Podcasts about Social anxiety

Eric wagt ein Experiment: die Rejection Therapy. Er nimmt bewusst ein "Nein" in Kauf, wenn er Fremde um etwas bittet. 20 Tage zieht er die Challenge durch. Wieso das Mut kostet? Wir wollen dazugehören, sagt eine Psychologin. (Wiederholung vom 04.07.2025)**********Ihr hört: Gesprächspartner: Eric, hat sich auf Social Media 20 Tage lang jeden Tag einer neuen Rejection Challenge gestellt Gesprächspartnerin: Ulrike Bossmann, Psychologin, systemische Therapeutin und Autorin Gesprächspartnerin: Daniela Grunow, Soziologin, Institut für Soziologie, Goethe-Universität Frankfurt Autor und Host: Przemek Żuk Redaktion: Anne Bohlmann, Friederike Seeger, Timur Gökce, Marcel Bohn Produktion: Norman Wollmacher**********Quellen:Weerdmeester, J. & Lange, W.-G. (2019). Social Anxiety and Pro-social Behavior Following Varying Degrees of Rejection: Piloting a New Experimental Paradigm. Frontiers in Psychology, 10.Baumeister, R. F., Twenge, J. M., & Nuss, C. K. (2002). Effects of social exclusion on cognitive processes: Anticipated aloneness reduces intelligent thought. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 83(4), 817–827.Brewer, M. B. (2007). The importance of being we: Human nature and intergroup relations. American Psychologist, Vol 62(8), S. 728-738.**********Mehr zum Thema bei Deutschlandfunk Nova:Rejection Therapy: So lernen wir, mit einem Nein umzugehenZusammenhalt: Wie wir achtsam Gemeinschaft gestaltenDie Macht der Gruppe**********Ihr könnt uns auch auf diesen Kanälen folgen: TikTok und Instagram .**********Meldet euch!Ihr könnt das Team von Facts & Feelings über Whatsapp erreichen.Uns interessiert: Was beschäftigt euch? Habt ihr ein Thema, über das wir unbedingt in der Sendung und im Podcast sprechen sollen?Schickt uns eine Sprachnachricht oder schreibt uns per 0160-91360852 oder an factsundfeelings@deutschlandradio.de.Wichtig: Wenn ihr diese Nummer speichert und uns eine Nachricht schickt, akzeptiert ihr unsere Regeln zum Datenschutz und bei Whatsapp die Datenschutzrichtlinien von Whatsapp.

Anna finds out about social anxiety from Dr Odhrán McCarthy.

In this episode... You'll learn when to tap and how to tap to reduce social anxiety gradually over time in a simple and gentle way. You'll also understand why this works, how tapping helps rewire your nervous system, and what to do if you can't feel any feelings when you try to tap. Want to go further? Start your journey to social confidence with my free mini-course: The 7 Secrets To Social Confidence https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! ●     SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ●     Facebook ●     Instagram ●     X ●     TikTok ●     LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 

"Captivate" is more than just the title of her new book, it is the effect that Vanessa Van Edwards has on audiences through her videos, articles, and data-driven insights. Vanessa is a self-described recovering awkward person who went from hiding in the bathroom and avoiding people at parties to literally writing the book on deciphering human behavior. She founded her own research lab, the Science of People, and has traveled the world as a speaker presenting her findings to prestigious universities, Fortune 500 companies, and media outlets such as The Today Show, The Wall Street Journal, and much more. Learn from the certified fraud examiner, body language expert, and author as she shares practical insights for decoding human behavior in this episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu. Original air date: 8-1-17 SHOW NOTES Vanessa explains what drew her to the science of solving people and why everyone has a cipher. [6:44] Vanessa provides the keys to understanding yourself or someone else. [10:07] Tom and Vanessa discuss the gravity of language, personality types, and neuroticism. [13:40] Vanessa explains why self-soothing is important to balance. [19:00] Vanessa explores the notion of radical honesty and deconstructs ambivalent relationships. [22:53] Vanessa reveals the one question to ask that uncovers toxic relationships. [26:50] Vanessa breaks down why she believes you can smell emotions. [30:58] Tom and Vanessa discuss leveraging your uniqueness to communicate the right message. [33:54] Vanessa talks about the personality matrix, radical honesty in relationships, and the resource theory. [39:39] Vanessa reiterates the importance of self-soothing and emotional versus logistical worries. [49:30] Tom and Vanessa touch on the link between happiness and learned helplessness. [53:43] Vanessa shares how she turns small moments of unhappiness into gratitude totems. [57:30] Vanessa defines the impact that she wants to have on the world. [59:28] FOLLOW VANESSA: FACEBOOK: http://bit.ly/2tQoA9n INSTAGRAM: http://bit.ly/2uM1oxi TWITTER: http://bit.ly/2uMmn34 LINKEDIN: http://bit.ly/2vwrbrj WEBSITE: http://bit.ly/1mfaup9 YOUTUBE: http://bit.ly/2uLGzTb SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase at⁠ https://impacttheory.co/AG1pod.⁠ Secure your digital life with proactive protection for your assets, identity, family, and tech – Go to⁠ https://impacttheory.co/aurapod⁠ to start your free two-week trial. ********************************************************************** What's up, everybody? It's Tom Bilyeu here: If you want my help... 1. STARTING a business: JOIN ME HERE: ⁠https://tombilyeu.com/zero-to-founder?utm_campaign=Podcast%20Offer&utm_source=podca[%E2%80%A6]d%20end%20of%20show&utm_content=podcast%20ad%20end%20of%20show⁠ 2. SCALING a business: see if you qualify here: ⁠https://tombilyeu.com/call⁠ 3. Get my battle-tested strategies and insights delivered weekly to your inbox:⁠ https://tombilyeu.com/⁠ ********************************************************************** LISTEN TO IMPACT THEORY & MINDSET PLAYBOOK AD FREE + BONUS EPISODES on APPLE PODCASTS:⁠ apple.co/impacttheory⁠ ********************************************************************** FOLLOW TOM: Instagram:⁠ https://www.instagram.com/tombilyeu/⁠ Tik Tok:⁠ https://www.tiktok.com/@tombilyeu?lang=en⁠ Twitter:⁠ https://twitter.com/tombilyeu⁠ YouTube:⁠ https://www.youtube.com/@TomBilyeu⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

