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    Grace & Grit Podcast:  Helping Women Everywhere Live Happier, Healthier and More Fit Lives
    Episode 641: How to Make Your Journaling Practice Richer

    Grace & Grit Podcast: Helping Women Everywhere Live Happier, Healthier and More Fit Lives

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2026 6:20


    Journaling is not about filling pages. It is about going somewhere you have not been before. And the quality of where you end up is almost entirely determined by the quality of the question you start with. In this episode I reframe journaling as a practice of radical self-inquiry rather than a diary or a gratitude list. I share a collection of less obvious questions worth sitting with, including what am I pretending not to know, what feeling do I keep avoiding and what is it trying to tell me, and what story am I telling about this situation that may not actually be true. I also offer practical ways to build the habit so it actually sticks. What you get out of journaling is largely what you bring to the depth of the question and the honesty of the answer. It is not always fun. It is revealing. And that is the whole point. Want to keep going? Download the first chapter of The Consistency Code for FREE at https://graceandgrit.com/freechapter and take the first step toward the health and happiness you deserve. #GraceAndGrit #Journaling #MidlifeWomen #SelfAwareness #SelfLeadership #WomensWellness #DeepHealth #IntentionalLiving #MidlifeHealth #JournalingPractice

    Front Row Dads:  Family Men With Businesses
    The Three Emotions That Sink Good Men

    Front Row Dads: Family Men With Businesses

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2026 21:58


    Quick test: how do you deal with your neediness? If you just cringed, you found your enemy emotion. (Want a taste of what Front Row Dads is actually like? Come sit in on a live Brotherhood Experience. It's 60 minutes on Zoom with Jon and a few other dads, free, and it's the easiest way to find out whether a room like this is for you. You don't have to share, and you don't have to prepare. Dates and sign up at frontrowdads.com/experience)   Psychiatrist Dr. Laura Dabney has spent her career working with successful men who buried three feelings so deep they stopped recognizing them: neediness, anger, and sadness. In this Deep Cut from the vault (recorded in 2019), she maps what each one turns into when it goes underground: neediness becomes compulsive giving, sadness becomes relentless positivity and joking, and anger becomes the blowup you swore you'd never have. Jon goes first: the punched wall, the need for validation he'd been dressing up as contribution, the positivity that was really sadness-avoidance. Then Dabney lays out the way back: accept the feeling, catch yourself invalidating it, journal with a purpose, and start with you before you manage everyone else's reaction. It ends with the story of a patient who couldn't ask a woman on a date and now sends her postcards of his four kids.   IN THIS EPISODE: The cringe test for finding your enemy emotion What buried neediness, anger, and sadness each turn into "Winning, but you don't realize the price you're paying on the flip side" Why being sad in front of people isn't selfish, and why that word is a trap Journaling with a purpose: practicing the right thing instead of rehearsing the wrong one The turnaround story: from suicidal and stuck at home to married with four kids WANT THE BOOKS? The book list we mention in this episode: over 100 books Front Row Dads recommends, the ones that changed how these guys operate at home and at work. Free at frontrowdads.com/books   WANT THE FULL STORY? The full conversation also covers stopping anger before it becomes a blow-up, why men funnel every emotion into sex, and the boundary conversation that saved a military man's marriage. Hear the whole thing: "How Men Deal With Neediness, Anger and Sadness with Dr. Laura Dabney" : frontrowdads.com/74  

    Every. Body. Talks.
    161 - How Journaling Rewires Your Brain with Laura L. Rubin

    Every. Body. Talks.

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 27, 2026 63:04


    In this episode we explore the simple yet profound power of pen and paper with Laura L. Rubin, the founder of AllSwell Creative and author of the transformative new book, The Big Unlock. Journaling is often touted as a "must-have" wellness tool, but it can feel intimidating or even performative for many. We sit down with Laura to demystify the practice and prove that it truly is accessible to everyone—regardless of whether you consider yourself a "writer." This conversation brings together two very different perspectives: Jenn: A lifelong journaler who relies on her notebook as a non-negotiable tool for mental hygiene and clarity. Lori: A self-proclaimed "non-journaler" who represents the skeptics and the overwhelmed who don't know where to start. We also unpack: The Science: Why slowing down to the speed of your own handwriting has a measurable cognitive and emotional impact. Converting the Skeptic: The specific data points Laura shares in corporate boardrooms to change minds about the power of journaling. 4x4x4 Method (you'll have to tune in to find out what that means)! Whether you are a seasoned pro or a curious skeptic, this episode offers a roadmap to finding your own "Big Unlock" through the philosophy of journaling. Laura's Book: The Big Unlock Laura's Website: AllSwell Creative Follow us on Instagram: @every.body.talks @jenngiamo @schully Subscribe to our YouTube channel! Don't forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening. Apple Podcasts Spotify Be sure to leave a 5 star rating! It really helps grow the show. If you like the show, telling a friend about it would be amazing!

    Decide Your Legacy
    202. 4 Questions to Find Clarity When Life Feels Uncertain

    Decide Your Legacy

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2026 37:31


    What do you do when life feels uncertain and you're not sure what comes next?In Episode 202 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, Adam gets personal about some of the transitions and struggles he's been navigating and shares four powerful questions that are helping him find clarity. These are the same types of questions Adam uses with coaching clients to get beneath the surface, identify what really matters, and take meaningful action.You'll explore what makes you feel most fulfilled, what you may regret if nothing changes, who you want to become over the next five years, and how you would show up differently if you had ten times more self confidence. This episode isn't about having everything figured out. It's about being willing to ask yourself difficult questions, answer them honestly and take the next right step.Articles Mentioned:My 20 Favorite Questions to Ask Clients18 Ways to Build Self-ConfidenceRSVP to the Upcoming Self Confidence Workshop HERE_____________________________TAKE THE NEXT STEP!Conversation starters are helpful, but the deeper issue is often courage. If you want to become more confident, less anxious, and more willing to take action in the conversations that matter most, go through Shatterproof Yourself Lite. In 7 small steps, you'll learn how to face fear, build confidence, and move toward the kind of relationships and legacy you actually want._____________________________Subscribe for weekly personal growth breakdowns, and comment below on which life challenge you want us to cover next.

    Eyes Wide Open with Nick Thompson
    How to Heal From Trauma: Rewire Your Brain & Break the Cycle

    Eyes Wide Open with Nick Thompson

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2026 67:31


    How to Heal From Trauma: Rewire Your Brain & Break the Cycle How do you heal from trauma and break the patterns that keep you stuck? Lawrence C. Harris shares how therapy, journaling, movement, and mindset helped him rebuild his mental health and rewire the way he thinks.   How do you heal from trauma and break the patterns that keep you stuck? Lawrence C. Harris shares how therapy, journaling, movement and mindset helped him rebuild his mental health and rewire the way he thinks.   In this powerful conversation, Lawrence C. Harris opens up about his experience with childhood trauma, abuse, bullying, complex PTSD, mental health struggles and the process of rebuilding his life.   Lawrence explains what it felt like to carry trauma without understanding what was happening, how therapy helped him recognize his patterns, and why healing ultimately required him to take responsibility for the work he needed to do himself. We also discuss: Healing from trauma and complex PTSD Childhood trauma and mental health How the inner critic affects self-worth Journaling as a tool for self-awareness Rewiring negative thought patterns Building momentum through small daily actions How exercise can support mental wellbeing Social media, dopamine and attention Learning to think for yourself Breaking destructive cycles Finding a reason and purpose to keep moving forward Mental health support for teenagers and young adults Why lived experience can create powerful connections with others   Lawrence also shares a powerful perspective on his inner critic, the role of journaling, and how learning to question the beliefs you've been taught can help you develop a stronger sense of identity.   Subscribe to Eyes Wide Open with Nick Thompson for more conversations about mental health, wellness, culture, free speech and the ideas that help us show up in the world with our eyes wide open.   Guest Bio Lawrence C. Harris is a 20-year-old youth empowerment speaker, author, and mental health advocate who transforms his lived experience with autism and complex PTSD into actionable wisdom. Through his speaking engagements and books, he helps teenagers build mental resilience, rewire their inner critics, and reclaim agency over their futures.   Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Mental Health Advocate Lawrence C. Harris 01:20 Escaping Childhood Trauma and the Path to Healing 02:29 The Journey to Becoming a Youth Empowerment Speaker 05:47 Navigating Teenage Years with Autism and Complex PTSD 11:39 Understanding the Invisible Weight of Complex PTSD 16:45 Overcoming Your Inner Critic and Brainwashing Yourself 20:11 The Science of Neuroplasticity and Trauma Recovery 24:22 Building Momentum with Non-Negotiable Daily Routines 33:34 Earning Trust and Inspiring Youth Empowerment Motivation  39:09 Breaking the Cycle of Suck and Finding Your Why 44:27 Escaping the Social Media Dopamine Trap 48:43 Why Journaling for Mental Health Unlocks Free Thinking 57:47 Reality TV Mental Health and Parasocial Relationships Find Lawrence Harris here: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lawrencecempowers Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lawrencec.empowers  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lawrence-harris-8b0177324/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lawrencecempowers  Website: https://www.lawrencecharris.com/    Find Nick Thompson here: Nick Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nthompson513/     UCAN Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_ucan_foundation/        YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@EyesWideOpenContent        LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickthompson13/         UCAN Foundation: https://theucanfoundation.org/       Website: https://www.engagewithnick.com

    Turmeric and Tequila
    308. Coming Home to Yourself: How Your Story Shapes Who You Become with Antonio Michael Downing

    Turmeric and Tequila

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2026 46:03


    "It's not what happens. It's the story you tell yourself about what's happening." -Antonio Michael Downing On this episode of Turmeric & Tequila™, Kristen Olson sits down with critically acclaimed author, speaker, and musician Antonio Michael Downing for a deeply personal conversation about identity, resilience, creativity, reinvention, belonging, and the power of storytelling. Antonio Michael Downing is the author of the acclaimed memoir Saga Boy, the novel Black Cherokee, and Stars in My Crown, and he creates music under his alter ego John Orpheus. His work explores identity, transformation, belonging, and what it takes to change the way we see ourselves. But this conversation goes far beyond books. Kristen and Antonio unpack the question so many of us eventually face: Who am I—and who am I becoming? Antonio shares how his childhood in Trinidad, his grandmother, music, sports, mentors, and the different identities he created throughout his life ultimately helped him understand himself more deeply. They talk about the experience of "trying on" different versions of yourself, what happens when those versions no longer fit, and why making peace with your past can be necessary before you can confidently choose your future. Antonio also explains how writing Saga Boy became part of his own process of coming back to himself, including conducting hundreds of hours of interviews with people from his life to reconstruct his story. The conversation then moves into one of the most powerful ideas of the episode: You have the ability to rewrite the story. Antonio explains that the events of our lives aren't necessarily the thing that defines us—the meaning and narrative we attach to those events can profoundly influence how we move forward.  You'll also hear about: Finding your identity Coming home to yourself The power of your childhood self Reinvention and personal transformation The role of sports and coaches in shaping identity Creativity as a pathway to self-discovery Antonio's musical alter ego, John Orpheus Saga Boy and the journey of becoming Black Cherokee and questions of belonging Storytelling and personal narrative Journaling and grounding Breathwork and reconnecting with yourself How problems and adversity reveal character Why identity matters in an increasingly noisy world How to consciously reshape the story you tell yourself Antonio's own mission is beautifully aligned with this conversation: "the story you tell defines you," and he believes great stories are rooted in authenticity, empathy, and integrity. This is a conversation about identity, self-discovery, resilience, and the courage to become the person you were always capable of being. Timestamps: 00:00 — Welcome to Turmeric & Tequila™ 01:01 — Meet Antonio Michael Downing 02:26 — Growing up in Trinidad & the influence of his grandmother 04:00 — Childhood, creativity & discovering his voice 06:00 — How our early identities shape who we become 08:00 — Coming home to yourself 09:30 — Sports, basketball & lessons that last a lifetime 12:30 — The coaches and mentors who shape us 14:25 — Women's sports & the power of representation 16:25 — Why knowing yourself matters more than ever 17:00 — What does it actually mean to "come home" to yourself? 17:45 — We are all at some stage of becoming 18:10 — When life forces us to rethink who we are 18:30 — The story behind Saga Boy 18:45 — Trying on different versions of yourself 19:00 — Making peace with your past 19:30 — The 10-sentence exercise for telling your life story 20:00 — Why problems reveal character 22:00 — Grounding, journaling & connecting with your subconscious 23:30 — The power to rewrite your story 24:00 — Reframing your narrative & taking back your power 30:00 — Black Cherokee: identity, belonging & becoming 34:00 — Transformation and choosing your next chapter 34:50 — John Orpheus & the power of a creative alter ego 44:00 — Antonio's books, music & where to find him Antonio Michael Downing is an Afro-Caribbean-Canadian author, artist, and speaker whose work explores identity, resilience, and the courage to reinvent yourself. Born in Trinidad and raised in Canada, he traded a successful career in tech sales for his true calling as a writer and musician — known as John Orpheus. He is the author of the memoir Saga Boy and the novel Black Cherokee, and host of Canada's top book radio show. https://www.antoniomichaeldowning.com/ https://x.com/John_Orpheus https://www.facebook.com/john.orpheus.3/ https://www.instagram.com/antoniomichaeldowning/   Connect with T&T: IG: @TurmericTequila Facebook: @TurmericAndTequila Website: www.TurmericAndTequila.com Host: Kristen Olson IG: @Madonnashero Tik Tok: @Madonnashero Website: www.KOAlliance.com WATCH HERE MORE LIKE THIS: https://youtu.be/ZCFQSpFoAgI?si=Erg8_2eH8uyEgYZF    https://youtu.be/piCU9JboWuY?si=qLdhFKCGdBzuAeuI  https://youtu.be/9Vs2JDzJJXk?si=dpjV31GDqTroUKWH

