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As the back-to-school mornings fast approach, how can you be your most calm, your most intentional self? Author and musician Kira Willey sits down with AllMomDoes host Julie Lyles Carr with fast, practical tips to both connect and keep the peace with your kids during hectic transitions during the day.Show Notes: https://bit.ly/4pvBmHX Key Topics:Tools for managing children's emotionsThe importance of self-regulation for parentsMindful transitions and routinesPhysical techniques to release tensionThe role of breathing in emotional regulationBuilding connection through entering children's worldsSound Bites:"Deep breathing activates the vagus nerve""Calm parents create calm children""Releasing tension helps respond, not react"Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Parenting Tools for Emotional Calm01:59 Kira Willie's Journey from Corporate to Children's Author04:52 The Power of Self-Awareness in Parenting07:47 Simple Techniques to Calm Yourself Before Connecting11:37 Using Body Scans and Movement to Release Tension14:38 The Importance of Clear, Non-Negotiable Expectations19:30 The Role of Breathing in Regulating Nervous System23:18 Building Self-Awareness with 'How's the Weather' Exercise29:15 Managing Transitions and Using Countdown Strategies31:54 The Impact of Parent Calmness on Child BehaviorFind Kira: Online | Instagram | Facebook | YouTubeBook: The Joyful Child: Calm the Chaos, Connect with Your Kids, and Create More Happiness in Your Daily RoutinesKeywords: child development, emotional regulation, mindfulness, parenting tips, stress management, self-awareness, children's books, Kira Willie, The Joyful Child
☀️ Summer Leadership Recharge: Principal Edition
Darren looks at research into why children feel they benefit most from peer support during school transition.
Transitions are never easy, but they're inevitable. In this heartfelt episode, the Unpacking Education team gets real about the professional and personal changes they've faced on their own journeys. From job loss and career pivots to family challenges and emotional growth, Rena, Paul, and Winston share their own experiences of upheaval, uncertainty, and renewal.As educators continue to navigate widespread change, this episode offers both solidarity and inspiration. The team explores what it means to face the unknown, manage shifting roles, and find strength in community. Whether you're grappling with change or just need to hear from people who understand, this episode offers real talk, reflection, and maybe even a rainbow in your storm.Visit AVID Open Access to learn more.
Welcome to episode 167 of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, "All Leaders are Afraid, " In this powerful conversation, host Adam Gragg is joined by Tara Jost, owner at Higgins Group, and Kelsey Torkelson, brand relations director at Decide Your Legacy, to tackle a topic every leader faces but few openly discuss: fear. Adam opens up about his own insecurities and explains why vulnerability is not a sign of weakness, but a source of empowerment—especially for leaders.Together, the trio explores how fear manifests in leadership, from avoiding tough conversations to the stress of making decisions that impact others' lives. You'll hear real stories about facing hard moments, why accountability matters at all levels, and how great leaders act despite their fears. Plus, they're sharing three practical tools you can use right away to identify, confront, and move through fear—whether you're leading a business, a family, or your own life.If you've ever struggled with indecision, worried about letting others down, or wondered how to break through a paralyzing fear of failure, this episode is packed with candid insights and actionable advice to help you lead courageously.3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leaderhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/7 Benefits of Being Courageoushttps://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/4 Ways You're Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each Onehttps://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendencyhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choiceshttps://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/COURSES:Shatterproof Yourself CHAPTERS:00:00 "Facing Fear Empowers Leadership"03:13 Embracing Balance and Growth07:42 Leaders' Universal Struggles and Fears11:02 Solo Advocate for Accountability13:10 Fear of Conversations and Isolation19:17 Overpowering Fear as a Leader20:44 Empowering Choices Over Negativity25:31 "Effective Conversations Over Email Challenges"28:20 Resistance to Change: Accountability Challenges31:11 "Empowerment and Accountability Strategy"34:25 Overcoming Fear with Accountability37:24 Home Stress and Apology Modeling41:05 "Conquer Fear with Commitment" Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!
Summer Leadership RechargeIn this episode of Summer Leadership Recharge: Principal Edition, Dr. Woods is joined by Dr. Shameka Gerald, Managing Director - 2Revolutions, to discuss "Leading Through Change: Managing Transitions & Challenges." This episode offers actionable strategies and reflective prompts to building principals to lead their teams through periods of uncertainty or change, while avoiding burnout and building a culture of collective resilience.
In this episode of Grow a Small Business, host Troy Trewin interviews John Abrams, founder of South Mountain Company, shared his remarkable journey from launching a small six-person architectural construction firm in 1973 to growing it into a thriving 40-employee solar business generating $20 million in annual revenue. A strong advocate for employee ownership, Abrams highlighted the advantages of worker cooperatives and Employee Stock Ownership Plans (ESOPs), emphasizing their positive impact on productivity and employee retention. In his new book, From Founder to Future: A Business Roadmap to Impact, Longevity, and Employee Ownership, John Abrams explores the critical topic of succession planning for aging business owners, offering insights on preserving company values, fostering effective communication, and achieving a sustainable work-life balance. He also reflected on navigating challenges like the 2008 financial crisis and underscored the importance of community engagement in building a resilient and purpose-driven business. Other Resources: Companies We Keep: Employee Ownership and the Business of Community and Place, 2nd Edition by John Abrams The Company We Keep: Reinventing Small Business for People, Community, and Place by John Abrams Why would you wait any longer to start living the lifestyle you signed up for? Balance your health, wealth, relationships and business growth. And focus your time and energy and make the most of this year. Let's get into it by clicking here. Troy delves into our guest's startup journey, their perception of success, industry reconsideration, and the pivotal stress point during business expansion. They discuss the joys of small business growth, vital entrepreneurial habits, and strategies for team building, encompassing wins, blunders, and invaluable advice. And a snapshot of the final five Grow A Small Business Questions: What do you think is the hardest thing in growing a small business? According to John Abrams, the hardest thing in growing a small business is getting everyone aligned behind a single mission—what he describes as “getting all the wood behind a single arrow”—while also maintaining core values in the face of numerous external temptations. He emphasizes that as a business grows, staying true to its founding principles becomes increasingly difficult, yet it's essential for long-term success and integrity. What's your favorite business book that has helped you the most? John Abrams' favorite business book that has helped him the most is Managing Transitions by William Bridges. He values it for its insights on how to effectively move from one stage of business to another, emphasizing that it offers guidance on navigating all kinds of changes within a company. Are there any great podcasts or online learning resources you'd recommend to help grow a small business? John Abrams recommends several alternative sources of learning rather than traditional business media. He highlights The Ink and The Contrarian as valuable platforms, along with communicator Anat Shenker-Osorio for her insights on messaging and influence. While not all are strictly business-focused, he finds them powerful for understanding communication, leadership, and societal context—all of which