主播：Meimei（中国）+ Maelle（法国） 音乐：Comfortable最近可口可乐推出了一款新可乐，它的瓶盖必须两个人一起才能打开（a bottle cap that you can't open alone）。官方还为这种可乐盖子起了一个名字叫Friendship Cap（友谊瓶盖）。今天我们就来聊一聊这款特殊的新可乐。01. What's the Friendship Cap? 什么是“友谊瓶盖”？The Friendship cap is a special cap.它需要两个人同时拧动（twist it together）才能打开。 可口可乐公司这个设计有什么特殊用意呢？它实际上是为了促进现实生活联系的一个活动（a campaign to promote real-life connections） — especially among university students. 这个设计推动人们多去建立线下的社交，也就是面对面社交（in-person socializing）。People have to find someone to open this bottle together. 这样陌生人也能开启对话。因为如果你想喝，就需要找别人帮你打开。但如果你是一个内向的“I人（an introvert）”，那情况就不一样了。很多网友调侃说：“作为一个社恐，我会默默地把瓶子放下。”Some people may just stare at (盯着看) the bottle for 10 minutes before saying anything. 这种现象其实也反映了一个趋势——social anxiety（社交焦虑），这在年轻人中已经越来越常见。02. Gen Z's Social Anxiety 年轻人的社交焦虑自从社交媒体开始越来越盛行（social media has been so predominant），人们已经越来越习惯独处和线上社交了。Predominant /prɪˈdɑ:mɪnənt/ adj. 占主导地位的，占支配地位的而面对面社交（in-person socializing）often makes the young generation (年轻一代人) 感到有些压力。And these days, even small talk (闲聊) feels harder sometimes. 现在很多大学生都觉得开学初的“破冰活动（ice-breaking activities）”简直就是“高压现场”。Ice-breaking activities are meant to (本意) help people get to know each other, 以此打破沉默和尴尬的气氛。但对于一些社恐来说，光是“自我介绍（self-introduction）”就能让人手心冒汗。Online interaction (网络互动)现在成了主流。但在社交媒体流行之前，we had more in-person practice。现在人们都习惯于texting，DMs，and online chats。DMs：是Direct Messages的缩写，就是社交平台里的私聊功能。“Online confidence, offline panic” — that's the new normal. “线上自信爆棚，线下秒变社恐”变成了新常态。主播Meimei表示：How nervous she feels about in-person socializing depends on who she hangs out with. 如果对方本身的气场比较活跃，那她也能很快就活跃起来。But she will get very quiet when she meets new people for the first time.主播Maelle表示：她是一个绝对的“E人”，she is pretty outgoing (外向的) in general, but she can get nervous sometimes too. 这有时也取决于社交场合（the setting）。其实在各式各样的social media上浏览时间一长，我们能感受到它带来的影响。03. Coca-Cola's Smart Marketing 可口可乐的机智营销可口可乐这次就是抓住了这个“社交痛点”，用一个创意的瓶盖让大家重新“面对面”的去互动。It's smart marketing (营销). People want connections, but also need a little “push” to make it happen. 有时候人们并不是不想交朋友，而是不知道怎么开始。这时候，一个“瓶盖”就成了一个“开口”的机会。The Coca-Cola bottle becomes a kind of ice-breaker tool (打破沉默的工具) itself!04. Social Habits: China vs. West 社交习惯：中西方差异Social habits are different in China and the West. In China:有些年轻人比较社恐，尤其是当他们面对陌生人的时候。但朋友之间如果一旦熟了，很快就能聊开了，甚至都能天天微信语音（send WeChat voice messages）、发表情包（send memes）、分享生活琐事（share little moments from our lives）……In France:Young people一开始比较慢热(a bit more reserved at first), especially in public. But once they know someone, it becomes really warm and open.In America:美国青年群体社交恐惧的比率也在直线上升（social anxiety is rising）。很多人想表现得很cool，但其实心里慌的不行。所以，不管中西，其实大家都在寻找“更舒服”的社交方式。Everyone just wants to feel safe and seen (被看见).So next time if you're holding a Coca-Cola bottle with a friendship cap, it is an occasion (契机) to make a new friend! 也许对方也正鼓起勇气，想要开口认识你。Social anxiety is real, but connection is powerful.有时候，可能只是一件很琐碎的事物也会开启一段美好的缘分。You never know what life has for you until you make a move.除非你往前走一步，否则你不会知道生活会给你带来什么。欢迎在评论区告诉我们：What do you think of this cola? Would you buy a bottle and try to find a partner?你觉得这款可乐怎么样呢？你会去买一瓶并试着找一个开瓶搭子吗？

Today we're celebrating Taylor Smith's social anxiety! Yaaaay... That, and Garn struggles with his Taco Night calendar.

It's easy to spiral and feel anxious when you're on a first date, at your office holiday party or heading to your high school reunion. The stakes feel high and you want to make a good impression. But social anxiety can get in the way of connection, fun and feeling good. In this episode, we give you tools to survive small talk, practice social courage and embrace the awkward.Follow us on Instagram: @nprlifekitSign up for our newsletter here.Have an episode idea or feedback you want to share? Email us at lifekit@npr.orgSupport the show and listen to it sponsor-free by signing up for Life Kit+ at plus.npr.org/lifekitLearn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy

In this vulnerable and revealing episode of Shrink for the Shy Guy, Dr. Aziz returns from a life-changing couples workshop with a fresh insight into what really causes social anxiety and people-pleasing and how to heal it from the inside out. Most people try to overcome self-doubt by repeating affirmations, striving harder, or becoming their “ideal” version of themselves. But as Dr. Aziz explains, this fantasy self is actually wrapped around a much deeper wound: a core belief that we're not enough or not lovable as we are. Drawing from powerful moments during the retreat, he unpacks how insecure attachment leads to chronic feelings of unworthiness and how our attempts to “fix” ourselves only deepen the cycle. You'll learn how the path to lasting confidence doesn't come from becoming more, but from reconnecting with your authentic self, one that is already whole and worthy. Using a powerful metaphor of braided ropes, Dr. Aziz helps you see the loop you might be caught in and how to step out of it for good. "Everything is changeable. 100%. It's not about becoming someone else. It's about coming home to who you already are." Ready to heal the root of social anxiety and step into real freedom? Tune in now and rediscover your worth. ---------------------------------------------- Have you ever wondered why you still feel not enough, no matter how much you achieve, improve, or try to please? Why confidence sometimes feels like an act, and connection like a test you can fail? What if the real issue isn't that you're broken but that you were never fully bonded? In this episode, I want to take you deeper to the root of social anxiety and people pleasing. Because beneath the awkward moments, the self-doubt, and the endless striving lies something much more fundamental: a missing sense of I'm okay as I am. The Real Source of “I'm Not Enough” At the heart of social anxiety isn't fear it's disconnection. When you were young, something subtle but powerful happened: a gap formed between the love and security you needed and what your environment could provide. It wasn't your fault, and it doesn't mean your parents didn't love you. But that gap created what psychologists call insecure attachment a deep, body-level sense of I'm not safe, I'm not held, I'm not enough. “Social anxiety and people pleasing aren't personality flaws—they're attachment wounds trying to feel safe.” That unease in your body becomes the foundation of every “I'm not enough” story: “I'm not interesting enough.” “I'm not attractive enough.” “I'm not confident enough.” We try to fix the feeling by building a better self—a “fantasy self”—that will finally be lovable. But that striving only tightens the knot. The Fantasy Self Trap When we feel not enough, we look for clues about who we should be. Dad liked when I was smart? Be the smart one. People admire success? Chase success. Everyone loves charm? Learn to perform. Piece by piece, you build your fantasy self the polished, perfect version of you who finally earns love, approval, and belonging. But here's the painful secret: no matter how many boxes you check, the emptiness doesn't go away. The rope of your life twists endlessly between two strands—the blue rope of not-enoughness, and the orange rope of the fantasy self. Around and around you go… striving, achieving, collapsing. Until you realize: the problem was never you. It was never the missing strand. It was believing you needed to become someone else to be loved. The Way Out: Relearning Love The healing of social anxiety and people pleasing isn't about becoming your fantasy self—it's about coming home to your real self. “You don't need to earn love. You need to experience being loved as you are.” This isn't theory. It's a retraining of your nervous system—a gradual, embodied relearning that you are safe, seen, and worthy exactly as you are. You don't fix it with affirmations. You heal it through experience: letting yourself be seen, receiving care, allowing love in. That's the work and yes, it's vulnerable. But it's also freedom. Coming Home to Yourself This isn't a quick fix. It's a practice, like learning to move your body again after years of tension. You build it by showing up, by practicing openness, by letting go of the fantasy self one thread at a time. And then one day, you wake up and realize—you don't need to become enough. You already are. Because confidence isn't built on pretending to be someone else. It's born the moment you finally allow yourself to be you.

