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319. Cuffy and the Power of Letting Go In this episode of Creative Chats, Mike Brennan shares a personal story about bowling, his playful alter ego "Cuffy," and the surprising power of loosening control. What begins as a funny family memory becomes a deeper reflection on perfectionism, creativity, and the freedom that comes from showing up with more joy and less pressure.Mike explains how trying too hard often creates tension, frustration, and disappointing results—whether in bowling, pickleball, drawing, or creative work. He encourages listeners to stop white-knuckling their way through life, embrace imperfection, and make room for fun as part of the process, not just the reward at the end.He also reflects on how creativity has helped him reconnect with himself and how his book, Make Fun a Habit, explores this same idea through short stories, reflections, and exercises. In this episode, you'll hear: The story behind Mike's alter ego, Cuffy Why trying to control too much can backfire How silliness can reduce pressure and improve performance A reminder that creativity should feel alive, not just productive How fun can be a practice, not a prize Key takeaways: Perfectionism can disconnect you from joy and creativity Loosening up can create better results and a better experience You don't have to compare your beginning to someone else's middle Creativity is a personal resource for problem-solving, expression, and life Mentioned in this episode: Mike Brennan's book: Make Fun a Habit Website: mikebrennan.me About the host Mike Brennan is a creative guide who helps people reconnect with themselves through creativity. His work encourages listeners to live more colorfully, embrace their creative voice, and build a daily creative habit. Closing thought If you've been feeling stuck, tense, or overly serious in your creative life, this episode invites you to try something different, have some fun, and see what changes.

Dr. Cassidy Freitas grew up watching her mom — a Hispanic judge who fought her way into white male spaces with no margin for error — come home carrying that same no-error version of herself. Her dad pushed straight A's as the path to financial safety. She absorbed all of it. And then she became a mom. She had a plan. A written, formatted, shared-with-her-doctor birth plan. When it fell apart in the operating room — her daughter already here, her husband saying "look at her," and Cassidy turning her face away — the drive that had gotten her through everything else had nothing to offer her. Dr. Cassidy is a therapist and the author of Mom Needs a Moment. In this conversation with Dr. Becky, she traces how perfectionism forms in childhood as a survival strategy, why it works right up until you have a baby, and what it actually looks like to loosen the grip without losing your edge. There's a phrase she comes back to: context is the bridge to compassion. You can't have compassion for the way perfectionism shows up in you as a mom if you don't understand where it came from. * Looking for more support navigating pregnancy, postpartum, and life with a new baby? Good Inside Baby gives you practical tools, scripts, and expert guidance for the moments that can feel most overwhelming in early parenthood. Thank you to our partners for making this episode possible: Ole Henriksen: Use the code DRBECKY30 for 30% off the Banana Bright+ Eye Crème Airbnb: Host your home or book your next stay on Airbnb Coterie: Get 20% off with the code GOODINSIDEBABY20 Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Send us Fan MailBrooke Taylor looked successful from the outside. But behind the polished image was alcohol, pressure, and the exhausting feeling that nothing ever felt like enough. In this conversation, she shares what it was like to get sober before she felt ready — and why early sobriety felt more like punishment than freedom.They also talk about the exhausting work of keeping up appearances, what it took to finally stop, and why getting sober doesn't always end the search for relief, approval, or feeling like enough.Brooke is the author of Healing the Success Wound (Hachette, May 2026), which explores what happens when we tie our worth to what we accomplish instead of who we are.Connect with Brooke:Website: Brooke Taylor CoachingInstagram: @brookevtaylorTikTok: @brooketaylorcareercoachLinkedIn: Brooke TaylorSupport the show

You repack the bag after someone else packed it. You reread the email five times before you send it. Or you avoid the thing that matters most to you entirely, and call it not having the time.These look like three different problems. They're the same one.It's the Control Loop: the nervous system reflex that reaches for control any time it perceives a threat to your security or your sense of being good enough. It shows up as overfunctioning, perfectionism, and underfunctioning, and once you see it, you cannot unsee it.If you've ever wondered why you can't stop managing everything, or why the thing you most want to do is the thing you keep avoiding, this is the episode that explains it.What You'll LearnWhy your nervous system reaches for control even when the threat isn't realThe two types of perceived threats that trigger the loopWhy overfunctioning is a survival strategyWhy underfunctioning and avoidance are perfectionism running in reverseThe difference between values-driven and fear-driven behavior--

In this episode I reflect on a recent trip to Connecticut with my mom. I share my ongoing journey of letting go of perfectionism and embracing the person God created me to be. We talk about the importance of being kind to ourselves, keeping promises to ourselves, and trusting that we do not have to carry every burden alone.I also share a story about meeting a guy at a coffee shop and how that unexpected interaction sparked thoughts about dating, timing, vulnerability, and staying open to new possibilities while remaining grounded in self-worth.This episode is a reminder that life is not meant to be rushed, perfected, or wished away. Whether you are navigating personal growth, relationships, anxiety, or uncertainty about the future, I hope this conversation encourages you to slow down and appreciate the season you are in right now.Fan Mail HereSupport the show

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What if perfectionism isn’t something we need to overcome—but something we need to understand differently? In this episode of Tend HER Wild, we explore perfectionism through a new lens. Rather than viewing it as a flaw to fix, we discuss the difference between healthy striving and the forms of perfectionism that keep us disconnected from our authentic selves. We share our own stories of perfectionism, examine how culture shapes our expectations, and explore why perfectionism is often less about achievement and more about managing anxiety and seeking safety.  In todays episode we draw on the work of Brené Brown, Clarissa Pinkola Estés, and Marion Woodman, and we unpack: The difference between adaptive and maladaptive perfectionism Why high standards aren’t the problem The role of the inner critic How perfectionism impacts women, creativity, and leadership The connection between perfectionism, people-pleasing, anxiety, and depression Why socially prescribed perfectionism may be the most harmful form How perfectionism can keep us from creating the life we’re longing for As Clarissa Pinkola Estés reminds us, we don’t need perfect strength—we need adequate strength to be ourselves. Sometimes 75% is enough. A flower doesn’t need to be fully open to be blooming. If you’ve been feeling disconnected from yourself, navigating burnout or grief, constantly over-performing, or longing for a more authentic and intuitive life, this conversation is for you. Resources Mentioned Wisdom Wednesday: Perfectionism https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W6mh3lK4zxc Other Episodes You Might Like:  Episode 32: Perfectionism (Referenced in today’s conversation) Episode 100: The Upper Limit: Living in Your Full Potential  Episode 161: Intergenerational Trauma Episode 167: Dr. Jackie Kamradt: Being a Mom is the Best Thing for my OCD Keep Her Wild: A Rewilding Experience for Women If this episode resonated with you, consider joining our live online Keep Her Wild course this July. Together we’ll explore intuition, authenticity, self-trust, and reconnecting with the deeper wisdom that already lives within you. Registration and details: https://dryogamomma.com/keepherwild/ Today's Episode sponsored by: Kate Moreland Coaching (https://www.katemorelandcoaching.com/) Dr Yoga Momma (https://dryogamomma.com/) Heartland Yoga (https://heartlandyoga.com/) Want to do coaching work with Kate or mind-body psychotherapy with Dr. Betsy?  Kate Moreland Coaching (https://www.katemorelandcoaching.com/) Dr Yoga Momma (https://dryogamomma.com/) Want to go on retreat? Want to join Betsy in Mexico in February May 20-27, 2027 on retreat?  This beautiful retreat center in the nourishing haven of Playa Chacala on the Pacific Ocean will the home for a week of deep self-care.  Teaching retreat is one of Betsy's favorite jobs as it gives her a chance to move into deeper realms with people over an extended period of time using the tools of yoga, meditation, hypnosis, energy work, and self-inquiry.  People typically observe deep shifts and quantum leaps forward on such retreats.   All the details here! Connect With Us Follow along and continue the conversation: Tend HER Wild Podcast Instagram: @tendherwild Instagram: @katemorelandcoaching If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a woman who may need this conversation today.  Source

In this episode, I'm joined by Nicole Kalil for a powerful and practical conversation about confidence. Nicole has spent years studying, researching, and teaching confidence, and she breaks it down in such a grounded way. Instead of seeing confidence as something we fake, perform, or get from the outside world, Nicole defines confidence as firm and bold trust in self. We talk about how confidence is something many of us are born with, but begin to lose as we absorb expectations, criticism, people-pleasing, perfectionism, comparison, and what Nicole calls "head trash." She shares the five confidence builders that help us rebuild trust with ourselves, including taking action, moving through fear and failure, giving ourselves grace, choosing confidence, and building internal trust one step at a time. This conversation is such a beautiful reminder that confidence is not about looking perfect or never feeling afraid. It is about knowing who you are, owning who you are not, and choosing to trust yourself as you take the next right step. Key Takeaways Confidence is not about looking confident. It is about building firm and bold trust in yourself Many of us are born trusting ourselves, but life, expectations, criticism, and social conditioning can disconnect us from that trust Confidence is built through action, especially small, consistent steps toward what matters most Failure, fear, mistakes, and doubt can build deeper confidence when we learn to move through them instead of avoid them Giving yourself grace and practicing self-compassion are essential parts of building confidence Confidence is a choice we can practice moment by moment until the feeling begins to catch up "Head trash" is the unkind and often untrue inner dialogue that chips away at our self-trust Perfectionism, comparison, overthinking, and seeking confidence externally can derail confidence Keeping commitments to yourself helps build internal trust Real confidence comes from knowing who you are, owning who you are not, and embracing all of it Resources from this Episode: Nicole Kalil's WebsiteNicole's Podcast, This Is Woman's Work MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Adult Chair Collective https://www.michellechalfant.com/collective  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