    Le bonheur me va si bien
    Carnet d'été #7 : le procès-verbal de ton été

    Le bonheur me va si bien

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2026 7:24


    Et maintenant... qu'est-ce que tu décides pour la suite ? Tu peux avoir écouté les sept épisodes de ce Carnet d'été, fait tous les exercices, rempli toutes les pages de ton carnet. Et pourtant, que rien ne change.Septième et dernier épisode du Carnet d'été, la série de 7 rendez-vous pour faire une pause, prendre du recul et revenir à l'essentiel. Pour cet épisode de clôture, je te propose de faire le bilan de fin d'été. Pas un bilan classique qui juge ce qui n'a pas été fait, mais un constat sans jugement de ce que tu veux garder de ces sept semaines. Parce qu'une prise de conscience, seule, ne suffit jamais à changer une vie : ce sont les petits choix répétés, jour après jour, qui finissent par tout transformer.Ce que tu vas apprendre :Pourquoi une prise de conscience ne suffit jamais, à elle seule, à changer une vieLa différence entre un bilan classique, qui juge, et un procès-verbal, qui constateL'exercice du "procès-verbal de ton été" : sept phrases à compléter pour ancrer ce que tu veux garderPourquoi ce sont les petits choix répétés, et non les grandes décisions, qui transforment une vieComment transformer une prise de conscience en point de départ plutôt qu'en joli souvenirCe qui t'attend après ce Carnet d'été si tu as envie d'aller plus loinRessources mentionnées dans cet épisode :Une session de clarification offerte et sans engagement (30 à 45 minutes) pour faire le point sur ce que tu vis et voir si le coaching CréActrice te correspond : https://macoherence.com/appel-decouverte-creactrice/Tes prochaines étapes :Travailler avec moi : https://macoherence.com/accompagnement-creactrice-macoherence/Les ressources offertes par Ma cohérence : https://macoherence.com/outils-ressources-gratuites-autocoaching/Me retrouver sur les réseaux : https://www.instagram.com/ma_coherence/Hébergé par Ausha. Visitez ausha.co/politique-de-confidentialite pour plus d'informations.

    Navigating Cancer TOGETHER
    Alone in a Room Full of People: Nancy's Story

    Navigating Cancer TOGETHER

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2026 5:53 Transcription Available


    Recorded live at the Healing Pen & A Mic journaling workshop in St. Paul, this episode brings you straight into the room.Nancy stepped out of a afternoon of writing alongside fellow cancer patients and survivors to sit down with host Talaya Dendy. Diagnosed with acute promyelocytic leukemia in 2018, Nancy speaks with quiet honesty about the specific kind of isolation that can follow you even in a crowded room. She shares what happened when treatment ended and the appointments stopped, how her perspective on healing transformed, and what keeps her grounded when disconnection creeps back in.If you have ever felt isolated after a diagnosis or wondered what comes next when treatment stops, this conversation offers a space to process those feelings alongside people who understand.✨ Episode Highlights:01:32 Nancy shares her 2018 leukemia diagnosis and its sudden onset01:45 What it feels like to write in a room surrounded by people who understand: "a freeing sensation and just a validation"02:37 The reality of feeling alone even when supported by medical staff and family03:33 Redefining healing as an ongoing practice rather than a quick fix04:03 Practical advice for navigating isolation after a diagnosis04:33 The abrupt transition after chemo ends and the quiet that followsAbout the Guest: Nancy Tepley-Mimbach was diagnosed with acute promyelocytic leukemia in 2018. She joined the Healing Pen & A Mic workshop seeking the community connection that felt missing after her active treatment ended.Take the Next StepAttend a Workshop (Twin Cities): Join us for the next Healing Pen & A Mic journaling workshop on Saturday, October 4th. Save your spot: https://bit.ly/healingpenwaitlist

    The Adult Chair
    524: The Hidden Pattern Keeping You Stuck

    The Adult Chair

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2026 25:19


    Episode Summary Feeling stuck can feel overwhelming, hopeless, and frustrating, but you are more powerful than you think. I'm sharing six simple tools to help you get unstuck and begin creating real movement in your life. Whether you feel stuck in a relationship, a job, a friendship, a pattern, or the way you feel about yourself, these steps can help you shift your energy, change your thoughts, and start moving toward the life you truly want. I talk about the importance of accepting where you are right now, not because you like it or want it to stay that way, but because acceptance creates movement. When we stop avoiding what is right in front of us, we can begin to make new choices. I also share how to get clear on where you want to go, how to stop giving energy to what you do not want, and why your thoughts and spoken words are so powerful. We talk about gratitude, journaling, emotional release, and the choice we all have between staying in the victim seat or stepping into empowerment. Key Takeaways Accepting your current reality does not mean you like it, approve of it, or want it to stay the same Avoiding what is happening in your life takes a lot of energy Getting clear on what you want helps you move toward a new reality Visualization and feeling into your future self can help you create change Your thoughts are powerful, but your spoken words are even more powerful Talking constantly about what is wrong can keep you anchored in the reality you want to change Gratitude helps shift your energy and move you from stuckness toward possibility Journaling is a powerful way to purge thoughts, emotions, and energy from the body You can choose the victim path or the empowered path Intentional thoughts and conscious choices help you reclaim your power MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Adult Chair® Collective https://www.michellechalfant.com/collective  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

    Overcome the Overwhelm for Special Needs Moms
    245. The Best 5-Minute Journaling Exercises for Special Needs Moms

    Overcome the Overwhelm for Special Needs Moms

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2026 23:38


    If you have 5 minutes, I honestly think this might be one of the most impactful things you can do for yourself.Just 5 minutes of writing.Journaling can help you get thoughts out of your head, process emotions, see situations more clearly, and notice patterns you might not see when you're just trying to push through your day.And when you're a special needs mom carrying approximately 47,000 thoughts at any given moment?

    The Bridge Between Us
    When Your Child's Choices Start Consuming Your Life {Eps 140}

    The Bridge Between Us

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2026 17:18


    When something is happening in your child's life that you desperately want to change, it can all start feeling like your responsibility. Their choices. Their relationship with God. Whether they understand what you're trying to tell them. Even what happens next.   In today's episode, Melinda shares a way that can help us determine where the lines of responsibility get blurred.  Listen in as she discuss how to determine what responsibility is ours, what is our childs, and what is Gods.    Releasing responsibility isn't the same thing as withdrawing love. Loving someone does not give me ownership over their choices. My child is a person God has created and there are parts of their journey that we cannot walk for them. Journaling activity: HOW DO I KNOW WHEN I'VE PICKED UP SOMETHING THAT ISN'T MINE? Am I constantly rehearsing conversations?  Does my peace rise and fall based on my child's latest decision?  Am I trying to prevent every consequence? Am I praying or strategizing? Am I more focused on what God needs to do in my child than what He might be doing in me?     Here is more information on the upcoming Boots On the Ground course.   Connect with Melinda: www.melindapatrick.org Please share this episode. If today's conversation encouraged you, would you share it with another parent who may be feeling stuck in fear, uncertainty, or doubt? You never know how God may use one conversation to bring hope to someone else's journey.     

    10% Happier with Dan Harris
    The Science of Journaling: How 15 Minutes of Writing Can Free Up Your Brain, Improve Your Health, and Make You a Better Friend | Dr. James Pennebaker

    10% Happier with Dan Harris

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2026 68:33


    Writing can reduce overthinking, rumination, and anxiety. Here's what the researcher who pioneered the science suggests. James Pennebaker is Professor Emeritus of Psychology at the University of Texas at Austin. He is known for his early research on expressive writing and health. More recently, he has pioneered ways to study people's personalities and behaviors through the analysis of their language use. His text analysis program LIWC is used across disciplines. Author of over 300 scientific articles and 8 books, his research has affected our understanding and treatment of mental and physical health of people dealing with upheavals in their lives. This episode first aired in November 2024, and is co-hosted by Dr. Bianca Harris. In this episode we talk about: The specific form of journaling, called expressive writing or therapeutic journaling, that he invented and studied. Other kinds of journaling such as to-do lists and gratitude lists. Why writing things down helps shift our perspective on our stress or trauma. How that can lead to a cascade of benefits, from improved sleep to improved working memory And why Pennebaker, who's a very laid-back dude, is so laid-back about how often we need to journal in order to derive its benefits Get the 10% with Dan Harris app here Sign up for Dan's free newsletter here Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube Channel Additional Resources: To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://advertising.libsyn.com/10HappierwithDanHarris

    Karl and Crew Mornings
    Trusting God More with Susie Larson & Journaling as a Spiritual Practice with Allison Byxbe & Freedom Friday Testimony Philip Van Lear

    Karl and Crew Mornings

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2026 55:12 Transcription Available


    Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, “5 Senses.” Allison Byxbe, Phillip Edward Van Lear, and Susie Larson joined us today. Allison Byxbe, the author of “Journaling as a Spiritual Practice,” explained how journaling can help us honestly process what we are feeling and become more aware of how God is working in our lives. Then Phillip Edward Van Lear, a retired professional actor, director, and presenter, shared how losing his physical sight transformed the way he understands what it means to walk by faith, not by sight. Additionally, Susie Larson, a radio talk show host and author of “Waking Up to the Goodness of God,” shared how to build resilient trust in God when answers are delayed and the outcome is still uncertain. You can hear the highlights of today’s program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following timestamps:Phillip Van Lear [ 05:21 ]Susie Larson [ 28:15 ]Allison Byxbe [ 46:48 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Love Stories
    Why You Attract the Wrong Relationships | FT: Ada Gore

