Podcasts about family dynamics

402-521-3080In this episode, Dr. Rana Pishva & Rebecca Saunders discuss the complexities of parent-child relationships across different life stages, emphasizing the importance of understanding transitions, setting boundaries, and practicing curiosity and humility to foster healthier connections.Key  TopicsThe nature of life transitions and their impact on relationshipsThe importance of recognizing ongoing processes rather than one-time eventsParenting as a series of constant transitions, especially with adult childrenSetting boundaries as rumble strips to maintain healthy relationshipsThe role of curiosity over defensiveness in resolving conflictsRepairing ruptures in relationships through regulation and acknowledgmentThe concept of a 'healthy enough' relationship and its componentsThe significance of humility and self-awareness in parentingThe influence of cultural and generational differences on family dynamicsThe importance of giving oneself permission to set boundaries and make choicesSound Bites"Transitions are a process, not a one-time event.""Humility is a core parenting skill.""You can choose how you're gonna show up."Support the showEveryone has resilience, but what does that mean, and how do we use it in life and leadership? Join Stephanie Olson, an expert in resiliency and trauma, every week as she talks to other experts living lives of resilience. Stephanie also shares her own stories of addictions, disordered eating, domestic and sexual violence, abandonment, and trauma, and shares the everyday struggles and joys of everyday life. As a wife, mom, and CEO she gives commentaries and, sometimes, a few rants to shed light on what makes a person resilient. So, if you have experienced adversity in life in any way and want to learn how to better lead your family, your workplace, and, well, your life, this podcast is for you!https://setmefreeproject.nethttps://www.stephanieolson.com/

It's been since New Year's Eve since I sat behind this mic.A lot has happened since then. My dad died. My world changed. And somewhere in the middle of grief, loneliness, unanswered questions, changing friendships, and trying to figure out how the hell you're supposed to keep living when someone who was such a huge part of your life is suddenly gone… I found myself needing this space again.So, on International Podcasting Day, I'm back where it all started: talking shit, sharing my truth, and saying the things we don't always know how to say out loud.In this episode, I'm talking about grief in all its awkward, messy, confusing glory. About missing my best friend. About feeling let down by people I thought would show up. About the pressure to “move on” when I'm still learning how to exist in a world without my dad in it.And because September is Suicide Prevention Awareness Month, we're also going there. The uncomfortable conversation. The one about suicidal thoughts, loneliness, asking for help, and why sometimes “I'm here if you need anything” isn't enough. Sometimes you have to actually be there.This episode isn't polished. It isn't tied up with a pretty little bow. And honestly? It wasn't supposed to be.It's grief. It's love. It's anger. It's loneliness. It's dark humor. It's Dad. It's me trying to keep going.And maybe most importantly, it's a reminder to call your people. Check on your people. Make time for your parents. Say the shit you think you'll have time to say later. Because this life shit isn't guaranteed. ❤️‍

The legendary businessman and philanthropist Ed Snider was a titan of Philadelphia sports. He was inducted into the Hockey Hall of Fame, owned Philadelphia's NBA team, the 76ers, and even ran the Philadelphia Eagles NFL team back in the 1960s. But Ed's philanthropic legacy is just as illustrious. He helped found the Ayn Rand Institute, […]

Send us Fan MailSend us Fan MailIn this enlightening episode of Living the Dream with Curveball, we are joined by Dr. Randall Alifano, author of *Listening in the Raw*. Growing up in a boisterous Italian family, Dr. Randall's journey into the art of listening began with a profound realization: genuine listening is rare and essential for meaningful connection. He shares insights from his book, emphasizing that listening goes beyond simply hearing words; it involves understanding the deeper emotions and struggles beneath the surface.Dr. Randall recounts his childhood experiences that shaped his passion for empathy and presence, revealing how he transformed his bedroom into a sanctuary for friends seeking solace and understanding. Throughout our conversation, he discusses the barriers that prevent us from truly listening, including anxiety and emotional filters, and offers practical advice on how to cultivate a listening practice that fosters intimacy and connection.Listeners will discover the importance of sitting in the unknown and the joy that comes from being curious about others' experiences. Dr. Randall also reflects on a poignant moment with his mother that deepened his understanding of empathy, highlighting the universal longing to be heard and understood.What You'll Learn in This Episode:- The significance of listening deeply to foster genuine relationships- How to quiet your inner chatter to enhance listening skills- Strategies for overcoming the urge to fix others' problems- The role of curiosity in developing empathy and connection- Dr. Randall's insights on emotional filters and their impact on communicationFor more information on Dr. Randall Alifano and his work, visit randallalifanophd.com and explore his book, *Listening in the Raw*, available now.Support the show

Episode 317Sponsored by:Onefinity CNC:The industry standard for at home production CNCs. Ball screw and linear rail construction - No beltsCompatible with all popular software, 15 minute setup, infinitely upgradable, and world class tech support!And its made in Canada. Which means Maple Glazed Rails!One Machine - Infinite possibilitiesUse the link below to order:https://www.onefinitycnc.com/?ref=AWP or https://twofnitycnc.comSpecial Guest:Bill Burkel!http://wtbwoodworking.comhttps://www.instagram.com/wtbwoodworking/00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction13:30 Bill Burkel's Journey in Woodworking22:01 Community Building and Events in Woodworking27:03 Family Dynamics in Business28:14 The Family Affair of Woodworking Events30:30 Custom Woodworking and Niche Markets33:00 Balancing Multiple Businesses34:40 The Importance of Passion in Work37:40 Sales Strategies and MAP Policies43:02 The Value of In-Person Shopping Experience51:22 The Love for Lamello Tools54:00 Debating Tool Efficiency and Workflow56:02 Innovative Uses of Lamello Connectors58:06 Exploring New Tool Releases01:00:57 The Future of Laser Technology01:02:06 The Evolution of Laser Technology01:04:55 3D Scanning Innovations01:07:48 CNC Ecosystem Development01:10:49 Product Launches and Software Updates01:13:45 Personal Projects and Woodworking Challenges01:16:45 Bench Talk: Current Projects and Future Plans01:22:11 Innovations in 3D Printing and Manufacturing01:26:52 Preparing for Texas: Strategies and Budgeting01:32:32 Future Plans for WTV Woodworking: Classes and ExpansionPlease consider becoming a patron of our show!http://ILOVEAWP.comPodcast:https://www.instagram.com/anotherwoodshoppodcast/https://www.youtube.com/anotherwoodshoppodcast https://www.etsy.com/shop/awpstore Dan:https://www.instagram.com/danieldunlap.woodworks/ https://www.youtube.com/danieldunlap  https://www.etsy.com/shop/ddwwstore Braden:https://www.instagram.com/littlebugwoodworking/ https://www.youtube.com/@littlebugwoodworking https://littlebugwoodworking.com/Support the show

Not Today... Jenn and Eddie talk dog rescue and the incident that just happened (Mark helped out). Jenn recounts her Florida experience as Rapunzel. Family dynamics really never change. Eddie is trying to be a cool Dad? Is buying Red Solo cups the way? Plus, Florida Man Friday!

This week we dig into one of the trickiest conversations in small business: handing a family business down to the next generation. It's a topic that comes up constantly in the work we both do outside the show, and it rarely goes the way anyone expects.We talk about the gap between owning a business and actually operating it, and how often parents assume they're still running the day-to-day when the reality has already shifted without them fully realizing it. We get into the emotional side too, the assumptions everyone makes without ever putting them into words, the resentment that builds when expectations aren't clear, and the awkward reality of a parent still drawing a full salary for a fraction of the hours. We also talk about the professional team around a family business, the accountant, the advisor, the insurance person, who's been there for decades and may not actually be equipped to help with a transition like this.The through-line of the conversation is that almost none of these problems are really about money. They're about clarity, communication, and having the hard conversation early instead of waiting until resentment has already set in.HighlightsWhy parents and kids often disagree on what "running the business" actually means.The financial and emotional tension that builds when compensation and hours don't match up.Why the trusted advisors around a family business may not be right for the next chapter.The difference between talking to family as family and talking to family as coworkers.Why clarity, not money, is usually the real obstacle in a family business transition.This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podtrac - https://analytics.podtrac.com/privacy-policy-gdrpOP3 - https://op3.dev/privacy

Host Mimi Banks is joined by Donna Pohlad and Maddy Persuitti, the founders of dpHUE. They share their journey from outsider to industry innovator, creating at-home hair color solutions that bridge the gap between salon visits. They discuss building the brand, strategic growth, and the power of family collaboration. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beautybizshow/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Andrea Virgin didn't set out to become a civil engineer or the leader of a major arts nonprofit. But after the 2008 recession hit her dance company, she traded her pointe shoes for a hard hat and built a new career in engineering—only to face devastating loss when her husband TJ died when their daughter was 4 months old. In this episode of She Pivots, Andrea shares how she rebuilt her life (twice), the surprising boardroom idea that grew into her current mission, her role Chair and CEO of The Center for Arts and Innovation in Boca Raton, and why creativity is necessary at all stages of life. Chapters: 00:00 Welcome to She Pivots 02:22 Childhood Memories and Early Dance Training 06:50 Cultural Influences and Family Dynamics 07:37 Balancing Dance and Engineering Studies 14:29 The 2008 Recession's Impact on the Arts 17:54 Pivoting to Civil Engineering 19:38 The Personal: Dating and Relationships 23:51 The Fateful Plane Crash 31:25 Navigating Grief and New Beginnings 37:03 Personal and Professional Growth 43:56 The Birth of a Creative Vision 52:01 Lessons from Andrea's Journey 57:39 Closing Thoughts 58:33 Podcast Production Credits Keep up with Andrea’s work at The Center at thecenterforartsandinnovation.org Be sure to subscribe so you never miss a pivot story, leave us a rating (it really helps!), and share this episode with a woman in your life who you think needs a little inspiration. She Pivots is a podcast created by host Emily Tisch Sussman to highlight influential women voices, share stories of bold career moves, and inspire women with interviews about career reinvention and how personal pivots can redefine professional success. Join our Substack community! Subscribe here for exclusive content and to connect with other pivoters: shepivots.substack.com Learn more about the inspiring women in our pivoter community by following us on instagram @ShePivotsThePodcast, and check out our website shepivotspod.com for resources and updates. She Pivots is proud to be an iheart podcast.Support the show: https://www.shepivotsthepodcast.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode of Podcast, Pipeman interviews Adrian Patrick and Ryan Patrick from the band Otherwise at Louder Than Life, reflecting on their 12-year journey since playing the festival's very first edition. The discussion spans the band's evolution into full independence, their nonprofit initiatives with Life by Music, the importance of authenticity in music, family dynamics of working together, and their upcoming acoustic release From the Roots Volume 3. Listeners get a candid look into the challenges and triumphs of life as artists, musicians, and advocates for music education.Main Topics CoveredOtherwise's Return to Louder Than Life FestivalReflections on performing 12 years after the inaugural event and how much their lives and careers have changed (00:34–02:13).Family, Time, and Musical HeritageMemories of children growing up and generational talent at the piano; discussing how music passes through families (00:52–01:51).Life by Music NonprofitRyan Patrick shares the mission and impact of their organization, focusing on providing instruments and music resources to at-risk youth and veterans (04:44–05:30).The Disappearance of Arts in SchoolsThe panel laments the decline of arts education and the importance of hands-on creative outlets for youth (05:30–06:37).Musical Independence & AuthenticityOtherwise's transition to total independence from labels, management, and agents (03:00–04:07), and the creative freedom it brings.Family Dynamics in the BandHonest talk about playing and working with siblings, keeping things real and in the family (09:09–10:23).Upcoming Acoustic Release: From the Roots Volume 3Details surrounding their live acoustic collection recorded during the pandemic and its October 23rd release (11:29–12:28).Key Discussions & StoriesAdrian Patrick recalls the very first Louder Than Life show when his son was a week old and reflects on the passage of time (00:52).Ryan Patrick explains Life by Music's outreach—800 guitars donated, ukulele and guitar courses, and work with veterans (05:07, 05:17).The band discusses the struggle of “too many cooks in the kitchen” in the music industry and the sense of liberation they feel as independent artists (03:21–03:57).Pipeman shares personal stories about the loss of practical and artistic classes in schools, emphasizing diverse forms of learning (05:41–06:20).How music and authenticity onstage and off connects them to fans, kids, and veterans (07:27–08:23).The value of experiencing and expressing real emotion through music, especially during the isolation of the pandemic (12:08–13:09).Lighthearted exchange about launching "Pipeman Records" and supporting artists' independence (14:23–15:02).Notable Quotes“03:32: It's also a little bit...I would say, I don't know. No, not—not that we're scared, you know, but we haven't been independent artists since we were both kids, right?” — Adrian Patrick“05:23: It's all about spreading the power of music, you know, in a positive, you know, educational kind of way.” — Ryan Patrick“08:03: We got the gold record, we got hundreds of millions of streams...but this organization now is so much more rewarding than just like being a rock star, you know?” — Adrian Patrick“13:38: It's like, we don't know, man. We don't have to answer to anybody. You know, like we started a rock band for that reason of not wanting to have to answer to like a boss.” — Adrian Patrick“13:09: With one take, one take, you know, it's like, so you could feel the energy of a live show and, you know, hear the crowd cheering and I think it's our first live recording that we're releasing.” — Ryan PatrickResources & Links MentionedLife by Music: Organization dedicated to bringing instruments and music resources to at-risk youth and veterans (see Ryan Patrick at 05:07).Otherwise – From the Roots Volume 3: New live acoustic collection, releasing October 23rd (11:57).Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-adventures-of-pipeman--941822/support.Click Here to Subscribe for PERKS, BONUS Content & FREE GIVEWAYS!Follow @pipemanradio on all socials & Pipeman Radio Requests & Info at www.linktr.ee/pipemanradioStream The Adventures of Pipeman daily & live Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays at 1PM ET on W4CY Radio & Talk 4 TV. Download, Rate & Review the Podcast at The Adventures of Pipeman, Pipeman Radio, Talk 4 Media, iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, YouTube & All Podcast Apps.

In this episode of Podcast, Pipeman interviews Adrian Patrick and Ryan Patrick from the band Otherwise at Louder Than Life, reflecting on their 12-year journey since playing the festival's very first edition. The discussion spans the band's evolution into full independence, their nonprofit initiatives with Life by Music, the importance of authenticity in music, family dynamics of working together, and their upcoming acoustic release From the Roots Volume 3. Listeners get a candid look into the challenges and triumphs of life as artists, musicians, and advocates for music education.Main Topics CoveredOtherwise's Return to Louder Than Life FestivalReflections on performing 12 years after the inaugural event and how much their lives and careers have changed (00:34–02:13).Family, Time, and Musical HeritageMemories of children growing up and generational talent at the piano; discussing how music passes through families (00:52–01:51).Life by Music NonprofitRyan Patrick shares the mission and impact of their organization, focusing on providing instruments and music resources to at-risk youth and veterans (04:44–05:30).The Disappearance of Arts in SchoolsThe panel laments the decline of arts education and the importance of hands-on creative outlets for youth (05:30–06:37).Musical Independence & AuthenticityOtherwise's transition to total independence from labels, management, and agents (03:00–04:07), and the creative freedom it brings.Family Dynamics in the BandHonest talk about playing and working with siblings, keeping things real and in the family (09:09–10:23).Upcoming Acoustic Release: From the Roots Volume 3Details surrounding their live acoustic collection recorded during the pandemic and its October 23rd release (11:29–12:28).Key Discussions & StoriesAdrian Patrick recalls the very first Louder Than Life show when his son was a week old and reflects on the passage of time (00:52).Ryan Patrick explains Life by Music's outreach—800 guitars donated, ukulele and guitar courses, and work with veterans (05:07, 05:17).The band discusses the struggle of “too many cooks in the kitchen” in the music industry and the sense of liberation they feel as independent artists (03:21–03:57).Pipeman shares personal stories about the loss of practical and artistic classes in schools, emphasizing diverse forms of learning (05:41–06:20).How music and authenticity onstage and off connects them to fans, kids, and veterans (07:27–08:23).The value of experiencing and expressing real emotion through music, especially during the isolation of the pandemic (12:08–13:09).Lighthearted exchange about launching "Pipeman Records" and supporting artists' independence (14:23–15:02).Notable Quotes“03:32: It's also a little bit...I would say, I don't know. No, not—not that we're scared, you know, but we haven't been independent artists since we were both kids, right?” — Adrian Patrick“05:23: It's all about spreading the power of music, you know, in a positive, you know, educational kind of way.” — Ryan Patrick“08:03: We got the gold record, we got hundreds of millions of streams...but this organization now is so much more rewarding than just like being a rock star, you know?” — Adrian Patrick“13:38: It's like, we don't know, man. We don't have to answer to anybody. You know, like we started a rock band for that reason of not wanting to have to answer to like a boss.” — Adrian Patrick“13:09: With one take, one take, you know, it's like, so you could feel the energy of a live show and, you know, hear the crowd cheering and I think it's our first live recording that we're releasing.” — Ryan PatrickResources & Links MentionedLife by Music: Organization dedicated to bringing instruments and music resources to at-risk youth and veterans (see Ryan Patrick at 05:07).Otherwise – From the Roots Volume 3: New live acoustic collection, releasing October 23rd (11:57).Pipeman in the Pit is a music, festival, and interview segment of The Adventures of Pipeman Radio Show (#pipemanradio) and from The King of All Festivals while on The Pipeman Radio Tour. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/pipeman-in-the-pit--2287932/support.Click Here to Subscribe for PERKS, BONUS Content & FREE GIVEWAYS!Follow @pipemanradio on all socials &  Pipeman Radio Requests & Info at www.linktr.ee/pipemanradioStream The Adventures of Pipeman daily & live Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays at 1PM ET on W4CY Radio & Talk 4 TV. Download, Rate & Review the Podcast at The Adventures of Pipeman, Pipeman Radio, Talk 4 Media, iHeartRadio, Apple Podcasts, YouTube & All Podcast Apps.

