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A Conversation with Leland Gomez on Tradition and Innovation Tattooing, particularly Polynesian tattooing, has undergone significant evolution over the years, reflecting a harmonious blend of respect for traditional practices and the incorporation of contemporary styles and techniques. This evolution is not merely a trend but a response to the changing cultural landscape and the need for artistic expression that resonates with modern sensibilities. In this episode of "Chats and Tatts," host Aaron Della Vedova delves into the rich Polynesian history and evolution of tattooing as an art form witth guest Leland Gomez. Leland reflects on his own experience with old-school apprenticeship, sharing insights about the hands-on skills he learned, such as scrubbing tubes and tuning coil machines. They discuss the cultural significance of tattoos across various regions, highlighting how styles are deeply rooted in their respective cultures—from the traditional tattoos of Samoa and Africa to the unique genre of Japanese tattoos. This episode emphasizes the transformative power of tattooing and its ongoing evolution as a global art form, showcasing the beauty and importance of this ancient practice. Chat Breakdown: 00:00:44 -Tattooing and Its Cultural Significance 00:02:45 - Contemporary Polynesian Tattooing 00:05:00 - Challenges of Convention Tattooing 00:07:24 - Leland's Artistic Journey and Leap of Faith 00:10:42 - Old-School Apprenticeship Experiences 00:12:56 - Significance of Polynesian Tattooing 00:14:59 - Family Patterns and Cultural Revival 00:16:39 - Cultural Differences in Tattooing 00:17:28 - Wearing Culture on Skin 00:20:22 - Mixing Tattoo Styles: Polynesian and Ornamental 00:22:32 - Renaissance of Ornamental Tattooing 00:27:04 - Teaching as the Final Step in Mastery 00:28:05 - Giving Back to the Next Generation Quotes: "Without tradition, without the history of where everything came from, I wouldn't be who I am today." "We get to wear our inside out when we wear our Polynesian culture on our skin." "How is anything going to get better if you stay in the same place?" "I think there's a cultural need as the world evolves and technology just rams forward into our existence, that there is this calling to humanity for certain people to go back to the roots." "Teaching is sort of that, that last part of a master's journey. And it's also the part where you give back to something that's given you so much." "Maybe my grandkids can see it and be like, hey man, my pops, my papa did that." Connect with Leland:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/inked_leland13 Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com  

In the realms of tattooing and art, the environment in which an artist operates is pivotal to their development and growth. As discussed in the podcast episode, surrounding oneself with skilled artists can significantly enhance one's ability to absorb knowledge and overcome subconscious limitations. In this episode of 'Chats and Tatts,' host Aaron Della Vedova sits down with a talented tattoo artist 'Cheeseburger' known for his impressive color realism and surrealism work, infused with elements of anime. Aaron, after discovering Cheese's artistry, left him amazed by the hard work and skill displayed in the tattoos. The discussion delves into the artist's journey, balancing family life with his craft while working at Pacific Soul Tattoo in Honolulu, Hawaii. Aaron shares insights on how exposure to talented peers can break down subconscious limitations in art, inspiring creativity and growth. Tune in for an engaging conversation filled with artistic passion and the realities of being a family man in the tattoo industry. Chat Breakdown: 00:00:32 - Absorbing Tattoo Knowledge 00:03:29 - Influence of Hawaiian Tattoo Culture 00:04:20 - Challenges of Color Realism on Dark Skin 00:05:10 - Evolution of Cheese's Tattoo Style 00:06:01 - Learning from Nikko Hurtado  00:08:10 - Hard Work vs. Talent in Tattooing 00:09:08 - The Physical and Mental Demands of Tattooing 00:11:02 - The Intimacy of Tattooing 00:12:48 - Energy Exchange in Tattooing 00:14:08 - Balancing Health, Family, and Work 00:19:00 - The Role of Social Media in Tattooing 00:19:52 - Passion and Challenges in Tattooing 00:20:07 - Economic Impact on Tattoo Industry 00:21:18 - Adapting to Changes in the Tattoo Industry 00:23:36 - Fears and Motivations for Tattoo Artists Quotes: "You realize they're human, they're not gods, they're not magicians, they're just regular people like you, and somehow he's doing that, or she's doing that, so it just, without even knowing it, it clicks into your mind that, then I can do that." "The intimacy, I think right off the bat, the first thing that comes to my mind is the intimacy because you're sharing this. It's a whole experience." "Tattoo clients that collect at a larger level. They're really artsy people. They really are." "My family, that's what drives me first." "I love tattooing. I know it can kill me at the end. I still love doing it." "Tattooing is my passion and my poison." Stay Connected: Connect with Cheeseburger:  IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/cheeseburgerchampion⁠ Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: ⁠http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠⁠ Tik Tok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts ⁠ IG: ⁠http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts⁠ Chats & Tatts YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts⁠ Aaron IG:⁠ ⁠http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠⁠ Guru Tattoo: ⁠http://www.Gurutattoo.com

Guest Anthony Prince shares his proufound life experiences, which powerfully illustrate that past circumstances do not define our future and who we chosse to be. Growing up in a tumultuous environment, Anthony faced numerous hardships, including a chaotic, militant foster-family life that often resembled a criminal organization rather than a supportive environment. His story highlights how circumstances beyond one's control can lead individuals down difficult paths, often resulting in choices that may seem incomprehensible to outsiders. Prince shares an intriguing personal story about his first day in prison and the pressure to demonstrate his tattooing skills using a prison-made machine. The narrative delves into the unique dynamics of prison life, habits of inmates, and the pressure to prove oneself. Listeners will gain insight into the challenges and unexpected situations faced in such an environment, and showcases Prince's vulnerability and resilience as he naavigated post-prison life andd a massively successful tattoong career. Chat Breakdown: 00:01:12 - First Day in Prison and Tattoo Pressure 00:05:01 - Anthony Prince's Early Life 00:08:33 - Life in Foster Care and Crime Mob 00:10:54 - Petty Crimes and Organized Schemes 00:14:22 - Abuse and Running Away 00:17:16 - First Imprisonment and Sentencing 00:19:08 - Refusing to Snitch and Accepting Prison 00:21:13 - Sentencing and Legal Struggles 00:23:12 - Extended Prison Time and Appeals 00:26:02 - Discovering Artistic Talent in Prison 00:27:09 - First Tattoo Experience in Prison 00:32:05 - Learning and Improving Tattoo Skills 00:34:23 - Six Years in Solitary Confinement 00:36:31 - Returning to General Population and Tattooing 00:38:51 - Meeting Future Wife Ashland 00:42:03 - Writing Letters and Building a Relationship Quotes: "To be a part of that family, it was like being a part of a gang." "A lot of people are cool with prison artists, but a lot of people don't care about them." "When you have enough time, to kind of sober up, not from drugs and alcohol, but just to straighten up." "If your body breaks down, your health breaks down, your marriage breaks down, all this work you've been putting in all this time, it's not for nothing, but it's a lot of wasted effort." "Drinking water and doing 10,000 steps a day turned a stage three kidney disease to completely nothing." "I told myself it's going to be 10 years in February out of prison. I told myself 10 years hard work, and then when we get there, then I'll go ahead and relax." "Revolution Ink settles into the skin and the skin looks like normal skin again." "I don't trust our government, to be honest." "I listen carefully now because I've seen the times when I didn't listen, it was giving me hints." "In that short of time, how did you get this good? And now I know you just worked twice as much as everybody else." Stay Connected: Connect with Prince:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/prince_artandink Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com  

Tattooing fosters a unique and personal connection between the artist and the client, setting it apart from other art forms. This bond is rooted in several key aspects discussed in the podcast episode. Host Aaron Della Vedova takes listeners to the Golden State Tattoo Expo in Pasadena, California, where he engages with Tony Mancia, known for his stunning black and gray surrealism work. The conversation delves into Tony's unique style, which blends realistic elements with surreal influences reminiscent of Salvador Dali. Additionally, the episode touches on the artist's ventures into painting and sculpting, showcasing his diverse creative talents. Also discussed in the podcast episode, anethesia tattooing and the proliferation of social media has created a landscape where tattoo artists are constantly exposed to a vast array of styles and techniques. This exposure can lead to a tendency to replicate popular trends rather than innovate. Tune in for an insightful discussion about the innovation, passion and hard work that drives the tattoo community. Chat Breakdown: 00:00:00 - Contests at Conventions 00:02:35 - Tony's Journey into Tattooing 00:04:28 - The Unique Challenge of Tattooing 00:05:38 - The Emotional Impact of Tattoos 00:08:03 - Community and Belonging in Tattoo Culture 00:11:38 - Co-Collaboration in Tattooing 00:14:12 - Tattoo Renaissance and Future Trends 00:15:46 - Impact of Technology and AI on Tattooing 00:19:08 - Revival of Minimalist and Tribal Tattoos 00:22:12 - Analog Art vs. Digital Art 00:23:06 - Social Media's Role in Tattooing 00:23:38 - Anesthesia Tattoos Debate 00:30:56 - Personal Choice in Tattooing 00:33:05 - Purpose of Tattoo Conventions 00:34:28 - Trophy Culture at Conventions Quotes: "Tattoo of the Day makes people go insane." "When you do a tattoo, you're saying, I'm going to be different. I'm going to express myself in this way, and I'm going to have to stick with it to the bitter end." "Just like dating, you better vibe." "Every morning I wake up, I see another level of somebody doing something. I'm like, Holy shit, can it get any better? And it keeps going." "AI seems to be this shiny new toy that it's very impressive... but it is homogenizing." "I want a real fucking painting with fucking pubic hair stuck in it, you know?" "I think it devalues the process and I think it also kind of puts this idea in people's heads that like, well if I have the money, right, I can act this way or do this..." "We are going to do whatever we want and don't judge me." Connect with Tony:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/tonymancia   Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com  

In this episode of Chats and Tatts, host Aaron Della Vedova dives into a fascinating conversation about the evolving trends in tattooing culture with guest, the worlds best known black and gray tattoo artist, Carlos Torres. Born and raised in Gardena, California, during the 1980s and '90s, Carlos developed an early passion for art, inspired by the superheroes and fantasy illustrations in local comic books. Initially considering a career as an art teacher, he opted to pursue tattooing in his teenage years, a field where he is predominantly self-taught. A renowned tattoo artist with 27 years of experience, who has revolutionized the tattooing scene, Carlos and Aaron get into what younger tattoo enthusiasts are normalizing what they call "shitty tattooing," indicating a shift in appreciation for traditional techniques.  In October 2017, Torres founded The Raven and The Wolves, a combined tattoo studio and fine art gallery located in Downtown Long Beach. This establishment serves as a collaborative space for artists and hosts classes and seminars led by Torres and other professionals The episode delves into a recent encounter with a celebrity's son who desires an aged-looking tattoo, highlighting a growing trend among younger clients who favor a more "imperfect" aesthetic. Aaron shares insights from a chat room where younger tattoo enthusiasts are normalizing what they call 'shitty tattooing,' indicating a shift in appreciation for traditional techniques. They also explore the intersections of tattooing with other art forms, such as painting and sculpting, and how these influences enrich the tattoo process.  Tune in for insights on creativity, industry trends, and the future of tattooing. Chat Breakdown: 00:00:00 - The Trend of Aged Tattoos 00:04:14 - The Leap of Faith in Tattooing 00:04:49 - Carlos Torres' Early Influences 00:08:09 - Struggles of Getting an Apprenticeship 00:10:16 - Avoiding Gang Life 00:11:15 - Evolution of Chicano Tattooing 00:13:55 - Large Format Tattooing Challenges 00:19:56 - Issues with Colored Inks 00:22:23 - Opening The Raven and the Wolves 00:23:45 - Censorship and Freedom of Speech 00:30:21 - The Evolution of Tattoo Art 00:33:20 - Normalizing Shitty Tattooing 00:34:29 - The Future of Tattooing 00:37:03 - Importance of Learning Cover-Ups 00:38:18 - Laser Removal and Cover-Ups 00:39:08 - AI and Tattoo Art Quotes: "They want to normalize shitty tattooing." "It's an all in choice. And if you don't want to be all in, then be a sound engineer, be on the sidelines and record the guy who is all in." This is like the number one rule for America. Freedom of speech. Yeah. And man, they just shutting us down." "Sometimes when you're trying to create a new movement with that much power and control around you, you kind of, sadly enough, have to play their game a little." "I was like, damn, at least you're being real, because he's right. He's fucked." "Now if you're not seeking out truth about food and media and politics, on your own, shame on you then." Stay Connected: Connect with Carlos:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/carlostorresart   Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com  

In today's society, self-expression and individuality are essential for personal fulfillment and identity. This podcast episode highlights the significance of allowing people to express themselves freely, particularly through their appearance, such as hairstyles and tattoos. Host Aaron Della Vedova and celebrity hairstylist Philip Wolff and artist discuss how the judgmental attitudes of others can stifle this vital aspect of human nature. The episode emphasizes the importance of allowing individuals to live their lives authentically, advocating for the principle of not harming others as the only rule to follow. Aaron reflects on his 30 years of tattooing, highlighting the invaluable relationships he has built along the way, which contribute to a fulfilling life beyond mere financial success. Tune in for an insightful discussion on acceptance, personal growth, and the beauty of individuality, and wittness the final touches Aaron tattoos for Philip on a multi session back andd neck piece.  Chat Breakdown: [00:00:42] Judging personal choices and freedom. [00:06:06] Creative growth in career. [00:10:55] Learning and evolving in LA. [00:15:21] Consistency leads to success. [00:20:57] Viral content and audience engagement. [00:25:33] Attention span and creativity concerns. [00:30:11] Obsession with image and beauty. [00:34:04] Human expression through body art. [00:39:39] Tolerance and Acceptance in Society. [00:42:13] Dismantling stereotypes through tattoos. [00:47:09] Family and date night importance. [01:00:52] Financial education and personal growth. [01:03:15] Asking questions for personal growth. [01:06:42] Tattooing and aging experience. [01:10:21] Gratitude for tattoo enthusiasts.   Quotes: "The only rule is don't hurt others. That's the only rule." "You have to constantly learn. But then at a certain point, you have to give back, you have to share what you've learned, because we got to keep the next generation going." "You've got to be making content that's extremely new and different and interactive. Or a lot of it just pay to play." "Do you have actual followers or do you just have viewers that just want to see?" "If I can do something that makes someone's life more fulfilled, then fuck, I'm stoked." "We're all curating how we look to the world, even in the smallest of ways or very extreme ways with piercings and tattoos." "I just wanted to contribute towards the dismantling of this backwards philosophy that we all should fall in line into a certain, you know, living a certain way." "If it's got a fucking label on it, don't eat it. It's that fucking simple." Stay Connected: Connect with Philip:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/philipwolffhair Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com  

At my first job, I was asked to monetise 10 websites. It was making AUD$10-20 a day. I spent 6-9 months and helped the owner 200x their gross profit. In this video, Matt Raad shares how people can build, renovate and sell websites as an additional income stream. Matt and Liz Raad are highly successful Website Investors and Digital Educators. They are regarded as Australia's leading experts in website valuation, website due diligence and investing in digital assets. They were one of the first in the world to buy & renovate a portfolio of websites, a strategy they now teach beginners to reach 6 and 7-figure incomes – how to transition and replace a high-income job or business income with more leveraged, high cash-flow, location independent digital skills & online businesses. Chapters 00:00 Intro 01:40 The Scientist Mindset 04:52 Rich Dad, Poor Dad 07:24 How to Transition Out of CAREER 12:38 Building Our SALES Skills 15:20 Do Websites Still Make MONEY 19:35 How to INVEST in the Right Website 25:53 Which Country to Focus On 28:00 The Secret: KEYWORD Research 34:05 I WAS WRONG! 38:38 Do It Yourself 41:50 Advice for Building Business with My Wife 46:40 "Steely-Eyed Determination" 47:47 Resolving Business Conflicts 50:00 Matt's Question for You

Episode 78.  Father Aaron Solberg joined me to talk about his personal experience converting from the Orthodox Judaism of his childhood and his current practice of Christianity in a remote Canadian village. These are experiences few of us have, so it's wonderful to hear his stories. Although Aaron is a priest, he is not speaking here as a representative of his Anglican church.  Highlights: ·       Jewish practice seen as "legalistic," leading to feelings of obligation and guilt.·       Importance of structure and discipline.·       Appreciation for communal aspects of both Jewish and Christian services.·       Shift from fear-based obedience to love-driven practices in Christianity.·       Human struggle with discipline and imperfection.Bio:Father Aaron Solberg is an Anglican priest, composer, husband, and father living in the Canadian North. A convert from Judaism, he originally worked as a conductor and cellist in Germany before feeling a calling to ministry. After studying theology, he served in Baker Lake, Nunavut, (in the Canadian Arctic) and now leads St. John's Anglican Church in Fort Smith, Northwest Territories. He is the father of two young boys and writes about family life and faith, fostering a deeper understanding of spirituality within his community. In his free time, he focuses on writing and composing new music for various ensembles. Social Media links for Aaron: Website – www.thesolbergs.family Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/theanglicanfamily/Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/theanglicanfamilyTikTok – https://www.tiktok.com/@theanglicanfamily Social Media links for Méli:Website – Talking with God Project LinkedIn – Meli SolomonFacebook – Meli Solomon Transcript:  Follow the podcast!The Living Our Beliefs podcast offers a place to learn about other religions and faith practices. When you hear about how observant Christians, Jews and Muslims live their faith, new ideas and questions arise:  Is your way similar or different?  Is there an idea or practice that you want to explore?  Understanding how other people live opens your mind and heart to new people you meet. Comments?  Questions? Email  Méli at – info@talkingwithgodproject.org The Living Our Beliefs podcast is part of the Talking with God Project – https://www.talkingwithgodproject.org/

The evolution of tattooing has been characterized by significant changes in techniques, styles, and the overall perception of the craft. Host Aaron Della Vedova sits down with 'the crazy Germans' Marcus Giuliano Stolz and Philip Trier to share their unique journeys into tattooing, emphasizing the importance of traditional apprenticeship methods in skill development and fostering respect within the industry.   Aaron and his guests dive into the ever-evolving landscape of technology and art, discussing the rapid pace of innovation and its implications for the future. Aaron emphasizes the importance of understanding global perspectives, particularly in the tattooing community, and expresses excitement about exploring tattoo culture from different parts of the world, specifically Germany.    Tune in for an insightful conversation that bridges art, technology, and cultural exchange!   Chat Breakdown:   00:01:44 - Exploring Tattooing in Germany 00:03:19 - Marcus' Tattoo Journey 00:11:14 - The Importance of Humility in Tattooing 00:13:07 - Philip's Path to Tattooing 00:16:26 - Self-Taught Tattooing 00:19:01 - Transitioning to Full-Time Tattooing 00:21:38 - Work Ethic in Tattooing 00:24:02 - The Spiritual Journey of Tattooing 00:27:03 - Balancing Perfectionism and Acceptance 00:29:01 - The Reality of a Tattoo Artist's Life 00:36:10 - Authenticity in the Tattoo Industry 00:41:40 - The Importance of Client Respect 00:42:31 - Experimenting with Anesthesia Tattoos 00:46:19 Social Media's Impact on Tattooing 01:04:58 Value of Handmade Art 01:10:00 Future of Cyber Warfare 01:17:48 Ink Regulations in Europe 01:24:59 Colorful Tattoos in Germany 01:29:11 Giving Back to the Tattoo Industry 1:30:45 The Impact of Mindfulness   Quotes: "Making needles was its own art form." "We're lucky to have touched that era of tattooing."  "In Germany, it's like, when you say I want to be an artist, everybody's shaking their head and that you got to do something serious." "Every minute of tattooing I did in my life is just worth it." "The ones that will succeed in tattooing are the ones that have the talent, the work ethic." "Instagram can't save your ass."  "I've always had the opinion that I'm here to be of service, right? I'm not here to decide what your journey is like." "The cat is out of the bag, you cannot put it back in, so you have now cards with which you have to play, you know, that's it."   Stay Connected:   Connect. with Philipp: https://www.instagram.com/loccomotivetattoos Connect with Marcus: https://www.instagram.com/marcus_giuliano_stolz_tattoo   Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com