    Love Stories

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2026 81:59


    Why You Attract the Wrong Relationships | FT: Ada Gore CONNECT WITH CHARLENE On Instagram @mscharlenebyars ([https://www.instagram.com/mscharlenebyars] On YouTube @chosentraining (https://www.youtube.com/@lovestorieswithcharlenebyars)) Work with me HERE ([https://charlenebyars.com/](https://charlenebyars.com/)) CONNECT WITH ADA: On Instagaram @unfawningwithada (https://www.instagram.com/unfawningwithada//) On Facebook : https://www.facebook.com/p/UnfawningwithAda-Gore-61583811881569/ On YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@UnFawningWithAdaJoin the Waitlist: https://adagore.com/unstuck-waitlist Join for a Practical.Guideline to be a Self-Centred Woman : https://www.adagore.com/enroll-scw Website : https://www.adagore.com/ Self-trust coach Ada Gore joins the podcast to unpack self-abandonment, the pattern of consistently putting everyone else first while ignoring your own needs, and how it silently sabotages dating, marriage, and self-worth. Ada explains how self-abandonment shows up specifically in dating (over-planning, over-texting, doing all the emotional labor) and marriage (trying to control your partner instead of trusting them), and introduces the most powerful reframe of the episode: resentment as a messenger, not an enemy, a signal that reveals exactly where you've abandoned your own needs. Full Timestamps: 00:00 — Intro: Meet Ada Gore, Self-Trust Coach 02:00 — Ada's Story: A Decade of Single Motherhood & Painful Dating 04:00 — The Dud, the Almost Man, and the Soulmate 06:30 — The Breakthrough: "I Didn't Love Myself" 09:00 — Why We Can Only Receive the Love We Give Ourselves 11:30 — What Self-Love Actually Means: Evidence Over Affirmations 14:00 — Keeping Tiny Promises to Yourself 16:30 — The "Going Pee When You Need To" Story 19:00 — Self-Abandonment as a Protective Mechanism 21:30 — How It Shows Up in Dating: Over-Planning & Control 24:00 — How It Shows Up in Marriage: Turning Him Into a Project 26:00 — Learning to Trust Yourself to Read the Red Flags 29:00 — "Trusting Someone Else Is Never About Them — It's About You" 32:00 — Signs You're Abandoning Yourself: The Resentment Test 35:00 — Ada's Postpartum Story: The Yoga Class She Never Took 39:00 — Why Resentment Is Always About You, Not Them 41:30 — Confusing Sacrifice With Healthy Love 44:00 — Selfish vs. Selfless vs. Self-Centered (The Pendulum) 47:00 — The Self-Centered Woman Program Introduction 49:00 — Permission Exercise: Speaking Your Resentment Out Loud 52:00 — Journaling vs. Speaking: Getting the Loop Out of Your Head 54:30 — The Dishes Story: Giving From Overflow vs. Depletion 58:00 — The Pygmalion Effect in Relationships 1:00:00 — How to Set Expectations Without Lying to Yourself 1:05:00 — Where to Start If You've Abandoned Yourself for Years 1:08:30 — Advice for Single Women: Resentment in Dating 1:11:00 — Ada's Viral Reel: The #1 Red Flag Before Marriage 1:16:00 — Life After Healing: "I'm Not Lonely Anymore"1:18:00 — Where to Find Ada + The Self-Centered Woman Program 1:21:00 — Closing Thoughts The episode also covers the difference between selfish, selfless, and "self-centered" (Ada's reframed, healthy middle ground), the Pygmalion effect and how the expectations you set for your partner shape how they show up, and concrete scripts for communicating trust and boundaries without nagging or lying to yourself. This is a deeply practical conversation for any woman who feels like she's disappeared inside her own relationships.

    Mornings with Eric and Brigitte
    Trusting God More with Susie Larson & Journaling as a Spiritual Practice with Allison Byxbe & Freedom Friday Testimony Philip Van Lear

    Mornings with Eric and Brigitte

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2026 55:12 Transcription Available


    Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, “5 Senses.” Allison Byxbe, Phillip Edward Van Lear, and Susie Larson joined us today. Allison Byxbe, the author of “Journaling as a Spiritual Practice,” explained how journaling can help us honestly process what we are feeling and become more aware of how God is working in our lives. Then Phillip Edward Van Lear, a retired professional actor, director, and presenter, shared how losing his physical sight transformed the way he understands what it means to walk by faith, not by sight. Additionally, Susie Larson, a radio talk show host and author of “Waking Up to the Goodness of God,” shared how to build resilient trust in God when answers are delayed and the outcome is still uncertain. You can hear the highlights of today’s program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following timestamps:Phillip Van Lear [ 05:21 ]Susie Larson [ 28:15 ]Allison Byxbe [ 46:48 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Mornings with Tom and Tabi Podcast
    Trusting God More with Susie Larson & Journaling as a Spiritual Practice with Allison Byxbe & Freedom Friday Testimony Philip Van Lear

    Mornings with Tom and Tabi Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2026 55:12 Transcription Available


    Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, “5 Senses.” Allison Byxbe, Phillip Edward Van Lear, and Susie Larson joined us today. Allison Byxbe, the author of “Journaling as a Spiritual Practice,” explained how journaling can help us honestly process what we are feeling and become more aware of how God is working in our lives. Then Phillip Edward Van Lear, a retired professional actor, director, and presenter, shared how losing his physical sight transformed the way he understands what it means to walk by faith, not by sight. Additionally, Susie Larson, a radio talk show host and author of “Waking Up to the Goodness of God,” shared how to build resilient trust in God when answers are delayed and the outcome is still uncertain. You can hear the highlights of today’s program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following timestamps:Phillip Van Lear [ 05:21 ]Susie Larson [ 28:15 ]Allison Byxbe [ 46:48 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Mornings with Kelli and Steve
    Trusting God More with Susie Larson & Journaling as a Spiritual Practice with Allison Byxbe & Freedom Friday Testimony Philip Van Lear

    Mornings with Kelli and Steve

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2026 55:12 Transcription Available


    Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, “5 Senses.” Allison Byxbe, Phillip Edward Van Lear, and Susie Larson joined us today. Allison Byxbe, the author of “Journaling as a Spiritual Practice,” explained how journaling can help us honestly process what we are feeling and become more aware of how God is working in our lives. Then Phillip Edward Van Lear, a retired professional actor, director, and presenter, shared how losing his physical sight transformed the way he understands what it means to walk by faith, not by sight. Additionally, Susie Larson, a radio talk show host and author of “Waking Up to the Goodness of God,” shared how to build resilient trust in God when answers are delayed and the outcome is still uncertain. You can hear the highlights of today’s program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following timestamps:Phillip Van Lear [ 05:21 ]Susie Larson [ 28:15 ]Allison Byxbe [ 46:48 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Perry and Shawna Mornings
    Trusting God More with Susie Larson & Journaling as a Spiritual Practice with Allison Byxbe & Freedom Friday Testimony Philip Van Lear

    Perry and Shawna Mornings

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2026 55:12 Transcription Available


    Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, “5 Senses.” Allison Byxbe, Phillip Edward Van Lear, and Susie Larson joined us today. Allison Byxbe, the author of “Journaling as a Spiritual Practice,” explained how journaling can help us honestly process what we are feeling and become more aware of how God is working in our lives. Then Phillip Edward Van Lear, a retired professional actor, director, and presenter, shared how losing his physical sight transformed the way he understands what it means to walk by faith, not by sight. Additionally, Susie Larson, a radio talk show host and author of “Waking Up to the Goodness of God,” shared how to build resilient trust in God when answers are delayed and the outcome is still uncertain. You can hear the highlights of today’s program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following timestamps:Phillip Van Lear [ 05:21 ]Susie Larson [ 28:15 ]Allison Byxbe [ 46:48 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Kurt and Kate Mornings
    Trusting God More with Susie Larson & Journaling as a Spiritual Practice with Allison Byxbe & Freedom Friday Testimony Philip Van Lear

    Kurt and Kate Mornings

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2026 55:12 Transcription Available


    Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, “5 Senses.” Allison Byxbe, Phillip Edward Van Lear, and Susie Larson joined us today. Allison Byxbe, the author of “Journaling as a Spiritual Practice,” explained how journaling can help us honestly process what we are feeling and become more aware of how God is working in our lives. Then Phillip Edward Van Lear, a retired professional actor, director, and presenter, shared how losing his physical sight transformed the way he understands what it means to walk by faith, not by sight. Additionally, Susie Larson, a radio talk show host and author of “Waking Up to the Goodness of God,” shared how to build resilient trust in God when answers are delayed and the outcome is still uncertain. You can hear the highlights of today’s program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following timestamps:Phillip Van Lear [ 05:21 ]Susie Larson [ 28:15 ]Allison Byxbe [ 46:48 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Ken and Deb Mornings
    Trusting God More with Susie Larson & Journaling as a Spiritual Practice with Allison Byxbe & Freedom Friday Testimony Philip Van Lear

    Ken and Deb Mornings

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2026 55:12 Transcription Available


    Today, on Karl and Crew, we wrapped up our weekly theme, “5 Senses.” Allison Byxbe, Phillip Edward Van Lear, and Susie Larson joined us today. Allison Byxbe, the author of “Journaling as a Spiritual Practice,” explained how journaling can help us honestly process what we are feeling and become more aware of how God is working in our lives. Then Phillip Edward Van Lear, a retired professional actor, director, and presenter, shared how losing his physical sight transformed the way he understands what it means to walk by faith, not by sight. Additionally, Susie Larson, a radio talk show host and author of “Waking Up to the Goodness of God,” shared how to build resilient trust in God when answers are delayed and the outcome is still uncertain. You can hear the highlights of today’s program on the Karl and Crew Showcast. If you're looking to hear a particular segment from the show, look at the following timestamps:Phillip Van Lear [ 05:21 ]Susie Larson [ 28:15 ]Allison Byxbe [ 46:48 ]Donate to Moody Radio: http://moodyradio.org/donateto/morningshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Art de Vivre
    Une rentrée plus sereine : comment comprendre ses émotions pour mieux les vivre

    Art de Vivre

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2026 22:46


    InTune-Living
    Accepting that i'm not in control set me free! Job 38

    InTune-Living

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2026 8:38


    If you want to be humbled. Read the book of Job. I didn't realize how much I was "playing" God in my own life. God is in charge and in full control of everything and i'm learning to humble myself before him and stop trying to be in control of everything. Journaling prompt: What is one area of your life that you are trying to be in control of and why?

    Confessions Of A Crappy Christian Podcast
    The List God Gave Me That Wrecked Everything | Episode 424

    Confessions Of A Crappy Christian Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2026 60:03


    If you're feeling stressed, exhausted, and disconnected, it might not be because life is too busy—it might be because your priorities are out of order. In this solo episode, I share a deeply personal lesson God has been teaching me over the past year: there is a biblical order to where our time, energy, attention, and devotion belong. After a season where work and ministry had climbed to the top of my priorities, God gave me a vision showing just how disordered my life had become. Then the board changed, revealing a simple order that would begin reshaping everything: God. Spouse. Children. Community. Ministry. I walk through each of these five areas and share what I'm learning about putting them back in their proper place, not through perfection or another checklist, but through surrender and obedience. Episodes Mentioned: Ep. 407 - Navigating Change: How God's Shifted My Entire Life Ep. 411 - Where Do I Start? (Bible Reading, Journaling, & Staying Rooted) Bible Verses: Matthew 22:37 — Love the Lord your God with everything you have — the first and greatest commandment Psalm 27:4 — One thing sought above all else — dwelling with God Genesis 2:24 — The covenant of marriage — two becoming one Proverbs 31:11-12 — The wife who brings her husband good all the days of her life Psalm 127:3 — Children as heritage and gift, not achievement or identity Deuteronomy 6:6-7 — Faith impressed on children through the ordinary moments of life Hebrews 10:24-25 — The call to genuine, embodied community Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 — Two are better than one — the value of real relationship Mark 8:36 — The cost of gaining the world while neglecting what matters Matthew 6:33 — Seek first the kingdom — the right order always starts with Him ## Sponsors **CrowdHealth** CrowdHealth offers a community-powered alternative to traditional health insurance, giving members access to bill negotiation, lower-cost prescriptions and testing, vetted doctors, and support when larger medical expenses arise. Get started for $99 for your first three months at **JoinCrowdHealth.com** using code **SPEAKEASY**. CrowdHealth is not health insurance.  **Live Action** Live Action works to reach women considering abortion with life-affirming information, support, and hope before a decision is made. Your support can help put resources in front of women searching for answers when they need them most. Text **BLAKE** to **70723** or visit **LiveAction.org/donate/Blake** to support their work.