Some families produce not just one high-achieving child, but several and Susan Dominus spent years trying to understand why. In this episode, Susan joins Ginny Yurich for a deep dive on the families she studied for The Family Dynamic. They explore topics like the surprising influence siblings have on lifelong success, why letting kids struggle can actually help them thrive, the role of screens and environment, and the shadow side of extraordinary achievement. They discuss historical families like the Brontës to current families who have raised world-class athletes, musicians, and entrepreneurs. They even discuss Susan's own family! Grab a copy of The Family Dynamic here . Make sure you're following the show and take a few minutes to leave a review! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I start this episode celebrating a really special milestone: my grandmother's 90th birthday. I talk a little about my family, our dynamic, and how I've gotten to a place where I'm comfortable with where I stand with my family and the relationships I have with them.Meanwhile, this week wore me OUT. I was sick all week and still working through it, and it had me thinking about how weeks like this make me wish I had a man. Sometimes you just want somebody there when you're tired, sick, over it, and don't want to do everything by yourself.I also get back into Love on Both Sides on NowThatsTV after mentioning it in the last episode, because clearly I still have some thoughts.This one is a little family, a little reflection, a little reality TV, and a very tired me trying to make it through a long-ass week.Don't forget to subscribe, like, and give me my 10s in the comments!X: @LNwithSylvesterEmail: LateNightwithSylvester@gmail.com

Fluent Fiction - Hindi: Steps to Belonging: Navratri Unites New Siblings at DU Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/hi/episode/2026-09-21-22-34-02-hi Story Transcript:Hi: दिल्ली विश्वविद्यालय के छात्रावास में पतझड़ का मौसम था।En: It was autumn season at the Delhi Vishvavidyalaya hostel.Hi: चारों ओर नवरा‍त्र‍ि की तैयारी चल रही थी।En: Preparations for Navratri were going on all around.Hi: रंग-बिरंगी लाइटों और सजावटों से हॉलवे चमक रहे थे, और पारंपरिक संगीत की धुनें कानों में गूंज रही थीं।En: The hallways were shining with colorful lights and decorations, and the tunes of traditional music were echoing in the ears.Hi: ऐसे ही माहौल में, आरव और सिया, जो अभी-अभी सौतेले भाई-बहन बने थे, नए जीवन की ओर कदम बढ़ा रहे थे।En: In such an environment, Aarav and Siya, who had just become step-siblings, were taking steps towards a new life.Hi: आरव एक अंतर्मुखी छात्र था, जिसे पेंटिंग का गहरा शौक था।En: Aarav was an introverted student with a deep passion for painting.Hi: वह प्रायः अपनी भावनाओं को कागज और रंगों के माध्यम से व्यक्त करता था।En: He often expressed his emotions through paper and colors.Hi: दूसरी ओर, सिया मिलनसार और ऊर्जावान थी।En: On the other hand, Siya was sociable and energetic.Hi: यह उसकी कोशिश थी कि नवगठित परिवार के साथ सब कुछ सहज रहे।En: It was her attempt to keep everything smooth with the newly formed family.Hi: आरव को अकसर सिया की सामाजिकता से थोड़ी असुविधा होती थी।En: Aarav often felt a bit uncomfortable with Siya's sociability.Hi: वह खुद को उसके सामने छोटा महसूस करता था।En: He felt small in her presence.Hi: वहीं, सिया आरव को सहज और अपनेपन का एहसास दिलाने का प्रयास करती थी।En: Meanwhile, Siya tried to make Aarav feel at ease and a sense of belonging.Hi: आरव के मन में एक विचार आया।En: A thought came to Aarav's mind.Hi: उसने अपनी भावनाओं को एक चित्र के माध्यम से व्यक्त करने की सोची।En: He decided to express his emotions through a painting.Hi: इसी बीच, सिया ने डॉर्म में एक छोटीसी गरबा रात आयोजन का फैसला किया, ताकि आरव को नवरा‍त्र‍ि की खुशियों में शामिल कर सके।En: Meanwhile, Siya decided to organize a small Garba night in the dorm to include Aarav in the Navratri celebrations.Hi: गरबा रात आई।En: The Garba night arrived.Hi: चारों ओर खुशी का माहौल था।En: There was an atmosphere of joy all around.Hi: सिया ने सबको गरबा में शामिल किया, लेकिन उसकी नजर आरव को ढूंढ़ रही थी।En: Siya got everyone to join the Garba, but her eyes were searching for Aarav.Hi: वह उसे उसके कमरे तक ले गई, जहां दीवार पर एक खूबसूरत चित्र टंगा हुआ था।En: She took him to his room, where a beautiful painting was hanging on the wall.Hi: उसमें आरव की भावनाएं झलक रही थीं - परिवार की नई संरचना को लेकर उलझन और त्योहार की उत्सुकता।En: It reflected Aarav's emotions—confusion about the new family structure and excitement for the festival.Hi: सिया ने चित्र को देखते हुए कहा, "आरव, यह अद्भुत है।En: Looking at the painting, Siya said, "Aarav, this is wonderful.Hi: तुम्हारी कला की गहराई अनोखी है।En: The depth of your art is unique."Hi: " उसने सबके सामने आरव की प्रशंसा की और उसे उत्सव में शामिल होने के लिए प्रेरित किया।En: She praised Aarav in front of everyone and encouraged him to join the celebration.Hi: आरव अब खुद को और ज्यादा स्वीकार्य महसूस करने लगा था।En: Aarav now felt more accepted.Hi: उसे समझ आ गई कि उसके भावनात्मक जुड़ाव की कदर है।En: He understood that his emotional connection was appreciated.Hi: शाम होते-होते, आरव भी गरबा में शामिल हो गया।En: By evening, Aarav also joined the Garba.Hi: उसके मन की झिझक, सिया की सराहना से कम हो चुकी थी।En: His hesitation had lessened due to Siya's appreciation.Hi: अब वह अपने नए परिवार का हिस्सा महसूस कर रहा था।En: Now he felt like part of his new family.Hi: उसका आत्मविश्वास बढ़ गया था और सिया ने भी आरव के साथ मजबूती से जुड़ाव महसूस किया।En: His confidence had grown, and Siya also felt a strong connection with Aarav.Hi: दोनों के रिश्ते में यह नया मोड़ आ चुका था।En: This marked a new turn in their relationship.Hi: नवरा‍त्र‍ि उनके लिए केवल त्यौहार नहीं, बल्कि नए रिश्तों का उत्सव बन गई।En: Navratri had become not just a festival for them, but a celebration of new relationships. Vocabulary Words:autumn: पतझड़hostel: छात्रावासpreparations: तैयारीhallways: हॉलवेechoing: गूंज रहीenvironment: माहौलintroverted: अंतर्मुखीpassion: शौकexpressed: व्यक्तemotions: भावनाएंsociable: मिलनसारenergetic: ऊर्जावानstructure: संरचनाsociability: सामाजिकताcomfortable: सहजbelonging: अपनेपनpainting: चित्रorganize: आयोजनcelebrations: खुशियोंatmosphere: माहौलconfusion: उलझनreflection: झलकdepth: गहराईunique: अनोखीpraise: प्रशंसाacceptance: स्वीकार्यताhesitation: झिझकencouraged: प्रेरितconfidence: आत्मविश्वासrelationship: रिश्ते

In this episode, Jo shares his profound journey through addiction, rehab, and recovery, highlighting the importance of self-awareness, healing modalities like breathwork, and the power of community and support in transforming lives. Jo talks about the cycle of shame that comes with addiction and breaking free of that cycle. To reach out to Jo on insta go to @beyondthewave_For more resources such as coaching or to join the next HIQA challenge go towww.iquitalcohol.com.auFollow HIQA insta @howiquitalcohol Music for Podcast intro and outro written by Danni Carr performed by Mr CassidyIf you are struggling with physical dependancy on alcohol consider contacting a local AA meeting or a drug and alcohol therapist. Always consult a GP before stopping alcohol. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Newbies host Kaile Garcia talks with certified health coach and author Britt Olson about how family dynamics change after having a baby, especially with two children 18 months apart. Britt shares moving from Florida to Georgia at eight months pregnant, laboring 33 hours, and experiencing postpartum isolation and later severe postpartum anxiety and depression with intrusive thoughts and panic attacks; she felt significant improvement after weaning. She describes the stress on her marriage when far from family, dividing nighttime duties by child, and the challenges of planned grandparent visits, unmet expectations, and boundary-setting when boundaries weren't respected, including examples around gifts and family trips. Britt emphasizes that hard phases and relationships can improve over time and offers nervous system calming techniques: grounding outdoors using the five senses and somatic shaking to discharge stress. Don't forget to follow us on Instagram for more information giveaways and more. Our handle is ⁠⁠⁠⁠@NewMommyMedia⁠⁠⁠⁠ and follow us on ⁠⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠⁠! You get behind the scene clips, blog posts, videos and the episodes a week early and ad free! Complete our survey and enter to win a $50 gift card: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/P8GTTR3 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What happens when the voice that takes you to some of the world's biggest stages is also the one you're still learning to claim as your own?Singer, songwriter, educator, and author Machan Taylor has spent a lifetime navigating the space between performance and identity. Born in post-war Japan to a Japanese mother and American father, Machan was uprooted at four years old and brought to New Jersey, leaving behind her language, family, culture, and the only home she knew. Years later, she would recognize that experience as an early trauma that quietly shaped her sense of belonging.In this episode of Giving Pain Purpose, Machan and Lyndsay explore the complicated journey of finding your voice when so much of your life has been spent adapting, performing, and trying to figure out where you fit. Machan shares how music became both sanctuary and identity, eventually taking her to stages with artists including Pink Floyd, Sting, Foreigner, Pat Benatar, and George Benson, all while the woman behind the applause was still wrestling with insecurity, imposter syndrome, family trauma, and the feeling that she wasn't enough.They talk openly about addiction, abusive relationships, the masks we wear to survive, and the long, nonlinear work of healing. Machan also shares how therapy, Buddhism, meditation, and later psychedelic-assisted therapy helped her reconnect with parts of herself she had left behind, including the little girl who left Japan all those years ago.At its core, this conversation is about more than a remarkable music career. It's about stripping away the performance, making peace with every version of yourself, and finding the courage to tell your story—naked, out loud.Episode Highlights:(00:00) Introduction to Machon Taylor's Journey(02:53) From Japan to the World Stage(09:51) Family Dynamics and Childhood Trauma(13:24) Music as a Path to Belonging(16:28) Touring with Major Artists and Internal Struggles(19:08) Dealing with Substance Use and Self-Protection(21:43) The Ongoing Search for Identity(27:15) Healing Through Psychedelic Therapy(35:49) Spiritual Practices and Full Circle(39:41) The Power of Sharing Our Stories(43:47) Final Reflections and Words of EncouragementFind Machan Taylor Online Here:Website: machantaylor.comInstagram: @machantaylorofficialFacebook: Machan TaylorLinkedIn: Machan TaylorYouTube: Machan Taylor OfficialBook: Naked Out Loud From Yokohama to Pink FloydFind Giving Pain Purpose Online Here:Website: givingpainpurpose.comInstagram: @givingpainpurposeFacebook: The Giving Pain Purpose PodcastLinkedIn: Lyndsay SopranoYouTube: @givingpainpurposeShop: thegivingpainpurposeshop.comSubscribe on YouTube | Merch Shop is OPEN!! | COMING SOON: The Pain Hub - A Women's Healing Community. Subscribe Now!Unfiltered convos. Dark humor. Real healing. This is where pain meets purpose — and you're not doing it alone.++Want to be a guest on Giving Pain Purpose with Lyndsay Soprano? Send her a message on PodMatch, here: Be a Guest on The Show

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How do you bring up difficult topics—especially when it involves a loved one? In this episode, Emerson Whitney, author of the book O Mother, talks about the grief of losing his mom to suicide. Emerson shares delicate topics such as growing up neurodivergent with ADHD and autism and how he continues to show up as his authentic self. Then Emerson and Chris discuss finding community and how to cultivate more joyful friendships.Featured guestFollow Emerson Whitney on Instagram and at https://emersonwhitney.com/Buy O MotherConnect with the teamFollow Chris on Instagram and at chrisduffycomedy.comBuy Chris' book, Humor Me Watch How to Be a Better Human videos on YouTube at TEDPodsFollow TED on X, Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn, and TikTokFor the full text transcript, visit go.ted.com/BHTranscriptsFill out our survey at bit.ly/BHSurvey6 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

201 Hospice Explained: Margaret Montes RN, BSN, PHN on Early Hospice Nursing, Comfort Care, and Family Education Host Marie Betcher, RN, interviews retired hospice nurse Margaret Montes RN, BSN, PHN with facilitator Cindy Cisneros. Margaret, raised in Puerto Rico and licensed in 1976, joined the new Hospice of East San Gabriel Valley in 1987 and worked 33 years, starting when the census was eight patients and she was the only nurse; her bilingual skills helped serve Spanish-speaking families. They discuss early obstacles such as recruiting nurses suited for hospice, later team disagreements resolved through weekly interdisciplinary meetings, and common family fears that hospice or medications (including morphine) hasten death, emphasizing comfort as the goal. Margaret shares end-of-life visioning stories and a case where a family called 911 despite DNR wishes. They stress educating families on the dying process (including Barbara Karnes' "blue book"), bereavement follow-up, and analogies like the body as an aging car and end of life mirroring infancy. 00:00 Welcome and Disclaimer 00:29 Meet Marie and Guests 01:49 Margaret Finds Hospice 05:26 Early Hospice Challenges 07:28 Team Meetings Behind Scenes 10:43 Hospice Does Not Hasten Death 12:14 Comfort Beyond Medication 14:25 End of Life Visions Stories 18:07 When Families Call 911 20:46 What Everyone Should Know 24:01 Family Dynamics and Aftercare 27:39 Faith Fear and Support 29:46 Analogies for Dying Process 32:08 Final Thanks and Subscribe   If you want to help, you can donate to help support Hospice Explained at the Buy me a Coffee link   https://www.buymeacoffee.com/Hospice  Hospice Explained Affiliates & Contact Information Buying from these Affilite links will help support this Podcast.  Maire introduces a partnership with Suzanne Mayer RN inventor of the  cloud9caresystem.com,  When patients remain in the same position for extended periods, they are at high risk of developing pressure injuries, commonly known as bedsores. One of the biggest challenges caregivers face is the tendency for pillows and repositioning inserts to easily dislodge during care.(Suzanne is a former guest on Episode #119) When you order with Cloud 9 care system, please tell them you heard about them from Hospice Explained.(Thank You) Marie's Contact Marie@HospiceExplained.com www.HospiceExplained.com   Finding a Hospice Agency 1. You can use Medicare.gov to help find a hospice agency, 2. choose Find provider 3. Choose Hospice 4. then add your zip code This should be a list of Hospice Agencies local to you or your loved one.

When a child walks away, a mother's heart doesn't stop loving—it starts longing.