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The journey of entrepreneurship, even in tattooing.  where shop owners fight tooth and nail to "make it", is often marked by a series of challenges and uncertainties that test one's resolve. As discussed in the podcast episode, unwavering commitment and a refusal to give up are essential traits for anyone venturing into the entrepreneurial landscape.   Guest Josh Landan emphasizes that while having a clear vision for a business is crucial, it is the commitment to that vision that truly matters. He states, "the unwillingness to give up is real," and candidly admits that he has put himself through "hell" due to his determination to succeed. Josh began his career as a filmmaker, inspired by the surf culture of Southern California. He was deeply influenced by iconic surf movies and the personalities within that world. However, after years of creating films and documentaries, he found himself yearning for a new challenge. This led him to the idea of starting a beer company, St. Archer Brewing, which he envisioned as a brand that truly represented the California lifestyle he cherished—one that encompassed art, film, skating, and surfing.   Aaron shares his journey as a tattoo artist and craftsman, building a.  successful tattoo business while alsoexploring his diverse interests, including philosophy, spiritual growth, and experimentation with hallucinogenics. As he navigates the challenges of being a business owner, he expresses gratitude for his supportive wife, Holly, who helps him manage the complexities of entrepreneurship. Tune in for an engaging discussion that celebrates creativity and the entrepreneurial spirit!   Chat Breakdown: [00:02:23] Entrepreneurial journey and sacrifices. [00:05:13] Transition from filmmaker to entrepreneur. [00:09:09] Craft beer explosion. [00:11:16] Craft beer and cultural identity. [00:16:23] Supportive partners in entrepreneurship. [00:18:32] Confidence in pursuing dreams. [00:21:05] Stress and mental health challenges. [00:27:43] Refusal to lose as motivation. [00:28:36] Entrepreneur vs. Business Owner. [00:34:05] Marriage as mutual support. [00:37:09] Unwillingness to give up. [00:40:02] Raising money through conviction. [00:44:13] Creating a business people care about. [00:48:19] Advice for young people. [00:49:15] Work ethic in younger generations. [00:52:48] Entitlement in today's youth. [00:55:46] AI's impact on future jobs. [01:01:34] Sci-fi world of technology. [01:03:05] Youth and societal challenges. [01:09:16] The impact of negative comments. [01:10:06] Toxic online environments.   Quotes: "I'm always experimenting trying to do different things trying to get as much out of this fabulous surreal experience of earth that I can taste feel and touch." "I didn't ask how much money I would make. I didn't care about any of that. I just wanted to film those guys and be a part of it."  "You can get about an 80% confidence on a decision. Yeah, there's no certainty in anything. And then, what do you have to say at that point? Fuck it." "I've never done anything for any of them. That's straight up. I did this for me." "I've done everything that everyone says is like the dream and been the most miserable by a mile." "The refusal to lose is a gift and a curse, man." "This marriage is about you're gonna find dreams and passions and I'm gonna back you." "I've put myself through hell just because I refuse to lose." "There's power in that, man. Believing in something so passionately that obstacles tend to eventually melt away."   Stay Connected: Connect with Josh:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/joshlandan_/   Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com

Live from Bitcoin Beach in El Zonte, El Salvador, in this episode, we dive into part two of our conversation with Aaron Murphy, the founder of  @MURPHSLIFE   Foundation. Aaron shares his incredible journey from overcoming addiction to building a life in El Salvador, where he's now transforming communities through his charitable work.We talk about how MurphsLife got started, how it grew through platforms like TikTok, and the amazing things Aaron's been able to accomplish with the support of donors around the world. From building homes and businesses for impoverished families to creating a sustainable farm in the mountains, Aaron's passion for breaking the cycle of poverty shines through.We also chat about his vision for the future—turning the farm into a retreat for visitors, integrating Bitcoin donations, and teaching financial independence to local communities. It's all about helping people, creating lasting change, and showing what's possible when you combine hard work with a little faith.Don't miss this inspiring episode!- MikeSupport and follow Bitcoin Beach:https://twitter.com/Bitcoinbeachhttps://www.instagram.com/bitcoinbeach_sv/https://www.tiktok.com/@livefrombitcoinbeachWeb: https://www.bitcoinbeach.com/Connect with Aaron:Website: https://murphslifefoundation.com/X: https://x.com/MURPHSLIFETikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@murphslifeIG: https://www.instagram.com/murphslife/FB: https://www.facebook.com/murphslifee/YT: https://www.youtube.com/MURPHSLIFEBrowse through this quick guide to learn more about the episode:0:00:00 - Introduction  0:01:54 - Why did Aaron Murphy choose El Salvador for his philanthropic work?0:04:30 - What inspired Aaron Murphy to leave everything and move to Bogota, Colombia?0:08:03 - How did MurphsLife videos go viral on TikTok?0:15:07 - How is MurphsLife building schools and providing transportation for kids in El Salvador?0:19:53 - How are Bitcoin and farming connected to MurphsLife's long-term goals?0:31:55 - How does paying with Bitcoin teach financial responsibility?0:44:19 - How is MurphsLife turning a farm into a tourist destination in El Salvador?0:50:38 - How can Bitcoin be used to pay employees and build retirement plans?0:53:24 - How can a community ownership model lift families out of poverty?Live From Bitcoin Beach

Live from Bitcoin Beach in El Zonte, El Salvador, we have a special episode for you today! Max Keiser is back on the show, and this time he brought a guest—Aaron Murphy from the MurphsLife Foundation. Aaron has an incredible story of transformation, going from partying and excess to dedicating his life to helping the poorest communities in Latin America.In this episode, we dive into the amazing work MurphsLife Foundation is doing in El Salvador—building homes, schools, and safe houses, while also providing well-paying jobs to locals. We also talk about the incredible impact Bitcoin can have on long-term savings and how Aaron plans to incorporate Bitcoin into a retirement plan for his workers.Max shares his thoughts on the spiritual side of both Bitcoin and sobriety, and we discuss how El Salvador is changing for the better under President Bukele's leadership. This episode is packed with inspiration, hope, and practical ways Bitcoin is making a difference in people's lives.We had to cut the show a bit short because Max got called away to an important meeting, but we'll be back soon with more from Aaron and the amazing things he's doing here. Make sure to subscribe, and if you're listening on a podcast platform, please leave a review—it really helps spread the word!Enjoy the show!- MikeSupport and follow Bitcoin Beach:https://twitter.com/Bitcoinbeachhttps://www.instagram.com/bitcoinbeach_sv/https://www.tiktok.com/@livefrombitcoinbeachWeb: https://www.bitcoinbeach.com/Connect with Aaron:Website: https://murphslifefoundation.com/X: https://x.com/MURPHSLIFETikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@murphslifeIG: https://www.instagram.com/murphslife/FB: https://www.facebook.com/murphslifee/YT: https://www.youtube.com/MURPHSLIFEBrowse through this quick guide to learn more about the episode:00:00:00 - What Impact is MurphsLife Foundation Making in El Salvador?00:02:24 - How is President Bukele Influencing Global Policies from El Salvador?00:03:17 - How Did Aaron Murphy's Journey from Partying to Charity Work Transform Him?00:05:30 - What Social Projects Is Aaron Murphy Undertaking in El Salvador?00:06:46 - How Did TikTok Fame Impact Aaron Murphy's Charity Work?00:09:06 - How is Aaron Murphy's Foundation Changing Lives in El Salvador?00:11:08 - Can Bitcoin Provide a Stable Financial Future for Families in El Salvador?00:14:21 - How Has El Salvador Changed Since President Bukele's Security Policies?00:17:22 - How Safe is El Salvador Now Compared to Before?00:18:47 - Are the Economic Benefits of Tourism Reaching El Salvador's Poorest?00:22:02 - What Lessons Can Farming Teach Us About Patience and Growth?00:25:00 - Does Bitcoin Have a Spiritual Component That Aids in Community Development?00:30:02 - How Can Improved Farming Economics Help El Salvadorians Prosper?Live From Bitcoin Beach

Aaron Alexander, CR, LMT, is a movement coach, host of the Align Podcast, and author of The Align Method: 5 Movement Principles for a Stronger Body, Sharper Mind, and Stress-Proof Life. In our conversation, Sean & Aaron discuss: • Aaron's experience of living & sleeping in the dark • Connecting your body with your mind • 55-38-7 Principle • How to improve your posture • 10 minute daily routine to fix the damage from poor posture • Hanging • Why we're breathing wrong & how to fix it • Embracing discomfort • Defining masculinity • & much more Learn more about Aaron: • Website: https://www.alignpodcast.com • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aaronalexander • Book: https://www.amazon.com/Align-Method-Movement-Principles-Stress-Proof-ebook/dp/B07QFPYWX4?ref_=ast_author_mpb • YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/alignpodcast Subscribe for new episodes: https://www.youtube.com/@seankim?sub_confirmation=1

Tattoo Renaissance: Calle Corson on Tattoo Craft, Culture, and Change The evolution of tattooing has been significantly shaped by various factors, including trends, technology, and economic conditions, which have collectively influenced client preferences and artist practices. In this episode of Chats and Tatts, host Aaron Della Vedova welcomes the esteemed tattoo artist Calle Corson, a Swedish artist known for his innovative approach to Japanese tattooing. Aaron shares his deep admiration for Calle's work, highlighting the influence it has had on his own career. The conversation dives into the history of tattooing, including personal anecdotes about the early days of booking appointments through letters. Listeners are treated to insights into Calle's journey as a tattoo artist, entrepreneur, and father, as well as a discussion on the evolving landscape of tattoo culture. Tune in for an engaging dialogue that celebrates the artistry and passion behind tattooing. Chat Breakdown: [00:01:10] Modern Japanese tattooing influence. [00:06:15] Graffiti's influence on tattooing. [00:08:06] Tattooing journey and apprenticeship. [00:12:40] Philip Liu's mentorship in tattooing. [00:15:07] Opening a tattoo studio. [00:19:37] Transitioning from tattooing to teaching. [00:23:39] Work-life balance challenges. [00:29:50] Tattoo industry struggles in Sweden. [00:30:37] Marketing in the tattoo industry. [00:36:05] Tattooing trends and economic impact. [00:39:39] Social media and tattoo trends. [00:41:18] AI's impact on tattooing. [00:50:11] AI's potential in medicine. [00:53:41] Tattooing in a surgical center. [00:58:10] Tattooing with technology and art. [01:01:18] Surrendering to pain in life. [01:07:32] The intimacy of tattooing relationships. [01:12:03] Intravenous NAD benefits. [01:16:32] Dreaming of a cabin studio.   Quotes:    "Caring about the quality of tattooing that's happening in the shop every day, you know, it's pretty loose."  "I don't want to say I regret it because it's just, it's all beautiful and perfect in its own way." "I basically have just doubled down on marketing, you know, because the industry has completely filled up." "I don't trust what you read online and all this stuff. I mean, it's all just propaganda, most of it." "Getting tattooed is an act of surrender. Pain in general, whether it be emotional or physical pain, you can't always get rid of pain, but you can surrender to pain." "I think AI is the most interesting thing to happen in human history."  "I am not mad at anything anyone does if it isn't hurting people or fucking me or my shit up." "You're not only selling a tattoo, you're also selling an experience."  "Succumbing to it, to not resist, is a big, big key to life, man."   Stay Connected: Connect with Calle:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/callecorson Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com    

Hailing from a family of Cambodian genocide survivors, Sathya Patterson's parents worked diligently to support their family. Starting with recycling cardboard and cans, they eventually built a small business empire that allowed them to retire in their fifties. This success was achieved through hard work, saving, and making prudent investments in real estate, gold, and diamonds.  Building wealth through hard work, wise investing, and living within one's means,  coupled with forgiveness and compassion as integral paths  to healing trauma and cultivating self-love, can lead to personal and financial freedom. Sathya Shea Patterson's journey exemplifies this principle. Patterson's experience as a single mother at a young age further reinforced the importance of financial stability. She returned to school when her daughter was three months old, earning a finance degree from Cal State Fullerton.  Patterson's journey to success in the financial world was also largely due to her commitment to showing compassion towards those who have caused harm, recognizing that they may have been acting from a place of confusion or pain. By delving into her inner child and offering love and acceptance, a spiritual journey and practice that began in her 20s, she was able to heal past wounds and nurture a sense of self-worth.  Join Aaron and Sathya for a heartfelt discussion on finding purpose, choosing compassion and forgiveness, and embracing life to the fullest. Chat Breakdown: 00:00:32 - Living a Mindful Life 00:03:06 - Landon Patterson and His Connection to Sathya 00:03:47 - Cambodian Genocide 00:04:57 - The Khmer Rouge and Pol Pot's Regime 00:06:06 - Sathya's Parent's Survival Story 00:11:06 -  Refugee Camps 00:13:07 -  Western Privilege 00:15:05 - The Human Capacity for Evil 00:16:20 - Ignorance and Unenlightened Actions 00:18:01 - Sathya's Family's Journey to America 00:22:03 - From Recycling to Entrepreneurship 00:24:26 - The Importance of Financial Literacy 00:25:30 - Addressing Trauma and Healing 00:30:26 - Spiritual Growth and Self-Reflection 00:32:49 - The Role of Plant Medicine in Healing 00:34:44 - The Importance of Consistent Spiritual Practice 00:35:32 - The Necessity of Forgiveness 00:38:10 - Compassion and Understanding 00:40:05 - Self-Love and Personal Growth 00:41:21 - Meeting Landon and Building a Family 00:41:35 - Single Motherhood and Pursuing Education 00:43:42 - The Path to Wealth Management 01:09:40 - Building Soul Alignment 01:17:02 - Real love and relationships.   Quotes: "It was a shame to me that I saw so many Americans living paycheck to paycheck."  "My family ended up there because we all survived, my immediate family at least, survived the Cambodian genocide that occurred from 75 to 79." "My dad was so proud to be an American. He said, what's American? Country music? Give me more of that Garth Brooks, you know? So I grew up listening to country music. That's how proud he was to be here." "It's time to be your own divine mother and father." “When I'm struggling with forgiveness towards somebody that's hurt me, I often picture them as a child." "Good people have beautiful relationships. Good people have friends. Good people have wealth. Good people get all the good stuff about life." "Instead of asking, how do I make more money? Instead ask, who do I need to unbecome to allow more money into my life?" Stay  Connected: Connect with Sathya:  Arise Private Wealth: https://www.ariseprivatewealth.com/sathya-chey LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/sathya-chey-arisepw/ Heart of Ananda Sound Healing: https://www.instagram.com/heartofananda   Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com

Brian Redban's Impact on Podcasts and Comedy Industry: On this episode of Chats and Tatts, host Aaron Della Vedova welcomes special guest Brian Redban, a comedian, producer, and owner of a comedy club in Austin. They discuss their long friendship, Brian's diverse creative ventures, AI, cancel culture,  and their upcoming tattoo session on the show for Brian's custom Della Vedova arm piece. Brian Redban played a pivotal role in the growth of podcasts and the comedy industry, notably through the creation of The.  Joe Rogan Experience with Joe Rogan and the wildly popular comedy podcast Kill Tony. His contributions were instrumental in the success of the Death Squad podcast network. Initially, Brian and Joe utilized Ustream for fan interactions and Q&A sessions, which evolved into the concept of podcasting, garnering widespread popularity. Brian's dedication to managing multiple podcasts, including editing and production, underscored his commitment to the industry. He ventured into entrepreneurship by launching a t-shirt company alongside his podcast endeavors. The success of Kill Tony, a live podcast featuring comedians performing one-minute sets and receiving feedback, solidified Brian's influence in the comedy realm. The show's format attracted a large audience and provided a platform for up-and-coming comedians. Tune in for an insightful and entertaining conversation with this hilarious and creative guest! Chat Breakdown: [00:00:39] The future of AI in robots. [00:05:17] Shane Gillis' Tr*mp impression. [00:10:16] Uncensored comedy and censorship trends. [00:11:12] Phones at comedy clubs. [00:16:02] Cancel culture in comedy. [00:18:23] Comedy booming in Austin. [00:24:49] Changing the history of earth. [00:28:12] Starting a podcast network. [00:39:36] AI and Comedy Potential [00:44:33] AI's potential for good and evil. [00:52:28] Men and robots. Quotes: "My kids can play on that roof. Yeah, he did. Some kid was up there. Yeah. That's fishy as heck."  "Anybody that goes to a comedy show and gets that offended, You're a fucking nerd. You are a fucking nerd. Get away from me." "You don't want to as a person who's worked from the ground up building this craft to see fans be denied. Breaks your heart." "So really, if you unwind this whole thing, you, Brian Redman, change the history of f*cking planet earth forever." "A computer can never have a soul. I don't care how smart it gets."  "We kind of look like a problem. We kind of are a problem. We're kind of fucking a lot of shit up." "If the nefarious characters of the world really want to fuck with us, they get us totally hooked on this shit, get it fixed to where it's mostly right almost all the time, and then just start plugging in their answers to the questions when they can." Stay Connected: Connect with Brian:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/redban Kill Tony: https://www.youtube.com/@KillTony Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com

Fear is a powerful force that can either hold us back or propel us forward. In a podcast episode, it was mentioned that fear is energy and can serve as a reminder of past pain or uncertainties. However, facing fear head-on can actually keep us charged and moving forward. The idea is that fear, when confronted, can be a catalyst for growth and progress. Michaeel Getz shares his perspective on fear with host Aaron Della Vedova, highlighting that fear is often associated with the unknown, the what-ifs, and the variables that create uncertainty. Many people tend to shy away from their goals and dreams because of the fear of the unknown. It can be easier to stay in a familiar but unsatisfactory situation rather than taking a leap into the unknown.  However, the podcast also emphasized the importance of having faith and trust in the process. Tune in for an inspiring discussion on mindset, creativity, and personal growth. Chat Breakdown: [00:00:20] Building the most beautiful cathedral. [00:05:20] Tattoo industry transformation. [00:08:10] Wanting to fit in. [00:10:53] Being of service. [00:14:31] Life's journey and destination. [00:20:38] Acute Tragedy. [00:25:35] The six pillars. [00:28:32] Shifting from balance to alignment. [00:31:48] Buffalo mindset and facing challenges. [00:35:22] Keeping promises to ourselves. [00:38:13] Understanding fear as energy. [00:41:34] Overcoming fear and achieving success. [00:44:55] Obsession and mindfulness. [00:47:18] Self-reflection and sobriety journey. [00:53:41] Sleep and REM cycles. [01:02:30] Achieving dreams and financial freedom. [01:09:00] Personal branding in tattoo industry. [01:17:15] Tattoo artist's passion and dedication. [01:17:42] Helping others brings fulfillment. Quotes: "A big part of success in life is saying no." "A shop where it was all about customer service, caring for people, actually, you know, treating that person in your chair like it's your brother or your mother." "To truly be fulfilled, and this is just my personal belief, you have to serve others." "I had fought so hard, you know, but I was fighting the wrong battle the whole time." "When you love or are helpful, the universe seems to really like that." "What do you maybe it shouldn't be so much about why this happened to me and more about what am I going to do now?" "The problem with lying to ourselves is you're stuck with it." Stay Connected: Connect with Michael:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/michaelgetzcreations/ The  Force of Focus: https://www.instagram.com/theforceoffocus/   Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com  

In this episode, Aaron Zint, leader of The Whole Man Project, and author of Numb to Known, joins Jay to talk about PASSIVITY and how to overcome it. Small steps take you to where you want to go. Anytime we dodge a challenge, ignore a problem, avoid weakness, or stay in our comfort zones, passivity wins. Passivity lies to us, saying that avoiding action is easier than facing regret. But, every moment of avoidance is a lost chance to grow.From difficult conversations, physical transformation, to business undertakings, and more, they all begin with tiny steps. You can do hard things!Connect with Aaron:Website: https://aaronzint.wixsite.com/website Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aaron.zint Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zintmarriagelab/?hl=en Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-lab/id1559373076Book: https://www.amazon.com/Numb-Known-Surprising-Path-Away-ebook/dp/B0BDW3TLGJ ABOUT BRAVECOWe live in a time where men are hunting for the truth and looking for the codebook to manhood. At BraveCo, we are on a mission to heal the narrative of masculinity across a generation; fighting the good fight together because every man should feel confident and capable of facing his pain, loving deeply, and leading a life that impacts the world around him.

