plans to travel the world (so far he’s traveled to South America, Asia, Africa, Australia, New Zealand), volunteer extensively (yes, he’s worked with crocodiles in a bush conservation project in Botswana and shrimping villages in Thailand after the Tsunami) and of course chase as many waves as possible! Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Connor asks... Could you share a defining moment for you? (3:23) Would did you move through the challenges as men dealing with abortion? (11:21) How do you created those healthy boundaries for yourself in your family? (17:39) In your book you talk about finance, could you share your finance stories? (24:24) Why do you think real estate as a form of investment is something people should do? (29:24) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Jordan Gray is a personal development author, and sex and relationship coach with nearly a decade of practice behind him. Jordan’s work has been featured in The Huffington Post, BBC, Self, Psychology Today, Business Insider, Yahoo!, Forbes, Elephant Journal, and countless other publications around the globe. Jordan has made it his life’s mission to make thriving relationships attainable to everyone. Within two years of starting his website, Jordan had five #1 best-selling e-books on Amazon and, since launching, has reached an engaged audience of over 20 million people from around the world with his writing. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Connor asks... Could you share what it is you do, and why do you do relationship work? (4:09) Could you share your story of your struggle and attempted suicide? (8:29) How do you identify shame? (14:56) How does shame impact on our intimate relationships? (16:55) Could you share your journey of overcoming shame? (44:26) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Get ready because this is heavy-hitting episode! Jaret Grossman has an incredible background he is the co-founder of Muscle Prodigy, founder of Jarbly and is a serial entrepreneur who has transformed thousands of lives around the globe with his famous 365 Video Series which was originally aired on YouTube. Jaret has worked with individuals just like you and world-class performers. This episode we talk all about Fitness & Mindset. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Connor asks... What is your defining moment? (3:52) What was your journey with fitness and mindset? (5:07) What is your perspective on routines and rituals? (12:13) Can you tell us about your program MP45? (15:13) What is one tool you could share for people wanting to "life hack" their fitness? (23:54) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Patrick Solomon is an award winning commercial director with over 20 years behind the camera. He started his career in the early 90’s by shooting his favorite activity: extreme sports. He quickly compiled a long list of action sports titles including surfing, skateboarding, snowboarding and motocross films. In 1996 he graduated to commercials where he continues to thrive. His first venture into feature length films produced the award winning, Finding Joe, currently in release. The film explores the concept of the heroes journey, a pattern that is found in every story from every culture and includes all novels and movies. It explains that all humans are actually taking the same journey and once that’s understood, we become the heroes and heroines of own life’s story. To watch "Finding Joe" visit: http://findingjoethemovie.com/ Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Connor asks... Could you share a defining moment for you? (4:23) What led up to your midlife crisis? (13:55) About the movie "Finding Joe" and the work of Joesph Campbell (19:00) What was it like to work with your movie subjects and what did you learn in the process? (29:00) How has your wife's cancer diagnosis affected your work and your presence in your family. (39:42) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Taylor Conroy is a meditating surfer obsessed with building businesses that make change. His first social enterprise, ‘Change Heroes’, mobilized 15,000 people from 80 countries around the world to to fund hundreds of schools, water projects, libraries, girls scholarships, and more for 200,000 people and raised nearly 4 million dollars. He founded a social enterprise that has taught hundreds of children to be social entrepreneurs, a speakers bureau that solely represents speakers making change, and recently co-founded an impact travel company called ‘Journey333’ with the goal of transforming the world’s largest industry (travel) into a vehicle for sustainable impact and personal transformation. Taylor has lectured at Harvard, Princeton, NYU, Cornell, and the United Nations. He regularly presents for corporate clients like Disney, Pfizer, and Lululemon, at social good events with over 10,000 people, and at private dinners and galas. Taylor has studied with Zen monks in Japan, run with the bulls in Spain, explored every continent on earth including Antarctica, surfed the longest wave in the world in Peru, and filmed mini documentaries in Nicaragua, Cambodia, Kenya, and Uganda. Visit Taylor's company Journey: http://wejourney.co/ Watch the video version of this podcast here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=irPiQnZtJh4 Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Connor asks... Could you share a defining moment for you? (2:39) How did that time in your life shifted your perspective of success? (8:20) Taylor's 3 Keys to Happiness and getting over his fear of public speaking. (11:00) Why did you start working to support women of sexual abuse? (25:25) Details on The Man Journey to Guatemala. (37:07) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
This is a powerful episode all about getting out of debt and building wealth with Dan Harrison, who is passionate about building community, developing leaders, cultivating self-awareness and supporting couples in having “the money conversations.” Dan is a Senior Financial Strategist, creator of the 4 Love & Money Workshop, and owner of eMoney Coach inc., with over a decade of experience helping people create peace of mind and financial freedom. Dan is inspired by the idea of a collective shift in consciousness from a “get” to a “give” mentality and as a result works with companies, charities and organizations who have big hearts, and are shifting the way our world thinks about giving. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Connor asks... Could you share a defining moment for you? (2:26) Can you unpack what good debt and bad debt is? (8:13) Could you share with us the looming threat of bankruptcy? (11:04) What are some of the key things that you've learned about money itself? (16:39) Tell us the Dan Harrison Secrets behind making money. (23:14) Can you unpack what a diverse portfolio means and why it's so important? (39:36) What your thoughts are around things like RRSPs and other savings like that? (42:45) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Robert Kandell is a communications expert. Whether business or relationships, he helps you bypass your own self-imposed limitations in all aspects. He has 25 years of building businesses, enhancing work-flow for teams, mentoring CEO’s and helping startups build a strong foundation. Robert has been featured in the NY Times, Huffington Post, Inc and SXSW. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Connor asks... Could you share a defining moment for you? (2:26) Do you think men have been trained poorly to communicate with women? (5:41) How can we deliver criticisms or critiques? (13:53) Why is communication so important and why is it so important women? (17:30) Do you have any recommendations for guys who my be stuck being "the nice guy" - How can they communicate better? (26:06) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Dr. Alexandra Solomon is a licensed clinical psychologist at The Family Institute at Northwestern University and a clinical assistant Professor in the Department of Psychology at Northwestern University. She received her PhD in Counseling Psychology. During graduate school, she was awarded the Dr. John J.B. Morgan Fellowship and worked at The Family Institute at Northwestern University as a research and clinical fellow. She recently wrote a book called Loving Bravely and in this episode we talk about deepening communication within relationships, the impact of online dating, building a deeper intimate connection with your partner and everything relationships. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Connor asks... Could you share a defining moment for you? (3:53) For singles, what are some things they can do to prep themselves to enter into relationships, in the most powerful way possible? (7:24) How do you think social media dating apps are effecting the dynamics between men & women? (20:29) What are some of the common struggles that you see between men & women in relationships? (27:00) What are some best practices that you would recommend to couples for healthy levels of communication? (31:00) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Traver Boehm is a former MMA fighter who also has a Masters degree in Eastern Medicine. After losing a child and losing his wife in a divorce, Traver took on the journey of a lifetime: To live one full year as if it was his last. In this podcast episode Traver talks about his journey living one full year as if it was his last. From 28 days in darkness, to volunteering at a hospice, to living in the wilderness off of the land, he shares some incredible stories and lessons about life and happiness. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Connor asks... Could share a defining moment for you? (3:09) How do we properly address problems in our relationships? (7:37) What are some of the main things you learned when focusing on your fitness? (14:15) Can you share some simple things you learned from Eastern Medicine people could use everyday? (20:36) Can men properly release anger and frustration through fighting? (29:02) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Giordana Tocaccelli is an international relationship coach who works with women and men to help them cross the bridge in communication to deepen intimacy and understand one another on a much deeper level. She also specializes in helping people understand masculine and feminine dynamics and educates both sexes on confidence, attraction and intimacy. Article referenced in this episode: http://mantalks.com/heal-a-hardened-heart/ Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Connor asks... Could you give us a bit of background about what it is you do?(3:39) What are some of the most important pieces when I'm first dating someone? (5:07) Could you explain the differences in Masculine & Feminine dynamics? (7:24) How important is assertiveness to a woman? (20:00) How can a guy create space for deep conversations? (32:18) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Dana Cavalea is a peak performance coach who spent 12 years with the New York Yankees as their Director of Strength and Conditioning & Performance Enhancement. Dana has worked along side baseball greats like Derek Jeter, Alex Rodriguez, Andy Pettitte, Mariano Rivera and a whole lot more. In this episode we dive into fitness, what works best for people in terms of daily routines, nutrition and share a bit about his time with the Yankees. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Connor asks... Could share a defining moment for you? (2:16) How did you get to be involved with the Yankees organization? (5:17) How did you differentiate yourself in the field? (12:15) Can you share some things you see with routines? (21:26) What are some foundational things about strength and conditioning you can share? (38:13) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
In this episode Roger & Connor speak with Peter Bregman, author of the new book “Four Seconds: All the Time You Need to Replace Counter-Productive Habits with Ones That Really Work.” They discuss Peter’s work helping to strengthen leadership in people and organizations, and what you can do to help accomplish your goals with just taking a moment to pause. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Roger & Connor asks... Could share a defining moment for you? (00:30) Could you give us a bit of context about what it is you do and who uses your work? (3:46) Can you walk us through your "4 Second" technique? (6:26) What are some traits that you see from leaders in the world? (14:29) Rapid Fire Questions (35:00) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
In this weeks episode we interview Dan Ariely, author of Payoff: The hidden logic that shapes our motivation. Dan is a researcher in behavioural economics and researches human behaviour for a living, all with the intention of explaining why we do the things we do in a way we can all understand. If you’ve ever wondered how to optimize your motivation, leverage it or just get a better understanding of what motivates you in the first place- this is a MUST listen to episode. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Roger & Connor asks... Could share a defining moment for you? (1:55) What was the inspiration for your TED Talk “What makes us feel good about our work”? (4:20) How do we cultivate a life with more motivation intrinsically built into it? (9:00) How important is something like trust with the motivation? (17:55) Rapid Fire Questions (27:35) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Benjamin Shalva is writer, Rabbi, yoga instructor, meditation teacher & spiritual guide. In his latest book, ambition addiction, he dives into how modern culture is designed to drive people to be addicted to ambition. In this episode he breaks down what healthy ambition looks like and how to find a deeper sense of balance while still achieving your desired level of success. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Roger & Connor asks... Could share a defining moment for you? (2:00) What is it about ambition that we're so addicted to right now? (5:39) What are some life factors that play into ambition? (7:49) What are some signs that ambition is becoming a problem in your life? (9:51) What are some steps to living healthy & productive ambition? (23:33) Rapid Fire Questions (33:36) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
If you think about it, you are selling all the time. In this episode Paul Smith sits down with Roger to talk about how he uses storytelling in his sales leadership, and even parenting and how you can too. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Roger asks... Could share a defining moment for you? (1:12) You have any advice for people wanting to leave their job? (2:38) Could you share what being a good teller means? (5:00) Why is storytelling so important? (7:30) Is it more important to tell your own story or can you share others? (18:00) Rapid Fire Questions (34:00) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
During this inspiring, humorous and powerful interview you will discover the secrets on how to have extraordinary relationships regardless of age, circumstances or physical limitations. In just a few short months, Michael transformed from ‘dying slowly’, being completely shut-down and disconnected to being fully heart open, vulnerable and living life fully. In this episode Michael and his partner Jacqueline talk about their relationship, Michael's story of his cancer recovery and how anyone and their partner can return to sex and intimacy. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Roger asks... Could share a defining moment for you? (2:30) Michael talks about his cancer diagnosis (5:23) Discussion between the differences of intimacy for men & women (10:12) What is some advice you could give to a listener who is going through their own cancer diagnosis? (20:54) Could you tell us what your book is about? (26:11) Rapid Fire Questions (34:00) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