What if the very thing you are doing to protect your relationships is actually keeping you from the connection you deeply desire?In this episode, Kim Gross explores how perfectionism becomes a prison in relationships. When we are afraid of being judged, criticized, rejected, or misunderstood, we may begin to perform, edit ourselves, suppress our needs, and avoid saying what we truly think or feel. The inner controller convinces us that if we can just be easy enough, agreeable enough, strong enough, or perfect enough, we will be safe and loved.But the cost is loneliness.Kim shares personal reflections on motherhood, people-pleasing, empty nesting, and the ache of wanting to be seen as good, loving, and perfect in the eyes of the people we care about most. She explains how people-pleasing and perfectionism can create pseudo-connection while quietly disconnecting us from ourselves.This episode is an invitation to stop abandoning yourself in order to be chosen by others. Through compassion, loving kindness, and small moments of honesty, we can begin to unmask from perfectionism and experience the true connection we have been longing for.

Why do so many of us overthink, procrastinate, or freeze—even when we really want to do something? You want to start, post, pitch, write, apply, launch—or even just send the email—but somehow you keep overthinking, tweaking, delaying, or waiting until you feel “ready.” At what point does having high standards turn into perfectionism paralysis?Kia Abrera is a globally certified neuroplastician, communication strategist, and founder of Brave Creatives. Through brain science, storytelling, andyears of helping people navigate fear, confidence, and visibility, she helps people stop overthinking themselves into paralysis and start showing up—even before everything feels perfect.For any collaboration, brand partnership, and campaign run inquiries, e-mail us at info@thepodnetwork.com.

This is one of those conversations Rebecca keeps sending people back to — and for good reason. First recorded in March 2024, this discussion with Colice Sanders on perfectionism and activism in the yoga space holds up in every way that matters, and has only gotten more relevant since. Colice brings serious precision to the conversation — defining terms, naming the ways white supremacy culture shows up in yoga and social justice spaces, and making a clear-eyed case for why awareness without focused action is where we keep missing the mark. They also get into how perfectionism gets weaponized to police each other in yoga and activist communities, the difference between critique worth sitting with and shame designed to silence, and how moral superiority quietly infiltrates even the most well-intentioned spaces. An updated conversation with Colice is coming in July — things have shifted enough since 2024 that it was time. Start here first.RESOURCES:Working In Yoga WebsiteWorking In Yoga NewsletterThe Back RoomInside Yoga MagazineColice's WebsiteWhite Supremacy Culture website

We discuss how perfectionism is driven not by high standards but by anxiety—and how embracing imperfection is a great way to overcome it. We also share an important reminder about hearing health and why it matters so much for our happiness and wellbeing. Resources & links related to this episode: Cass Aarssen—Clutterbug Life in Five Senses (Amazon, Bookshop)  Check out the Don't Break the Chain Habit Tracker in The Happiness Project Shop Elizabeth: Rewilding by Jane Green (Amazon, Bookshop)  Gretchen: The Diary of Virginia Wolfe volume 1 (Amazon, Bookshop)  Get in touch: podcast@gretchenrubin.com Visit Gretchen's website to learn more about Gretchen's best-selling books, products from The Happiness Project Collection, and the Happier app. Find the transcript for this episode on the episode details page in the Apple Podcasts app.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

390: This special Mental Health Compilation brings together highlights from conversations with Joe Hudson, Maggie Nick, Gabby Reece, and Dr. Nicole LePera. Through these powerful discussions, we explore emotional regulation, resilience, nervous system health, reparenting the inner child, and the patterns that shape our relationships, behaviors, and sense of self. We discuss practical tools for managing stress and overwhelm, breaking generational cycles, building emotional awareness, and creating healthier habits that support long-term mental well-being. Whether you're looking to better understand yourself or navigate life's challenges with more confidence and clarity, this episode offers some of the most impactful mental health insights we've shared on the podcast. → Leave Us A Voice Message!  Topics Discussed: → Emotional regulation and nervous system health → Why we suppress emotions and how it impacts our well-being → Breaking generational patterns and cycles → The "good kid" mindset, perfectionism, and people-pleasing → Parenting, shame, and emotional resilience → Reparenting your inner child → How childhood experiences shape adult relationships → Building self-awareness and emotional intelligence → Vulnerability, resilience, and personal growth → Managing stress, overwhelm, and emotional triggers → Identity, achievement, and self-worth → Healing old wounds and creating lasting change Sponsored By:  → OGEE | Thanks to today's sponsor, Ogee: A higher standard for beauty. Go to https://ogee.com/BEWELL and use code BEWELL to get 20% off certified organic makeup that performs like luxury. → Be Well By Kelly Protein Powder & Essentials | Get $10 off your order with PODCAST10 at https://bewellbykelly.com. → Branch Basics | First-time customers can save 15% on a Starter Kit with code BEWELLPODCAST at branchbasics.com/BEWELLPODCAST.  → Kosterina | You can shop all my favorites at https://www.kosterina.com/bewell and use code KELLY for 15% off your first order. → Shop minnow's new apré-ski capsule collection at https://shopminnow.com and enter code MEETMINNOW15 at checkout to receive 15% off your first order. Timestamps:  → 00:00:00 - Introduction → 00:01:38 - Joe Hudson: Why We Suppress Emotions → 00:06:12 - Anger, Stress & Emotional Expression → 00:12:08 - Emotional Health, Relationships + Connection → 00:18:45 - Parenting, Vulnerability & Nervous System Regulation → 00:20:23 - Maggie Nick: The "Good Kid" Identity → 00:30:48 - Perfectionism, People-Pleasing + Shame → 00:35:02 - Breaking Generational Patterns → 00:39:14 - Why Children Internalize Criticism → 00:42:24 - Gabrielle Reece: Resilience, Adversity + Growth → 00:47:18 - Identity Beyond Achievement → 00:52:04 - Hypervigilance, Childhood Experiences + Relationships → 00:56:42 - Success, Balance + Life Priorities → 01:00:26 - Dr. Nicole LePera: Reparenting The Inner Child → 01:04:18 - Childhood Conditioning & Survival Patterns → 01:08:12 - People-Pleasing, Attachment + Emotional Triggers → 01:12:35 - Healing Old Wounds & Creating Lasting Change → 01:16:28 - Final ThoughtsFurther Listening:  → Repressed Emotions, Anxiety + Why Self-Improvement Doesn't Exist | Joe Hudson → Stop Hustling for Worth, Heal People-Pleasing, + Feel Enough | Maggie Nick → Gabby Reece on Wellness, Marriage, Motherhood & Mental Strength → Reparenting Your Inner Child, Self-Abandonment + Nervous System Healing | Dr. Nicole LePera Check Out: Joe Hudson:  → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joehudson_aoa?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw== → http://artofaccomplishment.com Maggie Nick:  → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maggiewithperspectacles/reels/ → TikTok:  → New Book:  Gabby Rece:  → https://gabriellereece.com/ → Instagram Dr. Nicole LePera → Website: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/ → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist → New Book: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/books/reparenting-the-inner-child/ Dr. Nicole LePera → Website: https://theholisticpsychologist.com/ → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.holistic.psychologist → New Book: Reparenting The Inner Child Check Out Kelly: → Instagram → Youtube → Facebook