Building a family while maintaining a career can be a challenging endeavor, as discussed in the podcast episode featuring guest Ryan Ussher. Ryan resides in Australia, owns  and his work is characterized by bold contrast and dynamic composition. Having started his career in tattooing in 2005, Ryan has worked in many places in Australia and abroad, from bustling street shops to small private studios, to hone his skills into a recognizable style that draws from traditional Japanese tattoo and print imagery as well as Western elements.    Drawing inspiration from traditional Japanese tattooing, the ukiyo-e period, and the colorful Western world, Ryan sees himself somewhere within these boundaries. His tattooing is applied with heavy contrast, movement, and clarity that aims to be noticed from across the street.   He shared his love of craft beer, his tattoo journey, and the experience of meeting his wife, who became pregnant within three months of their relationship. This rapid transition into parenthood brought financial challenges and debt that they had to overcome together. Despite the difficulties, facing these obstacles as a team brought them closer and strengthened their bond.   Tune in for insights into Ryan's artistry and journey in the tattoo industry.   Chat Breakdown:   [00:03:35] Large scale tattooing routine. [00:06:18] Tattooing and physical health. [00:07:11] Balancing yoga and weightlifting. [00:12:52] Laser tattoo removal experiences. [00:16:04] Blackout tattoo trend analysis. [00:19:22] The rebellious nature of tattooing. [00:22:00] Tattoo culture in different neighborhoods. [00:25:35] Beer review adventures. [00:32:44] Family travel adventures. [00:37:15] Date night frequency advice. [00:39:45] The challenges of balancing life. [00:44:49] Tattooing's past, present, future. [00:51:29] The impact of AI in art. [00:57:51] Evolution of tattoo industry. [01:06:30] Gun violence and perceptions. [01:09:07] Gun control and safety. [01:16:48] Supporting the tattoo industry.   Quotes:  "Large scale tattooing is, uh, it's a grind, man."  "I'm into weird beer. That's my thing." "Identifying with the vibration, I would call it, you know, of the art form, the rebellious nature."  "When you have kids, this other part of your DNA activates, and suddenly you are just focused and doing the things you need to be doing."  "I want to do whatever I think is good. And whatever I thought was good was whatever I saw in the magazines that were like, wow, this guy's doing insane realism. Imagine doing that. I'm going to have a crack at it."  "I really think AI can fuck off."  "Handmade crafts are gonna be like ten x in value where they are today like they'll be these." "I'm going to the Mexican lager from Harlan Brewing. I'm a big fan of Mexican beer in general."  "Imagine walking in and you open your computer screen and there's a little beautiful human that isn't real, that has got all the books sorted out for everybody."   Stay Connected.    Connect with Ryan:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/ryanussher/ Lotus Needles: https://www.instagram.com/lotusneedles/ Website: https://www.usshertattoos.com/   Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com  

Longevity in the tattoo industry is a crucial factor that necessitates both physical and mental care to sustain a high level of tattooing. In a podcast episode, host Aaron Della Vedova sits down with Kari Barba, a seasoned tattoo artist with 45 years of experience, shared valuable insights into her routine and practices to uphold her ability to tattoo five days a week. She stressed the significance of maintaining one's body and mind to ensure a successful career in tattooing. Kari discussed various strategies she implements to maintain her physical well-being, such as wearing braces, doing stretches, working out, and using ergonomic equipment like a comfortable chair. She also emphasized the importance of leading a healthy lifestyle, including eating well and limiting alcohol consumption. Additionally, she highlighted the need for regular stretches, foam rolling, and other physical activities to prevent strain and injury from the repetitive nature of tattooing. Tune in to learn about the rich history and insights into the world of tattooing from this iconic guest. Chat Breakdown: [00:01:31] Tattooing industry history and future. [00:06:37] Rough tattoo shop encounters. [00:09:37] Tattooing Renaissance. [00:12:38] Tattoo art inspiration. [00:15:30] Tattooing experimentation and techniques. [00:20:07] Longevity in tattooing craft. [00:24:34] Yoga for physical health. [00:29:55] Tattooing and meditation synergy. [00:34:06] Tattoo shop history. [00:39:13] Tattoo heritage project. [00:46:30] The power of tattoos. [00:48:18] The gift of karma. [00:51:33] Overcoming health challenges. [00:56:49] Stress and perspective. [01:00:09] Finding solace in nature. [01:05:09] Anesthesia tattooing. [01:14:44] Evolution of tattoo design. [01:17:32] Pros and cons of AI. [01:24:14] Family tattoo traditions. Quotes: "I thought this community would be filled with artsy, fartsy people, and they were rough and gnarly, and that pissed me off." "But yeah, you were definitely in that era and that's, in its own weird way, beautiful." "I started seeing in tattoo magazines, you know, I saw Ed Hardy's work, which was very influential for me later on. I was like, oh my God, you know, you can do whatever you want, you know." "I love it. I've been tattooing so many octopuses. And everybody asks me every day, don't you get tired of doing octopus? And I'm like, never." "The key is can I keep good work flowing? That's important to me because I don't want to be tattooing people and messing people up. You know, I want to be doing good work, right?" "Some people, not all people, I don't want to generalize, but some people were upset that I got the shop, you know, they didn't want a female to own the shop because it was It was their club." "The art deserves it. You know, that's the thing. I mean, look at the history of tattoo all across the world, all across the country and how everything's grown and, you know, tattoo artists are artists." "It's the most important, as a tattoo artist, to recognize that and to honor that. It's the most important thing a tattoo artist can do." "Yeah, and what a gift, God. Thank you, universe person, whoever shoved me into this thing, because I can't imagine having done anything else with my life. Yeah." Stay Connected: Connect with Kari:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/@karibarbatattoo Outer LimitsTattoo: IG: https://www.instagram.com/@outerlimitstattoo Website:  https://www.outerlimitstattoo.com Tattoo Museum: https://lbpost.com/news/a-tattoo-museum-aboard-the-queen-mary-prominent-artists-are-making-their-pitch-for-one/ Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: https://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: https://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ https://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: https://www.Gurutattoo.com  

Alan Aragon is a nutrition researcher and educator with over 30 years of success in the field. He is known as one of the most influential figures in the fitness industry's movement towards evidence-based information. His notable clients include Stone Cold Steve Austin, Derek Fisher, and Pete Sampras. He co-authored Nutrient Timing Revisited, the most-viewed article in the history of the Journal of the International Society of Sports Nutrition (JISSN). He also is the lead author of the ISSN Position Stand on Diets & Body Composition. Alan is the Chief Science Officer of the Nutritional Coaching Institute, and the founder and Editor-In-Chief of Alan Aragon's Research Review (AARR), the original and longest-running research review publication in the fitness industry. Alan maintains a private practice designing programs for recreational & professional athletes — and of course regular people striving to be their best.In this episode, we cover:Key strategies for muscle hypertrophy and the importance of total daily protein intake.The role of muscle as an endocrine organ in longevity and health.The dynamic cycle of muscle protein synthesis and breakdown for muscle maintenance and growth.The integration of resistance training and nutrition for optimal muscle development.Comparing plant and animal proteins for muscle synthesis.Debunking the "anabolic window" myth, emphasizing total daily protein intake over precise timing.Practical recommendations for resistance training,  including strategies for increasing strength.Gender and age considerations in muscle protein synthesis and the importance of resistance training for older adults.Sponsors for today's episode:Inside Tracker - Use code LOUISA20 for 20% off - https://insidetracker.com/louisaApollo Neuro - Use code NEURO40 and get $40 off - https://apolloneuro.com/Sign up to The Neuro Athletics Newsletter: https://bit.ly/3ewI5P0Connect with Aaron:Website: https://alanaragon.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealanaragon/My Socials:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/louisanicola_/Twitter : https://twitter.com/louisanicola_(00:00) Preview and Introduction(02:07) Muscle as an Endocrine Organ(03:42) Muscle's Role in Longevity(05:53) Muscle Protein Synthesis Overview(12:14) Importance of Protein Intake(18:14) Animal vs. Plant Protein(21:09) Amino Acid Profiles and Muscle Growth(23:29) The Role of Leucine(24:59) Food vs. Protein Powder(26:56) Debunking Protein Powder Myths(28:35) Processed Foods and Nutritional Value(33:40) Optimal Protein Distribution and Intake(47:30) The Anabolic Window Explained(58:36) Benefits of Resistance Training(01:00:28) Strength vs. MThe Neuro Athletics Newsletter Instagram: @louisanicola_Twitter : @louisanicola_YouTube: @Louisa NicolaThe Neuro Experience Podcast is proud to have hosted: Dr Andrew Huberman, Dr Gabrielle Lyon, Dr Layne Norton, Thomas DeLauer, Shawn Stevenson, Dr. Rocio Salas-Whalen, Saad Alam, Uma Naidoo, Dr. Lanna Cheuck, Angela Lee Pucci, Jillian Turecki, Dr. Jordan Feigenbaum, Dr. Darren Candow, Dr. Sue Varma, Evy Poumpouras, Dr Casey Means, Renee Deehan, Dr Chris Palmer, Dr Charles Brenner.

Host Aaron Della Vedova had the incredible opportunity to sit down with Tony Hoffman, a man whose life story is nothing short of remarkable. Tony's journey from a high school athletic star to a prison inmate, and then to a professional BMX coach and motivational speaker, is a testament to the power of redemption and personal transformation. This episode begins by discussing the internal and external conflicts that many people face, particularly when trying to align their personal mission, vision, and values with societal expectations. Tony shared his own struggles with these conflicts, especially the pressure to use his natural talents in ways that didn't fulfill him. Tony's story took a dramatic turn when he became addicted to drugs, including heroin, which led to criminal activities and eventually prison. However, it was in prison that Tony experienced a profound transformation.  Tune in for a raw and inspiring conversation about finding your true north amidst life's challenges. Chat Breakdown: [00:01:19] Redemption and transformation stories. [00:05:52] Chasing fulfillment over happiness. [00:07:12] Sobriety and self-reflection. [00:11:20] Childhood and family dynamics. [00:15:32] Athletic pressure and expectations. [00:18:31] The impact of childhood expectations. [00:24:37] BMX Racing Magazine feature [00:31:29] Opioid epidemic and pharmaceutical industry. [00:39:30] Jesus, save us from your followers. [00:44:25] Miracles and divine intervention. [00:52:26] Navigating prison dynamics for survival. [00:59:13] Tattoos in prison. [01:15:37] Drugs smuggling in prisons. [01:27:00] Olympic medals and personal fulfillment. [01:31:44] PH Wellness success and impact. [01:36:00] Hallucinogenic techniques in recovery. Quotes: "I'm supposed to quit this job. I'm not supposed to go to college. I'm supposed to start this side business or become a tattoo artist because even though I'm really good at mathematics and engineering, the creative side of my person really loves this idea of tattooing." "I just don't like the term motivational speaker because any Tom, Dick and Mary can pick up a microphone, change their bio to motivational speaker and pick up some buzzwords and start telling people that they are one of the biggest speakers in the world." "To be fulfilled, which includes having a hard day, but a day of accomplishment, and it was tough, and it sucked, but you got through it, and you got it done. That's fulfillment." "What you feel you are is what you attract." "How are you going to get addicted on something that came from a doctor? Let's do it."  "You were looking for, the magic pill, the substance that could fix things with a moment's notice." "Yeah, that's the beauty. There's a gift in pain." "So if I break this open, you see the hand with the pills falling in it with the handcuff representing and the devil that's overlooking the city and street life, the money, the prison, the bars, and then the other side, which is representing the entire spiritual transformation." "I'm sick of fucking tattooing naked girls on people." "if you focus on helping people and being good at helping people the money follows that."   Stay Connected: Connect with Tony:  Website: https://www.tonyhoffmanspeaking.com/ IG:  https://www.instagram.com/tonymhoffman/   Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com    

On this episode of Chats and Tatts, host Aaron Della Vedova sits down with tattoo artist Joao Bosco for a deep conversation that goes beyond tattoos. They discuss life, spirituality, karma, and the effects of AI.    Life events and challenges are often disguised blessings that lead to personal development and growth. In a podcast episode, Joao Bosco shares his inspiring journey of relocating from Brazil to London to pursue a career in tattooing. Despite feeling like a misfit in Brazil and encountering various obstacles, Joao took a leap of faith and started anew in London without any support network.   Joao's story illustrates how stepping out of one's comfort zone and confronting challenges head-on can foster personal growth. He emphasizes that difficult experiences, such as loneliness and discouragement, can shape one's character and impart valuable life lessons. Joao's narrative showcases how embracing uncertainties and challenges can unveil new opportunities and experiences.Tune in to this philosophical and thought-provoking episode that delves into the depths of human connection and creativity.   Chat Breakdown: 00:00:00 - Starting Out in Tattooing 00:02:01 - Influence and Inspiration 00:03:03 - Joao's Tattoo Shop and Work in LA 00:04:01 - Learning from Different Styles 00:08:24 - Evolution of Tattooing 00:12:24 - Tattoo Industry Culture 00:14:04 - Joao's Early Life and Art 00:16:31 - Growing Up in Brazil 00:18:08 - Heavy Metal Influence 00:20:02 - Transition to Tattooing 00:22:51 - First Tattoo Experience 00:24:01 - Self-Taught Tattooing 00:25:05 - London Calling 00:27:02 - Challenges in the UK 00:29:14 - Language and Cultural Adaptation 00:30:48 - Gratitude and Perspective 00:34:39 - Spirituality and Personal Growth 00:36:00 - Daily Practices and Mindset 00:38:08 - Quantum Physics and Reality 00:39:17 - Inner Conflicts and Anxiety 00:40:10 - Humility in Tattooing 00:42:12 - Evolving Tattoo Industry 00:51:15 The power of AI. 00:54:36 The role of AI in survival. 00:58:49 AI in Music Industry. 01:02:43 The future of live performances. 01:07:02 AI's impact on innovation 01:09:37 AI and soul connection. 01:14:32 Souls in all living things. 01:16:23 AI developing a soul. 01:22:48 Hallucinogens in Western culture. 01:24:12 The species Apex moment. 01:29:18 The pendulum of human evolution. 01:31:33 The power of podcasts. 01:36:27 Government's propaganda campaign tactics. 01:39:29 Twitter files and government influence. 01:43:33 Ignorance is profitable. 01:48:23 Life as a real sci-fi. 01:51:24 20 years in the industry. 01:52:37 Boosting client's endurance. 01:56:18 Empathy in tattoo sessions. 01:59:25]Tattooing between London and LA.   Quotes: "We need tattoos. We are in a rock band, a metal band. We need tattoos. We need to look cool." "You want to hang out with people who are doing shit you're not doing." "Heavy metal changed the course of my life completely." "If I'm gonna lose I'm gonna lose big." "Our industry specifically for many years was very easy to get an ego." "I have no sympathy for folks that tend to dwell in the past and whine" "I really believe AI could fix the world. I think it has the power to cure disease. I think it has the power to rule nations. I think it has the power to make this planet a better place."  "I believe the survival of our species depends on AI." "I think there's gonna be some big events some pretty fucking big ones and it's gonna slap us, slap the world." "Any harm that we do to someone else, we're doing to ourselves in a way." "Ignorance is very profitable." "This shit's getting trippier than three hits of acid."   Stay Connected: Connect with Joao:    IG: https://www.instagram.com/@joaoboscoart   Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com      

Derek Noble's work is deeply rooted in a traditional aesthetic that he has cultivated over the years, drawing inspiration from a diverse range of sources. Influences such as medieval religious panel paintings, Tibetan and Japanese art, horror movies, and metal music have all played a significant role in shaping his distinctive 'dark side' style in both tattooing and painting. Noble's fascination with medieval religious panel paintings is evident in the composition and themes of his work. He values the traditional layout and composition found in these historical artworks, incorporating them into his own pieces to imbue them with a sense of timelessness and depth. Moreover, Noble looks to Tibetan and Japanese art for inspiration in the composition and layout of his pieces. By blending elements from different cultural traditions, Noble creates a fusion of styles that adds complexity and richness to his art. Additionally, Noble's passion for horror movies and metal music influences the darker aspects of his work. Themes of horror, demons, and gore find their way into his tattoos and paintings, infusing them with a macabre and edgy quality that reflects his personal interests and adds a captivating element to his portfolio. In this episode of Chats and Tatts, Aaron Della Vedova chats with Derek about his loyalty to the craft and his unique voice in tattooing as they delve into discussions on traditional mindset, AI in tattooing, and anesthesia techniques. Tune in to hear about the artistry and old-school mentality that sets this tattooer apart in the industry. Chat Breakdown: [00:01:46] Traditional Mindset in Tattooing. [00:05:43] Composition and skin in tattoos. [00:09:24] Apprenticeship challenges and successes. [00:10:59] Making tattoo needles by hand. [00:16:51] Tattoo innovation and influence. [00:19:59] Traditional tattoo machine preferences. [00:29:31] Discovering artistic freedom in tattooing. [00:31:36] Work ethic in tattooing. [00:36:41] Opening a new tattoo shop. [00:43:03] Embracing change as an artist. [00:47:31] Anesthesia tattooing. [00:52:46] AI art emerging. [01:01:40] The future of handcrafted items. [01:07:34] Evolution of tattoo culture. [01:09:58] The Renaissance of the industry. [01:13:26] Tattooing as a way of life. Quotes: "The skin of a human body is your brightest color." "I did get offered an apprenticeship when I was 18, but I had just gotten a scholarship to play football." "I can now see the priceless teachings you gave to me, and I appreciate them. But I will say, there's one needle you taught me to make that fucking sucks, dude." "I did a sleeve, and it's a pretty fucking good sleeve still. The layout, the composition, but I decided I'm gonna reinvent this shit, you know?" "You can take those building blocks of tattooing and turn them into whatever subject matter you really want to, you know?" "You brought that to tattooing, you know, this get up, fucking go work hard." "I don't give a fuck if I was up till 2 a.m. Absolutely, yeah. I'm still getting up at 6 a.m. and getting this piece ready." "Jesse Roberts is the best tattooer in Seattle. Like nobody knows about him, but underground secret." "Some new shit's coming out of you. Because you've broken up the channels. You've shaken up the mind. And you're gonna love it." "It's just the biggest, like, poser cop-out... You can possibly do, right? I mean, tattooing, like you got to kind of earn it." "Dude, yeah. I think AI, there's some great things that it can do. I think when you get into the artistic side of it, that's where it gets a little like, okay, now you're taken away from the human condition" "That's going to go up in value, human-made things. Right. With drops of sweat, with pubic hair stuck inside of them." "His art is on another fucking level. His tattoos are on another level. He's one of those." Stay Connected: Connect with Derek:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/dereknoble36 Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com    

In this Profit First for REI podcast episode, we have Aaron Letzeiser. He is the co-founder and Chief Operating Officer of Obie, an insurance brokerage designed for the unique risks of homeowners and investors.Aaron gives you practical steps and things to do to lower your insurance rates and more about insurance in this episode, but he will surely make this boring topic more exciting. Enjoy the show!Key Takeaways:[01:04] Introducing Aaron Letzeiser[06:13] Insurance black holes[08:15] How Obie helps people[12:30] Maintaining competitive insurance rates[16:17] The claims process [23:48] Actual cash value vs replacement cost[30:01] Aaron's advice for real estate investors[31:10] Connect with Aaron LetzeiserQuotes:[10:30] "Speed and transparency, and more of a consultative approach to what you are buying or paying for, that's the difference with Obie."[15:27] "Find an agent that knows and understands the real estate investment space."[24:36] "Go check out how much property coverage you have."Connect with Aaron:Website: https://www.obieinsurance.com/ Tired of living deal to deal? If you are a real estate investor or business owner who is tired of living deal to deal and want to double your profits, head over here to book your no-obligation discovery call with me. Either myself or someone from my team will hop on a short call with you to get clear on your business goals, remove any obstacles holding you back, and map out a game plan to help you finally start keeping more of the money you work so hard to make. - David