Family caregiving conflicts between siblings often derail elder care plans and damage relationships that lasted decades. When aging parents need care, disagreements between siblings and elderly parents about caregiver expectations, responsibilities, and decisions can create tension and can spiral into family breakdowns. Learn why caregiving and family relationships break down when eldercare support becomes a priority. Identify practical strategies to prevent conflict, maintain trust, build transparency, and avoid family problems. Caregiving expert Pamela D Wilson offers support for caregivers and aging parents navigating challenging family dynamics.To find show transcripts and article links for Episode 253 and other The Caring Generation podcasts, visit Pamela's podcast page: https://pameladwilson.com/caregiver-radio-programs-the-caring-generation/Visit Pamela's website, a leading source of trusted eldercare information, family caregiver support, and elder care services at https://www.PamelaDWilson.comLearn about Pamela D Wilson, her professional elder care background, and her caregiving experience: https://pameladwilson.com/pamela-d-wilson-story/Schedule a 1:1 virtual elder care consultation by telephone or video call with Pamela. https://pameladwilson.com/elder-care-consultant-aging-parent-consultation-managing-senior-care-needs-meet-with-pamela-d-wilson/Learn about holding family meetings and schedule time with Pamela on her eldercare mediator page: https://pameladwilson.com/elder-care-mediator/Sign up for Pamela's caregiving newsletter: https://pameladwilson.com/contact/Join Pamela's Online Caregiver Support Group on Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/groups/thecaregivingtrapFollow Pamela on Social Media: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pameladwilsoncaregivingexpert/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/pameladwilsoncaregiverexpert/ Twitter: https://x.com/CaregivingSpeakIf you find this podcast helpful, please comment, follow, and like it on your favorite podcast app to help Pamela grow her audience and support family caregivers and aging adults seeking professional, trusted caregiving information on health, healthcare, family relationships, and the financial and legal aspects of caregiving.Pamela D. Wilson is a professional family caregiving and eldercare expert. As a caregiving consultant, expert witness, eldercare mediator and speaker, she provides caregiver advice and tips, individual and family caregiver support, and resources for aging and elder care decision-making. Pamela's 25 years of professional experience inform caregiving discussions, eldercare strategies, and care plans that encompass health, healthcare, financial, and legal aspects, as well as family dynamics. Visit Pamela's website at www.PamelaDWilson.com to access caregiver resources, online courses, her caregiving blog, library, book, videos, and podcast transcripts, offering practical advice and tips for aging adults and family caregivers providing elder care support. ©2018, 2026 Pamela D Wilson. All Rights Reserved

Powerhouse actresses and producers Nicole Kidman and Sandra Bullock believe that our hardest seasons are often where we discover our truest strength. In this deeply moving and funny conversation from Making Space, Nicole and Sandra sit down with Hoda Kotb to pull back the curtain on the lessons they've learned from caregiving and raising teenagers with grace. They explore the beauty of evolving past public expectations, redefining family on your own terms, and choosing to lead with love and gratitude. This episode is about resilience, legacy, grace, and finding peace in the circle of life. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Looking back at this conversation from October 2025, Jann revisits her conversation with WWE superstar Natalie "Nattie" Neidhart about her memoir, 'The Last Hart Beating.' They discuss Natalie's journey through wrestling, her family legacy, personal struggles, and the challenges of writing a book. Natalie shares her experiences with imposter syndrome, the importance of resilience, and the impact of her family's history on her career. The conversation highlights themes of healing, vulnerability, and the pursuit of happiness in the face of adversity. Nattie Neidhart is a third-generation WWE Superstar who has wrestled at the highest level for nearly eighteen years. Her family, the Harts, built a wrestling dynasty spanning nearly eight decades. She is the first woman in the family to carry on the tradition and holds six world records. She and her husband TJ, along with their eight cats, reside in Tampa, Florida, where they train aspiring wrestlers in their private training facility, The Dungeon.   Grab the book: ⁠https://www.simonandschuster.ca/books/The-Last-Hart-Beating/Nattie-Neidhart/9781668098547⁠  #ASKJANN - want some life advice from Jann? Send in a story with a DM or on our website. Leave us a voicenote! ⁠www.jannardenpod.com/voicemail/⁠⁠ Get access to bonus content and more on Patreon: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.patreon.com/JannArdenPod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Connect with us: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.jannardenpod.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.instagram.com/jannardenpod⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.facebook.com/jannardenpod⁠ Chapters (00:00) Family Dynamics and Personal Experiences (16:53) The Journey of Writing a Book (19:55) Overcoming Vulnerability and Imposter Syndrome (22:54) The Fight for Relevance in Wrestling (25:53) The Wrestling Dungeon and Family Legacy (28:53) Navigating Grief and Family Challenges (31:44) The Future of Wrestling and Personal Aspirations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Pastor Levi Matteson kicks off our new sermon series, No Place Like Home, talking about Jacob being far from home and reeling from his messed up family dynamics, and creating his own messed up family, including: 1) The Family (Gen. 29:4-30:24), 2) The Family Dynamic (Gen. 30:1-8), and 3) The Favorite Son of Israel (Gen. 37). This episode of the Evangel Houghton podcast is a Sunday message from Evangel Community Church, Houghton, Michigan, September 6, 2026.

Ask Rachel anythingAs a teenager, I grew up in a home with almost no routines. No one talked about what needed to happen when, and I remember constantly thinking, “What am I supposed to do now?” Life felt like reinventing the wheel every day. I didn't feel safe, and I felt a lot of energy went into trying to cope in the chaos.Now, as a parent and host of Teenagers Untangled, I've come to see routines not as dreary box‑ticking exercises, but as powerful tools for connection, calm, and joy. In this Wonder Room conversation, I sat down with teacher and parent Katharine Radice to explore how routines, habits, and rituals can serve our teenagers—and us.You can find all of the notes and recommendations made in this bonus episode by clicking here:Sign up for free emails to let you know when a new episode comes out www.teenagersuntangled.comSupport the showPlease hit the follow button if you like the podcast, and share it with anyone who might benefit. You can review us on Apple podcasts by going to the show page, scrolling down to the bottom where you can click on a star then you can leave your message. Please don't hesitate to seek the advice of a specialist if you're not coping. There's no shame in reaching out for support. When you look after yourself your entire family benefits.Find all the tips from the episode on Substack: My email teenagersuntangled@gmail.comMy website has a blog, searchable episodes, and ways to contact meInstagramFacebook

     Slam The Gavel welcomes back Hope to the podcast. Hope was last on in August 2023, Season 4, Episode 141. Today she reflected back on the murder of her adult daughter and how she got involved in the court system and realized she had to be a voice for her daughter. Hope watched the impact of the theater of Criminal Court and the judge having the final say asking, 'where are the kids going to go?' However, he was well aware of the placement of her grandchildren. Hope then found herself in Family Court. To Reach Hope: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook:  https://youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcast?si=INW9XaTyprKsaDklTikTok: www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetrihttps://substack.com/@maryannpetri?r=kd7n6&utm_medium=iosInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/  Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com   https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/aboout*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. Content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user/guest should consult with the relevant professionals. IRS CIRCULAR 230 DISCLOSURE: To ensure compliance with requirements imposed by the Internal Revenue Service, we inform you that any U.S. federal tax advice contained in this communication (including any attachments) is not intended or written to be used, and cannot be used, for the purpose of (1) avoiding penalties under the Internal Revenue Code or (2) promoting, marketing or recommending to another party any transaction or matter addressed herein. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. The content creator maintains the exclusive copyright and any unauthorized copyright usage is strictly prohibited.  Podcast is protected by owner from duplication, reproduction, distribution, making a derivative of the work or by owner displaying the podcast. Owner shall be held harmless and indemnified from any and all legal liability.Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/

Keith Reza sits down with actress Karen Cliche for a fun, wide-ranging conversation that moves from horror movies and Hollywood stories to real-life fears, career pivots, family, and the strange things that stay with us from childhood. Karen talks about her new movie The Ice Cream Man and what it was like acting opposite Eli Roth while he was also directing. She shares how that creative dynamic worked on set, how they built believable parents for the film, and why grounding horror in recognizable family energy makes the chaos hit harder. The conversation also revisits Karen's work in Thanksgiving and Saw VI, including the physical demands of horror performances and how imagination plays a huge role in selling fear on screen. Beyond film, Karen opens up about life between Canada and Los Angeles, being in the process of applying for a U.S. work visa, her thoughts on fame at conventions, food, health-conscious pizza experiments, protecting kids from exploitation, and even a wild detour into pyramid theories. It's funny, candid, and packed with the kind of unexpected tangents that make Reza Rifts such an entertaining listen. Guest Info  Karen Cliche is a Canadian actress known for roles in The Ice Cream Man, Thanksgiving, Saw VI, and Mutant X. She has worked across horror, television, and thriller projects for years and brings both humor and honesty to conversations about acting, filmmaking, and life in the industry.   Guest Social Links Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karencliche/ X: https://x.com/ikarencliche   Chapters 00:00 Welcome to the Show and Keith's Blue Screen Glasses Rant   01:51 Introducing Karen Cliche and The Ice Cream Man   04:00 Acting Opposite Eli Roth While He Directs   08:00 Building the Family Dynamic in The Ice Cream Man   12:00 Conventions, Fame, and Horror Fan Culture   16:00 Childhood Fears, Ice Cream Trucks, and Horror Psychology   20:00 Karen's U.S. Visa Plans and Life Between Canada and LA   24:00 Thanksgiving, Horror Performance, and the Oven Scene   28:00 On-Set Moments, Stills, and Funny Behind-the-Scenes Stories   32:00 Pizza Talk, Food, and Everyday Life   36:00 Serious Conversation About Protecting Children   40:00 Pyramid Theories and Final Fun Questions   Call to action If you enjoyed this episode of Reza Rifts with Keith Reza, make sure to subscribe, rate, review, and share the show with a friend. Comment with your favorite Karen Cliche moment and let us know which role of hers you love most from The Ice Cream Man, Thanksgiving, Saw VI, or Mutant X. Host Links Support the show on https://patreon.com/rezarifts61  Follow Keith on all social media platforms: FB: https://www.facebook.com/realkeithreza IG:https://www.instagram.com/keithreza  ALT IG:https://www.instagram.com/duhkeithreza  X:https://www.twitter.com/keithreza  TT:https://www.tiktok.com/keithreza  Book Keith on cameo at www.cameo.com/keithreza Reza Rifts YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KeithReza Check out my website for dates at https://www.keithreza.com/  Subscribe - Rate & Review on Apple Podcasts - Tell a friend :) Be a Rifter!     #KarenCliche #TheIceCreamMan #EliRoth #ThanksgivingMovie #SawVI #MutantX #HorrorPodcast #MoviePodcast #ActressInterview #HollywoodPodcast #EntertainmentPodcast #HorrorMovies #BehindTheScenes      

Fluent Fiction - Danish: Finding Common Ground: Siblings' Inheritance Challenge Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/da/episode/2026-08-25-22-34-02-da Story Transcript:Da: Sommeren i København var lun og imødekommende.En: The summer in København was warm and welcoming.Da: Solen kastedes ind gennem de store vinduer i Nyhavn Café, hvor farverne fra de smukke bygninger reflekterede ned i vandet.En: The sun streamed in through the big windows at Nyhavn Café, where the colors from the beautiful buildings reflected down into the water.Da: Caféen summede af liv, og duften af nybrygget kaffe fyldte rummet.En: The café buzzed with life, and the aroma of freshly brewed coffee filled the room.Da: Jens sad allerede ved et hjørnebord med en kop kaffe foran sig, ventende på sine søskende.En: Jens was already sitting at a corner table with a cup of coffee in front of him, waiting for his siblings.Da: Han havde altid følt, at det var hans ansvar at holde familien samlet.En: He always felt it was his responsibility to keep the family together.Da: I dag var det særligt vigtigt.En: Today, it was particularly important.Da: Astrid kom ind i caféen med sit karakteristiske, ubekymrede smil.En: Astrid entered the café with her characteristic, carefree smile.Da: "Hej, Jens!"En: "Hi, Jens!"Da: sagde hun, da hun slog sig ned.En: she said as she sat down.Da: Kort efter dukkede Kasper op, bærende på sin tunge rygsæk.En: Shortly after, Kasper appeared, carrying his heavy backpack.Da: "Håber ikke I har ventet for længe," sagde han, mens han trak stolen ud.En: "Hope you haven't been waiting too long," he said, as he pulled out his chair.Da: "Nej, kun lige et par minutter," svarede Jens og tog en tår af sin kaffe.En: "No, just a few minutes," replied Jens, taking a sip of his coffee.Da: De var her for at tale om deres bedstemors arv.En: They were there to talk about their grandmother's inheritance.Da: Det var en blanding af penge og et gammelt sommerhus i Skagen.En: It was a mix of money and an old summer house in Skagen.Da: Jens vidste, at dette møde kunne blive udfordrende.En: Jens knew that this meeting could be challenging.Da: Astrid kiggede drømmende ud på kanalen.En: Astrid gazed dreamily out at the canal.Da: "Jeg har tænkt over noget," sagde hun.En: "I've been thinking about something," she said.Da: "Jeg vil gerne bruge min del til at rejse.En: "I want to use my share to travel.Da: Se verden, opleve nye steder.En: See the world, experience new places.Da: Det var sådan bedstemor ville have ønsket det."En: That's what grandma would have wanted."Da: Kasper rømmede sig, usikker på hvordan han skulle starte.En: Kasper cleared his throat, unsure of how to start.Da: "Jeg har også nogle planer," sagde han tøvende.En: "I have some plans too," he said hesitantly.Da: "Mine studielån... de er lidt overvældende."En: "My student loans... they're a bit overwhelming."Da: Jens, som allerede havde forudset disse ønsker, forsøgte at være diplomatisk.En: Jens, who had already anticipated these desires, tried to be diplomatic.Da: "Jeg forstår.En: "I understand.Da: Men vi skal tænke på, hvad der er bedst for os alle."En: But we need to think about what's best for all of us."Da: Samtalen blev intens.En: The conversation grew intense.Da: Astrid nævnte steder, hun ønskede at besøge, mens Kasper talte om økonomisk pres og fremtidig usikkerhed.En: Astrid talked about the places she wanted to visit, while Kasper spoke about financial pressure and future uncertainty.Da: Jens indså, at hver af dem havde deres egen smerte og drømme.En: Jens realized that each of them had their own pain and dreams.Da: Efter en lang diskussion, hvor stemmen blev hævet flere gange, slog Jens hænderne sammen.En: After a long discussion, with voices raised several times, Jens clapped his hands together.Da: "Lad os finde en løsning," sagde han.En: "Let's find a solution," he said.Da: "Hvad hvis vi alle investerer i sommerhuset?En: "What if we all invest in the summer house?Da: Vi kunne leje det ud eller bruge det som et fælles sted.En: We could rent it out or use it as a shared place.Da: Det kunne give indtægt og sikkerhed for os alle."En: It could provide income and security for all of us."Da: Astrid tænkte sig om et øjeblik.En: Astrid thought for a moment.Da: "Det er ikke det, jeg drømte om, men måske er det en god idé," sagde hun modvilligt.En: "It's not what I dreamed of, but maybe it's a good idea," she said reluctantly.Da: Kasper nikkede også langsomt.En: Kasper also nodded slowly.Da: "Det kunne hjælpe os alle på sigt," indrømmede han.En: "It could help us all in the long run," he admitted.Da: Selvom det ikke var den løsning nogen af dem ønskede fra starten, følte de en lettelse over at have fundet en fælles vej frem.En: Although it wasn't the solution any of them wanted from the start, they felt a relief at having found a common way forward.Da: Jens lænede sig tilbage i stolen, lettet over, at de kunne finde en løsning sammen.En: Jens leaned back in his chair, relieved that they could find a solution together.Da: Da de forlod caféen, følte Jens, at han havde lært noget vigtigt.En: As they left the café, Jens felt that he had learned something important.Da: At lytte til hinanden, dele drømme og frygt, var vejen frem.En: Listening to each other, sharing dreams and fears, was the way forward.Da: Familien var mere end blot blod; det var kompromis, forståelse og fælles fremtid.En: Family was more than just blood; it was compromise, understanding, and a shared future. Vocabulary Words:welcoming: imødekommendestreamed: kastedesbuzzed: summedesiblings: søskendecharacteristic: karakteristiskecarefree: ubekymredeinheritance: arvchallenging: udfordrendegazed: kiggededreamily: drømmendehesitantly: tøvendeoverwhelming: overvældendediplomatic: diplomatiskintense: intenspain: smertedreams: drømmesolution: løsningsecurity: sikkerhedreluctantly: modvilligtlong run: sigtrelief: lettelsecompromise: kompromisunderstanding: forståelseshared: fællesstudent loans: studielånfuture uncertainty: fremtidig usikkerhedfinancial pressure: økonomisk presincome: indtægtresponsibility: ansvarreflected: reflekterede