379: Do you know there are actually low-carb potatoes?Do you avoid carbs because of gut issues like SIBO, IBS, or blood sugar spikes, and wish you could incorporate them back into your diet? Well, today I have Phoebe Lapine on the show, and she shares ways we can still enjoy carbs in the right way. It all comes down to preparation, quantity, and combining carbs with other foods, as well as experimenting to find what works for you. Phoebe is the cookbook author of SIBO Made Simple and has recently released her newest book, CARBivore. Phoebe has personally experienced SIBO, Hashimoto's, and several other health challenges I think we can all relate to. In this conversation, she shares some tips and tricks to help us expand our diets with carbs while still keeping blood sugar and IBS in check. I hope you enjoy this conversation as much as I did! Topics Discussed: → How to prepare carbs to benefit you → What to look for when buying pasta → Elimination dieting → Fiber: Helpful or harmful? → Trigger foods to avoid → Helpful foods for a SIBO diet → Low-carb potatoes → The best types of dairy to consume → Not all gluten is created equal As always, if you have any questions for the show please email us at digestthispod@gmail.com. And if you like this show, please share it, rate it, review it and subscribe to it on your favorite podcast app.  Sponsored By:  → Fatty15 | For 15% off the starter kit go to https://fatty15.com/digest → Bethany's Pantry | Go to https://bethanyspantry.com/ and use the code PODCAST10 for $10 anything! Timestamps: → 00:00:00 - Introduction → 00:00:44 - Meet Phoebe Lapine & The Carbivore Philosophy → 00:01:51 - Rapid Fire: Carbs, Gluten, Candida & Hashimoto's → 00:05:28 - Phoebe's Hashimoto's Diagnosis & Healing Journey → 00:08:24 - Gluten, Autoimmunity & Finding Root Causes → 00:09:56 - SIBO Symptoms, Testing & Treatment → 00:13:38 - Are Carbs Bad for SIBO? → 00:15:30 - Carbs, Fiber & Blood Sugar Explained → 00:18:48 - The Fiber Controversy → 00:20:14 - What Is a Low FODMAP Diet? → 00:22:04 - Foods to Avoid on Low FODMAP → 00:23:40 - Fructose, Sweeteners & Digestive Symptoms → 00:25:12 - Why Food Diversity Matters for Gut Health → 00:28:42 - Dairy, Lactose & Digestive Health → 00:31:42 - Elimination Diets vs. Low FODMAP Diets → 00:35:20 - How to Build an Effective Elimination Diet → 00:39:00 - Why Food Preparation Matters for Digestion → 00:40:04 - Sprouting, Soaking & Fermented Grains → 00:41:24 - Slow Carbs vs. Low Carbs → 00:42:12 - Why Some People Tolerate European Bread & Pasta Better → 00:46:30 - Cooking, Cooling & Resistant Starch → 00:50:30 - Low-Carb Potatoes & Selective Breeding → 00:52:34 - SIBO-Friendly Foods & Gut Healing Strategies → 00:54:32 - Phoebe's Favorite Recipes from Carbivore → 00:56:00 - Desserts, Blood Sugar & Healthy Indulgences → 00:57:36 - Hashimoto's, Perfectionism & Realistic Healing Expectations → 01:00:00 - Finding the Right Practitioner for Gut Health → 01:02:16 - Where to Find Phoebe & Her Resources → 01:03:13 - Outro  Further Listening: → Do You Need to Stop Mixing Carbs and Protein? The Shocking Digestion Secrets You've Never Heard! Connect with Phoebe Lapine:  → Instagram → Website → Get her book HERE Check Out Bethany: → Bethany's Instagram: @lilsipper → YouTube → Bethany's Website → Discounts & My Favorite Products → My Digestive Support Protein Powder → Gut Reset Book  → Get my Newsletters (Friday Finds) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

It's a wild claim, and Sterling Jaquith makes it anyway. After asking her email list what they're struggling with right now, she read more than 200 responses, and reading every single one she kept thinking the same thing: oh, I could help her feel so much better about that. Not because the hard things aren't real. They are. But because underneath every one of them is the same skill, the number one skill, and almost nobody is actually practicing it. This episode walks through several of the things moms wrote in about, completely anonymously, and shows you the one thing that changes how you experience all of it. WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE: Why the number one skill is noticing how you think and choosing it on purpose, until you feel the way you want to feel Older kids who've walked away from the faith, and the thoughts keeping you in pain (including the story of Sterling's own return at 23) Perfectionism, negative self-talk, and low self-image, and why "I struggle with this" is just a thought you're not doing anything about The yellow walls metaphor: paint them, or genuinely make peace with them, but stop suffering in between The messy house, ranking what's actually worth your energy, and choosing thoughts that are true and feel better Why managing your mind is the most Catholic thing of all, and why you learn it now so you can teach your kids EPISODE TIMELINE: [00:00] – The 200 emails, and the one skill underneath every problem [05:00] – "Do you have anything for teens?" Why Catholic Mom Calm is for every mom, period [10:00] – Older children who've left the faith, and choosing a thought that gives you peace [15:00] – Perfectionism and negative self-talk, the yellow walls, and the messy-house reframe [20:00] – Managing your mind like physical fitness, the "spoiled" and baby-belly stories, and the unfinished house [24:00] – The most Catholic thing: peace, playing with your thoughts, and raising a calmer generation LINKS AND RESOURCES MENTIONED: Catholic Mom Calm (Good Mom Summer): https://catholicmomcalm.com Calm Catholic Kids (Summer of Kindness stories free now): https://catholicmomcalm.com/calm-catholic-kids-collection-3-kindness/ Catholic Finishing School (join anytime this summer if your daughter is a teenager): https://www.catholicfinishingschool.com/ France pilgrimage/trip (a few spots left): https://catholicmomcalm.com/france/ CONNECT WITH STERLING JAQUITH: Website: https://catholicmomcalm.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/catholicmomcalm

How to stop procrastinating starts with knowing that procrastination isn't a character flaw. It's a signal pointing toward misalignment, fear, or lack of support. It's hard to find or sustain solutions when you're beating yourself up. In this episode you'll learn practical, compassionate ways to get curious about what and why you're avoiding doing something, recalibrate to what actually matters, and create small, supported steps forward. If you're tired of motivating through shame and ready to take action in a way that works, this episode is for you.Some of what I explore in this episode includes:How procrastination, avoidance, “shoulds,” shame, and time management pressures fit togetherHow to tell if you're procrastinating from fear, perfectionism, overwhelm, or true misalignmentPractical tools for overcoming procrastination: breaking tasks down, using deadlines, accountability, and body doublingHow to work with your real energy and neurodivergent brain using curiosity, values, and self-compassion Download the Procrastination Support Checklist!Have thoughts or questions about this episode? Share them with me!Send me a voice memo: https://www.speakpipe.com/MindsetUnlimited RELATED MINDSET UNLIMITED EPISODES:What's Killing My MotivationIt's Simple So Why Am I Not Doing It Coaching What To Do When You've Fallen Behind Unlocking Your Leadership Energy CONNECT WITH VALERIE:Schedule an exploration callAsk Valerie (anonymous form)Sign up for Valerie's newsletterApply to be coached on the podcast This podcast was produced by Valerie Friedlander CoachingProud member of the Feminist Podcasters CollectiveSend us Fan MailSupport the show

About 46% of employees don’t use all their PTO. That’s almost 1 in 2 workers leaving vacation time unused. Nearly half of workers skip using their full vacation time—not because they don’t want a break, but because they feel pressure from workload, coworkers, or job security. Perfectionism is a psychological trait characterized by setting excessively high standards accompanied by severe self-criticism. It is not simply about wanting to do well or taking pride in one’s work. William Pool of Bolivar, Missouri passed away at the age of 101. He enlisted in the US Army in 1941 and served throughout World War II, including participating in the Battle of the Bulge and the long Allied offensive that ended in Austria. Please Like, Comment and Follow 'Philip Teresi on KMJ' on all platforms: --- Philip Teresi on KMJ is available on the KMJNOW app, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube or wherever else you listen to podcasts. -- Philip Teresi on KMJ Weekdays 2-6 PM Pacific on News/Talk 580 AM & 105.9 FM KMJ | Website | Facebook | Instagram | X | Podcast | Amazon | - Everything KMJ KMJNOW App | Podcasts | Facebook | X | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Send us Fan MailIf you struggle with procrastination, you know how tough it can be to break the habit. That's because most of us try to do it by just forcing ourselves to stop. Not only is that the wrong approach, but this often exacerbates the problem. What actually works is figuring out what is behind your procrastination and, from there, addressing the root cause instead of just trying to skip right over it. Want to learn more about how to do that? Register for the "Too Perfect, Too Nice, Too Tired" webinar next Thursday, June 25th at noon ET by going to restovergrind.com/webinarBook a free consult call with me: restovergrind.com/work-with-meEmail me: info@restovergrind.comDownload my free videos on the 3Ps of Exhaustion (People Pleasing, Perfectionism, and Procrastination): restovegrind.com/free-videosInstagram and TikTok: @maria_stoyadinova 