In this episode Roger talks with Taylor Hunt - an Ashtanga Yoga teacher's journey from addiction to health - physical, emotional, and spiritual. Taylor shares how he went from his lowest point to helping recovering addicts find a new path. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Roger asks... Could share a defining moment for you? (1:35) You're new book is "A Way from Darkness" could you share your story behind the book? (3:29) What was the first step you took to turn your life around? (8:11) When did Ashtanga Yoga become a part of your life? (9:27) How has your experience been teaching yoga in rehab clinics? (19:44) Rapid Fire Questions (27:58) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Oh my god its the creator of MacGyver!!! Roger grew up watching MacGyver, the show where you learned how to solve anything... Each week MacGyver would get out of a scrape using his hands (and some chewing gum, a paperclip, a coin and a used bandaid). Its this "solve anything" attitude that Lee Zlotoff brings to the world with his new book "The MacGyver Secret: Connect to Your Inner MacGyver and Solve Anything." In this episode we break down his career, the book and the incredible tool that you can employ immediately today. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Roger asks... Could share a defining moment for you? (2:04) You're new book is "The MacGyver Secret: Connect to Your Inner MacGyver and Solve Anything" could you tell us about it? (3:23) What is the three step process to the Macgyver Secret? (5:17) What using this process to solve personal problems? (15:19) Do you need to focus on one thing at a time? Or a list of thing? (21:37) Rapid Fire Questions (28:16) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
‘You have to swallow the whole fish,’ Zen Master Taizan Maezumi told his students, ‘and then spit out the bones.’ First absorb the tradition, endure the hardships of Zen training, then you can spend the rest of your life separating the real treasure from the culture it came in, learning what you can let go of and what is truly yours. In this episode Connor and Roger talk with Genpo Roshi about his 45 years as a Zen Master. This conversation touches on his story of his uplifting and exhilarating and humbling journey, including the last five years rising from the ashes of his very public fall from grace, and a candid exploration of the challenge of bringing the essence of the great tradition he inherited to life in the West. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Connor and Roger ask... Could share a defining moment for you? (2:46) Could you share a bit of your background? (4:15) Could you share the "big mind" process? (12:00) Did you know your “great fall” was coming? (28:58) What is the meaning behind “spitting out the bones”? (33:45) What are some simple tips for somebody wanting to get into meditation? (40:00) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Connor thanks those supporting ManTalks and the ManTalks Podcast in 2016, and shares his tips on Appreciative Inquiry. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
This week's guest is Dr. Cory Holly. Dr. Holly promotes a practical lifestyle philosophy of "Do No Harm and Stay Out of Harms Way". He integrates fitness and nutrition including dietary supplements as a reliable science and therapy for natural healing and achieving optimum health. But Dr. Holly believes the struggle within is by far the greatest war to overcome. Achieve peace within FIRST is his mandate. Charity begins at home. Home is where your heart is. Optimize personal health first then spend your time and energy trying to save the world. He’s the author of the Encyclopedia of Sports Nutrition and he’s the founder of the Cory Holly Institute It our pleasure to introduce you to Dr. Cory Holly. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Connor and Roger ask... Could share with our listeners what it is that you do? (2:06) Could you share something that defines who you are? (3:40) Could you explain your concept of “living soft” and “dying hard”? (7:09) What are some things people can do to start living harder? (13:30) How physically active should people be? (22:33) What type of foods do you think people should be eating? Should they eat to their blood type? (28:58) What are some of the mental blockages are peopling facing? (39:04) What do you want your lasting legacy to be? (47:23) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
A quick thanks to our community leaders. We couldn't have grown ManTalks without you. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
In this week's episode Connor interviews Preston Smiles who is igniting a mutli-generational movement of radical growth through conscious, creative content, acts of love and living boldly. In their conversation they touch on intuition, love and vulnerability. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Connor asked... What was a defining moment for you? (4:00) Could you unpack what intuition means to you? (12:00) Could you unpack the idea of chasing? (16:40) What is the biggest misconception about love? (22:28) Could you tell us a bit about your relationship with your wife. How did you know she was the one? (29:45) What does it look like for a guy to still be masculine and be open to vulnerability? (41:37) What do you want your lasting legacy to be? (45:55) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
So many of us are killing it in our chosen field, but when it comes to how we are being portrayed in the eyes of our customers we could be doing a lot more. With a few tweaks here and there we can be know as THE expert to go to. Nicholas Kusmich is known as an expert in Facebook/social media advertising and he's on the show this week to teach us all how to amplify our brand so that customers are literally breaking down our door. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Roger asked... What was a defining moment for you? (1:41) What is it that you do? (3:42) What was it that made you realize you could be a leader in this field of work? (5:10) What's the best way for an individual to raise awareness of their brand? (12:22) How do you get over the fear of being an entrepreneur? (15:55) What have been some of the biggest lessons you've learned along the way? (21:46) What do you want your lasting legacy to be? (31:20) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Connor Beaton checks in with a question he has been receiving a lot from the ManTalks Community recently... What are the essentials for a work-life balance? Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Betty-Ann Heggie brought some amazing feminine energy to the show today. Connor and her explore a whole range of topics in this episode. Betty-Ann is a member of Canada's Top 100 Most Powerful Women Hall of Fame and the mother of two daughters. Betty-Ann Heggie is all too familiar with the daily issues women encounter as they strive to live in two worlds, stepping from the demands of the home to those of the workplace. As a result, Betty-Ann now devotes her time as a speaker, author and mentor to helping women access the opposite energies present in each of them so they will not only survive, but thrive, thus unlocking the secret of their full potential. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Connor asks: What is defining moment in your life? (3:22) Where did you curiosity come from on gender dynamics (9:00) How important is your childhood environment and does that shape you? (16:00) What was some of the advice you gave women on how to succeed in a men dominated environment? (24:28) How do I show up for the women in my life? (38:00) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Holy crap it's the last day of November! Which means it's almost the end of the year, which also means the season of gift giving. We can get stressed out when thinking about buying gifts, but Roger Nairn has a tip to help you destress when thinking about what to "buy." Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
This week we’re talking to Jon Levy. He runs with the bulls in Pamplona, battles Kiefer Sutherland in Jenga, and crashes million-dollar weddings. How does he do it and why? The E.P.I.C. Model of Adventure, a breakthrough four-step process (Establish, Push Boundaries, Increase, Continue) for cultivating more adventure in your life, from picking the right team, to choosing the right mission, and taking the right risks—this interview is full of crazy stories from his own exploits to show you how it’s done. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Roger & Connor asks: What is defining moment in your life? (1:15) What are your influencer dinners? (3:35) What is it about "adventure" that gets you so excited? (7:58) How do you push boundaries with experiences? (15:36) How important is it to set boundaries in order to push them? (22:10) What does "increase" mean in your epic model? (27:55) What would you like your legacy to be? (41:43) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
We've all been there before. You are doing so well with your positive habits until you go on vacation or head out on a work trip. Connor has some great tips you can use to stay on track no matter where in the world you are. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Jason MacKenzie is going to teach you How to be a Stronger, Wiser & More Courageous FatherJason MacKenzie draws from his experience as a survivor of his wife's battle with bipolar disorder and subsequent suicide and has overcome a decade-long battle with alcohol. But he has finally become the father his kids have always deserved. By being vulnerable, he is helping his daughters to use his experiences to inform the choices they make.His driving purpose is to lift those who want more from their lives to increasingly higher levels of personal and professional performance through cultivating the power of vulnerability. He teaches them it’s in the crucible of authenticity where they will develop unlimited strength, courage and wisdom.In this episode he equips us with the tools to make the choices that will create more of what we want in our lives. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Roger & Connor asks: What is defining moment in your life? (2:00) How did you overcome your addiction? (3:45) Can you share your process on how you worked through your grief? (12:50) What do you think is most understood about Fatherhood? (19:00) What is the one biggest lesson you learned in your marrage? (26:02) Who can people get ahold of you? (31:05) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Wow...what a week. But there's no better time than the present to take a step back and assess how to handle things. Are you going to let it get to you? Inspired by this blog post from Mindful Magazine Roger shares their 10 steps to a more mindful response to bad news (if that's how you're feeling). BTW - these tips can be applied to any facet of your life where you could use a little more resilience. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
The Minimalists are dedicated to living a little bit more simply in your lives and creating room for all the things that don't require a purchase or don't need to be plugged in. It's about living a more meaningful life with less stuff in your life. It's a refreshing way to think about your life. These guys have written awesome books. They have an incredible blog. They have a podcast and they just recently came out with a documentary. We dig into all of those plus more in this conversation. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Roger asks: What is defining moment if your life? (1:56) For those who don't really understand what minimalism is, could you give us an overview? (3:48) What did your family and friends say when you started the minimalist lifestyle? (14:07) Do you guys get a lot of people asking if this is a Buddhist thing, or a religious thing? (20:09) What are some examples of success stories of people who have taken on the minimalist lifestyle? (21:35) What would you like your legacy to be? (32:43) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
It's time for a midweek check in where we: - Take time to pay respect and express a whole lot of gratitude to our solders on Veterans Day/Remembrance Day. - Update the community on what's going on with ManTalks (we’re launching our 2nd event in Miami on November21). Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.com Facebook | Instagram | Twitter Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
We were introduced to Johnny Berba through a fan of the show. He said “you gotta check out this pickup artist who quit the industry to focus on self love and healing emotional trauma.” We were skeptical to say the least but when we watched the videos we were sent everything changed. Now he’s a dating and life coach that can teach you how to attract people naturally - no tricks, no lures, no manipulations or pickup lines - just through being yourself, being honest and direct, standing confidently. Being the true you. There’s a lot of bullshit out there in the dating world. But everything that Johnny is bringing to the conversation rings through to us - we hope you’ll enjoy. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Connor & Roger asks: What is Johnny's defining moment? (2:05) Was there a moment that caused you to shift? (4:29) Did you have any friends around you that caught onto this? (5:50) What do you think is the #1 thing men struggle with anxiety? (10:55) What has your experience been like sharing your videos on YouTube? (15:07) What other areas are men affected by anxiety? (21:40) How big of a part does shame play in anxiety? (24:56) What would you like your legacy to be? (28:15) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
It's time for a midweek check in where we: - Take questions from our community about men and the increasing suicide rate - Update the community on what's going on with ManTalks (we’re launching in Calgary and Ottawa). Listen in for the dates. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
What does it mean to live a good life? How does the work you do and the life you live reflect who you are? On today’s episode, Jonathan Fields shares insights about all of this from his new book How To Live A Good Life, which is based off of the 100's of conversations he has had with inspiring individuals on his #1 rated podcast. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Connor asks: What is Jonathan's defining moment? (3:48) You used to be a securities lawyer, how did that come about? (10:41) Did you ever talk to your father about his work? (11:41) You graduated High School, when did you go to law school? (13:37) When did you meet your wife? (19:14) What would you go back and tell yourself about working too hard? (21:47) What were some of the keys to building a community you discovered? (32:59) What was the timeline for The Good Life Project? (42:08) How do you manage to keep your community engaged? (49:11) Can you tell us about your new book "How to live a good life"? (51:43) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
It's time for a midweek check in where we: - Take questions from our community about men and how to deal with grief - Update the community on what's going on with ManTalks - Give you a call to action to check in on your goals this week Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Chris Voss was the FBI's lead hostage negotiator. In this episode you'll learn how you can apply the same skills he used to negotiate with bank robbers and terrorists to your everyday life. Life is a series of negotiations you should be prepared for: buying a car, negotiating a salary, buying a home, renegotiating rent, deliberating with your partner. Taking emotional intelligence and intuition to the next level, this conversation can give you the competitive edge in any discussion. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Roger & Connor asks: What is Chris' defining moment? (2:10) Could you give us an overview of the book and who it's for? (6:13) Can you expand on your idea of 'tactical empathy'? (10:56) How important is listening in the negotiation process? (15:44) When negotiations start to fade, how do you keep the momentum moving forward? (19:22) Can you expand on the idea in your book about 'Black Swans'? (21:25) What's the legacy you want to be? (28:07) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
On today's episode we talk about how you can wake up, liberate yourself from illusory beliefs and stories (because we all have them) and live a life of authenticity. We were so luck to get a chance to talk to Miguel Ruiz Jr. You probably know his father, who wrote the book The Four Agreements. Miguel has taken the wisdom of his father and grandmother to build an incredible life, and much of his learnings are found in his latest book The Mastery of Self. In today's episode we talk about what it was like living with the success of his father, how that effected him and how he came out living a life of true authenticity. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Roger & Connor asks: What is Miguel's defining moment as a man? (3:38) How important do you feel living without regrets is for living a long life? (9:03) What was it like growing up with your Father and seeing his career develop? (12:43) Did you feel pressure to fill the shoes of your Father? (17:03) Could you give us an overview of the book? (22:55) What do you think is the biggest block for people to live at their highest potential? (32:00) What's the legacy you want to leave? (44:34) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