Reese Hilburn is a Tattoo Artist, Tattoo Shop Owner, and Spiritual Bisiness Mentor, & Meditation Queen. Her work focuses on helping heart-led intentional tattooers heal their wounds, shadows and traumas, while simultaneously growing and scaling their tattoo business on Social Media. In this episode of Chats and Tatts with Aaron Della Vedova, tattoo artist Reese Hilburn shares her inspiring journey of overcoming a significant mistake in her career. Aaron highlights the importance of owning one's mistakes and turning them into opportunities for growth and self-expression. Reese's story serves as a powerful example of transformation and resilience in the face of adversity and is a reminder that embracing our vulnerabilities can lead to unapologetic self-expression and empowerment. Tune in to hear how Reese's experience led to her healing, forgiveness, and the positive impact it had on her life and work. Chat Breakdown: [00:00:45] Transformation through embracing mistakes. [00:06:00] Portrait tattooing and artistic evolution. [00:07:24] Warrior women in art. [00:14:37] Struggles with self-identity and social media. [00:20:24] The gift of rock bottom. [00:23:38] Turning shame into power. [00:26:15] Authenticity and self-discovery. [00:30:17] Finding forgiveness after abuse. [00:35:31] Healing through tattoos and trauma. [00:40:09] Different types of meditation. [00:43:37] Seeking the meaning of life. [00:46:40] Visualizing future memories. [00:51:23] Embracing all parts of yourself. [00:59:44] Life as energy and possibility. [01:00:58] Personal responsibility and karma. [01:06:50] Turning grief into creative power. [01:10:14] Permission and meaning-making. [01:13:27] Embracing the full human experience. [01:20:26] Patience and urgency in growth. [01:21:47] Importance of setting boundaries. Quotes: "Owning our shit and how scary that is and walking with our fear and changing the relationship we have with our fear is actually going to turn your insecurities, your shame into power and into unapologetic self-expression." "This is my alter ego. And so I've really fallen into that love for accentuating someone's own life, almost like their face and putting it on their bodies in the way that they're just like, this is how I see myself almost." "To get hate, you know, DMs or whatever, some of which were like, you don't deserve to live, you're a lying piece of shit, at such a young age in tattooing, now you're questioning, should I even be here? Do I suck?" "I was so afraid. I would get almost panic attacks from opening the Instagram because I was so afraid of what someone might say or if someone found me out or something." "I challenge anybody out there listening to the show right now, Write me if you've never in a weak moment done something silly when you felt that way." "Because to forgive them means I'm saying it was okay, and oh, by the way, others can do it to me too. No.  That's is not the case at all." "It's like basically reparenting the inner child, the inner teen, inner young adult, all the kinds of different parts of ourselves in there." "But if you believe thoughts create reality, boy, you better anchor into that thought, because if you don't, then what happens next?" "Yeah, be sad, be pissed off. You know, as much as I believe in no resentment and someone screws me over, I might have a couple of days where I'm like, fuck that guy." "Urgency is the ego." "It's love to the other too, to put boundaries around, for others to, you know, you really are helping them to grow because they're exploiting you or exploiting a situation." Stay Connected: Connect with Reese:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/theartofreese Youtube Channel: thewww.youtube.com/@ArtofReese Website: theedgeink.com   Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com    

Let's debunk the saying that there are “bad” emotions. Emotions just are! We experience them all on some level every day. In this episode, Aaron Zint, leader of The Whole Man Project, and author of Numb to Known, joins Jay to talk about mastering your emotions.Connect with Aaron:Website: https://aaronzint.wixsite.com/website Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aaron.zint Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zintmarriagelab/?hl=en Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/marriage-lab/id1559373076Book: https://www.amazon.com/Numb-Known-Surprising-Path-Away-ebook/dp/B0BDW3TLGJ Jason's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jayvallotton/CONNECT WITH BRAVECOWebsite: https://www.braveco.org/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/braveco.menInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/braveco.men/Shop: https://shop.braveco.org/

In this episode, our guest Matt Clemmer shares a personal story from 1995 when he was on the run facing a lengthy prison sentence while his father was an undercover DEA agent. He describes the intense situation of raids, being on the run, and questioning how long authorities would search for him. Matt reflects on a transformative moment he calls a "God encounter" that changed his path.  Matt stresses the significance of patience in overcoming trials and tribulations, noting that it fosters personal growth and completeness. He explains that taking action and trusting the process can bring clarity and reveal the next steps.  The conversation between Matt and Aaron underscores how patience and faith lead to personal growth, resilience, and the ability to overcome obstacles. They stress the significance of courageously facing difficult situations and trusting in the journey.  Join Aaron and Matt as they share personal stories and moments of gratitude on this heartfelt episode. Chat Breakdown: [00:00:00] Life on the run [00:04:22] Seeking spiritual and philosophical texts. [00:10:00] A life-changing encounter. [00:13:41] Facing consequences of illegal activities. [00:16:20] Redemption and second chances. [00:19:17] A powerful family reunion. [00:22:09] Love and forgiveness. [00:30:12] Overcoming challenges with patience. [00:34:17] Faith and taking action. [00:36:16] Embracing the unknown. [00:48:23] Higher self and soul. [00:53:12] True identity and self-discovery. [00:55:55] The power of daily affirmations. [00:57:33] Taking control of your life. [01:00:23] Personal growth and adventure in life. [01:09:43] The journey to apprenticeship. [01:13:22] Evolution of tattoo industry. [01:14:25] Building relationships through tattoo art. Quotes: "I experienced a God encounter on my path, almost like God showed up and slapped me." "It's really easy to walk the walk in life when things aren't so rough, but what do people do when it's really gnarly? Like when the shit really fucking hits the fan." "I would rather be with God than so-called free on the outside without him." "Because of that pivot you were gonna lead this different life, which was gonna be of benefit to a lot of others. And it knew it so well that it just said, it did that" "The way she looked at me? as if I was the greatest man in the world, and that I could maybe be president of the United States one day." "Let our lives be our message versus us just saying one of my favorite quotes from C.S. Lewis, and it says, go out into all the world and preach the good news. And if you must, use words. I like that." "We forgive you, and we hope that you can heal and have a beautiful life, regardless of what happened." "Some of the greatest pains have been the greatest teachers and who it how it has developed me" "You don't need faith till you fucking need it." "We're all gonna fucking walk through these rings of fire. You can't get out of this game that we're in." "And man, it is so fucking easy to get lost and forget what you really are and get caught up in the Who" "Those days are gone and I'm happy to see him gone because it is a beautiful art form that involves someone trusting you with their body, their health, their vision, their dream." Stay Connected: Connect with Matt:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/mattdclemmer TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mattclemmer  Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com    

Luke Wessman's journey into tattooing began with a traditional apprenticeship, where he learned the ropes of the trade by sweeping, mopping, cleaning windows, and running errands. On this episode of Chats and Tatts, host Aaron Della Vedova introduces this distinguished tattoo artist with a traditional aesthetic rooted in his hippie Tennessee upbringing and Southern California influences. Luke's impressive career includes appearances on TV shows like New York Ink and Ink Master, as well as being featured in Forbes magazine. The conversation delves into Luke's background, his ambassadorship for Monster Energy Drink, and his creation of the Lost Art of the Gentleman. The episode highlights the connections between the host and guest, who share mutual friends and close proximity in their neighborhoods. Luke's journey serves as a testament to the value of hard work, respect for clients, and flexibility in embracing new developments in tattoo artistry. Join in as Luke, with a cigar and scotch in hand, shares his journey as a tattoo artist and his passion for spreading love for tattooing around the world. Chat Breakdown: [00:03:48] Tattooing for 32 years. [00:07:09] Hippie commune in Tennessee. [00:13:18] Tattooing as a form of armor. [00:16:29] Transition into tattooing career. [00:21:13] Identity in creative professions. [[00:28:33] Making a living as an artist. [00:35:12] Meeting tattoo legend Horiyoshi. [00:40:14] Horiyoshi's unique tattooing approach. [00:42:21] Tattooing Marlee Matlin from L Word. [00:48:11] Tattooing as a therapeutic experience. [00:58:20] The lost art of the gentleman. [01:02:44] Promoting chivalry and respect. [01:05:38] Embracing traditional values in masculinity. [01:08:40] Cancel culture and forgiveness. [01:13:18] Judging by character, not race. [01:16:34] Providing livelihood to community. [01:29:36] Tattooing and back pain. [01:42:42] Long-term career planning. [01:45:00] Building authentic partnerships with companies. [01:48:00] Discovering peace and joy in golf. [01:50:25] Taking risks for success. Quotes: "There's a saying in Hawaiian proverb, there's two ways to be rich, work more, want less, right?" "You're living with me and my mom on bunk beds, dude, you're good." "Getting tattooed for armor." "I personally was really worried about survival. I was on my own. I was living with my friends and my friend's parents. It wasn't about like, Oh, I love art. I'm going to be a tattooer. I need to fucking make sure I can survive." "I got in Miami and we were charging $300 for a name tattoo. And I was like, holy shit." "If I don't stop sucking this tit, I'm going to be attached to it forever." "Look, man, I don't want to look in the mirror and see the person that did all those things. I want to see somebody else." "There's a saying I like, and it's instead of bashing what you hate, promote what you love, right?" "All I can be is myself. That's the most unique thing I have is myself." "I think it's incredible to be able to employ people and give them livelihood. That is just like, that's an ultimate, man. I think it's beautiful." "If you can pull it off and it makes you happy, fucking go do it." Connect with Luke:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/lukewessman Website: https://lukewessman.myshopify.com/ Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com  

In this episode of Chats and Tatts,  I had the privilege of interviewing Stevie Randallyn, a tattoo artist who overcame a life-altering stroke. Stevie shared her journey of experiencing a stroke at a young age and how it affected her ability to speak, taste, and even tattoo. Despite facing significant challenges, Stevie's determination and resilience shone through as she navigated the difficulties of relearning how to tattoo with one hand and overcoming the limitations caused by the stroke. Stevie's story is one of redemption and inspiration, showcasing her unwavering passion for tattooing and her ability to adapt to new circumstances. She highlighted the importance of support from the tattoo community and the impact of her stroke on her personality and perspective on life. Through her experiences, Stevie emphasized the power of gratitude and the ability to find strength in the face of adversity. Overall, Stevie's journey serves as a reminder of the resilience of the human spirit and the capacity to overcome challenges with determination and a positive mindset. Her story is a testament to the transformative power of perseverance and the ability to find beauty and gratitude in every moment. Chat breakdown: [00:02:33] Stevie's love for tattooing. [00:04:51] Overcoming adversity. [00:09:33] Stroke recovery and realization. [00:12:53] Overcoming challenges for two daughters. [00:16:49] Overcoming self-pity and finding inspiration. [00:17:41] Tattoo community and support. [00:29:31] Overcoming language challenges post-stroke. [00:35:13] Life-changing effects of stroke. [00:39:57] Lack of gratitude. [00:42:09] Acupuncture and stroke recovery. [00:47:00] Juggling motherhood and tattooing. [00:51:19] Overcoming challenges in motorcycle riding. [00:58:59] Embracing individuality in tattoo art. [01:00:08] Drawing on iPad vs. paper. [01:06:42] Tattooing and personal growth. [01:11:59] The evolution of tattoo marketing. [01:14:29] Tattooing traditions and inspiration. Quotes: "It's amazing to me what humans can get done when there's no way out." "Just because you're having an emotion doesn't mean you have to react to that emotion. You can just stand back and look at it and decide what to do with it." "I feel like we all suffer from a disease as human beings of lack of gratitude" "If you were a female tattooer, it was like a unicorn." "I noticed that I'll choose to get tattooed to like, kind of like work through that pain. It is a type of therapy." "If you don't show up in the algorithm, then no one knows you exist." "And you can deepen and enrich that experience by having a connection to the human being that's tattooing you." "Thank you for who you are, for being an inspiration to me. You know, I have my little bitches and whines that I get up with every day. I'm going to bitch and whine a little less after being with you." Stay Connected: Connect with Stevie Website: https://www.stevierandallyntattoo.com/about-me Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stevierandallyn Connect with Aaron: Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com    

The Impact of Social Media and a Deep Dive into Tattoo Artistry with Nikko Hurtado We kick things off by discussing how we celebrate the world of tattooing and creativity with a legendary figure in the tattoo industry, Nikko Hurtado. Nikko's work in photo-realism tattoos has significantly influenced host Aaron Della Vedova's career, and his presence on the show is an honor. They delve into the addictive nature of social media and its resemblance to slot machines. We explore how algorithms manipulate our behavior, potentially leading to addiction and mental health issues. This topic sets the stage for a broader conversation about the digital age's impact on our lives. Nikko Hurtado has been tattooing for 22 years and is renowned for his photo-realism tattoos that resemble HD photographs on skin. His talent has led him to tattoo celebrities like Puff Daddy, Drake, and The Rock. He's also a prominent figure on TV shows like "Ink Master" and "LA Ink," a father of three, and the owner of Black Anchor Ink with locations in Hesperia and Hollywood, California. During our conversation, Nikko shares his journey in the tattoo industry, starting from his apprenticeship at Art Junkies Tattoo to his current status as a respected artist. He reflects on the evolution of his career and the importance of continuous learning, which includes taking classes in different art forms like sculpting and Japanese tattooing to better judge on "Ink Master." Nikko also delves into his entrepreneurial ventures, such as creating Revolution Ink and Vortex rotary machines. He emphasizes the importance of owning his work and not being tied down by sponsorships or external pressures. The episode concludes with a discussion on the economics of tattooing, the potential for industry growth, and the importance of staying productive and innovative during slower periods. Nikko's story is a testament to the power of perseverance, passion for one's craft, and the transformative impact of tattooing on both artists and clients alike. Join us for this inspiring and insightful conversation with Nikko Hurtado, a true master of the art of tattooing. Chat breakdown:  [00:00:09] Social media addiction. [00:05:27] Tattooing dragon workshop experience. [00:08:29] Giving back to tattooing community. [00:12:51] Ink Master competition experiences. [00:17:09] First tattoo award memories. [00:20:25] Tattooing as a life changer. [00:29:53] Tattoo pigment making secrets. [00:35:39] Facing criticism in the industry. [00:41:55] The devil in your head. [00:44:31] Alcohol and self-discipline. [00:54:55] Addiction to social media. [01:02:48] Future of tattooing without drawing. [01:14:08] Mastering art through observation. [01:16:21] The potential of AI. [01:33:23] Tattooing advice for beginners. [01:38:09] Tattoo machine story. [01:40:42] Tattooing and community values. [01:53:39] Tattooing and client relationships. [01:57:04] Bringing back Black Anchor Academy. Quotes: "I was terrified, because I'm like, dude, I've been tattooing at that point maybe 20 years. I'm like, if I go on there and lose on the first round, which is very possible, my ego couldn't have handled it." "And you can tell she really loves tattooing. That's the point, right? It's for the love of tattooing." "You show up, you show up, dude, you show up and you keep showing up and you knock on that fucking door. And then that door eventually opens, you know what I mean? That's the whole point of perseverance, right?" "That's my Bible, man, really, is The Four Agreements." "Honoring your word is a big one, but especially the word you make to yourself." "I want to look in the mirror and be proud of me. For sure. You know, when you look in that mirror and you're like, oh, you're kind of a, you kind of fucked up yesterday. You knew better. You did it anyway. The guilt. I've had those days and I'm like, I'm sick of this, man. I don't want to look in the mirror and feel that way, you know?" "You don't have to be born with some special creative talent. The one thing was that ability to create, and that's being removed." "I think AI is gonna get to a point where it's gonna be like the second coming of Christ." "Like, step out of your comfort zone and try something different, you know, and don't just be that Internet tattooer, you know, because it's going to lose some magic. And it's the magic that makes this industry so great." "Tattooing's cool, and being a great tattooer is cool, but to me what's cooler is experiencing the things you can't read online." "Any support you've ever given me, dude, has led me to this point in my life, and I just want you to know, even if you felt like you were unseen, unheard, or not paid attention to, I'm telling you thank you." "And gratitude is what you're talking about there. And, uh, that's a good place to vibrate in is gratitude." Stay Connected: Connect with Nikko:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/nikkohurtado Website: https://nikkohurtado.com/ Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.comm   Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts   IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts   Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts   Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova   Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com    

Sometimes in the world of ADHD, we parents come across a medical provider who really, really 'gets it.' This is one of those times! Dr. Aaron Dodini understands the nuances of diagnosing and treating ADHD, and has thoughts about the future of this complex condition. This conversation is a must listen for anyone with kids or adults who have ADHD in your family! Dr. Aaron Dodini is a seasoned clinical psychologist with over 15 years of experience in diagnosing and treating ADHD, particularly focusing on high achieving professionals and athletes who may have been overlooked in the diagnosis process. Aaron firmly believes in a comprehensive approach to diagnosing and treating ADHD, emphasizing that there is no one-size-fits-all treatment. He advocates for a combination of medication, behavioral interventions, coaching, therapy, and creating supportive environments to address the various aspects of ADHD. His perspective is shaped by his extensive experience and his passion for empowering individuals to embrace their ADHD as a catalyst for growth and excellence. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Aaron Dodini about ADHD and treatment Parenting is Leadership Parenting is a leadership opportunity. With the "Parenting is Leadership" Guide from ImpactParents, two frameworks and a dozen core competencies will guide you to up-level your parenting... and improve the most important relationships of your life. Here is what to expect on this week's show: Aaron emphasizes the importance of working with families, systems, and communities to provide support. He believes that a proper diagnosis for adults is crucial for improving their lives and their ability to support their children. When parents receive the support they need, they can reinforce support for their kids, leading to greater intimacy within the family. According to Aaron, there is no cure for ADHD, but a combination of approaches can be beneficial. Medication is important, but should be complemented with behavioral training, therapies, and exercises. Aaron emphasizes the importance of using a whole toolbox of strategies to address the various aspects of ADHD. Aaron explains, ADHD can be a catalyst for personal growth and excellence. Embracing a diagnosis of ADHD can lead to thriving and personal development. Therapy can help adults navigate the emotional aspects and come to terms with their diagnosis, although it may not address all executive function challenges. Aaron emphasizes the importance of self-love, compassion, and understanding oneself better, which therapy can facilitate. Ultimately, an ADHD diagnosis can serve as an invitation to self-awareness and growth. Many of our defense mechanisms and ways of motivating ourselves that once served us well may no longer be effective as we evolve. Elaine mentions the "stick" that adults with ADHD have used to beat themselves up in order to be successful. While this coping mechanism may have worked in the past, it is important for individuals to learn to put the stick down and find healthier ways to motivate themselves. Connect with Aaron: Website: www.dodini.com Website: www.onlineadultadhd.com Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fkaTwitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparents Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If you're feeling overwhelmed and lost in navigating your teenager's mental health crisis, seeking solutions that seem out of reach, then you are not alone! The struggle to find effective ways to support your teenager's well-being can leave you feeling isolated and helpless, despite your best efforts. It's time to stop the cycle of frustration and discover actionable steps that can make a real difference for your teenager's mental health. Let's explore effective strategies together to bring about positive change and resilience in your teenager's life.In this episode, Aaron Hale features Jamie Bateman as a guest on the podcast, delving into the challenging topic of mental health crises among teenagers. Drawing from his own experiences and personal journey, Jamie offers a candid and insightful take on supporting teenagers through mental health challenges. His practical strategies and genuine approach provide parents with valuable tools to navigate these complex situations, fostering an improved understanding and a sense of empowerment. Jamie's unique perspective and relatable storytelling make this episode a must-listen for any parent seeking guidance and support in the realm of teenage mental health.In this episode, you will be able to:Discover the transformative power of storytelling in overcoming adversity.Learn effective strategies for navigating challenging situations and fostering a positive mindset.Uncover the keys to resilience and mental well-being during teenage mental health crises.Explore the journey from adversity to abundance, finding happiness amidst challenges.Embrace the profound impact of human connection in overcoming life's obstacles.Even if this bad thing happens, I'll still be okay. I've been through bad things before. - Jamie BatemanIt's not a big commitment, but it goes a long, long way. Communicating with friends, family, God, if you believe in God, and then breath work are a few things you can do immediately to help navigate the day to day of a challenging situation. - Jamie BatemanAaron's Previous Episode:https://www.adversity2abundance.com/finding-culinary-and-real-estate-success-after-military-service-left-him-blind-and-deaf-with-aaron-hale/Connect with Aaron:WEBSITE: https://eodfudge.com/aaron-hale.htmlYOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@pointofimpactpodcastLINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaron-hale-1861477/INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/eodconfections/TWITTER: https://twitter.com/eodconfectionsFACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/EODconfections/TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@eodconfections?lang=enHaven Financial:https://www.myfinancialhaven.com/jamiebateman/ATTENTION:Unlock the secrets to a transformative life with “From Adversity to Abundance: Inspiring stories of Mental, Physical and Financial Transformation”. Buy your copy now and embark on a journey from challenges to triumphs!AMAZON: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CGTWJY1D?ref_=pe_3052080_397514860Connect with usWEBSITE: https://www.adversity2abundance.comLeave us a rating or review: https://www.adversity2abundance.com/reviews/new/ or hereGot comments, feedback or suggestions? We'd love to hear it! https://www.adversity2abundance.com/contact/Follow From Adversity to Abundance PodcastFACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100089126144055INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/adversitytoabundancepodcast/LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/company/89949391/admin/feed/posts/YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@FromAdversity2AbundancePodcast Connect with JamieBOOK: From Adversity to Abundance: Inspiring Stories of Mental, Physical, and Financial TransformationLINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jamie-bateman-5359a811/TWITTER: https://twitter.com/batemanjames