    Optimal Living Daily
    4117: Journaling as a Problem-Solving Tool by Steve Pavlina on Deeper Thinking

    Optimal Living Daily

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2026 10:15


    Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4117: Steve Pavlina shares why he treats his journal less as a diary and more as a problem-solving tool, opening most entries with a question he wants to answer. He explains how writing a problem out breaks circular thinking, exposes gaps in the options you have considered, and effectively expands your mental working memory. It is a simple personal development habit for making big decisions with more clarity. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://stevepavlina.com/blog/2004/10/journaling-as-a-problem-solving-tool/ Quotes to ponder: "So instead of thinking things through in my head, I tackle those big, hairy problems by writing them through." "Some problems are by their very nature just too big to fully understand in our thoughts alone." "By exploring problems on paper, I avoid circular thinking, and it's also easier to identify gaps in the possible solution space that have yet to be considered." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    How to Become an Obstacle Buster
    The Simple Power of Journaling: How One Dad Transformed His Life and Leadership with Joe Wheeler

    How to Become an Obstacle Buster

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2026 29:43


    Host Warren Wandling takes you behind the scenes to get to know a variety of leaders and the keys to their success. Discover strategies, tools, and insights from leaders and entrepreneurs who have overcome obstacles to build resilience and achieve lasting impact. Episode 129-  The Simple Power of Journaling: How One Dad Transformed His Life […] The post The Simple Power of Journaling: How One Dad Transformed His Life and Leadership with Joe Wheeler appeared first on Warren Wandling.

    Optimal Living Daily - ARCHIVE 1 - Episodes 1-300 ONLY
    4117: Journaling as a Problem-Solving Tool by Steve Pavlina on Deeper Thinking

    Optimal Living Daily - ARCHIVE 1 - Episodes 1-300 ONLY

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2026 10:15


    Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4117: Steve Pavlina shares why he treats his journal less as a diary and more as a problem-solving tool, opening most entries with a question he wants to answer. He explains how writing a problem out breaks circular thinking, exposes gaps in the options you have considered, and effectively expands your mental working memory. It is a simple personal development habit for making big decisions with more clarity. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://stevepavlina.com/blog/2004/10/journaling-as-a-problem-solving-tool/ Quotes to ponder: "So instead of thinking things through in my head, I tackle those big, hairy problems by writing them through." "Some problems are by their very nature just too big to fully understand in our thoughts alone." "By exploring problems on paper, I avoid circular thinking, and it's also easier to identify gaps in the possible solution space that have yet to be considered." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Optimal Living Daily - ARCHIVE 2 - Episodes 301-600 ONLY
    4117: Journaling as a Problem-Solving Tool by Steve Pavlina on Deeper Thinking

    Optimal Living Daily - ARCHIVE 2 - Episodes 301-600 ONLY

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2026 10:15


    Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4117: Steve Pavlina shares why he treats his journal less as a diary and more as a problem-solving tool, opening most entries with a question he wants to answer. He explains how writing a problem out breaks circular thinking, exposes gaps in the options you have considered, and effectively expands your mental working memory. It is a simple personal development habit for making big decisions with more clarity. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://stevepavlina.com/blog/2004/10/journaling-as-a-problem-solving-tool/ Quotes to ponder: "So instead of thinking things through in my head, I tackle those big, hairy problems by writing them through." "Some problems are by their very nature just too big to fully understand in our thoughts alone." "By exploring problems on paper, I avoid circular thinking, and it's also easier to identify gaps in the possible solution space that have yet to be considered." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Growth Now Movement with Justin Schenck
    Your Path to Profits with Michelle Jacobik

    Growth Now Movement with Justin Schenck

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2026 45:20


    What happens when you finally build the business you thought would give you freedom… only to realize it has taken over your life? In this episode of The Growth Now Movement, I sit down with entrepreneur, author, financial strategist, and connector Michelle Jacobik for a conversation about entrepreneurship, burnout, business exits, financial clarity, reinvention, and learning to trust yourself again. Michelle knows what it's like to build a successful business from the ground up. She grew her insurance agency into a 22-person operation—but eventually realized that the business she had built was becoming a "monster." Her health was suffering. Her family was getting the leftovers. And despite the external success, she knew something had to change. Michelle shares what happened when she stopped trying to figure out her entire life and instead started thinking about her life in chapters. That simple shift gave her permission to make different decisions. Eventually, Michelle exited her business, stepped into a quiet sabbatical, and began an intense period of identity work through journaling, yoga, prayer, meditation, and teachings from people like Wayne Dyer. And that's where this conversation gets really interesting. Because leaving the business wasn't the end of the story—it was the beginning of Michelle figuring out who she was without the business. We also dive deep into one of the biggest problems entrepreneurs face but don't talk about enough: financial avoidance. Michelle believes many entrepreneurs aren't struggling because they don't know how to make money. They're struggling because they haven't created alignment between their vision, goals, financial strategy, and the actual numbers inside their business. Through her book The Path to Profits and her work with entrepreneurs, Michelle helps business owners understand their money, create profitable businesses, and avoid the financial mistakes that can ultimately lead to business failure. We also talk about relationship-first entrepreneurship, why being a connector can be one of your greatest assets, and why the right rooms can completely change the trajectory of your business and your life. Michelle shares the philosophy behind communities like Thrive Hive, where the rules are simple: no ego, no judgment, and no pitching. Because sometimes the most valuable thing you can do for your business isn't another strategy. It's getting around the right people. And ultimately, Michelle defines success in a way I think a lot of entrepreneurs can relate to: doing what you want, when you want, with whom you want. Her biggest growth moment? Learning to trust herself. If you've ever felt burned out by your business, struggled with your identity after an exit, avoided your finances, or wondered whether the success you're chasing is actually creating the life you want, this episode is for you. In This Episode, We Discuss: Why successful entrepreneurs can still feel completely burned out How Michelle built a 22-person insurance agency The hidden cost of building a business that consumes your life Why thinking in "chapters" can create freedom Knowing when it's time to exit a business What happens to your identity after leaving your company Reinventing yourself after entrepreneurial success Journaling, yoga, prayer, and inner work Lessons from Wayne Dyer Why entrepreneurs avoid looking at their finances How financial avoidance can contribute to business failure Creating alignment between your vision, goals, and money Building a profitable business instead of simply building a bigger business Relationship-first entrepreneurship Why being a connector is such a powerful business skill The importance of curated rooms and trusted communities Creating spaces without ego, judgment, or pitching How to build greater self-trust Michelle's definition of true freedom and success

    Choose To Be with Choose Recovery Services; Betrayal Trauma Healing
    When Healing Becomes Hiding: Individual Recovery vs. Relational Repair

    Choose To Be with Choose Recovery Services; Betrayal Trauma Healing

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2026 31:52


    Can recovery itself become a form of avoidance?This week, Alana Gordon explores a pattern that can quietly interfere with healing from compulsive sexual behavior and betrayal: using individual recovery work to avoid relational repair—or using couples work to avoid personal accountability.Listen in to learn how to avoid these pitfalls and gauge if your recovery work is actually healing you and your relationship.Journaling prompts for the person who acted outside their values: Am I asking for space to regulate or to escape accountability? How is my individual work helping me become more relationally available? Am I initiating repair or am I requiring my partner to still pursue me?  Can I hear my partner's experience without explaining my own first? What changes should my partner realistically expect to see from me, and am I doing that?Journaling prompts for the injured partner: Is this space creating stability or prolonged uncertainty?  Is my partner returning when they say they will? Are they initiating the repair? Am I seeing greater empathy, accountability, and engagement? Is the individual work changing behavior or are they only explaining it? What do I need to do in order to remain emotionally safe? LAST CHANCE TO REGISTER!***Use code PODCAST150 to get $150 off any Choose intensive or retreat in 2026!***Courage to Thrive - Join us for this healing retreat for women who have experienced betrayal trauma. It offers a safe, supportive space to process pain, reconnect with yourself, and begin moving forward with strength and hope. Through guided workshops, therapeutic support, and restorative experiences, women leave feeling seen, empowered, and less alone. August 25-28, 2026 in Spanish Fork, Utah. Reclaimed: A Men's Parts-Work Intensive - A transformative 4-day intensive for men in recovery from problematic sexual behaviors, using the Internal Family Systems model to help participants deepen emotional healing, reduce shame, understand their inner world, and live with greater authenticity and wholeness. August 18-21 in Spanish Fork, UT. Housing accommodations available here.

    Productivity Smarts
    Episode 159 - In High Heels on a Ladder: The 7 Power Tools for Designing Your Life with Tonya Comer

    Productivity Smarts

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026 45:42


    In this episode of Productivity Smarts, host Gerald J. Leonard sits down with Tonya Comer, one of the top 20 African American interior designers in the United States, winner of the 2024 Nautilus Gold Book Award for Business and Leadership, and author of High Heels on a Ladder: The 7 Power Tools for Designing Your Life. Tonya shares the deeply personal story behind her book, revealing how years of success couldn't silence the self-limiting belief that nearly sabotaged her life, career, and health.Gerald and Tonya explore the hidden beliefs that shape our decisions, the surprising ways childhood experiences influence adulthood, and why hustle culture is often fueled by fear instead of purpose. They unpack concepts like foundational beliefs, the reticular activating system, imposter syndrome, forgiveness, gratitude, and transformational learning, offering practical tools for moving from survival to genuine fulfillment.Whether you've achieved success but still feel like you're falling short, struggle with burnout or self-doubt, or simply want to stop letting old stories dictate your future, this episode offers a thoughtful roadmap for replacing fear with self-awareness, purpose, and lasting personal transformation.What We Discuss[00:00] Productivity Smarts introduction[02:01] Meet Tonya Comer and High Heels on a Ladder[03:31] Tonya's favorite music and artists[05:19] Hustle culture and the motivation for writing the book[06:09] Hitting "rock bottom" at the height of recognition[10:21] Gerald's own story: fear, the nervous system, and passing out[12:06] Self-worth, foundational belief, circumstantial belief, and imposter belief[12:28] "Words create worlds"[13:26] How foundational beliefs form in early childhood[15:42] Tonya's story: homelessness, colorism, bullying, and "I don't matter"[19:43] The reticular activating system and self-fulfilling beliefs[21:57] Getting unstuck from hustle culture toward calm productivity[23:20] The belief system as "a big fat lie" vs. your natural authority[25:09] Awareness as the essential first step[27:00] Journaling and examining your own limiting beliefs[31:08] The 7 Power Tools framework and why "forgive it" is hardest[31:57] Gratitude as a daily practice[32:46] Dr. Dawson Church's research on gratitude and neural rewiring[34:27] Transformational learning and Einstein's famous insight[38:18] The diamond metaphor: pressure, growth, and becoming[39:49] Tonya's free gift: the Communications Guide to Natural Authority[41:56] Where to find Tonya Comer and her book[43:21] Final thoughts Notable Quotes[06:38] "I believe I don't matter. At the moment I was being acknowledged as one of the best in my field, I didn't know how to reconcile this acknowledgement against the belief system I had." – Tonya Comer[12:38] "Words create worlds. The words you say out loud or to yourself shape your reality." – Tonya Comer[19:21] "Every time we say 'I am' and fill in the blank, we're programming the reticular activating system. That becomes the lens through which you see everything in the world." – Gerald J. Leonard[23:27] "The belief system is a big fat lie. The other part of you, your natural authority, is the confident part of you that knows how to win in life." – Tonya Comer[25:13] "The first step is awareness. You have to understand that internal conflict is the thing causing you to burn out." – Tonya Comer[32:13] "Gratitude opens up a space for that part of us that is our natural authority. It allows us to attract more of the things we're grateful for." – Tonya Comer[37:32] "My journey was not created so that I could suffer. It was created so I could learn some really big lessons so I could help others thrive." – Tonya Comer[38:27] "Diamonds are formed from coal under pressure. To become that jewel, we have to go through the furnace." – Gerald J. Leonard[43:39] "You are powerful beyond belief. The only thing that holds us back is a big fat lie—that self-limiting belief." – Tonya ComerResource and LinksTonya ComerWebsite: tonyacomer.comLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/iamtonyacomerBook: In High Heels on a Ladder: The 7 Power Tools for Designing Your LifeEmail for autographed copies and free gift: hello@tonyacomer.comFree Gift: Communications Guide to Natural Authority (email to request)Productivity Smarts PodcastWebsite - productivitysmartspodcast.comGerald J. LeonardWebsite - geraldjleonard.comTurnberry Premiere website - turnberrypremiere.comScheduler - vcita.com/v/geraldjleonardKiva is a loan, not a donation, allowing you to cycle your money and create a personal impact worldwide. https://www.kiva.org/lender/topmindshelpingtopmindsSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Called to Both
    184: How to Start Journaling for Business Growth (The Complete Guide For the High Achieving Creative)