The ManTalks Podcast - 64: Dr Randy Paterson Dr Randy Paterson knows all about how to be miserable. In this interview, Roger and Dr Paterson outline some of the 40 specific behaviours and habits, which-if followed-are sure to lead to a lifetime of unhappiness. On the other hand, if you do the opposite, you can join the ranks of happy people everywhere. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Roger asks: What is Dr. Randy Paterson’s defining moment as a man? (2:13) Where did your insight for the book come from? (7:30) What are some of the lessons in your book, and who is the book for? (10:23) What would your advice be for somebody suffering from depression? (13:20) Can you explain your clinic? (18:25) What are some bits of advice you'd give? (21:40) What advice you give to young men to leave home and get work? (25:20) Has anything shifted in the tools you've outlined in the book? (28:40) How can you put these technics into practice? (31:50) Are you seeing improvement in society’s depression? (33:14) How does mindfulness fit in with helping depression? (37:33) What's the legacy you want to leave? (43:44) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
The ManTalks Podcast - 63: Joe Solmonese Joe Solmonese is a fighter. Just ask President Obama (we talk about this in the interview). Under Joe Solmonese's leadership, the Human Rights Campaign (the largest LGBT civil rights organization in the United States) became the model other organizations look toward to create effective social and political change. By using the anger raging from the social injustices he was witnessing, the anger of his adversaries and his followers, HRC was instrumental in passing landmark national legislation such as the Matthew Shepard and James Byrd, Jr., Hate Crimes Prevention Act; repealing “Don't Ask, Don't Tell”; and passing marriage equality acts in eight states. How did Solmonese do it? In our interview Solmonese tells Roger that for him, the key to success was learning to harness his anger. Essentially it's just a form of energy. Channeled, it can keep you moving forward on a long journey. But uncontrolled, it can blow everything up. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter Some questions Roger asks: What is Joe’s defining moment as a man? (18:56) What was in your past that lead you to fight for these causes? (21:11) Can you describe your book? (24:39) Did you have a time in your life when anger was proving to be detrimental in your life? (28:42) How can you channel your anger when you fail? (47:59) How is the world dealing with anger in our present day? (54:03) What's the legacy you want to leave? (58:03) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Did you know you can learn the best time to eat lunch, ask for a raise, have sex, write a novel, take your meds and more? In this episode Roger talks to Dr. Michael Breus. Dr. Breus is a sleep specialist and has written a new book called The Power of When - its currently the #1 book on Amazon in the Time Management category. In The Power of When Dr. Breus talks about chronotypes. What is a chronotype? Your body has been programmed to function much better at certain times of the day than others. Based on general morningness and eveningness preferences, different people fall into different classifications, called "Chronotypes”.There are four Chronotypes (Dolphin, Lion, Bear, and Wolf), and most people fit into the “Bear” category. You can even take a free quiz to learn which of the four chronotypes you are. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter The ManTalks Podcast Some questions Roger asks: What is Michael’s defining moment as a man? (2:30) What is your book about, and who is the book for? (4:36) What is a Chronotype? (6:34) What are the different types of Chronotype? (9:05) What your partner is a different Chronotype, how can you make that work together? (14:04) Is the best thing you can do as a manager is to get your co-workers to take Michael's Chronotype quiz? (16:10) What is some advice for working with co-workers with different Chronotypes? (17:21) Should we feel guilty about getting extra sleep? (20:27) Do Chronotypes change throughout a person's life? (21:24) What would you say our current sleep state is as a society? (23:02) Do naps work better for certain Chronotypes then others? (25:41) How could meditation help certain Chronotypes? (28:21) What's the legacy you want to leave? (36:50) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
This is a huge episode! Its going on the "did we really just get to talk to him?" shelf. If you have never heard of Mark Manson before then get ready. For decades we’ve been told that positive thinking is the key to a happy, rich life. But those days are over. “Fuck positivity,” Mark Manson says. “Let’s be honest; sometimes things are fucked up and we have to live with it.” For the past few years, Manson—via his wildly popular blog—has been working on correcting our delusional expectations for ourselves and for the world. He now brings his hard-fought wisdom to this groundbreaking book and we talk all about it (plus dig into Mark's life) on today's episode. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter The ManTalks Podcast Some questions Connor & Roger asks: What is Mark’s defining moment as a man? (3:25) How has your shift in thinking show up in your own life? (5:50) What be some advice you would give to guys going through transitional phases in their life? (8:33) Could you give us a little overview of your book? (11:10) What is the #1 thing you'd like people to take away from reading your book? (13:03) Why did you start your blog? (14:57) What are some of the things growing up that helped to shape your voice? (18:35) What was the process like taking some ideas from your blog and putting them into a book? (26:00) What would you suggest to people on how to find fulfilment in their lives? (35:38) What is one thing you haven't shared with other podcasts about the book? (42:27) What's the legacy you want to leave? (47:13) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
In this episode, Dr. Michael Olpin (author Unwind!: 7 Principles for a Stress-Free Life) shares with Roger how you can optimize your body, heart, mind, and soul, recognizing that any and all of these dimensions of your life affect your anxiety level. Its an awesome interview that shows you how to take charge of your life and how to make better choices that will prevent stress in the first place. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter The ManTalks Podcast Some questions Roger asks: What is Michael’s defining moment as a man? (2:45) How did you become an expert in stress & what is it? (7:30) Could you give us an overview of the book? (15:20) In this modern world, are we more stressed out about things that didn't exist before? (20:20) How are men doing dealing with stress? (35:30) How do you insure you're not too far out of the 'now' in your thoughts? (38:30) What's the legacy you want to leave? (43:23) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron Johnson Theme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Jordan Bower is a strategic storyteller and corporate intimacy expert. In his role he helps companies build a clear, human and emotionally powerful story that purposefully and strategically connects, motivates and inspires. In this week's episode of the ManTalks podcast we tap into Jordan's expertise to help you deepen your relationships and craft your story by learning all about Jordan's walk (yes, walk...) from Vancouver to Mexico. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter The ManTalks Podcast Some questions Connor asks: What is Jordan’s defining moment as a man? (3:35) How do you think being a ‘nice guy’ played into the separation? (7:32) What are some of the things you learned from the end of relationship? (9:10) How have your relationships shifted since your journey? (12:50) You walked from Vancouver to Mexico! What were some of the highlights from the trip? (18:15) Would you recommend that people walk the 3,000km like you did? (23:10) Along the way on your trip, what were the moments that were awe-inspiring (26:03) What are you doing now? (31:50) What are some tools you’d give your clients? (37:40) What is the legacy that Jordan wants to leave in the world? (40:55) Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron JohnsonTheme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Can you imagine being in the 6th grade and learning that your mother has been murdered? Fast forward to when you are an adult. Can you imagine not only forging the killer but save his life? Then can you imaging inviting him on stage with you in front of hundreds of people? Today's guest did all of this and it is a true honour to get a chance to speak with him on the ManTalks Podcast. This week we talk to forgiveness expert Dean Smith who shares with us his journey to forgive, reconcile with and help save the life of the man that murdered his mom and how his story was made into an award-winning, internationally distributed documentary entitled Live to Forgive. Subscribe on iTunes, SoundCloud, Stitcher Radio, TuneIn For more episodes visit us at ManTalks.comFacebook | Instagram | Twitter The ManTalks Podcast “The difference between true forgiveness and forgive and forget is I can remember it, but not be shackled to the bitterness of it.” Some questions Connor asks: What is Dean’s defining moment as a man? (4:13) Does he still talk to his Mother's killer? (13:40) What keeps him busy in the world now? (20:08) Why did he become a high performance coach? (22:09) What are some of the things he sees as crossovers in his roles? (24:09) What does he think is one of the biggest misconceptions of forgiveness? (26:34) What does he tell people to move from angry to forgiveness? (31:05) Does angry still effect him? (34:45) What is the legacy that Dean wants to leave in the world? (39:00) Learn more about: Live to Forgive Og Mandino “I can use the memory of my mother's murder to help other people.” FOLLOW DEAN Og Mandino Leadership Institute | Linkedin You may also like these episodes: John Nieuwenburg - What Depression Looks Like and What Should You Do? Shea Emry - Overcoming Adversity Did you enjoy the podcast? If so please leave us a review on iTunes or Stitcher. It helps our podcast get into the ears of new listeners, which expands the ManTalks community! Thank You to the Team: Editing & Mixing by: Aaron JohnsonTheme music by: Parlange & Latenite Automatic
Giovanni Marsico is a talent scout, social entrepreneur, and connector of superheroes. He is the founder of Archangel, a private membership community filled with mission-driven entrepreneurs who are passionate about philanthropy. Giovanni discusses predictions in the entrepreneurship space for the next 10-15 years, how people can find their own personal superpower, and so much more! Key Takeaways: [3:35] What was a defining moment as a man for Giovanni? [5:45] Giovanni has had many mentors throughout his life. Most recently, Philip McKernan made a big impact on him. [8:15] What is Giovanni up to right now? [10:30] What inspired Giovanni to get into social entrepreneurship? [12:05] As a social entrepreneur, how does Giovanni 'get over' or fight criticism of making money for the purposes of giving back? Isn't that what nonprofits are for? [13:40] How did Giovanni come up with the idea for Archangel Academy? [17:55] Does Giovanni believe that social entrepreneur will be the norm in the future? [20:05] Giovanni believes desk jobs are going to disappear. [20:50] What advice does Giovanni have to already-established business who are looking to switch to a more social enterprise format? [22:35] Giovanni replaces the world client with family, because his clients have so much lover for one another. [23:40] How can people tap into their own superpower? [25:40] Giovanni literally built his Archangel business model with the X-Men comics in mind. [28:00] How do you build a thriving community? What do people need to be aware of? [34:30] What kind of community has Giovanni built? [40:25] If you want to build a thriving community, understand that it's not about you. It's always about creating something much bigger than you. [40:40] What kind of results or impact would Giovanni like to see when people attend the Archangel event? [44:00] What legacy would Giovanni like to leave behind? Mentioned in This Episode: www.mantalks.com/ info@ManTalks.ca www.philipmckernan.com/ www.giftedentrepreneur.com/ www.archangelacademy2017.com/ www.archangelsummit.com/ Lovemarks by Kevin Roberts Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (www.jesusparlange.com – www.lateniteautomatic.com)
Derek Kief is an astronomer at H.R. MacMillan Space Centre, located in British Columbia, Canada. Both Connor and Roger sort of nerd out on this podcast with their guest, but it provides the listeners with some great knowledge as to what's out there―beyond our planet. Derek says that our space programs are the only things that countries from all over the world agree on. He believes that when we eventually colonize Mars, we'll begin to see more diplomacy in the world as everyone works towards a common goal. Key Takeaways: [0:50] There are some fantastic things happening in ManTalks. Connor gives a quick update. [3:45] Derek talks about his defining moment as a man. [8:15] It took Derek some time to figure out that he didn't have to conform to a stereotype. He can be who he is. [9:35] What does Derek do? [11:25] Who inspired Derek to become an astronomer? [13:30] Be prepared! The guys geek out a little bit. [13:50] What are we close to discovering out there? [19:15] Where does Derek stand in the science community? Is he like the Patch Adams of science? [24:25] Why was the discovery of gravitational waves important? [25:40] Why are gravitational waves important for the everyday or average person? [30:00] Let's talk about Mars. Can we colonize it? [31:55] Will travelling outside of our planet allow for more diplomacy? Can men of all different types and backgrounds finally work together? [35:15] How does Derek stay curious? [39:05] What are some of the best advice Derek has received? [42:00] What is Derek's stance on quantum computing? [42:30] What does success look like for Derek? [44:55] What exciting things are happening at the Space Centre right now? Mentioned in This Episode: www.mantalks.com/ info@ManTalks.ca www.spacecentre.ca/ Email Derek: Dkief12@gmail.com Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (www.jesusparlange.com – www.lateniteautomatic.com)
Tim JP Collins is an expert on anxiety and runs The Anxiety Podcast. His mission is simple: less anxiety, more life. Tim used to suffer regularly with anxiety and panic attacks, but understood that he had to move past this as it was draining him mentally and physically. Now, he teaches those around him how they can overcome their anxiety, with or without prescription medicine. Key Takeaways: [4:00] Anxiety can consume your every waking moment. [5:50] We often need pain in our life to see what's possible and to make changes. [7:00] Tim talks about a woman who has been suffering from anxiety for 35 years. [8:20] As people become more successful and have more people rely on them, anxiety starts to creep in and take a hold of them. [8:55] What makes Tim the person that he is today? [11:40] What are some of the biggest myths about anxiety? [12:20] For a lot of people, medication for anxiety only covers up the problem. [13:30] How did anxiety come into Tim's life? [15:05] What can people learn about anxiety? [17:45] If you get your life into alignment again, anxiety goes away. [22:00] What can people do to treat their anxiety? [23:40] Put yourself first. [24:45] Are there any benefits to taking cold showers? [27:50] What legacy does Tim want to leave behind? [29:20] Should you take anxiety medication? [31:20] What is the one experience Tim would recommend to anyone? [32:15] What is the most underrated trait for modern day success? [33:25] What is the one movie Tim would take if he was stranded on an island? [33:40] What is the single biggest lesson Tim has learned in the corporate world? [34:15] Who is the most influential person in Tim's life? Mentioned in This Episode: www.mantalks.com/ info@ManTalks.ca www.timjpcollins.com/ The Four Hour Work Week by Tim Ferris Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (www.jesusparlange.com – www.lateniteautomatic.com)