About 46% of employees don’t use all their PTO. That’s almost 1 in 2 workers leaving vacation time unused. Nearly half of workers skip using their full vacation time—not because they don’t want a break, but because they feel pressure from workload, coworkers, or job security. Perfectionism is a psychological trait characterized by setting excessively high standards accompanied by severe self-criticism. It is not simply about wanting to do well or taking pride in one’s work. William Pool of Bolivar, Missouri passed away at the age of 101. He enlisted in the US Army in 1941 and served throughout World War II, including participating in the Battle of the Bulge and the long Allied offensive that ended in Austria. Please Like, Comment and Follow 'Philip Teresi on KMJ' on all platforms: --- Philip Teresi on KMJ is available on the KMJNOW app, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube or wherever else you listen to podcasts. -- Philip Teresi on KMJ Weekdays 2-6 PM Pacific on News/Talk 580 AM & 105.9 FM KMJ | Website | Facebook | Instagram | X | Podcast | Amazon | - Everything KMJ KMJNOW App | Podcasts | Facebook | X | Instagram See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, Natalie sits down with Keren Eldad — coach to some of the world's highest achievers and author of Gilded and the new Gilt Free — to unpack why external success never delivers the safety it promises. Keren shares the three core wounds beneath achievement addiction, the "gilded cage" so many high-achieving women are trapped in, and the surprising income threshold where what you want out of life finally starts to change. You'll learn how to recognize the wound driving your hustle, why "assume everyone likes you" became her most viral piece of advice, and the riptide rule for holding onto success without letting it consume you. If you've ever achieved everything you set out to and quietly wondered why it's still not enough, this episode is the reframe and the way out. Time Stamps:  03:50 The gilded cage: when the shiny life is the trap 07:50 "Yes, we're addicts" — achievement as addiction 15:30 The 3 core wounds behind every overachiever 18:18 The success coach who still spirals when business slows 21:34 The $500K line that changes what you actually want 27:50 "Assume everyone likes you" — the rule that went viral 38:11 The riptide rule for holding onto success 48:28 Why scaling might be the wrong goal entirely 53:46 What real credibility in coaching actually looks like Links & Resources:  Pre-Order The Freedom-Based Business Method. Follow Keren: @coachkeren  Grab a copy of Keren's book - Gilded: Breaking Free from the Cage of Ambition, Perfectionism, and the Relentless Pursuit of More Listen to Natalie on COACHED by Keren Eldad Sign Up For Our Free Weekly Newsletter & Get Insights From Natalie Every Single Week On All Things Strategy, Motherhood, Business Growth + More.  Drop Us A Review On The Podcast + Send Us A Screenshot & We'll Send You Natalie's 7-Figure Operating System Completely FREE (value $1,997).

Send us Fan MailHave you ever looked around at your life and thought, "Nothing is technically wrong... so why do I feel so disconnected from it?"That is exactly what we're diving into this week with speaker, coach, and author Iona Holloway.Iona's new book, Do the Brave Thing, starts with a question that hit me right between the eyes: What happens when you've done everything right, collected all the gold stars, built the life that looks impressive on paper... and still feel dead inside?In this conversation, Iona shares the rock bottom moment that forced her to confront a life built on perfectionism, achievement, and invisible suffering. We talk about the pressure so many women carry to be strong, capable, and endlessly high-functioning, and why those qualities can sometimes become the very thing keeping us stuck.One of my favorite parts of our conversation was Iona's distinction between being strong and being brave. Strength can look like gritting your teeth and carrying more than you should. Bravery asks something different. It asks you to listen to yourself, tell the truth about what you want, and tolerate the discomfort that comes with change.We also explored how fear disguises itself as practicality, perfectionism, procrastination, and even the stories we tell ourselves about why we're the exception. The woman who can't. The one for whom it's harder. The one who should wait until she's ready.Spoiler alert: ready is not coming.Iona shared her powerful "5 and 95 Rule," the idea that a brave life is one that makes five-year-old you happy and ninety-five-year-old you proud. It is simple, memorable, and honestly one of those ideas that lingers long after the conversation ends.If you've been quietly wondering whether there's more available to you than simply being impressive, this episode is your reminder that feeling alive matters too.What's Inside:Why being impressive and feeling alive are not the same thingThe difference between being strong and being braveHow fear hides inside perfectionism, procrastination, and practicalityIona's "5 and 95 Rule" for making braver decisionsThe thing I keep coming back to from this conversation is that bravery rarely looks cool. Most of the time it looks awkward, uncertain, and wildly uncomfortable. What's one brave thing you've been avoiding lately?  DM me on Instagram…I'd genuinely love to hear your answer. Mentioned in This Episode:Brave ThingDo the Brave Thing BookIona Holloway on InstagramIona Holloway on LinkedInGet Healthy AF Book FreeOonagh Duncan on InstagramFit Feels GoodLeave me a voice note on Speak Pipe!

Have you ever looked around at the mess, the endless to-do list, the forgotten permission slip, and wondered why motherhood feels so much harder than everyone else makes it look? So many of us are carrying invisible expectations about what a “good mom” should do, how her home should look, and how much she should be able to handle.Today, I'm joined by Libby Ward, author of Honest Motherhood: On Losing My Mind and Finding Myself, for a beautifully honest conversation about motherhood, perfectionism, clutter, and the invisible pressure so many women carry.We explore what happens when we start questioning those expectations, and why letting go of them might be the key to finding more peace at home.Libby shares what it looked like for her to slowly let go of the version of motherhood she thought she had to perform and start building a life that actually worked for her, her children, her nervous system, and her real capacity.We talk about the “shoulds” that creep into overwhelmed moms, the mental load of motherhood, the energy it takes to make everything look fine from the outside, and why sometimes the most loving thing we can do for our families is lower the standards that are quietly exhausting us.In this episode, you'll learn:Why so many mothers feel like they are the only ones struggling, even when they are not.How perfectionism can show up in the home, in meals, in parenting, and even in the way we host others.Why emotional regulation matters more than creating a perfect-looking childhood.How clutter, routines, and home organization can affect your nervous system, especially if you or your children are neurodivergent.Why letting go is not always simple, and what might be underneath the need to keep everything together.How small changes in your home, calendar, and expectations can create more calm for the whole family.Why the front entryway can be one of the most powerful places to start if leaving the house feels chaotic.This is for all the mothers who have ever wondered why she finds it all so hard, or who feels tired from trying to hold everything together. Whether you're dealing with mom burnout or learning the art of letting go of perfection, you'll walk away feeling seen, understood, and encouraged.Here's to making motherhood feel lighter,CarolineThanks for listening! For more organizational motivation, support and free resources:Join my online membership Clutter Free CollectiveJoin my podcast Facebook group Living Clutter Free Forever Podcast: KonMari® Inspired Organizing | FacebookVisit my website www.caroline-thor.com Come and say 'hi' on Instagram @caro.thor Follow me on Facebook @carolineorganizerConnect with Libby:Libby's book: https://libbyward.com/honest-motherhood-book Website: Libby Ward | Creator, Speaker and Author on a MissionInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/libbyward/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@libbywardofficialThanks for listening! For more organizational motivation, support and free resources:Join my online membership Clutter Free CollectiveJoin my podcast Facebook group Living Clutter Free Forever Podcast: KonMari® Inspired Organizing | FacebookVisit my website www.caroline-thor.com Come and say 'hi' on Instagram @caro.thor Follow me on Facebook @carolineorganizer

Have you ever looked completely fine on the outside while feeling completely hollow on the inside? High functioning, high achieving, praised for holding it all together, and yet quietly evaporating within. What if that exhaustion you keep pushing through isn't a sign that you need to try harder, but a message asking to be heard? In this Moment of Awe, we step into the quiet truth beneath the grind. We live in a culture that glorifies busyness, where somewhere along the way we were taught that exhaustion is proof of importance. So we keep going, past every signal our body sends us, because stopping feels like failure. But your burnout isn't a flaw in your character. It's a conversation your body has been trying to have with you for a very long time. If burnout were simply a rest problem, the solution would be easy. You sleep, you recover, you go again. Yet if you have ever climbed out of burnout only to find yourself right back in it six months later, you already know it is not that simple. Burnout is not the problem. Burnout is the message. And in this episode, we learn how to read it. After working with hundreds of high achievers, one truth keeps surfacing: burnout does not come from overwork. It comes from one of five hidden psychological drivers that sit quietly underneath it. And once you see yours, you cannot unsee it. The Five Hidden Drivers Beneath Burnout Burnout rarely begins with your calendar. It begins with a story you have been carrying, often since long before your current role. See if you recognise yours: Perfectionism, the belief that you must be flawless to be safe. Not high standards, but the quiet terror of being seen as not enough. People pleasing, the compulsion to earn love through self-sacrifice, and the fear that if you stop being everything for everyone, you will lose them. Over-identification with work, when your identity and your productivity become the same thing, so that without being useful you feel lost. Hyper-responsibility, the belief that everything will collapse if you step back even slightly. This runs deep in leaders, in caregivers, and in those who learnt to hold things together very early in life. Suppressed emotion, the part of you that learnt your feelings were inconvenient, that you should perform through grief and smile through pain. One of these is yours, and you likely already know which one. Three Things You Can Do Right Now Awareness is the beginning, but it isn't the whole journey. Here are three gentle, practical steps you can take today. First, name the driver. Go back to those five and ask yourself honestly which one has been running the show, then write it down. Research from UCLA shows that simply naming an emotion reduces activity in the fear centre of the brain. Language, it turns out, is medicine. Second, integrate the story underneath it. Ask yourself: who told me I had to be this way? When did I start confusing exhaustion with importance? And what am I afraid will happen if I stop? You do not need the answers today. You just need to start asking the questions. Third, change one thing, not everything. Identify the smallest possible step, one honest conversation, one boundary you have been avoiding, one commitment to yourself you have been postponing, and do it this week. Not because it fixes everything, but because it signals to your nervous system that things are beginning to shift. This isn't just an episode. It's an invitation to stop treating your exhaustion as a personal failing and start listening to what it has been trying to show you. What if burnout is not a breakdown, but your body's sacred refusal to keep living a life that no longer fits? On the other side of decoding this message is a version of you who does not have to earn rest, who does not have to perform to be loved, who does not have to burn in order to shine. You were never the fire. You were always the light. You can watch the video of this episode on YouTube. Newsletter: https://catherineplano.com for transformation. Instagram: @catherineplano for inspiration.