Welcome to the first episode of Dear Eve, a new series where I dive into your DMs twice a month. First up: family dynamics, parent guilt, and setting boundaries.In this episode, we're unpacking the family roles we never chose — the peacekeeper, the golden child, the scapegoat — and how those roles follow us into adulthood. We're talking about setting boundaries with parents without the guilt spiral, navigating sibling comparison and favoritism, going low or no contact, blending different family communication styles, unequal caretaking between siblings, and breaking generational patterns before they repeat.If you've ever felt like you're still playing a role your family assigned you years ago, this episode is for you. Plus, practical tips and journaling prompts to help you start untangling your own family patterns.Topics covered: family dynamics, parent guilt, setting boundaries with family, golden child syndrome, sibling rivalry, low contact family, generational trauma, breaking generational patterns, family communication styles, family boundaries without guilt.New Dear Eve episodes twice a month — subscribe so you never miss one.https://linktr.ee/foryoufromeveSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

If you've been enjoying The Independent Advisors podcast for a while now and want to take the next step in your financial journey, I'd encourage you to head to our website, jessupwealthmanagement.com (https://www.jessupwealthmanagement.com/) . Matt offers a 15-minute initial call where you can discuss your financial goals and see if JWM is a good fit for your needs. Scheduling is easy—once you land at jessupwealthmanagement.com (https://www.jessupwealthmanagement.com/) just click “Schedule Initial Call” and select a time that works best for you! There's a quick survey to fill out that will help guide the conversation and ensure your time is used efficiently. If you're ready to learn more, visit jessupwealthmanagement.com (https://www.jessupwealthmanagement.com/) and book your call today! Take advantage of our partnership with LifeLock and get discounts using our link: https://lifelock.norton.com/offers?expid=LLONEYEAR&promocode= JSPW24&VENDORID= _JESSUPWM&om_ext_cid=ext_partner_ JSPW24_Productpage $) Episode #364 Topics• Founding and Early Growth Challenges — 02:40, 05:29, 07:40, 19:53 • Firm Culture and Leadership Philosophy — 11:26, 37:39, 39:15, 14:21 • Family Dynamics and Entrepreneurial Parenting — 17:04, 18:29, 33:15 • Community Engagement and Nonprofit Leadership — 22:37, 25:14, 21:16, 26:33 • Financial Management and Role Delegation — 29:09, 30:32 • Entrepreneurial Advice and Reflections — 33:15, 34:44, 37:39, 39:47Hosts: Mark McEvily - Chief Investment Officer and Managing Partner Matthew Jessup – Chief Executive Officer, Chief Compliance Officer, and Managing Partner Address: 35 Park Ave. Dayton, OH 45419 Phone: 937-938-9105 https://www.jessupwealthmanagement.com/ Social Media: Facebook: @JessupWealthManagement LinkedIn: @JessupWealthManagement Twitter: @jessupwealth Instagram: @jessupwealth https://www.jessupwealthmanagement.com/disclosures-page

In this episode of the Foster Friendly Podcast, the team bids farewell to Courtney, who is stepping down from her role as cohost of the podcast and being on staff at America's Kids Belong. The conversation reflects on her contributions, the new chapter in her life, and the impact she has made on the podcast and the foster care community. Travis and Brian share their memories and surprise tributes (including from her husband Bobby), highlighting Courtney's leadership and dedication to fostering and parenting. The three also discuss the importance of community support for foster families, the challenges of navigating the foster care system, and the need for businesses to engage with and support these families. Courtney shares her personal journey, the significance of emotional vulnerability, and the lessons learned from her experiences in fostering and adopting children. The conversation culminates in a tribute from Courtney's husband, Bobby, highlighting her dedication and passion for the work she does.TakeawaysCourtney is stepping down from the podcast but will remain involved as a guest.She will continue her work in foster care and help her husband with their construction company.Courtney's experience has provided her with a well-rounded perspective on parenting and foster care.She has made a significant impact on the podcast and the community.Travis and Brian reflect on their experiences working with Courtney.Courtney's children are well-behaved and respectful, showcasing her parenting skills.The podcast has been a platform for Courtney to share her insights and experiences.Courtney's transition is bittersweet, filled with both excitement and sadness.The team expresses gratitude for Courtney's contributions and leadership.Courtney's journey is a testament to her dedication to foster care and family. Emotional vulnerability is a key aspect of human connection.Foster parents need to be resource finders.It's important to let go of expectations in foster care.Businesses can play a crucial role in supporting foster families.The foster care system must prioritize the needs of children.Adoption requires understanding the perspectives of adoptees.Being present in the messy middle is essential for foster parents.Community support can significantly impact foster care outcomes.Foster care is a way to influence future generations positively.Keep pressing on in the mission of supporting children. Thank you for listening to this episode of The Foster Friendly Podcast.Learn more about being a foster or adoptive parent or supporting those who are in your community.Meet kids awaiting adoption.Join us in helping kids in foster care by donating $18 a month and change the lives of foster kids before they age out.Visit AmericasKidsBelong.org and click the donate button to help us change the outcomes of kids in foster care.

“We push through, but sometimes we push too hard, too long, too often.” - Candice GuardinoIt's so easy for painful periods to become part of a family story. Your mother had them, your aunts had them, your great-grandmother had them. Throughout, everyone learned to keep going, show up for work, take care of the family, and not make too much of it. While we should be proud of that strength, normalizing pushing through the pain makes it much harder to recognize when pain is not normal and when a different level of care is what's needed.The same family dynamics tend to come back into play with fertility treatment. The questions, opinions, encouragement, and advice probably come from a loving place, but they add pressure to an already exhausting process. As women's health practitioners, we have to consider what our clients are navigating outside our treatment rooms. Are their symptoms being minimized at home? Do they feel like they can ask for help? Are they avoiding family because they don't want to explain another unsuccessful IVF cycle? Having these conversations with our patients and clients can help us better understand the support she actually needs.In today's episode, I'm joined by author, actor, and comedian Candice Guardino to talk about the family and cultural dynamics that shaped her experiences with endometriosis and infertility. Candice shares how years of painful periods were normalized, what it was like to continue performing through chronic pain and IVF treatment, why receiving an endometriosis diagnosis changed the way she understood her body, managing miscarriage, the emotional and financial strain of fertility treatment, finding a more individualized approach to IVF, how practitioners can help women feel less alone, and more.Enjoy the episode, and let's innovate and integrate together!---Learn more or watch the video version of this conversation at https://integrativewomenshealthinstitute.com/the-family-dynamics-of-endometriosis-and-ivf-with-candice-guardino/.Connect with me and access our entire platform at IntegrativeWomensHealthInstitute.com (https://integrativewomenshealthinstitute.com/).Find and follow us @integrativewomenshealth on YouTube (https://www.youtube.com/@integrativewomenshealth) and Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/integrativewomenshealth/).

Coach Blu dives into the complex and often problematic world of youth residential treatment programs in the United States, with a focus on Utah. He shares personal experiences, industry history, regulatory challenges, and the need for reform to better serve youth and families. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Purpose of the Episode 01:14 Coach Blu's Personal Connection to Treatment Programs 02:24 Focus on Youth Residential Treatment in the US 03:13 Historical Development of Youth Treatment Movement 04:09 Problems with Traditional Treatment Approaches 05:02 Industry Profitability and Oversight Issues 06:26 Exposing Shady Practices and Investigations 08:06 Case Study: Provo Canyon and Paris Hilton 09:33 Infiltrating Treatment Centers and Industry Flaws 11:00 Evolution of Youth Treatment Facilities 13:09 Growth in the 1980s and 1990s 14:35 Profit Motives and Public Funding 16:22 Fragmentation and Lack of Unified Standards 18:05 Historical Roots and State Involvement 19:57 Expansion and Industry Growth in the 80s and 90s 22:17 Private Industry and Marketing Strategies 24:12 Oversight, Accreditation, and Quality Control 27:04 Utah's Role as a Treatment Hub 33:28 Controversies in Wilderness and Outdoor Programs 36:43 Regulation and Oversight Improvements 38:09 Why Utah Became a Major Treatment Center 41:57 Children's Limited Contact and Therapeutic Impact 43:20 Behavioral Modification and Family Dynamics 50:24 Parenting Challenges and Systemic Issues 52:17 Long-term Effects and Adult Voices 54:40 The Need for Systemic Reform and Future Outlook 01:06:16 Upcoming Episodes and Call for Change

Fluent Fiction - Italian: Savannah Reunion: Siblings' Journey to Family Unity Find the full episode transcript, vocabulary words, and more:fluentfiction.com/it/episode/2026-08-16-22-34-02-it Story Transcript:It: Nel cuore dell'estate a Savannah, Georgia, il sole scaldava l'antica locanda circondata da muschio spagnolo ondeggiante.En: In the heart of summer in Savannah, Georgia, the sun warmed the ancient inn surrounded by waving Spanish moss.It: I fratelli erano lì per un incontro di famiglia.En: The siblings were there for a family gathering.It: Alessio, il più grande, sentiva il peso di tenere uniti i suoi fratelli.En: Alessio, the oldest, felt the weight of keeping his siblings united.It: Aveva organizzato tutto con cura.En: He had organized everything with care.It: La locanda era piena di fascino del sud, un luogo perfetto per unirsi come famiglia.En: The inn was full of southern charm, a perfect place to come together as a family.It: Bianca, la sorella di mezzo, era distratta.En: Bianca, the middle sister, was distracted.It: Aveva trascorso gli ultimi mesi cercando di capire la sua vita.En: She had spent the last few months trying to figure out her life.It: Era artista per natura, ma recentemente non trovava ispirazione.En: She was an artist by nature, but recently she couldn't find inspiration.It: Si sentiva disconnessa, quasi persa, e temeva il giudizio dei fratelli sulle sue scelte recenti.En: She felt disconnected, almost lost, and feared her brothers' judgment on her recent choices.It: Carlo, il più giovane, era appena tornato da uno dei suoi viaggi avventurosi.En: Carlo, the youngest, had just returned from one of his adventurous trips.It: Ovunque andasse, trovava nuove storie, nuove avventure.En: Wherever he went, he found new stories, new adventures.It: La cena era pronta.En: Dinner was ready.It: Alessio aveva scelto piatti tradizionali per portare un po' di casa al loro ritrovo.En: Alessio had chosen traditional dishes to bring a bit of home to their gathering.It: Mentre mangiavano, parlarono del passato, di quando erano più giovani.En: As they ate, they talked about the past, about when they were younger.It: Ma poi la conversazione cambiò.En: But then the conversation shifted.It: "Così Bianca, cosa hai fatto ultimamente?"En: "So Bianca, what have you been up to lately?"It: chiese Carlo con un sorriso.En: Carlo asked with a smile.It: Bianca esitò, sentendosi giudicata.En: Bianca hesitated, feeling judged.It: Rispose lentamente, cercando di evitare domande più profonde: "Sto pensando a nuovi progetti, ma è tutto in evoluzione."En: She answered slowly, trying to avoid deeper questions: "I'm thinking of new projects, but it's all evolving."It: Alessio poteva sentire la tensione.En: Alessio could feel the tension.It: Voleva che quella cena fosse un'opportunità per riconnettersi, non per discutere.En: He wanted this dinner to be an opportunity to reconnect, not to argue.It: "Ho una novità," interruppe Carlo.En: "I have news," Carlo interrupted.It: "Sto pensando di partire di nuovo, ma questa volta per un viaggio più lungo."En: "I'm thinking of leaving again, but this time for a longer trip."It: Le parole di Carlo colpirono tutti.En: Carlo's words struck everyone.It: Alessio lo guardò, preoccupato.En: Alessio looked at him, worried.It: "Perché non resti un po'?En: "Why don't you stay a while?It: È importante che rimaniamo vicini," disse Alessio.En: It's important we stay close," Alessio said.It: Carlo continuò: "Voglio esplorare il mondo, ma non voglio perdere voi due.En: Carlo continued, "I want to explore the world, but I don't want to lose you two.It: Posso fare entrambe le cose."En: I can do both."It: Bianca si sentì improvvisamente coraggiosa.En: Bianca suddenly felt brave.It: "Capisco cosa intendi, Carlo.En: "I understand what you mean, Carlo.It: Anche io sto cercando un nuovo inizio, ma ho paura di sbagliare."En: I'm also looking for a new start, but I'm afraid of making mistakes."It: La conversazione si fece intensa.En: The conversation grew intense.It: Alessio si trovò a dover mediare.En: Alessio found himself having to mediate.It: "Forse dobbiamo essere più aperti, più comprensivi."En: "Maybe we need to be more open, more understanding."It: Bianca annuì, sentendosi per la prima volta accettata.En: Bianca nodded, feeling accepted for the first time.It: Carlo, con lo sguardo sereno, disse: "Non lascerò mai che i viaggi mi allontanino da voi."En: Carlo, with a serene look, said, "I'll never let my travels take me away from you."It: Alla fine della serata, i fratelli si ritrovarono cambiati.En: By the end of the evening, the siblings found themselves changed.It: Alessio capì che doveva lasciare che ognuno seguisse il proprio cammino, senza paura.En: Alessio realized he had to let each follow their own path, without fear.It: Bianca sentì il calore del supporto familiare.En: Bianca felt the warmth of family support.It: Carlo prometteva di restare più connesso, indipendentemente dai suoi viaggi futuri.En: Carlo promised to stay more connected, regardless of his future travels.It: Mentre si congedavano, il vento leggero della sera si mescolava ai loro sorrisi.En: As they bade farewell, the gentle evening breeze mingled with their smiles.It: Una nuova comprensione li univa.En: A new understanding united them.It: La locanda storica, con il suo fascino immutabile, testimoniava un legame rinnovato.En: The historic inn, with its unwavering charm, witnessed a renewed bond.It: Ogni fratello, ora, sapeva che il vero viaggio era la famiglia stessa.En: Each sibling now knew that the true journey was the family itself. Vocabulary Words:the heart: il cuorewarm: scaldarethe inn: la locandathe moss: il muschiothe sibling: il fratellothe gathering: il ritrovothe charm: il fascinothe artist: l'artistainspiration: l'ispirazionejudgment: il giudiziotradition: la tradizionethe dish: il piattothe tension: la tensionethe opportunity: l'opportunitàthe adventure: l'avventurathe mistake: l'erroreto mediate: mediarethe support: il supportothe evening: la seratathe breeze: il ventoto mingle: mescolarethe charm: il fascinothe bond: il legamethe journey: il viaggiothe fear: la paurato promise: prometterethe farewell: il congedoto unite: unireto explore: esplorarebrave: coraggioso

Send us Fan MailMcBee Dynasty Steven Jr. Is Leaving the Farm?!McBee Dynasty S3 E9 Banks Babies and Bad BloodThis week on McBee Dynasty: Real American Cowboys, the McBee family is hit with major relationship and family bombshells. Kacie discovers that she is definitely pregnant, turning Cole's birthday celebration into an unforgettable announcement when she gives him the positive pregnancy test as his gift. Cole admits he had hoped they would wait a little longer, but the news is ultimately welcomed. Meanwhile, the family finally learns that Cole and Kristi secretly got married in Las Vegas, with Kristi initially looking completely stunned before happily embracing the news. With Steven Sr. still away, the family begins talking about planning a proper reception, and Tessa's excitement about being included in these McBee family milestones is absolutely adorable.Steven Jr. and Alli's whirlwind relationship takes another turn as Alli decides to move back to Texas with her sister to create some much-needed space. After spending far more time together than either expected, Alli admits that everything has moved incredibly fast and that she needs time to process the relationship and get to know Steven Jr. better. Steven Jr. realizes that he may have moved too quickly and admits that choosing his personal life over the family farm is something he needs to do for himself. He begins seriously considering moving to Texas for half the year and even talks about getting married and establishing a life with Alli there. The rest of the family supports his desire to be happy, but with the McBee operation already undergoing major changes, the timing could not be worse.And then comes the bombshell that could change everything: the bank is pulling the loan on Steven Jr.'s house, leaving the McBees facing a massive financial problem because they don't have the money to pay it off in full. At the same time, Steven Jr. announces that he is likely leaving the farm, forcing Cole to consider stepping into a larger role. Jesse is making changes to the farmhouse to make Alli more comfortable, while the family is also trying to move forward with their cattle plans, including the new mini Highland calves and an embryo transfer in freezing, snowy conditions. Jake, meanwhile, is shopping for an engagement ring for Tegan, although Steven Jr. manages to hijack the appointment before ultimately deciding to wait. With a pregnancy, a secret wedding, a possible Texas move, shifting farm responsibilities and a financial crisis all happening at once, the McBees are heading into the season finale with plenty of unfinished business and some very bad blood.Domestic Violence Resources:https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.salvationarmyusa.org/domestic-violence/https://nrcdv.org/ Support the showhttps://www.wewinewhenever.com/ 

Most people spend their lives trying to follow a clear roadmap, but legendary journalist and author Joan Lunden believes that true resilience is found by stepping beyond the script. In this deeply moving conversation from Making Space, Joan sits down with Hoda Kotb to pull back the curtain on her nearly 20-year run as the longest running female host on morning television, the early heartbreak of losing her father at age 13, and the realities of being a working mother. She and Hoda explore the balance between public scrutiny and personal triumph, discussing her iconic bald People magazine cover during her breast cancer battle. This episode is about resilience, reinvention, and what it really means to embrace a life that others never expected. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

We had an insightful conversation with Nicholeen Peck about how capturing the process of calm can transform family dynamics and empower children to relate to their parents in an entirely new and positive way.