    Called to Both

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026 19:03


    Don't have time for journaling? Trust me, I've been there. But, as entrepreneurs, we're constantly searching for the next tactic, marketing strategy, AI tool, or productivity hack that will move our businesses forward. But sometimes the biggest shift doesn't come from consuming more information. It comes from creating space to hear our own thoughts.For years, I thought journaling simply wasn't for me. I wasn't naturally drawn to writing pages about my feelings, and honestly, I thought I was too busy. But once I discovered a different approach to journaling—one focused on processing rather than documenting—it completely changed the way I lead my business, coach my clients, and make decisions.In today's episode, I'm sharing how I finally became dedicated to journaling and why I'm such a huge proponent of it for each of my coaching clients. Plus, how you can use it as a tool for business growth.In This Episode You'll: Get my approach for getting started with journalingLearn of the unexpected results that can come from regular journalingHear 3 prompts for personal and business growthFind it quickly:Why I needed to record this episode (2:02)My approach to journaling (4:00)Find a journal and pen that you love (9:03)Capture some ideas for later (10:07)Follow prompts for business growth (11:38)Mentioned in this Episode:The Artist's Way by Julia CameronYour Dream Life Starts Here by Kristina KarlssonYour Dream Life Starts Here WorkbookNotion: joymichelle.co/notionPensPen SubscriptionFringe Journals: fringestudio.comIf you're enjoying the content we're creating on the podcast and want to connect with others who are called to both, make sure you come join us in the PhotoBoss® with Joy Michelle Facebook Group!Join Now >>CLICK HERE TO GET 30% OFF YOUR FIRST YEAR OF HONEYBOOK!

    Inner Voice - Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan
    The Hidden Crisis: Student Loneliness and How to Fix It

    Inner Voice - Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026 41:35


    E466 | Inner Voice: A Heartfelt Chat with Dr. Foojan Student mental health, teen mental health, college mental health, anxiety, depression, loneliness, wellbeing, and belonging are the focus of this Inner Voice conversation with Dr. Foojan and Joe Dorri, Founder and President of The Good Student, a 501(c)(3) nonprofit advancing student mental health. Joe studied psychology at USC, has published peer-reviewed research, presented at APA conventions, and created the Good Student Tool, a free, anonymous, science-backed assessment connecting students with mental health and wellbeing resources.

    InTune-Living
    You Quit Journaling After 3 Days — Here's What to Change

    InTune-Living

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026 17:20


    Ever start a journal with big intentions... only to abandon it a few days later? You're not alone, and you're not bad at journaling. In this episode, I'm breaking down why journaling never sticks and what to change so it actually becomes a rhythm you keep, from a Christian perspective.

    Beautiful Work Beautiful Life
    Identifying Oppression

    Beautiful Work Beautiful Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026 25:21


    DescriptionIn this episode of Beautiful Work Beautiful Life, cohosts Laurel Holland and Laurel Boivin begin exploring what oppression is and why recognizing it is an essential part of the journey toward self-liberation.Starting with traditional dictionary definitions and expanding into a broader understanding of oppression, they examine how oppression can exist not only in external systems and structures, but also within our own beliefs, behaviors, and patterns. Through conversations about people-pleasing, inherited conditioning, abuse of power, patriarchy, self-discipline, and personal responsibility, they invite listeners to consider where they may be feeling weighed down, limiting themselves, or unintentionally limiting others.At its heart, this conversation isn't simply about freedom from oppression—it's about the freedom to live authentically. By uncovering the beliefs, expectations, and conditioning that shape our lives, we create the possibility of becoming more fully ourselves and making choices that align with who we truly are. This episode lays the foundation for a season devoted to the inner work of self-awareness, authenticity, and self-liberation.In This EpisodeWhat oppression is—and why understanding it mattersThe difference between external oppression and self-oppressionHow people-pleasing can become a form of self-oppressionWhy abuse of power isn't always externalThe role of systems, culture, and conditioning in shaping our beliefsHow authenticity begins with recognizing what is limiting your freedom to be yourselfWhy true freedom comes through self-awareness and self-disciplineRecognizing that we can experience oppression and unintentionally oppress othersDefinitions:To oppress: crush by abuse of power or authority; weigh down or burden.Oppression: the unjust or cruel exercise of power or authority; a system or pattern that limits people's opportunity, dignity, freedom, safety, or ability to be fully themselves.Journaling prompts Where in your life do you feel weighed down or burdened in a way that prevents you from being your authentic self?What beliefs, expectations, or roles have you accepted simply because they were considered "normal"?Where might you be giving away your own power—or misusing it toward yourself or others?Where have you experienced oppression in your own life, and how might those experiences still influence your beliefs or choices today?What is one belief, behavior, or expectation you're ready to question as you continue your journey toward living more authentically?Authors mentioned:  Wallace WattlesHost/Cohost/Guest InfoGuiding others to become effective leaders of their own lives, Laurel Holland has been on a journey of awakening and transformation throughout her life. Writing about inner work, Laurel has authored four books, including Crossroads and Love's 8 Laws. Her books, Live Your Inner Power, the Journal, and Courageous Woman, introduce, share, and explore the eight foundational practices for creating transformation from the inside out. Through her books, programs, and innovative talks, Laurel's great desire is to lift others up and courageously step into the life they came here to live. You can learn more about Laurel, her books, and work she does at www.liveyourinnerpower.com.Laurel Boivin is a leadership coach, speaker, and workshop facilitator. Founder of Flux+Flow Professional Coaching, Laurel works with high-performing professionals and mission-driven organizations to shift from achievement to alignment, helping them connect deeply to purpose, lead with confidence, and create environments where people thrive.  A Reiki master and yoga practitioner, collector of sea glass and antiques, she lives in New Hampshire and summers in Maine. You can learn more about Laurel and the work she does at www.fluxflowcoaching.com.The email to send questions to Laurel Boivin is laurel@fluxflowcoaching.com and for Laurel Holland - laurel@liveyourinnerpower.com.

    Trading Nut | Trader Interviews - Forex, Futures, Stocks (Robots & More)
    DTC 27: Why Understanding Your Strategy Isn't Enough to Stop Rule Breaking

    Trading Nut | Trader Interviews - Forex, Futures, Stocks (Robots & More)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2026 12:00


    Cam, JJ, and Vatsal answer audience questions on why traders break rules despite knowing their strategies, and how to turn knowledge into execution skills. Full episode + show notes: https://tradingnut.com/dtc-27-why-understanding-isn-t-execution/ Key moments - Rule-breaking often stems from deep-rooted subconscious wiring and emotional pressure, rather than a lack of strategy comprehension [30:15]. - Journaling and behavior tracking allow you to externally witness your mistakes and address recurring emotional triggers [30:51]. - Understanding and execution are two entirely different skills; disciplined execution requires practice, not more information [31:35]. - To determine if you need practice or education, ask yourself if you are consistently applying what you already know [33:35]. - If you can execute your plan flawlessly but still aren't profitable, that is the sign you need more market education rather than more practice [34:39]. - The fastest way to turn knowledge into skill is by simplifying your strategy, reducing variables, and focusing on one behavior at a time [37:28]. - The market never pays traders for knowing where they should have entered; it only rewards consistent execution of what they already know [38:11]. Watch: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tSXxosLdJs8 --- Sponsors BlackBull Markets - 100% deposit bonus & free TradingView — NZ-regulated broker. https://tradingnut.com/go/blackbull/ PropFirmMatch - Find the right prop firm challenge — PropFirmMatch.com https://tradingnut.com/go/pfm/ --- More from Trading Nut Strategy Vault - Free guest setups organised by market & method. https://tradingnut.com/go/vault/ TraderZen - Free trade control & mindset app for active traders. https://tradingnut.com/go/traderzen/ Dynamic Traders Club - Free 7-minute rule strategy — mechanical intraday setup. https://tradingnut.com/go/dtc/ --- Educational only - not financial advice. Risk: https://tradingnut.com/disclaimers/ Some links are affiliate partnerships.

    Treningspodden
    Misforståelser, grimaser og slik lykkes du med journaling

    Treningspodden

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2026 56:21


    Hva er de største misforståelsene om oss, og hvem skjærer egentlig de verste grimasene på trening? Denne episoden starter med en liten «bli kjent»-runde, der vi svarer på morsomme og kanskje litt uventede påstander. Deretter dykker vi ned i ukens tema: journaling. Hva er egentlig forskjellen på journaling og å skrive dagbok, hvorfor kan det være et nyttig verktøy for den mentale helsa, og ikke minst; hvordan kommer man egentlig i gang? Vi snakker om ulike former for journaling og deler konkrete tips som gjør det enkelt å finne en metode som passer deg. God lytt! Sjekk ut Siljethorstensen.no for å lære mer om Siljes tjenester, yogakurs og treningsmuligheter. Sjekk ut Piaseeberg.no for å sjekke ut Pias tjenester, kurs og treningsmuligheter. Påmelding og info om den neste treningsreisen vår til Hellas her: Treningsreise med Pia & Silje til Sivota Retreat | Apollo Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Book Marketing Mania
    220. Turning your hardest season into a podcast and book with Kathy Rogers

    Book Marketing Mania

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2026 24:13


    What if the hardest seasons of your life aren't the end of your story but the very thing God wants you to share about? Christian author Kathy Rogers shares how starting a podcast while writing her book allowed her to find her voice, stay authentic, and help others along the way. Resources mentioned:Looking for Good (Kathy's book)Kathy's websitePodMatchRelated episodes:Journaling as a spiritual practiceSharing hope and healing from your scars

    Break Your Budget
    173. The “Type A” Systems That Make My Life Run Smoothly | How I Stay EXTREMELY Organized