Zachary Stockill is an award-winning Canadian researcher, writer, podcaster, and educator. Zachary is the author of Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy and discusses with Roger a lot of the shame men experience when trying to find resources or help to overcome their irrational jealousy. Zachary knows the subject all too well because he too was once a man who obsessed over his then-girlfriend's past. Discover more about the unhealthy and obsessive habits jealous men often fall into. Key Takeaways: [2:20] What was one of Zachary's defining moments? [5:05] What does Zachary do? [4:50] Zachary unpacks what 'retroactive jealousy' means. [7:00] Out of nowhere, Zachary came up with ridiculous scenarios about his then-girlfriend and became jealous. [8:00] Despite realizing his jealousy, Zachary couldn't find the right resources that would address this issue for him. [8:20] Both men and woman experience this equally. [9:35] Men tend to have extreme double standards towards women who have done the same sort of sexual activities men have done in the past. [10:05] A lot of men try to figure out a woman's past to see if it's in line with their ideal values. [10:45] Male insecurity goes back a long way. [11:40] Stop talking with your partner about their past - for now. You stop the cycle by doing this. [13:00] What do you value in your relationship and what do you value in your partner? [14:50] Sometimes people lie about their past just to sooth their partner. [15:30] Own your problem. This is not your partner's problem. [17:40] Some men might believe that if they hooked up with an angel of a woman, then their relationship would be so much better. Of course, this is just not true. [19:10] There's a lot of shame around jealousy. Zachary still feels ashamed by the way he used to act. [19:15] What can men do to open up this conversation? [19:25] A lot of men don't have real friends. [20:10] The problem doesn't resolve on its own. You have to step in and do the work. [21:00] Keep focusing on personal development. Focus on your insecurities. [21:30] Meditation is huge! [22:25] The reality is we're never going to be perfect. The learning never stops. [23:05] How does Roger stay off depression? [24:20] Make an effort to be friends with older men. Seek out worldly people. [27:55] What gets Zachary out of bed every day? [29:25] When Zachary first wrote the book, he wrote it under a pen name. Mentioned in This Episode: www.mantalks.com/ info@ManTalks.ca www.zfstockill.com/ www.retroactivejealousy.com/ www.travelsinmusic.com/ Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (www.jesusparlange.com – www.lateniteautomatic.com)
Julian Treasure is a sought-after and top-rated international speaker. Collectively his five TED talks on various aspects of sound and communication have been viewed an estimated 30 million times. His latest talk, How to speak so that people want to listen, is in the rare group that has over 10 million views on TED alone, putting it in the top 20 TED talks of all time. Julian discusses how to become a better listener and the bad habits people have when they try to listen. Key Takeaways: [2:15] What was Julian's defining moment? [6:35] If we all start listening a bit better, then we start to understand each other better. [7:25] What can men do to enhance their listening skills? [9:40] Silence is important when trying to improve your listening skills. [13:40] Julian breaks down what the RASA acronym means. [17:40] Women often feel like men aren't listening to them. There are different types of listening modes you can switch to. Julian explains further. [21:45] What are some bad habits people do when trying to listen? [24:15] Being right can be extremely damaging. [28:20] Great sales people will tell you it's not the speaking that gets the sale, it's the listening. [29:25] What legacy would Julian like to leave behind? Mentioned in This Episode: www.mantalks.com/ info@ManTalks.ca www.juliantreasure.com/ Julian Treasure on TED Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (www.jesusparlange.com – www.lateniteautomatic.com)
Connor Beaton does a solo show to answer some of his listeners’ common questions. He discusses how he prepared for his TED talk, the elements of what makes a good talk, and then dives further into how he and his team built such a strong community at ManTalks. Towards the tail end of the show, Connor reminds the audience on the importance of staying focused and limiting your distractions as you try to achieve great things. Key Takeaways: [4:04] How did Connor prepare for his TED talk? [6:10] If there's a way to invite the organizers of an event (TED talks) to hear you speak, then do it. [6:35] Have a sticky idea? Share your idea with close mentors and friends, and get feedback. [8:15] Connor breaks down how you format a Ted talk and make it memorable. [9:40] TED talks are ideas worth spreading because they're based in facts. You need concrete evidence to back it up. [11:35] Practice your public speaking skills. [12:05] Let your message do your work and allow the slides in the background to back up and re-enforce that. [12:25] What motivates people to change? What's the conclusion of your talk? [16:00] Practice standing in one place. [16:15] How do I handle my nerves? Connor says there’s no 'not being nervous' to this. [16:25] The more prepared you are, the better you will feel about being able to run through it. [19:25] Record yourself. Listen to how you sound. It's one of the most powerful things that you can do. [20:05] If you have more questions, feel free to email Connor. [20:20] How do you build a tribe/community? What's the secret? [21:10] Who are you serving? [22:00] Don't try to please everybody. Don't make a community that's for 'everyone'. [25:00] Come from a place of giving, not getting. [25:50] How can you go above and beyond to really create a connection and solve a problem? [26:25] How do you allow your community to help each other? [30:45] Connor discusses why you need to eliminate your distractions. [32:25] How do you build a band of brothers? [33:20] Half of men over the age of 25 can not identify a best friend. The good news is you can fix it! [35:25] Think big on a daily basis, but act small. What does that mean? [37:45] Great things are happening with ManTalks! Mentioned in This Episode: www.mantalks.com/ info@ManTalks.ca Rules for Focused Success in a Distracted World with Cal Newport How to Find and Build Your Band of Brothers with Stephen Mansfield Quit Half Assing Lewis Howes – Achieving Greatness Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (www.jesusparlange.com – www.lateniteautomatic.com)
Neil Pasricha is a New York Times bestselling author of The Book of Awesome and The Happiness Equation. Neil has spent the last decade of his life as the Director of Leadership Development at Walmart, which he left this year to pursue his writing projects. He is also the writer and creator of the 1000 Awesome Things blog, which has won Best Blog in the World two years in a row. Connor sits down with Neil to discuss some of the secrets to happiness and why it is so hard to find. Key Takeaways: [2:25] Grab a pen and paper for this episode! [3:10] What was Neil’s defining moment? [6:00] What was it like giving a TED Talk? [8:35] Beautiful things come out of darkness. [9:15] Are you building a business on the side? Neil says don’t quit your day job. [10:05] Neil was not a confident person, but when he started his side business, he gained more confidence. This lead him to being promoted at his full-time job. [11:25] Despite Neil’s success, he didn’t leave his full-time job at Walmart until this year. [11:55] Connor completely understands as he just left his corporate job 6 months ago. [12:30] Let’s talk happiness! What are some of the secrets of happiness? [13:40] We want happiness, but we can’t seem to get it. [15:00] How can we give our children happiness if we ourselves aren’t even happy? [15:25] The Happiness Equation is a personal letter to Neil’s child. [16:25] You have to be happy first in order to find success. It’s not the other way around. [17:35] You live 10 years longer if you’re happy. [19:15] When Connor was experiencing a dark time in his life, what really pulled him out of it was gratitude journaling. [20:35] Never retire! [22:00] Find a reason to get out of bed every morning. [22:40] Retirement is dangerous and it creates loss of purpose. [23:55] Neil talks about the four S – Social, Structure, Stimulation, and Story. [25:35] What are the biggest misconceptions about happiness? [28:25] How do you overcome criticism? Do it for you. [30:45] Would you do this task for free? If the answer is no, you’re on the wrong track. [32:20] What happens if you’re ‘too busy’? How can you not be ‘too busy’? [40:40] Let’s talk about mindset and why it’s so important. [43:15] When your day is going south, remember that you’ve already won the lottery. You have it good. [48:00] All you have to do is write down 5 gratitudes a week and you’ll see an improvement in your happiness. [50:25] Recognize you’re in a bad mood, recognize that it will end, and recognize that those two things are okay and you will feel good again. [53:15] Who is the most authentically happy person Neil has ever met? [54:00] What is the one experience Neil recommends to anyone? [54:25] What is the most underrated trait in modern day life? [54:40] What is one book Neil would take when stranded on an island? [55:00] What was the single biggest lesson Neil learned at Harvard? [56:25] Who is the most influential person on happiness? Mentioned in This Episode: www.mantalks.com/ www.1000awesomethings.com/ The Book of Awesome by Neil Pasricha The Happiness Equation by Neil Pasricha Neil’s TED Talk – The 3 A’s of Awesome The Nun Study by Julia Cameron www.headspace.com/ www.10percenthappier.com/ www.calm.com On the Shortness of Life by Seneca Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (www.jesusparlange.com – www.lateniteautomatic.com)
Srinivas Rao, founder of The Unmistakeable Creative website and podcast, and author of Unmistakable, has interviewed over 600 thought leaders and people from all walks of life on his show. Today, he joins Connor on the show to discuss creativity, a bit of his background, where he found his drive, and why we should always learn from others, but not mimic them. Srinivas says that we do not need more copies - we need originals, willing to travel the road that's never been traveled before, because true success is work that no one else can replicate. Key Takeaways: [1:40] Let's talk creativity on today's show. [3:15] Famous on the internet? This concept is amusing to Srinivas. [4:45] What does Srinivas's name mean? [7:10] Who is Srinivas? [8:55] Srinivas downloaded Snapchat for the first time yesterday. [10:15] Everyone should get on Snapchat? Everyone should start a podcast? No! [11:00] Srinivas loves the platform 'Medium'. [11:35] Find one platform/thing and then get really, really good at it. [12:40] What was Srinivas's childhood like? [14:55] Srinivas always looks for things he can be exceptional at, not average at. [19:30] Srinivas is never satisfied. [22:45] Where does creativity actually come from? How is it cultivated? [27:10] What kind of action steps can people take to feel more creative? [29:15] Be the only option for what you do, not the best, the only one. Srinivas explains. [31:35] Why do you want to be like Tim Ferriss? Why? [32:40] Learn what other people have done, but do not mimic them. [35:00] Srinivas talks about his book, Unmistakable. [40:30] True success is creating work that no one else can replicate. [46:45] Srinivas talks about crowdfunding. [48:45] Community is tremendously important and plays so many different roles in our lives. [51:00] Do you have somebody to call at 2:00 am in the morning? [51:30] Srinivas talks about the 'impact zone' and how waves in the ocean come in sets. [57:05] What was Srinivas's favorite interview that he's done for his podcast? [58:25] One experience Srinivas recommends? Catch a wave. [58:35] Underrated trick for modern day success? The ability to unplug. [58:35] What book would Srinivas take if he was stranded on an island? Hard to answer. [59:00] What movie would he take? Blow with Johnny Dep. [59:20] Who is the most influential creative person of all time? Walt Disney. [1:00:15] What legacy would Srinivas like to leave behind? Mentioned in This Episode: www.mantalks.com/ www.unmistakablecreative.com/ Srinivas on Twitter www.sethgodin.com/ www.garyvaynerchuk.com/ www.medium.com/ Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (www.jesusparlange.com – www.lateniteautomatic.com)
Phil T Mistlberger is an expert on masculinity and brotherhood and has worked in this space for over 30 years. He is the author of four critically acclaimed books on the subject of men's work and is the founder of The Samurai Brotherhood. Phil discusses the differences between men today vs. back 20-30 years ago and what the men of today's generation are seeking the most. Key Takeaways: [2:40] Who is Phil and how did he get started? [7:00] Phil discusses Robert Bly's book, Iron John and the deep connection men need to have. [7:20] Men have not been around to raise their sons. They've been raised by mothers. [8:45] What do men currently struggle with the most? Has this trend changed over the last 30 years? [10:10] The way men communicate has been disrupted by technology. [12:15] Do Millennial men lack grit? [13:15] There's a weird mix of resentment and entitlement in the average Millennial man. [16:40] Millennial men are seeking more of their masculine side when they come to Phil. [21:30] The ideal is to have both male and female traits. Values from the mother and grit from the father. [23:35] How does Phil help with developing grit? [30:05] Men are inclined to be loners, so Phil recommends joining a community to build a stronger bond with others. [32:10] Where does your self-worth come from? For men, it's tied up in activities and what they can do for other people. [35:25] Young men tend to have less competition with older men. [39:10] What’s the importance of being challenged? [41:45] Where is masculinity headed? It's going beyond blind competition. [46:50] Men's work tends to be much more open these days and more people are aware of it. [49:10] What does legacy look like to Phil? Mentioned in This Episode: www.mantalks.com/ www.samuraibrotherhood.com/ www.ptmistlberger.com/ Iron John by Robert Bly Paradise Lost by John Milton Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (www.jesusparlange.com – www.lateniteautomatic.com)
Michael Bungay Stanier was banned from his high school graduation for "the balloon incident", was sued by one of his Law School lecturers for defamation, and has held a number of jobs where he had little or no impact. Through his experiences, he founded Box of Crayons, a company that helps organizations do more great work. On today's show, he discusses his latest book with Roger, The Coaching Habit and how you can say less, ask more, and change the way you lead others. Key Takeaways: [1:45] What was Michael's defining moment? [6:45] What is Michael up to these days? [8:20] Michael talks about his latest book, The Coaching Habit. [13:30] Slow down on giving advice, but stay curious for longer. [17:00] If Michael could pick one type of person to read his book, it would be the busy manager. [20:30] Did you know that boys are much more emotionally expressive than girls are in early childhood? [22:00] There are seven essential questions you need to ask yourself. Michael explains further. [25:40] Believe it or not, people do not learn when you give them really great advice. [25:55] People really learn when they have a moment to reflect on what just happened. [28:30] The Coaching Habit has been the #1 coaching book on Amazon since it launched 9 weeks ago. [29:40] What legacy would Michael like to leave behind? Mentioned in This Episode: www.mantalks.com/ www.boxofcrayons.biz/ www.thecoachinghabit.com/ The Coaching Habit by Michael Bungay Stanier www.mankindproject.org/ Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (www.jesusparlange.com – www.lateniteautomatic.com)
Jason Connell is a speaker, former magician, and a writer on personal development. Jason discusses with Roger and Connor on today's show about successfully moving through life transitions and accepting the new challenges that come from taking action. Jason also talks on the subject of manhood and some of the key things our everyday modern man struggles with in a society littered with social media. Key Takeaways: [1:35] What was Jason's defining moment as a man? [4:00] It's hard to follow/discover a path you were meant to follow. Many people wake up to a 9-5 job they hate. [5:40] Millennials are feeling much more disconnected with others. [7:40] Jason talks about his career as a magician. [9:25] You don't have to follow the same path for the rest of your life. [10:40] Men suffer from the 'lack of money' barrier. [12:15] Jason is slowly winding down on his 8-year company, Ignited Leadership. [15:20] We're prone to stick with what we know – even if it makes us unhappy. [17:20] Your own brain is often not enough. You need to take action. [20:00] Transition is hard. So give yourself some slack. [21:25] What does a strong support system look like to Jason? [23:00] One piece of advice to modern men? Stop being so strong and break down. [25:15] What kind of things do Millennials struggle with? [28:35] Keep in mind you can fail and it's no big deal. [31:00] Want to change but not sure how? Get a coach or a psychologist. [35:00] When you're more authentic with yourself, you become more attractive to women. [37:25] Sex, money, or status does not validate your manhood. [38:30] What kind of legacy would Jason like to leave behind? Mentioned in This Episode: www.mantalks.com/ www.ignitedleadership.com www.jasonconnell.co/ The Power of Myth by Joseph Campbell Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (www.jesusparlange.com – www.lateniteautomatic.com)