he sees as essential to growing a meaningful small business. What tool or resource would you recommend to grow a small business? John Abrams recommends strong communication tools—both written and spoken—as the most important resource for growing a small business. He believes that clear, effective communication is the key to building relationships, aligning teams, and driving a business forward successfully. What advice would you give yourself on day one of starting out in business? John Abrams would advise himself on day one of starting out in business to recognize that it's going to be an incredible ride, to enjoy every minute of it, and to stay conscious and aware of how he builds relationships with people, as they are the true key to success. He reflects that in his early years, he focused too much on product quality and not enough on the importance of people, which he later realized is what small business is really about. Book a 20-minute Growth Chat with Troy Trewin to see if you qualify for our upcoming course. Don't miss out on this opportunity to take your small business to new heights! Enjoyed the podcast? Please leave a review on iTunes or your preferred platform. Your feedback helps more small business owners discover our podcast and embark on their business growth journey. Quotable quotes from our special Grow A Small Business podcast guest: When people are truly part of something, they give it everything they've got – John Abrams Growth is overrated and often the cause of trouble rather than triumph – John Abrams Communication is the key to small business — writing, speaking, and being transparent – John Abrams
If/Then: Research findings to help us navigate complex issues in business, leadership, and society
Susan Athey, the Economics of Technology Professor at Stanford Graduate School of Business and founding director of the Golub Capital Social Impact Lab, studies the impact of technological innovations on workers, businesses, and society. Will the world's economies successfully adapt to a future defined by artificial intelligence? On this episode, Athey shares what the stories of 22,000 laid-off workers in Sweden can tell us about who recovers from economic turmoil, how small design changes and product features can have outsize societal impact, and how AI could transform the way we work, from hiring to healthcare. What's the best way to build a future that effectively integrates AI and supports workers? Tell us more at ifthenpod@stanford.edu.This episode was recorded on December 16, 2024. Related Content:Susan Athey faculty profileA Low-Cost, Scalable Way to Get More Women Into TechA.I. Can Help “Personalize” Policies to Reach the Right PeopleA/B Testing Gets an Upgrade for the Digital AgeEast Brother Light StationChapters(00:00:00) - Modernizing a 150 Year Old Lighthouse(00:03:05) - Adapting to Advancing Technology(00:04:20) - Impact of Mass Layoffs(00:06:16) - Low-Cost Scalable Solutions(00:13:37) - AI's Role in the Future of Work(00:19:45) - Managing Transitions in the Job MarketSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
In this holiday episode of the ECE Classroom, host Susie Beghin addresses pressing questions from early childhood educators about managing challenging behaviors in the classroom, effective parent communication, classroom strategies and team dynamics. The episode covers challenging behavior topics such as aggressive behavior, tantrums, biting, speech difficulties and handling conflict between children. Susie discusses effective communication with parents while emphasizing the importance of empathy, understanding child development, and building trust with both children and parents to create a supportive learning environment and great relationships with parents. In this episode, Susie Beghin addresses key questions related to early childhood classrooms, focusing on managing transitions, the importance of messy play, fostering inclusion, effective team dynamics, addressing educator burnout, and the challenges of opening a daycare. She provides practical strategies and insights for educators to enhance their teaching practices and support their students' development. More information about Susie Beghin is available at www.susiebeghin.com Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Holiday Episode and Q&A Format 01:00 Strategies for Managing Aggressive Behavior 06:10 Strategies to Deal with a Tantrum 07:11 Strategies for Children who are Biting 11:08 Strategies to Support Children with Speech Difficulties 12:30 Supporting Conflict Between Children 15:05 How to Stop Children from Using Inappropriate Language 17:07 How to Support New Children in the Classroom 19:30 Lingering Parents at Drop-off Time 21:16 Effective Parent Communication 23:29 Managing Transitions in Early Childhood Education 26:33 How to Manage Messy Play 30:03 Fostering Inclusion in the Classroom 31:50 Team Communication and Celebrating our Differences 36:30 Addressing Educator Burnout 39:00 Challenges of Opening a New Daycare Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/fortune-cookie/golden-summer-lenny-b License code: STFPDU3XL7ZR4CHA
Imagine stepping into retirement with confidence and excitement, rather than uncertainty and anxiety. That's exactly what we aim to achieve in this episode featuring Teresa Amabile, the distinguished Edsel Bryant Ford Professor of Business Administration at Harvard Business School. Teresa shares her insights and groundbreaking research on the psychological and emotional dimensions of retiring, going beyond the traditional focus on health and wealth. Her new book, "Retiring: Creating a Life that Works for You," serves as a foundation for our conversation on how to craft a fulfilling life after the last day at work. We explore essential strategies to align one's personal identity and values with life's changing circumstances. Through personal stories and research anecdotes, Teresa shares the four major tasks of retiring well, including the critical decision of when to retire. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and courage in this transition, encouraging listeners to make changes that resonate with their evolving self. The episode is rich with practical advice on preparing emotionally, offering listeners a toolkit for navigating the intricate journey of retiring. We also delve into the often overlooked challenge of managing work identity during retirement. Teresa discusses how nurturing identities beyond one's career can ease this transition, using real-life examples of individuals who have successfully shifted their focus from professional life to personal passions. Listeners will learn how to balance work identity with personal interests and maintain crucial relationships, regardless of where they are in their career journey. Whether you're contemplating retirement or simply seeking a more balanced life, this episode offers valuable insights into embracing the next chapter with enthusiasm and purpose. What You'll Learn: • The emotional and identity shifts involved in the process of retiring. • Insightful stories of individuals who are discovering new passions and redefining their identities outside the office. • Practical strategies to nurture diverse interests and relationships for a rewarding post-work life. • Thought-provoking questions and exercises to help you align your life structure with your evolving self and values. Podcast Timestamps: (00:00) – Retiring Versus Retirement (17:57) – Managing Life Transitions (30:56) - Navigating our Identities (37:03) – Who Are We in Retirement? (44:43) - Exploring Life Outside of Work More of Teresa: Teresa M. Amabile is a professor at Harvard Business School, specializing in creativity, innovation, and workplace dynamics. She earned a doctorate in psychology from Stanford University and has published over 100 scholarly articles. Her book The Progress Principle, co-authored with Steven Kramer, explores how small wins can enhance creativity and engagement at work. Amabile has received numerous accolades, including the Lifetime Achievement Award in Organizational Behavior from the Academy of Management in 2018. LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/teresa-amabile-8542727 Key Topics Discussed: Retiring, Managing Transitions, Self-Identity, Identity at Work, Life After Work, Meaningful Work, Navigating Emotional Challenges, Personal Passions, Creating Life Balance, Self-awareness, Living Our Values, Retirement Planning, Financial Security, Identity Circles, Career Journey, Personal Success More of Do Good to Lead Well: Website: https://craigdowden.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/craigdowden/