    Break Your Budget

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2026 36:48


    These are the Type A habits, routines and organizational systems I use to make my life easier across my home, schedule, phone, finances, self-maintenance and mental load. Being Type A often gets confused with being rigid or controlling, but for me, it means thinking through recurring parts of my life in advance so I don't have to make the same decisions every day. Because I live alone and run my own business, I manage a lot of moving pieces, and these simple systems help me stay organized without feeling like I always need to be “on.”In this episode, I'm sharing the practical habits that keep my life running smoothly. The goal is to help you notice which recurring decisions or stress points make your own life harder and create a system that works with the way you naturally operate. A little proactive effort can eliminate a surprising amount of mental admin later.Whether you are naturally Type A, trying to become more organized, struggling with decision fatigue or simply looking for realistic routines that make everyday life easier, take what resonates and adapt it to your own life.Subscribe for weekly conversations about productivity, organization, routines, independence and intentionally building a life you enjoy.Topics covered: Type A habits, how to be more organized, life organization, weekly planning, Sunday reset, morning routine, home organization, digital organization, decision fatigue, productivity systems, money routines, brain dumping and life admin.Subscribe to Beyond Your Budget:https://breakyourbudget.substack.com/Personal Finance Starter Kit: https://breakyourbudget.substack.com/p/your-personal-finance-starter-kitBREAK YOUR BUDGET RESOURCES:

    The Second Phase Podcast - Personal Branding & Brand Marketing and Life Strategies for Success for Female Entrepreneurs
    Ep. 446 The need to restore and overcome emotional exhaustion to be the leader you are designed to be with Kristen

    The Second Phase Podcast - Personal Branding & Brand Marketing and Life Strategies for Success for Female Entrepreneurs

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2026 31:03


    The Need to Restore and Overcome Emotional Exhaustion to Be the Leader You Are Designed to Be Why Leaders Need to Overcome Emotional Exhaustion Emotional exhaustion is one of the most common and most overlooked challenges facing leaders today. Kristen Stockton's Journey to Restore Herself and Overcome Exhaustion Kristen Stockton spent over 30 years in consulting and corporate America. What It Means to Restore Yourself to Overcome Exhaustion The word "restore" begins with rest and that is intentional. The Restore Framework: A Path to Overcome Emotional Exhaustion Kristen's Restore Framework walks leaders through a structured process of healing and realignment. Why Each Step Must Come in Order Kristen is careful to note that surrender often comes too quickly. Awareness Is the Entry Point to Overcome Exhaustion Realignment begins with self-awareness. Surrender and Mourning: The Sacred Middle of Restoration One of the most counterintuitive parts of Kristen's framework is the call to mourn before you can feast. Surrendering Control to Restore Yourself and Overcome Exhaustion Surrender can feel terrifying to high-achieving leaders. Forgiveness as a Key to Overcome Emotional Exhaustion Both Robyn and Kristen speak openly about the role of forgiveness in restoration. Journaling and Prayer: Tools to Restore Yourself and Overcome Exhaustion Kristen describes a practice of praying a simple question. The Neuroplasticity of Journaling Robyn explains the science behind this practice: when we get the "guck" out of our heads and onto paper. Leading from Faith: Overcome Exhaustion and Rise with Purpose True leadership does not come from what you produce it comes from who you are. Take the Restore Assessment and Begin to Overcome Emotional Exhaustion Today Kristen invites every reader to take the first step. Website for Kristen Stockton Links for You, Me, and Anxiety: Parent Book Teen Book Schedule a free consultation discovery call with Robyn. Download the free eBook: Alleviate Anxiety by Developing Healthy Habits for a Healthy Mind Read the full show notes and access all links.

    “You Are A Lot” (an adhd podcast)
    Episode 96: ADHD Journaling Hack - Cut and Paste Your Texts and Emails

    “You Are A Lot” (an adhd podcast)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2026 15:25


    In this episode: If you want to journal but can't get started, here's a hack I think I made up - copy and paste the long texts and emails you already wrote today, and that's your journal entry. I talk about why the words you write to other people are often more honest than what you'd write for yourself, and what you'll notice about your own patterns once you have a month of them to read back. Sign up to be notified about Jen's somatic classes here See Jen on stage in NYC Aug 28th! Tickets here. Special Patreon Offer For August - Jen's Birthday Month! Choose from one free month of Patreon or get 28% off annually! Get access to over 150 episodes, videos, transcripts, ad-free audio, and live Q&A's with Jen!  For 28% off annually use CODE 8FF13 https://www.patreon.com/cw/ALOTADHDPOD Or get one free month by clicking here: https://www.patreon.com/ALOTADHDPOD/redeem/280A4 Join Jen's New Co-Work Community online! I started something called ☕️The Co-Work Community. It's an online co-working (aka body doubling) space & community for neurodivergent humans! There are other online co-working spaces but where else can you do your work, tasks, or chores with other neurodivergent people and ME, every single day for ONLY $15 a month? Answer? Nowhere! You'll help yourself AND you're supporting a neurodivergent solopreneur woman-owned start-up business.** Shop Jen's Favorite ADHD Supports (with Discounts) Jen's Printables I created these printables (or write directly in them online as digital downloads) for people who love having fun little extras to add to their systems. I have journal prompts, easy mode to do lists, places to log books you've read/books to read, places to thought spiral and sort, as well as ADHD Guides filled with facts. Brain.fm — A Focus Tool I Use Every Day I listen while I work and I can feel my brain lock in. It's not AI, or binaural beats. Brain.fm is science-backed sound made by musicians and scientists for ADHD brains. I want you to try it for 30 days free, with my link! Get 25% off WisprFlow. It's a talk to text app that helps me as a person who needs to verbally write sometimes, whether it's a brain dump journal entry or composing an episode of this podcast. It types very fast and always understands my words perfectly. Little Ouchies - Self Regulation Stim Tools! I LOVE my Little Ouchies. I use them daily when I'm working, writing, thinking, and it really helps me to stay in the moment by regulating my nervous system. I tend to ruminate with Imposter Syndrome when I'm in deep work. It's also just fun and feels good, so even watching TV or other mindless activities are made more stimulating by rolling one in my hands. Get 10% off with this link and use ALOT10 at checkout! Books I Recommend I love Bookshop.org because every purchase supports your local independent bookstore, not Amazon, while still shipping directly to you. I've curated book lists on ADHD/AuDHD and mental health, and you can get 20% off everything when you shop using my link. Hugimals — Weighted Comfort for Kids/Adults. I own Hugimals, give them as gifts, and love that they're made by a neurodivergent founder who understands nervous system needs. These weighted stuffed animals and pillows help with anxiety and overwhelm, and you can get 15% off anytime using my link and code JENKIRKMAN (it never expires). The Time Timer - a Cute Visual Time Tool! I use my Time Timer every single day to help me visualize time during work blocks, and to gamify chores. There's no discount, but when you use my link I earn a percentage that goes directly into supporting this podcast. The Big A## Calendar I have the Big A## wall calendar that maps out the entire year and the Big A## personal planner with 365 days in one view, dry erase markers, color coded labels. With my unique link you can get 10% off of your order. Appointed — Planners, Notebooks and Desk Goods. Appointed notebooks are my go-to for my spiral notebooks, day planners, calendars and Le Pen pens for list-making, journaling, and planning. Save 15% off with my link and code JENKIRKMAN. Sources For This Episode: 7 Powerful Reasons To Read Old Journals - Your Tango Benefits of Journaling For ADHD - For Brain Self Continuity - Knowable Magazine

    Sacred Souls
    180: The Hidden Ways We Control Others: Healing Codependency & Becoming Authentic with Steven Francisci

    Sacred Souls

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2026 37:51


    Sometimes the person standing in your way isn't someone else. It's the version of yourself that was created to survive. In this episode of the Power & Purpose Podcast, Vanessa Soul sits down with Steven Francisci—U.S. Navy Veteran, author, mental health advocate, and trauma awareness educator—to explore what it truly takes to heal from childhood conditioning, codependency, shame, religious deconstruction, and inherited identities. Steven shares the powerful story behind his memoir, From Ahole to Alright**, and explains how therapy, self-reflection, and conscious change transformed every area of his life. Together they discuss: • Why trauma creates protective identities • The Codependency Triangle (Victim • Rescuer • Persecutor) • How manipulation often disguises itself as love • Religious deconstruction and questioning inherited beliefs • Radical self-awareness without self-shame • Healing the inner critic • Journaling, art therapy, breathwork and shadow work • Letting go of certainty and learning to trust life • Returning to love as your true identity Whether you're beginning your healing journey or have been doing inner work for years, this conversation offers practical insights and profound perspective for becoming more fully yourself.

    Homeschool Mama Self-Care: Turning Challenges into Charms
    How to Improve Homeschool Communication with the Best NVC