Frank Warren is the founder of PostSecret.com, where he publishes some of the secrets strangers have mailed to him on postcards. Frank has received over 500,000 postcards since November 2004. Some of these postcards are funny, shocking, littered with confessions, sexual desires, and more. Frank discusses why such a novel idea has turned viral and why people need a confessional outlet on today's show. Key Takeaways: [2:25] What was Frank's defining moment as a man? [4:15] How did PostSecret get started? [7:45] Frank has given his real home address for people to send postcards to. [8:10] What is the magic that happens when someone reveals a secret to Frank? [10:50] What men decide to reveal and conceal defines them every day. [11:45] Frank reads some anonymous secrets. [15:45] Despite so much technology that helps us to connect, there's still a lot of loneliness and isolation. [16:05] Are we posting too much on social media? [19:00] Frank used to work on a suicide prevention hotline. How does he deal with all the heaviness? [21:25] Roger used to live at a fraternity house where he couldn't show his true emotional struggles. [26:25] Did you know you could mail potatoes if it has an address on it? [26:40] Frank talks of his least favorite/most haunting postcards. [29:15] What's next for Frank? Mentioned in This Episode: www.mantalks.com/ www.postsecret.com/ Frank@postsecret.com Frank on TED Mail Frank: 13345 Copper Ridge Rd Germantown, Maryland, 20874 Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (www.jesusparlange.com – www.lateniteautomatic.com)
Chris Guillebeau is the New York Times bestselling author of The $100 Startup, The Happiness of Pursuit, and other books. On today's show, Chris discuses how you can find your dream job and do work you were meant to do. You can learn more by listening to this podcast and by checking out Chris's book on the subject entitled, Born for This. At the end of the show, Roger mentions that if you're feeling alone in your journey, don't be! Chris has a huge community of people searching for their dream as well, so feel free to visit Chris's website to find out more. Key Takeaways: [0:45] ManTalks has officially launched in Toronto and LA! [3:00] Please keep spreading the word about ManTalks. [5:10] What was Chris's defining moment as a man? [7:10] Why did Chris write The $100 Startup and Born for This? [8:45] Are you dissatisfied with the traditional path? Then Chris's book is for you. [9:55] How can you hack the job of your dreams? [10:25] If you're working for a company, you should think about yourself as leasing your talents to that organization. [11:15] Chris explains the difference between hard skills vs. soft skills. [12:10] Life's too short to hate the work you're doing. [12:20] What are some of the signs that someone is in the wrong job/career/thing? [12:45] You don't need to know your life purpose at age 20. Most people don't even know that at age 30. [13:15] How do you know if you've found your dream job? Well, if you had to ask... [14:50] How do you move closer to what your purpose is and make money? [18:25] Chris dives a little bit into his background. [19:45] We gain confidence through mistakes and trying different things. [20:55] What's the most popular question Chris gets asked at these events? [22:45] Chris dives a little deeper into what he means by 'side hustle'. [24:20] What kind of legacy does Chris wish to leave behind? [25:10] Do you think you're alone in this? Go to Chris's website. Mentioned in This Episode: www.mantalks.com/ www.chrisguillebeau.com/ The $100 Startup by Chris Guillebeau Born for This by Chris Guillebeau Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (www.jesusparlange.com – www.lateniteautomatic.com)
Sam Fankuchen is the founder of Golden, a company that makes it easy to volunteer as well as helps non-profits manage their volunteers. Golden now has an app you can download directly to your phone where you can work for a non-profit that is aligned with your mission and purpose. Sam says that 25% of Americans volunteer every year, but the impact could be much greater if there was an easier way to manage the gap between non-profits and volunteers. Find out more about Sam's story in today's episode. Key Takeaways: [0:30] Connor and Roger welcome Sam on to the show, the founder of Golden. [0:35] What is Golden? An app that helps to make volunteering effortless. [2:10] Why is Golden so important? We all want to give back. [2:50] What was a defining moment for Sam? [5:10] Sam explains what Golden is. [6:25] Why would a non-profit need this? [6:45] Staffing is the most costly expense for a non-profit. [8:05] There's only a few core things that help drive our happiness. Volunteering is in that list. [9:15] Why did Sam want to help the volunteering space? [10:55] Volunteering is surprisingly complicated. [12:30] 24-25% of Americans volunteer every year. [13:25] There are tremendous benefits to volunteering. [15:00] How can someone volunteer most effectively? [18:00] What do volunteer coordinators need to do to make sure their volunteers feel valued? [21:40] What's one piece of advice Sam would give to companies who want to be more active in the community? [24:45] What does Sam see in the future for non-profits and charities? [25:50] Sam shares a case study. [29:00] Where does Sam see Golden being in the next five years and how can people help? [32:00] What kind of legacy would Sam like to leave behind? Mentioned in This Episode: www.mantalks.com/ www.goldenvolunteer.com/ Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (www.jesusparlange.com – www.lateniteautomatic.com)
Greg McKeown is the author of Essentialism and the CEO of THIS Inc., a leadership and strategy design agency located in Silicon Valley. Greg tells the audience that if you want to break through to the next level and contribute more to your life, you must go big on fewer things. If you say yes to everything, you will simply stretch yourself too thin and exhaust yourself. Key Takeaways: [2:55] Don't forget ManTalks is hosting another event! [4:25] What was Greg's defining moment? [7:00] Our failures lead to some of our biggest lessons. [8:10] The only time we really learn is when we have expectation failure. [9:05] True wealth is the ability to be present at any given moment. [9:20] Don't let a defining moment in your life pass you by. [10:00] Are you just too busy living to think about life? [10:30] Greg believes there's only two kinds of people in this world – the people who are lost and the people who know they're lost. [10:50] To be in the second category requires humility, self-awareness, and courage. [11:45] Don't run on auto pilot. [17:15] The first part of the book goes into the mindset of an essentialist. [20:15] How can we accomplish more things that are important to us? [21:05] An essentialist explores their options. [21:55] An essentialist is very aware they have the ability to choose. [26:45] Who really spends years working on a single masterpiece project? [31:15] Our society is very achievement-based and we've been rewired to accomplish it all. [32:00] What's possible when you start practicing the principles of essentialism? [34:05] If you say yes to everything, you cannot contribute to your highest ability. [34:25] If you try to do it all, you'll just do it averagely well. [35:45] When given the choice, people will choose fewer things done better. [38:50] What legacy would Greg like to leave behind in the world? Mentioned in This Episode: www.vancitybuzz.com/ www.mantalks.com/ www.gregmckeown.com/ Essentialism by Greg McKeown Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (www.jesusparlange.com – www.lateniteautomatic.com)
Brad Lomenick is a strategic advisor and leadership consultant. He has written two books on the subject of leadership, The Catalyst Leader and, his latest book, H3 Leadership. Brad discusses the three big Hs that every leader needs in order to inspire and propel them to the next level. He also not only talks about why millennials are different but offers some compelling advice to anyone who is just beginning their career or journey. Key Takeaways: [0:35] Thank you to our sponsor Vancity Buzz. [2:45] What was Brad's defining moment as a man? [6:30] So many aspects of Brad's story have been built on the shoulders of other people who have helped him. [6:40] What does Brad currently do? [8:00] Brad wants to impact the next generation. [9:10] Brad focuses on building strong leaders. [12:40] What is the secret sauce to creating a movement? [16:45] As soon as you're feeling big, you need to go back to the same thinking you had when you first started. [17:15] How do you influence a millennial? [18:55] Millennials believe they can change the world. They are incredibly positive. [19:25] Millennials have such high expectations that reality can throw them off guard. [20:00] Go find something right now, even if it's not your life calling, and go crush it. [20:15] Be the best you can be with what you're doing today. [22:45] Millennials are the generation with options. [23:45] It doesn't matter how old you are now, it matters what you can do and what you know. [24:30] Brad talks about his latest book, H3 Leadership. [26:30] If you feel like you're a humble leader, then you're probably not. [30:30] Every team knows their leader's flaws. [31:20] You have to lead with your true self. [32:20] Always stay hungry. [34:55] Great leaders are often the most curious. [37:25] What is hustle? [40:45] You have to create a bit of margin in your life in order for you to hustle at the right times. [42:25] Generosity has to be part of your hustle. [43:30] One of the most difficult lessons for leaders is to let go. [44:40] Your job is to replace yourself. [46:50] Brad talks about the young influencers list. [48:45] Brad currently loves what Caitlin Crosby is doing. [51:10] What legacy does Brad wish to leave behind? Mentioned in This Episode: www.vancitybuzz.com/ www.mantalks.com/ www.bradlomenick.com/ The Catalyst Leader by Brad Lomenick H3 Leadership by Brad Lomenick www.thegivingkeys.com Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (www.jesusparlange.com – www.lateniteautomatic.com)
Jonathan Becker founded Thrive Digital, a company dedicated in user acquisition, lead generation, and more. Jonathan is a serial entrepreneur and has a lot of advice to share for others who are looking to break out and thrive on their own. One piece of advice Jonathan gives to other aspiring entrepreneurs is to quit while you're ahead and use your newly learned skills to build something even better. Key Takeaways: [2:50] What was Jonathan's defining moment? [4:45] What does Jonathan currently do? [6:45] Jonathan offers his best online marketing tip for someone who is trying to break into the marketing industry. [11:30] SEO is much more difficult today than it was a couple of years ago. [12:25] Don't invest massive amounts of money on an unproven idea just yet. [12:45] Good businesses are doing something exceptional. [13:45] Jonathan talks about the online porker company he tried to start. [16:25] Jonathan couldn't tell his parents about what he was doing. [19:10] Don't be afraid to quit while you're ahead. [22:50] Jonathan has always wanted to be in business. [23:40] Thrive Digital is the fourth/fifth company Jonathan has started. [27:15] What's the dark side of entrepreneurship? [30:00] Jonathan loves Uber because they're disrupting the industry. [34:25] How can you add value to your team and employees? [38:40] What does success look like on both an entrepreneurial and personal standpoint? [40:45] What legacy does Jonathan want to leave? [41:25] What's Jonathan most excited about? Mentioned in This Episode: www.vancitybuzz.com/ www.mantalks.com/ www.thrivedigital.co/ www.twitter.com/jzbecker www.linkedin.com/in/jonathanzbecker Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (www.jesusparlange.com – www.lateniteautomatic.com)
Lee Eisenberg was the editor-in-chief of Esquire magazine for two decades. In 1995, he joined Time Inc. as a consulting editor and helped launch a series of new initiatives such as Time.com, Time for Kids, and The Time 100. In 2006, he published The Number, which became a national bestseller. Today, Lee talks to Connor and Roger about his latest book, The Point Is, and why having a personal narrative is so important for our life journey. Key Takeaways: [0:30] As of today, we're in Toronto, L.A, and Vancouver. [0:35] If you're in any of those cities, come out to our event. [2:55] What was a defining moment for Lee as a man? [4:25] How do we really build a life story for ourselves? [5:00] Why did Lee write The Point Is? [7:15] Why do we endure certain memories and re-write others? [8:50] Personal narrative requires a lot of self-reflection. [9:00] Were there any commonalities in how people saw themselves? [10:35] Lee has only kept a diary once in his life. [12:20] When you record events in real time, you really don't know what they'll stand for later. [12:50] Virtually no one is keeping a diary. [16:25] Lee is a bit cynical about talk therapy; however, it can help reexamine past traumas and bad memories and help you rewrite your life story. [17:35] Most people feel like they're not using their creative channel efficiency. [18:45] It's important to uncover your story as well as share your story. [20:10] You don't necessarily tell your story to others, but at the very least tell your story to yourself. [20:20] Why do we remember certain things so strongly and why do we attach so much importance to certain things? [20:55] How can people dive into their personal story a bit more? [22:25] We create personal myths for ourselves. What is your personal myth? [23:30] What novel genre would your life story be? [27:50] The power of narrative is why we can go through life and make some sense of it. [28:55] Do people get their personal narrative mixed up with other people's view of them? [30:25] What legacy would Lee like to leave behind? Mentioned in This Episode: www.mantalks.com/ www.leeeisenberg.com/ The Number by Lee Eisenberg The Point Is by Lee Eisenberg Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (www.jesusparlange.com – www.lateniteautomatic.com)
Tim Urban is the creator and blogger of Wait but Why, a website that is anti-click bait and extremely informative. Tim originally started his website on a bet because he knew deep down that other people, too, craved for meaningful and substantial content on the web. The idea worked! Not only does his content go viral, but he was able to get the attention of people like Elon Musk, and more. Key Takeaways: [2:35] What was Tim's defining moment? [5:40] Those who have a fall back plan, fall back but that didn't apply to Tim. [6:10] Even though Tim had a fall back plan, he was still very desperate to achieve his creative dream. [6:20] You need to have a runway, a game plan that you're able to carry out in a certain amount of time, but it also has to be realistic. [6:55] Some people work best when they burn their other options, others do not. [7:15] Why did Tim create Wait but Why? [11:20] Tim had an advantage where he could work 60 hours a week focusing on nothing but blogging. [11:45] Connor never read blogs until he stumbled upon Tim's blog. [13:45] Tim knew he didn't have a staff, so he had to find a way to work with his strengths instead. [14:50] Tim shares his one piece of advice for any endeavor. [15:45] What makes Elon Musk so unique? [17:35] Don't be the cook that copies the recipe, be the chef who creates them. [18:45] How does Tim get over the 'no one is going to read this' fear? [19:35] Trust yourself. You can be great. [21:15] What was it like to prepare for the Ted Talk? [24:55] What was it like to meet Elon Musk? [27:20] Get ready for a series of rapid fire questions. [27:25] Why did Tim visit North Korea? [27:40] What does curiosity mean to Tim? [28:10] What was Donald Trump like in person? [28:30] What legacy would Tim like to leave behind? [29:40] What is Tim most excited about? Mentioned in This Episode: www.mantalks.com/ www.waitbutwhy.com/ www.waitbutwhy.com/2015/11/the-cook-and-the-chef-musks-secret-sauce.html Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (www.jesusparlange.com – www.lateniteautomatic.com)