In this episode of the 'Parenting with Confidence' podcast, host Teresa Alexander Inman speaks with Mariela de Santiago, host of the 'New Mom Talk' podcast. Mariela shares her experiences and insights on parenting, emphasizing the importance of self-care and building a support system. They discuss validating children's emotions, managing stress, setting boundaries, and the value of creating joyful memories. Mariela also talks about her role as a special education teacher and how it contributed to her parenting approach. The conversation provides practical tips for parents and highlights the importance of taking care of oneself to be the best parent possible. 00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome 00:26 Mariela's Parenting Journey 00:56 Creating a Supportive Space for Moms 03:09 Managing Parenting Challenges 07:44 Self-Care Tips for Parents 10:23 Balancing Housework and Quality Time 13:07 The Importance of Creating Memories 19:46 Wisdom from Special Ed Teaching 21:37 Managing Transitions with Kids 22:06 Understanding Children's Executive Functioning 22:44 The Importance of Preparation 23:05 Relating to Adult Experiences 23:30 Validating Children's Feelings 24:37 Building Trust with Your Child 25:56 The Role of a Support System 29:02 Asking for Help and Setting Boundaries 31:09 The Importance of Self-Care for Parents 35:19 Final Thoughts and Resources --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theresa-alexander-inman/support
Show Notes for The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast Episode 141: How to Avoid Burnout - Psychologist Tips - Mental HealthIn this brilliant fifth episode in the very special anti-burnout series by Dr Claire Plumbly we bring you a closer look at how different times of our day and transitioning from one task to the next can be a key time to be more mindful to reduce burnout. It's a fantastically interesting and helpful episode and we hope you find it so useful! The Highlights: 00:00 - Introduction00:23 - Host Welcome01:25 - Burnout Bites Series Overview02:15 - Managing Transitions in the Day03:15 - Recognising Strain During Transition Points04:42 - Creating Gaps in Your Day05:20 - Personal Example of Managing Transitions06:01 - Checking in with Yourself During the Day07:31 - Tools for Nervous System Reset08:17 - Setting Boundaries and Delegating Tasks09:03 - The Eight Pillars of Rest10:13 - Preview of Next Episode: External vs Internal PressuresLinks:
Welcome to another episode of "The Ben Morton Leadership Podcast"! In this special episode, as we wrap up Season 10, I'm excited to share some of my favourite clips from this season. Join me as we delve into insightful discussions that will inspire you to become an even better leader. Clip 1: Managing Transitions with Emotional Intelligence (Episode 150 - Rebecca Creswell, CEO at Priory Group)- Emotional contagion in the workplace. - The impact of a leader's mood on team dynamics and performance. - Strategies for consciously managing transitions to foster positive emotional contagion. Listen to the full episode here. Clip 2: Balancing Respect and Likability in Leadership (Episode 152 - Sarah Powell, CEO of British Gymnastics)- The importance of diversity of thought in team dynamics. - Challenging oneself to engage with perspectives outside of the comfort zone. - Building respect and fostering diversity within teams. Listen to the full episode here.Clip 3: The Power of Reflection in Success (Episode 154 - Pete Fletcher, CEO of World Challenge)- The significance of pausing to celebrate and analyse success. - Implementing reflection practices to optimize performance and outcomes. - Exploring the concept of anchoring and its application in personal development. Listen to the full episode here. Clip 4: Approaching Work as a Game (Episode 159 - Alex Higham, Founder and CEO of Exhale Healthy Coffee) - Cultivating curiosity and passion in professional pursuits. - Embracing discomfort and addressing skill gaps in leadership development. - Distinguishing between limiting weaknesses and allowable weaknesses in personal growth. Listen to the full episode here.Leadership DevelopmentNeed support with leadership training, coaching or a conference speaker?Find out more about Ben's work and get in touch via www.ben-morton.com.
National speaker, advocate and emcee, Rev. Julian DeShazier, joins JC Campbell and Matt Burke from the Center for Congregations to discuss how congregations can better adapt to changing culture and circumstances. Topics discussed include ministry arms of congregations being open about their faith background, using modern tools without losing your values, the strength of "old" songs and more. Matt and JC also discuss how change in congregations appears in the work of the Center for Congregations and share resources to help congregations navigate changes. Resources Reimagining How We Reimagine Church by Julian DeShazier (article) Traditioned Innovation in Action by Dave Odom (article) Leading Change in the Congregation by Gil Rendle (book) Managing Transitions by William Bridges and Susan Bridges (book) Rediscovering an Evangelical Heritage by Donald Dayton (book)
Tim and Lisa are sharing all about transitions this week!Listen in to hear their strategies and insights on how best to approach the plethora of transitions that are part of owning real estate, plus life in general!Connect with us:Schedule a call with TimSchedule a call with LisaSchedule a call with JeanLearn more at thereiconcierge.com
In this episode, Elin & Christina try on their "Dear Abby" hats and address a Facebook post from a School Leadership group. The post brought up something they often hear from their clients and even experienced it themselves... managing the transition from classroom to administration. Listen in as they unpack the mindset struggles a new administrator may deal with in their first year and maybe even longer. --- Buy our Book: The Power of Reflection Work With Us! Book a Clarity Call. Follow us on Instagram: @elinandchristina Facebook: Empowered Conversations with Elin & Christina Check out our website at www.empowereducationalconsulting.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/elinandchristina/support
In this episode, we'll explore strategies and best practices for successfully navigating employee policy changes, ensuring clarity, and fostering a supportive culture within our teams. Thanks for listening to our podcast! I love sharing simple business tips and resources to help you lead your center. Remember, 15 minutes a day can make a huge impact at your center. Today is your chance to make the tomorrow you always dreamed of.Let's connect:www.thedirectorsclub.netCommunity:Join my FREE Facebook group and connect with other directors and me as we navigate leading a child care center together! FB Group Child Care Center Owners and DirectorsSocials:Facebook page, The Director's ClubInstagram, The Director's ClubWORKING WITH NOELLE AND THE DIRECTOR'S CLUB:The ClubDiscover more about The Director's Club, a mastermind group designed for child care center directors who seek support and expert guidance to maintain high-quality early education centers. LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CLUB HEREThe Teacher's LoungeDo you want to enhance your teachers' confidence in the classroom through a mentoring program tailored to their needs? Look no further than The Teacher's Lounge, a dedicated mentoring department that you've always wanted for your child care center. Don't hesitate, visit us now to learn more HERE Cheering you on,Noelle
Any couple in a long-term relationship is going to experience different phases of life together. Dashawn and Amanda share some of their recent losses, both good and bad, and share advice on how to manage transitions together.Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/this-functional-family-podcast/exclusive-content
In this episode, Fr. John and Mary reflect on this season of transitions, most especially from the perspective of parishes and priests preparing to say goodbye and hello to one another. ====== Seeking to be even more encouraged and inspired? Follow our online streaming channel (https://watch.actsxxix.org). Visit us at our online site (https://www.actsxxix.org). Subscribe to our weekly communications (https://www.actsxxix.org/subscribe) Have a comment about this podcast? Contact us!
We all experience change in our lives whether we want it or not. Join Jill as she goes through some tools to help us navigate it successfully using William Bridges book "Managing Transitions", ProSci's ADKAR Model, and her own experiences.