I think I am safe in saying that my conversation with our guest, Aaron Waldron is one of the most unique and stimulating one I have had the honor to have. Aaron has, through their life, had a number of run-ins with parts of organized religion which, as they says, left them quite traumatized. Even so, they firmly believes in God and knows that God is in and all around us as they will tell us. In their life, they spent five years in the military. They also have spent much time searching for what they feel is their life's direction. As you will learn, they currently are pursuing a Doctorate of Ministry degree. One of the fascinating things about Aaron is that they have determined that they need to refer to themselves in the third person which they feels God is leading them to do in order that they remove more of the “I” out of their world. They will talk about their dissertation and their creation of the concept of Public Space Communities. I leave it to Aaron to explain this. I hope you find our session today as fascinating and thought provoking, as do I. It is always wonderful to learn about different points of view and how we should explore integrating them into our own thought processes. About the Guest: My name is Aaron Waldron; we are a 36-year-old religiously traumatized Theopoet: a Shaman in Journey. Our pronouns are they, their and them. We do not identify in the singular first-person pronoun (I), but instead, we identify as a collective third person pronoun (we). As a we continue to develop into a Path-Maker trekking unfollowable paths that take us on a Journey towards Self; we are currently in a doctoral process at the New York Theological Seminary seeking to develop spaces between larger spaces that offers community for religiously traumatized people and study a complicated form of suffering called, "religious trauma." It's my own religious trauma that inspires me to empathize and study religious trauma among humans in the 21st century. We seek to understand our Self through suffering entangled in religious trauma. We were born and raised under a Full Balsamic Moon (Often relied upon as a source for inspiration and energy) in Brooklyn, New York on March 15th (My Zodiac is Pisces) in the year 1987 C.E.; surviving the NYC shelter systems since we could walk with our Mother and younger brother. We have experienced religious trauma all our life. My Mother, a primal relationship embodying the Mother archetype, was colonized by a hateful religion (colonized Christianity) that forced her to be an extension of an invisible oppressor. We grew up hearing things like: "Aaron, I am your Mother and God commands you to obey me." We typically were punished by reading the Bible in my underwear while kneeling on rice with my face in a corner. Barriers of religious hatred prevented me from being my natural Self. Living under this imprisonment and oppression caused me to develop suicidal thoughts while attending the High School of Art & Design. After attempting and failing twice, we settled to venture into college with the support and encouragement of our Nana. During my first year at college, my girlfriend at the time was pregnant; we decided to drop out of college and joined the Army to provide for my beautiful daughter Serenity. During the time the "9/11 Attacks" made joining the military very enticing and patriotic. After serving about five years (2007-2012) and deploying to Iraq in 2010 for a year; we closed that chapter of our life and transitioned back into civilian life in 2012. We were homeless for a while, living in our car and going to school. It was an interesting time in my life, the friends we made got us through some dark times and we are eternally grateful. Ended up in Atlanta, GA helping homeless veterans get housing and employment as a "case manager and recruiter." We loved helping people who were in situations we have been in- we were able to empathize in ways others couldn't at the time. One day we experienced a Theophany (encounter with God in Dream) and we felt that God wanted us to know more about what God is or can be. So, we travelled back to NYC and enrolled in The New York Theological Seminary. We started with their certificate program and found our Self boldly stepping forward to enroll in the Master of Divinity program (M.Div.-a 4-year degree at the time) with a few college credits but no degree yet. During my spiritual and religious journey to find meaning in God and my Self, we married our Life Partner, Yesenia Fernandez, met my kindred spirit, Rev. Lopez-Joel Dautruche and started to understand what love is and how to love my Self. The idea of God transformed in indescribable ways; we felt called or pulled to study in NYTS's Multi-Faith D.Min. program. My dissertation is a large part of my life, it's an expression of what we are feeling and thinking, as well as what we have experienced. We wept uncontrollably in the first semester after realizing we must authentically commit our Self to this Journey. It was the first time in my life that we didn't feel scared anymore to be our Self. By boldly stepping forward and developing this "unstoppable mindset" we call: "a Path-Maker." All of our life's suffering and trauma to include religious trauma has brought us to this moment in existence and we feel deeply humbled- If not for God emerging within me, we wouldn't have stepped off-path to pave our own unfollowable path. Ways to connect with Aaron: Website: https://www.ashamaninjourney.com/ Email: ashamaninjourney@gmail.com Invite to Public|Space Community: https://public-space.mn.co/share/otOyc_jjtbH0DOyY YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/@ashamaninjourney https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKROus_PpjszPrz2lT9iGDg Instagram: @ashaman_injourney Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aaron.waldron.5454 Linkedin: @AaronWaldron a Carrier Raven Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/24ab73d6b1c1/a-carrier-raven?fbclid=IwAR35lB07oc1rwmsBUVG1fR4oYJDqrnLFfMw6H5wQ83JPw2rwDc8yA6LCxuY_aem_ASoQiPP_BGFeKopkir_8gAr4pD4RuOAp6bW6s7z9Q4zjrUWL1ic-6yYLUGJij1dlUjs About the Host: Michael Hingson is a New York Times best-selling author, international lecturer, and Chief Vision Officer for accessiBe. Michael, blind since birth, survived the 9/11 attacks with the help of his guide dog Roselle. This story is the subject of his best-selling book, Thunder Dog. 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Hi, I'm Michael Hingson, Chief Vision Officer for accessiBe and the author of the number one New York Times bestselling book, Thunder dog, the story of a blind man, his guide dog and the triumph of trust. Thanks for joining me on my podcast as we explore our own blinding fears of inclusion unacceptance and our resistance to change. We will discover the idea that no matter the situation, or the people we encounter, our own fears, and prejudices often are our strongest barriers to moving forward. The unstoppable mindset podcast is sponsored by accessiBe, that's a c c e s s i capital B e. Visit www.accessibe.com to learn how you can make your website accessible for persons with disabilities. And to help make the internet fully inclusive by the year 2025. Glad you dropped by we're happy to meet you and to have you here with us. **Michael Hingson ** 01:20 Well, hi, I am Mike Hingson. And, I want to welcome you to unstoppable mindset. You know, on unstoppable mindset, we get to talk to all sorts of people who have many, many different kinds of life journeys. And as I tell people, my most important goal on unstoppable mindset is to show every one of us who is listening and participating that we can be more unstoppable than we think we can. And unStopability is something that is different for everyone in the world. It's not the same necessarily for you or for me, or for our guest, Aaron Waldron today who comes to us, he describes himself as a shaman in Journey, religiously traumatized, I'm interested to hear about those things. And from talking with him a little bit before I know he's got a really interesting story to tell. And I want to get to it, I'm anxious to to hear it and to have a good conversation with with with him. So Aaron, welcome to unstoppable mindset. How are you? **Aaron Waldron ** 02:20 Thank you for having me, Michael, really appreciate it. **Michael Hingson ** 02:23 Well, why don't we if we could, at least a little bit. Why don't we start out with you talking maybe a little about the the early era and you know, growing up or some of those things and give us a little bit of idea of things that maybe helped shape the way you are today and so on? Definitely. **Aaron Waldron ** 02:41 Well, we started, we were raised in New York, New York City. **Michael Hingson ** 02:46 Let me let me interrupt if there's one thing I want you all to understand. Aaron speaks in the third person. I should have said that. I apologize. And he'll probably explain more about that. But I just want you to understand that that is what he's doing. So I'm sorry, Aaron. So you so born in New York City? **Aaron Waldron ** 03:04 Yes. We were born in New York City, Brooklyn, New York. And we were pretty much poor, our childhood, living along shelter systems, living off public assistance and whatnot. So it wasn't until after high school that, you know, my life started to expand outside of New York. And I joined, we joined the military. We joined the army specifically. And when did you get out of just that was in 2007. Okay. And that was out of, you know, trying to provide a better life for my child at the time, my daughter, and just climb out of the hole that we were in, you know. So yeah, we did have military service five years one tour to Iraq. And that was in 2010. And then we left the military in 2012. March, and started trying to acclimate back into the civilian world since 2013, really, but we found ourselves drawn to the nonprofit, you know, just trying to help people. And so we ended up helping homeless vets find employment and housing down in Atlanta. And that was a really interesting experience for me. It really helped me deal with my own PTSD and my own mental health issues, you know, struggling with memories, loss of people, things ideas, lack of money, support, you know, just really in a bad place mentally Lean, but, you know, this inner perseverance, you know, just push this through to become a different, better person. **Michael Hingson ** 05:11 What was it like coming back from the military coming back from Iraq and the military in general and then integrating in? I've never really had many discussions with people about that. But I I'm sure that it must have been an is a challenge for anyone, because you're going from one kind of a culture that you became engrossed in when you join the military to now a culture that maybe you were used to before, but it's, I would think, sort of totally foreign, because it's not what you did for a number of years. Your case fives. **Aaron Waldron ** 05:49 Yeah, you're right. It was a completely it was like acclimating to a language that you have forgotten. You know, in the civilian world, there's a language, a way of understanding things, a way of operating and living and existing. But in the military, you know, it's centered around these three concepts, right place, right time, right, uniform. And so it really makes life different, it makes it simpler from a soldiers perspective. You know, if you focus on those three things, you'll exceed and be successful, you know, mission accomplished. But when you come to the civilian world, it becomes so much complex, more complex, because you know, you can wear the right uniform be at the right place at the right time. But you're still not enough. **Michael Hingson ** 06:41 And a lot of people, and a lot of other people aren't necessarily in the same place that you are. **Aaron Waldron ** 06:49 Right? Exactly. Statistically, most people, veterans don't really do well, when they have to acclimate back into society, because it's just, we're not accepted, there's no space. For us, there's no bridge in between what you did to serve your country as a skill as a job. And then crossing it over to something you can do in the civilian world that's not so focused on violence or bringing about violence. You know, there's a lot of great organizational skills that we develop leadership skills. This is something that most civilians lack the ability to work well with others, you know, and then it becomes a strong suit, when you come through the military, even at the basic training. So **Michael Hingson ** 07:40 it's a lot to get used to, needless to say, yeah, yeah. Like, what, how to? I'm sure you've thought about this? What can we do societally to change that so that people who are here become more accepting or more understanding? Or? Or maybe it's that there needs to be done more than the military? But how do we deal with that? Because it certainly shouldn't be that way. It's got to be pretty traumatic, all the way around. And **Aaron Waldron ** 08:13 definitely, you know, that's, that's, that's tough, because, from my opinion, these initiatives to help bridge veterans into society should come from the same population. You know, it shouldn't be led by veterans. You know, we have programs or initiatives that are spearheaded by civilians with no experience, then it comes off a little insensitive, and it doesn't consider the many complexities that a veteran is aware of, and is dealing with. So there's, you know, a dis attachment, a disconnection, you know, so when we go to the VA, and we're talking to the civilians that are just trying to do their job, they're not fully understanding what we're dealing with. And so it should be more vets, you know, becoming like peer support specialists or, you know, things of that nature. There should be opportunities for vets to come back and help mentor other events and help in that way. But yeah, that's just my two cents. But I definitely believe it's a very complex situation, and there's no easy solution. **Michael Hingson ** 09:26 Do you think any of that is changing and more bets are becoming involved in various ways? Yes **Aaron Waldron ** 09:31 and no. Yes and no. Like there's opportunities for vets to start businesses, yes. But the lack of training and no house is not there. The guidance, you know, a lot of vets are dealing with trauma, you know, physically and mentally and even to the extent of religiously and spiritually, and it's preventing them from having a successful wholesome life. You know, a lot of them are dealing and struggling on a daily basis with regret. Thoughts of loss, thoughts of not having, you know, **Michael Hingson ** 10:13 and thoughts of the things that they had to face when they were in the military and possibly overseas. Dealing with operations? **Aaron Waldron ** 10:22 Yeah, exactly. Yeah. So **Michael Hingson ** 10:24 it's kind of no fun. Well, so you did come back in to the, to society. And you're, you're working to make your way. And you've been doing that for what now? 10 years? But what what's it been like? Or maybe I should ask a different question. What have you been doing? And and what is it evolved to for you? **Aaron Waldron ** 10:49 Yeah, that last 10 years have been indescribable. We had a very divine moment, as a dream. And in this dream, we felt and believed that we had an interaction with God, and gave us a message to come seek and find God, no God more. And in our life, at the time, we were struggling with the understanding of God, we were in religion. And we were asking a lot of questions to the local pastors. And a lot of these questions ended up going to places like, well, you just have to eventually you just have faith, you know, or it was you shouldn't question God so much, you know, things like that. So having this dream kind of felt like it was empowerment from God, the universe, the greater that created us, you know, like, saying, Come find me, We're not hiding from you, you know, like, come get to me. And so the come getting to know me, led to us going to seminary, of all places, we've been to college a few times, but never completed our degree, and then found ourselves with a couple of college credits applying to the masters of divinity at New York Theological Seminary, and getting accepted. That was really a big one for us, because it was just like, on paper, it looked like a no brainer, this person should not come in maybe because they don't like they lack credentials, or whatever. But honestly, through the grace of God, it just, we were accepted to the interview. And we were on probation, academic probation for about a year. And we demonstrated that, you know, we could exceed maintaining above 80%. And we kept going, you know, and as we Interesting enough, we thought we were going to become more Christian, like, you know, and get into that. We even was attempting to become a reverend, and go through ordination. And even that process was very traumatic for us. And we were surrounded by insensitive peers that just didn't see that something was wrong, something didn't feel right with Aaron. And for a lot of other people, too. It wasn't just Aaron. And before you know it, we had to just listen to this voice inside of us that said, maybe this is not your path. Maybe you're not intended to go down this road. You know, it's not saying that it's a bad road. It's just saying, maybe it's not for you. And from that moment, we've just been constantly having this organic conversation with an inner source that we believe is God, you know, guiding us, counseling us, you know, the spirit, you can call it, and being led by the Spirit has transformed us in indescribable ways that we never imagined to be a shaman and journey. It just came about. **Michael Hingson ** 13:58 Tell me more about that. What does that mean being a shaman and journey? So you would please? **Aaron Waldron ** 14:04 Yeah, of course, there's a lot of different definitions or descriptions of a shaman around the world. Typically, they are holy, sacred people. People that traverse the physical and the spiritual side of life. But there's also a definition of shamanism or shamans. That applies to everybody, everyone's a shaman. But to acknowledge yourself as a shaman is to acknowledge that you are on a pursuit of a higher version of yourself, you're awaken to a certain degree, you see things differently, and you're not looking to follow so much, but to really embody this natural leader, you know, and we give description to this as a path maker, which can be anybody regardless of your ethnicity, your gender. You know, anything like every human has the capability of, you know, making their own path. So ultimately, you know to be a shaman is just to be that it doesn't require you to have magical powers or you don't necessarily have to be born from a certain tribe. Again, these are all traditional views, yes, and they're all respected, but they're not absolute. And to be a shaman is to also step into nothing is absolute, is to accept the in differences in the world to, to see that other is you and you are other. And I see that, you know, it's about your ego, and it's about you and to be a shaman is to step into a higher state of consciousness. **Michael Hingson ** 15:46 So you do you kind of think if I want to ask this, I guess well, I'll just ask. So where do you fit what you do or believe into the world of what a lot of people face here in this country? Which is Christianity? Do you reject Christianity? Is that a just a different path? Or what? **Aaron Waldron ** 16:16 No, yeah, thank you for that question. Reject is not something that we're doing. That's not the way to describe it. But we've been able to step out of this field poetic for walls of religion, and see that there's the many that are trying to describe God are all right, and all wrong at the same time. And so being that America is a Christian hegemony, and is predominantly dominated by Christian values and beliefs, the belief that there's one God, one savior, it falls into this absolute idea. And that's where it gets dangerous, because then you have people that believe they have to forcefully convert others to save their soul, by any means necessary. And we have data that demonstrates how you know, religious conversions around the world have also demonstrated killing people. These are not just harmless acts, these are violent acts to force people to belief systems, that they believe they're doing God's work by saving this person's soul by converting them into something that is not natural to them. And so that's just like burning down the Amazon, it's equivalent, you know, when we go around with our beliefs, and Christianity has been doing this around the world, historically. So this is nothing new. It's just we believe we're in a time where we can start articulating and understanding that Christianity is not the one sole religion, that's the saving grace of the world, and all existence. It's a very strong popular religion, but it has been hurting people along the way. And we cannot, you know, continue to overlook that. And so with that, we stepped out or stepped from that step outside that space of Christianity, and religion, for that matter, to help people that are navigating how to pursue God outside of these common strong religious avenues of belief and traditions. **Michael Hingson ** 18:36 So you got a master's degree in divinity and you're now working on a PhD? How does the the school the college where you are fit in to your beliefs? Or how do people their receive you and your thoughts? Interesting **Aaron Waldron ** 18:54 enough, Aaron is received with love and acceptance, because people that know me know, we're not a violent activists. We just are an advocate of our experiences. And it just so happens that there's hundreds of 1000s of other people that experienced similar things, such as this idea of religious trauma, and the effects of it and how it affects us in forming our identity, navigating the world, understanding who we are connecting with the thing, the thing that we can't see or describe, you know, this, this idea of God, you know, so it's kind of if you think about it, we're rethinking church beyond church, creating spaces for people to gather and still feel welcomed and feel encouraged to pursue God, outside of religion in their own ways. So yeah, that's all we're really doing is being a path maker embodying this idea that we're paving a path that others can learn from and see that you can do it too. **Michael Hingson ** 20:15 And that, I guess, is why I asked the question, because the I'm sure that the perception of a lot of people is that schools of divinity, like that are just Christian oriented. And the reality is, they're not they're God oriented, which is very possibly a whole different thing. Yes. And it's so important. Go ahead. Go ahead. **Aaron Waldron ** 20:39 No, I was just gonna say, especially because the seminary is one of few seminaries in America that have a multi phase program at a doctoral level. **Michael Hingson ** 20:52 And so classifying is always tough. What would you be classified as then in that multifaith program? **Aaron Waldron ** 21:00 I guess using their grouping terms would be falling along the spiritualist. Okay, track. Okay. **Michael Hingson ** 21:10 Yeah. Cool. Well, you know, again, I think, personally, that it's all about God. And, and you can talk about Jesus, you can talk about any nun, any number of things, but it's still ultimately in Jesus would would say in the Bible, that it's really all about God. And as he's pointed out, I am my father are one and so are all of you. So it really is, or ought to be viewed. In the same way, unfortunately, we, we do tend to become very limited at times and what we do, which is something that that then tends to create a lot of the separations that, that we face. It's true. So what's your PhD thesis on? For clarity, it's **Aaron Waldron ** 22:05 not a PhD, but it's a demon. But my, it's a dissertation, my dissertation is on, or called, between space. And the idea is to create spaces in between larger structures of spaces, such as religions, to allow people to gather and develop, share, and to be heard, by being listened to. So we created a digital community. And this digital community for the last eight months has been thriving slowly, really drawing people that are interested in developing themselves outside of religion, people that have been hurt by religion, and are trying to navigate and figure out what part of that that hurt belongs to God, and what part of that hurt belongs to humans, decisions or choices, or immaturity. So this space allows that to happen. We also have a teaching space that we use films, it's called between film, it's an artistic field poetic approach to helping us navigate and understand a lot of different complicated spiritual mental ideas, you know, such as the self, the shadow, the development of self through a hero's journey. Community, what can that look like a meta spiritual community. So we been looking over films and talking over them, they're pretty cool. And it's really great, because a lot of people get intimidated by books. And so with this kind of teaching approach, people are just jumping in, they're like, Oh, I saw that movie, or we watched the clip, and then we talk about it. And it's more inviting, you know, there's no gap, thinking. There's a lot of people thinking that, you know, they gotta read a lot to be smart, but we're naturally very highly intelligent as humans. And, you know, we spend a lot of our early upbringing not being cultivated, but being conditioned. And so this approach also is trying to help people recondition their minds and kind of decolonize their minds so that they can go about identifying themselves identifying with spirituality, they want to formulate and use for their own well being without tarnishing them and putting them down and telling them what to do. **Michael Hingson ** 24:39 Yeah, I guess I said PhD I should have probably said Doctorate of divinity is that correct? **Aaron Waldron ** 24:46 Doctor of Ministry doctor and Dr. Ministry, okay. **Michael Hingson ** 24:49 Okay. Anyway. Okay, well, good to have the right terminology. But so that is what the public space community is about. out the things that you're talking about **Aaron Waldron ** 25:03 is rotation. Yeah. So did **Michael Hingson ** 25:05 is this a concept that you created? Or was this something that was already around? And you are, you're studying it more? Did you create it? As I say? **Aaron Waldron ** 25:15 No, yeah, we started it actually. And it's based out of our own experiences and traumas. So we went about this idea of formulating a community and space that was hyper focused on the digital. So we meet through zoom, or some form of digital meetup. And it also allows us to not focus on the physical gathering. And there's a lot of complications that come with the physical gathering, as you well know, you know, with even disability. And if you have a congregation that is physically disabled, and you're in a physical church, and they're arguing over physical space, that's something that we alleviated by just focusing on the digital space, so that we could really focus on our thoughts, our spirits, the spiritual aspects energy, not what we look like at the time, or what we're dressed like, or where we're sitting or traffic and stuff like that. So we really wanted to focus on digital community. And most of the car, the community members are millennials. So they're very busy. And there was another thing, it was hard for them to physically meet. But if we did a digital meet, it was easier for everyone to manage. So **Michael Hingson ** 26:39 it's, it's interesting, maybe, maybe it shouldn't be considered so fascinating. Well, what do you think more? Or most of the people are millennials? **Aaron Waldron ** 26:48 Oh, yeah, that is an interesting part of my research was trying to understand that very same inquiry, why millennials, and it just so happened that over the last decade, the series of events, historical events have kind of shaped and pushed this particular group of people sad are in a particular age range that we classify as millennials to respond to religion in a particular way, we started to see a huge increase a significant increase, and people leaving the church, and a lot of those leaving people leaving the church were millenniums. And you have the age group that's older than them. They're their parents and their grandparents that have a sense of loyalty to their church. But Millennials tend to have this, this thing going on, where they're questioning things, and they're sensitive to things. And so they say, most millennials are just saying, you know, I don't feel comfortable in church anymore. And you know, there's this guilt from past generations that say, well, you're supposed to do this you should be doing is, it's the right thing to do. And so we see in this particular age group, millennials, that they're deciding to think for themselves alone, a lot of critical thinking, is taking off. And then you see in their children, Gen Z, you see this even more, you know, but my research is focused on millennials. But hopefully in the near future, we can extend to start studying and understanding the effects of Gen Z, our children, millennials, children's children. It **Michael Hingson ** 28:34 is it is interesting to see what's happening. And I've heard and seen in a number of things that I have read that millennials and now Gen Z are people who are searching, and are willing to expand their minds and look at alternatives, which is something that hopefully will take them down some paths that will also help them deal with some of our more materialistic things in our world a little bit differently than people in the past have done as well. But I think we'll have to wait and see where that goes. So do you think that if if people understood it, if Millennials understood it, they would say that they have suffered a lot from religious trauma? You've you've used that term a bunch times I'd love to learn a little bit more about what what you mean by that, but and also then asked answering that question, have you think that's what they would say as well as that? It's a lot about religious trauma. **Aaron Waldron ** 29:43 Yes, exactly. Yes, we would, because we started seeing that most people don't even make connections that they have religious trauma. So we started to view it as something like a cancer and we're unaware that we have as cancer, and it's spreading through our body, and it's affecting our body and hid in mysterious ways, because we don't even know what's there. And so the same thing could be said about religious trauma because one person could say, well, I don't agree, from my perspective that I have religious trauma. I don't think religion hurt me, but the people hurt me. And so it's maybe not the belief system, but it's the people upholding the belief system that can hurt you. And we still fall in that category of religious trauma. Because the structure Institute or practices is genuinely what is hurting you. And when it hurts you in a way that you cannot operate in a wholesome manner, you cannot be yourself, naturally the way God made you, that you have to conform, pretend. And you now find yourself feeling depressed, forced, obligated, guilted, even to partake in uphold traditions, practices, and beliefs. You're in the category of experiencing and struggling with religious trauma. Interesting **Michael Hingson ** 31:14 concept that you make me think about. So you make a huge distinction between the beliefs, let's say, for example, in Christianity, but the actual beliefs, or teachings of the Church, as opposed to the people and what they're doing in the church. Am I gathering that correctly? **Aaron Waldron ** 31:39 Yes, yes. **Michael Hingson ** 31:42 And so it isn't the, for example, Christianity, beliefs, or the basic precepts of the religion, or the the Jewish religion, or Muslim religion, or Buddha, and so on. But it's how people deal with a deal with them, which is a whole different animal. **Aaron Waldron ** 32:03 Yes, it's how we wear it. It's how we're taught it. It's how we embody it and practice it exactly. Right. So like, in my training, during the masters of divinity, studying the four Gospels, studying the first and second testament, really starting to learn how to exer G texts and understand what God is saying in the text versus what man has said it said, or has interpreted way. And so that's where we have the whole, you know, corruption taking place. You know, the Gospels are inspired by God, no doubt, but how we used it, how we taught it, and how we continuously practice it, is what's been corrupted and poisoned. **Michael Hingson ** 32:49 You know, one of the things that I think about often is one of Jesus's statements, I am the Way the Truth and the light. And people say, well, because he says that, clearly, he's the only one to follow. But looking at my, from my perspective, when I think about that, I go back to Exodus where God said, I Am that I Am, thou shall say, I am has sent me to you. And that Jesus, the statement really IS GOD IS the WAY the TRUTH and the LIFE, then that I am isn't necessarily dealing with Jesus alone as the person. Because the other thing that Jesus says is, of course, he has God. And as we all are, **Aaron Waldron ** 33:36 yes, yeah, exactly. Right. That's what we were speaking about, like the way we interpret these texts. And a lot of times we use literal interpretations. And we read the text and only what it says literally, when a lot of what is in the Bible, those 66 books are selected, but they're very poetic. They're meant to mean larger things, not specifically one thing, you know, so like, when we have a lot of Christians that hyper focus on literal understandings of the Bible, that is where we get, you know, these kind of teachings that really trap people to believe in one way. But like you're saying, and like we said, in the past, there's nothing wrong with the Bible, per se, because there's a lot of truth, even in the gospels when Jesus when Yeshua is recorded, speaking, that that's not like, that applies to everything and everyone and we've also seen through multifaith studies that these things overlap like Buddha overlaps Jesus and so on. And so they're saying same things just in different ways or different perspectives, the audience that they are speaking Eating. **Michael Hingson ** 35:02 Yeah. Which makes a lot of sense. And I know that there going to be a lot of people who disagree with that. But nevertheless, it does make a lot of sense to consider the whole rather than just individual parts. Because the other part about the Bible is taking any one small thing out of context is a very dangerous thing. And way too many people do that. Yes, **Aaron Waldron ** 35:29 yeah. **Michael Hingson ** 35:30 So talking about you a little bit more. So you said you had a daughter that you wanted to care for when you went into the military? And so what happened with all of that? Do you still is that your daughter that you deal with still? Or because I think I read in your biography that you You married a different person? **Aaron Waldron ** 35:52 Yes, yeah. Right now, my, my relationship with my daughter is very distant. And we've in our own life had to come to terms with certain things, because of what stories or what perspectives have been told to her. You know, it's, it's like this micro to the macro. The fighting of the narratives, and fighting over truth and lies. But in the military was very hard for me will be around my daughter, work at me away. So a lot of my love, language came out of gifts, you know, sending her gifts, things of that nature, but we didn't get really the relationship that we kind of dreamed of, you know, it just hasn't been able to happen yet. And so she lives with her mom. And, you know, she, she's happy. And I, we don't want to take that away from her. But we do prepare in our mind and our spirit that one day if we do get to spend time with her at a closer capacity that we're prepared to, to be, you know, demonstrating love, and not all this regret or anger or something. So **Michael Hingson ** 37:14 yeah. Well, anger and hatred and so on doesn't really benefit anyone. I had the opportunity to read a book by Henry Drummond. Have you heard of him? **Aaron Waldron ** 37:31 I don't believe he's British **Michael Hingson ** 37:33 from the 1800s. And he wrote a book, it's a very short book, really simple and easy to read. And it's called Love is the greatest thing in the world. And it is all about love. And actually, the version that I got from Audible also has other addresses of his in it. But it's, I think, a very fascinating book and puts a lot about loving into perspective in a very simple way. And he, he talks about love in terms of the Bible. And he talks about faith, hope and love. And the greatest of these is love, which is something that John talks about a great deal and think Paul does, but Drummond mainly refers to John, but I thought it was a really interesting and a good book. I discovered it a couple of months ago, and I've enjoyed reading it several times. So I hope that you do get an opportunity to spend time with her. But you've gotten married since then. Yes, **Aaron Waldron ** 38:34 yes, happily married. And honestly, this marriage, this relationship has allowed me to start loving myself, or understanding what that even looks like, my past relationship, it was hard for me to even understand what that even looks like loving myself because we were so caught up in pleasing others that we were trying to exterior, you know, a love outward, you know, kind of thing. And so with this relationship, we're loving inward, and it just keeps bouncing out even more. So we get to love more than we could possibly imagine just by loving more of ourselves. So yeah, this was definitely something that we did not expect. But again, it felt spirit led and so we follow that path. And we've been happily in love since. **Michael Hingson ** 39:36 How long have you been married? **Aaron Waldron ** 39:39 Coming on seven years now. **Michael Hingson ** 39:41 Oh my gosh, congratulations. Even though even though I was married for 40 years before my wife passed last November, You're newlyweds but still congratulations. Anyway. Seven years is a is a feat compared to a lot of things we read in the papers about marriages and divorces. So I'm glad it's working out well for you. **Aaron Waldron ** 40:01 Thank you. Thank you. **Michael Hingson ** 40:03 So as you analyze yourself and so on, what would you say motivates you? Yeah. **Aaron Waldron ** 40:08 People, honestly, people, people persevering through challenges motivates me deeply. When we found ourselves in some real depressed times, we would listen and watch like things like Arnold Schwarzenegger talking about pumping iron, or Les Brown talking about his motivational encouragement. So these motivational speakers and their perseverance, they survive challenges and became better for that's the kind of stuff that really motivates me, you're **Michael Hingson ** 40:44 going to, at some point, work on being more of a visible, motivational or public speaker or that kind of one of the paths you want to take, or which way do you want to go once you get your Doctor of Ministry? Well, **Aaron Waldron ** 40:57 honestly, after that, we definitely want to continue schooling, we want to pursue the psychology track, become a therapist one day, and possibly even become a young in and out hours. But we definitely want to help people to a large capacity, we have skills and gifts that we're starting to really recognize about ourselves, that we believe will make us a very crucial asset in the field of psychology, therapy, and even spirituality. So continuing to inspire people, motivate people, empower people, is definitely something of a cornerstone. And we will continuously do. **Michael Hingson ** 41:48 If I may, I think you and I talked about it before, but I'd like to ask if it's okay. Why is it that you decided to speak of yourself in the third person as opposed to an AI in me? Yeah, **Aaron Waldron ** 42:02 great question. Thank you. It was really out of a spiritual understanding something for us. When we were halfway through our masters of divinity, there was something taking place spiritually inside of us that kind of awakened us or opened our eyes to see that we are not an individual, by any means we're all interconnected. And so we're basically part of a bigger collective. And the we is a constant reminder that Aaron is not alone is not one person. But Aaron is part of many, a collection of, of other human beings, other living beings, other conscious beings, other spiritual beings. When we dove deeper into our meditation practices, we started to realize that we are not alone in the universe, we're not alone in anything, it's, we're so connected to everything and everything is so close to us, we can't even imagine it. It's not until we start really focusing on connecting with everything around us that we start to see that there couldn't be possibly an eye. So we took it upon ourselves to embody that by changing our code our pronoun to a third person, and still the constant struggle or practice and sometimes we slip up and say I, because most of our life, we've been conditioned to speak in first person and refer to ourselves and I, and be an individual. So this is only been a few years since we've been practicing this. So we're still kind of young and new to it. But it's a pursuit that we feel that it's a discipline of ours. And we continuously strive to remind others that Aaron is not an individual, but part of a collective. **Michael Hingson ** 44:09 Do you find or are you finding that other people have or are adopting that same concept? **Aaron Waldron ** 44:17 Yes, it is not that strange. And that actually made me feel a lot better about it. A few years ago, we started to see that a lot of people started thinking like this and started practicing this. It makes it a little bit more complicated with socializing with people, but it just takes practice like anything. **Michael Hingson ** 44:39 Well, yeah. My immediate reaction is, nevertheless we ought to all be accepting of what we choose to do. There's no reason that anyone should have a problem with the Wii, as opposed to the I. I mean, in England, we used to hear about the royal we all all the time, and we still do, whether it's a custom or whatever. So it's it isn't new. Sure. But it is it is something that we should learn to accept. And and if if that is what someone chooses to do, especially since there's clearly a good rationale for it, then no magic there is no, what is your biggest fear in the world, or anywhere? **Aaron Waldron ** 45:32 My biggest fear is that we cannot be ourself. Honestly. It used to be, we were afraid to be alone. And that actually transformed over the years, over the last, like five years, we used to have a very deep fear since we were a child of just being alone, because we were abandoned in our childhood and suffered with abandonment multiple times to our life, leading into our young adulthood. And so recently, our fear has transformed from that, too, that we're afraid to not be ourselves. Because we started seeing that the more we were being ourselves, the more we were being rejected by, you know, people in places and spaces, and ideas. And so this fear started, like really erupting inside of us of not being accepted or understood, because we were being ourselves. And so we have this fear of having to conform so that people can understand or accept us. **Michael Hingson ** 46:43 So what do you do about that? **Aaron Waldron ** 46:47 A lot of meditation. Even even before coming on here, it's not that we were afraid of you, or the concept of the podcast or being interviewed. It's just we have these deep, unresolved anxiety sometimes of the public speaking or engaging with people. And this probably even speaks to your comment about do we see ourselves becoming a more public figure and encouraging people and writing it's, it's hard, it's challenging, and we're in the process of trying to overcome that, to be a better person so that we can be a better, stronger public figure. But we're just not there yet. Because we have so many things we need to still work on inside of ourselves. So that we can respond in a healthier way, and not respond from our hurt and pain and ignorance. **Michael Hingson ** 47:45 Well, I hope, and I don't think I'm reading into it. But I hope that you found that as we're talking here. You're you're feeling more comfortable, more relaxed, you sound more relaxed. **Aaron Waldron ** 47:59 Yeah, of course, you make it a very relaxing. Yeah, of course. **Michael Hingson ** 48:05 Well, the only thing I know is in about 12 or 13 minutes, I'm going to have to go feed a dog or I will be devoured before your very eyes. Now we're, we're good. He's over here asleep. He's in talks about love. I've always believed that dogs love unconditionally, and we could learn a lot from them. Now, I've also said that dogs don't trust unconditionally, but they're open to trust. And I think it's something that we we all need to learn is that we should be more open to trust, and we should be more open to accepting people. Dogs don't have hidden agendas, like people tend to do, or like we suspect people tend to do, which is, which is a problem. And so we we locked down our innate desire to possibly trust someone we've been taught not to do that. And that's so unfortunate. It seems to me in society, we should really both be more willing to earn trust, and have our trust earned than we do. And I hope that with the millennials and Gen Z, we'll start to see more of that coming through. **Aaron Waldron ** 49:14 And we do too. And we have high hopes. Because a lot of people are beginning to really think for themselves and question. So, you know, there's there's hope for humanity. **Michael Hingson ** 49:28 And there's nothing wrong with questioning. There's nothing wrong with asking. Right? And exploring. Yeah, **Aaron Waldron ** 49:35 yeah. Yeah. Because even when we would talk among our divinity peers, MDiv peers, we would speak about, you know, this very same concept, you know, and there really shouldn't be a hierarchy to it. We're all in the pursuit of understanding God, describing God I'd like, there should be no competition, we should all be learning from one another. And all my peers have all been critical thinkers, you know, even a lot of them still are Christian. And we get along just fine, because we understand that Aaron doesn't have to say it the way that someone said it. You know, we're both talking about love. We're describing love, God being that ultimate love, power, or energy. **Michael Hingson ** 50:32 And even more than describing it as living it. And that's, I think what it ultimately has to come down to that we, we make the decisions, and then whether we say it in different ways. Love is a is a concept that I think we all can truly understand. And then live by, no matter how we describe it, it's still the same thing to do it. **Aaron Waldron ** 50:57 Yeah, we all need it to, we do all need it. Yeah, regardless of your wealth, or what you think is wealth, we all require love, we all require air, you know, we all require these human things. So that's why with us, you know, we see beyond certain labels and social constructs, like racism and race and, and see like, you know, we're all humans, why are we killing each other over these, these things that we're describing, that you say make us different, but we're not really different. So even our choosing of a third person pronoun could also be interpreted as an advocacy for a united space, like we're all connected, you know, for me to hate you is to hate myself, to hurt us to hurt me. You know, and we've been doing this forever. Now. Aaron Waldron is not the first to even talk about this. You know, this has been going on for a long time. It's just we need more people to listen. Check **Michael Hingson ** 52:00 out Henry Drummonds book, you'll see a lot of those same comments made in this, this book by this well known philosopher and theologian, think you would like it. **Aaron Waldron ** 52:14 Awesome. Thank you. Well, now, **Michael Hingson ** 52:17 yeah, love the greatest thing in the world. So here's a off the wall sort of question. Do you think that someone or at some point, people will decide that your beliefs and so on are just another religion? Does that make sense? I'm not sure. But it's an **Aaron Waldron ** 52:39 it is a very interesting question, a very dangerous question two, something that we had to ask ourselves along this process. Interesting enough, when developing a community when developing a rubric to teach people, the first thing we have to ask ourselves is what we're proposing. Is this a cult? Is this a religion? You know, if that is the case, why are you trying to reinvent the wheel, right. And so we had to remain constantly in this space of whatever we do is not an attempt to reinvent the wheel. But it's just to look at the wheel and the usage of that wheel and a different way. And so we're not creating a new religion, we're not creating a cult, what we're doing is we're trying to help people see that it's okay to be different. It's okay to be you, whatever that looks like, regardless of your looks, disability setbacks, you know, what you've done, that could translate to sins, things of that nature, what you don't have or lack that could translate to poverty, you know, that doesn't determine your connection with God. And so my biggest push is to remind people, there should not be a middleman between you and God. Because no one knows more than you. When it comes to God. No one has a capitalism, on the knowledge of God. Because we're all just interpreting an idea of God. God is not the physical thing that we can go visit. God is everywhere. It's nowhere, right? And so we can just bottle God up and say, Well, I've got God, and it's for sale, or I've got God, if you want to cure something, you know, we're so we're here to advocate that. That's not necessary. God is not that far away. God is actually inside of all of us. We come from God. We're always connected to God. You know, so it's a remembrance, religion. **Michael Hingson ** 54:54 And the last thing and it's an interesting way to put it. And the last thing you want to be is using your own term. My analogy is that middleman because that would violate every precept you've talked about here. **Aaron Waldron ** 55:06 Exactly, exactly. **Michael Hingson ** 55:09 What strengthens your faith beyond religion, you know, so many people say, Well, I, my, my faith comes from being a Christian and all that. And so for you what strengthens your faith, since you, you deal with it outside the typical constructs of religion. Yeah. **Aaron Waldron ** 55:24 My solitude strengthens my faith. For me, we hear God so to speak more in ourselves when we feel God closer in our solitude, you know. But when stepping outside the four walls of religion in the wilderness, so to speak, my solitude is where God feels and sounds and is the closest. And that gives us faith. **Michael Hingson ** 55:57 And I would, the only thing I would add to that is, is your love, also, which has to be an integral part of it. **Aaron Waldron ** 56:03 Of course, in our solitude, we learn to love ourselves. And in that process, we learn to love others through their heart, heart aches and struggles, because we have a lot of we're surrounded by a lot of people that are carrying things unconsciously, or they're carrying things consciously, and are battling with it. That doesn't mean that we shouldn't be connected to them or be their friend or help them. We just have to be aware of these things. So we can better love them, you know, and not enable their toxicities. Because we want to say, Oh, well, me giving you money is how I demonstrate my love. Okay, well, maybe money is not what I needed. You know, that type of thing. So, for me, in solitude, we get to not only know more of ourselves, and be able to love more of ourselves, empathize with more of ourselves, especially our shadow, you know, like that really hurt part of ourselves. That's like really angry all the time and just doesn't know everything is misinformed and doesn't have it, have all the facts or all the perspectives to see that it wasn't about you, per se, you were just part of a larger event type of thing. So by doing this stuff, we're able to love strangers, complete strangers, you know, interact with our neighbors, so to speak, and be good neighbors without a secret agenda. **Michael Hingson ** 57:31 Yeah, that's really the operative part without a secret agenda. There's no need to have it. No, there isn't. So you have chosen a different path other than the traditional, typical organized religion? Do you still have friends? Who are religious leaders and very active in their own religions? **Aaron Waldron ** 57:51 Yes, many have deep, deep conversations all the time. Yeah. But um, yes, we still have friends that are inside religion. In the church. They're prominent figures, leaders. And, you know, we still agree to certain capacities about things. But more more importantly, we're friends, human friends, you know. **Michael Hingson ** 58:18 And that proves the validity of a lot of what you're talking about, because you can do that, and you don't need to battle over who's right and who's wrong. Right, exactly. So after leaving religion, do you view your life? Or would you describe it as being something like exodus in the Bible? Yes, exactly. That for a question. **Aaron Waldron ** 58:45 Yeah, that's, that's a great way to put it. And and in that analogy way, or do poet poetic way, would be like, our life has been like Exodus. And we still find ourselves in accidents. And we're looking for that land of milk and honey, so to speak. But it the idea of the land and milk and honey is not a destination, so to speak. It's a pursuit, right? We're looking for something better, constantly. And we're just navigating the wilderness. And when we do that, we have to pick up certain skills and embody certain things and live our life a certain kind of way for us to be in a balanced state with the wilderness nature. You know, because nature is not predictable. **Michael Hingson ** 59:35 And I think, sorry, go ahead. Go ahead. No, **Aaron Waldron ** 59:39 I was just saying we have to be adaptable and fluid and reflective of that natural sting of just something may happen and it may not always go as planned. You know, and we have to be able to just adjust and adapt and grow and develop. And **Michael Hingson ** 59:57 I think we'll find eventually that that land of welcome Honey is really something that's more inside of us. And it's more of a concept and a state of mind. Or if you will, in terms of what we do with this podcast, a mindset than anything else. We **Aaron Waldron ** 1:00:13 agree. Absolutely. **Michael Hingson ** 1:00:16 Well, I want to thank you for being here. And for doing this, I have had a very enjoyable and joyous time I, I hope you have to It's been fun. And I hope that you listening, have enjoyed it and found it stimulating. lots to think about. Needless to say, if people want to reach out to you and maybe learn more about you and and talk with you, how would they do that? Well, we have **Aaron Waldron ** 1:00:44 a website, www dot A shaman in journey.com. We have a YouTube channel, a shaman in Journey, and we're on Instagram and Facebook, under the same name. So we really have been creating little projects, podcasts, as well as public space has been recorded, and it's shared online. So you can go back and see what we be talking about in our space. Well, **Michael Hingson ** 1:01:10 you, you certainly have a good trail with a shaman in journey everywhere you want to look. So that works for me. Easy, easy to find you. **Aaron Waldron ** 1:01:20 That was the goal. **Michael Hingson ** 1:01:22 Well, there you go. You got it. Well, thanks very much, Erin. And I want to thank you again for listening to us out there. This has been, as I said, stimulating and fun. I hope you've enjoyed it, love to hear your thoughts, and I know Aaron would as well. Please feel free to reach out. You can reach me as I've said many times on our podcast at Michael M i c h a e l h i at accessiBe A C C E S S I B E.com. Or go to www dot Michael hingson h i n g s o n.com/podcast. And wherever you're listening, please give us a five star rating. We appreciate that. And we value it greatly. And also, please feel free to reach out to us and we love any and all of your thoughts and your comments. 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Zion Clark was born on September 29th, 1997 in Columbus, OH, with a rare birth defect called Caudal Regression Syndrome that left him without legs. Adopted at the age of 17, two weeks before becoming homeless, saved him in many ways.    You might know him. from. America's Got Talent, or on Instagram as Big_z_2020, or as the elite wrestler or from his inspirational documentary on Netflix called Zion. Being born without legs hasn't slowed down our guest today on Chats and Tatts.   Zion, a former Kent State wrestler born with no legs, made his professional MMA debut a success in 2022.  He won a unanimous decision over non-disabled opponent Eugene Murray at an event in San Diego called Gladiator Challenge: Seasons Beatings.   Host Aaron Della Vedova dives into the crucial role of having a dominant mindset in wrestling or fighting, and in life. Aaron also reflects on his personal journey of self-awareness and growth. He acknowledges that he was once arrogant and failed to fully recognize the privilege he had as a white male in America. However, as he has matured, he has become more aware of his privilege and understands that not everyone is automatically granted favorable circumstances in life.  They touch on childhood trauma and its effects on adulthood,  and his love for tattoos.    Join Aaron and Zion for this candid and inspiring conversation.      Chat Breakdown:   [00:01:20] Acknowledging my privileged upbringing. [00:04:21] Overcoming adversity and achieving success. [00:09:04] Collecting information through losses. [00:14:33] Fire and determination. [00:17:25] Finding Inner Warrior [00:22:09] Christian and Buddhist beliefs. [00:26:31] Existence without exposure to Christianity. [00:31:23] Childhood trauma and its effects. [00:36:15] Inequality and human connection. [00:42:29] Staying hydrated during training. [00:45:36] Weed and athletics. [00:54:48] Flow state in wrestling. [00:57:32] Freedom of speech and censorship. [01:02:04] Foster care system reform. [01:06:55] The ring of fire.   Quotes: "No, fighting gets you into fighting shape. That's why you see these little guys knocking out these big dudes, not because they're stronger than them. They just actually know how to fight. Shit's about to go down." "I am Zion Clark in Big Z, but I'm also the world's fastest man on two hands, three-time world record holder. I'm also multiple-time All-American at Kent State University." "Because it's truth. Exactly. And truth, a universal truth I would call it. Universal truth always shows up no matter where you go, no matter what language they're speaking. The truth is the freaking truth, right?" "Yeah, you get the money from the foster care system, then you get the government-assisted money. So you're a big ticket out of it. You make more money. I was a motherfucking piggy bank." "I'm regular, yeah, regular food. Dude, I went to the national championships, and the morning that I placed, I had eight soft potato soft tacos from Taco Bell." "I call it the ring of fire. I think there are the universe, God, call it what you want, is prepared to give us our dreams, but it never just gives them to you right away. It wants to say to you, you really want this? Yeah, I really want this. Okay, I'm gonna make you suffer for just a little while, because I want to make sure it's not talking shit." "Dude, I lost for years on end, bro. But it was really like... You gotta just learn from your mistakes. And so I just kept coming back and I kept getting my ass kicked and I just kept going back and kept getting my ass kicked." "Thank you for fucking leaning into life and just taking advantage of all the gifts it has given you and crushing and being an inspiration to so many."   Connect with Zion Clark: https://www.zionclark.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/bigz97/?hl=en   Connect with Aaron:⁠  Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com  