Shea Emry is a former Canadian football player who played eight seasons in the CFL. When Shea experienced a serious concussion back in 2011, he struggled with depression and was left feeling unsure about who he was outside of being a pro-athlete. He has since taken the journey to rediscover who he is as a person and is a huge advocate on redefining masculinity. His mission is to break down social stereotypes on the definition of hyper-masculinity and to help support and guide young male youth. Key Takeaways: [0:55] ManTalks is moving to Toronto! [4:15] What was Shea's defining moment? [5:50] Shea had an incredibly bad concussion in 2011 and has battled back and forth between retirement, ever since. [6:50] It was hard for Shea to walk away from sports because he identified so strongly as an athlete. [7:30] What was it like to be a pro-athlete? [10:25] How did Shea get into pro sports? [12:15] Shea talks about his concussion and how he recovered from it. [19:10] How can parents, spouse, or friends help support someone suffering from a concussion? [21:30] Are you currently having an identity crisis? You'll want to listen in to hear how to overcome it. [22:45] It gets easier with time. You will find yourself again. [23:00] What's Shea's purpose? To challenge hyper-masculine stereotypes. [23:15] What does hyper-masculinity mean to Shea? [25:35] Shea briefly talks on the three organizations he's currently a part of and what they stand for. [32:50] Shea wants male youth to feel comfortable with expressing themselves. [33:45] How does Shea support the women in his life? [34:35] There needs to be a communicative environment in order to lend a hand and support the women in a man's life. [35:00] Shea supports his wife by putting his phone down and listening to what she is saying. [35:45] One of the most masculine things we can do is just be present. [38:40] What legacy would Shea like to leave behind? [41:35] Save the date! April 18th ManTalks will be live from Toronto. Mentioned in This Episode: http://www.vancitybuzz.com/ http://mantalks.com/ http://tedxtalks.ted.com/video/An-Adventure-Within-How-to-Beco https://twitter.com/sheaemry http://wellmen.org/ Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com – lateniteautomatic.com)
Clint Emerson is a retired Navy SEAL and the author of 100 Deadly Skills. In his book, Clint shares how you can be an overall badass and detect threats from people who are armed. You will learn how to escape a locked trunk, evade a kidnapping, and so much more in Clint's book. Clint talks on what must-have items you should keep in your car at all times and how to detect someone trying to follow or stalk you, in today's show. Key Takeaways: [2:55] Clint shares one of the more intense stories he has experienced while he was a navy SEAL. [6:45] Why did Clint want to be a SEAL? [8:45] What kind of tests did Clint have to go through? [17:35] What is the 100 Deadly Skills book about? [20:35] You can put a razor in the sole of your shoes and use it to get out of some handcuffs. [21:55] Key things to look out for in a bad guy? [25:35] What are some of the key things for infiltration? [31:35] What should people carry in their vehicle? [33:15] How do you build your own compass? [39:20] What were some of the things Clint had to do during his initiation into the SEALs? [41:40] What should you know about surveillance? [43:10] Clint talks about night vision. [44:55] In order to pick a lock, you need to understand how a lock works. [48:20] What's life like after the Navy SEALs? [50:30] What are some of the biggest challenges Clint has faced now that he is out? [53:35] What legacy would Clint like to leave behind? [54:50] Clint is working on book number two, so look out for that in the future. Mentioned in This Episode: 100 Deadly Skills by Clint Emerson https://100deadlyskills.com/optin https://twitter.com/100deadlyskills Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com – lateniteautomatic.com)
Oren Klaff has raised over $400 million of investor capital from high net-worth individuals and financial institutions. He is also the author of Pitch Anything, and he teaches others on how they can get the competitive edge in any negotiation scenario. Oren talks about how you can frame a negotiation to your advantage and how to get a buyer's interest in 150 words or less. Key Takeaways: [2:20] What was Oren's defining moment as a man? [3:30] How did Oren discover that monogamy was what he wanted? [5:05] What does Oren do? [6:20] What's Oren's book, Pitch Anything, about? [7:40] The strength of your status and quality of your presentation = the amount of attention you get. [8:30] Nobody is going to listen to you for 3 hours. People are busy. [8:50] Pitch Anything is about how to raise your status so people will pay attention to you. [11:00] The human mind is built to protect you in social situations. [11:35] It's natural to act nice in high-risk situations to lower tensions, but it hurts you in negotiations. [13:00] It can only go two ways. Either you're superior or the buyer is superior in terms of status. [13:15] Most buyers assume they're superior due to them holding the money. [13:40] Reframe the meeting so that the buyer has to earn your attention. [15:25] Trying to get a raise at your job? Listen to Oren's advice here. [17:40] How do you sell the story? [20:55] NPR knows how to tell a story, Fox News doesn't. [24:10] Oren shares two of his 150 word pitches. [29:35] Look out for Oren's second book coming out soon. [31:45] What legacy would Oren like to leave behind? Quotes: “Your strength of your status and quality of your presentation = the amount of attention you get.” “The buyer is the commodity, not you. Money is the commodity, not you. The buyer has to earn your attention.” “If you do something of value that will stand the sands of time, that’s a good legacy.” Mentioned in This Episode: http://www.vancitybuzz.com/ http://mantalks.com/ http://pitchanything.com/ http://pitchanything.com/mantalks Pitch Anything by Oren Klaff Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com – lateniteautomatic.com) za2mxqz4
UJ Ramdas is a passionate entrepreneur who incorporates practical psychology into easy-to-use products. He is the creator of The Five Minute Journal and The Productivity Planner. UJ explains why he and his team created The Five Minute Journal and The Productivity Planner and also shares why gratitude can make you a more successful person. Key Takeaways: [2:00] What was UJ's defining moment? [3:45] What does UJ do? [6:30] Why did UJ want to study behavioral science? [9:30] You use business as a vehicle to help create a bigger impact in the world. [10:10] UJ explains the difference between the conscious mind and the unconscious mind. [13:55] Why would you want to use The Five Minute Journal? [15:55] Why does The Five Minute Journal work? [20:30] Why should you journal? Every journal has a purpose. [23:55] What is the Productivity Planner about? [29:45] What's UJ most excited about in the upcoming months? [31:30] So many people want to be productive, but they don't know how to measure it. [32:05] What legacy would UJ like to leave behind? Quotes: A business is a creative vehicle for the impact that you want to have in the world. A lot of the time, we bite off more than we can chew on a daily basis. Injecting more awareness into your daily task flow is going to help you. Mentioned in This Episode: http://www.vancitybuzz.com/ http://www.ujramdas.com/ www.fiveminutejournal.com/ http://www.productivityplanner.com/ Thinking, Fast and Slow by Daniel Kahneman http://www.intelligentchange.com/ Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com– lateniteautomatic.com)
Mark Brand opened his first restaurant in 2007 and went on to restore Save On Meats, a butcher shop founded in 1957. Save On Meats is not like any other butcher shop or lunch counter, because Mark has created a sustainable business model that serves the community. Mark states that by creating a business that stands for something, not only does that help the community as a whole, but he has seen fewer turnovers from his staff because they also believe in the bigger picture. Key Takeaways: [1:45] Thank you Vancity Buzz for sponsoring us! [2:45] What was Mark's defining moment? [6:55] How did Mark get started in the hospitality industry? [9:20] Mark had an addiction problem, but he decided that wasn't going to be his story. [10:10] Mark opened his restaurant in a bad neighborhood and everybody told him it was a bad idea. [15:25] Mark talks about the reality show he was a part of. [18:10] Save on Meats isn't just a restaurant; it has a big social component too. [21:45] What's one piece of advice Mark can share with those who are looking to start a non-profit? [25:40] Mark has created a model where people can see how their dollar impacts others. [30:55] What are some of Mark's core values? [32:35] How does Mark define success? [34:55] Mark shares a few statistics. [36:45] Why should business owners care about the bottom line? Because it's the right thing to do! [38:40] Millennials are looking for purpose-based businesses. [39:30] Where does Mark see himself in ten years? [41:30] Mark talks about the kind of legacy he would like to leave behind. Mentioned in This Episode: http://www.vancitybuzz.com/ http://mantalks.com/ http://www.markbrandinc.com/ http://saveonmeats.ca/ Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com– lateniteautomatic.com)
Lewis Howes is a lifestyle entrepreneur, business coach, author, and podcaster. He is also a contributing writer for Entrepreneur magazine and Yahoo.com, and has been featured in Forbes, Men's Health, and The New York Times. Lewis shares with us why he has such a passion for greatness and how being a pro athlete has made him not only a better entrepreneur, but a better person as well. Key Takeaways: [1:30] ManTalks is hosting an event on April 9th, 2016. [2:25] What was Lewis's defining moment? [3:25] How did Lewis take his power back? [4:50] Ask your friends where your blind spots are. [6:40] The greatest leaders in the world learn how to connect in intimate and vulnerable ways. [8:25] Where did Lewis's passion for greatness come from? [13:05] Lewis talks about the 'seasons' in his life. [15:10] What lessons did Lewis learn when he was a pro athlete? [17:45] What does a champion's mindset look like? [19:30] Your results are your credentials. [19:50] Belief carries you to the championships. [21:55] What does hustle mean to Lewis? [28:20] What does Lewis plan to talk about at the ManTalks event? He gives us a teaser. [29:55] Lewis talks about what he's excited about these days. [30:25] You get a free copy of Lewis's book if you join the ManTalks event. Mentioned in This Episode: http://www.vancitybuzz.com/ http://mantalks.com/ http://lewishowes.com School of Greatness by Lewis Howes Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com – lateniteautomatic.com)
Stephen Mansfield is a bestselling author and a leadership coach. Stephen has written a number of books including The Faith of George W. Bush, Killing Jesus, and Mansfield's Book Of Manly Men; which has inspired men's events worldwide. He is currently working on a new book to help accompany Mansfield's Book Of Manly Men titled Building Your Band of Brothers, and sheds some light on how men can build better relationships with other men. Key Takeaways: [1:40] Thank you Vancity Buzz for being a sponsor! [2:15] What was a defining moment for Stephen. [5:10] What is manhood? [7:15] What kind of values should a man look for? [7:55] Take responsibility for your actions. [9:25] Men in the Western world are mostly walking alone. [12:20] How can men become more vulnerable amongst each other? [14:55] Stephen shares a story on how his band of brothers has helped him. [18:15] How can you build accountability and responsibility within a group? [23:15] What kind of guys should you surround yourself with? [26:40] Should you have boundaries with your band of brothers? [29:10] What other virtues are important aside from responsibility? [32:15] Stephen talks about his mentors and key influences in his life. [34:45] Stephen tells us about his new book, Building Your Band of Brothers. [35:45] Military men often do not have a support system due to their constant traveling. [39:05] What kind of challenges or pitfalls do men face? [42:45] What kind of legacy would Stephen like to leave behind? Mentioned in This Episode: http://www.vancitybuzz.com/ Mansfield's Book of Manly Men by Stephen Mansfield Building Your Band of Brothers by Stephen Mansfield http://stephenmansfield.tv/ Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com – lateniteautomatic.com) https://twitter.com/MansfieldWrites
Chris Bailey has conducted countless productivity experiments on himself and has interviewed several successful CEOs and business professionals on the subject of productivity. He has condensed everything he has learned into a 300 page book titled The Productivity Project. Listen to this interview to find out what productivity is -really- about and how you can use it to your full potential. Key Takeaways: [2:03] Thank you Vancity Buzz for sponsoring the podcast! [4:03] What was Chris's defining moment? [5:38] Who is Chris? [6:58] Why is Chris interested in productivity? [8:18] How did Chris find the courage to start The Productivity Project? [9:23] Follow your passion now. The time is now. [10:58] Measuring and defining productivity was difficult for Chris. [12:23] Productivity isn't about how much we produce; it's about how much we accomplish. [13:18] Productivity is a combination of balancing time, attention, and energy. [14:03] Has Chris met the most productive person in the world yet? [14:58] The most productive people, ironically, teach meditation and mindfulness. [18:58] Being in a flow state of mind is a combination of productivity and energy. [19:33] Work on one thing at one time. [22:58] How can people start being productive? [28:33] What does Chris mean by 'striving for imperfection'? [31:13] What does success look like to Chris? [35:03] How can you get yourself back on track when you stop becoming productive? [39:58] What's the difference between men vs. woman on productivity? [43:13] What is Chris most excited about these days? [44:13] What kind of legacy would Chris like to leave behind? Mentioned in This Episode: The Productivity Project by Chris Bailey http://alifeofproductivity.com/ Getting Things Done with David Allen I Know How She Does It by Laura Vanderkam Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com– lateniteautomatic.com)
Dan Millman is a former world champion athlete and the author of several books including: Way of the Peaceful Warrior, The Life You Were Born to Live, and many more. Dan talks about his latest book, The Four Purposes of Life, and what it really means to 'live a life of purpose'. Key Takeaways: [0:30] Thanks to our sponsor Vancity Buzz. [0:45] What's cool in Vancouver that people should check out? [2:15] What was a defining moment for Dan Millman. [5:55] Dan talks about his book, The Four Purposes of Life. [7:30] Dan briefly explains the four purposes in life. [8:40] How can we accomplish these four purposes? [9:10] Why does Dan write books? [10:00] It's impossible to fail at anything as long as we learn a lesson from it. [10:35] What is personal growth? Dan explains the 12 concepts. [13:15] 'What am I here to do?' [15:05] Our career's primary focus is to provide an income for us. [16:20] You don't have to love your work all the time. [17:10] How can you discover your calling? [20:15] Choosing a career people should do vs. want to do. [22:25] How can we find our life's path? [25:30] What does Dan mean when he says there's no such thing as a future decision? [30:05] We make a decision when we act, not when we think. [31:40] What does success look like to Dan? [34:35] What legacy would Dan like to leave behind? Mentioned in This Episode: http://www.vancitybuzz.com/ http://www.peacefulwarrior.com/ The Four Purposes of Life by Dan Millman. Way of the Peaceful Warrior by Dan Millman. The Life You Were Born to Live by Dan Millman. http://www.lifepurposeapp.com/ http://www.peacefulwarrior.com/ Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com – lateniteautomatic.com) * * * If you want to support the show and help others find the show please LEAVE US AN ITUNES REVIEW! http://bit.ly/22HyGqv Connect with the show on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ManTalks.ca/ , Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mantalks/ and Twitter: https://twitter.com/mantalks. * * *