#alwaysaway #slulead #thestrackcenter This interview occurred just a few weeks before Dr. Costin was announced as the new President of Liberty University. At the time Dr. Costin was the President of Charleston Southern University. Biography- As President of Liberty University, Dr. Costin comes to the university's leadership as a continuation of a lifetime dedicated to service. Most recently, Dr. Costin has served as president of Charleston Southern University (CSU). His celebrated tenure has been marked by academic and athletic achievement. Costin oversaw the construction of several new facilities and the substantial expansion of CSU's academic programs, including South Carolina's only four-year aviation program, multiple doctoral programs, and an engineering program within the university's College of Science and Mathematics. Under his leadership, the university set fundraising records, significantly improved its overall rankings, and dramatically exceeded freshmen enrollment goals. On the heels of the best all-around year in CSU's athletic history, Dr. Costin now serves as president of the Big South Conference. Despite operating in a #1 tourist town with a top national port, the only Boeing plant outside the State of Washington, manufacturing plants for Mercedes and Volvo, three major universities, and countless successful businesses in every industry, CSU was named the 2022 Business of the Year by the Charleston Metro Chamber of Commerce. Prior to Charleston Southern University, Dr. Costin obtained the rank of Major General with the U.S. Air Force during 32 years of commissioned service, during which he represented the Liberty Baptist Fellowship as an endorsed chaplain. He completed his military career at the Pentagon as Air Force Chief of Chaplains. As Chief of Chaplains, he served as senior pastor to more than 664,000 active-duty, Guard, Reserve and civilian forces in the United States and overseas, and he led 2,000 chaplains and chaplain assistants from the Air Force Chaplain Corps. A decorated combat veteran, Costin deployed in support of numerous contingency and humanitarian relief operations across the globe and previously served as senior chaplain for Air Force operations in both the Pacific and the Middle East. His military decorations include the Distinguished Service Medal, the Legion of Merit, and the Bronze Star Medal. In addition to a bachelor's degree in operations research from The United States Air Force Academy, Dr. Costin holds five master's degrees, a Doctor of Ministry degree, and a Ph.D. in organizational leadership. He earned two of his five master's degrees from Liberty University early in his military career. He has been married to Vickey for more than 33 years. Mrs. Costin's own legacy of public service includes 23 years as a public-school educator.
How do we find courage to move towards growth? How do we take the risk... how do we leave behind? Support Jenni on Patreon ! (New Ebook) Instagram: @jennijohnson TikTok: @thejennijohnson Blog: www.thejennijohnson.com Resources: Culture and Codependency by Jenni Johnson The Art of Happiness podcast: E9. Managing Transitions in Life with Arthur Brooks Hallow app The Myth of Multitasking: NPR article
Operating in the Spirit of Kingdom Excellence with Towanda Coles
Thank you for tuning in to this episode of the Operating in the Spirit of Kingdom Excellence podcast. Keys to remember when navigating transition in the local church: The Power of Prayer - Remember, this is the Lord's church, we serve under His domain, we follow His blueprint as provided for us in His word, and we turn to Him, not our preferences, opinions, education, or influence for how we should manage the transition in His church. The Importance of Preparation - The preparation process reveals character, one's ability to be humble and teachable, whether one can be accountable, how one handles correction and spiritual discipline, how one demonstrates their submission to serve in areas where they're needed and not necessarily where they want to serve. Before the promotion, one must be prepared for the assignment. This waiting period, this time of preparation is a prerequisite for effective leadership. Do not be swift in promoting the gifted but wait for the demonstration of the anointing by the fruit that is produced without a position, without a title, without a platform. The Responsibility to Propel - To propel simply means to help move forward. After we've prayed to GOD for wisdom, and instruction, sought counsel in helping to formulate a plan for facilitating a change or transition, and have done the necessary work in preparation through coaching, training, and development it is time to move forward. No one ever said the change would be easy or embraced, however, when we are clear we've heard from GOD, He will make all things right in His time. Transition is not just happening to our seasoned saints in terms of asking GOD what's next but for our emerging leaders who are stepping into new roles and responsibilities asking, what am I supposed to do now? GOD requires us to steward well what has been entrusted to us and we want to ensure we manage our seasons of transition well. Recommended Resources: Next - Pastoral Succession that Works https://www.amazon.com/Next-Pastoral-Succession-That-Works/dp/080100571X/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1JAQBGT017TMK&keywords=next+pastoral+succession+that+works&qid=1666455491&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIyLjEzIiwicXNhIjoiMS45MyIsInFzcCI6IjEuOTkifQ%3D%3D&s=books&sprefix=Pastoral+succ%2Cstripbooks%2C75&sr=1-1 What To Do Next; Taking Your Best Step When Life is Uncertain- Jeff Henderson https://www.amazon.com/What-Do-Next-Taking-Uncertain-ebook/dp/B09ND7THGC/ref=sr_1_2_sspa?crid=2E8DMG6HH7KHC&keywords=What%E2%80%99s+next&qid=1666409305&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIyLjQ0IiwicXNhIjoiMi4xMSIsInFzcCI6IjIuMTQifQ%3D%3D&s=books&sprefix=what+s+next%2Cstripbooks%2C80&sr=1-2-spons&psc=1 How to Connect With Towanda: msha.ke/towandacoles --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/towanda-coles/message
From the great clinical content at the 2021 Midyear Clinical meeting, our content matter experts will be discussing managing transition of care in the COPD patient care population and identifying strategies to overcome the challenges that comorbidities present when managing a COPD exacerbation. The information presented during the podcast reflects solely the opinions of the presenter. The information and materials are not, and are not intended as, a comprehensive source of drug information on this topic. The contents of the podcast have not been reviewed by ASHP, and should neither be interpreted as the official policies of ASHP, nor an endorsement of any product(s), nor should they be considered as a substitute for the professional judgment of the pharmacist or physician.
There's no such thing as the perfect schedule or routine. Sure we all have schedules and routines that work for us, but that's the key. They work for US. At the same time, things change. We go through transitions in life and business and we have to make adjustments to how we work. As this episode is being released, we're in a transition phase. Fall is here, if not officially then in spirit because school has started in most parts of the U.S. This means mornings might be busier and early afternoons are a whole lot quieter. And if you have kids in school, you're probably shifting things around a bit to accommodate this change. I sure am. This week on the podcast, I'm talking about different seasons of change and transition and what I plan to focus on in this particular season. Things don't always have to stay the same and there's no perfect solution for everyone. But when you try out some things and make little shifts and changes, you will find what works best for you. And if you need support to hold yourself accountable or to figure out how to clean up some of the mess that's leftover from summertime, you're invited to join us in the Inner Circle. Find out more about this monthly membership here! Links and Resources: Inner Circle Membership Time Stamps: [0:42] - Why fall is the best [2:14] - Managing transitions and shifting seasons [3:44] - Want to surprise me for my birthday? [4:46] - Fall transition is a natural time to revisit some of your routines [6:12] - I am not a morning person [6:55] - What I plan to focus on [9:06] - I want to be more present when my kids get home from school [9:56] - Always feel like I'm in work mode because I haven't done the most important thing first [10:53] - How are you taking care of yourself [11:20] - Big reminders [13:05] - Sometimes you need some support
We've all experienced transitions. Some changes are welcomed while others can feel devastating. How can we be sure to get through them successfully? That's what this episode is all about. Jennifer Furlong interviews Sistah Soldier, creator of SHE VET iNC. Media Consulting, host and visionary producer of the award-winning SHE VET iNSPIRES television show, and master trainer/recruiter of SHE WORKS DIGITAL, a virtual training and recruitment directory for creative women veterans. Sistah is an intuitive storyteller, inspirational speaker, and serial entrepreneur. She strategically teaches others “The Art of Self Expression,” shaping stories and becoming masterfully indispensable in their career, using their spiritual gifts to build divine relationships, get their ViiiBE, and generate a future with possibilities with creative arts and multimedia platforms. Listen to Jen and Sistah discuss how life's transitions, whether they are intentional or not, can be the catalyst you need to design the life you want. Contact Sistah:https://sheworksdigital.comhttps://shevetmedia.com/Contact Jen:https://www.communicationtwentyfourseven.com/Create your own online store with Printful. Click here!Need an easy tool to record and edit your podcast? Try Alitu. Click here! Podcasting Power HourOne Hour of Podcasting Q&A with Jeff Townsend, aka The Podcast Father, Greg founder of...Listen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifyRead this for More Communication Tips! Book on relationships written by the podcast host, Jennifer Furlong.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show
Transitions are inevitable in life. In this podcast, the Marathon Mind coaches share strategies for dealing with the difficulties we encounter with these transitions.