This week I'm joined by the AMAZING Lauren Smy to discuss the impact of perfectionism, decision fatigue and overwhelm in ADHD women. We dive into why these things are SUCH challenges and practical solutions to overcome them,A MUST listen if you have ADHD!Where to find Laurenhttps://www.instagram.com/laurensmyadhdcoach/Where Else to Find Me

Where do you turn when life's pressures seem overwhelming?In this episode, Lauren Burgos invites us to explore the true meaning of strength and dignity, drawing inspiration from Proverbs 31. As we reflect on what it means to trust God with our futures, especially when dealing with expectations, uncertainty, and the desire for perfection, we'll uncover how to release worry, embrace godly confidence, and laugh at the days to come.Join us as we come together in prayer and devotion, finding peace and courage in God's unchanging faithfulness.Tap HERE to send us a text! BECOME A FOUNDING "MY MORNING DEVOTIONAL" MEMBERIf you enjoy your 5 minute daily dose of heaven, we would appreciate your support, and we have a fun way for you to partner with the MMD community! We've launched our "Buy Me a Coffee" membership where you can buy us a latte, OR become a founding member and get monthly bonus video episodes! To donate, go to mymorningdevo.co/join! Support the showNEW VIDEO EPISODES! You can watch our new video episodes on YouTube! Watch Our Video DevotionalsNEW TO MY MORNING DEVOTIONAL? We're so glad you're here! We're the Alessis, a ministry family working together in a church in Miami, FL, and we're so blessed to partner with the My Morning Devotional community and continue the great work done by the show's creator and our friend, Alison Delamota.We pray our personal reflections and devotions will empower you to grow your faith in God, and that you'll join us every morning in prayer! HELP US GROW THE MMD COMMUNITYSubscribe to the show on this appShare this with a friendJoin our newsletter Follow Us on ⁠Instagram⁠ and ⁠Facebook⁠⁠Leave a reviewSupport Our Friends and FamilyConnect with the original host of MMD  Alison DelamotaFollow our family's podcast The Family Business with The Alessis

718.Are you a parent dealing with an overwhelming fear of failure and not-good-enough-ness? If so, you might be struggling with perfectionism. In this episode, Dr. Nanika Coor explores the challenges of being a perfectionist parent, how it can impact both you and your child, and ideas for creating a less perfectionistic environment within which your child can thrive.Project Parenthood is hosted by Dr. Nanika Coor. Find Project Parenthood on Facebook and Twitter, or subscribe to the Quick and Dirty Tips newsletter for more tips and advice.Project Parenthood is a part of Quick and Dirty Tips.Find transcripts on the Quick and Dirty Tips WebsiteLinks: https://www.quickanddirtytips.com/https://www.quickanddirtytips.com/subscribehttps://www.facebook.com/QDTProjectParenthoodhttps://twitter.com/qdtparenthoodhttps://brooklynparenttherapy.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Lisa Woodruff is the founder and CEO of Organize 365 and host of the Organize 365 podcast (24M+ downloads). A former teacher with a PhD in applied psychology, she's the author of six books, including her newest release, Escaping Quicksand. Key Discussion Themes Why cleaning up isn't the same as organizing — and what "Swiss cheese organizing" quietly costs you The declutter → organize → productivity cycle, and why analog comes before digital Perfectionism vs. excellence, grace, and the internal shifts behind staying organized Self-funding a PhD to research whether organizing systems improve executive function Listener Takeaway Organization is a learnable skill, and the most durable changes are internal. Aim for excellence instead of perfection, focus on the spaces that stay organized, and just start. Guest Website organize365.com Connect with Lisa Instagram: instagram.com/organize365 Book (Escaping Quicksand): escapingquicksand.com

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Send us Fan MailWe talk with productivity coach Gigi Miller about why college admissions can trigger overwhelm, procrastination, and shutdown even for high-achieving teens. We share practical ways parents can support executive functioning and ADHD challenges while still keeping ownership with the student. • Executive functioning as the brain's management system for planning, organization, time management, focus, decisions, and follow-through • Common signs of executive functioning struggle such as missed deadlines, procrastination, overwhelm, and difficulty starting • Why the college application process strains executive functioning with too many moving parts over months • Perfectionism, emotional regulation, and mental clutter as hidden drivers behind “overwhelmed” • Difference between typical procrastination and executive functioning gaps in planning and prioritizing • How ADHD shows up during admissions including time blindness, lost requirements, and inconsistent follow-through • Misconceptions about productivity, motivation, willpower, and intelligence masking executive functioning needs • Support strategies that work: smaller steps, external structure, calendars, and simple accountability • Parent role shift to coach not project manager through weekly check-ins and better questions • Signs of over-functioning and how to reduce tension by moving from reminders to conversations If today's episode resonated with you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share this podcast with someone who needs study guidance right now.

In this episode of Authentically ADHD, we unpack the “right way” curse: that very AuDHD experience of needing the perfect plan, perfect instructions, perfect timing, perfect method, and maybe a tiny sacrifice to the executive function gods before starting literally anything.This episode reframes perfectionism as more than just being “too hard on yourself.” For many AuDHD brains, perfectionism is a nervous system safety plan. It can come from years of being corrected, misunderstood, rushed, judged, or made to feel like your natural way of existing was wrong. So the brain starts chasing certainty, structure, scripts, and rules before it feels safe enough to move.We talk about how this can show up as over-researching, task paralysis, all-or-nothing thinking, needing exact instructions, rereading messages 47 times, avoiding things you deeply care about, and turning every small decision into a full-blown courtroom drama.Inside the episode, Carmen breaks down the neuroscience in simple language: how autistic brains often crave predictability, how ADHD can make starting and sequencing harder, and why uncertainty can feel like a threat instead of a minor inconvenience. Then we move into practical recovery strategies like naming the real fear, choosing the next safe step, creating messy first drafts, defining “done,” practicing tiny imperfection, and using systems as supports instead of shame scorecards.This episode is for anyone who has ever felt frozen because they didn't know the “right” way to begin. You are not lazy, dramatic, or broken. Your brain is trying to protect you. But protection can become a cage — and healing means learning that safe enough is still safe.Perfectionism wants you polished. Healing wants you in progress. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit carmenauthenticallyadhd.substack.com/subscribe

Have you ever wondered whether your biggest dreams are truly yours—or shaped by fear, validation, and old conditioning? Jessica sits down with bestselling author and TBMer Tara Mohr to explore the powerful distinction between your inner critic and inner mentor. Together, they unpack how we hide from visibility, delay our purpose through perfectionism, and unknowingly play small in pursuit of safety. Tara shares the framework that has helped thousands of women reconnect with their authentic voice and step into greater self-expression, impact, and fulfillment. From the nervous system's role in self-doubt to reframing feedback and confidence, this episode offers practical tools for anyone ready to be seen—in work, creativity, relationships, and life. Whether you're launching a business, sharing your story, or simply feeling the pull toward a more authentic version of yourself, this conversation is a reminder: your wisdom already lives within you. Ready to step into your power? The Be Seen Challenge is live — drop into the TBM app to take the kickoff quiz and begin. Find the complete show notes here → https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast   Resources: The Be Seen Challenge Stop playing small in your career, relationships, and life and manifest your next level. Now live inside The Pathway.   Summer Sale: $23/Month Start your manifestation journey at our lowest price of the season: $23/month! Join now and step into the Be Seen Challenge with us before this offer ends.   Free Masterclass: Step Into Your F*ck It Energy If you missed our live masterclass with Lacy and Jessica — don't worry, you can still watch the replay! Learn how to step into your f*ck it energy and feel genuinely safe being seen.   Join the Pathway Membership Use code EXPANDED for 20% off your first month! The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential. LEARN MORE HERE   Get the latest from TBM Join the Pathway now - Return to Magic Challenge, Money Challenge, and Nervous System Reset available now!   New to TBM? Free Offerings to Get You Started Learn the Process! Expanded Podcast - How to Manifest Anything You Desire  Get Expanded! The Motivation - Testimonial Library Ready to find out what's holding you back? Try our Free Clarity Exercise   Be an EXPANDER! Share Your Manifestation Story Submit to Be a Process Guest What did you manifest during the Return to Magic Challenge? Share a voice note of your question, block, or Process to be featured in an episode!   This Episode Is Brought to You By:  ARMRA - Get 30% off your first subscription order with code TBM  Colostrum: Immune Revival - Immune barrier superfood    Fatty15 - go to fatty15.com/TBM use code TBM at checkout to get an additional 15% off your 90-day subscription Starter Kit   PIQUE - Get  20% off any Pique products at piquelife.com/tbm, and use code TBM at checkout.  Sun Goddess Matcha   In this episode we talk about: The concept of the Inner Mentor and how to access it Distinguishing intuition from fear-based thinking Understanding the true role of the inner critic Why visibility activates the nervous system Playing big versus playing small The hidden ways women avoid being seen Perfectionism and its connection to self-worth Designing at the whiteboard versus taking action Finding confidence through values instead of validation Why feedback reflects the giver as much as the receiver The relationship between curiosity and fear Language patterns that diminish personal authority Reclaiming your authentic voice and self-expression Sharing your story versus hiding behind expertise The joy and fulfillment that emerge from living authentically   Mentioned In the Episode:  Take the Be Seen Quiz in the TBM app Playing Big book available here: https://www.taramohr.com/the-playing-big-book/ Find our Be Seen Challenge plus all our workshops and all workshops mentioned inside our Pathway Membership! (Including the Inner Child Workshop, Safe to Be Seen DI, and the Be Seen Challenge Challenge)   Connect with Tara Mohr! Playing Big book available here: https://www.taramohr.com/the-playing-big-book/ Meet Your Inner Mentor (guided visualization): https://www.taramohr.com/book/inner-mentor-signup/ Free Inner Critic chapter from the Playing Big book: https://www.taramohr.com/the-playing-big-book/free-chapter/ HOW TO MANIFEST by Lacy Phillips (with exercises by Jessica Gill)Available now! The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM's Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.At TBM, we've redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you'll learn how to: – Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth – Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work – Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth – Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true selfWith over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you're meant to live.Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest. 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This episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast dives into the realities of publishing the upcoming Nacho Kids book and unpacks common misconceptions about the Nacho Parenting method. The conversation focuses on the emotional journey behind writing and editing, clarifies what "nacho" means in step-parenting, and discusses the nuanced paths toward building healthier relationships within blended families. Listeners will hear honest reflections on perfectionism, practical advice on stepfamily dynamics, and encouragement for step-parents navigating their own journeys. Key topics discussed: The challenges and emotional process of writing, editing, and publishing the Nacho Kids book   Perfectionism vs. sharing helpful information: letting go of the need for perfection   The meaning of "nacho": clarifying that it's about boundaries and responsibility, not ignoring stepkids' issues   The difference between "disengaging" and "not engaging" as step-parents, and why these can be temporary, needed steps   Why step-parent/stepchild relationships can be complicated and change over time   The variety of step-parent roles, from supportive adult to parental figure, and the importance of adapting to each unique family situation   The importance of compassion, communication, and not forcing relationships or choices between step-kids and partners   Encouragement for self-development, understanding, and treating everyone in the blend with kindness and respect  