So many people in our Thin Thinking community aren't just navigating weight, food, and mindset… they're also carrying quiet anxiety under the surface. And as the holidays approach—with the social events, family expectations, food everywhere, and the pressure to be "on"—that anxiety can really kick into high gear. That's why I am so excited about this week's Thin Thinking Podcast episode with Brad Robinson, creator of the Anxiety Project Podcast. Brad and I dive into the kind of practical, grounded tools you can start using immediately—perfect for this season when your nervous system may feel a little extra tender.  It's an empowering, compassionate conversation that I know will support you—especially as we head into a season that can feel overwhelming for even the calmest among us. I hope you'll tune in, take what resonates, and feel a little more grounded, confident, and supported as you move through the holidays. Come on in! Check Brad's Website here and The Anxiety Project Podcast here   In This Episode, You'll Also Learn… How to prepare your mind before social events so you feel steadier walking in. How to gently face your "dragons" instead of avoiding or numbing. Simple habit and routine shifts that calm your mind and create more order. Why social anxiety often leads to emotional eating (and what to do instead).   Links Mentioned in the Episode: Listen to the Special Podcast on Social Anxiety: The Heart of Social Anxiety   Join my FREE Online Masterclass:  BREAKING FREE: Mastering Your Mindset for Lasting Weight Release Join my FREE Masterclass: "How to Stop the "Start Over Tomorrow" Weight Struggle Cycle and Begin Releasing Weight for Good." Sign up for the FREE HYPNOSIS DOWNLOAD : Shift Out of Sugar Cravings My book, From Fat to Thin Thinking: Unlock Your Mind for Permanent Weight Loss (Includes a 30-day hypnosis process.) What would you love to hear about on the podcast? Click here and let me know Subscribe to the email list so that you never miss an episode! Get more thin thinking tools and strategies

Believing you should never feel anxiety again is the very thing that fuels your anxiety. In this episode... I explain what real freedom looks like, why acceptance is essential, and how to stop the perfectionistic trap that keeps people stuck. You'll learn: • Why anxiety sometimes comes back • How acceptance stops the anxiety spiral • How to expand your comfort zone with ARTX If you want to start overcoming social anxiety step by step, start here: https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow  Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE "7 Secrets to Social Confidence" Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! ●     SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ●     Facebook ●     Instagram ●     X ●     TikTok ●     LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 

Send us a textMahaya is an experienced healer specializing in transformational modalities such as yoga, body work, breath work, and the unique relational practice known as "circling." Based on Vancouver Island, Canada, Mahaya's journey in the healing arts began in her twenties as she sought relief from a personal life of suffering. For more than two decades, Mahaya has embraced a wide range of disciplines, including spiritual community living and exploration of psychedelics for therapeutic purposes. Now, she creates spaces of intimacy and connection to aid others on their self-discovery paths.Visit Mahaya here: https://www.mahayahealingarts.com/Key Takeaways:Mahaya's journey highlights an evolution from personal suffering to becoming a healer through exploration of various modalities such as yoga and breath work.The practice of circling emphasizes authentic relating, creating a safe space for individuals to understand how they connect with others.The pandemic brought Mahaya face-to-face with authentic relating online, catalyzing her growth and reducing her social anxiety.Mahaya's work now integrates presence and mindfulness into everyday life, transforming professional interactions into an extension of her mindfulness practice.Her story is a powerful testament to the potential for healing and transformation when individuals are open to exploring diverse methodologies.Thanks for listening to this episode. Check out:

Send us a textThe holidays are supposed to be joyful, but for many women, they can bring stress, overwhelm, and emotional burnout. In this episode of Just Women Talking Shit: Real Conversations About Life, Mental Health, & Womanhood, we talk about protecting your peace during the holidays and navigating everything that comes with the season—in-laws who push boundaries, co-parenting drama, uncomfortable social situations, backhanded compliments, pressure to drink, and even navigating physical boundaries with children.I share actionable steps to help you:Identify your holiday stress triggersSet and maintain boundaries with family, friends, and yourselfPrioritize self-care to preserve your mental healthManage expectations and release the pressure to be perfectCreate intentional rituals to stay grounded and joyfulWhether you're hosting, traveling, or trying to survive family gatherings, this episode is full of practical strategies for stress-free holidays, mindful living, and emotional well-being.Listen now wherever you get your podcasts and start protecting your peace this season.Episode Highlights:Recognizing common sources of holiday stressHow to set boundaries without guiltPractical self-care tips for women during the holidaysManaging expectations and redefining what success looks likeCreating rituals that support mental health and emotional well-beingSupport the show