We are all familiar with the Back to School Buzz and Energy. So much tot anticipate and hopes are high! But when we actually begin a new season or year, it's important to remember why you are doing what you are doing and know the results you want to have. I already know... Yes I do. You want peace, motivation, happiness and all the goodness of teaching or homeschooling your children without all the stress, overwhelm, hustle bustle and anxiety. In today's podcast, we discuss ways to derail the urgency in our western culture and turn your days from pressure cookers to low warming ovens! Let Your Light Shine, Makenzie Oliver Come Connect with us in our Facebook Group and Get Featured on Our Shine Spotlight: Start Your Micro School or Homeschooling Business-TLYLS Podcast! https://www.facebook.com/groups/250368126648112 Use These Documents to Build Your Business: www.teachersletyourlightshine.com/shop We have step-by-step instructions to help you write powerful marketing brochures, enrollment forms, introductory packets, and so much more! You'll also find easy-to-use templates made to simplify your creation process, as well as beautiful real-life examples used by my micro-school, Lighthouse Learning, to give you creative inspiration when designing your very own forms. You will be able to seal the deal with peace and clarity when you hand deliver your new handbook and contract. Tune in to today's episode to find out more and head over to our shop to purchase your documents at Coaching: https://teachersletyourlightshine.com/coachingDo you need help with a plan of action, accountability, or clarity in your teacher career change? Interested in starting a micro-school, tutoring or homeschooling business? Don't know where to start? Wanting to make a change but have no idea where to begin or what the change would even look like? It's time to get "unstuck", have a plan and gain your much needed clarity so you can experience teacher career growth, build a business blueprint, market with clear messaging, and plan a successful business launch-whether it's a micro-school, tutoring business or homeschooling business. Click below to learn more… Connect with me on Instagram: @Teacherletyourlightshine Follow us on Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/teacherletyourlightshine Join our email list to be the FIRST to know about our FREE Resources and podcast alerts! Teachersletyourlightshine.com Want to chat? Have some questions? I'd love to hear from you! Send an Email: teacherletyourlightshine@gmail.com Or send me a message on Facebook or Instagram Twitter: @teacher_light Check out Our School on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lighthouselearningmicroschool Book a Clarity Coaching Session today: www.teachersletyourlightshine.com/coaching
Usually we are most vulnerable when in transitions. So how can we go through them successfully? Join Nothemba Kula in this timely teaching on 'The Art of Managing Transitions' and be blessed as you listen. CITAMChurchOnline #ChurchEveryday Get in touch with us: http://www.citam.org/ churchonline@citam.org (+254) 784 277 277 (+254) 728 221 221
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When it comes to working through emotions, it can be hard on children to understand and regulate their feelings during the divorce process. Pediatric Occupational Therapist Linda Matthews joins the podcast to discuss how parents can help their children during divorce and when making the transition between homes. Linda explains that children only need one parent who is promoting a positive and safe space for them when going from one house to another. We dive into teaching your children healthy boundaries, internal regulation of emotions, and much more. Linda Matthews, of HealthykidsOT, has been serving children and families for over 25 years in both Miami and New York City. She provides services in schools and homes to serve children in their natural environments and to best support their changing needs. Linda believes in play based learning and utilizes play to target a variety of skills, including sensory regulation, social and emotional growth, reflex integration, fine motor skills, and gross motor skills, in addition to cognitive, visual and handwriting development. What sets Linda apart from others is that she not only addresses traditional “Occupational Therapy” related skills but utilizes a whole child approach, addressing the gut, mind, and body as a whole to facilitate success and fulfillment. She is passionate about working together with families and sharing knowledge, in order to empower children to progress in all areas of development. You can reach Linda at: Healthykidsot@gmail.com @healthykidsot on Instagram www.healthykidsot.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
"Your job is to learn and understand, not know everything." - Christopher Littlefield Today my guest is Christopher Littlefield, international speaker, author, and founder of Beyond Thank You. Chris' company is a training and consulting firm specializing in employee appreciation, recognition, and workplace culture. He is a writing contributor to both HBR and Forbes, as well as being a genuinely good human! Today he sits down with us to discuss how you, as a leader, can level up your employee appreciation game. In this episode you'll learn: -Why employee appreciation matters (now more than ever) -How to recognize teams and individuals in a remote/hybrid world -Practical tips and tricks that you can start using right now, today -And much more! How to create a ‘safe space' at work People talk about psychological safety, but how do we create that? We create that by sending signals to people every single day that we value who they are and what they contribute, and what it takes to do their job each day. Employee appreciation is also conflict prevention When people feel valued at work, they will be able to relate to your feedback as a contribution and not as an attack. If you show your appreciation often, they'll be able to take in your suggestions and not feel defensive about it. What makes a good manager It's so easy as new managers to feel like you have to prove you're worthy of your position. But what proves to people that you're worthy is if they can feel that you understand them and that you're willing to help them succeed. And when you serve them to support their success, then they're going to make you shine as well. Links and Resources Connect with Chris: LinkedIn, Website, Newsletter 75+Team Building Activities for Remote Teams by Christopher Littlefield (book) The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership by Jim Dethmer (book) `Conscious Business by Fred Kofman (book) Managing Transitions by William Bridges (book)
Summary This week Alison is joined by Reen, Moira and Maha to discuss Travel Tips. How do we manage our anxiety and stress when making a long journey? How do we prepare to deal with scrutiny from other travelers? Topics 00:00 - This Life, the chronicles of Autism moms podcast, series 1 episode 16 – Travel Tips. 01:20 – In the past what was the most stressful part of the journey? 02:30 – Do you think it helps that we are frequent travelers? 04:10 – Traveling is made easier these days by having identification cards that show Autism as a hidden disability that can allow you to avoid stressful situations like long queues and busy noisy areas. 05:30 – Have you experienced scrutiny from other travelers over any behaviors from your child and how have you managed it? 08:30 – A friend of the podcast carries a pack of cards with her that details her son's condition which happens to be Fragile X and what behaviors may or may not occur. She gives these out to the people around them on the plane to make them aware and hopefully more understanding instead of possibly annoyed at any disruptions. An example of which will be available at the bottom of these show notes for you to print out. 10:00 – What about the other end of the journey when you arrive at your destination? 11:00 – Reen recounts a stressful story of traveling alone with two toddlers? 14:30 – What were the must-do preparations for the holiday? 16:50 – Kids clubs are not for everyone! 20:00 – Covid and the lack of travel for 2 years brought about some anxiety on the first trip. 21:00 – Top Tips for travel: Build a social story book for your child to prepare them for an upcoming trip showing them pictures of destinations and things they can do when they are there. A step up from the social story as your children get older is to involve them in planning the trip and have them research the location and things they can do. Make sure you have the snack they like to each packed and airplane food doesn't cater to the average child. Prepare an information card about your child to hand out to people sitting around you as you feel appropriate. --- To learn more about traveling with kids on the spectrum, watch Learn Autism's video: Managing Transitions. To learn more about Autism, visit: www.learnautism.com To watch this podcast, visit our YouTube Channel. --- Keep in touch with us on Instagram @chroniclesofautismmomspod Download the Learn Autism app today:
"Your job is to learn and understand, not know everything." - Christopher Littlefield Today my guest is Christopher Littlefield, international speaker, author, and founder of Beyond Thank You. Chris' company is a training and consulting firm specializing in employee appreciation, recognition, and workplace culture. He is a writing contributor to both HBR and Forbes, as well as being a genuinely good human! Today he sits down with us to discuss how you, as a leader, can level up your employee appreciation game. In this episode you'll learn: -Why employee appreciation matters (now more than ever) -How to recognize teams and individuals in a remote/hybrid world -Practical tips and tricks that you can start using right now, today -And much more! How to create a ‘safe space' at work People talk about psychological safety, but how do we create that? We create that by sending signals to people every single day that we value who they are and what they contribute, and what it takes to do their job each day. Employee appreciation is also conflict prevention When people feel valued at work, they will be able to relate to your feedback as a contribution and not as an attack. If you show your appreciation often, they'll be able to take in your suggestions and not feel defensive about it. What makes a good manager It's so easy as new managers to feel like you have to prove you're worthy of your position. But what proves to people that you're worthy is if they can feel that you understand them and that you're willing to help them succeed. And when you serve them to support their success, then they're going to make you shine as well. Links and Resources Connect with Chris: LinkedIn, Website, Newsletter 75+Team Building Activities for Remote Teams by Christopher Littlefield (book) The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership by Jim Dethmer (book) `Conscious Business by Fred Kofman (book) Managing Transitions by William Bridges (book)
For our 900th episode of Army Wife Talk Radio, Chrissy is talking about managing transitions in this week's Milspouse Empowerment Moment. Transitions can be rough and sometimes scary for all of us. Chrissy talks about different transitions that milspouses handle. And she gives some tips for how best to handle these transitions. The post AWTR Show #900: Managing Transitions first appeared on Army Wife Network.