Welcome to Season 13! In this episode, we're joined by Pastor Aaron Burke as we dive deep into the life of Joseph, uncovering 7 challenges that transformed into advantages. Together, we explore the profound truth that, through Christ, every unfair situation in our lives can be leveraged for a greater purpose. Life often takes unexpected turns, and Pastor Aaron poses essential questions: What do we do when life doesn't unfold as we planned? How do we react? Discover the divine wisdom in how God uses rejection to redirect our paths. In the midst of life's challenges, even in our "prison times," there's an opportunity to learn. We unravel the significance of recognizing our limitations, understanding that this awareness is intricately tied to fulfilling the purpose destined for our lives. Contrary to popular belief, it's not just our personality and passion that unveil our purpose; it's also our pain. Pastor Aaron guides us through the idea that our pain is a crucial component leading us directly to the ultimate purpose God has designed for our lives. Every bit of pain a believer experiences is a stepping stone to a greater purpose. Join us on this transformative journey as we navigate the challenges of life and discover how God turns them into opportunities for growth and fulfillment. Don't miss out on the insightful teachings from Pastor Aaron Burke in this compelling episode of Season 13! Bio: Aaron Burke (DMin, MBA) is the lead pastor of Radiant Church, which he and his wife, Katie, started in 2013 after selling everything and moving in faith to a new city. Radiant Church now has eight campuses throughout the Tampa Bay community. Aaron's passions are building the local church and helping Christians live into their God-given potential. In addition to pastoring at Radiant, Aaron regularly speaks at churches and conferences across America. He also works heavily with planting churches and developing leaders in South Asia (Sri Lanka and India). His work with equipping leaders includes his Made for More leadership podcast and partnering with the Association of Related Churches (ARC) and the Church Multiplication Network (CMN) to train church planters. Aaron and his wife have been married since 2010 and have five beautiful children. He loves to travel, spend time with his family, and do CrossFit.  Anchor Verse: Psalm 34:18 Genesis 50: 20 Connect with Aaron: Website: https://weareradiant.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/aaronrburke/ Links: https://linktr.ee/aaronrburke Order Book: The Unfair Advantage: 7 Keys from the Life of Joseph for Transforming any Obstacle into an Opportunity Thank you so much for being a part of our podcast community. Your support means the world to us! Your reviews help others find our podcast and decide if it's a good fit for them. Your input is incredibly valuable in growing our community!"