Delanie Fischer chats with Suzanne Warye, author of The Sober Shift and host of The Sober Mom Life, about the culture, conditioning, and emotional underpinnings of alcohol. They unpack everything from mommy wine culture, dude beer culture, and the dark side of normalizing drinking to the marketing tactics increasingly targeting women, how relationships can shift in sobriety, and the freedom, opportunity, and unexpected impact that come from simply not thinking about alcohol. Discussed in this episode:  Mommy Wine Culture vs. Daddy Beer Culture Have We Been Duped? Pink Labels, “Wellness” Wine , and Champagne Yoga 5 Alcohol Myths (and Why Rock Bottom Isn't Required for The Sober Life) How Alcohol Blocks Intimacy and Connection + Forming Fake Friendships The Impact of Alcohol on Social Anxiety, OCD, and Overall Health “I Know It's Bad for Me, But Alcohol is What I Look Forward To” What to Ask Yourself About Your First (and Most Recent) Drink Criticism, Pressure, and How Relationships Shift When You Stop Drinking 2 Book Recs, Simple Drink & Lifestyle Swaps, and Exit Plans for Parties The Freedom of Not Thinking About Alcohol (and Its Ripple Effect) ⁠CozyEarth.com ⁠- Right now, you can stack my code HELPLESS on top of their sitewide sale - giving you up to 40% off in savings. ____ If Self-Helpless has supported you, a quick 5-star rating or review (if you haven't already) means so much! ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/self-helpless/id1251196416⁠ Free goodies including The Quote Buffet and The Watch & Read List: ⁠https://www.selfhelplesspodcast.com/⁠ Ad-free episodes now available on ⁠Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless⁠ Your Host, Delanie Fischer:⁠ https://www.delaniefischer.com⁠ ____ Episodes related to this topic: Is Hangxiety Worth The Buzz?: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/263a8ad9/is-hangxiety-worth-the-buzz Rock Bottom vs. High Bottom and Working The 12 Steps with Amanda Hill: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/237b7862/working-the-12-steps-with-amanda-hill I Quit Drinking And Had The Best Year Ever with Helen Hong: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/23e92cd3/how-i-had-the-best-year-ever-with-helen-hong When You're A High Functioning Addict (And Modernizing The 12 Steps) with Dr. Samantha Harte: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/233469a8/when-youre-a-high-functioning-addict-and-modernizing-the-12-steps-with-dr-samantha-harte Coping With Social Anxiety: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/22bb89df/coping-with-social-anxiety Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jess was in a very chaotic parking lot situation...what would you?!

Dr. Gordon Neufeld is a developmental psychologist with over 50 years of clinical experience and a graduate degree from the University of British Columbia, where he taught psychology for 20 years. He is the author of the international bestseller "Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers", co-authored with Dr. Gabor Maté.His groundbreaking contributions to developmental psychology include the six stages of attachment development, the construct of counterwill, and his revolutionary understanding of how tears and futility drive human adaptation and transformation.In this profound conversation, Dr. Neufeld explains his attachment framework and why feeling futility is essential for both childhood development and adult healing.

In this conversation, Dr. Nicole emphasizes the importance of embracing one's unique leadership style, whether you are an introvert or dealing with social anxiety. She explains what introversion versus social anxiety is, how to determine which impacts how you show up as a leader, and strategies to lead  effectively navigating with either or both. Links mentioned in episode:Leading Her Introvert Way Episode 100Free Registration for HR Mentorship Summit - November 17-18, 2025_________LET'S CONNECT!* Work with me 1:1 to land your executive promotion, increase your impact, hone your executive presence and increase your salary by $50-100k. Book your call here to get your Elite Executive Experience.**Leave the podcast a 5-star review and help other introverted women find us and join our community.***Join our community of introverted women leaders and get weekly tips and strategies not shared anywhere else except in the LeadHer Lowdown newsletter.*****Connect with me on LinkedIn

In this Agony Aunties episode, they respond to a listener's question about managing social anxiety within a relationship. They explore how to communicate openly using “I” statements and metaphors, the importance of self-compassion, and taking small, manageable steps to expand comfort zones. The conversation touches on how exposure therapy can help reduce anxiety over time, and the delicate balance between seeking understanding from a partner and accepting that they may not fully experience your feelings. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you keep telling yourself, 'I'll work on my anxiety when I have "more time", this is for you. In this episode... Most people with social anxiety do want change, but they feel like it's not the "right time" yet. If you've ever thought: "I'm too busy to tap, I don't have time right now." "I'll fix this later when things slow down." "I just don't have the energy and space for this right now…" …then this episode will help shift your mindset. I'll share: ✅ Why lack of time isn't the real problem ✅ How subconscious resistance disguises itself as procrastination ✅ A quick tapping sequence to break through that resistance, even if you feel overwhelmed ✅ Why short, guided, self-paced sessions can free up more energy than they take You don't need hours. You just need a different approach.

Dr. David Burns and Jill Levitt will teach you seven jaw-dropping techniques to end feelings of shyness and social anxiety. For shrinks AND for the general public. If you're hurting, or you have patients who are hurting, we want you to join us! It's 100% free. Therapists even get two FREE CE credits if you attend the live event. Sign up now at CBTforSocialAnxiety.com. This event could change your life. It's Wednesday, November 5th, 2025, from 11 AM to 1 PM Pacific Coast Time. Be THERE! 

Tried CBT, exposure therapy, affirmations — and still anxious? You're not alone. I spent years trying to "change my thoughts" and "face my fears," only to make minimal progress. In this episode... I share the full story of how I went from crippling social anxiety to calm confidence — without forcing myself into scary situations or endlessly challenging my thinking. You'll hear: Why traditional methods like CBT helped intellectually but didn't shift my emotional reactions The missing piece that finally created real relief The specific method I used to dissolve anxiety at the root How you can start experiencing relief — even if everything else has failed

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In this episode... Social anxiety can feel more intense even after years of progress. I share a personal story of a tough setback and how I handled it without forcing scary exposures. You'll learn: ✅ How a new trigger can show up even after feeling like you've come so far ✅ How I used EFT tapping to reduce the perception of threat ✅ How to track progress by intensity, duration, and frequency. Triggers can be worked through. Persistence wins. Start building hope now with the free 7 Secrets to Social Confidence: https://bit.ly/socialconfidencenow Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You're not alone. I've been there. It sucks. Big time. But there's hope. I've been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I've helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there's a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won't happen overnight, but with certain techniques and strategies, you can reduce your Social Anxiety quickly. And with persistence, you can become completely anxiety-free. Without needing to force yourself to awkwardly face your fears. Ready to get started on your journey to Social Confidence? Here are your first steps: 1.) Follow this Podcast and always get the latest episodes! 2.) Go to https://bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast and receive access to a short transformational video to reduce your anxiety immediately. AND you'll also get my FREE “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” Mini Course. 3.) Let's connect! ●     SUBSCRIBE to my YouTube channel ●     Facebook ●     Instagram ●     X ●     TikTok ●     LinkedIn All the best on your journey to effortless social ease. 