Today is our third, and final episode in a series called Managing Transitions. And if you've been listening over the course of the last couple of weeks you've heard a lot about the terms of our own internal shifting amid transitions. Change is inevitable, but transitions is really our internal work to the external change that we've been going through. Today we're going to be talking about aging with special guest Alice Fryling. Alice is the author of Aging Faithfully: The Holy Invitation of Growing Older, a beautiful book that addresses aging: how we all age differently and how God calls each of us to new spiritual birth as we mature. Whether you are approaching the beginning, middle, or end of your senior years, you are invited to today's conversation. SPECIAL GUEST ALICE FRYLING Alice Fryling is a spiritual director and a bestselling author of ten books on relationships and spiritual formation, including her new book Aging Faithfully: The Holy Invitation of Growing Older. Alice received training in Spiritual Direction from the Christos Center in Minneapolis, and training in the Enneagram at Loyola University. She has been leading Enneagram workshops for thirty years, teaching participants how to use the Enneagram to know God and themselves more deeply. She is also certified to teach the Myers Briggs Temperament Inventory. She and her husband, Bob, have two married daughters and four grandchildren. They live in Monument, Colorado. Website: AliceFryling.com More of Alice's Books MENTIONED IN PODCAST Aging Faithfully: The Holy Invitation of Growing Older by Alice Fryling Luke 19:41-42 NLT, Mark 4:26-29 MSG, Isaiah 46, Matthew 25:1-30 MSG Lectio Divina Daily Examine Janet K. Ruffing RSM Chapter 9 from Inside Job Workbook Session - a way to work through this series and transitions - FREE DOWNLOAD MUSIC USED IN PODCAST Music Break at 29:04: Joie De Vivre by Frederic Chopin - Performed by George Davidson. Music Break at 50:49: Down to the River to Pray - Attributed to George H. Allan in the Slave Songbook of 1867 - Performed by The Apex Singers. SUPPORT THE PODCAST We have two ways to make it easy for you: Use our Donation Page on our Website Donate using our new App CONTACT US podcast@pottersinn.com
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There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens... — Ecclesiastes 3 We are on the second part of our series on Transitions, and Steve will be talking to us about the many ways we change and transition. Using personal examples and sharing from his heart, this is a podcast to not miss! MENTIONED IN PODCAST Ecclesiastes 3:1-8 (NIV) Chapter 9 from Inside Job Workbook Session - a way to work through this series - FREE DOWNLOAD The Inside Job: Doing the Work Within the Work by Stephen W. Smith Managing Transition: Making the Most of Change by William and Susan Bridges The Critical Journey, Part 1 and The Critical Journey, Part 2 (Podcasts with Steve and Joe Chambers) To Re-position or to Retire by Stephen W. Smith (Blog Post) The State of My Soul Wheel SOLO: Creating Space with God by Stephen W. Smith and Peter M. Ivey DONATE TO THE PODCAST MUSIC USED IN PODCAST Music Break at 53:48: Turn, Turn, Turn by Pete Seeger - Performed by Ilse DeLange. SUPPORT THE PODCAST We have two ways to make it easy for you: Use our Donation Page on our Website Donate using our new App CONTACT US podcast@pottersinn.com INTERESTED IN MORE SOUL CARE RESOURCES? Check out our recommended reading, books on spiritual growth, and our soul care blog. Want to experience soul care in person? Learn more about our soul care intensives and retreats.
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It's been said that the only constant in life is change. While that's true, it's not always reassuring. Change, as William Bridges explains it, is “situational: the move to a new site, the retirement of the founder, the reorganization of the roles on a team.” It can be the end of a relationship, the death of a parent, the move of your best friend. Any change brings with it a gap, some-thing called a transition. These in-between times are hard, even in the best of circumstances, because they represent moving from one phase of life to another. Today we begin a new series on Managing Transitions and the podcast is a reading from Steve's book Inside Job, The Leaders Transitions: Understanding Change (Chapter 9). Thank you for joining us in this conversation! Mentioned in podcast Chapter 9 from The Inside Job (Purchase for $1!) Chapter 9 Workbook Session - a Way to work through this series - FREE DOWNLOAD The Inside Job: Doing the Work Within the Word by Stephen W. Smith MUSIC USED IN PODCAST Music Break at 42:12: Sing Joyfully by William Byrd (c.1540 - 1623) - set from Psalm 81. Performed by The King's Singers. SUPPORT THE PODCAST We have two ways to make it easy for you: Use our Donation Page on our Website Donate using our new App CONTACT US podcast@pottersinn.com INTERESTED IN MORE SOUL CARE RESOURCES? Check out our recommended reading, books on spiritual growth, and our soul care blog. Want to experience soul care in person? Learn more about our soul care intensives and retreats.