Why do unfinished to-dos keep you stressed, even when doing them would only take a few minutes?Whether it's scheduling an appointment, signing up for a class, returning an item, or sending an email you've been avoiding, unfinished tasks can create mental clutter and drain your energy. These "open loops" follow you around, taking up valuable brain space and making it harder to feel calm and in control.In this episode, you'll learn:Why unfinished tasks create so much stress and overwhelmHow ADHD brains are especially vulnerable to open loopsThe role perfectionism plays in keeping tasks unfinishedHow to use my GEMS system to start closing the loop on lingering to-do list itemsIf you've been struggling with procrastination, mental load, ADHD overwhelm, or a never-ending to-do list, this episode will help you take small, practical steps toward getting things done without creating more stress.Ready to stop scrambling? Book your complimentary Chaos to Calm session.Free Resources:

We often believe that we need to be perfect--or at least nearly perfect--to be worthy and lovable. Yet from my experience, the constant striving to look or be perfect can actually erode self-confidence, mental health, and even physical well-being. In fact, I've found that those who make friends with their imperfections--those who strive to achieve a healthy balance between self-acceptance and positive change--tend to fare far better in their relationships, self-love, and overall well-being. Today, we're joined by Erin Pash, CEO and Founder of Pash Company and Ellie Mental Health, who will explore the keys to fostering self-acceptance, authenticity and self-worth!Topics discussed include perfectionism, self-love, acceptance, self-worth, worthiness, toxic comparison, judgement, blame, shame, envy, jealousy, relationships, family, friendships, girlfriends, social media, competition, well-being, mental health, boundaries, personal change, and transformation.Please note that this episode contains sensitive material; listener discretion is advised.Emergency Assistance Details: If you or someone you know needs immediate support, please call your emergency services. In the US, 24/7 help is available by calling "911," "988" (Suicide and Crisis Hotline), or SAMSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) at 1-800-662-HELP (4357). As applicable, additional resources may be provided in the show notes.Non-Emergency Online Mental Health Information: https://www.nami.org/support-education/nami-helpline/ and https://odphp.health.gov/myhealthfinder/healthy-living/mental-health-and-relationshipsIMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: No expert is offering medical or psychological direction or advice; the content is purely informational in nature. Please consult your physician or healthcare provider before undertaking any new regimen or procedure.Connect with Dr. Carla Manly:Website: https://www.drcarlamanly.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/drcarlamanly/Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/drcarlamanly/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drcarlamanlyLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carla-marie-manly-8682362b/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@dr_carlamanly_imperfect_loveTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dr_carla_manlyBooks by Dr. Carla Manly:Joy From Fear: Create the Life of Your Dreams by Making Fear Your Friend Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly Aging Joyfully: A Woman's Guide to Optimal Health, Relationships, and Fulfillment for Her 50s and Beyond The Joy of Imperfect Love: The Art of Creating Healthy, Securely Attached Relationships Imperfect Love Relationship & Oracle Card Deck by Dr. Carla Manly:Etsy AmazonConnect with Erin Pash:Website: https://erinpash.com/, https://www.pashcompany.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/erinkellypash/, https://www.instagram.com/peopleadvancingsocialhealth/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/erin-pashLove the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://drcarlamanly.com/

Are you tired of shouldering the weight of impossible standards and harsh self-judgment? This week on the podcast, Shannon Popkin returns for an honest conversation about judging—especially the way perfectionists measure themselves with a critical, merciless scoop. In this compassionate and insightful episode, you’ll hear:- Why “judge not” is more nuanced than you might think, and how the Bible calls us to both discernment and humility.- How the standards we use to judge ourselves often seep into our perception of others—even when we think we’re showing only ourselves the harshness. - The trap of perfectionism: when striving to be flawless turns into wounded pride and a subtle resistance to receiving grace.- The difference between external rule-keeping and the biblical invitation to “walk with God”—not just check every box.- How admitting our need for mercy—rather than clinging to “good girl” status—actually brings us closer to Jesus and frees us from the courtroom in our heads.- A vulnerable story of how Shannon realized she’d been harshly judging a friend’s motives, and the freedom that came with confession and restored relationship. Resources & Next Steps: - Check out Shannon's latest book here: Kinda Judgy on Amazon (Amazon affiliate link)- Take Shannon’s “Kind of Judgy” Quiz and download the heart check at: http://shannonpopkin.com/judgy- Explore stories from Shannon’s new book for practical ways to deal with self-judgment and embrace mercy!- Share this episode with a friend who struggles to be gentle with herself! **Let this episode be your invitation to step out of self-condemnation, walk in mercy, and embrace the freeing truth of the gospel—for yourself, not just everyone else.** Listen now for hope and honest insight! Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

 Fertility Docs Uncensored Today's episode of Fertility Docs Uncensored is hosted by Dr. Carrie Bedient from the Fertility Center of Las Vegas, Dr. Susan Hudson from Texas Fertility Center, and Dr. Abby Eblen from Nashville Fertility Center, welcomes Rosanne Austin, founder of the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast and creator of the Fearlessly Fertile Method. In this episode, Rosanne discusses how stress, fear, shame, perfectionism, and negative self-talk can affect women struggling with infertility. Many of her clients are highly accomplished women with demanding careers who spend so much time caring for others that they forget to care for themselves emotionally. Rosanne explains how infertility can leave women feeling guilty, ashamed, or blindsided by difficulty conceiving later in life. She helps women identify the stories they tell themselves and replace fear-based thinking with self-compassion and confidence. Rosanne also discusses her eight-week online fertility mindset coaching program, in which women meet weekly in a supportive group setting to openly discuss what they truly want for their lives and families. The program teaches communication skills, emotional resilience, practical strategies, and healthier ways to handle mistakes, stress, and uncertainty during infertility treatment. Why do successful women often struggle emotionally with infertility? How can mindset coaching help during IVF and fertility treatment? What role do fear, anxiety, guilt, and shame play in infertility? How can women learn to prioritize themselves while pursuing both career success and motherhood? Rosanne shares how women can begin saying “yes, I can” while honoring their desire to build a family. Learn more through the Fearlessly Fertile podcast, website, and YouTube channel. This podcast was sponsored by the Reproductive Science Center. 