Zander is a writing coach and a ghost writer. He helps his clients bring out their best stories to better serve and help their audience. Zander speaks on how someone can discover their own story, refine it, and write it in a way that benefits others. Zander is also a father of two and talks about the kind of legacy he wants to leave behind. Key Takeaways: [1:30] Please help us out by reviewing us on iTunes. [2:20] What does Zander do? [4:00] What is a ghost writer? [8:10] How can someone refine their own story? [15:35] Ask yourself: What were your defining moments last year? [17:30] What happened in your life that really shifted/changed you? [20:30] Take small steps. Start a journal. [24:25] The way you tell your story needs to help the reader. [29:00] How does Zander define success? [34:25] Don't visualize it, do it! [40:00] Zander recommends The War of Art by Steven Pressfield [47:30] What kind of challenges do men face today? [50:05] Zander loves being a dad, but it's also the hardest thing to do. [53:40] If Zander could leave one legacy in the world, what would it be? Mentioned in This Episode: http://zanderrobertson.com/ The Truth by Neil Strauss The War of Art by Steven Pressfield Gates of Fire by Steven Pressfield Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com – lateniteautomatic.com)
John Lee Dumas is the host and founder of Entrepreneur on Fire. He produces a podcast 7 days a week and his business podcast has been awarded Best of iTunes. John talks about his new product launch, The Freedom Journal, which focuses on achieving your goals in the next 100 days. Key Takeaways: [2:10] What is John's favorite part about being a man? [2:40] Who is John? [4:30] What is The Freedom Journal about? [6:30] Check out The Freedom Journal’s KickStarter campaign. [7:15] At the time of the recording, John's campaign had 1,932 backers. [8:00] John is a big believer in F.O.C.U.S. [8:50] John breaks down how the program is planned out. [10:45] Focus on one goal at a time. [11:40] What was John's #1 challenge? [13:00] John's business has grown to 7 figures. [13:50] Goal setting isn't a solo task. You need a strong support system. [13:55] Who are John's mentors? [15:30] How did John come up with the idea to host a podcast 7 days a week? [18:10] What does success look like to John? [20:45] How do you know you're on the right track? [21:45] Be authentic with yourself. [22:50] John recommends The Slight Edge by Jeff Olson. [24:45] Why did John choose 100 days to achieve a goal? [26:45] Every time John hits a funding goal in KickStarter, he will donate $25k to build a school in a developing country. Mentioned in This Episode: http://www.eofire.com/ http://www.eofire.com/tfjoptin/ https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/eofire/the-freedom-journal-accomplish-your-1-goal-in-100 http://eventualmillionaire.com/ http://podcastanswerman.com/ The Slight Edge by Jeff Olson Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com– lateniteautomatic.com) * * * If want to support the show and help others find the show please LEAVE US AN ITUNES REVIEW! http://bit.ly/22HyGqv Connect with the show on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ManTalks.ca/ , Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mantalks/ and Twitter: https://twitter.com/man_talks. * * *
Calvin Newport is an Assistant Professor of Computer Science at Georgetown University and has authored four books. Cal's latest book, Deep Work, touches on the ability to focus intently on cognitively demanding tasks without distractions. Cal explains how we can use different methods to develop this deep work skill in order to become our most productive selves. Key Takeaways: [2:10] What does Cal do? [3:35] Cal talks about his latest book, Deep Work. [4:25] How does Cal personally use 'deep work'? [7:45] What's the difference between deep work and state of flow or focus? [9:05] Deep work is a skill. You have to practice deep work to get better at it. [10:55] Chronic multi-taskers have lost their ability to completely focus 100% on a single task. [12:20] How does Cal get into a deep work state? [14:10] Cal shuts down his professional thinking in the evening. [15:45] What kind of agreements does Cal have with his wife? [19:10] Having a ritual or a routine helps you get into the right mental state. [21:05] Cal briefly touches on four rules that can help with your habits. [25:10] What kind of challenges does Cal face? [28:50] What does Cal mean by embrace boredom? [31:30] What is deep work versus what is not deep work? [33:25] How can someone apply deep work in an office setting? [38:00] How can managers effectively teach deep work in an office setting? [39:30] Why does Cal write books? [40:20] What drives Cal? [41:50] What's the best advice Cal has received? [43:45] What kind of legacy would Cal like to leave behind? [44:10] What does it mean to be a man today? Mentioned in This Episode: http://mantalks.com/ So Good They Can't Ignore You by Cal Newport. Deep Work by Cal Newport. Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com– lateniteautomatic.com) * * * If want to support the show and help others find the show please LEAVE US AN ITUNES REVIEW! http://bit.ly/22HyGqv Connect with the show on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ManTalks.ca/ , Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mantalks/ and Twitter: https://twitter.com/man_talks. * * *
Roger and Connor catch up on their year with ManTalks and talk about why every man should do a reflection on the year past. Connor recommends a couple of key questions the audience can ask themselves to provide better insight on how their year went. Roger and Connor also talk about their goals with ManTalks, as well as their personal goals for the New Year. Key Takeaways: [0:35] For this episode, Roger and Connor will be reflecting on their year. [2:15] Get rid of programs and phone apps that aren't serving you. [2:55] Why is reflection important? [3:45] What is Connor’s process of reflection? [9:15] Where do you thrive the most? [10:05] Where have you struggled the most? Reflect on this so that you don't fall into the same trap. [12:25] High achievers carry a lot of guilt when they don't accomplish their year-end goals. [13:40] Roger plans to color more in 2016. [14:20] Why do you have the goals that you have? Is it just for ego? [16:00] Who are the people in your life that you're thankful for? [18:15] You don't have to stop life just because you're going into a new year. [20:20] Connor has flexible goals. [24:50] What can people look forward to from ManTalks in 2016? [27:20] Feel free to email us guest recommendations. [28:40] Roger recommends Think and Grow Rich to develop a healthy goal mindset. [29:35] What will it cost you to achieve your goal and are you willing to pay the price? [30:25] Be honest with yourself. [31:00] What will your vision statement for 2016 be? [32:45] Take the next week off to reflect on your year. Mentioned In This Episode: http://mantalks.com/ https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/school-greatness-lewis-howes/id596047499?mt=2 The School of Greatness by Lewis Howes info@ManTalks.ca https://twitter.com/man_talks https://www.facebook.com/ManTalks.ca/ Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com– lateniteautomatic.com)
There is no quick fix for anxiety, which is why Tim JP Collins is the host of The Anxiety Podcast. He is also a life coach and provides peer support about anxiety using his own personal experiences. He talks to Connor and Roger on the topic of anxiety, how to cope with it, and why it's such a passionate topic for him. Key Takeaways: [1:20] Why did Tim become a life coach? [9:30] What is anxiety? [12:00] Can anxiety be 'cured'? [16:50] Stress vs. anxiety? [22:45] Humans have a natural negative bias. [24:25] How can men handle sexual performance anxiety? [26:45] What's Tim's coaching process like? [36:10] Everybody struggles with something. You're not alone. [40:10] Tim talks about his podcast. [42:50] What does it mean to be a man today? [44:40] A man will have the tough and uncomfortable conversations. A boy will not want to talk about it. [46:00] What's Tim's definition of success? [50:45] 70% of CEOs don't have MBAs. [51:10] What kind of legacy would Tim like to leave behind? Mentioned In This Episode: http://www.timjpcollins.com/ http://www.timjpcollins.com/podcast Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com– lateniteautomatic.com)
Ryan Michler is the founder of Order of Man, a website designed to help men succeed in business, family, and everything in between. Ryan was inspired to create this valuable resource for men, because he grew up without a strong father figure in his life. Ryan talks to both Connor and Roger on what it was like growing up with unreliable step-fathers, men's desire to be constantly challenged, and why the military's structure can sometimes be a good thing. Key Takeaways: [1:00] What does Ryan do? [1:35] Ryan never had a male role model growing up. [3:55] Why has the father figure become more and more absent in young boys' lives? [5:10] What's the biggest challenge for a man today? [7:25] In order to grow, men need to be challenged. [9:45] When did Ryan realize something was missing in his life? [11:20] You become a man when you accept personal accountability and responsibility for your own life. [14:20] Ryan talks about the military. [16:45] Exercise and reflection are the two most important elements every man should incorporate. [18:40] Your decisions are going to carry over into other aspects of your life. [20:50] Number one book: Resilience by Eric Greitens [25:10] Ryan talks on why he started his podcast. [27:40] Who are Ryan's mentors? [30:20] What are Ryan's core beliefs? [36:50] Have clarity for what you want to do or else you'll fill your life with miscellaneous stuff. [39:00] Listen to your gut. [40:30] What legacy would Ryan like to leave? Mentioned in This Episode: http://www.orderofman.com/ http://mantalks.com/ info@mantalks.ca The One Thing by Gary Keller and Jay Papasan Resilience by Eric Greitens http://www.artofmanliness.com/ http://michaelhyatt.com/ Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com– lateniteautomatic.com)
Jayson Gaignard is the founder and talent scout for MastermindTalks.com. He has had incredible guests like Tim Ferriss, Guy Kawasaki, and Lewis Howes deliver inspirational and motivational talks at his event. Jayson talks on the importance of creating meaningful connections and relationships with others, as well as shares a bit of his life story on how he was able to get out of massive amounts of debt. Key Takeaways: [1:40] ManTalks is still looking for a social media expert. [2:40] How did Jayson get started? [4:50] How did Jayson get into debt? [7:00] With very little money, Jayson doubled down and started investing in himself. [10:15] The integrity of your word is very important. [12:45] Jayson became successful because he took risks. [14:25] Who taught Jayson that making connections is important? [19:45] Are you surrounding yourself with the right people? [20:05] How did Jayson turn his life around? [23:55] Think about the worst case scenario all the time. [25:35] Why is networking important to men? [29:45] How can you develop better connections with others? [31:25] Do your research on how you can deliver value to others. [34:00] Connor does a quick recap. [36:20] Relationships are sometimes like a bank account that you want to always keep investing in. [40:30] When you play for the applause, you put your happiness in the hands of somebody else. [41:50] How does Jayson make sure the people attending his event are of high value? [48:00] Community is incredibly important for creating a great product. [49:05] Jayson recommends several books. [50:35] What does it mean to be a man these days? [53:20] What legacy would Jayson like to leave behind? [55:20] Jayson talks about the exciting things happening in his life right now. Mentioned in This Episode: http://mantalks.com/ info@mantalks.ca http://www.mastermindtalks.com/ Never Eat Alone by Tahl Raz Seeking Wisdom by Peter Bevelin Four Hour Week Work by Tim Ferriss Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com– lateniteautomatic.com)
JuVan Langford is a YouTube Influencer and the founder of Mentors Making Major Moves Inc.; a non-profit organization that introduces foster youth to inspiring mentors from all walks of life. JuVan lost his father to leukemia at a young age and lived in foster care. JuVan shares his story on what it was like growing up without a father, what it means to be a man, and shares so much more insight on the subject of masculinity. Key Takeaways: [01:40] What does Juvan do? [03:15] Juvan was raised in a foster home. [04:00] How has not having a father impacted Juvan? [09:55] What is the best part of being a man? [16:25] Sometimes just showing up is enough. You don't always have to -do- something. [20:50] What are Juvan's core beliefs? [22:00] Juvan talks about Mentors Making Major Moves [24:50] What inspires Juvan? [27:00] What does it mean to be a man? JuVan explains the AIM acronym. [29:30] Integrity is about being real with yourself. [31:05] Our greatest shame shows up in every aspect of our life. You have to control it. [32:25] Take risks! [33:45] JuVan talks about his mentor, Michael Gates. [36:45] What legacy would JuVan like to leave behind? [38:00] What's JuVan excited about these days? Mentioned In This Episode: http://mantalks.com/ info@mantalks.ca https://www.youtube.com/user/themrjlangford http://www.mxfour.org/ Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com– lateniteautomatic.com)
Graham Young was sick and tired of the same impractical advice in the self-help industry, so he decided to disrupt it by creating the 'Disruptive Performance Coaching' method. He helps people by using a practical and science-based approach to their personal development. His main goal is to give people the freedom to control their lives. Graham talks on our fear of introspection, his definition of success, and so much more. Key Takeaways: [0:20] Roger is flying solo as Connor prepares for the ManTalks one day event. [1:00] Who is Graham Young? [3:15] Graham wasn't happy with the self-help material out there. [4:20] Graham talks about his mom and mentor passing away. [7:15] What's Graham's process when working with a new client? [10:00] Why do men fear introspection? [14:20] What is the definition of a coach? [16:25] Graham shares a client success story. [21:10] Our brain is hardwired to be negative. [22:35] What's Graham's definition of success? [26:40] Graham talks about Marc Benioff [31:22] What's Graham's core beliefs? [36:35] Graham talks further about his mentor who committed suicide. [39:30] What does it mean to be a modern day man? [43:20] What is Graham most excited about today? Mentioned In This Episode: info@mantalks.ca http://mantalks.com/ https://www.gystrategies.com/ Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com– lateniteautomatic.com)
When Dai Manuel's parents were going through a divorce, he found solace in food. By the time Dai was 14-years-old he weighted nearly 200lbs and decided enough was enough. This defining moment made Dai realize that he was the only person who was in complete control of himself. Now at the age of 38 going on 39, it's Dai's passion to empower others and help them develop a healthy, more active lifestyle. Key Takeaways: [0:35] ManTalks is hiring! [1:10] ManTalks is coming to Toronto next year. [2:35] How does Dai wake up at 5am everyday? [4:55] Why fitness? [7:45] How did Dai get his start in the fitness industry? [12:40] Connor's mentor was 81-years-old. [13:40] What's Dai's definition of passion? [18:00] Make a plan and then work towards it. [18:25] Dai became an accidental blogger. [20:55] Dai explains his goal setting process. [25:00] What are the key things around health and fitness? [31:00] Remember we have a full one day event on Nov 7th! [34:30] Connor likes to watch anime and workout. [39:00] Community is key to keeping you on track. [40:00] What does Dai do when he gets off course? [43:30] Best advice Dai has ever received? [47:20] What does it mean to be a man today? [50:15] Best part about being a man? [55:30] Where did the nickname 'Moose' come from? [58:15] Dai will be having a weekly periscope session with his followers. [1:00:00] Thank you for listening and please subscribe/review on iTunes! Mentioned In This Episode: info@mantalks.ca http://mantalks.com/ http://www.daimanuel.com/ Double Double by Cameron Herold. http://www.wholelifefitnessmanifesto.com/ Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com– lateniteautomatic.com)