The dysfunctional family dynamics were caused by my toxic marriage.  My husband insisted nothing was wrong except my reaction, so he refused to look at his behavior. I tried everything to get him to change: praying, nagging, lecturing, therapy (for me), adjusting, pleasing, and more. Nothing worked and the harder I tried, the more out of control I became. I was the one the neighbors heard yelling. I was the one in support groups and marriage counseling. I was the losing my temper. I was the one getting physically sick. I was the one who looked unhappy and miserable. I was the one who looked crazy, not him. And it isn't just toxic marriages, but all toxic relationships where this can happen. If this sounds like you, you need to watch this video to find out how to stop looking like the crazy one. I figured it out and so can you. Stop changing the other person, change yourself instead. #dysfunctionalfamilies #toxicmarriage #dysfunctionalfamily #changeyourself  #toxicrelationships #christianrelationshipadvice    Karla Downing's passion is to see individuals, marriages, and families set free from dysfunction, scriptural misunderstanding, and emotional pain personally and relationally. Her Christian relationship advice includes messages, books, and classes that provide practical solutions grounded in biblical truths, bringing balance and clarity to life and relationship issues. She also desires to equip ministry leaders and counselors to reach out more effectively to those struggling with difficult relationships, including abuse.   Website: https://www.changemyrelationship.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChangeMyRelationship YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@changemyrelationship Watch this video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/lwupycP8R8k

Most people spend their lives trying to follow a clear roadmap, but model, author, and advocate Emma Heming Willis believes that life's hardest seasons are often where we find our true purpose. In this deeply moving conversation from Making Space, Emma sits down with Hoda Kotb to pull back the curtain on navigating her husband Bruce Willis's frontotemporal dementia (FTD) diagnosis, breaking through the heavy isolation of caregiving, and learning how to ask for help before the ecosystem of care bottoms out. She and Hoda explore the delicate balance between grief and joy, embracing spontaneity, and allowing cracks of light to shine through matter in a world that often feels heavy. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Before you ever opened the Bible or stepped into a church, the way that you see and relate to God was already taking shape. That's because family formation plays a foundational role in spiritual formation. How do we reconcile the harmful with the helpful as we desire to grow in our relationship with God and others? Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi has a special conversation with her sisters, Tara and Sue, about their family experience growing up. Their reflection will give you a window into how your own childhood has affected your life in God. Thankfully, Jesus doesn't leave us where we are — he continues to invite us into greater healing, freedom, and growth. Resources for this Episode: Healing Prayer: For Emotional & Physical Wholeness Meet with a Soul Shepherding Spiritual Director Attend a Soul Shepherding Retreat Donate to Support Soul Shepherding and Soul Talks

In this episode, the hosts discuss various themes surrounding the challenges of delivery work, the importance of unplugging from social media, and the balance between family life and work. They reflect on aging and parenting, emphasizing the fleeting nature of childhood. The conversation also touches on the desire for entrepreneurship and the struggles of transitioning from a stable job to pursuing personal passions. In this conversation, they discuss the unique challenges and dynamics of their work environment, particularly focusing on the impact of long hours on family life, the high divorce rates among drivers, and the evolution of UPS's work culture over the years. They share personal experiences about transitioning from package car to feeder driving, the importance of financial decisions, and the sense of community that once defined their workplace. The discussion highlights the sacrifices made for job security and the changing perceptions of work-life balance within the company. In this conversation, the speakers discuss various themes related to their experiences in the workplace, particularly in the context of UPS. They touch on the changing landscape of employee benefits, regional differences in job experiences, the challenges of driving in different weather conditions, the importance of fitness and motivation, emotional awareness in fatherhood, and the significance of authenticity in communication. The dialogue also reflects a candid exploration of personal growth. www.patreon.com/aitdpod https://discord.gg/hm8WMUKVF8  takeaways Thank you to our Patreon subscribers. Navigating challenges in delivery work is essential. Unplugging from social media can improve personal connections. Balancing family life with work is crucial for happiness. Time flies when raising children; cherish every moment. Aging brings new perspectives on life and parenting. Pursuing entrepreneurship can be a path to freedom. Delivery work is physically and mentally demanding. It's important to check oneself regarding social media use. Enjoy your kids while they're little; they grow up fast. The job has one of the highest divorce rates due to stress. UPS is often described as a family by its employees. Long work hours significantly impact family life. Transitioning to feeder driving can improve work-life balance. Working nights allows for more family time during the day. Financial decisions are crucial for job security. The work culture at UPS has evolved over the years. Incentives used to motivate employees have diminished. Many employees feel disconnected from the company now. It's important to use earnings wisely to avoid financial burdens. The landscape of employee benefits has changed significantly over time. Different regions have unique challenges and rules in the workplace. Driving conditions can vary greatly, impacting job performance. Fitness and health are crucial for maintaining a good work-life balance. Emotional awareness is essential for modern fatherhood. Authenticity in communication is vital for building trust. Men are encouraged to express their feelings more openly. Parenting styles can influence children's emotional development. The importance of being genuine in social media interactions. Navigating the complexities of modern masculinity is an ongoing journey. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Acknowledgments 02:07 Navigating Challenges in Delivery Work 05:07 The Importance of Unplugging from Social Media 10:05 Balancing Family Life and Work 14:04 Reflections on Aging and Parenthood 17:56 Pursuing Entrepreneurship and Career Transitions 20:39 The Family Dynamics of UPS Drivers 22:39 The Impact of Work Hours on Family Life 25:08 Transitioning from Package Car to Feeder Driver 28:22 Balancing Work and Family Time 30:01 Financial Decisions and Job Security 35:55 The Evolution of UPS Work Culture 41:54 The Changing Landscape of Benefits 44:00 Regional Differences in Employment Experiences 47:41 The Challenges of Driving in Different Conditions 47:58 Fitness and Motivation in the Workplace 50:55 Emotional Awareness and Fatherhood 55:02 Reflections on Authenticity and Communication Huge shoutout to our TOP RATE LEGENDS Tony, Starla & S_nner THE OPINIONS EXPRESSED OR VIEWS EXPRESSED ON THIS PODCAST ARE THOSE OF THE HOSTS AND GUESTS AND DO NOT NECESSARILY REFLECT ANY DELIVERY COMPANY  