Welcome back to the Awakening Her Podcast! Today we're diving into Part One of a two-part series exploring two of the biggest patterns I see keeping self-aware, growth-oriented people from moving forward: The Fear Spiral and the Possibility Spiral. In this episode, we're unpacking the Fear Spiral. Most of us think we know what fear feels like, but fear is often far more subtle than we realize. It can disguise itself in a "coat" - needing more clarity, waiting for the right timing, perfectionism, practicality, certainty-seeking, or endlessly preparing before we begin. We'll talk about: • Why fear sn't always obvious • The different "coats" fear likes to wear • Waiting until you're ready vs. moving before you feel ready • Perfectionism and certainty-seeking • Why fear often accompanies expansion and change • How to gently move through fear instead of letting it run the show • The power of support when navigating your next chapter Remember: fear isn't the problem. Fear is often a sign that something matters. The goal isn't to eliminate fear. The goal is to stop letting fear make your decisions for you. In the next episode, we're diving into the Possibility Spiral — a pattern I see just as often, where we're not overwhelmed by fear... we're overwhelmed by options, ideas, dreams, and possibilities. If you've ever felt mentally full, pulled in multiple directions, or unsure which path to choose, you're going to love Part Two. ✨ REFLECTION QUESTIONS • Where in my life am I waiting for certainty? • What have I known for a while that I haven't acted on? • What is fear trying to protect me from? • What would I do if I trusted myself a little more? • What might become possible if I stopped waiting to feel ready? Thank you so much for being here. And remember: You have survived 100% of what you've been through. Don't underestimate your resilience, your strength, or your ability to move through what's next.   Mentioned in This Episode...

Did you like the episode? Send me a text and let me know!!Defeat Your Business Monsters with Paul Pape | Undiscovered Entrepreneur**Episode Summary: What if the secret to building a profitable creative business was hidden inside a game of Dungeons & Dragons? In this episode, entrepreneur, fabricator, and "Santa For Nerds" Paul Pape shares how he turned 20 years of custom creative work — including projects for Disney, Universal, and Nickelodeon — into a revolutionary business consulting model called Gamified Business. Paul doesn't teach creatives traditional business strategy. He runs campaigns. He builds character sheets. He slays monsters.If you've ever struggled with imposter syndrome, perfectionism, fear of failure, or just getting off the couch and starting — this episode is your quest giver.What You'll Learn:Why creatives struggle with business (and the D&D fix that works)How Paul turned a broke 7-figure company into a thriving one in 6 monthsThe monster metaphors for imposter syndrome, failure, perfectionism & fearWhy your ideas are worth more than your labor — and how a stolen ad taught Paul that lesson the hard wayThe one piece of advice Paul gives every new entrepreneur (it's two questions)Why charging for your services actually helps your clients succeedThe Thousand Asks Challenge and Paul's 6-month goalTimestamps:[00:00:00] – Introduction & Meet Paul Pape[00:01:30] – 20 Years as "Santa For Nerds" — Disney, Universal & Custom Collectibles[00:02:30] – Birth of Gamified Business: The D&D Consulting Method[00:04:30] – How a Dragon-Making Company Went from $50K Net to 4X Revenue[00:06:00] – The Four Business Monsters: Imposter Syndrome, Failure, Perfectionism & Fear[00:11:30] – Quitting a Professor Job, a Viral Side Hustle & $50K in 6 Weeks[00:16:00] – Why the Inner Shadow Stops Most Entrepreneurs[00:18:00] – The Universe Hands Out Quests — Will You Accept Yours?[00:22:00] – The Grocery Store Lawsuit That Changed How Paul Protects His Ideas[00:29:30] – The Best Advice for New Entrepreneurs (Two Questions)[00:31:00] – Paul's 6-Month Goal & The Thousand Asks Challenge[00:32:00] – How to Find Paul & Gamify BusinessConnect with Paul Pape:

Perfectionism, people pleasing, and pretending you have it all together are often talked about as personality traits.What if they're actually survival strategies?In this conversation, I sit down with clinical psychologist and executive coach Dr. Anne Welsh to explore why so many ambitious women find themselves stuck in these patterns, even when they know they're no longer serving them.We talk about the hidden cost of constantly performing, why success can still feel empty when you're disconnected from yourself, and how years of focusing on everyone else's needs can make it difficult to even know what you want anymore.Dr. Anne shares why people pleasing isn't really about being nice, why perfectionism is often rooted in fear, and how self trust is built through small moments of choosing yourself rather than waiting until you're confident enough to do it.We also explore the difference between fear based striving and healthy ambition, and why the goal isn't to become less ambitious but to become more aligned with what you're actually striving for.This is a conversation about coming home to yourself while still creating the life, work, and impact that matter to you.Resources Mentioned:Connect with Dr. Anne Welsh: Instagram | https://drannwelsh.comAmbitious Mothers book (pre-order, Release Day Aug 6) The Should Session: To Stop you from bringing work stress home! Find out exactly what belief is keeping you stuck in should energy. Only 5 spots available, expiring on 10/6/2026.Work with me:Breakthrough Intensive - You already know you should slow down, delegate more, stop overcommitting & be emotionally present. So why can't you? That's what we figure out in 90 minutes + integration call 1 week later. Book your BreakthroughExhale: Private Coaching - For women ready to do this work until it sticks and you can't revert back. 3 open spots: Work with meConnect with Sam: Instagram | Facebook

In this episode, I explore a simple but powerful truth: In order to pick something up, you must put something down. Too many of us are trying to add more onto lives that already feel full. We tell ourselves we'll start when life calms down, when work gets quieter, when the kids are older, or when we finally have more time. But the reality is, time isn't something we create. We will only get 24 hours in any given day. The only way to add something meaningful to your life is often through subtraction. We also dive into one of the biggest mistakes people make when trying to change: setting the bar so high that failure becomes inevitable. Most diets, training plans and self-improvement strategies don't fail because you're incapable. They fail because they're unsustainable. Real change isn't built through extremes. It's built through consistency. We'll explore why lasting transformation comes from creating habits that fit your life, not fantasies about your life. Why you don't rise to the level of your expectations, you fall to the level of what's sustainable. And why the goal should never be perfection, but repeatability. But this conversation goes deeper than habits and routines. Sometimes what needs to be put down isn't a behaviour at all. Sometimes it's a belief or an identity. Perfectionism. People pleasing. Victim mentality. The need for approval. Limiting beliefs. Old stories about who you are and what you're capable of. You cannot become someone new while holding on to the beliefs that are keeping you stuck. We'll also explore the weight so many of us carry that was never ours to carry in the first place. The expectations, emotions and problems of other people, and why letting go isn't giving up. It's choosing what actually matters. Because whether you realise it or not, you're already choosing. You're either choosing the familiar comfort of staying the same, or the unfamiliar discomfort of growth. The life you want isn't built by adding more. It's built by deciding what matters most. 

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Perfectionism can look like ambition on the outside, but internally it often feels like pressure, overthinking, anxiety, and the constant belief that nothing is ever quite good enough.In this episode of Thoughts from the Couch, I'm unpacking the mindset shift ambitious female entrepreneurs need to stop letting perfectionism run the show. We explore how perfectionistic thinking develops, why it becomes so deeply tied to achievement and self-worth, and how it quietly contributes to burnout, procrastination, overworking, and emotional exhaustion.Using a cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) framework, I walk you through the exact psychological loop that keeps perfectionism alive and the practical steps you can take to start changing it. From thought logging and cognitive restructuring to behavioral experiments like the “80% rule,” time boxing, and exposure to imperfection, this episode is filled with tangible tools you can apply immediately in both business and life.We also dive into the emotional side of perfectionism, including the discomfort of rest, the fear of slowing down, and the deeper work of separating your value as a person from your productivity and achievements.This episode is for the woman who is successful on paper but secretly exhausted from carrying the pressure of always needing to get everything right.If you're successful on the outside but constantly holding everything together on the inside, The Balanced Boss is private coaching designed to help things feel calmer, steadier, and more sustainable without giving up your ambition.https://www.justinecarino.com/the-balanced-boss

Have you encountered very young children who get upset when they are not perfect? Do you want to avoid creating perfectionism when interacting with young children? Join Cynthia and Alison for this listener-request-inspired episode focusing on strategies to deal with and avoid perfectionism.Check out our website:  https://www.howpreschoolteachersdoit.com/Be sure to like our Facebook page:  https://www.facebook.com/howpreschoolteachersdoitLearn more about Cynthia's work, including professional development, family education, and consulting opportunities:  https://hihello.com/hi/cindyterebush-RXMBKASubscribe to Cynthia's SubStack for free to receive articles and more in your email:  https://substack.com/@cynthiaterebush

In this powerful conversation, Rebecca Zung sits down with Dr. Nicole LePera, bestselling author and founder of The Holistic Psychologist, to explore how childhood experiences continue to shape our emotions, relationships, behaviors, and sense of self in adulthood. Dr. LePera explains the concept of reparenting your inner child, revealing how trauma, people-pleasing, perfectionism, anxiety, and emotional triggers are often rooted in early survival patterns. Learn practical tools for nervous system regulation, emotional healing, self-compassion, and breaking generational cycles so you can create healthier relationships, stronger boundaries, and lasting personal transformation. CHAPTERS 00:00 Introduction 02:03 What Is the Inner Child? 06:35 How Childhood Experiences Shape Adult Behavior 11:10 Amygdala Hijack and Emotional Reactions 16:50 High-Conflict Personalities and Survival Responses 24:28 Understanding the Nervous System in Conflict 31:22 The Six Childhood Trauma Archetypes 40:04 Trauma, Emotional Safety, and Childhood Development 46:12 Epigenetics and Generational Healing 53:18 Coping Versus True Healing 01:02:03 Why Childhood Photos Can Unlock Healing 01:09:22 Perfectionism, Achievement, and Self-Worth 01:16:15 Building Awareness Through Conscious Check-Ins 01:22:45 Nervous System Regulation and Breathwork 01:28:10 Why Growth Feels Uncomfortable 01:33:05 Practical Steps to Reparent Your Inner Child 01:38:30 Self-Compassion, Healing, and Personal Transformation 01:42:15 Final Thoughts and Resources