Todd Henry is the host of The Accidental Creative podcast and the author of three books, The Accidental Creative, Die Empty, and Louder Than Words. Todd's mission is to help others discover their authentic voice. Todd talks on how to find your true identity, define the kind of freedom you want, and to disrupt your patterns. Key Takeaways: [0:45] Connor talks about their exciting new partner/sponsor. [2:30] What does Todd do? [3:20] Why does Todd do what he does? [5:50] What does an authentic voice really mean? [8:00] What does freedom look like for you? [9:50] Don't just drift through your days, stop and notice the patterns. [10:20] Todd describes why you should write your manifesto. [12:50] Pay close attention to your patterns. [15:50] Todd talks about vulnerability. [19:15] It's almost easier to do it alone, but that doesn't scale. [20:15] ManTalks will be hosting a one day event on Nov 7th. [24:10] We depend on others. [26:40] Why is Donald Trump resonating with the crowd? [30:35] We can tell when someone is being authentic or not. [32:00] What's Todd most excited about right now? Mentioned In This Episode: http://www.toddhenry.com/ http://www.vancitybuzz.com/ http://mantalks.com/ http://www.toddhenry.com/collective Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com– lateniteautomatic.com)
Brian Turko is the son of Ukrainian immigrants and the owner of Milano coffee. Milano has three stores in Vancouver and one in Toronto. Brian talks on what it was like growing up with immigrant parents, how he keeps a good relationship with his wife of 20 years, and the lessons he's learned as a young child. Come sit down, listen in, and join us at the top of the mountain with this week's episode. Key Takeaways: [0:40] What's Brian's background? [5:55] Why did Brian get into the coffee business? [20:00] Your curiosity can help you find your passion. [21:00] Coffee was created out of poverty. [26:00] What's Brian's definition of success? [35:20] Recognize that you have fear, but take action anyway. [36:00] Brian talks about a lesson he learned when he was younger. [44:20] It sometimes takes reckless abandonment to believe. [51:20] ManTalks will be hosting a full one day event Nov 7th. [57:35] What's it like to be a man today? [1:09:05] What kind of mark on the world does Brian want to leave? [1:15:45] It doesn't always work out. Live everyday as if it's your first and your last day. [1:20:05] Stop by Brian's shop and say hi. Mentioned In This Episode: http://mantalks.com/ http://www.milanocoffee.ca/ Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com– lateniteautomatic.com)
John Nieuwenburg opens up in a very vulnerable way about his attempted suicide and depression on today's show. John is an award-winning coach and a TedX speaker. He talks on what depression feels like, his recovery after his suicide attempt, and how other people can prevent what John has went through. Do not be afraid to talk about your depression and to seek help. The only way to come out of your darkness is by shining a light on it. Key Takeaways: [2:55] Who is John Nieuwenburg? [7:55] What was life like for John before the age of 45? [13:40] What makes a great coach? [17:55] What type of work does John do? [23:25] Why did John attempt suicide? [25:45] What does depression feel like? [34:00] We give depression power by not talking about it. Talk about your depression. [39:35] With depression, you feel like you've run out of options. [45:00] Statistics on suicides in Canada says that 3 out of 4 suicides are men. [48:10] What happened after John's suicide attempt? [51:40] Remember, ManTalks is hosting a full one day event on Nov 7th. [55:20] How can you help people who are suffering? [58:10 The only way to come out of the darkness is by shining a light on it. [58:35] Should you take medication? [1:01:50] Should you talk about depression with children? [1:03:40] What does it mean to be a man today? [1:05:50] Do you have a written definition of the best you can be? Affirmations are important. [1:09:00] What is John excited about today? Mentioned In This Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jNScHdMMw8E http://w5coaching.com Darkness Visible by William Styron http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability?language=en Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com– lateniteautomatic.com)
Lodro Rinzler is a practitioner and teacher in the Shambhala Buddhist lineage. Lodro has been meditating since he was a child and has written five books with the newest being, How to Love Yourself (And Sometimes Other People). Lodro's columns have appeared on Elephant Journal, Huffington Post, Bloomberg, and so much more. Lodro talks on how you can love yourself, using your vulnerability as a strength, and he does a short demonstration on how to start meditating. Key Takeaways: [2:10] ManTalks will be hosting a one day event on Nov 7th. [3:30] What is Man It Forward and how can you win tickets for the event? [5:40] Who is Lodro? [7:15] Why did Lodro run off to the monastery? [8:30] Lodro is a second-generation Buddhist. [11:40] Lodro talks about his latest book, How to Love Yourself. [15:20] How can help people love themselves? [18:45] Connor and Roger talks on the one day event ManTalks is hosting. [21:35] How can we start meditating? [31:40] How can men look into themselves? [36:10] Meditating helps teach you how to love. [40:00] Why does the world need meditation now? [43:10] How does Lodro define success? [45:00] What does it mean to be a modern man? [46:20] What is Lodro excited about right now? Mentioned In This Episode: http://mantalks.com/ http://ny.shambhala.org/blog/ http://www.lodrorinzler.com/ Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com– lateniteautomatic.com)
Vikram Vij is an Indian-born Canadian chef and the co-owner of Vij's Restaurant in Vancouver. Vikram brings his extreme optimism and passion for cooking right into this podcast. He says passion is like your first love and your focus should be your second love. When these two loves are combined, it's a great recipe for success. Vikram shares openly the challenges he has faced and his frustrations with prejudice. He also talks on the importance of freedom and respecting everyone, no matter what social class they may be. Key Takeaways: [1:25] Who is Vikram Vij? [5:50] What does passion mean to Vikram? [8:30] Why did Vikram go to Austria? [11:15] Failure is a part of our lives. [11:45] There's no formula for success. [13:30] What kind of challenges has Vikram experienced? [19:00] What's Vikram's definition of success? [20:20] Vikram talks about his mentors. [23:15] What are Vikram's core beliefs? [28:10] Connor and Roger tell you about the 1-day event Man Talks will be hosting and how you can win free tickets. [32:00] What people thrive for in life is freedom. [35:50] Vikram is often frustrated by prejudice. [38:45] Best resources? Travel the world. [42:55] What does it mean to be a man today? [48:00] One piece of advice? Respect everyone. [49:40] What kind of legacy would Vikram like to leave? [51:55] What's Vikram excited about today? [56:25] Love what you do and don't take things for granted. Mentioned In This Episode: http://mantalks.com/ Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. http://www.vijs.ca/ https://twitter.com/Vijs_restaurant https://www.facebook.com/Vijs-174255645924082/timeline/ Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com– lateniteautomatic.com)
David Katz is the Founder of The Plastic Bank and recent winner of the EO Global Citizen award. The Plastic Bank is the world's only organization to monetize plastic recycling. The Plastic Bank gives opportunities for the disadvantaged to collect and trade plastic waste as currency and the organization aims to create a global micro recycling economy to help reduce poverty and clean the environment. David speaks to Connor on raising a special needs child, the importance of being present in your work, and so much more on today's episode. Key Takeaways: [1:05] ManTalks will be having a one day event in Vancouver. [2:10] Connor introduces David Katz [4:00] What does David do? [6:30] How does David's plastic business work? [10:25] Consumers are demanding corporations to make a conscious change in the environment. [13:00] How does an entrepreneur make money? By adding value. [14:40] What was David like as a kid? [18:00] Enjoy the journey and focus on being happy today. [23:15] Despite being a C-student, David went to university. [25:55] Connor listened to the radio recently and hated it. [28:00] What makes David present? Exercise. [31:10] We never regret exercise when you're done. [40:00] How did David learn to work through the obstacles and not flee? [44:25] David was inspired by failure. [59:05] What's David's defining moment? [54:40] Grow the most vulnerable part of yourself. [61:10] Everything is meaningful when you know what to look for. [64:35] What kind of legacy would David like to leave? [70:00] What's one question David never has been asked before? [73:00] What's David most excited about? [74:55] Life is limitless. [76:45] Remember ManTalks is hosting a one day event in Vancouver. Mentioned In This Episode: http://mantalks.com/ http://plasticbank.org Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com– lateniteautomatic.com)
Dan Mangan is a two-time JUNO Award winning musician and a contributing writer for The guardian and Huffington Post Canada. Dan has recently released a new album entitled Club Meds under the band name Dan Mangan + Blacksmith. Dan talks to the guys on his creation process, being vulnerable, and also gives some advice to young musicians looking to make music for a living. Dan reminds the audience that there will be hard days in the creation process, but you have to trust your gut and ignore the critics. Key Takeaways: [1:40] What does Dan do? [2:20] What's Dan's why? [5:45] Dan talks about his musical style. [8:35] What does it really mean to be a 'rock star'? [12:35] Dan talks on his son being born 7 weeks early. [17:10] What kind of challenges has Dan faced in the music industry? [24:10] Starting your own band? Buy a van and hire a publicist. [24:55] What's Dan's creation process? [34:55] Dan doesn't always love the creation process. [35:55] You will have hard days in the creative process. [40:35] Dan doesn't want to make the same record twice. [43:55] You have to trust your gut and ignore the critics. [54:20] The most impressive people are the ones who can be vulnerable. [55:20] How has Dan learned to become a leader? [60:30] How can you lead people without being a bully? [63:20] What does it mean to be a man today? [66:30] Life is always complicated. [67:10] What kind of legacy does Dan want to leave behind? [69:05] Dan is currently working on an EP. [70:40] ManTalks will be hosting a one day event in Vancouver on Nov 7th. Mentioned In This Episode: http://danmanganmusic.com/ Hector and the Search for Happiness Club Meds by Dan Mangan + Blacksmith. http://mantalks.com/ Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com – lateniteautomatic.com)
*Apologies for the poor audio quality... It gets better around episode 005 Andy Zaremba is the co-host of the Vancouver Real podcast and co-founder of Float House. He was a speaker for the Man Talks conference and is back with more wisdom to share with today's audience. One of Andy's defining moments was the premature birth of his daughter, who was an unexpected surprise. He really opens up with our co-hosts today about the pregnancy and some of the challenges he faced during the birth of his daughter. He also talks why he and his brother decided to open Float House, what it is, and why people should do it. Key Takeaways: [1:10] How did Connor get to know Andy Zaremba? [2:45] What does Andy do? [3:25] What is sensory deprivation or 'floating'? [6:00] When Connor left the float room, he felt like everything was sharper and clearer. [7:10] Floating is completely different from meditation. [10:10] Why did Andy and his brother start float house? [13:55] When you face challenges, that's when you're going to grow the most as a human being. [16:00] What was a defining moment for Andy? [25:25] Man Talks challenges men to really think differently about how they show up in the world. [26:45] Not a lot of men are willing to share their experience with an unplanned pregnancy. [35:20] Instead of fighting your emotions, let them be, let yourself feel them. [37:20] What's Andy's meditation routine? [40:00] There are some really 'crazy' gurus out there promoting spirituality in a negative way. [41:10] Andy talks psychedelics. [48:50] Why are role models important for men? [54:25] Your inner demons may never go away fully, but you can work on dealing with them better. [56:45] Best advice Andy received? Mentioned In This Episode: http://www.vancouverreal.tv/ http://mantalks.com/ http://www.floathouse.ca The Wisdom of Insecurity by Alan Watts The Culture High by Adam Scorgie Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com – lateniteautomatic.com) http://mantalks.com/
*Apologies for the poor audio quality... It gets better around episode 005 Mark Groves is a human connections specialist and a relationship coach. The guys highly encourage you to bring along your partner for this episode as Mark does a detailed dive on how to build a deeper and more intimate relationship with your partner. Mark talks on the concept of masculinity, how it affects young men, how to truly listen to your partner, dealing with feelings of guilt, and so much more. Key Takeaways: [1:00] Grab your partner or significant other for this podcast. [1:30] Who is Mark Groves and what does he do? [3:20] What's Mark's purpose? [7:10] More young men are committing suicide than women. [7:40] How can we maintain our masculinity and still be empathic, kind, and emotional? [9:55] How do men and women differ in their needs in a relationships? [12:30] Our significant other may feel like we're not listening, how can we show her that we are? [14:30] Men have the tendency to offer advice and try to fix the problem and that makes a woman feel like she's not being understood. [18:10] Couples should have ground rules or agreements, like a business, as to what they want out of the relationship. [21:05] Ask your father what his greatest fear is and open up that conversation. [25:15] What was a defining moment for Mark that really shifted his life? [31:20] Relationships happen by choice, not by chance. [34:45] Find the resources and discovery what a good relationship looks like. [37:00] Roger is getting married in the next 8 days. [40:00] The five closet people in our lives are a direct reflection of us. [46:45] 70% of photos on the internet are pornographic images of women. [50:15] You need to trust your gut when you feel guilty or shameful. [53:10] What if I made this choice a 1,000 times? [54:22] If you're already in the 'maybe' decision process then you're already in the no-go zone. [55:05] What's the best advice Mark has received? [59:50] Look forward to more details about the men's retreat. Mentioned In This Episode: http://mantalks.com/ http://markmanson.net/fuck-yes http://markgroves.tv/ https://instagram.com/createthelove/ Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com – lateniteautomatic.com)
*Apologies for the poor audio quality... It gets better around episode 005 Philip McKernan speaks around the world about the importance of overcoming personal obstacles, gaining clarity, and cultivating the confidence to believe in yourself. On today's show, Philip talks on how men seek validation and are willing to go above and beyond to receive it. Although there's nothing wrong with being a provider for your friends, family, and loved ones, we may create a life that's unauthentic to who we are and our life's goals when we're seeking that validation. Key Takeaways: [2:40] Who is Philip and what does he do? [5:15] How did Philip make a shift from not being himself to living his purpose? [8:10] Ask the hard questions about your authenticity and who you are. [10:25] What kind of work does Philip do? [14:55] One of the biggest issues we face is the lack of identity Who are we at the core? [16:35] Don't let the clutter get in the way. Stay true to your personal message. [18:50] Phillip loves what he does so much that he'd rather die than not keep doing it. [20:25] Do a lot of men seek money over meaning? [22:20] The desire for security is driven by insecurity. [23:00] You don't need money to buy freedom. Freedom comes within. [27:25] Who are you seeking validation from today? [33:40] It's important to have a relationship with yourself, but what does that mean and why is it important? [39:45] People often are unaware of their current reality and how unhappy they may be. [43:40] How did Philip trust his inner voice and how did he develop that voice? [50:40] You connect with the right people and they either become mentors or students. Sometimes those relationships can't be forced. [55:40] We believe in great figures like Steve Jobs, yet we don't believe in ourselves. [56:50] What advice would Philip offer to others? [59:35] Stop making this journey about you, start making it about other people. [63:50] Letting go and giving up are two very, very different things. We let go to create space. Mentioned In This Episode: http://mantalks.com/ http://philipmckernan.com/ Music Credit: Parlange & Latenite Automatic (jesusparlange.com – lateniteautomatic.com)
Jay Brown from Latenite Automatic phones in to talk about the new album Are You Electric?