    Homeschool Mama Self-Care: Turning Challenges into Charms

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2026 40:48


    This episode is all about nonviolent homeschool communication — specifically, the patterns that make it harder than it needs to be. Nonviolent homeschool communication starts here — with understanding these old patterns. And there is one book that has shaped how I think about this more than any other. I’ve read a lot of books on relationships, parenting, connection, and attachment over the years — more than I can count. But Marshall Rosenberg’s Nonviolent Communication is the one I keep coming back to. For me, it is the bible of relationships and communication. And it has changed how I show up in my homeschool in ways I didn’t expect. Here’s what it taught me. https://youtu.be/J7kN_HHX52c?si=jZyaiXFDGyilrnsw But first, how does Marshall Rosenberg define nonviolent communication? NVC (aka Nonviolent Communication) is a language of life that helps us transform old patterns of defensiveness and aggressiveness into compassion and empathy and to improve the quality of all of our relationships. (Definition provided by the Center for Non-Violent Communication). We all have old patterns that need to be transformed. And we definitely notice we have reactive, defensive, and aggressive patterns when we attempt to create relationships. Certainly, we notice this when we saturate ourselves in the homeschool parenting role. The 4 NVC Components That Transform Nonviolent Homeschool Communication Observation: Observation without evaluation consists of noticing concrete things and actions around us. We learn to distinguish between judgment and what we sense in the present moment and to simply observe what is there. Feeling: When we notice things around us, we inevitably experience varying emotions and physical sensations in each particular moment. Here, distinguishing feelings from thoughts is an essential step in the NVC process. Needs: All individuals have needs and values that sustain and enrich their lives. When those needs are met, we experience comfortable feelings, like happiness or peacefulness, and when they are not, we experience uncomfortable feelings, like frustration. Understanding that we, as well as those around us, have these needs is perhaps the most important step in learning to practice NVC and live empathically. Request: To make clear and present requests is crucial to NVC's transformative mission. When we learn to request concrete actions that can be carried out in the present moment, we begin to find ways to cooperatively and creatively ensure that everyone's needs are met. (Definitions provided by the Center for Non-Violent Communication). Here’s how each component transforms homeschool communication in real life. Lesson One — The Homeschool Communication Shift That Changes Everything “What I want in my life is compassion, a flow between myself and others based on a mutual giving from the heart.” ― Marshall B. Rosenberg, Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life This is what we all want: we want a flow within ourselves and between us. But we’re not all trained to enable that flow. We have walls built up to defend ourselves; sometimes we even have spikes and landmines built up to defend ourselves. Either way, those defenses don’t build relationships. Vulnerability and authenticity allow relationships to expand and grow. Nonviolent homeschool communication requires this foundation first — self-compassion. And that is an easy thing to say and a less easy thing to do. Big Emotions Journal for the Homeschool Mom Are you a homeschool mom navigating the ups and downs of daily life with your kids? Introducing the Homeschool Mama's Toolbox—a powerful resource to help you manage big emotions like anger, guilt, or overwhelm with clarity and intention. $9.99 Original price was: $9.99.$6.99Current price is: $6.99. Shop now Lesson Two — Homeschool Communication and Grace “All violence is the result of people tricking themselves into believing that their pain derives from other people and that consequently, those people deserve to be punished.” ― Marshall B. Rosenberg, Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life We do what we do because that is what we know to do in the scenario at the time. And in the words of Maya Angelou, “Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better.“ If we have a growth mindset about life and relationships, how we show up will shift over time. Growth changes everything. Over time, we show up differently in the same scenarios — five, ten, or twenty years later — if we choose that path. Looking back in regret and shame is one option. Forgiving ourselves and growing is another. And when we grow humble and self-aware enough, we realize that others aren’t trying to intentionally cause us pain or friction either. Punishment didn’t teach us when we simply didn’t know better. It won’t serve the people engaging us wrongly now either. So we choose grace — the same grace we’d want extended to our own growing selves. This shift in perspective is at the heart of nonviolent homeschool communication. Lesson Three — What Anger Is Really Telling You “At the core of all anger is a need that is not being fulfilled.” ― Marshall B. Rosenberg, Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life Anger is that mighty sharp tip of an iceberg that protects our fragile hearts. It’s a useful tool to self-protect. But it also protects or keeps us from connecting with others if we self-protect too hard. Under the mighty iceberg of anger’s sharp tip is a whole lotta other big emotions. You name the emotion, it’s there. And those emotions are always fueled by our unmet needs. Nonviolent homeschool communication asks us to address those needs directly rather than react to the emotion on the surface. So we need to address our own needs and respectfully request that others meet our needs, so that we don’t spend our lives reactively, angrily demanding others meet our needs, and/or never connecting with ourselves or others. Lesson Four — The Danger of Not Knowing Yourself “We are dangerous when we are not conscious of our responsibility for how we behave, think, and feel.” ― Marshall B. Rosenberg, Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life You know when you’re not a parent and you have heaped judgments on your own parents parenting approaches BUT THEN you have kids??? And all you can think to yourself is DANG, this parenting thing is only easy when I’m not doing it. (& also, I can see now that my parents were doing the best they could do with what they knew to do in their parenting years, no matter how unhealthy things were). Because parenting is SO CHALLENGING at times. Every parenting book I’ve read had something to say. And I’ve appreciated most of them for something. But this core point, that we need to grow in self-awareness and self-compassion has had the most impact on my parenting approach. I’ve made the gamut of parenting mistakes. I really have. Which means I have regret. (& lest you try to console me for my perfectly imperfect parenting, I will go to my grave regretting them, but I also don’t fuel them with self-contempt). Self-shaming won’t change how I engage my kids now. Mistakes were made — I’m human. Healthy examples weren’t always available to me, and no matter how many parenting books or hours in a therapist’s office, I was bound to struggle with this one relationship: the relationship with myself. My defenses and my reactiveness towards things that hurt me or offended me or confused me were my instinctive armour and battle gear that I brought into my family life, as a wife, and as a mother. I wish this weren’t true. But it is. I had (& still have) armour and battle gear. Do I like that? Hell no. Will it serve me to pretend that these patterns weren’t mine at the beginning of my family journey? Again, hell no. I’ve learned that including practices in self-awareness has helped me see me a little more clearly (a little more, because there will always be room for more self-awareness, I’ll never see myself clearly). Or in the words of Carl Rogers, “The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.” Self-awareness is the foundation of nonviolent homeschool communication — and this is where it starts. Lesson Five — You Are Not Vanilla “My theory is that we get depressed because we're not getting what we want, and we're not getting what we want because we have never been taught to get what we want. Instead, we've been taught to be good little boys and girls and good mothers and fathers. If we're going to be one of those good things, better get used to being depressed. Depression is the reward we get for being “good.” But, if you want to feel better, I'd like you to clarify what you would like people to do to make life more wonderful for you.” ― Marshall B. Rosenberg, Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life If we don’t acknowledge who we are, that we are separate people, and that we have separate needs, we force ourselves to go underground. Our identity becomes like vanilla ice cream. Vanilla is a flavour of ice cream, sure (aka it’s a personality of ice cream types, though it is a basic personality). But it doesn’t have a specific personality, a particular flavour, or a particular texture. It has an entry-level nothingness. (Clearly vanilla is not my favourite. Bring on the peppermint chocolate chip). But we each aren’t vanilla personalities: we have our own flair, our own flavour, and our own textures. We are unique and are meant to be here for a special purpose. When we put our efforts toward being good or right, enabling ourselves to go undercover, we aren’t really us. And so does our nonviolent homeschool communication. And when we put our efforts toward fully accepting all of our parts, and each of our needs, and acknowledging our real selves, we flourish. The Homeschool Communication Tool I Use Every Day The very most important thing I gain from Marshall Rosenberg’s book, Nonviolent Communication, is this fill-in-the-blank statement. It is a useful tool: a fill-in-the-blank conversation “instruction manual” to address my needs and request someone to engage my needs (which, not coincidentally when you practice doing this for you, makes it awfully easy to engage for others too). When I see that______________ I feel ______________ because my need for ________________ is/is not met. Would you be willing to __________________? This single sentence changed my nonviolent homeschool communication more than any other tool I’ve found. So my goal in my relationships with my kids and my relationship with my partner is to make observations, clarify and express my feelings, declare my underlying needs, and ask for my needs to be met. That simple. And not easy at all. If you want to go deeper in nonviolent homeschool communication Here are three ways I can support you: Reading That Restores You — Book Club Newsletter Every Wednesday morning, a warm, thoughtful reflection lands in your inbox drawn from the books we’re exploring together — including Nonviolent Communication. Journaling prompts. Practical takeaways for your homeschool communication and your life. You don’t have to read the book. You just have to show up for yourself on a Wednesday morning. Sign up free here. Get My Weekly Book Reflection The Confident Homeschool Mom Collective If you want to work through homeschool communication challenges live — with a community of women who genuinely get this life — come join us in the Collective. This month, we’re exploring Nonviolent Communication together. Roundtable conversations, book club discussion, writer’s room, and actionable strategy sessions. Every Friday. Your first Friday is completely free. Join the Collective here. Book a Free Aligned Homeschool Reset Session If homeschool communication with a specific child or your partner feels particularly stuck right now — I’d love to think through it with you. Book a free no-obligation Aligned Homeschool Reset Session and let’s look at what’s really happening and what might need to shift. Book your free session here. Book your free Aligned Homeschool Reset Session Keep Reading How to Use Non-Violent Communication in our Homeschools The Homeschool Communication Mistake Parents Make & How to Change It Counseling 101: a Homeschool Parent's Most Important Skill Conflict Resolution Toolbox How Listening to our Trauma Stories can Enable our Homeschool Families Homeschool Kids are the Audience to the Homeschool Marriage How to Address Your Big Emotions with Christine Dixon A Homeschool Mom Podcast to Transform Your Life Perspective-Shifting Homeschool Coaching Discussions Foster Strong Relationships in Your Homeschool Family Hold Onto Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld in Homeschool Mama Book Club How Marie Forleo Informs my Homeschool How Brene Brown's Inspiring Thoughts have Informed my Homeschool 8 Ways to Build Healthy Relationships in Your Homeschool Family The Ultimate Guide to Building Boundaries and Healthy Relationships for Homeschool Moms 13 Things Mentally Strong Don't Do: Amy Morin influences my homeschool Enneagram: A Self-Awareness Tool That Makes You a Better Educator, Mom & Partner 5 Reasons Your Homeschool Child Won't Do Work & How to Motivate Your Child How Brene Brown's Atlas of the Heart Influences our Homeschools Latest episodes 13 Things Mentally Strong Homeschool Moms Don’t Do August 11, 2026 7 Questions Homeschool Moms Are Afraid to Ask Out Loud August 4, 2026 How to Improve Homeschool Communication with the Best NVC August 4, 2026 How to Stop Taking Your Child’s Behaviour Personally July 21, 2026 You’re Invited to the Homeschool Mom Book Club 2026 July 14, 2026 Post-Partum Overwhelm in Your Homeschool: 12 Ways to Cope July 12, 2026 A 2023 High School Graduate’s Thoughts on her Homeschool Life July 11, 2026 What It’s Like? The Homeschool to High School Transition July 11, 2026 Navigate Homeschool High School (What You Need to Know) July 7, 2026 How to Set Realistic High School Expectations? Learn Human Development July 3, 2026 Declutter Your Homeschool Mama Mind: Overwhelm to On Purpose July 2, 2026 How to Handle Homeschool Criticism With Confidence June 29, 2026 How to Create a Personalized Homeschool High School That Fits Your Teen June 23, 2026 The Real Cost Of Being The “Good Girl” Who Became The Good Mom June 16, 2026 What Is an Education Anyway? Your Answer Changes Your Homeschool June 8, 2026 5 Reasons Your Homeschool Child Won’t Do Work & How to Motivate Your Child June 2, 2026 Crush 1st-Year Homeschool Frustrations and Plan a Smooth Year 2 May 30, 2026 Encouragement for Homeschool Moms in the 1st Year May 30, 2026 Transitioning into Homeschool High School: What We're Really Talking About May 26, 2026 Registered Homeschooling vs Online Learning BC: What Really Matters May 19, 2026 Homeschool Year End Review: Celebrating your Success & Growth May 12, 2026 When You Buy New Homeschool Curriculum: 5 Clever Suggestions May 6, 2026 The Truth About Homeschooling the “Right Way” — But What Works May 5, 2026 9 Steps to Thrive: Confident Homeschool Mom in Year 1 April 28, 2026 What If Your Unrealistic Expectations Are Actually Your Greatest Asset? April 21, 2026 Overcome Imposter Syndrome: How to Build Confidence as a Homeschool Mom April 14, 2026 How to Get Started Homeschooling in 2026 April 11, 2026 9 Mistakes That Make Your 1st Homeschool Year Stressful (& How to Avoid Them) April 9, 2026 How to Make Confident Homeschool Decisions (Without Seeking Permission) April 7, 2026 How to Homeschool When Everyone Has ADHD (And You’re Exhausted) March 31, 2026 Exhausted Homeschool Mom? 8 Things That Will Give You Hope March 24, 2026 Stop Second-Guessing as a Homeschool Mom (& Use Your Magic) March 17, 2026 “You’re Not Falling Apart. You’re in the Winter Homeschool Slump.” March 10, 2026 The Lies Homeschool Moms Believe That Makes Everything Harder March 2, 2026 You’re Not Failing. You’re Caught In An Inner Critic Loop. 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    Business Finance and Soul
    Are You Writing It Down? Why You Might Miss The Patterns of Your Life

    Business Finance and Soul

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2026 16:54


    Are You Writing It Down? How much of your life will you actually remember? In this episode, Shaun explores the value of writing down your experiences—not because every thought needs to be profound, but because life moves quickly and memories fade. Journaling allows you to preserve the details, emotions and everyday moments that give your life color. It also gives you an opportunity to revisit former versions of yourself, recognize your growth and identify patterns you may otherwise miss. You don't need to write every day or wait until you have something important to say. Start with what happened this week, how you felt and what you would like to change. The page doesn't need you to be impressive. It only needs you to be honest. Episode Timestamps 00:00 – Introduction: Are you writing it down? 01:05 – Why journaling doesn't need to be profound 02:38 – Creating a record of your life 04:24 – How quickly weeks, months and years disappear 06:13 – Writing brings color back to the past 07:54 – Meeting former versions of yourself 09:42 – Recognizing growth, repeated mistakes and personal patterns 11:21 – Why Shaun wishes he had started writing earlier 12:48 – You don't need to journal every day 13:48 – Richard Branson's lifelong habit of taking notes 14:35 – What to write when you don't know what to say 15:31 – Leaving yourself evidence of how far you've come 16:08 – Final question: Are you writing it down? Key Takeaways Journaling can simply mean documenting what is happening in your life. Writing preserves details and emotions that memory eventually loses. Old entries can reveal how much you have grown—or where you remain stuck. Repeated thoughts and feelings can help you identify patterns. You don't need to write every day for the practice to be valuable. Honesty is more important than trying to sound profound. Your journal becomes evidence of the challenges you have overcome and the progress you have made. Reflection Questions What happened in your life this week? How did you feel while it was happening? What patterns keep appearing in your relationships, work or daily routines? What are you currently hoping will change? What would a future version of you want to remember about this season? Your life is happening faster than you think. Are you writing it down? www.CallTSG.com www.BusinessFinanceAndSoul.com 