Rejection. Insecurity. Perfectionism. These are some of the reasons why we may be taking things personally. At different stages and seasons in life, we have all found ourselves in a space where we are asking, “What did I do? Why am I the target here?” Most of the time, it is not about you. However, your reaction is an indicator of something going on within you. In today’s episode, Terri and Dr. Dom help us explore why we take things personally and offer strategies to heal. Resources:Dr. Dom’s Therapy PracticeBranding with TerriMelanin and Mental HealthTherapy for Black Girls Psychology TodayTherapy for QPOCTherapy for Black MenWhere to find us:Twitter: @HERspacepodcastInstagram: @herspacepodcastFacebook: @herspacepodcastWebsite: cultivatingherspace.com Check out the Best Of CHS!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

A boy lost 150 pounds through Ozempic. Does he have to disclose? A girl struggles with anxiety and takes medication occasionally. Does she haveto disclose? At what stage?  A boy has mild asthma controlled by an inhaler. Is that considered a medical condition requiring disclosure?  A girl once had depression in college but has been stable for 5 years. Does “past history” need to be revealed?  A boy's father spent time in prison decades ago and completely rebuilt his life. Must that be disclosed to the other side?  A girl has a sibling who left religion entirely. Is that relevant information or lashon hara?  And much more…… with Rabbi Dovid Jaffee – Author, What Can I Say..Today, Maggid Shiur – 16:55 with Rabbi Moshe Mordechai Lowy – Rov of Agudas Yisrael Toronto' Renowned Mechaber Seforim and Poseik on Hilchos Loshon Hora – 46:09 with Rabbi Shlomo Goldberger – MSW, Former Executive Director of The Shidduch of Baltimore – 1:14:18  

Send Dr. Li a text here. Please leave your email address if you would like a reply, thanks.In this episode, Dr. Christine Li explores the four most common roadblocks to personal and professional success: lack of focus, perfectionism, overwhelm, and physical clutter. She breaks down how each roadblock shows up, why it matters to remove them, and offers practical tips for clearing your path forward—helping you create more time, energy, and progress in your life.Timestamps00:00:00: Christine Li introduces the episode on roadblocks to success00:00:58: Dr. Christine Li describes her background and the podcast's aim00:01:41: Christine Li explains the importance of clearing roadblocks00:04:43: Christine Li presents the first roadblock: lack of focus00:08:29: Christine Li explains the second roadblock: perfectionism00:10:21: Christine Li goes over the third roadblock: overwhelm00:13:23: Christine Li introduces the fourth roadblock: physical clutter00:16:23: Christine Li shares a free worksheet resource and wraps up00:16:42: Dr. Christine Li provides podcast subscription and contact infoTo get the free download that accompanies this episode, go to: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/clearTo sign up for the Waitlist for the Simply Productive Program, go to: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SPFor more information on the Make Time for Success podcast, visit: https://www.maketimeforsuccesspodcast.comGain Access to Dr. Christine Li's Free Resource Library -- 12 downloadable tools and templates to help you bypass the impulse to procrastinate: https://procrastinationcoach.mykajabi.com/freelibraryTo work with Dr. Li on a weekly basis in her coaching and accountability program, register for The Success Lab here: https://www.procrastinationcoach.com/labConnect with Dr. Christine LiWebsite: https://www.procrastinationcoach.comFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/procrastinationcoachInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/procrastinationcoach/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@procrastinationcoachThe Success Lab: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/labSimply Productive: https://maketimeforsuccesspodcast.com/SP

What if the thing holding you back isn't a lack of confidence—but a fear of being seen? In this powerful and emotional coaching session, Christine works with Victoria, who feels called to step into a more authentic and public version of herself through a new creative venture. Although she has already achieved success in her current career, she feels increasingly disconnected from the life she truly wants to be living. The problem isn't a lack of passion. The problem is the overwhelming fear that comes with being visible. As Victoria explores her desire to become a content creator and inspire women to build their dream lives, deeper layers begin to emerge. Childhood criticism, perfectionism, fear of judgment, and the pressure to "get it right" have all created an internal protector that would rather keep her safe than allow her to be fully expressed. Together, Christine and Victoria uncover how growing up in a highly critical environment taught her to hide parts of herself in order to avoid conflict, judgment, and rejection. Now, as she prepares to share her voice more publicly, those same protective patterns are resurfacing. If you've ever felt called to something bigger but found yourself procrastinating, shrinking back, or questioning your worth, this episode will help you understand why—and what it takes to move forward anyway. Press play to discover how fear of criticism may be keeping you from the freedom, fulfillment, and authenticity you truly desire.    Consider / Ask Yourself Do you hold yourself back because you fear what others might think? Did you grow up in a household where criticism, correction, or high expectations were common? Do you feel called to share more of yourself but find yourself procrastinating or avoiding visibility? Are you living from authenticity—or from a strategy designed to avoid judgment?   Key Insights and A-Ha's Perfectionism is often a survival strategy developed in response to criticism. Fear of being seen can create "invisibility blocks" that limit authentic expression. Many people spend more energy avoiding criticism than pursuing what they truly want. Authenticity often requires grieving the identity you built to stay safe. Freedom comes not from being perfect—but from allowing yourself to be fully seen.   How to Deepen the Work Reflect on how criticism shaped your relationship with visibility and self-expression. Notice where you are seeking safety through perfection rather than authenticity. Ask yourself: "What would I do if I wasn't afraid of being judged?" Begin practicing self-expression in small ways, even when discomfort arises.   Resource Mentioned in This Episode Inner Child Course Christine references her evergreen Inner Child program, designed to help people rewire childhood conditioning, heal protective patterns, and reconnect with their authentic selves. Learn more at: christinehassler.com/innerchild    Social Media + Resources:    Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler @ChristineHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram @SacredUnionCouples on Instagram Email: jill@christinehassler.com — For information on any of my services! Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show! Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches!

When highly capable children spend years cruising through an educational system where academic rigor is geared toward the average, they fail to develop the neurological muscles required to process difficulty. This week, we present an encore chat with Dr. Brian Housand, coordinator of the academically or intellectually gifted program at the University of North Carolina Wilmington, and Andi McNair, a gifted education author and digital innovation specialist. They discuss how burnout can be a result of long-term exposure to unrealistic expectations and a profound fear of failure, and how it can also manifest in a sort of imposter phenomenon among high-ability learners. They explain why teachers and parents should resist the urge to rescue high-ability kids from cognitive discomfort, instead allowing space for productive struggle. TAKEAWAYS Equating intelligence with "quick and easy" creates a highly fragile academic identity that collapses the moment a learner encounters an authentic cognitive challenge. The feeling of ineffectiveness that comes with burnout often stems from an internalized need for external validation. Depriving high-ability students of productive struggle prevents them from building coping mechanisms and adaptive emotional resilience. High-ability learners sometimes experience a profound sense of isolation, which can be minimized by structuring shared spaces to foster a sense of universality. Gifted burnout in adults sometimes signals an unidentified twice-exceptional presentation, where early compensation strategies have finally been overwhelmed by adult executive demands. Perfectionism can be difficult to identify in therapy, and once identified, still very difficult to overcome. If you're a mental health professional, join us for Overcoming Perfectionism in Therapy: Supporting Neurodivergent Clients Who Keep Moving the Finish Line. Matt Zakreski will present this 1.5 hour continuing education course this Friday, June 5th at 1:00 pm Central, and if you can't join us live, that's okay. The video will be available afterward for anyone who registers, and either version is APA and NBCC approved for 1.5 hours of continuing education credit. Register now or learn more at this link, or just go to neurodiversity.university. Dr. Brian Housand is the coordinator of the Academically or Intellectually Gifted program at University of North Carolina Wilmington, and creator of Gifted360.com. He is also a published author and speaker, and has worked in education as a classroom teacher, gifted ed teacher, and university professor for over 20 years. Andi McNair is a passionate educator, author and speaker. Andi taught in the gen-ed classroom for 16 years, and then switched to serving gifted learners where she found her calling. She enjoys sharing her passion for innovative education through her books for educators, speaking nationally, and finding meaningful ways to use technology. Andi currently works as the Digital Innovation Specialist in a Waco, Texas school district. BACKGROUND READING Brian Housand's website, BH Facebook, BH Twitter/X, BH Instagram Andi McNair's website, AM Facebook, AM Twitter/X, AM Instagram The Neurodiversity Podcast is on Facebook, Instagram, BlueSky, and you're invited to join our Facebook Group. For more information go to www.NeurodiversityPodcast.com If you'd like members of your organization, school district, or company to know more about the subjects discussed on our podcast, Emily Kircher-Morris provides keynote addresses, workshops, and training sessions worldwide, in-person or virtually. You can choose from a list of established presentations, or work with Emily to develop a custom talk to fit your unique situation. To learn more, visit our website.