What does it take to tell the truth when the world punishes you for it? In this conversation, Gabrielle Union talks about living with PTSD and social anxiety, the experiences in toxic workplaces, and what it means to keep speaking out even when fear follows close behind. She shares how activism triggers anxiety, the coping tools to keep you grounded from therapy to mindfulness, and how to redefine success through truth, purpose, and self-acceptance. Get ready to see how courage and healing can coexist and how learning to be alone doesn't mean being lonely. In this Episode, You Will Learn 00:00 What does a toxic workplace look like, then vs. now? 06:30 The emotional cost of telling the truth in an industry built on silence. 11:00 How trauma survivors navigate social anxiety, boundaries, and life in the public eye. 16:00 Tools to calm anxiety and regain control. 21:45 How intentional alone time restores peace, clarity, and self-trust. 24:30 The powerful distinction between being alone and being lonely. 28:15 How Gabrielle's 2012 Essence speech became a turning point toward truth and self-acceptance. Resources + Links Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever Watch the podcast on YouTube  Find more resources on our website morraam.com Follow Follow me: on LinkedIn @morraaronsmele + Instagram @morraam Follow Gabrielle: on LinkedIn @gabrielleunion + Instagram @gabunion

Send Me a Message! Finally I've published something. Not because this episode is one of my best (it isn't), but because I couldn't stand being stuck in that record-delete loop any longer. After days of fighting perfectionism, imposter syndrome, and an overactive inner critic, I realised the only way to get beyond this loop is to publish something....anything!Fear of imperfection can paralyse creativity and curtail results, which is why releasing even a half-baked episode can be enough to get things rolling again. Although this episode leans towards filler, it is just as important as any other when it comes to it. I need this one in the bag, so I can then focus my energies outwardly again to create magic. I even give a sneak preview into two of the new episodes in the pipeline....and thanks to this current effort I can work towards getting those episodes published sooner rather than later.Perfectionism, creative anxiety, self-doubt, imposter syndrome, inner critic. Quite the handful, but I've been able to overcome them again!Support the showYou can follow me on Instagram: @elliot.t.waters, and the show on Facebook!

Send us a textToday I am catching you up on my thoughts on NYC as someone who just went for the first time, what the pandemic did to our age group socially, and social anxiety. My fitness app:https://my.playbookapp.io/sophia-panellaAdd your stories you want shared on Bestie Tales here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdSn6Ve05j7j3iDR195rX7Abu27Mn3LpO12Q9ahAGEuWLITcQ/viewform?usp=pp_urlCoaching Course:https://level-up-u.teachable.com/p/online-fitness-coaching-courseGina's Personal Training: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeDavd0_tNloyNOLPCTY3lqeRU0WYvBEWKfhffmtDKu7jRt4Q/viewform?usp=pp_urlLexi's Hormone Health Coaching: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdAOV4ANiQiEIBg9DzvRxxXojasbYDEKtJPVC2Gw2ak4PrzaA/viewform?usp=pp_url

What if success didn't erase your social anxiety, it just made it harder to talk about? In this powerful solo episode, the truth is revealed about the polished confidence of high-achieving professionals in finance, STEM, and leadership. You'll learn why success and social anxiety often coexist, and how to finally break the overthinking, perfectionism, and self-judgment that quietly sabotage connection and presence. You'll Discover: ·        Why so many high-performers mistake anxiety for ambition ·        How your thoughts explain overthinking, people-pleasing, and rumination ·        Real-life professional scenarios where social anxiety hides behind excellence ·        The difference between pressure and anxiety, and how to tell them apart ·        How to rewire anxious thoughts to create calm, confidence, and executive presence ·        Practical tools to stop mental replay and start living in the moment ·        When to seek coaching or support, and how to make it a sign of strength, not weakness Key Takeaway: Success doesn't mean freedom from anxiety. But when you learn to manage your thoughts, not just your results, you build a new kind of confidence that doesn't depend on performance. If you enjoyed this episode: → Share it with a colleague who seems “confident” on the outside but never stops overthinking. → Subscribe for more weekly episodes on social confidence, professional presence, and leadership mindset.  **  Don't even know where to begin in improving your interpersonal skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Schedule your exclusive, private, one-to-one challenge. Book a Social Strategy Session HERE 7 Biggest Social Mistakes Introverted Professionals Make Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com  LinkedIn Instagram TikTok

Fluent Fiction - Norwegian: How Astrid's Halloween Treats Won Over Her New Neighbors Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/no/episode/2025-10-19-22-34-02-no Story Transcript:No: Kvelden var stille.En: The evening was quiet.No: Det eneste lyset kom fra gatelyktene og de lysende gresskarene foran husene.En: The only light came from the streetlamps and the glowing pumpkins in front of the houses.No: Astrid sto ved kjøkkenvinduet og så ut.En: Astrid stood by the kitchen window and looked out.No: Denne delen av Oslo var ny for henne.En: This part of Oslo was new to her.No: Hun hadde nylig flyttet hit med familien sin, og nå var det Halloween.En: She had recently moved here with her family, and now it was Halloween.No: En høstfest hun selv var så glad i, men likevel gruet hun seg litt.En: An autumn fest she herself was so fond of, yet she was a bit apprehensive.No: Hun visste at dette var en sjanse til å bli kjent med naboene, men sosial angst gjorde det vanskelig.En: She knew this was a chance to get to know the neighbors, but social anxiety made it difficult.No: Den kalde luften bragte et snev av ro da hun presset seg til å handle.En: The cold air brought a touch of calm as she pushed herself to act.No: "Lars," ropte hun til mannen sin, "jeg skal bake noe godt til barna i nabolaget."En: "Lars," she called to her husband, "I'm going to bake something nice for the kids in the neighborhood."No: Lars nikket og ga henne et oppmuntrende smil.En: Lars nodded and gave her an encouraging smile.No: Astrid bestemte seg for å lage lefser, men med en vri – fylt med kanel og sukker, og formet som små gresskar.En: Astrid decided to make lefser, but with a twist — filled with cinnamon and sugar, and shaped like small pumpkins.No: Hun tenkte, “Norske retter møter Halloween. Det må de like.”En: She thought, “Norwegian dishes meet Halloween. They have to like that.”No: Hun satte i gang, og duften spredde seg i det lune huset.En: She set to work, and the scent spread through the cozy house.No: Senere, da mørket senket seg, trådte Astrid ut på den brosteinsbelagte gaten.En: Later, as darkness descended, Astrid stepped out onto the cobblestone street.No: De små husene var pyntet med skumle, men morsomme dekorasjoner.En: The small houses were decorated with spooky yet fun decorations.No: Halloween varmer alltid gatene opp med latter og barn i kostymer som løp fra dør til dør.En: Halloween always warms the streets with laughter and children in costumes running from door to door.No: Astrid bar en kurv med bakverk.En: Astrid carried a basket of pastries.No: Hun gikk mot en liten gruppe av foreldre som sto ved hjørnet.En: She walked towards a small group of parents standing at the corner.No: Hjertet hamret.En: Her heart pounded.No: De så ut til å kjenne hverandre godt, og det gjør henne nervøs.En: They seemed to know each other well, and it made her nervous.No: Men hun visste hun måtte prøve.En: But she knew she had to try.No: “Hallo,” begynte hun forsiktig.En: “Hello,” she began cautiously.No: "Jeg heter Astrid, og jeg har laget noen norske Halloween-godbiter.”En: "My name is Astrid, and I've made some Norwegian Halloween treats."No: Hun viste fram kurven.En: She showed the basket.No: De andre foreldrene smilte bredt.En: The other parents smiled broadly.No: Ingrid, en av kvinnene i gruppen, tok imot med et nysgjerrig blikk.En: Ingrid, one of the women in the group, accepted with a curious look.No: "Dette ser fantastisk ut," sa hun.En: "This looks amazing," she said.No: “Vi er glad for å ha deg her.”En: “We're glad to have you here.”No: Gruppen begynte å snakke og dele historier om Halloween.En: The group began to talk and share stories about Halloween.No: Astrid lyttet først, og så begynte hun å delta mer.En: Astrid listened first, then she began to participate more.No: Hennes nervøsitet sakte begynte å smelte bort.En: Her nervousness slowly began to melt away.No: Ingrid introduserte henne for de andre, og Astrid kjente en varme spre seg gjennom kroppen.En: Ingrid introduced her to the others, and Astrid felt warmth spreading through her body.No: Hun ble sakte akseptert som en del av gruppen.En: She was slowly accepted as part of the group.No: Slutten av kvelden kom, og Astrid følte seg annerledes enn hun hadde gjort da hun først kom.En: The end of the evening came, and Astrid felt different than she had when she first arrived.No: Hun hadde tatt et skritt mot å finne sin plass i nabolaget.En: She had taken a step toward finding her place in the neighborhood.No: Med nyvunnet tillit vinket hun farvel til sine nye venner.En: With newfound confidence, she waved goodbye to her new friends.No: Vinden var kjølig, men Astrid følte en indre varme.En: The wind was chilly, but Astrid felt an inner warmth.No: Hun hadde endelig funnet sine første forbindelser, og kanskje et hjem i Oslo.En: She had finally found her first connections, and perhaps a home in Oslo.No: Da hun gikk hjemover, med den nå tomme kurven i hånden, visste hun at dette var bare begynnelsen.En: As she walked home, with the now empty basket in hand, she knew this was just the beginning.No: Astrid gledet seg til flere samlinger og flere samtaler.En: Astrid looked forward to more gatherings and more conversations.No: Hun visste at Halloween aldri ville være det samme igjen.En: She knew Halloween would never be the same again.No: Nå hadde det en ny betydning – et bånd til fellesskapet rundt henne.En: Now it had a new meaning — a bond with the community around her. Vocabulary Words:quiet: stilleglowing: lysendeapprehensive: gruetchance: sjanseanxiety: angstcalm: roencouraging: oppmuntrendedecided: bestemtetwist: vrispread: spreddecozy: lunecobblestone: brosteinsbelagtespooky: skumlepounded: hamretcautiously: forsiktigcurious: nysgjerrigmelt: smelteaccepted: akseptertwarmth: varmeconnections: forbindelsergatherings: samlingerbond: båndcommunity: fellesskapneighborhood: nabolagrecently: nyligdescended: senketparticipate: deltaconfident: tillitnervousness: nervøsitetfond: glad