In this touching episode, Aaron and his son share the story of their reunion after years of separation due to an adoption when Aaron was only 16. They are joined by Aaron's wife, Holly, who was a staunch supporter of the reunion and making Dustin a big part of their family life.    Aaron recounts receiving an unexpected email from his son, leading to their joyous reunion. They reflect on the picture that had been their only connection, a young boy in a yellow lumberjack outfit, the immediate connection, Dustin's upbringing,  blending their family, regrets, and more.    Tune in to hear their heartwarming journey of adoption, acceptance, love, and a beautiful reunion.  Chat Breakdown: [00:00:00] Adoption journey begins. [00:01:09] Family dynamics and unexpected reunions. [00:08:46] Finding long-lost family. [00:14:00] Life in structured religion. [00:15:00] Tension and rebellion in Utah. [00:21:49] Meeting for the first time. [00:24:47] Bonding and discipline. [00:27:31] Strained relationship with adopted father. [00:31:59] Mormons and family acceptance. [00:34:47] Life's unconventional paths. [00:36:51] Adoption and personal identity. [00:41:02] Feeling of not fully belonging. [00:46:13] Breast milk tasting experience. [00:47:05] Feeling a sense of belonging. [00:50:02] Resentment towards religious beliefs. [00:54:36] Having a son's impact. [00:56:15] Family dynamics and sibling relationships. [01:00:32] Raising a child as the center of the universe. [01:03:19] Sibling relationship and communication. [01:07:24] The family episode and love. [01:09:30] Future plans for the podcast. Quotes: "I don't know if he's my dad, but whoever this guy is, he's a heavy hitter, kind of famous tattoo artist." "Well, yeah, I mean, I got that email and just blew my mind. I was I don't know. I don't want to say never been that excited because I have had two daughters and I have Married this beautiful woman over here so I've had some big moments in my life but that is in the top they're not even one better than the other there's like five big moments and that's one of them." "I was taken from Tanya and placed with a family who I've actually met and I can't remember their names, but I met them way later in life and they had me for, I think it was seven weeks." "I just had questions, I suppose more important to me, the older I got, but I was too busy being a wild man up until I joined the military to spend too much time on it." "I have some friends who remained the center of their family's universe. And there are some of the most entitled pricks I've ever met in my life because they never got knocked down and realized that they had to share." "Our relationship, you and I, has just been, like I said, best friends."   Connect with Dustin:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/dustinwilley Connect with Holly: Evolve Wellness Spa:  https://www.evolveskinspa.com/ Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com  

In this episode of "Chats and Tatts with Aaron Della Vedova," our host shares a remarkable story of Brandie Phillips who sought to cover up burn scars with tattoos. Despite the potential risks, the guest was determined to cover every scar and spent hours in the tattoo shop daily for several weeks. The host discusses the potential dangers of such a rigorous tattooing schedule and how the individual's determination led them to overcome both physical trauma and the tattooing process. Tune in to hear this inspiring journey of resilience and transformation. Chat Breakdown: [00:00:00] Covering up burn scars. [00:03:25] Tattoos as therapy. [00:06:39] Car accident and legal battles. [00:11:18] Near-death experience and miraculous survival. [00:17:27] Brandy's fighting spirit. [00:19:06] A massive leg blister. [00:21:29] Losing faith and finding hope. [00:22:54] The turning point. [00:29:38] Therapeutic aspect of tattooing. [00:32:08] Tattoos as therapy. [00:33:36] Tattoos as therapy. [00:37:10] Seeking therapy and finding purpose. [00:39:37] Overcoming trauma through tattoo therapy. [00:44:22] Combining ink therapy with 50 Legs. [00:45:35] Mental health struggles and resilience. [00:51:11] A stranger's life-changing advice. [00:53:56] Clean's belief in the project. [00:57:05] Clothing line and scholarships. [01:02:17] Seeking sponsors and investors. [01:05:16] Taking Bad Things and Turning Them Good. [01:08:08] Good business owners that care. Quotes: "So instead of getting a tattoo on some of the burned area going about your life coming back a month later getting a new tattoo No, you just said we're covering all these scars. I'm gonna go in every day until they're all covered." 00:13:15 - "And I can tell you right now, that was probably the most excruciating pain out of all of it that I ever went through because your skin burns for hours." 00:21:29 - "Nobody knew how to help me." 00:22:54 - "I woke up every day, and I was looking in the mirror, and I was constantly being reminded of that day, looking at those burns. Like, You can't get that image out of your head." 00:32:08 - "I was a burn victim. And to not have to be able to tell that story every single day was another reason why I stayed covered up for so long." 00:33:36 - "I'm proud to be a part of an art form that is more than just an art form. That is, it is part of people's journey towards a better, more fulfilled life." 00:37:10 - "How do you expect to help me if you can't relate to anything that I've gone through? How are you going to help me?" 00:50:10 - "Damn, you met like an ascended guru or something that was a hidden angel in the world who popped up." 00:54:57 - "I don't know if I'd have the strength to pull out of that. I don't know if a lot of people would have. I think it says a lot about your soul." 01:05:46 - "I like saying the words, love the things that love you back."   Connect with Brandie:  IG:  https://www.instagram.com/angelsinink Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com    

Follow Mike & Shawn on Instagram! Shawn: @shawn_dimartile   Mike: @miketighe_ Today's guest is Aaron Letzeiser.  Aaron started his insurance technology company, Obie, which focuses on the real estate investor class, with his brother a few years back.  He is also a real estate investor and founded his company to help investors in the industry. Here's what you'll get out of the episode: What does “technology-driven” mean and how does it apply to an insurance company The best practices he recommends to investors His advice for insurance when doing development work His thoughts on specialized insurance Why short-term rental insurance is so different and how important is it Connect with Aaron: Website: obieinsurance.com Email: aaron@obieinsurance.com Learn more about Mike and Shawn: Shawn: www.investorshawn.com Mike: www.investormike.com

Finding Purpose and Paying It Forward: A Journey of Recovery In this episode of Chats and Tatts, host Aaron Della Vadova explores the theme of recovery with guest Michael Molthan. After 27 arrests, Michael had lost everything except his life to drugs, alcohol, and the bad decisions that accompany addiction. When he picked up a book in prison and began reading to his cellmate who could not read, something shifted. He tapped into the transformative power of serving others. They discuss how life can be challenging and how some individuals face difficult situations that knock them down. Whether it's addiction or simply the struggles of life, Aaron believes that everyone goes through some form of recovery. He highlights the importance of getting back up after being knocked down and shares stories of those who have found strength and resilience in their journey to recovery. Tune in to this powerful episode that delves into the personal and universal experience of overcoming obstacles and finding a way forward.Connect with Michael:Website: https://m2therock.com/IG: / michaelmolthanm2 LinkedIn: / m2socialmedia Connect with Aaron:⁠Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠Tik Tok: / chatsandtatts IG: / chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: / chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ / aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com

Finding Purpose and Paying It Forward: A Journey of Recovery   In this episode of Chats and Tatts, host Aaron Della Vadova explores the theme of recovery with guest Michael Molthan. After 27 arrests, Michael had lost everything except his life to drugs,  alcohol, and the bad decisions that accompany addiction.  When he picked up a book in prison and began reading to his cellmate who could not read, something shifted.  He tapped into the transformative power of serving others.     They discuss how life can be challenging and how some individuals face difficult situations that knock them down. Whether it's addiction or simply the struggles of life, Aaron believes that everyone goes through some form of recovery. He highlights the importance of getting back up after being knocked down and shares stories of those who have found strength and resilience in their journey to recovery. Tune in to this powerful episode that delves into the personal and universal experience of overcoming obstacles and finding a way forward.   Chat Details:   [00:00:00] Addiction as a source.   [00:03:40] Abuse and addiction journey.   [00:08:45] Biblical upbringing and confusion.   [00:11:37] Adopting and doing them wrong.   [00:14:05] Reputation on the PGA tour.   [00:19:37] Awakening and serving others.   [00:20:14] The power of reading.   [00:25:18] The meaning of "M2 The Rock".   [00:29:26] The power of God or the universe.   [00:31:33] Showing faith through actions.   [00:35:07] The need for practical spirituality.   [00:37:00] The missing man.   [00:41:24] Addiction as a spiritual stronghold.   [00:43:41] The human is built of four sides.   [00:47:05] Forgiveness and blessings.   [00:50:26] Forgiveness and letting go.   [00:52:33] Resentment and forgiveness.   [00:57:16] Finding faith and communication.   [01:00:20] The fairness of life's opportunities.   [01:03:07] The fairness of salvation.   [01:08:37] Sin and homosexuality discussion.   [01:10:14] How God created things.   [01:12:34] Religious trauma and living by rules.   [01:17:46] Anxiety and serving others.   [01:18:43] Acts of kindness and selflessness.   Quotes:     "So as I was drinking alcohol and doing drugs, it gave me that sense of ease and comfort, and it put me in this false reality of being in the now or the future, that noise shut down, the past, that noise shut down." "As long as we're in that blame state, recovery is impossible." "I finally realized that the rock at the bottom in all these times was God."  "You guys are all here talking about all these nice things. But then I saw you last night, shit face drunk, telling your wife to fuck off." "Look, I've realized that my way I've been treating you guys, the way I've been has been wrong, and I will never treat you guys that way again." "The role that he plays in it is the same as mine. We choose to hold on to the resentment." "You know, it's funny, the more smart we think we're becoming in the world, the easier translations God puts on the bookshelves." "But text three people and say, Hey, I was just thinking about you have a good day and expect nothing in return." Stay Connected:   Connect with Michael:  Website: https://m2therock.com/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/michaelmolthanm2/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/m2socialmedia   Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com  