Can you believe it's already Match Week 6 in MLS? The Philadelphia Union takes on The Columbus Crew this weekend at Subaru Park, as The Union looks to make it 7 straight games for The Crew not getting a win in Chester. Todd is once again joined by Columbus Crew Color Analyst Jordan Angeli to discuss the upcoming game. Todd and Jordan also discuss Columbus' heartbreaking loss to Nashville over the weekend, Columbus' practically brand new backline, Columbus and their striker problems, and what makes these matches between these two teams so exciting? Columbus v Nashville: Overall thoughts: [5:02-8:10] Columbus defensively: Conceding first: [8:11-11:36] Milos Degenek: [11:37-13:45] Pedro Santos at Left-back: [13:46-18:33] Columbus' strikers: Weakest spot on the team: [18:34-23:22] Philadelphia Union v Columbus Crew: What makes this match up exciting: [23:23-31:15] 3 Keys to victory: [31:16-37:00] Social Media: Twitter: @FreeKickPod Instagram: @FreeKickPod Facebook: @FreeKickPod Jordan's Social Media: Twitter: @jordangeli Instagram: @jordangeli
In today's episode Lisa and Jean discuss various transitions in RE investing and the rising rates.Transitions come after closing on a new property, tenant turnover, changing property management companies, personal moves, and more. Planning ahead for transitions can help decrease the stress associated with them!Also, with rising interest rates, what can investors do to stay on top of things, keep searching out deals, and not get in over their heads?We come up with several great ideas including:Keep searching and always keep your eyes open (never know when a deal will appear!)Exercise patienceZoom out -- then zoom in somewhere else. There are SO many different markets to explore!Stay in community! It's much easier to get through difficult times if you know you aren't alone -- and you aren't alone! Connect with Tim and Lisa:Schedule a call with TimSchedule a call with LisaSchedule a call with JeanLearn more at thereiconcierge.com
This episode is also available as a blog post: http://walkerinternational.com/2021/12/01/10-rules-for-managing-transitions-well/
The hosts discuss life changes, challenging transitions, and handling them. We're having the difficult conversation about empty next, marriage, childbirth, job loss, moving, etc...
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In this episode, we dig into the challenge of keeping an organization moving forward in times of turbulent transition. Bob ‘n Joyce share resources that have helped them and may help listeners today. Turbulence and change are the new normal. There are good nuggets to be mined in this episode.
The coronavirus epidemic and the residual economic effects are spurring life transitions for a lot of people, from small changes to more dramatic “lifequakes.” How can you effectively manage life transitions of any magnitude? In this episode, Arthur is joined by New York Times bestselling author Bruce Feiler to discuss his new book, Life is in the Transitions: Mastering Change at Any Age. Together, they outline some practical strategies for optimizing life's inevitable changes.
[music] 00:02 Susan Kaye: If you don't let it heal, you won't get better. 00:08 Paola Granati: Welcome to this episode of the World of Work podcast, the WoW. I'm Paola Granati, and today we will talk about how to best manage transitions together with Susan Kaye. And as you just heard her say, healing is an important part of that process. It's an important part in order to be able to move on to something new. Before we kick this off, a brief introduction of today's speaker. 00:32 PG: Susan Kaye is a senior HR professional with extensive experience in all areas of the HR function, having worked both in a large Fortune 500 corporation, as well as a boutique, outplacement firm, she really has this unique combination of very strong career coaching and counseling skills together with an in-depth understanding of the strategic value of people in organizations as well as of HR. 01:00 PG: A dual British-Swiss national, she has lived and worked in the UK, Mexico, Switzerland and the US, and has traveled the world for both business and pleasure. I started this conversation by asking Susan to help us better understand what we typically mean by transitions in the world of work. 01:19 SK: First of all, transition means we're going from one state to another, so we're going through a change process, and, that change generally is... If we're talking in the employment area, is from an old job to a new job. Now that can be a transition and a change that's taking place voluntarily; it can be a choice, a personal choice, it can be an internal change within a company, and then you're transitioning from one particular situation in one company to another situation in that same company. 01:57 SK: It can be a transition from one company to another, again, as a choice, but very often when we're using the terminology in the career counseling arena, we're most often talking of transitions that are taking place in situations where employers have made the decision for a whole variety of reasons that that person's job is no longer necessary, and that that person needs to leave the organization. And then we talk about a career transition process. And it's in that case, a transition process that has a starting point which is not voluntary or at least, not decided generally by the individual it concerns. So it's a change from one state to another, but that's basically provoked by a decision that the individual it concerns doesn't control. 02:56 PG: Yeah, even if individuals may know that something's coming, it always does come as a... 03:02 SK: As a shock. And I've... Absolutely. Yeah, absolutely. And by... When... When it's not a personal decision, I.e., the individual saying, "Well, I want to move into another job, into another role, I am taking this decision," when that decision is taken by someone else, fundamentally, the individual's environment is rocked and completely turned upside down. And even in situations, one you've just mentioned, people could be assumed to have expected that it was going to happen, because maybe the economy is down, maybe the firm is not doing well, maybe their boss doesn't like them; there are 15,000 reasons why this could happen, it doesn't stop the fact that it is always a shock. 03:50 SK: Even when people expect it, that shock will have different impacts, depending on whether it's actually a relief, because there are situations when the individual comes out of it, saying, "Finally, it's done, now I know where I am, even if I don't really know where I'm going but I know what the situation is." But there are lots of situations where it's not a relief. It's a shock, it's... It's... It's a total catastrophe, their world is falling down around them and they need to be able... The individual needs to be able to manage that. 04:30 SK: And the reality is, that the first most frequent reaction is going to be shock, which can put people in a total non-reaction mode, where they look as if they haven't really heard what you've said to them, and then that is going to... They're going to move from there, and they're gonna move in different ways, depending on their personality and depending on their history and what they've already lived through. Some people are going to move very quickly into an angry zone, some others are going to try and shrug it off and move into a zone where they say, "Oh, I'm fine." Others are going to be in total denial, they're going to be trying to negotiate their way back in. So, there are... And all of these different reactions can be simultaneous, they're practically simultaneous for some people, everything's happening at the same time. 05:28 SK: So that's why it is such a complicated time to deal with because... Because people are reacting and don't feel in control anymore. And so, the key message that needs to be able to go through, to people in that stage is first of all, it's okay to be angry, it's okay to be upset. It's... It's okay to want to vent about a decision that one wasn't consulted about, and that one just fundamentally disagrees with. It's okay to have that, but it's not okay to spend the next six months complaining about what happened and adopting the approach of a victim that has no control. In the moment, when you're informed, you have no power and you couldn't be in control, but as time passes, you will move on if you can accept that it's not the situation that was forced upon you that dictates how you should react to it. You are still your own person, and you have tools and means, and abilities and skills, and competencies that you can... Your resources you can use to stand back up on your two feet. But you need to accept it's going to take a little bit of time. 07:07 PG: And it's going to take time, but not too much time. That's also what you were saying. It's like, there's a moment of grief. Let's put it this way. There's a moment where, allow yourself that moment of anger or frustration or... Before you get to the acceptance. But you need to make sure that you move on to a next state that allows you to look at it with a resourceful perspective, because, ultimately, I think people tend to underestimate the fact that this negativity, because these are emotions, anger or whether it's anger, whether it's frustration, whether... I would also imagine, yes, grief are emotions that are part of who we are as humans, of course. They tend to drag us down. They're not necessarily boosters of forward-thinking and even of looking into, "Oh, okay. What other options can I have?" 08:14 SK: Yes, absolutely. But if I can come back to the notion of time, this will... When people ask me, "How long is it going to take for me to feel better about all this?" There is no one answer. Because everyone is unique and people are going to react differently. But there's a comparison that's a useful comparison. When you are told from one day to the next, that your job is over, that your career is over in that company and