Blushing can feel like exposure. I lived it for years. In this episode... I guide a live tap-along session on blushing social anxiety. We focus on the fear of shame and rejection underneath the redness so your body can feel calmer and safer. I also share how I handled blushing myself and why releasing fear comes before fixing symptoms. No forced exposure. Practical EFT you can use today with the ARTX approach. You'll discover: ✅ Why fear of shame keeps blushing and social anxiety stuck ✅ How acceptance lowers reactivity and builds resilience ✅ Tap-along phrasing to ease fear in the moment ✅ A simple frame for setbacks so progress continues Tap along to build tolerance for uncomfortable feelings and more ease in social situations. Start your journey here:

Mr. Joe discusses a recent occurrence with his baseball team, specifically concerning a young girl and her social anxiety. Mr. Joe covers several issues regarding social anxiety, and the devastating effects it has on our children today. Please support Mr. Joe, so I can continue on my lifelong podcast journey… https://donate.stripe.com/bIY7vS00WaFfdrydQR Mr. Joe has also started microdosing therapy and highly recommends SoulCybin. They have an incredible selection of products and blends!  Be sure to visit… https://soulcybin.org/mrjoebp  and enter coupon code MRJOEBP to save 15% off your order right now!  In addition, if you would like to browse some amazing chocolate bars, various strains of mushrooms, and dozens of other amazing microdosing products, visit PolkaDot by visiting Mr. Joe's personal link… https://gasstash.com/ref/1000/

Have you ever felt like you're drifting through life on autopilot — like you're watching yourself from the outside, detached from the world around you? In this episode, “I Feel Detached From Reality, Do You?” we dive into that strange, hollow feeling of disconnection so many people silently struggle with. We'll explore why it happens, how modern life feeds it, and most importantly, how to find your way back to presence, clarity, and authenticity.This isn't about being “broken” — it's about understanding what your mind and soul are trying to tell you when reality starts to feel distant. Through self-awareness, mindfulness, and real talk about emotional overload, we'll uncover how to re-ground yourself and reconnect with what truly matters.Tune in, breathe deep, and remember — sometimes feeling detached is just the first step toward waking back up.The Be Positive Podcast is your weekly reminder that no matter what you're going through, there's always a reason to stay hopeful, stay focused, and stay positive. And now you'll be able to see me too. What a treat right? lol.

Think your social anxiety came back after making progress? You're not alone, and it doesn't mean you failed. In this episode... You'll hear how my client “Karl” went from years of anxiety at jiu-jitsu to feeling calm, confident, and social - and what happened when his anxiety “returned” later. He thought nothing worked. In truth, something deeper was ready to heal. You'll learn: ✅ Why progress isn't linear ✅ What's really happening when you get triggered "again" ✅ How acceptance accelerates healing Karl's story proves that with steady commitment, real change is possible. Start your journey here:

  In this episode, discover why intelligence and technical expertise which were once career superpowers are no longer enough to set you apart at the highest levels. In this episode I'll reveal the game-changing truth: social confidence and interpersonal skills are now the real differentiators in powerful careers and leadership. Tune in as I break down: ·        Why even the brightest professionals are being passed over for promotions and high-impact roles. ·        The hidden rules of social confidence that influence who's trusted, invited, and remembered. ·        Tangible, practical strategies for building a presence that commands respect and enables influence in any room. ·        The mindset shift from “knowing” to “belonging,” and why this distinction shapes career success more than ever before. ·        How to practice and hone the soft skills that no degree, resume, or technical achievement can replace. If you want to finally act, sound, and feel like you belong at the top without losing your authentic edge, this episode will show you exactly where to start. **  Don't even know where to begin in improving your interpersonal skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Schedule your exclusive, private, one-to-one challenge. Book a Social Strategy Session HERE 7 Biggest Social Mistakes Introverted Professionals Make Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com  LinkedIn Instagram TikTok