    ChooseFI
    610 | Sabbatical Success: Around the World in 367 Days

    ChooseFI

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2026 49:58


    A 40-year-old physician associate and his wife walked away from their jobs with $50,000 earmarked for a year of world travel. They returned having spent just $30,000—and visited 15+ countries across four continents. This isn't a story about deprivation or cutting corners. It's about strategic geography, intentional choices, and the freedom that comes from knowing exactly what you value. Key Topics Discussed Introduction and Background 00:00:00 Ginger introduces Zack, the "winner of life" from the 2025 end-of-year wins episode. Now 40 with a seven-month-old baby in Arizona, Zack reflects on how a year of travel reset his life trajectory. The Genesis of the Trip 00:03:30 Growing up poor but playing travel soccer planted early seeds. Working short emergency medicine shifts gave Zack flexible scheduling and the mental space to plan an exit strategy with his wife. Financial Foundation and Savings Rate 00:07:00 A 90%+ savings rate funded their dream. Complete financial transparency in marriage and childhood memories of family bankruptcy drove Zack to master personal finance young. Planning and Budgeting 00:10:00 They allocated $50,000 for travel plus another $50,000 for job hunting upon return. Research through books and blogs introduced "low burn and high burn" countries. Chasing the sun meant packing only lightweight clothing. The $30,000 Reality 00:15:00 Final spend: under $30,000. Strategies included medical volunteering, Workaway exchanges, teaching English for pay in London, hostels, homestays, and ruthless geo-arbitrage in Southeast Asia and South America. Travel Strategies and Workaway 00:20:00 Workaway connected them to free accommodation in exchange for skills. They secured a paid two-month teaching position in London and applied to opportunities like an alpaca farm in Norway (visa restrictions prevented that one). Building Community on the Road 00:28:00 Hostels, hiking groups, public transportation, and intentional conversations created friendships. A Malaysian engineer they met on a volcano hike later hosted them. Connection required showing up and being open. Life-Changing Inflection Points 00:33:00 Two moments shaped everything: his family's bankruptcy as a teenager and waking up in an ICU coma in 2018. The latter injected urgency into postponed dreams and clarified what mattered most. Overcoming Scarcity Mindset 00:38:00 Shifting from scarcity to abundance meant building systems aligned with core values. Evidence from past good decisions created confidence to bet on themselves. Favorite Destinations 00:44:00 Guatemala's active volcano El Fuego, cooking classes in Thailand, Colombia's unexpected beauty and value, Vietnam's month-long immersion, and the dream bucket-list destination of New Zealand. Reintegration and Lessons Learned 00:52:00 Coming home brought culture shock and relief from decision fatigue. They found jobs they loved. Travel isn't vacation—it's exhausting in different ways. Resources and Closing Thoughts 00:58:00 Rolf Potts' Vagabonding shaped their philosophy. Journaling preserved memories. No single resource fits everyone; customize your approach by exploring multiple perspectives. Notable Quotes Zack: "We ended up spending just under thirty thousand dollars. If I told you the list of activities we did and the places we visited, you would not think it was possible." Zack: "Easy decisions, hard life. Hard decisions, easy life. When you spend a lot of time thinking about the hard decisions and you go really deep on the core values of your life, then I think it makes it easier to create systems that will help you move forward." Zack: "Traveling teaches you simplicity in a very interesting way. When we came home at the end of the year, we had plenty of room to spare in our backpacks. Your mindset just really shifts from 'this is what we think we need' to 'this is what we need.'" Zack: "I woke up in a coma in the ICU. That experience really brought into perspective mortality and some sense of urgency to do…

    Ara - أرى
    Why Journaling Helps — ليش نكتب او نفضفض؟

    Ara - أرى

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 1, 2026 6:52


    في هالحلقة نتكلم عن نوع من الكتابة ما هدفه التنظيم ولا الوصول لإجابة… هدفه بس التفريغ. كتابة بدون فلترة، بدون ترتيب، وبدون ما نحاول نخلي الكلام “مفهوم” أو “مرتب”. مجرد ورقة وقلم، ومساحة نطلع فيها زحمة الأفكار والمشاعر اللي قاعدة تتكدّس داخلنا قبل ما تتحول لثقل ما نعرف نفسّره.نتكلم عن الكتابة كطريقة نفهم فيها نفسنا أكثر، مو لأن كل شيء نكتبه لازم يكون مهم، لكن لأن أحيانًا التفريغ نفسه يوصلنا لمشاعر أعمق، أو لشي كنا نحس فيه وما عرفنا نسميه. يمكن مو كل كتابة هدفها التحليل… مرات كل اللي نحتاجه هو مساحة نكتب فيها بدون حكم، ونسمح لعقلنا وقلبنا ياخذون نفس.تابعونا على: http://www.linktr.ee/arawithmthayel

    The Adult Chair
    521: What Your Anxiety is Trying to Tell You

    The Adult Chair

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2026 20:41


    Anxiety can feel overwhelming, but when we understand what is really underneath it, we can begin to take our power back. In this episode, I'm talking about how to end anxiety and become empowered. In The Adult Chair®, I define anxiety as the physical manifestation of unfelt emotions. Anxiety often shows up in the body through symptoms like shortness of breath, tightness in the throat, knots in the stomach, racing thoughts, or a rattled nervous system. But underneath those physical symptoms, there are usually emotions that need our attention. When we are anxious, the ego often tells us to do more, fix more, think more, or keep pushing. But that only keeps us on the treadmill. The way out is to slow down, turn inward, and begin noticing what is happening emotionally and physically inside of us. I walk you through two simple steps and five tools to help calm anxiety and bring you back into your Adult Chair®. These tools include mindfulness, deep belly breathing, time in nature, meditation, and journaling. Each one helps regulate the nervous system, move emotions through the body, and reconnect you with your power. Key Takeaways In The Adult Chair®, anxiety is defined as the physical manifestation of unfelt emotions Anxiety often shows up through physical symptoms in the body Thoughts can direct us into the past or future, which can create emotions that rattle the nervous system Becoming aware of what anxiety really is helps us step back into our power Feeling emotions is one of the most important steps in calming anxiety The ego often tells us to do more, but the real healing begins when we slow down Mindfulness helps bring us into the present moment and back into the Adult Chair Slow belly breathing helps regulate the nervous system and activate the parasympathetic nervous system Nature can help calm the body, mind, and energy field Meditation teaches us to observe thoughts without reacting to them Journaling helps move stuck thoughts and emotions out of the body and onto paper Taking action is what helps us feel empowered MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Adult Chair® Collective https://www.michellechalfant.com/collective  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant

    Plan Simple with Mia Moran
    Journaling with Minette Riordan

    Plan Simple with Mia Moran

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2026 56:49


    “How do I hold on to the beauty and the joy of my everyday life? In a journal.” –Minette RiordanLet's throw out the rule on journaling and open up to curiosity. I'm really excited to talk with creative guide Minette Riordan about how journaling helps her capture joy and balance all the things.For Minette, journaling is about connection to the self and understanding how to really pay attention and listen to how you are today. And there are lots of ways in including using stickers, colors, images, whatever helps you meet yourself on the page.If you've struggled with morning pages or find your words drying up or perfectionism creeping on to the page, let's take another look at magic of putting pen to paper. And if you love journaling, tune in for more ideas to deepen your practice. We talk about: Perfectionism and not editing yourself as you goUsing your journal as a playground for new ideas or to check in on your inner batteryHow writing things down helps us identify patternsUsing a question as a point of entry. Accepting that whatever you put on the page — three words, a tiny sketch — it countsHow to create a 100 day project you can stick withABOUT MINETTEMinette Riordan, Ph.D. is the creative guide women over 50 turn to when they feel lost, stuck, or uncertain about what comes next and are ready to reclaim purpose, creativity, and meaning in the second half of life.A teacher, artist, writer, and expressive arts facilitator, Minette combines storytelling, journaling, intuitive art, and mythic wisdom to help women reconnect with the parts of themselves they may have set aside while caring for others, building careers, and meeting life's many demands. Through her workshops, retreats, online programs, and the Sisterhood of Wisdom and Wonder, she guides women to become the Queen of Their Own Damn Story and design lives filled with greater authenticity, joy, and purpose.Minette holds a Ph.D. from Stanford University and is an award-winning entrepreneur who has spent more than two decades helping others navigate meaningful personal and professional transformation. She lives in Loveland with her husband Brad, where she paints whimsical animals, drinks strong coffee, and remains endlessly inspired by stories, nature, and the creative process.LINKShttps://www.minetteriordan.com/https://www.instagram.com/drminetteriordan/https://www.facebook.com/DrMinetteRiordan/https://www.linkedin.com/in/minetteriordan/https://www.youtube.com/@drminetteriordanPause Magazine, issue 5DOABLE CHANGESAt the end of every episode, we share three doable changes, so you can take what you've heard and put it into action. Change comes from action. Doable changes are things that you can add into your life, one at a time to make micro shifts and really create a ripple effect that will create a big change over time. Choose one that really piques your interest and roll with it. Here are three Doable Changes from this conversation:START WITH A QUESTION. If you are often stuck looking a blank page or simply grumbling on the page, try starting with a question. Some ideas: What matters now? What are my core values? What does freedom look like for me? How do I want to spend my time, my energy, and my money in the years remaining? Or even start with What questions do I want to be asking myself?ADD COLOR. Sometimes it takes a while to get into our words or ideas. Sometimes we can express ourselves better with color. Try adding color to your page, a wash of paint, a crayon scribble. Does it express how you feel? Does it open a new door?HOLD DAILY LIGHTLY. Play with consistency and commitment in a 100 day journaling project. What does it look like of you batch journal for three days to deal with travel? What does it look like if you skip a prompt that doesn't apply or appeal to you? How can you commit and flex and see what happens when you show up consistently?

    The Adult Chair
    520: 5 Ways to Stop People-Pleasing and Be Your Authentic Self

    The Adult Chair

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 23, 2026 19:10


    Your true self is the authentic, pure essence of who you were before the world taught you to become someone else. Today, I'm talking about what the true self really is and how we can begin reconnecting with it. When we are born, we come in with our true essence. But as we grow up, we begin adapting, changing, and creating a false self so we can feel loved, accepted, safe, and like we belong. Over time, this false self can cover up the truth of who we really are. We may lose touch with what we feel, what we need, what nourishes us, and what helps us feel connected to ourselves. But the good news is that anyone can begin to rediscover and live from their true self. In this episode, I'm sharing five simple ways to reconnect with your true self: getting in touch with your emotions, tuning into your needs, practicing self-care, using breathwork, and journaling. These practices help us slow down, listen inward, and begin claiming the parts of ourselves we may have hidden, forgotten, or pushed away. Key Takeaways The true self is your authentic self, the pure essence of who you were born as The false self develops as we adapt to feel safe, loved, accepted, and like we belong Many of us disconnect from our emotions because we were never taught how to feel them Reconnecting with your emotions helps you access deeper parts of yourself Your needs are different from your wants, and learning to identify them is essential Asking for what you need is part of living from your true self Self-care is not selfish. It is self-loving Practicing self-care supports self-worth and helps you reconnect with who you really are Breathwork can help release stuck emotions and take you deeper into yourself Journaling helps you access your unconscious mind, higher self, and deeper inner wisdom Rediscovering your true self happens through awareness, validation, and small daily practices MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Adult Chair® Collective https://www.michellechalfant.com/collective  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant