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58 RealityBites #4 Celebrating The Little Wins

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Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2022 15:12


Welcome back to RealityBites #4!   Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob's blog!     Here's some motivational quotes of inspiration that you may apply to your life and make them a ritual! One thing I love is inspirational quotes or parables or life lessons people have learned and shared to help other people… Celebrating the little wins on a daily basis no matter how big or small…all too often we are looking forward to the big prize or the big achievements in life - the new job, the holiday away, finally meeting someone special , reaching a health and fitness goal etc like your morning cup of coffee, a chat with a friend, a sunshine day, a hot shower, a good nights sleep, food on the table, a healthy body. When in reality every day above ground is a good day and it's the tiny incremental steps and course corrections that lead to these goals we have. It's those seemingly inconsequential things we do consistently that get us to where we want… It was Simon Sinek who made popular the idea that you go to gym and train one day and you won't see results, the same the following day… it's only after a consistent period of time, of micro improvements. That we can step back and see the progress we've made…life is all about the long game, the journey which leads me to inspiration #2 “The man who loves walking will walk further than the man who loves the destination…so what's happened along that process? You've learned to love the journey, and when you love the journey the goals just happen, you hit milestones as a side effect, that's cool, but I don't love it as much as I love the journey..” Sal Di Stefano In our culture of aspiration and success we celebrate the win which is only natural, but it's important that we don't fall into “destination addiction” where we are only focused on the prize and not the process and what we learn as a result of the journey…as we know the peaks in life can only exist with the valleys. One thing I always talk about is honouring who you are and getting to know thyself. That journey of inner exploration and growth as we continue our souls journey and something David Goggins mentions surrounding overcoming insecurity…we all as a part of being human compare ourselves to those around us… we are often drawn to people who seemingly have the qualities we admire and want for ourselves, when of course this is merely a reflection of what we also hold. But what David Goggins realised was to stop caring about what other people thought of him…in his words “he had to stop giving a fuck,  I realised that everybody is fucked up… I was walking around and I put these people up on a pedestal, everybody was better than me, so I can't tell you anything about me because you're going to judge me..and I'm gonna feel even worse than I am. What I realised when I calmed my mind down and stood back was just how jacked up this world is. once you realise you are not alone and that everybody hats talking to you about how jacked up you are, only thing they have done better than you is they've hidden their fucked up world better than you have” Wow, there's something to think about! How often have you caught yourself thinking how much better other people seem to have it, or have it all together and you don't? One thing I've learned and to remind myself things aren't always as they seem, esp in this hyped up social media world on insta reels and stories which only give us a highlight or curated moment without seeing the full story or reality… It reminds me of a story when I took a visiting overseas friend out to a spectacular west coast beach. As I do I love taking pics of natural scenery and she said how we can never capture this moment by a picture, the picture merely is a representation of this moment or the subject you're trying to capture. Which got me thinking…it's true, nothing beats the real thing, having a direct visceral experience. Lastly I'll leave you with the daily gratitude of 5 things to be grateful of…which ties in with celebrating the little wins At the end of each day think of 5 things you were grateful for. Once again no matter how big or small It could the fact you made it through the day, you did some form of exercise, you got your self out of negative mindset… As always, thanks for listening and be well...  

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57 Jeremy Birchall - Coffee Talk

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Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2022 82:29


Join us on Instagram and Facebook - Search for Reality Hub and catch Robs Blogs in Nature! Also check out out www.realityhub.love for blogs and our web player. On todays podcast we sat in the Brown Street Cafe with Jeremy Birchall: actor, father, teacher, truth seeker and voice director on major international tv shows and video games.

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56 RealityBites #3 The Man in the Arena

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Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2022 14:12


THE MAN IN THE ARENA   "It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat." Theodore Roosevelt     Welcome back to another realitybites #3!   Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website: http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob's blog! Topics and conversational points: So this quote has been around awhile and maybe you know it, but it stands true through time. And it got me thinking about how we engage in life…how we show up not just for others but for ourselves… What dreams, what experiences are we holding back from? Where are we limiting ourselves? Because we all have dreams no matter how big or small…maybe we've been told we can't have what we truly desire…maybe this was what we believed and became a part of our belief system at an early stage. Maybe you've had many setbacks, losses moments where you just want to give up… And just like in the quote maybe the critic is the one we have within… It reminds me of one of my other favourite quotes “Something we were withholding made us weak until we found out it was ourselves”. - Robert Frost It's easier to sit on the sidelines and criticise because we don't have to face the consequences of losing or taking a hit. It reminds me of analogy with MMA or the UFC fighters who literally step in an arena and fight in front of millions…putting it all on the line, high risk and high reward.. This is like the extreme of facing your fears or testing your limits, your edge, yet there is something innate and primal about this…this is why so many are captivated by this spectacle. Are we hardwired to be drawn to this, to see two gladiators “fight” ? On a deeper level isn't this what we are doing on a survival level every day as a part of bing alive? But how many of us are willing to step into that arena, to face our fears, no matter how big or small they may seem? Time and again we have seen people in history accomplish great things, overcome huge odds in that pursuit to taste a victory and that victory is personal to everyone. But I ask this, is it better to sit on the sidelines and not engage or take the risk, take the leap even tight teeter of course is the chance you will fail… And we can interpret failure in many ways…some never bounce back and rise again, some use failure for growth or to learn to try and try again. I believe within us all we have this internal battle… We have all experienced setbacks, failures but what is it in the human spirit that keeps us striving and going again and again? The thing is we face these daily challenges in so many areas of our life.. that new job, the new relationship, we face little battles everyday some people obviously have greater battles than others…health challenges which encompass not only the physical but mental, emotional, spiritual.. We are as human beings resilient, adaptable, hopeful…the human spirit is limitless… I guess the takeaway from all this for me is to keep going for what you desire, to keep punching, to keep dreaming, to live life you can look back on that you can say I gave to another shot. Thanks for listening!    

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55 Turn the Arrows Inwards for Liberation with Niamh Cronin

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Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2022 116:11


Ep 55: Turn the Arrows Inwards for Liberation with Niamh Cronin, Writer, Mystic, Mentor    https://www.origen.earth/   “For you cannot teach someone who they already are, yet you can create a space for them to remember.” - Niamh Cronin   ORIGEN: “Embark on the primordial InnerQuest to unlock the full spectrum of your natural human intelligence and potential.”      Niamh Cronin is a modern mystic, an international speaker, storyteller, facilitator and founder of ORI-GEN. She travels the world facilitating her work through workshops, events, retreats and online training. Her unique approach consists of utilising modern day transformational tools and ancient teachings and using the arts as a means of translation. Niamh provides a “space to remember” where you can embark on a self paced inner experiential journey into your body's natural intelligence and wisdom, to reconnect you to who you really are!   Join us as we connect with Niahm directly from Ibiza for our second mind expanding, fun and lighthearted chat! In this episode be prepared for a high level conversation of deep untangling and internal unravelling, where we turn the arrows inward for liberation and embark on the ultimate innerquest to know our true human nature and potential!!  *Details for the upcoming INNER SPACE as mentioned in the podcast for April 2022, please see below:  www.origen.earth/innerspace Application For INNER SPACE  - APRIL 2022 Thank you for expressing interest in our upcoming INNER SPACE: A 4 month Inner Immersion for High Impact Leaders and Individuals who desire to elevate their state, develop a high degree of inner self mastery and create space to realise their higher potential.   To be considered for our next intake in April 2022, please submit your application here and if successful Niamh will be in contact and share the next steps.             Application form: https://c3bq4cnnt32.typeform.com/to/Fk9F7Peq   Todays Topics and Conversational points: Welcome back Niahm! What a year it's been!! Big conversations and big questions Where are you at, Niahm? Going through change True liberation and potential at this time An opportunity right now to realise our potential Last time we spoke, the choice point and the grand splitting Choosing the natural path How free are we really? Finding the learning and wisdom in the challenge The process of acceptance  AI vs the organic way The agenda on steroids! Being on the journey with it all and all that's unfolding Our perception of freedom is a shift in perception Believing we are imprisoned or free? Liberating our perception and liberating the inner reality What does reality look like if you are truly free? What does it mean to feel fully alive The paradigm of fear and division  The compromise of getting the V The propaganda machine Niahm's epic escape!! Niamh's invitation to step out of the intellect Are we becoming imprisoned in a hive mind? A hybrid mecca Having a greater conversation through expansion  Our multidimensional nature and setting intentional language The limited matrix or an expanded conversation Perhaps there's a different way to relate to the matrix The process to liberation is reconciling and coexisting with the matrix A deep untangling that takes place in your heart The ultimate refinement process  The virus is designed to instruct the DNA to evolve Seeing it as opportunity as expansion There's a physiological process to go through Cultivating InnerSpace  Be the wise warrior at this time  Harnessing our light and potential, we are a bio computer A catalyst for change depends where the individual is at To know you have choice is to know we have freewill The fear we encounter out in the world The primal wound of acceptance Feeling the fear and doing it anyway Steve's profound moment with the police Working with natural law and saying a prayer Taking a tangible experience to learn and grow from Consciously shifting your focus out of the mind and into the heart Shifting into a different vibrational space We become the effect of the environment Being subject to the will of a system or structure We are still giving energy and feeding the system when operating from the mind A practice that shifts our awareness out of the mind  Choosing to create space and containers to remember our liberation We are that powerful, we can shift and alchemise atoms, spirit and matter We can shift potentials and probabilities, this is a mastery InnerSpace and  the inner quest , a way of being  Being intentional and living from that inner space Materialising a new experience and you're operating from a space beyond the system Steve's supermarket story  Certain keys we can use like an actor Being relaxed and having a normal human experience  Where does your awareness reside? The space you occupy in reality  The conversation, the energy keeps wanting to bring us back to a dialectic  Niamhs shift in innerspace practice of stillness  Being present in our body Creating a subtle shift and vibrational attunement Getting caught up in my head and being human  Rules and programming and the child analogy Liberation is mental, physiological, emotional and energetic Learning to shift our awareness from the mind to coherence to the heart  We are the affect of the environment not the effect of the environment We must learn to turn the arrows inwards Rewiring the autonomous nervous system External control vs mastering your innerspace We become the effect of the environment  Lived and learned memory and emotional memory triggers Translating and transmuting emotions  The path of the wise warrior, we cannot bypass the emotional and inner wounds We need to become aware of unprocessed wounds or traumas  We cannot bypass the emotional processing  Creating a space to directly feel it for themselves Simple process for micro moments and space  The subtle orientation story  We are connecting to a greater source of intelligence, neuroception  Steve's flashback story of playing Jack The Ripper The shift of energy and attunement and the osmosis Coming into your centre and being in your emotions Neuroception and translating what you're' feeling in this moment  Developing a reference point and coherence between the heart and mind Niahm's quest and journey to finding the true intelligence and own synthesis  My original blueprint  The distillation can be simple and practical  Coming into your centre of power  Niamhs simple centering practice exercise The force and the pendulum exercise Niamh guides us through it! Being the centre of your own universe  Hopefully you are following along at home!! Steve's reaction and how it all went for him! Aikido analogy from Niahm Alchemising the imbalance in the world Flowing with the force and letting it dissipate Choosing to embrace the force and manoeuvring back into safety Aikido master at retreat Past lives and the body stores memory Intuitive, extra-sensory and translating your genetic memory Accessing other genetic memory, traits and abilities Moving in out of space time Innerspace and remembering our potential Infinite movie Is the moon hollow? Hollywood and movies hiding truth in plain sight The orientation practice  We always need to be oscillating and knowing where our awareness resides Playing with reality, reality is malleable  The Matrix and being an infinite creator being Achieving time slowing down Natural born intuitive, clairvoyant and clairsentient  Spontaneous time slowing down and reality shifting with her clients See through particles and atoms, reality merging  Our multidimensional self Doctor Strange  Awakening and stepping into our potential Dreamtime, no time, bi locating Merging with the morphogenic field of a place or location Translating multi-dimensional layers and more of our world Safety and feeling physically safe in your body Cultivating safety in Innerspace, a multi sensory process (1:25:16) As we awaken we expand our awareness but we need the tools to master it We need to have safety in our nervous system to hold the expansion Learning the hard way and the quest to awaken and being harmony with our nervous system What does a burnout feel like? Self paced journey Cultivating space and time  Thinking in terms of linear time Playing with time and space and achieving lifetimes of growth in months Love at first sight Love is a reflection of energy divided by time Connection and energy into a relationship Netflix show “Love Is Blind” Dating in pods! An experiment in falling in love Fast emotional connections leading to a real connection Preconceived beliefs and real chemistry Liberating ourselves during the conversation Creating space for perception shifts  Many ways to liberate ourselves at this time Magical experiences on the podcast  Taking responsibility for creating our life and embodying it  Having real and tangible experiences Rob's getting fired up! Feeling alive and playfulness Changing your perception of reality Love is the most powerful energy  Being touched by life Love Is For Ever A beautiful and rare synergy Spaces and places We carry so much distortion around how we translate emotions  Ancestral memory and unlocking our original genetic blueprint I was at one with the universe!! Samadhi moment Can we recreate peak moments and experiences? Having reference points, not from the books! Flash moments and epiphanies  Observations from the space in Origen Spontaneous insights and cultivation of safety in the nervous system Tapping into the probability of potential We liberated ourselves!!! Is it too much to ask to have amazing moments all the time? There's always a natural expansion and contraction  Our relationship with the contraction is distorted Opening up wormholes of conversation Life is as volatile as Bitcoin!! Crypto for chicks! Expanding into the metaverse  Firstly we should be curious about expanding into our human nature This is a mirror, a reflection back to us, a universe within us The AI and tech universe  All life and all things are spiritual  Spiritualism is contained in all things  Understanding our human nature, dualistic approach The path to wholeness is a synthesis the embodiment of all facets  What's right and wrong? Coming back to inner reality Being in right relationship and occupying the space in it It comes back to where are you resourcing your power? It all comes back to Innerspace  To create a space to have a direct experience of their potential Liberation is only possible if we have a direct experience of it We are spiritual beings having a physical experience Finding out more about Niahms work and Innerspace & Origen  www.origen.earth Thanks again Niamh!!!                                                                      Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob's blog!    

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54 The Crumbling Narrative Vs The Freedom Convoy

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Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2022 102:51


54 - The Crumbling Narrative vs The Freedom Convoy Topics and conversational points: Global Change Narrative Crumbling? CENSORSHIP: Rogan being Censored - a sign of desperation CIVIL DISOBEDIENCE: Vaccines not being taken AWAKENING TO VACCINE HARM - Myocarditis and Pericarditis EXAMPLE - 1 Blood Work & Congress testimony. “I'VE NEVER SEEN ANYTHING LIKE THIS" - DR ZANDRÉ BOTHA - JERM WARFARE https://www.bitchute.com/video/sk2vtRmLegSa/ - See Videos and then Peter McCullough in Testimony to Congress  This South African Doctor uses Dark Field Microscopy which reveals Blood analysis showing destroyed blood cells post vaccine, and while Spanish material scientists are showing nano tech and circuitry from self assembling particles within the vaccine - also check out La Quinta Columna (Spanish website) or www.orwelll.city (English translation of the Spanish website) Videos DOD/FAUCI CAUGHT IN MASSIVE SCANDAL HIDING DEATH AND DAMAGE FROM COVID VACCINES https://www.bitchute.com/video/jwn9HCfW7AEd/ EXAMPLE 2 - Sue Grey and the NZ Lab Discussion - Sue Grey reveals frightening Nano tech has been found in Pfizer jabs in a NZ Lab as well as we have seen it from Labs in Germany, USA, and South Africa. EXAMPLE 3 - Harm to Children People coming forward with Vaccine Harm and Harm to children NZDSOS Reasons for Not Injecting Children - they say: https://nzdsos.com/2022/01/06/reasons-for-not-injecting-children/ 1. The risks demonstrably outweigh the benefits of COVID vaccinations for young children 2. Some children will likely die or be permanently injured from these vaccines 3. The clinical trials for the paediatric vaccine were far too small 4. There is no long-term safety data 5. There is no COVID pandemic emergency for children 6. Early intervention with safer drugs (e.g. Ivermectin) and nutritional supplements (e.g. vitamin C, vitamin D and Zinc) has been shown to be effective Much more information in this post on their website: https://nzdsos.com/2022/01/06/reasons-for-not-injecting-children/ Covid officially over in Sweden! Boris (UK) announces Covid over! CONVOY Trucker Movement - Freedom Convoy  - Canada - and Trudeau has run away…. Australia has started one as well to Canberra Today at time of Recording NZ has got one going right now Around the world They are peaceful, reports of right wing white supremacy has been made up my media to scare people - their main tool of FEAR. Trudeau has pathetically tried to label them as destructive - There is sooo much love and light at these family friendly events. ARE WE SEEING UNITY? Coming back from separation -  extremes of polarity - Emergence of Unity - Compression back to one people? As the truth comes out. Personal Change The threat of being a 2nd class citizen had no teeth for me! NATURE Enjoying the new Garden - connecting to nature. Making New Friends Living completely without Fear and letting the masks go entirely - I don't walk into venues anymore with a mask - this was a journey, at first challenging to break your own programming. Daily Rituals of Reality Management Mental wellbeing Doing fundamentals (under stress, most important) Nature Holding space for Rest What has the pandemic taught me about myself? See every challenge as an opportunity for growth - things like relationship break ups - or losing jobs Quote: “Every Adversity, every Failure, Every Heartache carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit.” - Napoleon Hill We FINISH with a Protest Song! Our Friend James who has gone to support the NZ convoy today on Waitangi Day - he sings us a song called Illuminati - written 20 years ago, seems just as relevant today - Recorded Gorilla Style. Illuminati, Written by Ron, Sung by James Talking to the Individual, The independent man This here aint no ritual, talking about your land Do you wanna know a Secret? Do you wanna save your Soul?   Soul, Do you wanna Save your soul? Soul, Do you wanna Save your soul?   The Illuminati laughs Cos the money games a trap Like the sheep they want us fat and lazy   Look all around, all around the World People all complain, they don't know, no, they don't know   They want you in the Big City working for the master plan. They sell you a plastic paradise while they take away your land Well some people like it lazy, these people got no soul.   Soul, they aint got no soul? Soul, no, they aint got no soul?   The Illuminati laughs Cos the money games a trap Like the sheep they want us fat and lazy   Look all around, all around the World People all complain, they don't Know, no, they don't know   Now don't go get too comfortable, don't you try to look away as long as your'e driving your big fine car your thinking everythings ok   Well one one day your gonna wake up yeah one day your gonna know   Know, Yeah one day you'll know Know, I said one day you'll know The lluminati laughs The Money Games a Trap Like the Sheep they want us Fat and Lazy Look all around, all around the World The People all complain, They don't Know, no, They don't know, what I know, they don't know no no no they don't know what I know no no no (End) Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob's

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53 RealityBites #2 Making Your Wellbeing Your Top Priority

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Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2021 12:34


Hi everyone, here's a quick and impromptu realitybites episode to check in to see how you are going in these crazy times we are experiencing...remember that your health and wellbeing is your top priority! Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob's blog!    Topics and conversational points: ( In chronological order ) Checking in to see how your reality is going Previous guests stories and struggles Finding inspiration in these times and hope You are not alone! The polarity that's happening in the world Discerning information in our current reality Left vs Right Knowing the good to know the bad The great awakening sweeping the world Knowing thyself Being on the inner journey The foundational questions? Where are we heading? What are you focusing on at this time? Viewing life through the lens of energy? Your innate lifeforce and intelligence Making your wellbeing your priority Checking in with yourself Giving yourself space from the drama Nurturing yourself Leading a healthy lifestyle Listen to your bodies wisdom Your body is the vehicle in this reality Be well!  

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52 Gardening for the Mind and Food for Thought with Steve Hart - Permaculture Expert

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Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2021 96:04


In this episode we have an incredible chat with Steve Hart, a permaculture expert with a tremendous wealth of knowledge and experience of our relationship with food and how we grow it. As he says, every plant has minerals and medicine in it. Journey with us as we explore Steve's wisdom and passion to be curious about what we feed our mind, body and soul... There are so many levels to this discussion and points of interest, so please refer to the topics and conversational pointers below! Enjoy! Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob's blog! Topics and conversational points: ( In chronological order ) Our first gardening show! Food for thought Pirates and 700years of lying  Maori treaty, the Crown and past history English rule of the oceans and the origin of pirates Flags and maritime history The creation of usury How a story can change and alter through time Taking a look at the “truther” TruthSocial social media platform The Real History Channel M.S King, private investigative journalist author of history Talking permaculture Searching for truth and rabbit holes Being born a triple Aries and astrology Steve's challenge born into this astrological chart Looking into astrology  Aries significance  Human Design, Mayan, Chinese and conventional views of astrology Permaculture conference in Brazil, 2008 experience International Permaculture College Moldova and Steve's early knowing what he wanted to do - Ecology Architecture Steve's connection to nature and land, growing up rural Two years in the 3rd form at school Steve's experience as an architect and intro to permaculture What is permaculture? Permanent Agriculture Sustainability and the ethics, principles of permaculture Climates and culture significance Agriculture is our culture Steve's travel experience as a way as learning Opportunity in Afghanistan to assist them shifting their agriculture to organics Job in Moldova and groundswell of farmers to go organic Moldova's history with Russia Agendas and the failure of Moldova's plan to shift to organics Eastern Europe and corruption and Steve's Kosovo travel story with police Steve's Rio travel story and experiencing risky situations Gardening and securing food source Food and the love of it and it's cultural significance Prepping and food shortages 1080 campaign rabbit hole Becoming self sufficient What do we grow? Everyone can garden on some level Hydroponics and aquaponics  Our constitution needs connection to nature Aspects of our spiritual connection to nature Biodynamics and Rudolf Steiner  Plant medicine's We are limiting our connection to natural vitality Growing a well balanced garden, you can start right away Heirloom seeds vs conventional and their viability  https://www.kingsseeds.co.nz/ Plant Varietal Rights  The agenda of food control Nature is the way Our innate connection to nature We are living in fear and humanity's changing consciousness The age of aquarius  Is every living organism going through a change as well? The astrological influences we are all connected to The north american indians and the original peoples of Australia  The emergency and the importance of Australia Indiginous peoples and permaculture Are we a hybrid species? Are we conditioned by cultural programming to view reality a certain way? The Bad War: The Truth NEVER Taught About WWII - M.S.King Nancy Wake: The White Mouse  Easy gardening and what to do and get - some tips The importance of good rich nutrient soil Immediate foods you can grow The lost art of Foraging  Radish, Silverbeet, sweetcorn Every plant has medicine and mineral in it Potatoes, kumara and pumpkin, beans, peas Raw foods - Susan Kenton Raw Food Daily practice of questioning your programming Julia Sich - Julia's Edible Seeds http://www.juliasedibleweeds.com/ Jonathan Drori - Around The World In 80 Plants Food co-ps Growing Rolled Oats  Perpetual plants- plants you can pick continually - sorrel, chives, kale Flowers you can eat, roses, chrysanthemum What to eat and not to eat - doing your own research Hemp industry and it's value Hemp oil  https://hempnz.co.nz Final thoughts and comments - Steve's new political party Keep being curious!!  

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51 Navigating a groundswell of change during a personal journey with Laura Wood

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Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2021 74:19


Ep 51 - Navigating a Groundswell of Change During a Personal Journey with Laura Wood   In this episode we have a heart and soul centred chat about our changing reality with Laura, a teacher with a deep caring conscience for humanity and it's future.   There are so many levels to this discussion and points of interest, so please refer to the topics and conversational pointers below! Enjoy!   Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob's blog!    Topics and conversational points: ( In chronological order )   Intro sound bites &  Big energies happening in October There is a storm brewing! These are dark and challenging times We are all at different levels of awareness No jab no pay as a teacher More people joining VFF People are struggling  One source of truth? Being open and sharing your truth We are each on our own journey Working in special needs and having passion To jab or not to jab, that is the question? Open debate, democracy and different approaches Fact checkers Robert W. Malone and the MRNA V  The truth doesn't need to hide Are we in a mass hypnosis? Question everything… Mike Yeadon british pharmacologist  The information war There is an antidote to everything Letting go for the need to change people's opinions Trusting your souls path Dark and light coming to the surface Being a freedom fighter and the origins of “conspiracy theory” Keeping an open mind and pros and cons of the V Caring, empathetic human beings  Health and natural immunity Robert Kennedy Jnr, environmental lawyer The power of TV and media programming Symptoms vs healing the root cause Taking responsibility for our health Big pharma is big business Medical misdiagnosis and harm and iatrogenic Voices for Freedom network and support community; https://voicesforfreedom.co.nz/ Laura's first lockdown experience and realisations Some things were not adding up and feeling alone Becoming a coordinator and the call to action Finding your inner strength and creating your reality Creating bubbles of light and webs of connection to light Souls connecting for humanity Leaving a legacy of freedom and sovereignty The rise of the sacred/divine feminine One Lions Roar - song by Rome Connecting to new like minded souls Activating the inner warrior The rise of community support Ancient cultures and the art of unity Dictatorship and fear The power of pro choice Seeing through it all Faith in the next steps Existential fears We are still in a place of uncertainty Looking at the big picture Embracing everyone's own personal journey  What fears am I still carrying? The “emergency” Where are you placing your awareness? The low level state of anxiety is being amplified  Not getting caught up in the fear and your reaction Laura's wisdom! What's been suppressed from us? The New World emerging? Split timelines Humans evolving into a higher energy Focusing on a beautiful new world Navigating the dark and light Shamanic teaching and embracing your shadows Transmuting the dark aspects of your being Being gentle with yourself and coping tips Depression and anger and suppression Allowing your emotions to be expressed The path of acknowledging your inner dark and light selves  Virtue signalling  Being grounded in spiritual beliefs  Shining your light and being your truest self The original wound - check out episode 43!

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Ep 50 Smoke and Mirrors with concerned pharmacist - Paula Ralph

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Play Episode Listen Later Oct 19, 2021 69:23


Ep 50 - Smoke and Mirrors with concerned pharmacist - Paula Ralph   In this episode we chat to Paula Ralph who has 30 years of experience as a pharmacist, as well as being trained in NLP and mind/body techniques. Paula offers numerous years of first hand knowledge and wisdom in her field of expertise and gives her perspective to the current “pandemic” reality we have been facing.    There are so many levels to this discussion and points of interest, so please refer to the topics and conversational pointers below! Enjoy!   Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob's blog!    Topics and conversational points: ( In chronological order )   Connecting with nature Being the observer and the witness Gauging where the energy is at the moment Unplugging from the media and distraction Doing the best you can with the level of awareness you have Connection and human nature Our connection with technology Nature's energy and force and it's effect Letting go of the things that bring us down “We are the ones we are waiting for.” Attracting like minded souls Being back in the adventure again Keeping your vibration high & connecting to your truth Ego vs heart Resistance as a way to grow and change Expansion as a law of the universe What are you emanating out into the world? The new reality we are entering Steve's nature experience Talking about the jab Paula's experience as a pharmacist Human behaviour/NLP/Mind body techniques News delivery and behaviour News and media programming First thoughts on the V outbreak Panic and fear response The overwhelm of the health system Fight or flight response The programme of fear being pumped out Parasympathetic and sympathetic nervous system High level programming Being cheated on and heart vs head logic Alignment of heart, gut and listening to our intuition  Common sense and logic Compassion and kindness Existential fear Intelligent people and the control of money Different types of intelligence and status Lens of perspective The importance of questioning things Homeopathy and other ways to heal Kinesiology  Side effects of the jab Clots, Viagra and Erectile Dysfunction Concern for our youth Doing your own research  Data sheets of medicines Gene modifying jab We are electrical beings D-dimer tests Facing truths Looking at the science and facts Trance and hypnosis and the strategy of success NLP trainers entranced It's all theatre and what are you giving your awareness to Accessing the unconscious mind Seeing through what's really going on Project Veritas clip Fetal cell lines and the V The economy of truth Keeping us in state of suspense and fear Ivermectin and it's benefits Other treatments available Is it about health? Other modalities to consider Hydroxychloroquine  Smoke and Mirrors Trusting your own natural immunity Modern medicine and finding cures, resolving grief and trauma Freewill and taking responsibility for your own wellbeing Multi-dimensional and multi-faceted approach Distortions and waking up to a new version of reality

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49 The Reality of The Working Actor with Craig Hall and David Snell from Everybody Eats

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Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2021 88:23


If you'd like to share your thoughts with TV3 about cancelling Head High, and ask them to renew it, please write to them here: Nz_feedback@discovery.com Info@nzonair.govt.nz  Publicity@southpacificpictures.com   TV3 3 Flower St, Eden Terrace Auckland 1021 New Zealand   Phone +64 9 377 9730   Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website realityhub.love where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob's blog! Ep 49 - The Reality of the Working Actor with Craig Hall and David Snell from Everybody Eats everybodyeats.nz  Todays topics and conversational points: A quick update and special announcement from Steve regarding the tv show “Head High” We talk about big fast motorbikes! Why do we ride motorbikes? Solitude and freedom. Head High and it's challenges  The reality of filming a tv show  Motorcycle riding experience Craig and David share their passion for motorbikes The key's to regular work and success as an actor The importance of having a support network and mentors Determination and being bloody minded! Odd jobs and expectations from parents Having good fortune and help along the way Starting out as young actor and learning the ropes Craigs monologue story Getting into the flow of getting work It's about working hard, not feeling good enough Craigs LA experience Being motivated and determined Revolutionary Acting Programme Creating a scene group and it's benefits Being match-fit for acting The art of being relaxed How Craig met his partner Sara Steve's awesome memory of pic with Sara The importance of a support network Giving back to the community David's story and journey The lesson of recognising opportunity and being brave Success is being able to provide Financial tech and problem solving The power of algorithms  Making other people rich The importance of being socially responsible Being curious is a great quality The Beamer, the bach and the boat Everybody Eats - A food movement “Feeding bellies, not bins” Nick Loosley  https://everybodyeats.nz  Food wastage Greed at the cost of other things Looking back at how far you have come Maslow's hierarchy of needs The benefits of success is being able to give The tv show “The Strip” Having a great acting resume Craigs experience on Peter Jackson's “King Kong” Lot's of acting experience translates to knowing your craft Work begets work What's meant for you won't pass you by Acting as a passion and for enjoyment The joy of acting and not for the monetary reward Power Rangers The importance of having time out Craig's relocation story from Sydney Fomo Lifestyle key to happiness and a high priority  The importance of love and being loved Certainty vs Spontaneity Some closing philosophical musings Thanks for listening!  

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47 "Creative Energy is God Energy" with Actor and Filmmaker Jacob Masters

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Play Episode Listen Later Jul 7, 2021 57:33


On this weeks episode we meet with local actor and filmmaker Jacob Masters. This talented young creative also has a new web series in production called "Here If You Need" and is set to become a fully fledged Personal Trainer! Sit back and grab a cuppa as we chat about his work, passions and the hustle to survive as a working actor. We also touch on: How to create a life for yourself outside of the acting world and the importance of having a side hustle. The limitations of the country you are in and the work available. The benefit of learning from experienced actors. The feast and famine of being an actor. What would you do if it wasn't about the money?  Reaching a level where you choose work for it's artistic merit. The commercial reality of show business. We talk about Jacob's web series "Here If You Need" The web series deals with grief and suicide and how it affects the people left behind. The human condition and universal themes of existentialism. The development of the web series and how it came about. The importance of collaboration and harnessing creative energy. It will be available on "Here If You Need's" new YouTube channel coming soon!!! The inspiration from reading "The Artist's Way"- Julia Cameron The funding process of a web series. How to budget. Creating a worthwhile and quality product. Evolving characters, story, and artistic licence.  Dealing with themes of mental health and wellness and prompting conversation around suicide. Having empathy, compassion and holding space for people. Helping and having best intentions.  Final thoughts, accents and voice acting. Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and feel free to leave any comments about this episode, your feedback is welcomed! Also visit our: Website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can listen to the podcast online and read Rob's blog!  And special thanks as always to Browne St Cafe!                                    

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45 Reality Bites #1 With Lesley Turner Hall

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Play Episode Listen Later May 24, 2021 27:29


Welcome back to reality with RealityHub...! And, to our very first Reality Bites episode with Lesley Turner Hall, as we try our best to answer some amazing feedback she shared with us recently. Lesley a keen nature and fitness enthusiast and friend of the show posed some thought provoking questions whilst listening to episode 43 "The Grand Splitting and Humanity's Coming Choice Point" with Niamh Cronin.  Join us as we share some of her voice messages she recorded whilst rambling through nature in her now home Germany and our responses to what she said. Questions and topics she raises include: If you choose to get the V, or have already gotten the V, I have a third choice. My body will process and get through it and cope with it. Doing what society tells me to do, fear of certain freedoms being taken away, using ocean swims to overcome fear.  I'm with Rob and believe the body heals itself. Living a healthy lifestyle and keeping fit.  Are there areas in your life you are giving away your power? If I haven't gotten the V*rus does this mean I'm not giving away my power? Many thanks to Lesley for sharing her thoughts and ponderings! Love your feedback and hope you are keeping fit and healthy! And thanks again to Niamh Cronin for her wisdom that she shared in episode 43. We are sure there will be many more of our listeners out there who will benefit greatly from the wisdom that she shared. Also, thanks again to Browne St Cafe for their warm hospitality! Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and feel free to leave any comments about this episode, your feedback is welcomed!  Also visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can listen to the podcast online and read Rob's blog!           

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44 Consent and Universal Lore

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Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2021 46:35


We are back at Browne St Cafe to record our latest episode of RealityHub. On this episode we talk about the seasons of life, and why do we prefer certain seasons over others? We reflect back on our last episode with special guest Niamh Cronin and how it affected both of us at deeper levels. Her unique approach to our reality and the work that she does.  We chat about being an outsider, thinking differently and questioning things. The feeling about being alone with your way of thinking and viewpoint. We touch on resilience, the third choice point of humanity. The reality of contrasting expressions. Choosing between the two. Transmuting the V and taking back your power, drawing on innate wisdom and the multi-dimensional aspect of self. Becoming in alignment. Dealing with fear and uncertainty. Returning to trust and past experiences of getting through tough and challenging times. Deeper levels of unhealed traumas. "The wound is where the light gets in." ~ Rumi. Dealing with life lessons and everything is connected. Losing connection to your inner wisdom and source. Getting to the root causes of why we feel triggered by certain situations.  Primal wounds of survival. Living in the moment. Taking the next best steps.  Asking your future self for guidance. Timelines and changing them. Look at past experiences to help you.  We talk about first nation peoples, their connection to the land and their wisdom and the possibility that the V is targeting these people. Is it a way of severing their innate genetic spirituality? The natural world vs the artificial world.  We touch on NZ's Treaty of Waitangi. The history and the role of Maori culture.  Consent and the role of universal lore.  Everything is connected and our fractal nature. Thanks so much for listening! Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub. On Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and feel free to leave any comments about this episode, your feedback is welcomed! Also visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can listen to the podcast online and read Rob's blog!         

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43 The Grand Splitting and Humanity's coming Choice Point with Niamh Cronin

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Play Episode Listen Later Apr 18, 2021 98:55


Ep 43: The Grand Splitting and Humanity's Coming Choice Point with Niamh Cronin “You cannot teach someone who they already are, yet you can create a space for them to remember.” - Niamh Cronin   What if the real you is waiting to be remembered and unlocked from the programming of an ever increasing artificial world?   What if it was as simple as creating a space to remember to unlock your body's innate intelligence and original human blueprint.   Niamh Cronin is a modern mystic, an international speaker, storyteller, facilitator and founder of ORI-GEN. She travels the world facilitating her work through workshops, events, retreats and online training. Her unique approach consists of utilising modern day transformational tools and ancient teachings and using the arts as a means of translation. Niamh provides a “space to remember” where you can embark on a self paced inner experiential journey into your body's natural intelligence and wisdom, to reconnect you to who you really are!   Join us as we connect with Niahm directly from Ireland for an inspirational, mind expanding as well as fun and lighthearted chat! In this chat be prepared to be mind blown!!!   Topics and Conversational Points:   Niamhs New Zealand connection Beginning of Niamh's journey of realisations and grand mothers pivotal influence Growing up with curiosity and emotional challenges Sickness as a catalyst for a spontaneous awakening in 2014 Clairsentience, corporate life in Sydney and connection to body, emotions and a greater intelligence The unknown space and trusting the process and gentle nudges Suppressing the feminine True natural awakening happens at the focal point of compression Pressure as a naturally evolutionary force and translating our experience Coming back into our bodies and accessing a greater language and dimensions ORI-GEN explained, remembrance, ancient wisdom, bodies memory, storytelling activation, genetic blueprint & potential  The inner quest of discovering who you really are Synthesising & integrating our original blueprint Emotional intelligence and accessing the true nature of who we are Art as a medium  and moving into a nonlinear state & zero point Mythology and storytelling and dreaming with nature Ancient and indigenous culture and teachings  The model of reality and incarnational remembrance and non linear time The body as the intersection between heaven and earth Time and accessing other aspects of self through our bodies Dreamtime and indigenous Australian people, wounds and memory Planetary, cosmic and universal expressions of life Asking the body's innate intelligence to reveal trauma George Kavassilas and the universal journey Going fully into the wound and chaos as seen on a planetary level Avoidance, distraction and numbing Technological influence and remembering to turn inward Genetic choice point happening now Mind programming, the system and unlearning Contemplation and how we are translating the plandemic/pandemic The creation of the grand splitting, the virus, genetic keys and codes Assimilating into the technical intelligence/world, separation of source Time of corona and taking back our crown, our genetic ring Ascension vs descension process & genetic mutation Tangible and translatable for people Level 5 lockdown???! Having the virus and translating the experience Is the virus what we are being told?  The relationship with your innate body wisdom Activating memory and emotional response and trusting The virus is implanted in the human consciousness & triggering the fear wound The ultimate alchemy is to go into it and complete it Are we entering a dystopian world? Problem, reaction, solution..going deep Going with the plan or opting out what's our choice? A third option, the power of the pendulum, untangling from the matrix Our natural intelligence is more sophisticated than any technical intelligence The alchemical process & phasing out Experiencing all aspects of universal life Inverting the focal point of the energy At a deep level we can utilise anything that is unfolding in our life Integration and evolvement & the new universal expression The role of viruses as an evolutionary role to evolve & grow Taking back your power and responsibility The virus is engineered? The fear surrounded what's happening in the world Taking back our throne and empowerment An experience of the virus and the choice point Where are you still giving your power away?  Our body is a map of the universe and the matrix also exists in the body Moving beyond the controlling matrix A shamanic experience  Is ignorance bliss and honouring the path your own What is Niamhs superpower? The ability to see into who someone really is Bringing intimacy and human connection is so important now Beautiful morning ocean sea swims and overcoming fears So much to contemplate and sink in Steve's miscarriage experience Niamhs own miscarriage experience and her offering of advice Timing and giving birth to something else We have the power and ability to tap into universal lore and intelligence Being open to what we need to learn Siris timely intervention!!! 1:47:51 Moving through the process.. Thank you so much Niamh for your time, your wisdom and sharing your truth. To know more about Niamh and the work she does you can connect through her website:   www.origen.earth info@origen.earth    Or instagram: niamh_yvonne_cronin Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and feel free to leave any comments about this episode, your feedback is welcomed! Also visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can listen to the podcast online and read Rob's blog!

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30 Jeanene returns to Reality Hub for Lockdown 2.0 from Melbourne

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Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2020 75:30


Jeanene Tracy (co-host of Yeah Yeah Yeah Nah What? podcast) is back on the show live from Melbourne with Rob and Steve to talk about Lockdown 2.0 in the State of Victoria, Australia. While we discuss with her all things psychological and conspiratorial during her 'house arrest' from the freedom of NZ, Jeanene is going through it all over again! She commentates on life from the 'lucky country' and her need for fresh bread.

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29 So, How's your Reality going so far?

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Play Episode Listen Later Jun 28, 2020 69:17


Rob and Steve are back at Browne St Cafe in Avondale to discuss just how much our reality has changed since Covid19.  How do we navigate this new reality and make sense of it all? Are we on the precipice of a global shift in consciousness? Are the worlds systems in need of an overhaul? And what would our spiritual guides be thinking of our planets current status? Join us as we dive deep into these questions and much much more! Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob’s blog!  

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27 YeahYeahYeahNahWhat?

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Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2020 66:29


Ep 26 - YeahYeahYeahNahWhat?   Rob and Steve join Jeanene Tracy and Stephen Hunter from the YeahYeahYeahNahWhat? Podcast. Jeanene and Stephen are both actors and also coaches and two kiwis trying to make sense of it all! Their podcast is pretty cool too so check it out! https://open.spotify.com/show/0UW6DahqT0qI9YKq3HLpEY?si=6qpMUAjuRQKvpHmXtqGrYA   Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob’s blog!   Time code and Topics (some podcast players like Overcast allow you to tap the timecode to go straight to that moment in the podcast)   00:00 Steve’s intro to the podcast. 00:35 Start of show.  00:50 Intro music. 01:04 Two guests from YeahYeahYeahNahWhat? From Australia. 02:01 Who came up with your name and what’s it all about? 02:46 Steve H and his movie and how Aussies steal NZ things! 03:46 Robert Muldoons famous quote and Steve’s H radio story. 04:50 Curious about the world around us?  05:26 Valuing your own opinions.  06:10 A time of huge world events and drama. 06:38 Riots and protests across the USA. George Floyd.  07:41 People are angry at the system and government. 08:36 Leadership with empathy and compassion. 09:00 The American media and culture. Systemic problems History. Observations of the protests.  10:44 A time to speak up and be heard. 11:30 The economic impact of all the unrest.  12:11 The United States and division. Creating the division. 13:27 Will there be a resolution to all the problems in the world right now? 13:58 What can you do? You have a unique talent to share that can help. 15:01 Destroying their own communities. Lots of anger and energy.  16:00 Your inner wounds and expressing it in the outer world.  16:34 The collective consciousness and we are all affected and it’s all connected. 17:25 Steve recalls listening to YeahYeahYeahYeahNahWhat? 18:11 Put on your tin foil hat. 19:00 The news cycle and control of our thoughts. The controlling hand.  19:37 There was so much chaos and control. Suddenly it all changes again. 20:27 Jeanene’s dinner story and QR code signing in. 21:28 We live in a soundbite society. News changes when we get bored. 22:05 The news drive what we should be thinking. 23:01 Ohhh that’s woo woo! 23:31 We as humans are drawn to drama. 24:31 From a psychological point of view it’s fight or flight.  25:21 Our basic drive for survival.  26:00 People want to see the drama to make themselves feel better. 27:00 It all starts at school! 27:30 Steve’s story about the Joe Rogan Experience and getting a gun.  28:24 The right to bear arms? 29:00 American history. Defending their civil liberties. 30:20 The concept of being armed.  30:50 A world with only peace?  31:25 Is our logic desire in alignment with our true innate desire? 31:55 Jeanene’s gun story about response. Her bank robber story.  32:54 Our perception of what we will do and actual reality may differ.  33:10 The acting world and acting self vs personal self.  33:47 What level do we engage and have conversation with? 34:40 The wounded inner child.  35:15 It’s all in the meaning and what we attach it to.  36:00 The perception of who we are. 36:40 We are responsible for how we create our own reality. 37:31 Trump and proving a story to be true. What we perceive and believe.  38:40 Living through the pained child and personal evolution. 39:11 Dealing with children and their hurt and where it’s coming from. 40:01 Growing up is tough and finding your way in the world. 41:04 The lockdown in NZ vs Australia. 42:51 Hairdresser and staying open. 43:50 There was so much confusion and it was unprecedented. 44:16 Doing the best you can and making it all up.  45:11 The fear and control. Masks or no masks.  46:03 Travel between Australia and New Zealand? Inter state?  46:50 The film industry and Steve H story about filming during lockdown. 48:25 Which countries will open up to international travel? 49:11 Handpicked and essential travel. 50:05 Keeping the economy open and moving and betraying the arts. 50:52 Looking after the creative arts industry.  52:16 We don’t want to fund peoples lifestyle choices. 52:56 Cockwomble. 53:24 NZ and moving to level 1. 54:34 Leaked reports that Covid19 was an overreaction.  55:31 What does the future hold for the economy and business? 56:21 Why are we still at level 1?  56:34 Should we have gone to Level 4? 57:38 Having no idea what to do and so much contradiction.  58:44 Opening up fully and getting back on your feet early. 59:19 The lucky 3.  1:00:07 The Hunger Games. 1:01:03 The future bubble of travel. 1:01:30 Using NZ as a guinea pig by example of control being played out.  1:03:20 Putting on the rugby hat.  1:04:02 Making the most of travelling in your backyard. 1:04:50 How to find YeahYeahYeahNahWhat? Spotify and Itunes. 1:05:57 Thanks for being on our show! 1:06:13 Outro music. Ep 26 - YeahYeahYeahNahWhat?   Rob and Steve join Jeanene Tracy and Stephen Hunter from the YeahYeahYeahNahWhat? Podcast. Jeanene and Stephen are both actors and also coaches and two kiwis trying to make sense of it all! Their podcast is pretty cool too so check it out! https://open.spotify.com/show/0UW6DahqT0qI9YKq3HLpEY?si=6qpMUAjuRQKvpHmXtqGrYA   Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob’s blog!   Time code and Topics (some podcast players like Overcast allow you to tap the timecode to go straight to that moment in the podcast)   00:00 Steve’s intro to the podcast. 00:35 Start of show.  00:50 Intro music. 01:04 Two guests from YeahYeahYeahNahWhat? From Australia. 02:01 Who came up with your name and what’s it all about? 02:46 Steve H and his movie and how Aussies steal NZ things! 03:46 Robert Muldoons famous quote and Steve’s H radio story. 04:50 Curious about the world around us?  05:26 Valuing your own opinions.  06:10 A time of huge world events and drama. 06:38 Riots and protests across the USA. George Floyd.  07:41 People are angry at the system and government. 08:36 Leadership with empathy and compassion. 09:00 The American media and culture. Systemic problems History. Observations of the protests.  10:44 A time to speak up and be heard. 11:30 The economic impact of all the unrest.  12:11 The United States and division. Creating the division. 13:27 Will there be a resolution to all the problems in the world right now? 13:58 What can you do? You have a unique talent to share that can help. 15:01 Destroying their own communities. Lots of anger and energy.  16:00 Your inner wounds and expressing it in the outer world.  16:34 The collective consciousness and we are all affected and it’s all connected. 17:25 Steve recalls listening to YeahYeahYeahYeahNahWhat? 18:11 Put on your tin foil hat. 19:00 The news cycle and control of our thoughts. The controlling hand.  19:37 There was so much chaos and control. Suddenly it all changes again. 20:27 Jeanene’s dinner story and QR code signing in. 21:28 We live in a soundbite society. News changes when we get bored. 22:05 The news drive what we should be thinking. 23:01 Ohhh that’s woo woo! 23:31 We as humans are drawn to drama. 24:31 From a psychological point of view it’s fight or flight.  25:21 Our basic drive for survival.  26:00 People want to see the drama to make themselves feel better. 27:00 It all starts at school! 27:30 Steve’s story about the Joe Rogan Experience and getting a gun.  28:24 The right to bear arms? 29:00 American history. Defending their civil liberties. 30:20 The concept of being armed.  30:50 A world with only peace?  31:25 Is our logic desire in alignment with our true innate desire? 31:55 Jeanene’s gun story about response. Her bank robber story.  32:54 Our perception of what we will do and actual reality may differ.  33:10 The acting world and acting self vs personal self.  33:47 What level do we engage and have conversation with? 34:40 The wounded inner child.  35:15 It’s all in the meaning and what we attach it to.  36:00 The perception of who we are. 36:40 We are responsible for how we create our own reality. 37:31 Trump and proving a story to be true. What we perceive and believe.  38:40 Living through the pained child and personal evolution. 39:11 Dealing with children and their hurt and where it’s coming from. 40:01 Growing up is tough and finding your way in the world. 41:04 The lockdown in NZ vs Australia. 42:51 Hairdresser and staying open. 43:50 There was so much confusion and it was unprecedented. 44:16 Doing the best you can and making it all up.  45:11 The fear and control. Masks or no masks.  46:03 Travel between Australia and New Zealand? Inter state?  46:50 The film industry and Steve H story about filming during lockdown. 48:25 Which countries will open up to international travel? 49:11 Handpicked and essential travel. 50:05 Keeping the economy open and moving and betraying the arts. 50:52 Looking after the creative arts industry.  52:16 We don’t want to fund peoples lifestyle choices. 52:56 Cockwomble. 53:24 NZ and moving to level 1. 54:34 Leaked reports that Covid19 was an overreaction.  55:31 What does the future hold for the economy and business? 56:21 Why are we still at level 1?  56:34 Should we have gone to Level 4? 57:38 Having no idea what to do and so much contradiction.  58:44 Opening up fully and getting back on your feet early. 59:19 The lucky 3.  1:00:07 The Hunger Games. 1:01:03 The future bubble of travel. 1:01:30 Using NZ as a guinea pig by example of control being played out.  1:03:20 Putting on the rugby hat.  1:04:02 Making the most of travelling in your backyard. 1:04:50 How to find YeahYeahYeahNahWhat? Spotify and Itunes. 1:05:57 Thanks for being on our show! 1:06:13 Outro music.          

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26 The Double Edged Sword

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Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2020 52:43


Rob and Steve catch up at the Browne Street Cafe in Avondale Auckland (check it out, super good - https://www.brownestreet.co.nz) to celebrate the finish of our lockdown and we talk about the double edged sword of this new normal, the imposed technocratic world and its pros and cons... Also fans of Reality Hub might like a new podcast from a friend of Robs called Yeah Yeah Yeah Nah What, which you can find on Spotify, search for it, its cool!

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Ep 25 The Reality of the Emperors new clothes

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Play Episode Listen Later May 6, 2020 53:20


Today Rob and Steve get together after a long break, to break down the broken world. Is it really what it appears to be? Enjoy this thought provoking episode. R&S   Ep 25 - The Reality of the Emperor’s New Clothes   Today Rob and Steve get together after a long break, to break down the broken world. Is it really what it appears to be? Enjoy this thought provoking episode.   Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob’s blog!   Time code and Topics (some podcast players like Overcast allow you to tap the timecode to go straight to that moment in the podcast)   00:00 Opening theme. 00:17 Steve’s opening thoughts about freedom and civil liberties. 01:15 Equal rights and voice? Equality? 01:44 The right of having a different opinion. 02:55 Respecting all human beings. 03:40 Hospitals quiet and empty? Can you question technology and it’s impact? 04:37 Freedom to think differently. Having your own thoughts. 05:07 Freedom of health and freedom of having an opinion. 06:04 How dare you choose your own thoughts! 07:05 It’s not up to you to question our authority!! 07:38 Believing the mainstream media. 08:00 Believing in your own sovereignty.  08:37 Taking your time to consider and honour your own decisions. 09:13 Your right to ask! Quality and reliable information. 10:10 Questioning the tests. Thinking freely. 11:00 The fear programme. Love is the answer.  11:41 Big opening talk! 12:10 It’s all nonsense. Critical thinking. 12:40 Trusting your intuition. 13:06 Critical thinking is so vital. 13:43 Recycling the general consensus. 14:24 Taking time to know when to speak out. 15:00 How many people are afraid to express themselves honestly. 15:45 Navigating all the information out there. 16:36 Medical professionals and other points of view. 17:11 Pre-existing health conditions. 17:35 Freedom of speech is your fundamental right. 18:24 Loving and honouring and respecting humanity. 18:53 Question, question, question. 19:18 Six groups own all the mainstream media entities. 19:56 What is the grand scheme of things, the big picture, the agenda? 20:43 Mass vaccinations? For or against? 21:40 Herd immunity. 22:01 Shout out to LondonRealtv. Brian Rose. Independent voice. #londonrealarmy www.londonreal.tv  22:35 Freedom of speech. Amazing guests.  23:29 Speaking your mind, censorship. 23:58 Fighting back against censorship.  24:21 An opposing view on events. 25:05 Having the right of having an opinion. 25:46 Will the truth ever really come out about this? I just want the truth. 26:15 Compliance and the new normals. 26:54 It’s great people are wanting to do the right thing. 27:16 It’s ok to ask questions about reality. 27:40 The million dollars story.  28:41 Respecting other people’s behaviour and actions. 29:24 The logic of social distancing. 30:10 What exactly is going on.  30:48 Dr Rashid Buttar.  31:42 Fear creates stress on the immunity and also psychological. Fear vs danger. 33:00 Weakened immune system. It’s not just about the virus.  34:00 What did your gut instinct tell you? Your inner wisdom.  35:16 Thinking about the grand scheme of things on a planetary level. 36:00 Coping from a practical point of view. 36:41 The loss of civil liberties? Cashless society. 37:53 The control of technology. 38:30 The tracking app in Australia. 39:15 The dystopian society? Incremental steps. 40:00 What’s in that vaccination? 40:30 Having an awareness and being open minded. 41:20 Being open to new knowledge.  41:59 Becoming the best version of yourself. 42:59 Owning your super power.  43:44 Why is our life really being altered?  44:30 You have a right to your cognitive liberty. 45:12 The ability to control your internal reality. 45:45 The experience of your reality.  46:20 Take time to find the answers. 47:25 Sweden’s response to it all.  48:20 Looking at both sides to the lockdown. 49:48 The building 7 analogy. 50:43 Does any of this resonate? 51:05 Best ways to connect. 51:30 Rob’s blog.  52:38 Closing thoughts. 53:03 Outro music. 

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Ep 23 Time for a Reality Check

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Play Episode Listen Later Mar 31, 2020 61:11


Rob and Steve chat remotely while under the Covid cover in NZ. We have a chilled 'Reality Check' episode and discuss the importance of exercising your cognitive liberty to discern what's real from the information being fed to us by mass media. Enjoy the dissection of opinion and the relaxed approach we take today from the home bubble shelter! Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob’s blog!  

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77 - Virtual Insanity w/ Reality Hub

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Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2020 55:21


We don't talk Jamiroquai but we do talk about celebrities losing their mind on this very special episode of Baboon Yodel. Rob and Stephen from the fantastic podcast Reality Hub (www.realityhub.love) join us remotely to talk isolation, how it's affecting the world and especially the singles out there. Yes, we know everybody has a podcast about this now. TWITTER: @BaboonYodel FACEBOOK: @BaboonYodel WEB: www.baboonyodel.com INSTAGRAM: BaboonYodel

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Ep 21 Jimmy Burroughes - From Corporate High Flyer to Living Life on Purpose

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Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2020 89:15


Rob and Steve talk with the nicest inspirational business mentoring and strategic specialist guest ever to grace our studio, and he bought chocolate doughnuts! Setting the bar high before even dropping his pearls of wisdom, please welcome to the beautiful Reality Hub "covid free" studios, from deep within the heart of Avondalé Heights - New Zealand, the great and wise Jimmy Burroughes!  Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob’s blog!   Time code and Topics (some podcast players like Overcast allow you to tap the timecode to go straight to that moment in the podcast)   00:16 Start of show.  01:03 Pros and cons of being a freelancer touched on. 01:37 How do we get a name for our show? 02:15 Intro to Jimmy Burroughes. Welcome. 03:38 From James to Jimmy. The re-brand. 04:29 Jimmy James! 05:09 What’s in a name? Looking at our names. 06:50 Family histories and genealogy. 07:51 Power of passports. 09:00 Leading millennials.  09:45 Jimmy and a lot of traveling. 10:30 Americanisms, y’all!  11:44 Brit coming to NZ and vowels. Different pronunciations. 12:50 How we met Jimmy.  14:08 Corporate world. When did you feel it was time to leave? 14:54 Predicted careers and changing direction. 15:30 Corporate life can be amazing and accelerates growth.  16:50 Checking out of the corporate world. Taking perspective. 17:24 There are other ways of making a living. 18:03 Change and wisdom from growth. 18:44 What have you been up to in the last 5 years Jimmy? 19:41 Two years of intense work. Two year cadences. 20:40 Time for something else, travel. 21:30 Working at an international Polytechnic.  22:22 Personal life began to suffer.  23:00 Something had to give and traveling around Europe. 23:31 Arriving in NZ with $80 in my pocket. 24:30 Ex Army recruiter said stay in NZ. 25:15 Parting ways and marriage break up. 27:17 Following the normal programme of settling down. 27:40 Having different hopes for the future in a relationship. 28:12 The yin and yang of relationships. 29:00 The moment of change. Trying freelance before jumping fully in. 30:00 Going out on your own is the hardest thing to do. 30:30 Living your passion project. Swimming analogy.  31:25 It can take courage to go out on your own. 31:51 I want people to walk away better to have known me. 32:25 What am I here for? 32:49 Time in Latin America. 33:10 Having a revelation that I do like coaching. 34:10 The reality of being a digital nomad. 35:30 Two perspectives on it.  36:11 Being a workaholic on your passion project. 37:15 The struggle of always being on and available. 37:35 Life by design. 37:55 Diving is my favourite pastime. 39:34 Always finding the balance. What are you prepared to sacrifice? 40:34 Digital douchebags! The instagram reality.  41:10 Being on a glorified gap year. No offense! Burning through your savings. 42:11 The entrepreneurs and people who work remotely.  43:00 The pull up banner of her bedroom and working around the world. 43:40 Google Fi.  45:21 So many digital solutions out there. Whatsapp. Super easy messaging tool. 47:40 Coaching through Whatsapp and Zoom. 48:48 Clients and video messaging is more personable. 50:38 Sky scanner and Kayak great for travel. App called Rakuten.  52:10 Where are you up to now? Multi Generational Leadership Coaching.  53:23 In reality leaders need to build trust, communicate and problem solve. 54:00 Growth mindset. 54:18 Corona Virus and working from home.  54:51 Leading Millennials. Career growth. Micro feedback. 55:23 We all love getting praise or positive feedback. 56:55 Buzzwords and pigeon holing.  57:55 Coaching and mentoring and facilitating. Experiments. 59:10 Learning from mistakes. Not going as planned. 1:00:42 Trust and it being bilateral. 1:01:30 The trust conversation in the work environment. 1:02:40 Advice on moving into freelance. 1:03:11 Instagram has improved the quality of photos. 1:03:57 You got to love what you do. 1:04:44 Believe in what you want to do. Rock star your income not your lifestyle. 1:06:21 Pros and cons of being a freelancer. 1:07:33 When to double down and not give up. 1:08:43 It’s better to have options than corners. 1:10:10 Keeping your options open and your power balance. 1:11:10 You’ll have a lot of dark moments being a freelancer. 1:12:02 Do something for your wellbeing. 1:13:02 Dailyo app suggestion. Mood and Fitness tracker. 1:15:05 Not being a morning person and struggling with it. 1:16:01 Tips for getting alert in the morning. Exercise in the morning. 1:17:30 Meditation in the morning. 1:18:25 Your phone is like candy. 1:19:00 Saving money as a freelancer. No commute. 1:20:10 50 plus 5 plus 5 cycle explained. 1:21:33 Setting a morning routine. 1:22:30 Not checking your phone first thing in the morning. 1:23:17 Boundaries with work. 1:24:24 Too much consumption of information.  1:25:01 We are media junkies. 1:25:44 Wifi is more important than air!! 1:26:35 Getting in touch with Jimmy.  jimmyburroughes.com jimmyb@traverseconsult.com 1:27:57 What Jimmy can do for you! 1:28:47 Great having you on the show Jimmy! Cheers!  

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Ep 19 The Reality of Choosing Your Own Struggle

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Play Episode Listen Later Feb 23, 2020 86:46


Choosing Your Struggle -To be satisfied in life we need something to do, someone to love and something to hope for - Immanuel Kant Today Rob and Steve talk about choosing your own struggle to find meaning and purpose in life.   Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob’s blog!   Time code and Topics (some podcast players like Overcast allow you to tap the timecode to go straight to that moment in the podcast)   00:04 Big intro to the episode. 00:54 Having something to hope for and look forward to in life. 01:27 Life can be a struggle. 02:00 Steve’s busy week breakdown. 02:39 If you’re not having fun you’re not doing it right. 03:18 Busy good or bad? 04:12 Figuring out what’s ticking under the hood. 05:15 Man’s Search for Meaning - by Viktor Frankl. 06:30 Finding some meaning through suffering. 07:57 Being a psychiatrist in a concentration camp. 08:28 Locus of control. 09:19 Everything can be taken away from you except your ability to choose your thoughts. 10:23 Transcending suffering and finding some meaning in your life. 11:01 Nietzsche quote.  11:21 In acting we ask find your why. 12:12 Having a reason to wake up in the morning.  12:59 Steve’s Vespa story and priorities. 14:31 Avoiding pain and looking for pleasure. 15:15 There’s a price to pay for everything. 15:45 Steroids. Bearing fruit. 16:47 Distractions and having discipline. 17:00 Choosing your struggle that you chose. 17:41 Contributing to something bigger than you. 18:26 At the deepest level we want to be loved.  19:35 The reason why you may go to the gym, to feel attractive. 20:15 We all want to be liked.  21:05 Finding belonging in your job or work. Job identity. 22:04 The acting agent that culled off their books. 22:45 Steve’s acting agent story of being let go. 23:45 Building an identity around having a good agent. 24:19 Being grateful and finding the right fit. 25:00 Losing something that you built your identity with. 26:00 What’s meant for you won’t pass you by. 27:47 A chosen struggle. 28:14 We want to have a pay off. 28:52 Finding the meaning behind the struggle. 29:29 The Four Noble Truths of Buddhism. 29:58 All life is suffering. Inherent in life.    Truth 1        Suffering, pain and misery all exist in life. At some point we all experience this. Truth 2       Suffering is created from personal desire and craving. Attachment to an outcome or wanting something to be a certain way : eg: fame  Truth 3       Selfish craving can be overcome. The theory of non - attachment Truth 4       Freedom of suffering - the path to enlightenment 8 steps Right view, right intention, right speech , right action, right livelihood, right effort, right mindfulness, right concentration.   39:35 “Attachment is the origin, the root of suffering, hence it is the cause of suffering” -  Dalai Lama.   40:17 “Act without expectation.” - Lao Tzu “He who is attached to all things will suffer much.- Tao Ti Ching.   41:11 The 8 Steps to Enlightenment. Buddhist View. 42:11 Having awareness of your actions, what you say and do. 43:00 The art of right living. 43:11 The Law of Attraction explained. 44:32 Concentration vs distraction. 45:17 Meditation and it’s moments of clarity. 46:00 Don’t be so hard on yourself. We are human and imperfect. 46:30 Michael Singer* ( correction, not Salinger!) The Untethered Soul. 46:47 Who is that voice in your head? 48:27 Rob’s Mexico story. 50:13 The Deepak Chopra 12 Steps of Waking up to your true self.   1 Make conscious choices. 2 Choose words - embody empathy, compassion, joy avoid shame, guilt, hostility, fear. 3 Question your habitual certainties and habitual responses , food, social interaction. 4 Learn to see your body as a field of awareness. Body awareness ie; yoga. 5 Be immune to criticism but open to feedback. 6 Be a silent witness or non-judgmental to your inner dialogue. 7 Observe eye movements, facial expressions, tone of voice, body language, they reveal the inner world. 8 Shift perspectives, 1st person, 2nd person, 3rd person.   9 Understand mind body proclivities-the tendency to choose or do something regularly.   10 Practice self inquiry, the nature of reality. 11 Cultivate witnessing awareness in sleep - dream awareness. 12 Transcend all thought and experience mantra.   1:22:30 Deepak Chopra @deepakchopra on Instagram 1:24:39 Recommendation of your daily practices. 1:26:30 Outro music.  

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Ep 18 The Reality of Myth & Legend with Blair Strang & Marwin Silerio

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Play Episode Listen Later Feb 16, 2020 63:53


Today Rob and Steve talk with our legendary friends Blair Strang (Actor and Lawyer) and Marwin Silerio (Actor and Personal Trainer). We have them in at our Avondale' Heights based Reality Hub studio (in between trains going past outside) to talk over a drink (or two) and dinner as we chat about Myth and Legend in this day and age. Plus a few stories from our own experience with other worldly realms of spiritual perception! Also Steve, Blair and Marwin are currently rehearsing for a show at the Hamilton Garden Arts Festival between 27th - 29th of February 2020, so we talked a bit about that too, because its awesome! Come check out our play 'Morningstar' written by Albert Belz, by booking tickets through www.hgaf.co.nz and we will see ya there!   Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob’s blog!   Time code and Topics (some podcast players like Overcast allow you to tap the timecode to go straight to that moment in the podcast)   00:59 Intro music 01:31 Marwin and his gratitude journal. 03:03 What archetypes are we? 03:21 Introducing our guests. 04:20 Nicknames. 05:11 Steve’s Valentine story. 06:35 Speak to your love language. 07:34 Mythology, Legends and Archetypes. 07:57 Greek and Maori mythology and the bible. 08:37 The movie The Omen. 09:14 The play Morningstar. 10:56 Hamilton and it’s arts festival. 12:15 The theatres in Hamilton. 13:42 Outdoor amphitheatre. The Hamilton Gardens. 14:40 Archetypes and the different types. 15:22 Lucifer. Who was he? 16:24 Lucifer the guiding light of the universe. 17:01 The Bible and the story of angels. 18:01 Lucifer is there to represent everything that is wrong in society.18:34 Egyptian influence. 19:15 Symbols of dark and light. 19:41 The larger than life archetypes in everyday life. 20:40 Christianity and growing up with it. 21:44 Sunday school.  22:11 Boarding school and church every morning. 22:40 The Bible and Star Wars. 23:28 The good and bad in life and the force. 23:53 Contrast and good vs evil. 24:40 Black Panther. 25:10 Thanos a good guy? 25:40 The anti-hero archetype. The Sopranos. 27:09 Admiring characters that are above the law and take risks. 28:22 Being high on power. 28:51 Being caught up with the rules. 29:22 Falling Down the movie. 30:30 Ragnarok on Netflix. 31:29 The legend of the Norse Gods. 32:31 The Norse myth of the giants. 34:29 Big budget movies compared to lower budget films. 35:24 Maori mythology and stories. 36:04 The spirit highway of New Zealand. 38:00 Where do we go when we die? 38:20 Journey of Souls and what’s it all about. 39:27 We plan our lives here on Earth? 40:09 Karma and creating our life. 41:50 Documenting the souls journey and what happens in the spirit world. 43:03 Hypnotherapy and discovering through regression past lives. 44:00 The exploration of lives in between the spirit world. 45:11 Remembering past lives vs your current life. 46:16 The Creator of life? 46:40 Time just a construct?  47:22 Parallel existences and other dimensions. 48:05 The 5 sense reality and the world a simulation. 49:00 Virtual reality or holographic reality. 49:58 The dimension theory. 51:18 Brain Cox theory. 51:26 Blair’s interesting experience of his aunty passing. 52:33 She came back in a beautiful orange glow. 53:31 Energy and parallel universes. 54:18 Steve’s story of his mother passing. 56:14 Coping with grief. Going to another dimension. 56:55 Any interesting stories growing up for Marwin? 57:51 Rob’s story about his father passing. 58:48 Helping hand in a relationship from the afterlife. 59:49 You can’t destroy energy. 1:00:10 Looking out over sacred ground and Blair’s story. 1:01:11 Mount Manaia story of it’s creation. 1:02:40 Wrapping up. 1:03:37 Outro music.

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Ep 17 The Reality of Clairvoyance with Psychic Professional Jane Brebner

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Play Episode Listen Later Feb 9, 2020 77:33


Rob and Steve chat with Jane Brebner who has worked as a clairvoyant and medium for over 30 years!   www.nzpsychic.com Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob’s blog!   Time code and Topics (some podcast players like Overcast allow you to tap the timecode to go straight to that moment in the podcast)   00:00​ Intro to episode with Jane Brebner. 00:23​ Intro music. 00:35​ Know anything about astrology? 01:00​  Welcome Jane! 01:30​ janebrebner@nzpsychic.com 02:18​ Jane’s fascinating story and journey. 02:46​ Odd strange things happening in childhood. 02:55​ Successful real estate agent and thought I was having a heart attack. 03:39​ No silence to having nothing but silence. 04:07​ I heard a voice out of the blue. 04:43​ I must be really sick! 05:00​ More messages came to me and came true. 05:47​ I was deeply concerned. 06:10​ The voice was external and sexless. 06:37​ Who do you tell about this? 07:02​ The good thing about the spirit world. 07:43​ Meeting the clairvoyant Phyllis Tantrum. 08:08​ Have you been hearing voices? 08:52​ Answering the question of who do you turn too. 09:22​ Often runs in the family. 10:11​ Blue haired and like Marge Simpson! 11:04​ Do you use tools of the trade? 11:32​I prefer to not use tools. 12:01​ What now? What do I do with this gift?​ 12:41​ It was so scary. Something’s wrong with me. 13:13​ Universe course correct. 13:31​ Any defining moment? Read for me. 14:14​  The most amazing thing’s started to happen. 14:44​ Jane’s first reading. 15:30​ Did you become comfortable with silence? 15:51​ Learning how to meditate. Learning to embrace the silence. 16:57​Meditation connects you to your inner self. Being scared. 17:29​ Fear of the unknown and too many ghost programmes. 18:21​ A door never closes without a window opening. 18:51​ Doing what feels right. Spirit is there for your highest good. 19:30​ Lots of wow moments when you listen. 20:00​ Telling yourself you have intuition. 20:34​ Peer pressure and running with the pack. 21:18​ Crazy life and it was too much and not listening. 21:53 ​Free will vs fate. How much are we in control. 22:22​ Rob’s encounter with a clairvoyant. You can’t change the story written for you. 23:14​ It’s about reincarnation and new sets of lessons. 23:47​ There’s a blueprint and life story analogy. 24:30​ Free will and learning. 25:08 ​We are here to learn and grow. 25:41​ The relationship cycle and learning from them. 26:11​ Congratulations on being aware and choosing wrong. 27:09​ Pouring your soul out and well done! 28:04​  What is meditation? 28:24​ There is no right or wrong way to meditate. 29:16​It took me years to get here. 29:31​ Steve’s meditation story. 30:25 ​Don’t listen to anybody. 31:11​ Giving up was the breakthrough. 31:33​ The most incredible silence I will never forget. Eckhart Tolle tried to describe it. 32:08​ Surrendering to the spirit world. 32:25 ​Steve’s pursuit of spiritual concepts. 33:17​ Not getting what I thought about the New Age. 33:58​ Journey of Souls book by Dr Michael Newton. 34:54 ​It’s ok if it’s not happening to you. 35:24​ Going through the process and growing your awareness. 36:03​ Finding balance. 36:35​ Steve’s strange voice experience whilst feeling unwell. 37:51​ Altered states. 38:13​ nSteve’s take on being in the cage. 38:46​ The ability to grow and change and have awareness. 39:38​ Your own worthiness. 40:09​ Belief systems formed from your parents. 40:47​ Changing your belief system and being worthy. 41:11 ​Welcome abundance in all forms in your life. 41:41 ​Money situation flips and being open to abundance. 42:30​ Finding balance and being rich and still be kind. 43:05​ The language of clairvoyance, developing my own. 44:31​ A lot of it is about symbols. 44:55​ It’s about interpreting the spirit of language. 45:56​ The expectation of getting it perfect every time. 46:20​ Jane’s phone call story with a client. 47:05​ You need Magnum PI. 47:25​ Clarity, reassurance and comfort. 47:57​I look at what’s going on in their world now. 48:36​ What about suicide? 49:00​ The counselling hospital and working with non-judgement soul groups. 49:42​ Reincarnating back to similar circumstances. 50:34 ​Does every soul experience all themes of being human? 51:06​ Choosing which life to incarnate in. Karmic credit. 52:06​ Past lives and Journey of Souls. 52:47​ High praise with people with some sort of disability. 53:45​ Still a lot about judgement. 54:06​ Some people’s lives seem easy. 54:34​ What should we expect from a reading? 55:29​ Jane gives an example. 56:16​ It’s not always magical in life. 56:40​ Peeping into the future and there are choices we can take. 57:30​ Can everyone invite spirit into their lives? 58:16​ Having no expectation when inviting spirit into your life. 58:42​ Are we alone in the universe. 59:01​ The races on this planet from out there? 59:40​ Spirit world that walk amongst us. 1:00:12 Decoding and five sense reality. 1:01:01 There are some angels out there. 1:01:23 We are behind the 8 ball and destroying the world. 1:02:15 Our consciousness is expanding. 1:03:18 What do most people want to know from a reading? 1:03:52 World peace will never happen. 1:04:16 Earth is one of the hardest planets to incarnate in. 1:05:03 Being admired for living here on planet earth. 1:05:30 We are never judged by the spirit world but measured. 1:06:11​ We are made to feel what others felt. 1:07:11 No judgement and unconditional love. 1:07:40 The object is to become better soul. 1:08:50 The millionaire story and the meaning of love. 1:09:38 It’s the small acts of love in the every day. 1:10:10 How many times do we reincarnate? 1:10:50 Reaching the end point. 1:11:31 It’s about humility. 1:11:53 What would your legacy look like? 1:12:38 Fear of death understanding spirit. 1:13:07 Message to skeptics. 1:13:46 Have an open mind. 1:14:02 What does the world in 2020 need to look at? 1:14:32 At the mercy of the people at the top. 1:15:03 Be the candle and be the best you can be. 1:15:33 The world of clairvoyance is here to help you. 1:16:17 Spirit world is calling you so pause and listen 1:17:05 Thanks Jane for sharing your amazing insight! 1:17:16 Outro music.  

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Ep 16 The Reality of Mindset Coaching with Mel Unstead

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Play Episode Listen Later Feb 2, 2020 96:54


Rob and Steve talk to Mel Unstead, a Mindset and Life Strategy coach. Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob’s blog! Time code and Topics (some podcast players like Overcast allow you to tap the timecode to go straight to that moment in the podcast) 00:00   Intro music. 00:43   Let’s talk about bees! 01:57   Queen bee life span. 03:01   Welcome to the show Mel! 03:24   A bit about what Mel does. 04:09   Life coach on the strategy side. 05:01   A bit like a mind mechanic? 05:53   The power of deep listening. 06:49   Simple questions with curiosity. 07:16   Cheat codes for life. 07:33   Relationships challenges. 08:07   Navigating the world of Tinder. 08:47   Difference between counseling, coaching and mentoring. 10:06   Coaching vs challenge you’re experiencing. 10:36   Coaching example with a client with a problem. 11:26   Moving forward through a problem. 12:18   Coaching challenge example. 12:35   Still not over my ex-girlfriend. 13:12   Five minutes to find some outcome. 14:55   Mel offers an example and gives feedback. 15:30   Refining the goal and outcome. What you want from coaching. 16:16   Not needing the actual experience to coach. 17:00   Business mentor example. 17:21   Mentor vs coaching. 18:30   Not needing to know the subject matter to be a good coach. 19:15   Stimulating creativity with two people. 20:14   Trying not to be the problem solver. 20:58   More people and brains together the better! 20:14   Wisdom of the Crowd book recommendation. 21:40   Natural herd mentality and individual thought. 22:20   Main reasons people see you. 22:36   Relationships, career and money management. 23:11   Relationship with health and bad habits. 23:51   Basics of eating and living well. 24:24   Role at Southern Cross and health conscious organisation. 25:03   People should know what they are doing with their health? 25:49   Knowing what’s right for them and being bombarded by messages. 26:39   It’s not that simple, it’s about mindset and your beliefs. 27:10   Ingrained habits that are formed. 28:00   Steve can relate to the programming of having to “clean your plate.” 28:55   Formative years of habits. 29:44   Pink Floyd quote. 30:13   Habits and traits and how do we break them? 30:41   Being brave and trying something different. 31:05   Trying something different and changing your thoughts. 31:49   Keeping going and not giving up. 32:40   Persistence and discipline. Cutting out that dessert example. 33:30   You have a relationship with food, dessert. 34:20   Steve’s relationship with great intentions and poor discipline. 34:41   Too much Netflix and bad habits and  can’t make it to the gym. 35:16   Mels micro coaching with Steve. 36:01   Rob’s advice to Steve. 36:15   Prime example of difference between coaching and mentoring. 36:54   Rob’s gym training programme technique. 37:49   Defining the goal of how many times to train at the gym. 38:42   2003 Body for Life. 39:17   A few reflections on the challenge of going to the gym. 40:00   How many gym visits could you achieve? 41:11   Getting to gym 3 times a week and making it stick. 42:05   Eating for pleasure and feel good hormones. 42:50   Being human and being programmed for pleasure vs pain. 44:11   Having discipline in your life right now. 44:54   Work boundaries. 45:38   Having a strategy and plan to achieve your outcome. 46:10   All or nothing approach. 46:46   Rob’s advice on training in your mid 40’s. 48:00   Getting some cardio from walking. 48:55   What’s the benefit and your end goal? 49:26   Being obsessed with training and creating my path. 49:57   Modeling my life on Jean-Claude Van Damme. 50:50   Visualise and dream to create your reality. 51:40   Having the fire and passion that drives you. 52:01   Exercise and having accountability with a Personal Trainer. 52:23   Internal driver aligned to values. 52:49   Values that drive your behaviour and your belief systems. 53:25   Going to the gym to feel attractive to others. 54:00   Basing your drive and sense of self-worth on a subjective opinion. 54:15   Steve’s Dads story about getting a good job and attracting "the appropriate mate". 55:50   Challenges of reaching a goal and assessing what’s next. 56:47   Now the goal is feeling comfortable in myself. 57:31   We get told what we should think. 58:25   Whatever the motivation is ok as long as it gets you the outcome. 59:23   Not judging what drives you. 1:00:20 We are all conformists on one level and want to be liked. 1:00:55 We get so much advice and listening to your own inner voice. 1:01:40 Why do we do the things we do? Questioning your own beliefs and thoughts. 1:02:16 Life after divorce and re-entering the dating world. 1:02:55 What’s the new strategy and doing something different. 1:03:43 The easy fix and talking about Tinder. 1:05:20 What’s interesting about Tinder and a client example. 1:06:21 Clarifying what you want from dating and relationships. 1:07:01 Life easier if you are attractive? 1:07:44 The media and the pressure and illusion it creates. 1:08:39 Attachment styles and what are they. The Five Love languages. Dr Gary Chapman. 1:09:19 Words of affirmation. 1:10:00 Earrings and appreciation example. 1:11:03 Quality time. 1:11:25 The Witcher. We love that show. 1:13:11 Acts of service, physical touch and gifts. 1:13:30 An example of showing love with gifts. 1:14:00 Love language for cats and dogs?! 1:14:41 Knowing your love language is really important. 1:15:00 You never tell me you love me?! 1:15:24 How you give and receive love. 1:15:30 Appreciation language at work. 1:16:05 Example of appreciation given but not received the same way. 1:16:44 Leaving little post-it notes as appreciation. 1:17:42 Driving your partner nuts and feeling needy!! 1:19:25 Love language and when you first meet someone. 1:20:00 Is it needy to ask for what you want? 1:20:21 South African culture and business meeting story. 1:21:32 Getting schizzle done! 1:22:04 A whole episode in a Dutch accent? 1:22:26 Mel’s journey from South Africa and story. 1:23:56 Attachment styles explained. Book. Attached by Amir Levine. 1:24:16 Three attachment styles. 1:24:24 Anxious attachment style. 1:25:12 Your Brain on Love, Stan Tatkin. Recommend to read for attachment styles. 1:27:03 Coaching and the issue of regulation. 1:27:34 International Coaching Federation. Hours of practical coaching. 1:28:04 Coaching and code of ethics. Privacy. Confidentiality. 1:28:40 How to choose a coach and checking credibility. 1:29:18 Checking a coach’s ethics. 1:30:31 Doing what is right for the client and steering them in the right direction. 1:31:18 Coming to a conclusion that you need a counsellor and not a coach. 1:32:18 Doing a discovery call and caring for your client. 1:32:54 Genuinely wanting what is best for my clients. 1:34:05 Leading questions. 1:36:07 Wrap up and amazing to have Mel with us. Thanks for listening! 1:36:37 Outro music.

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Ep 15 Goals, Mindset & Realisations with friend of the show Marwin Silerio

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2020 67:42


Today on the show Rob & Steve talk with Marwin Silerio (Actor and Personal Trainer at Les Mills Britomart) about Goals, Realisations and Mindset. Enjoy the show! Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob’s blog! Time code and Topics (some podcast players like Overcast allow you to tap the timecode to go straight to that moment in the podcast)   00:00 Intro to episode with Marwin.  00:56 Some banter about “Bombshell” the movie and other stuff. 01:55 Discussing “Top Gun” Maverick. 02:44 Astro prediction and Veritas radio show. 04:07 Being a Cancerian. Horoscopes.  05:44 Stefanie actress on Shortland Street. 06:06 Interstellar movie. 06:43 Hans Zimmer and music score. 06:57 Netflix and The Messiah. Talking about it. 10:23 Books we are reading. Brene Brown. 11:11 Daring greatly and the famous quote. 12:00 Being vulnerable and being fully authentic. 12:35 Theodore Roosevelt quote. 13:45 Being in the arena of life and being brave. 14:23 Reflecting back on life and gratitude journal. 15:51 Living in the moment and going with the flow. 16:38 My body is like a machine.  17:23 Old habits dying hard. 18:00 Quote by James Clear. 18:20  New Year goals and motivation. 19:08 Using energy to create habits. 19:59 Body for Life programme. 20:48 Seminars and Events and getting a high. 21:28 Using the motivation and energy to build good habits. 21:57 Tony Robbins and motivation runs out. 22:38 Ray Zahab and happiness is a habit. 23:22 Happiness as a state of mind. 23:48 Buddha quote.  24:32 Mindset and meditation. 25:06 Course correction and changing your thoughts. 25:23 Letting anger out and smashing plates. 25:59 Always having to be happy. 26:19 The dangers of suppressing anger or negativity. 27:12 The human experience and all it’s myriad of emotions. 27:40 Marwin’s super power update. 28:21 Passionate about people. 28:54 Personal Training and habitual change. 30:00 Every day is a purposeful day. 30:21 So fulfilling to be able to contribute to others. 31:07 How to restore or recharge your energy. 31:57 Time to self and going into nature. 32:54 Looking at being a freelancer.  33:49 The pros and cons of freelance. 34:35 Responsibilities and freedom. 35:14 A lot of output being a personal trainer. 35:53 Making freelance work for you. 36:36 Freelance Amazon consultant and the sacrifices. 37:21 Everything has to change to accommodate change. 38:40 Changing and the effect on other areas of life. 39:10 Be aware of your priorities. 39:33 Looking back at past priorities. 40:45 What was the trigger of this new mindset? 41:14 Leadership and mindset coach Melanie Unstead. 41:54 Entering a cheat code into my life. 42:30 Highly recommend getting a mindset coach. 42:54 Your mind is a battleground. 43:51 Being accountable and holistic training. 45:13 What does it mean to listen to your body? 46:10 When is it time to stop eating? 47:21 Getting enough rest and sleep as recovery. 48:24 The hunger hormone. 49:54 What’s the best diet from a personal trainers perspective? 50:34 Fasting? Thoughts? 52:14 Diets are lifestyle conceptual and therapy diets. 53:02 Veganism. 53:30 What works for you? 54:04 Identity and diets. 54:42 Hey Reebok how about sponsoring the show? 55:16 Extreme identification to diets and food wars. 56:12 Shaming with diets. 56:56 Mono culture and climate change. 57:21 Trees feel pain. Are life forms. 58:22 Everything on this planet is alive and has an energy.  59:09 It’s about balance. 59:54 People going crazy at the gym at start of the new year. 1:00:40 Success is an inside job. 1:01:27 Great conversation Marwin! 1:02:06 Marwin has a funny realisation. 1:02:52 What is being authentic with my accent. 1:04:13 Plug for upcoming Morningstar show. 1:04:46 Hamilton Garden Arts Festival www.hgaf.co.nz 1:06:22 What character are you performing? 1:06:58 Show dates Feb 27, 28, 29. 1:07:26 Outro music.

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Ep 14 The Reality of Living in Freelance Fantasy

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 19, 2020 72:03


Rob and Steve dive deep into the world of living the freelance lifestyle vs full time employment. Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob’s blog! Time code and Topics (some podcast players like Overcast allow you to tap the timecode to go straight to that moment in the podcast) 00:00   Opening music. Back for another ep with just Rob and Steve. 00:46   Topic, living the freelance lifestyle. 01:21   Daydreaming about leaving your job. 01:52   Starting the convo about pros and cons. 02:44   Pros and cons upon research are universal. 03:30   The landscape has changed, the job market has evolved. 03:55   What is a freelancer? 04:08   Types of freelancers.. 05:05   Always wanted to be a full time actor. 05:49   Living in NZ we have won the lottery. 06:16   Grateful for the job job. 07:09   Turning to a job and thought I’d hate it. 07:37   Some job experiences we don’t like. 08:30   Job job for steady income vs following your passion. 09:30   Should you do what you love? Never work a day in your life. 10:10   Fear of leaving your job. Believing in yourself. 10:56   Going full freelance and going through the pros and cons. 11:22   Fantasizing about being a freelancer. 12:07   The pros and cons of being a freelancer, listing them. Pros first. 15:26   Looking at the opposites as being attractive. 15:46   Listing the cons of being a freelancer. 16:22   Attaching what you do as who you are and not being flexible to do something else. 17:21   Keeping busy and keeping active and surviving. 17:46   Arnold Schwarzenegger and no plan B approach. 18:00   Will Smith has same approach. 18:55   Some people are just lucky and some miss opportunities. 19:53   Different levels of success and sacrificing things to pursue the freelance life. 21:12   Company cars and the VW and Audi debate. 21:52   Always being on and creating boundaries when being a freelancer. 22:48   Structure and deconstructing it. 23:52   Taking the best of both worlds. 24:15   Gym example and time management. 25:16   No phone policy at the gym. 26:12   Stress, the hustle and getting work. Being isolated. 27:12   Taxes and financial awareness. 27:48   Automatic routine when you are in full time. 28:51   Being too busy as a freelancer and being trapped in work. 29:40   The freelance bullshitter. Business means you’re a success? 30:51   Steves radio show story. 31:42   What are you doing next and always being busy. 32:21   Creating balance between work and life. 32:44   Biggest driving force to being freelance. Most job’s are crap. 33:29   People want to be a freelancer because they don’t like their job. 34:21   Not everyone’s cut out to be a freelancer. 34:33   The billionaire with inspirational videos. 35:23   Can you downgrade and be happy for less. 35:51   Being trapped paying for your lifestyle. 36:30   Reconciling with your job. 36:59   The programme and keeping up with it. 37:21   Re-evaluating life at mid-life. 38:12   Employee pros and cons. Being in full-time employment. Pros. 38:35   How long could you survive if you lost your job? 39:17   Having savings, and an example of medical insurance in the US. 40:41   You got to have savings. 41:24   Friends and social interactions and how do you operate. 43:22   Work environment and social network. 44:00   Pros and cons are just the opposite of the other. 44:31   Which environment suits you? 45:15   Meaning and purpose in your job. Employee satisfaction. 45:49   Eckhart Tolle inspiration. 46:30   The cons of full time work. 47:15   The commute and working full time. 48:38   Office gossip and politics. 49:44   The kind of job is viewed as how you’re valued? 50:44   You should have done this job to achieve happiness. 52:11   Happiness from your job as opposed to your mindset. 52:56   We spend a lot of time of work. Work and life balance. 54:00   Shout out to Ray Zahab. One kick at the can, one life. 54:55   Life is short. Don’t waste your time! 55:44   Looking back at your younger self. Realisation life is so short. 56:50   The universal time construct and your soul journey. 57:34   Life changing moments and re-assessing your life. 58:25   Deciding to jump into the freelance life. 59:01   Photography example of being a freelancer. 1:00:00 Being disciplined in your freelance work. 1:01:26 Keeping your job and making the leap when your ready. 1:01:59 Having an emergency fund. 1:02:34 Taking time out and de-compressing. 1:03:13 Maybe it’s about getting a better job job. 1:03:41 Giving freelance a go to figure it out. 1:04:24 Investing in your freelance business. 1:05:15 Financial stress and the guilt of not always working. 1:06:22 Have a clear path in and a clear path out. 1:07:06 Having a well thought out plan. 1:07:55 Often you don’t get paid what you’re valued. 1:08:53 Transition from amateur to pro. 1:09:40 Heart vs Head decision. 1:10:51 Failure and the learning curve. 1:11:15 Great chat. 1:11:27 Outro music.

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Ep 13 The Reality of Impossible2Possible with Ray Zahab Ultra Distance Runner & Adventurer

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2020 33:35


Our special guest is Ray Zahab as we talk about his ultimate endurance, mindset and inspiring others to live the extraordinary through adventure. https://www.rayzahab.com/ http://www.impossible2possible.com/ Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob’s blog! Time code and Topics (some podcast players like Overcast allow you to tap the timecode to go straight to that moment in the podcast) 00:00   Intro to Ray Zahab with inspiring sound bites. 01:44   Intro music. 02:07   Recent expedition in Atacama, taking people back to remote places. 03:00   Taking people on adventures to give them the tools they can use in real life. 03:20   Supported vs Unsupported expeditions and key differences. 04:51   Running the Atacama in the middle of summer 50 degrees celsius. 05:31   More than just a physical experience? Goal of sharing adventure. 06:00   Didn’t start running until I was 35. 06:13   Running has been my greatest teacher, never take anything for granted. 06:44   Impossible2possible youth expeditions. 07:13   Warm vs Cold expeditions, which do you prefer? 07:57   Much prefer the heat but I can do cold. 08:43   Physical challenges really are a mental game. 90% mental 10% all in the head. 09:15   Challenges in life are relative to each individuals life. 09:40   We all have the capacity to rise to the occasion. 10:21   People have the innate ability to perform at the highest level. 10:39   Technology and the missing out on nature and being outdoors. 11:41   We live in a different world. 12:14   I try to encourage people to find adventure in your own backyard. 12:44   First running race was in 2004. 13:11   I had no real goals or happiness in my life. 13:21   Inspired by my younger brother to make a change in my life. 13:54   My brother is a better runner than me. 14:16   Winning my first ultra marathon. Taught me we underestimate ourselves. 14:50   Web Explorers article about Ultra Marathons. 15:57   The people in the magazine seemed normal people. 16:37   You don’t need to be an elite marathoner to try something. 17:06   Is running a meditation for you? 17:50   Being in a zen state and running makes me feel better. 19:06   Why do people underestimate themselves or are risk adverse? 19:21   I used to talk myself out of things through fear of failure and what people think. 19:54   At some point you just don’t give a shit, you get one kick at the can. 20:30   I want to live  as much as I can and look at the glass as being half full. 20:46   Any profound takeaways from people that do your expeditions? 21:31   Giving people an opportunity to be empowered. 21:43   The little things in life the milestones are meaningful. 22:11   Pushing past limitations. 22:34   Human beings complicate things. 23:01   What matters is are we going to go or stop today? 23:28   You have to distill stuff down. 23:34   Ray what is your superpower? 23:59   I can sleep anywhere anytime for 5mins and then wake up refreshed. 24:29   I look at the world as glass half full. In our lives we have a choice 51% positive 49% negative. 25:20   It’s the desperate desire to look at things from a positive perspective. 25:44   Chocolate cake vs steamed broccoli analogy. 26:29   Being happy is something you have to work at. 27:13   It resonates because it’s real, we always sugar coat stuff. 27:57   It’s not what I do that provides the passion. 28:33   You’re always working at life. 28:47   Your brothers inspiration and relationship. 29:44   Family is so important and always wanted to be dad. 30:04   Any piece of wisdom or advice you would tell your younger self? 30:12   You are a product of your experiences. 31:06   Learning from the bad decisions. 31:39   Thoughts on New Zealand. You guys are so tough! 32:31   Best way to follow and support. Facebook and Instagram check verified accounts. https://www.rayzahab.com/ http://www.impossible2possible.com/ 33:17   Outro music.

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Ep 12 The Reality of Fame & Famine - living as an actor with guests Blair Strang, Will Wallace & Mike Edwards.

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Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2020 97:53


Rob and Steve have an amazing chat with actors Blair, Will and Mike about what it’s really like being and living the actors life! Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob’s blog! Time code and Topics (some podcast players like Overcast allow you to tap the timecode to go straight to that moment in the podcast) 00:00   Intro to The Reality of Fame and Famine - Living as an actor. Why do we act? 02:25   Why are we attracted to acting? 03:00   Living in an imaginary world. Escapism and imagination. 04:02   Losing your imagination as you grow older. 04:44   Acting started to make sense. 05:05   A script helps to express our own inner meaning and feelings. 05:43   What is acting? 06:00   Telling a story truthfully and then comes the character. 06:30   Acting is truth. 07:01   Good acting is standing there in your truth and being honest. 07:40   Philip Seymour Hoffman and his truthful performance and vulnerability. 08:31   Vulnerability is a key universal emotion. 09:00   Being brave, it’s like a mirror to our own self. 09:37   Acting is not about lying. 09:54   Believing your own lies and the capacity to lie. 10:40   Being aware and knowing who you really are. 11:08   Acting serving a deeper purpose? 11:45   Acting is not self-indulgent and shouldn’t be seen as therapy. 12:12   Ultimately, it’s about the audience. 12:37   Story about acting class. 13:10   Becoming a better person through the process of learning acting. 13:47   Empathy and understanding the emotions. 14:10   What’s the motivation for acting? Is it to become famous? 14:49   I remember wanting to become famous and growing out of it. 15:31   Loving film and relating to others through film. 15:52   This job ain’t gonna make you famous most of the time. 16:26   Wanting to be famous for the wrong reasons. 16:56   Digging deeper into wanting to be famous and why? Being validated and insecurity. 17:38   Every actor is insecure at some level. Actors on Actors series. Anthony Hopkins on being insecure. 18:26   Starting off with the love of acting. 19:01   Starting at Shortland St and the shift to being driven by ego. Facing rejection. 19:41   True Life Stories and looking back at the memories. 20:25   Watching yourself on TV is horrible the first time! 21:03   I thought I was fired from Shortland St! 21:10   Acting is important to humanity. 21:31   Going to the cinema is like the flicker of the campfire analogy. 22:05   Going back in time and learning from a past acting class. 22:43   Watch your performance to learn. 23:22   Being able to focus on your good points vs your negatives. 23:50   Kissing scene and practicing on myself with a mirror! 24:37   Shortland St is like the Olympics of acting. 25:22   Handling fame and the trouble it brings. 25:48   Being on TV in NZ. Being recognizable and buying into the hype. 26:25   Shortland St back in the 90’s - it was a crazy time. 27:58   Getting older and changing the outlook of fame. 28:49   Fame is not them, but a by-product of the industry. 29:29   Awkward elevator conversations. 30:21   Endoscopy story and being recognized. 31:10   Handling recognition and dealing with it well. 32:51   Being a parent changed me and how I treated people. 33:13   Getting joy from meeting someone well known. 33:33   I wish everyone could experience a little bit of being a celebrity. 34:15   Hierarchy positions on set? Any assholes? 35:04   Good time on Ladies Night?? 35:28   Americans were full on, on set. A cultural thing? 36:24   Kiwi vs American way of being. 36:46   Working with Tommy Lee Jones. Kiefer Sutherland. 37:41   Being on set in NZ is more of a flat hierarchy. 38:15   The casting process and tips or special things you do? 38:43   Changing your mindset on auditions. Enjoy it. 39:54   Auditions and two lessons. Realising the part was mine to lose. Taking your time. 41:35   Talking to actors who say this casting agent hates me! They want you to be the one! 42:37   Getting into the acting industry and failing to understand? Marathon vs Sprint. 43:17   Treating every job as though it was your last one. Enjoying the job you are on. 43:50   No single job is the one. 44:26   Giving wisdom back to your younger self. 44:52   I’d slap myself on the face and give him a check. 45:44   Caring about what people think and being someone I wasn’t. Be authentic. 46:30   Prepare as though your life depends on it, then don’t give a shit. 47:12   Handling rejection. Being turned down 9 times out of 10. 48:21   Taking it personal when you were younger. 48:39   Basing self worth on being employed as an actor. 49:00   The perception there is not enough work out there. More projects now? 49:52   Social media and networking. Missing out on work whilst on holiday. 51:11   Self tapes and getting work. Kirk Douglas story. Impressions. 52:00   The lure of LA? Cracking acting in the US. Working overseas. Hollywood aspirations. 53:29   Meeting in LA. Why haven’t I seen you before? 54:20   Australia didn’t appeal. Here’s why… 56:26   NZ has done significant work spreading roles for a range of ethnicities. 57:00   The renaissance of female characters. 57:19   Networking? An NZ, or more of an LA thing? 58:00   It’s more business than show in LA? 59:30   False agendas?? Keeping it real in LA as a kiwi. Stunty story from LA. 1:01:02 Everyone’s trying to use everyone. 1:01:48 Money and survival as an actor. Not paying the bills? 1:02:41 Ladies Night back on??? 1:03:16 It got really tough for a while living a cafe lifestyle. 1:04:05 You just can’t live off acting alone here. Living in the real world helps. 1:04:44 Being in an actors bubble. 1:05:10 Having a work ethic and being motivated, staying busy. 1:05:55 We go through cycles and seasons. 1:06:09 I was un-castable for a while. 1:06:38 Realising I was an artist and creating my own work. 1:07:11 Harking back to old theatre companies. Going back to your roots. 1:07:31 MacBeth in Invercargill. 1:08:18 Looking back on your mistakes or failures. 1:09:00 Dealing with your flaws and taking responsibility. 1:10:00 Actors didn’t want to work with me. 1:10:44 Being a good person and brave enough to show your real self. 1:11:21 I love playing assholes. 1:11:52 “Show the ugly”. 1:12:24 Most important qualities as an actor? Authenticity and Imagination. 1:13:07 Acting processes. 1:13:35 Don’t take it too seriously. 1:13:55 Actors doing things wrong with financial survival? 1:14:51 Being successful outside of acting. 1:15:20 There is one disaster I can recall… 1:15:57 Young actors coming through are on to it, and have so much confidence. 1:16:27 NZ culture has changed and theres more chance of being in front of camera. 1:17:06 Kiwi culture more accepted worldwide. Taiki Waititi. Flight of the Conchords. 1:17:40 Internet influence. 1:18:04 No fear from the younger generation now. 1:18:38 The incredible young men on the Head High tv series. 1:18:55 Looking back at our generation, was it really that different? 1:19:50 Having a sense of entitlement. 1:20:21 Having things handed to you and being exposed to the world. The Youtube generation. 1:21:31 Any genre you don’t like? Musical theatre. 1:22:37 Appreciating the talent of acting, singing, dancing. 1:23:10 Genre you’d most like to do? 1:23:45 Loving The Soprano’s. 1:24:19 Film CV reads like a low lights of peoples careers! Get a break in film. 1:25:00 Hardest genres are comedy and horror. 1:26:00 As a teacher of acting what are people doing wrong in auditions? 1:26:37 Getting back to your neutral. 1:27:16 Work out who you are and make choices specific to who you are. 1:28:10 Owning your own individuality. 1:28:54 Brad Pitt - look how he moves. Imagining his first audition. 1:29:54 Acting as being withdrawn or having no energy. 1:30:15 Introverted energy and your range of emotions. 1:31:15 Energy is a really big thing. It’s not about lack of energy. 1:32:03 Think of it as dials. 1:32:38 Without doing anything and being interesting. 1:33:10 Energy needs to be ‘up, forward and out’ to be interesting. 1:33:38 The most interesting actors on Suits. 1:34:21 An inherent quality, or can it be taught? 1:35:05 Teaching good impulses and choices. 1:36:00 Our thanks to Blair Strang, Will Wallace and Mike Edwards for joining us on Reality Hub. 

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Ep 11 The Reality of Finding Joy & Vulnerability inside Deep Pain with life coach Jacqui Beaver

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Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2019 100:07


Rob and Steve talk to Jacqui Beaver a transformational coach/mentor on how to navigate mid-life and career transition. Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob’s blog! Time code and Topics (some podcast players like Overcast allow you to tap the timecode to go straight to that moment in the podcast) 00:00   Intro to life coach Jacqui Beaver Check out her linked in Profile 00:44   Intro music 01:04   So excited to have you here, how we reconnected. 02:11   A little bit about Jacqui and embracing the gig economy. 02:41   Supporting people through mid-life transition. 03:05   About workshops. Moving through life unintentionally. 04:00   Stanford life design lab. Career changes. Alternate futures. 04:31   The life design process explained. 05:16   The guys up in Slack. Parallel universes. Quantum physics. 06:04   Living 3 different lives. 06:47   Getting clear on what you think life is and what work is. 07:50   Being a square peg in a round hole. 08:30   Knowing your superpower. 09:31   What other people see in us. 09:55   Using your super power for other people. 10:21   What is your super power and knowing your truth. 11:53   Knowing yourself and comfortable with being who you really are. 12:17   Aubrey Marcus podcast with Humble the Poet quote. 13:30   Jacqui knew her superpower but didn’t believe in it. 14:12   In the acting world it’s what you say no to that defines you. 15:00   Jacqui’s Les Mills story about being an aerobics instructor. 15:59   It wasn’t about being the best instructor or having the best body. 16:50   Pivot points in my career. 17:31   Art school or Air New Zealand? 18:25   The good old days of being an in-flight attendant. 19:05   Flight attending once again a square peg in a round hole. 19:44   Jacqui’s impactful moment on board a flight one day. 20:34   Jacqui’s superpower defined! 21:16   Steve’s life hack on just listening. 21:51   Really listening and “The Matrix” analogy of listening deeply. 23:00   Synchronistic and a-ha moments. 23:33   I used my superpower to hide. 24:10   A-ha moments and one profound moment? Connecting the dots. 25:00   Moving through life as a spiritual beings. 25:11   Book recommendation Dr Amy Johnson - Being Human: Essays on Thoughtmares,  Bouncing Back and Your True Nature. 26:00   Impact of Jacqui’s mother passing away. Didn’t cry at the funeral. 26:59   Masking and suppressing pain. Why do we do this? 27:25   Inner child analogy and childlike way of being. 28:40   Why are we afraid of being vulnerable? 29:14   Jacqui’s ex-boyfriend story and needing to talk about it. 29:55   Jacqui’s fireman story about playing into a role. 31:20   The role of being strong and getting through things. 32:10   Authenticity, intuition, empathy and helping people through transition. 32:55   Stanford life design group coaching. 33:32   Retreats and helping people through transition points. 34:06   Mid-life has a branding issue. The societal narrative. 34:52   The Mid-Life Wisdom School. Chip Conley. 35:41   Challenging how we look at mid-life. 36:00   Two phases identified of crisis adolescence and retirement. 36:33   What exactly is mid-life and debunking it. 37:51   Middle essence phase explained and defined. 38:35   Going through transition. An unraveling. 39:43   Very Well Mind website quote about mid-life crisis. 40:56   Mid-life is individual for everyone and on a sliding scale. 42:01   Middle age and having a realisation of your own programming. 43:17   The U curve of happiness study. 43:59   Explaining the U curve. 45:06   Suicide stats of 45yr old males in US increased by 50% over 20 years. 45:50   Having the tools and conversations surrounding transition. 46:41   How do you even know yourself when you’re young and a changing world. 48:50   Leading by your ego and not following your inner wisdom. 49:32   First half of our lives in attainment mode. 49:58   At mid-life you realise there has to be something more to life. Doing to being. 50:30   How do you help people shift to a new phase of life and career? 50:40   Being prepared to evolve and the mid-life edit. 51:36   Getting to the root cause of why you’re going through this phase. 52:12   Any common examples of mid-life or career transition themes. 52:40   Uncovering an insight. Limiting beliefs. 53:22   Mexico retreat story the stickers of self beliefs. 55:25   Speed dating or speed crisis? 56:31   Baring your soul and tearing up and being vulnerable. 57:29   Logic level and getting to a knowing level. 58:14   The definition of coaching explained. International Coach Federation. 58:41   Getting to a place of insight and being self-aware. Blind spots. 59:40   The technique of the play against in acting. 1:00:31 You don’t get in the muddy water when coaching. 1:01:42 Don’t worry about the detail focus on the clarity. 1:02:21 Coaching is not consulting. 1:02:51 Struggling with making a change and not doing it. 1:03:52 Coaching works if two people come willing to be in the process. 1:04:30 To evolve you have to be prepared to change and face uncertainty. 1:05:24 Not being afraid of fear and avoiding pain. 1:05:51 An example of pain you may want to avoid. 1:07:11 Hitting an absolute limit and making a decision without clarity. 1:07:30 Jacqui is going big on her own experience of pain. 1:08:01 Our brains give us an ID and dissolving parts of the ego construct. 1:08:44 Emailing Amy about the impact it had and it’s fundamental change. 1:09:35 Marriage break up and what happens when life doesn’t go to plan. 1:10:26 We avoid big changes, believing the ego construct is us. 1:11:28 We are a fractal of the universe. Power of co-creation. 1:12:00 Any synchronistic moments that stand out. 1:12:14 Spending time with Simon Sinek and collaborating with the universe. 1:13:53 I need to sort my shit out! 1:14:55 Playing hide and seek with the universe. 1:15:14 Brene Brown and the 3 options you can take when the universe comes calling. 1:15:41 Brene Brown and the mid-life unravelling. 1:15:55 Brene Brown quote. brenebrown.com 1:17:44 The Phoenix effect. Ignoring the universe. Existential Cage Fighting approach. 1:18:40 Another quote ( Jacqui’s quote! ) 1:20:01 Existential Cage Fighting and tapping out. 1:21:15 Avoiding pain as a protection mechanism. 1:21:49 Pain is designed to move through us and the pursuit of happiness. 1:22:27 Blaming the New Age (New Cage) movement. 1:23:00 We are all too afraid to face the dark. 1:23:44 Pain and joy is the same thing. Balanced approach. 1:24:24 Missing balance and facing both the light and dark. 1:25:01 Moving through the world and how you do it. 1:25:39 It’s a feeling place and being vulnerable and energy thing. 1:26:41 Two sides of the coin are the same thing. 1:27:01 Not labeling emotions and feeling the energy of stuff. 1:27:51 Moving through life not afraid of pain 1:28:29 Exercise you can do at home about observing the witness. 1:29:38 The river analogy of thought. 1:31:10 Making thoughts less personal and discovering your programming. 1:31:55 Being completely in the feeling. 1:33:05 “I am love, connection, compassion and I’m stepping into my power.” 1:34:27 There’s a point of healing of getting too caught up. Just trust. 1:35:13 Being able to move on and letting go after doing the growth and learning. 1:35:21 The snow globe analogy. 1:36:35 What advice would you give to your younger self? 1:37:02 “The thing that makes you feel you don’t fit in is your superpower.” 1:37:28 Outro music.

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Ep 10 The Reality of Poverty (NZs Dirty Little Secret) with Darryl Evans.

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Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2019 59:53


Rob and Steve talk to Darryl Evans CEO of Mangere Budgeting Services about the state of poverty in NZ. A huge thanks to our guest Darryl Evans.  Please support the great work he and his charity do every day for communities in need in New Zealand by getting in touch to volunteer or make a donation. Contact “The Budgeting and Family support service” based in Mangere, Otara or Tuakau. Freephone 0508 22 22 83 or visit their website here http://mangerebudgeting.org.nz/ Time code and Topics (Support Reality Hub by subscribing in Apple podcasts and use the time codes below to find your favourite bits of the show) 00:00   It’s Christmas time but some families of the working poor are struggling. 00:35   Today’s ep was truly eye opening. 00:45   Intro about Darryl Evans. CEO of Mangere Budgeting Services. 01:31   Please listen with an open heart. 01:51   We need to address this issue for all NZers. 02:18   If you’d like to help please see the links above for further info. 02:47   NZ is not the land of milk and honey as it used to be. 03:15   Intro music. 03:44   Is NZ a poor country? Is Auckland the most liveable city in the world? 04:17   There’s a whole community of people are struggling. High rents unsustainable. 05:03   Liveable rents should be 25% of your income. 05:41   State housing not so glamorous. 06:04   Housing NZ have seen the big picture. 07:00   NZ is a low wage economy. Most clients are pensioners, beneficiaries. 07:13   Two types of pensioners. 07:41   The rent is higher than the state pension and reliant on help. 08:11   The NZ dream of home ownership. Land of milk and honey. 08:54   The goal of owning your own home is still big. 09:34   Is the goal to own a home unreachable? 10:01   Three families living in one home. 10:54   Positives and negatives of many living under one roof. 11:33   Extending their current homes to accomodate looking after your parents. 12:06   What’s the poverty line? 12:20   Minimum wage and eradicating the word. Living wage.$24 12:50   National Supporters say: "Well if you're poor you can’t afford a holiday to Fiji!" 13:30   Always trying to keep the roof over your head. 14:00   8 - 9000 power disconnections going on each year in NZ 14:27   Paying better wages is a win win situation. 14:48   The reality is if you’re living an impoverished life your kids most likely get sick! And one or both parents have to take time off. 15:09   NZ is increasingly becoming poor. 15:25   Righteous points of view and saving your way out of poverty. 16:07   Homes are now more like 7 to 11 times your annual income. 16:50   in 2020 you can be working full time + over time and still never afford to own a home! 17:00   Many people are working 2 or 3 jobs just to get by. Ships in the night. 17:52   Having just enough money for a small reward. 18:16   Leading cause of poverty. Rising cost of private rentals. 19:09   The migration south and rents going up across the board. 19:49   Family had 7 increases of rent in 4 years! 20:05   People are having to move but there’s a cost. 20:46   Does it matter who’s in government? 21:25   The reason I do this job growing up poor. 21:50   My mum had to re-peal potato skins to make crisps. 22:41   Child poverty monitor report and statistics. 23:40  Currently Family of four spending $39 a week Example of family spending on groceries. 24:21   Food parcel types. "Whakama" - Cultural Shame and people too embarrassed to ask for help. 25:40   Homeless food parcels on the rise. 26:10   Paying it forward. 26:31   A vision for NZ. To survive and to contribute to society. 27:00   Lions Club and free entertainment. But vast majority of poor families refuse the treat as they can’t afford the gas to get there. 27:47   How does poverty affect society? It impacts both mental and physical health. 28:23   Pensioners can’t afford the heating and living in the cold. Emotional wellbeing. 29:08   Poverty is not racist and affects everyone. 29:14   Growing up in a poor family. Solo parenthood. 29:57   Poverty has an affect on the whole community. 30:18   Everyone knows someone who is struggling. Cultural shame it’s ok to reach out. 31:00   0508 22 22 83 ABC Budgeting. Social services. 31:45   We are not a third world country yet people still go without. 32:12   Hungry kids not going to school. 32:40   Changing the perception of poverty and consumerism. 33:15   A lot of people are not having a festive time. 33:42   Buy now and pay later. Credit. Repayments. 85% of contracts are set up to fail with loans. 34:32   Financial literacy in schools and education. 35:20   Nice story about Tongan pensioner. Educating her children. 36:00   Discussing money matters at home. 36:54   Darryl’s high school story about knowing if your home is owned or rented. 37:28   Darryl’s on son and his financial education. 38:41   Dec 11 the most common day for relationship break ups. 39:30   Relationship counselling and living in debt is extremely stressful. Impact on children. 40:16   Stressful time of the year. Move away from a commercial christmas. 41:00   Experiences over buying presents and quality time. 42:00   The programme of commercialism and material possessions. 42:40   Buying and spending and feeling the reward. 43:10   Buy only if you can afford it. 43:15   Budget ways to make presents. 43:40   People are hardest hit by bills in February. 44:05   Future goals and retirement and thinking ahead. 44:10   Worry about kiwis that haven’t achieved home ownership. 45:35   Having a comfortable retirement. 46:03   NZ was always the land of milk and honey. 46:30   If you could change the country what would you do to make it better? 46:45   We need more affordable houses. 47:24   Mixed model housing and it’s benefits. 48:08   London wages system. 49:42   Really proud of all the people we have helped and changed their lives. 50:19   The thing I really hate about some property development at the moment. 50:00   So many people are living in motel rooms. 50:22   Story of living in a motel room and it’s costs. 51:10   Darryl’s real life church story at his talk. 51:55   Countdown story of how many people queued for a job. 52:50   Living on the dole vs working. 53:35   Listening to the experts income and benefits have to rise. 54:20   Schools and financial literacy. 54:46   Mangere budgeting teaching 1000’s of students. 55:18   The ⅓ rule of pocket money teaching good habits. 55:58   Student debt a good thing? 56:40   Problem with students of leaving home and coping. 57:20   Last thoughts from Darryl. 57:50   Volunteering and teaching empathy. 58:15   Lets bring a bit of brightness to someone. 58:42   Budgeting and Family support services. Mangere, Otara or Tuakau. Freephone 0508 22 22 83 http://mangerebudgeting.org.nz/ Merry Christmas from Reality Hub x 59:36 Outro music.

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Ep 9 The Reality of Arranged Marriage with Comedian Ed Amon

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Play Episode Listen Later Dec 15, 2019 94:11


Rob and Steve talk to Ed Amon a kiwi comedian and host of Baboon Yodel Podcast. Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob’s blog! Or check us out on Apple Podcasts and remember to subscribe! Time code and Topics 00:00   Intro about Ed Amon. 00:21   Intro music. 00:45   Ed Amon is buzzed to be here! 01:07   More about Ed Amon and his comedy 01:29   Do you guys swear on this podcast? 02:10   I was pretty shit at comedy at the beginning. 03:22   I enjoy comedy so that was most important. 04:02   I held a knife to my neck! (a $2 store knife so don’t worry) I was bombing at comedy! 05:26   Ed Amon was inspiration for Reality Hub. 06:13   Youtube videos helped to start a podcast. 06:49   There were lots of gatekeepers before podcasts came along. 08:00   Initially our podcast was really bad. 08:28   The goal was to satirize serious stuff 09:26   You had a dream and make it happen. You make shit happen. 10:14   Tell us your story about coming to New Zealand. 11:12   I was supposed to be a doctor. One day I thought I’m not doing this. 12:10   Going to business school and going against what I really wanted. 12:50   Business school was the compromise. 13:13   My main goal was to get out of Pakistan. 13:40   Big turning point in my life. 14:13   I left the country to further my education in London. 14:38   The attraction of coming to NZ and the cricket world cup. 15:15   The Cricket World Cup showcased NZ. 16:29   My city smells like wheelie bin juice! 17:01   Delving into the topic of arranged marriage. 17:34   I had to organize my marriage to look like it was arranged. 18:00   Breaking the myths of arranged marriage. Misconceptions. 18:29   Forced marriage does happen but there are nuanced. 19:22   Arranged marriage is a whole family thing. 20:17   Lots of parties involved with arranged marriage. 21:22   The good part is your family is involved which is good but there’s the bad side too. 22:20   The urban way is good but in rural areas there is less choice. 23:05   What was with the Shane Jones thing? 24:15   Discussing the immigration laws about arranged marriage. 25:00   The 3 month visit visa and the 12 month work visa to prove partnership. 26:40   It was going fine for years. But then it all changed. 27:48   In Pakistan you don’t live together until you’re married. 28:39   If you don’t like it go home! 29:10   It’s not just an Indian thing it affects all groups. 29:40   Bride and Prejudice scenario is common. 31:00   Russian Brides and meeting online. 32:14   The whole family is involved with the problems too and no babysitters in Pakistan. 33:04   Racist elements to what Shane Jones said? 34:28   The biggest immigrants to NZ are Australia and UK. 35:31   Changing the established narrative of immigration. 36:35   Duncan Garner article on Stuff while visiting Kmart. Population control. Link to Duncan Garners misleading Opinion piece in Stuff from December 2017 here:  38:23   The Kmart article excerpt. Summing it up. "Not intended to be racist". 39:50   House prices being kicked up because of immigrants? 40:35   The northern drift to Auckland. 41:54   Fact checking and delve deeper into things like this. 43:20   Looking at the repeated narrative and paradigm of immigration. 44:47   The whole country is full of immigrants and the emotional impact. 45:40   Boxing immigrants into one. 46:44   The country is getting more beige and the essence of an immigrant country. 48:27   We are a fractal of the world wide story. 49:34   Every country is entitled to control it’s borders. 50:00   The right to better your life and you can’t blame people trying to come here. 43:04   We all do it for economic reasons. 51:18   It’s not easy to come to NZ as it seems. 52:23   Having an open mind as an immigrant. Integrating into a new country. 54:18   It’s still a very nuanced thing. 55:15   Making jokes about I left Pakistan to avoid them here in NZ. 56:49   Since I was 14 I wanted to get out. 58:13   In news media we get sound bites about it but never delved in deeper. 1:00:30 No one was clear about the whole immigration law. 1:01:22 If I was going into an arranged marriage. 1:02:52 Example of showing a 12 month relationship was legit. 1:04:49 It did bring attention to it and promoted dialogue. 1:06:01 It’s not all hunky dory. There are always problems to deal with. It’s not foolproof. 1:06:52 Marriage seen as legalisation of sex. 1:07:30 It’s tilted against women in rural areas. The guy chooses the girl. 1:09:00 How I managed my marriage and worked it backwards and worked it like arranged. 1:11:01 City vs Rural and arranged marriage. 1:12:20 It’s not a level playing field for men and women in Pakistan. 1:13:06 Honour killings and the bad side of arranged marriage, complex situation. 1:14:15 Can urban areas lead the way for the rural areas? 1:14:32 Sons of landlords and the feudal system. 1:15:29 Pakistani literature and conversations surrounding the improvement. 1:16:06 The image of forced marriage. Forced by the circumstance of culture. 1:18:14 The path to death! Getting married too young? 1:19:10 Following my own path and doing what was right for me. 1:19:36 Going against the cultural norms and a having a different mentality. 1:20:16 Why I am supposed to love my country and questioning the nationalistic view. 1:21:39 Why did I actually leave the country I was born in? 1:22:19 Loving one country over another and the programming. 1:23:06 Letting go of your identity and how it changes over time. 1:24:14 Identity and putting your brain in a jail. 1:25:10 The whole wedding in Pakistan was for my family. 1:26:31 It was great and it wasn’t a bad thing and it fulfilled me. 1:27:35 With this topic it’s not black and white like in all relationships. 1:28:20 Arranged marriage there are good and bad sides. 1:29:42 You don’t have to have an opinion straight away. 1:30:45 Having a common sense approach to it. 1:31:30 We need to have a discussion on prostitution. It’s a taboo thing to do. 1:32:32 Being open minded to all topic. 1:32:57 Love is the highest vibration in the universe. 1:33:25 Listen to Ed Amon’s podcast! Baboonyodel.com 1:34:54 Outro music.  

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Ep 8 Friend of the show Actor & Personal Trainer - Marwin Silerio

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Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2019 68:03


Rob and Steve talk to Marwin Silerio, Personal Trainer, Actor and friend of the show! Hey Reality Hub fans! Please support the podcast by following Reality Hub on Instagram, Facebook and on Youtube for future videos and visit our website http://www.realityhub.love/ where you can also listen to the podcast online and read Rob’s blog! Time code and Topics (some podcast players like Overcast allow you to tap the timecode to go straight to that moment in the podcast) 00:00   Special guest Marwin intro 01:03   Please welcome Marwin! 01:26   Steve tells us about Marwin friend, actor and personal trainer at Les Mills. 02:45   Marwin happy to be here now. 03:37   RealityHub woo woo going off on tangents and programmes. 03:57   Growing up with religion and if you’re born into one. 04:47   Moving on from a religion if it no longer serves you. 05:57   Having guidelines and rules to follow so follow a religion or ideology. 06:29   Questioning your religion when you’re born into it. 06:52   Truth seeking and questioning your reality, new cage religion and falling for it. 07:47   The systems and path of new age. 08:10   The Secret and the law of attraction and no accountability. 08:40   A feeling of no accountability when it comes to religion didn’t sit well. 09:54   The new cage religion as said by George Kavisilas. 10:37   Awakening and being woke, The Matrix. 11:11   What is awakening? Spiritual being having a physical experience, infinite and always       existed. 12:20   You are a creator being and take responsibility for life. 12:38   Are we all one? Consciousness and energetic field. Different points of experience. 13:17   We are all having a unique experience in the universe. 14:43   Moments of peak spiritual experiences and being in tune and alive. 15:08   Synchronicities and coincidences and being in the right time and place. 16:00   Peaks and troughs and reality shifted. 17:24   Eckhart Tolle and his big shift. 18:00   Are fish aware of the water? 18:42   As a personal trainer having clients that want to improve their lives. 18:59   Breakups and being depressed! Everything happens for a reason and the lesson. 19:44   Being accountable of what I’m feeling and what I want. 20:11   Habits of my ego. Losing relationships and filling the void. 21:25   I lost these girls! They were good enough for me. 21:51   Tell us why you didn’t get married...it’s tough to explain.Mmmm 22:10   Life challenges and relationships with others and self. 23:10   The ego can get in the way. I saw my ego after the fact. Insecurities. 24:19   Why are you not good enough and where did that come from. 24:36   Hammer to the hand and being traumatised to learn English. 25:41   The moment I “learned” I wasn’t smart enough. People don’t like me. 26:20   The Courage to be Disliked. Lesson to unlearn the things I thought I knew. 27:50   At the core we are always a part of the community. 28:10   What’s your real intention. There’s a lot of ass on Insta. 29:00   It’s misalignment and incroguent. 29:32   Facebook and Instagram and social platforms are not inherently bad, it’s what you do with it. 30:31   Making real changes in your life and key defining factors. 31:16   Everything is contextual. Different goals. 32:11   Sleep is a big key for losing weight and making progress in your fitness goals. 33:11   Everyone has a different why to go to the gym. Coming from pain. Being a counsellor of sorts. 35:00   Why did you get into personal training? You can get paid a dollar a minute! Being Sensitive to energy. 35:51   Always knew how to give and receive attention. I’m not do or die for acting. 37:02   I’m an actor and can’t do anything else!? 38:08   Being attached to labels and titles. Attaching to an identity. 39:41   Where you come from and being attached to it and get caught up in the matrix. 40:19   Ideology without practicality is all just woo woo. 41:30   Feeling into what a client needs and being in tune. 42:30   Breaking out of The Matrix and body wisdom. 44:00   Searching for truth and the journey and what is real and why you do what you do. 45:00   Spiritual drug taking and getting high off meditation. Getting out of themselves. 45:30   Channeling other energies. Guided messages. 5 sense reality. 46:35   Handing over your energy over to the God matrix. 47:00   Snoop Dog and I thank me. Honouring your own creator self. 47:39   Taking full responsibility for yourself 48:39   Having self love and not doing anything for my health. 49:39   Political correctness. Balance and distortion. 50:56   Music break. 51:14   Books from the basement and attic. The New Age phase. 52:18   The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. Recommended. 53:20   The Reality Slap written by a counsellor was very practical. 54:27   Bad Karma by David Safier recommendation by Steve. Lessons learned. 56:20   Biggest takeaway from book, accountability and your affect on others. 57:19   Karma, what goes around comes around. What you put out. 58:11   A negative spiral and remembering a good thing to get you back on track. 1:00:10 Being honest and dealing with your darkness. 1:01:10 Victim mentality. Being responsible for your own healing. 1:02:00 Discernment and helping yourself. Learning from the challenge. 1:03:02 Helping people and being caring and it backfiring. 1:03:33 Great having you on the show Marwin. Getting in touch with Marwin. 1:04:10 Instagram @mauisilerio 1:04:14 Quick catch up call with Marwin! Where he’s at now. 1:07:47 Outro music

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Ep 6 The Reality of Your Own Bullshit

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Play Episode Listen Later Nov 24, 2019 48:53


Episode 6 - The Reality of Your Own Bullshit -  Rob and Steve talk about facing up to your own inner bullshit and creating your own reality. Time code and Topics (note some players like Overcast allow you to tap the time code to go straight to that time in the podcast). 00:35   There is so much of our own inner bullshit and excuses in life. 01:11   You can’t lie to yourself and get away with it. 01:30   You are a creator being, is it woo woo? 02:00   Breaking apart your inner bullshit and what reality are you really creating? 02:44   Your minute by minute creation of your reality. 03:22   Being aware and checking in with your own inner bullshit and reality. 04:04   It can be hard and confronting for many. 04:40   Your automatic programme and belief systems. 05:41   Break the programme and paradigm shift of your automatic programme. 06:17   Steve’s drama story of creating your reality playing out in a financial situation. 07:25   Facing your inner truth and confronting it and seeing your automatic program. 08:01   Seeing and noticing how you respond to your internal program. 08:46   All men are pigs! 09:10   What are you really telling yourself? 09:40   You can’t hide from your inner bullshit! 10:18   Come from a place of inner responsibility and shifting the power back to you. 10:57   Imprinting your own reality. 11:05   The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck! The Buddha story. 11:42   Rob’s analogy of being the storyteller of your life. 12:30   Observing the story you are creating in your life. 13:07   Start imprinting a new reality for yourself. 13:34   What are you doing to create your reality? You feel fulfilment by personal goals being met. 14:21   Winning the lottery, most people lose it all. 14:44   Big winners of the lottery doesn’t make you happy. 15:30   Steve’s westie story! About winning the lottery and nothing really changes? 17:20   Money represents energy, broke at the beginning and broke at the end. 18:06   Being more broke. 18:50   Being wise with money and a healthy money mindset. 19:30   Manifesting your own reality. 20:25   Wise advice and helpful. 20:50   Creating benefit for society so that you are rewarded. 22:00   Providing value. 22:33   Automatic programs and facing the dysfunctional ones. 23:27   The pragmatic approach to being a creator being. 24:00   Manifesting like The Secret. 24:40   Reassessing the dysfunctional programs whatever they are. 25:37   What is your mindset? Nature vs nurture. 26:16   Thinking BIG Vs thinking small. 26:50   Breaking that program and getting inspired. 27:30   Getting the concept: you are creating your reality and putting yourself in the drivers seat. 28:11   Bear Grylls & pumping the right vibes out into the universe. 28:53   Not many people are living from the drivers seat. 29:40   Signposts and reference points on your journey. 30:04   You can never make a living as a writer or dancer or in the creative arts!! End of story - good night. (just kidding darling). 30:43   Playing hide and seek and you can’t hide from yourself. 31:06   A big shift in my life and applying this mentality. 31:55   Start getting real with yourself. 32:11   Face up to your bullshit and celebrate your changes and what you overcome. 33:07   Creator beings at a push? We often only take changes and show off our creator power when it gets too painful.  33:57   Putting out a clear signal to the universe. 34:36   Why wait for the pain to make changes in life? 35:04   Sometimes it’s easier to not face up to your inner bullshit. 36:06   Ambulance at the bottom of the cliff. 36:50   There is creation process to manifesting. 37:13   You have such tremendous power as a creator being. 38:01   Dishonouring your potential and overcoming the setbacks. 38:46   Living up to your potential and being happy. 39:18   Your non-negotiables and changing your life. 39:44   Losing weight (for example) as a process and facing up and taking action. 40:24   Your everyday non-negotiables. 41:30   What are your bare minimum non-negotiables to make a change? 42:45   Fighting self sabotage and course correcting. 43:10   Self-care and putting yourself first is selfish? 44:00   Not having time and making time for what’s important. 44:43   Setting boundaries and being a yes person. 45:22   Is self-care selfish? 45:40   Parents feel there is not enough time. 46:00   Sacrifice for everything to achieve something. 46:50   Reality Hub’s philosophy of wellbeing. 47:44   Reminding people to hit subscribe and future inspiring guests coming up!!! 48:35   Outro music.  

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Ep 3 The Reality of Perception

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Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2019 64:59


Thanks everyone for tuning in to Episode 3. Reality Hub is now a reality! Time Code / Topic 01:17 Today’s topic The reality of perception/ What you see is what you get 02:38 How you see is what you get/how you interpret reality 03:33 Culture. Arranged marriage. Relationship legitimacy 05:31 Marriage in society now and arranged vs free will 06:55 Ahmed be great to have you on show! 08:01 How you’re best mate doesn’t like your girlfriend! Outside perspective. 09:30 Relationships and learning from them 09:56 Relationship example, why are you in one? 10:56 What you deserve? We can have anything we want vs entitlement and privilege 12:51 What we deserve is what we allow ourselves 13:15 Things aren’t always what they seem. Priests. Catholic school girls. 14:19 Bill Cosby as an example being one thing and saying another thing 15:35 People represented in costume or uniform etc presenting one thing 16:30 Facade and perception of people portrayal 17:22 Balance and anti vs something, the duality of it all, anti anything you are into it 19:21 Division in life and opposites 20:15 Anglican school boy story, rebellion, rules, restrictions, control, being human 22:11 Programmes in life, “doesn’t like to be told story” about a woman Steve met on set while filming, Steve’s advice 25:30 Programme of stubborness and reactive response 26:30 Be aware of your programming, tuning into your inner guidance and wisdom, heart, soul 27:49 You are the experiencer of your reality, creating your reality, your diet is not just your food, what are you consuming 29:10 Job not satisfying? 29:49 What you judge is what you need to heal, this reality is like a mirror, what is within you dislike, how can heal and overcome the things we don’t like about ourselves 31:40 Judgement story when you don’t like someone or something, instagram story 33:37 Steve’s childhood story and bullying story, we pick on people because they represent something within ourself we don’t like 36:40 Realisation, people are expressing the inability to love themselves 38:00 Tough place to be growing up, bullies are cowardly and have fear and pick on weaker individuals 39:39 What did the school do about it? Fight back!! 40:25 George St Pierre story about bullying, confronting his bully many years later 42:45 We are all fighting our own battles, your shadow side, your darkness 44:28 The midlife transition, Jaqui thanks for getting in touch 45:04 Friend who doesn’t like their job story, let’s be honest, the right thing to say, needing a break. 46:40 Job job that doesn’t inspire, pay the mortgage, stress, pills, distraction 47:31 The rat race, passion, Simon Sinek quote, stress 48:41 Bottom line job, survival, the transaction of time as energy, inspiration, finding your passion, what makes you feel alive. 50:30 Changing lanes, is it too lat to follow your dreams, get out of the comfort zone, pull the trigger. 51:20 Dancing the Tango, you can’t always make money from your passion? Nothing wrong with a job as long as it doesn’t stress you, health etc 53:30 Balance and job helps your passion, material possessions start owning you, consumerist society. Cultural programming. 55:00 The life you thought you’d live as opposed to reality 56:23 Life is what happens while you’re making other plans 57:40 Are you stuck? Create your way out, empowerment, your not victim, choices 59:05 The change and power is the responsibility within you, the path you chose 1:00:00 What’s the next best step for you? 1:00:55 Finding that inspiration, allow space and guidance, take a step back, perspective 1:02:00 Closing comments, see you next week!  1:02:20 Long Form Outro music. 1:04:58 End

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Ep 1 Have you questioned Your Reality today?

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Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2019 52:53


Hey Everyone we made it! Our First Episode!  In this first episode we introduce ourselves and what Reality Hub is all about!  Every thing from Questioning Your Reality, The Duality of Life, Mental Health, Spirituality & Much Much more!. Enjoy our first episode & join us at our website Realityhub.love and find reality hub on Instagram and Facebook. Enjoy the Show! Rob & Steve.   What we talk about today… 2:00 Questioning Reality Who Am I Really? What is this Human Experience?   New Cage / Age. Being a Man in Society    5:04 Suicide / Depression / Mental Illness. Matrix Personality Construct. Thoughts - Where do they come from?   9:40 Meditation & Mindfulness   10:12 We are Spiritual beings having a Physical experience.   11:35 When You should be Happy but Aren’t.   13:00 Serendipity - Less is More. Carrying the Past with you   14:15 Pain and Suffering. Acknowledging your pain is necessary for Growth and Life. Alchemy and Transformation.   17:15 Duality: Darkness Vs Light. Highs & Lows The Balance in Nature. Knowing your enemy. impermanence. Reaching out and communicating your feelings.   19:18 Mental Health - Seeking Help.   22:55 We are Creator Beings. I AM A CREATOR. What is Consciousness?   23:56 Guru’s - Deepak - Robbins - #Woke   26:54 Contrasting Expression of the Universe   27:58 David Icke: We are an infinite point of Consciousness. George Kavassilas: We are a fractal of the Universe.   29:00 The Universe is experiencing itself through us.   31:31 A-ha Moments & Realisations. Echoing our true reality on Tv and Film. Entities influencing us (a bigger agenda). A blanket over our light.   34:24 Sovereign Being - Empowerment.   35:10 Control Structures, Entities, Beings, Politics, Harvesting our Energy. A state of fear.    37:08 The Pot hole of Life - Taking responsibility. Going through shit to learn. Drowning in our sorrow. The News Media and the drama vortex keeping us in a negative state.   38:33 The Fifth Day - A profound moment of realisation.   41:25 Return from Break - David Icke Banned from Australia - Freedom of Speech. Conspiracy Theory Censorship. Whats the next step?   50:16 Outro Music    

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Reality Hub Trailer

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Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2019 0:53


Welcome to the Reality Hub Podcast Show Trailer. We are just days away from launching the new show and want to make sure you have subscribed to get the latest episodes as they come in.  Heres a quick description of what Reality Hub is about: Join Rob & Steve with guests and friends on this fun and sometimes irreverent show exploring the nature of reality and what it is we take for granted - in the world around us & within us.    You'll get genuine reflections, stories and insights into the daily reality we co-create with humanity from your hosts Rob & Steve, a couple of Kiwi blokes talking from the heart. We touch on holistic health, fitness, mental & emotional wellbeing, inner guidance vs. outer programming, spiritual woo and the daily grind of living in "The Real World". It's all there in this open minded, non-political, non-religious, BPA & BS-free podcast! Reality Hub. See you inside and see you at our website www.realityhub.love (because LOVE matters most).   Dont forget to subscribe to the show!