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Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2751: Many people are quietly struggling with social anxiety, and it may be showing up in our everyday manners. Dr. Margaret Rutherford explores how our increasing reliance on screens and hesitation to commit to social events can leave us isolated, and offers a simple exercise to challenge avoidance and build confidence. Her reflections invite us to face discomfort with honesty and take small steps toward connection. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/are-we-losing-our-manners-how-to-confront-social-anxiety/ Quotes to ponder: "Not responding, not committing is a choice." "If you stay uncommitted, silent, you're actually committed to hiding." "Everyone else has their own insecurity. Everyone." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2751: Many people are quietly struggling with social anxiety, and it may be showing up in our everyday manners. Dr. Margaret Rutherford explores how our increasing reliance on screens and hesitation to commit to social events can leave us isolated, and offers a simple exercise to challenge avoidance and build confidence. Her reflections invite us to face discomfort with honesty and take small steps toward connection. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/are-we-losing-our-manners-how-to-confront-social-anxiety/ Quotes to ponder: "Not responding, not committing is a choice." "If you stay uncommitted, silent, you're actually committed to hiding." "Everyone else has their own insecurity. Everyone." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this week's Agony Aunties, we answer a listener's question about social anxiety returning in midlife. We talk about why it can resurface — from life transitions to physical changes — and share gentle, practical ways to manage it, from planning ahead to leaning on allies. Above all, it's about self-compassion and staying connected. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What if the biggest obstacle standing between you and your goals wasn't your talent, your competition, or even the economy—but your own thoughts? In this episode, we're cutting through the noise and getting real about the power of mindset. Here's what you'll discover: ·        Why your brain defaults to safety—and how that keeps you small. ·        The daily mindset reset that shifts you from defensive to magnetic. ·        A self-rating tool to evaluate your friendliness, confidence, and magnetism. ·        The five qualities that make you unforgettable in even the briefest interactions. ·        How to become the person who changes the energy of every room you walk into. If you've ever felt like hard work alone isn't moving the needle, this episode will show you why—and what to do about it. It's time to stop letting your brain run the show and start leading with intentional thoughts. Listen in and learn how to reprogram your mindset for confidence, connection, and unstoppable success. **  Don't even know where to begin in improving your interpersonal skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE 7 Biggest Social Mistakes Introverted Professionals Make Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com  LinkedIn Instagram TikTok

Avoiding social situations because they feel overwhelming? You are not broken. There is a safer way to take action. In this episode... I show how to stop shrinking your life and start building social ease with gentle at-home tapping and non-scary exposure. You will learn how to reduce fear first, then take small steps that create real-world wins. What you'll discover:

Travel isn't just about the logistics of getting from one place to another — it's the nervous system spikes, the old body image stories that flare when you're around people from your past, and the challenge of feeding yourself in a group. In this episode, I talk about a recent trip with college friends and the layers that came with it: Flight anxiety and how I work with my body in real time when panic hits mid-air The anticipatory dread before seeing old friends (and why it often feels worse than the reality) Navigating group meals without abandoning your own needs The strange crash that happens when you come home and how to soften that landing What it takes to speak up when diet culture sneaks into social situations If you've ever come back from a trip feeling heavy, disconnected, or like you lost your footing with food, you're not alone. This conversation unpacks why travel brings all of this to the surface and how to move through it without betraying yourself. Connect with Stefanie: Website: www.iamstefaniemichele.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/iamstefaniemichele Substack: www.substack.com/@iamstefaniemichele Email: stefanie@iamstefaniemichele.com

In episode 248, we explore the often-overlooked but essential ingredient to career success: professional polish.  You'll discover why technical brilliance and hard work alone aren't enough to set you apart in high-stakes environments, especially when serving high-net-worth clients or operating at the top levels of business. Professional polish is the skill set that turns expertise into influence, that transforms presence into power, and that allows even the most introverted or analytical professionals to command respect in any room. We'll dive deep into the subtle dynamics that make or break reputations—from how you manage status and power in delicate conversations, to the way you carry yourself under pressure, to the quiet confidence you project in social or cultural settings that might otherwise feel intimidating. Polish is not about being fake or adopting a new personality, but about training, coaching, and practicing the behaviors that let your best qualities shine without being sabotaged by nervousness, overthinking, or awkwardness.    **  Don't even know where to begin in improving your interpersonal skills? Are you ready to leave social stress behind and go from where you are to where you want to be? Book a Social Strategy Session HERE 7 Biggest Social Mistakes Fast-Track Professionals Make Have a question that needs an answer. Email me at Hello@SocialConfidencePro.com  LinkedIn Instagram TikTok

Got a dilemma? Tiwalola and Caitlyn Kumi are here to help! This week they are answering questions on job struggles, putting yourself out there, building your personal brand and overcoming your fear of public speaking on the Confidence Hotline. Feeling stuck? Submit your dilemmas here - https://forms.gle/UPzFbqnzo6XNLgre9

Hey girls! Welcome back to a very wholesome and positive episode of Hotter Than Yesterday - we're truly living up to the podcast name today. In this episode, I'm unpacking my latest movements and giving insight into something almost all of us are familiar with.. social anxiety. On TikTok this week I documented myself going to a fashion show solo, not knowing anyone and in a city on the other side of the world I am from... the nerves were REAL but I was so proud of myself for making it and actually enjoying it, so I wanted to impart some ways I manage my pre-event anxiety to hopefully help you too xxxSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Are you saying yes when you want to say no? Struggling with people-pleasing and feeling unsafe in social situations? You are not alone. Weak boundaries keep social anxiety in place. In this episode... I talk with Dr. David Lake, medical practitioner and psychotherapist, about building inner security, setting clear boundaries, and using tapping to calm fear, anxiety, and old emotional hurt. We cover what healthy boundaries look like in real life, how to say no without guilt, and simple ways to use EFT in everyday situations. You will also hear when one-to-one therapy adds power and how to start strengthening your limits today. What you'll discover:

Social anxiety isn't about avoiding people — it's about the fear of not being accepted. In this episode, Rosie opens up about the vulnerability of being seen and offers grounding practices to meet social anxiety with compassion, reminding us that belonging starts with staying connected to ourselves. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Join Premium! Ready for an ad-free meditation experience? Join Premium now and get every episode from ALL of our podcasts completely ad-free now! Just a few clicks makes it easy for you to listen on your favorite podcast player.  Become a PREMIUM member today by going to --> https://WomensMeditationNetwork.com/premium Take a soft, slow breath, Drawing it deeply into your body, letting it expand with warmth, As though filling every part of you with calm, quiet light. Hold this breath for a gentle moment, And as you exhale, release the weight of the day, Letting the tension begin to melt, letting the thoughts soften. PAUSE… Take another deep breath in, This time gathering up all the fragments of worry, The small voices, the lingering echoes of the day. Hold them here, feeling them collected, And as you breathe out, let each one drift away, Released through your breath, leaving you lighter, freer. PAUSE… Find the rhythm of your breath, steady and natural, And settle yourself into the comfort of your bed, A place that holds you in safety, a place you can call your own. Tonight, let this be your sanctuary, your quiet refuge, Where the fears, the self-judgments, the worries cannot follow. They remain outside, unable to disturb this restful space within. Join our Premium Sleep for Women Channel on Apple Podcasts and get ALL 5 of our Sleep podcasts completely ad-free! Join Premium now on Apple here --> https://bit.ly/sleepforwomen  Join our Premium Meditation for Kids Channel on Apple Podcasts and get ALL 5 of our Kids podcasts completely ad-free! Join Premium now on Apple here → https://bit.ly/meditationforkidsapple Hey, I'm so glad you're taking the time to be with us today. My team and I are dedicated to making sure you have all the meditations you need throughout all the seasons of your life.  If there's a meditation you desire, but can't find, email us at Katie Krimitsos to make a request. We'd love to create what you want!  Namaste, Beautiful,