Next of Kin After Stroke: When Your 19-Year-Old Has to Decide For You Kylie Ralston was 56, living alone in Sofia, Bulgaria, and getting back into shape after a divorce. Three mornings a week she ran. On the morning everything changed, she was doing a local park run with her friend Rebecca when she slowed to a walk, then tried to run again and couldn’t. “It was like the message wasn’t getting through from my brain to my legs,” she says. No headache. No fatigue. Nothing that felt like an emergency. She finished the run, registered her time, and went home. It wasn’t until she collapsed getting out of the car that anyone understood what was happening. By the time Kylie reached hospital, she had suffered a left frontoparietal haemorrhagic stroke, a spontaneous brain bleed roughly 7.5cm across, with none of the usual risk factors. No high blood pressure. No cholesterol history. No aneurysm, no AVM. She was placed in an induced coma for four days. When she woke, she couldn’t move her right side, and she couldn’t speak. What “Next of Kin” Really Means When a Stroke Hits Abroad Kylie was a permanent resident of Bulgaria, not a citizen, divorced from her daughter’s father, and living on her own. When the hospital needed someone to authorise emergency surgery, there was exactly one person available to make that call: her daughter, then 19 years old, splitting her time between her separated parents’ homes. It’s a detail easy to skim past, but it sits at the centre of this episode: next of kin isn’t a role most of us think about until a hospital needs an answer immediately. Kylie hadn’t nominated her daughter out of any formal planning process; it simply fell to her, because she was the only adult relative in the country who met the age threshold. A 19-Year-Old Signing Consent-to-Operate Forms Kylie’s friends contacted her daughter directly. She rushed to the hospital, and unconscious, unable to advocate for herself, her mother’s care now depended on decisions made by a teenager under enormous duress. Kylie’s first memory afterward is her daughter arriving in the ICU in a hairnet and scrubs, holding her hand, telling her she loved her. It’s the kind of moment that rarely makes it into conversations about stroke recovery, because the focus so often lands on rehabilitation milestones: walking, speaking, returning to work. But before any of that, someone has to be legally empowered to say yes to surgery, and for Kylie, that someone hadn’t expected the responsibility for another few decades. The Gap Between Acute Surgery and Real Rehabilitation Bulgaria’s acute care, Kylie and her friend Nicole Nott both stress, was world-class surgery within roughly two hours of the stroke, the kind of outcome her friends still describe as a miracle given the size of the bleed. What came next was a different story. In the public hospital, physiotherapy visits totalled two sessions. There was no speech therapy. After 14 days, still unable to move her right side or speak, Kylie was expected to go home. Her partner, Guido, refused to accept it, and the couple began privately funding rehabilitation themselves. This is a distinction worth sitting with if you or someone you love is navigating stroke recovery in a country or even a region with limited public rehab funding: acute survival and functional recovery are not the same fight, and they are not always resourced the same way. When a Friend Becomes the Rehab Team Nicole Nott, an occupational therapist and Kylie’s friend since they were 16, found out about the stroke through a message she initially suspected was a scam. Within days she’d cleared her schedule and flown from Australia to Bulgaria. What she found in the private rehab hospital was a caring but under-trained care team, kind staff with, as Nicole puts it, “no rehab expertise.” Nicole spent close to two weeks restructuring Kylie’s room and routine around basic stroke rehabilitation principles: approaching from Kylie’s affected right side to address her spatial inattention, built-up cutlery to force use of her weaker hand, a balloon tapped back and forth for shoulder strength, word games layered on top for speech practice, pegs and curtains repurposed into arm exercises. She also pushed back hard against hospital staff who tried to stop her from helping Kylie transfer to a shower chair or toilet, at one point being told outright she wasn’t permitted because she was a woman. Her single goal before flying home: get Kylie toileting independently again, for dignity as much as mobility. Kylie called her from Dubai airport, mid-transit, to tell her it had happened. Living With Aphasia Fourteen months on, Kylie’s right-side weakness has largely resolved. What remains, she says, is the hardest part: expressive aphasia. “I can’t express myself like I used to.” It’s a small, telling detail of the condition that even the phrase “I can’t” is itself shaped by the aphasia; the words available to describe the loss are affected by the loss. The Unexpected Gains Both women point to what came out of the crisis alongside the hardship: Kylie’s relationship with her daughter deepened. Her circle of friends in Bulgaria proved itself in ways she hadn’t anticipated. And in the rehab hospital, her partner Guido proposed something; he told her he’d already decided before the stroke but simply hadn’t gotten around to asking. If this episode raises questions about who is legally positioned to make decisions for you and whether that person actually knows it, it may be worth a conversation with your own family before a crisis forces the issue. For a deeper account of navigating identity, recovery, and unexpected transformation after stroke, Bill’s book The Unexpected Way That A Stroke Became The Best Thing That Happened is available at recoveryafterstroke.com/book. If this show has helped you, you can support it at patreon.com/recoveryafterstroke. This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice. Please consult your doctor before making any changes to your health or recovery plan. Kylie Ralston: Stroke, Bulgaria, and the Friend Who Flew Across the World When Kylie had a stroke abroad, her 19-year-old daughter became her next of kin, and a friend flew in to help her recover. Bill’s Book: The Unexpected Way That A Stroke Became The Best Thing That Happened Support the Recovery After Stroke On Patreon Highlights: 00:00 Introduction – Next of Kin After Stroke03:47 The Day of the Stroke08:55 Rehabilitation Challenges in Bulgaria16:32 Coping with Language Barriers22:08 Reflections on Healthcare Systems32:50 Setting Goals and Achievements38:29 Family Dynamics and Support Systems45:36 Finding Meaning in Recovery54:44 The Impact of Caregiving58:22 Reflections on Recovery and Gratitude Transcript: Introduction – Next of Kin After Stroke Bill Gasiamis (00:00)And one of my first horrible thoughts was, is this a dreadful hoax? Is someone, you know, is this some horrible scam? And it made me feel quite sick actually And then I rang her son who lives in Australia and he’s like, Yeah, I’m so sorry. I haven’t told you. Yes, it’s true, mum’s had a stroke. Bill Gasiamis (00:16)Welcome back to Recovery After Stroke. I’m Bill Gasiamis, and today I’m joined by two guests, Kylie Ralston and her friend Nicole Nott. Kylie was 56 living in Bulgaria when she suffered a left frontoparietal hemorrhagic stroke, a spontaneous brain bleed with none of the usual risk factors. Nicole is an occupational therapist and one of Kylie’s closest friends since they were teenagers. And when she found out what happened, she got on a plane to Bulgaria to help. In this episode, we get into what it means to have a stroke far from home in a country where you don’t speak the language, and public rehabilitation funding barely exists. We talk about who becomes your next of kin when you least expect it, what it’s like to advocate for a friend inside a hospital system that won’t always listen. And what recovery actually looks like 14 months on, before we get into it, if you want a deeper look at identity, recovery, and unexpected transformation after stroke, my book, The Unexpected Way That Stroke Became, the best thing that happened, is available at recoveryafterstroke.com/book. And if this show has helped you And you can support it to keep me on the path of getting to a thousand episodes, you can do so At patreon.com/recoveryafterstroke Bill Gasiamis (01:37)Kylie Ralston and Nicole Nott, welcome to the podcast. lovely to be here, Bill. Thanks for having us, Bill. Kylie, tell me a little bit about what life was like before the stroke. I was very active and I had a full life and I was working full time. and I was living in Sofia in Bulgaria, in my on my own, in my own apartment. I was renting, actually. and I was getting back to fitness. So I was g getting I was running regularly. So two two or three times a week I was hitting the gym and hitting the tr the treadmill. And that had been happening for like a few month like six months or something like that. but before that I was very fit and active. What kind of work were you involved in? I was a HR work. I was a ha HR leader and so I had my own consultancy I had a team of people that I’ve managed. I had thirty five people, so and that they were people in Germany, Poland, Czechia, Portugal, France, so everywhere in in Europe, basically. Yeah. Wow, how how does an Aussie end up in Bulgaria with staff or clients in that many countries? short answer is I came here with my family, so with my ex husband. and shortly after I arrived we separated and and ultimately got divorced. and I stayed on because my daughter is here. So she was only eleven at the time and I could just couldn’t leave her. The Day of the Stroke So you were living at home with your daughter? she was sharing her time between between us both. Yeah. got it. Okay. So both parents are there. So your daughter was going backwards and forwards. On the night of the stroke or on the day of the stroke, can you take us through that? What were you experiencing? Was there anything unusual that happened that made you think something was wrong? How did it go down? I was with my friend Rebecca. And she was running ahead of me as she she was faster than me, so sh and she often often ran ahead of me. and I’d slowed down to a walk and when I started to run again or try to run again, it it was like the message wasn’t getting through from my brain to my legs. And I thought, that’s strange, that’s that’s really odd. ‘Cause I didn’t feel like tired or anything and I didn’t have a headache and well stuff like that. and I just walked through the rest of the park run. And then when Rebecca saw me coming to the finish line, she waved me over and she said, come on, let’s go register your chip. and so I did that. and she said afterwards that there was a little bit of fumbling with with my phone and there’s a there was a little bit of fumbling when I put my jacket on, but other than that, I just seemed exhausted from a run. do you recall after the experience of feeling exhausted from the run where you ended up? Did you need help? Yeah, I do. So so she didn’t notice that I wasn’t talking because I n I’m normally an endless talker, so I she didn’t notice that I wasn’t talking. And she said that that that is one thing that should have alerted her to what was happening. but it it didn’t. And so I’d caught the bus to the park run and her husband was there and so he drove me home. And I j I remember the journey home and when when we when I went to get out, I just couldn’t. And so and Mark came around to my side of the car and help tried to help me out and I just collapsed against him. And so then that so then they said, quick, something’s wrong something’s I don’t remember what they  They they said, you know, they basically took me straight to the hospital. Yeah. And also rang Guido, my now fiance, but my partner at the time. Uh-huh. So you you went from the run, attempted to go home, and then from that attempt to get you out of the car, actually into your home, it was pretty clear that that wasn’t gonna happen and you ended up in hospital. so Did you guys drive to hospital? Do you recall that? Yes. Yes. We do how far is it from your home? it’s pretty close. I don’t know about kilometres or time, but it’s but it’s like ten or fifteen minutes. Yeah, so it’s not too far. But they didn’t know what was going on, of course. They just knew something wasn’t right and then they figured one of the best things to do is just get it to a hospital. You get to the hospital Do you know what happens after that? Do you get admitted? do you get tested for anything? I suppose what I’m asking is when is the first time you realise that that you’ve had a stroke? When do they report that back? When I came out of the coma. So I was put I was put into an an induced coma straight away. so I I obviously don’t remember anything of of that. and but Rebecca’s told me afterwards. so she’s filled in the f filled in the filled in the blanks for me. and by that stage her husband thought it was a stroke. So she’s he said he said to the staff at the hospital, we think she’s having a stroke. And so yeah. So how long were you in the coma, do you know? Has somebody told you how long it was? Yeah, four four days. Four days, okay. And do you know what kind of stroke you had? Yep. I had a left Frontoparietal hemorrhagic stroke. Wow, that’s a good effort. So you had a brain bleed. Yep. Do they know what caused it? No. It was spontaneous and I didn’t have any of the risk factors. So I didn’t have high blood pressure, a history of high blood pressure, but admittedly I’d hadn’t tested my blood pressure immediately before the stroke. but you know That’s un that’s unlikely to be the cause. And I didn’t have a hi a history of high cholesterol. and so they just and I didn’t have an aneurysm and I didn’t have like what’s the other thing? The An AV AVM. AVM, yeah, I didn’t have any of that. And how old were you? Fifty six. Okay. So you had a spontaneous Bleed in the brain. That happens. People do have that happen from time to time. And sometimes they don’t have any symptoms leading up to it or anything like that. and this is the bizarre nature of like there’s an unlimited number of ways, unfortunately, for people to have a stroke. Now, you woke up in hospital four days later. What kind of deficits did you have? I couldn’t move my right side and I couldn’t speak. Okay. Now I’ve got an idea of well, I haven’t got an idea, but my mind immediately kind of says like if you’re in hospital in Bulgaria, that’s not a hospital in Melbourne. That’s not the Royal Melbourne hospital where no shit is unreal, like it’s perfect and it’s got the highest technology and it doesn’t matter how many things we can bitch and moan about the system being here like compared to Bulgaria, my expectation is that we’re world class. Perhaps that’s not the case in Bulgaria. Would you agree with that statement? I would have agreed before and my my my expat friends here would have agreed before, but now we’re all saying maybe Bulgaria is better than we thought. That’s brilliant. Awesome. Okay, so Rehabilitation Challenges in Bulgaria As far as like medical interventions and all that type of stuff, you felt like that was handled like any other world class hospital would have handled it. Yeah. In that in that s it in that stage it was. but there’s no like that was a public hospital and there’s no there’s no public funded rehab after. or or very li very little. So so that’s where that’s where Australia is ahead. So when you knew you had deficits, was there any rehabilitation whatsoever? Did you get any of that while you were still in hospital? Minimal. So the the physio came to see me twice. and so that’s so that’s all and I got no speech therapy and stuff like that. and but when I was discharged from the public hospital here and went and so they they expected me to go home from the public hospital. And so Guido said she just can’t like like what what the fuck? After how many days? After how many days, how long? Fourteen. Wow, your right side was still offline and you still had problem. Yeah. Okay. So we we just paid for paid for private rehab. got it, right. Yeah. And how long were you in private rehab for? another like two months or something like that. Right. Okay, that’s pretty cool. So i even though you couldn’t access it publicly, you were still able to Access a private now. Are you a citizen in Bulgaria? Not a citizen, a permanent resident. Okay. So do you have are you as a result of the fact that you’re a permanent resident and not a citizen, do you have different things that you are able to access because of your status? No. no. I’m it’s I have the same rights as a citizen. The only one the only right I don’t have is I’m I’m not able to vote here and I’m not I’m not able to work in other EU countries. Got it. Okay. So that’s pretty traumatizing, the whole experience, and then to have to deal with overcoming your left side and your speech deficits after the two month mark, roughly where were you at where you where you are now? Because you kinda sound pretty good. Okay. No, yeah. no and and the other thing the other thing that I must say about Bulgaria is I don’t speak Bulgarian. very very little. So that was a problem. Yeah. I can imagine, yeah. so maybe you can come in here, Nicole, and and talk about where I was at when you came to see me, because that was very very very early on in my in in the private rehab hospital. Yeah, Nicole, tell me a little bit about what it’s like to receive a phone call to find out that your friend has had a stroke. I was absolutely hellish. the way I found out is I got a message through social media from someone saying, Hey, I’m a friend of Kylie’s and she’s in hospital in Bulgaria. And one of my first horrible thoughts was, is this a dreadful hoax? Is someone, you know, is this some horrible scam? And it really, you know, it made me feel quite sick actually thinking this is that’s not someone I know. It does look like a name I’ve seen in Kylie’s kind of social media world. And then I rang her son who lives in Australia and he’s like, Yeah, I’m so sorry. I haven’t told you. Yes, it’s true, mum’s had a stroke. and I was kind of beside myself because by training I’m an occupational therapist, but Kylie and I have known each other each other since we were about 16. and it was really hard to get the information that I wanted as a friend, but also as a health professional. I was wanting to understand what kind of stroke is it? Where is it? What’s the rehab? What can we do? How’s it going? And at that stage the information that I had was that you know, it was really seriously affected the speech part of the brain and obviously the hemiplegia, the weakness down the right side and knowing that Kylie was right handed. so, you know, it’s the friendship part that your heart’s breaking and it’s also the therapist part that’s wanting the information to be able to, you know, reconcile it for myself, professionally what that was going to look like as a consequence for Kylie. Yeah, and you’re so far away, so you really can’t do anything and kind of have to like take information second hand, third hand, and be kind of in a position which is really uncomfortable for, I imagine, a friend, but also a therapist, right? So as an occupational therapist, that’s not the information you work on. You work on actual facts, scans, reports, like a whole bunch of things. So are you also playing it out in your mind? Are you kind of Doom thinking it, like are you how does it affect you personally? I think for me I was all I was really very conscious of not stressing other people. So like friends, family, because sometimes when you are a health professional, you know, you have knowledge and information and you know, you sometimes you you’re keeping that to yourself to some extent because you do know what can happen to people and you do know what consequences can be. So I was really trying not to ask too many questions of people as well. but I was seriously desperate for information. And so I remember I’d gone to a party and I didn’t really want to go because I was actually, you know, upset and stressed for Kylie. And I did end up going to a party and during the party I was really kind of outside having a bit of a downer really by a campfire. but I got a phone call or a message to say that I think you’d said some words, Kylie, and were kind of waking up. so you’re still in the acute hospital then and that you’d been able to move your leg a little bit, I think. Yeah. And you know, joy in that moment. And yeah, I felt very, very far away. And then What happens over the next few days? Like do you guys continue to communicate somehow? Do you keep getting information? Are you being updated? Yeah. Yeah. I wasn’t able to get my into my phone or my any of my devices. So I wasn’t able to able to because I couldn’t remember my password, right? And so and and I tried like d different ones and I you know I just got locked out. So and when I was able to get in then that made it it made it easier t because I was able just text short messages. So so Nicole and I kept in touch that way. and before English-speaking Before you came, Nicole, I think I was talking, but not not not as well as I am now. Yeah. So was it, Nicole, in your mind, you were always going to fly over to Bulgaria and beath your friend? Or did you guys have to work that out? Like what happened now? It’s so cool that you get to have a somebody in your corner that is also a Fred, but also a medical professional in the exact field that you’re struggling with now. Right. Like how do you just drop everything and go overseas and be with your friend? Yeah, well, very grateful that I had an up to date passport. So that was that was a good thing. Kylie, it was interesting because the texting, like if I go back and look at that history, it’s like you can see the progress in the texts. So you can see that Kylie was using kind of more single words and having struggles with spelling and putting sentences together. And then over time, you know, they became more fluent. but the thing that happened was that Kylie and I were talking and she was able to you know, she got some speech back and we were talking. And she was just saying about the rehab care that the the the kind of caring staff just seemed to have no rehab expertise. So the physios were amazing. I think they were great. There was no active speech therapy for Kylie. I think we ultimately found an English speaking speech therapist but who still had Bulgarian as a first language. And there’s very few occupational therapists in Bulgaria, seems to be some expats. And Kylie was talking to me a jab about just you know, really basic things like not being taken to the toilet. and that’s probably what broke my heart. It’s like I cannot leave her in bed, not being able to go to the toilet. I just can’t do it. And so I just said to my partner, I think I just need to go to Bulgaria. And luckily I’m self-employed. So I just kind of cleared my schedule, got on a plane and yeah, I was just I suppose I’m incredibly grateful to have the skill. incredibly grateful to have the financial ability to do it. and yeah, and the skills to do it. And you know, you don’t always get an opportunity in life to do the right thing, or sometimes you don’t make that decision and later you think, Why didn’t I do X, Y, and Z? I try not to live my life like that. I try to actually do those things. So, yeah, I got on a plane and basically arrived at the airport, got on a train straight out to see Kylie at the Rehope Hospital. You’re a real superhero. I’m very grateful to Nicole. Yeah. I rec you know, my story is kind of well, it has a similar kind of thread to it. I one of my best friends is a radiographer and he was a radiographer at the Royal Melbourne Hospital where I was a patient for nearly two and a half years because I was in and out with a number of brain hemorrhages. I had three in total in the same spot, but over two and a half years, then I had brain surgery. And I can’t tell you how many scans I had, but being a radiographer, he was the one who was in the room taking the photos through the MRI. Yeah. And then he would come out. And he would tell us what he saw in the RI, which was against the rules. that’s why I won’t name him. But but that meant that we didn’t have to wait a month to get our results and the the meeting for the results was just more of we’ll go through the process and and have the meeting. Yeah. And and and it was like and I regretted my life when at school I used to throw his books on the roof of the canteen just to mess with him going to s to class late to get in trouble. and I’ve apologised profusely for that and thanked him every day for the fact that, you know, he was able to lend his well, you know, he was able to be in the room. He was able to have that conversation with us and he was able to ease our minds. over that two and a half year period and then you won’t believe it. Like his daughter had an AVM at seventeen. And she went through that and and has recovered from that somewhat now in the last few years. and I got to be I mean I hate that I had to be this guy, but I got to be the guy that supported him through that really acute phase and There is just nothing to describe what it’s like to be able to a repay the favor. and then but B, when I was in that situation to have somebody kind of well, you know, like put their arm around me and really walk me through every stage. Me and my wife and my family walk us through every stage of that part of it, other than intervening as a brain surgeon. But he was the one that put us in char in in touch with my brain surgeon. like Everything that happened was just the most amazing experience to be able to be guided like that. And I know it’s a privilege and many people don’t get that opportunity. so I see Chris, I haven’t told him this in person. I see him as like a bit of a superhero, but he doesn’t know that. I’ve told him I love him in the way men tell each other that they love each other by s abusing him and swearing at him and telling him that the team that he follows is terrible and all that kind of stuff. Reflections on Healthcare Systems so you arrived in Bulgaria. take me from the airport to the hospital. Like what happens? How is that? Actually the flight was really good. Customs was pretty easy. There was some annoying folk in front of me who I wanted to punch in the face and tell them to hurry up, but I was just, you know, needed to to get there. Kylie’s daughter met me at the airport. And then we got the train together out to the hospital. So, you know, obviously I’m seeing my first sight of Bulgaria. I’d never been there before. so not really taking a tourist route at this point. so went out to see Kylie. And, you know, when you just eyeball someone and I, you know, just thank God I’m here, I’m in front of her. Her she’d had a shaved head. she had some pretty spectacular surgical scars, a couple of very big scabs still on her head. she looked skinny, she looked pale, she had started doing a little bit of movement and the hospital room was really kind basic and crazy. Her friends had funded a pressure mattress for her that didn’t exist. And some of these things I had been liaising with Kylie’s friends in Bulgaria about what could we do, how you know, what do we want to prevent? So we want to prevent anyone pulling on from. Her weak shoulders and like don’t let anyone pull her by the arm. this is how I want, you know, to help her with posture in bed or in sitting. and you know, like speaking in single kind of actions at a time and just take your time, say something, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. Just allow Kylie’s brain to, you know, take that information on board. Don’t speak for her. and when I got there, it was really clear that. She had an inattention to the right hand side as an effect from the stroke. So then I was a bit of a ball breaker, rearranging the whole room. No, no, no, no, no. Where, you know, everyone come from the right, everyone sit on the right. no cutler, you’re not allowed to have your phone in your left hand, you’re having your phone in your right hand. I’d taken some things with me from Australia to Bulgaria that I thought she might need. like some built-up cutlery, because I wanted her to use her right hand to feed herself. I took a couple of kind of activities that I thought we could do to look at some retraining for the right arm. what I’ll still bring with me, try to remember now. Benjamin. So yeah, just try kind of going into early stroke rehab principles. Yeah. Did you go there well you went there as a friend. But when you were there, were you able to be a professional and also have a conversation with the local team? Kylie and I laughing. Do you want to tell that story, Kylie? Which one are you thinking about? Where I got told off. No, I don’t remember that. well, Kylie was in act like, you know, there was still quite a lot of weakness, but she was also so determined for her own rehab. And in the system there their carers really don’t have a rehab focus. They have a I’ll provide you a meal focus and I’ll occasionally do some cleaning and I’ll occasionally change the bed linen and but really not a rehab focus. So I’ve personally found it quite easy to help Kylie to like stand move. And so the very first weekend I was there, it was a long weekend and what I didn’t realise later was that they were actually quite understaffed. Which worked in our favour because I was helping Kylie to get onto a shower chair, taking her to have a shower, us taking her to the toilet, because prior to that time they were just, you know, using pads for toileting because Kylie couldn’t stand up or move on her own. And because I’m trained, I found it very easy. She’s a lightweight person and she and I just work together and I could do that. I think it was the Tuesday, person who I refer to as Nurse Ratchet. remembering now kind of intercepted me bringing Kylie back from the bathroom to her room and just like, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope. What are you doing? Stop that, stop that, stop that. and you know, she and I are having a bit of a a discussion. And basically she’s refused and I’m allowed to move Kylie. So Kylie is sitting out in the corridor. I think I’d luckily kind of covered you up for privacy. and she’s like, No, you’re not allowed to move her. I’m gonna go and get the physio. I think at least forty minutes went by and then she comes back, well, okay, and I said, Look, I am a trained person, it’s easy, it’s safe. no, I’ll think about it. And then after I think another fifteen minutes she pushed your chair into the bedroom. And then I think it was probably another fifteen minutes where she just decided to move Kylie herself at that point. even though that was out of policy and the physios had to do it. And then it was all this discussion with me that you can’t do it. And in the end it was you can’t do it because you’re a woman. Not strong enough, you know. so yeah. Then Kylie and I kind of would go on clandestine missions because again, from a rehab point of view, being able to stand transfer, it’s putting all the weight through the leg, it’s giving feedback to the brain. I really wanted to make sure Kylie’s bladder and bowel were gonna work properly. And you know, sitting in bed and that’s just not ideal. So then Kylie’s like, Nicole, I want to go to the toilet. I was like, I’m banned, I’m banned, Mother Nurse Ratchet, I’m not allowed to take you. And I was like, shit. So I would go on a little mission, go look down the corridor, make sure she was nowhere to be seen. And then I quickly stole the shower chair and then I found a bucket. And so Kylie and I were doing secret Wii missions in the bedroom. until w on one of our missions I just hadn’t quite got the bucket in the right place. And so then I it was also then later on a cleaning mission. So it was it was a pretty crazy environment. yeah, just for that lack of t whole team approach to rehab. Whereas, you know, in Australia the nurses would all be rehab trained. They would be transferring someone physios would come in, speech would be coming, OTs would be coming. So I was kind of desperately trying to convince Kylie or to get her rehab to a standard where she’d be able to come back to Australia to get some more rehab. You know what’s good about this conversation other than the hilarious nature of it also is that I as an as a person who hadn’t had a stroke before my hadn’t known anyone who had a stroke before my experience, if I had come across somebody who had had a stroke, I wouldn’t have known what to look out for and what to say to support them in a situation where perhaps something was being neglected. Because I don’t know what I don’t know. I’m not a professional, right? Just like those nurses and therapists that weren’t specifically trained. Yeah. In certain things. I mean, you may as well be not only talking a different language, but you may as well be making it up as you go because as far as they know, now this is what we do for stroke patients. This is how we handle that. is it a lack of understanding of what r stroke rehabilitation requires, or is it a lack of resources, or is it a little bit of both? Do you feel in Bulgaria when you were there? I think I think it’s a lack of of all all of that but it’s the lack of maybe money. So it’s a lack of training. So th there’s there’s not enough there’s not the the nurses or the orderlies or whatever they’re called here, are are aren’t paid very much. So they so And t just like, even though I was in a private rehab hospital, so you would have expected that more. It’s you would have expected more, but I just think that they just don’t have the money to to train those people. Yeah. it wasn’t really a role, was it, Kylie? Like they really were more like housekeepers in a sense. It was more like cleaning a meals. I have to say the physios were excellent. and a lot of the physios had good English as well, which was for your rehab was so important. because again a lot of the carers they would come into the room and you know, again, just from a speech therapy point of view, in Australia, say if someone came into the room who was the person who did the menus or filled up the water bottles or the cleaners, Kyler could have spoken to all of those people and had   incidental communication the whole day in English. But because of all of those p incidental people coming in didn’t speak English, you know, reasonably in Bulgaria. it just for me, I was worried about the lack of just exposure to English language as well. So not even speech therapy, just incidental language through the day. Which is very helpful and people don’t realise how helpful it is to be able to speak to a nurse about how you’re feeling or what’s happening. Yeah. And all the usual stuff. And Kylie’s chatty and friendly and she would have just been having conversations galore, but it just it it it couldn’t be. Yeah. Yeah, it’s another another barrier. so you know when you go overseas, it’s your friend and you’re a professional. How do you handle that? Because you know, like are you emotional? Are you trying to put a lid on it? Are you allowing yourself to Gonna be emotional. How does that work? We had some killer laughs, didn’t we? I mean, I’m a joker anyway. And so, like the first time Kylie got to do a poo on the toilet, I just did a poo dance for her. So I I felt half my job was you know, cheering her up and keeping it light and having fun and chatting about stuff we would just always chat about. as well as doing as much rehab because it was very exhausting because, you know, p after a stroke, it’s very fatiguing. you know, so to Kylie was really tired and needed lots of rest. So and because I had just you know, obviously dropped tools to go over quickly, I was just working sometimes. So I just have my computer and if Kylie was asleep I’d just stay with her and and her partner Guido as well, who was there with her as well. So just, you know, emotional support wise. But Yeah, I do some work. And I stayed in Kylie’s apartment. So I w was I just stayed at her place and I I train out to see her each day at the hospital. W how many hours would you spend in hospital with her? What do you think, Kylie? you would often arrive at like ten in the morning and you wouldn’t go till like five in the evening or six in the evening. Yeah. So technically visiting hours kind of finished at six. So I just try and stay most of the day. A full shift. Yeah. Yeah. Unpaid. Unpaid labour. Slave driver. Yeah. yeah. But nah. That’s what friends are for. I very what I very much wanted to stay the whole day because I did really, really wanna like especially the toileting thing. I just really wanted that. Setting Goals and Achievements I had this bit of a goal for myself for Kylie that she would be able to take herself to the toilet before I left the country. So just from a dignity point of view, from a mobility point of view, transfers, you know, bladder control. So yeah, that was one of my big goals. And she rang me when I was in transit at Dubai Airport on my way back to Australia and said, Nicole, I just took myself to the toilet. Wow, that’s cool. Yeah. Yeah. And and I was having physio two physio sessions a d a wi a day. So I was having other than Nicole. So I was having like about one session about of about an hour in the morning and one session of about an hour in the in the afternoon. Got it. You Kylie seem like pretty mm chill, pretty calm. how are you handling it though, emotionally? How’s the aftermath Treating you because there’s a little bit of you know, there’s all that acute stuff. It’s awesome when your friend is there, but then your friend goes home, right? So how how does that transition kind of happen? Yeah, I might start crying. because I’ve just recently spent seven months in Australia. So I I went to Australia in October last year and I came back in just in May. and I had more rehab there. So I had I had student led rehab at at first and then I got in got accepted into Birch, which is the brain injury rehab community and home in Ad in Adelaide. so that’s that is is a whole team of people. So I had I had physio and I and a occupational therapist and a a e exercise physiologist and a speech therapist and stuff like that so I th that’s really good. now the most frustrating part for me is the aphasia so I I can’t I can’t express myself like I used to. Yeah. You know what I love about interviewing people who have aphasia is when they say I can’t in a sentence to describe something to me it triggers the part of the condition which doesn’t allow the words to come out. It’s so interesting. That happens so so often. And it’s just a for me, I noticed this I’m saying it just from a perspective is maybe I can’t is not the right word. I don’t know. You might remember this, you might not, but maybe I can’t is not the right word. Maybe the right word is Something that helps you get to the word that you need to get to. And okay, now that’s just me, the uneducated stroke survivor on a phasia guy. Like I don’t know about that. But it’s so interesting, it happens every time. but then Nicole goes home, you go home, your partner is kind of now taking over the caregiving role, and you still have some deficits. phage is one of them. what about your right side? How offline was it? I I also moved in with Guido after the after the stroke. So so that was that was a has was ha was and has continues to be a challenge because we’re still getting used to living together because we weren’t living together before. and I was very in very independent before. And I was living in Sofia and he and he and I now live in a in a village. So I live in in a village just outside of Sofia. And I’m not driving yet. but I was medically cleared to drive in Australia before I left. So I’m going through the process here. so anyway, all of all of those things together make it very challenging. don’t get me wrong, I I l I love him, but but you know, and and I d and and I made that decision because my apartment is was was on the fourth floor and th there was no lift. Wow. Yeah. So back to your question. When I was when I was when I came here, when I was discharged, I continued with as an outpatient and and the physio continued to come at home twice a week. So I was having more physio maybe like five times a week. and like it were ha had started to come my right side had was all already back online, but I would I was just working on building strength and and I would get still very tired. Yeah. And did your daughter end up coming to live with you as well? No. but she she at the beginning she she was my next of kin. So at the ripe old age of nineteen, she signed the consent to operate forms. yeah, so that was that was very difficult for her. I didn’t know that at the time, obviously. but yeah. And did that happen, did she become your next of kin because your former partner, her dad, and you had separated and then his that role wasn’t gonna be his anymore. It’s just passed down to the person who was the closest to you. Like how did that happen? Family Dynamics and Support Systems We’re divorced. I I’m divorced from her dad. Yeah. So he’s definitely not my next kin. Right. So that ha changed after the divorce and she was the only person you could nominate because she was over is there an age limit to the next of kin? Eighteen. Yeah. Okay. So she had hit that criteria, you nominated her and then at nineteen she got to make a decision. Which she never and you never would have expected ever for that to be a thing. I didn’t nominate her, it would just happen. So I was I I was unconscious at the time that she signed those forms. So yeah. So my friends actually contacted her. and she she rushed to the hospital. so it was all under duress. It was like this is what happened to your mum, you’re her Next of kin, whether you like it or not, you have to decide. Yeah. Far out. Okay, that’s pretty full on for a 19 year old. Yeah. Yeah, seems like she did a good job. How did she handle this whole mum’s not well situation, this stroke thing? Like how did she deal with it? she was very good. my first memory actually is of her coming into the ICU with with the with the whole, you know, the whole like the the hairnet and the mask and the and the and the what’s it called the scrubs. Scrubs, yeah. and she held my hand and said t that she loved me. so that was pretty special. And incidentally I have an a another memory of Guido coming into the ICU as well and singing singing to me. So he he said that he said that I always wanted him to sing and he refused before. And so did did I want him to sing to me now? And I squeezed his hand or on the on the left he’s was holding my left hand and I squeezed his hand and so he knelt down beside my bed and started singing. Wow. Can he actually hold the tune or is he hard to hear? Yes, see he’s he’s very musical. Okay. Thank God. If my wife had asked me to sing a w if I had asked my wife to sing, it wouldn’t have been a good experience at all for either of us. Yeah, he was he was a busker in i in his younger years. Yeah. and now he decided to come good. Fair enough. Well that that’s important. You know, things like that are important. It lightens the the mood and it makes Yeah. You kind of feel like your family’s around and that you know you know, maybe kind of things might be all right. Like it gives that glimmer of hope. Is that how you received it? Yeah, I did. yeah, but I’m also very, very determined. So I’m a I’m a very normally very strong woman and so everyone said to me that if if well not to me, but w we had a we had a group WhatsApp chat so and I was added to it later and everyone said in that that if anyone can get through this, Kylie can. Yeah. So you know when you’re told you’ve had a stroke, you wake up with all the deficits and everything. Are you like how do you take it? I woke up, couldn’t use my left side. I I did not for one minute. It did not cross my mind like for one minute that this is not a good thing. Like I mean, clearly I wasn’t able to move, etcetera. But it never kinda went a lifesaver, I’m fucked. Like I never had that happen. Me as well. yeah. I I’d I’ve never thought that. I don’t know whether I even thought that It was n like you said, that was not a good thing. I just put one foot in front of the other and or not literally, but the Yeah. Metaphorically. Yeah. Metaphorically. so one foot in front of the other and just got on with it. Yeah. Nicole, like you come across in your work, you come across a lot of different versions of patience, right? Like you get people who might just be by design more negative to a bad experience and then people that are half class full to a bad experience. Just from a professional perspective, what’s the difference like when you’re trying to rehabilitate somebody that has kind of that different mindset? From perhaps what Kylie and I described. Yeah, I mean I’m probably in the last half full camp as well. So as an OT, I suppose we always meet people where they’re at. because everyone is a combination of their past experiences, aren’t they? So and cultural things, like there’s a very significant cultural differences in how people respond to pain or disability and expectations of kind of family and I suppose cultural expectations in Australia are even about you know, what what what should be publicly available. So, you know, from an expectations point of view, I think a lot of it is based on, you know, previous experience. So as a therapist, we’re obviously there to support, you know, emotional well being, physical well being, and try and find the things for people that connect with them. So meaningful, like OTs are our absolute core is meaningful occupation. So how do we find something that’s meaningful to that person that we think is going to get them from kind of, you know, here to there and it’s gonna be very different different motivators, you know. Kylie is probably, you know, very self motivated as described. Sometimes it’s about people really have a d strong desire to get back to work, or people have a really strong family structure that they want to be able to get back to do something with their family. So finding the way or the thing hopefully that’s going to motivate them. But we certainly work with people who you know, have a high level of distress from what’s happened to them and and on an ongoing basis. One of the things I’ve got a little quote on my desk that you can’t see here, but it says, I’m still me, just a different version of me. And it’s what someone one of my clients told me recently who has MS. and often we find need to find the new version of someone. and the new meaning for someone if that, you know, needs to happen. So that’s our great challenge, I suppose. That’s a big job, especially very early on when identity is so tied up into who they were literally days ago. You know, like a week ago. The mobile person, the working person, the money making person, the father, the mother, the whatever. Finding Meaning in Recovery And then, you know, you’re dealing with a physical crisis, the existential crisis, the identity crisis, like you’re dealing with it all in the one moment, and you’re trying to get them to sort of see, well, you know, you’re still you and how we’re gonna move forward with the still you person, like we’re still gonna move forward with that person. And then later does come an adjustment of what that you looks like. did for me like it’s a massive adjustment into what me looks like. But my identity wasn’t so much tied up in a one label specifically, although, you know, I s I was the person who felt like they needed to be the main breadwinner, you know, that you know ran a business that did all these things. I I had a big strong identity. But I think one of the things this is going to sound weird or might even sound logical depending on like w who you are and why you’re listening to this podcast. But for me, the fact that my brain went offline was a really good thing because it and that allowed my emotional side to come to the fore. Like it really enabled me to see things with a different intelligence, you know, and access part of me that my emotional intelligence perhaps that I hadn’t that I perhaps suppressed previously, you know, and just battled through things. And that kind of allowed my identity to come with me, it allowed me to leave some stuff behind and allowed me to bring into my identity this emotional side of me, you know, which who cried, who got excited about new and different opportunities, you know, that my head didn’t convince me out of. You know, so there was a lot of silver linings that I didn’t I wasn’t able to iterate back then. I wouldn’t have been able to tell you that it was a silver lining. But now and a few years later, after it all happened, I was definitely able to talk about those silver linings. Kylie Do you you’re fourteen months or so out, right? So maybe you’re not there yet, I don’t know. But are there some silver and I know a hundred percent Nicole was one of those silver linings, I get it. but do you see some silver linings in this whole saga? Yep. I do. my relationship with my daughter got stronger. Yep. So that was all s that was definitely a silver lining. and you know, I I’m was very grateful before, but it cemented how g how grateful I am for my circle of friends. Yeah. Kylie’s friends were amazing. Yeah. Your friends were amazing. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Big family still in Australia is is there a big family in Australia, Kylie? Not not a big one, but my mum and dad are still still alive. So they’re they’re in Melbourne. and my sister is in on the Gold Coast and my brother is in Melbourne as well. Yeah. And my and my son is in Adelaide. Okay. So you still have some family here, but then you were able to create a community in the years before the stroke in Bulgaria. Yeah. you you were doing it a little bit tough after the stroke. Yeah. Correct. Yep. So that’s spot on. Did you Nicole tag team with some of those people as well? Yeah, so Kylie’s friends were beautiful and they were looking after me too. So When I was in Bulgaria, they were looking after me, you know, giving me dinner and what have you, and kind of giving me emotional support as well. And I think they were grateful that I was there from a skills point of view, like they were doing a beautiful job of supporting Kylie emotionally. But and I did kind of train them up a little bit in in some rehab as well, you know, how to help with approaching from the right and how to communicate and also just even doing some activities. Kylie and I had the balloon and we were tapping it back and forward to each other for strengthening up the right arm. And then we’d play some kind of word games as we were doing that for some speech therapy. So I was educating her friends around that kind of stuff. But the other thing, Kylie, that you and I have spoken about is, you know, after the stroke is knowing what’s important and how to let some sh shit go that would have been, you know, annoying or you know. focus on something and now it’s just you you just know it’s just not important. Yeah. Being able to just let crap go. Correct correct. and the other silver lining is that I got engaged. Yes. Did he propose soon after? Yes, in the in the rehab hospital. what a romantic Yeah. But he but he said that he’d already decided before the stroke that he wanted to marry be ma be married to me. So he just hadn’t got around to asking me yet. Yeah, fair enough. That stroke has a way of interrupting people’s plans and the things that they think they’re gonna do. so Nicole you normally treat your patients. They get to a stage. Usually they’re a lot better than they were when they first met you. And part of what you do is you send them off into the big wide world like a kid. I’ve grown you know, I’ve raised them, you know, like they know how to comb their hair now. And you kinda send them off and it’s kind of bittersweet, I imagine, but also a very important part that the people who you’re helping get better actually go off into the world on their own. And stop needing to be supported by you. I know there’s some people who need more support and that continues for longer and some people who don’t get enough and it and it’s never enough. But what’s it like knowing the job is not done, but you still have to leave and go home? that was heartache. I mean, Kylie and I both balled our lies out. it was a long flight home. Yeah. Yeah, it was a long flight home. with lots of reflections. I suppose the good thing at that point was Kylie was easily able to speak on the phone or message each other. So and also, you know, I think at that stage maybe I got to see the brain scan and I was just like, my god, how have you even survived this? ‘Cause I think was it about a seven centimeter bleed, Kylie? Yep. seven and a half. Yeah. To be precise. It truly felt like a a miracle. And again, full kudos to the surgeons in Bulgaria, truly, for that acute care. Because I think Kylie, I feel like you were in surgery in about within about two hours or something after the stroke, which is phenomenal. And, you know, your friends really saved your life. taking you straight to the hospital and prevented like, you know, more serious outcomes from the stroke. So yeah, so for me, I was proud of myself as well. and I, you know, I like to live my life by thinking I can look myself in the mirror. And I felt like I can really I’ve got a tear, really look myself in the mirror. Yeah. Doing the right thing. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. You came to the need of somebody who was in need and needed specifically not only your love and support as a friend, but also your skills. Like you had the complete package for them at that time. How long did you end up staying in total? Was I ra away about just under two weeks probably with the flights and everything like that? So yeah. so yeah, leaving was leaving was horrible. But the goal of being able to go to the toilet was met. and also just the skills for, you know, skilled up a few other people and Kylie, you know, had her good networks. I also went out to Kylie’s property out in the village to have a look at any home modifications. So that was another kind of OT type role that that was done. and she’s got an amazing property out there, but it is kind of needs a bit of love and so that was also just reassuring her partner too, like reassuring Guido that no, look, Kylie’s got this. There were a few times where it was like, Nicole, I don’t want her to do this. Like I’m like Guido, she’s safe. She can do it. She’s got sitting balance. She’s okay to sit over the side of the bed. She can wiggle sideways. But he was anxious. And so again, part of my job was to reassure him to make sure that he let her do things. and didn’t step in too quickly. And so as an O T, we’re all used to like sitting on our hands and taking time and letting people struggle a bit. And it was hard for him to let Kylie struggle. So to just encourage him to let her struggle a bit so that she could do it herself and just wait. Just take the time, especially with communication. so yeah, I I kind of obviously knew there was a lot more rehab to be done, but I also had seen Kylie’s determination and that, you know, she kind of knew what to do. and and so that was I I was grateful again for that. Kylie, what was it like when your friend had to leave? I was heartbroken. The Impact of Caregiving I felt like she was a lifeline and I felt like that that had been cut because obviously she speaks English and obviously like Obviously we have a really good relationship. and I felt like I was in a like how do I describe it? In a in a sea of not n of people not understanding. So yeah, not my friends, but the hospital staff, basically. So not the not the physios. Like Nicole said, the physios were exceptional. but, you know, just the hospital staff. Yeah, just generally speaking. So did you feel like she had put you on the right path? Were you more confident with kind of where she left you as opposed to where you guys started and was that enough to kind of give you the foundation for what you needed to take responsibility for when she left? Definitely. yeah, definitely. Yeah. Man, w what a kind of interesting whole situation. You know, if this was fifty years ago, there’s no way anyone’s going anywhere to help anyone with anything. you know, like your hospital s experience in country like Bulgaria after what they’ve been through would have been completely different. You know, your s the chance of surviving telling your story is probably s you know, very much decreased. I know this is gonna sound weird, but like it’s never been a better time to have a stroke in in most of the world. Like let’s face it. the the possibilities are just endless. I’m a miracle from all the medical professionals that put all their time and effort in. I am eternally grateful to my occupational therapists and physios and surgeons and people who invent X ray machines and people who make C T scanners and The plastic bottles where drips go in, like every single thing is just an an absolute miracle of God or medicine or science or I don’t care what, like whatever you want to call it. And it just to me, it you know, here’s a really terrible situation and here and and but look at all the amazing things that came out of it. Somebody from the other side of the planet to be able to come over and intervene in that way, train people up. Like, man, it’s the Perfect like feel good story, you know. Everything’s going okay, things turn shit, and then something good comes out of it and yeah hopefully there’s more good to come, you know. Like, man, it’s just an amazing experience. I just feel really privileged to be able to hear it and share it further. No, not not not me, personally. but now that you say that I will s I will think about it now. the most thing that that Nicole and I reflect on is, you know, like like we’ve already said, how good was that my friends got me to the hospital quickly? How good was the the surgeons the surgeons because it could have all gone wrong. or gone gone a different way. so that’s the stuff we reflect on more. and just just like my amazing recovery. Reflections on Recovery and Gratitude Because I recovered so quickly and so well, like I’ve thrown everyone away here. So so my new my neurologist, my my physios, ever everyone here is like well, back then was like really surprised. So we it’s when I first walked into the n neurologist, she said, like, wow, No one expected you to recover that quickly from such a severe stroke. Yeah. That’s such a good outcome. I like to I like to think that those things wouldn’t have been possible without your most amazing superhero friend Nicole. Nicole, your final thing I’d like to kind of run by you is that your whole career you’re working towards making things better. Yep. Like for people who are going through all really difficult times. have you had you ever dealt with a family member who needed your intervention or family friend or someone like that that needed an intervention with your specific skills before this? man. yes. So when I was quite a young therapist, probably in my early twenties, my dad told me that his One of his like great aunts or cousins elderly relative had had a stroke and she was in hospital and I didn’t really know her. Like she wasn’t someone in the family that I I had knew had known. And I said to Dad, I’ll go and visit her in hospital. And and so I went to the hospital and I found out she was in this room and I walk into the room and there were four people. And I see this gorgeous little old lady who is all crumpled in her chair and squashed and nearly falling out. And I I just walked in and I was horrified. And I just walked straight over to her. And I just said, look, can I help get you more comfortable, get you into a better position? And then I realized it was it was my own relative. and I said to her, I’m Nicole, I’m John’s daughter. you know, dad’s asked me to come and see you. And and she just said the most cutest thing ever. She said, when you walked into the room. You just look so lovely and I hoped you were here to see me, but I I wouldn’t have known what I could have done to deserve that or something something dead cute. anyway, she’d had a very dense stroke and they were basically saying that she wasn’t a candidate for rehab and that she should go straight to a nursing home. And her daughter was a nurse. And she said, Nope, Mum’s not going to a nursing home and she ended up taking her home and I used to go every night after work and do rehab with her. she ended up being able to walk quite with a pretty awkward gait and a and a stick. but she got back to, yeah, walking and living at home and I just again always think that if she didn’t have her daughter, the nurse and myself, she probably would have ended up not not walking. Yeah, being in a nursing home. It’s not that quality of life. So there’s people who definitely go through that. And what I love about you sharing that part of the story is there’s people listening and they’re paying attention and maybe they haven’t been given the amount of therapy that they feel they deserve or need. And maybe that’s going to trigger people to go, you know what, stuff this, I’m gonna find a way to get more therapy, I’m gonna ask. I’m gonna hassle some people, I’m gonna be a pain in the butt to some people, I’m gonna do more. for myself to get me further. I love that you shared that part of the story. That’s kind of the unique experience that a that a a seasoned occupational therapist can kind of impart on us who are early on in the recovery about like how you need to advocate for somebody or yourself for more physical therapy. And and even if you Can’t access that people listening and watching YouTube channels. Go to YouTube. There are a ton of awesome therapists on YouTube showing people how to do exercises at home. Yeah. And I mean, I just took some really basic things. We s I, you know, stole some things out of Kylie’s flat to take in. And Guido’s son gave me some toys and we use those like stacking things to, you know, do rehab with Kylie’s hand. I took some pegs from her house and we made an activity of pegging up the curtains to do shoulder and arm rehab. So you can often do a lot without, yo

Marijn Bergsma joins Greg and JP to talk about growing up as a third culture kid, raising gifted children, and feeling the familiar pull back toward international life. The conversation moves through childhood in the United States and Japan, returning “home” to the Netherlands, parenting highly capable kids who do not always fit neatly into school systems, and the possibility of becoming an international educator later in life. It is a thoughtful, funny, and very human conversation about family, restlessness, learning, burnout, and why overseas life has a way of turning ordinary years into unforgettable chapters.The Rubiks Cube Link to learn Rubik's Cube-more information-The International Teacher Podcast is a bi-weekly discussion with experts in international education. New Teachers, burned out local teachers, local School Leaders, International school Leadership, current Overseas Teachers, and everyone interested in international schools can benefit from hearing stories and advice about living and teaching overseas.Additional Gems Related to Our Show:Greg's Favorite Video From Living Overseas - ⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UQWKBwzF-hw⁠Signup to be our guest  ⁠https://calendly.com/itpexpat/itp-interview?month=2025-01⁠Our Website⁠ -  ⁠https://www.itpexpat.com/⁠Our FaceBook Group - ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/itpexpat⁠⁠JPMint Consulting Website  - ⁠https://www.jpmintconsulting.com/⁠Hannah's Personal IG - https://www.instagram.com/thatexpatfamily?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==Greg's Personal YouTube Channel: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLs1B3Wc0wm6DR_99OS5SyzvuzENc-bBdO⁠Books (on Amazon) By Gregory Lemoine:Stay for the Show (2026) | Greg's first Childrens Picture Book⁠International Teacher Guide: Finding the "Right Fit" 2nd Edition (2025)⁠ | by Gregory Lemoine M.Ed.⁠⁠"International Teaching: The Best-kept Secret in Education"⁠⁠ | by Gregory Lemoine M.Ed.Apps by Greg:https://apps.apple.com/app/6755244840  1. Who's That? Name & Face Trainer  Nov 21, 2025https://apps.apple.com/app/6756509803   2. Facetag | Memory Trainer   Dec 16, 2025Chapters(00:00) Introduction and Name Origins(01:31) Marijn's International Journey(04:28) The Itch to Travel and Family Dynamics(07:21) Navigating Education for Gifted Children(09:57) Cultural Differences and Family Adventures(13:09) The Challenges of School Systems(15:59) The Importance of Parental Involvement(18:59) Creating Chapters in Life Through Travel(22:06) Engaging Gifted Children in Learning(25:07) The Process of Learning and Curiosity(34:39) The Power of Learning Together(37:06) Navigating the Teaching Journey(39:08) Embracing Change and New Challenges(44:14) The Importance of Connection in Teaching(49:04) Overcoming Immigration Challenges(56:08) Finding a Sense of Home Abroad

Dr. Marilee Adams shows you how to ask the questions that drive improvement and innovation. — YOU'LL LEARN — 1) How your inner questions shape your decisions and behavior 2) Why brainstorming often falls short–and what to do instead 3) The hidden assumptions that limit your thinking and creativity Subscribe or visit AwesomeAtYourJob.com/ep1171 for clickable versions of the links below. — ABOUT MARILEE — Marilee Adams, PhD, award-winning author, is a pioneer in inquiry-based coaching, leadership, and organizational culture. The originator of the Question Thinking methodologies, she is CEO and founder of the Inquiry Institute and a consultant for organizations large and small. Dr. Adams is an affiliate instructor for Weatherhead's Executive Education Program at Case Western Reserve University and for ten years was an adjunct professor in the Key Executive Leadership Program at American University.• Book: Change Your Questions, Change Your Life, Fifth Edition: 14 Powerful Tools for Leadership, Coaching, and Results• Book: The Art of the Question: A Guide to Short-Term Question-Centered Therapy (Wiley Series in Couples and Family Dynamics and Treatment)• Email: marilee.adams@inquiryinstitute.com• Website: InquiryInstitute.com• Tool: Choice map— RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW — • Book: How to Tell a Story: The Essential Guide to Memorable Storytelling from The Moth by The Moth, Meg Bowles, Catherine Burns, Jenifer Hixson, Sarah Austin Jenness, Kate Tellers, Chenjerai Kumanyika, Padma Lakshmi• Book: The Science of Storytelling: Why Stories Make Us Human and How to Tell Them Better by Will Storr— THANK YOU SPONSORS! — • Shopify. Sign up for your free trial at Shopify.com/awesomepod• Monarch. Get 50% off your first year with code AWESOME at Monarch.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Marriage doesn't just bring two people together. It also brings together different families, expectations, traditions, and experiences. Today we're talking honestly about some of the most common challenges that come with in-law relationships, from feeling the weight of comparison to navigating boundaries and unmet expectations. While we can't solve every complicated family dynamic, we hope this conversation reminds you that your feelings are valid, you're not alone, and you and your partner can work together to build the family culture you want.Key Topics Covered:Why comparison between grandparents is natural and how to appreciate different ways of showing loveHow healthy boundaries protect relationships instead of damaging themWays couples can stay united when navigating difficult family dynamicsPractical ideas for handling extended visits, grandparent favoritism, and differing expectationsWhy speaking up gives family members the opportunity to make positive changesLINKS AND RESOURCES:LMNT: Free Sample Pack with purchase:  drinkLMNT.com/HERSELF Join us at Tricky Foods in Madison, WI on Thursday, July 30th for Moms' Night Out! Learn more and get your ticket here: https://www.herselfpodcast.com/shop/p/herself-moms-night-out-1 Let's connect!HERSELF PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/herselfpodcastHERSELF INSTAGRAM: http://instagram.com/herselfpodcastMEET AMY: http://instagram.com/ameskieferMEET ABBY: http://instagram.com/abbyrosegreenThis episode was brought to you by the Pivot Ball Change Network.

MAFS 20 Ep 1 Recap: A Perfect Match Podcast A new era kicks off as Aysha Welch and Jason Reed break down the premiere of Married at First Sight season 20. With three couples headed to the altar and fresh experts on the scene, this Peacock launch brings big personalities, unexpected connections, and a spotlight on accountability. From a surprise bachelor party call to a cliffhanger that leaves everyone guessing, this season promises plenty to talk about. Aysha and Jason Reed dig into each new match, examining how the show's revamped format speeds past old traditions like dress shopping and cuts right to the drama. They dissect the focus on “fixer-upper” husbands, debates about personal habits, and the new experts' approach to matching. The episode also covers group dynamics at bachelor and bachelorette parties, the evolving place of family, and a memorable twist when Marissa recognizes her groom at the altar. Strategies and red flags come to the surface quickly, giving fans a slate of couples whose compatibility, and commitment, are immediately in question. Key moments discussed include: Aysha and Jason Reed reacting to the new experts and the end of the Pastor Cal era, sizing up how Paul and Lisa select matches The group's take on Felipe's nightlife lifestyle and what it signals about casting for drama over genuine readiness for marriage The on-air breakup call, where Adam must end things with a situationship in front of Paul, highlighting the push for accountability A look at the men's strong personalities dominating early screen time, and concerns about the women's stories getting enough spotlight The wedding cliffhanger as Marissa instantly recognizes Adam at the altar, with speculation on what this prior connection means for their marriage As season 20 begins, will these new experts' bold pairings and tighter episode rhythms pay off, or is the season already stacked against long-term love? With couples already questioning each other's choices, and the audience left wondering about past connections, there's plenty to unravel from the very first episode. Catch the full premiere recap for a detailed breakdown of matches, personalities, and the reality TV chaos as Married at First Sight heads into uncharted territory. 0:00 Perfect Match coverage of Married At First Sight Season 20 Starts 6:21 Peacock and Format Changes 12:24 New Experts, New Approach 17:09 Casting Fixer Wives for Men 25:12 Bachelor Party Personalities Clash 35:25 Tori's Wedding Day Nerves 46:10 Wedding Ceremony Format Shifts 54:58 Mecca and Bellajolie Matched 1:03:01 Family Dynamics and Bold Introductions 1:16:41 Cheek Kiss and “Call Me Maybe” 1:23:02 Adam Forced to Call Off Date 1:33:40 Marissa Recognizes Adam at Altar Married at First Sight is a reality show where professional matchmakers help individuals find their perfect match. The catch? They don't see their forever-and-always until they walk down the aisle and say “I do!” Would you get married without ever laying eyes on your partner? Do you think these marriages will last? Catch up with us on Twitter and let us know how you liked this podcast (@RobHasAPodcast)! LISTEN: Subscribe to the Perfect Match RHAPUp podcast feed by visiting https://robhasawebsite.com/feed/mafs WATCH: Watch and subscribe to the podcast on YouTube SUPPORT: Become a RHAP Patron for bonus content, access to Facebook and Discord groups plus more great perks! Previously on the Love at First Sight Feed: Love at First Sight Recap Archives

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