In this episode of Chats and Tatts with Aaron Della Vedova, the host shares his passion for esoteric books, plant medicines, meditation, and yoga. He reflects on how these practices have shaped his life and introduces a special guest,  George Boyd. George A. Boyd is a meditation teacher, counselor, poet, and author who has studied and practiced meditation since 1965.   He is a master meditation teacher and an innovator in the field of meditation. He developed a system of Integral meditation in 1983 that he has taught to groups and individuals since that time.   He is the founder of the Mudrashram® Institute of Spiritual Studies and the editor and publisher of Mudrashram® Publishing.   George holds a BA in Psychology from UCLA, an MA in Clinical Psychology from California State University, Dominguez Hills, and an Alcohol Drug Counseling Certificate from UCLA Extension.   The episode delves into spiritual exploration and is highly recommended for those interested in diving into the realms of consciousness and self-discovery.   Chat breakdown:   [00:00:47] Fully realized state activities. [00:04:10] A troubled family background. [00:11:36] Self-Realization Fellowship discovery. [00:17:23] Witch doctors in Western society. [00:20:11] Satguru has come. [00:23:03] Testing spiritual knowledge. [00:27:35] Neglecting the personality. [00:32:01] Path to full enlightenment. [00:36:11] Being of service and fulfillment. [00:40:28] The Law of Attraction. [00:43:14] Psychic realm and beings of light. [00:47:43] The etheric veil. [00:50:51] Neophyte experiences and consciousness. [00:55:30] Soul reading on my producer. [01:00:37] Soul's work and personality. [01:06:36] Higher octaves and soul identity. [01:10:03] The Soul's Role in Life Circumstances. [01:15:06] The Akashic Records. [01:18:00] Tattoo as a layer of remembrance.   Quotes: "Three lifetimes ago, I was actually one of his disciples in Benaras, India." "We are the witch doctors of Western society." "Everything that I've thought about as being the highest thing, the greatest thing, the greatest goal, that's nothing. It's like a tiny little outpost on this great infinite adventure." "You can create heaven. You can create hell. Which do you choose?" "But for many people, using a psychedelic drug essentially blows them out of this bubble of the conscious mind." "So some people may bring in a beautiful piece of spiritual art to remind them of their spiritual path." "We could use a lot more kindness. We could use a lot more compassion and empathy and collaboration and cooperation." Stay Connected:   Connect with George: Website:  http://www.mudrashram.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/mudrashram   Connect with Aaron:⁠  Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com  

In this episode of Chats and Tatts, host Aaron Della Vedova interviews Co-founders of Sullen Clothing, Ryan Smith and Jeremy Hanna.  Streetwear has come a long way since its early days in the 1980s and 1990s, and Sullen is here to ensure tattoo-inspired clothing that blends and highlights everything unique about the art of urban apparel.  Originally founded as a collective of driven, talented tattoo artists, Sullen Clothing has its roots in the SoCal beach culture of the early 2000s. Already a well-established tattooer, co-owner Ryan Smith began blending tattoo art with new fashion trends, and from that Sullen's urban streetwear brand was created. Far from simply reusing “cool” graphics or following the trends, Sullen became a trailblazer producing unique, original art that it then transferred to streetwear like premium t-shirts, boxers, hoodies, and hats. Today Sullen is still one of the most popular tattoo apparel brands in the world, offering a wide range of expressive designs and wearable art pieces for tattoo lovers everywhere. Today, our guests share their stories of starting from the ground up and building their brand without relying on venture capitalist money. Tune in to hear about their journey in the notoriously difficult apparel industry and their take on the world of AI.   Chat Breakdown:    [00:01:47] Building a successful apparel brand. [00:04:30] Starting a tattoo apparel company. [00:06:22] Starting from nothing and growing. [00:10:13] Cost vs. quality in apparel. [00:15:35] The evolution of tattooing. [00:16:57] Traditional tattoo apprenticeship. [00:22:47] Tattooing as a brand. [00:26:45] Tattooing constantly evolving. [00:29:35] The power of tattooing. [00:33:09] The healing power of tattoos. [00:42:12] Maintaining a successful marriage. [00:45:43] Balancing work and family. [00:49:26] Putting the damn phone down. [00:50:33] The future of technology. [00:54:05] Tattooing with Midjourney. [00:57:24] The impact of technology on tattooing. [01:00:01] AI-generated website design. [01:03:21] Clothing design collaboration. [01:06:55] They want art. [01:09:35] Keeping the podcast alive.   Quotes: 00:01:10 - "They're just straight up, honest, hardworking dudes who are passionate about tattooing, really passionate about tattoo art, who treat people right." 00:03:56 - "Just do the right thing, man. Why is it so fucking hard? Just do the right thing." 00:05:11 - "You have to learn to think outside the box." 00:08:33 - "Yeah, guerrilla marketing the old fashioned way." 00:12:26 - "You know, I think we're fortunate the fact that we're just we're still passionate so many years into it." 00:15:22 - "The talent behind the tattooers that are out there nowadays are real talent." 00:23:07 - "We either live or we die by this audience." 00:25:37 - "together we rise" 00:27:59 - "Why is tattoo so fucking special?" 00:29:07 - "I'll never be forgotten on you" 00:32:53 - "I just think it's the greatest art form in history." 00:34:29 - "Motherfucker, you need to know what pain you're putting on all these guys." 00:37:45 - "But yeah, the therapeutic value of tattooing can't be skipped." 00:39:30 - "Hey, man, let's not judge each other based on the way we look. Let's get to know one another and find out what's inside." 00:42:41 - "I think the way we make it work is I'm the boss at work and she's the boss at home." 00:45:19 - "You should respect me more. You know the weight I'm carrying. You get to go down there and tattoo people and have fun. I'm back in the office cranking on this bullshit, you know, and we've worked it out." 00:47:26 - "I don't need the money. That's not what I want my legacy to be." 00:49:51 - "My wife stopped looking at Instagram. She doesn't like social media and I'm fine with that. I'm totally fine." 00:51:46 - "That addictive quality, um, how it hijacks our built-in reward systems that are there from thousands of years of evolution." 00:53:30 - "And I feel like we owe our customers more than to take the easy route." 00:57:14 - "I don't want to say it's going away completely, but I don't know if it's as important as it once was maybe, you know?" 00:57:16 - "You know, like when it comes to anything, especially with tattooing and technology, either you adopt or you can be left behind."   Stay Connected: Sullen:  http://www.Sullenclothing.com Sullen IG: https://www.instagram.com/sullenclothing/ Jeremy: https://www.instagram.com/unclejeremy/ Ryan: https://www.instagram.com/colorcrimes/   Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com    

In this episode, tattoo artist and winner of Ink Masters season 7, Anthony Michaels, joins host Aaron Della Vedova for a candid conversation about the challenges and rewards of being an artist. They discuss the merging of personal identity with public perception, the importance of staying true to oneself, and the journey of finding the balance between success and maintaining authenticity. Anthony shares his experiences on the show, its impact on his career, and the ongoing process of integrating his true self with the persona created by his victory. Tune in for an insightful discussion on the intersection of art, fame, and personal growth.   Chat Breakdown:   00:00:00 Technology and art merge naturally. 00:07:18 Reconnecting with our inner child. 00:11:03 Follow your passion and dreams. 00:16:37 The power of tattooing. 00:24:39 Ink Master is a humbling experience. 00:25:58 Challenge of staying true to oneself. 00:32:08 Letting go of identity expectations. 00:40:26 Lost balance in pursuit of success. 00:43:02 Importance of self-care and reflection. 00:51:18 Self-forgiveness is necessary for growth. 00:53:48 Forgive yourself and keep evolving. 01:01:47 Embrace discomfort for personal growth. 01:07:45 Growth requires letting go. 01:13:43 Tattoo industry losing human connection. 01:16:00 Human connection is irreplaceable. The timestamp in the podcast where it starts to discuss the merging of man and machine in tattooing is 01:21:04. The merging of man and machine in tattooing. 01:26:00 AI can enhance creativity responsibly. 01:31:26 Stay true to yourself. 01:38:22 Authenticity leads to personal growth.   Quotes: "Do I think it can do mass destruction? Fuck yeah." "Art started for me as a child. I had trouble speaking, and I was able to show up, even though not verbally, I was able to show up through art." "I can take somebody's emotions, thoughts, feelings, ideas, and physically alter their appearance for the rest of their life." "First, I'd like to sincerely apologize to my therapist, one of my therapists, because he's been trying to get me to stop running from this experience." "The challenge to stay true to myself and not become a TV sensation, that was fucking hard." "Hey, Anthony Michaels, fucking winner season seven. It's like, thank you. But I am, I am not that. That's just something I did." "Because now what they get when I come home to dinner and sit down at the dinner table, whether I hide it or not, is a man who hasn't forgiven himself." "Maybe you didn't realize you were being selfish because your intention was to fix yourself, step back, and let the other things handle themselves, but you built this and then you just, because you were overwhelmed, fucking freaked out. That wasn't your intention. So let that go." "I don't believe that the core of tattooing is gonna be phased out just because of technology and money." "I make fucking mistakes all the time, all the time, but I just, I want to do right." "You can only give others what you have."   Connect with Mike:  IG:https://www.instagram.com/antmikes/ https://www.instagram.com/twenty_five_twelve/   Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com  

In this episode of Chats and Tatts, host Aaron Della Vedova interviews Robert Morton, AKA Boney The Tattooer, a talented Cleveland-based tattoo artist known for his outstanding photorealistic work. They discuss how the artist's background in construction helped him secure an apprenticeship in the tattoo industry. They delve into the concept of apprenticeships and how they can mutually benefit the teacher and the apprentice. The artist's unique twist on photorealism, adding a surrealistic touch, is also explored. Please tune in to learn more about the artist's journey and his distinct artistic voice.   Chat breakdown:   [00:00:06] Using construction to enter tattooing.   [00:04:07] Comic books and art journey.   [00:08:50] Art as a form of meditation.   [00:09:18] Childhood hobbies and creativity.   [00:12:43] Hardworking plumber turned boxer.   [00:15:14] The boxing industry being rigged.   [00:18:15] Sales and door-to-door experiences.   [00:23:35] A cancellation as an opportunity.   [00:25:31] Tattooing as an emerging art form.   [00:27:44] Comic book art styles.   [00:31:07] Traditional apprenticeship dynamics.   [00:34:05] The Renaissance period in tattooing.   [00:38:40] Tattooing as a brotherhood.   [00:42:00] Guiding principles in decision-making.   [00:44:28] Providing value in tattoo art.   [00:46:54] Tattooing for confidence.   [00:51:36] Criticism of color realism.   [00:54:22] Dealing with darker skin tones.   [00:56:13] Skin tones and contrast.   [01:00:20] Large format tattoo limitations.   [01:03:42] Under anesthesia for tattoos.   [01:06:42] Pain is good.   [01:09:29] The tattoo high.   [01:12:05] Podcast platforms and social media.   Quotes:   "I'm 52, looking back on life, and it's funny how one little character can show up in a person's life and change their entire direction."   "But all these little punches and beat ups we take in life, they're all just shaping you and giving you new tools, you know?"   "Like I like to really saturate that shit in there. It takes a little bit longer, but it overall, like the finished product, it's just so tight and it can look so clean."   "Pain is part of life. Pain is perspective. Pain is the contrast between what gives us joy and what doesn't, but you're not gonna feel high levels of joy without having gone through some shit, you know?"   Stay connected:   Connect with Boney:   IG: https://www.instagram.com/boneythetattooer/     Connect with Aaron:⁠  Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com

In this emotional episode of "Chats and Tatts with Aaron Della Vedova," the host welcomes Matt  Camaranno who shares his experiences and memories from prison. Matt reflects on his friendship with a fellow inmate, Randy, who was a lifer. Despite their circumstances, the two formed a close bond, doing everything together and supporting each other. The guest recalls the difficulty of leaving Randy behind when he was released and expresses his genuine reluctance, and not knowing how to “go home”. This heartfelt conversation delves into the untold stories of prison life and the deep connections that can be formed in such challenging environments. Tune in to hear the guest's powerful story and the personal connections it evokes for the host.   Chat breakdown:   [00:00:00] Friendship in prison. [00:04:23] Story of redemption and courage. [00:08:27] Graffiti as a form of freedom. [00:10:05] Joining a gang and regret. [00:12:15] The downward spiral of addiction. [00:17:02] Cluster headaches and psilocybin. [00:18:19] Migraines and psychedelic experiences. [00:21:40] Long-term relationship with methamphetamine. [00:24:12] Life is unmanageable. [00:27:06] Forgotten release date in prison. [00:29:40] Going home from prison. [00:31:06] Leaving prison and saying goodbye. [00:34:09] Turning a home into a trap house. [00:36:33] Hitting my dad in psychosis. [00:40:58] A miraculous turning point. [00:42:30] Sullen clothing and sobriety. [00:45:32] Helping others in recovery. [00:49:19] Forgiving and loving oneself. [00:51:33] Viking and Cholo art. [00:55:12] Tattoos and personal stories. [00:57:05] Tattoos and memories.   Quotes:   "We're all born the same, man. We're all born pure light, full of nothing but love and without fear."   "Yeah, we have these old antiquated systems like oh bad guy throw him in a prison cell. That'll make him better Well, we've seen that doesn't really work that well"   "It took one hit. Instant, I remember the moment I closed my eyes, I heard my ears ring, my head popped."   "A lot of people listening might not pay much attention to it, but it's well documented what crack did to this country in those years, you know?"   "It's me. It's what I'm doing. It's not you. It's not my mom. It's not the drugs. It's Matt."   "There's not a lot of good things in prison, but you make some really good friendship with guys that you can't ever change and you can't ever redo."   "I got you. It's your time. I believe you and you're genuine. Let's get you back on your feet and by proxy now my feet get to help a bunch of other people."   "I'm still trying to get back to that little boy that used to just run through the field at cornfields of Iowa, flying a kite, picking up earthworms, happy, go lucky. Everything was beautiful."   Connect with Matt:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/mohawkmatt_sfv  Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com  

  In this episode of Chats and Tatts, host Aaron.  Della Vedova welcomes a metaphysical guest known as the corporate shaman, Kirk Westwood.   Out of a life-threatening illness diagnosis came a quest for wisdom and healing.  Kirk's journey around the world studying extreme practices and rituals led him toward an understanding and awareness of creating luck.    The conversation explores the concept of forgiveness and its connection to self-love and awareness. They discuss the idea that holding onto resentment can attract similar negative experiences, emphasizing the importance of letting go and not allowing past actions to affect one's future. The episode delves into deeper subjects beyond art and tattoos, letting go of the past and focusing on personal growth, catering to the audience's interest in metaphysical topics.   Chat Breakdown:   [00:00:00] Forgiveness and self-love.   [00:04:09] Mastering the luck bubble.   [00:07:44] The luck bubble.   [00:10:12] Out-of-body experiences.   [00:17:15] Emotional climate in Southern California.   [00:21:47] America's national security concerns.   [00:26:03] PTSD and psychedelic-assisted therapy.   [00:37:43] Developing intuition and purpose.   [00:42:46] Coming of age wilderness journey.   [00:47:00] Serving the highest good.   [00:49:15] Teaching intuition and asking questions.   [00:56:38] The importance of making each moment count.   [01:03:49] The simplicity of intuition.   [01:06:38] The hero's journey.   [01:09:17] Self-love and the hero's journey.   [01:13:47] Forgiveness and self-perception.   [01:17:03] Betrayal and childhood memories.   [01:19:02] Forgiveness and self-love.   [01:23:41] Violence and its origins.   [01:26:39] The art of marshaling energy.   [01:31:13] Science supporting mysticism.   [01:33:03] Keynote addresses and 21-day challenge.   [01:36:58] Names and intuition.   [01:39:21] Shitty folks and their impact.   Quotes:   "It's not even an act. It's just you getting so clear with the idea that it doesn't matter what that person did."   "When you know what it is you're dedicated to proving about yourself and then you come to be with what you're trying to get away from, that will set you free."   "That's my job is to say to people, this is how you're creating a reality."   "I want to bring them to the dark night of their soul, where they see that everything that fucked up in their life was their fault."   "So if you really want to change the world, stop giving to charity."   "Just feel it in your body. Become feeling machines rather than thinking machines."   "If you just shut the fuck up and be with what is."   "I don't know what just happened, but life can never be the same ever again."   "If you think in terms of energy and vibration, which is everything, simply time spent in that vibration of that which you love to create will create more of that."   "Meaning of life, know thyself, and it will set you free."   "My skin is crawling right now with the shame."   "I choose the end result of loving how I am in the world."   "Just burn it all fucking down."   "The greatest warriors throughout history are the ones who never had to fight."   Stay Connected:   Connect with Kirk:   IG: instagram.com/theluckbubble Website: https://go.theluckbubble.com/about?r_done=1   Connect with Aaron:⁠  Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com   #intuition #lucknow #spirituality

In this episode of Chats and Tatts, host Aaron Della Vedova welcomes two legendary characters of San Diego, Tommy Baumann and Dave Warshaw. They discuss the changing landscape of San Diego over the years, the contributions of long-standing community members and small businesses, and the influence of Tiki culture. Join them for this relaxed conversation as they delve into the history and impact of San Diego's fishing industry, the famous Mai Tai of Bali Hai Restaurant, and the vibrant world of Tiki. Chat breakdown: [00:01:29] Tiki culture and local legends. [00:03:22] Legendary restaurant Bali Hai. [00:07:25] A visionary ahead of time. [00:10:03] Tiki culture in America. [00:13:39] Tiki culture and its vibe. [00:16:01] Tiki bars and their fantasy. [00:19:00] Meeting at Tom Hams. [00:22:01] Community giving and supporting. [00:26:41] Humane fish harvesting methods. [00:27:36] The corporate model. [00:31:03] Building relationships in the service industry. [00:34:38] Enormous kitchen space. [00:37:43] To-go Mai Tais and Pocky. [00:41:41] Small business struggles during lockdown. [00:44:19] The infamous Mai Tai. [00:45:28] Drinking Mai Tais and mishaps. [00:51:47] Unique restaurant business strategies. [00:58:49] Playing at the same venue. [01:02:10] Bluefin migration and breeding. [01:04:47] Changing ocean currents and fish. [01:07:13] Tattoo stories and experiences. [01:11:35] Tattooing and fishing techniques. [01:13:39] Luck and methodical fishing. [01:16:38] Celebrating an epic perfect family. Quotes: "The vibe that it puts out is kick back, relax, sunshine, water, strong drinks, music." "You have a bad day at work, you go to your tiki bar in your backyard and you take a vacation." "And we're going to see some cool shit come from the ashes, you know." "That single drink literally bridges generations and is part of the reason the Bali Hai is so successful." "I mean, I traveled distant places in the world to catch that great a fish." "San Diego wouldn't be, uh, I mean, it wouldn't be near what it was without that tuna industry." Connect with Dave & Tommy:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/DaveWarshaw/ IG: https://www.instagram.com/WarshawProvisions Bali Hai: https://www.balihairestaurant.com/ Tom Hams Lighthouse: https://www.tomhamslighthouse.com/ Connect with Aaron:⁠   Website: http://www.chatsandtatts.com⁠ Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@chatsandtatts  IG: http://www.instagram.com/chatsandtatts Chats & Tatts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/chatsandtatts Aaron IG:⁠ http://www.instagram.com/aarondellavedova⁠ Guru Tattoo: http://www.Gurutattoo.com

As a three-time winner of Atlanta's Best Divorce Attorney, Aaron Thomas is one of the nation's top experts in family law issues. He is a 2002 graduate of Harvard Law School, and from 2015-2022, his firm Aaron Thomas Law, was recognized by peers as one of the fastest growing family law firms in the state of Georgia. With clients ranging from NBA hall of famers and Superbowl winners to Grammy award winning artists, Aaron has extensive experience representing his clients in a range of family law matters, including divorce, custody, child support, and prenuptial and postnuptial agreements. As founder of Prenups.com, Aaron is widely viewed as the go-to source for writing fair prenups. He carries a fundamental belief that establishing a solid financial foundation during engagement can prevent many common marital disputes, and that fair prenups help create happy marriages.In this episode you'll learn:What exactly is a prenup and the importance of discussing finances your partnerWhy modern marriage is so much more complicated for us than our parents' generation.How a prenup can help couples avoid arguments during their marriage (not just in divorce)*This episode is sponsored by Monzo*Double the power of your money with a Monzo joint account – perfect for partners, friends, roommates. Open a joint Monzo account today. Learn more at monzo.com/us/richbyintention Connect with Aaron:Website: https://prenups.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxjIaiycWA3z7_NrsS4vGbAIG: https://www.instagram.com/prenupguy/Twitter: https://twitter.com/prenupguyConnect with us: Instagram: @richbyintentionCheck out our website: Richbyintention.com