Feeling stuck or demotivated? In this episode... I share a simple way to make real progress with social anxiety. We keep it small and doable with short daily tapping sessions (start with 15 minutes a day) that build momentum. I show what to do when you do not feel like tapping: tap on the resistance first. You will hear practical examples you can try today, like loosening old beliefs, easing the emotion on tough memories, and testing old triggers again when you feel ready. No pressure. No perfection. Just steady steps toward feeling more at ease being yourself. Take one step today.

Most people try to manage their social anxiety — rehearsing what to say, overanalyzing every conversation, and worrying endlessly about what others think. But what if you didn't have to manage it anymore? In this powerful episode, I share what it takes to eliminate social anxiety at its core. Not just coping strategies — but true liberation. You'll discover the root cause of social anxiety, how your body unconsciously chooses fear, and how to reroute that pattern toward real confidence and connection. If you've ever wanted to go from anxious and self-conscious to bold and free, this episode is for you. Tune in now to learn how to stop avoiding and start living — and if you're ready to go further, check the description for a link to my upcoming virtual workshop: Supremely Confident Conversation Master.---------------------- “Social freedom isn't about never feeling nervous—it's about never letting fear control your life.” Do you predict rejection before you even approach someone—before sending that email, making a phone call, or asking someone out on a date? Do you feel that inner bracing, that tension preparing for the “no” you fear? If so, you're not alone—and there's a way to change it. Understanding the Fork in the Road Imagine you're hiking in the mountains and come to a fork in the trail. One path is treacherous, winding, and exposes you to danger—never leading to the town you're trying to reach. The other path is rocky but leads to connection, safety, and community. Social anxiety works the same way: the “wrong” path is the one where fear dictates your actions, keeping you stuck in hesitation, self-doubt, and overthinking every interaction. The critical insight is this: social anxiety isn't caused by other people. It's not about their judgment, disapproval, or indifference. It's about what you do with those perceptions—the fear, shame, and self-criticism that rise in response. Once we see rejection or judgment as dangerous, we retreat, hide, or perform, creating the very symptoms we want to avoid. The Real Problem: Patterns, Not People “Social anxiety is a pattern, not an identity. You can change the pattern and experience a different result.” Predicting rejection creates self-fulfilling prophecies. If you approach every conversation expecting judgment, your behavior shifts: hesitancy, guardedness, or over-pleasing takes over, which often leads to exactly the outcome you feared. But the good news is that this pattern is retrainable. By recognizing the automatic response to perceived threat, you can consciously choose a different path. Taking Action: Inner and Outer Strategies Inner Action: Examine your default rejection pattern. What do you tell yourself when someone says “no” or doesn't respond as hoped? Write it down, notice it, and question it. Start creating new responses that empower rather than limit you. Outer Action: Gradually expose yourself to low-stakes rejection. Say “hi” to people in a busy area. Notice reactions—some will ignore you, some will respond. Allow yourself to experience discomfort without catastrophe. This is like exposure therapy: small, repeated steps that retrain your nervous system. The shift comes from seeing that a “no” is not a threat. It's not the end of connection or self-worth. You're learning to approach interactions with curiosity, courage, and authenticity, rather than fear. Moving Toward Social Freedom The ultimate goal isn't perfection or constant approval—it's liberation. Social freedom means you can connect, engage, and express yourself fully without being hostage to fear of rejection. You may still feel nervous sometimes—that's human—but it won't control your behavior. Take one small step today. Say “hi,” send that email, or make that phone call. Notice your fear, face it, and move forward anyway. Over time, this rewires your confidence and opens the door to authentic connection, lasting relationships, and meaningful opportunities. “You don't need to wait for everyone to say yes. You need the courage to be yourself—and that is enough.”

Dr. Ellen Hendriksen is a clinical psychologist at Boston University who specializes in perfectionism and anxiety, with a particular focus on social anxiety. She returns to the podcast to talk about her research and share tools for managing these issues. Watch for her new book, How to Be Enough.More about Dr. Ellen Hendriksen:Her website (with links to buy her books) https://www.ellenhendriksen.com/Twitter @EllenHendriksenHer podcast is called Savvy Psychologist and can be found wherever folks like to get their podcastsThis episode is sponsored by NOCD. If you're struggling with OCD or unrelenting intrusive thoughts, NOCD can help. Book a free 15 minute call to get started: https://learn.nocd.com/mentalpodBIG FAVOR ASK FROM PAUL: It would help the show if you took a really quick (2 min) survey for potential advertisers. We did one in the past but they need a new one. You can take it at Gum.FM/Mental. If you're interested in seeing or buying the furniture that Paul designs and makes follow his IG @ShapedFurniture or visit the website www.shapedfurniture.comWAYS TO HELP THE MIHH PODCASTSubscribe via Apple Podcasts (or whatever player you use). It costs nothing. It's extremely helpful to have your subscription set to download all episodes automatically. https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/mental-illness-happy-hour/id427377900?mt=2Spread the word via social media. It costs nothing.Our website is www.mentalpod.com our FB is www.Facebook.com/mentalpod and our Twitter and Instagram are both @Mentalpod Become a much-needed Patreon monthly-donor (with occasional rewards) for as little as $1/month at www.Patreon.com/mentalpod Become a one-time or monthly donor via PayPal at https://mentalpod.com/donateYou can also donate via Zelle (make payment to mentalpod@gmail.com) To donate via Venmo make payment to @Mentalpod See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, I examine the complexities of social anxiety linked to internalized critical voices from parents. Using a metaphor of facing a bully, I discuss how self-attack emerges as a defense mechanism against childhood abuse. I emphasize the need for open conversations with parents and the importance of therapy in navigating these issues.I also propose reframing inner critics as protective forces rather than adversaries, advocating a healthier self-relationship. I conclude by outlining a tripartite approach to healing that involves addressing external criticism, reshaping our inner narratives, and fostering self-kindness, encouraging listeners to pursue their own paths to healing.FOLLOW ME ON X! https://x.com/StefanMolyneuxGET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025