that you're gonna have to get back on the market, and maybe you haven't done that in 20, 30 years, or maybe you've never done it, then it's extremely scary. What you're in fact, facing is a similar situation to what you face when you're riding on your bicycle and you slide off the road and you break your leg. You break your leg, it hurts, you go to a doctor, you get potentially an operation or a cast or whatever it is you need. 09:11 SK: You are going to inevitably accept, because it's a broken leg and it's very visible, that you're going to have to let time pass for it to heal. You don't heal a broken leg in two days. It's going to take whatever it is, six weeks or something like that. That is a fact. The difficulty with when you lose your job, is that you are in fact going through a similar process, but it's a mental process. Something has broken. And if you don't accept that that something needs to be taken care of, and therefore you need to allow your body and your mind to react to that and allow it time to heal, you're going to be doing like the person who sprained their ankle and goes right back on their (bicycle)... Or... If they can, running around and they're just going to make it worse. Because if you don't let it heal, you won't get better. So how do you heal? Well, you get help. Fundamentally, it's the same as when you break your leg. You don't expect that you can resolve your broken leg on your own. 10:22 SK: Well, same thing. You lose your job, you've had a huge slap in the face, it's something very violent that's happening to you in terms of your personal... Your self-confidence, your feelings about yourself, what you think you're worth. So I generally recommend to people that one of the first things they should do in the early days is actually go and seek out just their general practitioner and just talk to someone in the medical world about what they're feeling. They're probably not sleeping well, they're probably having nightmares, they're maybe, they're probably feeling very angry and maybe feeling violent. A lot of things can be happening. Well, there's help out there. And talking to someone, to someone you can trust, someone who's neutral, who's not emotionally involved in what you're living through. So I'm saying your doctor or someone else, a third party. Talking to your spouse, of course, people are going to do that. But the spouse is very, very, very involved emotionally, and that can create another set of complications. So yes, you talk to your spouse, but you can't expect your spouse to be the one who's going to be carrying you along this way. 11:43 PG: That's an important part too, which is the ripple effect of actually the moment you do lose a job. Of course, it impacts you, but it impacts the ecosystem as well within which you live. So that's your family, that's your close friends, your close relationships. And everyone is different. To your point, everybody reacts differently. The fact of the matter is most people will know, or most people definitely in your family or will sense that something has changed. And it's interesting what you're saying to seek out more of a third party, a neutral type of individual who is also qualified. 'Cause one thing is, somebody who listens to you, which is really not the point. It's really not the point. The point is... To your point, when you break a leg, you've got to find somebody who's going to fix it for you or who's going to help that leg heal, so reaching out to somebody qualified in this area is really important. What would you recommend those who say... Not necessarily they're in denial but that they say, "I don't need... I don't need to do this, I don't need to go through this process of grieving, I'm just angry and I'm just going to get back into the market, get on with my life. And it's fine, it's everything is good." 13:20 PG: Have you ever encountered those situations in your profession as an executive career counsel? And let's not forget, right, in many cases, egos are also impacted, and by egos I mean the sense of identity, individuals who may have had very important leadership positions and all of a sudden are asked to leave. Their sense of worth perhaps is also impacted. I'm curious to hear your perspective on that and what have you seen. 13:56 SK: A lot of people will try and hide or push back their anger and say, "I'm moving on. No, I'm fine." And as you say, very often at pretty senior levels, because it's very difficult for most of us to admit that we have been completely demolished in our own estimation of our worth by what's happened. We no longer believe we're capable of doing something or doing it properly. And to mask that, how do you mask your lack of confidence generally by overly talking about how good you are at something and that there is no problem. So how as a consultant, I would work with someone who's like that. There's not much point at first in confronting someone in the early days about, "You're wrong, and that's not how it's going to work and you're going to sink anyway, and you're going to... " There's no point because that's not going to help them. 14:58 SK: So you help them in different ways. You help them by making them work through what they've worked on, what they've achieved, how they can talk about what they've achieved. And progressively, you pick up on sentences, on things that they will say inadvertently as you go through the conversations with them and you ask them things like, "How are you sleeping these days?" And when they say, "Not really, yeah, I've been up since three this morning," and you say, "Well... " That's when you sort of going to start opening the door about... "Well, you do realize that what you're just going through is, it's not easy for anyone, most people don't sleep well after this." 15:50 SK: So you use what they reluctantly, but inevitably will start communicating to get a little bit more into the whole self-care, "Take care of yourself, you have been hurt, there's no shame in admitting that you're hurt, there's no shame in being depressed, anxious." And it takes time. Some people, it's going to take a long time, others, it's going to go faster. It's very... To me, that's very... It's linked to two things, one is how the communication came through to them, and the other one is how well they are surrounded by friends and family. And those two components are absolutely key in this process. 16:47 SK: If the news was delivered in a human fashion, then moving on and accepting and being able to turn that page over is going to come easier because they were still treated with respect, and they didn't lose their self-respect by losing their job. When the actual discussion was a bad one and unfortunately, it does happen, then not only is the person angry, but they've been basically told they're worth nothing, and that makes it... And they're not respected, and that makes it very difficult to move on. The same about family members and friends. If you go home and your spouse's reaction is, "Oh my God, what did you do to get fired?" That's going to be very complicated to manage. So your surrounding is hugely important. 17:55 PG: Exactly, so what you're saying about you must have done something wrong to... Why you and not somebody else, or why were you amongst those? And unfortunately, sometimes family with all that... With love and in good intentions, there is that risk of kind of pointing the finger and making you feel even more insecure because maybe it's something you've done as opposed to a situation that may have happened to you. Well mind you, of course there are differences, right, as well, if it's been a performance-driven issue, although that opens up a whole other debate which we will not go into... 18:38 SK: No, we don't want to go into it and I understand, at the same time I think it's very important here just to say that I always try to reinforce with people, they lost their job because for a number of different reasons, the company decided that that job should not be filled by them or that that job needed to disappear. So when people say, "I got fired," I say, "No, you did not get fired. Your job was suppressed," or "your job was transferred to another country" or there're a whole lot of other reasons, and when you talk about performance, in the whole career, in the 15 years I've been counseling people who have lost their jobs, honestly, the real pure true performance-related firings, to use that horrible word, are very few and far between, because there are so many other parameters that come into... A good performer in one place is a bad performer in another, etcetera. 19:45 SK: So yeah, we're not going to go there. But the fact is that what helps people move on is when they start understanding that even if they have lost their job, they have not, from one day to the next, become nothing from a professional standpoint. They're still professionals, they've got tons of skills, of competencies, of knowledge, of experience, it's all there, it's just not associated now with a company, but that doesn't mean they're not professional. And that is something that a lot of people have trouble focusing on because their focus is, "If I don't have a job anymore and I got fired, I'm no good, and I'm not worth anything." And the whole point of what will get people back onto the right track and the positive track is getting them to the state where they say, "Hey, I'm good at this and I like it, and I can do it," and then they can move on. 20:48 PG: And that is ever so important, learning how to move on is a positive mindset, and turn the page and start new. So that was the end of first part, of the first part with Susan Kaye. We are also going to be moving on to part two, should you be interested to continue to tune in, to listen to the end of this episode, feel free to subscribe and you will have access to the private part of the podcast. Thanks for listening. Looking forward to the next time. 'Til then, take good care. [music]
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